POUR MINDS Episode 285: He Wasnt Readyyy FT. Clay Gravesande
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- Опубликовано: 25 апр 2024
- Hey yall!!! We have a very special guest this week. Clay Gravesande from the hit show Love is Blind joined us on the couch to give us the tea. We discussed his reasoning for not marrying AD, how therapy can benefit black men, his experience on reality tv, & so much more. Grab yo drank & Pour Up Pour Crew.
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Y’all the audio isn’t messed up. It was STORMING outside. It was so loud we could barely hear each other so that’s what you’re hearing at the 57 minute mark. Sorry but Mother Nature was having a fit lol
He contradicts himself so much but he’s so likable that people don’t notice 😭 I ain’t mad at it
I think he’s just going through his motions but I think by the end of his statements he ends up saying how he really feels without shame lol
I caught it too. LOL
People definitely by pass it because they find him attractive
Clay’s publicist and team has done a really good job with changing the public perception of him. He seems very genuine. Def in those streets though 😂
You know him?
Publicist?? I don’t think he has all of that
@@Tellerbe10His publicist tagged him in a post. I wasn’t expecting it either but a lot of social media “influencers” have them.
Check again 😂
Y’all are sooo great at making your guests feel comfortable, look at how Clay is sitting
Yes out of all the pods iwatch u can tell their guest feel welcome and then they actually express it
I wish I could be on the phone with Lex and Drea on their way home after the show 😂
Either clay is media trained or he just really just a cool dude . I’m here for it
media trained!
He’s just smart snd articulate. Athletes do a lot of interviews though. Starting at a young age
He’s a salesman. They know all the right things to say.
And sometimes you need the one person who you know will know just what to say. So that is ok too.
Had to come back and say for him to say all this and then pop out with celina powell is insane lmaooo
They should’ve had yall host the reunion 😭😭😭
We really be eatingggg
Yeah…you guys dug in
Is that the sweater he didn’t offer when AD was cold 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Oh shit yall got Clay 😂😂😂🔥🔥🔥🔥
No shade, I just have no idea who this man is. When can we get Ty on the couch?! 😭 I think she’d be a great episode! There could be a lot of open discourse with her and her profession.
I'd love a Ty episode!
@@NikkiKNuvo who is that?
Yesss let’s get Ty on the show just random girl talk
Haven’t seen Love is Blind, BUT have seen the Clay slander on social media.
But after watching this interview, ya’ll cannot make me hate Clay. Lmao
Very likable man.
Same
Lmfaoooo the lamb skin convo and clays face has me weak as fuck, he left and went straight to the doctor
😂😂😂😂😂
She said shoutout to Clay and the lamb skins we out side 😂😂💀💀💀
He definitely did 😂😂😂
Lmfaooooooo dude whole demeanor changed 😭😭😭😭😭😭 Definitely going to the doctor!
i'm choking😂😂 right!
Clay has also come off as honest and genuine to me. The bitter babes on social media got in their feelings about his decision when he was transparent the whole way though.
He was veryyy transparent. People that are confused that he left her at the altar don’t have eyes. His actions showed he wasn’t going to choose her.
This didnt age well
AGREED!!!!!
*I like how different this interview was from the other interviews that Clay has done! It’s a whole vibe.*
The way my mouth dropped open when I saw clay sitting on the couch 😂because I didn't even pay attention to the Thumbnail I just clicked as soon as I saw my girls but I'm here for it
Yessss I didnt know who he was but soon as I heard “AD” I was like holup wait this dude that left the pretty girl at the alterrrr no fkn way 😭😂
Same
I loved this episode so much. Clay doesn’t deserve the slander he got. He was real, vulnerable and sadly the media tore him up. Along with the editing with The Love Is Blind. I respect him. He’s a cool guy. Great topics were brought up for sure.
Clay is super charming, and I love how he's staying disciplined with therapy and not dating 👏🏾
“So this is your villain origin story”🤣🤣🤣 that’s exactly what it sounds like Lex! Lolol
Y’all ain’t let that man talk lmao
“If I could chime in” 😂
The only thing I didn’t like is how people assumed he had a problem with AD’s skin tone. It gave projection.
Right or that he only liked her body… I never got that vibe. It def just sounded like the people saying that don’t find her face pretty and projected that on him. Very weird.
That was all he complimented her about. He never really called her beautiful and let’s not forget when he was talking about his brothers or siblings he will mention their skin tone. Like huh??? Why mention the skin tone?
💯💯
@@liveentertainment4841when people make this comment I know they didn’t really watch the show fully. As he said it multiple times and I’m not a fan of his but he definitely said it.
This is the most relaxed that I've seen Clay, while doing an interview. Amazing jobs ladies as always. I love y'all!!
I never watched Love is Blind so I had a hard time remembering him for a second. Of course I heard all the stories. I respect that he was honest and didn’t just marry her because that’s what everyone expected him to do. I know it was hard for him to do but it was honestly the most responsible decision for him to make.
His feelings are also valid.
Girl, if you watched and knew the whole story, you’d see where he went very wrong. Nothing about his behaviour was responsible 😭🤣
LEX definitely preaching with the journaling. Journaling helped me realize that I had evolved and that everything I wanted a year ago I actually received. Journaling helps put things into perspective especially if you’re in a relationship. Like damn This person still doing the same ish I complained about 4 years ago 😂😅
I said oh noooo soon as I seen it 🤣 how yall get him before ad be so fr
I think AD probably was a first choice and she declined
Chelsea did sorta resemble Megan Fox if you squint your left eye and tilt your head at a 45° angle👀
😂😂😂
I’m crying😂😂😂😂. Delete this because 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂
they can never make me hate you, Clay!! I swear he's speaking his truth and folks just can't believe it. I feel his story has been the same over and over... He 100 and figuring himself out just like the rest of US. You gooo BOOOY!!!
The evolution of y’all is crazy. I love the growth ❤
CLAY TORE THAT KARAOKE UP OKAY!! Lol
It’s not that he waited til the alter him & AD had a convo for them to walk away and not embarrass her at the alter she gave him the opportunity to say he wasn’t gonna marry her & he reassured her just to do what they discussed he wouldn’t I love the both of them tho 🥰
I was Not a fan of Clay but this episode cleared up a lot. Very interesting
This was a good interview and you guys did a great job getting him to open up and be transparent about his life choices and journey. I respect it. I don’t think he’s a bad guy, there’s a lot of black men that are in the same place he is in. He did a great job using his words to give an explanation of how the culture and his own personal experiences affected his relationship with women.
I appreciated this episode so much. Y’all/this interview has changed my perspective of Clay. Thanks ladies for this🫶🏾
i enjoyed listening to yalls perspectives on Journaling. i lovee writing, & i am a very self aware person so i find myself always reflecting & introspecting. that's where i find myself journaling the most, as if im talking to God or myself & just reflecting on how i feel & how i want to move forward. like Drea said.. i hardly ever re read it 😂.. if i do i throw it AWAY. because i have flourished and MOVED ON from that mental ✨
This was the best interview clay has done !
This was his best interview 🙌🏾🙌🏾
I thoroughly enjoyed this episode I felt very much apart of the discussion, and I love that you guys had Clay on the show, great episode ladies. 💛💛💛
The karaoke at the end 😂
As an entrepreneur myself it’s weird to hear another entrepreneur say you’re one bad deal away from not being able to take care of another responsibility if you’re spending 60k on a boat can you definitely have and take care of a wife. Just say you didn’t want to do that at this time and be fr.
Right
I like Clay. He’s doing the right thing. I wish him the best. I definitely see growth
Love your podcast ❤ Y'all ask really great questions to your guests 🤞🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🥰🥰
Such a great episode! You guys are such good interviewers!
I love his transparency! Drea Lex can we please have him back ?🥰🥰
I didn’t watch this last season of Love is Blind but I did see so many think pieces about it lol. It’s nice to see a man be so self aware and take accountability for his actions.
Happy Friday growls❤ y'all got yo wine ready! 🎉
I commend Clay for the introspection and growth!!
Aye!!!! It's Taurus ♉️ szn.
Earth gang🫶🏽💕
I love yalllll so much omggg!!! 🥹🥹🥰💖
Ty got a pretty ass smile. She a baddie for sure
This was a great interview.. well rounded ! Loved it ! Clay is a great guess. 🔥
I'm sooo excited to watch this episode. I'm late but ready. 🥳📺
Great interview!😊
I love ya’ll!!!!! Great interview!
Oh y’all did this one🔥
Loved this episode 👏🏾
I hope Clay saw the few positive comments there were because I have always rooted for him. Glad y'all got him on ❤️💗
Happy Friday Ladies!🍾🥂
Love that yall got clay ❤
Good episode ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I will start journaling thx lex❤
@51:56 me and my husband got married 7 weeks after our first outing. Not even a date, an outing lol. He was just 27 and I was 28 going on 29.
This episode was tea and sweet tea!
Glad this episode is up listened on apple but i need to see his physical interaction
Yall didn’t disappoint
Happy Friday ladies 💯💯💯
I agree family dynamics does matter
CLAAAAAAAAYYYYYY❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ keep pushing clay!
Clay was having the time of his life with y’all lmaoooo
Okay Ty!
hey ladies y’all are stunning I love yall down ❤❤❤❤
Clay resembles Bill Bellamy
Also Lex thank you for explaining that the first seasons had to make their decisions at the alter!! People just talking based on clips
Bad bishes may be everywhere, but real women are rare.
Watching this then seeing him layed up with celina powell the next day is crazy libra men are crazy liars lol
He’s a virgo
@@anniesmith298 LMAO EVEN BETTER
Whew Clay voice 🥰
1:48:26 idk why this is my favorite part of the shows bcz y’all really have y’all guests comfortable and cutting up …..
I be looking forward to seeing lex shoes she don’t ever let me down 🤣🔥
I love how he didn’t shade AD at all VIRGOS LOYAL ASF!
Hope yall come to Vega$ one day. The ENERGY IS OOOONNNN❤🎉❤🎉 BLESSINGS TO YOU BOTH. LOVES YALL❤😘
I’m late to the party , don’t be mad at me. That episode was sooo good. Lexi and Drea I love yall ❤❤❤
The karaoke at the end took me outtttt but it was so cute 😭🩷
He such a great listener
I look at journaling to just release my thoughts or feelings it’s not always good saying it others sometimes you wanna let it out so bad but don’t need or want to go to an actual person about it or some don’t even have someone to go to about it so you write it down and that’s still a form of release and I go back to look every blue moon talking to god in those moments help a lot too!
😂😂😂😂 that’s the face 😂😂😂
I fast forward ⏩ as well 😂!!
Lex is a real journalist don’t play w her!
And is! Lmao thank you!
That was a good damn interview
😂😂😂😂 Lax P… said not you having a ball with them lampskins
42:31 took me out!
I agree Drea- SOLDIERS?? 😐😩🧐
I love y’all. Y’all really my best friends and don’t even know it lmao
Drea talking about he passing them out like candy 😂😂😂😂😂
Now I gotta go watch the show then come back to watch this EP. By reading the comments I’m anxious to know what it’s about
anybody else keep hitting the rewind button at the beginning of each episode to make the beat drop like....
That herpes question is a little tricky bc a parent could’ve given that to her as a baby from kisses or eating from the same utensils. Also, her BD could have given it to her but got a false negative lol.
What type of response did he expect to get. Wasn’t he mean to that poor lady! 😂
Y’all I’m mad I like this guy 😂 he know how to cut up with the gowrls
Clay seems like a cool guy!
I think the audience didn’t like how AD looked but to me & apparently Clay she fine as hell! 🤣🤣
Exactly. They didn’t see her as attractive & keeps throwing that on him. He always seemed like he was attractive to her
@@AllthingsKd he was attracted to her body that's about it
Big virg!! I definitely am always skeptical, but I feel like I love ppl too early sometimes too… crazy!
*Ok, I ain’t have high expectations for this episode but it was actually really good & made me see him in a different light. Great work, Ladies💯🔥*
my guy staring at drea at the end up and down lol