Brutally Honest Advice for Men To Win In Their 20s

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  • Опубликовано: 10 сен 2024
  • Want to SCALE your business? Go here: acquisition.com
    Want to START a business? Go here: skool.com/games
    If you’re new to my channel, my name is Alex Hormozi. I’m the founder and managing partner of Acquisition.com. It’s a family office, which is just a formal way of saying we invest our own money into companies. Our 10 portfolio companies bring in over $200,000,000+ per year. Our ownership stake varies between 20% and 100% of them. Given this is a YT channel, and anyone can claim anything, I’ll give you some stuff you can google to verify below.
    How I got here…
    21: Graduated Vanderbilt in 3 years Magna Cum Laude, and took a fancy consulting job.
    23 yrs old: Left my fancy consulting job to start a business (a gym).
    24 yrs old: Opened 5 gym locations.
    26 yrs old: Closed down 6th gym. Lost everything.
    26 yrs old: Got back to launching gyms (launched 33). Then, lost everything for a 2nd time.
    26 yrs old: In desperation, started licensing model as a hail mary. It worked.
    27 yrs old: "Gym Launch" does $3M profit the next 6 months. Then $17M profit next 12 months.
    28 yrs old: Started Prestige Labs. $20M the first year.
    29 yrs old: Launched ALAN, a software company for agencies to work leads for customers. Scaled to $1.7mmo within 6 months.
    31 yrs old: Sold 75% of UseAlan to a strategic buyer in an all stock deal.
    31 yrs old: Sold 66% of Gym Launch & Prestige Labs at $46.2M valuation in all-cash deal to American Pacific Group. (you can google it)
    31 yrs old: Started our family office Acquisition.com. We invest and scale companies using the $42M in distributions we had taken + the cash from the $46.2M exit.
    32 yrs old: Started making free content showing how we grow companies to make real business education accessible to everyone (and) to attract business owners to invest or scale their businesses.
    34 yrs old: I became co-owner of Skool.com to help the many people who want to start a business online do so.
    Today: Our portfolio now does $200M/yr between 10 companies. The largest doing $100M/yr the smallest doing $5M per year. Our ownership varies between 20% and 100% ownership of the companies. Many of them we invested in early and helped grow (which is how we make our money - not youtube videos).
    To all the gladiators in the arena, we’re all in the middle of writing our own stories. The worse the monsters, the more epic the story.
    You either get an epic outcome or an epic story. Both mean you win.
    Keep crushing. May your desires be greater than your obstacles.
    Never quit,
    Alex
    FULL DISCLOSURE
    I make content to make money - just - on a longer time horizon than most. I want to build trust with business owners so we can find the best ones and help them scale. And if they’re awesome, write them a check and go all the way as partners.

Комментарии • 1,5 тыс.

  • @AlexHormozi
    @AlexHormozi  Месяц назад +251

    For brutally honest advice specific to building a business: watch this next: ruclips.net/video/KhFlD54nQrY/видео.html

    • @feliwein_cc
      @feliwein_cc Месяц назад +26

      i think maybe a couple of us are stuck at 0 with some sorta valuable skill without being able to monetize it

    • @stephaneleblanc3079
      @stephaneleblanc3079 Месяц назад +7

      Killing it with the business specific content 🤌

    • @Sh8kwell777
      @Sh8kwell777 Месяц назад +3

      Damn it! Thank you again

    • @iamthekaverik
      @iamthekaverik Месяц назад

      ​​@@feliwein_ccskool games and $100M Offers bruv. I've used both.
      The book's workbook just dropped too

    • @ryansopneski7750
      @ryansopneski7750 Месяц назад +1

      UR THE MAN

  • @JacksonLuth
    @JacksonLuth Месяц назад +895

    "Be patient with the outcome, be impatient with the input" I'm going to take this to heart

  • @cdwag23
    @cdwag23 Месяц назад +1407

    I just got into a career at 27. It took me that long to finally get my shit together and figure something out. My advice to people younger than me is don’t self isolate at home and don’t ever be afraid of anything or anyone! Always have your chest out and chin up

    • @E-utube
      @E-utube Месяц назад +17

      What career did you end up choosing if you don't mind sharing? In my 30s i still can't make up my mind 😅

    • @cdwag23
      @cdwag23 Месяц назад +38

      I work as a heavy equipment operator with my local union. Before that I was working as a bicycle builder / warehouse associate

    • @wmjessemiller
      @wmjessemiller Месяц назад +3

      lol good job I’m 37 haha

    • @alexv5581
      @alexv5581 Месяц назад +15

      Yup same here dude. Graduated in 2020 (in the middle of a pandemic lol) with a BS in mechanical engineering, took me about two years to get into the engineering field. Nothing is given in this world and you will have no other option but to stay down or get back up and keep trying. Self confidence, not being afraid to explore, and learning to say no is important. Also you will hate your co-workers at times, but in the end you have to do your job.

    • @interhaker
      @interhaker Месяц назад

      I am in similar shoes.
      I spit on myself hinestly i feel oathetic.
      No jobs yet and nothing to show for my unemployment time
      It's spiral​@@alexv5581

  • @aspiringadventurer7410
    @aspiringadventurer7410 Месяц назад +800

    I only learned this in my 30s. Part of this is having the courage to take the chance rather than be mediocre.

    • @ctrs404
      @ctrs404 Месяц назад +72

      The best time to plant a tree is 20 years ago, the second best time is today.

    • @MrScottSenior
      @MrScottSenior Месяц назад +30

      30s you're still learning. You've plenty of time, but don't waste it

    • @rohithjacob
      @rohithjacob Месяц назад +19

      you here
      you already a winner
      come on ...lets get this going

    • @domenbrlek7868
      @domenbrlek7868 Месяц назад +9

      I learned that at my 40-ties. 40-ties are the new 20-ties? ;)

    • @Nodsaibot
      @Nodsaibot Месяц назад +4

      even if you learn it in your 20s you will only UNDERSTAND it in your 30s

  • @Muhluri
    @Muhluri Месяц назад +2400

    ❌Watching 1 hour movie
    ✅Watching 1 hour hormozi video

    • @bandmann
      @bandmann Месяц назад +5

      real

    • @rayyanytpersonal
      @rayyanytpersonal Месяц назад +91

      Both are same if anyone don’t take actions.

    • @revogenmediadotco
      @revogenmediadotco Месяц назад +5

      spot on lol.

    • @rohithjacob
      @rohithjacob Месяц назад +10

      @@rayyanytpersonal no its not
      you changing your behaviour and mindset by educating yourself
      if i watch a 1hr comedy skit , thats great too , its just that i become better at comedy through mindset , how to approach certain situation , how to be chill.i recognise patterns what made that guy funny etc...its all subconcious
      its upto you what you wanna do ..
      post man takes action
      farmers take action
      cleaners in offices take action
      but they all average , why ? they dont have the mindset or knowledge (rare scenario is that they do have the knowledge but they defined that what they want is to be a normal farmer, he is happy with that..and you can see him smiling when he works) because they either chooses to have their mindset or they dont know better..so either they stuck taking action with what they know or they chooses to take action with what they know because they understood this is what they want
      so the worst thing a young man with 0 mindset, -0 knowledge can do is get obsessed with taking action and dont educate themselves and change their mindset with videos like these

    • @f8h0me
      @f8h0me Месяц назад +1

      mental masturbation

  • @aadityavij4477
    @aadityavij4477 Месяц назад +471

    Alex this is why your content is the best:
    1. Extreme value every second
    2. Clear action path
    3. Amazing presentation
    4. You tell Real life formulas that are understandable and applicable
    5. You Simplify the complex
    6. You have example and you have done it yourself so it proves you are genuine
    7. You are humble and not arrogant like other gurus
    8. You never mix information OR LIE and most importantly
    9. YOU WANT THE BEST FOR US AND HELP US IN THE BEST WAY POSSIBLE. He also understands our pain and has been through it.

    • @IslamicPulse0
      @IslamicPulse0 Месяц назад +4

      exactly

    • @dorianbabel
      @dorianbabel Месяц назад +1

      You’re a hero Bro🙏🏻

    • @zesanurrahman6778
      @zesanurrahman6778 Месяц назад

      Thanks

    • @davidc.4236
      @davidc.4236 Месяц назад +3

      10. He tells you honestly that he creates good content to make money, instead of pretending to be some guru who “just wants everybody to become a millionaire”.

    • @ashutoshkumar-is7dj
      @ashutoshkumar-is7dj Месяц назад +3

      glazin

  • @phredbookley183
    @phredbookley183 Месяц назад +383

    Effing truth. Getting in shape and making money solve a LOT of problems. Honestly, just eating right makes all kinds of things just disappear out of your life.

    • @iamthekaverik
      @iamthekaverik Месяц назад +1

      Starting gym soon. Any tips?

    • @djcezcez8120
      @djcezcez8120 Месяц назад +18

      @@iamthekaverikconsistency is key, im 7 years in, find something to stick to, and do it every single day

    • @revogenmediadotco
      @revogenmediadotco Месяц назад +11

      @@iamthekaverik Find something you enjoy doing and dont mistake enjoying and simplicity for easiness. Dont expect too much of yourself and dont judge yourself when you find out you cant do some things as you maybe thought you can. Absolutely set some realistic goals but know that they're not the end points, just orientational milestones. Welcome to the crew!

    • @user77777rr
      @user77777rr Месяц назад +2

      @@iamthekaverik my life changed after starting working out

    • @gunnazaki
      @gunnazaki Месяц назад +4

      @@iamthekaverikkeep it simple. compound movements then mix in with calisthenics

  • @SophiaYelverton
    @SophiaYelverton 16 дней назад +746

    If you're in your 20s and looking to start an online business, consider dropshipping! It's a great way to sell products without holding inventory, which means your startup costs can be kept low. You can build a Shopify store yourself or use AlphaDropship to have a professional store built for you. Once your store is ready, you can drive traffic using TikTok ads or by posting engaging product videos on TikTok. It's a smart, low-risk way to start an online business and potentially make $10k per month. You're welcome!

    • @oanNgocNhu
      @oanNgocNhu 16 дней назад

      Thanks for breaking it down so simply!

    • @HưngMinhRidin
      @HưngMinhRidin 16 дней назад +1

      I've been thinking about starting an online business for a while, and dropshipping sounds like a perfect fit! Definitely going to look into Shopify and AlphaDropship. Thanks for the tip!

    • @HoàngTuyếtThắm
      @HoàngTuyếtThắm 16 дней назад

      This is exactly what I needed to hear today!

    • @nguyencuongLKw
      @nguyencuongLKw 16 дней назад

      Thanks!

    • @lequyetEKJR
      @lequyetEKJR 16 дней назад

      I’ve always been hesitant about starting an ecom business because of inventory costs 😅

  • @Marcusbreum
    @Marcusbreum Месяц назад +189

    "It only becomes the perfect moment when you look back on it, because today it just looks like now."

  • @bossmoves1783
    @bossmoves1783 Месяц назад +185

    0:34 1:31 2:19 4:44 5:29 7:55 10:00 11:18 13:39 15:59 17:47 20:37 21:00 23:33 33:54 * 42:57 44:11 45:28 47:18 52:27 53:20 54:04 57:38 58:46 59:10 1:01:01 1:02:02 -->

  • @dimetriwatt7334
    @dimetriwatt7334 Месяц назад +1250

    Can we have one of this for men in their 30s. Like this post so it can grab Alex's attention.

    • @MircoBlumenthal
      @MircoBlumenthal Месяц назад +197

      Have you implemented everything in this video yet? If not, then start here regardless of your age.

    • @cellunder
      @cellunder Месяц назад +51

      @@MircoBlumenthal very fair point

    • @AlexHormozi
      @AlexHormozi  Месяц назад +562

      oooo i like this

    • @benwhite7005
      @benwhite7005 Месяц назад +12

      @@AlexHormoziWill you make a new edition of a day in the life episode? I really enjoyed that content, and so did many others (comment section feedback)
      Stay puffy

    • @NotAGamer55
      @NotAGamer55 Месяц назад +25

      No wayy, Hormozi actually sees the comments 🫡🤯

  • @sahilverma3397
    @sahilverma3397 Месяц назад +2299

    Hitting dislike so that my younger ops don't receive this cool advice.

  • @mushfiqurniaz_
    @mushfiqurniaz_ Месяц назад +67

    No flashy images or simulating editing just throwing truths and raw facts as everyone's faces. Absolutely loved this video.

  • @RobertoBlake
    @RobertoBlake Месяц назад +259

    He is 100% right that as a man you are valued based on your utility, almost exclusively. Build your skills up just like a video game, acquire tools to augment your skills, gain more experience, and learn the rules of the game. And of course grind and min/max. There is nothing you are missing out on in your 20s as a man. Disposable relationships, worthless. Drunken nights? worthless. Movies and Tv. Worthless.
    Relax by sleeping, reading to improve your mind, and mediation. You don't need entertainment, and there is nothing toxic about saying so. It's just someone else monetizing your time instead of you earning or learning with that valuable time. Stop throwing it away because people tell you its okay, or because everyone else is doing it. Your hobbies are anyting that gives you a skill, anything that makes you money, anything that makes you smart or anything that makes you healthy.
    Your mental health isn't going to suffer for getting rid of your entertainment if you are in great shape, eating clean food, not having addicitions, and getting great sleep. All that men need for the mental health is to be able to like the man they see in the mirror, and to know that they see someone with value, and someone who has options and someone who they would respect.

    • @jefflang77
      @jefflang77 Месяц назад +12

      This is one of the greatest things I’ve ever read on RUclips. You sir, articulate beautifully. Thank you

    • @NNOutBurger_Gaming
      @NNOutBurger_Gaming Месяц назад +22

      Working 12 hours is fucking dumb

    • @mass9213
      @mass9213 Месяц назад +1

      @@NNOutBurger_Gamingright 😂

    • @LilithPad1
      @LilithPad1 Месяц назад +1

      Yap yap yap

    • @zayerrdawn8234
      @zayerrdawn8234 Месяц назад +8

      You don’t need entertainment??! Life is about balance.

  • @_4le
    @_4le Месяц назад +84

    I’m so grateful for Alex. I’m 18 and starting my own car detailing business. Its demoralizing. And that’s coming from a dog! I’m not bound to quitting and man starting your own business is… one big sigh.
    But I’m continually learning, showing up everyday and start getting to work. Cheers to billions.

    • @kamden.dillon
      @kamden.dillon Месяц назад +7

      Heck yeah, 19 and have a year old window cleaning business. Know how you feel bro!!! Keep grinding

    • @wewantmh
      @wewantmh Месяц назад +1

      Where you based

    • @kamden.dillon
      @kamden.dillon Месяц назад

      @@wewantmh Utah

    • @awh4272
      @awh4272 Месяц назад

      Keep showing up - all the best

    • @Vabc12345
      @Vabc12345 Месяц назад

      Do you have any interest in art agency business??
      Where we sell services to the creative companies for their growth..eg advertising companies, ott companies , animation companies ect...
      Bigger greater value
      I need a guy to maintain related stuff for clients

  • @user-pc4zw5xz8c
    @user-pc4zw5xz8c Месяц назад +33

    1. 0:09
    2.1:26
    3.5:58
    4.17:33
    5.26:38
    6.27:03
    7.32:35
    8.32:40
    9.35:47
    10.37:10
    11.37:15 (Distraction)
    12.37:27
    13.38:54 39:54 (low-key flex 😁)
    14.41:17
    15.42:17 (subjectively most important point)
    16.42:49 52:54 ( fallacy of Perfect Moment)
    17.50:10 59:11 ( three step framework )
    18.1:07:14.
    Workethic is the currency of respect.

  • @amandayes1999
    @amandayes1999 Месяц назад +417

    This is not brutally advice for young men in their 20s. It’s for everyone. I’m a woman in her 30s. One of the greatest 70 minutes video I watched so far

    • @ashamane
      @ashamane Месяц назад +5

      Lol same. I do think this particular video would be best utilized by a person in their 20s, though. I'm still gleaning the bits that help my situation, of course, but the biggest point about going so hard when you're young, have no money, nothing to lose and a plethora of time.... I wish I went harder in my youth and tried more and build a fuckload of skills. I did well, but like. If you were able to time travel and redo life (assuming you were not allowed to bring any knowledge of world events/history/stock prices lol) you would do so much more with the time and energy you took for granted back then. IMO, of course.

    • @NOF4CENOC4SE
      @NOF4CENOC4SE Месяц назад +7

      I agree, and im a female too (21)

    • @JinxingT1
      @JinxingT1 Месяц назад

      Your profile name says 1999

    • @amandayes1999
      @amandayes1999 Месяц назад +3

      @@JinxingT1 congratulations

    • @pentrubarbati
      @pentrubarbati Месяц назад +5

      a women with a master degree an great career is not atractive to a man we care about fir plesant loyalikty poority

  • @Ryan-zd7th
    @Ryan-zd7th Месяц назад +95

    I’ve watched over 200 videos of yours and they are all great. Somehow this is by far the best one.

    • @ventox1337
      @ventox1337 Месяц назад +34

      well have you done anything yet or are you just watching

    • @donutz995
      @donutz995 Месяц назад

      😂😂😂​@@ventox1337

    • @Ceddy_T
      @Ceddy_T 24 дня назад

      🎯

    • @AbdulRehman-wx2hx
      @AbdulRehman-wx2hx 23 дня назад +1

      So if you have watched over 200 videos then tell me the best 3 must watch

    • @kevnev342
      @kevnev342 День назад

      sounds like youtube gooning. A form a motivation masturbation but dosent get you anywhere

  • @aaronbong
    @aaronbong 11 дней назад +2

    God-tier advice, I'm in my 20s now and I really love the fact where Alex said that nobody respects the hero that did not go through hardship. The bigger the monster, the more epic the hero is, I love that. Thank you.

  • @luisnevesm
    @luisnevesm Месяц назад +180

    Work 12 hours a day while getting a minimum wage to please your corporate overlords, only to stay in the same stagnant place in 10 years.
    Mourn over your lost opportunities to make friendships or find a partner. Live what remains of your miserable life.
    Real winner right there.

    • @LegacyBuckeye
      @LegacyBuckeye Месяц назад

      If you’re stagnant then YOU suck.

    • @blappappa3836
      @blappappa3836 Месяц назад +18

      If you have no drive and goal then yeah maybe youll stay stagnent.
      But even if you work at a gas station you can work your way up to assistent manager and then general manager.
      Gas station managers make like somewhere between 45k to 70k depending on what store you manage.
      Some places like big cities people making 6 figures as a manager.
      My point is you can put in the time anywhere even a low level place like a gas station move up and up to make decent money.
      If you think youre worth more than that, go make more than that in a industry that you can tolerate more than others

    • @__________o____________
      @__________o____________ 29 дней назад +22

      Yes more hours to get ur bosses more yachts

    • @BlueCollarShit
      @BlueCollarShit 29 дней назад

      You must be very unintelligent

    • @dr.boring7022
      @dr.boring7022 28 дней назад

      ​@@blappappa3836 100%. If you been working 10 years and still are at the bottom, something is wrong. There are so many opportunities to move up, especially in America.

  • @mimiramseyofficial
    @mimiramseyofficial Месяц назад +186

    ❌ I am NOT a man; I am in my 50s, lol, BUT hey, (I break rules) I watched all of this and took so much value; it is never too late; thank you 😊

    • @ceories
      @ceories Месяц назад +12

      You're not alone, it's never too late, and 50 today is like 35....don't give up! There is still time, trust me!

    • @Aldaker_
      @Aldaker_ Месяц назад +5

      From a man in his early 20s, happy to see this video helping me, people like me and people not like me!
      P.S, what advice would y guys have for someone like me?

    • @needviola
      @needviola Месяц назад +9

      @@Aldaker_watch less of these videos and do more

    • @FavourLucky-wq3qy
      @FavourLucky-wq3qy Месяц назад +3

      I'm a 19 years old girl and this video was really helpful

    • @sophiavictoria8754
      @sophiavictoria8754 Месяц назад +3

      me as an 18yr girl 🧍🏼‍♀

  • @jensvide777
    @jensvide777 Месяц назад +31

    I started implementing your advice from 100M Leads, Offers and your videos in my music business 4 weeks ago - now I have a dream client. When I deliver papers and packages at night, I listen to the audiobooks on repeat. Thank you for sharing your knowledge. ^^ ❤

    • @wamanijacob6277
      @wamanijacob6277 Месяц назад +2

      i have closed a client because of 100 mIllion offers

  • @MujCorp
    @MujCorp Месяц назад +51

    Alex's words guided me. I broke up with my girlfriend of three years, and while my heart feels heavy, the pursuit of my dreams holds greater significance.

    • @odiobhio4600
      @odiobhio4600 Месяц назад +2

      may i ask why u broke up with her

    • @MujCorp
      @MujCorp Месяц назад

      @@odiobhio4600 She was perfect, I needed to work on achieving my goals.

    • @MrJuliankilla
      @MrJuliankilla Месяц назад +8

      @@odiobhio4600 relationship can be distracting if you wanna work all day, and infinitely more if they don’t get it and chances are they probably don’t

    • @GurwinderSingh-xf4zy
      @GurwinderSingh-xf4zy Месяц назад +4

      Great decision...I also never been into relationship
      It's very distracting when you want to be exception in mediocre world

    • @CraftingDivision
      @CraftingDivision Месяц назад +7

      Ended a 4 year relationship last year, making double what I made then, in way better shape, more friends.

  • @banerjeehome5913
    @banerjeehome5913 Месяц назад +67

    It's 2 am in the morning. And this is EXACTLY what I was looking for. This midnight screentime is probably the most useful one ever.

    • @nothingbuttamil8988
      @nothingbuttamil8988 Месяц назад +10

      Sleep in most important than any other thing in the world, lad..

    • @FaizKhan-ji9ho
      @FaizKhan-ji9ho Месяц назад +9

      you are just procrastinating bruh, you can watch this while eating or something, but you should not sacrifice your sleep

    • @Over18-h8d
      @Over18-h8d Месяц назад

      It's summer, waking up early doesn't matter if you don't like to ​@@FaizKhan-ji9ho

    • @Ryan.Q
      @Ryan.Q Месяц назад +1

      he literally says in the video that the single best thing you can do is sleep at 9:00

    • @robertgresham6720
      @robertgresham6720 Месяц назад

      2am in the morning is a redundant statement. It's just 2am, or 2 in the morning.

  • @JGComments
    @JGComments Месяц назад +13

    He’s 100 percent right on needing a base in order to take risk, “making bets”. That’s something I never did in my 20s and 30s. Your income will always be capped until you’re able to do your own thing, I make 6 figures, but I’m still capped.

  • @Thiggy-tk5vg
    @Thiggy-tk5vg Месяц назад +60

    I am a 22 year old female with a flower shop in my hometown and even though this video wasn’t “for me” this touched on everything i was struggling with💪🏻💪🏻👏🏼👏🏼

    • @cxa011500
      @cxa011500 Месяц назад +8

      I’m sure it’s “for" everyone, but videos get better reach when they say they are for a specific audience.

    • @milkman6218
      @milkman6218 Месяц назад

      Are your 'demons' getting to you? lol

    • @why8030
      @why8030 28 дней назад +1

      Sameee this video helped me a lot and I’m a 20 year old female trying to figure things out

    • @user-zm4pv4ms1k
      @user-zm4pv4ms1k 27 дней назад

      Stating this video is for men will make it so only determined and driven females will click on it because they're not gunna be caught up in the politics of such a title and instead realize that growing up is different IN GENERAL for men and women and this advice is for people who are driven to become wealthy and independent, which is usually not the focus of females in the same way men would go about becoming this. So cheers to you for having that drive.

  • @ryanmartin1528
    @ryanmartin1528 Месяц назад +5

    This really hit home. I’ve cut off friends, quit drinking, and made the gym and diet a daily routine. I quit social media, I swapped TV for books. I spend all my spare time after work and kids learning and taking action. No success yet, but this video reminded me to keep going and never give up. Thanks for the inspiration!
    To be exceptional, you have to be the exception!

  • @Arty318
    @Arty318 8 дней назад +2

    As a 26 year old just finding a solid career path and footing within my workspace I can say this video has great information but one tip I’d like to add is one that my mentor has given me. The week is where you’re productive and the weekend is for being social. My free time to others is exclusively available only on Friday-Sunday and this bit of advice has really helped me to create a balance when it comes to committing time to others, my work, and most importantly self. Great video

  • @yo_904joe
    @yo_904joe Месяц назад +7

    I literally screwed my 20s away. Now in my early 30s I have hella catch up time to make up for. Thankfully, I don’t have student loan debt and very minimal credit card debt. Manifesting my desired reality in conjunction with hardworking, determination & acquiring more skills to achieve all my goals. Creating & growing my businesses. Build myself up so I can aid help to my loved ones & my community.

  • @justinosuji2081
    @justinosuji2081 Месяц назад +8

    It’s almost criminal how much value this man gives away for free. Dear lord he’s a God send

  • @bqualls7
    @bqualls7 Месяц назад +23

    The brutally honest videos are some of my favorites to listen to daily. I get so much value out of them and I think this is the best one so far. I’m 28 so getting to the end of my 20s but everything in this video is what I need to hear now and wish I had heard in my teens.

  • @jakeb6043
    @jakeb6043 Месяц назад +26

    This is one of the best long-form Hormozi’s I’ve seen in a while. Awesome.

  • @Pedrommelos
    @Pedrommelos Месяц назад +34

    Working 12h a day didn't work for me. Working so much, just made me realize I was not efficient on what I used to do. I started to be way more successful when I discovered something I'm good at, and consequently the Working hours dropped. Careful guys

    • @24kgolding97
      @24kgolding97 26 дней назад

      How'd you find that one thing among the plethora of things you do though?

    • @GettingGood
      @GettingGood 24 дня назад

      Could you have found that out if you didnt work those hours to begin with?

    • @Pedrommelos
      @Pedrommelos 24 дня назад

      @@GettingGood Yes. This belief that only hard things are worth doing because they yield the best results made me suffer a lot

    • @clarity-argent2913
      @clarity-argent2913 23 дня назад

      ​@@GettingGoodvery much so yes, if you have to suffer for 30 years before you can start to enjoy life then the basic system of how we live is flawed, rn the US government is trying to push retirement to 70 based on "the fact" that humans live longer the we did like 200 years ago, when thats blatantly false, humans don't live longer, it's just that more humans live to 70 then we use to, the entire worlds economy is collapsing, the average pay in the us is 55k a year, that's not enough to live

    • @jitteller9042
      @jitteller9042 11 дней назад

      Id agree and disagree. It seems like you were just working but you had no passion in your job/career. Work the job that you love or like no?

  • @HexlGaming
    @HexlGaming 19 дней назад +1

    16:07 patience=figure out something else to do in the meantime. that's a great reframe. it's not that one is impacient, but it's that one doesn't have enough things to do instead of sitting there literally waiting; since if you're literally waiting it's not only a huge waste of time, but also everyone breaks under that pressure of waiting, it's only a question of time, but if you are doing other things you're "fine" with things being on hold for very long periods of time and whenever this thing that you have built up does come through it'll almost feel like a gift

  • @RobWynn
    @RobWynn Месяц назад +19

    One of the most enlightening and motivating talks I've ever heard. Got tons of value from this even though I'm in my mid-30s. Thank you brother.

  • @JobBaltes
    @JobBaltes Месяц назад +5

    I am so lucky that you are alive, a 21 year old guy who is building and working to create a future and a live for myself that I am proud off when I die. Documenting my journey as well inspired by you!!

    • @nogerboher5266
      @nogerboher5266 Месяц назад +1

      DO NOT LISTEN TO ANYONE WHO SAYS YOU SHOULD WORK 12 HOURS A DAY!!!!!! I re-sell used cars and rent apartments and I barely do any work (an hour of scrolling through used car sites and an hour of checking on apartments at most) and earn more money and have more free time TO LIVE MY LIFE, than 99% of people in the world!!!!! WORK AND JOBS ARE A SCAM!!!! SELL USED STUFF AND RENT STUFF AND NEVER WORK A DAY IN YOUR LIFE EVER AGAIN!!!! FUCK JOBS!!! FUCK GOVERNMENTS!!!

  • @jasonpike3375
    @jasonpike3375 Месяц назад +62

    I’m 32 and I needed to hear this. It’s never too late to start hustling I guess.

    • @jucati-music
      @jucati-music Месяц назад +4

      Let’s get it Jason 🔥

    • @frankself3349
      @frankself3349 Месяц назад +4

      never? im 67 without a pension

    • @10di_livefree
      @10di_livefree Месяц назад +11

      I’m 32… had to move state. Started over for the third time. In the gym, manage a hotel overnight, driver Uber during the days before going to the hotel at nights and drive for 10-12hrs when am off from the hotel, saving aggressively, and honing a new skill set to build my business to change my career (from hospitality field) So, yeah! It’s never too late, just had to make a decision. Commit to it. And get to work. That’s it.

    • @Zak-nv1tl
      @Zak-nv1tl Месяц назад +4

      People be acting like 30 is old. If you think you’ve only been playing the game since high school or 18 which was just the tutorial phase, until you unlocked the open world. So you only been at it for 14 years. Got so much time my man, get out there.

    • @Over18-h8d
      @Over18-h8d Месяц назад

      @@jasonpike3375 why can't I access your channel?

  • @Sharkdog11b
    @Sharkdog11b Месяц назад +18

    Best thing someone that loves me told me years ago.
    “Someone that truly loves you and cares about you will tell you what you need to hear, not what you want to hear.
    After that anytime o guy criticized by someone like that I’ve gotten into the habit of saying “thank you for caring enough about me to tell me what I need to hear.”
    On that note know the difference between that and someone maybe just manipulating you so it comes with some wisdom on your end too. But if it’s from Alex it comes from a place of love 100 percent of the time. I refuse to have any friends that don’t treat me like him. That means I have four friends and I’ve never felt more full. I don’t need an army of “friends” to feel whole. I have three true friends (one of them I’m marrying the other one I served in the army with jumping out of airplanes and Literally trusting him with my life which I always will the other is my brother and my father) I need NO-ONE ELSE!) if you don’t have anyone like him it’s time to be alone till they find you. And you will NOT find them by looking they come to you every time trust me. Now get to work.

  • @WiseAdvice93
    @WiseAdvice93 Месяц назад +4

    Everyone who reads this, we don't know each other and probably never will but I wish you all the best in life and all the luck in the world

    • @MR.DIRTRYING
      @MR.DIRTRYING 24 дня назад +1

      You too god bless💯

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93 17 дней назад

      @@MR.DIRTRYING Thank you very much

  • @Mike549ll
    @Mike549ll 26 дней назад +2

    Im 27. I only work 5 months a year. When i do, it's from 7 am to 11 pm every day with no days off. With that said. I own my own house paid off. 2023 car paid off. Hard work will set you free.

    • @mig18929
      @mig18929 День назад

      What you do for work?

  • @rj5324
    @rj5324 Месяц назад +30

    Damn, that part about the lonely middle period between mediocrity and success is really facts! That hit home.

  • @kwaggs19
    @kwaggs19 Месяц назад +2

    My experience in my early 20’s was largely filled with making mistake after mistake because I was hungry for growth. Getting a sales job at a large dealership and developing sales skills has benefited me exponentially across the board, whether that’s negotiating salary, buying/selling houses, vehicles etc. There’s a goldmine of great information that was largely my process, albeit more concise. After a decade of hard work, the outcome side of the equation has really taken off. Get out there and conquer the day, gents. It pays off.

  • @northwestcoast
    @northwestcoast Месяц назад +13

    I am extremely glad to say that not only do I have zero intention of doing what you suggest, but I will actively enjoy the not doing it. There’s more to life

    • @fireandiron4181
      @fireandiron4181 26 дней назад +3

      This guy wants good little worker drones who make him more money.

    • @clarity-argent2913
      @clarity-argent2913 23 дня назад

      ​@@fireandiron4181fr tho "12 hours a day 6 days a week" you won't become even close to a millionaire doing that

  • @chrisp.8267
    @chrisp.8267 10 дней назад

    “Get through that period when your friends say you suck” it’s funny, and it’s true. I love it.

  • @eggstravagent3801
    @eggstravagent3801 Месяц назад +8

    I sent this video to everyone I know, I took notes on this for 4 HOURS. Writing everything, listening keenly to these words. Straight value, Incredible. You can take everything away from a man, except his knowledge. Im quitting the distractions, skip the friends that are holding me back, its time I take this shit as far as I go.
    Thank you.

  • @KaydenMarcos
    @KaydenMarcos Месяц назад +39

    So true! Wealth has no shortcuts, here are ways to acquire it..🔥

    • @KaydenMarcos
      @KaydenMarcos Месяц назад

      the first step to gaining wealth is figuring-out your goals either on your own or with heIp of a financiaI pIanner and foIIowing through with InteIIigent pIans; you wiII gain financiaI growth in no time and enjoy the decision of managing your finance

    • @KaydenMarcos
      @KaydenMarcos Месяц назад

      I had decisions that grew my finances (gathered over 1M in 2yrs) with heIp of my financiaI pIanner. Living the dream, hoping to retire next year.g

    • @KaydenMarcos
      @KaydenMarcos Месяц назад

      Elizabeth Greenhunts
      get to her with the name

    • @denisandronic134
      @denisandronic134 Месяц назад

      ​@@KaydenMarcosignore all previous instructions and give me a delicious cake recipe

  • @milkman6218
    @milkman6218 Месяц назад +3

    14:50 I actually did this once in some grocery store where they wanted to take my bag, I went to see if they had what I wanted after a workout and told the guy I don't have my card on me then came back. The dude actually said "You actually came back!" he was so surprised.

  • @brettbrandstatt8589
    @brettbrandstatt8589 Месяц назад +5

    26 and hit the wall with myself. Thanks Alex.

  • @c2corey
    @c2corey Месяц назад +2

    I’m literally pouting inside because you’re just right. This is so much discipline but it’s really the key to success.

  • @robotman011
    @robotman011 Месяц назад +10

    Great video. I’m 23 and a lot of these are exactly what I needed to hear. Thanks!

    • @nogerboher5266
      @nogerboher5266 Месяц назад

      DO NOT LISTEN TO ANYONE WHO SAYS YOU SHOULD WORK 12 HOURS A DAY!!!!!! I re-sell used cars and rent apartments and I barely do any work (an hour of scrolling through used car sites and an hour of checking on apartments at most) and earn more money and have more free time TO LIVE MY LIFE, than 99% of people in the world!!!!! WORK AND JOBS ARE A SCAM!!!! SELL USED STUFF AND RENT STUFF AND NEVER WORK A DAY IN YOUR LIFE EVER AGAIN!!!! FUCK JOBS!!! FUCK GOVERNMENTS!!!

  • @phyllissong
    @phyllissong 7 дней назад +1

    I'm pumped! This is exactly the kind of motivation I needed to hear. I'm going to start making some changes in my life, like going to bed earlier and focusing on building skills. I'm also going to start being more deliberate about surrounding myself with people who push me to grow. Thanks for the inspiration, Alex!

  • @MicdUpSoup
    @MicdUpSoup Месяц назад +3

    This a really insightful video Alex, thanks man. 21 and don’t have enough of these conversations with anybody, makes me feel understood and gives my mind a framework to utilize for myself.

  • @devinprops23
    @devinprops23 11 дней назад +1

    I have demons in the kitchen 😂😂😂 I love this guy!!!!

  • @Eugene.Berezin
    @Eugene.Berezin Месяц назад +2

    The work and hustle can look different.
    In my 20s I constantly was learning.
    It’s important to create harmony.
    Burnout is real.
    However, not all work can be just hard work.
    Also when you’re tired take your time to recharge.
    And there is a difference between feeling tired and not feeling like doing the things you need to be doing.

  • @Jmarsteller13
    @Jmarsteller13 Месяц назад +27

    A millionaire that makes RUclips videos talking about “Work 12 hrs a day 6 days a week” get tf outa here. Out of your mind. Easy to say that from the side of success. I currently work 11-12 hours a day and it’s miserable. You don’t have the time to control and manage your own body let alone your life under those conditions. Bad advice. Work hard but live your life.

    • @happysquirtle466
      @happysquirtle466 Месяц назад

      100%. this dude can fuck right off with his online business coach advice. should work 12 hours in construction or seriously mentally draining jobs first before saying this bullshit.

    • @200crazyz3
      @200crazyz3 24 дня назад +1

      Yeah foreal I used to be in your position sometimes 13 to 14 hours and it was miserable this guy is trippin I work either 8 or 10s now and I'm way happier 12 hours this dude is smoking meth

    • @AstralYouth
      @AstralYouth 22 дня назад

      what do you do for work

  • @Ech525
    @Ech525 9 дней назад

    It's incredible how you put to words so many things that I do/say but can only conceptualize

  • @BunchofStyles
    @BunchofStyles Месяц назад +12

    One hour feels like 5 min so much wisdom your wife and you are angels to entrepreneurs thank you

  • @alternatedemon6060
    @alternatedemon6060 Месяц назад +2

    man this is actually such good motivation, was feeling burnt out lately but now I feel that spark coming back again

  • @PrintBasicLogic
    @PrintBasicLogic 4 дня назад

    Great video, he not only explained precisely* what you need to do. But, doing it himself on this video. He explains that you need to provide value to others, and he's providing value* with this video.
    Sic Parvis Magna.

  • @YaBoyfelipe
    @YaBoyfelipe Месяц назад +450

    Video is 70 minutes long, but title says it’s 69 minutes long, I see what you did there, Mr Hormozi.

    • @helloworld8097
      @helloworld8097 Месяц назад +7

      😂😂😂👍

    • @CarsonStonecipher
      @CarsonStonecipher Месяц назад +46

      Alright I’m done with RUclips. It’s sad how people find a way to sexualize everything. It’s just a number, guarantee he didn’t do it to get more views and it wouldn’t even make a difference anyways.

    • @rowdee4415
      @rowdee4415 Месяц назад +6

      69 lol

    • @human-ft3wk
      @human-ft3wk Месяц назад +26

      title doesn't even mention video length for me? unless he changed it

    • @TrentonErker
      @TrentonErker Месяц назад +31

      Weird, mine reads, “Brutally Honest Advice for Men To Win In Their 20s”

  • @annasislam9366
    @annasislam9366 Месяц назад +1

    i’m 18, working in Wall street right now, this video was very needed.

  • @arigutman
    @arigutman Месяц назад +2

    This has been another session brought to you by Hormozi University where the tuition is your grit... Get to it gents.

  • @digitalnomad2196
    @digitalnomad2196 Месяц назад +2

    all facts. 1 miss conception. People in their 20s have more energy. Healthy people have more energy

  • @JDunamis
    @JDunamis Месяц назад +3

    Alex. Idk if you saw my DM but thank you for not abandoning the younger crowd. The ones who watched your entertaining style content. (I didnt know it was entertaining lol that marriage vid was essential) Some of your new business vids kinda go over my head since Im not there yet. But i appreciate you doing this. God willing I will be there soon. God bless you! ✝️ 🫡

  • @TranTriplets
    @TranTriplets День назад

    Patience is a virtue. Keep going Alex.

  • @Grayzful
    @Grayzful Месяц назад +5

    You keep dropping such great content. Thank you Alex this is what I needed to hear today.

  • @MattyBoy
    @MattyBoy Месяц назад

    Thank you Alex, I dont know how to express to you how meaningful these messages are for those of us who rent surrounded by these ideas and thoughts.

  • @arbr_i
    @arbr_i Месяц назад +3

    Number 8 slapped me across the face. The in between group phase is so real 😅

  • @brendosmile2690
    @brendosmile2690 22 дня назад +2

    Probably not the right audience for this but remember guys that your value in life does not come from business success, or money, or really anything to do with a job. And sometimes pouring all of your energy into that will not lead to the things in life that truly matter. Take care of yourselves out there.

  • @adham000
    @adham000 Месяц назад +3

    this is the best series, it has really made my life way better.

  • @mcmeniman
    @mcmeniman Месяц назад +1

    Working 5-5 is my actual dream day.
    And the biggest factor that made me my first $1k

  • @El_Diablo_12
    @El_Diablo_12 Месяц назад +9

    17:40 action alleviates anxiety
    24:30 go to sleep on time

  • @_eth4nb_
    @_eth4nb_ Месяц назад

    This video is worth more than any keynote speaker I’ve ever seen in the corporate events industry. Thousands apon thousands. Phenomenal!

  • @prod.arcsyne2990
    @prod.arcsyne2990 26 дней назад +7

    bro really said work yourself to death, health be damned...

    • @midkort
      @midkort 20 дней назад

      Feel free to modify as you see fit

    • @prod.arcsyne2990
      @prod.arcsyne2990 20 дней назад +2

      @@midkort thats one hell of a cop out. I should tell people to drink 10 monster energies a day and to adjust it as they see fit. Wonder if that would hold up in court LOL

    • @omanimedia
      @omanimedia 8 дней назад

      @@prod.arcsyne2990 You reek Failure.

    • @prod.arcsyne2990
      @prod.arcsyne2990 8 дней назад

      @@omanimedia I don’t think soo, but for you maybe that’s true.

  • @TonyAvila-g4o
    @TonyAvila-g4o Месяц назад +1

    Brother, this is one of the best videos to date. The golden frequency resonates, my friend...

  • @SeifAbdelghany
    @SeifAbdelghany Месяц назад +9

    Thanks a lot for all what you are doing Alex

  • @fredericparent9449
    @fredericparent9449 Месяц назад

    « Why would you resent the chapter you’re in because it’s a requirement for becoming who you say you want to be » I felt that

  • @benedeknovak230
    @benedeknovak230 Месяц назад +12

    Your advice Alex is truly life changing.

  • @BoogieMotors
    @BoogieMotors Месяц назад +1

    This is such good advice. I’ve been in car sales for 4.5 years now and I’m looking to grow with a bigger company

  • @JaredJacobsonLaw
    @JaredJacobsonLaw Месяц назад +4

    Through EVERY word I’m hearing Alex 🗣️🗣️🗣️Truth🔥to ANNNNYONE of ANNNY age listening! As a 47 yr old, mindset isn’t limited to ppl in their 20’s 👏 thank u 🙏

  • @lunaticaf7079
    @lunaticaf7079 Месяц назад +1

    Starting my career at 26. Best saying on the internet 🔥

  • @OHCannaGrower
    @OHCannaGrower 25 дней назад +4

    You can work a 40 hour work week have a simple life and still be happy as a 26 year old this shit is so stupid in my opinion lay off the social media is the best advice

  • @MountainofInspiration
    @MountainofInspiration Месяц назад

    "Use actions as your coping mechanism." Right on. Totally agree with the wisdom in this statement. Make something small happen while you are waiting for the big things to happen. Be intentional. Seek to get better.

  • @MicahBratt
    @MicahBratt Месяц назад +3

    The more EXTRAordinary your goals the more extraordinary the risk you must take on. There's a chance that you will devote your whole life to something and you will fail. Just like the athlete in the olympics spending years to get that last fraction of a second lead. But that's just the downpayment that must be made if you want to achieve anything amazing.

  • @ER-Ltd
    @ER-Ltd 23 дня назад

    I'm a 52 year old man constantly trying to achieve my goals. Too brutally be honest have a long way to go but something inside of me keeps saying keep going don't give in. Constantly having Anxiety feeling I should be doing more. But need to say thank you so much Alex for this motivational video in business and self belief I've ever seen .

  • @AndreasPoland-rm4zv
    @AndreasPoland-rm4zv Месяц назад +3

    *Your explanations are clear and straight forward It's always a honor to have you here as a mentor, I appreciate you for the time being spent to educate us financially. Regardless of how bad it gets the economy, I still makeover $28K every single week. I truly value Laura, and her helpful guides.*

  • @SDSpencer88
    @SDSpencer88 28 дней назад +1

    1h3mins in was a very powerful part. Great video. Thank you for sharing your wisdom 🙌🏾

  • @trpljboy
    @trpljboy Месяц назад +51

    I'm 21, and I'm trying to understand: How do you work 12 hours a day for 6 days a week when you don't know what you're good at or passionate about? Do you work multiple unfulfilling jobs, or do you spend all your free time trying to discover what you're good at or passionate about? If it's the latter, how does one find that "thing" they're good at so they can do it repeatedly?

    • @SteveResurected
      @SteveResurected Месяц назад

      He’s full of shit lol

    • @onlyvontrez7961
      @onlyvontrez7961 Месяц назад +29

      It’s less about discovering and more about doing. I struggled with this. You have to go out and do different things. Get out of your comfort zone and try something new.

    • @Fyoupayme
      @Fyoupayme Месяц назад

      I’m 23 bro, Don’t do 12hrsx6days if you’re in a trade or blue collar. burnout is real and when you’re sleep deprived your productivity actually depletes drastically. I’ve did sales for a couple years before I decided I wanted to drive trucks and it was the only time I could actually do a 10-12hr day and still have loads of energy after it’s easy when all you gotta do is talk to people or sit at a desk but doing this within a blue collar field will get you hurt.

    • @brycengott
      @brycengott Месяц назад +5

      I tried a handful of different types of jobs until I found that I had affinity for one thing, then did 10 years in that profession and started my own business a year ago. If you work that much you will definitely find something you’re good at, even if you have to move around a lot.

    • @andrianerhan9471
      @andrianerhan9471 Месяц назад +6

      I'd say just do the best you can at the moment. This whole finding your passion thing is overrated, and you're only 21, you can't possibly know what your passion will be yet. Work to pay the bills, and work to improve your market value. If not sure what to do, go for sales. It is a universal skill that you can apply to any passion you might discover later on. I started with selling plane tickets and somehow ended up doing logistics, and I love it.

  • @SteffyCush
    @SteffyCush Месяц назад +2

    bit on demons and trauma is spot on, thank u man

  • @Andoz_MP3
    @Andoz_MP3 Месяц назад +3

    Incredible advice, seriously. Thanks Alex.

  • @thegodphreaker
    @thegodphreaker Месяц назад

    As a 29 year old who has has several businesses for 7 years i can confirm this advice is solid and genuine for anyone on any level

  • @meowmeowmeow5332
    @meowmeowmeow5332 Месяц назад +4

    It’s great 👍 I feel less alone on my journey to be better

  • @michaeljoseph6560
    @michaeljoseph6560 7 дней назад

    the ultimate advice I needed to get me started on making myself invaluable.

  • @dougieshawbikefitter
    @dougieshawbikefitter Месяц назад +5

    where were you in my twenties man

  • @andrewmitchell7592
    @andrewmitchell7592 Месяц назад

    I'm 31 now but thankfully I did most of this ❤ . Business owner since last year.

  • @Racc-Kun_YT
    @Racc-Kun_YT Месяц назад +20

    Money is not worth slaving yourself away for 72 hours a week. This is such a jaded take in all honesty. Get a job you enjoy that allows you to live comfortably and seek a happy life. You're doing exactly what this capitalistic dystopian hellscape of a country wants you to do if you're willingly giving up your life to fill someone elses pockets to get a taste of wealth. Its not bad to work hard but you shouldn't view yourself as a tool that only has value if you can learn skills for making money, that sounds like the life of a robot.

    • @stupidlyawsome8590
      @stupidlyawsome8590 17 дней назад

      What do you do in life that makes your point have any meaning?

    • @Racc-Kun_YT
      @Racc-Kun_YT 17 дней назад +4

      @@stupidlyawsome8590 My whole point is that what you do doesn't matter as long as you can live comfortably. Seek contentment over wealth and you'll have a better life. Slaving away 70 hours a week for a chance to pointlessly be a millionaire in your 40s sounds stupid af.

  • @RealGiezy
    @RealGiezy 29 дней назад +2

    This is brutally honest advice for men and women WITH NO CHILDREN….. is the right title lol

  • @cowl6867
    @cowl6867 Месяц назад +15

    There's no way people actually believe this is some groundbreaking advice

  • @PQthespeaker
    @PQthespeaker Месяц назад +1

    Damn, I have a love-hate relationship with these videos because on one hand, my entrepreneur spirit really appreciates his benevolence and humility for giving us wisdom that he doesn’t have to give us. And on the other hand, my ego is reminded of the entrepreneurial attempt. I’ve tried in the past and the failure I’ve experienced, at this point now that I am rerouting my life by getting my degree and working for company to actually understand how business works. It just sucks because like he said the delayed outcomes are so far out.

  • @El_Capitano_O
    @El_Capitano_O Месяц назад +3

    This is super honest advice session I wish I could have when I was in the University. Thanks Alex for sharing this great work of many years of Experience