Stories like these always make me choke up. I fell severely ill the summer following our March wedding. Within a year, we were bankrupted by the hospital bills and I was spending 20 hours per day in bed. An old girlfriend showed up 7 years into our marriage and was almost successful in getting him to run away with her. He didn’t. He stuck it out. Today, I’m doing much better. We have a beautiful life and three small children. My neighbor growing up was paralyzed in a car accident shortly after getting married. They just celebrated 35 years of marriage and were a huge inspiration to us. Commitment pays off, and that's what makes the difference between a marriage and a casual relationship.
That’s exactly why I hated the ending of this movie. What if you or your friend had taken the route the male protagonist in the movie did, you wouldn’t be here enjoying your life and children.
Chokes me up, that’s what love is. My grandpa was my inspiration. He took care of my grandmother for decades after she became wheel chair bound. My husband was wounded in Afghanistan 6 months after we got married. Three and a half years later I started dialysis. I actually ended up getting a kidney because he was wounded 🤯The odds of that… Anyway, today we’ve been married nearly 14 years and he’s the best person that’s still happening to me.
True. Every long happy marriage has been tested at some point in some way, maybe many ways. That's life. And some marriages end because of it, but I guess that's ok since those relationships probably weren't very strong anyway. You have to really love someone to stick with them through everything. Perhaps some of those marriages that ended weren't from a lack of love exactly, but a lack of maturity or unrealistic expectations. There are people who look back at an ended relationship with regret because they see what they lost and now understand it was worth keeping.
@@snakesonaframe2668 same here! I have an aunt who has cerebral palsy and has difficulty moving her limbs and speaking. She met her husband at the age of 40, married at 45 and they have adopted a daughter who has now started kindergarten. This movie feels like it invalidates stories like hers, as though being paraplegic means you can only have a tragic ending. It made no sense to me whatsoever.
I would have never watched this film on my own, but someone I cared for very deeply said this was one of her favorites so I checked it out. I don’t think I’ll ever forget “Me Before You”
I thought the cervical spine controlled the upper body = arms, not legs. I had a large mrsa infected abscess in my cervical spine and lost the use of my right arm. Then I had my cervical spine rebuilt with bone from my hip, bone from the bone bank, and lots and lots of titanium. The neurosurgeon was excellent and I got the use of my arm back - but it's the lumbar section of the spine that controls the lower half of the body = legs. I'm having a lot of trouble with my legs now 10 years post infection and surgery, because the cervical hardware is causing my lumbar to get out of whack, causing lumbar facet syndrome - right now it's just awful pain that is similar to really bad sciatica and difficulty walking, but I'll take this over paralysis - fingers crossed and prayers said. P.S. I just love Emilia Clarke!
If any part of your spine becomes severed then you’ll become paralyzed. It’s filled with nerves that send signals to your brain. Cervical is the upper part of your spine (C1-C7), so he’s paralyzed from the neck down. It’s also an extremely dangerous place to injure because it’s your neck, severed can also be referred as break just not every case.
You had a very different type of injury than this guy did. Your injury was effecting the nerves as they branched off from the spine. If the spine itself is heavily damage or severed, everything below that point stops working. If it worked the way you think it does, there’d be WAY fewer folks in wheelchairs the para- and quadriplegia. I have to ask, did you assume everyone who’s fully paralyzed had the whole spine torn up? Because that’d be one hell of an injury and one I doubt a person could survive.
As for your own lumbar issues, several suggestions from someone’s who’s femur is a bit like your cervical spine- 1) PT. It never stops for folks like us. If they ever discharge you, you keep doing the exercises. 2) Water-based PT is truly the gold standard for hips/pelvic issues. It’s rarely offered, though- but it’s what taught me to walk. 3) injections into the areas with the impinged nerves might be an option. That way they can localize anti-inflammatories, vastly increasing bang for your buck, so to speak. 4) massage from a medical message therapist might also help loosen things up and get you moving correctly. I’ve had great success combining the two whenever I start PT for a new issue. Speeds up progress and some insurances even cover it in the US. (But NEVER let a chiropractor touch you!! With that metal in you, they could easily severely injure or kill you. That’s a risk for all chiro work but those with existing spinal issues are at very high risk.)
What you had rebuilt was the vertebrae, the bone around the spinal cord. The spinal cord has smaller nerves branching off of it that control feeling & movement in other parts of the body. A broken vertebra doesn’t always mean a damaged spinal cord (depends where it’s broken & if it’s compressing or severing a nerve). A severe injury that severs the spinal cord results in paralysis below the severing. The higher in the cervical (neck) spine the severed cord is, the more of the body is paralyzed. The infection most likely impinged on the nerves going to your arm & possibly ate away the vertebrae in the area, too. Or the diseased bone was just cut out during surgery.
I'm so sorry you're dealing with such horrible pain! While mine is not nearly as severe, I also have chronic pain in my back from Lupus and old compression fractures that healed crooked. My Mom also has severe back pain and problems. Some of her's is in the lumber region. Would a "spinal nerve stimulator implant" be feasible for you? It blocks the pain signals to the brain, and therefore helps stop or reduce the pain. It's helped my Mom tremendously. The brand name of the device she has is Nevro. The procedure to implant it was a fairly simple surgery, certainly nothing like your previous surgeries. If you have any questions, please let me know. I would be happy to help! 💜
I have sympathy for people in a relationship like this, but, to me, if my partner was in an accident that changed their life, then my life changes too. It would depend on the length of the relationship of course. But if I’m in LOVE with you and we are spending our lives together, you don’t get to push me away. I’m not interested in moving on and leaving you behind. I still want my life with you. That life just looks really different now. Again, I feel very sorry for the ex. She probably did try. She’s not evil for winding up with the friend. That actually makes perfect sense. I don’t get coming around to display their relationship to him though. That seems cruel.
I think that they came by to absolve themselves of any further liability and, or, responsibility to him and his well-being. The narrative they have concocted is we tried, we told him, we deserve to be happy because we aren't bad people.
Well makes sense if you are a guy but I've seen women say that and leave a relationship for less, being lonely in a hospital shows you who is really your friend
@@JohnAnderson-ev3lp Dude, I’m sorry if someone broke your heart, but please don’t make this a gender thing. The entirety of women should not be judged for bad women we’ve known in our personal lives and they should not be judged by me making a RUclips comment. Would you like to hear reasons I’ve seen men leave? There are a-hole women and men. If you start with the, “all women leave because Sally left Mike over his nose hair,” type stuff, you are dooming yourself.
"in sickness and in health, till death do us part". If you dont have this intention with your partner, leave now. If anything happens to my partner, we're in this together. Both our lives have changed now. Just as i would expect him to care for me in pregnancy, birth and post partum, he should expect that I'd take care of him if he was ill or injured. That's love. Seriously, if that's not how you feel then you dont truly love them, sorry not sorry that is the truth. Real, unconditional love, is exactly that, unconditional. You're getting it no matter what
I'm totally agree. Which is why I'm glad that I'm not rich or famous. As nice as it would be, I would never be able to trust someone to really love me for me.
Why why why don’t people put the movie title in the description ??? it’s the same with vacation destination, videos, and images - people never put the name of the place …. So you spend your time trying to figure out what’s the movie if you want to watch it or trying to figure out where the location is if you want to go there - 🤷♀️ thank you to the people who write the title in the comments!! But if I’m posting something I would put the name of the movie or destination, location for those people that are watching.
Feels like a manipulative way to get you to dredge through the comments making the algorithm think you're way more interested than you actually are. I hate content creators that do this.
@@blindbrad4719hates a strong word, i liked your comment but then unliked it cause I don't feel that strongly aboyt them, but yeah it's annoying , it feels either lazy/careless or manipulative in the sense of trying to get more comments of people asking and saying the answer and more people spending time letting the video replay in the comments.
To the question, answer should be it depends. In the movie they fall in love after and that’s possible but the question says “if I became a cervical paraplegic” - ? s include were you loyal and loving before and can you be after/the question goes both ways. And should necessarily depend.
Holy crap, yes. You lose the ability to use limbs and we can find a way to make it work. Lose your ability to treat me with decency and we're not gonna made it. Encorage sticking it out when things change and are hard, but in no way normalise staying with someone who doesn't treat you right, communicate etc regardless of the circumstances which lead you there.
Love her character in this movie!! She's absolutely adorable and compassionate. Also loved her as the dragon queen in Game of Thrones. So many don't realize its the same actress. She's very talented and funny.
Bit egotistical of the disabled community to even think the movie was trying to send a message, it was just a movie. If able-bodied people complained about every movie we disagreed with there would be no movies.
@@krashd your comment is unnecessarily rude. And there aren’t any movies where able-bodied people say they would rather die than live as able-bodied and that such people are better off dead, so who are you to say it’s egotistical of the disabled community to disagree with the message
@@krashdthe thing is though, every portrayal of a disabled person in the media adds to the expectations disabled people have to live up to while also making able-bodied people think worse of us without even getting to know us. If your only experience with autism was a crazy person peeing on your neighbor's trampoline and threatening to kill the family weekly, (a true experience I had with a foster sister) you're going to have ideas about autism in your head that you hold onto with every other autistic person you meet.
It’s bad enough if the relationship had just ended. But the fact that his BEST FRIEND was willing to get with his ex that left him after he became paralyzed is absolutely disgusting. His best friend should have been “supporting” him… not his ex girlfriend… that dude was waiting for the chance to swoop in.
It sounds awful, but I kind of get her leaving him. Not best friend and ex gf together, but I get her leaving him. He had it much, much worse, but what was she supposed to do, when he wasn't even trying to communicate, stonewalling all the time, being angry and maybe even being cynical with her all the time...that truly kills the love. At one point, you have to protect yourself. The dating his bestie was of course awful tho.
I have a friend, to me she’s a dear person just bc she’s a lovely human being, but I was more on the out fringes of the friend group and going thru a lot as well, so I didn’t get the chance to get close to her as much as I wanted to while I could. But her husband died shortly before her baby was born. We were pregnant at the same time. And I rmbr her saying that I’d be surprised if u knew how many of her husbands friends hit her up hitting on her not even a WEEK after he died. Which was a fckn shame bc her husband was kinda legendary and well LOVED. Like his funeral had a turnout bigger than I’ve seen in a WHILE. It made me wonder how many of those ppl were the ones who hit her up. And how deceitful some ppl can truly be. Waiting on ur death or break up or whatever is convenient to make a move on what u had. Crazy af. This made me think of that.
@@angeloliver7613Yes, he did that to push her away so she could move on guilt free and she didn't see it. Made it worse when she went with his best friend...worse for his best friend than her though he isn't sore with her but the best bud pffff no coming back from that one sorry
It's not other people's jobs to force ppl to accept love or support. He pushed her away because he was throwing himself a pity party and convincing himself he was being noble. He was the victim with the accident, but she's right that you can't help people that don't want to get better. He wanted to stay angry and he wanted her to go away, because he was passively suicidal and making it everyone's probablem. He had every right to feel all of those things, but absolutely no right to force it on everyone who tried to be there for him. Yes she probably should have not gotten romantic with his best friend, but much like he was severing the cord of their relationship when he pushed her away, maybe that was her way of moving on. They both were emotionally reacting and were dealing with an impossible situation. And either way, she obviously wasn't the one for him. Honestly i get why he couldn't look at her without thinking of all they could no longer do. With someone knew, you're not losing a relationship with someone who you used to be able to do things with you can't anymore. It's easier to start over completely for a lot of people than to retool that you have, grieving what was while adjusting to what now is.
You wanna know something. In cases like this I honestly find it hard to hate people. Your partner suddenly becomes disabled and needing you for everything can happen and most people don’t think it will, you never expect better or for worse actually being the worst case scenario. There’s so much pain and loneliness and emptiness that comes with an accident.I could see how the ex girlfriend started feeling lonely. I could see how it could happen. Now of course that’s not ok at all you have made a commitment to your partner that you gotta see through but I understand how people end up divorced after major illnesses. Not everybody is able to be a patient caretaker. It’s just sad that it’s more likely to be women who get left behind when they are ill. Not saying a man getting left behind isn’t sad I just think that shows we need to do some soul searching on why that is.
I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE this movie soooo much!! I cried like a baby during it and after it was over. I just had to watch it again. Now I own the dvd so I can watch it anytime I want. It is definitely number 1 on my top 10 movies list!! ❤
Thanks to RUclips 's constant recommendations, I ordered the DVD. I am very happy. Please let me tell one more story: I am a fan of PEAKY BLINDERS and I own the series on DVD. I had to stop watching it because I couldn't take the character of MOSLEY.....now I found out Sam Claflin played MOSLEY. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Okay, never seen this movie but I’m seeing the shorts everywhere, and before anyone lynches me, I don’t know its name and I don’t know how to find it!! I want the name!! It looks so cute!!!
Define “strong”? 🙏🏼When most handicaps and chronic illnesses aren’t visible like a wheelchair, but they are judged, ridiculed & bullied. Who knows what amount of pain, what trauma, what fatigue, or neurological symptoms they quietly deal with. It’s not like they are required to share that information with others, there are usually only few to really confide in🙏🏼🌺
People always say they would stay with the person their with if something happened to them thinking oh so what they'll still be the same person just without the use of legs or arms or both not realizing the mental toll it will take as well on the person affected and then being taken by surprise as if it's them not being fair " oh you're too overwhelmed with them pushing you away and being distant for a few months so you need to find someone to give you attention now" that means that person was never that important and you weren't willing to wait for them to come to terms with in their own minds being useless from now on and not being able to do anything for themselves let alone anyone else and the ones they care about if someone isn't willing to wait at least an adjustment period of a year to get used to how things are now for that person than they don't have any real idea of what is happening
“ would you like a cup of tea? “ typically considered the English panacea for all ailments. Even though said by the Queen of Dragons, doesn’t quite work on cervical paralysis……
I have issues with my lower lumbar, i am not paralyzed but when I stand up i fall to my knees, which have been broken, so I crawl until I am completely exhausted and just lay in the floor for hour's until I think I might be able to crawl again, which doesn't last very long.
"oh Will, please" -> what she means is "oh Will please, just give me what i want i dont care about your feelings you are not human any longer since your accident"
Absolutely loved this movie, hated the ending. I had no idea it had anything to do with assisted death. It was a shocking and heartbreaking experience. And no, I don’t agree with the message.
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That "oh my God, what the ef is she wearing again today" look 😂
very selfish male protagonist... hes eye candy but selfish af...
@@lisafoodie8443Way over your head the whole thing, huh.
@@lisafoodie8443 haven't you watched the whole movie?
Yes!😮
😂 he absolutely nailed it
She is the cutest most humble, loveable caring person!!!
At the same time,I believe she is also a talented actress ❤
@@ArleneBib-j3u😂AWESOME👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🫶🏼
@@ArleneBib-j3u Heck yeah she is! She's the mother of dragons!! ❤❤
Absolute cuteness overload! She's evidence that love exists.
Eh. I don’t see it.
Stories like these always make me choke up. I fell severely ill the summer following our March wedding. Within a year, we were bankrupted by the hospital bills and I was spending 20 hours per day in bed. An old girlfriend showed up 7 years into our marriage and was almost successful in getting him to run away with her. He didn’t. He stuck it out. Today, I’m doing much better. We have a beautiful life and three small children. My neighbor growing up was paralyzed in a car accident shortly after getting married. They just celebrated 35 years of marriage and were a huge inspiration to us. Commitment pays off, and that's what makes the difference between a marriage and a casual relationship.
That’s exactly why I hated the ending of this movie. What if you or your friend had taken the route the male protagonist in the movie did, you wouldn’t be here enjoying your life and children.
Chokes me up, that’s what love is. My grandpa was my inspiration. He took care of my grandmother for decades after she became wheel chair bound.
My husband was wounded in Afghanistan 6 months after we got married. Three and a half years later I started dialysis. I actually ended up getting a kidney because he was wounded 🤯The odds of that…
Anyway, today we’ve been married nearly 14 years and he’s the best person that’s still happening to me.
True. Every long happy marriage has been tested at some point in some way, maybe many ways. That's life. And some marriages end because of it, but I guess that's ok since those relationships probably weren't very strong anyway. You have to really love someone to stick with them through everything. Perhaps some of those marriages that ended weren't from a lack of love exactly, but a lack of maturity or unrealistic expectations. There are people who look back at an ended relationship with regret because they see what they lost and now understand it was worth keeping.
@@snakesonaframe2668 same here! I have an aunt who has cerebral palsy and has difficulty moving her limbs and speaking. She met her husband at the age of 40, married at 45 and they have adopted a daughter who has now started kindergarten. This movie feels like it invalidates stories like hers, as though being paraplegic means you can only have a tragic ending. It made no sense to me whatsoever.
@@snakesonaframe2668 He did it because of pain he suffered, not because of paralysis.
She does full eyebrow acting in this movie. Those things should have been nominated for an oscar.
69th!
Emilia Clarke is the best with facial expressions! Her acting is phenomenal in Game of Thrones!
What's the movie name...?
@@alywren6438 Me Before You !
@@alywren6438 Me Before You
Emilia is such a great actress, this movie was phenomenal. She did an amazing job playing Clark and her vivacious character.
And she’s also experienced what it’s like to be paralysed - she almost died for real during the filming of GoT
I would have never watched this film on my own, but someone I cared for very deeply said this was one of her favorites so I checked it out. I don’t think I’ll ever forget “Me Before You”
I thought the cervical spine controlled the upper body = arms, not legs. I had a large mrsa infected abscess in my cervical spine and lost the use of my right arm. Then I had my cervical spine rebuilt with bone from my hip, bone from the bone bank, and lots and lots of titanium. The neurosurgeon was excellent and I got the use of my arm back - but it's the lumbar section of the spine that controls the lower half of the body = legs. I'm having a lot of trouble with my legs now 10 years post infection and surgery, because the cervical hardware is causing my lumbar to get out of whack, causing lumbar facet syndrome - right now it's just awful pain that is similar to really bad sciatica and difficulty walking, but I'll take this over paralysis - fingers crossed and prayers said.
P.S. I just love Emilia Clarke!
If any part of your spine becomes severed then you’ll become paralyzed. It’s filled with nerves that send signals to your brain. Cervical is the upper part of your spine (C1-C7), so he’s paralyzed from the neck down. It’s also an extremely dangerous place to injure because it’s your neck, severed can also be referred as break just not every case.
You had a very different type of injury than this guy did. Your injury was effecting the nerves as they branched off from the spine. If the spine itself is heavily damage or severed, everything below that point stops working.
If it worked the way you think it does, there’d be WAY fewer folks in wheelchairs the para- and quadriplegia.
I have to ask, did you assume everyone who’s fully paralyzed had the whole spine torn up? Because that’d be one hell of an injury and one I doubt a person could survive.
As for your own lumbar issues, several suggestions from someone’s who’s femur is a bit like your cervical spine-
1) PT. It never stops for folks like us. If they ever discharge you, you keep doing the exercises.
2) Water-based PT is truly the gold standard for hips/pelvic issues. It’s rarely offered, though- but it’s what taught me to walk.
3) injections into the areas with the impinged nerves might be an option. That way they can localize anti-inflammatories, vastly increasing bang for your buck, so to speak.
4) massage from a medical message therapist might also help loosen things up and get you moving correctly. I’ve had great success combining the two whenever I start PT for a new issue. Speeds up progress and some insurances even cover it in the US. (But NEVER let a chiropractor touch you!! With that metal in you, they could easily severely injure or kill you. That’s a risk for all chiro work but those with existing spinal issues are at very high risk.)
What you had rebuilt was the vertebrae, the bone around the spinal cord. The spinal cord has smaller nerves branching off of it that control feeling & movement in other parts of the body. A broken vertebra doesn’t always mean a damaged spinal cord (depends where it’s broken & if it’s compressing or severing a nerve). A severe injury that severs the spinal cord results in paralysis below the severing. The higher in the cervical (neck) spine the severed cord is, the more of the body is paralyzed.
The infection most likely impinged on the nerves going to your arm & possibly ate away the vertebrae in the area, too. Or the diseased bone was just cut out during surgery.
I'm so sorry you're dealing with such horrible pain! While mine is not nearly as severe, I also have chronic pain in my back from Lupus and old compression fractures that healed crooked. My Mom also has severe back pain and problems. Some of her's is in the lumber region. Would a "spinal nerve stimulator implant" be feasible for you? It blocks the pain signals to the brain, and therefore helps stop or reduce the pain. It's helped my Mom tremendously. The brand name of the device she has is Nevro. The procedure to implant it was a fairly simple surgery, certainly nothing like your previous surgeries. If you have any questions, please let me know. I would be happy to help! 💜
My Queen being queen in other shows and making powerful men falling for her
I love Emilia Clark. She's such an amazing actress!
I have sympathy for people in a relationship like this, but, to me, if my partner was in an accident that changed their life, then my life changes too. It would depend on the length of the relationship of course. But if I’m in LOVE with you and we are spending our lives together, you don’t get to push me away. I’m not interested in moving on and leaving you behind. I still want my life with you. That life just looks really different now.
Again, I feel very sorry for the ex. She probably did try. She’s not evil for winding up with the friend. That actually makes perfect sense. I don’t get coming around to display their relationship to him though. That seems cruel.
I think that they came by to absolve themselves of any further liability and, or, responsibility to him and his well-being. The narrative they have concocted is we tried, we told him, we deserve to be happy because we aren't bad people.
@@Xsiondu Yeah I haven’t seen the movie, but it seems like they were there for themselves not him.
Well makes sense if you are a guy but I've seen women say that and leave a relationship for less, being lonely in a hospital shows you who is really your friend
@@JohnAnderson-ev3lp Dude, I’m sorry if someone broke your heart, but please don’t make this a gender thing. The entirety of women should not be judged for bad women we’ve known in our personal lives and they should not be judged by me making a RUclips comment.
Would you like to hear reasons I’ve seen men leave?
There are a-hole women and men. If you start with the, “all women leave because Sally left Mike over his nose hair,” type stuff, you are dooming yourself.
@@JohnAnderson-ev3lp
Women are more likely to be left by their partner when falling sick than men 🫤
movies called Me Before You
Finaly, tnx bro. So many pointless comments
Thank you
THANK YOU
"in sickness and in health, till death do us part". If you dont have this intention with your partner, leave now. If anything happens to my partner, we're in this together. Both our lives have changed now. Just as i would expect him to care for me in pregnancy, birth and post partum, he should expect that I'd take care of him if he was ill or injured. That's love. Seriously, if that's not how you feel then you dont truly love them, sorry not sorry that is the truth. Real, unconditional love, is exactly that, unconditional. You're getting it no matter what
I'm totally agree. Which is why I'm glad that I'm not rich or famous. As nice as it would be, I would never be able to trust someone to really love me for me.
Why why why don’t people put the movie title in the description ??? it’s the same with vacation destination, videos, and images - people never put the name of the place …. So you spend your time trying to figure out what’s the movie if you want to watch it or trying to figure out where the location is if you want to go there - 🤷♀️ thank you to the people who write the title in the comments!! But if I’m posting something I would put the name of the movie or destination, location for those people that are watching.
Feels like a manipulative way to get you to dredge through the comments making the algorithm think you're way more interested than you actually are. I hate content creators that do this.
PS, if you know the name of the movie let me know, I'm blind so it's even more of a ball like 🙄
It’s called Me before you
Right
@@blindbrad4719hates a strong word, i liked your comment but then unliked it cause I don't feel that strongly aboyt them, but yeah it's annoying , it feels either lazy/careless or manipulative in the sense of trying to get more comments of people asking and saying the answer and more people spending time letting the video replay in the comments.
Emilia is undoubtedly the most adorable actress around today. Continued success to her so that we may see her more.
love this trio.. Daenerys Targaryen, Finnick Odair and Neville Longbottom
OMG I DIDNT REALIZE THAT WAS NEVILLE
To the question, answer should be it depends. In the movie they fall in love after and that’s possible but the question says “if I became a cervical paraplegic” - ? s include were you loyal and loving before and can you be after/the question goes both ways. And should necessarily depend.
Yes,you said it very well,it’s mutual ❤
Holy crap, yes. You lose the ability to use limbs and we can find a way to make it work. Lose your ability to treat me with decency and we're not gonna made it. Encorage sticking it out when things change and are hard, but in no way normalise staying with someone who doesn't treat you right, communicate etc regardless of the circumstances which lead you there.
Love her character in this movie!! She's absolutely adorable and compassionate. Also loved her as the dragon queen in Game of Thrones. So many don't realize its the same actress. She's very talented and funny.
I love British actors ... especially splendid .
Damn, Neville rizzed up the Dragon Queen
I watched this movie and laughed and cried. I believe it’s Me/life before you
Even if I’m not by your side
You must be by my side.
What do you mean?
What is the movie called
@@Cbear-qb8fg
“Me before you” ❤❤
Cum se numeste filmul?
Thank you Sir for such detailed analysis and telling how to approach the question. You explained it so well .
This movie hurt me emotionally so much.
Imagine leaving your long term boyfriend for someone who just self-exits a few months later. Id be so angry at not only him but myself
This movie really upset the disabled community. It's apparently very insensitive, as it really sent the wrong message in the end ☹️
Bit egotistical of the disabled community to even think the movie was trying to send a message, it was just a movie. If able-bodied people complained about every movie we disagreed with there would be no movies.
@@krashd your comment is unnecessarily rude. And there aren’t any movies where able-bodied people say they would rather die than live as able-bodied and that such people are better off dead, so who are you to say it’s egotistical of the disabled community to disagree with the message
So what?
@@ericajensen5452womp womp
@@krashdthe thing is though, every portrayal of a disabled person in the media adds to the expectations disabled people have to live up to while also making able-bodied people think worse of us without even getting to know us. If your only experience with autism was a crazy person peeing on your neighbor's trampoline and threatening to kill the family weekly, (a true experience I had with a foster sister) you're going to have ideas about autism in your head that you hold onto with every other autistic person you meet.
The name of the movie is,,
( Me before you) ,, a wonderful film 📽️ ,, ♥️♥️♥️
It’s bad enough if the relationship had just ended. But the fact that his BEST FRIEND was willing to get with his ex that left him after he became paralyzed is absolutely disgusting. His best friend should have been “supporting” him… not his ex girlfriend… that dude was waiting for the chance to swoop in.
It sounds awful, but I kind of get her leaving him. Not best friend and ex gf together, but I get her leaving him. He had it much, much worse, but what was she supposed to do, when he wasn't even trying to communicate, stonewalling all the time, being angry and maybe even being cynical with her all the time...that truly kills the love. At one point, you have to protect yourself. The dating his bestie was of course awful tho.
I have a friend, to me she’s a dear person just bc she’s a lovely human being, but I was more on the out fringes of the friend group and going thru a lot as well, so I didn’t get the chance to get close to her as much as I wanted to while I could. But her husband died shortly before her baby was born. We were pregnant at the same time. And I rmbr her saying that I’d be surprised if u knew how many of her husbands friends hit her up hitting on her not even a WEEK after he died. Which was a fckn shame bc her husband was kinda legendary and well LOVED. Like his funeral had a turnout bigger than I’ve seen in a WHILE. It made me wonder how many of those ppl were the ones who hit her up. And how deceitful some ppl can truly be. Waiting on ur death or break up or whatever is convenient to make a move on what u had. Crazy af. This made me think of that.
@@angeloliver7613Yes, he did that to push her away so she could move on guilt free and she didn't see it. Made it worse when she went with his best friend...worse for his best friend than her though he isn't sore with her but the best bud pffff no coming back from that one sorry
It's not other people's jobs to force ppl to accept love or support. He pushed her away because he was throwing himself a pity party and convincing himself he was being noble. He was the victim with the accident, but she's right that you can't help people that don't want to get better. He wanted to stay angry and he wanted her to go away, because he was passively suicidal and making it everyone's probablem. He had every right to feel all of those things, but absolutely no right to force it on everyone who tried to be there for him.
Yes she probably should have not gotten romantic with his best friend, but much like he was severing the cord of their relationship when he pushed her away, maybe that was her way of moving on. They both were emotionally reacting and were dealing with an impossible situation. And either way, she obviously wasn't the one for him. Honestly i get why he couldn't look at her without thinking of all they could no longer do. With someone knew, you're not losing a relationship with someone who you used to be able to do things with you can't anymore. It's easier to start over completely for a lot of people than to retool that you have, grieving what was while adjusting to what now is.
You wanna know something. In cases like this I honestly find it hard to hate people. Your partner suddenly becomes disabled and needing you for everything can happen and most people don’t think it will, you never expect better or for worse actually being the worst case scenario. There’s so much pain and loneliness and emptiness that comes with an accident.I could see how the ex girlfriend started feeling lonely. I could see how it could happen. Now of course that’s not ok at all you have made a commitment to your partner that you gotta see through but I understand how people end up divorced after major illnesses. Not everybody is able to be a patient caretaker. It’s just sad that it’s more likely to be women who get left behind when they are ill. Not saying a man getting left behind isn’t sad I just think that shows we need to do some soul searching on why that is.
Neville speaks so smoothly as a grown up. ❤😊
Longbottom?
@@amruthar1221 one and only ☺️
Oh my, Neville Longbottom.👍🏻
SHE IS THE SWEETEST, CUTEST THING!!! I ABSOLUTELY LOVE HER!!! 😍
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damn... you made me watch this movie again.. I shed a river of tears.. this movie is emotional damage :/
Movie Title: Me Before You
since so many folks are asking :)
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This movie made me cry. It was beautiful.
What is this movie?
@@marijoalvis1980Me before You.
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Yes name please 😊
@@mfanny71 Me before you
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This movie is severely underrated.
Emelia is incredible in it.
I loved this movie. I'm still sad about how it ended though...
I remember watching this in the theatre w/my then gf. This is a beautiful movie!
Hey girl, you are so accurate with my situation. The masc isn’t putting up with her, he loves me!❤
I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE this movie soooo much!! I cried like a baby during it and after it was over. I just had to watch it again. Now I own the dvd so I can watch it anytime I want. It is definitely number 1 on my top 10 movies list!! ❤
She is lovely ❤❤❤
Thanks to RUclips 's constant recommendations, I ordered the DVD. I am very happy. Please let me tell one more story: I am a fan of PEAKY BLINDERS and I own the series on DVD. I had to stop watching it because I couldn't take the character of MOSLEY.....now I found out Sam Claflin played MOSLEY. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
If I could make you happy,it would be my honor ❤
This movie broke my heart, but I loved it.
She is one of the most beautiful people on this earth has one handsome man. This is gonna be a good movie to watch.
The eyebrows were finally released 😂❤ I love her so much
Movie or show name please
This movie will never not have me in a chokehold and in tears every rewatch 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹
She is gorgeous
Love it! Fantastic accent too.
What's the name of this movie? I need it! ❤
Me Before You
It's the loveliest movie I've ever seen 😊you can learn a lot through Louisa....
Title of the movie please
The title is "me before you"
@@AntoniaCrivillesRojo thanks Antonia
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@AntoniaCrivillesRojo it's not on Netflix and the one they show on RUclips is not it!!
I have learned so many things from the movie…. ❤ I’m in love with this movie ❤
Me before you ❤
What is the freakin movie
This film was brilliant.
I still have never seen the movie. And not that I think it won’t do it justice but this book WRECKED ME 😅
What's the movie name?
Me Before You
Oh my god I just realized that the actress that plays the ex girlfriend here also played Princess Margareth in the Crown. So beautiful.
Vanessa Kirby, she's also been in the last two Mission Impossible movies.
And now she’s playing the new invisible woman in the MCU fantastic four
Okay, never seen this movie but I’m seeing the shorts everywhere, and before anyone lynches me, I don’t know its name and I don’t know how to find it!! I want the name!! It looks so cute!!!
"Strong people" usually have their meltdowns behind closed doors...
What?
I believe that too
A strong person can have their meltdowns in public as well sometimes
Define “strong”? 🙏🏼When most handicaps and chronic illnesses aren’t visible like a wheelchair, but they are judged, ridiculed & bullied. Who knows what amount of pain, what trauma, what fatigue, or neurological symptoms they quietly deal with. It’s not like they are required to share that information with others, there are usually only few to really confide in🙏🏼🌺
@@aaloha2902ankylosing spondilitis. I have pain every single day but i look "normal" until Im in a Crisis and start limping.
Omg Dany is back at it again. I love her
Name of movie????
Me before you
This is a wonderful movie ❤
It's the first movie I ever saw Amelia Clarke act in. She is just fantastic, and she's the Mother of Dragons!
She is so pretty
How did you not laugh hysterically at the chanting in the woods scene lol
She's lovely!!!
People always say they would stay with the person their with if something happened to them thinking oh so what they'll still be the same person just without the use of legs or arms or both not realizing the mental toll it will take as well on the person affected and then being taken by surprise as if it's them not being fair " oh you're too overwhelmed with them pushing you away and being distant for a few months so you need to find someone to give you attention now" that means that person was never that important and you weren't willing to wait for them to come to terms with in their own minds being useless from now on and not being able to do anything for themselves let alone anyone else and the ones they care about if someone isn't willing to wait at least an adjustment period of a year to get used to how things are now for that person than they don't have any real idea of what is happening
Name of the movie
Me before you
“ would you like a cup of tea? “ typically considered the English panacea for all ailments.
Even though said by the Queen of Dragons, doesn’t quite work on cervical paralysis……
What is the name of the movie?
Me before you
I did not expect to see Neville Longbottom today, but here I am
This is one of those things where the movie was better than the book. I hated the main character from the book.
How were they different?
I'm like this is familiar did I read a book about this years ago????? So yes I did thank you.
how was the mc different in the book?
I didn't like the book so I never watched the movie. How is she different in the movie? I'm curious.
Fine, I'll watch 'me without you' again 😭😭❤️
Love Emilia she's beautiful ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🇺🇲
Skorpion dziekuje..obecnie jako Wolontariusz mieszkam na Vulkanie....oj bucha tu bucha wspaniała gorąca woda.😊
Pieknego dnia..❤
Movie name?
Me Before You
This was a great book
Title please?
Me Before You
Oh how much I cried after watching this movie it was really embarrassing ❤. And this short reminds me of that .
Movie name plz
Me before you
Yeah I'm pretty sure I cried at the end of this movie, and I'd probably cry more nowadays.
I have issues with my lower lumbar, i am not paralyzed but when I stand up i fall to my knees, which have been broken, so I crawl until I am completely exhausted and just lay in the floor for hour's until I think I might be able to crawl again, which doesn't last very long.
i’m sorry for your pain😔
You can tell they're English without hearing them speak.
This movie made me love her. THEN I watch GoT after it ended.
Movie: ME BEFORE YOU
Thanks 🙏🏼
Oh this film broke my heart 💔
How can she be so adorably cute 😍 🥰😘
I will push your Wheelchair Greg!❤
She is a sunshine, isn't she?
"oh Will, please" -> what she means is "oh Will please, just give me what i want i dont care about your feelings you are not human any longer since your accident"
What's the song?
What is the movie called
Me Before You
Absolutely loved this movie, hated the ending. I had no idea it had anything to do with assisted death. It was a shocking and heartbreaking experience. And no, I don’t agree with the message.
Maybe try the book? He doesn't take that route in it. 👍👍👍
What movie is this? I have to see it.
Me Before You
Every outfit was so good.
Great movie but terribly sad😢
Not gonna lie I was thinking of another cervix 😂🙈
What show is this? I'm so intrigued.
I just loved this movie
Me before you ❤
Me before you by the brilliant writer JoJo Moyes.
Get the audio book. It's absolutely brilliant.
What movie?
Me before you
That was an excellent movie.
The Movie is : Me before You