Is social media making us unhappy?

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  • Опубликовано: 1 окт 2024
  • Ever looked at someone else’s life on social media and thought that you do anything to have that life? Yeah us too. Comparing yourself to social media is something that we all do from time to time, but it can actually have a pretty negative impact on your mental wellbeing.
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Комментарии • 118

  • @DitchtheLabelORG
    @DitchtheLabelORG  4 года назад +17

    Need help with your social media habits? Check out these useful guides and quizzes:
    ⭐www.ditchthelabel.org/do-you-compare-and-despair-quiz/
    ⭐www.ditchthelabel.org/how-to-stop-comparing-yourself-to-social-media-5-hacks/
    ⭐www.ditchthelabel.org/10-ways-mindful-youre-addicted-social-media/

  • @rupinderrajput
    @rupinderrajput 3 года назад +538

    The last part killed me 😭 that guy did so much planning

  • @firedazzerintern2260
    @firedazzerintern2260 3 года назад +210

    I feel bad for the last dude, he is so sweet! And the girl just ditch him like that

    • @Kevin-ok8dj
      @Kevin-ok8dj 2 года назад +21

      Yeah people on dating apps tend to be like that. It's sad really

    • @DanielZH
      @DanielZH 2 года назад +10

      Yes, a friend of mine had similar experience.

    • @luisx000dontfindme
      @luisx000dontfindme 2 месяца назад

      sadly nice guys finish last a perfect example 😢😢😢😢😢😢

    • @IAmPhasion
      @IAmPhasion 2 месяца назад

      Because she’s for the streets 😂

  • @binduramayanachannel1693
    @binduramayanachannel1693 3 года назад +61

    That's why I quit Instagram , facebook........ Etc.... And start enjoying real life.... Real friends... Family..... And beautiful world😗

  • @WorldEater-XII
    @WorldEater-XII 3 года назад +91

    The fact that you allready compare to others without social media, is sad enough. Be happy with what you got in the first place, and work your way up. Your heart is not beating for others you know. 😉

    • @mfar7400
      @mfar7400 2 года назад +2

      Love this ❤️

  • @varshinisekhar4857
    @varshinisekhar4857 3 года назад +146

    This is the reason why I stopped using social media and it was a better decision in my life ❤️

    • @cringeaddict8519
      @cringeaddict8519 2 года назад +2

      RUclips is a social media

    • @0fficialselena__90
      @0fficialselena__90 2 года назад +23

      @@cringeaddict8519 RUclips is actually beneficial and more healthy to use than actual media such as Instagram, Twitter,Facebook,etc

    • @shadowsmith1386
      @shadowsmith1386 2 года назад +7

      @@0fficialselena__90 facts

    • @DanielZH
      @DanielZH 2 года назад +1

      @@cringeaddict8519 Yes, but it's not like them, there are real and unreal, but others, just unreal IMO.

    • @Melissa-dp3bs
      @Melissa-dp3bs Год назад +1

      Deep respect for you that you stopped social media!!🤩🙏🏽

  • @antocarola22
    @antocarola22 3 года назад +29

    Instagram gave me anxiety and depression.

    • @BriaBarrows
      @BriaBarrows 3 года назад +6

      I feel you :(

    • @antocarola22
      @antocarola22 2 года назад +1

      @@BriaBarrows Thank you! Now I feel much better ♥️✨

  • @rina12322
    @rina12322 Год назад +15

    The last guy was so genuine that part killed me the girl just ditched him just like that ..

  • @goduxunike
    @goduxunike 4 года назад +194

    I decided to consciously keep in touch with my friends during social distancing (through text, phone calls or facetime) and I came to realise how superficial Instagram can be. Yeah, I know what's up in people's lives but how many of them would reach out to me personally and vice versa?

    • @katybennett1248
      @katybennett1248 2 года назад +8

      So true! You think they are friends and really close with you but as soon as it’s not forced face to face to try look nice they don’t text you first

    • @Jdjwjdjzbsjwbb
      @Jdjwjdjzbsjwbb 2 года назад +1

      True af

    • @divine1562
      @divine1562 Год назад +4

      So true! People can like your pictures etc..but how many truly care to reach out !

  • @Akc0
    @Akc0 3 года назад +49

    Social media is curse for pure hearts we didn't even realize how many hearts are broked everyday due to relationship disputes people really into materials and looks God 💔

    • @قناةلنشرالخير-ص3ل
      @قناةلنشرالخير-ص3ل 2 года назад +5

      And those pictures are fake, they are filtered and photoshopped, even videos have filters. Men and women shouldn’t believe everything they see on social media. Love your husband/wife and be happy . None is perfect

    • @Akc0
      @Akc0 2 года назад +1

      @@قناةلنشرالخير-ص3ل yes only 2% understand this.

    • @divine1562
      @divine1562 Год назад +2

      True!

  • @imsamiurrahman
    @imsamiurrahman 3 года назад +218

    I'm in my 20s now and I never compare myself with others

  • @napapatekaunnop9886
    @napapatekaunnop9886 3 года назад +41

    This video make me feel to stop comparing myself on social media. Maybe we will get happier, if we do not compare ourself to others.

    • @IAmPhasion
      @IAmPhasion 2 месяца назад

      Comparison is a theif of joy

  • @workforlife40
    @workforlife40 2 года назад +14

    I ever never use insta . I don't wanna know about others personal life. If we on insta our mind defenetly compare with anyone's life it's nature. Only think about our life . self care isn't selfish. Life is beautiful travel with your goals. You don't wanna know people about what you're doing.
    💜

    • @قناةلنشرالخير-ص3ل
      @قناةلنشرالخير-ص3ل 2 года назад +1

      I have seen stories on crime shows of people who showed a perfect life on social media, videos and pictures of the two loving each other and pictures of their kids and their homes and cars and vacations etc.. then a crime happens and the police an people realized that it was a broken home with a lot of problems, husband ended up killing his wife and children like the Watts family, or wife ended up killing her husband because she was with another man or a son/daughter kills his parents... it’s insane . After everything I saw online and learned in the past few years , I realized that social media is very fake and a lot of people are depressed but they portray this happy life. Many people are miserable. Never compare your lives to anybody, be happy, disconnect from social media and love yourselves, work on yourselves and improve your lives, befriend people who share the same interests as you do, have friends that don’t go on social media. Be happy and get to know God, He created you for a purpose, you are beautiful/handsome don’t compare yourselves to others.

  • @bevvanderheyde933
    @bevvanderheyde933 3 года назад +12

    I deleted most of my accounts on social media. Still on RUclips. 🦋😜

    • @nothinginourhands3326
      @nothinginourhands3326 3 года назад +2

      I am 20 year old. I deleted my all account . What's app also . I only use youtube

  • @Arphys13
    @Arphys13 4 года назад +25

    This how people in my country Indonesia doing everyday

    • @MrLadytorn
      @MrLadytorn 3 года назад +8

      In almost every country

  • @nothinginourhands3326
    @nothinginourhands3326 3 года назад +6

    I am the one who only use youtube. As well as I deleted my whatsapp account also

  • @suleymanbayram1639
    @suleymanbayram1639 3 года назад +6

    1:15 this guys look like me.Because i'm living hard time for the economically and 2 week ago i watced a tv series and there have a one girl and one boy and i liked them.And i was resarched on google and instagram.İ founded they instagram account and i saw them.They are looking so happy and they have a alot of money and i don't have anythink.3 days i didn't breath.Believe me, no people are happy. If they were happy, if "money" really brought happiness, they wouldn't spend their happy time on social media.(sorry my english.İ'm still trying to learn )

  • @RebekahParkhurst
    @RebekahParkhurst 3 года назад +19

    What if we did a blackout ? Like, everyone just decided to tune out. Maybe for a month. Maybe a year. Could we? Would we all be happier?

    • @LautaroTessi
      @LautaroTessi 3 года назад +6

      Well, what if we didn't need to? I mean, what if we could change without blacking social media out? Because what happens is not SM fault, that is just a reflection of who we are or like to show ourselves...

    • @siline7893
      @siline7893 3 года назад +3

      Mark zucc defos has to shut down instagram for a week. I really wanna see something

    • @unuseduser575
      @unuseduser575 2 года назад +1

      Don’t you remember that happened? Only RUclips worked

  • @MsKarenDavis
    @MsKarenDavis 3 года назад +7

    What if you're comparing yourself with people in real life about like a career. 😭
    I still don't know what I want to work with

  • @ambitiousgoldsmith768
    @ambitiousgoldsmith768 2 года назад +7

    I have totally stopped using social media. 😂

  • @CesarMBazanSaavedra
    @CesarMBazanSaavedra 3 года назад +10

    The funny part is that the algoritm shows you content of your own preferences.

    • @wassiemmehmood7446
      @wassiemmehmood7446 3 года назад

      Why is that funny?

    • @VeteranWarrior
      @VeteranWarrior Год назад +1

      ​@@wassiemmehmood7446if you only engage with educational or productive posts, it will always show you those kinds of posts. Depends on which type of posts you engage most.

  • @العقابالمصري-ك2ن
    @العقابالمصري-ك2ن 3 года назад +5

    👁️💻you're being watched You are being monitored by a machine⚙️
    Watching you every second, every move, every day
    I finally know where (⚙️the machine🤖) is, it's social media

  • @mansi4720
    @mansi4720 2 года назад +3

    Thank god i quit instagram, its overuse makes you soo toxic.

  • @manggambar7205
    @manggambar7205 3 года назад +10

    that dude in 01:33 have my respect

  • @frehyagoyden2194
    @frehyagoyden2194 3 года назад +5

    Not Only Makes Us AWKWARD & CRUNKY With Our Social Interactions...But Totally Ruins Our SOCIAL RELATIONSHIPS With Our FAMILY, FRIENDS, OUR KIDS & Even Our Own Pets!☠😈😎

  • @SRNR_PODCAST.
    @SRNR_PODCAST. 3 года назад +6

    No one likes this because you are telling the truth,it is hard to accept.

  • @shantasirwary3997
    @shantasirwary3997 3 года назад +4

    Don’t compare yourself to others. If you do so you are insulting yourself..

  • @preetikumari5887
    @preetikumari5887 3 года назад +6

    It's kindda depressing..🙄🙄

  • @maureendonnelly3873
    @maureendonnelly3873 2 года назад +3

    Its hard enought comparing my 50 self with my younger 20 self lol. Why would I do it against another. Lol

  • @nicky5987
    @nicky5987 2 года назад +2

    This is why I don’t have social media

  • @rina12322
    @rina12322 Год назад +1

    Instagram gives me anxiety depression thats the reason i just quit instagram..

  • @Mam_Rehana
    @Mam_Rehana 4 года назад +9

    You are doing good job 👍👍👌👌👌👌

  • @littlekiwi8964
    @littlekiwi8964 3 года назад +4

    Okay... I thought I'm the only one comparing

  • @gillianwills9049
    @gillianwills9049 4 года назад +7

    Way to go Samantha Renke! Love you girl! xXx 😁😎🖤🖤🖤🖤

  • @lydiademarek
    @lydiademarek 3 года назад +3

    0:40 appreciate the names of the supplements

  • @rohinisingh9682
    @rohinisingh9682 3 года назад +4

    Be you ! Love yourself

  • @29stmarksrd
    @29stmarksrd 2 года назад +21

    I know I’m probably showing my age (58 yo), but there was a time when kids from the next town dressed differently than I did. It all ended with MTV.
    Ditch the screen. Ditch the label. Stop comparing…..and be free to live.

    • @colors6692
      @colors6692 2 года назад +2

      True, everything is happening at the same time everywhere now!

    • @Miku-qh7tb
      @Miku-qh7tb 2 года назад +1

      What MTV means?

  • @velk0mmen
    @velk0mmen Год назад

    My teacher’s task is to comment few messages on the videos so here it is

  • @04279
    @04279 4 года назад +5

    It's so true....

  • @zi3785
    @zi3785 3 года назад +3

    Fiquei com dó do rapaz do pequinique.😂😂😂😅

  • @KPxr
    @KPxr 2 года назад +1

    I've deleted insta

  • @BriaBarrows
    @BriaBarrows 3 года назад +2

    So sad

  • @colleenodriscoll8914
    @colleenodriscoll8914 Год назад +1

    I only use social media to look at fanart and comics, and I only post every once in a blue moon for really special moments.

  • @uteen.pun.magarni
    @uteen.pun.magarni 3 года назад +1

    Not internet bullying.😱😱😱😱😱🚮👙🌠

  • @goreysins
    @goreysins 3 года назад +2

    It messed me up badly

  • @velk0mmen
    @velk0mmen Год назад

    Bro likes photoshopped dogs more than real ones

  • @davidwayne4544
    @davidwayne4544 2 года назад +1

    Reality of present social media

  • @ZAMislive
    @ZAMislive 3 года назад +2

    What a content....

  • @frehyagoyden2194
    @frehyagoyden2194 3 года назад

    JSUT LIKE THE *SIMS GAME & THE *WORLD OF WARCRAFT ON LINE! "Be SomeBody Else That You Wanna Be Online!" ...And Not "WHO YOU REALLY ARE" In Reality!!! *EMO-ADDICTION ON LINE Can Be Really Extremely Painful & Dangerous!!! ☠😁😈😎

  • @Xcelerator1337
    @Xcelerator1337 4 года назад +2

    Nice vid and message!

  • @adoreTariq
    @adoreTariq 4 года назад +1

    01:11 ,was that Holly Hagan from Geordie shore UK??

  • @ronitbhandari2928
    @ronitbhandari2928 2 года назад

    Irony is that, i've got instagram ad before starts the video...

  • @VimalKumarAnimelover
    @VimalKumarAnimelover 2 месяца назад

    Yes it is...

  • @ashleighclayton3097
    @ashleighclayton3097 3 года назад

    Holly?

  • @vispere
    @vispere 4 года назад

    What? This was 3 weeks ago?

  • @user-sw7pi8cy5c
    @user-sw7pi8cy5c 3 года назад +2

    Ohh noo1:40
    How could she leave him
    He's sooo cute😭

  • @kekusfikus9344
    @kekusfikus9344 4 года назад +3

    Add subtitles please

  • @frehyagoyden2194
    @frehyagoyden2194 3 года назад

    By The Way....Really Like That Cute Lil Dwarf Lady....I Know A Perfect Match For Her....He Is From The Goblin Kingdom!😈😎

  • @قناةلنشرالخير-ص3ل
    @قناةلنشرالخير-ص3ل 2 года назад +1

    Ask yourselves: What am I gaining from being on social media? You are wasting a lot of time, you are comparing yourselves to others, you are getting depressed, it’s negatively affecting your relationship with others etc .... QUIT social media and work on yourselves, spend that time to exercise, eat healthy, spend more time with your family, use that time to do something to generate an income or something that will benefit you and make you happy. Be happy. Take care of your mental health and work on your spirituality too. To be happy you should work on the physical, mental and spiritual. Get to know your creator and change your friends if they are dragging you down and making you feel bad, look for those who will encourage you and motivate you, those who will help you move forward. Get rid of toxic friends,of toxic relationships, of toxic environment such as changing jobs if your work environment is toxic etc etc . Be happy. Life is too short and it’s scary how we can leave this world in a blink of an eye, so many people today are dying today at a young age (heart attacks, cardiac arrests, shootings, car accidents etc ), you don’t know when your time is up, are you going to waste it on comparing yourselves to strangers on social media? A lot of what is posted on Facebook and Instagram is fake, too much photoshopping, too many filters used , too many lies etc. None is perfect. Your lives are probably much better than theirs. Fix your relationship with God, God is not Jesus and Jesus is not God, Jesus is not the son of God, Jesus was a prophet and angel Gabriel is the Holy Spirit. Read chapter 19 in the Quran about Jesus. Quit social media and Be happy.

  • @ruchashinde9735
    @ruchashinde9735 3 года назад

    Still watching on social media youtube

  • @lorenzovertemati4104
    @lorenzovertemati4104 2 года назад

    reddit is the best social 👌