So true! When he hovered me 4 months ago showing up unexpectedly, I just sat there and remained calm. He raised his voice as I asked questions about what had happened. He didn’t get the reaction he wanted, so as soon as he walked out, he smeared me with the person who picked him up. She told me what he said and that she knew it was a lie. Unfortunately for him, I have a good reputation here in the town where I live. He’s living a lie 3 hours away and now doesn’t want to move here. He knows I’m standing in my truth.
@@Jessica-iq6kj It takes time to heal so allow yourself that grace. I do care about my ex still…I just have to do it from a distance. I know we can never be together or even friends, and I accept that. I’m trying to support his adult kids who I was close to as he is devaluing them now for the new woman and her small children.
This is so true. My nex thought he was leading a project at work to help women with inequalities they face in the workplace BUT he hated me trying to assert myself, ask him to do his fair share with house and kids, and when I started educating myself, and talked to him about gaslighting etc he'd ask what "feminist crap have you been reading today" 😳🙄
His hypocrisy never seized to amaze me - They live a hypocritical stance in ALL aspects of their lives - Absolutely everything!! Just so stunning & frkn unbelievable!! >:/
Ben, I see that now you are doing everything in your power to protect THIS image of a NEW YOU & that is a new daily & very worthy struggle to turn into the man that you really want to be.. . This is WHO you are now!!💫💕 Thank you for sharing, educating & supporting us!!🙏💫
Grey rock continues. Yesterday he zipped in the drive and put a wife's prayer, hand written in the door. It just made me angry. He is pushing. I have yet to put order of protection on him. Monday looks like the day for it. Edit. This will be my reaction.
I think they use abuse as an excuse. To me it's demonic what they do. Like a generational curse. He didn't go through the abuse I did and he is self destructing. I think it's a little of both. His mom didn't want him and she let him know. I was given away at birth and then left for the parents to raise. A narcissist family. It's a shame, it happens a lot. I gave my life to Jesus and if it weren't for my Heavenly Father, I would have committed suicide by now. Tried to when younger and failed. God bless.
Say you don’t have the money for a 1:1 but are married to someone exactly like this and would love (&needs) your help & guidance?? We are currently separated (again) but this is new & uncharted territory for me. She’s even been trying to control & manipulate from afar, trying to reel me back in with a medical scare but hasn’t “cared” to give an update & I guarantee she’ll say that I should or could have asked.🙄 her exact words were “I wasn’t a better spouse but I want to be a better ex” (meaning providing or helping me🙄) yet has NOT taken any steps or actions most ppl would when divorcing. I think she’s thinking I’m going to go back like in the past. But I want CHANGE. I need help. Help to stay strong….I’m open to suggestions rn 😒
Consume all of the long videos, especially on boundaries, and trauma bonds. Take notes and script out how you can get to the truth and change your story
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Calm cool and collected will drive them crazy totally out of their mind 👍
So true! When he hovered me 4 months ago showing up unexpectedly, I just sat there and remained calm. He raised his voice as I asked questions about what had happened. He didn’t get the reaction he wanted, so as soon as he walked out, he smeared me with the person who picked him up. She told me what he said and that she knew it was a lie. Unfortunately for him, I have a good reputation here in the town where I live. He’s living a lie 3 hours away and now doesn’t want to move here. He knows I’m standing in my truth.
Narcissists want you upset , wants you hurting , loves to see your disappointment, ...Grey rock all the way , good luck all , warm hugs
I need to get to that point... I hate when I cry in front of him. But how do I stop caring??
@@Jessica-iq6kj It takes time to heal so allow yourself that grace. I do care about my ex still…I just have to do it from a distance. I know we can never be together or even friends, and I accept that. I’m trying to support his adult kids who I was close to as he is devaluing them now for the new woman and her small children.
This is so true. My nex thought he was leading a project at work to help women with inequalities they face in the workplace BUT he hated me trying to assert myself, ask him to do his fair share with house and kids, and when I started educating myself, and talked to him about gaslighting etc he'd ask what "feminist crap have you been reading today" 😳🙄
His hypocrisy never seized to amaze me - They live a hypocritical stance in ALL aspects of their lives - Absolutely everything!! Just so stunning & frkn unbelievable!! >:/
Ben, I see that now you are doing everything in your power to protect THIS image of a NEW YOU & that is a new daily & very worthy struggle to turn into the man that you really want to be.. . This is WHO you are now!!💫💕 Thank you for sharing, educating & supporting us!!🙏💫
Ditto
My ex was telling me often PLEASE, DONT THINK BAD OF ME. IM NOT SO BAD... IM NOT SUCH A BAD GUY, IM NOT AS BAD AS YOU THINK I AM.........
🤣😂🤣😂🤣OOOoh yes you are :)))))
The more publicity about narcissism, the better. It’s a serious mental illness that people should know more about.
True. So spot in, it's almost scary.
He protected his image by pretending I didn't exist. 🍒
GREAT SHOW
Covert passive aggressive they do things so different it's horrible xx
Very helpful information.. thank you 😊
Glad it was helpful!
Grey rock continues. Yesterday he zipped in the drive and put a wife's prayer, hand written in the door. It just made me angry. He is pushing. I have yet to put order of protection on him. Monday looks like the day for it. Edit. This will be my reaction.
Ben is this title supposed to be for this video?
This video knocked me completely off base I think this is truly why my narcissist hung himself in front of me and died
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Is this something they’re born with or is this something they become becuz of abuse ?
I think they use abuse as an excuse. To me it's demonic what they do. Like a generational curse. He didn't go through the abuse I did and he is self destructing. I think it's a little of both. His mom didn't want him and she let him know. I was given away at birth and then left for the parents to raise. A narcissist family. It's a shame, it happens a lot. I gave my life to Jesus and if it weren't for my Heavenly Father, I would have committed suicide by now. Tried to when younger and failed. God bless.
Say you don’t have the money for a 1:1 but are married to someone exactly like this and would love (&needs) your help & guidance?? We are currently separated (again) but this is new & uncharted territory for me. She’s even been trying to control & manipulate from afar, trying to reel me back in with a medical scare but hasn’t “cared” to give an update & I guarantee she’ll say that I should or could have asked.🙄 her exact words were “I wasn’t a better spouse but I want to be a better ex” (meaning providing or helping me🙄) yet has NOT taken any steps or actions most ppl would when divorcing. I think she’s thinking I’m going to go back like in the past. But I want CHANGE. I need help. Help to stay strong….I’m open to suggestions rn 😒
Consume all of the long videos, especially on boundaries, and trauma bonds. Take notes and script out how you can get to the truth and change your story
Self loathing. So compensatory measures are used to look totally secure and not needing anyone.
Do people that have narcissistic understand other people have same disorder
Sometimes
Sorry what book were you reading from? Be great if you could reference in the videos as I don't always catch it during you talking
That was When Narcissism Comes to Church
@@RawMotivations thank you
Wowww…yes!!!