This is actually one of the most realistic videos I have seen about confidence. Everyone is like "Oh just be yourself." But its really hard to be yourself in a world in which everyone is comparing to each other. What I really understood from this is that instead of comparing yourself to other people, following celebrities and seeing their perfect lives, we must work on each day being a better version of ourselves.
I just recently found your channel and it’s already helped with so much, especially fashion! I just can’t get enough and I love putting pieces in my closet together now ☺️
Oh my goodness this makes me so happy to hear!! :D Thank you so much for watching my videos and I'm so glad I can help you out babes!! 💖💖💖let me know if you ever have any video requests!! x
Jessica Neistadt yay thank you!! I noticed you put Psalm 46:5 in your info section, would you mind talking about God and tips for living close to Him with the daily challenges we face?? Thank you ❤️
I've been having the worst week confidence-wise and then I stumbled upon your channel through one of your other videos and this is perfect, thank you so much for being such a positive influence girl!
definitely just subscribed! 💕 i love that you’re not like “just be positive! you can do it!!!” and talk about real things you and other people have actually experienced!
Loves this video. I was the same with social media. I would see others doing things in their stories or posting pictures that made me feel negative about myself. Like i wasnt doing enough and i started to feel like a loser. I unfollowed a lot of pages. I even unfollowed the news apps. I feel so much happier now and not comparing myself to others. I love it.
I struggled about HOW exactly this whole "love yourself" thing works, like where to start, how to love yourself when you feel like your never enough, ... And then I just started to give it a try. When there is a bad though about myself, I say to myself as a good friend "no, it's not like that". And I compliment myself when I look in the mirror or when I did something good. For me, it works very well and I feel a lot better now.
The positivity is so inspiring!! I'm definitely not the most confident person, but my tip for self confidence is to remember that it's not a linear journey. There will be ups and downs, so that shouldn't stop you from feeling like you're getting somewhere as long as you keep going!
This video is so amaaaaziinngg, sometimes we just need some advice to see that we our so unique and we are so powerful. Such a great video. Sorry for the bad english, im a french love you Jessica so much from Africa ❤️ Super video
Welcome to my channel :) thank you so much for watching- I'm so glad you're loving the girl boss series 💗 let me know if there's every any specific topic you'd want me to cover!!
Okay a HUGE confidence tip that's helped me and Jess kind of already said something similar: look into the mirror and look at the one thing that you always hated the most about yourself. That one biggest insecurity. Now smile at your reflection and tell yourself (out loud!!) "It's beautiful. It makes me look so cute! It's my favourite part of my body." It's helped me to stop hating things about my appearence ❤
I would say that I needed this confidence boost now, but I think we need to hear this all the time, it’s so easy to forget to be confident in this society. Also yessss Jessica, do a decorate with me soon! I follow you on Pinterest and I love your home decor ideas!
Wow amazing video !!!!! Truly touched and grateful for this video !!!!❤️❤️❤️Thank you so much for these tips that I know truly work 😍😍😍😍 Your are amazing 😘😘
You know, to be quite honest, Earlier today, I was thinking, "why am I not good enough.?" I decided to fold my clothes and thought, Maybe I could vent a bit and I got on RUclips to see this video on my recommended and I clicked it and I realized I am the type of person to say sorry for things that aren't my fault and if I bump a chair, like the example you said Jessica, I say "sorry". and I am not the person to say no. I always try to make people like me and sometimes I get stressed over it and there have been times when I get anxiety and get really depressed. But I have come to realize, there are good people like you, who care about people like me.... so I would really like to say thank you, Jessica.!! It means a lot to me that there are people like you who care about others.!! God bless and be safe.!
Omg thank you so much for this video, these past few weeks have been really difficult for me to stay positive for myself and others. All in all this video honestly gave me insight to new ideas and plan to improve and become the best version of myself. I really admire you and your channel for its authenticity :’) Happy to hear you excited over your new apartment and office xD Needed to hear this topic being talked about, gave me reinsurance that I’m not alone, thank you and llysm! ☺️🙏🏼❤️
Thanks for inspiring us jessica! First time I watched your vid I know there something very special in you! You bring so much positive vibes for us, your viewers! Proud filipina here watching from Montreal. Keep rockin' 👌☺️
Such powerful content! 💖 thank you for putting this video together, it was such a great positive boost 😘😘😘 I am a nurse 👩⚕️ and often work within the mental health field. Can I add a darker side to having a very real and constant feeling of "lack of confidence", this sometimes can also mean that you are in one of these abusive relationships: a controlling partner, a deaming job, a dysfunction family, a misogynistic church, a bully-culture school or any type of sexual abuse situation. Often, these types of dark places will break down your confidence on PURPOSE, so they can better control you and use you. If you are seriously feeling hopeless or helpless, try to look at these situations. Sometimes you will need to walk into a police station or a doctor office and tell someone what is really going on in your head and life to get help and to get out. 😘😘😘
i feel thankful for watching this video :) it makes me feel better and confident. thank you so muchh. im happy for you having your own office. you should make a video for introducing your room. that would be so great! i will be looking forward for your next video XD
How do you know when you’ve worked hard enough? I saw a post a while back on Facebook that said your self worth isn’t determined by working yourself to the brink of a break down. But then what is it based off of? And how do you know you’ve worked hard enough if you’re not exhausted?
OMAHGHADDDD🙊 I am a new subscriber and im like "she looks superrr familiarrr" then i like watched all (almost) of your vids then i realized that you were that girl that didn't like dilissss🤣🤣 your super mature naaaa😂💕 gosh more power gurlll💕
I make a list of things I get done but then I turn around and feel like I didn't do enough or I could have done more. Hey Jessica how do I conquer this any suggestions? Very much appreciate it love your channel! Keep your vlogs coming! New subscriber from the great state of Oklahoma. You are a child compared to this old fart (me) but I'm learning so much that I can use! Thank you thank you thank you!!💙💜💚💗
This is actually one of the most realistic videos I have seen about confidence. Everyone is like "Oh just be yourself." But its really hard to be yourself in a world in which everyone is comparing to each other. What I really understood from this is that instead of comparing yourself to other people, following celebrities and seeing their perfect lives, we must work on each day being a better version of ourselves.
Yessss 👏👏
I just recently found your channel and it’s already helped with so much, especially fashion! I just can’t get enough and I love putting pieces in my closet together now ☺️
Oh my goodness this makes me so happy to hear!! :D Thank you so much for watching my videos and I'm so glad I can help you out babes!! 💖💖💖let me know if you ever have any video requests!! x
Jessica Neistadt yay thank you!! I noticed you put Psalm 46:5 in your info section, would you mind talking about God and tips for living close to Him with the daily challenges we face?? Thank you ❤️
hi babes!! do you have tips for confidence? :)
Just be yourself and know that you're perfect that way!!❤️
Hi I'm danga and I don't know how to answer your question but I just want to say that you're an amazing person and you are really beautiful
I have a list with 50 things I love/like about myself physically and qualities, and when I’m feeling down I read it over and over with a smile 💗
I've been having the worst week confidence-wise and then I stumbled upon your channel through one of your other videos and this is perfect, thank you so much for being such a positive influence girl!
definitely just subscribed! 💕 i love that you’re not like “just be positive! you can do it!!!” and talk about real things you and other people have actually experienced!
As some tips is so cliche but it's so darn true. It's for ourselves to self-improve and definitely a journey to have confidence.
You're so inspirational! I love you're message!❤️
Ahhh thank you so much!! I'm so glad you enjoyed the video babe :) ❤️
Jess you always boost my mood and self confidence!!!!
Ahh thank you!! I'm so happy I can help babe!! 💕
Exactly what I need!! What a nice way to start my week! Thanks Girl! xoxo
so happy to hear 😊 ❤️
Loves this video. I was the same with social media. I would see others doing things in their stories or posting pictures that made me feel negative about myself. Like i wasnt doing enough and i started to feel like a loser. I unfollowed a lot of pages. I even unfollowed the news apps. I feel so much happier now and not comparing myself to others. I love it.
I struggled about HOW exactly this whole "love yourself" thing works, like where to start, how to love yourself when you feel like your never enough, ... And then I just started to give it a try. When there is a bad though about myself, I say to myself as a good friend "no, it's not like that". And I compliment myself when I look in the mirror or when I did something good. For me, it works very well and I feel a lot better now.
Yaaaaaass thank you so so much for making that wish of mine come true, I requested it so often ❤️❤️
I know it took forever, but I finally got it done!! :) So happy I could finally make this video :)
Made me very happy as well Jess ☺️
The positivity is so inspiring!! I'm definitely not the most confident person, but my tip for self confidence is to remember that it's not a linear journey. There will be ups and downs, so that shouldn't stop you from feeling like you're getting somewhere as long as you keep going!
This video is so amaaaaziinngg, sometimes we just need some advice to see that we our so unique and we are so powerful. Such a great video. Sorry for the bad english, im a french love you Jessica so much from Africa ❤️
Super video
For some reason I kind of needed this video today. I just met you today, but I am really thankful already. Thanks
early squad!! this vid is gonna be so helpful jessica, thank u xxx 💖😘💋🐼
love my early squad!!! love you girly 💖
I am so grateful and lucky for finding your channel...
You do amazing work, seem very genuine and encouraging and I love that.
I just found your channel and this is my second girl boss video I’m watching. I 100% agree with everything you’re preaching!!! Thank you for these 💕💕
Welcome to my channel :) thank you so much for watching- I'm so glad you're loving the girl boss series 💗 let me know if there's every any specific topic you'd want me to cover!!
The most sincere vlogger ever!!! ❤️
Yesss Jessica you're the best!
You are such a ray of sunshine ❤️ this is so good and very helpful indeed
Okay a HUGE confidence tip that's helped me and Jess kind of already said something similar: look into the mirror and look at the one thing that you always hated the most about yourself. That one biggest insecurity. Now smile at your reflection and tell yourself (out loud!!) "It's beautiful. It makes me look so cute! It's my favourite part of my body." It's helped me to stop hating things about my appearence ❤
"I apologise to my chair" omg I laughed so hard at that 😁 love the tips ❤️😍
Loved your video so much! This is exactly what I needed to hear, be confident in myself and say positive things about myself. 💕 thank you!
You go girl!! 😊
Your like a fairy, making me feel so much at ease
I would say that I needed this confidence boost now, but I think we need to hear this all the time, it’s so easy to forget to be confident in this society. Also yessss Jessica, do a decorate with me soon! I follow you on Pinterest and I love your home decor ideas!
Your sooo pretty ur Chanel is also really good
I really needed to hear this. I feel like I need to listen to this a couple more times to reinforce a more positive mindset. Thank you so much
Wow amazing video !!!!! Truly touched and grateful for this video !!!!❤️❤️❤️Thank you so much for these tips that I know truly work 😍😍😍😍
Your are amazing 😘😘
I just found your channel, thank you so much for being inspirational 💞
You are so pretty 💖🥰 GO TO THE PHILIPPINES AGAIN!!!
I love this video!! I needed this video my self confidence every since my husband passed away on valentines..so thank you !! 💕💕
You know, to be quite honest, Earlier today, I was thinking, "why am I not good enough.?" I decided to fold my clothes and thought, Maybe I could vent a bit and I got on RUclips to see this video on my recommended and I clicked it and I realized I am the type of person to say sorry for things that aren't my fault and if I bump a chair, like the example you said Jessica, I say "sorry". and I am not the person to say no. I always try to make people like me and sometimes I get stressed over it and there have been times when I get anxiety and get really depressed. But I have come to realize, there are good people like you, who care about people like me.... so I would really like to say thank you, Jessica.!! It means a lot to me that there are people like you who care about others.!! God bless and be safe.!
Omg thank you so much for this video, these past few weeks have been really difficult for me to stay positive for myself and others. All in all this video honestly gave me insight to new ideas and plan to improve and become the best version of myself. I really admire you and your channel for its authenticity :’) Happy to hear you excited over your new apartment and office xD Needed to hear this topic being talked about, gave me reinsurance that I’m not alone, thank you and llysm! ☺️🙏🏼❤️
I LOVE THIS AND I AM HERE FOR THIS SERIES
PLS KEEP EM COMING❤️
Jessica ma’am how did you know this was the exact video I needed! Thank you for this post!
I just found your channel recently it's helped me so much especially these videos Oh i love it... Just thank you and keeep going You Rock Girl❤❤❤
this is just what i needed and will need in my struggle i call life, thank you ❤️
You are goals gurl
You are so sweet, thank you!!
Thanks for inspiring us jessica! First time I watched your vid I know there something very special in you! You bring so much positive vibes for us, your viewers! Proud filipina here watching from Montreal. Keep rockin' 👌☺️
💕💕💕 You're space looks fabulous! Also Thank You for this video!
Thank you.. I really needed this
Such powerful content! 💖 thank you for putting this video together, it was such a great positive boost 😘😘😘 I am a nurse 👩⚕️ and often work within the mental health field. Can I add a darker side to having a very real and constant feeling of "lack of confidence", this sometimes can also mean that you are in one of these abusive relationships: a controlling partner, a deaming job, a dysfunction family, a misogynistic church, a bully-culture school or any type of sexual abuse situation. Often, these types of dark places will break down your confidence on PURPOSE, so they can better control you and use you. If you are seriously feeling hopeless or helpless, try to look at these situations. Sometimes you will need to walk into a police station or a doctor office and tell someone what is really going on in your head and life to get help and to get out. 😘😘😘
Powerful information. Thanks for sharing.
Oh wow Jess I love and really appreciate this video. Great tips!!! I love it, sound message! 😊❤
This video was amazing in every way. I am going to rewatch this
Thank you for this kind of content, you really help me to boost my self esteem, thank you!
This 👏 Deserves 👏 More 👏 Attention 👏 And 👏 Love 👏
Thank you 💛
Thank you so much for this!!!!
Love this!! 😍😍😍😍
I'm so early omg. Love you! x
I love your channel so much. Go Girlboss!!
i feel thankful for watching this video :) it makes me feel better and confident. thank you so muchh. im happy for you having your own office. you should make a video for introducing your room. that would be so great! i will be looking forward for your next video XD
I really enjoyed your video ❤ thank you
There needs to be more videos on the internet like this
Very helpful, thank you Jess! 💖
Gal your videos are so motivating and amazing ❤️
I just found a channel that is not boring to watch....
This is such a nice comment, thank you :’)
This is great❤ needed this a lot. thank you 😊
Thank you soo much for these tips!! I will try some of these^^
Thank you I really needed this!
thank you❤, very much needed😔😔😔
Yes! I've been needing this! haha
Amazing video and important topic, especially for women! Found your channel randomly, but definitely subscribing ! :))
You're amazing! Thank you 🌺
Thank you for sharing this 🧡
YES.
How do you know when you’ve worked hard enough?
I saw a post a while back on Facebook that said your self worth isn’t determined by working yourself to the brink of a break down. But then what is it based off of? And how do you know you’ve worked hard enough if you’re not exhausted?
New follower, but currently loving this.
Woooow jessi it's my ferst video of u i really love ur advices am from algéria thnQ u
Love this video! Confidence is key! 😊
Ahem ahem!! Glad that found your channel 💋❤
inspiring!!! thank you so much
Love this!!!!
After watching the video
Me: Confidently Beautiful with a heart 😂 Thank you for this Ms. Jessica. I'm your BIG fan from now on ❤
Thank you 🙌🏻
Wow, This video encouraged me to follow your channel...Thank you that was useful.
OMAHGHADDDD🙊 I am a new subscriber and im like "she looks superrr familiarrr" then i like watched all (almost) of your vids then i realized that you were that girl that didn't like dilissss🤣🤣 your super mature naaaa😂💕 gosh more power gurlll💕
I had to get my writing materials for this content💯🙌🏼
wow! Thank you so much for the video! I admire you! : )))))
Awesome video!! Love it!! 😁❤️ you should do an office tour😃
This video is awesome and find it very helpful. 😊 Thank you for this
I love your videos and advice. Your awesome
I just wanna know..how many of us needed this because we're insecure or not confident enough? 🙋🏻♀️😅😅
2 pepole must have been holding the phone upsidedowen THAY MISSED THE LIKE BUTTON
HAHAHAHA i love this
i love your videos. 💖
What blush are u wearing??! It looks so good on u!!xx
thank you, luh you
I love your videos
Loved it ♥️
Thank you for the tips
I love you Jess! Filipina Pride ❤️🇵🇭
I make a list of things I get done but then I turn around and feel like I didn't do enough or I could have done more. Hey Jessica how do I conquer this any suggestions? Very much appreciate it love your channel! Keep your vlogs coming! New subscriber from the great state of Oklahoma. You are a child compared to this old fart (me) but I'm learning so much that I can use! Thank you thank you thank you!!💙💜💚💗
Cute office! Please do a tour.
Other ppl come up should not make ppl feel bad you should be happy for them but I get it
😍😍😍
Hi Jessica, how can you have confidence when your 42, have bad teeth, and your bald from Trichotillomania?
THANK Ü SO MUXH HUHU.
I forgot about that thank you instead of sorry. I have to remember that.
New Subbie😍you are awesome‼️‼️‼️