Why have a guest bedroom if you aren’t going to use it for guests? If someone else comes along, you can figure something else out. But until then, the dad stays in the guest room. There’s no need for you to be burdened for months over the possibility that someone else might need the guest room.
Give FIL the office and don't work for that entire time period. Husband can pick up the financial slack if he doesnt want OP to have an adequate place to work.
If fil doesn't want to stay in guess room then he could go home after surgery or have another family member to take care of him. Your husband and fil are the selfish ones.
FIL goes into the guest room. He's a guest.
There is a perfectly good guest room. Just don’t invite people to stay over while the father in law is there. It’s honestly that simple
There's a guest room he'll just have to go in there.
Put FIL in the guest room. That's what it's there for. If other family drops by they can drop by a local inexpensive hotel first.
NTA.Hubby is disrespectful to OP. No other guests allowed during this time while fil is the guest. No casual drop bys, ever.
Absolutely not. That guest room is for guests. He is a guest and that is where he should stay. You have to have your work space.
Tell hubby to go stay at FILs house while he is recouping.
Nta, FIL can use the guest room he's a guest, and so is other family. I'm also curious: What do u do for work?
Why have a guest bedroom if you aren’t going to use it for guests? If someone else comes along, you can figure something else out. But until then, the dad stays in the guest room. There’s no need for you to be burdened for months over the possibility that someone else might need the guest room.
Give FIL the office and don't work for that entire time period. Husband can pick up the financial slack if he doesnt want OP to have an adequate place to work.
That's literally what a guest room is for. Let that woman work in peace. Ffs.
Is this a serious question? Stop bring a freaking doormat.
If fil doesn't want to stay in guess room then he could go home after surgery or have another family member to take care of him. Your husband and fil are the selfish ones.
Nope