This is an Asian spa where each gender is sectioned off because we are completely NAKED in that area! It’s not just some quick change, you are sitting in the jacuzzi with them. AND it is very common practice to bring your kid of the same gender with you because these places are supposed to be family friendly. The people who are transgender in Asia either don’t go to the baths or go with their biological gender. That’s it.
@Mug_Tea_Coffee Wi Spa only recently changed this rule too. I went there 5 years ago with a friend and they had strict women-only floors. I only really go to these places in Japan but I cannot imagine this even being up for discussion.
@@williammiao8862 Nowhere on earth has California levels of "anti-discrimination" regulations! 😏 It's the reason that people are fleeing New York and California like the plague!
Keep the same energy for religious nut jobs who literally live in their own alternative world and force the population at large to appease their delusions. I'd say that has infinitely more impact on our everyday lives but you can keep on with your shallow criticisms of very specific groups.
CostCity thank you! 💯💯💯💯 It's not a political correctness or a discrimination thing, it's just if u got man bits you go to the boys room, same to the other side, if you got girl bits you go in the girls room.
I am a women. And if I were in the gym locker rooms showering or changing and a man walked in, I would probably do the same thing this lady did. It is NOT right that places are allowing this to happen. And by the way, you two are hilarious!
It's true ...mental people walking around... Jeffery Epstein had the job of curbing sexual deviant men and women ....now he's gone ....more stuff coming
@@gold6759 understandable, but I wouldn’t want my daughter in the restroom with a trans woman because I can’t go in there and monitor her safety, me being a man and all
@@gold6759 May be so, but as a married woman, seeing male genitalia in that setting is unsightly and the last thing I want to see dangling when I'm there to relax. If my daughter was with me, I'd have the same reaction.
I guess all the unisex bathhouses are just myths then. The issue is one of awareness and accomodations. If the spa advertised and posted it is unisex then there should be no issue. That does not appear to be the case here so I can understand why people were upset. This notion though that no woman feels safe around a naked man or even the reverse shows how repressed people are in this country. Clothing or lack there of does not indicate or dictate action/motive. Does that mean if there is a naked female stranger the assumption should be she is trying to seduce a man? Rediculous.
Alright, when women are exposing their sauseege to kids, I gotta be the bad guy, and say "no you can't do that." If that makes me transphobic, fine, I'll live with it.
Everyone seems so stuck on the potential feelings of trans ppl, when the feelings of little girls are ignored to validate a grown ass person's personal identity..that stuff isn't everyone elses business! In real life, no one other than yourself should be able to do that-you shouldn't need validation of your existence from anyone else... No disrespect to trans ppl, but we need to make considerations that are just rational and fucking responsible as the actual grown ups in the situation.
It's just another way the world ignores the feelings of women/girls to serve the men, even if they're "former" men (although it seems in this case this person is still very much male).
Exactly. Why are we giving up the safety and protection of ALL our CHILDREN and vulnerable woman, for the sake of comfort for an INCREDIBLY small percentage of sensitive, GROWN ASS ADULTS.
I'm a guy and I'm straight and I agree with her. A 100% that's not right. If you don't feel comfortable being in the men's bathroom and you feel like you want to be in a bathroom. How about they make their own bathroom instead of going to a woman's bathroom, art feeling unsafe in a man's bathroom? Because in either way, you're still a man.
@@HeliumFreak they did see it coming. They people who write these laws have advisors and they aren't idiots. They chose to infringe on individuals rights. It was on the news about how men were able to walk into woman only restrooms. We also brought up the fact that once you give them their own special rights that they have always been afforded whether they want to believe it or not you open the gate for other types of rights such as human to animal marriage rights or any other crazy push.
What she said: "I'm a woman and I know how to stand up and speak for my right as a woman, I have a right to feel comfortable without a man exposing himself, okay?!
@@zoeboy720 ok zoe BOY, if that were true the whole staff would have not understood her at all, they would ask what are you talking about? What man or trans? Nor would all those women be standing there silently, they would say the same. Nice try liar
When a sick pervert’s “feelings” are more important that the safety and emotional well being of women and young girls, it is a sign of a seriously depraved society.
Hé ain’t a woman😅. That biological not possible😅. He may dress like a woman, or indentify himself with a woman but he ain’t a woman, and he never will be. That’s just biological facts. And I don’t want my child to see a penis in a place that’s for women only. And I don’t want it myself it’s uncomfortable.. Very simple. And yes many of these transgenders have mental issues😅. They should take example of Blair White she knows she ain’t a woman biological and she owns that and speaks out against this kind of bs.
You are absolutely right. Transgender people if they were at all concerned about other people's rights, they would respect that instead of insisting on flaunting their junk and making people uncomfortable. Business people need to start drawing the line on how they conduct their business and stand up to the institutions that say this type of behavior is ok. If a person has male parts, they use the men's room and vice versa.
That dude wasn't even transgender. He's a lonely , old pervert TRANSVESTITE that gets to prey his peeping tom game on little girls.. That's exactly what he is. Isn't it interesting how we don't see FTM transmen fighting to use men's rest room? Why? Because they actually look like men.
@PlusSignClouds-LettersCPWOQU well because you would be spending money on a primarily empty bathroom as there are very few transgender people. Furthermore, what gives the transgender community authority to insist that business owners foot this extra expense? I think transgender people need to consider the feelings of most others and prioritize community needs above their own. The best solution I have seen is single stall toilets at an airport that any gender can use privately, but it sucks being a woman to have to wash your pits and fix your makeup in front of all the guys meandering about in the common area of the handwashing facilities Kind of humiliating. Women have some very personal and intimate hygiene needs.
If it's every day you're here... Please see if you're cursed and it's your fault and leave at you're earliest convenience, we thank you for your sacrifice.
@@rationalthought9979 Heya there liberal here. Myself and ALL of my liberal friends and family don't support this nonsense. Extreme ideology is just that. Extreme no matter whether your left or right.
I'm uncomfortable with the thought of some strange man who THINKS he is a woman being in my personal space, even in public. It's sick and demeaning to REAL women. This is unacceptable, what about our RIGHTS
they do it to make us "uncomfortable", they don't think they are women. The trans stuff will unravel but now 1% does not rule 52% and this nonsense has to stop. Women are raped, beaten, and murdered by men every day. T o pretend this isn't real is vicious. We need safe private places. My opinion.
They can call me a TERF all they want. I'm not allowing no man into my spa that's exclusively for women. If a transgender woman hasn't had surgery and doesn't live her life as a woman, he's a man and should go to a spa that caters to people with male anatomy.
That’s actually reminds me a phrase of Aristotle, ουδείς φίλος ω πολλοί φίλοι. Means that to the person who appears as friend to everybody, nobody is (truly) a friend to him. ie. you can’t agree with everyone, cause then you don’t really agree with anyone.
@@suzettegarcia6648 what led you to the opposite conclusion? Bad comprehension skills introduced by your government alongside grooming programs? I'll consider you a trans ally and an enemy then.
@@dma968 She's basically saying that the rights for Trans Women are in a sense, disregarding the rights of women. Like, women and only women are entitled to the women's bathroom, but Transwomen being able to enter the bathroom legally disregards their entitlement to their gendered bathroom. The purpose of separate bathrooms for genders is so each could feel comfortable and when you have transwomen coming into the bathroom with their...appendages out, then it makes them really uncomfortable and it's also dangerous, especially for young children. Hope that helps.
I’m gay but I 100% agree with the mother. While I do believe that we should respect trans rights we should protect children more. I’m sorry but when kids are involved we must chose their rights first!
True...but you should respect womens rights as well. I personally would not like being in a locker with a MAN with a penis! Especially with his penis exposed. What if he wasn't really transgendered? What if he just wanted to see naked women or expose himself for gratification or he wanted to rape or molest women or secretly record women? Women...REAL women have a right to feel safe!!!
Noticed how a lot of movements only care about themselves and their rights Most times they do not care about how actions affect other people Addition Take this video for example, people in the comments of this comment are saying we should care about the feelings of transgender people. Caring for people in itself is not bad , but is absurd to use that as a standard to make laws, because it is highly subjective. Of course in this video the transwoman feels safer in the women bathroom, ( safety is a better reason and an actual right, unlike people just shouting feelings, it is justified and is something people can actually rally behind instead of using something so simple minded and annoying as feelings) but people forget that in that scenario she is not the only one affected, especially if she has not transitioned, people do not feel safe seeing male genitalia or simply don't want to in a female spa. (Especially in a place where children are) A correct society will take both into consideration The safety of trans people in using places that do not correlate with their gender And the safety and mental state of women in this situation It is not a complex solution But it is surely an expensive one ,and I completely understand why businesses would not want to spend so much In remodelling and creating a unisex bathroom for what they believe would be used by less than a percent of the population But something that is ridiculous is trans activist talking up feelings and ignoring everyone else and everything else, they just label people as transphobic, and that is not helpful, it does not bring meaningful conversations, it just makes things worse and turns a seemingly solvable problem to a full scale nuanced situation with complex multi facet parts
You're absolutely right, I am so grateful to this woman for speaking out and standing up for what is right and for the safety for all women, young and old. Thank you and bless your heart ❤️
She is one hundred percent correct . A young girl should not be exposed to transmental guys. as a man there is no way in hell will I except a transmental man dropping his pants in front of a little girl! I don't care about your rights or discrimination about your transmental rights. Someone open a gym where this insanity is exceptable they can dance around and undress in front of each other and no one cares! No children allowed they can share their insanity.
Quick question.... If a man who is urinating in public can get arrested (yeah don't pee in public) and put on the (certain type) register for indecent exposure. How come a trans female who has male genitalia can walk around naked and expose children to the same sight and it's not indecent exposure? It's the same thing! The only difference is one feel like they should be a woman? Surely in situations where full nudity is to be even a possibility you should go into the locker room that matches your genilatia?
Trans issues really have to rely on women being forgiving and "nice" and just assumes they will be okay with it. Women's sports - forget women who may have invested a lifetime in getting good at sports, and then having to compete against biological men. Women's change rooms - I think it's the change rooms that's the issue, the bathrooms maybe less so. Safety is an issue.
No offense but you know how ridiculous that is to accommodate a small demographic of people? And how much remodeling would have to be done. Not to mention there are trans men and women so 2 bathrooms it also opens the door to make them easy targets. And they're not a the stage so you don't know how to properly accommodate them. Here's the thing their identity is their own you can expect the world to make space for every life choice for everyone. How you choose to live is your responsibility and you should not make things unnecessary difficult for others. If we all trying to be treated on our own personal criteria McDonald's should sell Alaskan king crab just because my friends and family want it.
I thought about the same thing the other day. Disabled individuals have an environment whereby they are given the platform to compete without abled bodied individuals shaming the effort and years they put into practicing and perfecting their craft. Whereby for women, "originally men" can enter that field and shame the heck out of them.
@@GuessWhatHappened1 Not to mention a waste of money to accommodate said small demographic. Imagine making a relay race at the Olympics for trans women and only 3 competitors come to compete because they are a small percentage. Money is still needed to use the venues and set up the event, not to mention that many people around the world still see trans as “weird” and wouldn’t fill up these venues to generate back the money wasted.
No matter how you identify, in these places biology is what matters, your naked and that's why you are there with other bodies that are like yours. Period
How hard is it to fucking understand that bathrooms relate to your SEX and not your GENDER. Obviously women are going to be uncomfortable if a dude comes in slinging his dick everywhere no matter what they identify as. COMMON SENSE
@@morriganbermejo4042 That may be the case. But old dudes walking around with their three feet of foreskin and wild bush with their crotch thrust forward is quite unpleasant.
I took my daughters in the men's room when they had to pee, until they were about 7. Then I stood RIGHT outside of the woman's room when they had to go (so I could hear them if they needed me. it's scary raising kids in this crazy world.
this is why i unfortunately make my daughter use the disabled toilet, the fact that a man wearing a dress can go in just is not worth the risk, do you want it to be your child that is the one? i'd much rather get abuse for using the disabled toilet, at least they cant claim discrimination, just false use.
I did the exact thing with my son up until 6, he’ll be 7 soon but he understands and is aware of what is right and wrong when In that environment, either way, I’m right outside, men staring me down when they walk out 🤣
2-year-old Teekah Lewis was taken from a bathroom at a bowling alley here in Tacoma, WA 21 years ago 😓. I don't want to even imagine what that feels like to have my baby taken like that. It's sad when we put grown adults emotions above the safety of our children. Not saying transgender people mean our children harm but it does open a door for pedophiles to pretend to be a woman for a day to get access to our children in the bathroom. You're a good father, God bless ✌️❤️.
As a trans woman this is such a hard topic, but I do agree with the woman in the video... although trans people have rights, there are also societal rules that everyone should follow... we as LGBTQ+ people need to learn the difference between taking space in society, rather than trying to overthrow society... I don’t know exactly how that went down in the restroom, but when I’m in public spaces I’m for sure protecting myself and covering up what I need in order to remain respectful... it’s not about ostracizing trans bodies, it’s about being respectful to fellow members of society.
As a man man, i know how to hold a towel so I can change without flashing my cock to the room. I find it suspicious that this person hadn't learnt that skill in life or chose not to use it.
The problem is not the trans people, but the CREEPS who will take advantage of it. Btw, that was a Korean spa that is gender segregated (males/females) but since it is in the USA, trans women are allowed in women's areas (while in Asia not unless they've had a surgery). In those Korean spas clothes aren't allowed and many mothers go with their daughters (or fathers with their sons). I doubt any trans women would go there completely naked around women, unless she is braindead completely, or like I said, a creep taking advantage of it.
@@CarlosRodriguez-jz3eu That's not what's being said. This is simply one of the consequences of it. People should have been standing up to this much earlier than they are.
@Ryan Campbell Which is absolutely crazy! I mean, how did such a small group gain so much power? It's absolutely unreal. I can tell you this much. Regular folks are getting real tired of the stuff they pull, and people like this woman are just the beginning.
@Ryan Campbell I am, too. We just need to hold out a bit longer. There are a lot of people tired of this, and it's only a matter of time before society is corrected.
There are trans who no longer have male genitals. But if they still have male genitals you can't be swinging it around, in front of children. No that's not Right
I 100% agree with Preach's statement about keeping his daughter with him to the bathroom. When my husband is deployed, my sons ALWAYS went in the women's room with me for safety until they were old enough to buddy system and I was still inside mens bathroom entrance talking to them. Same for my daughter, if I'm not present, she goes in with my husband. I trust no adult around my kids for good reason. Wish more parents took these measures, especially with their boys sending alone to the restrooms.
I too brought my son into the ladies room when he was young and lingered outside the men's room when he got older. I would not bring my child, or myself, in to a communal changing area. Imagine having a transgender girl child and people insisting she use the men's room.
Lady I live in 🇬🇧 and the Paedophiles here are on an epic scale….they can live right next door too you an the police will NOT inform the public on the road or the surrounding areas that there is a paedophile a few streets away that’s how bad it here in 🇬🇧…..my family do the same thing all children go into the women’s toilets no matter the ages or gender till they hit 17 years old…..as like I said there’s way too many Paedophiles around in 🇬🇧.from 🇯🇲🇬🇧
100% it's sad but true and no parent should be taken chances with their childrens safety. I don't have children but when my sisters children where younger whenever I had them out with me in my care if they needed to use the bathroom I took the boys to the ladies until they were old enough and even then I would walk them to the bathroom and wait outside so I could keep them as safe as possible and I'm sorry children's safety is more important than anybodies feelings.
That guy could care less for that woman and her child being in a bathroom with someone born with heavy testosterone. If he was a woman he would get it. Men can deal with issues in their bathroom. I would worry about my son.
The more immediate problem is that men who are not trans are indeed taking advantage of the current situation and walking into women’s change lockers/showers. It’s pretty obvious when someone has splotched some lipstick on, a dress, and then ogles all the naked and semi-naked women in the locker room that they aren’t there legitimately. It’s disgusting. People are going to end up being beat up or worse when this reaches a boiling point.
People voted for Democrat politicians that support and campaigned on these policies. Voting has consequences. She’s 100% correct, but the executive order preventing this was repealed via executive order.
@@bex9257 I’m kind of tired of the “Far Right - Far Left” talk. Bottom line is… they voted for politicians that openly campaigned on these policies, going back to brunch was much more important. Because of their TDS, they didn’t consider the pros and cons of said policies. Now they’re surprised that the policies have been implemented, so now they’re angry.
Most men's sports are actually Open classes, meaning anyone can enter. It's just that women have a physical penalty so not many women actually do, which is why they got their own Women's class. Transgenders should compete where they are meant to, in the Open class along with men.
It's a SPA if was it just a toilet no one would complain because women toilets have a cabinet for each of them. But in that kind of SPA, they all are naked in the same place. She is really right and u too.
As pointed out in comments by others it's an even bigger issue in this particular video. Since it's an Asian spa where both sexes are nude and seperated by sex, atleast generally speaking and not by gender.
Same, if my daughter is in the bathroom and a man wants to get in, regardless of what he identifies as, well... He is not getting in, period. Don't care about law or policy. Until my daughter is out, he's definitely not getting in.
@@alwaysdtf2197 Dumbest thing I’ve ever seen. And thought we would be past this when we saw videos of woman being beaten on subways and the men by just watched because they were afraid of being the bad guy. You aren’t and will never be.
as someone who's afraid to speak up (in general), i wish to have that woman's energy "I'M NOT SCARED TO SAY A THING THE BLOOD OF JESUS AGAINST THIS WALLING OUT LYING SPIRIT" lol, she rocks
You know, the truth is there's going to come a time where the "silent majority" people have talked about has been silent long enough. From what I've gathered, there's a lot of decent people in this country who have decided to take the position of "hey it's not my business, freedom means free no matter what I think about it" and while they don't agree with a lot of the progressive rhetoric personally, they let the woke train keep rolling because they've been guilted by the spirit of "freedom" and "liberty." But when this starts to confront them in their daily lives and they experience the negative reality of all this confusion, they're going to start pushing back loudly like this woman did.
I used to be scared. I have a cape now. And it feels good. Truth is the most powerful tool you'll ever have. Otherwise you are a victim of being bullied. It's liberating AF. They'll never win.
I work at a school in California and I was told the other day I can’t tell girls who feel like a boy for that week they need to use the unisex bathroom. It pisses me off because there are times I’ve had to check the boys bathroom and caught boys smoking and even found a switch blade in there. But now I don’t feel comfortable to go in there. All it takes is for this girl to say I did something or saw something. Their putting my life at risk. Or what if this girl makes a complaint because she saw a boys junk. Or on the flip side what if there’s weirdo adults who take advantage of the situation or boys harassing this girl because of her beliefs. It’s a loose loose all around and the state and school districts are setting us all up for problems. The safety for the majority out weights the feeling of the minority!
“You’re out of alignment”….. yikes she went in. As a woman and a natural born female I agree with this woman. Most natural women do not feel comfortable around this shit.
It doesn’t matter what you identify as male or female, the bathroom/ locker rooms should be determined by what body parts you have . If you have male body parts , use the male rooms. Simple as.
Well, considering it's pretty easy to understand, how could someone as intelligent as Aba not get it? That's not an accomplishment. An accomplishment is what he said about bathrooms and his daughter.
@@gold6759 I'm not a female, but if I lived in a world where half the population was bigger, stronger, and faster, then I can understand why they'd have their guard up against men. I mean, most dudes aren't going to be scared of a lone girl following behind them. They'd just think to themselves that this chick is weird or something, and if she's even somewhat attractive most dudes will throw any caution out the window.
I’ve been saying this for YEARS ever since this whole bathroom debate started cuz it’s not just about bathrooms. Gyms, locker rooms, spas, etc that are supposed to be gender segregated to make women feel safe and protect young girls all get grouped in. I just KNEW stuff like this was gonna start happening.
And it will continue to happen. In Canada, I could choose to have my legal documents changed to say "female" even if I don't transition. I don't even need a doctor's note or some kind of document verifying I have gender dysphoria. And it is illegal for a spa to refuse me services if I identify as female, regardless of appearance. I can sue them for "transphobia" and "not respecting my identity". Never mind that my identity shouldn't be more important than women's safety in their own spaces.
Everyone with even a brain molecule knew this was going to happen and when Republicans called this out in 2010, warning about exactly this, they were targetted as "racist homophobic troglodytes" by the media and the general public, who may have agreed with them silently but never said anything publicly. Well, here we are 10 yrs later
How many people have been caught going into the opposite gender bathroom while faking to be transgender? I hear people voicing their fears about this but haven’t heard of any persons being accused of it.
I love that the recent bathroom equality trans right movement was mostly made up of liberal women, but the obvious result is men (in a dress or a suit) who claim to be a female can go check out women and sling their dicks around the women's bathrooms, dressing rooms, and spas or bathrooms will all be unisex where women have to use the same bathroom as men (piss yellow toilet seat and all). Either way, women really screwed themselves over jumping on this movement, and like the guy in the video, men don't fear for our safety if women come into the men's toilet or if we have to share bathrooms with women, so we really have no dog in the fight beyond protecting our wives and/or daughters really.
So, what ppl don’t understand is that Wi Spa essentially has 2 spas. One for women and one for men. The changing rooms are separate. The pools and saunas are separate. That’s why ppl are naked. So, yea, the dude was an exhibitionist and it’s time for all of you to understand that the most vulnerable group here are women. Biological women.
But you guy’s are the ones that stand for their rights promptly without using your common sense whether the case is of sports or bathrooms. Now you need help. Lamo
Yep. On the nail. My heart goes out to the little girls, who had to be there and see something that they weren't ready for. Imagine growing up with that experience, it messes you up when you don't know how to understand what the other anatomy is and what it's used for in a relationship.
@@oxyht Some do. I don’t. I was shocked and appalled when Biden signed the EO on transgender participation in sports and it’s already creating problems. In general transsexuals and trans women are not women. They can say what they want but the reality is that a trans and I have nothing in common. I AM a woman. They EXPERIENCE womanhood.
Yep... Personally, I say that space for trans people should be carved from men's spaces, not women's. Keep women's change rooms, bathrooms, and sports for biological women. Open up men's change rooms, bathrooms, and sports for ANYBODY, be they biological men and women or trans men or women. Let trans athletes compete in men's sports, let trans people use men's change rooms. Men got the privilege, so men can give up the space.
I’m letting you guys know right now it’s not just the bathroom… There is a shower area a steam room and a pool that are designated for naked women… It’s not just toilets bro… It’s women walking around naked
I was actually confused to how the woman got to see genitals. Like theres toilets with doors. How do you see someones genitals through those doors. Its not like they have urinals like men bathrooms
@@GGGmod1 it’s also a changing room , isn’t that what they said and if the penis is being shaken around, I’m sure this person was in there with the purpose of exposing them self regardless of toilets with doors
@@tulab4295 how on earth do you come to this conclusion? Were you there? And as a man, how do you suggest I walk around naked without "shaking" my penis? (Personally I don't walk around "shaking" my penis and don't think any guys really does this). Presumably you mean a guy is walking naked and his penis is moving naturally while he walks. But if you say it like that, it is far less salacious. Imagine that, a naked man moving and a part of his body freely moving with him. Last time I checked in the men's changing room, my penis moved the same as it does whenever I'm naked. I assume it is the same for women's breasts? Not that they "move around in a sexual way", but that they move naturally. You know, as nature intended. So what really is the big deal here? Take away the assumption of sexual impropriety and all that I see here is a cultural or moral difference.
When my son was small, I used the private family changing rooms and not the women's change rooms because he wasn't female. I taught him to respect that the signs mean something. As he got older I was able to give him more concrete and meaningful reasons behind why a woman who is changing her clothes wouldn't want a young boy in the fitting room. How did society forget that there are actual reasons behind having separate spaces?
I really respect this. Multiple times I have seen women bring little boys into the female bathroom, and the boys were exposed to more than they should have been. Adult men, women and other don't always behave responsibly. If a parent wants to protect their kids from unhealthy exposures, there are solutions. In this video, the trans woman should have known better in these circumstances.
They didn't forget. There is just a dangerous ideology that is trying to replace BIOLOGICAL SEX with "gender identity" or "self-ID" where you can claim you are the opposite sex and not change your biology AT ALL. This is a very serious safety issue for women and children when boundaries are ignored. It's deliberate and dangerous.
@Mike Dalby so you don't think its dangerous that ANY man with no change to his biology whatsoever can claim "I am a woman" and get full access to women and children when they are vulnerable such as toilets, changing rooms, prisons and hospital wards?
When my son was small...I would clear out the men's bathroom...wait till everyone is out....looking into all the stalls. I would let him go in and I would stand by the door..people had to wait...untill he came out....no one complained
Ty! I’m not, “Cis” nor a “birthing person”.. tf does that even mean? Because you can’t do something- we’re supposed to then feel and be treated as if it’s Our fault?
Noone cares about women. They all care about men pretending to be women. Even when a man identifies as a woman, they have more rights than us. This is depressing. If being a woman is so good that you want to be like us, then why not respect us?
Preach talking about as a father taking his daughter into the male bathroom to make sure nothing happens to her. Brings up an excellent point! There need to be more family bathrooms so dads can change their children's diapers and take their children to the bathroom. A lot of dads complain they feel uncomfortable taking their babies to the restroom!
Stalls are always better regardless, for everyone. Better for safety, better for cleanliness. I don’t really understand why stalls aren’t used more than urinals in North America
@@Y0utubeIsFuckingHomo Your argument is true, but doesn't contribute to the discussion. He specifically said North America. Also in those countries that do simply have holes in the ground, south east Asia is prominent for them, they don't even have a "transgender discussion", there is only male and female for them, so again, what is your point?
Trying to advocate for trans people while also trying to protect women’s rights to feel safe…. THIS has been a lot of people’s issue all along concerning the trans movement. Not everybody is just “transphobic” just because they approach the topic with some concerns or reservations about how things can/ will be handled (mainly how catering to trans women affects biological women).
There's still no proof this person is transgender and not simply a dude abusing Cali law while pretending to be trans. It's funny to me democrats can't fathom this idea yet the second you could take off your mask if you were fully vaccinated in public, they went crazy and said what if people just lie and say they're vaccinated. Liars gonna lie, creepers gonna creep, and I'll say anything to have open air intake while im doing my 45 mins of shopping
I just found your channel and I love your interaction with each other. I am a real woman and I thank you two for highlighting what is a very important subject to real women. I don't understand how we are all expected to bow down to a very small population to respect their so-called rights. Why is it okay for real women lose their right to safety and privacy in spaces made specifically for women? I am now a subscriber and a fan of you two.
I was so proud of this woman for standing up and saying something. That beta male in the white shirt is a joke. How dare he make her concerns seem transphobic and call her a dick. I've never been in a situation like this, but I can only imagine how uncomfortable and nervous it would make me if I was in a changing room that I thought was only for women and then a naked man was walking around in there near me. This is wrong on so many levels.
Now take that uncomfortable feeling and imagine it being how you view yourself everyday. This is why the suicide rate is so incredibly high, kids die so that you don't have to feel uncomfy a couple of times.
The man in a white shirt is just ‘well I wouldn’t mind so why should you?’ He probably thinks he’s a caring, understanding, ‘stands up for others and the right thing’ kinda person, all the while dismissing these women’s concerns.
@@myrchantkobold8268 if the trans person is so uncomfortable in themselves why they choosing to go to a spa where patrons have to be naked to use the facilities? Where you’ll be the only one in the women’s section with a pen is? Doesn’t sound so uncomfortable in their own body to me.
@@myrchantkobold8268 so basically what you described is someone who lacks acceptance for themselves. That shouldn’t require them to get people to accept them. They need to accept themselves first.
This is why some women are afraid to say something or respond because of the backlash. But as a women I will always stand up for those who can’t stand up for themselves. Like children and other women.
I don't care what he think he is, he should have some respect and not enter women's safe spaces. He should be removed by force and arrested. There is a danger of men taking pictures and putting it on porn sites. They should keep that rubbish in the privacy between consenting adult.
I'm surprised no one has not stated the obvious, it is still illegal for a man to expose himself to a minor female. I wouldn't have wasted my time arguing with management. I would have just called the cops instead.
Absolutely. This whole rhetoric of "trans rights" is so stupid cause enabling people is not rights. And ya I woulda called the cops, at the end of the day management couldn't do much about that issue and I felt for them lol. It sucks man it's like the whole covid policies, why focus on complaining to the messenger
@@terryscott2632 I dont know about the area, but most places have change rooms as well as a big open area. Trans people can use the change rooms . End of problem.
Bro my friend was threatened by the police that they'd charge him as a sex offender for taking a piss in a dark alley after a show where NO ONE WAS AROUND but needed to pee before getting on the highway. This was not even 10 years ago, yet now you can have dudes walking around with everything hanging in a ladies locker room with women and children all around?
I can beat that one, I know a guy who’s brother did get some type of sex offender charge for taking a piss then a year or 2 later got caught selling weed got sentenced to jail and then when in jail the whites wanted to see his paper work for what he was in for seen the sex offender charge and he got stabbed and then had to go into protective custody
Be careful peeing outside especially by trees. There is a law in certain states that will charge you with a sex offense and try to put you on the sex offender registry.
I'd rather be a "Transphobe" than a person who let their guard down and let a 40+ year old man who now "Claims" to be a woman, to go into the same spa with a young daughter of mine and have him get into the water with her while he is fully exposed. This has gone too far and I no longer care what label you give me, but you will NEVER be the gender of your choosing just by saying it without surgically committing to it.
@@ebonysmith2548 Most transgendered would agree but it takes years to just get permission otherwise it's illegal to get anything done. Conservatives also fight against teenagers with dysphoria getting hormone therapy so yeah help them out then.
@@myrchantkobold8268 I’m sorry I don’t care sweetheart. I care for them as human beings but I will not help chase a fantasy with them. Neither am I in their defense against actual women and children. They have slowly became the precious ones to be protected and we get down played. Their rights is coming at the expense of our protection. How did we get here? If it wasn’t for us, mankind itself wouldn’t exist, yet we’ve slowly became the “less than” counterpart. I’m sorry but also not sorry!
I understand the kids part but women rights are being taken away from us cuz of freaking men calling themselves women. Now men want to share everything with us which is traumatizing to see .
But the way she humiliated the other guy is totally uncalled for. He was just there to reason, as far as I could tell. What right does she have to talk to him like that?
00:40 her yelling stuff like "baby", "a THING", "blood of Jesus" and "wildin out"... Honestly just blasts my brain with a dopamine release. Can't totally tell you why, but... Yeah... I like it.
1. It's not, but people are making this a trans thing for no reason. If they said there was someone flashing other patrons, that person would have been kicked out immediately. But at the same time, I highly doubt the trans woman was actually flashing anybody, given how these women are interpreting things. 2. No kids were flashed.
its part of the trans rights to flash kids!! if you dont support it you are a transphobe, get ready to lose your job, the sjw cancel mob is gonna make sure of that :D
I don’t know why, but the man who just randomly walks up and says “wow you don’t want to see a sausage in the women’s spa? you’re being a dic” is what really makes me mad about this.
Yeah in that moment he had male ignorance. He doesn't know what it feels like to have boys in middle school try to break into the girls changing room while we are all naked in there and boys being horny creeps. I've heard stories of girls being raped in the girls gym changing room by boys so this is not funny at all... That's why women feel so vulnerable in the changing room, because we had to deal with crap like that while growing up. A man will never understand this. Cuz girls are not creeps like that trying to break into the guys changing room and try to rip their towels away. That dude is next level ignorant dumbass but also at the same time he thinks he knows best like stfu man, just stfu... Nobody asked you to mansplain to that woman how she she should be feeling about it, when he isn't even the one being affected... For fucks sake...
@@gold6759 Did you not watch the video? It reflects the attitude of ever ignorant liberal man who thinks it's okay for males with dicks to parade themselves in front of women in the women's changing/spa rooms. If this guy really has a woman's brain, he wouldn't want any women to see his gonads. Because he would know it would make them feel uncomfortable. And would not fit with his own self-image. He could hide his male body with a towel fairly easily.
It really doesn’t make sense how they’re so concerned about gender identity.. like if you have male parts, get out of women’s spaces!!! It feels violating. & the fact that we have to cater to others rights at the same time losing our rights as women, mind boggling. Yet we’re the ones told to leave if uncomfortable 😐
The real crazy part is that when the whole transgender topic came into civil laws men were the ones who were against saying in short a man is a man and a woman is a woman regardless of you "feeling" you were born in the wrong body. Women are the one's that fought for transgender ppl to be assimilated among men and women. But the problem with that is like in this situation when it becomes law,legally binding regardless of how unsafe/uncomfortable you feel it's the law and now you personal feeling do not matter. that's why women are the ones suffering the most from these decisions and men tried to keep all this from happening in the 1st place and now we aren't in a position to change it anymore because of that and now everyone is stuck with this.
@@Kira-tl8un first and second wave feminist hate trans people, it’s actually these new wave feminist, late gen z kids, and people who own businesses and companies that can lose money who are okay with women losing their rights to make room for trans women. If I’m ever in a situation like this I would most definitely speak up. I don’t hate trans people but they can’t expect biological people to make room for them they just need their own areas or just gender neutral areas to be in.
That woman is a gem, what spineless men standing around aren't supporting her smdh... Glad to see there's still people brave enough to stand up for logic
We don't live in a world without bad people, this is not a utopia, there are bad people. I love how this whole debacle is happening to accommodate a teeny tiny minority of the population, but everybody forgets that there are 1000 times more creeps in the world than trans people. This means that there a whole bunch more people than trans people that could potentially exploit this when there is no requirement at all other than how they feel that day.
You know this would almost sound like a good argument until you realize that people who want to assault women in their restrooms will do it without needing disguises
Children and women are BOTH vulnerable!! I am not trying act like a “Damsel in Distress,” but in most situations a woman cannot contend with a man’s physical strength.
Right and thats something that doesnt sit well with me. Theres literally NO prerequisite. They dont even have to attempt to look like or try to be a woman. All they have to say is that that's how they identify and BOOM we are all supposed to bow down and see them as women. Im so sick of this.
I agree, the real amount of people who want a sex change is 200 in one million, there is a huge difference between a cross dresser that gets a thrill out of using a Ladies toilet and a genuine person that requires a sex change.
@@DanceArchives24 and people don't even feel comfortable speculating whether or not they're lying if they might have bad intentions. obviously if they earnestly are trans there's no need to really question it, if they're not behaving weird, no need to question if they're a woman. but sometimes they are not earnestly women, sometimes they're trying to take advantage. we have to be able to question whether or not SOME trans women are actually trans or not.
Lets make this real simple: You use the bathroom for which your genitalia is made for. You can't expect every business to make a 3rd, gender neutral bathroom. This whole idea of "Well I feel a certain way so I can do what I want" needs to end.
Bigger companies like Target, WalMart, ect. can and SHOULD be required to make Family Restrooms. This not only benefits trans people but also people like dads who must accompany their daughters or moms who need to accompany their sons to the toilet. With smaller companies who can't afford to do this, people should use the bathroom that correlates with their genitals in that moment.
@@TomikaKelly They shouldn't be required to do anything. They shouldn't even be required to offer a public restroom. That's a luxury they offer to you.
@@OfficialFedHater Right. It's a luxury for your customers to go to the bathroom. "They shouldn't be required to do anything" - that's some argument. If you had a market that free, any company that DID NOT OFFER A BATHROOM would go under, competing with those that did. Durr. Check your wiring.
If this child's dad doesn't expose himself to his daughter why would it be ok for a grow adult male who is a stranger sit in front this child be completely exposed.
Aba’s comment about bringing his daughter with him into the bathroom isnt weird at all. As a woman I see mothers bring their little boys into the girls room all the time. No one cares haha we understand you gotta do what you gotta do
Once upon a time men would attempt to enter the ladies bathroom while women girls were in there. Omg. I Am such a Beautiful Intelligent Talented Charming Heffa that I would forbid the men entrance by blocking the outside of the door and informing the men that they can't go in right now. Often I would be ...corrected (race age biological sex not a factor ) angrily by the men and/or their companions about how it is the law ( thanks obama) and tell me to move out the way...to PERMIT entrance. I would laugh at them and inform them that they are next in line when the current females exited. ( 😆 the looks on their face 😆). How many managers and supervisors eyes twinkle when informing me about the law ( thanks obama) as I informed them that I Am gonna let them in as soon as females came out. They can hold it. If it is an emergency, the men's bathroom is ( open hand palm up gesture) right there. 😆 Foh w/that bs. Presurgery is not transgender ...it is cross-dressing. Stay out the females restroom. We need our privacy.
Yeahhh i don’t bat an eyelid. But once they get to a certain age, maybe 8 or 9 (whenever the mother thinks their child is capable) their mothers should accompany them to the men’s toilet door and wait for them to do their business.
So many women have been victims of SA that the sight of male genitalia is triggering, especially if you’re in a vulnerable position such as the bathroom or changing room. And that guy that inserted himself into the situation was outta line.
As a trans woman myself, i really really hate hearing about stories like this. Those women had every right to be concerned in my opinion. No REAL trans woman would EVER do something like that, if anything they would try to hide something like that. It also really pisses me off when the “trans woman” in question acts like what they’ve done is fine and people just need to get over it? No no no, disgusting. How are you not petrified of all the women in there finding out that you’re trans bc of reactions like this? Like I just don’t get it.
That's true...I think most trans women don't want to draw attention to their penis. Very weird. I hope people aren't trying to take advantage of this by claiming to be trans when they're not in order to harass or prey on women.
Thanks for saying that 👏🏽 and more trans people need to speak up about how some creepy men are taking advantage of these laws. The laws need to be changed so that trans people have to prove that they are really trans bc like you said, a trans woman would not be swinging her d around especially strangers!
I'm going to be honest with you I have no problem with trans people but I do know that there are really s***** people in the world and as a victim of assault I would honestly be terrified if a person claims to be trans and flashes me or my kids in a locker room that would honestly have me petrified because to me it's a weapon a penis is a weapon unless it's wanted by both parties
This beautiful out spoken woman was on a news interview and even stated that this "trans woman" was walking to the jacuzzi half-cocked if you know what I mean in front of other women and children. So NO I do not believe that is was a real trans person, only a CREEP under the guise of being trans....I always knew something like this would happen when they implemented it years ago
@@Celery459 this is one...look for shero of #wispa stands up for women and girls and our female sex'd spaces as she makes a statement.....sorry I don't know how to do the link thing I know her name is Angel, and this one is like a press conference. I've seen another one on the news too...still looking
Unfortunately the law doesn't care and doesn't allow you do discriminate against this person. You can't prove they were lying and it doesn't matter. The law is the law and if you don't like it complain to your politicians
When I was breastfeeding my daughter, I was aware that it was legal for me to breastfeed her in public, however, knowing that it made people uncomfortable, I would either use a blanket to cover up or normally, I just tried to feed her privately. Who wants to make others uncomfortable and especially unsafe?!? It's absolutely unthinkable to me that someone would feel so comfortable making so many people including CHILDREN, feel unsafe... Also, the reason that a transman would have less issues going into the men's bathroom is because there isn't a physical threat being posed the way there is when a transwoman goes into the women's bathroom.
Trans people need to fight for their own right to get a separate bathroom. IMO. Don’t force non-trans people to accept this, it’s discrimination. Non-trans people have a right to their privacy as well.
Trans are not going to fight for that. That is exclusionism and the point of painting gender as a subjective preference over biology is so that anyone can claim to be anything and "miscellaneous"-gender facilities are not required.
But then this put a target on trans people too (and we know they get attack)... what would be your solution for that ? And this is not a bathroom situation. I don't see women's private part in bathrooms... this is a specific issue that doesn't happen everyday. The spa (and spaces reserve for females) should find a solution to these situations bcz this is the world we live in (trans people exist so they should have their space too)
@@tania375 educate people properly and punish crimes that physically harm trans folks. Having a third bathroom/spa/sports category are only solutions for those specific issues. Them having their own safe spaces is needed. Unfortunately there will be assholes who hurt others for simply existing. We should always protect and support trans people when its necessary.
@@fattinuggies3571 i agree for sports and spa ! But the public bathrooms ones are a little bit more complicated. We can make the same argument and said that we should educate people on why they shouldn't fake a "trans identity" just to enter females spaces. "Education" is not a fairly effective measure in my opinion but i don't have any solution that would protect and reassure both parties so maybe that's the only solution for now.
This is bizarre. Even if we accept the argument that we should respect people's self identified gender, why can't businesses just say that their facilities are split by sex, not gender. It's all gone crazy. Trans folk have it pretty tough but that shouldn't mean an end to all legitimate considerations about single sex spaces. This whole debate doesn't have to be so polarised. I'm pretty damn left wing but some parts of the left are insane.
The American political spectrum is so stunted that I can't tell if you mean the actual Left (i:e Socialists, Anarchists, and the like), or the American "Left-wing" (i:e Liberals and Social Justice advocates).
@@Mandz-mj2xv Uhh no, Actually. It’s sexual indecency. Pedophilia has to do with the intention. You have no idea if this man was purposefully exposing himself to kids for the purpose of sexual gratification. Because, you know, we weren’t there. The act itself may have been pedophilic, but we don’t know that. The only thing we’re equipped to agree on is that this man committed an act of exposition in front of a minor of an objectively more vulnerable sex, which is sickening to no end. Thus, I’m not defending the man, or trans woman, or whatever, but to jump to it being pedophilia is just wrong. Tl;Dr, Correlation ≠ causation exposition ≠ pedophilia.
@@Mandz-mj2xv so I see where you are coming from. But what about dad's taking their small daughters out to swim and they have to change in the mens room. Are the dad and all the other guys in there pedos?
They gonna try to pack y’all up and call y’all transphobic but really it’s just common sense & logic. Why inconvenience several women & kids by making them feel uncomfortable all because you’re afraid of the backlash for being honest & logical?!?🤦🏾♂️
Yeah people are starting to not care when they are called transphobes or terfs. Those words get thrown around so easily nowadays, they no longer hold the same seriousness.
@@mrmr4622 very much agree. And it's dangerous cause we'll end up in a boy who cried wolf situation, an actual racist or homophobe will come along, they'll scream racist! or whatever and nobody will pay any attention cause they've called everyone a racist.
This is an Asian spa where each gender is sectioned off because we are completely NAKED in that area! It’s not just some quick change, you are sitting in the jacuzzi with them. AND it is very common practice to bring your kid of the same gender with you because these places are supposed to be family friendly.
The people who are transgender in Asia either don’t go to the baths or go with their biological gender. That’s it.
This is the spa that Conan O'Brien went to with Steven Yuen.
That makes more sense because I was confused about how they saw something in a restroom where there would have been stalls
@Mug_Tea_Coffee Wi Spa only recently changed this rule too. I went there 5 years ago with a friend and they had strict women-only floors. I only really go to these places in Japan but I cannot imagine this even being up for discussion.
Well Korea do not have "California level' of anti discrimination Law
@@williammiao8862 Nowhere on earth has California levels of "anti-discrimination" regulations! 😏 It's the reason that people are fleeing New York and California like the plague!
When the safety of women and children is less important than than adult emotions.
Whoa💯!!!
This!
Unfortunately
Sub-adult immature emotions.
It’s just crazy…
"I support anyone's right to be who they want to be. My question is: to what extent do I have to participate in your self-image?" -Dave Chappelle
The legend himself
Answer....not at all.
So if someone is getting changed in your vicinity, what participation is required from you?
Keep the same energy for religious nut jobs who literally live in their own alternative world and force the population at large to appease their delusions. I'd say that has infinitely more impact on our everyday lives but you can keep on with your shallow criticisms of very specific groups.
Or participate in your delusion
These aren't rooms to separate feelings, they're rooms to separate male and female body parts.
that's what I'm saying.
Can't argue that
CostCity thank you! 💯💯💯💯 It's not a political correctness or a discrimination thing, it's just if u got man bits you go to the boys room, same to the other side, if you got girl bits you go in the girls room.
This! The bathroom should match your actual anatomy. Not what you feel you think you are.
It's so simple, why is this so hard to figure out?
I am a women. And if I were in the gym locker rooms showering or changing and a man walked in, I would probably do the same thing this lady did. It is NOT right that places are allowing this to happen. And by the way, you two are hilarious!
It's true ...mental people walking around... Jeffery Epstein had the job of curbing sexual deviant men and women ....now he's gone ....more stuff coming
Why is it not right because you cis gender can’t accept trans people?
There was no man walkibg into the women's bathroom in this video though, only another woman.
@@nickronca1562 dick and balls, that's a man
I can't believe this is an argument...No girl in the world feels comfortable around a naked male stranger DANGER
Transgender woman.. They have rights too and it is Discriminatory to say otherwise
@@gold6759 understandable, but I wouldn’t want my daughter in the restroom with a trans woman because I can’t go in there and monitor her safety, me being a man and all
@@gold6759 May be so, but as a married woman, seeing male genitalia in that setting is unsightly and the last thing I want to see dangling when I'm there to relax. If my daughter was with me, I'd have the same reaction.
I guess all the unisex bathhouses are just myths then. The issue is one of awareness and accomodations. If the spa advertised and posted it is unisex then there should be no issue. That does not appear to be the case here so I can understand why people were upset. This notion though that no woman feels safe around a naked man or even the reverse shows how repressed people are in this country. Clothing or lack there of does not indicate or dictate action/motive. Does that mean if there is a naked female stranger the assumption should be she is trying to seduce a man? Rediculous.
@Doppelganger D I agree but usually is young women with no children
Alright, when women are exposing their sauseege to kids, I gotta be the bad guy, and say "no you can't do that." If that makes me transphobic, fine, I'll live with it.
I agree
@@jamalgus349 huh
@@og_szzl6627 ….that idiot is drunk responding..
It's only transphobic when you call them a man.
@@thepoeticbutcher3370 makes sense
Everyone seems so stuck on the potential feelings of trans ppl, when the feelings of little girls are ignored to validate a grown ass person's personal identity..that stuff isn't everyone elses business! In real life, no one other than yourself should be able to do that-you shouldn't need validation of your existence from anyone else... No disrespect to trans ppl, but we need to make considerations that are just rational and fucking responsible as the actual grown ups in the situation.
It's just another way the world ignores the feelings of women/girls to serve the men, even if they're "former" men (although it seems in this case this person is still very much male).
Well said
🔥🔥🔥🔥
Exactly. Why are we giving up the safety and protection of ALL our CHILDREN and vulnerable woman, for the sake of comfort for an INCREDIBLY small percentage of sensitive, GROWN ASS ADULTS.
Bruh I just saw drag queens on Blues Clues the other day, if anything expect this to get worse.
I’m with this woman 100%!!
I'm a guy and I'm straight and I agree with her. A 100% that's not right. If you don't feel comfortable being in the men's bathroom and you feel like you want to be in a bathroom. How about they make their own bathroom instead of going to a woman's bathroom, art feeling unsafe in a man's bathroom? Because in either way, you're still a man.
Just the young girls saw that they will be traumatized for life
No one can say they didn't see a situation like this coming.
Not even that. Bullshit like this has already happened. But liberals be damned if they let consequences like that affect their perspective.
If they saw it coming that would be a whole other issue
Exactly
@@HeliumFreak what do you mean?
@@HeliumFreak they did see it coming. They people who write these laws have advisors and they aren't idiots. They chose to infringe on individuals rights. It was on the news about how men were able to walk into woman only restrooms. We also brought up the fact that once you give them their own special rights that they have always been afforded whether they want to believe it or not you open the gate for other types of rights such as human to animal marriage rights or any other crazy push.
What she said: "I'm a woman and I know how to stand up and speak for my right as a woman, I have a right to feel comfortable without a man exposing himself, okay?!
Exactly!
My my
It didn’t happen the bitch is lying. She just want to start shit. I was there on vacation i didn’t see that shit
@@zoeboy720 maybe because you were on the mens side?🤔
@@zoeboy720 ok zoe BOY, if that were true the whole staff would have not understood her at all, they would ask what are you talking about? What man or trans? Nor would all those women be standing there silently, they would say the same. Nice try liar
When a sick pervert’s “feelings” are more important that the safety and emotional well being of women and young girls, it is a sign of a seriously depraved society.
How she sick. She’s a woman are you saying all trans people are sick?
Hé ain’t a woman😅. That biological not possible😅. He may dress like a woman, or indentify himself with a woman but he ain’t a woman, and he never will be. That’s just biological facts. And I don’t want my child to see a penis in a place that’s for women only. And I don’t want it myself it’s uncomfortable.. Very simple. And yes many of these transgenders have mental issues😅. They should take example of Blair White she knows she ain’t a woman biological and she owns that and speaks out against this kind of bs.
@@SinatraAtHisFinest If you really think that a person with a penis should be allowed in the women’s bathroom, changing area, or spa, _you_ are sick.
When we are fighting every day against male harassment in all aspects boom! They're in our bathrooms, legally! Wow!
@@SinatraAtHisFinestmentally sick, YES
You are absolutely right. Transgender people if they were at all concerned about other people's rights, they would respect that instead of insisting on flaunting their junk and making people uncomfortable.
Business people need to start drawing the line on how they conduct their business and stand up to the institutions that say this type of behavior is ok.
If a person has male parts, they use the men's room and vice versa.
Thank you! Yes!
That dude wasn't even transgender. He's a lonely , old pervert TRANSVESTITE that gets to prey his peeping tom game on little girls.. That's exactly what he is. Isn't it interesting how we don't see FTM transmen fighting to use men's rest room? Why? Because they actually look like men.
Absolutely!
How about you make a trans bathroom only for trans where they don’t have to deal with a hassle.
@PlusSignClouds-LettersCPWOQU well because you would be spending money on a primarily empty bathroom as there are very few transgender people. Furthermore, what gives the transgender community authority to insist that business owners foot this extra expense? I think transgender people need to consider the feelings of most others and prioritize community needs above their own. The best solution I have seen is single stall toilets at an airport that any gender can use privately, but it sucks being a woman to have to wash your pits and fix your makeup in front of all the guys meandering about in the common area of the handwashing facilities Kind of humiliating. Women have some very personal and intimate hygiene needs.
This country is getting weirder and weirder every single day I live here.
I also hope to one day go to the last normal country on earth. Israel
@@thelastgeneration1926 *palestine
It's been there!
If it's every day you're here... Please see if you're cursed and it's your fault and leave at you're earliest convenience, we thank you for your sacrifice.
Beginning of the end of an empire.
As an adult female I do not want a person with male body parts in my bathroom.
that sounds very simple. why is it so difficult now?
@@mikeypops73 Because many liberals are insane.
@@rationalthought9979 I'd call them EXCESSIVE PROGRESSIVES.
AGREE
@@rationalthought9979 Heya there liberal here. Myself and ALL of my liberal friends and family don't support this nonsense. Extreme ideology is just that. Extreme no matter whether your left or right.
I'm uncomfortable with the thought of some strange man who THINKS he is a woman being in my personal space, even in public. It's sick and demeaning to REAL women. This is unacceptable, what about our RIGHTS
they do it to make us "uncomfortable", they don't think they are women. The trans stuff will unravel but now 1% does not rule 52% and this nonsense has to stop. Women are raped, beaten, and murdered by men every day. T o pretend this isn't real is vicious. We need safe private places.
My opinion.
Our rights don't seem to matter when it comes to hurting the poor feefees of entitled men.
They can call me a TERF all they want. I'm not allowing no man into my spa that's exclusively for women. If a transgender woman hasn't had surgery and doesn't live her life as a woman, he's a man and should go to a spa that caters to people with male anatomy.
When you tolerate everything, you stand for nothing.
That’s actually reminds me a phrase of Aristotle, ουδείς φίλος ω πολλοί φίλοι.
Means that to the person who appears as friend to everybody, nobody is (truly) a friend to him. ie. you can’t agree with everyone, cause then you don’t really agree with anyone.
Discrimination and intolerance all the way. No forgivness, no forgetting and absolutely no mercy at all.
@@notinterested8452 Better than tolerance where all this happens and ruins half the population's life.
@@notinterested8452 So you're ok with a man exposing himself
@@suzettegarcia6648 what led you to the opposite conclusion? Bad comprehension skills introduced by your government alongside grooming programs? I'll consider you a trans ally and an enemy then.
It just seems like a lot of issues involving the rights of transgender women are denying the rights of all other women and that's not ok either
@UC-P_9bOUMyKNetEhpw9ygJw may you elaborate further on your point
And they can't see it or dont care!!
Unfortunately most women won't realise this until it's too late .
@@dma968 She's basically saying that the rights for Trans Women are in a sense, disregarding the rights of women. Like, women and only women are entitled to the women's bathroom, but Transwomen being able to enter the bathroom legally disregards their entitlement to their gendered bathroom. The purpose of separate bathrooms for genders is so each could feel comfortable and when you have transwomen coming into the bathroom with their...appendages out, then it makes them really uncomfortable and it's also dangerous, especially for young children. Hope that helps.
"seems like alot of issues involving transgender women are denying rights of all REAL women" there... i fixed it for you
“Identifying” and “biological” are two separate things.
Science doesn't mean shit to the left anymore.
Facts!
Right
Exactly, if you want to say you’re a woman, at least get the operation. Cut the equipment off then🤷🏽♀️
Period
I wish there was more men speaking up about this, protecting their eifes, girlfreinds and kids safe
Silence means consent
I’m gay but I 100% agree with the mother. While I do believe that we should respect trans rights we should protect children more. I’m sorry but when kids are involved we must chose their rights first!
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True...but you should respect womens rights as well. I personally would not like being in a locker with a MAN with a penis! Especially with his penis exposed. What if he wasn't really transgendered? What if he just wanted to see naked women or expose himself for gratification or he wanted to rape or molest women or secretly record women? Women...REAL women have a right to feel safe!!!
@@Christian-Gigi
Thank you for getting back to the point. EVERYBODY with a vagina should be protected. PERIOD.
I wish I could like this comment more than once. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
People are not protesting against the LGBT Community,..we are back to fighting for women's rights with people who claim they are women
Noticed how a lot of movements only care about themselves and their rights
Most times they do not care about how actions affect other people
Addition
Take this video for example, people in the comments of this comment are saying we should care about the feelings of transgender people.
Caring for people in itself is not bad , but is absurd to use that as a standard to make laws, because it is highly subjective.
Of course in this video the transwoman feels safer in the women bathroom, ( safety is a better reason and an actual right, unlike people just shouting feelings, it is justified and is something people can actually rally behind instead of using something so simple minded and annoying as feelings) but people forget that in that scenario she is not the only one affected, especially if she has not transitioned, people do not feel safe seeing male genitalia or simply don't want to in a female spa. (Especially in a place where children are)
A correct society will take both into consideration
The safety of trans people in using places that do not correlate with their gender
And the safety and mental state of women in this situation
It is not a complex solution
But it is surely an expensive one ,and I completely understand why businesses would not want to spend so much In remodelling and creating a unisex bathroom for what they believe would be used by less than a percent of the population
But something that is ridiculous is trans activist talking up feelings and ignoring everyone else and everything else, they just label people as transphobic, and that is not helpful, it does not bring meaningful conversations, it just makes things worse and turns a seemingly solvable problem to a full scale nuanced situation with complex multi facet parts
It’s all about the 1%
People are stupid
Bruh, what rights do trans people have??? A lot of them are being taken away in many states in the US
@oliver taylor why do we have to change the we we’ve always been just because you want to change what you are?
@oliver taylor are u that same person that called Preach a “transphone”
She is outspoken, because she is righteous. Bless her for standing up for modesty.
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…bold as a lion 🦁 amen.
You're absolutely right, I am so grateful to this woman for speaking out and standing up for what is right and for the safety for all women, young and old. Thank you and bless your heart ❤️
Change happens when you go to uumm
She is one hundred percent correct . A young girl should not be exposed to transmental guys. as a man there is no way in hell will I except a transmental man dropping his pants in front of a little girl! I don't care about your rights or discrimination about your transmental rights. Someone open a gym where this insanity is exceptable they can dance around and undress in front of each other and no one cares! No children allowed they can share their insanity.
Quick question....
If a man who is urinating in public can get arrested (yeah don't pee in public) and put on the (certain type) register for indecent exposure.
How come a trans female who has male genitalia can walk around naked and expose children to the same sight and it's not indecent exposure? It's the same thing! The only difference is one feel like they should be a woman? Surely in situations where full nudity is to be even a possibility you should go into the locker room that matches your genilatia?
Trans issues really have to rely on women being forgiving and "nice" and just assumes they will be okay with it. Women's sports - forget women who may have invested a lifetime in getting good at sports, and then having to compete against biological men. Women's change rooms - I think it's the change rooms that's the issue, the bathrooms maybe less so. Safety is an issue.
Trans men have it a lot more easy than trans women. That’s for sure
I saw a post on ig complaining that the Olympics banning a trans athlete I'm not sure of the details but it already sounds like a clusterfuck
@@princedemetri trans men have it easier than men
@@kylewyotee nah easier than everyone lmao
@@kylewyotee You’re gonna have to explain that one for me. How so?
Make a new restroom and a new sport category.
Seems pretty simple to me.. problem solved
No offense but you know how ridiculous that is to accommodate a small demographic of people? And how much remodeling would have to be done. Not to mention there are trans men and women so 2 bathrooms it also opens the door to make them easy targets. And they're not a the stage so you don't know how to properly accommodate them.
Here's the thing their identity is their own you can expect the world to make space for every life choice for everyone.
How you choose to live is your responsibility and you should not make things unnecessary difficult for others.
If we all trying to be treated on our own personal criteria McDonald's should sell Alaskan king crab just because my friends and family want it.
Thank you its like a archtype
I thought about the same thing the other day. Disabled individuals have an environment whereby they are given the platform to compete without abled bodied individuals shaming the effort and years they put into practicing and perfecting their craft. Whereby for women, "originally men" can enter that field and shame the heck out of them.
@@GuessWhatHappened1 Not to mention a waste of money to accommodate said small demographic. Imagine making a relay race at the Olympics for trans women and only 3 competitors come to compete because they are a small percentage. Money is still needed to use the venues and set up the event, not to mention that many people around the world still see trans as “weird” and wouldn’t fill up these venues to generate back the money wasted.
"The blood of Jesus against this wildin' out lyin' spirit" I swear that's my aunt!
I love this lady! Wish I could be her friend!
Lol, I had to look twice to make sure she wasn’t one of my kinfolk!
Thank her from me..🍃🌷🍃
She is absolutely correct!! I rebuke all of it in the name of Jesus!!!
Amen! 😇🙏🏻
No matter how you identify, in these places biology is what matters, your naked and that's why you are there with other bodies that are like yours. Period
Let’s all just agree that we saw this coming when the trans rights and bathrooms topic started popping up.
And nobody fought harder for this to happen than other women 😂
@@bennywarren9866 yep so they will reap all that they have sowed. 😂😭
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. lol
How hard is it to fucking understand that bathrooms relate to your SEX and not your GENDER.
Obviously women are going to be uncomfortable if a dude comes in slinging his dick everywhere no matter what they identify as. COMMON SENSE
Y’all knew this was gonna happen? Damn I forgot about trans people bathroom topic
To be honest, even as a man I personally find being naked with other guys kind of weird. It must be quite uncomfortable for women to have that issue.
@MrSpartamspud Same here.
@@morriganbermejo4042 That may be the case. But old dudes walking around with their three feet of foreskin and wild bush with their crotch thrust forward is quite unpleasant.
@@MrSpartanspud 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I now cannot unsee that!
@@MrSpartanspud lolilololollllllllolololllllllllolololll
@@morriganbermejo4042 chill out soyboy
I took my daughters in the men's room when they had to pee, until they were about 7. Then I stood RIGHT outside of the woman's room when they had to go (so I could hear them if they needed me. it's scary raising kids in this crazy world.
Exactly the same, ages as well. My girls are twins so they have each other as well
this is why i unfortunately make my daughter use the disabled toilet, the fact that a man wearing a dress can go in just is not worth the risk, do you want it to be your child that is the one? i'd much rather get abuse for using the disabled toilet, at least they cant claim discrimination, just false use.
How did you manage re: urinals and exposure
I did the exact thing with my son up until 6, he’ll be 7 soon but he understands and is aware of what is right and wrong when In that environment, either way, I’m right outside, men staring me down when they walk out 🤣
2-year-old Teekah Lewis was taken from a bathroom at a bowling alley here in Tacoma, WA 21 years ago 😓. I don't want to even imagine what that feels like to have my baby taken like that. It's sad when we put grown adults emotions above the safety of our children. Not saying transgender people mean our children harm but it does open a door for pedophiles to pretend to be a woman for a day to get access to our children in the bathroom. You're a good father, God bless ✌️❤️.
The man telling the woman SHE’S being a dick?! How DARE he gaslight women that have just been sexually predated upon?!
As a trans woman this is such a hard topic, but I do agree with the woman in the video... although trans people have rights, there are also societal rules that everyone should follow... we as LGBTQ+ people need to learn the difference between taking space in society, rather than trying to overthrow society... I don’t know exactly how that went down in the restroom, but when I’m in public spaces I’m for sure protecting myself and covering up what I need in order to remain respectful... it’s not about ostracizing trans bodies, it’s about being respectful to fellow members of society.
As a man man, i know how to hold a towel so I can change without flashing my cock to the room. I find it suspicious that this person hadn't learnt that skill in life or chose not to use it.
Well said hun
The problem is not the trans people, but the CREEPS who will take advantage of it. Btw, that was a Korean spa that is gender segregated (males/females) but since it is in the USA, trans women are allowed in women's areas (while in Asia not unless they've had a surgery). In those Korean spas clothes aren't allowed and many mothers go with their daughters (or fathers with their sons). I doubt any trans women would go there completely naked around women, unless she is braindead completely, or like I said, a creep taking advantage of it.
This transgender woman was in the shower bragging about the women they’ve had sex with.
I agree.
She had every right to Express herself in any fashion, HER DAUGHTER WAS WITH HER
To bad yall wanna support these people who thinl they can change their gender, well this is wht happens
@@harrisharris8085 so women and children deserve this? Because other people support it?
@@CarlosRodriguez-jz3eu That's not what's being said. This is simply one of the consequences of it. People should have been standing up to this much earlier than they are.
@Ryan Campbell Which is absolutely crazy! I mean, how did such a small group gain so much power? It's absolutely unreal. I can tell you this much. Regular folks are getting real tired of the stuff they pull, and people like this woman are just the beginning.
@Ryan Campbell I am, too. We just need to hold out a bit longer. There are a lot of people tired of this, and it's only a matter of time before society is corrected.
I don't care, I'm behind this woman 100% with everything, EVERYTHING she said.
EVERYTHING!!!!!!
Blame Feminism for it.
Yes at least a trans person can be respectful and not pull their thing out …” like she’s using a urinal stand up toilet …”
1 million percent behind everything she said.
There are trans who no longer have male genitals. But if they still have male genitals you can't be swinging it around, in front of children. No that's not Right
Thank you for not being "politically correct". WOMEN have reason to fear MEN in their safe spaces and that needs to be called out
I love how the majority of people in this comment section are being completely sensible here. Biology cares about no one's feelings
“Facts don’t care about your feelings”
Fun fact: if you clone a transwoman...you get a man!
This is not right if my child was in there and he he pulled it out i would have followed him and got him hurt or killed f how anybody feel
Sat it again! Biology doesn’t give a sht about how you feeeeeeeel.
I don’t know any women who have penises, they may own a few in varying sizes, but to have one that grows out of their pubis, NO!
I 100% agree with Preach's statement about keeping his daughter with him to the bathroom. When my husband is deployed, my sons ALWAYS went in the women's room with me for safety until they were old enough to buddy system and I was still inside mens bathroom entrance talking to them. Same for my daughter, if I'm not present, she goes in with my husband. I trust no adult around my kids for good reason. Wish more parents took these measures, especially with their boys sending alone to the restrooms.
I too brought my son into the ladies room when he was young and lingered outside the men's room when he got older. I would not bring my child, or myself, in to a communal changing area. Imagine having a transgender girl child and people insisting she use the men's room.
Lady I live in 🇬🇧 and the Paedophiles here are on an epic scale….they can live right next door too you an the police will NOT inform the public on the road or the surrounding areas that there is a paedophile a few streets away that’s how bad it here in 🇬🇧…..my family do the same thing all children go into the women’s toilets no matter the ages or gender till they hit 17 years old…..as like I said there’s way too many Paedophiles around in 🇬🇧.from 🇯🇲🇬🇧
I think bringing boys into girls bathrooms and Vice versa is idiotic and bad advice
I’m with you
100% it's sad but true and no parent should be taken chances with their childrens safety. I don't have children but when my sisters children where younger whenever I had them out with me in my care if they needed to use the bathroom I took the boys to the ladies until they were old enough and even then I would walk them to the bathroom and wait outside so I could keep them as safe as possible and I'm sorry children's safety is more important than anybodies feelings.
This lady says EXACTLY what I've been feeling and I love how she doesn't back down.
💯 % agreed
Fuk that, you not going in the same bathroom as my daughter. You just not playa!
@@hitjamctd1 Respect.
I think women have to get outside their comfort zone and stand up to injustice.
That guy could care less for that woman and her child being in a bathroom with someone born with heavy testosterone. If he was a woman he would get it. Men can deal with issues in their bathroom. I would worry about my son.
The more immediate problem is that men who are not trans are indeed taking advantage of the current situation and walking into women’s change lockers/showers. It’s pretty obvious when someone has splotched some lipstick on, a dress, and then ogles all the naked and semi-naked women in the locker room that they aren’t there legitimately. It’s disgusting. People are going to end up being beat up or worse when this reaches a boiling point.
As a gay man I totally agree, trans individuals need there own separate bathroom and sports category. Keep the tea real.
People voted for Democrat politicians that support and campaigned on these policies. Voting has consequences. She’s 100% correct, but the executive order preventing this was repealed via executive order.
@@brandonvegas6869 People just don't like Trump. The far-right is shitty too.
@@bex9257 I’m kind of tired of the “Far Right - Far Left” talk. Bottom line is… they voted for politicians that openly campaigned on these policies, going back to brunch was much more important. Because of their TDS, they didn’t consider the pros and cons of said policies. Now they’re surprised that the policies have been implemented, so now they’re angry.
@@brandonvegas6869 Most people vote Democrat because they don't want Republicans in power. They are just as annoying.🤷🏾♀️
Most men's sports are actually Open classes, meaning anyone can enter. It's just that women have a physical penalty so not many women actually do, which is why they got their own Women's class. Transgenders should compete where they are meant to, in the Open class along with men.
In a situation like this, I wouldn't give a damn about a trans person's feelings. Give that person the staff bathroom.
Facts
Kill me 🤣🤣🤣🤣
It's a SPA if was it just a toilet no one would complain because women toilets have a cabinet for each of them. But in that kind of SPA, they all are naked in the same place. She is really right and u too.
Period
This is a great solution 👌🏽
They need their OWN bathroom. Simple. Leave women’s bathroom alone.
As pointed out in comments by others it's an even bigger issue in this particular video. Since it's an Asian spa where both sexes are nude and seperated by sex, atleast generally speaking and not by gender.
Common sense! Smh
@RickyyyR4 nop
South park showed us that but we laughed it off
Yes.
Same, if my daughter is in the bathroom and a man wants to get in, regardless of what he identifies as, well... He is not getting in, period. Don't care about law or policy. Until my daughter is out, he's definitely not getting in.
Restrooms and changing rooms are not segregated by "gender identity" they are segregated by sex. I don't know why this is even up for discussion.
I don't even know why we allow gender identity
Facts
Exactly
Gender and sex are the same thing. They only made gender different based on your feelings.
@@alwaysdtf2197 Dumbest thing I’ve ever seen. And thought we would be past this when we saw videos of woman being beaten on subways and the men by just watched because they were afraid of being the bad guy. You aren’t and will never be.
as someone who's afraid to speak up (in general), i wish to have that woman's energy "I'M NOT SCARED TO SAY A THING THE BLOOD OF JESUS AGAINST THIS WALLING OUT LYING SPIRIT" lol, she rocks
You know, the truth is there's going to come a time where the "silent majority" people have talked about has been silent long enough. From what I've gathered, there's a lot of decent people in this country who have decided to take the position of "hey it's not my business, freedom means free no matter what I think about it" and while they don't agree with a lot of the progressive rhetoric personally, they let the woke train keep rolling because they've been guilted by the spirit of "freedom" and "liberty." But when this starts to confront them in their daily lives and they experience the negative reality of all this confusion, they're going to start pushing back loudly like this woman did.
EXACTLY
Yh she was fucking awesome ngl.
I used to be scared. I have a cape now. And it feels good. Truth is the most powerful tool you'll ever have. Otherwise you are a victim of being bullied. It's liberating AF. They'll never win.
@@itskeke-wk8ng more like awesomly irritating
"protecting women" is slowly turning into, "forget little girls"
Yes! OMG yes this is what we are protecting. Is really about our little girls.
Absolutely!! People who ever who want to be needs to remember if they were better protected at the “ tender age”. Things may not be so much right now.
Nigga what
@@dreamervibeztarot what about little boys?
Honestly it’s been like that for a decades if not longer.
I work at a school in California and I was told the other day I can’t tell girls who feel like a boy for that week they need to use the unisex bathroom. It pisses me off because there are times I’ve had to check the boys bathroom and caught boys smoking and even found a switch blade in there. But now I don’t feel comfortable to go in there. All it takes is for this girl to say I did something or saw something. Their putting my life at risk. Or what if this girl makes a complaint because she saw a boys junk. Or on the flip side what if there’s weirdo adults who take advantage of the situation or boys harassing this girl because of her beliefs. It’s a loose loose all around and the state and school districts are setting us all up for problems. The safety for the majority out weights the feeling of the minority!
انها خطة الماسونية العالمية لفرض اجنداتهم وتدمير البشرية جميعها
“You’re out of alignment”….. yikes she went in. As a woman and a natural born female I agree with this woman. Most natural women do not feel comfortable around this shit.
She went deep with that comment!
Exactly hell I've felt uncomfortable around that since a child and no one taught me to be that way I just knew something wasn't right
Time to Vote with their wallets and feet and actual votes. This is where wokeIsm leads
The women and their daughters were put in danger by the by the biological man posing as a female too
Facts
Preach: “It gets really hard… wait”
Aba: “ok let me get this straight”
This is comedy gold
@zisco fagu nes la be seni lakta
samurai champloo pfp very epic
@zisco your mom
not really
Preach literally intending a pun on Aba
God America has turned into a freaking south park episode.
Agreed, tolerohysteria
Not just the US, the UK as well. It's crazy.
Lols 😂
Yk what's crazy about that??? I only thought the Simpsons were great at predictions and I was wrong. South Park shows a new level of it
Turned?when hasn't it
It doesn’t matter what you identify as male or female, the bathroom/ locker rooms should be determined by what body parts you have . If you have male body parts , use the male rooms. Simple as.
Aba: "But I _think_ it's a different story for ladies."
This. This is a man who gets it.
It really isn’t tho and that is part of the problem.. If a man feels uncomfortable being followed how by a woman than what is the difference
@@gold6759 how many women are murdered by men each year
In UK every three days a man murders a women
That's the difference
Well, considering it's pretty easy to understand, how could someone as intelligent as Aba not get it? That's not an accomplishment. An accomplishment is what he said about bathrooms and his daughter.
@hochy any comparisons like that to Jim crow Era is laughable.
@@gold6759 I'm not a female, but if I lived in a world where half the population was bigger, stronger, and faster, then I can understand why they'd have their guard up against men. I mean, most dudes aren't going to be scared of a lone girl following behind them. They'd just think to themselves that this chick is weird or something, and if she's even somewhat attractive most dudes will throw any caution out the window.
I’ve been saying this for YEARS ever since this whole bathroom debate started cuz it’s not just about bathrooms. Gyms, locker rooms, spas, etc that are supposed to be gender segregated to make women feel safe and protect young girls all get grouped in. I just KNEW stuff like this was gonna start happening.
And it will continue to happen. In Canada, I could choose to have my legal documents changed to say "female" even if I don't transition. I don't even need a doctor's note or some kind of document verifying I have gender dysphoria. And it is illegal for a spa to refuse me services if I identify as female, regardless of appearance. I can sue them for "transphobia" and "not respecting my identity". Never mind that my identity shouldn't be more important than women's safety in their own spaces.
Everyone with even a brain molecule knew this was going to happen and when Republicans called this out in 2010, warning about exactly this, they were targetted as "racist homophobic troglodytes" by the media and the general public, who may have agreed with them silently but never said anything publicly.
Well, here we are 10 yrs later
@@GPrinceps Sick, if you still have a penis you not be using female private spaces
How many people have been caught going into the opposite gender bathroom while faking to be transgender? I hear people voicing their fears about this but haven’t heard of any persons being accused of it.
I love that the recent bathroom equality trans right movement was mostly made up of liberal women, but the obvious result is men (in a dress or a suit) who claim to be a female can go check out women and sling their dicks around the women's bathrooms, dressing rooms, and spas or bathrooms will all be unisex where women have to use the same bathroom as men (piss yellow toilet seat and all). Either way, women really screwed themselves over jumping on this movement, and like the guy in the video, men don't fear for our safety if women come into the men's toilet or if we have to share bathrooms with women, so we really have no dog in the fight beyond protecting our wives and/or daughters really.
So, what ppl don’t understand is that Wi Spa essentially has 2 spas. One for women and one for men. The changing rooms are separate. The pools and saunas are separate. That’s why ppl are naked. So, yea, the dude was an exhibitionist and it’s time for all of you to understand that the most vulnerable group here are women. Biological women.
And female children were there too.
And female children were there too.
But you guy’s are the ones that stand for their rights promptly without using your common sense whether the case is of sports or bathrooms. Now you need help. Lamo
Yep. On the nail. My heart goes out to the little girls, who had to be there and see something that they weren't ready for. Imagine growing up with that experience, it messes you up when you don't know how to understand what the other anatomy is and what it's used for in a relationship.
@@oxyht Some do. I don’t. I was shocked and appalled when Biden signed the EO on transgender participation in sports and it’s already creating problems.
In general transsexuals and trans women are not women. They can say what they want but the reality is that a trans and I have nothing in common. I AM a woman. They EXPERIENCE womanhood.
I'm 75 and have seen a lot of stuff in my live but nothing compares to what is going on today and will never understand it.
It seems this trans issue is affecting women more than men, when it comes to changing rooms, toilets, and sports!
This is literally what they advocated for
@@letsgetstarted4590 facts
And these women are the ones pushing it
Yep... Personally, I say that space for trans people should be carved from men's spaces, not women's. Keep women's change rooms, bathrooms, and sports for biological women. Open up men's change rooms, bathrooms, and sports for ANYBODY, be they biological men and women or trans men or women. Let trans athletes compete in men's sports, let trans people use men's change rooms. Men got the privilege, so men can give up the space.
Funny how women were supporting them the most now they’re taking everything away from them.
I’m letting you guys know right now it’s not just the bathroom… There is a shower area a steam room and a pool that are designated for naked women… It’s not just toilets bro… It’s women walking around naked
I was actually confused to how the woman got to see genitals. Like theres toilets with doors. How do you see someones genitals through those doors. Its not like they have urinals like men bathrooms
@@GGGmod1 good point!
@@GGGmod1 it’s also a changing room , isn’t that what they said and if the penis is being shaken around, I’m sure this person was in there with the purpose of exposing them self regardless of toilets with doors
@@tulab4295 how on earth do you come to this conclusion? Were you there? And as a man, how do you suggest I walk around naked without "shaking" my penis? (Personally I don't walk around "shaking" my penis and don't think any guys really does this). Presumably you mean a guy is walking naked and his penis is moving naturally while he walks. But if you say it like that, it is far less salacious. Imagine that, a naked man moving and a part of his body freely moving with him.
Last time I checked in the men's changing room, my penis moved the same as it does whenever I'm naked. I assume it is the same for women's breasts? Not that they "move around in a sexual way", but that they move naturally. You know, as nature intended. So what really is the big deal here?
Take away the assumption of sexual impropriety and all that I see here is a cultural or moral difference.
@@2002RM you must not have a wife or a daughter. 🙄
When my son was small, I used the private family changing rooms and not the women's change rooms because he wasn't female. I taught him to respect that the signs mean something. As he got older I was able to give him more concrete and meaningful reasons behind why a woman who is changing her clothes wouldn't want a young boy in the fitting room. How did society forget that there are actual reasons behind having separate spaces?
I really respect this. Multiple times I have seen women bring little boys into the female bathroom, and the boys were exposed to more than they should have been. Adult men, women and other don't always behave responsibly. If a parent wants to protect their kids from unhealthy exposures, there are solutions. In this video, the trans woman should have known better in these circumstances.
They didn't forget. There is just a dangerous ideology that is trying to replace BIOLOGICAL SEX with "gender identity" or "self-ID" where you can claim you are the opposite sex and not change your biology AT ALL. This is a very serious safety issue for women and children when boundaries are ignored. It's deliberate and dangerous.
@Mike Dalby so you don't think its dangerous that ANY man with no change to his biology whatsoever can claim "I am a woman" and get full access to women and children when they are vulnerable such as toilets, changing rooms, prisons and hospital wards?
@Mike Dalby because there is an invasion of a safe space. Some people dont want to see male gentitalia sprung on them in public
When my son was small...I would clear out the men's bathroom...wait till everyone is out....looking into all the stalls. I would let him go in and I would stand by the door..people had to wait...untill he came out....no one complained
More women need to be like her and we need to stop tolerating this nonsense!!
I think we are getting ever closer to the question. At what point do trans rights outweigh women's rights?
No one cares about women rights anymore. America’s to busy “protecting” grown men who “identify” as women. 🙄
Ty! I’m not, “Cis” nor a “birthing person”.. tf does that even mean? Because you can’t do something- we’re supposed to then feel and be treated as if it’s Our fault?
We're very obviously already there...
@@theeyesbutterfly6089 it’s also chest feeding now, not breastfeeding too. 🙄
This is all going way too far
Noone cares about women. They all care about men pretending to be women. Even when a man identifies as a woman, they have more rights than us. This is depressing. If being a woman is so good that you want to be like us, then why not respect us?
Preach talking about as a father taking his daughter into the male bathroom to make sure nothing happens to her. Brings up an excellent point! There need to be more family bathrooms so dads can change their children's diapers and take their children to the bathroom. A lot of dads complain they feel uncomfortable taking their babies to the restroom!
Stalls are always better regardless, for everyone. Better for safety, better for cleanliness. I don’t really understand why stalls aren’t used more than urinals in North America
this
@@bigsmall2842 Because the primary concern here is the women's bathroom. Not the man's bathroom. Last I checked, women's bathrooms don't have urinals.
@@chrisstubbs6391 They do in certain parts of the world, in some places public toilets are squat only.
@@Y0utubeIsFuckingHomo Your argument is true, but doesn't contribute to the discussion. He specifically said North America.
Also in those countries that do simply have holes in the ground, south east Asia is prominent for them, they don't even have a "transgender discussion", there is only male and female for them, so again, what is your point?
Trying to advocate for trans people while also trying to protect women’s rights to feel safe…. THIS has been a lot of people’s issue all along concerning the trans movement. Not everybody is just “transphobic” just because they approach the topic with some concerns or reservations about how things can/ will be handled (mainly how catering to trans women affects biological women).
Exactly! where we do we draw the line? I'm not being ignorant, would it be possible that the trans folk, have their own restroom?
There's still no proof this person is transgender and not simply a dude abusing Cali law while pretending to be trans. It's funny to me democrats can't fathom this idea yet the second you could take off your mask if you were fully vaccinated in public, they went crazy and said what if people just lie and say they're vaccinated. Liars gonna lie, creepers gonna creep, and I'll say anything to have open air intake while im doing my 45 mins of shopping
Ok but this woman is transphobic she literally said trans people don’t exist
@@KillaBryx there is no proof anyone was flashed yet here we are taking sides.
@@bobpope3656 there certainly were enough female witnesses
I just found your channel and I love your interaction with each other. I am a real woman and I thank you two for highlighting what is a very important subject to real women. I don't understand how we are all expected to bow down to a very small population to respect their so-called rights. Why is it okay for real women lose their right to safety and privacy in spaces made specifically for women? I am now a subscriber and a fan of you two.
Respect to that women who spoke up.
Even without proof?
@@baconscoobysnacks3135 she said it. Why would she be yelling if nothing happened? The proof is there
@@baconscoobysnacks3135 🤦🏾♂️stfu
@@baconscoobysnacks3135 Proof? The guy admitted to it what you mean.?
@@III1IlIIlIllIl why do women make false allegations? Idk but it happens all the time 🤦
I was so proud of this woman for standing up and saying something. That beta male in the white shirt is a joke. How dare he make her concerns seem transphobic and call her a dick. I've never been in a situation like this, but I can only imagine how uncomfortable and nervous it would make me if I was in a changing room that I thought was only for women and then a naked man was walking around in there near me. This is wrong on so many levels.
Now take that uncomfortable feeling and imagine it being how you view yourself everyday. This is why the suicide rate is so incredibly high, kids die so that you don't have to feel uncomfy a couple of times.
The man in a white shirt is just ‘well I wouldn’t mind so why should you?’
He probably thinks he’s a caring, understanding, ‘stands up for others and the right thing’ kinda person, all the while dismissing these women’s concerns.
@@myrchantkobold8268 if the trans person is so uncomfortable in themselves why they choosing to go to a spa where patrons have to be naked to use the facilities? Where you’ll be the only one in the women’s section with a pen is? Doesn’t sound so uncomfortable in their own body to me.
@@myrchantkobold8268 lmaooooooo
@@myrchantkobold8268 so basically what you described is someone who lacks acceptance for themselves. That shouldn’t require them to get people to accept them. They need to accept themselves first.
This is why some women are afraid to say something or respond because of the backlash. But as a women I will always stand up for those who can’t stand up for themselves. Like children and other women.
I don't care what he think he is, he should have some respect and not enter women's safe spaces. He should be removed by force and arrested.
There is a danger of men taking pictures and putting it on porn sites. They should keep that rubbish in the privacy between consenting adult.
I'm surprised no one has not stated the obvious, it is still illegal for a man to expose himself to a minor female. I wouldn't have wasted my time arguing with management. I would have just called the cops instead.
a very good point
Absolutely. This whole rhetoric of "trans rights" is so stupid cause enabling people is not rights. And ya I woulda called the cops, at the end of the day management couldn't do much about that issue and I felt for them lol. It sucks man it's like the whole covid policies, why focus on complaining to the messenger
Exactly!!
What if she's trans & was just changing like everyone else & not "exposing".
@@terryscott2632 I dont know about the area, but most places have change rooms as well as a big open area. Trans people can use the change rooms . End of problem.
Bro my friend was threatened by the police that they'd charge him as a sex offender for taking a piss in a dark alley after a show where NO ONE WAS AROUND but needed to pee before getting on the highway. This was not even 10 years ago, yet now you can have dudes walking around with everything hanging in a ladies locker room with women and children all around?
Women hold the keys to change this and a lot of issues...men have no voice anymore
I can beat that one, I know a guy who’s brother did get some type of sex offender charge for taking a piss then a year or 2 later got caught selling weed got sentenced to jail and then when in jail the whites wanted to see his paper work for what he was in for seen the sex offender charge and he got stabbed and then had to go into protective custody
@@DY-td3ku holy shit. yeah ill just stay a pussy and get my money from working in multibillion dollar food chains
it's messed up!
Be careful peeing outside especially by trees. There is a law in certain states that will charge you with a sex offense and try to put you on the sex offender registry.
I'd rather be a "Transphobe" than a person who let their guard down and let a 40+ year old man who now "Claims" to be a woman, to go into the same spa with a young daughter of mine and have him get into the water with her while he is fully exposed. This has gone too far and I no longer care what label you give me, but you will NEVER be the gender of your choosing just by saying it without surgically committing to it.
How many trans people have you actually met?
And what was the interaction like?
I totally agree! If you are transgender then transform!
@@ebonysmith2548 Most transgendered would agree but it takes years to just get permission otherwise it's illegal to get anything done. Conservatives also fight against teenagers with dysphoria getting hormone therapy so yeah help them out then.
@@myrchantkobold8268 I’m sorry I don’t care sweetheart. I care for them as human beings but I will not help chase a fantasy with them. Neither am I in their defense against actual women and children. They have slowly became the precious ones to be protected and we get down played. Their rights is coming at the expense of our protection. How did we get here? If it wasn’t for us, mankind itself wouldn’t exist, yet we’ve slowly became the “less than” counterpart. I’m sorry but also not sorry!
Even surgery doesn’t change the person’s sex. Every cell in our body discloses our sex: XX or XY. Sex is binary and immutable.
That guy who called the woman a dick then basically welcomed naked ladies into the male room obviously has issues.
I think for this lady is about the children being exposed to gentilia that shouldn't I fully understand why all the women were upset.
pinkcyclop exactly!
Where's the proof? Let me guess you just believe her 😂
@@baconscoobysnacks3135 its a spa people are going to have children there. Get over yourself😂
@@baconscoobysnacks3135 There were other women in the video saying the same thing
I understand the kids part but women rights are being taken away from us cuz of freaking men calling themselves women. Now men want to share everything with us which is traumatizing to see .
I applauded the Woman for sticking up for common sense 🙌 it’s a shame that common and logical sense is considered “bigoted” nowadays
Where's her proof? Let me guess you just believe her 🤣
@@baconscoobysnacks3135 dude stfu
@@baconscoobysnacks3135 i mean its a promblem bigger than just this situation
@@baconscoobysnacks3135 plus we dont know if shes not lying either
But the way she humiliated the other guy is totally uncalled for. He was just there to reason, as far as I could tell. What right does she have to talk to him like that?
"A wildin out lyin spirit!" Yes ma'am. It truly is and so many people have fallen for it.
Yes sir
Falling for what exactly
Amen 🙏
00:40 her yelling stuff like "baby", "a THING", "blood of Jesus" and "wildin out"... Honestly just blasts my brain with a dopamine release. Can't totally tell you why, but... Yeah... I like it.
I didn’t think that whether flashing kids is okay was a debate to be had but here we are. yikes.
i know, SMH
1. It's not, but people are making this a trans thing for no reason. If they said there was someone flashing other patrons, that person would have been kicked out immediately. But at the same time, I highly doubt the trans woman was actually flashing anybody, given how these women are interpreting things. 2. No kids were flashed.
its part of the trans rights to flash kids!! if you dont support it you are a transphobe, get ready to lose your job, the sjw cancel mob is gonna make sure of that :D
@@Dexx1s Didn't the lady in the video say that there were kids in the bathroom while a person had their ding-a-ling out??
I heard they argue kid that didn watch trans peeing in toilet consider transphobe, this is real back then and still is.
I don’t know why, but the man who just randomly walks up and says “wow you don’t want to see a sausage in the women’s spa? you’re being a dic” is what really makes me mad about this.
Yeah. i woulda flashed on that dude lol
Two immature post back to back smh love to see it
Yeah in that moment he had male ignorance. He doesn't know what it feels like to have boys in middle school try to break into the girls changing room while we are all naked in there and boys being horny creeps. I've heard stories of girls being raped in the girls gym changing room by boys so this is not funny at all... That's why women feel so vulnerable in the changing room, because we had to deal with crap like that while growing up. A man will never understand this. Cuz girls are not creeps like that trying to break into the guys changing room and try to rip their towels away. That dude is next level ignorant dumbass but also at the same time he thinks he knows best like stfu man, just stfu... Nobody asked you to mansplain to that woman how she she should be feeling about it, when he isn't even the one being affected... For fucks sake...
@@zebnemma what does this have to do with discrimination of a trans woman changing for a spa in the changing room
@@gold6759 Did you not watch the video? It reflects the attitude of ever ignorant liberal man who thinks it's okay for males with dicks to parade themselves in front of women in the women's changing/spa rooms.
If this guy really has a woman's brain, he wouldn't want any women to see his gonads. Because he would know it would make them feel uncomfortable. And would not fit with his own self-image. He could hide his male body with a towel fairly easily.
It really doesn’t make sense how they’re so concerned about gender identity.. like if you have male parts, get out of women’s spaces!!! It feels violating. & the fact that we have to cater to others rights at the same time losing our rights as women, mind boggling. Yet we’re the ones told to leave if uncomfortable 😐
The real crazy part is that when the whole transgender topic came into civil laws men were the ones who were against saying in short a man is a man and a woman is a woman regardless of you "feeling" you were born in the wrong body. Women are the one's that fought for transgender ppl to be assimilated among men and women. But the problem with that is like in this situation when it becomes law,legally binding regardless of how unsafe/uncomfortable you feel it's the law and now you personal feeling do not matter. that's why women are the ones suffering the most from these decisions and men tried to keep all this from happening in the 1st place and now we aren't in a position to change it anymore because of that and now everyone is stuck with this.
@@jayell2365 blame feminism
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💯
@@Kira-tl8un first and second wave feminist hate trans people, it’s actually these new wave feminist, late gen z kids, and people who own businesses and companies that can lose money who are okay with women losing their rights to make room for trans women. If I’m ever in a situation like this I would most definitely speak up. I don’t hate trans people but they can’t expect biological people to make room for them they just need their own areas or just gender neutral areas to be in.
so cis peoples emotions is more important then literal trans lives, wooow okay. fragile af
As a woman, watching this in July 2023, i truly appreciate your quiet pause and then "i do think it is different for woman".
That woman is a gem, what spineless men standing around aren't supporting her smdh... Glad to see there's still people brave enough to stand up for logic
Its sad, they should have been protecting us women
@@meliuk597 ya'll told us to sit down and shut up.
@@Stillreal312 🤣
@@halaabuhasna Regardless it ain't our fight. Man in the video that was bashing the women was wilin though. Should have shut up and kept it pushing
A man wouldn't do that. These people are freaks and we need to treat the ones who behave like this accordingly
"I DON'T WANT A MAN IN A WOMAN'S BATH"
"But his feelings"
We don't live in a world without bad people, this is not a utopia, there are bad people.
I love how this whole debacle is happening to accommodate a teeny tiny minority of the population, but everybody forgets that there are 1000 times more creeps in the world than trans people.
This means that there a whole bunch more people than trans people that could potentially exploit this when there is no requirement at all other than how they feel that day.
Oh shit.... This sounds 10x worse on paper.
onenewsnow.com/culture/2017/02/18/21-women-assaulted-by-transgenders-in-restrooms
That's a good point about the amount of bad people. I thought that was the reason they made Trans restrooms in the first place.
Right and many hide under the LGBTQ banner. They know they won’t be arrested or removed because they will file reports claiming discrimination.
You know this would almost sound like a good argument until you realize that people who want to assault women in their restrooms will do it without needing disguises
Children and women are BOTH vulnerable!! I am not trying act like a “Damsel in Distress,” but in most situations a woman cannot contend with a man’s physical strength.
I agree with the woman speaking out . A man can literally say “im a women” not be trans at all
Right and thats something that doesnt sit well with me. Theres literally NO prerequisite. They dont even have to attempt to look like or try to be a woman. All they have to say is that that's how they identify and BOOM we are all supposed to bow down and see them as women. Im so sick of this.
I agree, the real amount of people who want a sex change is 200 in one million, there is a huge difference between a cross dresser that gets a thrill out of using a Ladies toilet and a genuine person that requires a sex change.
I'm not happy with the staff and the hate and hostility they display. Time to do something about this.
Exactly, it opens the door to predators
@@DanceArchives24 and people don't even feel comfortable speculating whether or not they're lying if they might have bad intentions. obviously if they earnestly are trans there's no need to really question it, if they're not behaving weird, no need to question if they're a woman. but sometimes they are not earnestly women, sometimes they're trying to take advantage. we have to be able to question whether or not SOME trans women are actually trans or not.
Lets make this real simple: You use the bathroom for which your genitalia is made for. You can't expect every business to make a 3rd, gender neutral bathroom. This whole idea of "Well I feel a certain way so I can do what I want" needs to end.
Lmfao 🤣
Yes!!!!!
Bigger companies like Target, WalMart, ect. can and SHOULD be required to make Family Restrooms. This not only benefits trans people but also people like dads who must accompany their daughters or moms who need to accompany their sons to the toilet. With smaller companies who can't afford to do this, people should use the bathroom that correlates with their genitals in that moment.
@@TomikaKelly They shouldn't be required to do anything.
They shouldn't even be required to offer a public restroom.
That's a luxury they offer to you.
@@OfficialFedHater Right. It's a luxury for your customers to go to the bathroom. "They shouldn't be required to do anything" - that's some argument. If you had a market that free, any company that DID NOT OFFER A BATHROOM would go under, competing with those that did. Durr. Check your wiring.
If this child's dad doesn't expose himself to his daughter why would it be ok for a grow adult male who is a stranger sit in front this child be completely exposed.
Amen!
It's inappropriate even if the mother does it!
@littleone-kh6mz....Good comment. That's just it, none of it makes any sense.
And for some it can be utterly alien and unacceptable in their religion as well...
Absolutely well said 👏🏻.
She is not “misgendering”…she is telling the truth…..in fact she IDENTIFIES as a truth teller. Boom
To make one person comfortable, you make 100 other people uncomfortable? Sorry, but that's dumb.
True
@V O and they'd be facing a lawsuit too. Oh brave new world!
@V O all this is a problem because women took their sweet time to speak up on this. Now look, they are the ones most affected.
So you are saying you will do w/e 100 other people want just to make them comfortable?
That's California for you.
“If you feel uncomfortable (talking to the female) you have to leave”
Yay for women’s rights.
Women have plenty of rights bruh
@@KaiValentino-r5w that not the point
You do know that the trans woman has “woman’s rights” too don’t you??? You are leaving for discrimination and disturbing the peace
This “woman” has a history of exposing herself, sexual assaults, and was walking around exposing its appendage.
Aba’s comment about bringing his daughter with him into the bathroom isnt weird at all. As a woman I see mothers bring their little boys into the girls room all the time. No one cares haha we understand you gotta do what you gotta do
same. There are ways to do it to not expose her to men's private parts.
@Shippyn Farfanhz yeah
Once upon a time men would attempt to enter the ladies bathroom while women girls were in there. Omg. I Am such a Beautiful Intelligent Talented Charming Heffa that I would forbid the men entrance by blocking the outside of the door and informing the men that they can't go in right now.
Often I would be ...corrected (race age biological sex not a factor ) angrily by the men and/or their companions about how it is the law ( thanks obama) and tell me to move out the way...to PERMIT entrance.
I would laugh at them and inform them that they are next in line when the current females exited. ( 😆 the looks on their face 😆).
How many managers and supervisors eyes twinkle when informing me about the law ( thanks obama) as I informed them that I Am gonna let them in as soon as females came out. They can hold it. If it is an emergency, the men's bathroom is ( open hand palm up gesture) right there. 😆
Foh w/that bs.
Presurgery is not transgender ...it is cross-dressing.
Stay out the females restroom. We need our privacy.
Yeahhh i don’t bat an eyelid. But once they get to a certain age, maybe 8 or 9 (whenever the mother thinks their child is capable) their mothers should accompany them to the men’s toilet door and wait for them to do their business.
My mom did it when we were little, stopped when she met my stepdad. Eventually we were old enough to not need a parent watching out back lol
So far I’m agreeing with the idea of intersex bathrooms. They do that at my local Starbucks.
So many women have been victims of SA that the sight of male genitalia is triggering, especially if you’re in a vulnerable position such as the bathroom or changing room. And that guy that inserted himself into the situation was outta line.
As a trans woman myself, i really really hate hearing about stories like this. Those women had every right to be concerned in my opinion. No REAL trans woman would EVER do something like that, if anything they would try to hide something like that. It also really pisses me off when the “trans woman” in question acts like what they’ve done is fine and people just need to get over it? No no no, disgusting. How are you not petrified of all the women in there finding out that you’re trans bc of reactions like this? Like I just don’t get it.
That's true...I think most trans women don't want to draw attention to their penis. Very weird. I hope people aren't trying to take advantage of this by claiming to be trans when they're not in order to harass or prey on women.
Thanks for saying that 👏🏽 and more trans people need to speak up about how some creepy men are taking advantage of these laws. The laws need to be changed so that trans people have to prove that they are really trans bc like you said, a trans woman would not be swinging her d around especially strangers!
Ikr like tf
Ok I’m glad u said something cuz my trans family would NEVER
I'm going to be honest with you I have no problem with trans people but I do know that there are really s***** people in the world and as a victim of assault I would honestly be terrified if a person claims to be trans and flashes me or my kids in a locker room that would honestly have me petrified because to me it's a weapon a penis is a weapon unless it's wanted by both parties
This beautiful out spoken woman was on a news interview and even stated that this "trans woman" was walking to the jacuzzi half-cocked if you know what I mean in front of other women and children. So NO I do not believe that is was a real trans person, only a CREEP under the guise of being trans....I always knew something like this would happen when they implemented it years ago
Is there a link on RUclips where we can see the news interview?
@@Celery459 this is one...look for shero of #wispa stands up for women and girls and our female sex'd spaces as she makes a statement.....sorry I don't know how to do the link thing I know her name is Angel, and this one is like a press conference. I've seen another one on the news too...still looking
Exactly what I was afraid of as well - people taking advantage.
@@jennifermack5804 Thank you for sharing.
Unfortunately the law doesn't care and doesn't allow you do discriminate against this person. You can't prove they were lying and it doesn't matter. The law is the law and if you don't like it complain to your politicians
When I was breastfeeding my daughter, I was aware that it was legal for me to breastfeed her in public, however, knowing that it made people uncomfortable, I would either use a blanket to cover up or normally, I just tried to feed her privately. Who wants to make others uncomfortable and especially unsafe?!? It's absolutely unthinkable to me that someone would feel so comfortable making so many people including CHILDREN, feel unsafe...
Also, the reason that a transman would have less issues going into the men's bathroom is because there isn't a physical threat being posed the way there is when a transwoman goes into the women's bathroom.
Trans people need to fight for their own right to get a separate bathroom. IMO. Don’t force non-trans people to accept this, it’s discrimination. Non-trans people have a right to their privacy as well.
Trans are not going to fight for that. That is exclusionism and the point of painting gender as a subjective preference over biology is so that anyone can claim to be anything and "miscellaneous"-gender facilities are not required.
This is whats needed to end this whole debate. Trans people deserve to be comfortable and have their own separate safe space.
But then this put a target on trans people too (and we know they get attack)... what would be your solution for that ? And this is not a bathroom situation. I don't see women's private part in bathrooms... this is a specific issue that doesn't happen everyday. The spa (and spaces reserve for females) should find a solution to these situations bcz this is the world we live in (trans people exist so they should have their space too)
@@tania375 educate people properly and punish crimes that physically harm trans folks. Having a third bathroom/spa/sports category are only solutions for those specific issues. Them having their own safe spaces is needed.
Unfortunately there will be assholes who hurt others for simply existing. We should always protect and support trans people when its necessary.
@@fattinuggies3571 i agree for sports and spa ! But the public bathrooms ones are a little bit more complicated. We can make the same argument and said that we should educate people on why they shouldn't fake a "trans identity" just to enter females spaces. "Education" is not a fairly effective measure in my opinion but i don't have any solution that would protect and reassure both parties so maybe that's the only solution for now.
This is bizarre. Even if we accept the argument that we should respect people's self identified gender, why can't businesses just say that their facilities are split by sex, not gender. It's all gone crazy. Trans folk have it pretty tough but that shouldn't mean an end to all legitimate considerations about single sex spaces. This whole debate doesn't have to be so polarised. I'm pretty damn left wing but some parts of the left are insane.
Exactly. End of conversation. 👏🏼👏🏼
Respect. I typically do not agree with pefties but you hit this on the head.
The American political spectrum is so stunted that I can't tell if you mean the actual Left (i:e Socialists, Anarchists, and the like), or the American "Left-wing" (i:e Liberals and Social Justice advocates).
I'm not transphobic, but it is ridiculous that less than 1 percent of the population can dictate the rules for the majority.
@@GodlyWisdom_Discernment I think you should call it a night on this whole internet thing.
This is so sick and twisted. Kudos to the sister. A man exposing himself in the front of children is paedophilia...simple.
It's not it's inappropriate? Sure but, not pedophilia. What is wrong with you throwing accusations like that?
@@deeds_3026 no exposing yourself too minors is actually
@@Mandz-mj2xv Uhh no, Actually. It’s sexual indecency. Pedophilia has to do with the intention. You have no idea if this man was purposefully exposing himself to kids for the purpose of sexual gratification. Because, you know, we weren’t there. The act itself may have been pedophilic, but we don’t know that. The only thing we’re equipped to agree on is that this man committed an act of exposition in front of a minor of an objectively more vulnerable sex, which is sickening to no end. Thus, I’m not defending the man, or trans woman, or whatever, but to jump to it being pedophilia is just wrong.
Tl;Dr,
Correlation ≠ causation
exposition ≠ pedophilia.
Honey... no. Its a penis. if penis= pedophilia, then man, we are so screwed.
@@Mandz-mj2xv so I see where you are coming from. But what about dad's taking their small daughters out to swim and they have to change in the mens room. Are the dad and all the other guys in there pedos?
They gonna try to pack y’all up and call y’all transphobic but really it’s just common sense & logic. Why inconvenience several women & kids by making them feel uncomfortable all because you’re afraid of the backlash for being honest & logical?!?🤦🏾♂️
Yeah people are starting to not care when they are called transphobes or terfs. Those words get thrown around so easily nowadays, they no longer hold the same seriousness.
someone called preach a transphone. which is weird because aba was talking more about it than preach was. niggas be sleeping on preach
@@jomay78 same with racist and homophobic, those have lost most of their meaning and impact
@@mrmr4622 very much agree. And it's dangerous cause we'll end up in a boy who cried wolf situation, an actual racist or homophobe will come along, they'll scream racist! or whatever and nobody will pay any attention cause they've called everyone a racist.
@@canofsoda called him an iPhone?