I Bought A New Handbag And Was Reminded Of One Of THE MOST Important Shopping Philosophies…
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I always watch beginning to end, and yes, your friend was correct - you cannot do this video without showing the bag. I too have come to the same point in life that you are at - although I am 60 years old so didn't figure it out quite as quickly in life as you did. Downsized my collection a few years ago and now, due to a different financial situation, I can no longer just buy bags whenever the desire hits me. I only have about 4 bags and they are all ones that I love. I am now saving for a vintage Chanel small double flap. My point in posting is that I now actually have learned to appreciate the process of waiting and saving for a bag. A bag has to be very special in order for me to allow it into my space and the process of saving for it now adds to my appreciation when I actually attain the bag. I hope this realization helps anyone that is in my age bracket....it's never too late to learn what Caitlin has learned and very generously shares with us all.
I think 4 is the perfect size collection - 1 big enough to fit a laptop, 1 small for just essentials, an everyday casual and an everyday formal. Thanks for your wisdom.
@@constitutionalcarrot3720 Thank you! You are so right - those 4 styles are exactly what I kept in my collection. Works out perfectly for me and my lifestyle.
Happy to see you excited about a fun purchase! Moderation mindset is a good thing - if finances allow for it there is no need for an all or nothing extreme. I think this is the next phase for you - realizing that you can be intentional and trust yourself to make reasonable choices and then enjoy the result!
For the last 15-ish years I had a savings account where I used to save money for the really big luxury purchases. But every time I saved enough money, when the time came to buy the item, I couldn’t make myself pull the trigger. The account has grew big enough to be a down payment for a new apartment. Do I need to say that it made me happier than any bag or watch ever could?
I am so happy for you 🥰
This is how birthdays used to be; we didn’t have money to buy what we wanted when we wanted, we had to wait for our birthday or Christmas for gifts and that’s what made it special. I don’t buy luxe very often because it then becomes the norm and yes, less special, however I’m in my 50s so I have intentional spending down pat by now.
Oh My Gosh! Totally! When something exciting happens we should be excited! When we are stimulated every moment and things dontt mean anything that excitement dwindles.
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Thank you for saying this. I agree with all of it!
Such a good point!
I got my first lv as a Christmas gift as I knew the price was ridiculous. Do I regret going down that path. Once in a while. I did not buy more than two others after that gift as far as luxury but I refuse to contemplate it as in my world - it never made sense anyway tbh.
I've been a silent watcher for the last few months and I do love this kind of reflective content on spending and your journey as you get older and wiser. I personally was about to start purchasing designer products now in my late 20's but I have resisted due to your videos. Your videos help remind me to value the bags and clothes that I already love and have. Your content has really helped me to fight consumerism battles in my mind
Thankyou so much that really means a lot 🥰
Dude, Thank you for your honesty! I heard about you from another video blogger who was commenting on your "New Content" and honestly, I think your journey from one end of the spectrum to where you are now seems so healthy! As someone who let the fashion industry dictate every aspect of my life, and spent more money on bags and shoes than on my own mental or physical health it is awesome to see you doing this "luxury unboxing" in a way that is representative of how life can be for mere mortals. Where this wallet can bring joy but being aware hat the joy is a fleeting moment and you are able to live life outside the handbag world... Cudos lovely! Good job and I am definitely going to be watching more of this "new you". Thanks for showing us an honest version of this world and that both things can be true.
Thankyou so much that means a lot
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I like the fact that you did basically a reveal of how happy the bag made you. That is honestly so sweet ❤
😝🥰 Thankyou!!
I’m still here! I’m happy you scored one off of the website. I buy a bag or a piece of jewelry once a year and it brings me that same joy each time bc I waited all year for that one purchase!
I quit (more or less on purpose) shopping luxury bags mostly because of the new crazy prices - they are out of my budget and comfort zone. But recently, I got this feeling back when I (sounds super silly, I know)was hunting down some of my favourite toys that I loved as a child on ebay. My aunt sold them years ago without asking me, and I was sad about this. Now was the time that I thought to myself: f*** it! I go get them back - and now I am searching, getting a bargain or not and waiting impatiently for my most loved Polly Pocket sets...😂😂😂 Silly, but at least not so expensive as handbags! 😇❤
Love your new handbag btw - and even better that you feel genuinely happy about this!! 🤎
I have been detoxing a few months from purchasing completely and it was great idea, and I made a conclusion, that as I love fashion and styling I don’t want to stop buying completely but I am more selective in my choices, reducing the budget for purchases and save more. I get things from brands collaborations so I have no need to buy so much, my wardrobe is quite classical and I put pieces into it only if I feel they are for long with me and it will rich my closet even more for long-term essentials. I got so much inspiration after this detox and cleaning of my closet. I am happy with what I have and what I decided. Might make a video about it❤
I am so happy for you!
@@CaitlinPawlowski thank you, Caitlin! You videos inspired me on this journey so much, they are so great work❤️
As someone who has watched your videos for many years, i love your new content. I watch your channel for your personality, not the bags so much (I can’t afford any of it haha), but I find you very relatable in terms of shopping/ wanting stuff, and now that you’re past it, it also mirrors my journey with (cheaper) shopping. Keep on being you! You will always have viewers.
Wow, thank you 🥰
I’ve only been around for about a year and I enjoy watching from start to finish. My shopping addiction was actually with luxury fountain pens. I found that I was obsessive and overspending when I found your channel. You’ve been very helpful, and I enjoyed this video!
Thankyou so much 🥰
It's wonderful to see your true enthusiasm in regards to your nee handbag. It's not just another new shiny toy. It's truly something that you love and appreciate. ❤
I found your content after you switched to a more deinfluencing take, and as someone who loves fashion and appreciates high end fashion (especially as my funds typically make these things unattainable), I really appreciate these sorts of videos. I feel like it’s a great tool, both now and in the future, to help gear myself towards more healthy and intentional spending as money is something I do struggle with. All this to say that I love what you’re doing and keep doing it!
Thankyou so much!! 😍
I watch your videos all the way through. I think it’s interesting to hear stories behind certain purchases 😊 I only shop out of need now as far as clothing. But when it comes to bags I like to buy for my birthday or an achievement. I think when you shop more intentionally it makes receiving the item more special and exciting.
I have been on low buy about 3 years now, after ruining my financial sitiation with shopping addiction. Now I appriciate buying even everyday items and bigger purchases give me so much joy! I also get satisfaction from taking care of my clothes, shoes and bags. I don’t feel quilty anymore after shopping and I have been able to find so much healthier ways to cope with stress, anxiety and shame, dancing is my addiction now 💃🏻
Thank you for these videos, feels so good to know that I’m not alone with my recovery journey 💞
I am so happy for you!!! 🥰
I loved this video. I started watching right when you were deconstructing from shopping and it’s been great to see your journey and how thoughtful you’ve become about purchasing. I’ve never had the money to buy luxury, but I did used to shop for fun or to cheer myself up and this last year I realized I have too much stuff that I don’t use. It’s not even stuff I don’t like, but it’s too much for one person to actually wear and enjoy. So I’m on a low buy year and it honestly has made the few purchases I’ve made feel more exciting and special.
That’s so great to hear! 😍
I’m happy to hear that you’ve found that feeling again 😊 I get that feeling with all of my bags and big purchases but I don’t with clothing and other bits.
I have taken to returning it straight away if it doesn’t make me feel that way or it’s too hard to make work for myself.
I do think that has a lot to do with my learnings over the years as you yourself has done because I have certainly been there but I also think it’s easier to return an item now and it’s also easy to find a replacement unlike before so there is no reason to settle anymore 🤷🏼♀️
Just adding I started to buy clothes from cheaper brands because of how I was feeling (which was a minefield) but that actually gave me more excitement as to finding something that was as good as what I was buying but ridiculously cheaper
I’m glad you are feeling better and less like a minefield 🥰🥰🥰
I watch from beginning to end. I'm happy to see you so happy 😊
It's funny, last yr I had an unintentional low buy, but already this yr I've had a few splurges. I'm noticing that the associated feelings fluctuate.
I'm noticing my attention shifting to other content and likes, but sometimes wonder if I'm just redirecting the "addiction" to something else? Lots of soul searching going on 😊
The bag looks lovely on you Caitlin x
With the algorithm I feel like it's really easy to fall back into a feed which constantly promotes spending your money. I've noticed it too. A few views or likes and I'm back to everything focused on wanting me to buy something from them.
Since I've deleted tiktok, it's been easier since I find that Ig's algorithm is not a good😂
@loes6839 this resonates with me strongly!! I know exactly what you mean!
I hope you’re doing well, you seem so much happier in life ☺️
I found your channel a few years back when my handbag journey got out of control. I’m in the mind space of being more intentional on what I have in my wardrobe currently and I’ve sold off the majority of my bags, but I find your not purchasing a bag for over a year such a motivation. I just purchased a luxury bag a few days ago for my birthday, and have decided I want it to be my last purchase for a while. Like you, I hope it’s in a 12+ month timeframe. I really want to be more disciplined and heal from what was likely a coping mechanism for me during a stressful season in life. And as you also touched on, to make handbag purchases special once more. Thanks for sharing your journey.
I’m so excited for you! Always here if you need to chat xx
I’m still here for this new version of your channel! Love the new content, it’s very helpful!
Thankyou so much 🥰🥰🥰
Caitlin I have been following along since the heavy shopping days. I am very much on your level with shopping for bags. Haven’t purchased a bag in two years. Thanks for sharing.
Love this video! Am really tired of "traditional" unboxings. Appreciate your message and insights as well!
Still here… it is very nice to see you so excited!
Love this video and realization, thanks for sharing.. I’ve also realized I’m just wanting to acquire bags and the shock and awe feeling I had for my first bag is long gone when I buy new one. They are sooo expensive now that it’s not worth spending the money without the love and excitement.
I am going through the same “change “ that you but mine is taking some years . I started off Birth control and stop shopping as much ! Inspired by you I did a cooking class and love it . I am still trying to find passion on little things and plan my life accordingly ❤️ still love shopping but I am way more focused on content and the happy feeling of spending money . So proud of you ! Thank you
Thanks for sharing!! That makes me so happy 🥰🥰
Hello my name is shi i actually just found you I'm actually dealing right now with my shopping addiction I'm in the middle of it and I'm trying very hard to turn away from it I am in my 50s so I've had this addiction way back when I lived with my mom and I am now in the Last 5 Years realized my shopping addiction and when I came across your channel 2 weeks ago it's been very eye-opening for me to see that I have a problem but I'm working on it and I'm turning away from it and I thank you for your videos I love the way you explain things, I love the way you talk, love your accent, and I just love the real you I am grateful that I found your Channel I hope you have a blessed day and thank you very much for just being honest and putting it out there we need more like you I've been watching a lot of your videos since I found you two weeks ago and so far very refreshing anyways don't want to bother you just wanted to say thank you for your content keep up the good work
I honestly find your content so refreshing! Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this. I have tried to be a lot more intentional with my spending this last year and I definitely get giddy with my purchases as it actually feels like a treat when I buy something new! I know that feeling 🫶🏼
I'm so glad! Thanks for being here 🥰
in my 20's I never had enough money to buy handbags I wanted and desired. I'm 33 now and in the past few years I've been able to buy a few handbags here and there. I now have about 5 designer bags, which is an exciting event for me each time. hearing your experience of being sort of jaded in the past to buying these things makes me feel gratitude for not being able to spend in that way because it is a reminder that this is a special treat I've given myself after a lot of hard work and discipline.
Ive followed you from the shopping era and have been watching more of you in this new era ❤
Enjoyed that, enjoy your new purchase and may the giddiness stay for a while 🤗
Caitlin, your video hit home for me! I've been trying to shift how I think about shopping, aiming for more meaningful purchases rather than just adding to the pile. Your talk about the excitement of truly valuing what you buy instead of constantly looking for the next buy really opened my eyes. It's like a wake-up call to enjoy and appreciate what I already have. Thanks for putting it into words so perfectly. Can't wait to see what you share next!
Yay Thankyou so much 😍🥰
Still here and loving your videos! I had a crazy phase and have calmed down. Just pulled trigger on a Chanel WoC last night, I’m am that childish excited. First bag in a year too x 🎉 have fun with your new baby.
That is awesome! Xx
Good job!!! I went and got the bottega andiamo last month but I told myself I’m done after this purchase for a while. I decluttered so much also!!!!
Hello pretty lady!! I am still here from your hauls, unboxings, to your rebirth😊 enjoy your new journey 😊
I am so proud of you . Yes I have been here since the crazy shopping. I loved it, cuz I was doing the same. I too cut my spending. I got sick and my salary decreased. But i have a closet full of designer handbags,shoes, clothes, and I am in no mood to wear them. I know I Will eventually but honestly that was my wake up call . Now I am just disgusted by overconsumption. I love your new bag and your TEETH LOOK AMAZING!!!!!!
Thank you so much!! ❤️❤️❤️
Caitlyn, I just got my last bag in my lifetime. I am done with handbags. I've been collecting since 2010 and I am over it.
What I’ve bought this year that’s really excited me is Dior fine jewelry and a Bulgari ring. As jewelry is forever and everyday it makes me so happy! The way price increases are going with bags it’s jewelry category so that’s what I’ve bought instead ❤
Hi Caitlin! Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences! I always enjoy your videos. I understand it is not your common context anymore, but I was wondering if you could show bags that you kept in your collection. I know that sold quite a few. I would want to know from a practical standpoint. I don’t have a lot of handbags myself and always evaluate my needs when making a decision to purchase. Your experience would be helpful! :)
I’m a newer viewer and I’ve been loving your thoughts on things. I love seeing how you’ve changed and matured to a new set of interests and priorities in life. I find that interesting and do resonate with wanting a better balance between seeking status objects and loving beautiful things, but also not having to own them.
But yes, visuals are important so I would’ve wanted to see the bag.
we love the growth!
Thankyou 🥰
I just love how excited you are to have this bag!! xo
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Friend I am still here from the 👛 content but separate ways because I realize I couldn’t keep up with the bags but I am so exited where you at and your new content ❤ 😘
I’ve watched your vids for years. ❤ I’m glad you found balance and contentment. Great to see
Thankyou so much 😘
I understand your excitement , Caitlin, . The bag is beautiful😍 I am on a low buy. I still buy quite a bit. But my purchases are becoming very thoughtful, no spontaneous. I am excited to shop in that manner, building curated closet. Have a blessed day🙏❤️
Have a beautiful weekend ahead 🥰
I wear and carry things around the house if I’m actually super excited about them too!!! Same with things I’ve made, the first thing I crocheted was a hat and for weeks I only took it off to sleep. But I’m the opposite to you with shipping. I’ve now stopped looking at the tracking so that I can be surprised by the things I’m excited about! I’m a fairly new viewer but I really like your mindset and the way you talk about things 💕 Luckily I never had a shopping addiction but I think the changes you’ve made are still relevant to me and to anyone who lives in a consumerist society
Thankyou so much 🥰
Love the video and watched start to finish.
I have Been here since almost the beginning and I’m loving your journey❤ keep up the good work creating the new content and sharing it with us. I have been enjoying it.
I have watched for a long time and always love your videos!! Congrats on your new bag. I think it’s amazing that you are being so transparent because this is important to you, and seeing you happy is always wonderful!! ❤❤
Thank you so much!! ☺️ ❤️
I felt that excitement lately when I buy something takes me back when I was a kid with toys my mom got me
Girl, you know I’m still here. And idk how long I’ve been with you!!! 😂 I want to say at least 4-5 different places you’ve lived. I think we all go through shifts and changes. You’ve just gone through so many and you’ve been so transparent with yourself and your YT community. And yes, you have to show us the bag!!! And she’s a beautiful little number too-very classy and understated but fun and kinda practical. I kinda want one now… o honestly only have like 2 bags on my wishlist. A Chanel CF that I’ll just never afford and a Fendi Baguette or 2. But then I rarely get to use the bags I do have-all I seem to use are my NF totes for work 🤷🏼♀️ So it’s really about enjoying what I do have right now. 💖 June
Thankyou so much for still being here June 🥰 I hope life is going well for you xx
You were site BLOCKED?!? Gurl... 😄 Been watching you for years, so proud of the wisdom you've matured into. We can get desensitized to things, and should slow down. Good for you! 🥂
I love this. I have been here since before and after having a child, I now only buy two to three bags a year and I get so excited and just enjoying my items. It’s nice to be so excited.
That’s so great!!
This happened to me with travel, I think we discussed on Instagram before. I just got a job in tourism (national tour guide) and weirdly I’ve notice since my training for this and going into this line of work I don’t want to book 5 different trips as much now because my brain is getting that “tourism” hit but in a productive way. Changing the meaning does work
I am so happy for you! That is seriously so incredible 👏
Me 👋🏼. I’ve completely changed my shopping habits over the last 4 months and plan to continue to adapt and change.
I have a luxury RUclips channel and still plan to buy luxury. It’s something I enjoy and don’t plan on giving up. HOWEVER, I plan on buying much much less. Starting out with only buying 3 bags this year and hopefully less in 2025.
Hey, I watch your channel sometimes! I like following the updates❤
That’s so good to hear! X
I love all of your content. I love your personality and i find your content very interesting
Thank you so much!! Xx
WOW thank you for this content. Nearly 50 here, and for the first time I’m able to really indulge my 30 year handbag love.
So I have had a highbuy 2 years, I only shop Vuitton bags.
However this period has been more intentional than ever before ❤
“Giddy excitement” as you perfectly phrased it, is my number 1 rule!
With one exception, I never purchase the bag on first sight, and I only shop instore.
I walk away and allow the feelings to either go away or build. Then I book with my SA for a date a while out. And I wait again ❤
By the time I make the purchase I’m giddy with excitement.
And I’ve never returned a single purchase. Each one still thrills me ❤
Lovely Caitlin, I have been here since your earlier days! I’ve never been a big commenter, but I’ve been here😬I believe what you’re experiencing is maturity and learning from life lessons! It’s one of the benefits of the aging process, and trust me there aren’t many others so enjoy this! 😊
Thank you so much!! And Thankyou for commenting and saying hey 🥰
I’m happy for you, Caitlin. I’ve been watching you for a while and appreciate your honesty. My bags still bring me joy. But I am trying to curtail my bag purchases as well.
I always watch your videos to the end!! I'm an intentional buyer. When I was younger, it was out of necessity and now it's just a habit. When I finally decide to make that special purchase, I'm always checking the tracking number ... it DOES feel like Christmas!
I’ve been here for years and it’s wonderful to see you so happy and healthy!
Thankyou so much 🥰
If you stop having the rush of immense joy and love for your purchases then it’s a sign to slow down. I’ve never been a huge shopper and every luxury bag I have I’ve given a lot of thought to before purchasing. I will most often wait a few months to make sure I’m still dreaming of the bag, shoes, etc. I’m not about to make a big purchase impulsively. For the most part I will purchase or my husband will buy me a bag for an occasion….birthday, Christmas, Anniversary or Mother’s Day. I feel it gives the purchase more meaning. I’m so glad that you’ve got that excitement back and realize that before you weren’t even enjoying your bags before thinking of the next. That can be very toxic and dangerous for most people financially.😖
I am literally following you because I resonate with the thought of buying less!! OF COURSE I want to see the one and only bag that you buy in a year 🤯😍❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thankyou!
Hi Caitlin! 👋 I was here for your old content, & I coincidentally started becoming more intentional with my own purchases, right around the same time you did. I still love designer jewelry & handbags, but I tend to admire those things from afar, w/o adding them to my shopping cart, these days. Really, there isn't much that I actually need, & the truth is that a lot of that stuff doesn't even suit my lifestyle, anyway. But I agree... for me to make a big purchase, it would have to not only be something I'd use constantly- I'd also have to be ecstatic about receiving it in the mail!
So glad we are on the same track 😊
I was a subscriber from b4 ur channel shift I enjoy ur old content and the new content I’m 34 this year and really had to take a step back 2 years ago bc I had a shopping addiction. I would personally like to see some things you still purchase and why coming from your new mindset around shopping I think that would be interesting. Congrats on the Kelly to go it’s super cute.
You can buy things from time to time and be completely content and satisfied just because you buy this wallet on chain does not mean that you’re going to go back to your always at all it’s actually very healthy to be able to buy things once in a while without feeling the guilt, so bravo to you!!
Love your content. I shop too much so this helps. I like the Philly of colorful noir’s chanel. Luxury minimalism. I would never give it all up but I feel like I need to slow down and curate special pieces only. Keep going and don’t let negative people affect you. You’re moving in a positive direction. Everything in moderation ❤
Thankyou! Xx
Love all your content. I’ve been here since the luxury disease days. I feel like I’ve grown with you. I do wish we got to see Flynn more often ❤
Hey! aww I’ll bring Flynn on again soon
He is mostly sleeping when I film because you know he has such a hectic schedule 😂
I’m in the middle addictive long phase to cope with grief and I loved your videos it helps me realize
I am so glad 🥰
The bag is posh! My congrats!🎉
are you interested on doing a reflection video on the finance side of constant expenditure if its not too personal when you were on the merry go round of buying items? think a lot of people are or have been in the same position.
I’ve been watching you since the beginning and I loved this video. I’m a little behind you in ‘this journey’ but I’m learning a lot from you and trying to get where you are rn.
Thankyou ❤️
Congrats! The Kelly to Go didn’t end up working for me even though I paid a premium on the 2nd hand market and sold under retail. I tended to over stuff it so it could hold my phone and found closing and opening put too much stress on the touret. Traded up for a mini lindy that could hold a bit more but if you treat the KTG just as a wallet it’s great and I hope you love it!
Love watching your videos and your journey towards intentional spending and keeping it real. ❤ thanks for sharing something so personal that resonates with so many people
Thanks so much!
I've been here since your old content (almost 4 years now) and watched the whole way through. I've cut down on shopping over the last year. In some ways, I've felt the feelings you have but don't know if I'm all the way there. Maybe I'll get there this year since I'm not using such strict rules
This was on the Hermes Aussie website last week and I wanted to buy it SO BADLY!! Watching your newer videos has helped me so much!! I love the bag and I will get it one day but I’m on a no buy till June xx
I hope you manage to get one when your no buy is over xx
I originally watched your videos for the luxury unboxings and im still here. I like both - me personally are somewhere in between ur old and new lifestyle. Im still in my 20s and expect I’ll be wanting to spend less in my 30s. For now i really enjoy my luxury shopping (which is not extreme by any means as I’m a student and only have a parttime job). But i do feel the heavy cravings for shopping from time to time, and still trying to find the balance ur talking about. Where I still indulge and enjoy fashion and shopping as a hobby, but where it doesnt just feed the craving
Unsolicited advice from someone who is 29 going on 30: get your emergency fund built up early because it's harder to do so when loan payments kick in. I love the few luxury items I have. If my goals change in the future, it feels good knowing in most cases, I wouldn't have to sell anything. That's how I found a balance
Bags are not a necessity .. they should bring you joy yes. I been here since the beginning btw ❤
I started watching you pre Covid and I loved you then and LOVE you now!!!
Thankyou so much 🥰🥰🥰
Spending money on the overpriced things simply means that you are choosing to make a particular brand richer. Bag is just a bag.
I think that is something we all strive for. That ‘Oh my god’ giddiness. You’re right, over buying takes that away
I am 33 and I try to stop shopping in order to go travel more
Full disclosure we were always here for your personality we enjoy your accent and insight. It’s the whole package so switching content is so valuable we are all growing with you so don’t worry about any of it. Your tribe will always stick around.
Thank you so much!☺️
I am so excited to see the bag! I am where you are but we have to buy a bag or two!
I get what you mean. I am an avid shopper but am way more intentional now. Not nearly as many impulsive choices. You can really enjoy shopping when you’re not as frivolous about it. I now review my closet and see what I am not wearing. If it’s a high quality designer piece and a classic style then I keep it. If I can no longer fit it then it’s sold, given away, or donated. Now I have been buying a mix of designer and bridge wear for 30 years and between pregnancy, marriage, life and the menopause…almost half of it no longer fits so beware young ones..the body you have today will most likely not be the body of tomorrow which is okay…thats called life. This is long…sorry.
I’m a life long gym rat and half marathoner and am 16 pounds over my 30 year old selfs weight. It is a daily battle just to try to stay in my size 8’s.(old size was 6) I don’t do any extreme diets and just try to eat like a normal person..not vegan, not keto, no Adkins’s, just a normal person who still eats carbs. I say all this to say let’s all not get too serious about shopping. It is an expense..not an investment. (Except for Hermes Quota bags) It should be fun and enjoyable..something we look forward to. And a lot of it won’t be worth beans in 20 years so lets all relax and just enjoy the shopping we do.
I have a few”it” bags from the past and they were all around $1,500 back in the 90’s.($1,500 then is like $4,500 now) Those handbags are worth nothing now..maybe $100 bucks at a thrift store. This will be the fate of most bags with the exception of Hermes. Back then Prada, Burberry, Gucci and LV reined supreme. No social media just fashion mags, Vogue, Elle, Harpers,..you would fold the page and on the weekend go to the mall and seek out the item. I still rock those bags and they have held up extremely well. All the hardware is in mint condition (still very little scratched hardware .why can’t they do that no) Most of the clothes are not worth much now however replacing a limited edition Burberry runway piece is impossible today( and surprisingly still a bit pricey if you can track them down) and the quality back then was so superior that I now buy 65% of my lux designer stuff second hand. I’m not dropping $1,200 on khaki pants when they show up on resale sites 6 months later with tags for $300. I only pay full price for the occasional handbag or piece of clothing that I love and that might be 6-8 pieces.
Additionally I found that shopping IRL is saving me so much $$ since it takes more effort than clicking add to cart. I know this is long but I thought this might resonate with some of your viewers. I think we all forgot about how much fun IRL shopping is. It is so much fun and I am in so much more control since I stick to my January wishlist 85% of the time. Once I know my size from a designer as they do vary I hit the web an all the sites and set up alerts…and wait for the sales. I am occasionally tempted but never impulsive for any big ticket items. And if I miss an item I don’t sweat it. This shopping strategy drags out the process and I find it is enjoyable…plus I burn extra calories when I hit the mall lol! I can skip the gym on those days.
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Thanks for sharing 🥰
Yep, still here. I’m at the point where I only buy a major accessory once every 1 to 3 years depending (handbag, piece of fine jewellery, etc.). Now in my mid 40’s I came to the realisation that I will never need to purchase a handbag or a wallet ever again unless I have a specific occasion or want a specific look. I have enough to last me though until I’m at least 100 without them wearing out. It was an interesting (& liberating) feeling. I’ll probably buy a few more in my lifetime, but my focus has now completely shifted & it does actually feel special when I do purchase something.
Aww wait did I miss your unboxing of the Van Cleef Sweet Alhambra earrings? Love the Hermes Kelly To Go too ❤
I never shared the unboxing for the earrings because I don’t share my purchases very often anymore but I got them when I was in Sydney in December 😊
I could care less about the bag or the "unboxing" part of it. I watch your channel for you & your commentary. 💙
Love your content!
I’m still here! I love listening to your take on things.
Thankyou! X
This is a very healthy feeling as a woman in her thirties. I’m right there with you with you girl. ❤
Thankyou so much 🥰
I’m getting excited even for “old” items whether it’s clothes or jewelry that I have not worn for a while:-) as if I got something new:-) Since you have acquired certain pieces in the past, I encourage you from time to time make the wear and tear reviews after let’s say 3 years of wearing it (for some reason there are not that many on youtube).
congrats, beautiful and I am right there with you, with reducing spending and being intentional about it
Although I don’t personally love the bag you bought, I can understand how it made you feel. And I love that for you. I also had a problematic luxury shopping addiction. I now budget my money and spend it on niche fragrances 😂 one addiction to another but at least I’m spending a little less.
Hi dear Caitlin,
Love your yt video. Keep killing it!..... are those affiliate links in description?
I’m new to your content. This is exactly what I’m here for ❤
I'm so glad! Thankyou 💋
Always watch your videos from beginning to end and cute wallet, congrats on getting it ❤😊
You're the best! Xx
@@CaitlinPawlowski thanks 😊!
I think i was shopping to fill my emptiness. I do still buy luxury but i find i dont impulse buy anymore and i really think about how much use ill get out of it and then decide if its worth the money. Prices at the moment are crazy too!!!
Same for me I definitely used to use it to fill a void 🥰 and yes prices are wild
Oh girl! It seems that every enjoyable thing on this earth is bad for our health, waistline or bank account....i started cutting back on the shopping 1 or 2 years ago, deciding that i should spend my money on experiences instead of things. I don't have any children who will inherit my things and i won't take these things to the grave. So i'd rather die with good memories in my head. But i admit, sometimes it's hard to resist buying a nice bag or pair of shoes. But i know that if i do buy them, the satisfaction won't last very long.
I got this feeling around xmas. I saw a jacket while window shopping out with the husband and fell in love. But it was expensive so I left it. I could not get it out of my head 😅 so I told HB the next day, let’s go have another look! I need your objective feedback.
I put an outfit on that would be the vibe I would be styling it with. Tried it on and just stood there in awe 🤣🤣 he just went “you gotta”. So I did.
I have been wearing this thing for everything. Any excuse is good enough. HB is doing a good job at hyping it up too 😄 when he sees me in it “amore, you look so damn cool !!!” (He’s the best)
That’s so sweet!!
Still here. Beginning to end. 😊
Thankyou! Xx
Still here! This definitely resonates, I'm on a similar but different journey too 💜
I’m so happy to hear that! Xx
@@CaitlinPawlowski I watch your videos for your energy and personality 😂 Keep doing you! xx