LET THAT FRIEND GO! | A PROPHETIC WORD FROM GOD ABOUT FRIENDSHIPS | CHRISTIAN FRIENDSHIP ADVICE

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  • Опубликовано: 22 авг 2024
  • Hey Y'all Hey! In this vid, I provide a prophetic word from God about friendships. As always, I pray you are blessed AND entertained by this video. Thank you for watching! And please don't forgot to SUBSCRIBE! :)
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    **SCRIPTURES REFERENCED**
    Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego replied to him, “King Nebuchadnezzar, we do not need to defend ourselves before you in this matter. If we are thrown into the blazing furnace, the God we serve is able to deliver us from it, and he will deliver us from Your Majesty’s hand. But even if he does not, we want you to know, Your Majesty, that we will not serve your gods or worship the image of gold you have set up.
    ‭‭Daniel‬ ‭3‬:‭16‬-‭18‬ ‭NIV‬‬
    Nebuchadnezzar was so furious with Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego that his face became distorted with rage. He commanded that the furnace be heated seven times hotter than usual. Then he ordered some of the strongest men of his army to bind Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego and throw them into the blazing furnace. So they tied them up and threw them into the furnace, fully dressed in their pants, turbans, robes, and other garments. And because the king, in his anger, had demanded such a hot fire in the furnace, the flames killed the soldiers as they threw the three men in. So Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego, securely tied, fell into the roaring flames.
    ‭‭Daniel‬ ‭3‬:‭19‬-‭23‬ ‭NLT‬‬
    Then, leaving the crowds outside, Jesus went into the house. His disciples said, “Please explain to us the story of the weeds in the field.” Jesus replied, “The Son of Man is the farmer who plants the good seed. The field is the world, and the good seed represents the people of the Kingdom. The weeds are the people who belong to the evil one. The enemy who planted the weeds among the wheat is the devil. The harvest is the end of the world, and the harvesters are the angels. “Just as the weeds are sorted out and burned in the fire, so it will be at the end of the world. The Son of Man will send his angels, and they will remove from his Kingdom everything that causes sin and all who do evil. And the angels will throw them into the fiery furnace, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth. Then the righteous will shine like the sun in their Father’s Kingdom. Anyone with ears to hear should listen and understand!”
    ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭13‬:‭36‬-‭43‬ ‭NLT‬‬
    Don't fool yourselves. Bad friends will destroy you. Be sensible and stop sinning. You should be embarrassed that some people still don't know about God.
    ‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭15‬:‭33‬-‭34‬ ‭CEV‬‬
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Комментарии • 396

  • @jasminwilliams7097
    @jasminwilliams7097 Год назад +99

    I been feeling uneasy about a certain friend. The closer I get too God the more I feel I should let this friend go. But I was like maybe I'm tripping. She's a good person. I prayed about it. Maybe this is confirmation.

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  Год назад +23

      This. Is. Confirmation.

    • @jasminwilliams7097
      @jasminwilliams7097 Год назад +4

      @@LaLaJenkins Thank you, I am going to take it as confirmation.

    • @angiewheeler1889
      @angiewheeler1889 4 месяца назад +2

      I needed this about a friend I've been praying for to come to know the lord and I still do pray for her she pulls me down I put on the whole armor of God daily too and pray over myself I've been searching for God's word about this and he'd give me Revelation about this thank you for this biblestudy

  • @tjjohnson6388
    @tjjohnson6388 Год назад +135

    GOD is doing in my life. Sometimes I feel alone. But I know HE is with me

    • @Brendaglam24
      @Brendaglam24 Год назад +3

      AMEN

    • @FavHerofGodMinistry
      @FavHerofGodMinistry 9 месяцев назад +2

      Same! I’m good though now, because God’s my bestie now!

    • @CherryJ2911
      @CherryJ2911 7 месяцев назад +1

      Yes!! God is The Best Bestie!❤

  • @castlee7601
    @castlee7601 8 месяцев назад +21

    This is true! My bf left me because I didn’t wanna have premarital sex anymore but I’m gonna choose God first.

  • @carlarose731
    @carlarose731 Год назад +92

    I learned at an early age that you will only have 1 to 2 real friends in life.

    • @M.Sforza
      @M.Sforza 4 месяца назад +2

      And even those friends sometimes disappear.

    • @abeekuworldchanger380
      @abeekuworldchanger380 3 месяца назад +5

      And really you don't need a lot of friends. The Bible even warns us that one with too many friends is unwise. As someone who knows unbelievers and Christians and is naturally an Ambivert, I have to remind myself of boundaries and other notions of Friendships. They're constantly changing.

  • @LeadLadyTaylor
    @LeadLadyTaylor Год назад +32

    Amos 3:3 says, "how can two walk together except they be in agreement"
    1 Corinthians 15:33- evil communication corrupts good manners

    • @matthewfrahm9850
      @matthewfrahm9850 4 месяца назад

      Twas looking for scripture from what God has said. Thank you!

  • @FavHerofGodMinistry
    @FavHerofGodMinistry 9 месяцев назад +21

    Honeeeey you are lucky to have two, in down to “zero” close friends. At first it bothered me, I’m like dang Abba I can’t have no friends 😭😩 but once God started revealing why, I’m okay with it now. It’s just been God and I now for a year!

  • @brittanyrene24
    @brittanyrene24 Год назад +106

    I literally was talking to God about this then went on RUclips and your message popped up. I have had 2 friends for 15 years I have been not wanting to let go. IT was nothing but GOD. Thanks for this

  • @omoowobhd
    @omoowobhd Год назад +19

    It's the separation of the wheat from the tares...Be set apart!

  • @AWholeLottaLola
    @AWholeLottaLola Год назад +57

    _this came to me at the right time. Still trying to get over a friendship rejection. A friend removed me from their life. God bless you and thank you_

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  Год назад +4

      🙌🏽

    • @AWholeLottaLola
      @AWholeLottaLola Год назад +1

      @@LaLaJenkins _also I love your earrings! They're beautiful_

    • @mysteriousbynature
      @mysteriousbynature Год назад +3

      Same here. My friend is in an abusive relationship and I told her I wanted better for her and she doesn't deserve that. That's all I said. She told me I was trying to come between her and her husband. It hurts but I 've prayed for her and asked God for strength.

  • @whostalking
    @whostalking Год назад +72

    Thankyou Jesus! This friend just drains me physically, spiritually & mentally. These topics are not Popular but are much needed. These things are going on in people lives. Keep letting God use you..

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  Год назад

      🙌🏽

    • @beautyforashes06
      @beautyforashes06 Год назад

      👏🏾🙌🏾👏🏾🙌🏾👏🏾🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @gretchenguichard1623
      @gretchenguichard1623 Год назад

      Oh how i agree! 💯👊🎯

    • @gretchenguichard1623
      @gretchenguichard1623 Год назад

      I saved this video and another one post by you because it's personal and it lined up with the prayers I been praying. I think it was the video about many people are going to die before their time due to sin. Sis, I know GOD IS USING YOU in an awesome mighty way. Glad you are on. Happy Birthday 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
      My Birthday was May 16th
      😊🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤much love peace n blessings 👊

  • @jmunroe
    @jmunroe Год назад +39

    I remember clearly back in October 2021, a situation happened at the church I attended for nearly 9 years I had to leave in addition to many people, most of these people were my “closest friends”. I knew they weren't my friends for a long while by the way they treated me. I felt from God I was tolerated, not celebrated or loved. I asked God for him to reveal people to me, to remove them if they are not meant to be there and he did, a mass exodus of people left my life and even until now he's still removing people I've been trying to hold onto. Basically, God will do it for you if you have challenges doing it yourself. He loves us that much. I barely have friends now, but instead of taking as I'm unlovable or not worthy of genuine friendships, he's separating me for such a time as this, for true friendships ordained by him.

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  Год назад

      🙏🏽

    • @Kelly-sl6vz
      @Kelly-sl6vz 6 месяцев назад

      I’m going through the same thing!

    • @abeekuworldchanger380
      @abeekuworldchanger380 3 месяца назад

      I did this 3 ish years ago now. God truly answers prayer . He exposed friendships in my life and he gave the go ahead to remove a lot of them. Some he said we're even okay to block.
      It doesn't have to make sense to others. If God gave the instructions that's all that matters. What's worse is rationalization and disobedience.

  • @ninagrace-lee8323
    @ninagrace-lee8323 Год назад +64

    Yeah I feel it too 😭 the dynamic shifted when I became a Christian. I saw this video initially when I broke up with my ex (for good).
    Now my friendships are a little shaken. I’m just riding the wave at this point.
    Interesting how when I was depressed, down and out, spiritually not aligned with the Lord it was easy to befriend me. Now that I walk with God, it’s been tense. Even “Christians” don’t even want to talk about the Lord on a daily basis

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  Год назад +10

      Whew! Everyone one that professes Christ is not truly with Christ.

    • @shecodes94623
      @shecodes94623 Год назад +2

      Girl I am here for u, lets talk about Christ 🙏🏽

    • @jonathongrinols283
      @jonathongrinols283 6 месяцев назад

      I don't know what you're talking about. This Christian wants to talk about Jesus every day.

  • @richellebussell
    @richellebussell 17 дней назад +1

    I really needed this today. I cried last night asking my husband why the people I consider friends aren’t friends to me, why I feel rejected, what I did, asking myself all these questions feeling even more frustrated because I didn’t do anything but change my life for the BETTER! Stopped drinking, stopped partying, stopped including God where I wanted and realized how much I need him. I started feeling like people really truly like the worst version of me, not this version. It hurts, it does, but I needed to hear and see this today. I will be still and remember God has not left me, it’s a reason for it all. ❤

  • @Ifyouonlyknew22673
    @Ifyouonlyknew22673 2 месяца назад +2

    I had one best friend of 20 plus years it’s
    down to just me now, it’s very peaceful I need New friends who love the Lord not just say they do

  • @brithafley
    @brithafley 11 месяцев назад +12

    Lord I pray for these like-minded godly friendships in Jesus name Kingdom sisters best friends who put You first in everything! Lord show me and give me a crystal clear picture of which friend you're wanting me to not associate with any more and make a way for that to happen in a way that gives this person Grace and dignity and that there is no ill will. In Jesus Name, Amen

    • @abeekuworldchanger380
      @abeekuworldchanger380 5 месяцев назад

      Same for me. Praying for Kingdom brotherly friendships. Men who love the gospel, men who pray, men who aren't turning back for Jesus.
      Not this I'm a christian, I go to church on Sundays and only read my Bible when I feel like it

  • @corneliushood5081
    @corneliushood5081 Год назад +11

    I had to leave facebook for this very reason of knowing that with God we all have seasons we must travel down and some roads are not pleasant. We don’t need a million likes or the approval of people, we need Gods approval and his purpose s in our lives is the highest priority, don’t seek the praises of man, it’s a deep trap, but when God smiles 😊concerning you, we know his approval and favor is all we need. We must be the change that People so desperately need so that they can to get closer to God. Friendship has to have a God driven purpose, for we are salt and light in this dark World. 😊

  • @jaiywha1810
    @jaiywha1810 Год назад +43

    Yep… This was really good! God is also doing the same within families. Some family members can’t go the whole journey with us. Jesus will come through with his sword and separate relationships…even in families. He didn’t come to bring peace! Luke 12:51-53 It’s hard but it’s necessary if we are to go higher in the Lord! Bless you Sister!

  • @allthingscustomized2
    @allthingscustomized2 Год назад +13

    God definitely removed the wrong people from my life but have began to replace with wonderful people who are fully grounded in God and genuinely want to help me with understanding my gifts 🥰🥰

    • @YahLoverDOMMY13
      @YahLoverDOMMY13 Год назад +3

      I can't wait for that. I'm in the era of being separated and walking alone. I'm in a new place, and I don't want to start making the wrong sorts of friends!

    • @allthingscustomized2
      @allthingscustomized2 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@YahLoverDOMMY13 amen to that. Definitely remain patient with the process. Sometimes it doesn’t make sense in the moment but eventually it will all come together. Seasons of isolation is needed. God has to have our undivided attention. The lesser distractions the better. Too many distractions can hinder us from being able to clearly hear Him or understand what He’s needing from us.

    • @abeekuworldchanger380
      @abeekuworldchanger380 5 месяцев назад

      I'm feeling this so much. It's still taking time, but thank God for being in a ministry where people see God more than just Sundays. I think a church culture of honor is important too. I thank God for removing people from my life too.
      The Lord showed me that in some unhealthy friendships, they either need to be pruned, or have less access to you. It's not healthy being around people who say they're Christian but only gossip. How are they praying with you? Edifying your faith? Hungering for more of God?

  • @maryrosefridey
    @maryrosefridey Год назад +28

    Soooooo literally minutes before I opened RUclips while eating my Saturday almond ring slice with coffee, I was JUST thinking/praying about a particular friend who I've walked with for over 14 years now. We've had our fall outs in the past, but always reunited stronger. However, recently, over the past year she has really been a flakey and convenience-only type friend. She betrayed my trust by telling her entire family I was pregnant before I even got to tell my family or other friends. Last couple get togethers and phone conversations she has been aloof, not paying any attention or texting other people while I'm telling her serious life issues or stories. She has barely been there for me or reached out during my whole pregnancy to ask how I'm doing/feeling. And lastly, she has no problem canceling plans on me or "forgetting" to tell me she's no longer available, while giving me the cold shoulder if I cancel due to illness. I've also been noticing that we are walking separate ways in our journey with the Lord. I cannot believe how timely this video is. I have been super hesitant to cut her off because she is the only close friend I have. I don't even have a husband or the father of my baby around as a friend to be there for me. But I know if I did, I would have cut her off by now. Thank you for this word today, as I know it's for me and my situation!!!!

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  Год назад +2

      Glory to God for confirmation. Praying for you and her. 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @Keeping100
    @Keeping100 Год назад +25

    She told me that she felt guilty to let them go, but in the end, she saw that God was protecting her from hurting. It's a scripture that says to guard your heart because it will run the course of your life.

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  Год назад

      Amen

    • @Louisianasfinestshay
      @Louisianasfinestshay Год назад +4

      This is the problem I keep having. I keep feeling guilty about walking away. Like do we even walk away with explanation? My poor lil heart be having me in all kind of situations lol

    • @anastasiabeautyy1864
      @anastasiabeautyy1864 Месяц назад

      @@LouisianasfinestshayI know how do u do this I work with someone who has become a friendship but it’s not what I thought would be

  • @OhKay_K_Kay
    @OhKay_K_Kay Год назад +17

    This is the confirmation! I know life happens, adulting be hard, we get busy with routine and balance. I’m the friend that would constantly check in with calls, text, and leave voicemails. No response on her end. I tried my best, been there through thick and thin. However, not checking on me , during my seasons. I’ve grieved and let go of a 18 year friendship with my bestfriend. Growing in God, but we aren’t compatible. The 21 yrs ago college days are over, I’m not the same 17 yr old.

  • @Shanablack77
    @Shanablack77 Год назад +24

    I just said a prayer yesterday and asked God if I should keep the friendship that I just started. She is a nice person but I’m serious about my walk with Christ and I will let nothing or no one get in the way. Also I asked him to make it clear and confirm is word and I found your video Thank you Holy Spirit !!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  Год назад

      🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @abeekuworldchanger380
      @abeekuworldchanger380 5 месяцев назад +3

      The Lord will give you clarity. Ask God to expose your friendships. That's what I did and he revealed people I needed to remove from my life to go to the next level.

  • @ladyparts4713
    @ladyparts4713 Год назад +15

    Amen!!! Year before last on my birthday God separated me from childhood friends. It’s not like I didn’t see it but He shined the light SOOO bright on the situation and it just dissolved. We all aren’t moving in the same direction. Some move for more
    worldly accolades. Some move for more of Him.

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  Год назад

      Amen

    • @monet9426
      @monet9426 10 месяцев назад

      Sis this is/was me. I recently made the decision to remove my self of a group I’ve known for about 6 years and realized some of them were never real friends, recently noticed they are more focused on what they want to do rather than the group. It feels amazing to let go and actually heed the Holy Spirit, the peace was clear as day. And plus most are not Christian, so I’m going to guard my heart more and observe for future Christian friends ❤

  • @kevinjlynne
    @kevinjlynne 5 месяцев назад +3

    I had a friendship end of 14 yrs. I did not want it to end, but ultimately God took the friendship away.
    I dont know why. I love the friend. I know I was not well during this season of life.
    It was/is really hard on me.

    • @abeekuworldchanger380
      @abeekuworldchanger380 5 месяцев назад

      I tell people this all the time!!!! Thank you Lord. Longevity isn't everything in a friendship.
      Some count that as their foundation, but one can have a friend of 5 years that adds value to your life than of 20 years where someone is extremely toxic but we keep it because we're afraid to let go

    • @kassidyburrows
      @kassidyburrows 5 месяцев назад

      Praying for you! ❤

  • @Warrior.bride_
    @Warrior.bride_ Год назад +12

    Everything you said verbatim is where I’m at. My friend group don’t feel the same no more. They love Jesus and I know God is moving in them, but there’s a shift in me taking place and I’m starting to get uncomfortable with my old friends. I still don’t fully know what to do about this, but I will pray. I’ve been asking God to provide new friends that are going in the same direction as me.
    Girl I found your channel today and I’ve watched at least 5 videos! 😂 Lots of confirmation of what God has been speaking to me.

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  Год назад +1

      Glory to GOD! Please join my Bible Study tomorrow, if you can. The info is in the description box. You will be able to make new friends there. 😊

    • @Warrior.bride_
      @Warrior.bride_ Год назад

      @@LaLaJenkins thank you! Okay!!

    • @Warrior.bride_
      @Warrior.bride_ Год назад

      Hey. It’ll have to be the next one, I just noticed the time. Thank you so much for the invite. I appreciate it. What time does it typically end?

  • @ericathompson803
    @ericathompson803 Год назад +9

    The bible commands us to be not unequally yoked....men and women,it's a snare,a stumbling block..there's nothing in common..the old is gone the new has come...you WILL lose old friends when you join with God-born again.

  • @MoniNov17
    @MoniNov17 Год назад +10

    Sometimes, people are a part of your assignment, that's why they have to stay in your life.

  • @shenequashellman9992
    @shenequashellman9992 5 месяцев назад +3

    Currently going through this situation. I've adapted for the most part but honestly I'm ready for some Kingdom friends. Gets lonely sometimes but I will wait on God to send my friends because it will be the divine time for it all to happen.

  • @tiffhamill567
    @tiffhamill567 Год назад +7

    Yep lost a great Christian friend… but my positive attitude seemed to upset her. She’s stuck in an old pattern w family and I can’t convince her to move forward toward God. I may have not provided her the constant lowly energy she wanted. She may see me as uninterested in her frustration. I know God is working on us separately. I’m ok and joyful! Want to keep following Christ no matter what

    • @abeekuworldchanger380
      @abeekuworldchanger380 5 месяцев назад

      It's true. That's good. Keep your joy. I was talking to someone on the phone and she said she is no longer reaching out to people who don't really make the time for her. Funny enough, the Lord told me to create distance with her from the friendship.
      There's nothing more exhausting than when someone doesn't respect your boundaries, and has conversations with you about things that almost sound like complaints. God would be mentioned at time but it's always things like
      "I don't really like my church"
      "I wish they did this better."
      Or
      "My ex friend this , my ex friend that."
      Conversations that can sound like gossip rather than edify our spirits. She reached out lots which was nice, but I have to get around people who will grow me closer to God and not pick him as an option. That's why we have to limit people in our environment.

  • @F8th63
    @F8th63 Месяц назад +1

    Confirmation for me. After a week away with a good friend who drank too much, would not give be the car keys( from another friend of ours), who let me borrow a beautiful car for the weekend, and telling me to “zip it”, and “ “ f-u”, because I was scared in the car, I looked up at the cross this Sunday in church, and the answer was revealed. I cannot grow old with this person in my life. I feel so peaceful about my decision, and never going to look back. Thank you for the confirmation.

  • @baivic20078
    @baivic20078 11 месяцев назад +6

    I've been searching for godly wisdom about what the Lord has to say about friendships. I needed this confirmation. Thank you, Sister in Christ! HE has used you to bless us with this message!

  • @iza724
    @iza724 9 месяцев назад +4

    As I get closer to God I am having to decide to let some friends go. It's sad and I feel like I'm letting these people down, but they aren't part of my journey to God. We play DND with magic and I've realized that it's not okay for me to normalize witchcraft, even if it's in a fictional world. I have had so many good times with these people and they have done nothing wrong. I just can't keep doing it with my journey closer to God. God is greater than any person I will meet in this life.

  • @mojokombue4463
    @mojokombue4463 11 месяцев назад +15

    I seperated from a friend an hour ago and this video pops up, hallelujah🙏🏾 CONFIRMATION

    • @anastasiabeautyy1864
      @anastasiabeautyy1864 Месяц назад

      How did you do it ? It’s hard when you work with them or live with them

    • @mojokombue4463
      @mojokombue4463 Месяц назад

      @@anastasiabeautyy1864 girl it was so hard, I cold turkey unfollowed her/ removed her as a follower. I had no peace until I did. God had placed it in my heart months prior so I knew God wanted me to. I feel like in your case remain cordial but follow the leading of the Holy Spirit to stay as far away as you can. Consider moving out or taking some time away to sit and process your life and your personal relationship with God. Its tough when youre living with them, but find time or days where you can just be out and away from the negative energy.

  • @carlamcmillon8175
    @carlamcmillon8175 Год назад +8

    This is STRAIGHT FACTS 🙌🏾👌🏾❤, You gotta know whos in your circle, dont be decieved, some so called friends be low-key jealous of you, ask GOD for Spiritual Discernment concerning friendships, Thanks You for Sharing, GOD Bless ❤

  • @LittleMissSunshine721
    @LittleMissSunshine721 Год назад +12

    I saw the title of this video yesterday and I avoided it. I saw it a couple more times and I decided to give in and watch. My stomach dropped a few times with the examples you gave, especially with how the person’s character is. In the last few months, I’ve been trying to draw closer to the Lord. I know He is taking me places and showing me who may not be around for the long run. Please Lord do the separating and show me what to do, because I’m too chicken to do it by myself. 😩😖😔

  • @gabbj89
    @gabbj89 10 месяцев назад +3

    It’s something that when I loose friends it doesn’t bother me! I know it’s all for the better

    • @abeekuworldchanger380
      @abeekuworldchanger380 5 месяцев назад

      It honestly is. I heard it in a sermon once that if someone leaves it's because God removed them out of your life.
      Additionally, grow so much in God that you won't have to fight for connections. God will keep people he wants in our life, and those he doesn't want in your life, they'll make their exit. Life's too short. You have a Destiny and calling to live.

  • @VLDavis5498
    @VLDavis5498 8 месяцев назад +5

    This is so 🔥this happened to me with a friend I had for 15 years. The spirit told me that person was never my friend, I was there and I wasn’t seeing it the whole time. And also y’all, this can apply to friends that are believers something the Lord will want you to separate from Christian friends to..the Lord showed me this about a friend. This word was 🎯

    • @user-mx9tt7ew7e
      @user-mx9tt7ew7e 6 месяцев назад

      The same thing for me, I asked the Lord today to give me confirmation and came across this. Hurts but I'm good as long as I have God

    • @abeekuworldchanger380
      @abeekuworldchanger380 5 месяцев назад

      It's true. Have had friendships I invested into for years with people who are christian that walked away. The good thing though is that God will bring the right people into your life.
      Sometimes too, some people try to come back, other times, it never gets rekindled. God is good. Keep moving forward. Ask God for destiny friendships. You never know where life will head. Some people who walked out of your life needed to leave. Just like Judas left. Some friendships have Judas agendas. We need the Lords wisdom.

  • @faithfullytymani3100
    @faithfullytymani3100 Год назад +6

    It hurts, it really does but I know God is purposeful and intentional in all He does.

  • @evelynhouston7240
    @evelynhouston7240 Год назад +15

    Confirmation.God is orchestrating divine connections in this season

  • @donnapavlock8304
    @donnapavlock8304 9 месяцев назад +4

    I am not sure of the timeframe, but I began asking God to remove people from my life that he didn’t want in my life.
    This isn’t easy to find out, however God knows what’s best for me.

    • @abeekuworldchanger380
      @abeekuworldchanger380 5 месяцев назад

      Keep praying about it too. Like LaLa said, pay attention to their character. Sometimes we need to distance ourselves with certain people. Pay attention to what people post, say, do. The Lord will tell you

  • @livingforhim1005
    @livingforhim1005 4 месяца назад +2

    This message was straight from the Lord to me! You hit the nail on top of the head, because a friend I truly thought was different and for me turned out to be my friend in the flesh but spiritual enemy. I was hurting but God is surely healing me and coaching me through it! God bless! 🙌🏾🩷

    • @prettychandler88
      @prettychandler88 4 месяца назад +1

      Amen!!!! I literally researched a word about friendships, and then I found this video. I watched it once, and I then listened to it in my AirPods about 4/5 times and now I’m doing both again right now…
      God really works and shows himself out against the enemy when we crave the Lords love and understanding!

  • @drescorpio1114
    @drescorpio1114 Год назад +5

    This is happening to me right now, especially if I have to minimize my walk with the Lord, no wonder why I feel grieved because I'm really grieving the Holy Spirit. Thanks for the confirmation.

  • @sheilasanders7350
    @sheilasanders7350 Год назад +8

    Girlllllll, I am about to run and holler. I had been talking to God about this. I have a friend who is my old roommate from college; a friendship of 35 years. I saw God pulling me away from her and replacing her with someone else. He started telling me that that friendship of 35 years, she doesn’t really value your friendship. Lord have mercy! Confirmation! Thank you for this! This is not by coincidence that I went to RUclips and you popped up. God is so intentional. Thank you for being obedient sis! God is shifting in this season. 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @user-yp9kh9ot9z
    @user-yp9kh9ot9z 5 месяцев назад +2

    Yes he put on my Sprirt to let some people and places go.I did.I,am alone but not lonely.Amen.

  • @keshiafutrell7779
    @keshiafutrell7779 Год назад +12

    Another video that didn’t disappoint! I know so many people (myself included) that talk about how hard it is to make friends as an adult, but it’s good to know that God is ordaining true friendships!!!
    Also, you can’t just drop 10 seconds of praise and worship on us like that 🙌🏾

    • @LaLaJenkins
      @LaLaJenkins  Год назад +1

      Your comment is here! YT held it for review! But yesss the Father is indeed ordaining true Kingdom friendships!

  • @cassidypaige6078
    @cassidypaige6078 6 месяцев назад +1

    I needed this. I had a friend for 16 years and on my 24th birthday she grossly betrayed me in ways nobody could have saw coming or imagined. For about six months prior to this, she changed. She had a man or you can call a “sugar daddy” that gave her everything she could want, and she started looking at me as if I was nothing. I started feeling super uncomfortable around her, like I was beneath her. I continued to walk with her, until God made a situation happen to where we no longer were friends. We were out of town when this happened, she flew home, and we never spoke again. She refused to talk about it. It’s been two years. My birthday was two days ago, and for some reason I still feel emotional. I wish I could just forget because she has new friends now and act so happy, and I’m still recovering from the betrayal. I was an amazing friend. I needed this video 😢

  • @yaboychrisss
    @yaboychrisss Год назад +4

    God bless you sister amen 🙏🏽✝️. This is touching because I have many friends that I love and truly care and I know it is mutual and all, but they are not walking with Christ. It is sad to see and it truly does hurt. I love them unconditionally but they need to repent. Not only you are the 2nd person that the Lord has got to confirm this message. The Lord says I will have this week and one more week with them and that's it. I am a 12 year old boy serving the lord Jesus and have been for almost a year now and will continue to. God has changed me and is maturing and growing me in this season and in this hour 🙏🏽✝️🤍🕊. I decree and declare the good news everyday to my brothers and sisters in Chist, read the word daily, pray and worship daily amen, but I only have 2-3 friends that are growing in christ. One is a great boy that always does the right thing in school, always obeys and listens. The other I met at baseball camp and I preached the word to him. The third is from school and has recently have his life to the Lord and is growing and developing, accelerating, and advancing in the kingdom and is turning away from sin, atleast trying to. God bless you sister and I truly hope you see this I'm so glad I found you ‼️‼️ your videos are inspiring and I love you so much 💞❤️💞. God bless you and continue to pray for my friends that are not yet saved 🙏🏽✝️🤍🕊

    • @FlourishingElla
      @FlourishingElla Год назад +1

      Wow!!!! Walking with God at age 12 is truly a privilege and an honor. Congratulations and May God continue to strengthen you and give you wisdom on this journey. The 2-3 good friends that you have are enough. The goal is to have friends that help you draw closer to God.

  • @latoyasinspirationalcorner
    @latoyasinspirationalcorner Год назад +3

    This is my life story! God has removed family and friends and it has been one of the hardest things for me…but I’m walking in my purpose and finally sees what he is doing, I didn’t want to let go and am no longer kicking against the prick 🙌

  • @virtuouswoman5867
    @virtuouswoman5867 Год назад +3

    🗣OMGGGGGG THIS JUST ATE ME ALL UP THE WORK FRIENDS WELL I THOUGHT WAS FRIENDS WAS JUST TOXIC AND I FELT LIKE I HAD TO COMPROMISE MY WALK AND ACT DIFFERENT,THE CONVERSATION THAT WAS TALK ABOUT GREIVED MY SPIRIT BUT SINCE I DONT HAVE ANY FRIENDS AND I MEAN LITERALLY I DONT HAVE ANY FRIENDS I LOOKED AT THEM AS FRIENDS AND GOD DELIBERATELY REMOVED THEM OUT OF MY LIFE HE MOVED ME INTO A WHOLE NOTHER DEPARTMENT I WAS IN THE CARDIC CATHLAB AND NOW IM IN CVR CARDIC VASCULAR RECOVERY.

  • @realaurawellness
    @realaurawellness 6 месяцев назад +2

    I have gone through such similar shifts and changes this year, thank you so much for sharing

  • @valeriecollymore5256
    @valeriecollymore5256 Год назад +2

    Lord people that are in my life that should not to be in my life please let them go and bring people that you want to be in my life.
    I received your word in Jesus might name

  • @deepile
    @deepile Год назад +3

    This video presented itself at the right time after prayer for wisdom. I felt discouraged in a toxic and mentally abusive friendship that lasted for a few years while in college. Since I have introverted and shy tendancies I honestly didn't think I could do much better so I didn't make any other friends. I felt alone. Since rebuilding my relationship with God in my final year I grew from it, it's like my eyes opened in a way that they weren't before. I knew I had to close that door today and keep it closed for my safety, happiness and walk with Christ. Thank you for sharing this message.

  • @jmichell3384
    @jmichell3384 2 месяца назад +1

    Going through this with a guy friend right now. He was so helpful in a time of my life where I felt like I had no one else. Very genuine and supportive person. I recently found Christ and I have been trying to encourage my friend to do the same and he just hasn’t changed. I felt myself becoming frustrated with everything but I stayed close with him for so long because I felt I was judging him wrongly. But recently God reminded me the way that this friends speaks disrespectfully to others on social media and it made me feel wrong. I found this video and I feel God has been telling me everything you spoke on. Thank you for this. It’s hard to separate but it feels easier when I know God is facilitating this growth.

  • @keannamonterde3216
    @keannamonterde3216 5 месяцев назад +1

    THE TRUTH IS COMING OUT OF YOUR MOUTH; THE LORD IS USING YOU INDEED! AMENN! THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR VIDEO. THIS VIDEO IS INDEED A BLESSING FROM THE LORD TO ENLIGHTEN ME ABOUT MY CURRENT SITUATION. I LIKE THE FACT THAT YOU DONT SUGAR COAT ANYTHING, SO DIRECT THAT IT HITS ME HARD FOR REAL. WOWWWW, “LOOK AT THEIR CHARACTERS” TYSM LORD FOR USING THIS PERSON FOR THE EXPANSION OF YOUR KINGDOM! HAVE A GREAT DAY❤

  • @yolandakhayyam8257
    @yolandakhayyam8257 Год назад +17

    This was just what I needed to hear. Thank you for being obedient.

  • @beautifulcreaturestoyou7945
    @beautifulcreaturestoyou7945 Год назад +2

    1 friend his name is LORD JESUS CHRIST. Say what ..#truestatement even family too. There has to be separation when walking right.

  • @angelswings654
    @angelswings654 Месяц назад

    This resonates with me too, God has been pruning people from my life, while has also brought new friends into my life too. Please share with your friends and loved ones and others, may God bless you all.❤😃😇

  • @catrinamcquigg7549
    @catrinamcquigg7549 2 месяца назад

    I was struggling with some rejection from some friends and I researched Godly motivation on how to deal with that and I came to your video! Thank you! It hurts but I have to trust God.

  • @jessicascreenwritingservices
    @jessicascreenwritingservices Год назад +7

    Oh my gosh. I’ve literally been feeling this in my spirit for a while now. 😳 Just came across your channel. Love your message!

  • @marieepperley6033
    @marieepperley6033 3 месяца назад

    Thank you Sister. You brought confirmation to me. I prayed the prayer and I know it's him the Great I AM I know that it's imperative to be humble under his mighty hand because I know whatever he shall reveal is going to and has required and requires much.

  • @livv_g
    @livv_g 11 дней назад

    This is the first video I've watched on your channel (Now subscribed!). I'm currently in the midst of figuring out a connection with someone I recently met, so I looked up how to find if God wants you to be friends with a specific person. All of what you said has helped me to gain clarity and not ignore what I'm seeing and feeling in my spirit. Even with it being a year of this video being posted, it still has so much value. Thank you so much for your obedience!! I love your beauty, personality, and your singing voice!! God bless you lovely woman of the Most High!!! 💕🙏🏾

  • @Shady_P
    @Shady_P 3 месяца назад

    “Don’t change anything about you… it’s the friendship you gotta change” 💯

  • @shaysogolden
    @shaysogolden Год назад +4

    Glad I crossed your channel. All last year and this month I worried not having friends especially walking this godly path. God confirmed and let me know he wants me to be alone at this time. This confirmation comes in weeks after confirmation ❤

  • @user-mf4kz2dc4f
    @user-mf4kz2dc4f Год назад +2

    Amen, let The Lord do the separation!🙏❤️

  • @ebonibest970
    @ebonibest970 Год назад +4

    Wow... As I'm watching this video I'm sitting here analyzing myself and what God has been trying to tell me. I've recently had a moment with a friend where we set aside our differences from the past. We apologized cleared everything up and everything. After that happened I thought we would go back to being how we were. Although we set aside our differences we still didn't talk as much and I feel like as I continue my relationship with Jesus I grow further from her. I do believe that we had that moment so we both don't have unforgiveness in our heart and hold grudges. And although I had intentions to try to rekindle our friendship,God has other plans. But like you said as I'm slowly letting go this friendship God is opening a new kingdom friendship for me. And my boyfriend who is a believer in Christ is already saying her and I are going to be the best of friends lol
    Thank you for the confirmation and letting God use you.

  • @sparkle9022
    @sparkle9022 Год назад +6

    Girl, you hit the spot especially since the connection feels off from friends and I felt that but wasn’t sure why I feel that way towards them. thanks really I do need to hear that. ❤❤❤❤

  • @BigLuxxx
    @BigLuxxx 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for another confirmation from the Holy Spirit through you 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @CocoCoke8
    @CocoCoke8 7 месяцев назад +1

    I hit subscribe before I even heard the video just your singing voice alone. Never ever had I heard someone sing during a video and not cringe 😬 loveee her your voice

  • @msjfab1966
    @msjfab1966 Год назад +2

    I had to explain to best friend that I don't do things I use to do. I'm in different place in my life. I'm on a journey with YESHUA. So she stopped asking me to go anywhere. I don't call her. But every now and then she will call to check on me. I cut a lot of my friends off a long time ago. Because they are single and I am married. It's hard like you said Pray for me 🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🙆🏽‍♀️ 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 I'm new to your channel 🥰

  • @jrod4God777
    @jrod4God777 7 месяцев назад +1

    I always ask God to reveal who is not for me and I had a dream with my sister in it and her telling me that one of my friends did not wish me well. She said the friends name too. God definitely reveals 🙏

  • @kondodale8232
    @kondodale8232 Год назад +2

    Dear la. I see that fresh oil on you!! The holy spirit is ministering to me very powerfully thru you! I can see your growth.

  • @holyhannah4392
    @holyhannah4392 Год назад +1

    Aw that was so cute. That little hand bit near the start. Like a inch worm moving and becoming a butterfly. 🦋 🦋 🦋

  • @christam9750
    @christam9750 3 месяца назад

    “We just cool” needed it! ❤

  • @helenbamiro358
    @helenbamiro358 Год назад +5

    It’s fascinating how I prayed about this last night and you posted this lovely message. The last few minutes definitely hit for me 😪

  • @dimitrigalbreath2259
    @dimitrigalbreath2259 Год назад +5

    Sounds like we literally need some ride or die friends.

  • @athenavalentine9117
    @athenavalentine9117 Год назад +3

    Confirmation! Thank you Lord🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽

  • @gaetankolomoni2916
    @gaetankolomoni2916 Год назад +4

    This is a confirmation that is exactly my situation.thank you lord

  • @snmobley03
    @snmobley03 5 месяцев назад

    "Let the Lord do the separating and just pay attention to what He is telling you!" 💯 Very powerful and important counsel. God bless you for speaking this word about friendships...it is confirmation 🙏🏽♥️
    EDIT: just reached the end of the vid, even MORE confirmation. That the Lord was saying you already know who He is calling you to separate from, and it doesn't always have to be a conversation. That *DIRECTLY* answered what I have been praying and asking God for the last month! Praise be to Yahweh

  • @laina_loves_jesus7613
    @laina_loves_jesus7613 Год назад +3

    Thank you Jesus for the divine connections I’m so grateful🙏🏾😇

  • @queeninkim9733
    @queeninkim9733 4 месяца назад

    Shadrach, Mishak, and Abednego were brothers. I receive this honey, God has been showing me ppl’s character and it’s quite disheartening. This video confirmed a few things for me.

  • @MomofThree777
    @MomofThree777 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you for making this video. I was told by a friend that I am in a cult and drank the koolaid after having my revelation. It took me a little bit to mention it to her. But she already knew what was going on by the time I decided to tell her what was going on but was scared to let me know she knew and how she felt about it.

  • @TAZZARAY
    @TAZZARAY Год назад +2

    I’m convinced God sent you to teach and wake me up even more than before. This message really hit home I’ve been really struggle to let go of some friendships I know have run their course. Thank you for your messages 💕

  • @naomisimpson2900
    @naomisimpson2900 7 месяцев назад +1

    This really helped me you have no idea. Thank you for sharing God's Word.

  • @adia990
    @adia990 2 месяца назад

    She’s a good person but extremely emotionally draining and is not able to effectively regulate her inward and outward expression of emotion. We’ve been friends for 9 years and we fell out a few years prior because her relationship with another person was draining her and she would not let go of it. I reconnected thinking I was maybe not open or listening enough, but even my friends and family have told me to let her go for good. I’ve been thinking about it… and this video may be the final confirmation… I’m trying to get closer to God and figure out our relationship and get my life right. I can’t get it right with others constantly taking up my attention. Bless her heart and I hope she gets better, but I can’t look back.

  • @M.Sforza
    @M.Sforza 4 месяца назад +3

    My circle has gotten so small its only me now. Ha

  • @flobaba4586
    @flobaba4586 Год назад +1

    God bless you. Thank you for this post. I had about 600 friends & friends' friend on my social media. Since I evolved & found God, I have one friend that I talk to and its ok, I don't mind, weening out the bad seed.

  • @kelvinward7116
    @kelvinward7116 11 месяцев назад

    I don't need those kind of friend anymore this massage is for thank you Jesus glory to God 🙏

  • @Sheree522
    @Sheree522 2 месяца назад

    Can’t even begin to describe how much this helped me thank you so much 🙏❤

  • @crissydaexpat5035
    @crissydaexpat5035 Год назад +2

    Wow this just popped up, but I’m down to three close friends as well. I have associates but close just three. It does it lonely but God is separating for a reason. I’m not perfect and no one is, but I desire to deepen my walk with Christ. God will show you, but you have to see the signs. We want to keep people around when God is transitioning us to more and they can’t go.

  • @cymstudio22
    @cymstudio22 Год назад +2

    I had been asking God if I needed to have a conversation about how I felt with said friend and when you said everything doesn't need a formal conversation, I just had to laugh bc God knew exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you for allowing him to speak through you 💓

  • @LauraEsmeralda94
    @LauraEsmeralda94 24 дня назад

    I’ve been feeling this about two friends lately.. I think that this may be confirmation.

  • @jadaaunique
    @jadaaunique Год назад +3

    Ok he knew what he was doing sending me to this video lol thank you for this May Yahweh continue to bless you, keep doing God’s work 🙌🏽

  • @jdkincaide
    @jdkincaide 4 месяца назад

    Hello from DFW LaLa! This video blessed me tremendously, and I have been watching your content since the denouncement video.
    Yesterday, I informed my former neo’s that we are only sisters in Christ, as I officially executed severance from the sorority that once conjoined us (headquarters has confirmed this as well🤸🏾‍♀️ 🙌🏾). Separation is not easy, but it is liberating and provides leverage (i.e. insight from previous experiences, access to overlooked spheres of engagement and influence) for how to engage with the community/tribe God desires for His children.
    Thanks for your authenticity, transparency, and juxtaposition to the Word of Truth, our standard for holy living. Peace and favor to you 🙏🏾

  • @Lillyofthevali
    @Lillyofthevali Год назад +2

    Thank you for sharing! Harsh truth but this was complete confirmation for me 😮‍💨. New creation… betta start acting like it👑. God bless you!🫶🏾🙏🏾🫶🏾

  • @valeriecollymore5256
    @valeriecollymore5256 Год назад +1

    Father in heaven please if you have to remove any friends out of my life so that I have to be with you do what you have to do lord.
    Lord please do the same for my family in Jesus might name amen

  • @hiddenbeauty2828
    @hiddenbeauty2828 3 месяца назад

    I wanted to let you know that watching this video is timely because I fell out with several people. Especially someone that I was there for. In fact, the same person that I recently fell out with, God gave me a vision that it would happen. Maybe this was God's Will that she can't be in my life's progression. On the bright side, I have found my circle of friends that fulfill God's Will for my life and have the potential to be lifelong friends.

  • @ritawhite4890
    @ritawhite4890 Год назад +3

    I just love how you broke that down I am new to your channel you have a beautiful spirit and a beautiful heart this touch my spirit I'm going to share this with my husband he need to hear this so he can get an understanding

  • @sunfishlvr
    @sunfishlvr 8 месяцев назад +2

    this was PERFEEECTTTT THANKYOU!!

  • @LeadLadyTaylor
    @LeadLadyTaylor Год назад +2

    2 Corinthians 6:17 tells us to, come from among them (the world/ the ungodly multitude) and be ye separate says the Lord...............

  • @Kelly-sl6vz
    @Kelly-sl6vz 6 месяцев назад +1

    I seem to get surrounded by people who love to push my buttons. I hate arguing!! I know there are times when you have to stand your ground and I will, however when you say, look it doesn’t matter!! That happened a long time ago; this was something this person had apologized for and about 3 months later brought the matter up and tried to blameshift the situation onto me, even though she was in the wrong and said so!! She’s told me in the past that she loves to get under my skin and that there’s no difference between somebody trying to get under someone’s skin and accidentally getting under their skin. I told her there’s a big difference between accidentally and deliberately doing something like that and she said there wasn’t. She’s not born again, and I’ve even had another person in my life who was born again who would do the same thing only not admit it. I just want like-minded individuals in my life who love Jesus, like I do!

    • @PenelopeSmith987
      @PenelopeSmith987 3 месяца назад

      Me too. I need Jesus loving Friends.
      Some feel easily offended by my biblical based opinions and say they want my opinions but it ends up creating tension and I don’t like arguing.😢