The switch up of him as soon as the phone came up is ridiculous. He knows he’s hiding something and continued to do her dirty. Girl LEAVE like Karamo said. RUNNNN. 😂
@@ataye1 stop this bs , hurt people are aware what they do an continue to do it then fall back on this bs , NAH work on yourself/get help like many people are doing
this will really clear your mind because let’s be real a lot of these situations isn’t us being “so in love with him” it’s being caught up in lust and unable to break that soul tie
10 years of cheating, lying, gaslighting, overall toxicity ain't it. Karamo is right. These two don't need to be together. Just co parent and heal separately.
She has allowed his behavior. Why would you continue to have children with a man who cheats on you, disrespects you and is in an out of jail!? Go to therapy - Pleeeeease.
This man is a train wreck. He said he’s spent a lot of time in jail. He expressed needing to latch on to a woman to walk through his incarceration with him. These women didn’t make the decision to do a crime, yet he feels someone has to do the time with him. That’s weak, selfish, and immature. He’s a recovering alcoholic and a serial cheater. He brings nothing but chaos and trauma for 10 years. Then cries and says he loves her. Sir, this is not love. You are dragging her and your children into the gutter and holding them hostage because you don’t want to be alone in your torment. She needs to cut you off and move on. You’re either going to get your sh*t together or drown. But that should no longer be her and your children’s burden to suffer.
@@aeshimani0925 I’d feel more than alone if someone put me and my children through all this bs. I’m sorry you experienced anything like this. I hope things improve for you. ❤️
Does she??? She needs to hold herself accountable for her own life, first of all 10 years and no commitment and she knows he's still cheating at this point she's not a victim she's an accomplice
It’s crazy how we think we can change someone because we love them and see the best in them. Like Maya Angelou said “when someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time” 😩
I clocked that too. She needs to get as far away from this man as possible. 10 years is 10 years too long. This man cheated, gave her a STD, then had the gall to deny their son. Disgusting.
I had a different take on it. She wanted him to admit to all his infidelities publicly. She probably knows he would struggle to own up to his indiscretions.
I'm too lazy and comfortable with my life to be with someone like him. My years of struggle are behind me. I would rather be alone and watch Netflix and take myself out than struggle with unlocking phones. And hugs to this young lady. She seems lovely but she has outgrown him and deserves so much more. Pls move on sis.
I pray for her and her children that she removes herself from this abusive relationship. His criminal past along with the lying and cheating is grounds for termination as a partner.
There’s something disingenuous about the guy. I get it that he was trying to somewhat own, his trauma and the things that he’s been through and done to this woman, but full accountability means being transparent with you partner, and this man suffers from main character syndrome and everything is all about him from what it seems in the relationship and I think it’s best that they part ways.
And she needs to use that to see him for who he chooses to be and not who she wants him to be/believes he can be and walk away, it's not always worth staying just because they fathered your kids
@@Krys89I fully agree. Thank you for COMPREHENDING !!! Is she emotionally intelligent yes! Is she being dumb because she’s in love , YES! You can definitely be both at once ESPECIALLY when you’re in love.
Emotionally she’s already checked out that’s why she didn’t react when he started crying. If he’d unlocked his phone I’d say yes she’d go back but she’s done. Especially after he threatened her before they came on about her becoming a single mum if the child wasn’t his.
Yea, I feel it’s more likely she actually leaves. She’s emotionally/mentally checked out. They already don’t live together and have been physically separated for a while. She really can’t stand him.
But you also have to realize that there are children involved so she's trying to keep everything intact for the children children should not be living in broken homes they will be fucked up I know from experience
The way she talked about this guy I knew then he was a master manipulator. This guy managed to call this show to get the clarity he needed from her and chose not to give that same clarity he received back to her.
Girl I've dealt with those types of men. Had to go never again. Then you try to break up and move on and they become crazy. Take care of you and your children sis.❤
By far, one smart lady. Every single response, statement and conviction was laced with intelligence and self awareness. Bravo! Dude needs to go sort himself out and not put the burden of his past on her.
I made it halfway through the video and then ran to the comments because why the hell is this woman dealing with the man that’s in and out of jail, has an addiction that he has to deal with and does nothing but cheat?!. Then he just started crying, chile if y’all don’t hurry up and get this man up out of my face. 😂 ….. Ok I finished the video, baby that man is horrible. He’s not going to change lol he “apologized” and didn’t even bother to make eye contact. His creepy slow blinking eyes. And he plays victim.😖
Hello?!? Lol. OMG you’re like me. I have multiple comments on this post bc I couldn’t even wait to the end to comment on her. Like wait, what happened and you still want to be with him?!?!? Lmao. Within the first minute of him being on staged also clocked how insane this man is. Smh
It's for the kids cuz she doesn't want the kids to have a broken home and I don't blame her because I had a broken home I grew up in a broken home and I don't want those kids to go through what I went through I don't even want my own kids to go through what I went through when I have kids
@@jessicajohnson8378 I grew up in a broken home too, but I won’t stay in a toxic relationship that is potentially more harmful to my children just to say the home isn’t broken. “ I can do that all by myself.”
The “it’s for the kids” excuse is getting old. So you want someone who continues to cheat and disrespect you while going in and out of jail and DENYING his child. Get out of here with all that - what people don’t understand is that this is toxic behavior and children learn from their parents. Please stop staying in these unhealthy relationships for the kids.
He’s grown for himself and his trauma but not for a relationship. He has a lot of work to do and This lady needs to keep glowing and growing on her own .
Not all men are the same. It sounds like you have a type or attract certain men. Repent and give your life to Christ, live life like He wants you to, and He WILL find a worthy husband for you. He gives us instructions for the best outcome, but we decide to do whatever we want. And look at how that turns out 😅
Don’t worry baby girl. It’s not all men. Just need to focus on character being more important than all else. And you’ll never date a bad man. Character is not in what a man says. But what he does consistently.
No sis they aren't. Before I met my husband I was riddled with trauma and no self worth. I met my fiance at 16. He lifted me up, protected me, made me secure, built my confidence and made me the mother woman and wife I am today. As women we need to change this narrative of all men are the same. All the women that have tries to get involved with our relationship, or dish it on a plate, he has come to me straight away with receipts and evidence. He tells me he loves me, he's a great father and before him I never thought I was worthy of love. Maybe you need to change the type of men you are going for. And do not go out your way to seek love it will find you. No hate BTW. And god bless you in your journey it is possible ❤
He doesn’t love her. A lot of men deal with a women because she is just there not because they actually love them. He is too emotionally damaged and manipulative. You wasted 10 years m’am, move on.
I must say this is the most real life episode I have experienced. And I am an addict of this show 😂☺️. I appreciate Karamo for uplifting him to aspire to be better and accept the change he was making. But this man turned into a complete victim, " I'm the bad guy now bro" 🤦🏾♀️. His eyes said exactly what we all were thinking 😂 RUN GIRL RUN!!!🏃🏾♀️💨. The narcissism in this man was insane and he actually believed himself on camera 🤦🏾♀️ that's crazy
Then just go smh. Never understood men like this. She ain't holding him hostage. Plus he's still cheating as recent as December, that's why he didn't unlock that phone. She needs to continue to stay in her residence and just co parent at this point. Narcissists never change.
Sis....coparent and allow someone who can love you correctly to enter your life. This isn't it. You are so mature and smart and he is not ready for a woman of your caliber.
Sadly I suspect he may have picked up that std in jail and isnt saying anything. Unfortunate case all around. I hope this girl gets the strength to leave this criminal. She deserves better.
Honestly this lady needs to grow up and leave this man 10 years of letting him cheat because you got kids what does that mean what does that say about you as a woman what does that say about you as a mother please leave this man it doesn't matter how long you been with somebody it's about how someone treats you in that span of time and he has treated you pretty freaking bad from what we're seeing in the 15 minute clip
He literally just tried to make himself seem like the good guy still, he’s not really taking accountability he just doesn’t want to be called out for it. The fact he refused to unlock his phone after making her get a DNA on tv should tell her all she needs to know. I’m sick of certain men thinking they can do certain stuff & try to justify it
Some men are insufferable. My God. Girl, don’t walk, RUN away from that BOY in a man’s body! He’s in no way ready for a relationship AT ALL. He’s consumed in pain and can’t see past it. Hope they both find healing.
Too many men like him unfortunately. Narcissistic. Controlling. Contradictive. The “own up” was a cover-up. But at the same time, I see the comments for people saying she’s not gonna leave. And there are plenty of women like that. The time and history that they have together is irrelevant. Just because you guys have kids together is not going to solidify his loyalty or commitment. I say this as a gay man who saw this happen first hand to an un-deserving woman and her broken family. 💯
She is such a Beautiful Soul!! I can see her heart ❤️ I'm praying that she finds the strength to just leave him alone. Take it one day at a time and just say No to him. Stay firm and set boundaries!! You are so Beautiful and have such good Energy that another man will Love you the way you wish to be loved. Stop giving this man your Energy because these men are leaches and will suck your youth away from you and by the time you realize you can live without him, he's taken everything from you. Love yourself more!! You fought for him for years!! Make this day the day you start fighting for yourself. I promise you, it will be okay and you will be so much happier!! Let him Go!! He ain't the one, he ain't never gonna be the man you need because he doesn't know how to lead. Some men aren't fixers!! Fixers are protectors, providers, they fix things physically and protect your heart and mind. A protector leads and this man right here ain't a leader, he's a man that follows. He probably can't do anything without your guidance. He needs you because you lead him. Run away!! You are Deserving!! ❤
If she was smart she would leave him but something tells me she ain’t going nowhere. She basically said everything Karamo was going to say. That tells me she has a brain, but she isn’t using it. When she didn’t want to address anything until he came out it was because of the fight before the show. He’s definitely slicker than a can of oil at manipulation. Praying for her to move on
She seems like a very sensible and good woman...unfortunately her biggest foolishness is staying with him for 10 yrs when he does not have the capacity to meet her needs.
I love how you redirect people and guide them towards healthier ways to express emotions beginning with the LANGUAGE! A lot of people have negative self talk or think less of themselves and when that shows you shed LIGHT and LOVE. Much respect for that as always Karamo ❤
He said the wanting a dna test was not personal. It IS personal to question your child's paternity. He knows how to speak and verbally manipulate. Id leave him, hes too stressful.
Why would you stay in a relationship and have another child with a man that's constantly cheating, addicted, and in and out of prison? Make it make sense.
He cheated.. got an STD.. won’t unlock his phone yet they’re there for a DNA test ? 😂😂 yea he doesn’t whatever to that girl and she’s been his doormat for 10 yrs
You can tell when Karamo doesn’t like his guest(s) or has decided their situation isn’t going to work out. He puts a wall up and becomes a little impatient. I also see a little side eye 😒 being given too, lol! Still love him though! 😅
started snickering as soon as he started crying because i could tell it was for show, he doesn't really care that he's letting her down. Like okay we'll "excuse" the two years from your alcoholism, brother you just recently told this woman she should get checked for an std a few months ago because of your sleeping around, something ain't adding up, but in short girl run! I know the ten years of history is holding you back, but does your current/future happiness not matter more to you then the past?
Sad seeing such an intelligent and articulate young lady allow herself to be treated like a doormat. He isn't the man for you. Stop using the time spent together vs the quality of time spent together. Love yourself more.
Sweetheart i had gone through very similar shit with the father of my boys. Abuse mental and physical, cheating,also gave me a std while i was pregnant with our second son. Just fir 13 years down the road to try and deny his oldest son. Ots good you got the DNA results so early on. But teust when i say he will never change because he is a child in a grown mans body. You are so much nore mature and intelligent. Dont hold on for the "happy family" narrative. Or so he can be around the kids. You deserve truth and peace.
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The switch up of him as soon as the phone came up is ridiculous. He knows he’s hiding something and continued to do her dirty. Girl LEAVE like Karamo said. RUNNNN. 😂
Crazzzzzzy
Sad part is she won’t!
She seems like she emotionally disconnected & seems so strong. I really hope she leaves him
His crocodiles tears.
He didn't go there to "Unlock" his phone. The purpose was to get a DNA test.
he’s all about making himself feel secured but can’t be bothered to make her feel secured smh
I dated a guy JUST like this. I am so thankful we didn't have children
@@tyne2005shut up. Women will do us so damn wrong. Too.
hes a 🤡 thats it thats all
He is a narcissist. Admits his bs yet still cheating. He damaged and continued to damage this woman. He has some growing up to do.
It's not growing up, its personality trait changes and he won't.
The exact thing i said
Hurt people hurt people
@@ataye1 stop this bs , hurt people are aware what they do an continue to do it then fall back on this bs , NAH work on yourself/get help like many people are doing
@@ataye1that’s not an excuse to hurt people
The minute he started them crocodile tears i knew he was full of it. How you crying with no tears??
😅 not all of us have tears
😂😂😂😂😂😂
It’s an inner cry😂😂😂 his heart is crying #tiffanypollard
One word, LIAR
😂😂😂
His whole attitude changed when it was time to clock that phone
Lock.
Ladies please love yourselves enough to not invite chaos pain and suffering into your life. I've been celibate 6 years and it didn't kill me!!
Well said! 👏👏👏
I must agree.
this will really clear your mind because let’s be real a lot of these situations isn’t us being “so in love with him” it’s being caught up in lust and unable to break that soul tie
TRUE POWER. And honestly freedom
@jozey777 yes exactly!
10 years of cheating, lying, gaslighting, overall toxicity ain't it. Karamo is right. These two don't need to be together. Just co parent and heal separately.
She has allowed his behavior. Why would you continue to have children with a man who cheats on you, disrespects you and is in an out of jail!? Go to therapy - Pleeeeease.
@@Tpina305None of this is her fault, get a grip. Don't be a victim blamer, DV is SO complex
@@aeroengineer4791 If she allowed this behavior, she takes some responsibility.
This man is a train wreck. He said he’s spent a lot of time in jail. He expressed needing to latch on to a woman to walk through his incarceration with him. These women didn’t make the decision to do a crime, yet he feels someone has to do the time with him. That’s weak, selfish, and immature. He’s a recovering alcoholic and a serial cheater. He brings nothing but chaos and trauma for 10 years. Then cries and says he loves her. Sir, this is not love. You are dragging her and your children into the gutter and holding them hostage because you don’t want to be alone in your torment. She needs to cut you off and move on. You’re either going to get your sh*t together or drown. But that should no longer be her and your children’s burden to suffer.
Well said!!!
As the saying goes misery loves company.
Yup he sounds somewhat like my ex husband that I just left. I didn’t get married to still feel alone. I know for fact she feels alone.
So. Well. Said!
@@aeshimani0925 I’d feel more than alone if someone put me and my children through all this bs. I’m sorry you experienced anything like this. I hope things improve for you. ❤️
She deserves so much better
Does she??? She needs to hold herself accountable for her own life, first of all 10 years and no commitment and she knows he's still cheating at this point she's not a victim she's an accomplice
Yes 💯💯
@@marimarielovegirl bffr
@@TrentvsTheWorldshe is though😂
@@chynaadadoll no
It’s crazy how we think we can change someone because we love them and see the best in them. Like Maya Angelou said “when someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time” 😩
She kept saying “I’ll let him answer it.” Typical sign of a narcissist control. She’s scared to make him mad.
Damn....
Yup
I clocked that too. She needs to get as far away from this man as possible. 10 years is 10 years too long. This man cheated, gave her a STD, then had the gall to deny their son. Disgusting.
Her having to go to court is giving dv
I had a different take on it. She wanted him to admit to all his infidelities publicly. She probably knows he would struggle to own up to his indiscretions.
He's a talker. Talkers are usually trying to persuade or convince you of something. Narcissistic tendencies.
I'm too lazy and comfortable with my life to be with someone like him. My years of struggle are behind me. I would rather be alone and watch Netflix and take myself out than struggle with unlocking phones. And hugs to this young lady. She seems lovely but she has outgrown him and deserves so much more. Pls move on sis.
Me to boo I'm 28 and live like I'm 58 I'm settled 😂
@@drelex9845 I'm 44 and an empty nester. I'm so so settled and happy and blessed.
I’m right along with yawll. 😂😂
Yess all that battling...you can keep that!! You have to show me everyday that you choosing me!! Or we done😭😂
Heavy on this!!!❤❤Girl life is so goddamn short, an unstable man will make it even shorter 😂😂!! Send him on his way and raise that baby lol.
He went from crying to real attitude when the phone issue came up 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Nah i know boffum. Shawty is bat shit crazy! And she the reason he was in jail. Thats why she says “she had to show up”
😂😂
this is becoming an obsession cause tell me why i'm here 18 minutes after it being posted🤭🤭🤭🤭
Lol I'm no better I'm a few minutes behind you
28 minutes for me. Would have been right at 4 if it wasn't for kids! 😂
Girl same here 😂
Girl I’m 35 mins behind yall!
Karamo airs at 12:00 pm here. I know around 3: 00 pm to
4: 00 pm to be looking, lol
This man is not dumb. He knows exactly what’s he’s doing! Leave him! Don’t waste another 10 years on him.
He Is Still Cheating!😂😂
Yes my guess
He's cheating himself at this point🤷🏿♀️
@@Indigalsay that again!
Hes down low
@@hi5girl09 Probably!
I pray for her and her children that she removes herself from this abusive relationship. His criminal past along with the lying and cheating is grounds for termination as a partner.
There’s something disingenuous about the guy. I get it that he was trying to somewhat own, his trauma and the things that he’s been through and done to this woman, but full accountability means being transparent with you partner, and this man suffers from main character syndrome and everything is all about him from what it seems in the relationship and I think it’s best that they part ways.
Oh, I know somebody with main character syndrome, I like how you put that.
Oh I guess my ex was a main character syndrome 😂because it was clearly all about him
Lady Run He Could Have given you AIDS HE NO GOOD AT ALL
You hit the nail on the head love.
Hes cheating with a man
She is so emotionally intelligent!😍
Not really. She is still with a man that mistreats her. I am sure she has had these same conversations before.
What makes you say that?
And she needs to use that to see him for who he chooses to be and not who she wants him to be/believes he can be and walk away, it's not always worth staying just because they fathered your kids
@@Krys89I fully agree. Thank you for COMPREHENDING !!! Is she emotionally intelligent yes! Is she being dumb because she’s in love , YES! You can definitely be both at once ESPECIALLY when you’re in love.
@@PeggyRabbit32She is actually super emotionally intelligent. She is trauma bonded, that is all
She isn’t leaving this man.
Nope. She will have another baby from him in 3 months
Emotionally she’s already checked out that’s why she didn’t react when he started crying. If he’d unlocked his phone I’d say yes she’d go back but she’s done. Especially after he threatened her before they came on about her becoming a single mum if the child wasn’t his.
Yea, I feel it’s more likely she actually leaves. She’s emotionally/mentally checked out. They already don’t live together and have been physically separated for a while. She really can’t stand him.
But you also have to realize that there are children involved so she's trying to keep everything intact for the children children should not be living in broken homes they will be fucked up I know from experience
@@jessicajohnson8378 a toxic home is a broken home as well, children don’t deserve being raised in the same house by two people who resent each other
The way she talked about this guy I knew then he was a master manipulator. This guy managed to call this show to get the clarity he needed from her and chose not to give that same clarity he received back to her.
And been the one cheating the whole time flipped the whole script back on her he ain't got shit to be mad about! That's scary
He called the show to get some coins
@@Wezzie0 They don't pay you.
@@TF-gf3fs I guess he didn't want to pay for the DNA test and wanted to embarrass his babymama
The progress you made are for the kids.
Karamo be dishing facts
Not Karamo starting off with "first off what happened at the hotel last night?" Messsyyyy 🤣🤣
Cause we need to get straight to the point 🤣🤣🤣
When he started crying I’m not gonna lie…. I rolled my eyes because I felt like it was fake. The end proved me right.
You could see the tears in his eyes tho
Girl I've dealt with those types of men. Had to go never again. Then you try to break up and move on and they become crazy. Take care of you and your children sis.❤
She looks checked out. I hope she PHYSICALLY checks out and moves on because he is basically the iceberg to her Titanic. I wish them well. 😔❤️
I agree with everything u just said.. Especially since they don't even live together anymore like yy still be in a relationship just move on
In the midst of his addiction..but yet you just told her to get STD test after being sober..he full of it
Karamo missed that. But it’s probably too exhausting to weed through all of the BS.
One of those people who does a lot of talking and arguing to exert his authority and dominance. She knows it’s bs but just shuts up to roll with it
He thought he was gonna be able to go on the show and end up the victim. He’s completely full of s***!
She knows how to communicate she needs to leave him and learn to be happy with self and she not ugly
He knows she’s a good woman the right one will put a ring on it
💯💯💯
@@haterule it’s going to be hard for her
By far, one smart lady. Every single response, statement and conviction was laced with intelligence and self awareness. Bravo!
Dude needs to go sort himself out and not put the burden of his past on her.
I made it halfway through the video and then ran to the comments because why the hell is this woman dealing with the man that’s in and out of jail, has an addiction that he has to deal with and does nothing but cheat?!. Then he just started crying, chile if y’all don’t hurry up and get this man up out of my face. 😂
…..
Ok I finished the video, baby that man is horrible. He’s not going to change lol he “apologized” and didn’t even bother to make eye contact. His creepy slow blinking eyes. And he plays victim.😖
55 seconds boo
Hello?!? Lol. OMG you’re like me. I have multiple comments on this post bc I couldn’t even wait to the end to comment on her. Like wait, what happened and you still want to be with him?!?!? Lmao. Within the first minute of him being on staged also clocked how insane this man is. Smh
He definitely ain't sober
@@aeroengineer4791I thought it was just me thinking that. He talks like an addict for sure
@@aeroengineer4791right!
I think he’s a great actor
He's full of ish!
good talker
Agreed. He’s had a lot of practice making people believe his lies.
I actually like her
I was saying the same thing!!!
He caught that STD in prison!
😂😂
Babeeee I was holding my tongue on that one but you spilled it 🤭🤭😂
😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂 You aint shit for saying what i was thinking 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
😳😱
She’s amazing. You can tell what a good mother and woman she is.
She was doing this for her family. But he was doing this for himself. How selfish.
I’m here Karamo don’t worry Ill never miss an episode
He wants to be able to treat her the way he does, and she should deal with it without him having consequences...
GIRL!!!!!!!! RUN!!!!!!!🏃♀🏃♀🏃♀🏃♀🏃♀🏃♀🏃♀🏃♀
This woman NEEDS TO RUN! HE TURNED THOSE 😢FAKE TEARS ON AND OFF SO SO FAST.... WTH😮😮
Karamo getting to the facts, and I love it
She really needs to figure out why she’s truly with him. There’s way too much trauma!
It's for the kids cuz she doesn't want the kids to have a broken home and I don't blame her because I had a broken home I grew up in a broken home and I don't want those kids to go through what I went through I don't even want my own kids to go through what I went through when I have kids
Right. Dude was a street dude when she met him. Idk why women find that attractive.
@@thesagqueen6367 so many bond over shared trauma and it needs to be recognized in order to choose better partners.
@@jessicajohnson8378 I grew up in a broken home too, but I won’t stay in a toxic relationship that is potentially more harmful to my children just to say the home isn’t broken. “ I can do that all by myself.”
The “it’s for the kids” excuse is getting old. So you want someone who continues to cheat and disrespect you while going in and out of jail and DENYING his child. Get out of here with all that - what people don’t understand is that this is toxic behavior and children learn from their parents. Please stop staying in these unhealthy relationships for the kids.
Girl, he must be paying all ur bills cause aint no way a jail bird gonna play me like this.
Lmao specially when he looks like that too… bruh! This 🥷 ain’t got ahit going for him sooooo what??????
He’s grown for himself and his trauma but not for a relationship. He has a lot of work to do and This lady needs to keep glowing and growing on her own .
10 years 2 kids and no ring girl bye 😂😂 and he cheating on top of that bro what
You wanna wait on a ring from someone like him?
Also long bids in jail no fuckin thank you deuces im out ✌
@@torry24I think the original poster is getting at being invested in this man is time wasted. The girl is lost her damn self.
The ring not gonna make a difference
Hope she stands up for herself and children. He is hiding something.
He’s so weird. Tbh I’m starting to think all men are the same. They just come in different forms/shapes/colors.
Y’all get so hurt when men don’t just BELIEVE woman
Not all men are the same. It sounds like you have a type or attract certain men.
Repent and give your life to Christ, live life like He wants you to, and He WILL find a worthy husband for you.
He gives us instructions for the best outcome, but we decide to do whatever we want. And look at how that turns out 😅
Don’t worry baby girl. It’s not all men. Just need to focus on character being more important than all else. And you’ll never date a bad man. Character is not in what a man says. But what he does consistently.
It's just that awesome men never end up on a show like this. They're busy taking care of business and loving their family.
No sis they aren't. Before I met my husband I was riddled with trauma and no self worth. I met my fiance at 16. He lifted me up, protected me, made me secure, built my confidence and made me the mother woman and wife I am today. As women we need to change this narrative of all men are the same. All the women that have tries to get involved with our relationship, or dish it on a plate, he has come to me straight away with receipts and evidence. He tells me he loves me, he's a great father and before him I never thought I was worthy of love. Maybe you need to change the type of men you are going for. And do not go out your way to seek love it will find you. No hate BTW. And god bless you in your journey it is possible ❤
He doesn’t love her. A lot of men deal with a women because she is just there not because they actually love them. He is too emotionally damaged and manipulative. You wasted 10 years m’am, move on.
I must say this is the most real life episode I have experienced. And I am an addict of this show 😂☺️. I appreciate Karamo for uplifting him to aspire to be better and accept the change he was making. But this man turned into a complete victim, " I'm the bad guy now bro" 🤦🏾♀️. His eyes said exactly what we all were thinking 😂 RUN GIRL RUN!!!🏃🏾♀️💨. The narcissism in this man was insane and he actually believed himself on camera 🤦🏾♀️ that's crazy
He questioning the paternity because he doesn’t want to be in that relationship and was hoping for a way out. SMH
Then just go smh. Never understood men like this. She ain't holding him hostage. Plus he's still cheating as recent as December, that's why he didn't unlock that phone. She needs to continue to stay in her residence and just co parent at this point. Narcissists never change.
I love your show Karamo. I watch it daily.
A cheating jailbird?? My good sis you deserve sooooo much better and I hope you see this.
LMAO why did I know just by his face that he was gonna start fake crying eventually 😭😭
Them tears dried up QUICK
Sis was on point! She already knew what it was. She just needed that 3rd party neutral confirmation.
Sis....coparent and allow someone who can love you correctly to enter your life. This isn't it. You are so mature and smart and he is not ready for a woman of your caliber.
You ain’t lying she deserve better because he ain’t it
She needs to go on as a single mother and co-parent
He told her prior to the show (the night before at the hotel) that she’s going to be a single mother.
RIGHT!
@@stellaharris1367 He might not "allow'' that. This is a very toxic and scary situation for her and her kids.
It’s the tears for me. Lol Sir stop it and Girl leave, you put enough energy and time into this relationship
Sadly I suspect he may have picked up that std in jail and isnt saying anything. Unfortunate case all around. I hope this girl gets the strength to leave this criminal. She deserves better.
Honestly this lady needs to grow up and leave this man 10 years of letting him cheat because you got kids what does that mean what does that say about you as a woman what does that say about you as a mother please leave this man it doesn't matter how long you been with somebody it's about how someone treats you in that span of time and he has treated you pretty freaking bad from what we're seeing in the 15 minute clip
She is beautiful. So emotionally intelligent. I hope she’s happy and moved on
He literally just tried to make himself seem like the good guy still, he’s not really taking accountability he just doesn’t want to be called out for it. The fact he refused to unlock his phone after making her get a DNA on tv should tell her all she needs to know. I’m sick of certain men thinking they can do certain stuff & try to justify it
Karamo gave them excellent advice: "take narrative back,, co-parent, channel your growth into kids". Karamo doesn't mince words. Aedin
I bust out laughing when he started crying. Stop being greedy man. Leave her alone. Girl stop letting him have choices. Choose you girl. NEEEEXT
If he really doubted the paternity of their child, he would have some type of reaction. Controlling gaslighter.
She’s smart and beautiful ❤ girl you deserve better 😊
🎉 he's looking for sympathy for being insecure and cheating let him go Queen ❤
Some men are insufferable. My God. Girl, don’t walk, RUN away from that BOY in a man’s body! He’s in no way ready for a relationship AT ALL. He’s consumed in pain and can’t see past it. Hope they both find healing.
Too many men like him unfortunately. Narcissistic. Controlling. Contradictive. The “own up” was a cover-up.
But at the same time, I see the comments for people saying she’s not gonna leave. And there are plenty of women like that. The time and history that they have together is irrelevant. Just because you guys have kids together is not going to solidify his loyalty or commitment.
I say this as a gay man who saw this happen first hand to an un-deserving woman and her broken family. 💯
The most on point comment here 💯💯👏👏
She is such a Beautiful Soul!! I can see her heart ❤️ I'm praying that she finds the strength to just leave him alone. Take it one day at a time and just say No to him. Stay firm and set boundaries!! You are so Beautiful and have such good Energy that another man will Love you the way you wish to be loved. Stop giving this man your Energy because these men are leaches and will suck your youth away from you and by the time you realize you can live without him, he's taken everything from you. Love yourself more!! You fought for him for years!! Make this day the day you start fighting for yourself. I promise you, it will be okay and you will be so much happier!! Let him Go!! He ain't the one, he ain't never gonna be the man you need because he doesn't know how to lead. Some men aren't fixers!! Fixers are protectors, providers, they fix things physically and protect your heart and mind. A protector leads and this man right here ain't a leader, he's a man that follows. He probably can't do anything without your guidance. He needs you because you lead him. Run away!! You are Deserving!! ❤
If she was smart she would leave him but something tells me she ain’t going nowhere. She basically said everything Karamo was going to say. That tells me she has a brain, but she isn’t using it. When she didn’t want to address anything until he came out it was because of the fight before the show. He’s definitely slicker than a can of oil at manipulation. Praying for her to move on
She isnt tired yet poor silly woman!
Manipulation at its CORE CONTROLLING A NARRATIVE. DOUBLE STANDARD! And HE KNOWS WHY HE AINT UNLOCK THAT PHONE!
She seems like a very sensible and good woman...unfortunately her biggest foolishness is staying with him for 10 yrs when he does not have the capacity to meet her needs.
I love how you redirect people and guide them towards healthier ways to express emotions beginning with the LANGUAGE! A lot of people have negative self talk or think less of themselves and when that shows you shed LIGHT and LOVE. Much respect for that as always Karamo ❤
He said the wanting a dna test was not personal. It IS personal to question your child's paternity. He knows how to speak and verbally manipulate. Id leave him, hes too stressful.
Why would you stay in a relationship and have another child with a man that's constantly cheating, addicted, and in and out of prison? Make it make sense.
It’s more too it they played him for ratings lol smh
Goooooooo Karamo Kuties!!! (We’re a cheerleading squad in my head)
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Just because the child is yours that doesn't mean the woman never cheats. It means she just didn't get knocked up by someone else
He cheated.. got an STD.. won’t unlock his phone yet they’re there for a DNA test ? 😂😂 yea he doesn’t whatever to that girl and she’s been his doormat for 10 yrs
Iknow Sadie, she is really a sweet person and amazing mother , praying she gets through this 🙏🏼🙏🏼🤍🤍
If he really loved her, he wouldn’t have cheated from the beginning. Doesn’t matter how bad your alcoholism is.
You can tell when Karamo doesn’t like his guest(s) or has decided their situation isn’t going to work out. He puts a wall up and becomes a little impatient. I also see a little side eye 😒 being given too, lol! Still love him though! 😅
He’s human
That guy is on the down low. I see it in him... he don't want nobody exposing what's in that phone.
it’s this camera shot @ 6:27 for me 😂
Aint no way.....would I be sitting around waiting for a man 10 yrs and than got to go on a show to prove loyalty?
She's such a lady ❤. He has a lot of growing up...He doesn't deserve her.
started snickering as soon as he started crying because i could tell it was for show, he doesn't really care that he's letting her down. Like okay we'll "excuse" the two years from your alcoholism, brother you just recently told this woman she should get checked for an std a few months ago because of your sleeping around, something ain't adding up, but in short girl run! I know the ten years of history is holding you back, but does your current/future happiness not matter more to you then the past?
Karamo is so good at this.
Sis stop being a doormat get up!
Her body immediately pivoted towards him when he sat down. She’s not gonna leave him alone 😂
She Doesn't Want Answer, Because He Is Going To Be Mad!😊
the good girls love the bad guys and end up in situations like this. such a beautiful well spoken educated women man. Hope she is doing okay
Sad seeing such an intelligent and articulate young lady allow herself to be treated like a doormat. He isn't the man for you. Stop using the time spent together vs the quality of time spent together. Love yourself more.
As soon as he started crying I bust out laughing 😂. I knew he was lying from jump
She needs to take her kids ,leave him,and co parent...
This guy is funny. This lady beautiful inside and out. Girllll please run🏃💨 for your life😢
Please give her a talk show!!! She was on it
Sweetheart i had gone through very similar shit with the father of my boys. Abuse mental and physical, cheating,also gave me a std while i was pregnant with our second son. Just fir 13 years down the road to try and deny his oldest son. Ots good you got the DNA results so early on. But teust when i say he will never change because he is a child in a grown mans body. You are so much nore mature and intelligent. Dont hold on for the "happy family" narrative. Or so he can be around the kids. You deserve truth and peace.
She knows they need to break up she didn’t need to come to this show to hear that
His facial expressions show he hasn’t changed. She’s too beautiful & polite to be with someone like him.