The way Ashley excuses her husband's behavior and dishonesty reminds me a lot of people who stick in toxic situations because they believe that person is their soul mate/twin flame. They have limiting beliefs that prevent them from seeing that somebody would treat them better and they could have an intense connection with another person.
Ashley has also allowed her extreme jealousy towards Manuel's babymama get the best of her period. Ashley should know that Manuel has to speak with his babymama about his children that are in school and who also need his financial support.
I was waiting to hear this from you... lol you are on point my friend. You are definitely speaking facts here. She tells the family whatever she wants, then she plays the victim card and protects him when they confront him, everyone tells her and she turns away from the red flags. You are so right, why does she? Just a further thought...she looks like she's smerking/laughing when her sister told her what she told her mom about Manuel and the money. Ashley has two settings... dense or indignant. She draws everyone into her chaos because it's drama, attention aka.. some sort of a social life for her. She is not emotionally stable. We've seen her go from driving a car to pick up the love of her life from the airport to having a complete emotional breakdown because she knew he was not right for her, yet she picked him up anyway. She is at an age where this should not even be in her wheelhouse. Some people fantasize, some people live in fantasy land. Her emotional roller coaster is all she knows. People see life through their own lens and the way she moves is normal to her. She's wasted a lot of time in her life, but that's something she has to see, we can't make anyone see what they don't want to see.
I had said this before and I will say it again MANUEL ONLY MARRIED ASHLEY FOR HER MONEY AND SHE MARRIED HIM FOR VALIDATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY PERIOD. ASHLEY ABSOLUTELY DOES NOT HAVE ANY EXPERIENCE WITH MEN. ASHLEY IS TOO OLD TO BE LETTING HER FAMILY INTO HER PERSONAL LIFE. ASHLEY NEED TO GROW UP, GET A JOB, AND MOVE ON WITH HER LIFE.
My question is, why do any of them HAVE to be giving him money? They have no proof of where the money is going, but they continue to give them money anyway. Who is the stupid one here, and who is the smart one? Hey, put me on that receiver list! 😄😂🤣
Ashley lives in her own delusional world with her fantasies about her life, fluttering around. Manuel has been using her from the start. Her family cannot get through to her! 🥶😰😨😱
I can't believe no one taks about how unreasonable and delusional Ashley is. That man has kids! He has to talk to his ex , even if it's to say pass the phone or I sent money for their birthday. I would never date a man that cuts all communication with the MOTHER OF HIS CHILDREN!
Ashley tells her family everything which paints him as the boogeyman. However, he has been shady from Day 1. He didn’t tell his family he was leaving to marry her, he sends his BM money and talks to him(I’m sure it’s more than just kids talk). Plus when is he getting a JOB??? He has been in the US long enough for work visa, right? I could be wrong.
When you act like teenagers expect to be treated as such. As for the family, they need to stay out of it. She can b**** all she wants, but they should keep their mouths shut! It's only adding to their problems.
Yep the way the two behaved they deserve each other. I don't know is all this real or is it just for TLC? There's something not right about her I just can't put my finger on it. She knew what he was like before she brought him here. Oh well I don't know what's true or false anymore on these shows. There is so much social media about the all. I can't believe people make a living out of following these types of things.
I do not see Ashley as " so smart", shecmight do well in school. But she lacks EI, and has her anxiety leading even though she puts herself into physical danger, driving, screaming crying all at once. Has she gone to therapy? She solves her dysregulation with sex, but sells herself as a wise witchy woman.
They just need to leave Ashley alone…she is NOT going to see the red flags or anything else negative about him, cause she doesn’t want to. She’s a grown woman, let her find out for herself and make her own decisions about her relationship with him.
In my opinion, her family are projecting their feelings onto to Manuel, instead of directing them at Ashely, who they are very disappointed and angry with for continually choosing this situation and asking for their support. Their feelings belong to Ashley and not necessarily Manuel..
If there are problems in a relationship, talk to your spouse. Once you tell your family how many faults your spouse has, they will always remember the negative. Keep private things private!
I learned at a very early age to not talk shit about my boyfriends with my family because they will hate him and nothing will change their minds. They will never forgive that person!
Ashley has a savior complex. It comes from feeling blessed and fortunate and guilty that not everyone gets the same type of stability and opportunity. she is 100% getting taken advatage of. . . I know manuel recently opened up about how he'd rather be working but it doesn't excuse his secret keeping and flippant attitude towards her.
Everyone in the family knew he was going to marry into their family and he can’t work when he comes to the states. She knew she had to help him financially. Ashley is vey manipulative
I just don't understand how Ashley is in so much debt. They can't get divorced, right? Didn't the Lawyer say he would be 1/2 need to pay 1/2 of that? I also didn't know you could sponser a spouse w/ all that debt. Her family is right. He should have said in the beginning when I send $$$ I do talk to the Mother of my kids to see how they're doing. I just don't get telling the whole family. Just think- the internet is 4 ever. In years to come her next BF or Husband will see & hear when they went into the restroom. I think sex is the only thing they have in common. In the last video you said it was good to see him open up. Was that $1000 bucks for him to start saving up? I don't think he blew it on material things. I think he sent it back home.
Ashley the fake witch is still financially responsible for Manuel after they get a divorce because she is his sponsor. Ashley had only married Manuel for validational purposes only period.
100k in student loans.. and at least the lawyer said since it's student loans , he's not responsible for half of that debt as he would be for other debts . As for the mother of his kids .. I'm sure he's getting updates on his kids.. his kids will tell him some.. but not the same type of feedback you get from a parent .. He said he talks to her when he sends money .. sounds like he calls, says " I sent u money today " and get updates from the kids and about the kids.. If he wasn't doing that, is when she should be worried.. if he was a deadbeat , would she prefer that ? What about if she has kids with him and they divorce .. dies she want him to not contact her and the kids ? She'd flip a cow if he did that ! She needs to think about stuff like that .. and not make him look bad for it ..
I don't get badmouthing a partner to a friend or relative and then wonder why the perception of the partner is bad. What was Ashley expecting, and her sister was doing the absolute most. it was none of her business to go blabbing and being economical with the truth and laying on the bad bits extra thick for maximum reaction. If the person is that bad that you have to bad mouth them to others then perhaps it's time to end the relationship and move on. And when you give someone money as a gift then it's no longer yours and you have no right to ask them what they did with it otherwise you shouldn't have given it them in the first place.
Remember, too, when Ashley’s mom said on the last Tell All that she was also giving money for Manuel to send back to Ecuador. How many times has he asked her sisters or mom for (more) money to be sent back to Ecuador? I don’t think it was just a one-time thing, especially with Ashley’s debt. This is probably why the family feels that they have the right to ask about where is all the money going and why he feels to save money on the side while still asking for more money. 🤷🏼♀️🤔
I'm sorry but what were they expecting exactly? He sends money once and that's it and they live on fresh air from thereon after? I think this is all scripted, I'm sure she knew she would have to cough up until he got a job as he was the main breadwinner back in Ecuador. I also find it hard to believe she knew almost nothing about his family before they married.
@@MsSweetoothjI do believe they had “an agreement” before he came to USA as it’s the feeling I get from it all. Of course, after all that time spent in Ecuador, she had to learn how to speak the language fluently (her errors may be on purpose) and had to have known about his family…a lot of TLC programs and “reality tv” is scripted. Now, if it isn’t…he should already be working now. I have a friend that came from Bolivia the month before everything shut down in 2020. His father did his papers but the same day he arrived, he went to go get public transport pass, looked for work, etc. He found a room to rent quickly and worked throughout the pandemic for a car dealership here in Southern California. Where there’s a will, there’s a way to make things happen. I just want to know what is the exchange agreement they worked out since Ashley and her family have been giving so much money to Manuel and his family…what is she getting in return? No good, abled-body man would allow a woman to work and do everything for him and the home while he sits and does nothing.
If you watch from the beginning of the series this exact problem is addressed. Ashley is confronted with the idea that they shouldn’t get married because they have so many problems with transparency and honesty but she says that her and Manuel prefer to get their freak on instead of working through the problems. Throughout the series we see Ashley just chasing what feels good and avoiding reality.
It's none of their business how their marriage works BUT Ashley invited them in by telling them what is happening. The writing was on the wall from earlier, especially when Ashley thought the way to fix the problems is to have sex, esp. in the public bathroom to fix them. Here we are today, dealing with the same problems. TOXIC.
My family could get an Olympic gold medal in gossiping. I can’t trust anything I say to be kept in confidence and that is why I don’t say a thing. When I broke up with a former fiancé they were surprised that they were surprised by the breakup. If you complain about your mate you can easily forgive and forget but they won’t so better not to say anything unless the behavior is abusive.
When you are in a toxic or abusive relationship (and i would say demanding money and lying is a form of abuse), it's natural to vent about it to who is close to you. But more than that, you feel desperate and you know its a toxic relationship you need to leave, so you tell people because youre at breaking point. But then, you make up, especially if the abuser is manipulative, and you decide to give it another go. And now your support system dislikes the guy, so you downplay everything. Eventually it comes back on you for being inconsistent. So if a relationship is toxic, LEAVE.
Settling is not love. She ignored signs to prove people wrong or convince herself she was enough for him. I think she is in competition with the kids' mom. I refuse to believe she didn't know about the kids mom. Who did she think he was sending her money too. His kids stay with thier mom. Duh Ashley ding bat.
Ashley acts like giving him $1000 is supposed to support his family for a lifetime. Get over it girl it’s $1000. You act like you’re rich and you’re not. Once you are married, it is our money, not your money.
Ashley has played the victim to long. She was very much aware of his past. She never met the kids when she was out there visiting him!!??? She seemed to have met his mom, prior to getting married. Not surprising he talks with his ex, that's what you do if you have kid's. I had a good relationship with my ex, father of my daughter. It's normal to communication with your ex! He has to send her the money for his kids. Just like my ex did for our daughter. Isn't he making money from the show? He is well aware Ashley doesn't have money. She is in a big student loan debt $100K! This isn't going to get pay over night. She lied about him sending $ when they went to NY. When she knew she had the card all along, she even refused to give him the card when he asked her for it. All she is doing is creating, drama, for the show. I think she used him to be on this clown show, and he used her to get his green card and make money from the show. Sounds like many others that have done the same. Some of my friends follow them on Instagram or whatever site, and said they seem happy and they believe this is all fake scripted crap. And shame of her if it's not scripted and she does tell her family everything. I told my daughter from day one, do not tell me your problems, do your best to work them out. Unless you have no choice. 21 yrs they been together 18 yrs of marriage, i have yet to hear anything negative of my son in law. They live there life private and I ove it. Yes i know they have therr ups and down time. Like any couple does. But they have a strong marriage and i feel blessed that God's blessing them. Time will tell.
There must be SOMETHING Manuel has that other men have not.......lol (Uhemm) But seriously, I was once so in love, I REFUSED to believe the man would never do the things to me that he did. I couldn't believe people could be evil. They can. I will never be the same after the way he treated me. She will learn her lesson eventually.
Im excited for them to out where hes sending the money and thst hes probably still with the baby mama. This is a scam thats been done. It literally happened to nicole on 90 day fiance ages ago . I think she married a morrocan or was trying to. He stayed in his country, took her money and the whole time was in a relationship with his cousin
Years ago my sibling used to do the same. Any kind of disagreement with their partner, straight on the phone to me telling me how bad their marriage was etc. I would get myself upset with worry for sibling, losing sleep. I would phone them up the next day and both of them would be laughing and joking. They would act like nothing had happened and very much in love. Had to put a stop to it.
That's what Thias did to her friends. So when they met Patrick they accused him of cheating on her. Which he didn't. They weren't in a relationship yet. I thought they were mean to Patrick and his brother.
This man is clearly just using Ashley 🙄 Always been. If he wants money to send home.. He can go EARN IT! YOU JUST DONT LET MEN TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU. GUESS WHAT...MOVE ON.
Ashley has the right ideas of what a marriage should look, sound and be like. How she ended up tripping all over herself in her rush to the altar with a dismissive, secretive man with multiple obligations to family and previous relationships like Manuel is beyond me. And I'm just going to go ahead and say this out loud... Manuel doesn't speak English and Ashley's navigation of Spanish is conversational and superficial at best. Fabulous for High School language class and comfortable for tourism to Spanish speaking countries but Manuel's need to bring a Spanish speaking interpreter along with him when meeting with that lawyer in regard to drafting a Post Nuptial Agreement speaks volumes. Case in point, Manuel's shock when learning the level of debt Ashley was carrying and Ashley's insistence that she had been up front and told Manuel about it before they got married. Neither one of them is lying, they're both telling the truth as they know it, the problem lies with neither one of them having the deep language skills necessary to communicate effectively on a "Let's Get Married" level. I wish them the best but the next time Manuel starts making noises about returning to Ecuador Ashley should give some serious thought to taking him up on his offer.
Ashley's a clone of her "hard core" mother's energy. Where's her Father? The women in her circle are tough enough to shred any man into "confetti". Manuel sees he can't win any points with their attacks towards him. Hopefully, he has an escape plan, before Ashley & "Big Mama Bear " turn him into a "frog" or ??? Whatever his reasons were for marrying Ashley; I think he NEVER imagined the horror of this situation. Perhaps, he and Ashley cooked up their story, to get on the show for the money ( like Angela and Michael 😮). Meanwhile, dusty/thirsty Ashley gets her sexy time and Manuel gets half of their 💰💰 from being on 90 day fiance'. Nothing else about their relationship makes any sense.
Some things she shouldn’t of told her family every one fights but not every issue needs to be aired out to the family cause then it causes issues a even tho he has been very shady
What ever he is she accepts she knows the deal with him before she married him but instead of acting she tells others so they can react then looks confused when they confront him
This man is clearly just using Ashley 🙄 Always been. If he wants money to send home.. He can go EARN IT! YOU JUST DONT LET MEN TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU. GUESS WHAT...MOVE ON.
This man is clearly just using Ashley 🙄 Always been. If he wants money to send home.. He can go EARN IT! YOU JUST DONT LET MEN TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU. GUESS WHAT...MOVE ON.
This man is clearly just using Ashley 🙄 Always been. If he wants money to send home.. He can go EARN IT! YOU JUST DONT LET MEN TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU. GUESS WHAT...MOVE ON.
This man is clearly just using Ashley 🙄 Always been. If he wants money to send home.. He can go EARN IT! YOU JUST DONT LET MEN TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU. GUESS WHAT...MOVE ON.
I can’t feel/ feel bad for her because she openly invites issues into her life. This couple is just the epitome of an eye roll.
The way Ashley excuses her husband's behavior and dishonesty reminds me a lot of people who stick in toxic situations because they believe that person is their soul mate/twin flame. They have limiting beliefs that prevent them from seeing that somebody would treat them better and they could have an intense connection with another person.
This man is clearly just using Ashley 🙄
Always been.
Yes but she knows that and has taken on the ... buying a man/sugar mama role so she should accept it.
Ashley has also allowed her extreme jealousy towards Manuel's babymama get the best of her period. Ashley should know that Manuel has to speak with his babymama about his children that are in school and who also need his financial support.
Agreed
I was waiting to hear this from you... lol you are on point my friend. You are definitely speaking facts here. She tells the family whatever she wants, then she plays the victim card and protects him when they confront him, everyone tells her and she turns away from the red flags. You are so right, why does she? Just a further thought...she looks like she's smerking/laughing when her sister told her what she told her mom about Manuel and the money. Ashley has two settings... dense or indignant.
She draws everyone into her chaos because it's drama, attention aka.. some sort of a social life for her.
She is not emotionally stable. We've seen her go from driving a car to pick up the love of her life from the airport to having a complete emotional breakdown because she knew he was not right for her, yet she picked him up anyway. She is at an age where this should not even be in her wheelhouse. Some people fantasize, some people live in fantasy land. Her emotional roller coaster is all she knows.
People see life through their own lens and the way she moves is normal to her. She's wasted a lot of time in her life, but that's something she has to see, we can't make anyone see what they don't want to see.
I had said this before and I will say it again MANUEL ONLY MARRIED ASHLEY FOR HER MONEY AND SHE MARRIED HIM FOR VALIDATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY PERIOD. ASHLEY ABSOLUTELY DOES NOT HAVE ANY EXPERIENCE WITH MEN. ASHLEY IS TOO OLD TO BE LETTING HER FAMILY INTO HER PERSONAL LIFE. ASHLEY NEED TO GROW UP, GET A JOB, AND MOVE ON WITH HER LIFE.
WELL SAID ❤❤
My question is, why do any of them HAVE to be giving him money? They have no proof of where the money is going, but they continue to give them money anyway. Who is the stupid one here, and who is the smart one? Hey, put me on that receiver list! 😄😂🤣
It's not about IQ. Ashley has bought her temporary husband's "love." If she stops the money he will leave. End of the love story.
I think your analysis is correct.
Ashley lives in her own delusional world with her fantasies about her life, fluttering around. Manuel has been using her from the start. Her family cannot get through to her! 🥶😰😨😱
I can't believe no one taks about how unreasonable and delusional Ashley is. That man has kids! He has to talk to his ex , even if it's to say pass the phone or I sent money for their birthday. I would never date a man that cuts all communication with the MOTHER OF HIS CHILDREN!
Ashley tells her family everything which paints him as the boogeyman. However, he has been shady from Day 1. He didn’t tell his family he was leaving to marry her, he sends his BM money and talks to him(I’m sure it’s more than just kids talk). Plus when is he getting a JOB??? He has been in the US long enough for work visa, right? I could be wrong.
You are right she knows he is shady he don't even want her but he sleeps with her to pacify her that's enough for her no self respect
When you act like teenagers expect to be treated as such. As for the family, they need to stay out of it. She can b**** all she wants, but they should keep their mouths shut! It's only adding to their problems.
If Manuel was smart he would have gotten his work visa and student visa before marrying Ashley's immature behind
@@TiffaneSmith-ni9lc exactly💯
Yep the way the two behaved they deserve each other. I don't know is all this real or is it just for TLC? There's something not right about her I just can't put my finger on it. She knew what he was like before she brought him here. Oh well I don't know what's true or false anymore on these shows. There is so much social media about the all. I can't believe people make a living out of following these types of things.
I do not see Ashley as " so smart", shecmight do well in school. But she lacks EI, and has her anxiety leading even though she puts herself into physical danger, driving, screaming crying all at once. Has she gone to therapy? She solves her dysregulation with sex, but sells herself as a wise witchy woman.
They just need to leave Ashley alone…she is NOT going to see the red flags or anything else negative about him, cause she doesn’t want to. She’s a grown woman, let her find out for herself and make her own decisions about her relationship with him.
In my opinion, her family are projecting their feelings onto to Manuel, instead of directing them at Ashely, who they are very disappointed and angry with for continually choosing this situation and asking for their support. Their feelings belong to Ashley and not necessarily Manuel..
I love the way fans always villify the foreigner no matter what the evidence shows.
Right ?? This season, the Americans were ALL very controling ..
I’m an American and I think Ashley is a big B.
If there are problems in a relationship, talk to your spouse. Once you tell your family how many faults your spouse has, they will always remember the negative. Keep private things private!
I learned at a very early age to not talk shit about my boyfriends with my family because they will hate him and nothing will change their minds. They will never forgive that person!
Yep! 💯
Ashley has a savior complex. It comes from feeling blessed and fortunate and guilty that not everyone gets the same type of stability and opportunity. she is 100% getting taken advatage of. . . I know manuel recently opened up about how he'd rather be working but it doesn't excuse his secret keeping and flippant attitude towards her.
No he is no angel, but she leaves all the cookie cupboards wide open, and then is surprised the hungry ate them all.
Everyone in the family knew he was going to marry into their family and he can’t work when he comes to the states. She knew she had to help him financially. Ashley is vey manipulative
Very !
So is Manuel
I just don't understand how Ashley is in so much debt. They can't get divorced, right? Didn't the Lawyer say he would be 1/2 need to pay 1/2 of that? I also didn't know you could sponser a spouse w/ all that debt. Her family is right. He should have said in the beginning when I send $$$ I do talk to the Mother of my kids to see how they're doing. I just don't get telling the whole family. Just think- the internet is 4 ever. In years to come her next BF or Husband will see & hear when they went into the restroom. I think sex is the only thing they have in common. In the last video you said it was good to see him open up. Was that $1000 bucks for him to start saving up? I don't think he blew it on material things. I think he sent it back home.
Ashley the fake witch is still financially responsible for Manuel after they get a divorce because she is his sponsor. Ashley had only married Manuel for validational purposes only period.
100k in student loans.. and at least the lawyer said since it's student loans , he's not responsible for half of that debt as he would be for other debts .
As for the mother of his kids .. I'm sure he's getting updates on his kids.. his kids will tell him some.. but not the same type of feedback you get from a parent ..
He said he talks to her when he sends money .. sounds like he calls, says " I sent u money today " and get updates from the kids and about the kids..
If he wasn't doing that, is when she should be worried.. if he was a deadbeat , would she prefer that ?
What about if she has kids with him and they divorce .. dies she want him to not contact her and the kids ? She'd flip a cow if he did that !
She needs to think about stuff like that .. and not make him look bad for it ..
No her pre debt stays her debt...lucky manual...what does he bring to the marriage...oh right nothing...
Manuel is just using Ashley, she should buy him a ticket back to Ecuador and say see ya!!!!!
Spot on about trAshley 💯 🎯
Tra-shEE
PRICELESS ❤
They dated years ago and it didnt work...just have left it at that...
I don't get badmouthing a partner to a friend or relative and then wonder why the perception of the partner is bad. What was Ashley expecting, and her sister was doing the absolute most. it was none of her business to go blabbing and being economical with the truth and laying on the bad bits extra thick for maximum reaction. If the person is that bad that you have to bad mouth them to others then perhaps it's time to end the relationship and move on. And when you give someone money as a gift then it's no longer yours and you have no right to ask them what they did with it otherwise you shouldn't have given it them in the first place.
Well said!
I believe Manuel. Ashley is intolerable. Why doesn't she teach him English? Because she wants to control him. I hope he can escape her.
He can start learning by himself. I’ve met people who have 🤷🏻♀️
100%
My guy taught himself English from watching tv
Remember, too, when Ashley’s mom said on the last Tell All that she was also giving money for Manuel to send back to Ecuador. How many times has he asked her sisters or mom for (more) money to be sent back to Ecuador? I don’t think it was just a one-time thing, especially with Ashley’s debt. This is probably why the family feels that they have the right to ask about where is all the money going and why he feels to save money on the side while still asking for more money. 🤷🏼♀️🤔
I'm sorry but what were they expecting exactly? He sends money once and that's it and they live on fresh air from thereon after? I think this is all scripted, I'm sure she knew she would have to cough up until he got a job as he was the main breadwinner back in Ecuador. I also find it hard to believe she knew almost nothing about his family before they married.
@@MsSweetoothjI do believe they had “an agreement” before he came to USA as it’s the feeling I get from it all. Of course, after all that time spent in Ecuador, she had to learn how to speak the language fluently (her errors may be on purpose) and had to have known about his family…a lot of TLC programs and “reality tv” is scripted. Now, if it isn’t…he should already be working now. I have a friend that came from Bolivia the month before everything shut down in 2020. His father did his papers but the same day he arrived, he went to go get public transport pass, looked for work, etc. He found a room to rent quickly and worked throughout the pandemic for a car dealership here in Southern California. Where there’s a will, there’s a way to make things happen. I just want to know what is the exchange agreement they worked out since Ashley and her family have been giving so much money to Manuel and his family…what is she getting in return? No good, abled-body man would allow a woman to work and do everything for him and the home while he sits and does nothing.
If you watch from the beginning of the series this exact problem is addressed. Ashley is confronted with the idea that they shouldn’t get married because they have so many problems with transparency and honesty but she says that her and Manuel prefer to get their freak on instead of working through the problems. Throughout the series we see Ashley just chasing what feels good and avoiding reality.
It's none of their business how their marriage works BUT Ashley invited them in by telling them what is happening. The writing was on the wall from earlier, especially when Ashley thought the way to fix the problems is to have sex, esp. in the public bathroom to fix them. Here we are today, dealing with the same problems. TOXIC.
My family could get an Olympic gold medal in gossiping. I can’t trust anything I say to be kept in confidence and that is why I don’t say a thing. When I broke up with a former fiancé they were surprised that they were surprised by the breakup. If you complain about your mate you can easily forgive and forget but they won’t so better not to say anything unless the behavior is abusive.
When you are in a toxic or abusive relationship (and i would say demanding money and lying is a form of abuse), it's natural to vent about it to who is close to you. But more than that, you feel desperate and you know its a toxic relationship you need to leave, so you tell people because youre at breaking point. But then, you make up, especially if the abuser is manipulative, and you decide to give it another go. And now your support system dislikes the guy, so you downplay everything. Eventually it comes back on you for being inconsistent. So if a relationship is toxic, LEAVE.
Settling is not love. She ignored signs to prove people wrong or convince herself she was enough for him. I think she is in competition with the kids' mom. I refuse to believe she didn't know about the kids mom. Who did she think he was sending her money too. His kids stay with thier mom. Duh Ashley ding bat.
Ashley acts like giving him $1000 is supposed to support his family for a lifetime. Get over it girl it’s $1000. You act like you’re rich and you’re not. Once you are married, it is our money, not your money.
Ashley has played the victim to long. She was very much aware of his past. She never met the kids when she was out there visiting him!!??? She seemed to have met his mom, prior to getting married. Not surprising he talks with his ex, that's what you do if you have kid's. I had a good relationship with my ex, father of my daughter. It's normal to communication with your ex! He has to send her the money for his kids. Just like my ex did for our daughter. Isn't he making money from the show? He is well aware Ashley doesn't have money. She is in a big student loan debt $100K! This isn't going to get pay over night. She lied about him sending $ when they went to NY. When she knew she had the card all along, she even refused to give him the card when he asked her for it. All she is doing is creating, drama, for the show. I think she used him to be on this clown show, and he used her to get his green card and make money from the show. Sounds like many others that have done the same. Some of my friends follow them on Instagram or whatever site, and said they seem happy and they believe this is all fake scripted crap. And shame of her if it's not scripted and she does tell her family everything. I told my daughter from day one, do not tell me your problems, do your best to work them out. Unless you have no choice. 21 yrs they been together 18 yrs of marriage, i have yet to hear anything negative of my son in law. They live there life private and I ove it. Yes i know they have therr ups and down time. Like any couple does. But they have a strong marriage and i feel blessed that God's blessing them. Time will tell.
What a toxic relationship
There must be SOMETHING Manuel has that other men have not.......lol (Uhemm) But seriously, I was once so in love, I REFUSED to believe the man would never do the things to me that he did. I couldn't believe people could be evil. They can. I will never be the same after the way he treated me. She will learn her lesson eventually.
Same. Sorry that happened to you.
Yup! Me too, sometimes you have to go thru it to finally snap you out of it
Im excited for them to out where hes sending the money and thst hes probably still with the baby mama. This is a scam thats been done. It literally happened to nicole on 90 day fiance ages ago . I think she married a morrocan or was trying to. He stayed in his country, took her money and the whole time was in a relationship with his cousin
His cousin???
That's normal in their culture @@falliblewonder
@@kismetcreativity8481Maybe so but it is not the truth in this case. They are still together.
Years ago my sibling used to do the same. Any kind of disagreement with their partner, straight on the phone to me telling me how bad their marriage was etc. I would get myself upset with worry for sibling, losing sleep. I would phone them up the next day and both of them would be laughing and joking. They would act like nothing had happened and very much in love. Had to put a stop to it.
That's what Thias did to her friends. So when they met Patrick they accused him of cheating on her. Which he didn't. They weren't in a relationship yet. I thought they were mean to Patrick and his brother.
This man is clearly just using Ashley 🙄
Always been.
If he wants money to send home..
He can go EARN IT!
YOU JUST DONT LET MEN TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU.
GUESS WHAT...MOVE ON.
Ashley has the right ideas of what a marriage should look, sound and be like. How she ended up tripping all over herself in her rush to the altar with a dismissive, secretive man with multiple obligations to family and previous relationships like Manuel is beyond me. And I'm just going to go ahead and say this out loud... Manuel doesn't speak English and Ashley's navigation of Spanish is conversational and superficial at best. Fabulous for High School language class and comfortable for tourism to Spanish speaking countries but Manuel's need to bring a Spanish speaking interpreter along with him when meeting with that lawyer in regard to drafting a Post Nuptial Agreement speaks volumes. Case in point, Manuel's shock when learning the level of debt Ashley was carrying and Ashley's insistence that she had been up front and told Manuel about it before they got married. Neither one of them is lying, they're both telling the truth as they know it, the problem lies with neither one of them having the deep language skills necessary to communicate effectively on a "Let's Get Married" level. I wish them the best but the next time Manuel starts making noises about returning to Ecuador Ashley should give some serious thought to taking him up on his offer.
Ashley's a clone of her "hard core" mother's energy.
Where's her Father? The women in her circle are tough enough to shred any man into "confetti". Manuel sees he can't win any points with their attacks towards him. Hopefully, he has an escape plan, before Ashley & "Big Mama Bear " turn him into a "frog" or ???
Whatever his reasons were for marrying Ashley; I think he NEVER imagined the horror of this situation. Perhaps, he and Ashley cooked up their story, to get on the show for the money ( like Angela and Michael 😮).
Meanwhile, dusty/thirsty Ashley gets her sexy time and Manuel gets half of their 💰💰 from being on 90 day fiance'. Nothing else about their relationship makes any sense.
Ashley might have a baby that looks like Manuel
Some things she shouldn’t of told her family every one fights but not every issue needs to be aired out to the family cause then it causes issues a even tho he has been very shady
Shes so used to the bare minimum she's happy with anything
So dramatic. Rme
What ever he is she accepts she knows the deal with him before she married him but instead of acting she tells others so they can react then looks confused when they confront him
Earlyyyyy ❤
Manuels drink is talking to him 5:07
This man is clearly just using Ashley 🙄
Always been.
This man is clearly just using Ashley 🙄
Always been.
If he wants money to send home..
He can go EARN IT!
YOU JUST DONT LET MEN TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU.
GUESS WHAT...MOVE ON.
This man is clearly just using Ashley 🙄
Always been.
If he wants money to send home..
He can go EARN IT!
YOU JUST DONT LET MEN TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU.
GUESS WHAT...MOVE ON.
This man is clearly just using Ashley 🙄
Always been.
If he wants money to send home..
He can go EARN IT!
YOU JUST DONT LET MEN TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU.
GUESS WHAT...MOVE ON.
I don't think he has a work visa yet though
This man is clearly just using Ashley 🙄
Always been.
We heard to Kathy Martin seven times.
This man is clearly just using Ashley 🙄
Always been.
If he wants money to send home..
He can go EARN IT!
YOU JUST DONT LET MEN TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU.
GUESS WHAT...MOVE ON.
@@kathymartin1321 he should be work8ng 2 cash jobs...60 percent for Ashley and his expenses...the rest he can send to the moon...
Why don’t people understand that he cannot work right now. It’s not part of the visa.