To ladki jiske saath relationship main he usi se shaadi kare aur *shaadi ke baad hi sex kare* . Agar shaadi nhi karna to relationship kyun rakhna? Aur ladkiyan dena band kar dein to ladke khud hi line pe aa jayenge. Ladkiyan de kyun rahi hain?? Ye batao pehle
First of all I hate the concept of bf or gf (I like to be friends it doesn't depent it is boy or girl) and I belive if anyone have bf who purpose girls 99% change that he need her only for sex and then girl cry
Class 12th Biology NCERT Chapter 'Human Reproduction' - "The hymen is often torn during the first coitus (intercourse). However, it can also be broken by a sudden fall or jolt, insertion of a vaginal tampon, active participation in some sports like horseback riding, cycling, etc. In some women the hymen persists even after coitus. In fact, the presence or absence of hymen is not a reliable indicator of virginity or sexual experience."
I am 22, I still haven't found a girl who matches my vibe, my chain of thoughts, somebody who understands my philosophy and you guys are worried about virginity 🙂
@@nostalgia5342virginity means having no past baggage and a lot less drama/distrust etc... in the relation. There are Philosophical, Psychological and Social Reasons why it is embraced. One of the most philosophical societies/Culture, the Greeks were very strict on pre-marital and extra-marital. And when adultery and sexual indulgence became common among Greek and Roman Societies especially when it stooped so low that wives began to sleep with her husband's friends right before their husband's eyes in their banquets, we had the whole society/civilization go extinct. Despite of all the knowledge we have about them, most of the books, writtings, technologies etc... went Missing, Most of the figures of the time are being debated if they ever existed in the first place or not. It's only the post-modernist hedonic materialistic atheistic philosophers that encourages sexual indulgence. I.e just engaging in pleasure with no Rationale.
@@chaoslord07 what's wrong with a past baggage, you learn from your experiences and mistakes, if somebody is not virgin that doesn't necessarily means that he/she has a bad character
@@happyvalleyroses8145 it’s not about logic it’s about choice, there are apples and oranges both are good but some like apples, some oranges, that doesn’t make either of them less valuable, but if forcefully try to feed orange to a person who loves apples then the problem arise. Agar aap itne mahaan ho toh apna logic dijiye 🙏
@@GyanPrakash so if you find someone who is everything you want, and then you come to know, that the person has had sex before, so now that person is ‘undeserving’?? Why so obsessed with Virginity??? Does it affect your life in anyway?? If a woman or a man has had sex before, and you have sex with that person, do you even realise it??? I am not talking about someone who might have had a reputation of promiscuity ( although to judge upto God only). So to love a person you need a person to be ‘virgin’ then it is definitely not love. It is an obsession, a need to be the one to say ‘Look I broke your virginity’. Apples and oranges ?? Hahah What is wrong is wrong. If you think that virginity is a ‘proud badge’ and that you ‘deserve a virgin’, then that makes you someone who is not looking for love, for a life partner but someone you can claim. I have never had sexual intimacy too. But in a partner I would look for love and understanding. Not reduce a person to their genitals.
@thezoldics7648 How? Who is taking those women's virginity then? People complaining about being a virgin on the internet are doing it for relatability sake or are chronically online losers. A LOT of men and women are in sexual relationships The amount of men and women who are unmarried and non virgins should be the same.
Here's the thing - if you're fat, expecting a slim and fit woman is unfair. If you're a party goer, expecting a homely wife is unfair. If you've had sex before marriage, expecting a virgin wife is unfair. But that also means a virgin guy has every right to expect a virgin girl. Same goes for a girl. For someone who has avoided the temptation to find sex before marriage, they absolutely want someone who values marriage in a similar manner.
I would love to know you're opinion about all girls saying they want a guy thats is 6ft, earns a lot, has a stable job and is strong and confident Even though they don't posses any of those qualities themselves Women don't have to have those things they want in a Man but that's is okay so why does a guy need to be a virgin to have a virgin wife
@@Faizan29353 yeah that kinda goes without saying but everyone is shaming men for wanting virgins when they aren't and think only virgin men can date virgin women period but same people think its o.k for women to want a man with qualities they don't posses Its quite hypocritical wouldn't you agree
@@Faizan29353 women wanting a man thats rich ,tall and strong when they arent is Rule Not Exception But men wanting a virgin girl when they don't have that quality Is a Exception Not Rule Why The Double Standard ??
@@striker7625 because they want votes thats it , nothing new , see the social media lots of women shouting K@@l all men and stuff and not getting cancelled but andrew is banned(i dont like his words but sometimes he says real sh@t), its all wage gap and stuff , untill ukraine war starts and all women go to lavish Euro Countries and live their new life with people supporting ,free admissions at top unis and stuff what about the men? where is the feminism ? ... its just sad...
Broken hymen is not in any way indicative of virginity. That's basic biology to learn in high school. Good job, Mohak. We need more channels like this.
Simple logic, if any boy wants a virgin girl, there's no problem in it if and only if he is himself virgin. and if he's not virgin, then don't keep any expectations about the girl's virginity.
@@fjsigdiggit1234That's not true... Mostly virgin women prefer virgin men. Only an experienced woman would want an experienced man. That is why if you go to Western countries, most women there prefer experienced men as they are experienced themselves. That is not the case with conservative countries like India.
Ironically no one talks about the risk of having physical relationships with multiple parthers like various STDs. I believe that topic would be more useful
In this age of casual dating, this is a highly debatable topic. Nevertheless it's bizarre to test virginity. That blood stain on the bed sheet might fade but the stain on mental health will remain a trauma for entire life.
If a man is a virgin, he may expect a virgin wife, considering his abstinence from sexual activities. This perspective aligns with how some women inquire about their partner's virginity. However, it's vital to approach such topics with respect and empathy, regardless of one's own experiences.
@@BTKGaming09maybe because people should understand that just because someone has had sex, doesn’t mean they are any less of a person than someone who hasn’t. Like our parents have had sex. Do you think of them any less of a person?
@@sskk3321 first of all if you are from a certain culture you follow your tradition it's as simple as that even people living in forest have their own tradition and i don't understand what is the relation of your question to the virginity since losing virginity and having kids are 2 different things but to answer your question as a child I won't think any less of them because at that time i wouldn't have much idea about the world too but as a grown up I would definitely think less of them because if they can't even have the guts to name their relation before bringing me in the world what kind of love they had then and what will they teach me
I don't think demanding a virgin girl for marriage is the wrong thing........unless you are also a vergin .....and if your are not 🚫 vergin then you don't have any right to ask for a vergin girl...that's it 😎
@@potatobowmaster5396that is the reason y dowry exist in our society An unemployed girl wants to marry an ias officer and hence he demands the dowry to fill the gap...
Are Bhai verginity only sex ke dwara nahi khoijati ye baat v samjho ... Cycle chalana Doudna kudna yani athletics me jana ..by birth v log virgin nahi hai aur ..kuch kuch sexually abused v rahe honge .... video pura dekha nahi apne lekin apni mindset nikalke rakhdi yahn
Bleeding during sex isn't even an indication that the hymen is broken, it due to friction that causes micro tears in the walls of the vagina. This is usually because they're not aroused enough for the walls of the vagina to lubricate, this could lead to uncomfortable sex and bleeding.
Aah this answer have some problem first of all hymen is not a question paper seal that it be broken And other thing is bleeding during intercourse is caused by friction of penis, lack of lubrication and stretch of hymen or vaginal tract cause vagina to penis width ratio is much smaller
The thing mohak said about making laws and banning surgery is completely true. i am from a village in Madhya Pradesh and many couples in our area test the gender of their unborn baby. I've heard they abort the unborn baby if it is a girl child. they pay alot of amount to doctors just for knowing the gender, people can't even afford to pay for thier child's education but they save money around 40k-50k to pay for these things.
This type of 'virgin again surgery' is a fraud in itself- you are fooling your partner. Be straightforward and accept responsibility of your actions. If he does not accept you (which he has the right to), move to a more open-minded partner! Some boys keep themselves virgin all their life for marriage, they have the right to expect a virgin wife. If you had sexual relationships before, it is not the end of the world- just find somebody with similar lifestyle. Do not lie and ruin somebody's life.
I think this topic serious but no one want to talk about this. Really salute to mohak for covering such controversial topics to make everyone aware about this. ❤
@@FromPlanetZXWho cares about virginity, if my wife is vergin she will be less experienced. So a company will prefer an experienced employee or inexperienced?
I disagree with what you said about ISLAM. Based on some so-called scholars you cannot criticize the whole religion. Bring me one scripture from Quran or Hadith which talks about this? Other than that, Very Important subject and you covered it well. Thank you
I come from a middle-class background, working 12 hours as a waiter to support my family. I manage my studies, family, and work, leaving little time for a relationship. Consequently, I haven't had a girlfriend yet and remain single at 24. I wonder if I'll find a partner who shares my values in the future. It's important for both men and women to prioritize mutual respect and consent in their relationships, including waiting until marriage if that's their choice.
THE PRESENCE OR ABSENCE OF HYMEN IS NOT A RELIABLE INDICATOR OF VIRGINITY OR SEXUAL EXPERIENCE. The hymen is often torn during the first coitus (intercourse). However, it can also be broken by a sudden fall or jolt, insertion of a vaginal tampon, active participation in some sports like horseback riding, cycling, etc. IN SOME WOMEN THE HYMEN PERSISTS EVEN AFTER COITUS. - CLASS 12 BIOLOGY NCERT
you are absolutely correct even while doing gym activities or some household chores that can happen too what matters the most is MUSTUTAL TRUST between couples
@@winnershandbook1069 yeah I know it's not fair..but in most og the cases both side agree to marriage....if both side are agreeing to have a non virgin partner then it's fine too....but if the girl is unemployed and the guy dump her for that reason it's fine too...but idt Indian men will do that
@@kanishkraturi8695 yeah men just want loyalty. and they usually think that if she's been with 4 guys before is she actually loyal? i read an article that the more no of partners a person has had, higher the probability of cheating
@@cybercop3108 It can't be broken easily😂, you just give it as a reason to hide your dirty past. Don't fool guys into thinking that you are some kind of saints
Albert Einstein once rightly said that our society is indeed evolving just backwards. This quote really seems a lot more meaningful when we see such instances in our society.
Do you know about pareto principal in dating market?. In USA, it was found that 80% Women were hooking up with only 20% man who were tall rich and handsome. If women were given freedom they will always choose people like Hritik roshan. And Hritik roshan will get the opportunity to sleep with 100s of women..... अब बोलो ऐसी सेकंड हैंड माल सै आप शादी करोगे कया?????
With modern feminism and woke liberals, our society definitely is going backwards. Our ancestors were much more civilized during the colonial era. They actually behaved like proper civilized men and women.
I’ll never understand why women are not treated as whole human beings but rather objects. Had an unbelievable conversation with my partner where he said a woman is someone who can be a mother, man will we never hold anymore value than being sex object and a baby making machine in this world. I want to be valued and respected more than for just being able to give birth. This world day by day grossed me out even more
Women have nothing to give to a man men are self-sufficient we can earn ourselves, we are physically more stronger, more aggressive and violent,, more competitive I will only need a woman to satisfy me, make kids, take care of kids and make food that's it if I decide not ho have kids I basically don't need a woman I can employee a cook for food and can use my own hand or silicone dolls to do my thing that's it and it's hard to find good, loyal ,virgin partner
It's about the concept of purity I mean a virgin man is somehow will have confidence on a virgin women than a non virgin . As she has been in affair with other
I still remeber, my ex was constantly asking me to sleep with him, so i told him i want to do that only with my husband and i broke up with him. He made 15 fake accounts and catfished me 5 times into getting me back so that he can manipulate me to sleep with him. I don't understand the logic? Why is it a problem if i just purely follow my heart, i just don't want to be touched by anyother guy than my future husband, People should learn tk take opinions from others and their virginity is theres?
"I am ready to marry a raped girl but i have to think much to marry a girl who slept with many guys of her own ." Reson - character 😢. Every one have their own ideology man
I personally wouldnt marry her IF she's not over her trauma. I'll help her as I can like a friend but if someone has a lot of trauma I don't really wanna start my marriage like that. it's different if she's over it or if something bad happened after we are married.
There is nothing wrong in expecting a virgin partner, there are a lot of guys who don't engage in pre Marital sex and hence expect the same from their partner. However making atrocities on someone for not being a virgin is wrong. Which shall not be done.
Nope that isn't the problem the problem is that this kind of wierd superstition is applicable for only one gender (shouldn't be applicable for anyone) and ppl think being virgin is 'pure' and girls aren't allowed to use basic hygiene products cuz ppl think they might loose virginity
@@varunsolanki322Fair point, but I'd say there are worse things a potential partner can hide from you. (Atleast in the case of arranged marriage) Which is probably why dating a person and getting to know them is a better way to find a partner, imo.
Tumne vo padha h na ki hymen se decide nhi hota but agar hymen present h to ladbhag confirm hota kyunki vo bahut bahut rare hota ki intercourse ke baad bhi hymen na tute I am not judging but this is truth
@@vikasmiracle1420kya confirm hota h? 12th ncert mein clearly mentioned h and it's a known fact that hymen can also break during strenuous exercise, horse riding etc.
The doctor in this video said a very important point that the hymen can stretch OPEN due to arousal by the partner. It doesn’t always have to BREAK and BLEED! It’s the responsibility of the parter to arouse the female enough that the bleeding due to injury doesn’t happen. Which is actually a good sign. Meaning that your partner is actually attracted to you and is willing to intercourse and you don’t need to “injure” her! I hope they can somehow educate people about it.
'Doesn't always bleed', it means it is RARE, Most of the time it does bleed. What you are doing is taking example of small percentage of women and applying it on most women, lmfao, No, ladko ka kaat rahe hai ye ladkiya. Just be truthful.
Virginity loose never indicates he hymen torn ,it's indicate the trust purity towards ur partner (boy/girl)....if a guy is a virgin then he/she demands a virgin .....If someone has had sex, then he should marry someone who is himself a non-virgin or marry someone who has no problem with someone being a virgin or not.
@@elveeleven2574Your mindset shows that the few virgin women who don't bleed will face discrimination because u won't believe that she is virgin because it's a low possibility
Why some girls/boys do sex with the person they wont commit for long term?? Why? If they r in a serious relationship...why not wait till mrg? If someone is a Virgin...he/she can expect virgin and its Not abt Hymen.
@@29.ispeakpower bhai virgin rehna koi garv ya sharam ki baat nhi hai. Ladkiyon ko aisi behuda cheezon se farak nhi padta ki unke partners virgin hain ki nhi, aur naa hi ladko ko padna chahiye.
When I decided to switch to menstrual cup my mom and my friends were worried about me loosing virginity but thankfully it wasn’t that hard for me to educate them and they soon understood my point. But when my friends wanted to switch to menstrual cup after being inspired by me then their parents weren’t supportive enough because they were scared for loosing virginity. Sigh :( they continue to get rashes from using pads and feel uncomfortable with that sticky feeling…
My mom was also uncomfortable when i told her that i want to switch to menstrual cups She indirectly tried to get me to avoid it, but didn't say it I just switched anyway. If she had said anything about virginity I would've told her Although my parents do get disgusted by my cup, if they see me boiling it or something 🤦
I once asked I gynae I was 16 back then and I didn't know much about cup so I asked him if it is okay to use cup for my age. he said that's for married women, not you. I ended up using cup anyway and recommended it to my friends also; most were scared but a few of them who tried never looked back.
@@lipsabadi6796 until you try a new thing it’s always scary. I’ve had a huge fear of cup too but I decided to overcome it because I saw soo many women saying that they were scared like me but when they gave cup few tries then they said it was their best decision ever. So it gave me confidence and now I’m one of those women too who believes it’s the best decision I ever took :)
It doesn't matter if boys want their wife to be virgin. They should just open up and talk before marriage. If things work out just proceed with relationship. If not there is always another option. Of cource to expect it male should also be pure.
Expecting your life partner to be virgin before marriage if a personal choice and should be respected. The problem is the boy should also be virgin himself to impose such standards on the girl. Also, harming the girl verbally or physically is not acceptable. Just walk away from the alliance citing incompatibility. No reason to judge anybody based on his or her sexual past.
@@megamewtwoy9316true we should judge it like no one is forcing them to do they are doing this by there own wish and for fun why we should suffer by other person's fun
@@kalpeshkadam6194 true , these things are really sensitive , if not for that person himself/herself , but for his/her future family members and parents , just imagine if we get to know that our mothers did such a thing , then what a negative impact it would create , just imagine , but these cheap fellas are simply justifying these things as fun and their choice ..... in entire comment section , but will regret later badly
@@kalpeshkadam6194 also , marrying doesnt simply means that husband wife are living together , in most families only 1 person is earning , and if his/her partner is such a cheap , how can he/she spend a hell lot ( literally lakhs of money) on thier needs , luxury , house , education , trips ,.. and other things
Step 1: make everyone aware that hymen does not ditermine virginity. Step 2: make everyone aware of consequences of pre-marial sex. If you admirar of Western hookup culture, you should know most of their marriage does not become successful. Children end up with single parent, that affects their mentality too. Some of us insecure about our spouse having pre-marital relationship/sex and I am one of them. Step 3: have an honest conversation about past relationship before marriage.
@@MarkAntony-l7s But most marriages in India aren't "successful" either? Just because a marriage doesn't end in divorce, doesn't mean it's successful. India ranks high in the list of countries with the highest domestic violence cases, child marriages, dowry and female foeticide. You don't see the names of western countries in these lists. Then how exactly are our marriages more successful than theirs? Similarly, just because parents are married doesn't mean the children will have a healthy childhood. If we're taking the context of India, the majority of children are suffering from malnutrition and poor healthcare. 40% of children in India experience malnutrition or stunted growth. Their parents being together isn't doing anything for their childhood development. On the other hand western countries have way better statistics when it comes to childhood development even after having higher divorce rates.
About that community in Maharashtra, i once read in a newspaper about it ,it was rather positive. A man married a woman ,they were both from that community and he broke the tradition of that bedsheet test. Times are changing Mohak , and it's all for the good .
Girls, like everyone else, have their own preferences when it comes to relationships. Guys are often expected to have a job, earn well, and come from a good background. It's uncommon for a girl to marry someone with a lower social standing than her own. On the other hand, when a guy has certain preferences, society tends to view it negatively or as "devilish." If a guy looks for a partner with a similar social background, no prior relationship, or someone who is educated, it is considered fair enough. However, some may not have a problem with a partner who has had a prior relationship, and that's also acceptable. It's unfair to judge one preference as better than the other. Everyone has the right to their own preferences in a relationship.
Dude if the girl ask good job money etc you also ask the same...what it the girl ask you to be virgin and tests you for the same...baat to izzat pr aa jaati h na...how can you justify both the thing on one scale
@@triptidubey2792 whenever a women gets physical with a man sue releases Oxytocin and when that oxytocin reaches its saturation just like dopamine she's unable to bond with anyone else and 100%cheat.noan needs a women with sémén of countless men in her womb to nurture his kids
@@triptidubey2792 we live in a world where usually when a man earns he earns not only for himself but for his family and when usually a woman earns she does it for her financial independence. in most cases a guy will marry a non working woman but will in most cases a girl marry a non working guy. there's a difference which no matter what ever you say wont change the basic societal structure.
If a girl or boy had multiple physical relationships in past he/she has increased chance of carrying an STI or STD or even HIV. So if you marry such person, then you will also contract the same disease.
For those categories of people where marriage means only sex - are mostly failing to understand that marriage is actually understandings, support, care and sharing responsibilities of each other as much possible and MOST IMPORTANTLY RESPECTING EACH OTHERS DESPITE VARYING IDEAS OR THOUGHTS. coz every individual is unique and deserves living happily...attaching khara and khota "..." and all such terminology itself indicates marriage essence itself is unknown to them and still as per their meaning or laws they want marriages to be done that way only...feeling sad and bad for those women's who accepts such things and make them ready for it....those girls rather must go against it or leave thought of marrying under such worst thoughts and pressures. It's still better they can live better life rather such humiliation
Wo theek hai here we are talking about the virginity test we have to go through and if we fail although hymen can be broken without intercourse too this .Also men are not asked to do any virgin test
@@dailyitmforecastyes, this custom doesn't exist in Maharashtra. Only Kanjarbhats do that in Maharashtra but not native Maharashtrians. Infact thinking about your own daughter-in-law that way would be considered disgusting over here.
Puri video mein bta diya ki society mein change laao and that is also good but kahin ek baar bhi nahi kaha that staying virgin is also good before marriage...
Yes!! Instead of discussing about accepting someone's past, he should make videos on how to control our s*xual desires and preserve our rich culture and heritage....!! He is making India western rather than modern 🥲
@@Smriti.Sharma. kash future me meri shadi apke jese soch wali ladki se ho. i can marry rape victim girl but not with a girl with previous multiple partners. my heart was breaking seeing a girl comment saying she is happy to marry a guy having 10 previous partners and guys should do too and her commentator friend said whats wrong in it.🥲🥲
No 👎 ... All guys deserve Virgin girls ... It's written in Quran ... If you are not satisfied with your earlier wife .. you can ask her to marry a younger girl ... A man always want a Virgin girl ... It's a fact ..
@@saho716 Mohammad galat aadmi tha ki nahi ? Child sex offender tha ki nahi ? Hamesha sex k bare me sochta tha chahe khud ki biwi ho ya khud k ladke ki biwi ya vidhwa ho ya bachchi ho ya fir aapni nokarani .
Sex ed + physical ed should be like evs or GK - introduced from 6th class rather than once in 8th and 11th &12th! IT WILL BE MORE GENERALIZED!! We learn but do not fit quite well, but keeping it to mind is good ✌️
Excellent video Mohak. I completely agree with you that discussing virginity of girl is a petty thing which unfortunately is still being practiced in our society. Also during the marriage process the guy should not be judged upon his income or his looks like I have seen a guy whose engagement got broke when the bride found out that the guy was wearing a wig and there are many good men are still single because they earn less or they don't have any property in their name. Our society needs this changes not only for women but for men also.
Another stupid comment - Man and women both are allowed to have preferences. Man can demand a beautiful wife. Woman can demand a husband who is paid 2 lakhs/ month salary. Man who is not bald and so on. The point is both side is allowed to have demand and if a man is not good enough he is not gonna get the wife he want and probably have to settle for less, same goes for the women.
Do you know about pareto principal in dating market?. In USA, it was found that 80% Women were hooking up with only 20% man who were tall rich and handsome. If women were given freedom they will always choose people like Hritik roshan. And Hritik roshan will get the opportunity to sleep with 100s of women..... अब बोलो ऐसी सेकंड हैंड माल सै आप शादी करोगे कया?????
Listen both virgin and non-virgin women would want money. Because money is necessary to raise kids and lead a normal life. Good men r fine. Lazy men r not fine. Or let's say unmotivated men. Both virgin and non-virgin women can expect a good earning man. She leaves her parents, gives birth to children and raises them up... These hardworks have no value? I am virgin woman and have fun rejecting men with such mentality.
Its not a forced thing, its just a preference you either qualify or not. Men are also prefered with deep pockets and good height that doesn't mean others never get married. Woman can just marry in families who think the same as them
Mohak, you are a great teacher & great mindset person who is leading our generation to think differently and be confident towards the right things to accept reality. Hats off to your research ...
2:49 exactly....it is extremely difficult to persuade women to use menstrual cup....many of my friends straightaway say that they will use it after marriage.... virginity is still a big deal for men and women both
Virgintiy test may be wrong, but I would never accept a girl as my wife who had any sexual relation in past. If someone had any physical relation in past, there is good chances that she may carry emotional baggage of past or might be everytime comparing me to her past boyfriends. Also, how can I trust her? People can call me conservative but these are my thoughts. PS-Same applies for men also.
@@veen88in Sanatan Dharma, the concept of "purity of women" is a foreign concept that was adopted after the invaders came. Look at the old temples, look at the scriptures of the past. It was completely acceptable for women to experience various men simultaneously, and the husband could not prevent her either. That's how liberal Sanatan Dharma is ❤
@@devrajkundu3059bhai ek baar ye soch ke dekh yahan baat ladki ki virginity ki bas nhi h Sayad tumko pata nhi ladki agar is tarike se kisi se attached hogi to problem jindagi bhar hogi Iska simple sa sol. Hai ki shaadi se pehle ladki ko ladke se aur ladke ko ladki se puch lena chahiye Baat khtm😌 Isme tension kya hai re baba
@@hawkgaming288 ek relationship chalane ke liye respect and love ki jaroorat hoti hai.dono compatible hai ki nahi,ek dusre ko kitna pasand kartein yeh important hai.isme virginity dekhna is least reason to noticeable to be in a relationship.logon k aproblem hai log virginity ka matlab sex aur purity se jod dete hai.yeh galat soch aur education ki kami ki wajah se hai.aur sirf sex se hi khun nahi nikalta.bohat reason se khoon nikal ta hai.bohot ladki ka to janam se hi virginity nahi hoti.uska bhi kya solution nikalogey!!!isme solution kaisa..virginity hon aya na hona koi problem nahi hai.
Virgin girl and virginity test are 2 different things.. virginity tests are immoral and discriminatory towards women but preferring a virgin woman is basically assuring of past baggage. Just like how girls avoid playboys simply boys avoid girls with lot of relationships… anyone carrying too much of past baggage will always create complications in relationship or marriage..! Simple as that, only solution is be honest with each other and make a decision before tying the knot.
Honesty and integrity are two fast disappearing qualities today as people are exposed to myriad view points on SM and therefore find ways to justify their dishonesty before marriage or infidelity after marriage. Many youngsters who rushed into a mindless physical relationship but realised their mistake and crave a second chance too are likely to lie because there's no telling how someone will react to their sexual history. It is tricky to reveal certain things at the start of a relationship because you haven;t had a chance to endear yourself to your spouse. All the same revealing some details that are best left buried in the past, in the name of honesty at any point in the relationship can also endanger it instead of winning you accolades. About 25-30 years ago people did not have so much mistrust about their spouse's past as they have since the rise of social media. Many medium to cheat and be dishonest have opened up now and it's no wonder trust has flown out of the window.
And also, there is a dignity problem.... How can someone with dignity accept a girl as "WIFE" who slept with other guys (its like mistress). Wife is honour of a men, we fight for her protection, we provide.. but can we do these things with "Those Immoral Girls".
@@mdsalahuddinansari8522you don't need to protect her, she can protect herself. If you want your wife to be virgin, make sure you remain virgin too. Otherwise even if you'll get a virgin wife, you'll remain "The immoral husband" as per your mindset.
@@mdsalahuddinansari8522 😂 what are you doing in 2023....sounds like you belong a century before..women is not an object...and what about men who have sex before marriage with other girls...
@@freakinglyVirgin can demand virgin...its his/her choice and completely justified. My question is....WHY do sex with a person to whom u wont commit for long term??
Want a virgin partner or not is obviously a personal choice (for all genders)... But atleast, there should be awareness regarding these... Like those practices followed beating up a woman if she does not bleed, etc. should be completely banned... And as mentioned in the video... Not only legally but also socially...
@@bruh.07 Concept of chastity doesn't apply to men biologically. I am not saying he should be getting laid all the time. Sex game isn't same for men and women , an average looking or even ugly looking woman can get laid if she wants , it isn't same for men. Even the best of best have to work hard to get a female to their bed. Its the difficulty of a task which makes its market value. That's the reason IIT JEE rankers are respected while others not because it's all about difficulty of being there. If you are pursued by any tom D and Harry then it's the problem
I was disgusted, sad, disappointed, angry, and laughing at same time. But a fabulous research, that how you highlighted the one of many darker sides of Indian Patriarchy that is something detestable.♥️♥️♥️♥️ Love you
This video just stereotypes people In usa and even in india you will find girls who want virgin partner For some people its big thing For some its not These types of videos just stereotypes men with other misogynist men
Also most of the time when someone says virgin they only refers to not having experience of sex and not hymen Even though its meaning is related to hynen
I dont think this is "Patriarchy", because majority of the times, the ones who initiate such things are, Mother in Laws and Sister in Laws. Mothers Indoctrinate their daughters "to remain pure". Have anyone ever seen a Father or brother talk to the girl on virginity, or tells her to be "Pure".
Those boys ,who don't want to be in a relationship just because they want to work on themselves and earn money to make a foundation of happy life , have the right to choose a virgin (pure) partner, same applies to the girls. 🙏🙏🙏
Shout out to cousins Vivek and Priyanka May your voice get louder and reaches billions of people of my beloved country May common sense and knowledge prevail 🙏
everybody is saying a virgin deserves a virgin. Still, to me, if a man is a virgin but a creep and wants a virgin girl because he believes in women as sex objects, he isn't a virgin by choice. He is asking for a virgin girl WITHOUT caring about her other features, and then the virgin guy doesn't deserve to be married. But if a man wants a virgin woman because of his pure intentions like having the first time together, mutual respect, etc. then it's actually good :D.
U have heard this many times:-"the boy have physical relationship in the name of marriage and love and then left the girl for another girl. Right??? Even in many relationship;; girls complain that their bf used their body in the name of love before leaving. That's why..u should remember one thing before u start relationship with a non virgin guy:-"it's 99% chance he either lost her virginity through casual,prosti*tution..or he might used a girl. And u might her next target.
And one more thing to say:-""in India,, because of religious & conservation belief..most men are virgin upto marriage compared to girls. Even after having many golden chances,, still guy like me prefer to stay virgin upto marriage. If guy like me considered women as sex object;;then majority men won't be virgin. It's only few boys who are non virgin. They used multiple girls in the name of love and break up. And we can't stope them. Those guys want to use...and Girls also want to be used for fun as only these guys are open minded in having premarital sex. In reality,,,most girls actually do fake complain that their bf used them. But in reality they want those few guys to be their sexual partner as bf .
@@NFS691 idk why are you portraying non virgin men as evil and using stupid terms like being 'used' is fun to some girls. To me virginity shouldn't matter, I'm a virgin, I've been in a relationship once but was very sure that I didn't want to lose my virginity until I was very sure. I have been single for a very long time. But even if I fall in love with a guy who once used to be fuckboi and now has changed, I believe in second chance. We shouldn't be choosing a partner just because we are a virgin and he/she is also a virgin. There is this myth that having sex with more than one person's is a lack of discipline. People go through heartbreaks bruh. Our society is stupid to just focus on the virginity part. Bhai mei achaar dalungi ladke ki virginity ka Agar woh nature se accha ni hua? Kyu itna virginity pe focus hai bhai. Mostly log jo virgin hai unhe lagta hai ki unne koj achievement kia hai. Ghnta. Many of them, MANY of them are sexually frustrated. No wonder rape cases itne zyada hai. Dimag se pure hona chahiye, body ka kya hai, Ganga ji mei dho lena.
@@honeybirds5348 idk about gender, if men want virgins because they are virgins and would not care about other things then we are doomed. Virginity shouldn't be an issue and no preference should be water-tight.
@@anjalimishra8304 aur dono chiz honi chahiye... virgin v aur good characters v. Forget about virgin men . Even non virgin men want virgin. That's hypocrisy.😂 Idk...why girls still loosing virginity... afterall when these non virgin men want virgin. Aur unhe mil v jata he..kyunki...kuchh ladkiya tumhari tarah sochte he Aksar aise logo ka rista kabhi bhi jyada der Tak nahi tikta..jo pehle se hi...kiske saath Bina shadi kiye hue physical hue ho. Aise relationship me..na..koi abuse..na koi cheating hota he...bas pyar fika pad jata he. Dono mutually breakup/divorce lete he. Why it happens?? Because of body memory. Jitne logo ke saath judoge...utna body memory attach ho jayega....aur next relationship me....ye chiz impact Dale ga. Sabka pro and conc hota he. Bas kuchh log ko sirf ... premarital sex me pros dikhata he. Kyunki...hawas ne unki aankh me pati bandhi he.
There is nothing wrong in expecting a virgin partner, there are a lot of guys who don't engage in pre Marital sex and hence expect the same from their partner. However making atrocities on someone for not being a virgin is wrong. If your partner isn't virgin better leave them but don't have atrocities on them😊
I can easily say 80% indian guys out there are virgin..the problem with women is they lie most of the times with their virginity..Y can a 30 years man ( virgin)well settled in their job ask about a virgin girl? Our indian culture never supported premarital sex... an inexperienced guy will never know about hymen but it's on the mentality of the girl to tell the truth if she has engaged in sexual encounter..
Hey, I just wanted to take a moment to appreciate the incredible work you have done on this issue. Your dedication and expertise really shine through in every aspect, and it's evident that you have put your heart and soul into it. I also want to commend you for being courageous and speaking up about a taboo issue. It's not easy to raise your voice on such matters, but your willingness to address the topic head-on shows your strength of character and your commitment to making a positive impact. Keep up the fantastic work and don't be discouraged by any challenges that come your way. Your contributions are making a real difference, and I'm truly impressed by your talent and passion. Well done! 👏👏👏👏👏
Regarding Indian socio-culture aspects, and virginity test before marriage, I'm hearing this for the FIRST TIME. I'M an Indian, bengali from West Bengal, and literally, I'm justttt surprised to hear this!!?? Even dowry is being discarded in our culture, and I'm happy that Bengali society is progressing, discarding outdated religious orthodoxy.
@@FromPlanetZX every state has its own merits and demerits. And Bengal too has many liberal people who are very nice and won't shy away from putting out their opinion. At the same time there exist some orthodox style folk too.
The rule is simple.. if you are a virgin you deserve a virgin girl.. if you are not you don't deserve your wife to be virgin.. if you want a virgin girl, you must also be a virgin boy🤷.... # NO SEAL NO DEAL🙅🗿
To all men out there. If you want to have a partner with no sexual intercourse, ask her repeatedly and do a background search. You have to partly assume if she tells you she had a past relationship. I have seen men breaking marriage just because wife did not bleed during intercourse. This will be a injustice to your wife also who left everything to be with you. Better you talk to that person and clarify than to repent later.
Girls in arranged marriage does not leave her house,parents for the boy,she leaves for the amount of money,building etc,you make it seem like girls leave for the boy which is far from true.
Since you are a girl then how can I respectfully as a girl about her virginity in a respectful way and without making her feel like a object or making her feel awkward or uncomfortable as I don't want to disrespect anyone.... 🙏
To all the girls out there who may be reading this. I feel disgusted that you guys went through such ordeal because of our narrow mindset. Considering a girl as maal is narrow enough that I find out about this Khara Khota ritual. I feel literally ashamed of our society. I am really sorry for all that you go through. Edit: People with little to no knowledge regarding what virginity is and whether or not it can be tested. Please do not reply to my comment.
Bhai literally 2 communities ye Ganda ritual krti h or tu Aisa keh ra h jaise har bnda krta ho and asking for a virgin wife is alright for a virgin man
Virginity can only be expected by someone who is virgin himself/herself. Virginity is definitely indicative of Patience and Responsible-ness in one's character. And besides the risk of STD, the reason I expect Virgin life-partner is because I don't want to allow the possibility of me having to face the insecurity of my partner' ex satisfying her better than me.
I don't care about the hymen, as you said, it can be rebuilt and be broken without sex. All I care is that my future hasn't had sex. The reason being, a promiscuous girl is less likely to form an emotional bond. Sure, if her ex did it or she was abused that's fine. Like whoever agrees (I'm also virgin)
But virginity doesn't guarantee loyalty, I lost my virginity with my ex bf but he cheated on me he used to fuck around with other girls and this same thing is true for some married men as well. I broke up with him after knowing this and now I'm dating a guy who really loves me so I don't think virginity would matter bcz a virgin guy/girls could cheats too. and a
@@MuskanSinhaaYour ex bf was a f-boy that's why. Not all virgin men are like that. Many virgin men want virgin women to share their lives with, have kids with, etc. Chastity and loyalty both are important. Not just chastity or loyalty. Be selective and picky.
To all the unmarried boys, stop asking your gf for any kind of physical relationship if you want a virgin wife.
You nailed it! 👏👌Also, if they want one then better get married to the same gf.
Exactly 💯
To ladki jiske saath relationship main he usi se shaadi kare aur *shaadi ke baad hi sex kare* . Agar shaadi nhi karna to relationship kyun rakhna?
Aur ladkiyan dena band kar dein to ladke khud hi line pe aa jayenge. Ladkiyan de kyun rahi hain?? Ye batao pehle
applies to girls too as some women go wild in the moment of heat
First of all I hate the concept of bf or gf (I like to be friends it doesn't depent it is boy or girl) and I belive if anyone have bf who purpose girls 99% change that he need her only for sex and then girl cry
Class 12th Biology NCERT Chapter 'Human Reproduction' -
"The hymen is
often torn during the first coitus (intercourse). However, it can also be broken
by a sudden fall or jolt, insertion of a vaginal tampon, active participation
in some sports like horseback riding, cycling, etc. In some women the hymen
persists even after coitus. In fact, the presence or absence of hymen is not
a reliable indicator of virginity or sexual experience."
I too studied from there. It's often nowadays since many girls/women are involved in sports and fitness now
@@libertyreels even some girl born without hymen too or incomplete hymen lol
Yaa you are right bro 👍👍👍
Yeah right I am studying too for neet preparation
That is why Proper knowledge is important
I am 22, I still haven't found a girl who matches my vibe, my chain of thoughts, somebody who understands my philosophy and you guys are worried about virginity
🙂
If everyone considered all these stuff, virginity would never have been a concept.
So me.
Koi puchha?
@@nostalgia5342virginity means having no past baggage and a lot less drama/distrust etc... in the relation. There are Philosophical, Psychological and Social Reasons why it is embraced.
One of the most philosophical societies/Culture, the Greeks were very strict on pre-marital and extra-marital. And when adultery and sexual indulgence became common among Greek and Roman Societies especially when it stooped so low that wives began to sleep with her husband's friends right before their husband's eyes in their banquets, we had the whole society/civilization go extinct.
Despite of all the knowledge we have about them, most of the books, writtings, technologies etc... went Missing, Most of the figures of the time are being debated if they ever existed in the first place or not.
It's only the post-modernist hedonic materialistic atheistic philosophers that encourages sexual indulgence.
I.e just engaging in pleasure with no Rationale.
@@chaoslord07 what's wrong with a past baggage, you learn from your experiences and mistakes, if somebody is not virgin that doesn't necessarily means that he/she has a bad character
Simple Logic: If you are a VIRGIN, you DESERVE a VIRGIN, and if you're not a VIRGIN yourself, you lost the Right to ask for VIRGINITY.
Hahaha the worst ‘logic’ ever
This is what I think
@@happyvalleyroses8145 it’s not about logic it’s about choice, there are apples and oranges both are good but some like apples, some oranges, that doesn’t make either of them less valuable, but if forcefully try to feed orange to a person who loves apples then the problem arise.
Agar aap itne mahaan ho toh apna logic dijiye 🙏
@@GyanPrakash so if you find someone who is everything you want, and then you come to know, that the person has had sex before, so now that person is ‘undeserving’??
Why so obsessed with Virginity??? Does it affect your life in anyway?? If a woman or a man has had sex before, and you have sex with that person, do you even realise it???
I am not talking about someone who might have had a reputation of promiscuity ( although to judge upto God only).
So to love a person you need a person to be ‘virgin’ then it is definitely not love. It is an obsession, a need to be the one to say ‘Look I broke your virginity’.
Apples and oranges ?? Hahah
What is wrong is wrong.
If you think that virginity is a ‘proud badge’ and that you ‘deserve a virgin’, then that makes you someone who is not looking for love, for a life partner but someone you can claim.
I have never had sexual intimacy too. But in a partner I would look for love and understanding. Not reduce a person to their genitals.
@@happyvalleyroses8145 See you proved my point, I don't wanna discuss it further 🙏
Indian society is living in both 15th and 21st Century.
You win 🫡
Underrated 🙏
Certain values are ageless!
There's nothing wrong in wanting virgin girl nomatter where you're from
Har chij west ke copy Karna jarurat Nahi
@@unconscious1076 okay but if you got a wife which isn't Virgin then divorcing, mental torture or physical torture is right?
If you are a virgin you've every right to ask for virgin partner. But some boys wishing for "pure" wife after sleeping with dozens makes me sick.
Yes true. And virgin girls also want virgin boys. But boys are players😢
As a professional virgin, I totally agree with you. (I am 6 ft btw)
@thezoldics7648 How? Who is taking those women's virginity then? People complaining about being a virgin on the internet are doing it for relatability sake or are chronically online losers. A LOT of men and women are in sexual relationships The amount of men and women who are unmarried and non virgins should be the same.
@@Love-vr3qxYe kab hua 😅
Lagta Mai aur mera friend circle hi virgin reh gai 😢😂
@@raksha676hamare pas hath hai 😂
Itne paise hi nahi hai 😂
Being fake is more harmful than being true in relationship.Girls and boys should be open about past relationships.
only mature comment in comment section
@@RishabhBohra13 Open hoke bhi kya fayda, humpe to hai ni no
@@dhruvlodhi6740tere pe nahi hai to kisi aur ki to hogi
@thezoldics7648kaise bro? Aajkal batana muskil hai.
@thezoldics7648tm virgin ho ?
Here's the thing -
if you're fat, expecting a slim and fit woman is unfair.
If you're a party goer, expecting a homely wife is unfair.
If you've had sex before marriage, expecting a virgin wife is unfair.
But that also means a virgin guy has every right to expect a virgin girl.
Same goes for a girl.
For someone who has avoided the temptation to find sex before marriage, they absolutely want someone who values marriage in a similar manner.
I would love to know you're opinion about all girls saying they want a guy thats is 6ft, earns a lot, has a stable job and is strong and confident
Even though they don't posses any of those qualities themselves
Women don't have to have those things they want in a Man but that's is okay so why does a guy need to be a virgin to have a virgin wife
@@Faizan29353 yeah that kinda goes without saying but everyone is shaming men for wanting virgins when they aren't and think only virgin men can date virgin women period but same people think its o.k for women to want a man with qualities they don't posses
Its quite hypocritical wouldn't you agree
@@Faizan29353 women wanting a man thats rich ,tall and strong when they arent is Rule Not Exception
But men wanting a virgin girl when they don't have that quality Is a Exception Not Rule
Why The Double Standard ??
@@striker7625 because they want votes thats it , nothing new , see the social media lots of women shouting K@@l all men and stuff and not getting cancelled but andrew is banned(i dont like his words but sometimes he says real sh@t), its all wage gap and stuff , untill ukraine war starts and all women go to lavish Euro Countries and live their new life with people supporting ,free admissions at top unis and stuff what about the men? where is the feminism ? ... its just sad...
Expectations hi mat rakho door raho ladkiyon se
Mohak talks about what no one else dares touch. Respect, genuine respect!
aap sabhi se request🙏 hai Manish khayshap per video banane bolo😢
@@studentsLifevlogs98your namee is joke
@@hariomsingh0307 why
wtf?? no one dares matlab nuke codes reveal kar raha hai kay voo, what is wrong with us as a society?? ye bate normal honi chahiye
@@atharvabedarkarBhot phle se hi normal hai bas ye log hype create kr rhe hai 😂😅
Broken hymen is not in any way indicative of virginity. That's basic biology to learn in high school. Good job, Mohak. We need more channels like this.
hme to padhaya hi nhi yaar hymen word high school me,
@@shinchansharma1544 beta class 12th me padhoo... Human reproduction chepter me
@@devidchoudhury2621not everyone has biology...
Exactly 💯
@@devidchoudhury2621 i had pcm
Simple logic, if any boy wants a virgin girl, there's no problem in it if and only if he is himself virgin.
and if he's not virgin, then don't keep any expectations about the girl's virginity.
True
Then body count should matter 😂😅
But women always want an Experienced men, Because If a Men were wanted by many women, Women will always want that men, Thats how Logic Works by women
@@fjsigdiggit1234That's not true... Mostly virgin women prefer virgin men. Only an experienced woman would want an experienced man. That is why if you go to Western countries, most women there prefer experienced men as they are experienced themselves. That is not the case with conservative countries like India.
@@fjsigdiggit1234lol your mom is not all women
Ironically no one talks about the risk of having physical relationships with multiple parthers like various STDs.
I believe that topic would be more useful
Agree
Protection be like main kya kru job chor du 😂
@@theKingaurav aree bhai sirf protection se ni hota, herpes jaise STDs ka naam suna hai 😂
@@aishwarytiwari7221 nhi jaanta hoon Bhai
@achiever86 not everyone is achiever like you na
In this age of casual dating, this is a highly debatable topic. Nevertheless it's bizarre to test virginity. That blood stain on the bed sheet might fade but the stain on mental health will remain a trauma for entire life.
Underrated comment ❤
the blood on bedsheet part with parent outside so soo awkward. imagine how awkward and messed up it is irl
then don't get married!
@@ebadurrahman7848 you should only expect your wife to be chaste if you are as well
Actually just bizarre. No scientific evidence
If a man is a virgin, he may expect a virgin wife, considering his abstinence from sexual activities. This perspective aligns with how some women inquire about their partner's virginity. However, it's vital to approach such topics with respect and empathy, regardless of one's own experiences.
Yes absolutely brother ❤...we are virgin then how we can accept a girl who had sex with another person 😢
@@BTKGaming09maybe because people should understand that just because someone has had sex, doesn’t mean they are any less of a person than someone who hasn’t.
Like our parents have had sex. Do you think of them any less of a person?
@@sskk3321yes they had but after their marriage so i don't get your point there
@@apexpredator4537 marriage is a social construct. If they weren’t married and had you, would they be any less of parent to you than they are now?
@@sskk3321 first of all if you are from a certain culture you follow your tradition it's as simple as that even people living in forest have their own tradition and i don't understand what is the relation of your question to the virginity since losing virginity and having kids are 2 different things but to answer your question as a child I won't think any less of them because at that time i wouldn't have much idea about the world too but as a grown up I would definitely think less of them because if they can't even have the guts to name their relation before bringing me in the world what kind of love they had then and what will they teach me
I don't think demanding a virgin girl for marriage is the wrong thing........unless you are also a vergin .....and if your are not 🚫 vergin then you don't have any right to ask for a vergin girl...that's it 😎
A poor girl has no right to want a rich husband by that logic
@@potatobowmaster5396that is the reason y dowry exist in our society
An unemployed girl wants to marry an ias officer and hence he demands the dowry to fill the gap...
Are Bhai verginity only sex ke dwara nahi khoijati ye baat v samjho ... Cycle chalana Doudna kudna yani athletics me jana ..by birth v log virgin nahi hai aur ..kuch kuch sexually abused v rahe honge .... video pura dekha nahi apne lekin apni mindset nikalke rakhdi yahn
@@potatobowmaster5396Then a boy too don't have a right to want a beautiful and fair skin girl to marry
what a stupid justification for dowry.@@Kartik83853
Bleeding during sex isn't even an indication that the hymen is broken, it due to friction that causes micro tears in the walls of the vagina. This is usually because they're not aroused enough for the walls of the vagina to lubricate, this could lead to uncomfortable sex and bleeding.
@thezoldics7648 dont like the answer?
@thezoldics7648mad that he knows more than you?
Aah this answer have some problem first of all hymen is not a question paper seal that it be broken
And other thing is bleeding during intercourse is caused by friction of penis, lack of lubrication and stretch of hymen or vaginal tract cause vagina to penis width ratio is much smaller
@thezoldics7648 man its a scientific fact
Why don't someone tell netas that knowing this is called sex education.
The thing mohak said about making laws and banning surgery is completely true.
i am from a village in Madhya Pradesh and many couples in our area test the gender of their unborn baby.
I've heard they abort the unborn baby if it is a girl child. they pay alot of amount to doctors just for knowing the gender, people can't even afford to pay for thier child's education but they save money around 40k-50k to pay for these things.
These things r still going on?? 😮😮
@@jioboy2676
Yes they are still prevalent.
It's not only in tier2 and tier3 cities.
Check the statistics.
Or bhai hm londe virgin h to fir ldki to vergin chahiye or gov servant hu bhai ..obviously bat h me to mnunga
@@prafuldethekar India main majority ladko ke paas gf nhi hoti...to itne saari ladkiyo ka V leta kaun he?? Aur ladkiyan deti kyun he??😁😂😂
@@prafuldethekarAbey tu har jagah ek hi comment spamming kyu kar rha hain??🤡🤣
This type of 'virgin again surgery' is a fraud in itself- you are fooling your partner. Be straightforward and accept responsibility of your actions. If he does not accept you (which he has the right to), move to a more open-minded partner!
Some boys keep themselves virgin all their life for marriage, they have the right to expect a virgin wife. If you had sexual relationships before, it is not the end of the world- just find somebody with similar lifestyle. Do not lie and ruin somebody's life.
Well said bro
I think this topic serious but no one want to talk about this. Really salute to mohak for covering such controversial topics to make everyone aware about this. ❤
Just Answer one thing- If Girls have a choice of losing virginity before marriage then why Boys should not have a choice to marry a Virgin girl ?
@@FromPlanetZXWho cares about virginity, if my wife is vergin she will be less experienced. So a company will prefer an experienced employee or inexperienced?
I disagree with what you said about ISLAM. Based on some so-called scholars you cannot criticize the whole religion. Bring me one scripture from Quran or Hadith which talks about this? Other than that, Very Important subject and you covered it well. Thank you
@@codejunkes4607 may God grant you a non-virgin wife, Hallelujah!
@@wasimdamadwoh khud ko secular dikhane ke liye Islam ko badnam kar raha . I guess is baar sahi se chupa nahi paya
I come from a middle-class background, working 12 hours as a waiter to support my family. I manage my studies, family, and work, leaving little time for a relationship. Consequently, I haven't had a girlfriend yet and remain single at 24. I wonder if I'll find a partner who shares my values in the future. It's important for both men and women to prioritize mutual respect and consent in their relationships, including waiting until marriage if that's their choice.
Since you are a waiter, you have no problem waiting for the perfect partner.
@@1234jokerboysince you are a joker, you have no problem joking your life forever.
lmao@@suraj.mohapatra
yooo that one there was a violation , I personally wouldnt have it 💀😭@@suraj.mohapatra
@@suraj.mohapatraI see a gentleman right here lol
The real meaning of virginity is that body count should be 0️⃣
Yeah invent a device that can count that and you will be as rich as Elon
@@fatguyslimbruh 💀
Yeah ,its like u can seal a bottle again ,but the water in the bottle is used already ,which is not a virgin at all ..
@@madhvisingh3259 how would you know?and is your partner a bottle of water?wow
@@fatguyslimWhy we need to invent a device...why can't boys n girls control themselves till mrg??
THE PRESENCE OR ABSENCE OF HYMEN IS NOT A RELIABLE INDICATOR OF VIRGINITY OR SEXUAL EXPERIENCE. The hymen is often torn during the first coitus (intercourse). However, it can also be broken by a sudden fall or jolt, insertion of a vaginal tampon, active participation in some sports like horseback riding, cycling, etc. IN SOME WOMEN THE HYMEN PERSISTS EVEN AFTER COITUS.
- CLASS 12 BIOLOGY NCERT
you are absolutely correct even while doing gym activities or some household chores that can happen too what matters the most is MUSTUTAL TRUST between couples
Open hymen
@@Vaish.001 kal hi dekh kr aaya hu oppen heimer aka open hymen
1) Ratta mara
2) Book mai ye sab hota hai unhe kya pata hamare million year old pratha ke baare mai
3) Mai tho PCM/commerce/arts ka hu.
@@mewmimo8465 million year old pratha ?? Waah bhai history kaha se padhe ho ? Padhe bhi ho ki nahi ?
It's simple...it's ok to ask for virgin...as long as you are a virgin too and I don't think there's anything wrong in wanting that!!
what about jobless girl wanting a man who makes 1 lac monthly income? where's equality there?
@@winnershandbook1069 yeah I know it's not fair..but in most og the cases both side agree to marriage....if both side are agreeing to have a non virgin partner then it's fine too....but if the girl is unemployed and the guy dump her for that reason it's fine too...but idt Indian men will do that
@@kanishkraturi8695 yeah men just want loyalty. and they usually think that if she's been with 4 guys before is she actually loyal? i read an article that the more no of partners a person has had, higher the probability of cheating
@@winnershandbook1069bhai virginity ko virginity compare karo na 💀🤣jand job ko job se 💀.?virginity ko job se kyu karna compare
@@Alienhuehue then compare job with job. why can jobless women demand a guy making 1L/month? where is your equality now
no seal no deal (both men and women)😊👍
Men ko seal hi nahi hoti, GOD sealed women for a reason😂
@@cybercop3108 Nature is GOD
@@cybercop3108 It can't be broken easily😂, you just give it as a reason to hide your dirty past. Don't fool guys into thinking that you are some kind of saints
@@Azanel-mr4fc how old are you ? did you not get the part where the doctor explained how it's actually not a seal?
Kya se aate ho 👎👎👎
Albert Einstein once rightly said that our society is indeed evolving just backwards. This quote really seems a lot more meaningful when we see such instances in our society.
Do you know about pareto principal in dating market?.
In USA, it was found that 80% Women were hooking up with only 20% man who were tall rich and handsome.
If women were given freedom they will always choose people like Hritik roshan. And Hritik roshan will get the opportunity to sleep with 100s of women..... अब बोलो ऐसी सेकंड हैंड माल सै आप शादी करोगे कया?????
@@thewalker338well this is already happening.
With modern feminism and woke liberals, our society definitely is going backwards. Our ancestors were much more civilized during the colonial era. They actually behaved like proper civilized men and women.
@@thewalker338 ladkiyo se dur rehna chahiye
I’ll never understand why women are not treated as whole human beings but rather objects. Had an unbelievable conversation with my partner where he said a woman is someone who can be a mother, man will we never hold anymore value than being sex object and a baby making machine in this world. I want to be valued and respected more than for just being able to give birth. This world day by day grossed me out even more
Women have nothing to give to a man men are self-sufficient we can earn ourselves, we are physically more stronger, more aggressive and violent,, more competitive I will only need a woman to satisfy me, make kids, take care of kids and make food that's it if I decide not ho have kids I basically don't need a woman I can employee a cook for food and can use my own hand or silicone dolls to do my thing that's it and it's hard to find good, loyal ,virgin partner
You should ask him if he's willing to be obedient to you since he claims he has no value. Pretty sure he'll flip. 😂
It's about the concept of purity
I mean a virgin man is somehow will have confidence on a virgin women than a non virgin .
As she has been in affair with other
Really sad to know that you can't be mother. 💔
Hope you recover from this trauma , you can adopt a baby if you want
@@Crystalmethdealer she never said that she cannot be a mother huh??
I still remeber, my ex was constantly asking me to sleep with him, so i told him i want to do that only with my husband and i broke up with him. He made 15 fake accounts and catfished me 5 times into getting me back so that he can manipulate me to sleep with him. I don't understand the logic? Why is it a problem if i just purely follow my heart, i just don't want to be touched by anyother guy than my future husband,
People should learn tk take opinions from others and their virginity is theres?
Well done sis. You did a very good thing by refusing to sleep with him. Your future husband is very lucky
you did the right thing girl virginity should be a concept for both men and women but some people shame men for having preferences
Few good women still left...😭😭😭
"I am ready to marry a raped girl but i have to think much to marry a girl who slept with many guys of her own ."
Reson - character 😢.
Every one have their own ideology man
You are right
Brother u dropped this 👑
Same
100%
I personally wouldnt marry her IF she's not over her trauma. I'll help her as I can like a friend but if someone has a lot of trauma I don't really wanna start my marriage like that. it's different if she's over it or if something bad happened after we are married.
There is nothing wrong in expecting a virgin partner, there are a lot of guys who don't engage in pre Marital sex and hence expect the same from their partner.
However making atrocities on someone for not being a virgin is wrong. Which shall not be done.
Or better reply truthfully when your future partner ask you about it?
Nope that isn't the problem the problem is that this kind of wierd superstition is applicable for only one gender (shouldn't be applicable for anyone) and ppl think being virgin is 'pure' and girls aren't allowed to use basic hygiene products cuz ppl think they might loose virginity
Ya I don't need cheated one
@@varunsolanki322Fair point, but I'd say there are worse things a potential partner can hide from you. (Atleast in the case of arranged marriage)
Which is probably why dating a person and getting to know them is a better way to find a partner, imo.
True, religious conservative here and can't agree more.
HUMAN REPRODUCTION and REPRODUCTIVE HEALTH chapter must read for all Indian citizens 🙏 🇮🇳
12 th student 😅😅
Main Bio ka hi student hu padh liya wo chapter
Tumne vo padha h na ki hymen se decide nhi hota but agar hymen present h to ladbhag confirm hota kyunki vo bahut bahut rare hota ki intercourse ke baad bhi hymen na tute I am not judging but this is truth
@@vikasmiracle1420kya confirm hota h? 12th ncert mein clearly mentioned h and it's a known fact that hymen can also break during strenuous exercise, horse riding etc.
@@taruuutru kha mna kar rha hu is baat se ki isse bhi break ho sakti but if it's not break than ........ Read my previous comments
The doctor in this video said a very important point that the hymen can stretch OPEN due to arousal by the partner. It doesn’t always have to BREAK and BLEED! It’s the responsibility of the parter to arouse the female enough that the bleeding due to injury doesn’t happen. Which is actually a good sign. Meaning that your partner is actually attracted to you and is willing to intercourse and you don’t need to “injure” her! I hope they can somehow educate people about it.
'Doesn't always bleed', it means it is RARE, Most of the time it does bleed. What you are doing is taking example of small percentage of women and applying it on most women, lmfao, No, ladko ka kaat rahe hai ye ladkiya. Just be truthful.
Virginity loose never indicates he hymen torn ,it's indicate the trust purity towards ur partner (boy/girl)....if a guy is a virgin then he/she demands a virgin .....If someone has had sex, then he should marry someone who is himself a non-virgin or marry someone who has no problem with someone being a virgin or not.
@@elveeleven2574Your mindset shows that the few virgin women who don't bleed will face discrimination because u won't believe that she is virgin because it's a low possibility
in the era of useless content flooding our feed, few channels like yours are trying to make a difference Mohak!! We love your efforts!
JAI HIND!!
Why some girls/boys do sex with the person they wont commit for long term?? Why?
If they r in a serious relationship...why not wait till mrg?
If someone is a Virgin...he/she can expect virgin and its Not abt Hymen.
Will you marry a man who took down multiple women before your Mairrage??
truth shall prevail via mohak videos
@@29.ispeakpower bhai virgin rehna koi garv ya sharam ki baat nhi hai. Ladkiyon ko aisi behuda cheezon se farak nhi padta ki unke partners virgin hain ki nhi, aur naa hi ladko ko padna chahiye.
@@Baronnax acchaa tu non virgin ladki accept karega??
When I decided to switch to menstrual cup my mom and my friends were worried about me loosing virginity but thankfully it wasn’t that hard for me to educate them and they soon understood my point. But when my friends wanted to switch to menstrual cup after being inspired by me then their parents weren’t supportive enough because they were scared for loosing virginity. Sigh :( they continue to get rashes from using pads and feel uncomfortable with that sticky feeling…
I switched to a cup for the same reason
My mom was also uncomfortable when i told her that i want to switch to menstrual cups
She indirectly tried to get me to avoid it, but didn't say it
I just switched anyway. If she had said anything about virginity I would've told her
Although my parents do get disgusted by my cup, if they see me boiling it or something 🤦
I also want to switch to menstrual cup but I am very scared
I once asked I gynae I was 16 back then and I didn't know much about cup so I asked him if it is okay to use cup for my age. he said that's for married women, not you. I ended up using cup anyway and recommended it to my friends also; most were scared but a few of them who tried never looked back.
@@lipsabadi6796 until you try a new thing it’s always scary. I’ve had a huge fear of cup too but I decided to overcome it because I saw soo many women saying that they were scared like me but when they gave cup few tries then they said it was their best decision ever. So it gave me confidence and now I’m one of those women too who believes it’s the best decision I ever took :)
It doesn't matter if boys want their wife to be virgin. They should just open up and talk before marriage. If things work out just proceed with relationship. If not there is always another option.
Of cource to expect it male should also be pure.
Expecting your life partner to be virgin before marriage if a personal choice and should be respected.
The problem is the boy should also be virgin himself to impose such standards on the girl. Also, harming the girl verbally or physically is not acceptable. Just walk away from the alliance citing incompatibility. No reason to judge anybody based on his or her sexual past.
there is reason to judge on the basis of past ,, imagine your mom had such a past , hwo would you ever feel? will it be normal for you?
@@megamewtwoy9316true we should judge it like no one is forcing them to do they are doing this by there own wish and for fun why we should suffer by other person's fun
@@kalpeshkadam6194 true , these things are really sensitive , if not for that person himself/herself , but for his/her future family members and parents , just imagine if we get to know that our mothers did such a thing , then what a negative impact it would create , just imagine , but these cheap fellas are simply justifying these things as fun and their choice ..... in entire comment section , but will regret later badly
@@kalpeshkadam6194 also , marrying doesnt simply means that husband wife are living together , in most families only 1 person is earning , and if his/her partner is such a cheap , how can he/she spend a hell lot ( literally lakhs of money) on thier needs , luxury , house , education , trips ,.. and other things
@@megamewtwoy9316 i absolutely agree with you bro even i think same and will only marry someone with no past
8:52 lack of sex education can take innocence life 😢 very shameful
Bhai kon si education...merko bi batta kya khati hai teri education
@@Princess.iz9 I think tumne Puri video dekhi nahi h Varna ye question kabhi puchte nahi... Koi baat nahi me yaha sex education ki baat kar Raha tha
HOW EDUCATION IS REALATED TO THIS
AGAR MORAL EDUCATION HOTA TO LOG KHUD VIRGIN REHTE SADI TAK
@@RONIT848 HAVE YOU EVER A WORD CALLED "SEX EDUCATION"?? NO! BECAUSE YOU WERE NEVER TAUGHT IN SCHOOL WHAT IT IS!!
@@therajguptaa DO ANIMAL HAVE SEX EDUCATION , EVEN THEY PRODUCE BABY
WHAT IS SEX EDUCATION YOU GAVE ME ANSWER
"If a boy is a virgin, educated, and well-settled, then he also deserves to find a virgin girl."
why do boys have to be educated, well settled while girl only needs to be virgin? why not equality in that case too?
This should apply vice versa also, right?
@@jinsflsg ofcourse 🙂
yea but virginity does not mean having an intact hymen. you just need to trust your partner's word for it just like women
@@meghanarora4136but still they can hope. What's wrong with that? Somebody is hurting your feeling?
Step 1: make everyone aware that hymen does not ditermine virginity.
Step 2: make everyone aware of consequences of pre-marial sex. If you admirar of Western hookup culture, you should know most of their marriage does not become successful. Children end up with single parent, that affects their mentality too. Some of us insecure about our spouse having pre-marital relationship/sex and I am one of them.
Step 3: have an honest conversation about past relationship before marriage.
Finally someone with common sense
nice to see someone who is not sucked into western hedonistic culture
@@Aksarallah Well we're becoming a minority now.
@@MarkAntony-l7s But most marriages in India aren't "successful" either? Just because a marriage doesn't end in divorce, doesn't mean it's successful. India ranks high in the list of countries with the highest domestic violence cases, child marriages, dowry and female foeticide. You don't see the names of western countries in these lists. Then how exactly are our marriages more successful than theirs?
Similarly, just because parents are married doesn't mean the children will have a healthy childhood. If we're taking the context of India, the majority of children are suffering from malnutrition and poor healthcare. 40% of children in India experience malnutrition or stunted growth. Their parents being together isn't doing anything for their childhood development.
On the other hand western countries have way better statistics when it comes to childhood development even after having higher divorce rates.
@@FiestyForce There are other reasons behind the overall better statistics of the West, not because they have more divorces.
About that community in Maharashtra, i once read in a newspaper about it ,it was rather positive. A man married a woman ,they were both from that community and he broke the tradition of that bedsheet test. Times are changing Mohak , and it's all for the good .
I also test its good 👍
Good to hear some communities are progressing 👍
But yahan bhi toh problem hai ki ladka hi rebel kre toh log maante hain. Ladki kre toh peet di jati hai.
Girls, like everyone else, have their own preferences when it comes to relationships. Guys are often expected to have a job, earn well, and come from a good background. It's uncommon for a girl to marry someone with a lower social standing than her own.
On the other hand, when a guy has certain preferences, society tends to view it negatively or as "devilish." If a guy looks for a partner with a similar social background, no prior relationship, or someone who is educated, it is considered fair enough. However, some may not have a problem with a partner who has had a prior relationship, and that's also acceptable. It's unfair to judge one preference as better than the other. Everyone has the right to their own preferences in a relationship.
💯
Dude if the girl ask good job money etc you also ask the same...what it the girl ask you to be virgin and tests you for the same...baat to izzat pr aa jaati h na...how can you justify both the thing on one scale
@@triptidubey2792 whenever a women gets physical with a man sue releases Oxytocin and when that oxytocin reaches its saturation just like dopamine she's unable to bond with anyone else and 100%cheat.noan needs a women with sémén of countless men in her womb to nurture his kids
@@triptidubey2792 we live in a world where usually when a man earns he earns not only for himself but for his family and when usually a woman earns she does it for her financial independence. in most cases a guy will marry a non working woman but will in most cases a girl marry a non working guy. there's a difference which no matter what ever you say wont change the basic societal structure.
@@triptidubey2792why can someone not expect virginity? It's his personal choice ....he can accept or reject and you're no one to say on behalf on him
When I actually want our youth to take action and ask for sex education in our education system because main problem is lack of sex education🙏
Im 24 and still virgin, yes GF but no any sexual course. Stay strong guys✊💪.
I believe in karma.
real chad
I appreciate you man ♂️
I am brahmachari
No, that’s not how karma works
But it’s good to be self disciplined
Appreciate it brother 👍
Bhai bahut gnda wala ktega apka.... Likh ke deta hu..
Relationship between virginity and mohak will never end 😂😂😂😂😂
❤
His smile on thumbnail told us already
@@asif_og😂😂
Chalo kase kam koi toh sax education ki baat kar rha hai
_mohak's wife suspicious noises intensifies_
But as per NCERT CLASS XII Hymen is not an indicator for Virginity 🙂
Edit: thank you mohak bhaiya for bringing this topic
If a girl or boy had multiple physical relationships in past he/she has increased chance of carrying an STI or STD or even HIV.
So if you marry such person, then you will also contract the same disease.
And that's why ladies, just focus on your studies, make your ends meet. Save, invest and then marry for love.
2:21 Girl is a human not a commodity, comparing her with commodity items is slap on humanity itself.
Irony!💀 She is a human being, kisi fridge ki tarah roz cold drink store krne ki kua zarurat h?
@@nitesh.1143 ladke khud itna bhav dete h isliye ladkiya itna bhav khati hai👽
@@nitesh.1143yes
@@thenikhilway absolutely agreed
We can and we will. If men are seen as commodities then women should also be seen as items
Mohak Mangal always lit the fire with his content🎀
Isme Kya fire hai bhaii😂
Haa bhai uss aag ki vajah se mera ghar bhi jal gaya
aap sabhi se request🙏 hai Manish khayshap per video banane bolo😢
No seal no deal 🔥
For those categories of people where marriage means only sex - are mostly failing to understand that marriage is actually understandings, support, care and sharing responsibilities of each other as much possible and MOST IMPORTANTLY RESPECTING EACH OTHERS DESPITE VARYING IDEAS OR THOUGHTS. coz every individual is unique and deserves living happily...attaching khara and khota "..." and all such terminology itself indicates marriage essence itself is unknown to them and still as per their meaning or laws they want marriages to be done that way only...feeling sad and bad for those women's who accepts such things and make them ready for it....those girls rather must go against it or leave thought of marrying under such worst thoughts and pressures. It's still better they can live better life rather such humiliation
It is easy to say such things dear....
Some crazy things going on in this world 😂
Agar mai virgin hu to mai bhi chahta hu ki meri future wife virgin ho 🙂
Same bro
Sooo true
Wo theek hai here we are talking about the virginity test we have to go through and if we fail although hymen can be broken without intercourse too this .Also men are not asked to do any virgin test
@@minnielit4032Who said that women have to go through virginity test?
@@gamersuniverse7555 in many villages it's common you can see in the video too
9:00 man what this happning
hats off VAIBHAV & PRIYANKA that's MARATHI PEOPLE who runs that campaign no test .. just a good move towards EDUCATION AND DEVELOPING NATION 🐱
Kanjarbhatt are bajaras they are not marathis they settled in Maharashtra migrated from rajsthan
@@normal-q1v yes I am telling that's only hats of Marathi People wont do that I am guaranteed.. they can stop all this nonsense
@@dailyitmforecastyes, this custom doesn't exist in Maharashtra. Only Kanjarbhats do that in Maharashtra but not native Maharashtrians.
Infact thinking about your own daughter-in-law that way would be considered disgusting over here.
Puri video mein bta diya ki society mein change laao and that is also good but kahin ek baar bhi nahi kaha that staying virgin is also good before marriage...
i mean isn't that what we are taught, that if you are virgin, you are considered pure, so there is no need to reiterate it again
@@tanvi9037 Tumhein taught* kr rkha hoga ye baat* aur humein khud itni smjh hai😊And maine video ke liye kaha vrna jiska jo mann vo kre👀
Yes!! Instead of discussing about accepting someone's past, he should make videos on how to control our s*xual desires and preserve our rich culture and heritage....!!
He is making India western rather than modern 🥲
@@Smriti.Sharma. kash future me meri shadi apke jese soch wali ladki se ho. i can marry rape victim girl but not with a girl with previous multiple partners. my heart was breaking seeing a girl comment saying she is happy to marry a guy having 10 previous partners and guys should do too and her commentator friend said whats wrong in it.🥲🥲
No one can ever guess the topic of mohak's videos😂
😂😂
Shi baat..😅
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ekdum sahi
sometimes its easy when he makes video on trending topic like chandrayaan or manipur situation. but these kinds of videos are out of syllabus lol
Me being a virgin boy whole life : 😶
And me a virgin girl😂
What 's going on ☠️
Me being a priest: shaadi kardu tum dono ka?
@@noone12.-_chat wildin'
@@AloneMusk24😂😂😂
*Only Virgin Guy deserves Virgin Girl*
No 👎 ... All guys deserve Virgin girls ... It's written in Quran ... If you are not satisfied with your earlier wife .. you can ask her to marry a younger girl ... A man always want a Virgin girl ... It's a fact ..
@@ajaypratap4467 😂 hindu nam leke quran kyun boltha hai jihadi…
@@saho716 Mohammad galat aadmi tha ki nahi ?
Child sex offender tha ki nahi ? Hamesha sex k bare me sochta tha chahe khud ki biwi ho ya khud k ladke ki biwi ya vidhwa ho ya bachchi ho ya fir aapni nokarani .
@@ajaypratap4467wow, that time child marrige was common and you cannot judge the people of old ages by the modern laws
@@saho716 I’m sorry I understood
Sex ed + physical ed should be like evs or GK - introduced from 6th class rather than once in 8th and 11th &12th! IT WILL BE MORE GENERALIZED!!
We learn but do not fit quite well, but keeping it to mind is good ✌️
Excellent video Mohak. I completely agree with you that discussing virginity of girl is a petty thing which unfortunately is still being practiced in our society. Also during the marriage process the guy should not be judged upon his income or his looks like I have seen a guy whose engagement got broke when the bride found out that the guy was wearing a wig and there are many good men are still single because they earn less or they don't have any property in their name. Our society needs this changes not only for women but for men also.
Another stupid comment -
Man and women both are allowed to have preferences.
Man can demand a beautiful wife.
Woman can demand a husband who is paid 2 lakhs/ month salary.
Man who is not bald and so on.
The point is both side is allowed to have demand and if a man is not good enough he is not gonna get the wife he want and probably have to settle for less, same goes for the women.
Do you know about pareto principal in dating market?.
In USA, it was found that 80% Women were hooking up with only 20% man who were tall rich and handsome.
If women were given freedom they will always choose people like Hritik roshan. And Hritik roshan will get the opportunity to sleep with 100s of women..... अब बोलो ऐसी सेकंड हैंड माल सै आप शादी करोगे कया?????
@@thewalker338your mentality is second hand bro. But l am sure, lf u r as good looking as Hrithik, you would have slept with these women.
Listen both virgin and non-virgin women would want money. Because money is necessary to raise kids and lead a normal life. Good men r fine. Lazy men r not fine. Or let's say unmotivated men.
Both virgin and non-virgin women can expect a good earning man. She leaves her parents, gives birth to children and raises them up... These hardworks have no value?
I am virgin woman and have fun rejecting men with such mentality.
@@MB-ux4bbbut did he said something wrong. U guys drag nonsense stuff
7:57 " hanji aise bhi gift diye jaate hai"🤧😂😂
Its not a forced thing, its just a preference you either qualify or not.
Men are also prefered with deep pockets and good height that doesn't mean others never get married.
Woman can just marry in families who think the same as them
A virgin person deserves a virgin partner. Simple 🤷♂️
4:50 It means people force them to have sex with a stranger immediately after the marriage, this is horrifying.😵
Mohak, you are a great teacher & great mindset person who is leading our generation to think differently and be confident towards the right things to accept reality. Hats off to your research ...
5:30 evryone laughed😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
You forgot to mention one thing, Hymen is not an indicator of virginity. It can be broken if you are involved in any strenuous physical activity.
He mentioned dear... Watch it carefully
Thank you for talking this sensitive yet important matter on our behalf!! 🙏🏼👏🏻
2:49 exactly....it is extremely difficult to persuade women to use menstrual cup....many of my friends straightaway say that they will use it after marriage.... virginity is still a big deal for men and women both
8:42 ☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️🤣
5:20 Bro 💀😂😂😂😂
Delhi Belly
😅
Only youtuber with no political, casteist, sexist or elitist agenda... Keep up the good work... Stay unbiased
💯
For sure
No he has a political agenda
He doesn't cover mens issues like the bias in courts. However I don't disagree with what he does covet either.
He gets paid by Soros.
Its not about Hymen. A person needs a partner who did not had sex earlier. This is for both Male and Female.
5:15 bara hi parivaarik mahol hai
XD
5:40 7 crore
Virgintiy test may be wrong, but I would never accept a girl as my wife who had any sexual relation in past. If someone had any physical relation in past, there is good chances that she may carry emotional baggage of past or might be everytime comparing me to her past boyfriends. Also, how can I trust her? People can call me conservative but these are my thoughts.
PS-Same applies for men also.
If you are that much worry about it, then you should stay away from marriage. Follow celibacy. This is also part of Indian religion.
Ouch every word of your comment cringes me
Even He/She can have STD also.
@@veen88in Sanatan Dharma, the concept of "purity of women" is a foreign concept that was adopted after the invaders came. Look at the old temples, look at the scriptures of the past. It was completely acceptable for women to experience various men simultaneously, and the husband could not prevent her either. That's how liberal Sanatan Dharma is ❤
It's your life, your choice. There's no shame in having preferences king
If you can maintain your virginity till marriage only then you should expect the same from your partner. Nothing wrong in this. 👍
@@devrajkundu3059bhai ek baar ye soch ke dekh yahan baat ladki ki virginity ki bas nhi h
Sayad tumko pata nhi ladki agar is tarike se kisi se attached hogi to problem jindagi bhar hogi
Iska simple sa sol. Hai ki shaadi se pehle ladki ko ladke se aur ladke ko ladki se puch lena chahiye
Baat khtm😌
Isme tension kya hai re baba
Thnx
N 5 foot girls should only look for 5 foot guys
@@hawkgaming288 ek relationship chalane ke liye respect and love ki jaroorat hoti hai.dono compatible hai ki nahi,ek dusre ko kitna pasand kartein yeh important hai.isme virginity dekhna is least reason to noticeable to be in a relationship.logon k aproblem hai log virginity ka matlab sex aur purity se jod dete hai.yeh galat soch aur education ki kami ki wajah se hai.aur sirf sex se hi khun nahi nikalta.bohat reason se khoon nikal ta hai.bohot ladki ka to janam se hi virginity nahi hoti.uska bhi kya solution nikalogey!!!isme solution kaisa..virginity hon aya na hona koi problem nahi hai.
@@devrajkundu3059i am not comfortable with a non virgin partner peace out ☝️☝️☝️
Virgin girl and virginity test are 2 different things.. virginity tests are immoral and discriminatory towards women but preferring a virgin woman is basically assuring of past baggage. Just like how girls avoid playboys simply boys avoid girls with lot of relationships… anyone carrying too much of past baggage will always create complications in relationship or marriage..! Simple as that, only solution is be honest with each other and make a decision before tying the knot.
Honesty and integrity are two fast disappearing qualities today as people are exposed to myriad view points on SM and therefore find ways to justify their dishonesty before marriage or infidelity after marriage. Many youngsters who rushed into a mindless physical relationship but realised their mistake and crave a second chance too are likely to lie because there's no telling how someone will react to their sexual history.
It is tricky to reveal certain things at the start of a relationship because you haven;t had a chance to endear yourself to your spouse. All the same revealing some details that are best left buried in the past, in the name of honesty at any point in the relationship can also endanger it instead of winning you accolades.
About 25-30 years ago people did not have so much mistrust about their spouse's past as they have since the rise of social media. Many medium to cheat and be dishonest have opened up now and it's no wonder trust has flown out of the window.
And also, there is a dignity problem.... How can someone with dignity accept a girl as "WIFE" who slept with other guys (its like mistress). Wife is honour of a men, we fight for her protection, we provide.. but can we do these things with "Those Immoral Girls".
@@mdsalahuddinansari8522you don't need to protect her, she can protect herself. If you want your wife to be virgin, make sure you remain virgin too. Otherwise even if you'll get a virgin wife, you'll remain "The immoral husband" as per your mindset.
@@mdsalahuddinansari8522
😂 what are you doing in 2023....sounds like you belong a century before..women is not an object...and what about men who have sex before marriage with other girls...
@@freakinglyVirgin can demand virgin...its his/her choice and completely justified.
My question is....WHY do sex with a person to whom u wont commit for long term??
Want a virgin partner or not is obviously a personal choice (for all genders)... But atleast, there should be awareness regarding these... Like those practices followed beating up a woman if she does not bleed, etc. should be completely banned... And as mentioned in the video... Not only legally but also socially...
@@bruh.07 Concept of chastity doesn't apply to men biologically.
I am not saying he should be getting laid all the time.
Sex game isn't same for men and women , an average looking or even ugly looking woman can get laid if she wants , it isn't same for men. Even the best of best have to work hard to get a female to their bed. Its the difficulty of a task which makes its market value. That's the reason IIT JEE rankers are respected while others not because it's all about difficulty of being there.
If you are pursued by any tom D and Harry then it's the problem
@@MsGuitarist123then explain why poor men have so many kids?
@@aimldljourney Education issues. They don't know about contraceptive measures or consider them immoral. It's the issue among less educated
@@MsGuitarist123 but the fact that they can get women to have intercourse with negates ur point.
@@MsGuitarist123 unchaste men create fatherless homes which destroys societies. men have to observe chastity and modesty too.
I'm still vergin and I need a vergin and loyal girl
it's fine if you are❤
I was disgusted, sad, disappointed, angry, and laughing at same time. But a fabulous research, that how you highlighted the one of many darker sides of Indian Patriarchy that is something detestable.♥️♥️♥️♥️ Love you
This video just stereotypes people
In usa and even in india you will find girls who want virgin partner
For some people its big thing
For some its not
These types of videos just stereotypes men with other misogynist men
Also most of the time when someone says virgin they only refers to not having experience of sex and not hymen
Even though its meaning is related to hynen
I dont think this is "Patriarchy", because majority of the times, the ones who initiate such things are, Mother in Laws and Sister in Laws. Mothers Indoctrinate their daughters "to remain pure". Have anyone ever seen a Father or brother talk to the girl on virginity, or tells her to be "Pure".
Fr tho when I saw the notification of this vedio I know it's gonna be traumatizing
@@anshmittal3098 Not misogyny, but ignorance and illiteracy.
Those boys ,who don't want to be in a relationship just because they want to work on themselves and earn money to make a foundation of happy life , have the right to choose a virgin (pure) partner, same applies to the girls. 🙏🙏🙏
Virgin doesn't mean pure
@@no-ro6ws sorry dear but I meant to say pure by heart.
@@no-ro6wsvirgin mean physically pure.
And there is no person who is 100 percent pure by heart.
So at least we can choose who is pure physically.
@@no-ro6wsit's 💯 percent means pure
@@rahuls8613 non virgin means girl is impure.? Kuch bhi . Ladki h ya ghee /Pani
Shout out to cousins Vivek and Priyanka
May your voice get louder and reaches billions of people of my beloved country
May common sense and knowledge prevail 🙏
everybody is saying a virgin deserves a virgin. Still, to me, if a man is a virgin but a creep and wants a virgin girl because he believes in women as sex objects, he isn't a virgin by choice. He is asking for a virgin girl WITHOUT caring about her other features, and then the virgin guy doesn't deserve to be married. But if a man wants a virgin woman because of his pure intentions like having the first time together, mutual respect, etc. then it's actually good :D.
U have heard this many times:-"the boy have physical relationship in the name of marriage and love and then left the girl for another girl.
Right??? Even in many relationship;; girls complain that their bf used their body in the name of love before leaving.
That's why..u should remember one thing before u start relationship with a non virgin guy:-"it's 99% chance he either lost her virginity through casual,prosti*tution..or he might used a girl. And u might her next target.
And one more thing to say:-""in India,, because of religious & conservation belief..most men are virgin upto marriage compared to girls. Even after having many golden chances,, still guy like me prefer to stay virgin upto marriage.
If guy like me considered women as sex object;;then majority men won't be virgin.
It's only few boys who are non virgin. They used multiple girls in the name of love and break up.
And we can't stope them. Those guys want to use...and Girls also want to be used for fun as only these guys are open minded in having premarital sex.
In reality,,,most girls actually do fake complain that their bf used them. But in reality they want those few guys to be their sexual partner as bf .
@@NFS691 idk why are you portraying non virgin men as evil and using stupid terms like being 'used' is fun to some girls. To me virginity shouldn't matter, I'm a virgin, I've been in a relationship once but was very sure that I didn't want to lose my virginity until I was very sure. I have been single for a very long time. But even if I fall in love with a guy who once used to be fuckboi and now has changed, I believe in second chance. We shouldn't be choosing a partner just because we are a virgin and he/she is also a virgin. There is this myth that having sex with more than one person's is a lack of discipline. People go through heartbreaks bruh. Our society is stupid to just focus on the virginity part. Bhai mei achaar dalungi ladke ki virginity ka Agar woh nature se accha ni hua? Kyu itna virginity pe focus hai bhai. Mostly log jo virgin hai unhe lagta hai ki unne koj achievement kia hai. Ghnta. Many of them, MANY of them are sexually frustrated. No wonder rape cases itne zyada hai. Dimag se pure hona chahiye, body ka kya hai, Ganga ji mei dho lena.
@@honeybirds5348 idk about gender, if men want virgins because they are virgins and would not care about other things then we are doomed. Virginity shouldn't be an issue and no preference should be water-tight.
@@anjalimishra8304 aur dono chiz honi chahiye... virgin v aur good characters v.
Forget about virgin men . Even non virgin men want virgin. That's hypocrisy.😂
Idk...why girls still loosing virginity... afterall when these non virgin men want virgin.
Aur unhe mil v jata he..kyunki...kuchh ladkiya tumhari tarah sochte he
Aksar aise logo ka rista kabhi bhi jyada der Tak nahi tikta..jo pehle se hi...kiske saath Bina shadi kiye hue physical hue ho.
Aise relationship me..na..koi abuse..na koi cheating hota he...bas pyar fika pad jata he.
Dono mutually breakup/divorce lete he.
Why it happens??
Because of body memory. Jitne logo ke saath judoge...utna body memory attach ho jayega....aur next relationship me....ye chiz impact Dale ga.
Sabka pro and conc hota he.
Bas kuchh log ko sirf ... premarital sex me pros dikhata he.
Kyunki...hawas ne unki aankh me pati bandhi he.
9:32 Naveen polishetty in this video🎥. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
AIB ALAG HAI BHAI 😂😂😂😂
There is nothing wrong in expecting a virgin
partner, there are a lot of guys who don't
engage in pre Marital sex and hence expect
the same from their partner.
However making atrocities on someone for
not being a virgin is wrong. If your partner
isn't virgin better leave them but don't have
atrocities on them😊
I can easily say 80% indian guys out there are virgin..the problem with women is they lie most of the times with their virginity..Y can a 30 years man ( virgin)well settled in their job ask about a virgin girl? Our indian culture never supported premarital sex... an inexperienced guy will never know about hymen but it's on the mentality of the girl to tell the truth if she has engaged in sexual encounter..
@@Miss.Pratibharaa@nd in comment section : my hymen broke during sports😂😂😂
@@kamalmahra7348well said
If only virginity in male was also tested .
@@unknownuser9424because it is lol? being an involuntary celibate is not a good thing
Hey, I just wanted to take a moment to appreciate the incredible work you have done on this issue. Your dedication and expertise really shine through in every aspect, and it's evident that you have put your heart and soul into it.
I also want to commend you for being courageous and speaking up about a taboo issue. It's not easy to raise your voice on such matters, but your willingness to address the topic head-on shows your strength of character and your commitment to making a positive impact.
Keep up the fantastic work and don't be discouraged by any challenges that come your way. Your contributions are making a real difference, and I'm truly impressed by your talent and passion. Well done! 👏👏👏👏👏
if I am virgin then why should I marry with non virgin girl
What percent of man are getting hook ups in tinder?. 80% women always choose top 5% Alpha males who are tall and handsome like hritik roshan.
@@bruh.07esa to ladki bhi krti hai 😅
i am 19 year old and i AM Virgin muje b Virgin wife chahiye 😊varna main puri life ब्रह्माचारी की जिवन जिना ज्यादा पसंद करूंगा..! 🙏
Same
भाई तुम्हारे तरह मैं भी
Same mera bhi yahi khayaal hai
@@amlanchutia2667 same
Regarding Indian socio-culture aspects, and virginity test before marriage, I'm hearing this for the FIRST TIME. I'M an Indian, bengali from West Bengal, and literally, I'm justttt surprised to hear this!!?? Even dowry is being discarded in our culture, and I'm happy that Bengali society is progressing, discarding outdated religious orthodoxy.
I am from Indore, MP and I too have heard about this the first time now.
@@mihirojha4475 most proffs from jadavpur are extremely liberal , that proff was a rare case haha
@@Apex_Alpha53 I know, I am half Bengali too 😄. And everyone in my family I know would be appalled by those words.
@@FromPlanetZX every state has its own merits and demerits. And Bengal too has many liberal people who are very nice and won't shy away from putting out their opinion. At the same time there exist some orthodox style folk too.
@@FromPlanetZXbc there's difference between social development and economic development
if you are virgin then you have right to aks for a virgin girl.. bcoz its your choice ..
choices don't exist in a vacuum
keep coping @@kawaiigirluwu1153
But vacuum can exist in choices 😂
The rule is simple.. if you are a virgin you deserve a virgin girl.. if you are not you don't deserve your wife to be virgin.. if you want a virgin girl, you must also be a virgin boy🤷.... # NO SEAL NO DEAL🙅🗿
prove kaise kroge 😅😅
@@chandanrathore4188😂
Ladka virgin hai prove kaise karoge?
@@MB-ux4bbPolygraph test.
@@MB-ux4bbma ki kasam
To all men out there. If you want to have a partner with no sexual intercourse, ask her repeatedly and do a background search. You have to partly assume if she tells you she had a past relationship. I have seen men breaking marriage just because wife did not bleed during intercourse. This will be a injustice to your wife also who left everything to be with you. Better you talk to that person and clarify than to repent later.
Girls in arranged marriage does not leave her house,parents for the boy,she leaves for the amount of money,building etc,you make it seem like girls leave for the boy which is far from true.
Since you are a girl then how can I respectfully as a girl about her virginity in a respectful way and without making her feel like a object or making her feel awkward or uncomfortable as I don't want to disrespect anyone.... 🙏
To all the girls out there who may be reading this. I feel disgusted that you guys went through such ordeal because of our narrow mindset. Considering a girl as maal is narrow enough that I find out about this Khara Khota ritual. I feel literally ashamed of our society. I am really sorry for all that you go through.
Edit: People with little to no knowledge regarding what virginity is and whether or not it can be tested. Please do not reply to my comment.
The only mature guy in the cm section
❤
Bhai literally 2 communities ye Ganda ritual krti h or tu Aisa keh ra h jaise har bnda krta ho and asking for a virgin wife is alright for a virgin man
@@cyanidepills1262NO. Everyone can have preferences. Just like girls prefer tall and rich guys, we guys can also have a preference.
Ohh one sensible comment 👍
Mohak is not a pregnant but he's never fails to deliver 😀
Bss copy kro or chipkaado ....s@le spammer
Kitna copy wale comments karega .... Bas kar 😂
That's because he is not a virgin😂
😂
Omgg😂
Virginity can only be expected by someone who is virgin himself/herself. Virginity is definitely indicative of Patience and Responsible-ness in one's character. And besides the risk of STD, the reason I expect Virgin life-partner is because I don't want to allow the possibility of me having to face the insecurity of my partner' ex satisfying her better than me.
Are you girl ? And if you are girl are you really saying this ? Without any typing mistake.
@@albiemorkelfc I am a boy
Same also the chance that your partner might still have feelings for their ex.
Skill issue
Skill issue
Men can be as impure as possible but women has to be shudh ghee😂 wah re duniya
Not every men are saying that. But it's reasonable to say a shudh dhudh and shudh ghee go together. It goes both ways.
Aaj kal toh ghee me bhi milawat hone lagi hai. 😂😂😂😂
A key that opens many locks is called a masterkey but a lock that opens with any key is worthless
Well who said _can be impure?_
Its just that there's no way to check unlike women even tho it's not always the proven way
@thezoldics7648bro is giga Chad 🗿
I don't care about the hymen, as you said, it can be rebuilt and be broken without sex. All I care is that my future hasn't had sex. The reason being, a promiscuous girl is less likely to form an emotional bond. Sure, if her ex did it or she was abused that's fine. Like whoever agrees (I'm also virgin)
Being this early also makes me feel like a virgin 😅.
Us bhai
Single life rocks 😭😭
2:37 i died 😂🤣💀⚰️
It means you are typing from hell 😂😂😂
Just a joke. Dont take it seriously
Virginity comes 2nd prior after height.
I will never date a non-virgin guy
If I'm offering my virginity then i also want my partner's virginity.
Finally some sensible comment from a girl . This is applicable for both boys and girls
But virginity doesn't guarantee loyalty, I lost my virginity with my ex bf but he cheated on me he used to fuck around with other girls and this same thing is true for some married men as well. I broke up with him after knowing this and now I'm dating a guy who really loves me so I don't think virginity would matter bcz a virgin guy/girls could cheats too. and a
@@MuskanSinhaa
Virginity doesn't mean loyalty ik this very well
But it's an important standard in my dating list.
@@mLBB-x-HoK22savg oh ok
@@MuskanSinhaaYour ex bf was a f-boy that's why. Not all virgin men are like that. Many virgin men want virgin women to share their lives with, have kids with, etc. Chastity and loyalty both are important. Not just chastity or loyalty. Be selective and picky.