Why We Kept Our Relationship Secret!

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  • Опубликовано: 3 дек 2024

Комментарии • 141

  • @landoncamden685
    @landoncamden685 2 года назад +44

    I admire you two for taking the time to create a healthy connection first! My wife & I took the same route! When we started to date as a WM/BW interracial couple, who is now a married couple, we didn't want to public in our positive relationship. Social media still isn't our thing in a big way. Continue to enforce boundaries between yourselves and the public because they will try to dictate your relationship😁. Wishing you two all the best.

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад +3

      We love that Landon and appreciate your kind words and advice! Thank you 😌♥️

  • @kadianesson209
    @kadianesson209 2 года назад +23

    Its great getting so much knowledge out of such a young couple I want to see you guys make it, and making it to me is not the wedding day its being old together watching great grand kids play.

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад +1

      Absolutely! Thank you so much, we receive this 🥰🥰

  • @Lisa-kz7vw
    @Lisa-kz7vw 2 года назад +15

    I agree with you 100% about protecting you're relationship social media is something else people make it that way can be brutal. I believe many relationships we see end because they are so public instantly and just to public in general we don't need to know every detail of people's relationships and lives. I think you two have the right concept and approach to being in the public eye and will be able to withstand the pitfalls of social media.

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much 😌😌♥️

  • @rutherd9616
    @rutherd9616 2 года назад +21

    Two wise young people! Keep on keeping on. 💛💛

  • @diannadawson4429
    @diannadawson4429 2 года назад +14

    Several things: #1 LOVE that you legit prioritize your relationship over social media clout, and are very private people. We don’t need anymore Will/Jada type shenanigans out here.🤭
    #2 TT. Your nail color is POPPIN’ young lady!🔥
    #3. Jake, sorry you’re not feeling well. Get better soon. Rona still out here in these streets trying to body snatch folks; she got me, so I’m down but I’m not gettin’ take OUT!💃🏽

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад +1

      Thank youuuu ☺️🥰 We’re sending you warm hugs and love. Get better soon!

    • @AuthenticallyTee
      @AuthenticallyTee 2 года назад

      Will Jada shenanigans 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @BeautywithMika
    @BeautywithMika 2 года назад +4

    I agree with what you did, me and my husband didn’t post for months because we choose to build and we didn’t want to share us with everyone publicly nor feel the pressure it.

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад +1

      We love that ♥️♥️

  • @gloriamkhize9586
    @gloriamkhize9586 2 года назад +11

    Love your wisdom.. May the Lord bless that "engagement "🥰,that's my guess and wish for you guys.Stay blessed and loving each other 💕

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад +1

      ♥️♥️

    • @vanessalucas5553
      @vanessalucas5553 2 года назад +1

      I believe that it's going to be that you're engaged or going to be 🎉🎊🎉🎊🙏🙏💖

  • @normabartko1097
    @normabartko1097 2 года назад +6

    You two are such a wonderful couple and individuals as well!! Love and peace!!

  • @sheilabyrd2289
    @sheilabyrd2289 2 года назад +8

    I totally understand keeping your relationship private until you felt comfortable that it was a viable relationship that could withstand the innate toxicity of social media. I am so happy that you share as much as you do with us. There is nothing more feel good than watching two people grow in love together. This maam is here for that journey. Is the surprise a podcast? Can't wait to find out. See you two lovebirds in the next video. God Bless.

  • @patriciamccary8894
    @patriciamccary8894 2 года назад +3

    Very wise couple to build a strong foundation first instead of building it based on social media if that make sense. Blessings TT and Jake~~

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад

      Definitely 😌🥰♥️

  • @MsProsperity0803
    @MsProsperity0803 2 года назад +9

    I wish there were more people in the world like you guys & thought you like guys!!! This is beautiful!!!! Love you guys!!!!! #stayprivate #TTANDJAKE4EVER

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад

      We love you right back 😌♥️

  • @kadianesson209
    @kadianesson209 2 года назад +5

    This is amazing thanks for sharing i pray we all get something from this that is useful when we find that special someone

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад

      🥰🙏 that’s exactly what we hope for! Thank you for your support!

  • @israelalva8391
    @israelalva8391 2 года назад +9

    Great couples wishing you all the best.... Privacy in one's life is core and makes someone to focus and make meaningful decisions about future........ What I can see or predict is .... God bonding your relationship and goal in a special way.... Genesis 2:21-25..... Be blessed guys

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад

      Thank you so much!🙏🏻♥️

  • @sandythompson5096
    @sandythompson5096 2 года назад +4

    Well here we have two smart cookies. Thanks for sharing more of your story. Most important to take care of yourselves and each other. Just do you - your online family is here.🥰🥰💞
    Looking forward to your big reveal/surprise. Perhaps something to do with entertainment, food or fashion (Black&Gold)❓️

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад

      Absolutely! Thank you 🥰🥰

  • @debradunham8508
    @debradunham8508 2 года назад +3

    Hey TT and Jake, THANKS for sharing 👍. I love you guys. I believe you are engaged and it is a wonderful thing. Blessings.

  • @ericatoliver4175
    @ericatoliver4175 2 года назад +4

    Such a beautiful couple! It’s important to keep you’re personal business private! Love the bond the both of you share! I have to guesses either getting married or buying a home together! Stay healthy and safe! Sending mad love to the both of you!

    • @gayemercer5088
      @gayemercer5088 2 года назад

      Engagement or marriage

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад +1

      We appreciate that so much. Thank you 😌🥰

  • @spring7970
    @spring7970 2 года назад +4

    Hi TT and Jake. I totally understand and respect where you are coming from in terms of what you share on social media. I love watching your videos and I look forward to many more.

  • @nicolebee261
    @nicolebee261 2 года назад +4

    Thanks for sharing your journey with us. I think you guys will be working with a brand!

  • @vanessabarsetti
    @vanessabarsetti 2 года назад

    This video just made me fall in love with you guys more and more.I quit social media a few months ago and i feel liberated i would also prefer a partner who doesn't use social media.Kudos to you for choosing your relationship first

  • @kckgirl78
    @kckgirl78 2 года назад +3

    ALWAYS protect one another and what you have. Do YOU! 👍🏽

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад +2

      Definitely 😌🥰

  • @theonly1deidra
    @theonly1deidra 2 года назад +5

    I’ll say it again you guys are GREAT‼️

  • @jeanmeullion6641
    @jeanmeullion6641 2 года назад +5

    Your Life & Your Relationship. You're in control. Love y'all.💝💕💝🌹🌹

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад +1

      We love ya right back ♥️♥️

  • @moe_creations
    @moe_creations 2 года назад +3

    So glad you two took the time to establish your relationship first, it will definitely help others too in this social media world. Not sure what y’all planning but I’m excited for you two!! Have a great evening!

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад +1

      Thank you! We can’t wait to share ☺️🥰

  • @charlenecoleman5519
    @charlenecoleman5519 2 года назад +7

    welcome back TT AND JAKE SO GLAD THAT YA'LL CAME BACK TO DROP SOME JEWELS. WE ARE ALWAYS HAPPY TO SEE AND HEAR FROM YOU GUYSSSSS YOU GUYS ARE ALWAYS WELCOME IN MY LIVING ROOM BECAUSE YOU GUYS ALWAYS BRING A BIG,BIGGGGG SMILE TO MY FACE ALWAYS 😏🤎🖤🤍❤👍👍!can't wait to here and see the big surprise until next time 🖐👋.

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад

      Ah yes! Can’t wait 🤗🥰

  • @dwayneyoung7765
    @dwayneyoung7765 2 года назад +3

    Love the content from you guys! Real grown up conversations.

  • @gaylegullick3745
    @gaylegullick3745 2 года назад +2

    Thank you for taking the time to share with us. 💜

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад

      Yes ma’am! Very welcome 🥰🥰

  • @reggieredmond2432
    @reggieredmond2432 2 года назад +1

    I’ve you guys tried “Yardbird takes guests on a culinary journey through a menu of unapologetically indulgent dishes and heady bourbon cocktails.”Serving up nationally acclaimed ... I’d like your take on it . I’m a Los Angeles native that now counts on you to walk with me down memory lane 💕

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад +1

      We’ll have to look into it!

  • @brendaarmstrong177
    @brendaarmstrong177 Год назад

    Just started watching , love you Guys💕

  • @traceeturner6343
    @traceeturner6343 2 года назад +1

    You both are very wise to do the social media business like you did👌🏾 I hope you’re going to tell us you’re engaged 🤭 Have a blessed day and sending healing prayers your way🙌🏾🙏🏾💜

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад

      Thank youuuu 🥰🥰

  • @mureenporter9981
    @mureenporter9981 2 года назад +2

    Do what makes you both comfortable.

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад

      Yes ma’am! Definitely ♥️♥️

  • @MsSpokenword37
    @MsSpokenword37 2 года назад +1

    That was the best decision guys. I did that with my now husband of almost 10 years. We took things slow..I didn't even tell my mom..until we were sure about where we were headed in the relationship. Then a year later everyone met him at my sisters wedding...he caught the garter at the reception too. 🥰
    As for the surprise. I HAVE NO IDEA. can't be a baby..engaged..new job/career?? Can't wait to see..

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад +1

      Ahhhh catching the garter, what a sign! We love it 🥰🥰

  • @dezlewis8173
    @dezlewis8173 2 года назад +2

    I really admire you guys for putting you guys first.it’s very important 🙏🙏❤️❤️

  • @dianneturner7026
    @dianneturner7026 2 года назад

    You Both Are So Very Wise. Some People Can Be So Nosey and Toxic. People Who Don't Even Know You Will Have The Most To Say. Those Who Do Will Do it too. But You Can Deal With Them Accordingly. But The Internet Haters and Bullies Are More Challenging to Deal With. and Who Needs That Negative Energy To Deal With When You're Trying To Build Your Relationship.I Agree That It's The Best Way to go if you want to survive out here in these streets. Definitely Keep Your Relationship Private and Respectful of Each Others Privacy!!! God's Continual Blessings Jake & TT 🥰

  • @brendawalker8280
    @brendawalker8280 2 года назад +2

    Hi TT & Jake......The surprise is you guy are moving to Hawaii......Jake I hope you feel better...and TT your nails off the chart....I like the color you guys have on....You guys coordinate.....👍😍

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад

      Ahhhh ☺️🌴🥰

  • @mphommaaga3965
    @mphommaaga3965 2 года назад +3

    Omw guys the suspense is going to kill me...no no I can't guess I am just going to wait for the reveal,I hope it's great news, see you next Sunday

  • @kalebmwilson
    @kalebmwilson 2 года назад +4

    Wow Jake must be sick he don’t have on black, TT skin glowing as always

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад +2

      😂😂😂 definitely

  • @ladygg6
    @ladygg6 2 года назад +6

    Just do you Boo, the rest, can kick rocks. Never let outside stuff interfere. I always tell my husband never to let people into our inter space/ peace.... period!!!!😏👍

  • @hettygrant2040
    @hettygrant2040 2 года назад +3

    Hmm, I think the surprise is an engagement announcement, perhaps! hmm. I can hardly wait, you two :).

  • @wandaburnette9133
    @wandaburnette9133 2 года назад

    I love that!!! Y’all are a beautiful and blessed couple!!! Do what you do🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @jillstreet8364
    @jillstreet8364 2 года назад +5

    Feel better soon Jake💕🙏 and:Tt 💕 you're beautiful

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад +2

      Thank you! 🙏🏻

    • @jillstreet8364
      @jillstreet8364 2 года назад +1

      @@TTandJake You're welcome sweetie pies 💕!

  • @KhaliahAli
    @KhaliahAli 2 года назад +2

    You both are simply bomb!!! My guess is some TT & Jake Merch! XO

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад

      Staaaahp. Thank you 😌🥰

  • @annettejohnson8128
    @annettejohnson8128 2 года назад +1

    You’re getting engaged ❤️

  • @pamelapowell6527
    @pamelapowell6527 2 года назад

    I think you two are the cutest, love your relationship, how you show so much respect, thoughtfulness and love for each other, to name a few. TT has both outside and inner beauty and Jake I think are handsome too. Love & Blessings for your relationship. 💙❤️🙏🏽💞💞

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад

      Thank you so much for your sweet words 😌🥰

  • @patricejackson2583
    @patricejackson2583 2 года назад +2

    Ring My Bell, one of my all time favorite songs!!!!!

  • @kadianesson209
    @kadianesson209 2 года назад +6

    My favorite couple

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад +1

      So sweet 😌🥰♥️

  • @vernay6035
    @vernay6035 2 года назад

    Your getting married!!! Awesome 👌 👏 👍

  • @jennifergranati8096
    @jennifergranati8096 2 года назад +2

    It’s good to keep the initial magic / love between you secret . It’s a beautiful sacred space that only the couple relish . Since Jake takes things slow 😜 I can only think it’s a courtship ring 🤣🤣

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад

      Hahahaha I am known for taking things snails pace

  • @debbiesmith3443
    @debbiesmith3443 2 года назад +2

    Hey whatever works for you, I'm okay with it

  • @rianacolleenjoseph5962
    @rianacolleenjoseph5962 2 года назад

    Private not secret♥ .. because social media puts a lot of strain on relationships. I love the way relationship works it was about the two of you just enjoying each other. 👌❤

  • @LadyT0429
    @LadyT0429 2 года назад

    I think the surprise is ya'll are engaged. 😊

  • @jeanmeullion6641
    @jeanmeullion6641 2 года назад +3

    Am I 🎶(listening) 👂(hearing) 💒(wedding) 🛎 (bells)? Or is it pregnancy? 💕💝💕💕💝💝

  • @jeanettekelly958
    @jeanettekelly958 2 года назад +1

    Hello guys, Jake is going to propose.🙏🏾❤

  • @msfranklin27
    @msfranklin27 2 года назад +1

    I think the surprise is Merch!

  • @idacooper625
    @idacooper625 2 года назад

    Loved you guys tt and Jake cute couple 💑 ❤ 💕

  • @mariaestertaborda6345
    @mariaestertaborda6345 2 года назад +4

    Bendiciones familia desde Argentina los saludo

  • @reneeknight1028
    @reneeknight1028 2 года назад +3

    Such a good looking couple

  • @lungilemkhize640
    @lungilemkhize640 2 года назад +1

    I'm guessing you guys are engaged 💍😁😍💕

  • @deltoriamcclendon8246
    @deltoriamcclendon8246 Год назад

    I'm hoping for baby news ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️👍🏾

  • @tinabowers3826
    @tinabowers3826 2 года назад +2

    Engagement💍😍😍😍😍

  • @KeymashaKnight
    @KeymashaKnight 2 года назад

    Engagement??? ❤️❤️💐💐💐

  • @JayyBee5557
    @JayyBee5557 2 года назад +2

    Wise

  • @stephg216
    @stephg216 2 года назад +2

    I think the surprise is jake asked you to marry him

  • @delisanurse6617
    @delisanurse6617 2 года назад +1

    I think you guys bought a home together

  • @Nat007_
    @Nat007_ 2 года назад

    Are you having a baby ? That's the surprise ? ....
    Warm hugs from Paris ^^

  • @denisefisher9727
    @denisefisher9727 2 года назад +1

    A joint business venture?

  • @kerrypalmer2311
    @kerrypalmer2311 2 года назад +2

    I have no clue..

  • @vuyomvinjelwa2694
    @vuyomvinjelwa2694 2 года назад +1

    I think you are getting engaged probably or changing jobs 🤣🤣 I love you guys nevertheless ❤️

  • @idacooper625
    @idacooper625 2 года назад

    I think it marriage 💑

  • @dextergreene2160
    @dextergreene2160 2 года назад

    Two level heads. My guess is you have a line of merchandise coming out

  • @Jazeerakiko
    @Jazeerakiko 2 года назад

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @anointedoneac8748
    @anointedoneac8748 2 года назад +2

  • @vitazzaza4062
    @vitazzaza4062 2 года назад

    Lovely Vid!
    I think your surprise is you eloped and had a quiet Wedding with your Families ❤️
    And before you were able to share..
    You got pregnant almost immediately..
    1, 2, punch

  • @alisonallison808
    @alisonallison808 2 года назад +1

    I would love to recommend for all pastor Gino Jennings he is on RUclips and he sticks only to the bible and not his own opinions

  • @ralandarichard9052
    @ralandarichard9052 2 года назад +1

    Does Jake have a blue hat

  • @michellewilkesmatthews246
    @michellewilkesmatthews246 2 года назад +1

    I think you to are going to get engaged

  • @kimmiller9614
    @kimmiller9614 2 года назад +1

    A little Jake or TT

  • @vanessagoodwin9339
    @vanessagoodwin9339 2 года назад +1

    You 2 are a lovely couple so why are you not engaged.
    You are living together so why not marry

  • @patriciarn8802
    @patriciarn8802 2 года назад

    House shopping?

  • @wwashington270
    @wwashington270 2 года назад +2

    Wedding

  • @carolmajanil6962
    @carolmajanil6962 2 года назад +3

    You guys are pregnant??? 😁😁😁

  • @sarahbarnes1633
    @sarahbarnes1633 2 года назад +3

    You're Pregnant!!!!!!!!

  • @caaddies
    @caaddies 2 года назад

    A baby🤔🤔😁😁🤣🤣😏😏🙄🙄

  • @dajuannak
    @dajuannak 2 года назад +4

    my favorite people y’all are truly an example🤍

    • @TTandJake
      @TTandJake  2 года назад

      Appreciate you! 🥰♥️