@@rapidpeach I was introduced to the term gender fluid a couple years ago and thought that's what fit me. These days I don't think that's right. I don't really feel... anything. Been listening to other's stories about being agender. I don't know. I guess it feels ridiculous to me that I'm not sure where I fit. If that makes sense.
@@sadiemckeown5065 It was the same for me. First I discovered myself as gender fluid until I felt like it was no longer a term where I adjust myself anymore. It can be a slowly process, Hope you're doing better now! I've been agender for two years now. 😉
xxXXxx DUDE! I thought I was genderfluid at first too! And now i know i’m agender so i cut my hair (cause i had hair dysphoria w/o realizing it was dysphoria) and now i am SO happy, for binders i can go with or w/o them depends on the day
@@miles7885 same. I'm still closeted and I think I'm a gender. The main issue/ dysphoria I have is hair/face. It's awful. Here's the dysphoria in words Dysphoria : ewwwww that hair, find a suitable style My brain : ok u have any suggestions? Dysphoria : no, find it ur self
I discovered i am agender about a year ago, i'm in my 30s, and it is so nice to hear other agender voices. I'm really dysphoric about my voice, which is higher when i do the customer service voice. I'm also not dysphoric about my lower area.
I'm not agender or non-binary myself, but I am a writer. One of my books that I plan on writing has an agender character named Zoltan. This was really helpful. Thank you.
I have voice and arm dysphoria too! I wish my voice was deeper and my arms were more muscular. I’m neutral on pronouns and I present fem most the time but I am dysphoric about my female anatomy too. If it was a perfect world I would be a sexless creature presenting as a girl lol it’s strange since I’m female, but I still feel rly dysphoric and almost relate to transwomen and drag queens more than anything
I'm agender too! I get breast dysphoria, hate wearing binders or bras for the same reason. Have face dysphoria, wish I had a more angular face, voice dysphoria and definitely would prefer a hysterectomy over ever having children or traditionally female organ things lol. I live for people misgendering me, but dont have particular pronouns.
i relate to everything you said! I don't know if I identify as agender bc I do think I have connection to gender just that it fluctuates (not sure how lol)
im trying to figure out if im agender and how i want to present myself.. it's uhh.. a journey. thank you for the video ! it's interesting to hear how other people experience agenderness.. also your voice is calming to listen to
I’ve realised that at this point there were probably a lot of signs that I should’ve noticed that I’m like agender (I think) earlier. I just thought that everyone thought that if they woke up in the opposite gender’s body (for me, if I woke up in a male body) they would be like “Oh, this is weird, let’s move on. I don’t really care” also, I’ve never really cared if I wore clothes that were labelled as male or female (unisėx stuff is great though). Also, personally I just don’t really care when it comes to appearance, I have long hair and seem to be a girl (I have b*obs that I often internally compare to a tattoo) but at the same time I feel more like a genderless blob that’s just kinda vibing? *The ‘b*obs’ ‘tattoo’ comparison:* They serve no real purpose to me (I’m aroace) and I can’t just take them off if they’re annoying me. Either I can cover them up (like you can a tattoo) or some day get them removed (also, like you can a tattoo). Although, they don’t really bother me, they’re just kinda there.
thanks for sharing :) I've been interested to learn more about transgender/non binary/agender etc. people, their experiences because even though I'm cis gender I've had my struggles with this; first I struggled with if I was a boy or girl because I like lot of boyish stuff like fast cars, sports etc. then I found out about nonbinary existed and I thought of that as well but I've come to the realisation the reason why I struggled was down to the gender stereotypes that still exists today, and I can still be a woman and like 'manly' things, but I was thinking of talking about this more in depth on channel as well; wasn't sure if anyone was interested but then I saw your videos and thought, maybe I could do it some day
Hi there!! I am also agender! I've identified as non-binary for almost four years now, and agender for a lot of those years! I'm starting T later this month, so yay!! And as for pets, right now I have an adorable cat named Bear, she's nine and a half years old and my little brat. I love her more than life it's self.
From hearing what you've said in the video i'm really starting to think that i might also experience dysphoria (for the exact same things you mentioned except for the being too thin part)....but i don't know what that makes me, i'm sure i'm bisexual, but in terms of gender it's like... when i was a kid i didn't even think about it. i just know that sometimes i prefered looking a lot like a girl and sometimes to look very masculine with broad shoulders and having muscular arms,but i also know that most of the times it was neither of the two ...even now sometimes i look in the mirror being extremely comfortable and proud about looking like a grown woman with curves and the day after wishing i didn't have breasts and more muscular arms and smaller hips....this morning i was happy with having a more masculine face with a female body and idk it's just really confusing because i don't know if i'm just weird or in the closet and scared to be perceived as weird...also i usually Feel like a woman and the dysphoria thing only happens occasionally....i often dress more masculine when i'm feeling like this and it makes me Feel better but if someone has a clue about what it could be (just as a definition because i'm not the type to put myself in a box) it would be very helpfull for me to be able to put a Word on it...
Thank you so much for this! I don't know any agender people other than myself and I thought I just wasn't supposed to have it and there was something wrong with me.
You know what same like I hate wearing binders because it kind of hurts my back and it's just not worth it because it just makes you feel worse but then when I don't wear it it makes me depressed.. it just really sucks
I am happy to hear that binder reminds to someone else about their chest ,the problem is that I want to be flat so I use it outside my house a lot .Interestingly your body type is kind of dream for me because I am curvy and I hate that,not the curves themselvs more like the assumption people make because of them
i have had dysphoria around my chest and voice for the longest time and honestly thought i was faking it for attention. i managed to ignore it for a while but it has started to resurface. it wasnt until very recently i realized that i may be agender since everytime i think about my gender, my brain is always blank, cloudy and grey and i never have an answer. i have been thinking of binding but i am sadly only 14 and do not acces to one and am too scared and embarrased to ask my family for one. idk my gender right now feels like a mist. i have also tried to learn how to lower my voice and surprisingly it's started to work a little because one time when my dad and sister called me they got surprised on how i sounded and thought that a guy actually picked up the phone. im happy with that.
thank you, so so so much. i've been having dysphoria for so long. it's been a while and originally i had identified myself as non-binary. but it felt too... linked and i felt like i wasn't getting enough things right or that when i felt certain things on certain days, nothing matched. and i've been doing some research on agender and your experience sounds so much similar to mine in its own little shape or form (i'm comfortable with my voice though, that's the biggest difference). my girlfriend and i have often struggled because i can get so dysphoric to the brink of never wanting to get out of bed. i know that i'm kind of wording this stuff all all wrong [most likely], but i still just want to say that this video is one of the greatest helps i've had with finding who i am and what parts of the puzzle make the whole portrait.
This is fairly similar to my nonbinary experience, although I would prefer to be completely sexless - no boobs and no reproductive organs - I definitely get what you mean with the arm thing. I think my arms are super small and weird - I also have a lot of trouble gaining weight so there's not much I can do about it unless I work out.
Holy shit.. I know this video is old but I LITERALLY went through the same things you went through regarding my chest, my arms, my voice, and my height. Im 5 foot even :(. I even lost weight after high school too. I've been so confused because I don't want to be a boy. But I don't feel natural being a girl either. I kind of just.. am. I'm coming to terms with how I am (some days I really don't like being this short) because there's really nothing I can do about some parts. Thank you for this video and I hope you're doing well!
I feel the same, no problem at all with my lower anatomy but I have always always been at war with my chest, which is heavy as well (uk 38H)...it’s my biggest hurdle between me feeling like shit dysphoric and what I imagine would be the happiest I could ever be. I also need to have body hair and a short haircut to feel “right”.
Just discovering and figuring out that I am agender, and this video clicked with me alot. I've struggled for many years over my gender because I've never really felt I was either, especially during my time in the Army. I used to have issues with my triple d chest, not just dysphoria but also physical as well; weighted about 115 at the time. Thanks to the military I got a reduction. 100% happier and my shoulders/back no longer hurt. I'm also tiny framed and lack muscles, frustrating but doesn't mean we aren't strong still. But my point is, I am glad that there others and we are being seen as individuals rather then our genders.
I’m really glad to hear an agender person talk about dysphoria. I struggle with dysphoria around several things depending on the time and I didn’t know if it was acceptable to use that term to describe it, or if I wasn’t agender for having it.
I have recently come to terms with the fact that I am agender and this video/ the representation you provide has really helped me feel more at peace with it all. 💚also, I sent your agender coming out video to my sis and it went great 🥰I appreciate you
I found out that I was agender not too long ago but I wasn't really sure, so I've started looking for explanations that fit me and this did it perfectly, so thank you :). can now happily confirm that I'm agender
i feel some of this as well, while i present mostly masculine as an agender person, there's still some things that bother me about my body, was nice seeing that i'm not alone in this, thanks for sharing :)
Thank you! I’m going through a bad patch of dysphoria right now and, well, today was the day I finally admit to myself that I’m agender. I struggled because I’m very femme presenting so, “I can’t be anything other than a woman if I’m really femme right?” But then I realized I have had Issues with having boobs since I grew them over 10 years ago! I’ve even struggled referring to them since then! Also I am starting to think my feminine-ness might have been a sub-conscious cover up for my agendered self. So thank you making me feel less alone, less weird💕!
I have dysphoria for pronouns. I don’t like she/her. People call me a girl because I look like one. I don’t mind my body, but since it’s too feminine, my correct pronouns aren’t used like, at all. And that just led me into a cycle of disliking feminine aspects of my body
Nonbinary can be anywhere on the spectrum of "having a gender" outside of the gender binary. Agender specifically means lacking a gender. So it's not nonbinary because nonbinary means that someone has a gender, where agender means someone has no gender at all.
You literally have the same height and weight as me. Even the drop drop high school of 115 to 108. I even get whole dysphoria of presenting dominatly feminine features. I'm the same way, it's so weird but good to hear. 💕
It's funny cause I've been having the same "type" (?) of dysphoria that you have, and I've also been questioning my gender, I think I am agender, but I'm not sure yet. This video really helped me, I talked to my gril friends about my breasts being bothering me lately, and no one understood, it's good to know that other people feel the same way, even though it's a bad thing. I feel less alone, thank you
Hey ^^ I’m struggling with my gender identity, as an older human bean would you say being sixteen is to young to try to figure out your gender? Thank you so much crashy!!
Hiya! (: I definitely don't think 16 is too young to start figuring out your gender - but I will also say that your brain and the rest of your body are going through a lot of changes right now so it might take a while for you to get an answer. Even not considering changes in your body, there is also a social element. A lot of people are thinking about their genders right now, which could be leading you to think about your own further and might sway your gender identity in some way. I definitely encourage you to think about your identity, though! It's never a bad thing to be more introspective and figure out who you are
Thank you for posting this. I've been struggling with my gender my whole life and its nice to know what I feel is normal. Thank you Also I have cat name otis
I have several cats, 3 dogs (one of whom currently has a broken leg), and a rabbit. My sister has 3 mice and is getting more, brother has a hamster, and my parents have 3 guinea pigs.
Omg I thought I was the only one who was actually comfortable with my V, only got ish dysphoric cause of period, but birth control pills worked,so no more period every damn month. Also the same about my chest except im kinda very small so if im feeling a very masculine day, it can get hella uncomfortable. Also the voice. I wish I had such a neutral voice like you~ And I have ginger female cat named Missy ♡
Important question!! Do you need to feel any dysphoria to be agender? My biological gender is female... Which I'm fine with...but I don't really identify as anything and use they/them
I am agender. I have a bit of bottom dysphoria, but it's not super bad. I just want to be like a Barbie doll down there. Of course, I'm sex-repulsed asexual, so my bits are just an unpleasant inconvenience to my existence. I also have separate breast and chest dysphoria. I do not want the fat sacks that are currently on my chest, and they are a decent size, thus difficult to hide. I DO however wish my chest was broader. I also wish I had broader shoulders. I like the idea of slim waist, wide hips, broad chest, broad shoulders. I only have the slim waist and wide hips part of that. I do like my hip dips. It makes my hips look less soft and round. I wish my jaw were more prominent and my face was less soft shaped. I also have vocal dysphoria. I am trying to train it to be more masculine, but only sometimes. I want to be able to switch easily between masculine, feminine, and something inbetween depending on the situation, who I'm talking to, the mood, what I feel like, etc. I want my default to fall somewhere inbetween. I do not want to do hormones. I like what body hair I have, but I do not want more face hair than I currently have. I do wear binders, I have been working out to build muscle in my upper body, I train my voice, and I sometimes do makeup to emphasize the bone structure of my face. Wearing a mask helps. I do at least want top surgery some day.
What I think I have arm dysphoria I think it’s my wrists for my I wear brackets all the time they never come from so when I see my wrists I like can’t perceive them as my wrists like they aren’t mine and I want to weight more because I am only 125 run and losing weight because I’m not exercising that much. Also I don’t like the way my boobs look when I have a shirt on but when I see myself shirtless I don’t mind them it just the way they look when I am dressed, but they are small.
I feel like I get more dysphoric about the stuff you wouldn’t expect rather than the stuff you would and sometimes I worry that means I’m not normal or I don’t fit but I’m kind of over that now
I feel dysphoric about my male genitalia but I also don't want breasts or female genitalia either. So I don't know what to do... I'm also dysphoric about my voice.
Hi Crashy, Thanks for the demystifying video, because the only other agender person I know, doesn't live close and we haven't gotten around to talking about dysphoria. As I was watching, I'm guessing I must feel dysphoric about my hair, because I really don't want shorter hair, but oddly enough I've professed to my brother about wanting a buzz cut. Must be the 'I-want-to-experience-everything-even-though-it-is-not-possible'. Since my teens I've been kind of envious of long hair and when I see a picture of my younger self I feel like I'm looking at another person. I don't have any pets, but I'm very fond of my aunt and uncle's dogs. Except when they sniff around my crotch and ass, that's not quite the level I'm comfortable with. Turns I've been holding myself back, because puppies are fucking cute. I'm kinda getting the whole idea of 'puppies-are-cute-let-us-scream'. If anyone got this far, I'm pretty impressed, because I'd say you're pretty curious.
As a 4f 10inch bio woman who has unnaturally small hands and feet and a larger chest it’s torture to have people draw attention to any of those things. At least I seem ok with that stuff when my friends mention it but it still sucks... Oh I have a dog called bonnie and she is light golden brown and has a red bow on her collar, she reminds me of azeriphale from good omens if he had red velvet somewhere in his suit
Just found this video. Explain alot of what I feel. I thought it was normal. I am also heavy chested and I have always hated my chest I'm also top heavy and to add to the dysmorphia they also cause me physical shoulder and back pain and slouch. The only reason I haven't gotten reduction surgery is because of finances even with insurance it be thousands of dollars and the recovery time is 6-8 weeks I can't afford sick time. I never thought of binding though. I feel a little silly to discover this in my mid 20s I thought it more of teen thing but I don't feel off anymore
I'm agender,and sometimes i really wish i had a flatter chest,and somedays i wish i had bigger. somedays i like them the way they are. but most of the times i wish i could look more feminine than i am,even tho i am afab I'm more masculine
This!! You are describing everything that I've been feeling since I've been able to actually process things. I feel like one of the art mannequins that are made out of wood, where they have no identifying markers of guys OR girls. I feel more comfortable in big, baggy t-shirts, and bigger clothes. My partner is biologically male, so I steal several of their shirts.
My agenderism is more social. I don't identify or even understand the gender roles or gender appliances that exist. I am me, and that is it. I call myself "he" became my sex is male. However, I rather be called by my nickname than anything else. I searched in the gender wiki, and this are the things that apply to me as an agender: 1) Gender neutral 2) I do not identify with the non-binary. 3) I identify more as a person than any gender at all. 4) Being entirely indifferent or unknowledgeable toward gender. The most funny part is that I am also asexual. lol
I resently figured out that im agender. I hate to wear bras but sometimes i have to because my nipples are too pointy (that I dont like) Got feminine and masculine sides to the personality, but cant identify gender. Years I thought I was bisexual, but now I know I am pansexual agender. I dont care much about my body, well sometimes When the masculine side comes out I wished for a more masculine body, but then again with the feminin side it is opposite. This is so confusing many times.
I have that same dysphoria around my arms, I feel like my arms look way too skinny. I’m also really short and shorter than you, I’m actually 5’1” or around 53” tall.
My chest makes me feel uncomfortable so I always wear sports bras because when they move when I run it just i feel so uncomfortable in my body. And my hands and arms are so small and it’s distressing. And when I hear my voice in video I literally die. I just feel like I’m past gender like it doesn’t pertain to me. I don’t know. I feel ok with being called a girl I’m fine with being called whatever I just feel like I’m none of them. If that makes sense. I don’t know
I feel so stupid. I don't know what my gender is. I might be cis female,or I might be girfluix. Oversimplified definition of girlfluix is I'm normally female, but sometimes I can be 0-50% enby (androgynous gender feeling) or anywhere from 0-99% agender. However, I don't know what I'm feeling most of the time. Some days I'm like "yeah, definitely female" others I feel more agender and others I feel really agender... I think? Very rarely do I feel a little enby. I always like she/her pronouns, but sometimes they/them is pretty good, and very occasionally preferred over she/her, and even where she/her is prefered thye/them is still ok. That's important cause he/him make me think "NO" and other ones make me feel like "no" If I figure out I'm girlfluix, then I'd identify under the nonbinary woman umbrella rather then the nonbinary umbrella, cause I feel like I'm mostly in the binary. I read about how gender dysphoria can feel like minor annoyances, not always just "NO". So, I thought about it. And this sounds so stupid but I've always hated my face shape. To me, if there was a character in a TV show with my face shape, is a stupid guy who's supposed t be the comedic relief but his only jokes are "when can we get food?" and making annoying eating sounds during a serious moment. But the important part of that description is that it's a guy. If I used all the same things to describe a female or nonbinary character with the same personality, characteristics, and uselessness in the show, I don't think I'd care. I've heard of trans people who disassociate with their face in a mirror because that's not what their brain says. I feel like that about most of my body. Genderfluid people some days want a bigger chest and other days they want no chest. I have mixed feelings about my chest. Half the time "eh whatever, they exist" other days "oops, I forgot you were there, you're kinda in my way" but other times I feel like "why can't I hide them? why wont they just go away?" and I can't tell if that's because I'm terrified of anyone (mostly straight guys) oversexualizing me or because I don't want them. So I looked up agender on RUclips and wanted to just look. I think I'm scared of imagining myself as (partly) agender because I feel like I think they should all have beanpole body types with cute floofy hair. In my mind, I kinda want tat floofy hairstyle, but when I remember my face shape I remember I look ugly in all hairstyles except "long in a loose ponytail" which is still not nice looking to me. Seeing what you had to say made me feel better. So thank you. I didn't like the video because I like hearing about what makes you feel bad, I liked the video because you shared your experiences so I don't feel ostrichsized and alone.
I don't have much chest dysphoria, but I do have some bottom dysphoria. I sort of just wish there was nothing down there tbh. I'm not really sure what my gender is, but prolly not cis lmao.
I was just wondering, if it’s possible to be agender/non-binary but not feel dysphoria at least not physically because I don’t have a problem with my body but I don’t feel super uncomfortable wearing girly things or to be more specific dresses, and my voice also make me uncomfortable but not so much that I don’t want to talk but when I notice my voice I feel uncomfortable. I just wanted to know if that was dysphoria or not because it’s not strong, at least not all the time.
i dont really get dysphoria but having big t1ts hurts if u do any sport. not sure if im actually agender because its all about being uncomfy with gender and less having androgynous-inity described in this video . i love being androgynous, but i feel like im looking for attention. im still sup[er confusde, as ive always described myself as l3sb14n but when i found out about this ive been questioning
I have five cats and two dogs. Although, one dog is getting tested for a heart tumor, but he’s pretty old anyways :( Also, I find my high pitched voice icky as well, and I feel so much more comfortable when I lower it. And knowing that my chest is just gonna get bigger is a dreadful feeling.
I feel like I have some dysphoria about my chest.. Like.. I don't feel like I can take a shower, take off my bra and not feel like... My breasts shouldn't be there, otherwise I don't really care. They're just there. I wanna get a binder soon so I can appear and feel more masculine because I look extremely feminine with my breasts
I have dysphoria with my breasts too. Cup C is not nice, pms time is the worst, like you said. I actually looked up how much it would cost to remove them. But I cant be bothered to pay thousands for comfort, because most of the time I dont care about them. You cat is gorgeous. Mine is on my photo, we also have his twin brother, a dog, a chinchilla and chickens. Everyone apart from the chinchilla is ginger. I think your hair looks great. Shaved mine too a couple of weeks ago because it was becoming so damn hot.
Pls someone help me, I'm hating my self bc I feel agender but I don't have dysphoria. Yeah, I know that it sounds stupid but I can't explain it too. I'm not sure that I'm agender but I don't feel like a girl and even like a boy. Thank u.
I've been self conscious about my (singing) voice because it's way too soft and as a metalhead that frustrated me even more, although I've neve had any problem with me having breasts or a vagina I've never been attached to what's deemed femenine roles such as having to get pregnant and the whole idea of having a family, let alone a stay at home mum, but I don't identify as a man, and also regardless of having long hair and wearing makeup/ some "femenine clothes" I don't think those are inherently femenine because especially in the metal or goth scene you can find literally wearing those and also I don't want male pronouns but I don't mind neutral or female ones. It's really hard to explain
Wow, I'm amazed how similar my dysphoria experience is to yours lol [Except I'm okay with my arms-it's my thicc legs that I get AAA about sometimes lol MY HIPS ARE TOO FEMININE SOMETIMES] Yeah, so, I'm afab genderflux person, and rn I'm agender Honestly, my dysphoria is at its worst when I'm around people who is cis or whatever because kekemdkek :') Social dysphoria sUCKS When I'm alone, there's not AS much dysphoria, and I can typically vibe and ignore it by watching videos or drawing and hiding in my blanket or whatever lol CAN'T HAVE A GENDER WHEN YOU'RE IN THE BLANKET VOID >:D
heyooo, fellow agender here =D!! i moved recently and had to leave all my darling pets ={ they're all doggos! there's meh baby girl Demetyr, the fluffy boy...Fluffy heheh and the permanent frown new boy who whines non stop if u don't give him attention, Bullet!
Wow, describing the way that binding and sports bras suck ass, but you also wanna be flatter? Literally exactly what goes on with me. I try and never wear a bra if I can get away with it, and I'd probably rip a binder off in like twenty minutes.
Im Agender and pansexual my name is ross im assined female at birth i plan on starting T when im old enough then when im 18 ill get top surgery and change my name and gender ^^ but for now ill stay closeted 😅
I'm agender, but I don't think I have dysphoria. So idk what that makes me. Do I need to have dysphoria to be agender or no? And I don't want to diagnose myself with it, but I don't want to see a doctor cause of my mom.
The answer is yes. If you believe you are the opposite gender than what you actually are…then yes you have gender dysphoria. Very simple, and I wish you luck getting help.
me: haha hey me, you are pretending to be agender for attention
also me: wow this agender person has extremely similar experiences thats weird haha
this video is good, if that wasn't clear
i- yes.
Me toooooooooo
Same tho
If y'all are still reading this comment, just fyi you are valid
I’ve been struggling lately. Trying to figure out if I’m actually agender.
I'm sorry you've been struggling!! :( If you ever need anyone to talk to, hit me up! (:
@@rapidpeach I was introduced to the term gender fluid a couple years ago and thought that's what fit me. These days I don't think that's right. I don't really feel... anything. Been listening to other's stories about being agender. I don't know. I guess it feels ridiculous to me that I'm not sure where I fit. If that makes sense.
@@sadiemckeown5065 It was the same for me. First I discovered myself as gender fluid until I felt like it was no longer a term where I adjust myself anymore. It can be a slowly process, Hope you're doing better now! I've been agender for two years now. 😉
xxXXxx DUDE! I thought I was genderfluid at first too! And now i know i’m agender so i cut my hair (cause i had hair dysphoria w/o realizing it was dysphoria) and now i am SO happy, for binders i can go with or w/o them depends on the day
@@miles7885 same. I'm still closeted and I think I'm a gender. The main issue/ dysphoria I have is hair/face. It's awful. Here's the dysphoria in words
Dysphoria : ewwwww that hair, find a suitable style
My brain : ok u have any suggestions?
Dysphoria : no, find it ur self
I discovered i am agender about a year ago, i'm in my 30s, and it is so nice to hear other agender voices. I'm really dysphoric about my voice, which is higher when i do the customer service voice. I'm also not dysphoric about my lower area.
I'm not agender or non-binary myself, but I am a writer. One of my books that I plan on writing has an agender character named Zoltan. This was really helpful. Thank you.
My pleasure! Please get in touch if you have any other questions or want some agender insight~
I have voice and arm dysphoria too! I wish my voice was deeper and my arms were more muscular. I’m neutral on pronouns and I present fem most the time but I am dysphoric about my female anatomy too. If it was a perfect world I would be a sexless creature presenting as a girl lol it’s strange since I’m female, but I still feel rly dysphoric and almost relate to transwomen and drag queens more than anything
I'm agender too! I get breast dysphoria, hate wearing binders or bras for the same reason. Have face dysphoria, wish I had a more angular face, voice dysphoria and definitely would prefer a hysterectomy over ever having children or traditionally female organ things lol. I live for people misgendering me, but dont have particular pronouns.
i relate to everything you said! I don't know if I identify as agender bc I do think I have connection to gender just that it fluctuates (not sure how lol)
@@alexrose20 genderflux exists, it's kinda similar to genderfluid in a way. if you want I'd suggest looking up genderflux!
im trying to figure out if im agender and how i want to present myself.. it's uhh.. a journey.
thank you for the video ! it's interesting to hear how other people experience agenderness.. also your voice is calming to listen to
I’ve realised that at this point there were probably a lot of signs that I should’ve noticed that I’m like agender (I think) earlier. I just thought that everyone thought that if they woke up in the opposite gender’s body (for me, if I woke up in a male body) they would be like “Oh, this is weird, let’s move on. I don’t really care” also, I’ve never really cared if I wore clothes that were labelled as male or female (unisėx stuff is great though). Also, personally I just don’t really care when it comes to appearance, I have long hair and seem to be a girl (I have b*obs that I often internally compare to a tattoo) but at the same time I feel more like a genderless blob that’s just kinda vibing?
*The ‘b*obs’ ‘tattoo’ comparison:*
They serve no real purpose to me (I’m aroace) and I can’t just take them off if they’re annoying me. Either I can cover them up (like you can a tattoo) or some day get them removed (also, like you can a tattoo). Although, they don’t really bother me, they’re just kinda there.
thanks for sharing :) I've been interested to learn more about transgender/non binary/agender etc. people, their experiences because even though I'm cis gender I've had my struggles with this; first I struggled with if I was a boy or girl because I like lot of boyish stuff like fast cars, sports etc. then I found out about nonbinary existed and I thought of that as well but I've come to the realisation the reason why I struggled was down to the gender stereotypes that still exists today, and I can still be a woman and like 'manly' things, but I was thinking of talking about this more in depth on channel as well; wasn't sure if anyone was interested but then I saw your videos and thought, maybe I could do it some day
Hi there!! I am also agender! I've identified as non-binary for almost four years now, and agender for a lot of those years! I'm starting T later this month, so yay!! And as for pets, right now I have an adorable cat named Bear, she's nine and a half years old and my little brat. I love her more than life it's self.
From hearing what you've said in the video i'm really starting to think that i might also experience dysphoria (for the exact same things you mentioned except for the being too thin part)....but i don't know what that makes me, i'm sure i'm bisexual, but in terms of gender it's like...
when i was a kid i didn't even think about it. i just know that sometimes i prefered looking a lot like a girl and sometimes to look very masculine with broad shoulders and having muscular arms,but i also know that most of the times it was neither of the two ...even now sometimes i look in the mirror being extremely comfortable and proud about looking like a grown woman with curves and the day after wishing i didn't have breasts and more muscular arms and smaller hips....this morning i was happy with having a more masculine face with a female body and idk it's just really confusing because i don't know if i'm just weird or in the closet and scared to be perceived as weird...also i usually Feel like a woman and the dysphoria thing only happens occasionally....i often dress more masculine when i'm feeling like this and it makes me Feel better but if someone has a clue about what it could be (just as a definition because i'm not the type to put myself in a box) it would be very helpfull for me to be able to put a Word on it...
Thank you so much for this! I don't know any agender people other than myself and I thought I just wasn't supposed to have it and there was something wrong with me.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you for being agender!! :D You are valid!
You know what same like I hate wearing binders because it kind of hurts my back and it's just not worth it because it just makes you feel worse but then when I don't wear it it makes me depressed.. it just really sucks
I am happy to hear that binder reminds to someone else about their chest ,the problem is that I want to be flat so I use it outside my house a lot .Interestingly your body type is kind of dream for me because I am curvy and I hate that,not the curves themselvs more like the assumption people make because of them
This really helps ty. I think I'm agender and the dysphoria I feel is hair/face and arms. Oof my arms r soooooooooooo skinny. Oof
hey umm if you see this what are crashes pronouns? i don't wanna misgender them
My pronouns are they/them!
@@rapidpeach np :> It's a respectful thing to do. have a nice day
i have had dysphoria around my chest and voice for the longest time and honestly thought i was faking it for attention. i managed to ignore it for a while but it has started to resurface. it wasnt until very recently i realized that i may be agender since everytime i think about my gender, my brain is always blank, cloudy and grey and i never have an answer. i have been thinking of binding but i am sadly only 14 and do not acces to one and am too scared and embarrased to ask my family for one. idk my gender right now feels like a mist. i have also tried to learn how to lower my voice and surprisingly it's started to work a little because one time when my dad and sister called me they got surprised on how i sounded and thought that a guy actually picked up the phone. im happy with that.
thank you, so so so much. i've been having dysphoria for so long. it's been a while and originally i had identified myself as non-binary. but it felt too... linked and i felt like i wasn't getting enough things right or that when i felt certain things on certain days, nothing matched. and i've been doing some research on agender and your experience sounds so much similar to mine in its own little shape or form (i'm comfortable with my voice though, that's the biggest difference). my girlfriend and i have often struggled because i can get so dysphoric to the brink of never wanting to get out of bed. i know that i'm kind of wording this stuff all all wrong [most likely], but i still just want to say that this video is one of the greatest helps i've had with finding who i am and what parts of the puzzle make the whole portrait.
This is fairly similar to my nonbinary experience, although I would prefer to be completely sexless - no boobs and no reproductive organs - I definitely get what you mean with the arm thing. I think my arms are super small and weird - I also have a lot of trouble gaining weight so there's not much I can do about it unless I work out.
I thought I was the only one who preferred to have no sex organs! i do have a sex drive tho so not sure how that could've worked🤣
nothing on top, nothing at the bottom. that would be great. the outside of the bottom is fine, it's that friggin inside thing that sucks so much
I wish I didn't have an uterus. I use contraceptives to not have periods but I'm not sure if that's enough for me.
Holy shit.. I know this video is old but I LITERALLY went through the same things you went through regarding my chest, my arms, my voice, and my height. Im 5 foot even :(. I even lost weight after high school too. I've been so confused because I don't want to be a boy. But I don't feel natural being a girl either. I kind of just.. am. I'm coming to terms with how I am (some days I really don't like being this short) because there's really nothing I can do about some parts. Thank you for this video and I hope you're doing well!
I feel the same, no problem at all with my lower anatomy but I have always always been at war with my chest, which is heavy as well (uk 38H)...it’s my biggest hurdle between me feeling like shit dysphoric and what I imagine would be the happiest I could ever be. I also need to have body hair and a short haircut to feel “right”.
Just discovering and figuring out that I am agender, and this video clicked with me alot. I've struggled for many years over my gender because I've never really felt I was either, especially during my time in the Army. I used to have issues with my triple d chest, not just dysphoria but also physical as well; weighted about 115 at the time. Thanks to the military I got a reduction. 100% happier and my shoulders/back no longer hurt. I'm also tiny framed and lack muscles, frustrating but doesn't mean we aren't strong still. But my point is, I am glad that there others and we are being seen as individuals rather then our genders.
I’m really glad to hear an agender person talk about dysphoria. I struggle with dysphoria around several things depending on the time and I didn’t know if it was acceptable to use that term to describe it, or if I wasn’t agender for having it.
I really relate to your self-description! I recently figured out that I'm an agender and everything makes sense for me right now.
I have recently come to terms with the fact that I am agender and this video/ the representation you provide has really helped me feel more at peace with it all. 💚also, I sent your agender coming out video to my sis and it went great 🥰I appreciate you
Anyone else get gender dysphoria but not THAT much dysphoria because you already look somewhat androgynous as long as you're not naked?
I wish that was my experience hahaha xD
I found out that I was agender not too long ago but I wasn't really sure, so I've started looking for explanations that fit me and this did it perfectly, so thank you :). can now happily confirm that I'm agender
You're so welcome! I'm happy to hear it
Found this over a year later, but wow is this helpful...
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i feel some of this as well, while i present mostly masculine as an agender person, there's still some things that bother me about my body, was nice seeing that i'm not alone in this, thanks for sharing :)
Thank you! I’m going through a bad patch of dysphoria right now and, well, today was the day I finally admit to myself that I’m agender. I struggled because I’m very femme presenting so, “I can’t be anything other than a woman if I’m really femme right?” But then I realized I have had Issues with having boobs since I grew them over 10 years ago! I’ve even struggled referring to them since then! Also I am starting to think my feminine-ness might have been a sub-conscious cover up for my agendered self.
So thank you making me feel less alone, less weird💕!
I have dysphoria for pronouns. I don’t like she/her. People call me a girl because I look like one. I don’t mind my body, but since it’s too feminine, my correct pronouns aren’t used like, at all. And that just led me into a cycle of disliking feminine aspects of my body
What's the difference between agender and nonbinary
Nonbinary can be anywhere on the spectrum of "having a gender" outside of the gender binary. Agender specifically means lacking a gender. So it's not nonbinary because nonbinary means that someone has a gender, where agender means someone has no gender at all.
You literally have the same height and weight as me. Even the drop drop high school of 115 to 108. I even get whole dysphoria of presenting dominatly feminine features. I'm the same way, it's so weird but good to hear. 💕
It's funny cause I've been having the same "type" (?) of dysphoria that you have, and I've also been questioning my gender, I think I am agender, but I'm not sure yet. This video really helped me, I talked to my gril friends about my breasts being bothering me lately, and no one understood, it's good to know that other people feel the same way, even though it's a bad thing. I feel less alone, thank you
Hey ^^ I’m struggling with my gender identity, as an older human bean would you say being sixteen is to young to try to figure out your gender? Thank you so much crashy!!
Hiya! (: I definitely don't think 16 is too young to start figuring out your gender - but I will also say that your brain and the rest of your body are going through a lot of changes right now so it might take a while for you to get an answer. Even not considering changes in your body, there is also a social element. A lot of people are thinking about their genders right now, which could be leading you to think about your own further and might sway your gender identity in some way.
I definitely encourage you to think about your identity, though! It's never a bad thing to be more introspective and figure out who you are
rapidpeach thank you so much ^^! I really appreciate your help!
Thank you for posting this.
I've been struggling with my gender my whole life and its nice to know what I feel is normal.
Thank you
Also I have cat name otis
I'm trying to figure out my gender, and what you said u were dysphoric about, was what i feel more self conscious about. Maybe I'm agender too?
Just realized that I'm at the same time neutrois, agender, demiflux, gender fluid and male! Thanks this was eye opening!
I have several cats, 3 dogs (one of whom currently has a broken leg), and a rabbit. My sister has 3 mice and is getting more, brother has a hamster, and my parents have 3 guinea pigs.
Is it possible to be agender and masc/using masc pronouns and words to describe myself?
Omg I thought I was the only one who was actually comfortable with my V, only got ish dysphoric cause of period, but birth control pills worked,so no more period every damn month. Also the same about my chest except im kinda very small so if im feeling a very masculine day, it can get hella uncomfortable. Also the voice. I wish I had such a neutral voice like you~
And I have ginger female cat named Missy ♡
Important question!!
Do you need to feel any dysphoria to be agender?
My biological gender is female... Which I'm fine with...but I don't really identify as anything and use they/them
To be agender you don't need to, most do but you don't need to
I am agender. I have a bit of bottom dysphoria, but it's not super bad. I just want to be like a Barbie doll down there. Of course, I'm sex-repulsed asexual, so my bits are just an unpleasant inconvenience to my existence. I also have separate breast and chest dysphoria. I do not want the fat sacks that are currently on my chest, and they are a decent size, thus difficult to hide. I DO however wish my chest was broader. I also wish I had broader shoulders. I like the idea of slim waist, wide hips, broad chest, broad shoulders. I only have the slim waist and wide hips part of that. I do like my hip dips. It makes my hips look less soft and round. I wish my jaw were more prominent and my face was less soft shaped. I also have vocal dysphoria. I am trying to train it to be more masculine, but only sometimes. I want to be able to switch easily between masculine, feminine, and something inbetween depending on the situation, who I'm talking to, the mood, what I feel like, etc. I want my default to fall somewhere inbetween. I do not want to do hormones. I like what body hair I have, but I do not want more face hair than I currently have. I do wear binders, I have been working out to build muscle in my upper body, I train my voice, and I sometimes do makeup to emphasize the bone structure of my face. Wearing a mask helps. I do at least want top surgery some day.
What I think I have arm dysphoria I think it’s my wrists for my I wear brackets all the time they never come from so when I see my wrists I like can’t perceive them as my wrists like they aren’t mine and I want to weight more because I am only 125 run and losing weight because I’m not exercising that much. Also I don’t like the way my boobs look when I have a shirt on but when I see myself shirtless I don’t mind them it just the way they look when I am dressed, but they are small.
I feel like I get more dysphoric about the stuff you wouldn’t expect rather than the stuff you would and sometimes I worry that means I’m not normal or I don’t fit but I’m kind of over that now
the arm thing is SO relatable... I wish wish wish I had bigger arms...
I feel dysphoric about my male genitalia but I also don't want breasts or female genitalia either. So I don't know what to do... I'm also dysphoric about my voice.
Hi Crashy,
Thanks for the demystifying video, because the only other agender person I know, doesn't live close and we haven't gotten around to talking about dysphoria. As I was watching, I'm guessing I must feel dysphoric about my hair, because I really don't want shorter hair, but oddly enough I've professed to my brother about wanting a buzz cut. Must be the 'I-want-to-experience-everything-even-though-it-is-not-possible'.
Since my teens I've been kind of envious of long hair and when I see a picture of my younger self I feel like I'm looking at another person.
I don't have any pets, but I'm very fond of my aunt and uncle's dogs. Except when they sniff around my crotch and ass, that's not quite the level I'm comfortable with. Turns I've been holding myself back, because puppies are fucking cute.
I'm kinda getting the whole idea of 'puppies-are-cute-let-us-scream'.
If anyone got this far, I'm pretty impressed, because I'd say you're pretty curious.
As a 4f 10inch bio woman who has unnaturally small hands and feet and a larger chest it’s torture to have people draw attention to any of those things. At least I seem ok with that stuff when my friends mention it but it still sucks...
Oh I have a dog called bonnie and she is light golden brown and has a red bow on her collar, she reminds me of azeriphale from good omens if he had red velvet somewhere in his suit
Just found this video. Explain alot of what I feel. I thought it was normal. I am also heavy chested and I have always hated my chest I'm also top heavy and to add to the dysmorphia they also cause me physical shoulder and back pain and slouch. The only reason I haven't gotten reduction surgery is because of finances even with insurance it be thousands of dollars and the recovery time is 6-8 weeks I can't afford sick time. I never thought of binding though. I feel a little silly to discover this in my mid 20s I thought it more of teen thing but I don't feel off anymore
I'm agender,and sometimes i really wish i had a flatter chest,and somedays i wish i had bigger. somedays i like them the way they are. but most of the times i wish i could look more feminine than i am,even tho i am afab I'm more masculine
This!! You are describing everything that I've been feeling since I've been able to actually process things. I feel like one of the art mannequins that are made out of wood, where they have no identifying markers of guys OR girls. I feel more comfortable in big, baggy t-shirts, and bigger clothes. My partner is biologically male, so I steal several of their shirts.
My agenderism is more social. I don't identify or even understand the gender roles or gender appliances that exist. I am me, and that is it. I call myself "he" became my sex is male. However, I rather be called by my nickname than anything else. I searched in the gender wiki, and this are the things that apply to me as an agender:
1) Gender neutral
2) I do not identify with the non-binary.
3) I identify more as a person than any gender at all.
4) Being entirely indifferent or unknowledgeable toward gender.
The most funny part is that I am also asexual. lol
I resently figured out that im agender. I hate to wear bras but sometimes i have to because my nipples are too pointy (that I dont like) Got feminine and masculine sides to the personality, but cant identify gender. Years I thought I was bisexual, but now I know I am pansexual agender. I dont care much about my body, well sometimes When the masculine side comes out I wished for a more masculine body, but then again with the feminin side it is opposite. This is so confusing many times.
Hmm, now that I think about it, I didn’t think that I have dysphoria, but I don’t like how low my voice is or the broad shoulders n’ stuff. Hmm.
I have that same dysphoria around my arms, I feel like my arms look way too skinny. I’m also really short and shorter than you, I’m actually 5’1” or around 53” tall.
My chest makes me feel uncomfortable so I always wear sports bras because when they move when I run it just i feel so uncomfortable in my body. And my hands and arms are so small and it’s distressing. And when I hear my voice in video I literally die. I just feel like I’m past gender like it doesn’t pertain to me. I don’t know. I feel ok with being called a girl I’m fine with being called whatever I just feel like I’m none of them. If that makes sense. I don’t know
I feel so stupid. I don't know what my gender is. I might be cis female,or I might be girfluix.
Oversimplified definition of girlfluix is I'm normally female, but sometimes I can be 0-50% enby (androgynous gender feeling) or anywhere from 0-99% agender.
However, I don't know what I'm feeling most of the time. Some days I'm like "yeah, definitely female" others I feel more agender and others I feel really agender... I think? Very rarely do I feel a little enby. I always like she/her pronouns, but sometimes they/them is pretty good, and very occasionally preferred over she/her, and even where she/her is prefered thye/them is still ok. That's important cause he/him make me think "NO" and other ones make me feel like "no" If I figure out I'm girlfluix, then I'd identify under the nonbinary woman umbrella rather then the nonbinary umbrella, cause I feel like I'm mostly in the binary.
I read about how gender dysphoria can feel like minor annoyances, not always just "NO".
So, I thought about it. And this sounds so stupid but I've always hated my face shape. To me, if there was a character in a TV show with my face shape, is a stupid guy who's supposed t be the comedic relief but his only jokes are "when can we get food?" and making annoying eating sounds during a serious moment. But the important part of that description is that it's a guy. If I used all the same things to describe a female or nonbinary character with the same personality, characteristics, and uselessness in the show, I don't think I'd care.
I've heard of trans people who disassociate with their face in a mirror because that's not what their brain says. I feel like that about most of my body.
Genderfluid people some days want a bigger chest and other days they want no chest. I have mixed feelings about my chest. Half the time "eh whatever, they exist" other days "oops, I forgot you were there, you're kinda in my way" but other times I feel like "why can't I hide them? why wont they just go away?" and I can't tell if that's because I'm terrified of anyone (mostly straight guys) oversexualizing me or because I don't want them.
So I looked up agender on RUclips and wanted to just look. I think I'm scared of imagining myself as (partly) agender because I feel like I think they should all have beanpole body types with cute floofy hair. In my mind, I kinda want tat floofy hairstyle, but when I remember my face shape I remember I look ugly in all hairstyles except "long in a loose ponytail" which is still not nice looking to me.
Seeing what you had to say made me feel better. So thank you. I didn't like the video because I like hearing about what makes you feel bad, I liked the video because you shared your experiences so I don't feel ostrichsized and alone.
I don't have much chest dysphoria, but I do have some bottom dysphoria. I sort of just wish there was nothing down there tbh. I'm not really sure what my gender is, but prolly not cis lmao.
i have dysphoria with my chest as well, but i also have asthma, so i literally can't bind hahah *cries*
Awww that really really sucks :(
I can't bind for other reasons I hope there's another way
Uff same, i dont have a big chest fortunately, but they do get bigger when i'm on my period and it makes me sooo uncomforable
Same but their big enough to bother me even when I'm not on my period so I feel odd
I was just wondering, if it’s possible to be agender/non-binary but not feel dysphoria at least not physically because I don’t have a problem with my body but I don’t feel super uncomfortable wearing girly things or to be more specific dresses, and my voice also make me uncomfortable but not so much that I don’t want to talk but when I notice my voice I feel uncomfortable. I just wanted to know if that was dysphoria or not because it’s not strong, at least not all the time.
It's totally possible! And dysphoria can also change as you get older.
rapidpeach oh ok thank thank you!😊
Im recently unquestioning if im agender or nonbinary or if iam just a boy(my birth gender) with weird preferences
Im born female but identify as agender, could a lesbian still be attracted to me? What about a straight male? Im pansexual :/
i dont really get dysphoria but having big t1ts hurts if u do any sport. not sure if im actually agender because its all about being uncomfy with gender and less having androgynous-inity described in this video . i love being androgynous, but i feel like im looking for attention. im still sup[er confusde, as ive always described myself as l3sb14n but when i found out about this ive been questioning
I have five cats and two dogs. Although, one dog is getting tested for a heart tumor, but he’s pretty old anyways :(
Also, I find my high pitched voice icky as well, and I feel so much more comfortable when I lower it. And knowing that my chest is just gonna get bigger is a dreadful feeling.
...this is the first time I've related to someone completely. I'm agender holy shit that explains everything ajajajajajaja
Thank you truly!
I feel like I have some dysphoria about my chest.. Like.. I don't feel like I can take a shower, take off my bra and not feel like... My breasts shouldn't be there, otherwise I don't really care. They're just there. I wanna get a binder soon so I can appear and feel more masculine because I look extremely feminine with my breasts
I have dysphoria with my breasts too. Cup C is not nice, pms time is the worst, like you said. I actually looked up how much it would cost to remove them. But I cant be bothered to pay thousands for comfort, because most of the time I dont care about them. You cat is gorgeous. Mine is on my photo, we also have his twin brother, a dog, a chinchilla and chickens. Everyone apart from the chinchilla is ginger. I think your hair looks great. Shaved mine too a couple of weeks ago because it was becoming so damn hot.
Pls someone help me, I'm hating my self bc I feel agender but I don't have dysphoria. Yeah, I know that it sounds stupid but I can't explain it too. I'm not sure that I'm agender but I don't feel like a girl and even like a boy. Thank u.
You do have dysphoria just not body dysphoria but you do have gender dysphoria (i think) gender dysphoria is- feeling detached from ones assined sex
I've been self conscious about my (singing) voice because it's way too soft and as a metalhead that frustrated me even more, although I've neve had any problem with me having breasts or a vagina I've never been attached to what's deemed femenine roles such as having to get pregnant and the whole idea of having a family, let alone a stay at home mum, but I don't identify as a man, and also regardless of having long hair and wearing makeup/ some "femenine clothes" I don't think those are inherently femenine because especially in the metal or goth scene you can find literally wearing those and also I don't want male pronouns but I don't mind neutral or female ones. It's really hard to explain
Wow, I'm amazed how similar my dysphoria experience is to yours lol
[Except I'm okay with my arms-it's my thicc legs that I get AAA about sometimes lol MY HIPS ARE TOO FEMININE SOMETIMES]
Yeah, so, I'm afab genderflux person, and rn I'm agender
Honestly, my dysphoria is at its worst when I'm around people who is cis or whatever because kekemdkek :')
Social dysphoria sUCKS
When I'm alone, there's not AS much dysphoria, and I can typically vibe and ignore it by watching videos or drawing and hiding in my blanket or whatever lol
CAN'T HAVE A GENDER WHEN YOU'RE IN THE BLANKET VOID >:D
heyooo, fellow agender here =D!! i moved recently and had to leave all my darling pets ={ they're all doggos! there's meh baby girl Demetyr, the fluffy boy...Fluffy heheh and the permanent frown new boy who whines non stop if u don't give him attention, Bullet!
p.s.- Crash would rock 'The Rock' arms.
Have you ever thought of getting chest surgery?
I have. But I won't do it for personal reasons for at least another couple of years if at all.
Hello! I'm a new subscriber from London UK. Love your videos. I'm a Androgynosexual cisgender male.
God I wish I looked fem the way amabs look fem someone swindle my bones already
OMG I RELATE SO HARD 2 THIS THANK YOU
Wow, describing the way that binding and sports bras suck ass, but you also wanna be flatter? Literally exactly what goes on with me. I try and never wear a bra if I can get away with it, and I'd probably rip a binder off in like twenty minutes.
Im Agender and pansexual my name is ross im assined female at birth i plan on starting T when im old enough then when im 18 ill get top surgery and change my name and gender ^^ but for now ill stay closeted 😅
I'm agender, but I don't think I have dysphoria. So idk what that makes me. Do I need to have dysphoria to be agender or no? And I don't want to diagnose myself with it, but I don't want to see a doctor cause of my mom.
Also I don't have any pets. The only animals I have are my siblings
LOL at the siblings remark
You totally don't need to have dysphoria to be agender.
If you got pregnant wouldn't that cause you a lot of dysphoria?
I am Agender that’s all I’m saying
Super!
I have this issue too with my boobs I'm a double d
i’m absolutly identified,im disphoryc about mi name, i just like to be called “dani”
unfortunately i don't have a pet anymore, but i have a soft bunny toy, is that enough? hihih
Oh it's just like me..
Upd: i cri
Hey I want to be very muscular too lol
Hi Crashy. I'm a new subscriber to your channel from London UK. 🇬🇧 I love your videos. I'm a Polysexual cis male.
Thanks for subscribing! I hope you continue to enjoy the videos! :D
Wait..I relate to that🌝
those look my arms and im amab... :(
The answer is yes. If you believe you are the opposite gender than what you actually are…then yes you have gender dysphoria. Very simple, and I wish you luck getting help.
Husband?
I'm married to a man - he's my Husband haha. (:
Hi you are so cool ❤❤❤❤❤😁💛
i have 4 ratties xoxox
I love Rats!