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@@asyajourney4923it was high like over 6.3 or something. It’s because I had PCOS. I had a lot of eggs but it didn’t mean they were in good quality due to my age. So although I retrieved a lot of eggs only a few fertilized and reached blastocyst stage. And out of those only one was genetically normal. On my last IVF cycle I had 3 normal embryos. Meaning you never know what each cycle will bring. Keep trying. It’s worth it. My baby boy is the greatest joy of my life!
Listen Hellynn! You are so strong and you’ve got this. I wish that you get a BIG FAT POSITIVE! I’m 45yrs old and after my first FET, I’m progressing nicely. I too did embryo banking (1-2 eggs retrieved per cycle), but through a mini IVF protocol with an awesome doctor in NYC - Dr. John Zhang (New Hope Fertility). Mini IVF is very cost effective and less stimulation involved. I believe that is best for women over 40. My HCG continues to rise, and I’m so happy. If you can withstand it, don’t give up! ❤❤❤❤
Congratulations🎉🎉🎉 this makes me so happy you don’t even know. I hope that everything goes perfectly for you moving forward as well. Please let me know how it goes!!❤
@@HE..n Hi! No. I’m talking about New Hope Fertility Center in (Midtown) Manhattan, NY. If you look up the doctor, (John Zhang) who is the Medical Director there, you can find it. There is also a female doctor and 2 other male doctors who all treat fertility in the same way - extremely personalized to each woman based on her age/circumstances. ❤❤❤❤
Hang in there! ❤ in your 40s it’s very much a numbers game of going through enough embryos to get to a genetically viable one. Try and think of every “failure” as getting closer in the odds to the one that will work ❤❤
I’m just starting my first FET and we only have one embryo. It’s been tested and they said it’s a high grade. But I’m mentally preparing for it not to work. My husband is optimistic. I’m hopeful but also trying to contain any excitement until I get a positive pregnancy result. Sending you lots of positive energy. I know it’s so tough. I love what you said about how if something is meant for you it will not miss. That’s so encouraging.
You will make it, dear! ❤ I have transferred my hatching baby 5 days ago and my first symptom was mild constant headache 🙏🏻 I am also providing updates on RUclips bcs I think videos like those are so important. Thank you for sharing your story, I see you, I feel you and I am sending tons of love, dear! You have got this! ❤
@@BiancaRLima Sending you so much love as you go through your 2ww!! I will be stopping by to see the videos. Thank you for your uplifting message today💗
Also definitely agree with your decision not to test! Even if it takes longer going through the ones that may not work it’s better to give every embryo the chance. There are hundreds of women in facebook groups who had healthy babies from mosaics and even abnormals. I saw an article recently about how studies on the benefits of PGT are skewed and people who previously championed it are changing their minds. My aunt did not test embryos made over many rounds at 43/44 and after several failures and miscarriages she was able to have 2 children from them at 45 and 51. One of those was a poorly graded embryo too! Persistence is the key at this age, you’ll get there in time ❤
Where I live (Scandinavia) PGT is only recommended if you have a specific condition you need to screen for. Generally it doesn't increase the chance of conceiving in other situations.
@@hellynn_jI’m going to give you the opposite opinion. I disagree with your decision not to test. Here’s why: 1. The study everyone references where “abnormal” embryos become healthy babies is seriously flawed. If you read the fine print, that study included a dozen or so embryos with “no result” not just embryos deemed abnormal. Statistically embryos that come back as “no result” are chromosomally normal 50% of the time. This would account for the majority of the supposedly abnormal embryos that led to success in the study. 2. Yes, mosaic embryos have a decent chance of success. But PGT testing would identify those and you could transfer them. 3. Lost time. The time wasted transferring abnormal embryos, could better be spent doing more egg retrievals to get a normal embryo. 4. Too many assumptions. Not testing at your age assumes that your only challenge to getting pregnant is Chromosomal abnormalities. You don’t know that. Plenty of women make PGT normal embryos, only for transfers to not take in their uterus. They move on to a surrogate and it works. The uterus is a whole other part of the equation that you won’t know could be a problem. Chemicals and miscarriages at your age will be assumed to be due to chromosomal abnormalities and uterine issues will be overlooked. I can use my own story as an example. My first transfer with a chromsomally normal embryo resulted in a miscarriage at 6 weeks. Because the embryo was tested, doctors knew to look to my uterus for answers. I had a uterine biopsy which determined I had a uterine infection that needed to be cleared. I cleared that and my next PGT tested transfer worked- just entered my third trimester. Had I not had the first embryo tested doctors would have assumed chromosomal abnormalities (I was 38/39) and not checked my uterus and I would have miscarried again. 5. The possibility of future termination of pregnancy. The chances of Chromosomal abnormalities are high at your age. I was 38 and newly 39 during my three retrievals. My results where: round 1: 1/3 normal, round 2: 1/2 normal, round 3: 1/6 normal and 1 mosaic. You don’t want to have a “successful” pregnancy only to get further along and be faced with the decision to terminate. Not all chromosomal abnormalities miscarry early. I am probably the opposite of what you described yourself as in kind of “fantasizing”. I forgot the exact term you used. Not to say I never fantasize or dream, but when it came to getting pregnant I looked at it very logically and methodically. When you are struggling to get pregnant, you want to eliminate as many variables are you can, so that you can find answers and solve problems. Without PGT testing you are leaving a huge variable unanswered. Also I believe a lot of the studies on PGT testing are old and not up to date. PGT testing is a lot more reliable now than it was previously. One way we know this is that NIPT results for PGT tested embryos very rarely comes back as abnormal- the results are way lower than the general population that uses NIPT tests. In a world where you want to give yourself the highest chance of success possible, you don’t want to use “exceptions” to make the rule. Abnormal embryos becoming babies are exceptions.. extremely rare exceptions, that like I said, are often questioned- could be a flawed study or even flawed test results. Pregnancies with PGT tested embryos being abnormal also happen but they are extremely rare and are the exception. Anyway… that’s my two cents. Hope you take it as I meant it, respectfully. Good luck!
@@Jennifer-fk8kb thank you for your views, they are appreciated, and I understand them. The reason why we committed to not testing was because I had already transferred a few untested at that point and thought we might as well stick to not testing for the rest of this batch because there were only a few left, and we would just transfer multiples. Also, the last transfer I went through, my embryos had only grown to day four, so you can’t test at that stage. Never said that I was fantasizing about anything to do with PGT, but I did say I have a naivete about my overall success, and that I was hopeful. I think the study you are referring to might be different from the one I read because it entailed a larger group than that, while still small. Anyway, I also said that I was open to testing in the future if I had to do more retrievals, and I also said that I am not against testing so I do understand your perspective. Thank you💗
23:11 “I’m HAPPY with it … and I’m HAPPY without it… I acknowledge that what happened in the past was very difficult and sad… but I don’t want to live in the past. I want to MOVE FORWARD. So I am LIVING FOR RIGHT NOW.“ Listen … 👏 your mantra is my mantra now, as well as many other women walking along our path I’m sure. I thank you so much for sharing that and for graciously deciding to share this part of your story with us. Feeling that sympathetic and empathetic connection means a lot to me and I truly hope you know how much I appreciate you and your story. I’m so sorry what happened, that just sucks and there’s nothing that can be said except for that’s just awful and I wish so bad that you were living in the moment that you deserve. 🙏 One day Hellynn, you WILL find yourself walking in blessings that used to be prayers and a whole bunch of infertility warriors that you helped will be there in spirit and cheering you on. 🙌🏻 I’m so glad you found your hope & positivity for this third FET that you are currently in and even more happy that your husband is able to physically be with you for this trying time. I can just visualize him and you celebrating together when the time comes, a union and a true partnership is all about that see-sawing affect and helping each other out when the other one is down and celebrating those highs too. And what a high it will be! May God watch over and protect you both during this time and provide peace & comfort at all moments as well as give way to a guide to any next steps needed. ❤❤❤
Hi Laura!!! Thank you tor this amazing message of hope. You always give me such positive energy and I am so grateful for you, and that we are in this together. Thank you for lifting me up. I hope I can do the same for you. 🙏💗
I am sending you ALL the love and positive vibes your way!!!! YOU GOT THIS! And it's okay to protect yourself. This is YOUR journey. You share what you want when you want to. The fact that you're sharing your journey with us, it's so admirable and you are incredibly strong. ❤❤❤❤❤
I am wishing you a big fat positive ➕❤️ Your videos have helped get me through my own IVF journey and I felt less alone. You have such a beautiful energy and I think you would make the best mama. I hope this so much for you. I did my second 5 day FET last Friday. I tested 6DPT but got a negative. Although it’s not great I’ve read different things so I haven’t tested again and will just wait for the blood test in two days time. It’s been such a long journey. I hope we both get to hold our babies soon.
I'm wishing you so much luck and love dear. I know it's such a stressful time this 2 week wait period. I don't think that I will test this time around either because it causes a lot of anxiety. No matter what happens, I am cheering you on and we are in it together😘 let me know how it goes, You got this mama
dear, i totally understand you, but don't give up! it will work out! My best friend gave birth to a healthy, beautiful son 9 months ago at the age of 52, I myself am about to have my first embryo transfer and I am 49! I tell myself that if it doesn't work out, my life will go on, if it does, so much the better and of course I will be infinitely grateful! But I'm really not putting any pressure on myself. At the moment I'm taking the hormones I need and the transfer should take place in about 2 weeks. It's incredibly important that your thyroid works well and that you take enough magnesium, B6, B12, iron and folic acid. I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you and for myself too!🥰🙏
I just had my first FET 3 days ago and I’m feeling worried since all I feel is mild cramping. I’ve been following your journey and it’s been making me feel less alone. You got this!! All you need is one good embryo! 💕
Hellynn, your RUclips channel feels like such a safe space; thank you from the bottom of my heart for being so vulnerable and sharing your story. You are such an inspiring force and I cannot begin to tell you how deeply I want this for you and your husband. I can sense your positive energy and kind heart. You’re already a mama to those embryos. You know what they say, right? Third times the charm. Praying that this pregnancy goes to fruition. Thank you for sharing your IVF journey .. sending love and light from NY! ❤️
I am so so very hopeful about your journey. I am a mommy of 4 little ones. Am 42. We actually decided AFTER seeing your journey to try naturally again for one last one.... God's willing. I am invested in your journey and wish you all the very best. Am praying for you and every woman that one day wants to be a mommy. 🙏& ❤
Thank you so much for listening to my story. You’re so blessed with for a little ones! I wish you the best of luck on your journey. Sending you lots of baby dust✨💖✨💖✨
Dear Hellynn, I hear you, witness you, support you, and believe in you and this! One foot in front of the other, one baby step at a time. You are doing all the right things and the road is not over. I will be thinking of you and sending you so much loving energy over these next days. 🤗♥️
I started my ivf journey along with you, I ended up with a chemical pregnancy, Feeling devastated and clueless… A part of me want to quit expecting, and loose all hopes.. It was my first ever conception, no more frozen embryos left.. ☹️.. I am looking forward towards your journey, I hope you share the good news with us very soon…!!
I am on my TTC journey. I ended up here because I wanted to educate myself more about IVF. Thank you so much for sharing your story and experience through this challenging process. Listening to you makes me feel like I am listening to my big sister. I am routing for you, Hellynn!
Hellynn I haven’t talked you a while. I would like to leave comment. I feel your pain and I really feel that God has prepared for the stronger baby as much as stronger you are. Keep visualising that baby is in your arms I strongly believe that God has sent perfect baby to perfect couple. You are very strong, faithful and good hearted. It is okay to share hard feelings. I will pray that you will meet him/ hers
Thank you so much for this. I really truly believe that I am just being molded to become the best mother. I will continue to visualize my baby… thank you for being so encouraging and uplifting. ❤❤❤
Praying for you that the third time is your lucky one 🙏 My mantras (for me ttc naturally): "As long as I am not in menopause I still have chances" and "What happened once can happen again".
Thank you for sharing your story. I like how you said you’ll give it your all and not let age deter you. I had a negative comment from a friend who told me that if I wanted a second child I would be too old and 80 by the time my children are in college. I was so taken aback by that especially since I’ve been trying to have 1. Ideally I’d like 2 if faith lets me have it. Keep trying ! If it helps, I would avoid taking a pregnancy test to relieve such anxiety and stress. Let it roll and soon enough you’ll have that miracle baby!!!! Sending you positives your way. Go women!!!!
Thank you for your encouragement! Let's not let negativity affect us in any way, Your friend has no business saying that to you and that's definitely not a very nice thing to say to somebody who is TTC. Don't let it in! Sending you lots of positive vibes and positive vibes only!
This is my first FET, I'm fluctuating in the good and bad thoughts, out of nowhere bad thoughts come to my mind, then I try to pray and fill my soul and heart with positiveness tomorrow is the 10 Day after 3 Day fresh transfe testing day, I hope God bless me
❤ I’m 3dpt and also being cautiously optimistic about it. My heart goes out to you and wishing you all the best. Sending you all of the best vibes and baby dust.
Good luck sweetie!! I totally understand what you are passing through and all the stress and agony. When the science stops, God takes over and I wish to you and your husband strong faith and your baby soon will meet you.
Hi hellynn! I am also 40 years old.i did my first ivf cycle..it was fresh transfer with 2 embryos one was 4AA and other one is 3BA ,I started taking home pregnancy test done always test came very very faint line. I did the blood test 9 days after the transfer it need to be confirmed so repeating it again after 2 days. Then it was confirmed as negative results. So I am waiting to hear from my doctor on Monday. I am really sad about it..
Aw I am so sorry that you are experiencing this anxiety- I know exactly what you are going through and I am sending you a lot of love and support. No matter what results come, please know everything will be okay… we will be okay💗💗💗
Hi Lynn! Thank you for your video. I needed too know I was not only on this one. I'm 42 years old and have had two failed IVF rounds in New Zealand: my embryos didn't make it =( I'm getting ready for my last treatment with the eggs from when I was 40. I will be doing it in my home country Argentina where treatment is cheaper. It's been hard to maintain a positive attitude in preparation for my last round but you sharing your story makes feel more hopeful! Send you all best wishes!
Hi there, thanks for stopping by! I am wishing you so much luck and baby dust. This journey can definitely induce anxiety, please take care of your mental health and heart through this process, and let me know how it goes!❤❤❤
I recently subscribed so I could follow your journey. I'm starting IVF in a few months after a decade of infertility. It's one of the hardest journeys I've ever had. I really hope God gives you all the desires of your heart. I'm supporting you from a distance! ❤
We are all in this together. I know what you mean.. this is a tumultuous journey, but we are just being prepared for something amazing, I know it. I am cheering you on as you embark on this new journey! Let me know how it goes.❤❤
Many doctors dont tell you this but genuinely laugh as much as you can from transfer throughout the first 48hrs. That stress free, light heartedness yields more successful transfers than worrying. I downloaded funny videos, watched my favorite movie (shrek). My husband had jokes for days. My embryo stuck. I have my son. I also did acupuncture immediately after & ate nachos, my favorite.
@@tershaunabroadnax2743 aww thanks for the advice! I love that. Congrats on your family!! I will be right there with you soon. If you’re comfortable sharing, what grade was your embryo and did you test? Thanks!! 🙏
I’m 40 just had a failed fet, I get what you’re going through. It’s tough with all the meds and invasive procedures it’s just the worst when you end up with nothing. I was so sad I was crying for a week . Preparing for my second fet and hoping it works. Id subscribed when I was in the middle of my first fet and and felt like I was in the same boat as you. Love your attitude and I’m sure it’ll happen for us soon enough. All the best and lots of baby dust.
Aww lots of hugs to you. I was also crying quite a bit… we gotta let it out. I am sending you so much love and positive vibes for your next FET. Thank you for sharing your story, and following my story too♥️
I just had my second miscarriage back in January and had one back in September of last year as well so I know what you’re going through and it sucks. I’m doing my 9th transfer may 28th after they canceled my last transfer do to low estrogen and I’m using donor eggs because I’m 45 and have a low amh. Good luck to you.
I am so sorry for your loss, I am sending hugs. I think it’s amazing that you are using donor eggs. Please let me know your progress, sending you lots of baby dust💖💖💖
Thought about you today! You and I had our frozen embryo transfers at the same time! I really really hope you got great news! Keeping you in my prayers!
I am also 41 and also doing IVF abroad (in Spain). I have my first transfer on Monday and I’m so scared. Thank you for sharing your journey. This process can be very isolating and it’s nice to hear others experiences
Let’s try our best to put the fear aside and visualize how happy we are going to be when we finally have our baby. Sending you lots of hugs, we are basically transfer buddies!❤
Hey strong girl! My heart knows you will be a mom. I have never met a stronger woman than you. You are a rock star. I admire you so much. You are my hero. Lots of love and good wishes. Will keep you in my prayers.❤❤❤
Thank you for vlogging your journey.. Im 33 and just starting this journey of egg freezing or deciding on it. even though my situation is a little different your journey is educating and relatable. You are an inspiration, stay positive and know people are rooting you on ! you are so helpfully detailed and genuine I dont feel so alone. thank you again.
Aww thank you so much 💖 Those are very kind words. I empathize tremendously with women going through egg freezing. It is pretty much the same thing, but more having to do with self empowerment. Either way we are on this journey of becoming our best selves. Wishing you luck and love, keep in touch. ❤
Praying for you and your journey. May hope stir in your soul and peace sustain you when you need it. Praying that the God who created you would give you the gift of a beautiful baby.
Hello! A friend did finish all her embryos, including egg donor embryos, just to find afterwards that she has trombophilia and other conditions that produce chemical pregnancies such as KIR-AA. Now she is doing new embryos with very low probabilities because she is older. The normal protocols do not test for these conditions but a good immunologist should find it out. Maybe you can check before your next embryo transfer. My friend believes all this neglect in diagnosing infertility is just a move to take money out from women rushing them into ivf…
Thank you for sharing your story! I am praying for you!! I am ~40 and at the FET stage. I am constantly getting rescheduled coz my linings either low some cycle or is more somecyles. I was looking for vlogs of others on the IVF journey.. You definitely give me hope and strength to stay the course ❤❤Thank you 🙏
@@hellynn_j my doctor keeps switching between medicated and natural for the fet. But, we didnt do fet yet, since my doctor wasn't happy with the linings each time.
You are superwoman and amazing person God will bless you with child don't worry best things takes time to happen and it will happen for sure❤... Love you lady
You are a positive soul, I recently started following your vlogs. I am also 40 and trying naturally fr my 2nd pregnancy. All the best and take my love and hugs for you.
I know how you feel cuz I recently did my transfer. You are not alone my prayers are with you, you are a really strong woman and God will surely make the last one to work. Sending you baby dust
Hi before 3rd embryo trasfer check your uterus this time hysteroscopy test it will tell you everything inside uterus is fine or not, then go for transfer with "Embryo glue" i think these two thing will definitely going to help check your uterus first and detox your body before 3rd trasfer
Thanks for sharing your journey. Don't give up and switch to an animal food based diet with lots of protein and healthy animal fats if you haven't done so. Sending you positive vibes ✨️
Hello I am an Embryologist . In your case you can also try non invasive pgt where no cells are removed from the embryo itself but the media is collected snd checked for euploid/ aneuploid
I admire your strength and positivity despite it all…you and I have very similar fertility conditions and I can only hope to be as strong as you are when my transfer time comes! Sending you lots of love and prayers, may God protect you and fulfill the wishes of your heart! 🙏🏻
저도 한국에서 시험관 할까 정말 많이 고민하다가 여기서 이제 막 시작했어요. 39세 amh 0.7 이구요. 저는 한국에 가족이 없어서 여기서 먼저 시작했는데 가격이랑 의료시스템은 한국이랑 비교 할수가 없어요. 2월에 처음 검사 시작해서 5월5일 이제서야 주사 맞거든요. 한국 이였으면 벌써 시작 했겠죠. $25,000 for two cycles excluding medications, pre exams, anesthesia etc😭 그래서 두번까지 하고 안되면 한국 가려고 해요. 저는 차병원은 난자채취 할때 보호자가 있어야 한다고 해서 다른 병원으로 갈것 같은데 좋은 병원이니 꼭 잘 되셨으면 좋겠어요. 쉽지 않은 길 이지만 아가가 느리게 오니 우리가 빨리 가야겠죠. 꼭 되실겁니다! 진심으로 응원할게요
안녕하세요~~ 여기서 처음으로 한글을 쓰게 되네요ㅎㅎ 반가워요!! 맞아요.. 미국은 무엇이든 느리고 비싸요ㅠ 미국이시죠? 한국분이시면 정부에서 지원금도 받을 수 있으시겠지만… 집이 최고인 듯 해요. 집에서 다니면서 할 수있다면 그렇게 하시는게 제일 좋은것 같아요! 저는 사실 난자 채취 할 때 혼자 간 적도 있어요. 차병원에서는 보호자가 필요하다고는 했지만.. 끝나고 바로 택시 타고 집에 갔는데 크게 상관 없더라구요. 보호자랑 함께 갈수있다면 제일 좋겠지만요😅 잘되실거애요!! 마음 편안하게 하시고 두번 안에 꼭 성공 하시기를 응원 할게요. Keep in touch!! Let me know how it goes!! 🥰🤞❤️❤️
Sending SO much love and good vibes your way! Praying for a healthy pregnancy for you and baby/babies! You’re right, what’s meant for you, will never pass you by ❤️. I’ll have to keep reminding myself of that. I’m 42 and right there with you. You’re not alone! Someone as kind-hearted as you deserves all the blessings & I truly hope this is your happily ever after 🙏❤. Thank you for allowing yourself to be vulnerable and sharing your journey with us…if it weren’t for people like you, so many of us battling with infertility would feel so alone. Thank you & God bless 🙏. It’s going to happen! ❤❤❤
Oh my goodness thank you so much for this heartfelt message. I am praying for you too. I really truly appreciate the positivity that I can feel from your comment… In fact, you are making me not feel alone!❤ we got this.
@@hellynn_j I somehow feel your positivity too 🥰. I know what you mean about wanting to protect your energy…a convo w/ you feels like a safe space though and I’m grateful to have chatted…even through You Tube! Lol. It helps ❤️ Thank you so much for prayers sent my way; please know that they are greatly appreciated 🙏! ...and, yes, we’ve totally got this! 🙂❤️
Hi Hellyn I want to admire you for being so strong and sharing your story. Like a lot of people have already said you are strong and don’t give up on hope. I’m in my late 30’s and also in this trying to conceive journey. I read the book “ It Starts With The Egg “ and applied a lot of the health suggestions and started taking a lot I mean a lot of supplements that are also suggested in this book for Low AMH as that is what I have and to my surprise right before starting our first IVF cycle I got pregnant. I’m currently still very early on just 6 weeks but I wanted to share so you know there is still hope and I know you will get that BFP soon. Can I also suggest you ask your doctor about the ERA test. They might be transferring too soon or too late. It never hurts to ask questions and do one more test if that will help you get pregnant. You are in my thoughts and prayers for a successful 3rd round.
Thank you so much for your advice. I’ve read a summary of the book and I follow the practices within it. Congratulations on your pregnancy!! I will definitely inquire about the ERA test again, my doctor told me that it wasn’t necessary unless I was having symptoms of infection so I left it alone but I think I should pursue it again if this round doesn’t work out. I find out if my third round was successful or not, but I’m not really expecting anything! Thank you so much for all your advice, and I wish the best for you and your growing baby!❤️❤️❤️
It’s great that you’re feeling like that. I’m going through my third transfer and my mindset is exactly like yours. I’m very grateful and happy. Praying for you!
I never tested embryos cause we’re Catholics, so that was always a no no for me. The only things I did differently where: increased exercise (strength training), I did a B1 megadose (100mg 3 x day) and some red light therapy during the two week wait (I use a red light belt)
Thank you so much for sharing your story. You sharing has truly been a blessing as I embark on the same process of IVF. Your positivity radiates and I'm sending positivity and prayers your way
I had two failed transfers, i had those pgt tested from the beginning. My endomatrial lining was around 8mm to 9mm. In first transfer i had accupenture on the day of transfer and they used embryo glue. Second time they did PRP 5days before transfer. This time i have second opinion from two doctors. They both recommend me to do ERA test. And another doctor said he will do two transfer 1day apart. One transfer according to ERA test and second by my natural date. I don't have any good tested embryo left so we will have to more pick up.
Thank you for sharing your story. My understanding is that PRP is usually done a few months ahead of time before the egg retrieval, maybe this is a different kind of PRP? I wish you the best of luck for your next step. Keep me posted.❤❤❤
Thank you so much for sharing in the midst of your waiting. You are so brave and I know that God sees that and your desire to strengthen and encourage others. I pray that God will bless you with a beautiful and healthy baby!!
I’m rooting for you, Hellynn！ This is not an easy journey and am glad your husband can be by your side to be with you every step of the way this time. Hope to hear good news on your next video.
Hellynn, wish you all the best of luck with your next embryo transfer. Stay strong and positive. My thoughts are with you. Looking forward to your update.
Sending you positive energy and baby dust! I loved your mantra of what is meant for you will never miss! soon you will be holding your 🌈 baby or babies ❤
Thank you for sharing your fertility journey with us. You’ve come this far so stay strong, positive and know that you are surrounded by much love and support. I wish you all the best❤❤
Hello, I just recently followed your channel, you gave me such good vibes even just watching you through a screen!, you give us women that are TTC hope and courage! Sending you lots of baby dust your way! ❤
Please join the Facebook group I just started so that we can support each other! I’ll share updates and info about getting IVF in Korea there for those interested. facebook.com/groups/1058899261969918/
I got pregnant at 42 after failing two IVF cycles. Don’t give up!
Thank you for the hope❤❤
Oh! That gives me hope. May i ask how your AMH was before u started IVF?
@@asyajourney4923it was high like over 6.3 or something. It’s because I had PCOS. I had a lot of eggs but it didn’t mean they were in good quality due to my age. So although I retrieved a lot of eggs only a few fertilized and reached blastocyst stage. And out of those only one was genetically normal. On my last IVF cycle I had 3 normal embryos. Meaning you never know what each cycle will bring. Keep trying. It’s worth it. My baby boy is the greatest joy of my life!
Listen Hellynn! You are so strong and you’ve got this. I wish that you get a BIG FAT POSITIVE! I’m 45yrs old and after my first FET, I’m progressing nicely. I too did embryo banking (1-2 eggs retrieved per cycle), but through a mini IVF protocol with an awesome doctor in NYC - Dr. John Zhang (New Hope Fertility). Mini IVF is very cost effective and less stimulation involved. I believe that is best for women over 40. My HCG continues to rise, and I’m so happy. If you can withstand it, don’t give up! ❤❤❤❤
Congratulations🎉🎉🎉 this makes me so happy you don’t even know. I hope that everything goes perfectly for you moving forward as well. Please let me know how it goes!!❤
Thank you! I will keep you posted! There is hope for us! ❤
@@dentistsu29hello dear, are you talking about New hope in dubai?
@@HE..n Hi! No. I’m talking about New Hope Fertility Center in (Midtown) Manhattan, NY. If you look up the doctor, (John Zhang) who is the Medical Director there, you can find it. There is also a female doctor and 2 other male doctors who all treat fertility in the same way - extremely personalized to each woman based on her age/circumstances. ❤❤❤❤
Hang in there! ❤ in your 40s it’s very much a numbers game of going through enough embryos to get to a genetically viable one. Try and think of every “failure” as getting closer in the odds to the one that will work ❤❤
I totally agree with you, thank you so much for your encouragement❤❤❤
I’m just starting my first FET and we only have one embryo. It’s been tested and they said it’s a high grade. But I’m mentally preparing for it not to work. My husband is optimistic. I’m hopeful but also trying to contain any excitement until I get a positive pregnancy result. Sending you lots of positive energy. I know it’s so tough. I love what you said about how if something is meant for you it will not miss. That’s so encouraging.
I think you can allow yourself to be hopeful! I am sending you so much positive energy, and baby dust. Let me know how it goes!❤
I’ve never been more invested in a strangers story than yours. Sending you as much positive energy as I can! Hoping 3rd time is a charm for you!
Aww thank you so much. I can feel the good energy. ❤❤
You will make it, dear! ❤ I have transferred my hatching baby 5 days ago and my first symptom was mild constant headache 🙏🏻 I am also providing updates on RUclips bcs I think videos like those are so important. Thank you for sharing your story, I see you, I feel you and I am sending tons of love, dear! You have got this! ❤
@@BiancaRLima Sending you so much love as you go through your 2ww!! I will be stopping by to see the videos. Thank you for your uplifting message today💗
@@hellynn_j thank you! We need to grow our community to feel less lonely. I am here for you!😘
Also definitely agree with your decision not to test! Even if it takes longer going through the ones that may not work it’s better to give every embryo the chance. There are hundreds of women in facebook groups who had healthy babies from mosaics and even abnormals. I saw an article recently about how studies on the benefits of PGT are skewed and people who previously championed it are changing their minds. My aunt did not test embryos made over many rounds at 43/44 and after several failures and miscarriages she was able to have 2 children from them at 45 and 51. One of those was a poorly graded embryo too! Persistence is the key at this age, you’ll get there in time ❤
Thank you so much for sharing this story. This is very encouraging and beautiful to hear.❤
Hello! Thank you for sharing this!!!! I agree with you!
Where I live (Scandinavia) PGT is only recommended if you have a specific condition you need to screen for. Generally it doesn't increase the chance of conceiving in other situations.
@@hellynn_jI’m going to give you the opposite opinion. I disagree with your decision not to test. Here’s why:
1. The study everyone references where “abnormal” embryos become healthy babies is seriously flawed. If you read the fine print, that study included a dozen or so embryos with “no result” not just embryos deemed abnormal. Statistically embryos that come back as “no result” are chromosomally normal 50% of the time. This would account for the majority of the supposedly abnormal embryos that led to success in the study.
2. Yes, mosaic embryos have a decent chance of success. But PGT testing would identify those and you could transfer them.
3. Lost time. The time wasted transferring abnormal embryos, could better be spent doing more egg retrievals to get a normal embryo.
4. Too many assumptions. Not testing at your age assumes that your only challenge to getting pregnant is Chromosomal abnormalities. You don’t know that. Plenty of women make PGT normal embryos, only for transfers to not take in their uterus. They move on to a surrogate and it works. The uterus is a whole other part of the equation that you won’t know could be a problem. Chemicals and miscarriages at your age will be assumed to be due to chromosomal abnormalities and uterine issues will be overlooked.
I can use my own story as an example. My first transfer with a chromsomally normal embryo resulted in a miscarriage at 6 weeks. Because the embryo was tested, doctors knew to look to my uterus for answers. I had a uterine biopsy which determined I had a uterine infection that needed to be cleared. I cleared that and my next PGT tested transfer worked- just entered my third trimester.
Had I not had the first embryo tested doctors would have assumed chromosomal abnormalities (I was 38/39) and not checked my uterus and I would have miscarried again.
5. The possibility of future termination of pregnancy. The chances of Chromosomal abnormalities are high at your age. I was 38 and newly 39 during my three retrievals. My results where: round 1: 1/3 normal, round 2: 1/2 normal, round 3: 1/6 normal and 1 mosaic.
You don’t want to have a “successful” pregnancy only to get further along and be faced with the decision to terminate. Not all chromosomal abnormalities miscarry early.
I am probably the opposite of what you described yourself as in kind of “fantasizing”. I forgot the exact term you used. Not to say I never fantasize or dream, but when it came to getting pregnant I looked at it very logically and methodically. When you are struggling to get pregnant, you want to eliminate as many variables are you can, so that you can find answers and solve problems. Without PGT testing you are leaving a huge variable unanswered.
Also I believe a lot of the studies on PGT testing are old and not up to date. PGT testing is a lot more reliable now than it was previously. One way we know this is that NIPT results for PGT tested embryos very rarely comes back as abnormal- the results are way lower than the general population that uses NIPT tests.
In a world where you want to give yourself the highest chance of success possible, you don’t want to use “exceptions” to make the rule. Abnormal embryos becoming babies are exceptions.. extremely rare exceptions, that like I said, are often questioned- could be a flawed study or even flawed test results. Pregnancies with PGT tested embryos being abnormal also happen but they are extremely rare and are the exception.
Anyway… that’s my two cents. Hope you take it as I meant it, respectfully. Good luck!
@@Jennifer-fk8kb thank you for your views, they are appreciated, and I understand them. The reason why we committed to not testing was because I had already transferred a few untested at that point and thought we might as well stick to not testing for the rest of this batch because there were only a few left, and we would just transfer multiples. Also, the last transfer I went through, my embryos had only grown to day four, so you can’t test at that stage. Never said that I was fantasizing about anything to do with PGT, but I did say I have a naivete about my overall success, and that I was hopeful. I think the study you are referring to might be different from the one I read because it entailed a larger group than that, while still small. Anyway, I also said that I was open to testing in the future if I had to do more retrievals, and I also said that I am not against testing so I do understand your perspective. Thank you💗
23:11 “I’m HAPPY with it … and I’m HAPPY without it… I acknowledge that what happened in the past was very difficult and sad… but I don’t want to live in the past. I want to MOVE FORWARD. So I am LIVING FOR RIGHT NOW.“
Listen … 👏 your mantra is my mantra now, as well as many other women walking along our path I’m sure. I thank you so much for sharing that and for graciously deciding to share this part of your story with us. Feeling that sympathetic and empathetic connection means a lot to me and I truly hope you know how much I appreciate you and your story.
I’m so sorry what happened, that just sucks and there’s nothing that can be said except for that’s just awful and I wish so bad that you were living in the moment that you deserve. 🙏
One day Hellynn, you WILL find yourself walking in blessings that used to be prayers and a whole bunch of infertility warriors that you helped will be there in spirit and cheering you on. 🙌🏻
I’m so glad you found your hope & positivity for this third FET that you are currently in and even more happy that your husband is able to physically be with you for this trying time. I can just visualize him and you celebrating together when the time comes, a union and a true partnership is all about that see-sawing affect and helping each other out when the other one is down and celebrating those highs too. And what a high it will be!
May God watch over and protect you both during this time and provide peace & comfort at all moments as well as give way to a guide to any next steps needed. ❤❤❤
Hi Laura!!! Thank you tor this amazing message of hope. You always give me such positive energy and I am so grateful for you, and that we are in this together. Thank you for lifting me up. I hope I can do the same for you. 🙏💗
I am sending you ALL the love and positive vibes your way!!!! YOU GOT THIS! And it's okay to protect yourself. This is YOUR journey. You share what you want when you want to. The fact that you're sharing your journey with us, it's so admirable and you are incredibly strong. ❤❤❤❤❤
Aw thank you for your kind words. Thank you for being on this journey with me. I really appreciate you💗💗💗💗💗
I am wishing you a big fat positive ➕❤️ Your videos have helped get me through my own IVF journey and I felt less alone. You have such a beautiful energy and I think you would make the best mama. I hope this so much for you. I did my second 5 day FET last Friday. I tested 6DPT but got a negative. Although it’s not great I’ve read different things so I haven’t tested again and will just wait for the blood test in two days time. It’s been such a long journey. I hope we both get to hold our babies soon.
I'm wishing you so much luck and love dear. I know it's such a stressful time this 2 week wait period. I don't think that I will test this time around either because it causes a lot of anxiety. No matter what happens, I am cheering you on and we are in it together😘 let me know how it goes, You got this mama
dear, i totally understand you, but don't give up! it will work out! My best friend gave birth to a healthy, beautiful son 9 months ago at the age of 52, I myself am about to have my first embryo transfer and I am 49! I tell myself that if it doesn't work out, my life will go on, if it does, so much the better and of course I will be infinitely grateful! But I'm really not putting any pressure on myself. At the moment I'm taking the hormones I need and the transfer should take place in about 2 weeks. It's incredibly important that your thyroid works well and that you take enough magnesium, B6, B12, iron and folic acid. I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you and for myself too!🥰🙏
Hey there. Wishing you lots of good luck on your journey! Prayers for both of us. 💖
@@hellynn_j 🥰thank you so much🤗
I just had my first FET 3 days ago and I’m feeling worried since all I feel is mild cramping. I’ve been following your journey and it’s been making me feel less alone. You got this!! All you need is one good embryo! 💕
Oh nice, we are transfer buddies! Don’t worry, just try to do things to relax and make yourself happy! We got this!! Cheering you on💖💖
@@hellynn_j I’ll keep you in my prayers! You got this! We both do! 💕
Good luck!!! Single mother by choice here. I did IVF and FET.
Love that. Nice to meet you… thank you for the luck💗💗💗
Hellynn, your RUclips channel feels like such a safe space; thank you from the bottom of my heart for being so vulnerable and sharing your story. You are such an inspiring force and I cannot begin to tell you how deeply I want this for you and your husband. I can sense your positive energy and kind heart. You’re already a mama to those embryos. You know what they say, right? Third times the charm. Praying that this pregnancy goes to fruition. Thank you for sharing your IVF journey .. sending love and light from NY! ❤️
Thank you so much for your kindness! Thank you for being a part of my journey, it really does mean so much to me.❤
I am so so very hopeful about your journey. I am a mommy of 4 little ones. Am 42. We actually decided AFTER seeing your journey to try naturally again for one last one.... God's willing. I am invested in your journey and wish you all the very best. Am praying for you and every woman that one day wants to be a mommy. 🙏& ❤
Thank you so much for listening to my story. You’re so blessed with for a little ones! I wish you the best of luck on your journey. Sending you lots of baby dust✨💖✨💖✨
Dear Hellynn, I hear you, witness you, support you, and believe in you and this! One foot in front of the other, one baby step at a time. You are doing all the right things and the road is not over. I will be thinking of you and sending you so much loving energy over these next days. 🤗♥️
Hi Zara, sending you so much positive energy. We got this.
I started my ivf journey along with you, I ended up with a chemical pregnancy, Feeling devastated and clueless…
A part of me want to quit expecting, and loose all hopes..
It was my first ever conception, no more frozen embryos left.. ☹️..
I am looking forward towards your journey, I hope you share the good news with us very soon…!!
Thank you for sharing. We are in this together. What are your next steps? Wishing you luck and love ❤❤❤
I am on my TTC journey. I ended up here because I wanted to educate myself more about IVF. Thank you so much for sharing your story and experience through this challenging process. Listening to you makes me feel like I am listening to my big sister. I am routing for you, Hellynn!
Aw thank you love.. Thank you for following my story ♥️ wishing you so much baby dust🙏💖✨
Hellynn I haven’t talked you a while. I would like to leave comment. I feel your pain and I really feel that God has prepared for the stronger baby as much as stronger you are.
Keep visualising that baby is in your arms I strongly believe that God has sent perfect baby to perfect couple. You are very strong, faithful and good hearted. It is okay to share hard feelings. I will pray that you will meet him/ hers
Thank you so much for this. I really truly believe that I am just being molded to become the best mother. I will continue to visualize my baby… thank you for being so encouraging and uplifting. ❤❤❤
Dear God , please grant her heart desires. Praying for this to stick and successfully carry to term
Amen. 🙏 ❤ thank you.
Praying for you that the third time is your lucky one 🙏
My mantras (for me ttc naturally): "As long as I am not in menopause I still have chances" and "What happened once can happen again".
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Thank you for sharing your story. I like how you said you’ll give it your all and not let age deter you. I had a negative comment from a friend who told me that if I wanted a second child I would be too old and 80 by the time my children are in college. I was so taken aback by that especially since I’ve been trying to have 1. Ideally I’d like 2 if faith lets me have it. Keep trying ! If it helps, I would avoid taking a pregnancy test to relieve such anxiety and stress. Let it roll and soon enough you’ll have that miracle baby!!!! Sending you positives your way. Go women!!!!
Thank you for your encouragement! Let's not let negativity affect us in any way, Your friend has no business saying that to you and that's definitely not a very nice thing to say to somebody who is TTC. Don't let it in! Sending you lots of positive vibes and positive vibes only!
This is my first FET, I'm fluctuating in the good and bad thoughts, out of nowhere bad thoughts come to my mind, then I try to pray and fill my soul and heart with positiveness tomorrow is the 10 Day after 3 Day fresh transfe testing day, I hope God bless me
@@english_express360 wishing you so much baby dust! Think happy relaxing thoughts until your beta♥️
❤ I’m 3dpt and also being cautiously optimistic about it. My heart goes out to you and wishing you all the best. Sending you all of the best vibes and baby dust.
Thank you so much! Let me know how it goes. Sending lots of calming, happy vibes!!❤
@@hellynn_j thank you, definitely will :)
Here are the high vibes you asked for and deserve! I hope you’re happy and feel celebrated by your husband and this community you are building ❤
Hi there, thank you so much for the great energy! I needed this today❤
Good luck sweetie!! I totally understand what you are passing through and all the stress and agony. When the science stops, God takes over and I wish to you and your husband strong faith and your baby soon will meet you.
‘When the science stops, God takes over’ I love that. Thank you so much 💗
Hi hellynn!
I am also 40 years old.i did my first ivf cycle..it was fresh transfer with 2 embryos one was 4AA and other one is 3BA ,I started taking home pregnancy test done always test came very very faint line.
I did the blood test 9 days after the transfer it need to be confirmed so repeating it again after 2 days.
Then it was confirmed as negative results. So I am waiting to hear from my doctor on Monday. I am really sad about it..
Aw I am so sorry that you are experiencing this anxiety- I know exactly what you are going through and I am sending you a lot of love and support. No matter what results come, please know everything will be okay… we will be okay💗💗💗
Hi Lynn! Thank you for your video. I needed too know I was not only on this one. I'm 42 years old and have had two failed IVF rounds in New Zealand: my embryos didn't make it =( I'm getting ready for my last treatment with the eggs from when I was 40. I will be doing it in my home country Argentina where treatment is cheaper. It's been hard to maintain a positive attitude in preparation for my last round but you sharing your story makes feel more hopeful! Send you all best wishes!
Hi there, thanks for stopping by! I am wishing you so much luck and baby dust. This journey can definitely induce anxiety, please take care of your mental health and heart through this process, and let me know how it goes!❤❤❤
By now you should already know the results, but I just want to let you know how amazing and courageous you are. I am really hoping for a BFP ❤
I am rooting for you baby!
Don’t forget, You are a force of nature and you can do anything!! Sending you all the positive vibes and baby dust!!!!
Awww thank you so much for this!!! ❤❤❤
My mantra is, “I will be a mom someday.”
Families come in many ways 🫶
(Ps cute haircut 💇🏻♀️ 😊)
Sending you baby dust ✨
Thanks 😊❤
Girl we are praying for you!!
My amh low o. O66 and fsh higher 13.4 😢😢😢
From the bottom of my heart, all the best and highest vibes on this journey✨ I have a good feeling about this one transfer!
Omg, thank you so much!!❤❤❤
I recently subscribed so I could follow your journey. I'm starting IVF in a few months after a decade of infertility. It's one of the hardest journeys I've ever had. I really hope God gives you all the desires of your heart. I'm supporting you from a distance! ❤
We are all in this together. I know what you mean.. this is a tumultuous journey, but we are just being prepared for something amazing, I know it. I am cheering you on as you embark on this new journey! Let me know how it goes.❤❤
Many doctors dont tell you this but genuinely laugh as much as you can from transfer throughout the first 48hrs. That stress free, light heartedness yields more successful transfers than worrying. I downloaded funny videos, watched my favorite movie (shrek). My husband had jokes for days. My embryo stuck. I have my son. I also did acupuncture immediately after & ate nachos, my favorite.
@@tershaunabroadnax2743 aww thanks for the advice! I love that. Congrats on your family!! I will be right there with you soon. If you’re comfortable sharing, what grade was your embryo and did you test? Thanks!! 🙏
Just believe in your body , sleep a lot and love yourself, you are a beautiful and strong human being. Praying for you ❤
Thank you so much for your kindness🙏❤️
I’m 40 just had a failed fet, I get what you’re going through. It’s tough with all the meds and invasive procedures it’s just the worst when you end up with nothing. I was so sad I was crying for a week . Preparing for my second fet and hoping it works. Id subscribed when I was in the middle of my first fet and and felt like I was in the same boat as you. Love your attitude and I’m sure it’ll happen for us soon enough. All the best and lots of baby dust.
Aww lots of hugs to you. I was also crying quite a bit… we gotta let it out. I am sending you so much love and positive vibes for your next FET. Thank you for sharing your story, and following my story too♥️
Sending you loads of hugs, stay positive it will be good news soon. Your lovely smiles is beautiful ❤❤❤❤
@@fatimookunnu1456 Thank you so much for your lovely comment! Very sweet❤
I just had my second miscarriage back in January and had one back in September of last year as well so I know what you’re going through and it sucks. I’m doing my 9th transfer may 28th after they canceled my last transfer do to low estrogen and I’m using donor eggs because I’m 45 and have a low amh. Good luck to you.
I am so sorry for your loss, I am sending hugs. I think it’s amazing that you are using donor eggs. Please let me know your progress, sending you lots of baby dust💖💖💖
Thought about you today! You and I had our frozen embryo transfers at the same time! I really really hope you got great news! Keeping you in my prayers!
Hope you got good news! Sending good vibes❤
Praying for you❤
Stay strong and positive 😊
Dear Hellyn, you WILL BE HAPPY with it or without it. I wish the best for you! May God bless you. God loves you and has the best plan for you❤❤❤
I am also 41 and also doing IVF abroad (in Spain). I have my first transfer on Monday and I’m so scared. Thank you for sharing your journey. This process can be very isolating and it’s nice to hear others experiences
Let’s try our best to put the fear aside and visualize how happy we are going to be when we finally have our baby. Sending you lots of hugs, we are basically transfer buddies!❤
I pray to God that you receive amazing news soon!
Hey strong girl! My heart knows you will be a mom. I have never met a stronger woman than you. You are a rock star. I admire you so much. You are my hero. Lots of love and good wishes. Will keep you in my prayers.❤❤❤
Thank you for your uplifting energy!❤❤❤
Thank you for vlogging your journey.. Im 33 and just starting this journey of egg freezing or deciding on it. even though my situation is a little different your journey is educating and relatable. You are an inspiration, stay positive and know people are rooting you on ! you are so helpfully detailed and genuine I dont feel so alone. thank you again.
Aww thank you so much 💖 Those are very kind words. I empathize tremendously with women going through egg freezing. It is pretty much the same thing, but more having to do with self empowerment. Either way we are on this journey of becoming our best selves. Wishing you luck and love, keep in touch. ❤
Praying for you and your journey. May hope stir in your soul and peace sustain you when you need it. Praying that the God who created you would give you the gift of a beautiful baby.
Thank you so much, that means a lot to me 🙏❤️
Don’t give up! God will definitely bless you. Praying for a positive pregnancy. Your videos have encouraged me to be hopeful. 🥰
That makes me so happy to hear. Sending you lots of positivity.💗
Following your journey and sending baby dust your way! Thank you for sharing your story with us!
You are so welcome! Thank you so much for your kind words, and being a part of my journey.💖💖
Hello! A friend did finish all her embryos, including egg donor embryos, just to find afterwards that she has trombophilia and other conditions that produce chemical pregnancies such as KIR-AA. Now she is doing new embryos with very low probabilities because she is older. The normal protocols do not test for these conditions but a good immunologist should find it out. Maybe you can check before your next embryo transfer. My friend believes all this neglect in diagnosing infertility is just a move to take money out from women rushing them into ivf…
Thank you for the tip, I will definitely ask about this. I did do a blood panel for immune issues prior to transferring, so I will ask.
Thank you for sharing your story! I am praying for you!!
I am ~40 and at the FET stage. I am constantly getting rescheduled coz my linings either low some cycle or is more somecyles. I was looking for vlogs of others on the IVF journey.. You definitely give me hope and strength to stay the course ❤❤Thank you 🙏
Thank you for being a part of my journey! Glad to have you part of the community💗 Are you doing a medicated cycle or natural cycle FET?
@@hellynn_j my doctor keeps switching between medicated and natural for the fet. But, we didnt do fet yet, since my doctor wasn't happy with the linings each time.
You are superwoman and amazing person God will bless you with child don't worry best things takes time to happen and it will happen for sure❤... Love you lady
Thank you for this sweet and uplifting message! Love you back. 💖
My first FET is around 1 may, I am nervous but hopeful
@@sonalikatiwari279 sending you lots of baby dust! You got this!!
Thank you so much I hope both will share good news together ❤❤
You are a positive soul, I recently started following your vlogs. I am also 40 and trying naturally fr my 2nd pregnancy. All the best and take my love and hugs for you.
Thank you, love. You are so kind. Sending you lots of baby dust ✨✨✨✨✨
I know how you feel cuz I recently did my transfer. You are not alone my prayers are with you, you are a really strong woman and God will surely make the last one to work. Sending you baby dust
Thank you for your kindness. Your prayers mean a lot to me. ❤
I just started my first FET journey and came across your videos. Wish you all the best... You got this!
Thank you so much! Wishing you so much luck on your transfer💗
Hi before 3rd embryo trasfer check your uterus this time hysteroscopy test it will tell you everything inside uterus is fine or not, then go for transfer with "Embryo glue" i think these two thing will definitely going to help check your uterus first and detox your body before 3rd trasfer
Thank you for the advice!
Thanks for sharing your journey. Don't give up and switch to an animal food based diet with lots of protein and healthy animal fats if you haven't done so. Sending you positive vibes ✨️
Hey lovely! Don’t worry for anything, you will definitely get a good news. Stay strong please ❤
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Hello I am an Embryologist . In your case you can also try non invasive pgt where no cells are removed from the embryo itself but the media is collected snd checked for euploid/ aneuploid
Hi there, thank you for the suggestion I will definitely talk to my doctor about it💖
I admire your strength and positivity despite it all…you and I have very similar fertility conditions and I can only hope to be as strong as you are when my transfer time comes! Sending you lots of love and prayers, may God protect you and fulfill the wishes of your heart! 🙏🏻
Thank you for your uplifting words. We are all in this together. Sending you love and light💗💗💗
Sending love and Positivity, I just transferred again myself for the fourth time Prayers that this is it❤
Thank you 🙏 Sending you massive amounts of baby dust!
I send you as much positive energy as I can!
I'm rooting for you!!!
저도 한국에서 시험관 할까 정말 많이 고민하다가 여기서 이제 막 시작했어요.
39세 amh 0.7 이구요.
저는 한국에 가족이 없어서 여기서 먼저 시작했는데 가격이랑 의료시스템은 한국이랑 비교 할수가 없어요.
2월에 처음 검사 시작해서 5월5일 이제서야 주사 맞거든요.
한국 이였으면 벌써 시작 했겠죠.
$25,000 for two cycles excluding medications, pre exams, anesthesia etc😭
그래서 두번까지 하고 안되면 한국 가려고 해요.
저는 차병원은 난자채취 할때 보호자가 있어야 한다고 해서 다른 병원으로 갈것 같은데 좋은 병원이니 꼭 잘 되셨으면 좋겠어요.
쉽지 않은 길 이지만 아가가 느리게 오니 우리가 빨리 가야겠죠.
꼭 되실겁니다! 진심으로 응원할게요
안녕하세요~~ 여기서 처음으로 한글을 쓰게 되네요ㅎㅎ 반가워요!!
맞아요.. 미국은 무엇이든 느리고 비싸요ㅠ 미국이시죠? 한국분이시면 정부에서 지원금도 받을 수 있으시겠지만… 집이 최고인 듯 해요. 집에서 다니면서 할 수있다면 그렇게 하시는게 제일 좋은것 같아요!
저는 사실 난자 채취 할 때 혼자 간 적도 있어요. 차병원에서는 보호자가 필요하다고는 했지만.. 끝나고 바로 택시 타고 집에 갔는데 크게 상관 없더라구요. 보호자랑 함께 갈수있다면 제일 좋겠지만요😅
잘되실거애요!! 마음 편안하게 하시고 두번 안에 꼭 성공 하시기를 응원 할게요. Keep in touch!! Let me know how it goes!! 🥰🤞❤️❤️
Sending you prayers and baby dust. My daughter just had her egg retrieval, awaiting genetic testing. Good luck!!!❤
Thank you! I'm sending your daughter positive energy!!💗
Sending SO much love and good vibes your way! Praying for a healthy pregnancy for you and baby/babies! You’re right, what’s meant for you, will never pass you by ❤️. I’ll have to keep reminding myself of that. I’m 42 and right there with you. You’re not alone! Someone as kind-hearted as you deserves all the blessings & I truly hope this is your happily ever after 🙏❤. Thank you for allowing yourself to be vulnerable and sharing your journey with us…if it weren’t for people like you, so many of us battling with infertility would feel so alone. Thank you & God bless 🙏. It’s going to happen! ❤❤❤
Oh my goodness thank you so much for this heartfelt message. I am praying for you too. I really truly appreciate the positivity that I can feel from your comment… In fact, you are making me not feel alone!❤ we got this.
@@hellynn_j I somehow feel your positivity too 🥰. I know what you mean about wanting to protect your energy…a convo w/ you feels like a safe space though and I’m grateful to have chatted…even through You Tube! Lol. It helps ❤️ Thank you so much for prayers sent my way; please know that they are greatly appreciated 🙏! ...and, yes, we’ve totally got this! 🙂❤️
I’ve been waiting for your update! I go for my HSG next week. Sending baby dust to you ❤❤❤
Good luck! Make sure to take some tylenol beforehand 💗
Hi Hellyn I want to admire you for being so strong and sharing your story. Like a lot of people have already said you are strong and don’t give up on hope. I’m in my late 30’s and also in this trying to conceive journey. I read the book “ It Starts With The Egg “ and applied a lot of the health suggestions and started taking a lot I mean a lot of supplements that are also suggested in this book for Low AMH as that is what I have and to my surprise right before starting our first IVF cycle I got pregnant. I’m currently still very early on just 6 weeks but I wanted to share so you know there is still hope and I know you will get that BFP soon. Can I also suggest you ask your doctor about the ERA test. They might be transferring too soon or too late. It never hurts to ask questions and do one more test if that will help you get pregnant. You are in my thoughts and prayers for a successful 3rd round.
Thank you so much for your advice. I’ve read a summary of the book and I follow the practices within it. Congratulations on your pregnancy!! I will definitely inquire about the ERA test again, my doctor told me that it wasn’t necessary unless I was having symptoms of infection so I left it alone but I think I should pursue it again if this round doesn’t work out. I find out if my third round was successful or not, but I’m not really expecting anything! Thank you so much for all your advice, and I wish the best for you and your growing baby!❤️❤️❤️
It’s great that you’re feeling like that. I’m going through my third transfer and my mindset is exactly like yours. I’m very grateful and happy. Praying for you!
Rooting for you! Let me know how it goes❤️😊
My third transfer didn’t work but my forth did! I’m pregnant at 43! Don’t give up❤
@@lusbrighi a big big congratulations!! What did you do differently? Were they tested embryos? I am so happy for you 🥹❤️
I never tested embryos cause we’re Catholics, so that was always a no no for me. The only things I did differently where: increased exercise (strength training), I did a B1 megadose (100mg 3 x day) and some red light therapy during the two week wait (I use a red light belt)
@@lusbrighi thanks for the tips. Congrats again, I hope my fourth transfer is the one that works too! ❤
You're such a strong woman! Whatever happens, wishing you all the best! I'm also in my early 40s and going to do my first FET soon. 🙏
Wishing you so much luck!! Thank you for listening to my story❤❤❤
All the best ! Sending positive vibes to you ❤ ❤
Thank you so very much!!!🥰
Thank you so much for sharing your story. You sharing has truly been a blessing as I embark on the same process of IVF. Your positivity radiates and I'm sending positivity and prayers your way
Thank you so much!
Sending a lot of good vibes, prayers and positive energy your way! Good luck Hellynn.
Thank you so much♥️♥️♥️
Wishing you the very best of luck with this 3rd FET!!! Crossing fingers for a positive outcome 🍀
Thank you so very much! It means the world to me❤
Next embriyo transfer before u test tha ERA test then tansfer embriyo it good result gives u sister
I had two failed transfers, i had those pgt tested from the beginning. My endomatrial lining was around 8mm to 9mm. In first transfer i had accupenture on the day of transfer and they used embryo glue. Second time they did PRP 5days before transfer. This time i have second opinion from two doctors. They both recommend me to do ERA test. And another doctor said he will do two transfer 1day apart. One transfer according to ERA test and second by my natural date. I don't have any good tested embryo left so we will have to more pick up.
Thank you for sharing your story. My understanding is that PRP is usually done a few months ahead of time before the egg retrieval, maybe this is a different kind of PRP? I wish you the best of luck for your next step. Keep me posted.❤❤❤
@hellynn_j yes....they also do just before transfer as well for blood flow. Good luck with the next transfer and stay brave.
May God see you through this you’ve been through it all 🙏🏾
@@nancychepkemoi4297 Thank you so much 🙏♥️
Thoughts and prayers ❤
Thank you so much! ❤
Thank you so much for sharing in the midst of your waiting. You are so brave and I know that God sees that and your desire to strengthen and encourage others. I pray that God will bless you with a beautiful and healthy baby!!
Aww thank you so much, love❤
I’m rooting for you, Hellynn！ This is not an easy journey and am glad your husband can be by your side to be with you every step of the way this time. Hope to hear good news on your next video.
Thank you so much! 💖💖💖
Praying for you!! ❤❤❤
Praying for the good news! sending you all the positive vibes from NY!
Thank you so much love ❤️
Sending wishes for a successful pregnancy this round
Sending your way some baby dust for the current embryo transfer😊😊.
I am very inspired of your resilience. All the best 😌. Keeping you in prayer 🙏
Thank you so much❤️❤️❤️
Sending you all baby dust possible! Fingers crossed!
Sending you prayers and all the good energy ❤
Praying for you! Rooting for you! Be happy and hopeful! You are a beautiful person for sharing with all of us out here. Continue to relax.
Thank you so much, what a sweet message🙏💗
Thank you for sharing your journey and being an inspiration. Never lose hope and stay strong. God bless you.
Thank you, I will. Sending love.❤️
Wish you the best on your journey! I am sure god will bless you with a child, you deserve it ❤️
Thank you so much!❤❤️❤️
Hellynn, wish you all the best of luck with your next embryo transfer.
Stay strong and positive. My thoughts are with you.
Looking forward to your update.
Thank you so much, my heart is full. No matter what happens I’ll always be grateful for your kind comments.
I wish you very big, fat positive this round, and I pray you have a complete and successful pregnancy. Congratulations in advance ❤❤🎉🎉
Thank you so much, this is just what I need to hear😊❤
I am sending you a lot of positive energy and a lot of good vibes!
Thank you so much! Hope to visit one day. 💗💗💗
My prayers are with you, Hellynn. I wish that you definitely concieve this time :) Sending you lots of positivity!
Thank you. I can feel your positive energy and I am so grateful! ❤️
Praying for you and your longed for baby. Sharing your journey has been so helpful.
Sending you more love and prayers ❤❤
Sending you positive energy and baby dust! I loved your mantra of what is meant for you will never miss! soon you will be holding your 🌈 baby or babies ❤
Thank you so much!!! ❤❤
Thank you for sharing your fertility journey with us. You’ve come this far so stay strong, positive and know that you are surrounded by much love and support. I wish you all the best❤❤
Thank you so much!
Hello, I just recently followed your channel, you gave me such good vibes even just watching you through a screen!, you give us women that are TTC hope and courage! Sending you lots of baby dust your way! ❤
Oh wow, thank you for your kind words. I am grateful for your positive energy! Thank you ❤
@@hellynn_j ❤️❤️❤️
I’m sending you all the positivity and prayers your way!!! Your optimism and hope are so inspiring. ❤ Thank you for sharing your journey with us.
Thank you for being on the journey with me❤❤❤