Just watched this for the first time and omg Lisa, you are unbelievably brave to stand on stage and tell your story and love that you had for Patrick. You were blessed to be such a huge part of his life and he was to be part of yours. I can hear how much you loved him and I hope you can feel our love for you. X
Lady I really do believe you're serious, but really think about it she's doing this on Patrick's coattails she doesn't want you to think that so that's why she starts all saying all the things she is and can do and is known for and this good at and to me when somebody starts to talkin like that It's all about her her and how wonderful she is well if she's wonderful, she is because of her husband whom we all loved and he was never on stage doing what she's doing. I guess she has a right and I think I have a right to my own reaction and response because I never liked her. I think she is in was a cold fish! But she was right about one thing she was married to the sexiest man alive, until she wasn't
@@carolwatson988 Who cares if you like Patrick Swayze’s wife? You don’t even know her. Never met her. Never were friends with her. Never worked with her. You get an impression of this or that. Leave the poor woman alone. You don’t know anything really about their relationship.
It is the living who close the eyes of the dead, and the dead who open the eyes of the living. Let s be truly alive! Thank you, Lisa! Thank you, Patrick! Love and Light
Actor, singer, dancer and so much more. A life well lived. Thanks Patrick for sharing the time of your life. Gone too soon. Rest in peace. Forever missed.
I believe if Patrick swayze had of known he had a son he would of put him in his will . I think Lisa swayze is COLD HARDED to knot want to give his only son ANYTHING knowing his hearts desire was to have a child.
I just want to say ... Why does it feel like Im a part of Patrick Swayze ... lol I can see myself dancing with him... what a wonderful spirit of a man .... !
Have we learned anything from him being here on Earth? For me, the gifts he gave, and the life he lived....was his gifts to us all. Here are some of his qualities...that moved me: Fearlessness, Empathy and Down to Earth. Went to young....but won't be forgotten 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
THAT was amazing. I know how hard that must of been to open up to everyone and talk personally about the journey you had to go thru with Patrick.Thank you for sharing and Bless both of you.
God bless you Lisa Swayze! I was an extra dancer n Dirty Dancing,dated David Swayze and his uncle,Dr Swayze was my physician in Nacogdoches,Texas.Patrick was such an inspiration to me and others,as well as you.But as Patrick had told me once,"When things get tough&u feel like u want to give up,DANCE!"Keep on dancing u beautiful lady!U make us proud!
As a widow myself I can attest that everything she says here is so true. I found a great deal of comfort in reading her book. Thank you, Lisa. I see the emotional toil you go through to talk about all this, but I'm so glad you did.
Thank you lisa. My husband also died from pancreatic cancer in sept. Of 2013. We had been married 35 years. He was loosing muscle and couldn't get diagnosed and so he made me go on a wonderful vacation to DC for a week. We got back and he was finally diagnosed and was gone 5 months later. He too worked almost until the end and yes it was beautiful and oh so intimate! He died with a smile on his face. He used to say if you die first I'm going to get you stuffed and put you in the corner. I would smile and say nobody puts baby in the corner and then we would have a beautiful roll in the hay! Thanks again lisa, god bless.
I am sorry for your loss you truly seem to still be in pain i am glad you were there for each other and that you have wonderful life with each other and memories of those. Lisa coes not in any way represent anyone who has losta spouse or loved one to this horrible disease. Please do not Lisa speak for you she is a bald face liar who is using Patrick to this day to make money off of him her new husband wants more money and they can continue the abuse she put him through esp during the last few years. Do not fall for her lies and manipulation. You deserve better. SHare your story seperate of her please May good karma and blessings from God carry you through the rest of your life. Good luck
Deborah Wolfe...how can you use ‘karma’ & ‘God’ in the same sentence?? If you truly believe in God you also are aware there is no such thing as karma! Never should these be put together!!!
I have walked in your shoes, Mrs. Swayze, and it isn't easy. I know you miss him very much. You guys had something very special together. To let someone go is hard, but we all have to sooner or later....and they will have to let us go, too. God bless you and rest in peace, Patrick...such a tall fresh drink of water, that man was.
I'm a Chicago girl born and raised and I was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in December of 2014. I'm still here. I had a whipple procedure and at the time I had a 7 yr old and was given 6 months to live. I was afraid. I'm still afraid. Thank you Lisa for sharing. Keep sharing!!! Pateick is my angel. Many times I saw him sit next to me in ICU. he really was there. Helping me fight.
I Hope and Pray 🙏 ❤ that you are Healed and that you won't have to live in Fear anymore. God is still able, to many this devastating Cancer is a quick and painful death. But you are still here. It is now 02-22-23 and it says you posted this 2 years ago. I would love to hear more of your story ❤️ in 2023. Praying for you Raquel Jesus Loves you and despite what the World 🌎 says about him, he did not afflict us with these Diseases, Sickness and illnesses, but he will be there for you if you call upon him 🙏❤ He will do the same for anyone reading 📚 this. 2020-2023 Has been a Curse to many of Us all around the World 🌎 Jesus still Heals and he still Saves.
So wonderful and moving to see this. Lisa's braveness and courage to share her story with Patrick is heartbreaking but ultimately very inspiring. Thank you.
It is not heartbraking, what is heartbraking is that she sold everything he ever worked hard for ! And she got the nerve to stand up there lecturing other people about cancer and relationship ..just to get some attention..a clown if you ask me
@@stefaniedarabi2601 are you ignoring or choosing to forget that Patrick became an alcoholic after his father died? As much as Lisa loved him, she moved out, but checked on him daily. You are the one looking a clown, if you ask me.
My sister is over fifteen years Pancreatic cancer survivor. No chemo, no surgery, do drugs. Lots of prayers, emotional healing, all vegan diet, and she is still with us today. The lord had another plan for her. She had a 2.5 centimeter by 2.5 centimeter tumor in her pancreas , it shrunk. My sister is one of the few. I am so thankful to the lord that she is still alive. Now my sister helps people with cancer, she is a cancer coach, and working on her book as she calls it; about her cancer "journey".
That is amazing and Thank you for sharing your Sister's story ❤️ So many people Blame God for these Devastating Diseases, Sicknesses and illnesses. When God did not afflict Us with these or the other bad things we face. But he will be there for anyone who cries out to him for Healing or he will have his arms wide open when it's time. Thankful for those who Pray and call upon God for Us 🙏❤🙏
Omg you can here the pain in her voice when she talks, that's so sad☹🙏she loved Patrick Swayze more then ya can imagine. They had an amazing marriage. I know the hardest part was to go on with her life. But she had to go on, Patrick would want her to keep going. She will always remember Patrick forever. Hes gone but he will never be forgotten🙏Patrick will always be in our HEARTS💖and will never be forgotten. R.I.P. Patrick your with God's angels🕊🕊💖💖❤❤🙏🙏
I recall watching an interview with Patrick, and he talked so lovingly about Lisa... including of how deeply shy she was. A truly brave and angelic Woman. They loved one another so very much. Fly high Patrick 💘
Lisa, you have such an enormous spirit. It is easy to understand why Patrick treasured you. I lost my husband of almost 32 years 7 years ago to cancer. You seem to have a sense of wholeness that been invaluable, but it is true that in a long term, loving relationship it is like the roots of the two people have grown together and are intertwined so when one is uprooted the other is left in a weakened state. I deal with mental illness and my husband was my gatekeeper so I am still trudging through each day, but I love it when he comes to me in my dreams. I know it is a dream but it is like I have him back for a few minutes. Very precious. Once though as I was awakening I thought I could hear him snoring and I was so excited but it was my dog. I was devastated. How much I would give to hear him snore again. “...and in these dreams we share let us not miss one kiss”. So happy you have found love again.
Her book is not a representation of what was actually happening Now Patrick can be free from the abuse of her and can dance with angels now just like he deserves
We can't take the book as a fact of what was really going on behind closed doors. I hope the negative gossip is false but we can't be sure of what the truth is based on a book.
I lost my husband to the same thing.... 3 months to the day of diagnosis. Patrick was an amazing man... R.I.P. Love all of his movies and to watch you both dance is wonderful. Letting go is the worst thing. Huge Hugs to you.
I've just watched Roadhouse for approximately the 498th time. Seeing Patrick in his adonis like prime, he was a truly beautiful man and a beautiful human being. The world is a dimmer place with his light shining upon it. RIP Patrick.
I remember screaming and crying at the top of my lungs in my car when I got the word from my doctor " I am so sorry Mrs. _____ you have a very very rare form of Cancer", she just kept saying it over and over and tried to console me. I have 3 young children, the ironic part was I remembered my mom doing the exact same thing I did when I heard and she was in her car as WELL! Cancer SUCKS!!
So blown away by her courage, conviction and commitment...we thank you for sharing him with us for so many years...you/ve made the story complete....we now understand why he was so whole!
Great courage the both of you and in you for sharing and obviously true love was shared between you and Patrick. God loves you Lisa and Patrick and his love is forever.
Thank-you for sharing your story of grief. I know what it is like to lose a partner. I learnt that it takes a lot of courage to put that one foot in front of the other.
I can see the hurt…feel it through the spoken words. I like many others have lost people I love. Days are good and then that feeling descends upon you like a weighty blanket that holds you down. You stay in that position until you reach inside the wonderful memories that are held secure within your heart and hold them close. I do not believe in death. The soul is eternal. The vessel that we were given at birth wears out, or becomes so sick that it is useless to use anymore. That is when the soul takes wings and flies. At that moment you are reborn and you are no longer held down by sickness, and pain. My father died of Alzheimer’s. It is a horrible disease. You lose them twice. The first loss is when they stop being able to communicate. It’s like a deep valley separates you from the one you love and you can’t help them cross back over to you. My father and I used to sit and talk for hours about all kinds of things before he got sick. Then the death of the vessel happens and you know once again they are free, well and safe. I had a very beautiful dream, which I feel was a visitation from my father about two weeks after his death. He had walked through the dining room. Reached out and took me into his arms, and laughed and laughed. He kept saying my goodness, my goodness. It was so healing for me. He was young. My guess was about 30. He was perfect. I also experienced loss when my ex husband died of melanoma. It was entirely different from the death of my father. He did not live long after the diagnosis came in. Melanoma is called the gold star of cancer. It is deadly and it can take you out very quickly. Each day my children and I tried to take care of him and help him to die. Hospice was such a gift. Even with hospice on board he suffered greatly. His lungs were filling with fluid. He could hardly breathe. It’s at those times that you pray for the Lord to take them home. You know that heaven awaits them. A place of perfect peace, health and harmony. He died at a time when they told us he would live two more weeks. Paul had the last word. He left on his own terms. I would have loved to have seen his spirit come up out of that diseased body. I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that he was running circles in that room and laughing. He was always a energy filled man. Cancer took that from him for a short time. But he won in the end because his soul was reborn into a life that we are all meant to live. I am glad that neither he or my father have to experience the sadness of this world with all the hatred that is wrapping around this world. They never experienced the pandemic. No doubt there will be things we will go through in this world that will be unpleasant. But in the end those of us who know the Lord win because we go to be with Him. Never again to be sick, sad, afraid, hurt again. We are reborn to wholeness. I physically felt Paul the night he died. I was brushing my teeth and crying and felt his hand on my back. My children both have had distinct experiences of their own with him. I know he and my father come when I’m sad or fearful. I feel their presence. I look forward to my time to go where I can see them again. I say the older I get the closer I get to being young again. We will get a new body and it will be young and perfection. Until that time we must spread the love that we gave them to others and help them in this journey of life. We are here to learn for what we think is a long life…but when compared to eternity it is very short. I say…love those around you. Love conquers all.
Beautiful brave lady. Life is to be lived and in love. It takes incredible courage to find a new beginning and to give yourself permission. A beautiful tribute to Patrick and their enduring love. Calm peacefullness and love on her new beginning. My husband is terminal with Huntingtons. There is a eternal bond and calm oeace only we share. When he could talk before the ravages of the illness made it impossible for speech. I'd be by his side and ask how he was that day. He always said to me "Better now that your here". In times of life struggles aline in essense, I'd find myself visiting without sharing the struggle but he knew and it seemed the calm we shared just being together helped me internalize the struggle and find my way. This lovely lady is so incredibly brave and honorable. May she always find calm in her deepest quitest moments. Love is protecting her and guiding her on an exciting new beginning. It at no time is replacing what was, but is enhancing what is ahead in life.. Blessings special lady. May you fly free in the calm of your new beginnings. Blessings. Thank you for this very personal talk. Beautiful.
Noone should be judging her for moving forward with her life .... she is a phenomenal woman .. she stood beside , supported and loved Patrick unconditionally for 37 years !! Even now, watching this ... you can still see that is very hard for her ... Patrick was her #1 and she was his #1 .. Patrick's life ended but hers hasn't yet .. she has every right to keep living .. Patrick would want her to ... 37 years together ... that Love will never disappear or diminish. ... Live and keep moving Lisa ... Taking that Love with you so Patrick can still be with you every step of the way ... RIP Patrick , you are truly missed..
She is such a brave woman. She stuck with him through the good, bad and the ugly. She is right how he was fearless and was never afraid to try anything. He was so handsome, awesome actor and a wonderful husband. Her and Patricks's DVD before his passing they were going to have a baby and she was pregnant but lost the baby and never tried again and they were both devastated. They were team and a strong couple and fought the devil. She is such an amazing woman after 4 years after his passing.
I can relate to some of her experiences when my husband passed. Parting is "such sweet sorrow" and when you both become one, to me, that's when you understand the meaning of love and life. God bless you widow Swayze, may He guide you always until your purpose here on earth is ended.🙏
I lost my husband to Mesothelioma on July 19, 2021, just 3 months ago. It’s a death sentence. Prognosis 6-12 months. We met when I was barely 15, he was 19 - 57 yrs ago. He fought with everything he could, chemo, special treatments, drinks...but he just kept losing ground. I had no help except from our son in the midst of Covid. It’s amazing how long a body can go on with very little nourishment. But those 6 months were precious. 3 days after going to Hospice, at 11:00 p.m., we told him it was time to go. He died peacefully 1 hr. and 40 minutes later. I hope the day comes when I’m as brave as you. I so admired Patrick and the way you handled it together. Grief is indescribable.
Thank you so much for sharing one of the hardest times in life and yes lisa your husband was one of the sexiest men on television even today and not only sexiest but well respected and liked!!! Sorry you had to lose your best friend so early in life 34 years to being without that person is shock and very hard anyhow, you both were such a role model to others of true love and marriage still existing thanks!!
Patrick was an awesome man. He is greatly missed. I so understand your journey. I went through the same thing with my husband. He wanted to be home to pass. He passed 2/22/2020. I still have moments after a year and a half where I feel lost. Prayers for you.
Patrick was a gift to us all. Thank you for sharing him with us. He was the kind of man we wish every man was. We are fortunate to have him on film, so he will virtually never be gone. I wish you well as you continue through lifes journey.
Cancer is such a vicious disease. I had breast cancer and I beat it, but my age was in my favor. It's a hard battle. You just cannot give in to it. Find that place inside you that will not let you fail. God bless.
Glad to hear you beat it but nomatter how hard you try nomatter what treatments or how much prayer is there some cancers just cannot be beaten but to not try is to give up so no matter the type everyone needs to fight until they can no longer giving in to the relief of death after constant horrible pain is all that is left to anyone who dies with that severe pain. I have been a nurse for 42 yrs. I have taken care of many patients who tried so hard along with others who didn't try and they both died or in some cases lived regardless it seems with all the knew treat,ents and knowledge we would be able to cure most things but sadly not enough I have held the hand or a child when they are dying and it is heart breaking and I pray and hope those who are suffering find their own way to deal with the cancer and pain, esp whenit is not curable and we need to respect their wishes. It is the only decision and or control they have left over their life. May god bless each
What an amazing presentation! Lisa's words regarding the grieving process and how to get through the loss touched my heart. I recently lost my mother to lung & brain cancer and everything she says is so true about having to let someone go. It is not easy but you do have to find a way give them and yourself peace. My heart goes out to her.
Thank ya.ll for sharing this ladies story of her brave husbands fight to carry on being himself . Fortune favours the brave .and sounds to me like he was so brave
Always loved Patrick. Losing someone so close to you is like having a limb missing. Part os you is gone. Thanks for sharing Lisa. You must have so many beautiful memories to take forward with you. God bless and be happy. That is what Patrick would want for you. ❤
My dad was 59 when diagnosed and died 6 months after. I saw what pancreatic cancer does to people, what it did to my dad and I can't stop crying..Will be soon 2 years.
I was in tears... I needed this! She has helped me. My hubby just died recently and I can relate to every single thing she said... My hubby and 8 did everything together too. Part of me is missing now. I'm struggling to transition to doing everything by myself. A lot of emptiness... The only thing different for her and me is... Money! Financial security. I have none. So that is a big stress on me. I pray for God to sustain me and give me my needs.
Having said that he was able 2 have a life most dream of. I can say as a nurse, pediatric specialty after 42 yrs & counting, I can name so many children whose family would gladly have given all so their child could have had just one more day. They have 98% of my heart the rest with Patrick & others who have reached the end of a horrific battle as well. As an adult who may or may or may not be feeling what they claim to be feeling their emotions r no less painful but the children & their siblings, parents,friends,cousins, us nurses etc. .makes it hard 4 me to want 2 hear adults who were blessed with reaching adulthood, with having a family, a true love whine about a death of someone no matter star or not who had all that time on earth. To those of u who will have a fit over my comment, u do not see us nurses or families of children who did not get a chance 2 grow up to have their first kiss 2 have a career or public career an actor so many could enjoy them as we did Patrick & I am not taking anything away from him & his immediate family or fans it just sickens me 2 see someone milk a death sell his personal items without his family even getting a chance 2 keep something special 2 them. If what many who knew him say is true. If not I apologize but I do not take back my words a childs chance for one more birthday his family planning a 2 yr old party firsts day of school, sweet sixteen, drivers. Lic worry. Etc. in comparison her milking tears and money from his fans disgust me. Let Patrick rest in peace and respect if he wanted a book written he had plenty of time to have done so, at least one sharing his illness when he was still fighting it, he could of done it as he went and I do not believe she needs money, she already has a new income from a husband, may she experience exactly what she gave to with Patrick. With the horses she could easily made a living doing that or teaching dancing, or any number of jobs with all the reach of Patrick & his family. Again I hope I am wrong as I have heard some really harsh things from her treatment of Patrick, hope not but if u want to help others with his disease, start with children then adults, share it none kept for profit none. I do hope for all of sadden by his passing 2 remember him with love and think about what he would have wanted, to start with the kids, then younger people. His heart was one 2 cherish not sure about his ex wife she is now moved on to a completely different life & man. I wish her the best Meanwhile please consider the babies,children,teenagers, & young adults by donating to the official website or to St. Jude's Children Hospital they will send u whatever booklets info u want. So let Patrick be remembered for his heart and start a donation account to be set aside 4 research & families dealing with similar issues any kind of cancer. Bless u Patrick 4 all the joy, kindness and fun u brought our way. I hope after we are all gone, there will remain a funding set up in his name. Please think of the kids, research and families of the children who know only heart ache always. Thanks
I JUST saw this ! Lisa, Patrick swayzes wife, is TRULY AMAZING! God and Patrick WOULD be SO proud of her! Both are TRULY awesome and TRUE BLESSINGS to us all in this world! Lisa has such GREAT faith and STRENGTH! God Bless PATRICK SWAYZE, LISA and ALL families friends!💙🙏😘💕🕊️😇🙏❤️
People really need to stop.judging and assuming things. I am sure Patrick is in Heaven smiling down on Lisa and happy she has found another love. It does NOT replace her and Patrick's love in any way. Our hearts can love again, in time.
rhon715 I know, I wish people would stop judging her. Whether you like her or not, she has no choice but to go on with life. If she is lucky enough to find love again, good for her. She did not leave Patrick, Patrick did not leave her by choice. Life is what it is. Her selling her place with him must have been devastatingly difficult. I personally probably could not have done it, but everyone is different. She probably couldn't completely go on if she still lived there. Maybe it is a move of respect for their love and life together that she could not live there with someone else. I can see that. It has been a long time since he passed. I think every one of us knows he would want her to go on and find love if she could. If you love someone you want them to be happy. Neither of them had a choice of being separated. They were blessed more than most people in life to have had what they did for the time they did. You cannot ever recreate that and can only be grateful that you were so blessed and move on. Blessings Lisa.
I bet you believe fake pres lies too. Sorry but abuse is abuse it is plain and simple If half of what she tries to say is true she would of given his close family a choice of his most precious items not sell the to strangers on ebay. Selli g the farm the horses she had to have. I think Patrick would be shocked at how naive people are. He is dancing with angels and not watching his abuser continue to do so making more money off him.
It's ok to remarry but there is some nasty gossip that she sort of confirms by selling all his treasured possessions. He was worth a lot why did she need to sell some of the items his family would surely treasure if given the chance to keep? I don't know what to think really.
To me Patrick and Lisa were a match made in Heaven! You can still see the pain in her ❤️❤️ Heart and I feel some of her pain I've lost a husband too! Lisa is a very brave Woman and I wish her the best of everything in her moving forward cause that's a lot to endure! R.i.p.Patrick you will always be in Our ❤️❤️ Heart's!
Everyone wants to get mad at her for remarrying why? Patrick would want her to be happy, she can't sit around and stop living she deserves to be happy. She was with Patrick for 37 years the love she has for him will never die, yes I said has. He may have died, her love for him didn't. Her love for her new husband is a different love, it's not the same.
shawna266: The Word of God (Bible), gives her permission to do so, without it being sinful in the sight of God! But, she is suppose to marry someone in the Lord (a man who not only believes in Christ, but is also obedient to the Word of God)!.....
An incredibly brave and beautiful woman, Patrick would want her to go on and live her life to the full and be happy. I'm sure he knew what a lucky man he was to have such a special bond with someone and to have shared his life with. An incredibly brave man, a wonderful dancer and a wonderful actor, a life to be proud of.xx
Wow~ Lisa, THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH for making that uplifting , encouraging video. I had a lot of my thoughts of Patrick reaffirmed- his love for animals, his easy going way, his positive attitude, and his Love for you , to name just a few. I really LIKED him! And now to know that he was animal lover like myself, is just a "cherry" on top!!! I am so happy that you two had such a wonderful marriage. Yes, the world already misses him. Quite often I think -- "no one puts Baby in the corner"! And it makes me smile. That movie was awesome!!! I watch reruns of it all the time! Thank you for sharing your wonderful husband with all of us. I understand what you mean about the grief --- my husband ,who was a 2 tour Viet Nam Vet , with severe PTSD, took his life. That shook me out of my boots and my life is still so confusing - I want to hear his voice again, feel his smooth soft skin, look into his gorgeous blue eyes, play with his awesome beard, and just feel like I was where I was meant to be. 🙏 AMEN
Thank you Lisa for your insight & sharing Patrick's journey, and yours. He was very lucky to have you with him and as someone else said You were his "Angel". R.I.P. PATRICK.
Thank you for letting us get to know you! Patrick Swayze is still in our hearts.... Your honesty and hearing your dedication to each other is beyond words! For me it isn't now just losing an icon... But a heartbreak unimaginable for for the love you still have for your husband. You are an amazing lady that truly found her soul mate... As well as he!!! Thank you for sharing... May God always bless you! And give you strength and comfort and faith!!!
Thanks for sharing yours and Patrick’s story. Patrick was one of my favorite actors. You answered my assumption, as I got the impression that he was a fearless warrior class personality. I’m so very sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself Lisa, and May God Bless and Keep you safe.
No has respetado su intimidad. Te demoraste poco en traicionar su confianza. Contaste todos sus secretos y debilidades. Y por dinero además. Nunca fuiste una éxito en lo artístico. Solo la esposa de patrick. Espero que tu nuevo esposo no sufra de tus bajezas
Everything you said is spot on. (Except for one; I was married to the sexiest man alive ;) I lost my late husband, mid-40s, to an agressive cancer, months after diagnosis. He passed on the same date as Patrick, a few years later. I related to all the phases you described. Nothing can prepare you for the trauma and grief, even though you know what's coming. I had no idea how much my identity was entwined with him until after he passed. It's been a long road of grief. Thank you for having the courage and presence to be on that stage and describe young widowhood and all the revelations that come with it. One breath at a time > one minute at a time > one hour at a time > one day at a time. And that's all there really is.
Lisa, you are a STRONG & MAGNIFICENT woman. My sister was diagnosed with Pancreatic Cancer stage 4 in Sept 2007 and died early Dec 2007 at 62 and as much as Life is NOT FAIR, we all have to live, do the best we can and move on and I applaud you for doing just that. Just LIVE & LAUGH everyday.
Thank you for sharing Mrs. Swayze. I love that you all are wonderful, talented Houston dancers. I have danced, like thousands, st Houston Community College.
Very sweet and poignant...love so rare and strong. Made for each other but gone too soon. What incredible talent especially the dancing. R.I.P Patrick... heaven has gained a wonderful soul🙏🙏🙏
I can’t believe some of the most nasty comments on here about this lady,none of you know what went on you were not there so unless you have 100% proof I think you should all keep your opinions to yourself.
Pics of them speak for them self and I know he wants her happy he said that and get 5 years then she did I know her heart always his her first but a second can sooth take the loneliness away
Ash died 6 weeks after diagnosis. It was horrific BUT he died with a smile on his face... As if to say "I will go out fighting this" He had a great Spirit & we loved each other so much....
WOW! I lost my dad to cancer in 2011 and to this day its hard to talk about. Lisa Swayze I cant thank you enough for this because I always worry about how my mother is and we dont talk but you have give me peace of mind of knowing the strength of my mother. God bless you and thankyou
You should talk to your mother..... If your father's death brought you no other rock solid information, you must have learned from it that life is short. Find a way to fix what is wrong, find a way to promote healing..... I lost my husband to liver cancer 11 1/2 years ago. I have had many other challenges in my life.... 4 miscarriages, cervical cancer requiring a radical hysterectomy at 32 yrs old, 2 major car accidents causing severe spinal problems which resulted in requiring 6 back surgeries and a shoulder surgery, .....and now a completely deteriorated cervical spine, recently I had to face my only daughter (a very talented classically trained opera singer) having thyroid cancer requiring a total thyroidectomy which after three years, while gratefully she remains cancer free, also remains primarily unable to sing (after 27 years of training including a fine music conservatory undergraduate and graduate degreed education, and unbridled discipline and commitment).... But, this is not about me, no one passes through this life unscathed. I apologize for the multitudinous personal disclosure but needed to set the stage. I could continue the list, it is much longer, but my hope is that you now will understand and be able to put into context what I am going to say. From every devastating life experience that I have encountered, as time has passed and I have had the ability to process the experience and reflect, I have gained perspective and taken with me what I refer to as a "major life lesson". Three years after I met my husband, I was married to my "college sweetheart" for 32 years, giving us 35 years together, which on his death represented almost 2/3 of my life. He was the love of my life.... but marriage was often hard work until.... the day he was diagnosed with inoperable liver cancer, which took his life 6 months and 3 days later. From the day he was diagnosed up until his death we were inseparable, he would literally follow me from room to room as we were discussing all of the details of what we had to do to "get our affairs in order", including, closing a thriving business with over 30 employees, and my trying to absorb as much as possible about businesses in 2 other countries that were easily handled by my husband who fluently spoke those 2 other languages. Me, not so much.... I speak English fairly well! My total interest and primary focus however, was in trying to discover ANYTHING or ANYPLACE in the US or elsewhere in the world, that we could possibly find, ANY facility or doctor that might offer us treatment of any type, or even offer us any minuscule glimmer of hope that might extend his life.... We fought together as a team.... much as we had worked together through our lives, as a team, as business partners, parents, friends and lovers. Despite having had the opportunity to "prepare" for his death, on it's arrival, the reality of it was startling, and devastating beyond anything that I could have imagined or had experienced before or since. (continued in an additional post)
With the whisper of his last breathe.... in that instant, I was suddenly alone and he was gone! STARTLING!! The person who I had made every important decision of my adult life with.... the father of our child, oftentimes my mentor, the center of my chosen world, was GONE! Had we discussed everything we needed to.... had I said everything to him that I needed to say.....??? I think you get the picture. Unless you have been severely abused by your parent and a relationship is no longer realistic, they are usually the people with whom we have had the closest relationship..... i.e. they have know us since conception. For me, another tough one, my mother entered hospice the same day my husband did, for him, only 13 days… my Mother died 7 weeks later…. The "life lesson" that I took away from my husband's death, we all hear repeatedly.... We often think about it for a fleeting minute telling ourselves that we already do that, it is the very common cliché "Don't sweat the small stuff, and it's all small stuff"! As the result of a fairly turbulent childhood with a severely abusive father and older brother, I became an extremely defensive, often combative adult if challenged, who, as a result was angry much of the time. I was not even aware of it, but it was always there simmering subconsciously, just under the surface until it boiled over with ease at the slightest provocation. So what if that guy cut in front me... or that woman in the 10 item "speed" check out line, 2 people in front of me, has at least 25 items .... and, I have 1 item as do the other 2 people.... and... I am in a hurry, or... my husband's socks are on the floor again.... despite years of asking him to change that behavior..... again, I think you get the point.... that "small stuff" just doesn't matter (and.... I only wish he were here so that I could pick up his socks, even, if it were "just" one more time). It was first, through my husband's death and later after untold numbers of hours of therapy, which revealed that none of those "small things" really mattered. You expressed worry about your mother which indicates concern for her well being. That is your gut and intuition speaking to you.... listen to it, it is most often the best barometer, but we all to often ignore it. Pay attention to it! As a mother, I can assure you that regardless of what you think about her strength, being estranged from one's child is a pain that a mother should never have to endure. This is not saying to "let bygones be bygones". This is saying, do the work, regardless of how hard it is.... figure out what is necessary to "fix it". Identify the cause, really think about what the steps are to fix it, be as mindful, self reflective and honest as possible as you do your personal analysis.... and then work toward that goal. Keep in mind that the only person we have the ability to change is ourselves. Also, be aware of the fact that people respond and react to our actions, so if they differ from our previous behavior, we will probably get a different response and result than we are used to receiving. As a member of the most forward thinking, progressive 501C-3 non profit widows organization, the Modern Widows Club, I have learned so many other things, like what many of the consequences of being widowed are. These are just a few (this applies to all widows including your mother): we suffer memory loss, more or less severe, sometimes intermittent... (the shape of a widow's brain actually changes as a result of the trauma of their spouse's death) we often suffer a severe inability to focus, we typically become severely depressed, our hormones literally go tilt, we do crazy things (my daughter will attest to that), we are often abandoned by our friends as we become a fifth wheel, because we have become a neon example of what those women friends who are fortunate enough to still have their spouses, fear facing the most, (70% of women WILL be widowed in their lifetimes) your identity is lost... you now have to figure out who you are what you are going to do with YOUR life but more importantly HOW you are going to do that all at a time when if is almost impossible to think. ....And we are grieving. All this to say, you are right to worry about how your mother is. What you were seeing in this video of Lisa's presentation, is a woman who has survived and is working hard to thrive and doing a bang up job of it. She is doing what Modern Widows Club teaches us to do, but trust me she IS doing it one day at a time. Lisa is courageous and repeats that all you can do is to keep on "putting one foot in front of the other". Lisa Swayze is a woman who, 4 years after the loss of her beloved husband, is able to talk about how that journey progressed for herself and Patrick without being in tears all the way through, but her voice is brittle, it cracks, she has moments when she needs to stop and collect herself, and she wipes the occasional tear away. Your description of your father's passing carries the essence of affection. It also seems to be there for your mom. If nothing else, this video should not give you peace of mind in your mother's regard.... Lisa's talk ends with an urgent plea to be aware of and appreciate every moment that we are given in this fleeting life.... she implores the listeners to NEVER miss the opportunity to say "I love you" to those who matter. I am saying do that.... and "don't sweat the small stuff". Your mother will always need and want your love and support and will appreciate it (whether she is ever able to express it openly and honestly to you or not). Every minute you allow the discord to continue is a minute of both of your lives that is gone forever, neither of you can ever get it back. I can guarantee that your mother misses your father indescribably, grieves her most profound loss, while carrying a sadness in her heart that is unequalled by any other loss she has ever suffered. She is still here after 7 years and apparently functioning on some kind of level. Being widowed is the most painful, confusing and difficult challenge a woman who is in a satisfying marriage has to face. Applaud her victories, regardless of their size. Encourage and support her decisions whether you agree with them or not.... even if you think that they are stupid. It is the only way to ford the stream and make it so that there is the possibility to establish open lines of communication and trust. It is only then that you can carefully and gently attempt to have meaningful dialogue that will help her to understand your points of view. That takes time, patience and commitment.... it doesn't happen in one conversation. Find a way to heal this wound before it is to late and the opportunity has passed. You are the one who (according to the odds) will be left behind. As a result, you will have the rest of your life to regret and wish it could have been different.
Thank you for your post thank you for sharing of the passing of your husband thank you thank you thank you I lost my mom a year ago she was in hospice I took care of her and it's been very hard so thank you so much for those words for your story may God bless you always
Holy cow. Lisa, right before I watched your story, I watched the video of you and Patrick dancing in 1984. You are an amazing woman, and Patrick is watching over you, and will always be with you. Much ❤️ and prayers for you.
What a wonderful, intelligent, insightful, heartfelt and captivating presentation. Thank you very much for sharing your experiences and observations with us !!
Just watched this for the first time and omg Lisa, you are unbelievably brave to stand on stage and tell your story and love that you had for Patrick. You were blessed to be such a huge part of his life and he was to be part of yours. I can hear how much you loved him and I hope you can feel our love for you. X
Lady I really do believe you're serious, but really think about it she's doing this on Patrick's coattails she doesn't want you to think that so that's why she starts all saying all the things she is and can do and is known for and this good at and to me when somebody starts to talkin like that
It's all about her her and how wonderful she is well if she's wonderful, she is because of her husband whom we all loved and he was never on stage doing what she's doing. I guess she has a right and I think I have a right to my own reaction and response because I never liked her. I think she is in was a cold fish! But she was right about one thing she was married to the sexiest man alive, until she wasn't
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Who cares if you like Patrick Swayze’s wife? You don’t even know her. Never met her. Never were friends with her. Never worked with her. You get an impression of this or that. Leave the poor woman alone. You don’t know anything really about their relationship.
It is the living who close the eyes of the dead, and the dead who open the eyes of the living.
Let s be truly alive!
Thank you, Lisa!
Thank you, Patrick!
Love and Light
Actor, singer, dancer and so much more. A life well lived. Thanks Patrick for sharing the time of your life. Gone too soon. Rest in peace. Forever missed.
So eloquently said. Thank you for reminding us of this gift called life.
This woman is a brave and kind soul, most definitely Patrick is standing next to her. Smiling. #Bodhi #speedstar #pointbreak
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I believe if Patrick swayze had of known he had a son he would of put him in his will . I think Lisa swayze is COLD HARDED to knot want to give his only son ANYTHING knowing his hearts desire was to have a child.
I HOPE Lisa gets to see this.
I just want to say ... Why does it feel like Im a part of Patrick Swayze ... lol I can see myself dancing with him... what a wonderful spirit of a man .... !
You arent the only one...he was something special!!!
I feel the same,and I don't know why! Such a special man
Because every single woman wanted to marry a man like that.
Have we learned anything from him being here on Earth? For me, the gifts he gave, and the life he lived....was his gifts to us all.
Here are some of his qualities...that moved me: Fearlessness, Empathy and Down to Earth. Went to young....but won't be forgotten 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
THAT was amazing. I know how hard that must of been to open up to everyone and talk personally about the journey you had to go thru with Patrick.Thank you for sharing and Bless both of you.
Patrick means to me my beautiful youth days. Thank you Patrick. You will always remain in my heart ❤.
God bless you Lisa Swayze! I was an extra dancer n Dirty Dancing,dated David Swayze and his uncle,Dr Swayze was my physician in Nacogdoches,Texas.Patrick was such an inspiration to me and others,as well as you.But as Patrick had told me once,"When things get tough&u feel like u want to give up,DANCE!"Keep on dancing u beautiful lady!U make us proud!
Angel of heaven : which scene were you in
Yea Which One? We Would All LoVe 2 Kno!!!
LOL probably not true
Is that really true?
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Patrick's dancing with angels & riding wild horses. RIP SWEET MAN.
As a widow myself I can attest that everything she says here is so true. I found a great deal of comfort in reading her book. Thank you, Lisa. I see the emotional toil you go through to talk about all this, but I'm so glad you did.
Amazing woman. Their love is legendary
Thank you lisa. My husband also died from pancreatic cancer in sept. Of 2013. We had been married 35 years. He was loosing muscle and couldn't get diagnosed and so he made me go on a wonderful vacation to DC for a week. We got back and he was finally diagnosed and was gone 5 months later. He too worked almost until the end and yes it was beautiful and oh so intimate! He died with a smile on his face. He used to say if you die first I'm going to get you stuffed and put you in the corner. I would smile and say nobody puts baby in the corner and then we would have a beautiful roll in the hay! Thanks again lisa, god bless.
My heart truly breaks for you having lost your husband of 35 years. Using "God" in this context should be capitalized.
I know she always have him in her heart. He want her to be happy. He with God now and life goes on for her
I am sorry for your loss you truly seem to still be in pain i am glad you were there for each other and that you have wonderful life with each other and memories of those. Lisa coes not in any way represent anyone who has losta spouse or loved one to this horrible disease. Please do not Lisa speak for you she is a bald face liar who is using Patrick to this day to make money off of him her new husband wants more money and they can continue the abuse she put him through esp during the last few years. Do not fall for her lies and manipulation. You deserve better. SHare your story seperate of her please May good karma and blessings from God carry you through the rest of your life. Good luck
Deborah Wolfe...how can you use ‘karma’ & ‘God’ in the same sentence?? If you truly believe in God you also are aware there is no such thing as karma! Never should these be put together!!!
@@joannspencer1094What is wrong with the world, is everyone is too critical of others!
I have walked in your shoes, Mrs. Swayze, and it isn't easy. I know you miss him very much. You guys had something very special together. To let someone go is hard, but we all have to sooner or later....and they will have to let us go, too. God bless you and rest in peace, Patrick...such a tall fresh drink of water, that man was.
I'm a Chicago girl born and raised and I was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in December of 2014. I'm still here. I had a whipple procedure and at the time I had a 7 yr old and was given 6 months to live. I was afraid. I'm still afraid. Thank you Lisa for sharing. Keep sharing!!! Pateick is my angel. Many times I saw him sit next to me in ICU. he really was there. Helping me fight.
Joel’s Osteens mom was healed of cancer . I think her story is on RUclips.
I Hope and Pray 🙏 ❤ that you are Healed and that you won't have to live in Fear anymore. God is still able, to many this devastating Cancer is a quick and painful death. But you are still here. It is now 02-22-23 and it says you posted this 2 years ago. I would love to hear more of your story ❤️ in 2023. Praying for you Raquel Jesus Loves you and despite what the World 🌎 says about him, he did not afflict us with these Diseases, Sickness and illnesses, but he will be there for you if you call upon him 🙏❤ He will do the same for anyone reading 📚 this. 2020-2023 Has been a Curse to many of Us all around the World 🌎 Jesus still Heals and he still Saves.
So wonderful and moving to see this. Lisa's braveness and courage to share her story with Patrick is heartbreaking but ultimately very inspiring. Thank you.
It is not heartbraking, what is heartbraking is that she sold everything he ever worked hard for ! And she got the nerve to stand up there lecturing other people about cancer and relationship ..just to get some attention..a clown if you ask me
@@stefaniedarabi2601 are you ignoring or choosing to forget that Patrick became an alcoholic after his father died?
As much as Lisa loved him, she moved out, but checked on him daily.
You are the one looking a clown, if you ask me.
You're jealous that's the problem @@stefaniedarabi2601
RIP Patrick!You was loved from all us and God to,bcz it he took you early .. Patrick you will remain always in our memory !
My sister is over fifteen years Pancreatic cancer survivor. No chemo, no surgery, do drugs. Lots of prayers, emotional healing, all vegan diet, and she is still with us today. The lord had another plan for her. She had a 2.5 centimeter by 2.5 centimeter tumor in her pancreas , it shrunk. My sister is one of the few. I am so thankful to the lord that she is still alive. Now my sister helps people with cancer, she is a cancer coach, and working on her book as she calls it; about her cancer "journey".
That is amazing and Thank you for sharing your Sister's story ❤️ So many people Blame God for these Devastating Diseases, Sicknesses and illnesses. When God did not afflict Us with these or the other bad things we face. But he will be there for anyone who cries out to him for Healing or he will have his arms wide open when it's time. Thankful for those who Pray and call upon God for Us 🙏❤🙏
Do not let your hearts be troubled, trust in God trust also in Jesus. 100% right, lots of prayers. God Bless.
Omg you can here the pain in her voice when she talks, that's so sad☹🙏she loved Patrick Swayze more then ya can imagine. They had an amazing marriage. I know the hardest part was to go on with her life. But she had to go on, Patrick would want her to keep going. She will always remember Patrick forever. Hes gone but he will never be forgotten🙏Patrick will always be in our HEARTS💖and will never be forgotten. R.I.P. Patrick your with God's angels🕊🕊💖💖❤❤🙏🙏
No le creo nada
Solo esperaba la herencia. y se casó ahora con un millonario. Lo único que le interesa es el dinero
Yes he is ❤️💜💜🙏
I recall watching an interview with Patrick, and he talked so lovingly about Lisa... including of how deeply shy she was. A truly brave and angelic Woman. They loved one another so very much. Fly high Patrick 💘
Lisa, you have such an enormous spirit. It is easy to understand why Patrick treasured you. I lost my husband of almost 32 years 7 years ago to cancer. You seem to have a sense of wholeness that been invaluable, but it is true that in a long term, loving relationship it is like the roots of the two people have grown together and are intertwined so when one is uprooted the other is left in a weakened state. I deal with mental illness and my husband was my gatekeeper so I am still trudging through each day, but I love it when he comes to me in my dreams. I know it is a dream but it is like I have him back for a few minutes. Very precious. Once though as I was awakening I thought I could hear him snoring and I was so excited but it was my dog. I was devastated. How much I would give to hear him snore again. “...and in these dreams we share let us not miss one kiss”. So happy you have found love again.
Thank you for the courage to give this speech.
What a strong and brave woman...Her book is amazing...RIP, Patrick, we'll never forget you.
Her book is not a representation of what was actually happening Now Patrick can be free from the abuse of her and can dance with angels now just like he deserves
We can't take the book as a fact of what was really going on behind closed doors. I hope the negative gossip is false but we can't be sure of what the truth is based on a book.
Full of shit
She a liar
Strong brave woman you need look at the facts about what she did to him when he was ill read what house keeper said about her
I love patrick swayze I will. always remember him great actor will miss him. and his movies hope Lisa is ok patrick will always be missed remembered
Love him forever xx I'm so glad she's found happiness again , Patrick would be so pleased, they loved each other so much. xx
He was the sextet man alive and very talented
I lost my husband to the same thing.... 3 months to the day of diagnosis. Patrick was an amazing man... R.I.P. Love all of his movies and to watch you both dance is wonderful. Letting go is the worst thing. Huge Hugs to you.
I know this comment was 7 years ago but how are you doing now?
I've just watched Roadhouse for approximately the 498th time. Seeing Patrick in his adonis like prime, he was a truly beautiful man and a beautiful human being. The world is a dimmer place with his light shining upon it. RIP Patrick.
I remember screaming and crying at the top of my lungs in my car when I got the word from my doctor " I am so sorry Mrs. _____ you have a very very rare form of Cancer", she just kept saying it over and over and tried to console me. I have 3 young children, the ironic part was I remembered my mom doing the exact same thing I did when I heard and she was in her car as WELL! Cancer SUCKS!!
Are you still here?
Thank you Lisa for sharing. I've got cancer, and it really helped me so very much with my end game. Thank you
I'm pray you're doing ok... God bless you
So blown away by her courage, conviction and commitment...we thank you for sharing him with us for so many years...you/ve made the story complete....we now understand why he was so whole!
She abused him horribly his last two years of his lifeow is that good in any way She is still making money off him does she have no respect?
She seems to be a good person hope she is happy Patrick would want her to be ☺💖
thank you. for this I am currently. fighting myself. your words are very helpful
Tim Beaudry hey Tim. Can you send us an update? Sending love to you.
Tim Beaudry ❤
Much love and all the best to you! ♥️
Tim, sending love and strength your way to help you fight the fight and WIN!! Please keep us posted🤗
Good luck Tim, been there
She spoke like a true human the meaning of the things she said I will always remember God bless you your a wonderful person
The brave doesn't live forever but the cautious doesn't live at all. Start living rather than existing.
Tinalovesmovies I love this
Thatsca great quote I've never heard till now. Thx!!
She said it in the video. Lol
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Great courage the both of you and in you for sharing and obviously true love was shared between you and Patrick. God loves you Lisa and Patrick and his love is forever.
Yes, "I love you" is never wasted.
Thank-you for sharing your story of grief. I know what it is like to lose a partner. I learnt that it takes a lot of courage to put that one foot in front of the other.
You’re a deeply rich human being & Patrick was the very embodiment of class & genuine humanity
That was beautiful and so intimate. Thank you, Lisa.
May God richly bless you such a beautiful brave woman ,you were a beautiful couple and your love will last for eternity RIP Patrick!
I can see the hurt…feel it through the spoken words. I like many others have lost people I love. Days are good and then that feeling descends upon you like a weighty blanket that holds you down. You stay in that position until you reach inside the wonderful memories that are held secure within your heart and hold them close. I do not believe in death. The soul is eternal. The vessel that we were given at birth wears out, or becomes so sick that it is useless to use anymore. That is when the soul takes wings and flies. At that moment you are reborn and you are no longer held down by sickness, and pain. My father died of Alzheimer’s. It is a horrible disease. You lose them twice. The first loss is when they stop being able to communicate. It’s like a deep valley separates you from the one you love and you can’t help them cross back over to you. My father and I used to sit and talk for hours about all kinds of things before he got sick. Then the death of the vessel happens and you know once again they are free, well and safe. I had a very beautiful dream, which I feel was a visitation from my father about two weeks after his death. He had walked through the dining room. Reached out and took me into his arms, and laughed and laughed. He kept saying my goodness, my goodness. It was so healing for me. He was young. My guess was about 30. He was perfect.
I also experienced loss when my ex husband died of melanoma. It was entirely different from the death of my father. He did not live long after the diagnosis came in. Melanoma is called the gold star of cancer. It is deadly and it can take you out very quickly. Each day my children and I tried to take care of him and help him to die. Hospice was such a gift. Even with hospice on board he suffered greatly. His lungs were filling with fluid. He could hardly breathe. It’s at those times that you pray for the Lord to take them home. You know that heaven awaits them. A place of perfect peace, health and harmony. He died at a time when they told us he would live two more weeks. Paul had the last word. He left on his own terms. I would have loved to have seen his spirit come up out of that diseased body. I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that he was running circles in that room and laughing. He was always a energy filled man. Cancer took that from him for a short time. But he won in the end because his soul was reborn into a life that we are all meant to live. I am glad that neither he or my father have to experience the sadness of this world with all the hatred that is wrapping around this world. They never experienced the pandemic. No doubt there will be things we will go through in this world that will be unpleasant. But in the end those of us who know the Lord win because we go to be with Him. Never again to be sick, sad, afraid, hurt again. We are reborn to wholeness. I physically felt Paul the night he died. I was brushing my teeth and crying and felt his hand on my back. My children both have had distinct experiences of their own with him. I know he and my father come when I’m sad or fearful. I feel their presence. I look forward to my time to go where I can see them again.
I say the older I get the closer I get to being young again. We will get a new body and it will be young and perfection. Until that time we must spread the love that we gave them to others and help them in this journey of life. We are here to learn for what we think is a long life…but when compared to eternity it is very short. I say…love those around you. Love conquers all.
Beautiful brave lady. Life is to be lived and in love. It takes incredible courage to find a new beginning and to give yourself permission. A beautiful tribute to Patrick and their enduring love. Calm peacefullness and love on her new beginning.
My husband is terminal with Huntingtons. There is a eternal bond and calm oeace only we share. When he could talk before the ravages of the illness made it impossible for speech. I'd be by his side and ask how he was that day. He always said to me "Better now that your here". In times of life struggles aline in essense, I'd find myself visiting without sharing the struggle but he knew and it seemed the calm we shared just being together helped me internalize the struggle and find my way. This lovely lady is so incredibly brave and honorable. May she always find calm in her deepest quitest moments. Love is protecting her and guiding her on an exciting new beginning. It at no time is replacing what was, but is enhancing what is ahead in life.. Blessings special lady. May you fly free in the calm of your new beginnings. Blessings. Thank you for this very personal talk. Beautiful.
Wow what a beautiful marriage.
Patrick was a national treasure.
Noone should be judging her for moving forward with her life .... she is a phenomenal woman .. she stood beside , supported and loved Patrick unconditionally for 37 years !! Even now, watching this ... you can still see that is very hard for her ... Patrick was her #1 and she was his #1 .. Patrick's life ended but hers hasn't yet .. she has every right to keep living .. Patrick would want her to ... 37 years together ... that Love will never disappear or diminish. ... Live and keep moving Lisa ... Taking that Love with you so Patrick can still be with you every step of the way ... RIP Patrick , you are truly missed..
She is such a brave woman. She stuck with him through the good, bad and the ugly. She is right how he was fearless and was never afraid to try anything. He was so handsome, awesome actor and a wonderful husband. Her and Patricks's DVD before his passing they were going to have a baby and she was pregnant but lost the baby and never tried again and they were both devastated. They were team and a strong couple and fought the devil. She is such an amazing woman after 4 years after his passing.
I can relate to some of her experiences when my husband passed. Parting is "such sweet sorrow" and when you both become one, to me, that's when you understand the meaning of love and life. God bless you widow Swayze, may He guide you always until your purpose here on earth is ended.🙏
I lost my husband to Mesothelioma on July 19, 2021, just 3 months ago. It’s a death sentence. Prognosis 6-12 months. We met when I was barely 15, he was 19 - 57 yrs ago. He fought with everything he could, chemo, special treatments, drinks...but he just kept losing ground. I had no help except from our son in the midst of Covid. It’s amazing how long a body can go on with very little nourishment. But those 6 months were precious. 3 days after going to Hospice, at 11:00 p.m., we told him it was time to go. He died peacefully 1 hr. and 40 minutes later. I hope the day comes when I’m as brave as you. I so admired Patrick and the way you handled it together. Grief is indescribable.
Bonnie, you ARE very brave. Hang in there.
God Bless you Lisa....You were definitely His Angel
windspirit1954 yes she is smart he left her everything nothing to his family she saw to that she is scum bucket
Thank you so much for sharing one of the hardest times in life and yes lisa your husband was one of the sexiest men on television even today and not only sexiest but well respected and liked!!! Sorry you had to lose your best friend so early in life 34 years to being without that person is shock and very hard anyhow, you both were such a role model to others of true love and marriage still existing thanks!!
Always makes me smile when I hear stories about Patrick swayze
I followed you, Lisa Niemi Swayze and Patrick, for yrs you were the best partner what you both went through & very proud wife you are .
Patrick was an awesome man. He is greatly missed. I so understand your journey. I went through the same thing with my husband. He wanted to be home to pass. He passed 2/22/2020. I still have moments after a year and a half where I feel lost. Prayers for you.
Patrick was a gift to us all. Thank you for sharing him with us. He was the kind of man we wish every man was. We are fortunate to have him on film, so he will virtually never be gone. I wish you well as you continue through lifes journey.
Cancer is such a vicious disease. I had breast cancer and I beat it, but my age was in my favor. It's a hard battle. You just cannot give in to it. Find that place inside you that will not let you fail.
God bless.
+kidfromstatenisland I fought ovarian cancer and my sisters ovarian cancer was in her pancreas and she is a survivor!
+kathleen Farmer So happy for you sister survivors!
Glad to hear you beat it but nomatter how hard you try nomatter what treatments or how much prayer is there some cancers just cannot be beaten but to not try is to give up so no matter the type everyone needs to fight until they can no longer giving in to the relief of death after constant horrible pain is all that is left to anyone who dies with that severe pain. I have been a nurse for 42 yrs. I have taken care of many patients who tried so hard along with others who didn't try and they both died or in some cases lived regardless it seems with all the knew treat,ents and knowledge we would be able to cure most things but sadly not enough I have held the hand or a child when they are dying and it is heart breaking and I pray and hope those who are suffering find their own way to deal with the cancer and pain, esp whenit is not curable and we need to respect their wishes. It is the only decision and or control they have left over their life. May god bless each
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What an amazing presentation! Lisa's words regarding the grieving process and how to get through the loss touched my heart. I recently lost my mother to lung & brain cancer and everything she says is so true about having to let someone go. It is not easy but you do have to find a way give them and yourself peace. My heart goes out to her.
Thank ya.ll for sharing this ladies story of her brave husbands fight to carry on being himself . Fortune favours the brave .and sounds to me like he was so brave
Always loved Patrick. Losing someone so close to you is like having a limb missing. Part os you is gone. Thanks for sharing Lisa. You must have so many beautiful memories to take forward with you. God bless and be happy. That is what Patrick would want for you. ❤
He was awesome
GOD BLESS HER FOR CONTINUING TO LOVE HER HUSBAND!!
He had an amazing woman/wife. Loved watching you two dance. You did amazing, thank her for speaking. 🤗💖👠💐🌻
My dad was 59 when diagnosed and died 6 months after. I saw what pancreatic cancer does to people, what it did to my dad and I can't stop crying..Will be soon 2 years.
I'm so happy for her that she finally found love again💕
I was in tears... I needed this! She has helped me. My hubby just died recently and I can relate to every single thing she said... My hubby and 8 did everything together too. Part of me is missing now. I'm struggling to transition to doing everything by myself. A lot of emptiness... The only thing different for her and me is... Money! Financial security. I have none. So that is a big stress on me. I pray for God to sustain me and give me my needs.
I'm sorry for your loss. Will pray for you.
Gussy Gatlin i am so sorry for your loss I am sure that pain will always be there 2 some degree
Having said that he was able 2 have a life most dream of. I can say as a nurse, pediatric specialty after 42 yrs & counting, I can name so many children whose family would gladly have given all so their child could have had just one more day. They have 98% of my heart the rest with Patrick & others who have reached the end of a horrific battle as well. As an adult who may or may or may not be feeling what they claim to be feeling their emotions r no less painful but the children & their siblings, parents,friends,cousins, us nurses etc. .makes it hard 4 me to want 2 hear adults who were blessed with reaching adulthood, with having a family, a true love whine about a death of someone no matter star or not who had all that time on earth. To those of u who will have a fit over my comment, u do not see us nurses or families of children who did not get a chance 2 grow up to have their first kiss 2 have a career or public career an actor so many could enjoy them as we did Patrick & I am not taking anything away from him & his immediate family or fans it just sickens me 2 see someone milk a death sell his personal items without his family even getting a chance 2 keep something special 2 them. If what many who knew him say is true. If not I apologize but I do not take back my words a childs chance for one more birthday his family planning a 2 yr old party firsts day of school, sweet sixteen, drivers. Lic worry. Etc. in comparison her milking tears and money from his fans disgust me. Let Patrick rest in peace and respect if he wanted a book written he had plenty of time to have done so, at least one sharing his illness when he was still fighting it, he could of done it as he went and I do not believe she needs money, she already has a new income from a husband, may she experience exactly what she gave to with Patrick. With the horses she could easily made a living doing that or teaching dancing, or any number of jobs with all the reach of Patrick & his family. Again I hope I am wrong as I have heard some really harsh things from her treatment of Patrick, hope not but if u want to help others with his disease, start with children then adults, share it none kept for profit none. I do hope for all of sadden by his passing 2 remember him with love and think about what he would have wanted, to start with the kids, then younger people. His heart was one 2 cherish not sure about his ex wife she is now moved on to a completely different life & man. I wish her the best Meanwhile please consider the babies,children,teenagers, & young adults by donating to the official website or to St. Jude's Children Hospital they will send u whatever booklets info u want. So let Patrick be remembered for his heart and start a donation account to be set aside 4 research & families dealing with similar issues any kind of cancer. Bless u Patrick 4 all the joy, kindness and fun u brought our way. I hope after we are all gone, there will remain a funding set up in his name. Please think of the kids, research and families of the children who know only heart ache always. Thanks
I JUST saw this ! Lisa, Patrick swayzes wife, is TRULY AMAZING! God and Patrick WOULD be SO proud of her! Both are TRULY awesome and TRUE BLESSINGS to us all in this world! Lisa has such GREAT faith and STRENGTH! God Bless PATRICK SWAYZE, LISA and ALL families friends!💙🙏😘💕🕊️😇🙏❤️
its incredible to have someone who loves you this much
People really need to stop.judging and assuming things. I am sure Patrick is in Heaven smiling down on Lisa and happy she has found another love. It does NOT replace her and Patrick's love in any way. Our hearts can love again, in time.
rhon715 I know, I wish people would stop judging her. Whether you like her or not, she has no choice but to go on with life. If she is lucky enough to find love again, good for her. She did not leave Patrick, Patrick did not leave her by choice. Life is what it is. Her selling her place with him must have been devastatingly difficult. I personally probably could not have done it, but everyone is different. She probably couldn't completely go on if she still lived there. Maybe it is a move of respect for their love and life together that she could not live there with someone else. I can see that. It has been a long time since he passed. I think every one of us knows he would want her to go on and find love if she could. If you love someone you want them to be happy. Neither of them had a choice of being separated. They were blessed more than most people in life to have had what they did for the time they did. You cannot ever recreate that and can only be grateful that you were so blessed and move on. Blessings Lisa.
I bet you believe fake pres lies too. Sorry but abuse is abuse it is plain and simple If half of what she tries to say is true she would of given his close family a choice of his most precious items not sell the to strangers on ebay. Selli g the farm the horses she had to have. I think Patrick would be shocked at how naive people are. He is dancing with angels and not watching his abuser continue to do so making more money off him.
It's ok to remarry but there is some nasty gossip that she sort of confirms by selling all his treasured possessions. He was worth a lot why did she need to sell some of the items his family would surely treasure if given the chance to keep? I don't know what to think really.
To me Patrick and Lisa were a match made in Heaven! You can still see the pain in her ❤️❤️ Heart and I feel some of her pain I've lost a husband too! Lisa is a very brave Woman and I wish her the best of everything in her moving forward cause that's a lot to endure! R.i.p.Patrick you will always be in Our ❤️❤️ Heart's!
Shes incredible and so strong! I'm so inspired by her love and bravery!
that was amazing. she is a very strong and brave woman!
Wow! This brought just about every emotion out of me. Very, very touching. Thoughts and prayers are with you and Patrick ALWAYS 🙏❤️
Me encantó, que gran mujer es Lisa tuvo como esposo a otro ser humano admirable, gracias por compartir esto.
Everyone wants to get mad at her for remarrying why? Patrick would want her to be happy, she can't sit around and stop living she deserves to be happy. She was with Patrick for 37 years the love she has for him will never die, yes I said has. He may have died, her love for him didn't. Her love for her new husband is a different love, it's not the same.
shawna266: The Word of God (Bible), gives her permission to do so, without it being sinful in the sight of God! But, she is suppose to marry someone in the Lord (a man who not only believes in Christ, but is also obedient to the Word of God)!.....
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shawna266 she used to beat Patrick. And he never once hit her back. And she forged a will and his signature. She is a cow
Kerri Neu not true
You are so full of it. That is definitely not true so you should be ashamed of yourself for saying that.
yep the pain of losing someone you love never goes away but with time it gets easier to bear.
Such true words, thank you for sharing and loving him and helping him get his Angel wings XO
i think its sweet that shes honoring him this way thru her and to us:')
An incredibly brave and beautiful woman, Patrick would want her to go on and live her life to the full and be happy. I'm sure he knew what a lucky man he was to have such a special bond with someone and to have shared his life with. An incredibly brave man, a wonderful dancer and a wonderful actor, a life to be proud of.xx
Wow~ Lisa, THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH for making that uplifting , encouraging video. I had a lot of my thoughts of Patrick reaffirmed- his love for animals, his easy going way, his positive attitude, and his Love for you , to name just a few. I really LIKED him! And now to know that he was animal lover like myself, is just a "cherry" on top!!! I am so happy that you two had such a wonderful marriage. Yes, the world already misses him. Quite often I think -- "no one puts Baby in the corner"! And it makes me smile. That movie was awesome!!! I watch reruns of it all the time! Thank you for sharing your wonderful husband with all of us. I understand what you mean about the grief --- my husband ,who was a 2 tour Viet Nam Vet , with severe PTSD, took his life. That shook me out of my boots and my life is still so confusing - I want to hear his voice again, feel his smooth soft skin, look into his gorgeous blue eyes, play with his awesome beard, and just feel like I was where I was meant to be. 🙏 AMEN
Telling the journey is comfort to so many. Thank you
Thank you Lisa for your insight & sharing Patrick's journey, and yours. He was very lucky to have you with him and as someone else said You were his "Angel". R.I.P. PATRICK.
Dear Lisa, what a great talk and how brave of you to do it....thank you X
You put it very well. I lost a husband as well. Grief is like waves. If it all came in one big tsunami, it would kill us.
Thank you for letting us get to know you! Patrick Swayze is still in our hearts.... Your honesty and hearing your dedication to each other is beyond words! For me it isn't now just losing an icon... But a heartbreak unimaginable for for the love you still have for your husband. You are an amazing lady that truly found her soul mate... As well as he!!! Thank you for sharing... May God always bless you! And give you strength and comfort and faith!!!
Thanks for sharing yours and Patrick’s story. Patrick was one of my favorite actors. You answered my assumption, as I got the impression that he was a fearless warrior class personality. I’m so very sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself Lisa, and May God Bless and Keep you safe.
No has respetado su intimidad. Te demoraste poco en traicionar su confianza. Contaste todos sus secretos y debilidades. Y por dinero además. Nunca fuiste una éxito en lo artístico. Solo la esposa de patrick. Espero que tu nuevo esposo no sufra de tus bajezas
Everything you said is spot on. (Except for one; I was married to the sexiest man alive ;)
I lost my late husband, mid-40s, to an agressive cancer, months after diagnosis.
He passed on the same date as Patrick, a few years later. I related to all the phases you described. Nothing can prepare
you for the trauma and grief, even though you know what's coming. I had no idea how much my identity was entwined with
him until after he passed. It's been a long road of grief. Thank you for having the courage and presence to be on that stage and
describe young widowhood and all the revelations that come with it. One breath at a time > one minute at a time > one hour at a time > one day at a time. And that's all there really is.
Beautiful! Bless her.
Lisa, you are a STRONG & MAGNIFICENT woman. My sister was diagnosed with Pancreatic Cancer stage 4 in Sept 2007 and died early Dec 2007 at 62 and as much as Life is NOT FAIR, we all have to live, do the best we can and move on and I applaud you for doing just that. Just LIVE & LAUGH everyday.
I cried mnear the end but I got some strength from her. Thank you
Thank you for sharing Mrs. Swayze. I love that you all are wonderful, talented Houston dancers. I have danced, like thousands, st Houston Community College.
Nunca uso apellido hasta después de muerte
Very sweet and poignant...love so rare and strong. Made for each other but gone too soon. What incredible talent especially the dancing. R.I.P Patrick... heaven has gained a wonderful soul🙏🙏🙏
That was wonderful. I’m so happy you had each other. ❤️
She loved him and respect Ed him when he was alive and now she deserves to happy 🌹
You are an incredibly brave woman and so blessed to have had a love for all those years. God bless you and thanks so much for sharing with the world.
I can’t believe some of the most nasty comments on here about this lady,none of you know what went on you were not there so unless you have 100% proof I think you should all keep your opinions to yourself.
Pics of them speak for them self and I know he wants her happy he said that and get 5 years then she did I know her heart always his her first but a second can sooth take the loneliness away
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Good for you for saying that. People in glass houses shouldn't be throwing stones.
Your a very strong and beautiful women.
you are a beautiful soul Lisa. He is smiling down on you always.
Ash died 6 weeks after diagnosis. It was horrific BUT he died with a smile on his face... As if to say "I will go out fighting this" He had a great Spirit & we loved each other so much....
WOW! I lost my dad to cancer in 2011 and to this day its hard to talk about. Lisa Swayze I cant thank you enough for this because I always worry about how my mother is and we dont talk but you have give me peace of mind of knowing the strength of my mother. God bless you and thankyou
You should talk to your mother..... If your father's death brought you no other rock solid information, you must have learned from it that life is short. Find a way to fix what is wrong, find a way to promote healing..... I lost my husband to liver cancer 11 1/2 years ago. I have had many other challenges in my life.... 4 miscarriages, cervical cancer requiring a radical hysterectomy at 32 yrs old, 2 major car accidents causing severe spinal problems which resulted in requiring 6 back surgeries and a shoulder surgery, .....and now a completely deteriorated cervical spine, recently I had to face my only daughter (a very talented classically trained opera singer) having thyroid cancer requiring a total thyroidectomy which after three years, while gratefully she remains cancer free, also remains primarily unable to sing (after 27 years of training including a fine music conservatory undergraduate and graduate degreed education, and unbridled discipline and commitment)....
But, this is not about me, no one passes through this life unscathed. I apologize for the multitudinous personal disclosure but needed to set the stage. I could continue the list, it is much longer, but my hope is that you now will understand and be able to put into context what I am going to say. From every devastating life experience that I have encountered, as time has passed and I have had the ability to process the experience and reflect, I have gained perspective and taken with me what I refer to as a "major life lesson".
Three years after I met my husband, I was married to my "college sweetheart" for 32 years, giving us 35 years together, which on his death represented almost 2/3 of my life. He was the love of my life.... but marriage was often hard work until.... the day he was diagnosed with inoperable liver cancer, which took his life 6 months and 3 days later.
From the day he was diagnosed up until his death we were inseparable, he would literally follow me from room to room as we were discussing all of the details of what we had to do to "get our affairs in order", including, closing a thriving business with over 30 employees, and my trying to absorb as much as possible about businesses in 2 other countries that were easily handled by my husband who fluently spoke those 2 other languages. Me, not so much.... I speak English fairly well!
My total interest and primary focus however, was in trying to discover ANYTHING or ANYPLACE in the US or elsewhere in the world, that we could possibly find, ANY facility or doctor that might offer us treatment of any type, or even offer us any minuscule glimmer of hope that might extend his life.... We fought together as a team.... much as we had worked together through our lives, as a team, as business partners, parents, friends and lovers. Despite having had the opportunity to "prepare" for his death, on it's arrival, the reality of it was startling, and devastating beyond anything that I could have imagined or had experienced before or since. (continued in an additional post)
With the whisper of his last breathe.... in that instant, I was suddenly alone and he was gone! STARTLING!! The person who I had made every important decision of my adult life with.... the father of our child, oftentimes my mentor, the center of my chosen world, was GONE! Had we discussed everything we needed to.... had I said everything to him that I needed to say.....??? I think you get the picture.
Unless you have been severely abused by your parent and a relationship is no longer realistic, they are usually the people with whom we have had the closest relationship..... i.e. they have know us since conception. For me, another tough one, my mother entered hospice the same day my husband did, for him, only 13 days… my Mother died 7 weeks later….
The "life lesson" that I took away from my husband's death, we all hear repeatedly.... We often think about it for a fleeting minute telling ourselves that we already do that, it is the very common cliché "Don't sweat the small stuff, and it's all small stuff"!
As the result of a fairly turbulent childhood with a severely abusive father and older brother, I became an extremely defensive, often combative adult if challenged, who, as a result was angry much of the time. I was not even aware of it, but it was always there simmering subconsciously, just under the surface until it boiled over with ease at the slightest provocation. So what if that guy cut in front me... or that woman in the 10 item "speed" check out line, 2 people in front of me, has at least 25 items .... and, I have 1 item as do the other 2 people.... and... I am in a hurry, or... my husband's socks are on the floor again.... despite years of asking him to change that behavior..... again, I think you get the point.... that "small stuff" just doesn't matter (and.... I only wish he were here so that I could pick up his socks, even, if it were "just" one more time). It was first, through my husband's death and later after untold numbers of hours of therapy, which revealed that none of those "small things" really mattered.
You expressed worry about your mother which indicates concern for her well being. That is your gut and intuition speaking to you.... listen to it, it is most often the best barometer, but we all to often ignore it. Pay attention to it! As a mother, I can assure you that regardless of what you think about her strength, being estranged from one's child is a pain that a mother should never have to endure. This is not saying to "let bygones be bygones". This is saying, do the work, regardless of how hard it is.... figure out what is necessary to "fix it". Identify the cause, really think about what the steps are to fix it, be as mindful, self reflective and honest as possible as you do your personal analysis.... and then work toward that goal. Keep in mind that the only person we have the ability to change is ourselves. Also, be aware of the fact that people respond and react to our actions, so if they differ from our previous behavior, we will probably get a different response and result than we are used to receiving.
As a member of the most forward thinking, progressive 501C-3 non profit widows organization, the Modern Widows Club, I have learned so many other things, like what many of the consequences of being widowed are. These are just a few (this applies to all widows including your mother): we suffer memory loss, more or less severe, sometimes intermittent... (the shape of a widow's brain actually changes as a result of the trauma of their spouse's death) we often suffer a severe inability to focus, we typically become severely depressed, our hormones literally go tilt, we do crazy things (my daughter will attest to that), we are often abandoned by our friends as we become a fifth wheel, because we have become a neon example of what those women friends who are fortunate enough to still have their spouses, fear facing the most, (70% of women WILL be widowed in their lifetimes) your identity is lost... you now have to figure out who you are what you are going to do with YOUR life but more importantly HOW you are going to do that all at a time when if is almost impossible to think. ....And we are grieving.
All this to say, you are right to worry about how your mother is. What you were seeing in this video of Lisa's presentation, is a woman who has survived and is working hard to thrive and doing a bang up job of it. She is doing what Modern Widows Club teaches us to do, but trust me she IS doing it one day at a time.
Lisa is courageous and repeats that all you can do is to keep on "putting one foot in front of the other".
Lisa Swayze is a woman who, 4 years after the loss of her beloved husband, is able to talk about how that journey progressed for herself and Patrick without being in tears all the way through, but her voice is brittle, it cracks, she has moments when she needs to stop and collect herself, and she wipes the occasional tear away.
Your description of your father's passing carries the essence of affection. It also seems to be there for your mom. If nothing else, this video should not give you peace of mind in your mother's regard.... Lisa's talk ends with an urgent plea to be aware of and appreciate every moment that we are given in this fleeting life.... she implores the listeners to NEVER miss the opportunity to say "I love you" to those who matter. I am saying do that.... and "don't sweat the small stuff".
Your mother will always need and want your love and support and will appreciate it (whether she is ever able to express it openly and honestly to you or not). Every minute you allow the discord to continue is a minute of both of your lives that is gone forever, neither of you can ever get it back.
I can guarantee that your mother misses your father indescribably, grieves her most profound loss, while carrying a sadness in her heart that is unequalled by any other loss she has ever suffered. She is still here after 7 years and apparently functioning on some kind of level. Being widowed is the most painful, confusing and difficult challenge a woman who is in a satisfying marriage has to face.
Applaud her victories, regardless of their size. Encourage and support her decisions whether you agree with them or not.... even if you think that they are stupid. It is the only way to ford the stream and make it so that there is the possibility to establish open lines of communication and trust. It is only then that you can carefully and gently attempt to have meaningful dialogue that will help her to understand your points of view. That takes time, patience and commitment.... it doesn't happen in one conversation. Find a way to heal this wound before it is to late and the opportunity has passed. You are the one who (according to the odds) will be left behind. As a result, you will have the rest of your life to regret and wish it could have been different.
Thank you for your post thank you for sharing of the passing of your husband thank you thank you thank you I lost my mom a year ago she was in hospice I took care of her and it's been very hard so thank you so much for those words for your story may God bless you always
Holy cow. Lisa, right before I watched your story, I watched the video of you and Patrick dancing in 1984. You are an amazing woman, and Patrick is watching over you, and will always be with you. Much ❤️ and prayers for you.
What a wonderful, intelligent, insightful, heartfelt and captivating presentation. Thank you very much for sharing your experiences and observations with us !!
her voice sais it all! amazing how brave she is standing there