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  • @asavagegarden
    @asavagegarden Год назад +101

    1st story. he is abusive as hell. i hope she can get herself and her baby away from him.

  • @sarahlf10
    @sarahlf10 Год назад +40

    It makes me so sad that these women don't find out how shitty their husbands/boyfriends are until after they've had children with them (or while they're actively having said children). They're stuck with these losers in their lives forever because they share children.

  • @JuliaRoseconejitabunny
    @JuliaRoseconejitabunny Год назад +55

    The dishes one physically hurt me. My grandma taught her kids the same divide of chores, and my dad ended up being a single father. He had noooo idea how to clean a house and therefore I had no idea how to clean a house until I was a teenager. I will always be a proponent for cycling chores so that your children are capable of fully caring for themselves.

  • @FluffyLlama
    @FluffyLlama Год назад +10

    Dishes are daily, laundry a few times a week. How often do you take out the trash and cut the lawn? Especially divided over two people

  • @Vickydoessomething
    @Vickydoessomething Год назад +35

    “She’s not MY mother”
    UH SHES THE MOTHER OF YOUR CHILD??????

  • @mellonicoley
    @mellonicoley Год назад +29

    Brit here. Calling someone a c*nt is still a big deal, especially the way he did it. More excusable if you're drunk and taking the piss out of your mates.

  • @Jordan-bm8lp
    @Jordan-bm8lp Год назад +99

    While I may have found the fart joke/prank funny, not every person would. Plus she was in labor. Read the room, dude. His behavior after, however, would have sealed the deal for me as well. Immature, abusive behavior from that guy. Ew af

    • @woman_of_mayhem
      @woman_of_mayhem Год назад +23

      Same here. Especially since she went in saying no jokes. I’d be so upset. I’ve gone threw labor 4 times and my husband knows time and place. We make fun and pick on each other but labor is serious, things could go wrong. His behavior after is huge red flags!!

    • @alexartemisia
      @alexartemisia Год назад

      Yeah, it isn't so much the prank as the behaviour afterwards for me as well. Like my guy, your wife just went through 12 hr of labour, your asinine sense of humour AND is three weeks into "the fourth trimester" - get a grip and grow tf up. There only needs to be one baby in this dynamic rn and it's not you bro

    • @lina9535
      @lina9535 4 месяца назад +1

      Yeah, I agree.
      Besides, if it was anything like my sisters ex's farts.... it would have cleared the room, or someone would have thrown up.
      Would he really want his childs first breaths to be of his stanky ass air?

    • @Nathan_Bookwurm
      @Nathan_Bookwurm 14 дней назад

      In a normal situation maybe, but not in the delivery room to a person who's but naked on the table where her private parts lay in the open for everyone to see, in hours of pain and most vulnerable state, probably scared she's going to poop herself while pushing the baby out, and in general in a lot of anxiety or even traumatic situation.

  • @Rin-ef2tp
    @Rin-ef2tp Год назад +62

    The dish washing story- the boys chores aren’t even that hard and are not a daily occurrence like laundry and doing the dishes. Mowing the lawn takes a couple of hours every 2-3 weeks and isn’t even a job you need to do in the winter. Also the big jobs are split between the 2 boys but there’s only the one girl helping in the house it’s just silly to say they’re doing more work. This also puts the boys at a disadvantage when they live alone and it’s why so many straight women have to look after their partner like they’re a child because they never learnt how to run a household

    • @inni_k7767
      @inni_k7767 Год назад +12

      Also the lawn would never get bigger, just the weeds, but the amount of clothes and dishes can grow a lot

    • @tulip324
      @tulip324 Год назад +8

      Exactly. If anyone has ever had to do laundry and dishes for 5 people they’d know it’s extremely strenuous because dishes are often washed twice a day depending on the time of year and laundry for 5 people is usually done daily.
      Also laundry in and of itself is like 4 separate tasks

  • @lauraf2101
    @lauraf2101 Год назад +6

    Dishes and laundry is an every single day chore....Mowing the lawn and non specific heavy lifting? What, that is happening weekly?

  • @_malikajamz
    @_malikajamz Месяц назад +1

    me screaming “MAYBE HE SHOULDVE ACTED LIKE A GROWN UP” to the prank

  • @lina9535
    @lina9535 4 месяца назад +3

    Story 4: Who wants to bet that those two sons are going to become the "you need to do my laundry, I don't know how" when they get a partner, thanks to dear old misogynistic dad

  • @kirstiewood5054
    @kirstiewood5054 Год назад +14

    Brit here 👋 crumpets are a false sense of deliciousness. They look soft and tasty, you put butter on them and it soaks through 100 tiny holes on top. But once you bite it, it's sort of like a eating a moist rubber sponge 🧽 maybe next episode you guys could try some with different toppings, and see what you think! " Rate my crumpet! "

    • @frederiquem6725
      @frederiquem6725 Год назад +3

      I'm French and I like crumpets ! I eat them with savory toppings like I would with blinis. I'm probably eating them wrong though 😅

    • @k3upikachu
      @k3upikachu Год назад +3

      They're really good freshly made, but that's the only time I'll eat em

  • @carolhowker7069
    @carolhowker7069 10 месяцев назад +4

    Ted Lasso makes shortbread biscuits.
    We have English muffins as well as crumpets. 2 separate things

  • @persaunna
    @persaunna 11 месяцев назад +3

    With you. Prank videos are vile.
    It never ceases to amaze me when people are out there ASKING THE QUESTION and even after writing it all out, STILL don't get how or why they clearly fucked up, and even double down on their UNassholeness.

  • @lesliethompson7860
    @lesliethompson7860 Год назад +19

    The father not letting his sons do the dishes because they have "more work"... I'm sorry, how often are they mowing the lawn taking out the trash, and doing heavy lifting? Because taking out trash would be once a day, mowing is usually once a week and heavy lifting shouldn't be happening more than a few times a month. Plus there are 2 of them. Meanwhile the 1 daughter is cleaning up after 5 people all day EVERY DAY. Laundry for 5 would happen at least twice a week, washing folding and putting away. Dishes at least 3 times a day. House cleaning for at least a couple hours every day. Not to mention probably cooking for all of them as well. Tell me again how your sons have more work and harder work than your daughter? And that's not even mentioning how misogynistic this whole thing is. I bet we will see his sons on "Does This Guy F*ck" at some point in the future. Bet they're "nice guys" because of their father.

  • @bheytacs
    @bheytacs Год назад +22

    As a new mom who went to a crazy 19 hours of labor, if I was the OP, I’d react the same way. That is such not a good time to just do a prank or whatever and he’s being insensitive. I remember when I was in labor my husband was just scrolling through his facebook and I got pissed (bec of too much pain and he didn’t help me soothe it in any way like massage my lower back maybe). So yeah, any pregnant women in labor or in delivery is not on their right state of mind. We’re focused on the pain. The husband is the AH.

    • @tabathaalshalhoub1653
      @tabathaalshalhoub1653 6 месяцев назад +2

      My mom was in labor 24 hours with my brother and the nurse rolled her eyes at my mom when she asked for ice. My mom grabbed her by the throat and flipped out.
      After having my fourth, yeah. Labor is the worst. Four best & worst days of my life. I lost so much blood during my first that I passed out and couldn’t even hold my baby until 4 hours later. My husband held her, let the nurses boss him around, held my hand.
      Like, the whole point of being there is to support your wife while going through the worst pain.

  • @mhthnlel
    @mhthnlel Год назад +8

    One thing that bothered me about the chore story, it sounds like along with assigning the kids chores, the wife cooks (possibly by herself) and cleans along side the daughter. No where did we hear that the dad even does or helps with ANY chores. He should be teaching his kids the importance of ALL the chores and show a willingness to do them himself or he’s going to make the chores feel like a burden for them instead of as something necessary to maintaining a household

  • @yas0809
    @yas0809 Год назад +27

    You are giving my son the urge to stand up. He is 9 months old and just learning how to stand.

    • @RedditOnWiki
      @RedditOnWiki  Год назад +8

      😂 I love this!!

    • @yas0809
      @yas0809 Год назад +8

      @Reddit On Wiki he lit up, started standing, and then clapped

  • @along_came_the_spder4630
    @along_came_the_spder4630 Год назад +7

    In regards to the first story. She will most likely keep the baby. Because she hasn’t worked and he was the bread winner he can be liable to pay for child and spousal support. It can be in her favor unless she’s proven to be a danger or incompetent parent. She should save all his text and keep record of him being abusive. Hope she’s doing well.

  • @annarhealargo
    @annarhealargo Год назад +13

    story 4: the damn father is not even weighing on how frequent his daughter is doing her “assigned chores”, how frequent does his sons do their task? everyday? do they fix their lawn everyday? uhh what a logic 😤

  • @joannaconings9989
    @joannaconings9989 Год назад +12

    In Belgium and France we say « frites » for French fries 🍟😊 thank you for the great content, I am taking my final master exams this month and your content really helps me unwind. Keep up the good work, you are great and thank you again for all your work ☺️

    • @IAmContemporary
      @IAmContemporary Год назад +3

      In the Netherlands we have an ongoing national silent war over whether it’s “friet” or “patat”, haha. Hope you aced your exams!

    • @joannaconings9989
      @joannaconings9989 Год назад +2

      @@IAmContemporary Haha in the flemish part of Belgium we say "frietjes" :) but it's good to know about this controversy, I will keep it in my mind next time I go to the Netherlands :) Thank you for the encouragements, I passed :D

  • @Themoushtaceleague96
    @Themoushtaceleague96 Год назад +5

    My uncle is/was an addict (I don’t know if he’s stayed clean since 1. I haven’t seen him since 2018 and 2. I’m no contact with him due to the request of my dad which I want to respect). He’s been an addict for most of the time I’ve known him. Him relapsing was the reason I went no contact, due to him drinking again and him verbally assaulting my grandma and assaulting my grandpa. Grandparents didn’t know he had relapsed till he was told it’s time for dinner. OP of the second story did the correct thing. 100% the correct thing.
    OP if you’re reading this, it’s not your fault and if you need to cut ties for a while and go low contact, please do it (and if it’s fake and anyone can relate, same sentiment applies)

  • @luvliiladiibebe
    @luvliiladiibebe Год назад +10

    The story about the chores has me wondering. How many times do they do this during the week? Dishes are an everyday chore.

  • @tabathaalshalhoub1653
    @tabathaalshalhoub1653 6 месяцев назад +1

    Story 5:
    I spend 5 straight hours with my kids after school every day. I then have 30 mins of scrolling on my phone while they finish their hw/clean their room/play, etc before bed. And I need that alone time. If someone told me to get off my phone and parent my kids, I’d smack them lol

  • @shafnut
    @shafnut Год назад +8

    love how crumpets weren’t even part of the reddit post HAHAHA

  • @ChrissaTodd
    @ChrissaTodd Год назад +7

    story 1 the MIL really pisses me off you'd think she'd understand having given birth herself, that the daughter in law had every right to kick him out when he says no jokes and does it anyway. but clearly she coddles him. also clearly he got it from her.

    • @IAmContemporary
      @IAmContemporary Год назад +3

      The MIL is giving “I’m a boy mom”

    • @availanila
      @availanila Год назад +2

      ​@@IAmContemporary she does. Thank goodness OP has a spine and mom.

  • @sapphicnecromancer
    @sapphicnecromancer Год назад +6

    For the wanting private proposal: I proposed to my wife with a build a bear at our home (she wanted a private proposal). Granted it was during lockdown, but still. I think the gf probably would something more like that tbh.

  • @QueenKittyMonster
    @QueenKittyMonster Год назад +10

    I think it was one of my comments you were referring to, Josh when you mentioned someone giving you grief for liking the maple leafs. In my defense as a montreal canadiens fan I am legally required to give leaf fans a hard time. Even when their team is doing better then mine

    • @RedditOnWiki
      @RedditOnWiki  Год назад +4

      😂 it was your comment! It's all good! Sienna's family are Habs fans so I'm used to it 🥲

  • @kitcath278
    @kitcath278 Год назад +3

    In France french fries are just called fries 😂

  • @KiwiPrincess19
    @KiwiPrincess19 Год назад +4

    I normally am a silent listener but wow I had to comment because AI is becoming too smart 😂 I have to agree with Sean.
    Also much love to all the boys! Even John although he isn’t in this episode💕

  • @philliponmeh
    @philliponmeh Год назад +4

    I know these comments here are great already, but I'm letting you guys know I'm here to make the comments great again. Love the podcast gets me through the eight hour days! Yes, I'm listening to you guys for eight hours for the past 5 days. Found you guys on RUclips shorts about the sibling stealing the brothers' dogs for her wedding and then looked for the podcast and started binging since. MTCGA.

  • @FantasticaB
    @FantasticaB Год назад +5

    This is my first time actually watching on yt and not tiktok clips. Love you guys, great opinions from what I’ve seen! Also I hope that woman from the delivery story stays away from that man forever cause he sounds like a man baby.

  • @justlikethewizard
    @justlikethewizard Год назад +2

    Does the Mother's Day guy not wish his grandma a Happy Mother's Day???????

  • @TheHeartThief
    @TheHeartThief Год назад +3

    1st story: ain’t no way I was in the mood for a joke when I was giving birth. That shit is intense as hell! I can’t believe that dumbass abusive guy. 😒 glad she left his ass wtf. Red flag number one was he was into prank videos 😭

  • @ChrissaTodd
    @ChrissaTodd Год назад +2

    i agree with the whole prank video thing i agree i have never been into pranks couple pranks especially cause it's always about upsetting the other person

  • @alyzu4755
    @alyzu4755 Год назад +3

    Story 1: NTA, at all. If it meant so much to him to be in the room he could have at least apologized. Or, y'know, not pulled a prank while his wife was in LABOR. And afterward he behaved like a spoiled brat. And allowing his mother to call OP a b*tch?!?!? Not speaking to her for a week? Not helping with their newborn daughter? This guy AND his mother are disgusting . I hope OP can get herself and her daughter away from both of them.
    Update: Wow! He just gets worse! What a horrible, terrible person. He's going to try to turn their daughter against her. I hope she and the baby will be OK.

  • @madisonmathis9422
    @madisonmathis9422 Год назад +3

    Story 3 is giving emotional incest between OPs husband and his mommy🤡

  • @kaitlinrutti9259
    @kaitlinrutti9259 Год назад +19

    If you make a woman a mother (by either being born or by getting her pregnant), you celebrate them on Mother’s Day. Personal opinion, the person who you most recently made a mother is the priority.

  • @madisonmathis9422
    @madisonmathis9422 Год назад +1

    First story only prank videos I find cute or funny are the ones where one parent helps the kids pull a super innocent actually funny prank on the other parent… those aren’t mean tho are usually at home so no public humiliation and the parent being pranked laughs and thinks it’s funny when it’s brought to light! That is a prank half of these videos are skirting the edges of bullying under the guise of a prank! Also with this story harmless or not he agreed then fully broke her trust during what is probably the most vulnerable moment of her life!

  • @PragmaNDefatigably
    @PragmaNDefatigably 2 месяца назад

    56:52 I feel like she gave an example when explaining to the friend on why she was upset that she didn’t want a public proposal and at the bar of all places. I don’t think it’s because she and he specifically discussed not proposing at the bar.

  • @Esther_In_SoCal
    @Esther_In_SoCal Год назад +3

    1st story shows the immaturity of the guy. Get away from him

  • @zaysay1640
    @zaysay1640 Год назад

    The new setup is looking great!

  • @sillymanmcgee
    @sillymanmcgee 9 месяцев назад +1

    story 4 dad gives me bad vibes :( calling the daughter’s chores “less of a workload” is kind of wrong? your sons help with yardwork, what, every week or two? dishes have to be done every day and laundry for five is several loads a week.

  • @twoohoot
    @twoohoot 11 месяцев назад

    Most countries call french fries. Fried potatoes but in their language.

  • @KayDazzle90
    @KayDazzle90 Год назад +1

    plot twist for story 4, their yard is 10 acres /S

  • @robinchesterfield42
    @robinchesterfield42 11 месяцев назад +1

    ...I SO the f hoped the AI generated story would be the "prank during labor" one.
    Call me sentimental, but every now and then I like to believe that perhaps, somewhere, one time, ONE actual "human" being would be FICTIONALLY horrible. But no. And the fact that he flipped out SO. FREAKING. MUCH, and never _stopped_ flipping out, and doubled, tripled, and quadrupled down, and did NOTHING AT ALL when he realised _how_ seriously he messed up other than say "Don't take anything I paid for"...not even THEN, did he even THINK to perhaps say the TEENSIEST scrap of "sorry"...
    Are you _actually_ mad because you weren't allowed to see the birth, dude, or are you REALLY mad because somebody dared to ever tell you, "No."?
    We don't need a Biblical style "Hell" to be afraid of. Hell is right here on Earth and it's people like him (and he's a MILD example, I can't even go near the insaneparents subreddit because it makes me want to rip down the walls and scream and cry at things that I can't actually help anything about, ever). Forget all _fictional_ monsters; if people could just STOP. BEING. D!CKBAGS just because they can, all the time always, all the REAL actual evil of the world would be gone!
    Yeah, sure, we'd still have natural disasters. But they're not deliberate. Unfortunate, not evil.

  • @s.enpapi
    @s.enpapi 7 месяцев назад

    joshell sounds like a very Filipino first name ngl

  • @SeidlerDenmark
    @SeidlerDenmark 7 месяцев назад

    Pranks like that is a no go. You are in pain, shitting & pissing in bed trying to push a human out ….. surprise surprise … it’s humiliating. So if you want to comfort or light the spirit then read the room

  • @VeronicAM313
    @VeronicAM313 Год назад +1

    I'm going to say Mother's day gift because I couldn't find it in AITA. (I will stop the show to look up the story and then read it because the captions are 50/50 on RUclips.)
    edit: AI is becoming too smart for its own good!

  • @cwhelshula
    @cwhelshula Год назад +1

    2 Filipinos and 1 white guy. I think you guys need a Native 🤔. Ok ok, you talked me into it. I volunteer. lol!

  • @alexartemisia
    @alexartemisia Год назад +1

    I wondered whether the "you're a bad mother" story was AI generated, it seemed too generic/flat if that makes any sense. Maybe I'm just too used to entitled people stories/ people going off about parenting practices in the wild to be able to tell? Who knows! 😅

  • @zoubidoubidoubadoum
    @zoubidoubidoubadoum Год назад

    Hahaaa I was right on the IA 😌😌 she had less flavour

  • @robbedeboer2728
    @robbedeboer2728 Год назад +1

    I feel as if giving mothers day gifts to not your mom is very wierd. I have never heard of it before, might be an american phenomenon. The father should help the child to give a gift to their mom, not give a gift himself.

  • @twoohoot
    @twoohoot 11 месяцев назад

    Sean looks much better in the light.. why he moved to the basement?

  • @jesskorejko
    @jesskorejko 7 месяцев назад

    What’s the spill on David Dobrik?! I use to watch him on RUclips. I know about the backup. Why does Josh not like him. lol

  • @denuitsmoongardens8474
    @denuitsmoongardens8474 Месяц назад

    I hate reddit channels that dont read top comments and reddits deliberation

  • @asavagegarden
    @asavagegarden Год назад

    skipping trend on tiktok is funny

  • @PragmaNDefatigably
    @PragmaNDefatigably 2 месяца назад

    37:26 definitely gendered issues

  • @AkephalosXx
    @AkephalosXx Год назад +1

    Am I the only one who thinks it is weird to gift someone who isn't your mother a mothersday gift?
    I would also not expect my husband to give me anything ... it would be sweet and cute if he would, but I wouldn't be upset or even think about it to be honest.
    But for some reason this feels weirdly cultural to me too. So maybe I am just wrong in that case :'D