This happened to me! I was paying over 1100.00 a month in support and retired from military. I couldn't afford the payments but couldn't afford an attorney so I had to file through the courts myself which took a year, mind you based off of what I made child support was taking 70% of my take home pay! Had to move on with my parents until the case was heard. I live in Texas the ex was in Florida. Anyways 9 months later we end up in court and she hires an attorney to represent her! So here we are in court I'm on the speakerphone with this female judge and she just breaks it down and asks what we made. During her calculating my ex asks if she can speak and judge grants it. My ex bashed me as a father not seeing my kids and at the end the judge asked me why I didn't see my kids I said I have no money and I had to provide medical insurance as well and was living with my parent's. She then asked why I haven't found a job and I explained I got in trouble with the law for misdemeanor assault at a grocery store and nobody wants to hire somebody with a fresh record 😔! Anyways the judge asked the CS attorney what my visitation time was with my kids and he used some legal phrase, don't know what it was but all I know is that it went against my ex in a bad way! My order states I can only see my kids twice a year and not even on the same day and I must be supervised by her father lol because kids don't know me! I told judge how is it financially feasible to drive 1000 miles to visit my kids for one day supervised and that's if she let me see them. So I explained 500 miles a day so two nights in a hotel or sleep in my car and then 2 days traveling back which is another two nights in a hotel or the car. I said to the judge so 70 dollars times 4 is $280 plus gas equals another $160 round trip and this doesn't include my meals! I said if I flew it would be about $400-600 round-trip but then I either had to Uber to a location to see my kids or rent a car which was about 60 miles from the nearest airport! So now the judge is like okay I got the picture now and then asked my ex what do you think is fair and my ex said I should pay more, that I shouldn't have left the military lol! The child support attorney chimed in and asked my ex weren't you in the military too and she said yes and he said what's stopping you from raising your right hand again lol! I was shocked that I'm being defended by the child support attorney in her jurisdiction! The judge starts smacking away on her calculator and proceeds to tell me sir based off of your financial documentation I'm reducing your support to $583.00 my ex was like what the hell! She added do youvwant to forgive the arrears owed to you and I was like arrears and she explained that since I filed almost a year ago and was paying over the amount alloted by state law that I could request a credit for those 8 months or waive it and I said I'll take the credit lol! To add insult to injury the judge asked who was the primary medical insurer and I said I was and she said well now I was only responsible fir 35% and became the secondary and she was the primary at 65%! The funny part about this is I told my ex I could pay $700 a month and she said no so essence of this long story is nice guys don't always finish last and that this is a win for those fathers that do the right thing! This judge saw through my ex and her greed and karma took a chunk of her ass!😁
Seriously what kind of an attorney is she? She should have been advised by a proper family attorney to let her know that if you make way more, taking your spouse to court will force you to pay more. Idiot!
I don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share
I don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share
@@IPwn3dJo The thing is, as a lawyer she should know that she is in the wrong court to be arguing for alimony. Besides the fact that it was her income that was funding the lifestyle, not his, child support is completely separate from alimony. You will never get child support payments when its split custody and you make literally over $100k more than your partner.
Most of the time child support court favors the mother, even if they split custody. She was probably hoping to get an old school judge that always sides with the mother, no matter how much the mother makes. That why she came with the sob story instead of financial facts about her income.
"Your honor i cant maintain my life style if I'm paying a women for sex that im not getting. So if I keep having to pay her for sex she need to maintain my life style with 2 bj's a week and sex daily." If this doesnt fly in court neither should alimony.
@@joimumuthe original law was set during the time were nobody would hire a window or divorced woman outside of shady work. Given the possible outcomes, the legal argument was that such a fear of loss in an abusive relationship would be akin to the fear an indentured servant might feel. However, ever since WW2, when women were able to work, the spirit of that law changed without the letter of the law keeping up.
Wow.. She basically wanted the father to pay child support to support her needs and not the children. Being a parent means that you have to make sacrifices to support your children and most of the time, your old habits and lifestyle goes out the window to support your child. She just wanted the father to pay child support to support her needs.. Selfish.
I would argue that it's only fair that the father split the bill equally if a mother doesn't even have enough to do self care every once in awhile, BUT she is living beyond her means in an extravagant way and still wanting him to pay more. Stupid lady.
I think he had the face because the calculations didn't sound right to him based on the $200 000. I think he missed the part where she said mom capped out.
I don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share
@@DhawaneMiglani He pays his share. It's just that her share is larger than his because she earns more money. Thus, on balance she owes him support money every month.
@@delvinlino869 they had equal custody, in a lot of states, that means that childcare expenses and lifestyle values are supposed to be split, and in this case, she made more money just like in many cases men pay women when they make more money. It's not alimony, it's to make sure that regardless of which house the kids are at, they're at a similar lifestyle. They don't want kids going to like a poor house for one parent and then a mansion if it's joint custody.
I don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share
Not only did she show that she was greedy, she also told on herself that she likes to live a lavish and luxurious lifestyle. I’m glad the judge saw her intentions and decided not to make the dad pay more and decided to make her pay more😆🤣
I don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share
@@AK19909I don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share
I don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share
I get so tired of when people say, “the lifestyle I’m accustomed to”. In a divorce happens, things change and your style changes. Live with it. If you can’t work it out, oh well.
The mom was an attorney, and she obviously didn't get some needed advice before trying to get dad to pay. She just wanted that lifestyle she was addicted to having at somewhat of dad's expense. She got a rude awakening. ROFLMAO!!!!!
@@alexrose8299 This mom thought by taking the dad to court seeking child support, she could then use some of the support to fuel her lifestyle. Had the mother won, he would have been paying part of her lifestyle. Fortunately for him, Texas law saved his ass.
@@delvinlino869 You guys are not understanding the entire ruling in the slightest. They have the kid equal time. Which means there is no custodial parent by right, it’s split. She is making them both pay child support. However, they are both paying child support which means they would cancel out the lesser of the two. It’s the offset of the child supports. This means, when she brought child support into play and there is no custodial parent, both parents are “obligated” to pay. The child support is determined on the same calculation for each party. With that calculation, she made what would be an offset of $1600. Her actual could have been $4600; but, he probably made what would be the $3,000 back to her. He does contribute the same as her if they live in his house and he feeds them, drives them to school, the SAME amount of time as her. She chose the school and since there is no custodial parent, he is not obligated to pay that school. By right, if he is paying insurance, and she is not. He is contributing more. Private school is a choice. Take that away and she does the same as him.
I think this show is scripted. There is no way an attorney is that dimwitted, like you did 4 years of undergrad, + law school... you’d think she has more sense with how to act. You make 170k, there is no way you can’t afford a 40$ set of nails. If you are “struggling” making 170k a year... you need to reevaluate your monthly budget!!
I love watching these cases, I've spent all morning watching different cases. It's so nice to see a no nonsense judge that tells the people to be straightforward an not get off topic.
@@JudgeVondaBI don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share
@@JudgeVondaBYou're definitely one of THE LORD'S agents,for good,in this world n truly a terror to evildoers. Be blessed,be safe, be the light in the darkness you were predestined n preordained to be.😍🥰👍🏾✌🏾🙏🏾❤️💯✝️
@@DhawaneMiglaniBone up on your child support guidelines n quit "virtual simping". Women know support court favors them, therefore even being a top earner doesn't dissuade them from seeking more.🤨
I don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share
@@DoodleDust sooo is he not the dad... Doesn't he have the kids why is he not paying half... Why only she has to compromise ??? He earns 70 k he can definitely pay his share and there's nothing wrong with her spending her rightfully earned money
@@DoodleDust imagine you working 20 hrs a day and raising 4 kids alone paying for tutions extra curriculars and dad doesn't pay anything and you're not allowed to spend anything on yourself
i was with her on that. she said it like an entitled karen. but she needs it. but the liquor and personal chef lost me. like wtf are you eating and drinking lady? i get drunk regularly on 30$ per month. and i drink good. and if cooking is so hard theres shit you can order. blue apron. or just do some damn spaghetti.
I'd buy property and rent homes until I could build my own gated community and then begin expanding my property empire. The passive income you can generate from owning homes is enormous. And then with all the extra money I'd probably start building local businesses that pay really well and put big corporations out of business locally.
I love how these pompous, spoiled women come into her court, thinking they can get more child support from the ex and they tell the judge "Oh I pay for EVERYTHING and he pays next to nothing" and come to find out, she's taking trips and getting drunk and all that too. And now SHE has to pay HIM child support because she makes twice as much as he does and his payment was actually cut in half. lol I call that Karma.
She pays for everything already. Private school and extra curriculum for 3 kids. So she needs to pay him to be able to support them at his house. She should have stayed her ass at home and not brought him to court
@@gwendolynjackson2961 too add a little to what you said it’s based on the idea that children have similar lifestyles while they’re visiting each parent.
@@RepentAndBelieve1437 ,because he deserves to have his kids half the time! Why should the mother's always get full custody and benefit financially! All causes should be like this where it's shared custody where both support their kids equally based of their financial status! Everything those kids are part of are luxuries!
@@maricelacardenas7391 you mean like if one parent was super poor and the other super rich, the rich helps support the poor parent for when the kids are there? So that way the rich parent doesn't have too much of an advantage of being the "fun parent" due to financial circumstances?
I don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share
I love how she literally states that her whole reasoning for bringing him to court was because she hasn’t been able to keep the same lifestyle that let her get her hair & nails done all the tome before 🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤣
Wow that was a bad idea, to take him to court, that must really really hurt. How is she an attorney and didn't expect this? One more reason to hate her ex😂
People Have To Understand.. In Some Courts? A Persons "Lifestyle" Has No Merit.. What The Court Is Concerned About Is The Heath And Welfare Of The Child.. In This Case? The Children.. I Think The Judge Made A Good Decision In This Case.. Trips, Alcohol, Nails, ECT? Holds No Weight In The Care Of Children.. Jus Sayin.. Yep...
Judge Vonda 😍, I enjoy watching your RUclips court case videos. It's like every day when I come home and relax I'll start watching your show. Between reading the news then back watching your Court episodes.
When you decide to have children your whole lifestyle changes. If you aren’t ready to make sacrifices don’t have kids 😒 I used to go out to eat all the time, but feeding my toddler organic food is more important to me than my hibachi. I need a new pair of tennis shoes, but guess what, my toddler outgrew her shoes. 😒
Four kids and they shared three and yes I'd like to know what insurance he has. I pay 46 a month for 3 kids but I had to do 20 year's in the military to get that rate lol!
@@I__Love_Lamp I like watching these videos but can't imagine paying for health insruance. So fucked, healthcare should be accessible to all -a Canadian
I don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share
@@DhawaneMiglani It's the law in the US of A. Men have been paying child support alone for donkey years and nobody seems not to get. It only becomes an issue when it's the woman earning more.
I'm sorry but your kids are important and expensive. Your nails, hair and getting massages, maid, and personal cook are not important. I'm done with her already!
Makes 170k a year but can't pay for her hair being done??? I see why they divorced; she obviously lives in her own bubble far away from reality. Imagine hiring her as a lawyer.......you're screwed
@@JudgeVondaBI don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share
Hey Judge Vonda B. I am a new subscriber. RUclips just recommended your channel to me; I don’t know why now all of a sudden when I watch a lot of other court shows on here. But anyway, I don’t know if this is just a show you made up for RUclips, but I really love it and I think it would be interesting if this was a syndicated court show on television. Like Lauren Lake’s Paternity Court, you guys talk about the same thing, but in different ways and I think a lot more people would honestly enjoy, just like Paternity Court, if it was a televised show.
@@JudgeVondaBI don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share
Mom was ordered to pay him child support to maintain the level of lifestyle (that she has created for the kids when they are with her) at his place. So their experiences when with mom and dad are similar.
I’m curious if you can do a video explaining the insurance for child...especially when the child is on Medicaid (I thought that was free). I have been binge watching all weekend I LOVE you Vonda B. 🧡🧡
I think the fact that she pays their school tuition by herself should have been taken into account. From what I heard yes, they share custody and he only pays for Healthcare. Why shouldn't he also have to contribute something for the after school activities and tuition?
I agree 100% it seemed like she didn't like the mom off jump. Believed the father right away & never asked the father why he only pays for health care & nothing else
@@OrangeDemon92 it felt like she was putting sole responsibility on the mom because she made more money which i felt is not fair. Just because I make more doesn't mean I get to pay more. At least pay for their activities
@@yahelysflores291 exactly! I felt like the woman shouldn’t have disclosed all the extra ness about how she needed to treat herself, but she could’ve had a better case. Once she pays everything, like what is does she have left to have? She basically is looking for a replacement of her some of her money towards the kids, not all so… like self care is important as well as the kids well being. Him bringing up the liquor store run or personal chef was pointless. I wanna know what he does with his money since he’s so concerned about what she does with hers. Like damn. I almost felt like the judge was favorable Bc of race damn near.
I am glad she corrected this but she split the health insurance but forgot to split the tuition and extra cirriculars.. they should have been included in the calculations
It is laughable that someone making more than double is complaining about money to someone making much less. If she works As her attitude is,she must be An horrible attorney.
I am curious why the tuition she pays wasn’t taken into account when determining what she pays? I thought it was part of the calculation in some of the other cases
Yea makes no sense, it wasn't ordered that he help pay for the children expenses. He just got $1500 a month and no responsibility to the kids. Smh. Nomatter who makes more the should both be held accountable for the children.
Don't forget private school is optional and I'm sure when they were originally divorced that was brought up. At the end of the day private schools are a form of luxury which means she chose that option for her kids! It amazes me that women are complaining about this when men have been lambasted by the child support system for so long! How would you like it if the father chose to send his kid to Harvard and sends a bill to the ex saying you owe half but she makes minimum wage!
@@JudgeVondaBI don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share
Thank you, for always reminding me I should keep waiting to have kids. I don’t think it’s fair that even though she pays for everything she still has to pay him child support especially since the time is still split. Kinda punishing her for doing well for herself.
For decades now the fathers had to bear the brunt of the BS that is Child support and alimony because they made more. Many women were happy about that while men either silently dealt with it or tried to speak out about and were told to shut up.. well now women are starting feel just a tiny percentage of the unfairness that is Child support, Alimony etc.. and now all of a sudden it's an issue. The judges verdict seemed fair to me considering. Had the genders been reverse I don't think anyone would have bat an eye.
I don't understand waiting for what exactly? Men have been punished since Child support laws were invented. You women keep saying he's paying nothing but he has his kids over 50% of the time and that means he provides a home and puts food on the table and the most important part is he's involved with his children. Women are obsessed with child support when in fact you should be wanting for your children to be loved and cared for by both parents! This is a money scheme from women! I would bet my life if the US banned child support today that most women would stop getting pregnant! If they knew they would be 100% responsible for the kids they had with no help they'd stop having kids unless they were wealthy. Just my opinion that many women have kids to collect a check and stay home!
Mom was ordered to pay him child support to maintain the level of lifestyle (that she has created for the kids when they are with her) at his place. So their experiences when with mom and dad are similar.
That’s not fair!!!! 😠 She has worked her behind off studying to be a layer and because she has more money than him, she has to be punished 😳 It’s not her problem that she earns more than him. The judge should have calculated all the expensive for the children and then they should pay half each. THAT’S FAIR 👊🏻 The American law is messed up 🙄
@@JudgeVondaBI don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share
Ooo baby she tried it she basically said “the kids are taken care of but im not so Im asking for child support to support me and my lifestyle” smh 🤦🏾♀️
She messed up by taking him back to court when she makes more money. I love it when people screw themselves over because of entitlement.
Who cares about her lifestyle when it is a waste of money in my eyes just to impress others.
This happened to me! I was paying over 1100.00 a month in support and retired from military. I couldn't afford the payments but couldn't afford an attorney so I had to file through the courts myself which took a year, mind you based off of what I made child support was taking 70% of my take home pay! Had to move on with my parents until the case was heard. I live in Texas the ex was in Florida. Anyways 9 months later we end up in court and she hires an attorney to represent her! So here we are in court I'm on the speakerphone with this female judge and she just breaks it down and asks what we made. During her calculating my ex asks if she can speak and judge grants it. My ex bashed me as a father not seeing my kids and at the end the judge asked me why I didn't see my kids I said I have no money and I had to provide medical insurance as well and was living with my parent's. She then asked why I haven't found a job and I explained I got in trouble with the law for misdemeanor assault at a grocery store and nobody wants to hire somebody with a fresh record 😔! Anyways the judge asked the CS attorney what my visitation time was with my kids and he used some legal phrase, don't know what it was but all I know is that it went against my ex in a bad way! My order states I can only see my kids twice a year and not even on the same day and I must be supervised by her father lol because kids don't know me! I told judge how is it financially feasible to drive 1000 miles to visit my kids for one day supervised and that's if she let me see them. So I explained 500 miles a day so two nights in a hotel or sleep in my car and then 2 days traveling back which is another two nights in a hotel or the car. I said to the judge so 70 dollars times 4 is $280 plus gas equals another $160 round trip and this doesn't include my meals! I said if I flew it would be about $400-600 round-trip but then I either had to Uber to a location to see my kids or rent a car which was about 60 miles from the nearest airport! So now the judge is like okay I got the picture now and then asked my ex what do you think is fair and my ex said I should pay more, that I shouldn't have left the military lol! The child support attorney chimed in and asked my ex weren't you in the military too and she said yes and he said what's stopping you from raising your right hand again lol! I was shocked that I'm being defended by the child support attorney in her jurisdiction! The judge starts smacking away on her calculator and proceeds to tell me sir based off of your financial documentation I'm reducing your support to $583.00 my ex was like what the hell! She added do youvwant to forgive the arrears owed to you and I was like arrears and she explained that since I filed almost a year ago and was paying over the amount alloted by state law that I could request a credit for those 8 months or waive it and I said I'll take the credit lol! To add insult to injury the judge asked who was the primary medical insurer and I said I was and she said well now I was only responsible fir 35% and became the secondary and she was the primary at 65%! The funny part about this is I told my ex I could pay $700 a month and she said no so essence of this long story is nice guys don't always finish last and that this is a win for those fathers that do the right thing! This judge saw through my ex and her greed and karma took a chunk of her ass!😁
She is paying the school fee?
you know that the people are actors and that she is not a judge, right?
Seriously what kind of an attorney is she? She should have been advised by a proper family attorney to let her know that if you make way more, taking your spouse to court will force you to pay more. Idiot!
😏That smirk on the dad’s face at the end was priceless! 😂
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😂😂😂😂👍🏼
Hahahah was thinking the same thing
Smirk = "Gotcha, bitch!"
And more so because he knew she brought it all down upon herself.
“What kind of lawyer are you.... Nevermind.” Idk why that made me laugh so hard. 😂😂😂
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Yepp, the joke of the day y'all!!! Really lady
Killed me
Yeah I tripped off that is lol
VONDAS ONLY A LAWYER THATS THE JOKE. SHE NOT EVEN REALLY a judge.
This is by far my favourite one. She comes in expecting him to pay and she ends up having to pay him child support. This women is laughable
And remember she’s a lawyer 🤣🤣😉😉
The instant karma episodes are great, but seeing her try to win comrodery with the judge made the icing on this cake extra sweet!
I don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share
I don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share
but she earns $200,000 a year so cant be that much of a fool .
The fact that she’s a lawyer & thought this was gunna fly is so freaking funny to me!!!!
She was using the words needed for alimony. Talking about a certain lifestyle she lived. It’s a real thing and a horrible thing
Oooooof please don't let her be my lawyer.
@@IPwn3dJo The thing is, as a lawyer she should know that she is in the wrong court to be arguing for alimony. Besides the fact that it was her income that was funding the lifestyle, not his, child support is completely separate from alimony. You will never get child support payments when its split custody and you make literally over $100k more than your partner.
She's getting paid too much from her boss
Most of the time child support court favors the mother, even if they split custody. She was probably hoping to get an old school judge that always sides with the mother, no matter how much the mother makes. That why she came with the sob story instead of financial facts about her income.
That whole..."maintain my lifestyle " thing when you have a system in place to not struggle badly gets me every time
I never understand why that is a consider a value argument when people get divorce lifestyle change and it shouldn’t be at expense the other
"Your honor i cant maintain my life style if I'm paying a women for sex that im not getting. So if I keep having to pay her for sex she need to maintain my life style with 2 bj's a week and sex daily." If this doesnt fly in court neither should alimony.
@@joimumuthe original law was set during the time were nobody would hire a window or divorced woman outside of shady work. Given the possible outcomes, the legal argument was that such a fear of loss in an abusive relationship would be akin to the fear an indentured servant might feel.
However, ever since WW2, when women were able to work, the spirit of that law changed without the letter of the law keeping up.
This is child support court, not spousal support, so her lifestyle means diddly squat.... and given that she's a lawyer, she should know that.
When you freaking want to live the bad and boujee lifestyle xD
Wow.. She basically wanted the father to pay child support to support her needs and not the children. Being a parent means that you have to make sacrifices to support your children and most of the time, your old habits and lifestyle goes out the window to support your child. She just wanted the father to pay child support to support her needs.. Selfish.
Tomfoolery, that's all it is.
That's sadly what the case is most of the time
EXACTLY 👏🏾 👏🏾
@@TyusJada not Tomfoolery 😂😂
I would argue that it's only fair that the father split the bill equally if a mother doesn't even have enough to do self care every once in awhile, BUT she is living beyond her means in an extravagant way and still wanting him to pay more. Stupid lady.
This judge is restoring my faith in the judicial system!
FACTZ 💯
Dad's face when he heard her gross income took me out!👀
Right!! 😂😂🤑🤑
She earns $12k gross/month and she’s asking him to “pay child support”?!
But he was the one who told the judge what her income was.
@@nuri00ko No thats the cap. Judge said 200k so gross would be 16,666.67k month
I think he had the face because the calculations didn't sound right to him based on the $200 000.
I think he missed the part where she said mom capped out.
The “what kind of lawyer are you?… Nevermind…” Line had me dying. I love watching these videos!
I don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share
@@DhawaneMiglani He pays his share. It's just that her share is larger than his because she earns more money. Thus, on balance she owes him support money every month.
Lmfaooo she didn’t want child support, she wanted an allowance 😂😂
Exactly to help her pay for her lifestyle
The smirk from the husband at the end....priceless.
You should have you show on television, you’re real and fair.
no shes not she made no sense. ordered the woman to pay money to a man doing nothing. thats the dumbest shit ever.
@@delvinlino869 lmao they literally had equal custody
this is staged sir
@@delvinlino869 you been in these comments giving angry vibes .. are you okay?
@@delvinlino869 they had equal custody, in a lot of states, that means that childcare expenses and lifestyle values are supposed to be split, and in this case, she made more money just like in many cases men pay women when they make more money. It's not alimony, it's to make sure that regardless of which house the kids are at, they're at a similar lifestyle. They don't want kids going to like a poor house for one parent and then a mansion if it's joint custody.
Her plan backfired horribly 😂😂😂
So proud of my OG. Been knowing this judge for over 20 years. LOVE LOVE LOVE this show!
Thank you love!!😘
Over 20 yrs?! I thought she was in her 30’s!!!
@@jasmine2thamax she is and so am I. We’ve known each since we were kids.
@@JasPlease thank for the explanation cause I was like that’s the youngest looking 50 year old ever!!!
@@JasPlease intelligent beautiful but is she single though🤔😂. I'm sure I know the answer.🙏🏿
This judge is unbiased. As it should be. Bless You Judge!
I don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share
Not only did she show that she was greedy, she also told on herself that she likes to live a lavish and luxurious lifestyle. I’m glad the judge saw her intentions and decided not to make the dad pay more and decided to make her pay more😆🤣
Lmao
She’s a ACTRESS!!!!!!! These are not real!
When you want to live a lavish lifestyle, you get to pay for it.
I don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share
@@AK19909I don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share
I don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share
I get so tired of when people say, “the lifestyle I’m accustomed to”. In a divorce happens, things change and your style changes. Live with it. If you can’t work it out, oh well.
I love when she says, “you came in here to play.” It gets real at that point.
Dude went from 70k a year to 88k a year! Those kids are going to be living great when they are with dad 😂
The mom was an attorney, and she obviously didn't get some needed advice before trying to get dad to pay. She just wanted that lifestyle she was addicted to having at somewhat of dad's expense. She got a rude awakening. ROFLMAO!!!!!
At his expense? He’s not contributing to shit.
@@alexrose8299 This mom thought by taking the dad to court seeking child support, she could then use some of the support to fuel her lifestyle. Had the mother won, he would have been paying part of her lifestyle. Fortunately for him, Texas law saved his ass.
@@alexrose8299 literally why the fuck should she sit around and pay for everything and now him. WHEN HE DOES NOTHING. VONDA IS WRONG
@@delvinlino869 You guys are not understanding the entire ruling in the slightest. They have the kid equal time. Which means there is no custodial parent by right, it’s split. She is making them both pay child support. However, they are both paying child support which means they would cancel out the lesser of the two. It’s the offset of the child supports. This means, when she brought child support into play and there is no custodial parent, both parents are “obligated” to pay. The child support is determined on the same calculation for each party. With that calculation, she made what would be an offset of $1600. Her actual could have been $4600; but, he probably made what would be the $3,000 back to her. He does contribute the same as her if they live in his house and he feeds them, drives them to school, the SAME amount of time as her. She chose the school and since there is no custodial parent, he is not obligated to pay that school. By right, if he is paying insurance, and she is not. He is contributing more. Private school is a choice. Take that away and she does the same as him.
I think this show is scripted. There is no way an attorney is that dimwitted, like you did 4 years of undergrad, + law school... you’d think she has more sense with how to act. You make 170k, there is no way you can’t afford a 40$ set of nails. If you are “struggling” making 170k a year... you need to reevaluate your monthly budget!!
I love watching these cases, I've spent all morning watching different cases. It's so nice to see a no nonsense judge that tells the people to be straightforward an not get off topic.
Found you from TikTok! I’m addicted to your videos!! You’re always fair in your judgement but you don’t take crap from anyone! Love love love it!!
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@@JudgeVondaBI don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share
I know,right?!😏💯
@@JudgeVondaBYou're definitely one of THE LORD'S agents,for good,in this world n truly a terror to evildoers. Be blessed,be safe, be the light in the darkness you were predestined n preordained to be.😍🥰👍🏾✌🏾🙏🏾❤️💯✝️
@@DhawaneMiglaniBone up on your child support guidelines n quit "virtual simping". Women know support court favors them, therefore even being a top earner doesn't dissuade them from seeking more.🤨
I just found out about Judge Vonda a day ago and I have been binge watching! Love her!
I’m sure she didn’t expect that 😂 probably should fire the personal chef and maid 🥴🤦🏾♀️
@@OriginallyHim i know. They say it in every video. Im speaking from my point of view AS IF it is real.
I need a mug that says “you came in here to waste my time”
This is actually a fantastic idea
I don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share
@@DhawaneMiglanino one said he was lazy, just that he made less money. There is a difference lol
@@DoodleDust sooo is he not the dad... Doesn't he have the kids why is he not paying half... Why only she has to compromise ??? He earns 70 k he can definitely pay his share and there's nothing wrong with her spending her rightfully earned money
@@DoodleDust imagine you working 20 hrs a day and raising 4 kids alone paying for tutions extra curriculars and dad doesn't pay anything and you're not allowed to spend anything on yourself
If I would’ve heard “I can’t get my nails done or hair done’ I would’ve said “well you have kids so...what’s your point?”
i was with her on that. she said it like an entitled karen. but she needs it. but the liquor and personal chef lost me. like wtf are you eating and drinking lady? i get drunk regularly on 30$ per month. and i drink good. and if cooking is so hard theres shit you can order. blue apron. or just do some damn spaghetti.
@@nunyastockson5901 She drinks daily if she has weekly curb side pick up at the liquor store. Her bill there is probably a hundred or more a week.
She needs some botox too. She looks like she is his mother instead of his ex
And it doesn’t seem to improve anything on her. Her outside definitely reflects her inside
@nunyastockson5901 😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😅😅😅
Send your kids to public school.
Omg... I don't know what I would do if I made that kind of money like the mother.
I’d be a Friesian !
It’s easy to spend!
Live a beautiful life style lol
Seriously!!!
I'd buy property and rent homes until I could build my own gated community and then begin expanding my property empire. The passive income you can generate from owning homes is enormous. And then with all the extra money I'd probably start building local businesses that pay really well and put big corporations out of business locally.
I love how these pompous, spoiled women come into her court, thinking they can get more child support from the ex and they tell the judge "Oh I pay for EVERYTHING and he pays next to nothing" and come to find out, she's taking trips and getting drunk and all that too. And now SHE has to pay HIM child support because she makes twice as much as he does and his payment was actually cut in half. lol I call that Karma.
She pays for everything already. Private school and extra curriculum for 3 kids. So she needs to pay him to be able to support them at his house. She should have stayed her ass at home and not brought him to court
Yeah I dont understand why she has to pay anything when she practically pays for everything according to her.
It is because they have joint custody it would be different if mom had full custody then he would be paying her some child support
@@gwendolynjackson2961 too add a little to what you said it’s based on the idea that children have similar lifestyles while they’re visiting each parent.
@@RepentAndBelieve1437 ,because he deserves to have his kids half the time! Why should the mother's always get full custody and benefit financially! All causes should be like this where it's shared custody where both support their kids equally based of their financial status! Everything those kids are part of are luxuries!
@@maricelacardenas7391 you mean like if one parent was super poor and the other super rich, the rich helps support the poor parent for when the kids are there? So that way the rich parent doesn't have too much of an advantage of being the "fun parent" due to financial circumstances?
The smirk on his face at the end is SENDING ME lol
I'm glad you're back, I love this show ❤
Thank you!
That little smirk dude gave at the end just made my whole week lmfao
The mother should be paying dad the judge did the right thing. I bet she didn't think she would have to pay.
I LOVED this one. She thought she was slick by claiming that she was used to a certain lifestyle but it bit her in the butt! lol.
Yes!!!! I’ve burn through every other case I’m so glad there’s more to watch
As a hairdresser I have to laugh. Her hair was done with colour and toning 😂😂😂
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You are just, Judge. Thank you!
The parent that makes the most money is charged the most in child support. We’re just not used to it being the woman 😏
And honestly I feel somewhat happy when it happens to women
IDK why though
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Because it's about damn time!!!!
I don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share
I love how she literally states that her whole reasoning for bringing him to court was because she hasn’t been able to keep the same lifestyle that let her get her hair & nails done all the tome before 🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤣
Wow that was a bad idea, to take him to court, that must really really hurt. How is she an attorney and didn't expect this?
One more reason to hate her ex😂
Must be a public defender
Probably a tax attorney!
@@AyoHype no public defender is making 200k/year
@@benblake-johnson7075 that's true
She's not a family attorney, that's for sure.
“What kind of lawyer are you?…nevermind” sent me 🤣
People Have To Understand.. In Some Courts? A Persons "Lifestyle" Has No Merit.. What The Court Is Concerned About Is The Heath And Welfare Of The Child.. In This Case? The Children.. I Think The Judge Made A Good Decision In This Case.. Trips, Alcohol, Nails, ECT? Holds No Weight In The Care Of Children.. Jus Sayin.. Yep...
I took great pleasure in watching that!!! Great job your Honor!!!😊
I really love this show so much and I am so happy to see you back , thank you guys .
Judge Vonda 😍, I enjoy watching your RUclips court case videos. It's like every day when I come home and relax I'll start watching your show. Between reading the news then back watching your Court episodes.
I'm so glad to see you back. You're amazing and seeing the fluff among the truth.
Imagine getting 14 thousand dollars a month and spending it so unwisely that you can't even afford to get your nails done.
Judge does not play when it comes to these children. And that woman, as a lawyer, didn’t do her homework. Proud of this judge!!
This is my favorite so far! The smirk on the Dad's face was epic.😂
Thanks for making more content! 🙌🏽 You’re the best 🤞🏽
You’re the best as well!!! Thank you for the support!❤️
When you decide to have children your whole lifestyle changes. If you aren’t ready to make sacrifices don’t have kids 😒 I used to go out to eat all the time, but feeding my toddler organic food is more important to me than my hibachi. I need a new pair of tennis shoes, but guess what, my toddler outgrew her shoes. 😒
$100.00/Month health insurance for two kids! Where can I get that rate?
Four kids and they shared three and yes I'd like to know what insurance he has. I pay 46 a month for 3 kids but I had to do 20 year's in the military to get that rate lol!
@@I__Love_Lamp I like watching these videos but can't imagine paying for health insruance. So fucked, healthcare should be accessible to all -a Canadian
A lawyer needs legal counsel otherwise she makes a fool of herself.
I don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share
@@DhawaneMiglani
It's the law in the US of A. Men have been paying child support alone for donkey years and nobody seems not to get. It only becomes an issue when it's the woman earning more.
I'm sorry but your kids are important and expensive. Your nails, hair and getting massages, maid, and personal cook are not important. I'm done with her already!
Just found this Judge through TikTok. My new favourite Judge!!
Judge said “never mind” 😂 they really did come to play and waste time
Makes 170k a year but can't pay for her hair being done???
I see why they divorced; she obviously lives in her own bubble far away from reality.
Imagine hiring her as a lawyer.......you're screwed
Yes more in-court videos! I love it
You got it!
@@JudgeVondaBI don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share
THAT SMIRK on dad's face in the end was the cherry on top!!....
I REALLY LOVE THIS SERIES JUDGE VONDA B YOU REALLY MADE ME REALIZE MY PROFESSION
“What kind of lawyer are you? Nvm” 😂
Hey Judge Vonda B.
I am a new subscriber. RUclips just recommended your channel to me; I don’t know why now all of a sudden when I watch a lot of other court shows on here.
But anyway, I don’t know if this is just a show you made up for RUclips, but I really love it and I think it would be interesting if this was a syndicated court show on television. Like Lauren Lake’s Paternity Court, you guys talk about the same thing, but in different ways and I think a lot more people would honestly enjoy, just like Paternity Court, if it was a televised show.
Thank you and I hope you enjoy the show! It’ll be on tv sooner than you think. Stay tuned.😎
@@JudgeVondaB you’re welcome 🙏🏾
@@JudgeVondaBI don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share
What kind of lawyer are you?
Neva Mind 😂🤣 I love it
This lady looks 30 years older then the ex-spouse!
Their actors this isn’t real 🤪
Why would she have to pay when they split custody?? That makes no sense!! He makes enough to provide for them comfortably when they are with him
Mom was ordered to pay him child support to maintain the level of lifestyle (that she has created for the kids when they are with her) at his place. So their experiences when with mom and dad are similar.
Lmfao! She told on herself with this one. 🤣🤣🤣
His job is to provide for the children, not her lifestyle. Glad to see things backfire on this greedy lawyer. Wait is greedy lawyer an oxymoron.
I’m curious if you can do a video explaining the insurance for child...especially when the child is on Medicaid (I thought that was free). I have been binge watching all weekend I LOVE you Vonda B. 🧡🧡
I love you judge !! Bless you ma'am
You're back, yay!!
I love this judge she is fair with everyone
I think the fact that she pays their school tuition by herself should have been taken into account. From what I heard yes, they share custody and he only pays for Healthcare. Why shouldn't he also have to contribute something for the after school activities and tuition?
I agree 100% it seemed like she didn't like the mom off jump. Believed the father right away & never asked the father why he only pays for health care & nothing else
Yes did not make sense to me
Yeaaaa he should at least help with tuition..
@@OrangeDemon92 it felt like she was putting sole responsibility on the mom because she made more money which i felt is not fair. Just because I make more doesn't mean I get to pay more. At least pay for their activities
@@yahelysflores291 exactly! I felt like the woman shouldn’t have disclosed all the extra ness about how she needed to treat herself, but she could’ve had a better case. Once she pays everything, like what is does she have left to have? She basically is looking for a replacement of her some of her money towards the kids, not all so… like self care is important as well as the kids well being. Him bringing up the liquor store run or personal chef was pointless. I wanna know what he does with his money since he’s so concerned about what she does with hers. Like damn. I almost felt like the judge was favorable Bc of race damn near.
I am glad she corrected this but she split the health insurance but forgot to split the tuition and extra cirriculars.. they should have been included in the calculations
It is laughable that someone making more than double is complaining about money to someone making much less.
If she works As her attitude is,she must be An horrible attorney.
I love that judge said what kind of lawyer are you lol🤣😅😂thats so embarrassing
I am curious why the tuition she pays wasn’t taken into account when determining what she pays? I thought it was part of the calculation in some of the other cases
Great question. It was considered. That’s why her child support was based on an offset.
Yea makes no sense, it wasn't ordered that he help pay for the children expenses. He just got $1500 a month and no responsibility to the kids. Smh. Nomatter who makes more the should both be held accountable for the children.
Don't forget private school is optional and I'm sure when they were originally divorced that was brought up. At the end of the day private schools are a form of luxury which means she chose that option for her kids! It amazes me that women are complaining about this when men have been lambasted by the child support system for so long! How would you like it if the father chose to send his kid to Harvard and sends a bill to the ex saying you owe half but she makes minimum wage!
@@nicolecochrane264 ,yes because he provides a home and puts food on the table. Courts don't look at luxuries!
@@JudgeVondaBI don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share
This is a great judge. I bet her parents are proud.
That smirk on his face, lol
"i pay for private school." well send em to public school.
She out smarted herself. And she thought she was smart by dressing down also didn’t you love the smile on the dads face at the end PRICELESS!
Thank you, for always reminding me I should keep waiting to have kids. I don’t think it’s fair that even though she pays for everything she still has to pay him child support especially since the time is still split. Kinda punishing her for doing well for herself.
For decades now the fathers had to bear the brunt of the BS that is Child support and alimony because they made more. Many women were happy about that while men either silently dealt with it or tried to speak out about and were told to shut up.. well now women are starting feel just a tiny percentage of the unfairness that is Child support, Alimony etc.. and now all of a sudden it's an issue. The judges verdict seemed fair to me considering. Had the genders been reverse I don't think anyone would have bat an eye.
I don't understand waiting for what exactly? Men have been punished since Child support laws were invented. You women keep saying he's paying nothing but he has his kids over 50% of the time and that means he provides a home and puts food on the table and the most important part is he's involved with his children. Women are obsessed with child support when in fact you should be wanting for your children to be loved and cared for by both parents! This is a money scheme from women! I would bet my life if the US banned child support today that most women would stop getting pregnant! If they knew they would be 100% responsible for the kids they had with no help they'd stop having kids unless they were wealthy. Just my opinion that many women have kids to collect a check and stay home!
Mom was ordered to pay him child support to maintain the level of lifestyle (that she has created for the kids when they are with her) at his place. So their experiences when with mom and dad are similar.
That’s not fair!!!! 😠 She has worked her behind off studying to be a layer and because she has more money than him, she has to be punished 😳 It’s not her problem that she earns more than him. The judge should have calculated all the expensive for the children and then they should pay half each. THAT’S FAIR 👊🏻
The American law is messed up 🙄
Men do it all the time
TIK TOK HAS CREATED MY ADDICTION
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SAME
@@JudgeVondaBI don't get she works hard she earns the money she deserves the lifestyle she is living just because husband is a lazyas* doesn't entitle her to pay for 3 kids alone... Her husband should definitely pay his share
What kind of lawyer are you, never mind!
Rolling on the floor lmfao!
its basically her saying "i need more child support for myself" its called CHILD support for a reason lmao
Ahhahahhha “yeah you, what kinda lawyer you? nevermind” had me dead laughing here 😂
Maybe dad should have the kids full time then
Exactly. Let him do everything for them kids.
Nothing but justice. Thank you judge.
His smile at the end-Absolutely Hilarious!!!🇬🇧
Your my favorite Judge. Keep up the great show that you produce.
Ooo baby she tried it she basically said “the kids are taken care of but im not so Im asking for child support to support me and my lifestyle” smh 🤦🏾♀️
She can't afford to get her nails done?! Talk about being out of touch with reality!
This judge don’t play 😂
I can't stop laughing 🤣😂😂🤣😂
She wasn't expecting that 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I feel sorry for the snakely attorney. So many people come there to waste your time judge. You hooked it to her pretty good
At least she’s not a red head!!!😜
Smart guy, he knew his position and knew how to handle it.
I see we back Judge Sista from another Mista
Why was tuition not included in the calculation? I would think that should be an equal expense. It is in other cases you’ve done.