I’ve FINALLY got diagnosed about 3 weeks ago at the age of 21 and it feels so good to finally know that I was correct. The biggest downside I’m finding is that even while reading the results, it’s obvious that a lot of people don’t believe me 🙁
I have the same problem, because people know me for so long and I am really good at masking they don't believe that I have ASD which is really frustrating because even though you ARE neurodivergent they don't give you some slack
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RUclips, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
I'm 32. People who knew me as a child are not surprised finding out now that I am. Friends who haven't known me too long are completely surprised and don't believe me. Someone even said, "if you're autistic then we all are." But I've lived my whole life trying to fit in. Screw people's opinions. We know who we are and that's what matters!
I find that so odd...what are they suppose to believe? It's literally how your brain was formed at birth lol. Unless they have built-in brain scanners into retinas, it's not about believing or disbelieving...it's not a religious decree. XD I think people have a general fear of the unknown, and an autistic brain is very "unknown" to someone that is neurotypical. And we can say the same about their brains! And we have a lot more reasons to distrust their brains, since it's their brains that draw up most of the rules for society ;-)
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RUclips, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
Just got diagnosed, and felt the biggest weight get lifted. I’m not making things up, it’s real and now I can finally work on healing and bettering my life 🙏🏼
I’ve just been diagnosed this week at 32 (male) - I’ve felt relief but also feeling very overwhelmed, I’m hoping that work will continue to support me now after diagnosis and the implementation of reasonable adjustments
I frustrates me to realize that, at 35, there seems to be very few resources for people on the spectrum as an adult, in my local community. It's almost ALL geared towards children? Whyyyyy. Autistic kids grow up in autistic adults: there is no "cure", we always need help and support. I never got it and to find out it isn't here even when I have the ability to access it now is really disheartening. And this is the same community where my own brother was diagnosed 30 years ago...where have all those autistic children gone to, since then? That's the stuff that really bugs me, even with the incredible relief of finally being able to self-identify properly.
The most useful thing I did after diagnosis was to study how neurotypical people think, and still am. They're still strange but I'm a little more able to understand them now!
Just human psychology in areas where aspies struggle. Formation of friendships and relationships. No verbal communication etc. I've gotten a little obsessed with reading psychology books and websites. I'm a dog trainer so I've studied canine behaviour and there are overlaps. My feeling is that, as an aspie, I have the temperament of a Jack Russell Terrier!
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RUclips, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
I just started the process of getting diagnosed, and I'm actually kind of afraid of the long waits and studies and the difficulty explaining my situation. I'm only 14 and haven't learned to adapt very well yet, so knowing there are other people out there that have grown up and learned how to live with the condition makes me feel better. Your channel has helped me with believing in myself and all the tips you give us help me a lot. Thank you.
It is a worrying time as we all get super anxiety ridden during. But stay calm as you can and just try to relax through the process. Please subscribe to my channel to see more videos from me :).
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RUclips, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
I've finally got diagnosed today but feel kind of lost as i don't know what's the next step. Thank you for making this video and giving me a bit of clarification
Your videos helped me figure out that I might have autism so a couple months ago I got tested and I do have autism. Finding this out has helped me a lot already. Thank you!!!
I was diagnosed in 2003 with Aspergers but kind of left adrift after that. (I was 30) Was just rediagnosed this Spring as ASD 2, and am on the way to applying for disability. The second round was a LOT more informative and helpful. I have medical challenges as well, but this was really helpful in a lot of ways.
I recently got diagnosed with aspergers (technically ASD now i think), and its been a weird feeling over last 2 months of relief. My brain wasn't gaslighting me my entire childhood. I am now 18, and realise that my aspergers helps me play to my strengths, programming just always had made sense to me, and lead me to a place where i can be self sufficient emotionally and financially!
A big HI from Perth, WA! I am 21yrs and have only recently been diagnosed with high funtioning autism in January 2018. When I was young I was diagnosed with dyslexia, dyspraxia and auditory processing disorder. I also have struggled with BPD and major depression, but I have luckily recovery from my mental illness's. Thanks for your videos it definatly gives me hope with living with such diagnoses. X
I've just had hours of testing on the 6th and now I'm very anxiously awaiting my follow up on the 26th to learn what her decision is. It can't come soon enough! I'm actually more afraid of her saying she doesn't think I'm on the spectrum than finally getting the relief of an ASD diagnosis.
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RUclips, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
40 and got diagnosed this morning and feel pretty shit. I must say thanks to you as I cut down the wait time for my diagnosis massively because you directed me to the right to choose webpage. So thank you
I’m 66 years old and recently diagnosed, I’m in a very different world now. A strange peace has come over me yet More than a few difficulties have have surfaced when I tell loved ones. I’m backing away from letting people know. My wife has been wonderful in her support and that means the world to me.
I'm in the process of being diagnosed. I'm getting an evaluation appt. set up. I'm very thankful for the support from my mom. My psychiatrist is FINALLY really listening to me. yay !!!
Currently helping my mother going through the process, we have her diagnosis meeting on Monday. Been through it before, with my son, who was diagnosed aged 5.
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RUclips, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
@@footyfan101ful Not great, not enough evidence apparently. She's passed since and I'm sure if we had provided some of the school reports she had hidden in the loft things might have been different.
My son is in the process of getting diagnosed. he has ADHD, ODD and a few other things going on your videos have helped me A LOT thank you for your videos the are a ton of help.
I’m a 60 year old woman who has been diagnosed with adhd, ptsd, my 35 year old son is struggling to find a diagnosis in Canada. Thank you for this amazing information.
I found this video really helped I was diagnosed with autism three days ago after two years of waiting just trying to gather information and help with everything I need to know so this video really helped
I’m 38yr, Black Gay American. I’ve recently in the past 2 weeks I was unofficially diagnosed by a state worker. After denial my life makes sense and I’m on this journey and have been actively unmasking to regress and understand my quirks and traits that are unique to me… it’s been a wild ride
Hi! Thanks to your channel and research I went to a psychologist 2 weeks ago. She gave me the diagnosis after a first 1.5hrs interview. To get the full diagnosis I'd have to go back and do all the tests... but as I don't need the diagnosis for my every day life, I won't be getting that at the moment. But will get the official diagnosis sometime in the future, as it entitles me to free meetings with a psychologist.
I'm so late to the party on comments, but was diagnosed with Asperger's and ADHD here in Australia a few weeks ago after years of living in the UK being told I had anxiety. I'm so greatful to my professionals in Australia. The only thing here is the long wait times and the cost. I'm now on the way to getting help. Thank you for making videos. I don't feel so alone in this now !
I am setting up meetings for the process right now of getting a diagnosis, Thank you so much for this team journey advice ! Thank you so much Aspie world Dan for all you are doing!
I just today got the diagnosis at 27, after having several extra tests because there were a lot of "yes... but"'s, having the report send to a specialistic center and they quickly assessed and diagnosed me. So far I feel very much relieved, also with the immediate course they offered me to get a bigger understanding.
This was so interesting to watch. Pretty amazing actually. I'm an autism mom with my own channel. My asd kiddo will be 7 in a month. My older son, 23 yr. , however I truthfully believe is on the spectrum. In fact, I feel in ways I failed him by not knowing the signs when he was young. He is amazing but struggles with social cues and of course spd. We have chatted about him getting diagnosed but he doesn't want to thinking he has gone this long without. I'm on the fence but I support him regardless. What your doing, helping older young adults by giving them support and tools is simply amazing! Thank you!
I was finally diagnosed today!! I’m 33 years old. It’s been a year and a half of searching for someone competent to even assess me… now that I have my diagnosis I realized I never actually thought of what I would do afterwards…
I got diagnosed a few months ago, and it feels really good, and helps me figure out how to feel better, but I’ve been masking for so long- so many things still hurt so much. The damages feel irreparable.
I love the series, I'm from Mexico and I'm still looking for a specialist to get a diagnosis, but is almost impossible because any help available for autism is for kids, not adults. Please make more videos of women with autism.
Since I have already been diagnosed with autism at age 3, that journey was ended, but I am okay because I have had support from occupational therapy and speech pathologist help me through those difficult times.
Sorry for asking have you been verbal or non verbal?? I'm just worried about my son he is 4 but he is nonverbal he does say words he counts to 20 on his way he try but he still hasn't called me mom or dad he can't say hello he can't say single words
My 17 Month old was Diagnosed yesterday... Needless to say, today was full of administrative work regarding therapy appointments and evaluations for him. Philadelphia is a great place to be for an ASD diagnosis thankfully... lots of programs!
The Aspie World ... I started noticing symptoms when he was about 11 months old... My neice is on the spectrum as well so ive had some form of understanding for a while... Its something I had in the back of my mind since he was born... Looking forward to helping him learn to communicate. Hes an amazing dude!
Really enjoying your videos, I'm just beginning my diagnostic process. Finishing second half of intake on Monday and then begin diagnostic evaluation Wednesday. Super nervous still lol
@@TheAspieWorld thanks :) luckily I have an awesome friend who has Aspergers and he's been a huge help! (He is also very sure I have it 😂) feels weird being 26 and trying to find resources though lol
Thank you so much for what you are doing. It's the first helpful information I've found and I'm learning a lot. One thing, when I started this video, I couldn't "hear" you because of the background music. Not saying it was too loud, just that I couldn't separate your voice from it and found it too distracting to follow your message. I'm only saying this as input. For me personally, I vote you leave music off like on the other videos of yours that I've listened to today. Thanks again.
yesterday was our screening for my 34 month old boy... he was slow to speak but he is picking up speed fast as far as speech now...the slow speech hopping and some other tendancies led us to get him screened. after the diagnosis i feel a great need to understand our situation
I highly suspect I am on the spectrum. Almost no doubt about it. I have not been diagnosed yet but am trying to figure out what to do to get that in motion. It’s overwhelming but I’m not going to give up.
I was diagnosed recently though a clinical psychologist arranged by my university but I did a lot of the research and things for myself and gave it to them 😀
I just got diagnosed today at 25. I've suspected for about 6 years. I always felt something was off about my behavior compared to other people but I guess diagnosis was not really that good when I was young so it flew under the radar this whole time. My cousin who is autisitic was not surprised to hear. She could tell.
Hey :) I'm currently in the process of getting diagnosed. I've seen two psychiatrists who have both agreed that I have Asperger's but still awaiting the 'official' diagnosis. :) P.s. is it just me that misses the "What's going on with my hair?" at the start of each video?! lol :D
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RUclips, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
Im 26, Got diagnosed last week officially after being called autistic for all my life and self diagnosing like 9 years ago, being on a waitlist for 5. Very intense week after, eventhough i knew something just went off in my nervous system
I'm 55 and female in UK. I've known about my AS for 15 years; been trying to get an official diagnosis for about 10 years. Finally got a one hour interview last year and they said I didn't have it... Asked to be referred back and this time got three days of tests (over months) and finally got my official diagnosis today. They don't make it easy! They've told me I won't be getting any help from them, but the diagnosis *may* get me help elsewhere. PS I agree with the other person that the music on this vid is incredibly annoying lol.
I finally have an assessment scheduled in October. It cannot come fast enough!! I had a huge meltdown last week that required a 3 day stay at a mental health crisis center. Today I find myself on the verge of another, it's so draining!
Hi Dan, thanks for these videos you have really helped me to learn more and have an understanding of Autism. We are currently just starting the process of having my son diagnosed he is 8 years old. I have videos of his spinning, tics, despondent staring, I've written a history of all his other traits which all point to High functioning Autism. I guess what is going through my mind right now is once we have a diagnosis which I'm sure we will receive, how do I explain to his 5 year old sister about his behaviours, and to children at school or sports coaches etc......
Took the AQ test and scored 29. Looks like I could be an Aspie after all. Only took 38 years to realise. Thanks for all your videos. It is something I can finally relate to bud, cheers.
Self-diagnosed at 35...definitely don't recommend it, but I'm glad I was able to come to terms with it in my own way...but decidedly not in my own time, of course. The most important thing for ANYONE new to this to do is to connect with other people on the spectrum. Coping starts with connecting with the people who think like you, and not immediately trying to cope with not being NT...I think that's a mistake that happens far too often in psychotherapy and adult autists should be very cautious about that direction.
I'm in the process of getting a diagnosis myself. I have a study group thing to go to while I'm waiting for my diagnostic appointment in 2 weeks time. Super nervous about it all but excited about getting some answers.
Just realized I could ask a question...I'm in the US and wonder what benefit there would be in an official diagnosis. Don't think there is any government help here like UK, but right or wrong there is stigma connected to mental illness. Is it just the hope that further counseling would help one learn how to handle it better? I also dislike that though everyone says it's a neuro issue, you are treated by mental health professionals. BTW that's my biggest compliment to you, you are the ONLY one I've found who actually gives tips to help cope! I'm taking notes! God bless you!!!!
I am just diagnosed with autism spectrum I knew i had ADHD and OCD DEPESSION AND ANXIETY PTSD But autism has really freaked me out! I am 70 yo and my son has severe autism no language. I feel so alone and scared! I have very little support! Ive been masking all my life!😢
I wish people in my class understand autism cause I have been trying so hard to fit in I have moved school from primary to secondary and I did have friends and now don’t and I have anxiety
I jumped from school to school while growing up. Not having friends, or having friends for short periods of time is rough on anyone. I make friends, but scare them off due to inappropriate reactions, or my anxiety issues, and sensitivity to sound I have ADHD, dyslexia, borderline personality disorder and elhers-danlos syndrome. My best advice to you is to be you. The bright, unique, person you are. Educate people and tell them if you are making them uncomfortable or saying and doing things that are not socially acceptable, let them know that it's okay to quietly and kindly bring it to your attention. Trust me, The people who will bring value to your life,,, they will stick around. Everyone else, they weren't fortunate enough to get to know you. Feel sorry for those people. Because you ARE the greatest thing in the world. Have a blessed day!
@@MeAmDirshin I have a connective tissue disorder Called Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome that causes issues with 80% of my body inside and out; from the structure of the collagen proteins that help keep organs in their place and gives skin it's strength and elasticity, all the way to the firing or misfiring of the synapse of the brain. Joints dislocate, hurt, cause mobility issues. It has a ton of co-syndromes too, like dysautonomia. Not being able to regulate your autonomic system IE: Heart does what it wants, pupils dilate, fainting, dizziness etc. Also, Pots.. Postural Orthotatic Tachycardia Syndrome. My veins are too week to allow my lower limbs adequate blood supply and when I sit the blood pools into the surrounding tissue, thus causing the heart to beat faster to allow circulation and this causes fainting. It's a real mess. The thing that is harder than anything to cope with, is the fact that people think you are a hypochondriac because on the outside we look healthy and able bodied.
I just finished all my documents, surveys, intake surveys and surveys of other people in my life. I just scheduled my 2 90 minute sessions and will schedule my last one after. I’m very anxious to do it already. I really want clarity and answers.
You are awesome!!! Saw your Darby videos!!! Your channel is awesome! Your videos have excellent quality and editing too! Look forward to subbing and seeing more videos!
I have 2 boys that are waiting for diagnosis. My 7 year old is already diagnosed with SPD, the other (13) has OCD. The waiting list for evaluation is crazy. We've already been waiting almost a year.
Update. Made the 1st step. Written letter to my gp asking to be tested for adhd and add, to rule out if I have them or not. Mum"s taken the letter to the drs. I've got a phone call app on monday 10.40
Hey Dan. My boy told me that the teacher asked them to do visualizations and he doesn't visualize things. How can someone on the spectrum read fiction and fantasy and not visualize? Do you have this issue? Can you do a video about it?
@@TheAspieWorld That makes sense. He said some books, like Harry Potter, will have a picture at the beginning of the chapter. I guess that helps him see it in his mind.
When I read a fictional book I imagine actors as characters, and it is at least easier visualizing the book characters. It’s so difficult for me that I have to write the book characters and actors on a bookmark to remember.
Diagnosed a few weeks ago, struggling with beginnings of burnout and also struggling to deal with the diagnosis even though I've considered it being a possibility for the last almost 20 years even though I've known something was different with me since I was a child. Still waiting for the diagnosis documents to be sent out and to be given to my GP so we can discuss next steps going forward. Struggling to find group or support since my diagnosis and the NHS so far has advised there is only third party support which I cannot seem to find to get access to.
I'm feeling really stuck, patheti, unable to move along,, feel really pathetic just having people around me who have to act differently do to my head. There's so much thinking idk who you do it man, I tend to crumble when I realize I'm I can't do it alone 😢
I've made it almost the whole way through but the music is causing sensory overload so I just have to stop watching. Thanks for yet another amazing video Dan!
I have ASD and the conditions I have within the spectrum are Depression, Anxiety, ADD, OCD and mild ADHD. I have had it for 5 years now and I am a girl so it was harder for me and it still is hard!
Hi, I'm an undiagnosed aspie. I came to know that I have ASD when, in a stressful moment, my mother (whom I love to death and happens to be a psychologist along with my father) let slip that she believes I have ASD, same as her father. After researching ASD and debunking my own preconceptions, I came to the same conclusion. I am 22, an undergraduate, have an IQ of roughly 140, and also a type 1 diabetic. Currently, I work in a hospital emergency room (I know, perfect job environment for an aspie, right?). I plan on continuing my education through med school and on to a specialist practice. What I'd like to figure out is if I should make this diagnosis official. Are there any specific reasons this would help me in my education and career? Make things harder? Do you know anyone (other than Dr. Shaun Murphy) who is a medical practitioner with ASD?
I've been diagnosed for two years now. I'm trying desperately trying get a grip on what it is and how to manage it better. I've mentioned the therapy and such to the GP but they seem to think that nothing is wrong. So will not refer. Because I'm now 25, the support has shrunk to almost nothing. I'm also going through tribunal for the r the second time in just over a year for ESA. Inspite a section three being applied after the last tribunal.
I am dating someone who has been formally diagnosed and I being a good gf want to better understand him but I was also told by my doctor that I may very well be on the spectrum as well
I’ve FINALLY got diagnosed about 3 weeks ago at the age of 21 and it feels so good to finally know that I was correct. The biggest downside I’m finding is that even while reading the results, it’s obvious that a lot of people don’t believe me 🙁
Yay!!! Welcome to the family!
I have the same problem, because people know me for so long and I am really good at masking they don't believe that I have ASD which is really frustrating because even though you ARE neurodivergent they don't give you some slack
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RUclips, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
I'm 32. People who knew me as a child are not surprised finding out now that I am. Friends who haven't known me too long are completely surprised and don't believe me. Someone even said, "if you're autistic then we all are." But I've lived my whole life trying to fit in. Screw people's opinions. We know who we are and that's what matters!
I find that so odd...what are they suppose to believe? It's literally how your brain was formed at birth lol. Unless they have built-in brain scanners into retinas, it's not about believing or disbelieving...it's not a religious decree. XD I think people have a general fear of the unknown, and an autistic brain is very "unknown" to someone that is neurotypical. And we can say the same about their brains! And we have a lot more reasons to distrust their brains, since it's their brains that draw up most of the rules for society ;-)
Got diagnosed yesterday, such a relief. Thought I was defective for my whole life and I’m only 22
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RUclips, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
Just got diagnosed, and felt the biggest weight get lifted. I’m not making things up, it’s real and now I can finally work on healing and bettering my life 🙏🏼
I’ve just been diagnosed this week at 32 (male) - I’ve felt relief but also feeling very overwhelmed, I’m hoping that work will continue to support me now after diagnosis and the implementation of reasonable adjustments
I frustrates me to realize that, at 35, there seems to be very few resources for people on the spectrum as an adult, in my local community. It's almost ALL geared towards children? Whyyyyy. Autistic kids grow up in autistic adults: there is no "cure", we always need help and support. I never got it and to find out it isn't here even when I have the ability to access it now is really disheartening. And this is the same community where my own brother was diagnosed 30 years ago...where have all those autistic children gone to, since then? That's the stuff that really bugs me, even with the incredible relief of finally being able to self-identify properly.
The most useful thing I did after diagnosis was to study how neurotypical people think, and still am. They're still strange but I'm a little more able to understand them now!
That’s a good point.
ditto What Dan said!!
In what ways would you study them?
Just human psychology in areas where aspies struggle. Formation of friendships and relationships. No verbal communication etc. I've gotten a little obsessed with reading psychology books and websites. I'm a dog trainer so I've studied canine behaviour and there are overlaps. My feeling is that, as an aspie, I have the temperament of a Jack Russell Terrier!
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RUclips, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
I just started the process of getting diagnosed, and I'm actually kind of afraid of the long waits and studies and the difficulty explaining my situation. I'm only 14 and haven't learned to adapt very well yet, so knowing there are other people out there that have grown up and learned how to live with the condition makes me feel better. Your channel has helped me with believing in myself and all the tips you give us help me a lot. Thank you.
It is a worrying time as we all get super anxiety ridden during. But stay calm as you can and just try to relax through the process. Please subscribe to my channel to see more videos from me :).
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RUclips, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
I've finally got diagnosed today but feel kind of lost as i don't know what's the next step. Thank you for making this video and giving me a bit of clarification
Your videos helped me figure out that I might have autism so a couple months ago I got tested and I do have autism. Finding this out has helped me a lot already. Thank you!!!
That is amazing!!! Welcome to the family!
Finally got my autism diagnosis today!
Just got mine today!
I just got diagnosed yesterday, and it's helpful to know videos like these exist :-)
I was diagnosed in 2003 with Aspergers but kind of left adrift after that. (I was 30) Was just rediagnosed this Spring as ASD 2, and am on the way to applying for disability. The second round was a LOT more informative and helpful. I have medical challenges as well, but this was really helpful in a lot of ways.
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I recently got diagnosed with aspergers (technically ASD now i think), and its been a weird feeling over last 2 months of relief. My brain wasn't gaslighting me my entire childhood. I am now 18, and realise that my aspergers helps me play to my strengths, programming just always had made sense to me, and lead me to a place where i can be self sufficient emotionally and financially!
I got diagnosed near the end of my 1st semester and needless to say I'm going to need a lot of time to take it in.
Trying to get a diagnosis. Insurance in the States is dodgy
Yeah!!!
I had to call around for months to find someone. Hang in there and keep digging.
Same here
Autism speaks website can be helpful...if you're in the U.S.
Just got my dual diagnosis today @ 40, thankyou for your videos
A big HI from Perth, WA! I am 21yrs and have only recently been diagnosed with high funtioning autism in January 2018. When I was young I was diagnosed with dyslexia, dyspraxia and auditory processing disorder. I also have struggled with BPD and major depression, but I have luckily recovery from my mental illness's. Thanks for your videos it definatly gives me hope with living with such diagnoses. X
Hey thank you for the awesome comment!!!
I was diagnosed yesterday at 35. Not really sure how I feel yet.
I've just had hours of testing on the 6th and now I'm very anxiously awaiting my follow up on the 26th to learn what her decision is. It can't come soon enough! I'm actually more afraid of her saying she doesn't think I'm on the spectrum than finally getting the relief of an ASD diagnosis.
What was the outcome?
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RUclips, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
40 and got diagnosed this morning and feel pretty shit. I must say thanks to you as I cut down the wait time for my diagnosis massively because you directed me to the right to choose webpage. So thank you
I’m 66 years old and recently diagnosed, I’m in a very different world now. A strange peace has come over me yet More than a few difficulties have have surfaced when I tell loved ones. I’m backing away from letting people know. My wife has been wonderful in her support and that means the world to me.
I'm in the process of being diagnosed. I'm getting an evaluation appt. set up. I'm very thankful for the support from my mom. My psychiatrist is FINALLY really listening to me. yay !!!
Currently helping my mother going through the process, we have her diagnosis meeting on Monday. Been through it before, with my son, who was diagnosed aged 5.
Best Of Luck!!
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RUclips, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
How did it go?
@@footyfan101ful Not great, not enough evidence apparently.
She's passed since and I'm sure if we had provided some of the school reports she had hidden in the loft things might have been different.
My son is in the process of getting diagnosed. he has ADHD, ODD and a few other things going on your videos have helped me A LOT thank you for your videos the are a ton of help.
Hey you are welcome!!! Best of luck with the assessment process!!!
Got my adult assessment in 5 weeks and your videos have been so helpful to me. Thank you✌🏼💚
Hey that is awesome, I am so happy I help!!!
I am 52, and I just received my diagnosis on Thursday. For the first time in my life I feel seen.
Was recently diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder and found this very helpful
I’m a 60 year old woman who has been diagnosed with adhd, ptsd, my 35 year old son is struggling to find a diagnosis in Canada.
Thank you for this amazing information.
I found this video really helped I was diagnosed with autism three days ago after two years of waiting just trying to gather information and help with everything I need to know so this video really helped
I’m 38yr, Black Gay American. I’ve recently in the past 2 weeks I was unofficially diagnosed by a state worker. After denial my life makes sense and I’m on this journey and have been actively unmasking to regress and understand my quirks and traits that are unique to me… it’s been a wild ride
my first evaluation appointment is this month! couldn't be more relieved and anxious at the same time
Another clear and extremely helpful video, Dan. You are doing an excellent service.
Thank you so much!!!
Had my assessment. It’s supposed to be 4-6 weeks for the results to come in, and it’s four weeks exactly today!! I’m so impatient and nervous!
Hey try to stay calm and relaxed. :)!!!
Hi!
Thanks to your channel and research I went to a psychologist 2 weeks ago. She gave me the diagnosis after a first 1.5hrs interview. To get the full diagnosis I'd have to go back and do all the tests... but as I don't need the diagnosis for my every day life, I won't be getting that at the moment. But will get the official diagnosis sometime in the future, as it entitles me to free meetings with a psychologist.
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I'm so late to the party on comments, but was diagnosed with Asperger's and ADHD here in Australia a few weeks ago after years of living in the UK being told I had anxiety. I'm so greatful to my professionals in Australia. The only thing here is the long wait times and the cost. I'm now on the way to getting help. Thank you for making videos. I don't feel so alone in this now !
Hey!! Thank you so much for the comment! Please subscribe to my channel to see more videos from me :).
I am setting up meetings for the process right now of getting a diagnosis,
Thank you so much for this team journey advice ! Thank you so much Aspie world Dan for all you are doing!
Just been diagnosed today and it feels like a part of me has been given back to me
I just today got the diagnosis at 27, after having several extra tests because there were a lot of "yes... but"'s, having the report send to a specialistic center and they quickly assessed and diagnosed me. So far I feel very much relieved, also with the immediate course they offered me to get a bigger understanding.
Just diagnosed with ADHD and ASD. I always suspected autism but the ADHD is a surprise. Right now I need all the info I can get.
This was so interesting to watch. Pretty amazing actually. I'm an autism mom with my own channel. My asd kiddo will be 7 in a month. My older son, 23 yr. , however I truthfully believe is on the spectrum. In fact, I feel in ways I failed him by not knowing the signs when he was young. He is amazing but struggles with social cues and of course spd. We have chatted about him getting diagnosed but he doesn't want to thinking he has gone this long without. I'm on the fence but I support him regardless. What your doing, helping older young adults by giving them support and tools is simply amazing! Thank you!
Hey thank you for the comment!!!
I just got my diagnosis, it's both relief and painful. Thank you for the advice!
I was finally diagnosed today!! I’m 33 years old. It’s been a year and a half of searching for someone competent to even assess me… now that I have my diagnosis I realized I never actually thought of what I would do afterwards…
Diagnosed yesterday. I knew I was autistic but having an actual diagnosis feels different
I got diagnosed a few months ago, and it feels really good, and helps me figure out how to feel better, but I’ve been masking for so long- so many things still hurt so much. The damages feel irreparable.
i just got diagnosed with autism and adhd yesterday! ty for this video!!
Working on it. Had my first meeting and now waiting a month for diagnoses testing. Have good insurance thru work in the states very very lucky!
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I love the series, I'm from Mexico and I'm still looking for a specialist to get a diagnosis, but is almost impossible because any help available for autism is for kids, not adults.
Please make more videos of women with autism.
Thank you!!!
Just got my diagnosis and I'm so happy
Since I have already been diagnosed with autism at age 3, that journey was ended, but I am okay because I have had support from occupational therapy and speech pathologist help me through those difficult times.
Yeah.
Sorry for asking have you been verbal or non verbal?? I'm just worried about my son he is 4 but he is nonverbal he does say words he counts to 20 on his way he try but he still hasn't called me mom or dad he can't say hello he can't say single words
I was mostly kept to myself than communicating to my parents and family.
My 17 Month old was Diagnosed yesterday... Needless to say, today was full of administrative work regarding therapy appointments and evaluations for him. Philadelphia is a great place to be for an ASD diagnosis thankfully... lots of programs!
Oh wow that is young.
The Aspie World ... I started noticing symptoms when he was about 11 months old... My neice is on the spectrum as well so ive had some form of understanding for a while... Its something I had in the back of my mind since he was born... Looking forward to helping him learn to communicate. Hes an amazing dude!
Very Cool card. Thanks for the knowledge Dan.
Thank you!!!
Really enjoying your videos, I'm just beginning my diagnostic process. Finishing second half of intake on Monday and then begin diagnostic evaluation Wednesday. Super nervous still lol
Hey don’t be nervous, just been awesome :).
@@TheAspieWorld thanks :) luckily I have an awesome friend who has Aspergers and he's been a huge help! (He is also very sure I have it 😂) feels weird being 26 and trying to find resources though lol
Thank you so much for what you are doing. It's the first helpful information I've found and I'm learning a lot. One thing, when I started this video, I couldn't "hear" you because of the background music. Not saying it was too loud, just that I couldn't separate your voice from it and found it too distracting to follow your message. I'm only saying this as input. For me personally, I vote you leave music off like on the other videos of yours that I've listened to today. Thanks again.
Hi Dan having my assessment on the 18th of this month. Very anxious about it.
Oh don’t be!!! Try to be awesome and calm ⚡️!!! Best of luck!
I'm terrified of being diagnosed. I don't want encouragement to lean into habits/traits
Just got diagnosed with ASD today!!
yesterday was our screening for my 34 month old boy... he was slow to speak but he is picking up speed fast as far as speech now...the slow speech hopping and some other tendancies led us to get him screened. after the diagnosis i feel a great need to understand our situation
I highly suspect I am on the spectrum. Almost no doubt about it. I have not been diagnosed yet but am trying to figure out what to do to get that in motion. It’s overwhelming but I’m not going to give up.
Did you get diagnosed?
I was diagnosed recently though a clinical psychologist arranged by my university but I did a lot of the research and things for myself and gave it to them 😀
Heck yes!!!
@@TheAspieWorld your videos were my main source of information!
3 weeks ago I got diagnosed with autism and I sent this to my mum
Oh cool!!!
Getting tested tomorrow, im a 16 year old girl, thank you for your videos :)
I just got diagnosed today at 25. I've suspected for about 6 years. I always felt something was off about my behavior compared to other people but I guess diagnosis was not really that good when I was young so it flew under the radar this whole time. My cousin who is autisitic was not surprised to hear. She could tell.
Hey :) I'm currently in the process of getting diagnosed. I've seen two psychiatrists who have both agreed that I have Asperger's but still awaiting the 'official' diagnosis. :)
P.s. is it just me that misses the "What's going on with my hair?" at the start of each video?! lol :D
Oh awesome!!!
I'm also in the process of getting diagnosed.
With the gradual using of dr Oyalo herbal recommendation for autism, whom I met on RUclips, my son is totally free from Autism with his speech cleared and behavior ok as he now respond to orders and act right. Thank you doc Oyalo for your help. I am Greatful
Im 26, Got diagnosed last week officially after being called autistic for all my life and self diagnosing like 9 years ago, being on a waitlist for 5. Very intense week after, eventhough i knew something just went off in my nervous system
I'm 55 and female in UK. I've known about my AS for 15 years; been trying to get an official diagnosis for about 10 years. Finally got a one hour interview last year and they said I didn't have it...
Asked to be referred back and this time got three days of tests (over months) and finally got my official diagnosis today. They don't make it easy! They've told me I won't be getting any help from them, but the diagnosis *may* get me help elsewhere.
PS I agree with the other person that the music on this vid is incredibly annoying lol.
Oh that is interesting. Are you going back for another assessment?
I finally have an assessment scheduled in October. It cannot come fast enough!! I had a huge meltdown last week that required a 3 day stay at a mental health crisis center. Today I find myself on the verge of another, it's so draining!
Great video as always Dan, really useful. I would like some Autism Alert Cards.
Thank you!!!
Another helpful video thanks Dan 😊💜❤️
Hi Dan, thanks for these videos you have really helped me to learn more and have an understanding of Autism. We are currently just starting the process of having my son diagnosed he is 8 years old. I have videos of his spinning, tics, despondent staring, I've written a history of all his other traits which all point to High functioning Autism. I guess what is going through my mind right now is once we have a diagnosis which I'm sure we will receive, how do I explain to his 5 year old sister about his behaviours, and to children at school or sports coaches etc......
thanks for this vid they always help I was diagnosed 4 months ago
Just got my diagnosis today!
I'm an autistic narcissist with multiple personality bipolar and disassociative disorder. I'm barely functional lol
I just got my official diagnosis today. I’m a senior in high school
Great video Dan. I have been referred by my GP to an adult diagnosis centre. Waiting on a letter.
Thank you!!! Best of luck with your referral.
@@TheAspieWorld Thank you!!
Took the AQ test and scored 29. Looks like I could be an Aspie after all. Only took 38 years to realise. Thanks for all your videos. It is something I can finally relate to bud, cheers.
Self-diagnosed at 35...definitely don't recommend it, but I'm glad I was able to come to terms with it in my own way...but decidedly not in my own time, of course. The most important thing for ANYONE new to this to do is to connect with other people on the spectrum. Coping starts with connecting with the people who think like you, and not immediately trying to cope with not being NT...I think that's a mistake that happens far too often in psychotherapy and adult autists should be very cautious about that direction.
I'm in the process of getting a diagnosis myself. I have a study group thing to go to while I'm waiting for my diagnostic appointment in 2 weeks time. Super nervous about it all but excited about getting some answers.
Oh you will be awesome!!!
Just realized I could ask a question...I'm in the US and wonder what benefit there would be in an official diagnosis. Don't think there is any government help here like UK, but right or wrong there is stigma connected to mental illness. Is it just the hope that further counseling would help one learn how to handle it better? I also dislike that though everyone says it's a neuro issue, you are treated by mental health professionals. BTW that's my biggest compliment to you, you are the ONLY one I've found who actually gives tips to help cope! I'm taking notes! God bless you!!!!
I am just diagnosed with autism spectrum I knew i had ADHD and OCD DEPESSION AND ANXIETY PTSD But autism has really freaked me out! I am 70 yo and my son has severe autism no language. I feel so alone and scared! I have very little support! Ive been masking all my life!😢
At the age of 39 I’ve was diagnosed with autism and adhd a week ago
I wish people in my class understand autism cause I have been trying so hard to fit in I have moved school from primary to secondary and I did have friends and now don’t and I have anxiety
I jumped from school to school while growing up. Not having friends, or having friends for short periods of time is rough on anyone. I make friends, but scare them off due to inappropriate reactions, or my anxiety issues, and sensitivity to sound I have ADHD, dyslexia, borderline personality disorder and elhers-danlos syndrome. My best advice to you is to be you. The bright, unique, person you are. Educate people and tell them if you are making them uncomfortable or saying and doing things that are not socially acceptable, let them know that it's okay to quietly and kindly bring it to your attention. Trust me, The people who will bring value to your life,,, they will stick around. Everyone else, they weren't fortunate enough to get to know you. Feel sorry for those people. Because you ARE the greatest thing in the world. Have a blessed day!
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@@lisafowler2151I am a bit curious to what that syndrome is so you care if you could explain? Not being rude psychology is my special interest
@@MeAmDirshin I have a connective tissue disorder Called Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome that causes issues with 80% of my body inside and out; from the structure of the collagen proteins that help keep organs in their place and gives skin it's strength and elasticity, all the way to the firing or misfiring of the synapse of the brain. Joints dislocate, hurt, cause mobility issues. It has a ton of co-syndromes too, like dysautonomia. Not being able to regulate your autonomic system IE: Heart does what it wants, pupils dilate, fainting, dizziness etc. Also, Pots.. Postural Orthotatic Tachycardia Syndrome. My veins are too week to allow my lower limbs adequate blood supply and when I sit the blood pools into the surrounding tissue, thus causing the heart to beat faster to allow circulation and this causes fainting. It's a real mess. The thing that is harder than anything to cope with, is the fact that people think you are a hypochondriac because on the outside we look healthy and able bodied.
@@MeAmDirshin here is a link with a lot of info on EDS. ghr.nlm.nih.gov/condition/ehlers-danlos-syndrome#genes
I just finished all my documents, surveys, intake surveys and surveys of other people in my life.
I just scheduled my 2 90 minute sessions and will schedule my last one after. I’m very anxious to do it already. I really want clarity and answers.
You are awesome!!! Saw your Darby videos!!! Your channel is awesome! Your videos have excellent quality and editing too! Look forward to subbing and seeing more videos!
Thank you!!
I have 2 boys that are waiting for diagnosis. My 7 year old is already diagnosed with SPD, the other (13) has OCD. The waiting list for evaluation is crazy. We've already been waiting almost a year.
Wow that is such a long process. Sorry it is taking you that long :(.
Just got diagnosed with autism and adult adhd two weeks ago and feel lost and like the rug has been pulled out of under me.
Update. Made the 1st step. Written letter to my gp asking to be tested for adhd and add, to rule out if I have them or not. Mum"s taken the letter to the drs. I've got a phone call app on monday 10.40
AWESOME!!! Best of luck!
Hey Dan. My boy told me that the teacher asked them to do visualizations and he doesn't visualize things. How can someone on the spectrum read fiction and fantasy and not visualize? Do you have this issue? Can you do a video about it?
Yes I can relate. It is difficult to visualise but we do it more applying that story to something we have already seen.
@@TheAspieWorld That makes sense. He said some books, like Harry Potter, will have a picture at the beginning of the chapter. I guess that helps him see it in his mind.
When I read a fictional book I imagine actors as characters, and it is at least easier visualizing the book characters. It’s so difficult for me that I have to write the book characters and actors on a bookmark to remember.
I'm getting setup to finally get my answers 💗
Hi Dan, I was diagnosed this year by a clinical psychologist.
Awesome!!!
Just been diagnosed, my worlds turned on its head, also have anxiety and dcd, so ive had to implement loads of stuff into my life
Hey do not worry. I hope my list and video helped!!!
@@TheAspieWorld it helped alot, you've helped everyone who watch's your videos, thank you so much.
I just got diagnosed yesterday at the age of 36.
I was 8 when I got diagnosed with autism and anxiety
Ah interesting!!!
Hi Dan. Still waiting to back from the neuropsychologist about my test results.
Best of luck!!!
Diagnosed a few weeks ago, struggling with beginnings of burnout and also struggling to deal with the diagnosis even though I've considered it being a possibility for the last almost 20 years even though I've known something was different with me since I was a child. Still waiting for the diagnosis documents to be sent out and to be given to my GP so we can discuss next steps going forward. Struggling to find group or support since my diagnosis and the NHS so far has advised there is only third party support which I cannot seem to find to get access to.
Great video!
Thank you!!!
In the process of getting tested, I thought I was done getting tested, and then they called and added another day.
I'm feeling really stuck, patheti, unable to move along,, feel really pathetic just having people around me who have to act differently do to my head. There's so much thinking idk who you do it man, I tend to crumble when I realize I'm I can't do it alone 😢
You have to remember you are awesome and keep going!!!
Your not alone there are so many ppl like you out there think more positive for example I'm not autistic but I live every day with autism 😊
I've made it almost the whole way through but the music is causing sensory overload so I just have to stop watching.
Thanks for yet another amazing video Dan!
Sorry about the music. Thank you!!!
I have ASD and the conditions I have within the spectrum are Depression, Anxiety, ADD, OCD and mild ADHD.
I have had it for 5 years now and I am a girl so it was harder for me and it still is hard!
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What emoji did you use as I use android so it didn't appear.
Hi, I'm an undiagnosed aspie. I came to know that I have ASD when, in a stressful moment, my mother (whom I love to death and happens to be a psychologist along with my father) let slip that she believes I have ASD, same as her father. After researching ASD and debunking my own preconceptions, I came to the same conclusion.
I am 22, an undergraduate, have an IQ of roughly 140, and also a type 1 diabetic. Currently, I work in a hospital emergency room (I know, perfect job environment for an aspie, right?). I plan on continuing my education through med school and on to a specialist practice.
What I'd like to figure out is if I should make this diagnosis official. Are there any specific reasons this would help me in my education and career? Make things harder? Do you know anyone (other than Dr. Shaun Murphy) who is a medical practitioner with ASD?
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I've been diagnosed for two years now. I'm trying desperately trying get a grip on what it is and how to manage it better. I've mentioned the therapy and such to the GP but they seem to think that nothing is wrong. So will not refer. Because I'm now 25, the support has shrunk to almost nothing. I'm also going through tribunal for the r the second time in just over a year for ESA. Inspite a section three being applied after the last tribunal.
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I am dating someone who has been formally diagnosed and I being a good gf want to better understand him but I was also told by my doctor that I may very well be on the spectrum as well