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As a black man I do seek therapy because I have had anger issues, unheralded trauma and depression and it’s ok to get help. It’s too many people that look like me doing whatever to supress the pain. Killing our own, Doing shady things, Broken Homes, Satying Locked Up the list goes on. We have to get the minds right because everything will fall into place. S/O DWC y’all doing it big 💯 salute!
I most definitely think our community has a mental health crisis. I remember in the '90s if you stepped on somebody's shoe! They would kill you literally. It shows how we don't value our lives the shoes are worth more. We tend to see each other as obstacles in our community I call it the (Mandingo) effect, if you ever seen that movie.
I'll say this-a part of the reason why a lot of us struggle so much in relationships is because of the "idgaf who hurt you" mentality that far too many of us have. As much as we don't, we should. Both men and women should. Lord, have mercy. Apathy is gonna be the death of intimacy for a lot of folks out here.
Mental health is not stressed enough in the black community. A lot of our issues with a multitude of things come from not knowing ourselves and understanding what makes us happy. I would encourage all black people and all humans to take time to discover yourselves. What makes you happy? What do you enjoy doing that is inexpensive or free? What do you think you deserve out of life? Also, try getting away from rap (most of it). I listen to Jazz everyday and it really balances me out. I love "Down to the Bone", Jerk and several others. De-stress your lives and find time to just be alone, let your thoughts wonder, pray (if you believe) and meditate on yourselves. You'd be surprised how much better you'll feel.
This is an episode I don't know I needed. Empthy is so important! The willingness to understand people's perspective and effectively communicate with them can be life changing. Keep building and growing my guys!
We have to be honest, some not all Black women look at themselves as a separate entity outside of the Black community. That interview with Ice Cube and the shade room prove that much
I love conversations like this. When I was in the Marines I had my group of guys that look like me and we could just talk. We held each other accountable and understood the hardships that we have to face. It was a healthy environment Every since we all went our separate ways (going back home), I have a lot of anger stored inside with no outlets. It is a struggle to find a safe space, especially one where those around you look similar to you. Conversations like this reminds me that I am not alone in my way of thinking and it is okay to reach out for help.
Its a day-by-day process its not going to change overnight both Black Women and Black men have to work together in order for it for us to benefit from traumas we've faced in our ancestral DNA and start the healing process🙏🙏
I love this podcast so much ❤️ its literally a breath of fresh air. I binge watch you guys every single day and it amazes me because i learned so much and it's interesting to see and understand other viewpoints but this episode hit different 🙏🏽, loved it
🛖 FAM, I LOVE THIS STUDIO SETTING. It's a perfect space for open communication and peaceful discourse. I respect how y'all boys stepped your game up. Y'all always had clean audio and great topics. Now the visual is almost complete. It doesn't seem like hosts vs guests anymore. Now it looks like hosts and the guests.
This episode basically has reinforced my belief that it's not just there isn't people out there looking and caring for us they don't get the light because it's positive
please talk about this: Women get into relationships with toxic men and complain men are toxic or abusive. Any normal human can sniff behaviours of a person, why won't women do that or are women attracted to abuse? If so, is the high incarceration rate for black men connected with hyper masculine archetype that black women require in a man?
@@madant22 ha ha, but I'm serious. Like i can tell if a person is nuts in like seconds, so it doesn't look like avoiding conflict, more like welcoming it.
@@akshy471 me too. No pun intended. lol I can tell a amber heard type chick from a mile away. I keep telling people especially women. Go off someone’s lasting impression on how you last left them or last left you. Don’t go off of 1st impressions. 1st impressions doesn’t tell you much or anything about a person. But you right some behaviors you can see from a mile away. Some are more covert with it. They like Chameleon style type woman. You can’t easily tell. But over time you’ll see the red flags 🚩 right then and there but turn a blind eye or ask about it.
That’s because a lot of women think that they can “fix” a man. Even when there’s nothing wrong with the man, they’re always looking for something to fix. What’s really fascinating is that they don’t mind negative or toxic traits as long as it’s not directed at or affects them! An alpha male with flaws is always the preference. An interesting topic would be, “Why is it that the thing that a woman will find attractive about a man is the first thing that she’ll eventually complain about?” If she’s attracted to your body, she’ll wind up complaining about you going to the gym. If she likes that you have a good job & you’re career oriented, she’ll complain about you spending too much time at work. You get where I’m going….. Anything that takes the primary focus away from her will become an issue no matter what it is!
I think when it comes to picking a therapist you shouldn’t need to pick a therapist of the same race. I think a good therapist should be able to give you enlightenment from the perspective of a human and how we respond to things. If you have to pick someone of the same race because you need “a nurturing woman” to speak to you may want to ask yourself if I’m doing that because I didn’t get that as a child? Everything starts as a child.. btw I’m a black male who goes to therapy.
Man that was me yesterday. My girl texting me and I’m super busy at work so I try to text her back while I can from time to time. When it was time from me to get off my co worker at work wanted to smoke and I told her hey I’m about to smoke with my coworker then be home. She gets to wigging on text but 3 mins ago she was all lovey. So I just annoyed it soon as I go home she doesn’t want to communicate and I asking her questions she just all In her phone dont even trying to hear me. It’s like I just wanted five mins to collect my thoughts damn n I go home to stress ever more.
Thanks to guys like Tommy Sotomayor also KS shedding light on the average BM we are getting our image back. And the average BW and modern women don't like it well tough crap. Thanks, Daily Rap Crew and you guys are way better that Fresh and Fit.
@@DailyRapUpCrew honestly, a Black woman is not going to understand a Black man’s struggle within the community. Plus he’s going to want to be strong in front of her instead of letting go. I talk to my husband every single day after work but I know what he’s going through with doing tires because I used to do that same exact job. It’s actually how we met. I could relate to him about the Army because I was already a Disabled Army Veteran when we met. Now when it comes to Black men issues, I have to fall back because I don’t know the struggles of a Black man so he speaks to someone else. My husband and I can’t discuss my mom’s death because he still has both of his parents. My husband doesn’t know how to handle my mental breakdowns. I have to talk to someone else who can empathize with me. We definitely clash when it comes to American issues because I only know about Panamanian issues. It’s an ongoing battle in my household. I code switch so he forgets I have no idea what’s going on or why people feel the way they feel here in the states. I just found out that feminism wasn’t a lesbian thing in November. My husband had to explain it to me. It wasn’t an issue in my household growing up. My mom was a stay at home wife/mom. She cooked, cleaned and so forth and my dad went to work and paid the household bills. It was definitely a huge culture clash when we got married.
It depends what circles you mix in eg if you go to ragga and gangsta rap places your going to buck up with rude scary aggressive violent highly strung thugs and scary women . It also depends on where you live. Racism isolation and hostilty can also wear you down. The luckiest carribean people are the ones that live comfortably in the carribean. I feel so sorry for the nice decent people isolated with no hope living in the wests racist jungle.
Stop worrying about how cool you look to other men. If you want spaces for black men to express themselves and heal create them! We black women weren't give ish, we built what we have. These investments into black women's education, grants, business loans and scholarship is because we are putting ourselves forward going for what we want and pursuing them. What's stopping black men from applying for grants for black people? Nothing. No one owe you anything, you owe yourself.
“We block women weren’t given ish..” sooooo wrong lol. The government has been feeding you and your families for literal generations because the pookie and ray rays y’all love so much would never start a family with you lol. You guys get all these “investments “ Because you moan and complain anytime something doesn’t go your way and ask for help from any and everybody. Us men are not the same!
@@moneyman8777 Do you know why they've done that? It's because black women are the fastest growing entrepreneurs it makes sense why Gold Sachs are investing 10B to the fastest emerging entrepreneurs in the community. Have you read how this has come about there have been "black women led organizations" that have been working to get this funding. Why aren't black men creating organizations to push for their betterment?
@@moneyman8777 womanhood depends on the security and reliability of the manhood. For the ennemies of the black community it is important for them to invest as much as possible in the black motherhood to render the counterpart obsolete. They would need to deplete the black man’s reliability to ashes. It’s another form of forcibly taking a child away from her (to make her dependent upon the kidnapper) but this time, taking her mate away from her remotely from her own self (kidnapping her own child from her mates). They would indefinitely have to keep black women in a state of survival by giving resources to her rather than the man. Never let the man fulfill his role in the family unit make her expel him from the future of the entirety of the black race’s family/parent-hood structure. Black women are stuck in a frozen state of survival, they would have to be warmed to achieve natural femininity, in this case, the cold breeze that keeps her frozen is money. Just like in all scripture, the key to controlling the chaos of all human structures, is it’s creators (the women). Control the creator, control the fate “Fastest way to get someone to do something for you, is to make them believe they came up with the idea themselves”. Always a puppet behind another puppet. Black women have been and are pawns. It’s not “because” they’re women, it’s because they posses the womb of the black human, it’s the home/temple/life garden of the black human. Access it, attach some strings and you become the puppet master of all black living things. The key is to make the black woman’s womb soil, a garden in which crops don’t grow, roots perish.
Around 35:50 you literally shamed a woman for just wanting to be a house wife smfh bro there’s nothing wrong with her plan being just a housewife y’all really gotta watch your videos before releasing it sometimes you say off topic stuff that was one of them
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As a black man I do seek therapy because I have had anger issues, unheralded trauma and depression and it’s ok to get help. It’s too many people that look like me doing whatever to supress the pain. Killing our own, Doing shady things, Broken Homes, Satying Locked Up the list goes on. We have to get the minds right because everything will fall into place. S/O DWC y’all doing it big 💯 salute!
I most definitely think our community has a mental health crisis. I remember in the '90s if you stepped on somebody's shoe! They would kill you literally. It shows how we don't value our lives the shoes are worth more. We tend to see each other as obstacles in our community I call it the (Mandingo) effect, if you ever seen that movie.
well said
Exactly!
That's what crack did.
We have 400 years of trauma that doesn't get talked about or healed but keep getting passed down from generation to generation
I'll say this-a part of the reason why a lot of us struggle so much in relationships is because of the "idgaf who hurt you" mentality that far too many of us have. As much as we don't, we should. Both men and women should. Lord, have mercy. Apathy is gonna be the death of intimacy for a lot of folks out here.
I’m glad this was an only men panel. Seriously.
We definitely need some more conversations with the fellas
Mental health is not stressed enough in the black community. A lot of our issues with a multitude of things come from not knowing ourselves and understanding what makes us happy. I would encourage all black people and all humans to take time to discover yourselves. What makes you happy? What do you enjoy doing that is inexpensive or free? What do you think you deserve out of life? Also, try getting away from rap (most of it). I listen to Jazz everyday and it really balances me out. I love "Down to the Bone", Jerk and several others. De-stress your lives and find time to just be alone, let your thoughts wonder, pray (if you believe) and meditate on yourselves. You'd be surprised how much better you'll feel.
Appreciate y'all having me 🙏🏿
This is an episode I don't know I needed. Empthy is so important! The willingness to understand people's perspective and effectively communicate with them can be life changing. Keep building and growing my guys!
That’s love and I’m happy that this episode made a connection with you
Bruh I be putting so many blk brothers and sister on y’all content!! And they fuck with it
Appreciate the support 💪🏾
Thank you for bringing awareness to a topic that barely spoken about… Keep up the good work fellas!
Thank you! Will do!
Man I swear this theeeeee best podcast with this content!!!! Hands down
💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Much needed content
We have to be honest, some not all Black women look at themselves as a separate entity outside of the Black community. That interview with Ice Cube and the shade room prove that much
I love conversations like this. When I was in the Marines I had my group of guys that look like me and we could just talk. We held each other accountable and understood the hardships that we have to face. It was a healthy environment Every since we all went our separate ways (going back home), I have a lot of anger stored inside with no outlets. It is a struggle to find a safe space, especially one where those around you look similar to you. Conversations like this reminds me that I am not alone in my way of thinking and it is okay to reach out for help.
Its a day-by-day process its not going to change overnight both Black Women and Black men have to work together in order for it for us to benefit from traumas we've faced in our ancestral DNA and start the healing process🙏🙏
The only group of people that has empathy for broken so-called blackmen is so-called blackmen that is on the journey of understanding & healing
This was an awesome podcast. Kizzle, I really appreciate the nuances, openness and accountability displayed. 🙏❤️
Such an important episode!! I hate that it’s not seen as much as the others 😢
I love this podcast so much ❤️ its literally a breath of fresh air. I binge watch you guys every single day and it amazes me because i learned so much and it's interesting to see and understand other viewpoints but this episode hit different 🙏🏽, loved it
🛖 FAM, I LOVE THIS STUDIO SETTING. It's a perfect space for open communication and peaceful discourse. I respect how y'all boys stepped your game up. Y'all always had clean audio and great topics. Now the visual is almost complete. It doesn't seem like hosts vs guests anymore. Now it looks like hosts and the guests.
This episode basically has reinforced my belief that it's not just there isn't people out there looking and caring for us they don't get the light because it's positive
Great conversation today fellas! 💪🏾
💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Liking the new studio guys 💪🏿
Appreciate that 💪🏾
please talk about this: Women get into relationships with toxic men and complain men are toxic or abusive. Any normal human can sniff behaviours of a person, why won't women do that or are women attracted to abuse? If so, is the high incarceration rate for black men connected with hyper masculine archetype that black women require in a man?
That’s something I think we can touch on 🤔
“Are women attracted to abuse?” Hmm 🤔 that’s a great title for a video. The clicks on that title will be crazy. 🤩
@@madant22 ha ha, but I'm serious. Like i can tell if a person is nuts in like seconds, so it doesn't look like avoiding conflict, more like welcoming it.
@@akshy471 me too. No pun intended. lol I can tell a amber heard type chick from a mile away. I keep telling people especially women. Go off someone’s lasting impression on how you last left them or last left you. Don’t go off of 1st impressions. 1st impressions doesn’t tell you much or anything about a person. But you right some behaviors you can see from a mile away. Some are more covert with it. They like Chameleon style type woman. You can’t easily tell. But over time you’ll see the red flags 🚩 right then and there but turn a blind eye or ask about it.
That’s because a lot of women think that they can “fix” a man. Even when there’s nothing wrong with the man, they’re always looking for something to fix. What’s really fascinating is that they don’t mind negative or toxic traits as long as it’s not directed at or affects them! An alpha male with flaws is always the preference.
An interesting topic would be, “Why is it that the thing that a woman will find attractive about a man is the first thing that she’ll eventually complain about?” If she’s attracted to your body, she’ll wind up complaining about you going to the gym. If she likes that you have a good job & you’re career oriented, she’ll complain about you spending too much time at work. You get where I’m going….. Anything that takes the primary focus away from her will become an issue no matter what it is!
Y'all keep it 💯
Appreciate that fr thanks for the support
I think when it comes to picking a therapist you shouldn’t need to pick a therapist of the same race. I think a good therapist should be able to give you enlightenment from the perspective of a human and how we respond to things. If you have to pick someone of the same race because you need “a nurturing woman” to speak to you may want to ask yourself if I’m doing that because I didn’t get that as a child? Everything starts as a child.. btw I’m a black male who goes to therapy.
I agree my therapist was white and she was amazing and I love her so much💯.
Love the content brothers!
Appreciate it
Dope show fellaS keep up the good work
Appreciate it
Bro you up here talking! 🔥🔥🔥
Great job brothers 👏🏿✊🏿
That studio is on point!
He said everything I been thinking for a year in one pod. So glad to find this. Automatic subscription
Man I love y’all for this! Needed this sht
This was a good convo
Man that was me yesterday. My girl texting me and I’m super busy at work so I try to text her back while I can from time to time. When it was time from me to get off my co worker at work wanted to smoke and I told her hey I’m about to smoke with my coworker then be home. She gets to wigging on text but 3 mins ago she was all lovey. So I just annoyed it soon as I go home she doesn’t want to communicate and I asking her questions she just all In her phone dont even trying to hear me. It’s like I just wanted five mins to collect my thoughts damn n I go home to stress ever more.
So far favorite episode from this podcast I 100% agree with the guest and will be checking his content out as well
Love Kizzle ! Need more men like him!
I been looking for a black male therapist for awhile now
I’ve been waiting for this❤️👏🏽great conversation I wish it was longer.
We definitely gotta have more convo like this
Thanks to guys like Tommy Sotomayor also KS shedding light on the average BM we are getting our image back. And the average BW and modern women don't like it well tough crap. Thanks, Daily Rap Crew and you guys are way better that Fresh and Fit.
Waw I love this so much
And with this episode…I sub. Good work fellas
grateful for this
Black people go through so much so I don't understand why we wouldn't go to therapy to deal with our traumatic experiences.
That studio is like Young Burg’s chain 😂
Ayoo 😂
I’m lost I gotta do my googles lol
we needed this ep
I rather pick a therapist from the same race. I’m not even comfortable around other mf that don’t look like me
I feel you
another great episode
This was really good
What do you say in the introduction after dailyrapupcrew ? "welcome to the dailyrapupcrew no____, I go by the name Eli"
No book of but I go by the name Eli (Book of Eli) it’s a movie reference lol 😂
Love it
All imma say is I don’t think therapist should be women fore the sole fact that they don’t know how to disassociate
Why you say that?? 🤔
Exactly. They still are what they are and they can’t handle a man’s emotions no matter the profession.
@@DailyRapUpCrew honestly, a Black woman is not going to understand a Black man’s struggle within the community. Plus he’s going to want to be strong in front of her instead of letting go.
I talk to my husband every single day after work but I know what he’s going through with doing tires because I used to do that same exact job. It’s actually how we met. I could relate to him about the Army because I was already a Disabled Army Veteran when we met. Now when it comes to Black men issues, I have to fall back because I don’t know the struggles of a Black man so he speaks to someone else.
My husband and I can’t discuss my mom’s death because he still has both of his parents. My husband doesn’t know how to handle my mental breakdowns. I have to talk to someone else who can empathize with me.
We definitely clash when it comes to American issues because I only know about Panamanian issues. It’s an ongoing battle in my household. I code switch so he forgets I have no idea what’s going on or why people feel the way they feel here in the states. I just found out that feminism wasn’t a lesbian thing in November. My husband had to explain it to me. It wasn’t an issue in my household growing up. My mom was a stay at home wife/mom. She cooked, cleaned and so forth and my dad went to work and paid the household bills. It was definitely a huge culture clash when we got married.
Critical thinking in the USA is gone
Sadly
I really want to know if yall are different streams cause I need advice
@43:40 Why is that anytime BW have an opportunity or something helpful or positive come a BW's way BM have a problem.
It depends what circles you mix in eg if you go to ragga and gangsta rap places your going to buck up with rude scary aggressive violent highly strung thugs and scary women . It also depends on where you live. Racism isolation and hostilty can also wear you down. The luckiest carribean people are the ones that live comfortably in the carribean. I feel so sorry for the nice decent people isolated with no hope living in the wests racist jungle.
💯
Stop worrying about how cool you look to other men. If you want spaces for black men to express themselves and heal create them! We black women weren't give ish, we built what we have. These investments into black women's education, grants, business loans and scholarship is because we are putting ourselves forward going for what we want and pursuing them. What's stopping black men from applying for grants for black people? Nothing. No one owe you anything, you owe yourself.
“We block women weren’t given ish..” sooooo wrong lol. The government has been feeding you and your families for literal generations because the pookie and ray rays y’all love so much would never start a family with you lol. You guys get all these “investments “ Because you moan and complain anytime something doesn’t go your way and ask for help from any and everybody. Us men are not the same!
Are you serious? BW have been given a lot through out the years. Just recently Goldman Sachs donated 10 billion dollars for the advancement of BW.
@@moneyman8777 Do you know why they've done that? It's because black women are the fastest growing entrepreneurs it makes sense why Gold Sachs are investing 10B to the fastest emerging entrepreneurs in the community. Have you read how this has come about there have been "black women led organizations" that have been working to get this funding. Why aren't black men creating organizations to push for their betterment?
@@moneyman8777 womanhood depends on the security and reliability of the manhood. For the ennemies of the black community it is important for them to invest as much as possible in the black motherhood to render the counterpart obsolete. They would need to deplete the black man’s reliability to ashes. It’s another form of forcibly taking a child away from her (to make her dependent upon the kidnapper) but this time, taking her mate away from her remotely from her own self (kidnapping her own child from her mates). They would indefinitely have to keep black women in a state of survival by giving resources to her rather than the man. Never let the man fulfill his role in the family unit make her expel him from the future of the entirety of the black race’s family/parent-hood structure. Black women are stuck in a frozen state of survival, they would have to be warmed to achieve natural femininity, in this case, the cold breeze that keeps her frozen is money. Just like in all scripture, the key to controlling the chaos of all human structures, is it’s creators (the women). Control the creator, control the fate
“Fastest way to get someone to do something for you, is to make them believe they came up with the idea themselves”. Always a puppet behind another puppet. Black women have been and are pawns. It’s not “because” they’re women, it’s because they posses the womb of the black human, it’s the home/temple/life garden of the black human. Access it, attach some strings and you become the puppet master of all black living things. The key is to make the black woman’s womb soil, a garden in which crops don’t grow, roots perish.
The delusions
I love these real N*** talks.
Around 35:50 you literally shamed a woman for just wanting to be a house wife smfh bro there’s nothing wrong with her plan being just a housewife y’all really gotta watch your videos before releasing it sometimes you say off topic stuff that was one of them