FtM - Dudes Who Don't Bind (ft. Chase Ross)
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Wearing a binder is like a constant reminder that you dont' have a flat chest so it makes sense to feel less dysphoric without one on sometimes
it makes a lot of sense considering how pre everything trans women will wear bras to aliviate dysphoria
Especially if you live in a hot and/or wet country.
omg same!!
not to mention incredibly easy to do improperly!! I had bought a binder when I first came out, not realizing it was just for cosplay. I did not use it safely, would use it in pools and when running the mile in gym class. I still think i have a bend in my ribcage for running in that binder nearly 3 years ago now... Awful feeling, and I still have trouble breathing well.
Now, I only use a binder if im in public and cant wear a jacket. (sometimes i use old sports bras because i feel they have more breathing room than the average binder.) I'm only an a? smal b? cup, but Im quite thin and only 5'7", so if im in a tank top its easy to see. Its so hot, I wish I could just walk around shirtless :,)
Summer is a trans guys nightmare I guess haha
yes! also just can't breathe 😅
I'm glad ty realizes he passes. I feel so many trans people don't think they pass even though they totally do
Not to me though. You can definitely tell
Agreed. Its not as if cis men dont have breast tissue, like 'moobs' is a thing. Just because you have some breast tissue doesnt mean people are going to assume you're trans. I know cis men can feel self conscious about having some breast tissue too, but the point is it isnt something that people will automatically think a person must be trans.
@@jaygio No you can't...
he passes so well i love it. he passes more than some cis men
@dvp458 If you're going to be ignorant, at least use the correct form of "they're".
Ty your chest just looks like a cis guy who works out.
Andi Alexander I know if I ever touched his chest I would be like wow these used to be a chicks chest?
Andi Alexander I was thinking the same thing.
Travis Walsh .. u r so lucky
Andi Alexander he works out a lot. He does exercises that gets rid of it alot
C S not all females. Mine are off to the side js
Dude seriously, my cisgender manboobs were way worse than that.
@PandaHckey Lost weight maybe?
My husband has this. You can get surgery and have them removed, that’s what he wants to do some day.
Personally, I never even noticed he never had top surgery. A lot of muscular guys have bigger chests and that's just what I thought
When my dad worked out, he had a bumpy chest
Nothing about this chest is masculine. We have been programmed to accept this as male. Nothing about this is male. No hate, just truth.
@@ilovejesus6762 "We have been programed" lol do you think he brain washed you or something? His chest is pretty masculine because of the muscle on it.
@@ilovejesus6762 It's not the truth though. You are just wrong.
@@ilovejesus6762 fucking hell I'm guessing you ain't muscular? Most muscular dudes have bigger chests its its obvious.
it's so nice seeing other trans guys that don't have heavy dysphoria oh my god
Love the profile
Yeah but they dont because theyve transitioned enough and dont have huge tits.
Question no offence... if u do not have dysphoria and have little or no boobs... would u still need to take all these hormones? Not everybody likes facial hair i guess.
@@TheSmiaf sum of us want a real peen too, not just a fake one
@@mothking6161 yeah i get that...I'm talking about the ones that do not have dysphoria.
Love the video! I am a cis woman and have had breast reduction surgery. When I decided to do it, at my consultation, the surgeon made it clear that I needed to wait for a year or more and discuss the matter with my psyc. She said it was a major surgery that is going to impact my life and she needed me to be sure about it. I waited and never changed my mind. When I went to my primary doctor to get the referral, the nurses really gave me a hard time. One even said I should be glad I had a huge bustline because she wanted implants. I also got tons of crap from family and friends. And even now 15 years later, I'm questioned why I had the surgery. Simply: No one, I mean no one, looked at my face... there were constant jokes and references made to the boobadge and I was humiliated on a regular basis. Not a healthy psyche builder. I decided to accept my husbands marriage proposal because he knew what color my eyes are. I can totally understand why a person would need their body to align with who they are and would tell anyone who asked "should I?", a huge resounding yes. Be who you are and damn the torpedoes! You guys are a huge inspiration. ♡♡♡♡♡
I feel uncomfortable about my chest and want to get breast reduction surgery when I'm older,but my chest is average.
I'm completely sure I'm cis,my chest is average or even smaller than average and I've had no staring problems or jokes whatsoever because of it,it just looks and feels weird on my body.
Maybe it's because I'm 14 and up to a year ago I was almost flat but then puberty hit in,maybe I'll get used to it in a few years,but I still hate to see it.
I can't believe people would be so mean and humiliate you for that. I'm sorry you had to go through that experience.
I do hope the husband knew more about you though... Cause that must a really shitty situation to (humour) settle for "he knew my eyes' colour" ! And that comes from a person who stopped settling for "if he hits, it's because I'm bad", so I do know about low standards and such with grey psych builders.
I actually cried. I am only 19 and my doctors tell me I am too young to make these kinds of decisions. Although I am young I still always get comments about "boobage". I have on many accounts gotten mad and said I'm a person and I'm more than just boobs and straight up got "no you're just tits" even if it's supposed to be like a joke or something it still plays over and over in my head. There's nothing that brings me more joy/confidence about this than reading how well this worked for you.
I want breast reduction. Mine are borderline whatever is after triple D and my back hurts and they are too big for me (I feel) and honestly I don't really even want to bring it up to anyone.
I'm getting top surgery in 1 (one) month!!! 😭❤
People from the future, wish me luck :)
Good luck ❤❤❤ so happy for you
I'm here 3 months later, how did it go?
I hope you are recovering well!
Hey, how are you feeling? It's like 3 months after you made this comment.
Hope it went well!
I was wondering why his nipples were so shiney and then I saw the tape and now it makes sense. I thought he just had peircings
Im jealous of his nipples they are in thier natural state and are perfect my areolas are fucking huge I hate it oh btw what's the tape for thanks for reading the rant
@@artgomez4162 I'm sorry that you are so brainwashed. If you don't like trans people then don't watch it
@@lisalentile177 If I weren't wearing a sports bra or my binder (or a padded regular bra), my large nipples would be very visible through my shirt -- and probably get friction sores from rubbing. So I would be taping mine too, for comfort! :)
@@artgomez4162 an ftm has always had an actual man's brain and heart and that's why your brain and heart too of course doesn't match with the sex you were born in, if it wasn't like that then there would be no transgender people at all.
I'm seeing a bunch of comments addressed to art gómez? What's up with that?
Seeing two trans guys proudly with their shirts off makes me so fucking happy, I cant wait until I feel comfortable not binding
Chase trying to match Ty's muscle tone is so funny and cute
ha ha
Dudes who were lucky enough to have a b cup chest T_T
B cup? nah, that shit is an AA, I'm a small C and....my tits are tits. (bigender here)
I'm trans with AA cup woohoo
I have A cu
I'm a C-D .-.
30dd fuck my life
chase flirting with Ty is literally bringing the best smiles
Omg fr this is 6 yrs later lmao hope ur all doing well 😂😅
I'm a straight cis guy and I gotta say u both look more masculine than some natural born males.its really impressive and inspiring to those who are wanting the same for thier life .
My boyfriend can't even get a flat chest while binding hes got double D's but I try to make him feel better by telling him he looks rlly good and I can't notice at all. Most people dont really pay attention to it though so it makes him feel better anyway wow your chest looks like you have pecks. if I just saw you out on the beach I wouldn't look twice because it just looks passable as a male muscle
I have to the same issue I cant get a flat chest either because I have the same bra size and it makes me feel horrible because my boyfriend talks about it and it makes me very anxious
Kristina Walls it might be difficult, but if him talking about it especially makes you anxious, just ask him to please stop talking about it. I know that’s a difficult thing to even say especially when you already feel uncomfortable, but if he loves you, he’ll stop if you ask, and hopefully that will help you. I sincerely wish you the best of luck.
@@灰树着名的战士 Thank you
You really didn't need to throw your bf under the bus like that. If I was him I'd be so pissed at this comment.
about the scars....has your doctor ever told you about silicon strips? my car smashed and left me a ton of scars, I used the strips and it's reduced the scars (especially the darkness) of them. please don't get me wrong, I'm not saying scars are bad. The strips work and have been proven to reduce the scar and are harmless but plastic surgeons don't know why. Anyway, cheers guys
Kay Eh No way! That's a thing? I'm surprised this isn't brung up more in the trans community
Baby oil also helps with scars a bit but it needs to be applied regularly. A few years ago I self harmed a lot more than I do now, and I had thick scars and unfortunately at one point carved words into my thighs, I was depressed and drunk and stupidly did it. I regretted it afterwards and my aunt put makeup on my thighs to hide the scars around my Grandmother and mother when I had to go shopping for bathing suits.
When I got back she told me to just regularly use baby oil on the scars, now it's not noticeable at all the few marks that are still visible just seem like stretch marks.
So that is also a good alternative if your patient though.
Oliver The Kittensaurus
Hope you're doing okay now, bud X
Oliver The Kittensaurus I used baby oil on my self harm and the scars have tremendously reduced
I used this stuff called bio-oil. It helpped with my selfharm scars and stretch marks
Thanks for making this video. I don't bind because of my health problems, it causes me too much pain, so even though it often stops me from passing because my chest is noticeable I still don't. I've had hate from fellow FTMs who tell me I'm a disgrace to the trans community for not binding. Which I know I'm not, but it still sucks that people can be so ignorant, so I'm happy to see this video :)
I'm FTM and I don't think your a disgrace I don't bind I'm ready but my mom keeps putting it off because she was saving up for a trip but the trip is ending tomorrow we are getting in a plane tomorrow so hopefully I can get one when I get home but I am sorry that you can't because of your health hopefully in the new future you can do something about it and be able to bind or get surgery
+Anthony williams near future *
Good luck to you both.
I will never understand the need of people to hate. There's enough of that coming from bigots. Nobody has to prove anything, and everyone deals with it in their own way.
My bf is cisgender male and has bigger "boobs" than Ty. Many men have noticeable boobs either because they're trans or multiple reasons and I don't find it bothering or disgusting or any reason to doubt about a male being male. I understand that many FTM do it for self comfort but I think it's very important to make visible the reality of many men having boobs as many women don't have them (or have really small ones).
Ty I love the idea of not binding, but I have DDDs. Not happening.
My genetics said D cup my body said B cup my blockers said A cup.
I feel.
This is a late response, but I sincerely hope you have tried it. One of my favorite trans/non-binary idols, they go by the name "Dirty Shinobi" or "Jack" used to have either DDs or DDDs. They bind well.
I feel you, I'm around that size
Omfg I feeeeeeel
As an asthmatic enby who physically can't wear a binder, thank you!
This was super cool to see, and I'm happy you guys are comfortable talking about your experiences 😊
Can I just say thank you for being able to show your chest? I have been dealing with a lot of chest dysphoria recently and being able to see another trans guy comfortable with his pre-op chest has been healing in a way. so, thank you!
That's So Suite Life of Hannah Montana I think you'll find it's called, check ur Disney privilege
Don't go preaching to me about Disney when you have a DREAMWORKS BEE MOVIE ICON!!!!!???!?!!!!!! Kk!
+Ty Turner don't talk shit about Barry B. Benson Ty wtf is wrong with you, he's a hero.
+Charlie Markham 👀👀
Charlie Markham lol
Charlie Markham wasn't there a crossover of suite life of Zack and Cody, that's so raven and high school musical too?
I noticed that I have more dysphoria when I wear a binder. Because if I don't bind (when I'm alone), I can somehow ignore my chest, but if I do, I can feel the binder around my chest, my ribs, my stomach, and it still doesn't bind perfectly, so it makes me very dysphoric.
(But at the same time, there's no way I'll go out without a binder on... So I just don't leave the house most of the time.)
I know this comment was 2 years ago but I hope things have changed and are better for you now because no one deserves to feel that way and have to isolate themself because of it. I know the feeling and it absolutely sucks!!
Poor man/? I hope you feel better now, I have dysphoria too ;-;
Hey, guys,
I've started T almost three years ago and I feel much better now. I've saved up some money and found a good surgeon, but he's in a different country. Covid makes it difficult for me to get there.
I was also kinda ok with isolation. I just got out of the mental hospital with a diagnosis that shows us why. So that's also being treated.
I'm fine now 😊
@@lostinthevdd good to know👍😊
@@lostinthevdd It's been 2 years so have you had the surgery? If so, glad for you, and if not I hope you get it eventually.
This is the first time Im on this channel and I would have never guessed in a million years that Ty was born female.
Same here. There’s another transguy (I hope that’s not rude or offensive terminology) here on RUclips that I never would have guessed was born female if he didn’t say he had been. As an aside, both he and Ty are incredibly good-looking, and as a cisgender hetero woman, I’m not sure what that means. LOL.
it doesnt change anything . you think two men are attractive - sounds pretty hetero to me
they seem like children
I know right
I would never guess he was trans
Ty - “ thank you for watching”
Me - “ thank you for living” ❤️
"You will see my Poseidon" killed me
Ty, no need for top surgery aesthetically. Looking good.
Isn't keyhole under the armpit? I wouldn't imagine the scaring would be in any way significant. Maybe two small lumps.
HE THICC
Monster_cuboid he's fucking so hot and beefy
Trans guys are so unfortunate in America, like i live in the UK and if i want to get top surgery it'll be free cause we have the National Health Service, and in America they'll have to wait so long just to raise money and i feel so sorry for them :(
Technically speaking, the NHS isn't free because it's mostly funded through National Insurance payments taken from our wages. The downside to the NHS is the longer waiting lists - I spoke to my doctor a year ago and I am still waiting for my first appointment with the psychiatrist - and I need two appointments and blood tests before I go anywhere near my first T shot. In fact I probably won't get my first shot until late next year! :(
Waddup ItsJayden ^ yeah when I read this I was like aren't the taxes high AF tho? technically not free
Lee same here, I was referred to Notts GIC a year ago after 5 months of my GP messing around (so I should have been 17 months into the waiting list and instead I'm 12 months in) and have at least another year to go until my first appointment. Thankfully I got a bridging prescription for T from an endo 6 months ago, and I will have the money for top by the time I have my gender care appointment in October to get my top referral! It's all been so long though :( plus my voice has done literally nothing so I sound like a woman and it stops me passing -_-
BoyDivision I think America would be better off getting a national health service of their own but that's just me XD
good by 9k ..
Bro his chest ligit just looks like my bf and he's a cis guy, so like he should feel amazing I hope there both the happiest boyos ever!!! 😆♥️♥️
i transitioned when i was 11 and i’m so happy to be getting top surgery when i’m 15 😁😁
Luxky
dude how :0 I'm so jelly, but also happy for you!!
another identity crisis it depends on the laws in ur state but where in from the minimum age for top surgery is 15 as long as you’ve been on testosterone for over a year! ♥️♥️
@@mirrorpeople88 that's so cool! sadly I live in the UK where the waiting lists are prevalent but it's so dope that other trans people can do it earlier if they want to
Dude ur so lucky
Chase is like ALWAYS hiting on Ty!!! BEST YT FTM COUPLE!
But Ty have a nice gf, so... Tyse will never happen.
Wait a minut: Tyse? Chaler? Idk...
Chaler sounds better. They could be polyamorous, who knows :p
PLOT TWIST
Jake and Alex have that one in the bag 😊
id ship that!
sorry but best ftm yt couple is Jake Edwards and Alex Bertie
I love Chase's sassy older woman voice.
You definitely don't need top surgery, Tyler :) but you do what makes you happy! You both look great! Stay blessed 😇
"10 year old packer In me....on me." I'm crying 😂
I'm ftm pre-everything, and now i'm starting to consider not to buy a binder. I'm literally an A, a really small A, and i just feel that if he's a B, maybe i shouldn't bind at all. But i just see my chest as huge for my specific body type... i don't know
Buy one and see how you feel in it! Just because someone with a bigger chest than you doesn't bind doesn't mean that you shouldn't. And on the inverse side of things, don't feel pressured to bind just because most trans guys do it.
I don't even know my size, but they are pretty big. I just wear hoodies. I honestly think I notice them more than anyone else does because strangers always refer to me as "he"
They do bother me though, but I'm overweight, and want to loose some weight before drooping 50+ bucks on a binder.
Maybe just a kind of undergarment that only slightly compresses will help? I know binding can sometimes be painful if you wear it too long, but maybe something less powerful can assist whilst not having such detrimental effects? I don't know a ton about binding, but I understand that there is a wrong way to do it. My thought is that maybe less risk for improper binding can be had while still achieving the look you need can be possible.
(I wish that was possible for me. I'm a D cup and all of this can be very scary for me at times.)
bro I'm the same way and a binder makes me feel a lot better because my brain makes my body SEEM bigger than it is
Warren is right! I’m not trans but sometimes I enjoy the look of a very flat chest so I wear a tight sports bra that flattens everything nicely. Since i’m also an A cup I think it could work for you while u decide if u want to get a binder. ✨
Ty, your an amazing man that is on here helping so many. I am a cis female and my husband is trans (ftm), everyday i watch him put on a binder and get ready for the world. I feel so helpless is the fact that i cant really do anything to help him, but i know that my support and love does that. Ty, you have shown me thing i didn't know and gave me a few hacks that i have passed on and has helps my hubby. I want to say thank you for telling your story an being so open, in a world full of hate and ignorance.
philly luv!
To be honest, if I were small or flat chested I wouldn't bind for shit. I'm a D cup so I'm screwed that and I don't think I'd be able to wear KT tape either.
Same!!
Yeah, I have an AA cup. I feel so lucky
Same I cry when I wear shirts
yeah, as a 30GG... I'm jealous of everyone who doesn't need to bind
I'm an A cup... 36...
Yep
I think the reason why Ty's chest looks very cis passing even without a binder is because he's very muscular so it looks like pecs and not breasts.
Actually wait can you guys come to Seattle? Please?? Shirtless or not I wanna meet yall 😂💕
This really boosted my confidence. When I get back in shape I have high hopes to not bind.
I love Chase's weird voice he does. He sounds like Linda Belcher hahah
I thought 'bind' said 'blind' and I was really confused XD Idk, nice video though!
Same!
You kinda look like a more manly Shia Labeouf
wow its so special that you can create a chest like that with no surgery... i have so much respect for this as i'm a transgender / non binary person myself and want to do everything on my own as much as possible
I love how they both go into a “mom” voice, It’s so funny!
ARE YOU FEELING IT NOW, MR KRABS?
I wear a binder and I still don't pass so I don't really have the option to not bind. Hopefully in the future I can start T and pass!
I think broccoli boosts testosterone
I broke one of my ribs from binding I only found out when I was air lifted to hospital because I broke my leg moutin biking lol
Oh shit. I'm considering binding what are your best tips to not have that happen.
+hello world! Don't use anything to bind other than a binder. I'm guessing the double sports bra method is okay too but it doesn't bind as well as you'd want it to unless your chest is really small to begin with. Getting a binder from a reliable source online is honestly a really really good investment, if you can't order it to your house because of family try and get a friend to order it for you. If their parents won't approve of it and the friend is a cis girl convince the parent it's just a sports bra she's getting you as a present.
+hello world! make sure the binder is the right size for you or if you're small anuf try a high impact sports bra
+hello world! also note sports like mountain biking that require you to breathe faster can corse the binder/sports bra to put strain on your ribs. for me it makes me feel very unfit like i can no longer do the black trails and sweating makes it more uncomfortable
Underworks makes a compression sports bra. It sucks but it's what we have. I hate bras. But never ever bind under strenuous circumstances. If it's active go with a sports bra. It is made to move with you. Binders are not.
Can we just have more of ty flexing? Cuz omg be still my gay lil heart
Ty honestly looks like captain America, especially when he smiles
I'm always envious of people with like B-cup chests because binding must be so damn easy for you guys
how did you bind for 5 years holy fuck?! I've only been binding for like 11 months and it's death.
that's why I stopped. I said fuck it.
I donno, I think for everyone (meani g trans men obviously) not binding is more death, I'm bi-gender, never owned a binder but God I've wanted to for over a year, sometime I like my tits but most of the time I want to actually cut them off.....and I'm just bi-gender not even FTM.
I've been binding for over a year and honestly I feel so much more comfortable with a binder on. I wear mine around my house. I don't take it off unless I'm sleeping. I hate letting my chest free.
I've been binding for a good two years now
I've been binding for about ten, I hate it. It was fine for the first couple years, but now I keep my binder OFF as often as I can, because it hurts my shoulders and ribcage. I'm pushing hard for my top surgery with my new doctor, because ten years is FAR too long.
JEWISH MOTHER VOICE.... cracks me the F*CK UP
"what size bra do you wear?" "Yeah, I DONT!" 🤣
i binded for two years until i decided to lose a lot of weight in the hope that my chest would be smaller. i lost A Lot of weight in a rather unhealthy timeframe, but i had never been at a healthy weight in my life so it was a new experience for me. i never realised how huge the social difference was for Skinny people; it was like a new lease on life lol. so i spent a few years experimenting with my self-expression as a girl and identity as a lesbian. i had never had girl-friends(like the buddy kind), or spent much time outdoors or did sports, i never even felt attractive. but eventually when i got used to it i found that the feelings of transness were back, and if anything my chest was more prominent on a smaller frame. i also found out that i have a really feminine body shape that i never thought about before losing weight.
but what actually affected me the most was men/people feeling more entitled to comment on my body than ever. i didn't expect family etc to keep talking about my body even years on. i didnt expect peers to comment on my chest. the acknowledgment made it worse. and eventually i realised that the feelings hadn't went away and that i had just buried them for a time, and refused to think about it. and that my worsening mental state was because of this despite me ignoring it.
but i feel like i needed the time to grow as a person. and feel even more hopeful that i can one day be happy in a body and role that fits me :) gl trans fam!!!! ur all powerful
THAT'S SO SUITE LIFE OF HANNAH MONTANA YAAAAS
they also did "Wizards On Deck with Hannah Montana"
omg you guys have such great personalities!!!
that is so amazing that Ty's chest looks pretty masc despite never getting top surgery!
You guys are So Awesome, and you're happy being yourselves which is great .
I have fallen in love with Ty Turner. He is working with what he was given and he is taking fate by the balls! Keep on pushing on babe!
"So, we don´t bind :)" Said the post top op dude and the flat chested muscle pecs guy.
This is really interesting and really FUNNY you guys are hilarious.
From a straight man.
Ty your chest looks great. You are too masculine to look anything else.
Don't get top surgery. You don't need it, any surgery is a risk. Safe the money and use it for something you need.
My best friend is Trans and never had top surgery and he looks awesome.
Working out is a must.
His chest is just like yours and guys constantly ask him how to get their chest like his.
This gives me LIFE. My chest is small as well but definitely wouldn’t mind being shirtless when my chest is a lot smaller. Thank you for this!!
im researching top surgery and all that and one of my biggest hang ups is that i wouldn’t want to be fully flat because men rarely are. definitely chest goals
I don't bind that often because it makes me feel more dysphoric and anxious by having hag tightness and acknowledging anything is there even though not binding makes it very obvious I can just;; not look down yknow
Binding gave me dysphoria because I'm already flat chested so being able to feel the tightness of the binder just CONSTANTLY reminded that I'm binding and trans I started T and just stopped binding immediately because I just felt so much better in myself I really didn't care if it made other people uncomfortable
Here I am, a dumb enby, reading this guy's names as an abbreviation of 'thank you' throughout the comments
This is so validating. I’m not muscular by any means but I have a small chest. 34a last time I checked,even after having a baby. I don’t bind. I don’t feel like I need to. Most of the time you can’t even tell that there’s anything there. Definitely felt like I was the only one.
This actually is helping me a lot!
I'm stopping binding because of marching band, and I'm actually starting to realize that I still pass really well, which is making me so much more confident!! Thank y'all for making this video
Does ty look like Shia lebouf? Anyone?
ABSOLUTELY!
OMG HE DOES
Oh my gosh. Now I can’t see it
The hotter version of Shia LeBoeuf, absolutely.
I find this so fascinating. Its interesting to know that there are men out there who don't bind. I think you both look amazing, And even though you haven't had the surgery yet you honestly cant really tell. I know some guys have pecs that look similar just because for them they have issues looking the fat there(we all have weird spots that are hard to lose the fat and tone the area). Props to both of you for finding that confidence and love in your true bodies!
"Are u feeling it now Mr krabs" I DIED😂😂😂
It’s cool re watching this video years later. It’s been almost two years since I came out the closet and started living my truths as a trans man. I’m having top surgery in three weeks on the 26th of October. I bought a binder last year but being chest heavy it didn’t really do anything to truly conceal. My chest did go down by losing weight and working out more but yeah I just stuck to wearing sports bras until I get top surgery. I’m beyond excited for my top surgery! I know personally for my mental health and dysphoria is highly on my chest. I know I’ll feel better and finally look like what I see In my head. I’m having top surgery at 28 years old. It’s been a very long time coming and I’m ready. It’s nice seeing this video again knowing freedom is weeks away for me. I am so thankful and blessed (privileged) to finally be able to have this procedure done. 🙏🏽✊🏽
I just discovered this video in October 2020, and I'm just staring at Ty's shoulders completely enviously, as I have lost a lot of muscle mass due to having the gyms closed down from quarantine. Damn - Ty, you have amazing shoulders!
I bind regularly, like every time I leave the house (unless I'm working out). I feel very panicked when I'm around people and not wearing my binder. Part of that is because (firstly I'm pre-t) I have a DD chest and its very OBVIOUS, and I have to be wearing something to feel comfortable. Even when I'm home alone or sleeping, I'm wearing a sports bra because its just uncomfortable otherwise. I plan on getting top surgery once I'm past 18 and I'm excited to not have the pain in my back, trouble breathing, feeling overly attached to my binder, having to not pass when I'm working out, etc after I have surgery.
i have DD and I'm FTM it kills me I don't have a binder
did you try to wear gc2b binders? they are much more comfortable. I'm dd too I think, idk I could be bigger, haven't worn a bra since three years ago. other than sports bras. but they seriously are extremely comfortable, isn't tight and you could wear it all day without it hurting. plus they are a bit more breathable and bind pretty well. highly recommend it!
+Alex Eshman I don't have the money to eat barley so.
Must have been a small B cup. I don't bind either and while it's not as small as Ty's, I never got misgendered not binding which is strange but it's much more comfortable because it's way too humid in NYC.
Ty you don't need top surgery you look amazing 😍
Thank you guys for the video! As a newer FTM guy this was super helpful!
I bind because the idea of not being flat and flattend makes me sick. I'm so glad i finally got my binder because I don't know how much longer I would survive without it. When I touch my chest in it I'm so happy
I know this is an odd question, but it just randomly poped in my mind. Can someone who have had top surgery get breast cancer? I guess no because there's no breast tissue (or whatever it's called- English is not my native language) , but since I have no idea how breast cancer "works" I don't know this either. Sorry for a weird question.
GlowInSnow there is still tissue there so it is possible but it greatly reduces the risk of getting it!
Rachel Sanders
oh, ok thank you for an answer :)
I asked my surgeon that. He said "Yes, no chance of breast cancer from mammary tissue but no
reduction in possibility of ductile cancer around the nipple."
If you take the lymph nodes or whatever they called in them as well theres no chance...like breast cancer surgery
But if it's just getting the tissue out....yes
Also, i never knew men can get breast cancer. Took me by surprise
I've been binding for about 2 years now (jesus) and the first binder I got was from one of those free binder programs, it was a used Velcro one and after a while the Velcro was so used that it wouldn't stay together and I had to use duct tape to tape it and then that stopped working too so I decided to put a sports bra over it, but that hurt and so I got another binder from a friend and wore that for a while until I got the one I have now that I won in a giveaway, turns out the binder I had been wearing was actually two sizes too small. It hurt like hell I had to take pain pills the ought the day to manage it. But luckily I have this binder, even though I still get dysphoria because I still see a bump and feel like I'm not as flat as I should be. But yeah that's my binding story so far. Who knows when I'm getting top surgery or even starting T. I turn 18 May 4th of next year. First things first, legal name change.
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Best of luck to you (:
I’ve just started “binding” by layering sports bras but it doesn’t do much sadly, idk if I’m a girl or non binary or something else
In germany you can't get top surgery before t as far as I know and AAAAAH why I want top surgery way more
In the US you have to be on T for 2 years before getting top surgery is even considered. (Might be 2 months but I'm pretty sure it's 2 years)
Stupid Potato it depends on where you go, there’s a fair amount of nonbinary people who have had top surgery and aren’t on T or planning to go on T
@@linusbuzay6072 Dunno where you are in the US, but getting top surgery doesn't require any kind of hormone therapy where I'm at.
@@FelixGraham I'm not sure, the internet is wrong a lot so who knows. I'm in MN though
Can someone explain why?
Bruh my names joey and you dont even know how much i can relate to this. Im 16 and started my transition last year, im a D-cup and binding sucks. And disforia low key makes me wanna die. I love your videos they make me feel way better about whats going on in my life. Thank you so much😘
This video is old but it comforts me so much. I had to stop wearing a binder because it started to effect my ribs and I didn't want to hurt myself permanently. This video is so accepting from any sides and it made me cry because I did feel alone. Thank you so much
Tye you don't need top surgery man.you look like a gorgeously handsome bodybuilder..REALLY. I am an FTM and if I saw you on a beach or at a pool topless my t dar would break LOL
You boys are so cool and funny! xx
Ty, your chest looks GREAT as it is!!! Personally I'd keep the natural look and sensation!
I havnt had top surgery and dont bind because it feels uncomfortable and makes it more known to myself that my chest is there. Love that this video is out!
Omgosh! you two are just hysterical!! I just laughed so much on how you two play off one another. I'm looking forward to see more videos of you two! XDD
Chase, you look at ty like you're deeply in love with him 😂😂
I suck at binding, lol. I freak out when I don't bind but when I do it doesn't work. I need to get a real binder instead of just some sports bras
decided to watch this in school. I'm gay. this was a mistake
I'm really glad I watched this video, before watching it I NEVER considered not binding, even though I have a pretty small chest to begin with. I completely relate to having more dysphoria while binding than not, the uncomfortableness of the binder just reminded me that something was there. Hearing that you went from a b-cup to that, is absolutely amazing and gives me lot of hope...thank you😊
Ty is a great example of a confident man.
Must be nice to be able to take off your shirt without huge DDs flopping out and outing you to all your friends.
OK so this is weird but I wonder if anyone else feels like this. I'm transgender post everything, only my gf knows. I hate my body and have always wanted to be in a male body my whole life. But, as of now, pre T, I can't bring myself to cut my hair, or dress completely manly (i am what people would perceive a 'tomboy') but I do dress slightly fem rarely. I don't want people to see me trying to look like a guy and just think I'm a butch lesbian or whatever. i want to transition so hard but knowing i have to look like, to the public, a girl trying to look like a boy, before i go on T scares me, if that makes sense.I only dress that way around my girlfriend, who treats me like the guy i really am. I just want to look cis. Almost like I want to go on T, and start dressing appropriately when my body starts looking how I want it. I'm sorry if this offended anyone it's just how i feel, (I have nothing against butch women, or trans people pre hormones, obviously) Does anyone else feel like this or am I just being weird.
Just curious, are you in highschool still?
I feel something like that. I dress masculine and my hair is short and I actually pass really well but I'm not even out, and my friends corrects a person If they call me male pronouns..I hate when they do this. Since I'm not out, everyone calls me a tomboy, a girl that want to look like a boy and this kills me inside. And everytime I'm with a girl that I like and she wants to get closer I don't feel good at all, I feel like others will see me as gay, and I know that's not the truth. Because of that I lost some chances with a girl.
Hi, I'm also pre T and feel like I don't want to try to pass as a guy because it'll be hard and scary. It's really good tho that you have a gf who supports you. I'm also afraid of people thinking I'm just a tomboy.
+RemiBW nope, almost 21.
I definitely understand how you feel. And all I can say to you is don't rush yourself into anything. It's okay to not know where you stand with your gender identity. Also there are a lot of trans men that are feminine and that completely okay. Don't feel pressured by society to present as completely masculine if that's not how you feel
I I don't think you even need top surgery now, your chest looks like a guys right now 😀
im new to the channel and know this is older but everytime i see ty im like "dayum, i have such a crush on this man"....hes always so cute!!!
So proud that you both express yourself so freely. This is the way it should be