As soon as she stated that she would attend a party for her ex, a party he was intentionally not invited to, I would have asked for my ring back, packed up everything of hers that was in my home, and told her she was free to stay with her ex boyfriend and best friend. No one should tolerate this level of disrespect.
Well he shouldn’t have ever dated her. I couldn’t care less of how “close” you are with another guy. If you are choosing him because you know him for so long and he’s “just a friend”, then that tells me all I need to know. Stop dating foolish people who do this and think they will change for you.
@aetank_yyteawu3436 srt8 facts!! She saw him as weak for tolerating that bs, and thought he was just going to take her back with open arms after the ex clapped her cheeks at his party and then try to have guilt seks with him.
@@Aging_Casually_Late_Gamer they really don’t. They care about the respect that you receive from others and the respect you have for yourself. Women love 2 things, the provisions of a man and the respect she has for him; not the actual guy. Few will have both in one, but most will “settle” for the provisional guy. If your girl pulls a lot of bs, then you know exactly the kind of guy you are for her. If she had respect for the guy, her “best friend” would have gotten a happy birthday message given to him by another friend that attended the party. That’s if she even remembered.
Expecting a modern woman to exhibit empathy or to put herself in another person's shoes is unreasonable. It's like asking a shark to stop swimming (they'll die if they do it).
insecure, insecure, insecure they really love that word. nah bruh. And her ex asking your "soon to be wife" to a party and not inviting you as well... pure disrespect. I feel you dodged a bullet. Big time.
She been fucking having fwb relationship with her ex all these time and cheating for 6 yrs.. And probably want one last session with best friend because she feel she is engaged now and about to marry.. She was a hoe
honestly, the way that played out and what she said about how she will stop contacting the guy after this party, the fact that she was okay with her fiance not being invited or going with her and the fact she came home in a good mood afterwards just sets off alarm bells in my mind and makes it seem like she hooked up with her ex at the party.
LOL...if the guy went to his female "best friend's" birthday when she wasn't invited, all the women would have been saying he was the a**hole for doing.
If the girl was invited to ex boyfriend’s birthday party she should have insisted her fiancé attend with her. If the answer is “no” then she should decline and stay home with fiancé.
Exactly! Remind me again who she’s engaged to and by design going to marry and build a life with? Or perhaps she doesn’t reckon marriage that way? In that case she shouldn’t be getting married at all. This is a clear indication that many women now don’t have a clear understanding of what a marriage means.
I was in the exact position, but as the ex. We didn't make it past 3 months and we were young and never slept together. When she told me her boyfriend had a problem with it, I asked if she saw it going all the way. When she said yes, I told her to be with him and never contacted her again. I see them every few years at local events with their children and they look happy.
If society wants women to behave, it has to be men agreeing to be on the same page with each other. Your rejection of her advances forced her to grow up and create a family responsibly. Good choice.
Was at a bar with my girlfriend about six months ago and she said hey I’m gonna go over talk to Johnny her guy friend. And proceeded to go over to talk to him. Well I picked up my drink and proceeded to go over and talk to a table full of girls who I knew. She wasn’t happy. I told her don’t disrespect me and I won’t disrespect you. She’s never done it again!
Yeah, it’s ballsy to leave your date to go visit with another man. There would have to be a VERY good reason she needed to speak to him just then, or I’d call it a night and leave. You handled it like a boss.
If your significant other just suddenly, out of the blue initiates sex or frequency of sex goes down or they are pulling new moves in the bedroom...those are signs of Infidelity. If they start giving you gifts, starting fights for no good reason and returns some time later with no plausible explanation...make notes. If they suddenly are very interested in what time you start and end work...watch out. If you witness her flirting with someone...call her ass out. If she begins to accuse you of trying to/ or cheating just by speaking to the opposite sex... She is projecting. You deserve better. Give her the gifts of consequences and goodbyes.
Unfortunately when this happens, a bunch of guys start to reward poor behavior. Never reward poor behavior and put her in her place. This is why I always tell friends and coworkers to be men of options. Not necessarily exercise those options, but know you have them and it would be difficult dropping a gal out of your life. I know exactly where I stand and I can only observe the actions of the other person to understand where they stand. I then act accordingly. It’s easier when you understand that love is a choice not some magical force we can’t control. Honestly, this is why I don’t get heartbroken anymore; I just get disappointed.
“I’ll cut him off after this party…” Yeah, that’s no different than the person that wants to lose weight that says “I’ll start dieting after this last fast food meal…” It never happens.
Agree, she is just trying to string her fiance along. She has no plans of cutting the ex off. Probably would have just started hanging out with the ex in secret.
@3:30 wanna bet all of those Women who were calling the guy 'Insecure' would have issues with their Boyfriend's, they are dating (if they even have one and not just 'Hook-ups'), going to an Ex-Girlfriends Party alone??
@mikef2811 Both of you guys are on target, either one of those words work to promote doubt in the man (rightly) trusting his instincts as a cover for her bad behavior. It's always the man's fault.
She slept with her ex at the "party." Bet it was just the two of them. And she tried to initiate some bedroom fun with her fiance when she got home? Her ex left a little something something in her. A convenient way to cover up her infidelity if she found out she got pregnant.
Remember she wanted to get intimate with fiance right after coming home? How much you want to bet she's covering herself in case she already got one in the oven?
Women do what the want. If she wants to be with you she will be with you. If she’s with you but still hanging on to the past it’s clear she’s not all in on the relationship. Send her packing move on never back track.
Yeah that girl was cheating on him why were her friend invite her only but not her fiance! Major red flag then try to initiate intimacy after she got back hi possibility of she got pregnant at that party with the other guy just saying it's a possibility😢
Girls feel guilty after cheating so they try to do sex with theri boyfriend or husband.. As an act of reclaim them.. Also she stop being in relationship with her best friend not never stop sleeping with him.. She been cheating all those 6 years
Would have been totally fine if the boyfriend was invited, but the fact the wasn't is a strong indication that something else may be going on. Maybe nothing happened, but these types of moves destroy trust.
Lets put the shoe on the other foot here and switch roles. the guy has a female friend whom he has known since childhood and even dated in the past then invites the guy but not the woman. Would the women still argue that the woman is in the wrong because she ended the engagement because she felt insecure ?. SO to those that argue that the guy is insecure. THINK AGAIN.. its called RESPECTING the relationship.
The very second she even considered going to the party, it was time to cut her lose. If she had any feelings for her current man, going to the party wouldn't even crossed her mind.
There is only one question that needs to be asked, and I will ask this question to the women who are firm on their rights to see ex boyfriends. As an aspiring psychologist my question is, if the roles were reversed would women want their husbands/boyfriends/fiancé to see, talk to, go to parties, or do any other thing with their ex girlfriends? Now, I am use to women saying that they are okay with it as long as they are doing it, but if you have no ex boyfriends to see, would women be okay with their me seeing their ex girlfriends? I will answer the question for the women because most are not truthful; the answer is absolutely not, and don’t call them insecure, after all we can’t look at another woman in her presence without her crying about it. 😂😂😂😂😂
Of course they would no like it. But the thing to consider is their double standards. Anything they do along those lines is perfectly acceptable, but that is never the case if a man does the same thing when it comes to ex-GFs
@@gabem6863 absolutely. There have been plenty of times where I have dealt with women trying to explain away their double standards. It is always alright if they go to a party, but it is never okay if the guy goes or she has to accompany him. The most important session to me is role reversing. I like to see how people respond to the have them do unto you as you have done to them scenarios; priceless responses.
Remember guys if you decide to do something and a woman calls it insecure , know that it's a sign to double down on it coz 90% of the time it's in your best interest
I like how she knows the difference between a fan and an actual potential boyfriend a lot of women who sell themselves choose to ignore that difference and say “a lot of men want me “
I learned self awareness very young, through abusive circumstances. Now I stand tall and know the value of a good man. I’ve raised amazing daughters while traversing a challenging adulthood. Be a King, fellas. I wish I had the support we see today!
I remember I was about to have some bedroom fun and she began saying, "I was supposed to go on a dinner date with this really nice religious guy, but I'm here with you instead. What is wrong with me." "No clue. Now take your clothes off." Thanks Tom Leykis, your rules WORK.
Letting her "ex/best friend" treat her fiance like that shows just how much she respected Op. She thought she could do whatever she wanted and get away with it. Now she's single. Also anyone who said Op is wrong is a hypocrite because if their SO's did this with their ex you know they would flip shit.
Let's be honest we all know it was less of a party.. More like a last one night stand.. Sex session between her and her best friend.. She been cheating and having fwb relationship with her best friend all those 6 years... They stop being in relationship but never sleeping.. That's why she is so much attach and obsessed with her male best friend.. And no man just waste his time being male friend of some girl for 6 years if he didn't get anything in return.. Which is her body.. Because we all know that's what all men want.. If he is not getting fun what's the point of become male best friend with somebody girlfriend.. So out of respect to their marriage she wanted to stop sleeping with best friend and wanna have one last one night stand.. And she did.. That's why after just returning home she immediately try to have sex with her boyfriend out of guilt Or out of fear of pregnancy so just in case she got pregnant by best friend she can say it's boyfriend's
Couples, man or woman, especially man. Never fall for those 'insecure' mock. It's a guilt trip and manipulation to attacks your maturity ego. Your couple have right to feeling insecure. But at the end, that's your right if you choose to ignore your couple insecurity. Just like it is your couple rights to break up from you if you don't care and choose to ignore your couple feelings.
The ex still had plans for her and she knew it. He probably made his move at the party and that is why she tried to get in on with the fiance the moment she got home. Just in case the ex got her pregnant
Every romance movie plot is meeting up with old flame, rekindling and breaking up with current guy. Current guy is always mostly off screen working or something. Lol. 😂
I disagree on it being okay for a woman to have a male best friend in a commited monogamous relationship and i feel same way for vice versa. I aint gonna ask nobody to cut anybody off, but thats a solid dealbreaker for me. It never goes well.
ONLY inviting your ex, whom you know is engaged, is a scumbag move. She KNEW how he felt and went anyway. Her wanting to bone as soon as she got home indicates that she knew she was in the wrong and thought some bedroom fun would make it all better.
The women commenters claiming there was nothing wrong with the fiancé hanging out with her ex will not and don’t deserve to have successful relationships. To act inappropriately and then gaslight their partner that they’re“insecure” Is diabolical. They don’t understand how to respect their partners and don’t seem to understand this can only result in a breakdown of the relationship.
She is not worthy to be with him, she belongs to the streets, she chose the ex over her boyfriend. Whenever the ex calls, she’s gonna run just like a dog.
As soon as she stated that she would attend a party for her ex, a party he was intentionally not invited to, I would have asked for my ring back, packed up everything of hers that was in my home, and told her she was free to stay with her ex boyfriend and best friend. No one should tolerate this level of disrespect.
Well he shouldn’t have ever dated her. I couldn’t care less of how “close” you are with another guy. If you are choosing him because you know him for so long and he’s “just a friend”, then that tells me all I need to know. Stop dating foolish people who do this and think they will change for you.
Yes 👌
exactly
@aetank_yyteawu3436 srt8 facts!! She saw him as weak for tolerating that bs, and thought he was just going to take her back with open arms after the ex clapped her cheeks at his party and then try to have guilt seks with him.
They all have several backups in mind. ALL of em. Wanna find out try disagreeing with em
This story is a reminder that women don't care about men's feelings unless it risks their gravy train.
This is like the laws of gravity: indisputable *_fact._*
Nah. They never care about men's feelings ever. Period
@@Aging_Casually_Late_Gamer if it compromises the gravy train? She’ll care
@@Aging_Casually_Late_Gamer they really don’t. They care about the respect that you receive from others and the respect you have for yourself. Women love 2 things, the provisions of a man and the respect she has for him; not the actual guy. Few will have both in one, but most will “settle” for the provisional guy. If your girl pulls a lot of bs, then you know exactly the kind of guy you are for her. If she had respect for the guy, her “best friend” would have gotten a happy birthday message given to him by another friend that attended the party. That’s if she even remembered.
Theres usually dollar signs in the equation
You wasted six year with someone that loved you second best....move on
😢stroy one you did the right sir!!
"I didnt listen to my partner and now im shocked that hes leaving me"
The lack of self awareness is staggering.
If he did the same thing she would have a shit storm
Expecting a modern woman to exhibit empathy or to put herself in another person's shoes is unreasonable. It's like asking a shark to stop swimming (they'll die if they do it).
@@Remianen No they dont. There are caves in Japan where sharks hibernate for some reason like they are bears or something.
You ain't lying
@@joerivas9847lol exceptions don’t make the rule.
yes she still loves ex
insecure, insecure, insecure they really love that word. nah bruh. And her ex asking your "soon to be wife" to a party and not inviting you as well... pure disrespect. I feel you dodged a bullet. Big time.
You forgot controlling.
It probably was just the two of them too.
"not letting your fiance get railed by her guy friends is so insecure"
I'm scared to think what a "secure" guy is in their eyes
She been fucking having fwb relationship with her ex all these time and cheating for 6 yrs..
And probably want one last session with best friend because she feel she is engaged now and about to marry..
She was a hoe
Very clear she had stronger ties to the ex than the fiancé.
They're still sleeping together and there's a 99% chance HE broke up with HER.
No doubt. This guy put a ring on a scarlet woman.
@@Remianen Fun fact: *ALL FEFAILES ARE* 304s by design
She wanted 1 last session before she got married
There was no Birthday Party.
💯 correct Ben there done that back in 98-99
If she wants to see her ex…drop her because nothing good will come from her friendship with an ex.
She was never his girl. He's just the sucker paying her bills.
For 6 freaking years! At least he didn't end up married to her.
He dodged a cheating bullet
yes, her ex could take her at his party and the boyfriend would not be told.
honestly, the way that played out and what she said about how she will stop contacting the guy after this party, the fact that she was okay with her fiance not being invited or going with her and the fact she came home in a good mood afterwards just sets off alarm bells in my mind and makes it seem like she hooked up with her ex at the party.
LOL...if the guy went to his female "best friend's" birthday when she wasn't invited, all the women would have been saying he was the a**hole for doing.
Yes, the old female double standard.
Nope I'm out... Already been through that.. wanna hang with your Ex, you can be single..
If the girl was invited to ex boyfriend’s birthday party she should have insisted her fiancé attend with her. If the answer is “no” then she should decline and stay home with fiancé.
Let's assume she has not cheated on him, that party was probably her final ride with the ex before settling down for good.
@@mikef2811it's too obvious.
Exactly! Remind me again who she’s engaged to and by design going to marry and build a life with? Or perhaps she doesn’t reckon marriage that way? In that case she shouldn’t be getting married at all. This is a clear indication that many women now don’t have a clear understanding of what a marriage means.
I was in the exact position, but as the ex. We didn't make it past 3 months and we were young and never slept together. When she told me her boyfriend had a problem with it, I asked if she saw it going all the way. When she said yes, I told her to be with him and never contacted her again. I see them every few years at local events with their children and they look happy.
If society wants women to behave, it has to be men agreeing to be on the same page with each other. Your rejection of her advances forced her to grow up and create a family responsibly. Good choice.
Fair play to you mate......thats the bro code right there 👏
That only works if the woman is honorable. Clearly she was and bro respected that. @@rabd3721
@@rabd3721or she’ll cheat with someone else.
Their? Her
Was at a bar with my girlfriend about six months ago and she said hey I’m gonna go over talk to Johnny her guy friend. And proceeded to go over to talk to him. Well I picked up my drink and proceeded to go over and talk to a table full of girls who I knew. She wasn’t happy. I told her don’t disrespect me and I won’t disrespect you. She’s never done it again!
Yeah, it’s ballsy to leave your date to go visit with another man. There would have to be a VERY good reason she needed to speak to him just then, or I’d call it a night and leave. You handled it like a boss.
Funny how all the women are saying he's insecure, but let it be the other way around and see how they change it up
Exactly
If your significant other just suddenly, out of the blue initiates sex or frequency of sex goes down or they are pulling new moves in the bedroom...those are signs of Infidelity.
If they start giving you gifts, starting fights for no good reason and returns some time later with no plausible explanation...make notes.
If they suddenly are very interested in what time you start and end work...watch out.
If you witness her flirting with someone...call her ass out.
If she begins to accuse you of trying to/ or cheating just by speaking to the opposite sex...
She is projecting.
You deserve better.
Give her the gifts of consequences and goodbyes.
Unfortunately when this happens, a bunch of guys start to reward poor behavior. Never reward poor behavior and put her in her place. This is why I always tell friends and coworkers to be men of options. Not necessarily exercise those options, but know you have them and it would be difficult dropping a gal out of your life. I know exactly where I stand and I can only observe the actions of the other person to understand where they stand. I then act accordingly. It’s easier when you understand that love is a choice not some magical force we can’t control. Honestly, this is why I don’t get heartbroken anymore; I just get disappointed.
“I’ll cut him off after this party…”
Yeah, that’s no different than the person that wants to lose weight that says “I’ll start dieting after this last fast food meal…” It never happens.
Agree, she is just trying to string her fiance along. She has no plans of cutting the ex off. Probably would have just started hanging out with the ex in secret.
Just another addict claiming they can quit any time they want.
She made a choice. Choices have consequences.
@3:30 wanna bet all of those Women who were calling the guy 'Insecure' would have issues with their Boyfriend's, they are dating (if they even have one and not just 'Hook-ups'), going to an Ex-Girlfriends Party alone??
💯 facts. If a girl call any guy that, then run.
Big Chinese parade red flags 🚩🚩🚩🚩
I’m friendly to an ex girlfriend, but I would never go to a function unless my girlfriend was invited!!
Doesnt need to be invited, she is coming anyway. If they invite me or her its always a both deal package
If exes are still friends, somebody is hoping for another chance at a committed relationship
She jumped on him the moment she got back home. That means she did something with her X. She was trying to cover up cheating.
💯
How many times, nearly everytime, have GFs and her friends claimed INSECURE, INSECURE, INSECURE!!!
When GF WAS CHEATING!!!
You forgot "Controlling"
@mikef2811 Your right! Guess I let my frustration over run logic.
@mikef2811 Both of you guys are on target, either one of those words work to promote doubt in the man (rightly) trusting his instincts as a cover for her bad behavior.
It's always the man's fault.
The “your insecure and controlling” card is a shaming tactic used by people who are up to no good against others who have principles and standards.
They always have a Plan B
now that men have found out about the realities of female hypergamy. Women keeping their exes and other men on the side is a deal breaker.
Mostly, the actual man *IS* plan B
I would argue the Ex was probably the rhe PLAN A. And high likelihood that , HE broke up with her.
Never. The backup plan, guys. NEVER.
When a girl says he is insecure she is most likely cheating.
She slept with her ex at the "party." Bet it was just the two of them. And she tried to initiate some bedroom fun with her fiance when she got home? Her ex left a little something something in her. A convenient way to cover up her infidelity if she found out she got pregnant.
My thoughts exactly
The relationship is over. I want to know how many times she has had sex with the ex after being engaged?
It probably didn't count because he used a condom /s
Remember she wanted to get intimate with fiance right after coming home? How much you want to bet she's covering herself in case she already got one in the oven?
Women do what the want. If she wants to be with you she will be with you. If she’s with you but still hanging on to the past it’s clear she’s not all in on the relationship. Send her packing move on never back track.
She didn't get the Ex a present, just the box it came in.
Yeah that girl was cheating on him why were her friend invite her only but not her fiance! Major red flag then try to initiate intimacy after she got back hi possibility of she got pregnant at that party with the other guy just saying it's a possibility😢
My thoughts exactly
Yup. Obv she likes the other guys sex more. Selfish woman
Something definitely had her turned on.
Girls feel guilty after cheating so they try to do sex with theri boyfriend or husband..
As an act of reclaim them..
Also she stop being in relationship with her best friend not never stop sleeping with him..
She been cheating all those 6 years
She wasn't concern about his discomfort. Her EX didn't invite her partner. She is not loyal.
I love how so many women's definition of a confident man is one who has no boundaries and let's you walk all over them.
Would have been totally fine if the boyfriend was invited, but the fact the wasn't is a strong indication that something else may be going on. Maybe nothing happened, but these types of moves destroy trust.
She was cheating with her ex it's that simple and the best friend thing is just her way to justify it
Those women who call him insecure in the first clip better keep that same energy when their man go around with their exes.
😱 Warning to all single men. 🏃 Run away now as fast as you can, and keep running 🏃 !..
If you don't invite your significant other to every party, you have cheating on your mind.
Lets put the shoe on the other foot here and switch roles. the guy has a female friend whom he has known since childhood and even dated in the past then invites the guy but not the woman. Would the women still argue that the woman is in the wrong because she ended the engagement because she felt insecure ?. SO to those that argue that the guy is insecure. THINK AGAIN.. its called RESPECTING the relationship.
OK you can go to your ex bday .. however; YOU WILL BE WEARING THIS GO PRO THE ENTIRE TIME THERE!! 😂😂AND DONT YOU DARE TRUN IT OFF OR AWAY FOR A SEC
Too much trouble. He's wasted enough time with her and ignored dozens of red flags.
Wow! You really love high drama in your life.
Guilt has quick ears to an accusation.. the fact she wanted intimacy when she came home stinks of guilt!!
The very second she even considered going to the party, it was time to cut her lose. If she had any feelings for her current man, going to the party wouldn't even crossed her mind.
There is only one question that needs to be asked, and I will ask this question to the women who are firm on their rights to see ex boyfriends. As an aspiring psychologist my question is, if the roles were reversed would women want their husbands/boyfriends/fiancé to see, talk to, go to parties, or do any other thing with their ex girlfriends? Now, I am use to women saying that they are okay with it as long as they are doing it, but if you have no ex boyfriends to see, would women be okay with their me seeing their ex girlfriends? I will answer the question for the women because most are not truthful; the answer is absolutely not, and don’t call them insecure, after all we can’t look at another woman in her presence without her crying about it. 😂😂😂😂😂
Of course they would no like it. But the thing to consider is their double standards. Anything they do along those lines is perfectly acceptable, but that is never the case if a man does the same thing when it comes to ex-GFs
@@gabem6863 absolutely. There have been plenty of times where I have dealt with women trying to explain away their double standards. It is always alright if they go to a party, but it is never okay if the guy goes or she has to accompany him. The most important session to me is role reversing. I like to see how people respond to the have them do unto you as you have done to them scenarios; priceless responses.
Huh? What a buncha word salad.
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She's been sleeping with him for the whole six years.
The girlfriends saying there was nothing wrong with what she wanted to do are doing it themselves. Lets all be guilty by association.
She gave him a REAL personal bday present.
Not a damn thing INSECURE about having boundaries especially in this scenario
Now all those Hypocrites would lose it if a guy went to their Girl BFF party and didn't take her 🙄...
Their partners should drop them immediately because these 2 are not confused, they are taking the piss out of their current partners.
Remember guys if you decide to do something and a woman calls it insecure , know that it's a sign to double down on it coz 90% of the time it's in your best interest
Yep she was still sleeping with the ex. Bravo for moving on.
I like how she knows the difference between a fan and an actual potential boyfriend a lot of women who sell themselves choose to ignore that difference and say “a lot of men want me “
I learned self awareness very young, through abusive circumstances. Now I stand tall and know the value of a good man. I’ve raised amazing daughters while traversing a challenging adulthood. Be a King, fellas. I wish I had the support we see today!
Spent the day with the ex and came home hungry? Hmm. I guess they didn't eat any food. 😏
Your woman should have no contact with an ex whoever he is. One man in her life is enough.
I never ever maintained contact with any of my exes. Well, except for that nutjob that stalked me...
now she can go to her best friend when she wants.
That last one night stand
Until the next celebration.
She tried to initiate because she had cheated, I've been there. Scorched earth.
She svkkd her ex
at the very least
The first story, I believe this was the last straw for him. He's dealt with this for 6 years.
Wil a woman ever let her boy friend attend his exes bday without her?
I wouldn't waste my life getting married
If an ex does not invite your other half, you should never go. If you are dying to go, dump em.
you did the right thing! she showed her true colors and only respected the ex and not you!
Delusion of grandeur
when you see something stupid happening between couples, be 99% sure the girl is leading the relationship 😂
No, you're not the butthead for dumping your fiancee. She clearly still had feelings for the ex & so did he. Seriously red flag.
the reason that the Australian girl can't get guys to commit is because the divorce and cohabitation laws are insane, and the men have learned.
The Ex got her back on the market. Exactly where he wanted her.
I remember I was about to have some bedroom fun and she began saying, "I was supposed to go on a dinner date with this really nice religious guy, but I'm here with you instead. What is wrong with me."
"No clue. Now take your clothes off."
Thanks Tom Leykis, your rules WORK.
Tom is a sage, for real. He will be missed but he's earned his retirement.
She was keeping him on her roster!!! guaranteed
I'll bet everyone else was allowed to bring a date.
There were no other dates.
That's not date... That's last one night stand after 6 years of fwb..
She was cheating all 6 years and now may wanna stop because they were marrying..
0:10 no I dealt with that and was lied to about there relationship
Their.
Letting her "ex/best friend" treat her fiance like that shows just how much she respected Op. She thought she could do whatever she wanted and get away with it. Now she's single.
Also anyone who said Op is wrong is a hypocrite because if their SO's did this with their ex you know they would flip shit.
Let's be honest we all know it was less of a party.. More like a last one night stand..
Sex session between her and her best friend..
She been cheating and having fwb relationship with her best friend all those 6 years...
They stop being in relationship but never sleeping..
That's why she is so much attach and obsessed with her male best friend..
And no man just waste his time being male friend of some girl for 6 years if he didn't get anything in return.. Which is her body..
Because we all know that's what all men want..
If he is not getting fun what's the point of become male best friend with somebody girlfriend..
So out of respect to their marriage she wanted to stop sleeping with best friend and wanna have one last one night stand..
And she did.. That's why after just returning home she immediately try to have sex with her boyfriend out of guilt
Or out of fear of pregnancy so just in case she got pregnant by best friend she can say it's boyfriend's
The fact she asks if it was wrong answers everything you need to know about your relationship.
You did right pal. The ex wants her back .
It's always the men that women tell you to "not worry about" that they end up hopping on top of
Any woman who says the boyfriend was insecure, I wonder if their man had attended a birthday party of his ex, would they feel the same.
Probably not.
Couples, man or woman, especially man.
Never fall for those 'insecure' mock. It's a guilt trip and manipulation to attacks your maturity ego.
Your couple have right to feeling insecure.
But at the end, that's your right if you choose to ignore your couple insecurity.
Just like it is your couple rights to break up from you if you don't care and choose to ignore your couple feelings.
The ex still had plans for her and she knew it. He probably made his move at the party and that is why she tried to get in on with the fiance the moment she got home. Just in case the ex got her pregnant
And this is why they were together for 6 years and not married. She is not committed, and he cannot trust her.
Every romance movie plot is meeting up with old flame, rekindling and breaking up with current guy. Current guy is always mostly off screen working or something. Lol. 😂
Well I hope the friendship was worth it....good by marriage proposal. She belllllongs to the streeeets.
Don´t treat someone as plan A who treats you like a plan B
I disagree on it being okay for a woman to have a male best friend in a commited monogamous relationship and i feel same way for vice versa. I aint gonna ask nobody to cut anybody off, but thats a solid dealbreaker for me. It never goes well.
The second couple? They're not just "best friends (like, omigod)"
They're fuckin'.
She was full of her ex's spunk and wanted to get it all over her ex fiancee absolutely disgusting
He should have told her he wasn't good with her going. If she ignored him and went anyway? Holla at you.
100 percent right. If i wanted one of those they’re 30 bucks on the corner.
There was no party, they hooked up one last time.
Now she can spend as much time as she wants with her Ex (she should have respect the fiance and their relationship more)
ONLY inviting your ex, whom you know is engaged, is a scumbag move. She KNEW how he felt and went anyway. Her wanting to bone as soon as she got home indicates that she knew she was in the wrong and thought some bedroom fun would make it all better.
If a girl comes back from a club/party so affectionate she probably cheated you
The women commenters claiming there was nothing wrong with the fiancé hanging out with her ex will not and don’t deserve to have successful relationships. To act inappropriately and then gaslight their partner that they’re“insecure” Is diabolical. They don’t understand how to respect their partners and don’t seem to understand this can only result in a breakdown of the relationship.
She is not worthy to be with him, she belongs to the streets, she chose the ex over her boyfriend. Whenever the ex calls, she’s gonna run just like a dog.