Thank you, Amanda, for being Shaye's spokesperson. Such a beautiful couple who are united in mind and spirit. So happy for your amazing journey you are on together.
What you said about the struggle of being in the middle of one's story arc, I so needed to hear, thank you SO much. The way you guys are embracing the journey and the story arc is really beautiful and profoundly needed in this time.
It's SO HEART WARMING that you guys choose to share and be vulnerable especially at a time when there's so much hate being spewed about our community. Thank you THANK you for that. I'm sure young people watching will feel seen and loved and treasured... and my god, that's so precious. Your family is a treasure. 🥰🥰
Can you do a video of explaining how the children are taking the changes? And how you explained it to them? Also, how are Shay’s parents handling all this?
@@jv-ep2tcgrowing up with an alcoholic parent or being sexually abused by a parent, or even growing up in poverty. I think that 3 kids growing up in a loving, accepting household will turn out just fine 😊
I watched the 4hr podcast your videos from beginning to end. I learned your brother and his wife have a channel with a family of quintuplets. I know that through here we lean and know only bits and pieces of you but what I do know is that you are SO VERY TALENTED AND ACCOMPLISHED beautiful strong healthy physically emotionally and you are shedding the layers of all the hurt you held in with the most important people in your head and life while showing those out there all that is possible with juuuust loving one another for who we truly are!!! You truly are a prophet Shay!! Maybe not in the way you felt so pressured to be growing up but in EXACTLY the way you needed to be for yourself and SO MANY others in the world 🌎 that will be touched and helped by your story and the beautiful light that beams from your soul of which we have all been blessed to witness xoxoxo ❤ sending you Amanda and your beautiful children love hugs 🫂 and positive loving energy. Amanda you are as much if not more just as strong brave ACCOMPLISHED supportive and have one of the most beautiful hearts I’ve been blessed to see!!! WOW does not reach the surface of how amazing you two are and how lucky we are to learn of you both!!!! ❤
@@liionqueen0813How eloquently you shared your thoughts my heart felt but could not assemble the words as you did! I so agree that Shaye is now doing a prophet’s true work we all learn and benefit from. ❤️
I love Shaye's story so much. Thank you for sharing such an intimate part of both of your lives. This was the best thing I've watched in awhile. This made my day, week, and probably whole month. So much love!
*this is a me problem* When your channel was focused on the house and lifestyle, I couldn't relate to the journey or esthetic. Now, this shift, I'm not a transgender but I am an ally and I absolutely LOVE this. The kindness and gentle, soft spoken approach to Shays transition is absolutely stunning and heartwarming. This is what reaches into the homes and hearts of so many ❤
SAME! The kindness towards Shaye's journey is very emotional to me. Never even met someone that transitioned but seeing someone that supports her partner like this is very beautiful!!! I'm also an ally and want to learn how to become a better ally as much as I can. Shaye, you look STUNNING! And happy - which makes you even more beautiful. Happy birthday!
You're family is beautiful and I love that you are willing to publicly share your evolution. Thinking of all the people that don't have the support you have and how you're helping them. Such a blessing!!
I'm so so so so glad that I found your channel. I too am a cis-het female married to a trans woman. I love her times infinity to the infinite power. I'm her biggest supporter, protector & advocate. I'm glad that I'm not alone.
@@sonyagraske376 cis or cis gender means you are born in the gender you identify as. “Het” is short for heterosexual. Meaning you are attracted to the opposite sex. In this context, it is the shorter way of explaining that we as the partner of a trans gender partner were with them before transition. So our experience is much different than that of our trans partner but we accept and support them and love them just the way they are.
As a trans-lesbian I really need to find a woman with a true heart of gold. Unfortunately for me it’s men that seems to be attracted to me, even though I disclose I’m a transgender woman and NOT into men. You’d think those 2 things would chase them away but that’s not what I’ve experienced.
Y’all are a reminder for all people to continue to not only share love to all, but know that we deserve to be loved back too. Humble and confident. A reminder that it’s never okay to be shamed for being authentic. I can’t wait to watch your family grow. Thank you for letting us in on just a piece of yalls lives during this process.
I rarely ever comment on RUclips videos, and I sometimes wonder if you guys ever read these, but I just want to tell you how touching and wonderful all of this is. You two are beautiful.
I want to thank you for sharing your family's journey. As someone who knows little about what Shay and others are going through your videos have given me a new perspective, understanding and acceptance for all who are going through this journey. You are an amazing story teller and these videos should be out there on bigger platforms for people like me who had no idea or understanding for what this journey is like and means to the person going through and their family! So thank you Thank you for opening up my eyes you are truly and amazing partner, Mom and human!
I am so glad you explained why we don't hear from Shaye, I have questioned that for some time. So glad you both have support of family and friends. I would be interested to hear about how Shaye's and your parents feel about this? Thank you for sharing this journey with us, promoting love and acceptance and educating along the way.
Honestly, I almost feel like your channel is too good to be true! Only because I can’t believe how open and vulnerable you are choosing to be, thank you so much 🥺😭❤️ Watching your videos has been life changing for me 🙏🏼
Both of you continue to amaze me with your strength and courage…but especially your LOVE. It shines through you two! Thank you again for sharing your story. You are helping and teaching so many!
Thanks for sharing this, I recently had female facial feminization surgery almost three months ago and I am in my early 40s, I am still healing from surgery I am really happy to find this channel.
I didn’t realize how big I was smiling throughout the whole video 🥹 I have happy tears in my eyes 🫶🏼 Thank you so much for sharing this amazing journey with us!
Wow, your family is so inspiring. The last photo of you two kissing in front of those hateful/judgmental people holding those signs gave me chills. You and Shay are an amazing example of loving everyone for exactly who they are. Much love! ❤
So I‘ve now watched all of your trans-related videos in a row and I must say, I’m really in awe of you. I’m so happy for Shaye that she can become who she wants to be and who she truly is, and it’s so great to see the all the love. Trans really is beautiful 🩵🩷🤍
The change in this family as a whole is so comforting. To see Skylar there with the kids is just such an upgrade I wanted to see. Shaye and Skylar were beaming, everyone was BEAMING with pride. It goes beyond just the LGBTQIA community and is really about excepting each other in our rawest forms and I think your family is great examples of this.
Your family's journey is such a beacon of light in such a tough time (with what's going on nationally and globally as there has been backlash/disinformation/bigotry spread by a vocal minority). The fact that you all have a supportive community is SO heartwarming. Thank you all so much for sharing 💛
I loved this video. It brought me to tears. I myself transitioned very late in life so I can definitely relate to all of Shaye’s surgeries and different things we try to become our authentic self. Your love story is so inspiring . I can’t imagine how many people you both have touched with your beautiful connection.
It was so amazing to see you guys when I came to see Sean at the pride parade! I had not seen Shaye in so long and I’m so happy to see her living her authentic life. You are such beautiful people inside and out.
Hello There, I've just watched a few of your videos. I am incredibly impressed by the way you are able to articulate. Your story is beautiful... and so is the way that you share it. Wishing you both and your family a long lifetime of love and joy!
6:06 can we talk about how they left the faith, but didn’t ask or require their family members to leave the faith or embrace her, but so many of them are in this video supporting?!?!?! Amazing!!!
That had me cry tears of happiness for Shaye! Her brave journey/ decisions to live her true self,is really inspiring. Your continued support for her is what every single person on this planet needs is to know that they matter,that you have their back,and they are loved. Hugs from Canada 🇨🇦
You are so talented and creative, no wonder you know how to support such a heartwarming transition for the good of all. It's great to see the quints at Pride too. All the best to both of you , you're so brave and strong.
You make such lovely and loving videos! I’m deeply moved watching your family’s story and Shaye’s transition. She looks so beautiful and happy, and that cake, and those lights, and that parade… and Skyler there with this quints and everything else. So good, so wonderful. Thrilled for all of you. 🎉
I am a mother to a transgender son and I just want to thank you for being so supportive! There is so much hate and negativity in this world and it’s so heartwarming to see you love her no matter what!!!
I am lost for words. I wish I could make every single person on earth watch this video. Thank you both so much for sharing this journey! Shaye, you are radiant. Sending all the love to your beautiful family!
This video reduced me to tears. You are such a beautiful human being Amanda, you both are. It totally broke my heart for two reasons. 1) I am so happy for you for the courage you both show and how incredibly robust you are for each other and how totally united you are and it is so beautiful to see. 2) I wish I had a partner who could support me like you do Amanda. I am at a very similar stage to Shaye in my transition, but I haven't got any real support around me. My marriage has unfortunately broken down, as she has found someone else and I am still in love with her... I am utterly lost. I am trying to take one small step at a time and making progress all be it slowly. I sometimes feel inside myself and identify so much in Shaye. You are both inspirational and give me hope that I will one day get to where I need to be. God bless you both and your family. x
Shay is absolutely beautiful, inside and out! I learned about your family from Five Two Love. I've seen Shay videoing the family. I remember your son Hudson too. Your family and your home are beautiful too! Blessings to all of you!
When you truly love someone your attracted to the person not the gender. You both have the deepest connection two people can have. So lucky to find that kind of love 💕💕
yes, but also not always. People have sexual orientations, and even if someone is attracted to their partner post transition, they my still treat them or want to be treated in gender typical ways... This is probably much less of a problem if the partner is strongly bisexual (like a Kinsey 3).
That isn't always true, that is something that people tell themselves but it isn't always true. I wish more people gave it a chance, but there is a lot of the partners identity tied up in who they are , too. It isn't just sexual attraction, it is about being Mrs John Doe. It sounds surface but it isn't, there is a lot involved in how they id themselves..Saying that a partner loves the person underneath and gender doesnt matter is like telling a trans person if they accept they are a woman or man, why do they need to transition, that how you look is only skin deep. That said, relationships break up for the wrong reason, where someone otherwise who can love the person that transitions, be attracted to them, but is worried about what their religion might say or ppl will think he/ she are gay ( trans male marriages where it survives transition when they were married to a man before transition is relatively rare to start with IME , and survival is even less than w a married trans woman who was married to a woman), loss of social status, financial fears, etc.
I remember watching your story on Mormon story and was blown away by the love and support between the two of you....... And the fact that you're even calling your parnter by her preferred pronouns is incredibly heartfelt and awesome... God bless the two of you
Your content is such a gift to me. Thank you. My partner is transitioning into her true self and it's a magical time. I love the love that you have for each other. I'm also so happy for you that you have people supporting you. Both of my spouse's siblings and one of mine now has decided to not be apart of our journey. It's difficult but we do have some good supportive people
Amanda, I absolutely love watching you! There is something to be said about a well educated woman who is so eloquent in everything she says! You are inspiring and I have always loved this channel! I’m happy for Shay and I hope she continues to find peace💛
Your videos are so incredibly beautiful, and so is Shaye. Living authentically is the bravest thing we can all do for our souls. Sending support to you all from the Midwest ❤️
SO much love and support. It is so incredibly beautiful to see such support for Shaye from her family and friends. Your family are SO inspirational for people who don't quite feel like they can be themselves. The journey Shaye has taken with the love her family have given her despite so many social and other biases is incredibly admirable. Love from Edwina. (She/her, Sydney, Australia).
That picture you guys at the end is EVERYTHING. Showing love in the presence of hate. ❤ Proud of you both for staying so strong for each other as you continue on this journey of TRANSformation. Happy Pride and happy birthday Shaye! 🩵🤍🩷
Since watching a number of your videos, I find myself thinking about you with love and familiarity. What an amazing story of love, acceptance, and trust.
When we choose to live in the present it frees us of the worries that tomorrow and forever bring. Glad to hear Shaye is on the path to living in the moment and embracing today. What an incredible journey! Sending all the love 🙂
So beautiful. I just discovered your channel and am overjoyed with that. The world needs so much more of what you offer: inspiration, love, hope and aspiration. You have found a subscriber for life here. Yay for Shaye!
This one teared me up for some reason. Y'all are a beautifulnl family. You're all so lucky to have each other. There is so much divisiveness and hate in this world. You all are love. ❤ I'm so happy to have found this page. I'm a 54 year old cis woman with a 19 year old son and watching your videos is almost like therapy for me simply due to how you both present yourselves, treat each other, communicate and the calmness of Shaye. Thank you for being your authentic selves! ❤
I know every day isn’t so fun or loving in the outside world, so it’s amazing to watch. But on the quiet days and the sad days, just know there are random people across the country thinking about you and rooting for you and loving you and accepting you. Love learning from your family. THANK YOU for sharing your love and journey.
You two are ADORABLE at the end of this. I lost my wife during my transition. We're still friends, but she couldn't be with me any longer. I'm so happy that you two have each other's love. Waves from the other side of the rockies.
Oh my goodness, I wish I had the words to tell you how amazing you are Shaye! Authenticity looks so great on you and you are glowing!! Thank you for sharing your story and thank you Amanda, for giving us her updates as well as sharing your journey walking beside her and being so supportive! I love your family!!!!
Amanda i cry everytime i watch you two goddesses ❤I love how much you just show so much love and support to your spouse if you choose this new path you love unconditionally!!! I’m so happy and here for it!!!! So much love 😊
Each video I am just blown away by your courage. The space that you give each other is truly beautiful to witness. Thank you for sharing such an intimate experience with us.
So proud you support her so much. I’m an older trans person with a marriage of 38 years. My wife is somewhat excepting but could not deal with me transitioning. So, I’m dealing with myself as being a guy till the end because I won’t risk loosing her. She is my life!
Thank you for checking in...missed you! 🏡❤ So happy to see you all celebrating! 🎉🎉 That cake was amazing! So talented! May you continue to feel our support.
Well I am just weeping this was so beautiful. I’m thrilled to see Skylar and the little kiddos and his girlfriend. So happy there is support in Salt Lake. That’s a very hard area to fight for space and equality. I couldn’t be happier to ‘know’ you and your family and friends. What a stunning family you have. ☮️❤️🌷
I couldn't have phrased it any better. I have followed both Scott family channels for years. (Skylar's from the time the babies came home & this one since they started it) This video brought me to tears. Both of sadness & joy. Sadness for the rough trials these families have had to endure the last couple years, on top of the inner, silent struggles. And Joy for finally coming out the other side, surrounded by love and support. ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 Wishing everyone Happy Pride 🌈🏳️🌈
Shay you are awesome and beautiful, and your partner in life is an inspiration who is also amazing, awesome, and beautiful. Your entire family and the life journey that you share is a blessing. Thank you for sharing your story. I am inspired.
Shaye, just wanted to say you are sooo brave... I don't feel like I have the strength to really open up to my loved ones. And Amanda I am just amazed by how supportive and loving you are. It's just beautiful to see, what I wish for, which feels like an unrealistic fantasy actually is possible and can happen.
This is such a beautiful story. I've shed tears of happiness for your family, while at the same time feel the pain of being outcast and rejected by my only living parent. My father. I'll be 53 in September. Been transitioning since the age of 40 with little to no financial resources. It's been so hard. There were days when I wanted to quit. By quitting, I mean leaving this earth physically. But somehow I always maintained hope. I've come a long way. I'm stealth to most people I know. I always get the question if I have kids from women and men. So that tells me that I blend in/pass. There are days to be honest though, where the light at the end of the tunnel gets dimmer. It's scary. But somehow I've persevered. I know that my story is still being written. Your support system is invaluable. Cherish it. Most trans folks lose the love of most family members and friends. You're solid in that aspect of life. Consider yourselves blessed beyond words. Shaye, your recovery and results are WONDERFUL. That was you all along. I could see if before hand from the previous videos. Amanda. A monument should be erected for you. You are beautiful in everyway. When I first came out, I had a girl friend. That didn't end well. I can't blame her. But she taught me enough to get me going. Thank you for being so candid. So refreshing. PS. The picture at the end made me so happy!!!!!!
I am a return missionary and currently active in the LDS church. The amount of love and support you offer your partner is priceless. I have lately become more enraged about the trans movement. I think it is extremely predatory and dangerous. Mainly because I believe they are brooming CHILDREN and causing irreversible damage to their bodies. However I am not the judge and I don't understand what people are going through. This video really helped me consciously recognize the need to approach this subject with more love and acceptance. I know that we are all God's children and I know he loves all of us equally. 🙏
I have had a smile on my face for the entire video. But when she walked out for her big reveal, that is when it was the HUGEST, and I caught myself doing it totally unconsciously. I am so so happy for Shae to be taking these steps and not giving up, and for all the support that she and you have as a couple. ❤❤❤ that’s kiss photo at the end 😭😭😭😭
Absolutely amazing story, thank you for sharing!!! There are a lot of cis-women who do not support their partners. Special kudos to Amanda for being so supportive of Shaye!!!! Amazing couple, family and friends!!!
“We are all in the process of becoming.” Amanda, the way you show the most gentle and pure love to your wife is out of this world. You both deserve the greatest and most accepting life. ❤❤❤
When Shaye walked out, i couldn't help but smile. She is gorgeous and looks so happy to present herself as who she feels like, such a lesson for all of us regardless of gender or beliefs. Be who you are. ❤
So glad we were able to be part of Shaye’s celebration! ❤️ You did an incredible job with the party. Josh and I were obsessed with the rainbow lighting. 🏳️🌈 I still can't get over the jumpsuit you sewed!! Shaye looked like a million bucks! ❤️ Sending you both so much love.
How uplifting it is to see your honesty and transparency in your videos...I was moved to tears watching your journey together and as a fellow Christian I can not agree more than that I to think Jesus is loving you just the same...he doesn't discriminate and neither should we....sending you much love and thank you so much for sharing your journey. We can all learn from your example...❤️
Oh my, I’m so fucking happy that your family is so accepting and open. 🥹♥️ That gives me so much hope. One of my friends is a trans woman, originally from Texas and her family … well. You can probably imagine. Also, how cute is Dana’s hair that she had for pride?! Lots of gorgeous gorgeous women all around 🥰♥️
Shaye is very lucky in so many ways. The super supportive partner and the resources for all the necessary surgeries which are not at all affordable for most people.
Such a beautiful story and family! I just recently found your channel and I absolutely love watching your videos ☺️ Much love to your family from Cincinnati! Thank you for sharing your family's journey with us ❤️
Love seeing the beauty transition has brought to Shay. Obviously both inside and outside. Wondering if she continues with the same musical and creative videos she did with her work partners. ???
Love you two’s story and how supportive you are and the journey you’re both on. Also I’m continually stunned but how talented you are. That romper is amazing. Also your shirt is so pretty did you make it too?
This is what true love is. Accepting and loving her for who she is. Shaye is extremely lucky to have all of these wonderful people around her. Sending lots of hugs and prayers for you!!
Thank you for the reminder to be proud of and celebrate our journey as trans people even when we aren’t at the finish line of what we want to look like. I stopped my medical transition to try to get pregnant this summer. I decided to wait for top surgery after seeing the surgeon and getting all that approval, and went off testosterone. My little chin hairs are thinning and fading and my curves are back but in the long run, it is more important to me to start a family with my loving partner who is also trans. Today is my 33rd birthday and we have been doing fertility treatments for three years now. I just keep thinking that I have all the time I need to transition but having a baby has a time constraint. I have to remind myself that I am still trans even tho I am not on HRT, and want to carry a baby. I get to define myself. And I see a bright future ahead.
Thank you, Amanda, for being Shaye's spokesperson. Such a beautiful couple who are united in mind and spirit. So happy for your amazing journey you are on together.
What you said about the struggle of being in the middle of one's story arc, I so needed to hear, thank you SO much. The way you guys are embracing the journey and the story arc is really beautiful and profoundly needed in this time.
It's SO HEART WARMING that you guys choose to share and be vulnerable especially at a time when there's so much hate being spewed about our community. Thank you THANK you for that. I'm sure young people watching will feel seen and loved and treasured... and my god, that's so precious. Your family is a treasure. 🥰🥰
Can you do a video of explaining how the children are taking the changes? And how you explained it to them? Also, how are Shay’s parents handling all this?
Great comment, I would love to see a follow up on these topics as well. 🙏
imagine yourself in a child's shoes. they are traumatized.
@@jv-ep2tcgrowing up with an alcoholic parent or being sexually abused by a parent, or even growing up in poverty. I think that 3 kids growing up in a loving, accepting household will turn out just fine 😊
We’re with you forever! ❤️ - Lot’s of love from Skyler and Crew 🧔🏻♂️👱🏻♂️🧑🏼🦱👧🏼👧🏼🧒🏼🧒🏼👧🏼
I watched the 4hr podcast your videos from beginning to end. I learned your brother and his wife have a channel with a family of quintuplets. I know that through here we lean and know only bits and pieces of you but what I do know is that you are SO VERY TALENTED AND ACCOMPLISHED beautiful strong healthy physically emotionally and you are shedding the layers of all the hurt you held in with the most important people in your head and life while showing those out there all that is possible with juuuust loving one another for who we truly are!!! You truly are a prophet Shay!! Maybe not in the way you felt so pressured to be growing up but in EXACTLY the way you needed to be for yourself and SO MANY others in the world 🌎 that will be touched and helped by your story and the beautiful light that beams from your soul of which we have all been blessed to witness xoxoxo ❤ sending you Amanda and your beautiful children love hugs 🫂 and positive loving energy. Amanda you are as much if not more just as strong brave ACCOMPLISHED supportive and have one of the most beautiful hearts I’ve been blessed to see!!! WOW does not reach the surface of how amazing you two are and how lucky we are to learn of you both!!!! ❤
I can't even imagine what your support must mean to Shaye. Love it!
@@liionqueen0813How eloquently you shared your thoughts my heart felt but could not assemble the words as you did! I so agree that Shaye is now doing a prophet’s true work we all learn and benefit from. ❤️
I love Shaye's story so much. Thank you for sharing such an intimate part of both of your lives. This was the best thing I've watched in awhile. This made my day, week, and probably whole month. So much love!
*this is a me problem*
When your channel was focused on the house and lifestyle, I couldn't relate to the journey or esthetic.
Now, this shift, I'm not a transgender but I am an ally and I absolutely LOVE this. The kindness and gentle, soft spoken approach to Shays transition is absolutely stunning and heartwarming. This is what reaches into the homes and hearts of so many ❤
SAME! The kindness towards Shaye's journey is very emotional to me. Never even met someone that transitioned but seeing someone that supports her partner like this is very beautiful!!! I'm also an ally and want to learn how to become a better ally as much as I can. Shaye, you look STUNNING! And happy - which makes you even more beautiful. Happy birthday!
You're family is beautiful and I love that you are willing to publicly share your evolution. Thinking of all the people that don't have the support you have and how you're helping them. Such a blessing!!
I'm so so so so glad that I found your channel. I too am a cis-het female married to a trans woman. I love her times infinity to the infinite power. I'm her biggest supporter, protector & advocate. I'm glad that I'm not alone.
Same! Exactly how I feel as well. I am also a cis-het woman married to my transgender wife. ☺️
@@sonyagraske376 cis or cis gender means you are born in the gender you identify as. “Het” is short for heterosexual. Meaning you are attracted to the opposite sex. In this context, it is the shorter way of explaining that we as the partner of a trans gender partner were with them before transition. So our experience is much different than that of our trans partner but we accept and support them and love them just the way they are.
Doesn't het mean heterosexual? I broke up with my trans bf because I'm lesbian
As a trans-lesbian I really need to find a woman with a true heart of gold. Unfortunately for me it’s men that seems to be attracted to me, even though I disclose I’m a transgender woman and NOT into men. You’d think those 2 things would chase them away but that’s not what I’ve experienced.
@@zarrowthehorse Sexuality is fluid and people use labels that they most connect with.
You are so perfect together. Shay could not have had a more supportive partner. I love your story.
Y’all are a reminder for all people to continue to not only share love to all, but know that we deserve to be loved back too. Humble and confident. A reminder that it’s never okay to be shamed for being authentic. I can’t wait to watch your family grow. Thank you for letting us in on just a piece of yalls lives during this process.
Perfectly stated. ❤
I rarely ever comment on RUclips videos, and I sometimes wonder if you guys ever read these, but I just want to tell you how touching and wonderful all of this is. You two are beautiful.
I want to thank you for sharing your family's journey. As someone who knows little about what Shay and others are going through your videos have given me a new perspective, understanding and acceptance for all who are going through this journey. You are an amazing story teller and these videos should be out there on bigger platforms for people like me who had no idea or understanding for what this journey is like and means to the person going through and their family! So thank you Thank you for opening up my eyes you are truly and amazing partner, Mom and human!
She loves her unconditionally.
I love the kiss in front of that heinous sign at the very end. Just beautiful!! 🌈❤💪
It was so beautiful, I teared up!! I can't believe the vile things those people write on their boards. Not a single ounce of love in them 😒
I am so glad you explained why we don't hear from Shaye, I have questioned that for some time. So glad you both have support of family and friends. I would be interested to hear about how Shaye's and your parents feel about this? Thank you for sharing this journey with us, promoting love and acceptance and educating along the way.
Honestly, I almost feel like your channel is too good to be true! Only because I can’t believe how open and vulnerable you are choosing to be, thank you so much 🥺😭❤️ Watching your videos has been life changing for me 🙏🏼
They def make money for being influencers
Both of you continue to amaze me with your strength and courage…but especially your LOVE. It shines through you two! Thank you again for sharing your story. You are helping and teaching so many!
Thanks for sharing this, I recently had female facial feminization surgery almost three months ago and I am in my early 40s, I am still healing from surgery I am really happy to find this channel.
I am sobbing. That last frame. You guys are amazing
I didn’t realize how big I was smiling throughout the whole video 🥹 I have happy tears in my eyes 🫶🏼
Thank you so much for sharing this amazing journey with us!
Wow, your family is so inspiring. The last photo of you two kissing in front of those hateful/judgmental people holding those signs gave me chills. You and Shay are an amazing example of loving everyone for exactly who they are. Much love! ❤
So I‘ve now watched all of your trans-related videos in a row and I must say, I’m really in awe of you. I’m so happy for Shaye that she can become who she wants to be and who she truly is, and it’s so great to see the all the love. Trans really is beautiful 🩵🩷🤍
The change in this family as a whole is so comforting. To see Skylar there with the kids is just such an upgrade I wanted to see. Shaye and Skylar were beaming, everyone was BEAMING with pride. It goes beyond just the LGBTQIA community and is really about excepting each other in our rawest forms and I think your family is great examples of this.
I love how much you support Shaye ❤ I just hope you have support also and you have someone you can talk to and vent to and process your feelings ♥️
Your family's journey is such a beacon of light in such a tough time (with what's going on nationally and globally as there has been backlash/disinformation/bigotry spread by a vocal minority). The fact that you all have a supportive community is SO heartwarming. Thank you all so much for sharing 💛
I loved this video. It brought me to tears. I myself transitioned very late in life so I can definitely relate to all of Shaye’s surgeries and different things we try to become our authentic self. Your love story is so inspiring . I can’t imagine how many people you both have touched with your beautiful connection.
It was so amazing to see you guys when I came to see Sean at the pride parade! I had not seen Shaye in so long and I’m so happy to see her living her authentic life. You are such beautiful people inside and out.
Hello There,
I've just watched a few of your videos. I am incredibly impressed by the way you are able to articulate. Your story is beautiful... and so is the way that you share it. Wishing you both and your family a long lifetime of love and joy!
6:06 can we talk about how they left the faith, but didn’t ask or require their family members to leave the faith or embrace her, but so many of them are in this video supporting?!?!?! Amazing!!!
That had me cry tears of happiness for Shaye! Her brave journey/ decisions to live her true self,is really inspiring. Your continued support for her is what every single person on this planet needs is to know that they matter,that you have their back,and they are loved. Hugs from Canada 🇨🇦
You are so talented and creative, no wonder you know how to support such a heartwarming transition for the good of all. It's great to see the quints at Pride too. All the best to both of you , you're so brave and strong.
Beautiful home, beautiful family, beautiful hearts. Thank you so much for sharing! ♥️
You make such lovely and loving videos! I’m deeply moved watching your family’s story and Shaye’s transition. She looks so beautiful and happy, and that cake, and those lights, and that parade… and Skyler there with this quints and everything else. So good, so wonderful. Thrilled for all of you. 🎉
This was our first year at pride, I have never felt more joy and unconditional love in one place, it was amazing!
I am a mother to a transgender son and I just want to thank you for being so supportive! There is so much hate and negativity in this world and it’s so heartwarming to see you love her no matter what!!!
I am lost for words. I wish I could make every single person on earth watch this video. Thank you both so much for sharing this journey! Shaye, you are radiant. Sending all the love to your beautiful family!
This video reduced me to tears. You are such a beautiful human being Amanda, you both are. It totally broke my heart for two reasons. 1) I am so happy for you for the courage you both show and how incredibly robust you are for each other and how totally united you are and it is so beautiful to see. 2) I wish I had a partner who could support me like you do Amanda. I am at a very similar stage to Shaye in my transition, but I haven't got any real support around me. My marriage has unfortunately broken down, as she has found someone else and I am still in love with her... I am utterly lost. I am trying to take one small step at a time and making progress all be it slowly. I sometimes feel inside myself and identify so much in Shaye. You are both inspirational and give me hope that I will one day get to where I need to be. God bless you both and your family. x
I hope they see your comment and get in touch with you.
Such a lovely story about your family!! Shaye looks so beautiful!!
Shay is absolutely beautiful, inside and out!
I learned about your family from Five Two Love. I've seen Shay videoing the family. I remember your son Hudson too.
Your family and your home are beautiful too! Blessings to all of you!
When you truly love someone your attracted to the person not the gender. You both have the deepest connection two people can have. So lucky to find that kind of love 💕💕
yes, but also not always. People have sexual orientations, and even if someone is attracted to their partner post transition, they my still treat them or want to be treated in gender typical ways...
This is probably much less of a problem if the partner is strongly bisexual (like a Kinsey 3).
That isn't always true, that is something that people tell themselves but it isn't always true. I wish more people gave it a chance, but there is a lot of the partners identity tied up in who they are , too. It isn't just sexual attraction, it is about being Mrs John Doe. It sounds surface but it isn't, there is a lot involved in how they id themselves..Saying that a partner loves the person underneath and gender doesnt matter is like telling a trans person if they accept they are a woman or man, why do they need to transition, that how you look is only skin deep.
That said, relationships break up for the wrong reason, where someone otherwise who can love the person that transitions, be attracted to them, but is worried about what their religion might say or ppl will think he/ she are gay ( trans male marriages where it survives transition when they were married to a man before transition is relatively rare to start with IME , and survival is even less than w a married trans woman who was married to a woman), loss of social status, financial fears, etc.
I remember watching your story on Mormon story and was blown away by the love and support between the two of you....... And the fact that you're even calling your parnter by her preferred pronouns is incredibly heartfelt and awesome... God bless the two of you
Your content is such a gift to me. Thank you. My partner is transitioning into her true self and it's a magical time. I love the love that you have for each other. I'm also so happy for you that you have people supporting you. Both of my spouse's siblings and one of mine now has decided to not be apart of our journey. It's difficult but we do have some good supportive people
Amanda, I absolutely love watching you! There is something to be said about a well educated woman who is so eloquent in everything she says! You are inspiring and I have always loved this channel! I’m happy for Shay and I hope she continues to find peace💛
Your videos are so incredibly beautiful, and so is Shaye. Living authentically is the bravest thing we can all do for our souls. Sending support to you all from the Midwest ❤️
Ive been dealing with intersex and trans issues my whole like. This story has raised my life to a whole new level of acceptance.
That picture y’all took near that sign that mentioned hell… it was POWERFUL! Thank you
SO much love and support. It is so incredibly beautiful to see such support for Shaye from her family and friends. Your family are SO inspirational for people who don't quite feel like they can be themselves. The journey Shaye has taken with the love her family have given her despite so many social and other biases is incredibly admirable. Love from Edwina. (She/her, Sydney, Australia).
Please note I am female born but really appreciate normalising gender pronouns and advocate wholeheartedly for people within the LGBTIQA+ community.
shay is beautiful and wow that last shot brought me to tears!
I love you guys! You got a friend in me! You are spreading so much love and light!
That picture you guys at the end is EVERYTHING. Showing love in the presence of hate. ❤ Proud of you both for staying so strong for each other as you continue on this journey of TRANSformation. Happy Pride and happy birthday Shaye! 🩵🤍🩷
Since watching a number of your videos, I find myself thinking about you with love and familiarity. What an amazing story of love, acceptance, and trust.
When we choose to live in the present it frees us of the worries that tomorrow and forever bring. Glad to hear Shaye is on the path to living in the moment and embracing today. What an incredible journey! Sending all the love 🙂
You two are so strong and beautiful (inside and out). I'm happy to hear you have people supporting you where you are!!
It is so AWESOME how you all are together forever! That is so cool good luck Shay!
So beautiful. I just discovered your channel and am overjoyed with that. The world needs so much more of what you offer: inspiration, love, hope and aspiration. You have found a subscriber for life here. Yay for Shaye!
This one teared me up for some reason. Y'all are a beautifulnl family. You're all so lucky to have each other. There is so much divisiveness and hate in this world. You all are love. ❤ I'm so happy to have found this page. I'm a 54 year old cis woman with a 19 year old son and watching your videos is almost like therapy for me simply due to how you both present yourselves, treat each other, communicate and the calmness of Shaye. Thank you for being your authentic selves! ❤
I know every day isn’t so fun or loving in the outside world, so it’s amazing to watch. But on the quiet days and the sad days, just know there are random people across the country thinking about you and rooting for you and loving you and accepting you. Love learning from your family. THANK YOU for sharing your love and journey.
You two are ADORABLE at the end of this. I lost my wife during my transition. We're still friends, but she couldn't be with me any longer. I'm so happy that you two have each other's love. Waves from the other side of the rockies.
I’m thankful that you’re willing to share your story. It’s important, you are important, your family is important. Send positivity to you always. ❤
Great support you have done Amanda for Shea. Bless you both!
Oh my goodness, I wish I had the words to tell you how amazing you are Shaye! Authenticity looks so great on you and you are glowing!! Thank you for sharing your story and thank you Amanda, for giving us her updates as well as sharing your journey walking beside her and being so supportive! I love your family!!!!
Amanda i cry everytime i watch you two goddesses ❤I love how much you just show so much love and support to your spouse if you choose this new path you love unconditionally!!! I’m so happy and here for it!!!! So much love 😊
Love all the support, this is beautiful! My hope is that others get this same love and support while going through their own journey.🌈
What a fun night! You and Shaye are so loving and inspirational.
Each video I am just blown away by your courage. The space that you give each other is truly beautiful to witness. Thank you for sharing such an intimate experience with us.
So proud you support her so much. I’m an older trans person with a marriage of 38 years. My wife is somewhat excepting but could not deal with me transitioning. So, I’m dealing with myself as being a guy till the end because I won’t risk loosing her. She is my life!
Thank you for checking in...missed you! 🏡❤ So happy to see you all celebrating! 🎉🎉 That cake was amazing! So talented! May you continue to feel our support.
That final shot is everything!
WOW she looks gorgeous!!! and that cake is to die for! Happy birthday Shay ❤❤🧁🧁🎉🎉
Nice!!!
Oh I’m so thrilled that skyler is in your journey. You are an amazing family
Well I am just weeping this was so beautiful. I’m thrilled to see Skylar and the little kiddos and his girlfriend. So happy there is support in Salt Lake. That’s a very hard area to fight for space and equality. I couldn’t be happier to ‘know’ you and your family and friends. What a stunning family you have. ☮️❤️🌷
I couldn't have phrased it any better. I have followed both Scott family channels for years. (Skylar's from the time the babies came home & this one since they started it)
This video brought me to tears. Both of sadness & joy.
Sadness for the rough trials these families have had to endure the last couple years, on top of the inner, silent struggles. And Joy for finally coming out the other side, surrounded by love and support. ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
Wishing everyone Happy Pride 🌈🏳️🌈
I’ve been waiting for this update! It was worth it, she is absolutely gorgeous! I’m so happy to see all the support you have!
Shay you are awesome and beautiful, and your partner in life is an inspiration who is also amazing, awesome, and beautiful. Your entire family and the life journey that you share is a blessing. Thank you for sharing your story. I am inspired.
This just brought tears to my eyes. This is what authentic love looks like.
Shaye, just wanted to say you are sooo brave... I don't feel like I have the strength to really open up to my loved ones. And Amanda I am just amazed by how supportive and loving you are. It's just beautiful to see, what I wish for, which feels like an unrealistic fantasy actually is possible and can happen.
This is such a beautiful story. I've shed tears of happiness for your family, while at the same time feel the pain of being outcast and rejected by my only living parent. My father.
I'll be 53 in September. Been transitioning since the age of 40 with little to no financial resources. It's been so hard. There were days when I wanted to quit. By quitting, I mean leaving this earth physically. But somehow I always maintained hope. I've come a long way. I'm stealth to most people I know. I always get the question if I have kids from women and men. So that tells me that I blend in/pass.
There are days to be honest though, where the light at the end of the tunnel gets dimmer. It's scary. But somehow I've persevered. I know that my story is still being written.
Your support system is invaluable. Cherish it. Most trans folks lose the love of most family members and friends. You're solid in that aspect of life. Consider yourselves blessed beyond words.
Shaye, your recovery and results are WONDERFUL. That was you all along. I could see if before hand from the previous videos.
Amanda. A monument should be erected for you. You are beautiful in everyway. When I first came out, I had a girl friend. That didn't end well. I can't blame her. But she taught me enough to get me going.
Thank you for being so candid. So refreshing.
PS. The picture at the end made me so happy!!!!!!
I am a return missionary and currently active in the LDS church. The amount of love and support you offer your partner is priceless. I have lately become more enraged about the trans movement. I think it is extremely predatory and dangerous. Mainly because I believe they are brooming CHILDREN and causing irreversible damage to their bodies. However I am not the judge and I don't understand what people are going through. This video really helped me consciously recognize the need to approach this subject with more love and acceptance. I know that we are all God's children and I know he loves all of us equally. 🙏
So beautiful! This made me cry! such a beautiful message about trusting the process as we work towards becoming our full selves! Thanks for sharing ❤
I have had a smile on my face for the entire video. But when she walked out for her big reveal, that is when it was the HUGEST, and I caught myself doing it totally unconsciously. I am so so happy for Shae to be taking these steps and not giving up, and for all the support that she and you have as a couple. ❤❤❤ that’s kiss photo at the end 😭😭😭😭
There is more Jesus in the two people kissing than the person holding the sign will ever understand.
Absolutely amazing story, thank you for sharing!!! There are a lot of cis-women who do not support their partners. Special kudos to Amanda for being so supportive of Shaye!!!! Amazing couple, family and friends!!!
“We are all in the process of becoming.”
Amanda, the way you show the most gentle and pure love to your wife is out of this world. You both deserve the greatest and most accepting life. ❤❤❤
When Shaye walked out, i couldn't help but smile. She is gorgeous and looks so happy to present herself as who she feels like, such a lesson for all of us regardless of gender or beliefs. Be who you are. ❤
you make me cry tears of joy and comfort with every video
So glad we were able to be part of Shaye’s celebration! ❤️ You did an incredible job with the party. Josh and I were obsessed with the rainbow lighting. 🏳️🌈 I still can't get over the jumpsuit you sewed!! Shaye looked like a million bucks! ❤️ Sending you both so much love.
Who is josh
How uplifting it is to see your honesty and transparency in your videos...I was moved to tears watching your journey together and as a fellow Christian I can not agree more than that I to think Jesus is loving you just the same...he doesn't discriminate and neither should we....sending you much love and thank you so much for sharing your journey. We can all learn from your example...❤️
You are such a beautiful storyteller and amazing partner! I love watching your stories unfold.
Oh my, I’m so fucking happy that your family is so accepting and open. 🥹♥️
That gives me so much hope.
One of my friends is a trans woman, originally from Texas and her family … well. You can probably imagine.
Also, how cute is Dana’s hair that she had for pride?!
Lots of gorgeous gorgeous women all around 🥰♥️
Shaye is very lucky in so many ways. The super supportive partner and the resources for all the necessary surgeries which are not at all affordable for most people.
How DO you two afford the medical bills as well as the very nice house, etc..? How do you, Amanda, and you, Shaye, make a living?
Wow I had some unexpected tears at the end when you snapped that final photo. I wish you and your family all the best. ❤
Such a beautiful story and family! I just recently found your channel and I absolutely love watching your videos ☺️ Much love to your family from Cincinnati! Thank you for sharing your family's journey with us ❤️
You are both friggin’ rockstars. All my love to you. ❤❤❤
Love seeing the beauty transition has brought to Shay. Obviously both inside and outside. Wondering if she continues with the same musical and creative videos she did with her work partners.
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Love you two’s story and how supportive you are and the journey you’re both on.
Also I’m continually stunned but how talented you are. That romper is amazing. Also your shirt is so pretty did you make it too?
This is what true love is. Accepting and loving her for who she is. Shaye is extremely lucky to have all of these wonderful people around her. Sending lots of hugs and prayers for you!!
So loving and beautiful the way you share Shay’s story, Amanda! TY! The editing is pretty awesome too!
❤❤❤❤I'm crying the HAPPIEST tears! THANK YOU SO MUCH for sharing your beautiful journey with us. I STAND WITH YOU🌈
~Mama G~
Your videos make me cry! I am so glad to have found your videos. ❤
Thank you for the reminder to be proud of and celebrate our journey as trans people even when we aren’t at the finish line of what we want to look like. I stopped my medical transition to try to get pregnant this summer. I decided to wait for top surgery after seeing the surgeon and getting all that approval, and went off testosterone. My little chin hairs are thinning and fading and my curves are back but in the long run, it is more important to me to start a family with my loving partner who is also trans. Today is my 33rd birthday and we have been doing fertility treatments for three years now. I just keep thinking that I have all the time I need to transition but having a baby has a time constraint. I have to remind myself that I am still trans even tho I am not on HRT, and want to carry a baby. I get to define myself. And I see a bright future ahead.