North Node in 4th House & South Node in 10th House // Soul lessons, gifts, karma & challenges
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- Опубликовано: 23 июл 2024
- Natal North Node in the Fourth House & Natal South Node in the Tenth House is the hero's journey of learning to appreciate one's desire for authority and success while finding an appreciation of one's roots and home base. Comment below which house placement I should do next!
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My lineage is so full of trauma and pain. The cycle ends with me. My whole life I've felt like such a failure, I've always felt it was so important to me to be successful and make a name for myself. I've been a stay at home mom for almost 7 years now. Learning astrology, it made so much sense why my career never took off, I was meant to nurture my children, break generational trauma and change the patterns within my lineage. I had a traumatic childhood, suffered DV with my first child's father. I'm now engaged to a wonderful man we have 4 children combined. Being a good parent is the most important thing to me now.
I just found out that my bio father came from extreme physical and emotional abuse from his father, he went on to repeat that, causing nothing but pain to those around him. If I had stayed with my ex, I feel deeply it would've repeated the cycle. I got out and my life has never been more blessed. I keep getting pushed to be home and creating a harmonious space for us all. ❤ after my youngest is old enough to go to school, I'm going to be a psychologist. My emotional transformation has been incredible. My foundation is being built and now I want to expand to help others.
This resonates with me too… I have been a SAHM now for 5 years and I have found it so hard like I’m always trying to escape it but now that I know this as my placements, I’m accepting it and it feels more right despite it being hard… ❤️ I actually don’t even know what I’m going to do when my kids grow up!
I relate to your story ❤
I ran from having my own family and own home all my life! I met my husband at 39, I had my two babies at 40 and 42 lol...this is all so accurate. I wanted family but was fearful of the commitment and lacked the confidence, feeling scared. I just couldnt see Myself as a mom and wife, but I was actually obsessed with childbirth, mothers, thought they were so cool because it seemed so foreign and un-doable to me. I secretly wanted a million children myself. Lol. I always was spartan, too, homes and creating one seemed the height of boring to me. Lol. My north node is in Scorpio in the 4th.
Holy crap. I just started diving into my genealogy. I found out that before Hawai'i was illegally overthrown by the US - we ruled the entire Island of Hawai'i; and were respected/feared by other islands Chiefs. Before we were ranchers - my ancestors were Chiefs of the Big Island. I’m in the process of starting a coffee farm on ancestral land, and working on proving genealogy to get other land parcels back from the US Govt. Amazing!!!
Ugh I am crying so much as I am watching your video because it is lifting so much weight from my shoulders. I moved out from home 6 months ago and it has been so hard for me to build and maintain a home-feeling. I moved out because I started studying in a different city. And I always have this urge to put my career first, to build a meaningful career. When all I really want to do is have a nice house, care for plants, maybe some children. And build a cozy life. And it has been so hard for me to balance these two drives. Now I understand why that is.
I resonate with this 100%
Our ego is where a lot of our past life karmic mannerisms love to live.
Omg! This how is my life. I didn't care the familiar business, I wanted to do my own career. I always felt more happy spending time with others than my family, but at the end of the time, life always turned me back to home. And success is something that I didn't get in my life. But it's painful because this world tells us that success is everything.
Same here, small business failed, forced to sell home, cant find a job with my degree, seems like everything I worked for never worked out , which at this age realized I dont care about success anymore. Exactly what you said about family, no matter what happens in life somehow you end up with your family or they are there you back you up in life.
Yeah. Sux. Stupid material world lol. I guess it's not their fault cuz we did that in a past life as well. But now it's different.
This resonates. I got married late. When I got married, I was ready to have family. But I guess unconsciously chose a husband who wanted me to live in my 10th house south node. His family also view being a mother or a house wife is a 'lesser' type of human. So I still focused on success, but success never comes. Now I'm 41, divorced, no career and no children. I wish i received this insight sooner. Tough lesson.
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I have my Aries sun, Venus Taurus, and my North Node Taurus in my 4th house. I knew from an earlier age I wanted to be mother and have several kids. I did just that too. I had four. I absolutely love being a mother. They bring so much joy to my life. I grew up without my father. My mother had both roles. She worked so much we never got to see her much. I told myself when I had children I was going to spend time with them and be home with them. I’ve done that. I work nightshift in the healthcare field; so I get that time with them and don’t have to miss anything with them. ❤
this resonates. I was seeking higher education because of being career oriented, but got burnt out and dropped out because I didn't have a support system, I didn't feel like I had a strong base to draw energy from
This was very helpful. Part of me overcoming generational patterns was getting DNA tested to figure out what gene mutations I had that caused certain physical/mental illnesses in my lineage. It's been a tough road but I hope the end result will be worth it when I start a family
This is perfect. Thank you for giving us clarity, most especially me who is struggling with my career and having my own family. I'm 40 and still feeling empty even I have a career. I have my own standards to myself, I'm very disciplined and strict. I think this is the answer. I am maybe a bad person in past life.. I am more in my masculine side and forgot that that I am a woman too. Thank you for this knowledge❤️ its priceless🙏✨I am a scorpio with North node in Cancer, South node in Capricorn..
Very interesting...In my early 20s I leaned hard into my Pisces North node in the 4th house, and I had a beautiful home life with a partner and lots of visits with their very warm supportive family. We had a cat and very harmonious home-keeping and decorating together (Taurus and Libra sun pair). It sort of fell into my lap. When that relationship ended, I have missed and tried to recreate that home life for years, have also had to make career changes and try a lot of things. At 32, all I want to do is have a home of my own that I feel very grounded in, a partner, pets, and plants. Work is necessary to support that but it does feel secondary to what my soul is yearning for!
Chasing recognition = disappointment. I’m so capable of being in charge but it’s never enough. Even at the top. Nothing is more MEANINGFUL than HOME. I know how to build a successful career... but how do I build a successful home? I often neglect home life and skip out on family time to pursue external opportunities. Everything I need is home where my loved ones are, and my spirituality (North Node in Scorpio, in the 4th house).
Never been excited to have children, it feels unnatural... but I would love to have children bc it would make me grow, and teach me to care more about my home life. I work too much, then neglect responsibilities at home. Also totally planned to move far away for a better job... but didn’t feel right to be far from my family. Just my experience as a 24 yr old accountant.
This aspect has been my source of wounds in this lifetime. I’ve come a long way from never experiencing stability or peace growing up in a hostile house, to having the first peaceful home, still uncertain whether it will last! There were always hurdles and obstacles that stopped me from growing in my career, always rejected in jobs. I never fit in with the corporate world (aqua mc conj uranus) and that only made me feel like an outcast at home and society. I often feel like giving up on this life.
Spot on! I have a Gemini 10h stellium (including Mars and Juno) with just my Sag NN in the 4h (from a Scorpio IC). I thought I had to give up a career and like have kids and stay at home with my parents for the rest of my life lol. Since moving away, creating my own nest and understanding what actually fulfills me, I'm experiencing just how vital my 4h is to supporting my 10h! Sometimes I catch myself spending so much money on my work that I neglect my home and end up feeling extremely out of alignment. Without the stability of the 4h, especially the closure you mentioned, my 10h would still feel hopeless. I feel seen, thank you! :)
I am fascinated by your accuracy. All of your examples apply in my case! I even fixed a generational family conflict. I just knew I had to…way before starting my astrology studies
North node in the 4th purpose to break generational curses
Drink lots of water and stay cosmic 🤗💖👌🏹
I've been learning about my culture and other cultures too, my north is in 4th house - scorpio. I'm obsessed with real estate, nature and land also
Me too!!
I’m sidereal nn Leo, I feel this so hard! I’ve come to learn the lesson of how do I FEEL and as soon as I realized that my career started taking off, one that I feel aligned to. Great interpretation. I do tend to distance myself from family but I feel our relationship exists, I could definitely work on strengthening it
Alright, this is absolutely mind-blowing. You are so accurate on everything you've said about our 10th house SN predispositions and values and strives simultaneously with our deep-deep sincere desire to actually go and explore and grow up personally with paying attention to the values of the 4th house NN. Really..it's all about balance
I feel like you were literally speaking to my soul, thank you!
North Node in the 4th house in Scorpio occupied by Pluto. 10th house in Taurus occupied by the Sun :)
This speaks to me so much. And also why I believe my mom is a career woman, over her family. I feel like she was my child or something like that in a past life. Crazy
Great insights thank you! ❤❤❤
This was soooo informative. I don't feel sooo lost anymore. Thank you Haley 🦋
The BEST video I’ve watched on this placement thank you
Thank you SO much! Really interesting. This might be just what I needed to hear.
this was exactly what i needed! thank you so much! i have been researching this all day and i just gained so much clarity in this one video.. i love your channel one of my favorite astrology channels keep going! :)
So beautiful placement
This was so helpful, thank you!
Thank you! 💓
Great Insights!! 💕
Thanks so much for watching! 💓
This was very helpful. Thank you💜✨
So happy it was helpful! Thank you for watching 💕
This is my life. Thank you for everything you put into the world.
Resonated 💯 Percent.
Blessings and much Love to you all.
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Wow this is so interesting!
I love this! Thank you
Thank you ❤
Great Interpretation!
Thank u! Finally an explonation that rrsonated! And made me understand a lot of things. Thank u so much! U really helped me :) U've a plesant voice and u r pretty too (:
Thank you so much sweet soul!
South node in the 10th can cause problems retaining a career, eventhough we want it because we're used to it, fate can push us to the 4th if we resist. Not fun, but necessary.
Is it possible to maintain a balance between career and family?
@@user-gn7kl1go4x umyep, just resolve yourself to do so. You may get help from the universe in that regard.
I relate to that. I was very attached to my career (that was competitive and frustrating) and was forced into my family home with my mom during the pandemic. Due to chronic illness, 4 years and I'm still here (and frustrated as hell.) My family is extremely dysfunctional despite my attempts at reconciliation.
Thank you so much
Thnkx dear ..this is soo helpful..it makes sense in my life ...I m very much concerned about my career i wana be successful at any cost but at the same time I can't leave my home family ...so I have to balance these private n social life I my lifetime
This is sooo true especially this be on point when its a 4 year for me in vedic terms a rahu or north node year 💙💚 but the world is on a south node year
I’m glad I’m learning more about this. I’m 19 and I’m almost a sophomore in college. I’ve always been so worried about having my dream job and a successful career. I do want to move multiple states from my family once I do finish college and start my career. And I’ve honestly never wanted a family of my own or a partner but I do love my family that I’m in contact with now. And I do tend to ignore my emotions and emotions in general tbh, I’ve just never had time to sit down and think about how I feel emotionally bc it seems as if it doesn’t matter, Ive always had to get up and do what I have to do you know? And I also have Mars in Capricorn too so it’s kinda hard to break out this mode
Amazing video 😍
Thank you so much for watching 🙏🏼
Thank you :)
thanks for this :)
Wow! I’m the opposite. North Node in the 10th House. I guess this means my natural homebody ways needs a powerful career? 😦 This is a great video!
Yes! I’m so excited to get to your North Node, because North Node in the 10th is FASCINATING to discuss! Coming soon 😉
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Any advice for someone who has north node in the 4th house AND Capricorn? A little confused by these reversed placements. Thanks! ☺️
Signs don’t equate to houses usually. Cancer does not equate to home/family and Cap doesn’t necessarily mean career. I am a fan of the adjectives nurturing and ambitious, however. I also love the word “practice” for cap.
Maybe developing/building a structured home? Or consistency in choosing to prioritize/practice home/property/family. Could be your home/family or others’. Or maybe taking time to process how your origins effect your other life choices.
Balancing that with being a nurturer at work?
My stab.
From my personal experiance with this setup up... You are the "Mom-Friend" whose also the "Group Project Leader" when you realized you stupidly said yes too it. So for me I am trying to get use to the words "No" and "I am on a Schedule. " cause it actually helps with my mental health more.
Moming myself right now to stick to that.
I would say it would be more of a balance for you than for others but I would say lean more towards the 4th house/Cancer energy because that is more unique to you. The house placement is specific to your birth time as opposed to the zodiac sign which was the same for everyone for a year and half around that time period.
Off topic but you have wonderful eyes!
This has been a strange placement for me...my chart in general seems like a contradiction. I have North node Libra in 4th house and I want a family and harmony but seems like I've either been taken advantage of, or been misunderstood with family members...relationships...you name it. I want to believe that lilth in my 10th house is probably the reason for some of this. I also have my moon in the 12th house making it even more challenging in my opinion. So my chart is quite challenging and frustrating at times. I'm always optimistic that things will improve in this aspect tho...because I want it to. Thank you for this video.
Also north node in Libra 4th house.
So I can say I’m so happy to be taking your 5 class private course, and I can’t wait to learn about what you said here, is it for me? is it for someone I know? I don’t know what’s house, what’s north node,but so excited to learn.
if I had to guess this was not for me. 🤪
I can’t wait...
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I just adore you Dafna!!! 💓 yours is in the 1st house, I have a video on it!
@@HaleyComet would you be so kind to share the video with me? I adore you back times 100 ;) this past class was out of this world literally planets and all. xo
I have my north node in the 4th house in Aquarius and the south node is in leo in the 10th house. Well, what can I say? Perhaps, welcome to the freak show :D
If at some point, I would adopt children, choose a partner who doesn't fit my family history at all, or go on professional paths that no one has gone before, I wouldn't be surprised. After my 1st Saturn return, I'm about to start over. Your video has helped me a lot to discover parts of my life purpose. Thank you for that. Do you do chart readings?
I do! Haleycometastrology.com and you can use code RUclipsLOVE to save some $$
Dead on thank you 🙏
Capricorn NN in the 4th house
Cancer South Node 10th house
It’s flipped and confusing and Cancer is my Midheaven and I have a 4th house Stellium
Hello! TY for channeling the message in this video. NN hasn’t been an easy placement to understand nor apply in my life. I’m finding it easier year by year and with each moon in 8H transformation that happens. I have this placement conjunct Pluto and venus in Scorpio and my Pisces moon in 8H. I currently am playing professional soccer but feel that there may more cosmic reason to why I should make a shift into music and sculpting/art. I’ve told some family about my aspirations, since I’ve started making music on the side of playing soccer, and many say that I should continue on the path I’m on. I think it’s a safe option for career but this latest transit has me on the brink of jumping ship into sculpting/art. Any thoughts? Blessings to you, thank you again
When you talk about not knowing about kids. That’s me
can’t you have both? success in a career and being in the public eye but also a very cosy house and good family relations? I don’t like the idea of giving one up for the other because i want both lol
Yes you can have both.Its just a balancing act.Dont give more energy to one over the other.Find the middle road.Working from home can also be the answer with a north node in the 4th house.
My north is in the 11th house but it’s in cancer so I’m looking at this lol
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I have my northnode conj Odysseus, Osiris & Tristan 4th house Aquarius opposing the south node conj midheaven, Apollo & prenatal lunar eclipse 10th house Leo. I’ve had a rough time understanding how to bring to consciousness that intensely powerful masculine energy in Aquarius.
Wow, all of this resonated so much with me. Parents moved to another country when I was 5. Growing up without extended family and grandparents. Not being attached neither to the country I was born and the country I was raised. Then going to college in a completely other country far away from the family and meeting my husband there. Now we both live far away from our families and I dream everyday to create a family domain so that we can bring our families together. Just in the last 2 years I started realizing that ambition and career is not everything for me. But I know it will be so extremely difficult to balance these 2 important parts of my life. Now that I am feeling more connected to my roots and my family can that mean I should focus on that more? If maybe I had a great career and fame or whatever in previous life, perhaps now I am given a chance in this life to make it up to my family and do everything to connect with them?
Thank you for the video, its great. What about South node in Leo in 10th house? You explained more about North node in aquarius 4th house.
You're basically boned to hear alot of constructive criticism that can help you, but you might not take depending on your Sun Sign.
Kinda the curse of any Leo/Aquarius placement... They got some really intense opposition.
@@katiearbuckle9017 Thanks! I have Sun in Aries 15° 33' /Moon in Leo 22°57' /Rising Scorpion 1°47'
Thank you! Great video :) So what happens when Capricorn is the sign of your 4th house with North Node? It seems like a backwards confusing paradox to me.
Exactly how I feel on the inside 🙃
Hi Haley, what does north node in Aries 4th house sound to you? I just started learning astrology in a beginner’s course and want to know your opinion. Great contents by the way❤❤
I got this same position, but feel it's contradicting in itself.
what method do you use? Placidius or Whole house? as it generate different positions for me :(
My big question is how to integrate this polarity when venus and sun are in the tenth house…isn‘t it quite of an evolution challenge?
North node Libra in the fourth house and Libra sun. Tbh I feel the opposite of being comfortable asserting myself and have constant internal wars over how disrespectful people can really be to someone who just wants to be hospitable. Sigh.
My ketu in 4th house in aries and rahu with sun in libra. Difficult childhood, disturbing family. Will it change in future?
Our chart is our blueprint, so it represents where we’ve been, where we are and where we’re going - I’m a believer that we can overcome our charts with awareness and work on ourselves. A video on this placement is coming soon!
North node in the 4th house in Virgo, any deeper insights?
I have a North Node Virgo video on my channel that takes it house by house!
@@HaleyComet found it! Your channel has been really helpful!
Haha...U aRE EnCoUraged.. ^ ^
Cope
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Am I doomed to never be successful with this placement?
I have a 4h north node Aquarius and 10h Leo stellium 😅 what to do with that? 👽
I have a video that dives in Aquarius North Node by every sign / house combo!
4th house Nn in Virgo conjunct Lilith mercury and Venus. There is no love here when it comes to the 4th house for me. I want to go to magical places where I can absorb all of its mystery. I’m a seeker of the unknown beauties and essences of nature. I don’t relate to my family and I’m not into traditions and playing roles.
This might be a silly question but is the 10th house not the same as Midheaven? Because in the chart that I have, it lists all the houses in order but then it goes from IX to X MC. But, my midheaven is in Aquarius and I have Virgo as my North Node and Pisces as my South Node. Is South Node the tenth house? I'm just so confused about this I apologize, any help would be appreciated!🌻
Not a silly question at all! Okay so essentially in Placidus house system, the Midheaven marks where your 10th house begins. So they are related but not the same. The Midheaven was the highest point of the sky at the moment you were born, it’s an angle. It starts the 10th house and both have to do with career but they are not interchangeable. So even though your Midheaven is Aquarius, you have SOME Pisces degrees there, so your South Node lands in those early Pisces degrees. Let me know if that makes sense 🤍
@@HaleyComet Ohhhhh! That actually makes a lot of sense! Thank you for the clarification!😊🌻
@@HaleyComet I'm noticing now that I have Aquarius in the 10th house and Pisces in the 11th so if my South Node is marked on my chart as still within the lines of the 10th house.... ohhh okay thats where i think I got it confused because the midheaven and south node are two separate things which is why they're in different signs yet still in the same house. Is that right?
@@HaleyComet And I apologize for so many questions lol but my Part of fortune is in Pisces in the 10th house as well. Is that separate from South Node?
I hate to say this but I think I'm still carrying on with not being close to family or even building my own (don't want kids to repeat trauma). So if reincarnating I may be repeating this cycle AGAIN. Ugh....
So, my nodes are these (virgo-pisces), yet my midheaven/ic is the other way around (pisces-virgo) I have no idea what that means. 🤔
It means that your North Node is conjunct your IC and south node is conjunct your midheaven!
@@HaleyComet Yes, I figured as much... but what does that actually mean, they seem to be contradictory, no?
@@zusjevanlicht not at all. The IC is what you came here to learn about, the MC is what you're already good at but maybe don't need to focus on in this life.
North node in aries 4th house, kinda contradicting....
Doing a video all about north node through the signs and each of the houses, should give more insight!
@@HaleyComet thanks!
I'm single
But I want to have 7 kids
for the power of my house.
I'm not going to incarnate anymore, what a joke 😭😭😭😭
Seriously a fckin joke 😭 this isn’t how the world works
Called me out for 10:35 mins straight
Idk where I come from
My whole chart is pointing to sex work 😭
@cat just the placements. I have Lilith in the 2nd house, an 8th house stellium, an MC in Scorpio, etc.