Dude ... When you did that brutal abortion the very first time and you were aware that he did not stood by your side also had no regrets.. than why the hell you slept with him the second time?
She said she knows the boundaries and got pregnant 3 times within 1 year with a very bad experience in the first time only I don’t understand this behaviour
@@dikshavazirani she said her boyfriend if I stay with uh in a pure relationship than after that I know my boundaries that I even can't see to other man like I see uh in my life
@@dikshavazirani pyar naam ki koi cheez pata he? Nachahate huwe v loves makes u do things that u don't want to. And also to correct u, to get pregnant it's not in girl's control it's in boy's control. Usko toh Pata v nai chala hoga when he impregnated her, usne bola v hai that he used to come drunk and do such things.
After abortion it is advised by the doctor to wait at least 5-6 months to get pregnant again. How this generation is so obsessed about sex and having boyfriend and girlfriend. It sucks
Really hats off to this girl who express this kind of thing .. some people will say she's doing to get fame😂like seriously if you are thinking this ,then please aapko laana hoga fame isse tarah s ..( the way you think) saying all of this to get fame or bhi raaste h bhaai unke paas...can we please being human and appreciate her that she took the bold steps to come out from all of this ❤
@@shreyasonkar786 lol being human to someone who aborted her babies THREE times?? 😂😂😂😂 If you truly believe in her stories, don’t you think its her pattern 1. sleep with the man and enjoy 2. kill the baby 3. repeat 😂 What is there to sympathize? Why to encourage such women?
Sleeping with someone you met on online platforms is your choice. A baby is a result of that choice. She herself said that sex was consented and there was no abuse or force involved sexually. Also, No one can force you to do something unless you allow it. I can totally understand when someone rapes a woman and an unwanted pregnancy happens. But this was her choice. She could have been on birth control pills after first pregnancy or from the time she decided to be sexually active with this person, or left the guy altogether or disallowed him to sleep with her. She saw the guy with that girl multiple times for months, he hit her.. yet she did not leave him. Once is a mistake, twice is idiocy but third time is just plain wrong.. Both parties are equally responsible. That little life suffered in all this immaturity and idiocy.
Narcissistic abuse and manipulation is not for everybody to wrap their head around. I would appreciate if you can learn more about it as it literally makes the victim loose control.
People struggling in or after such relationships gonna feel a sense of validation and comfort with this podcast.Even if it helps one person,it is definitely worth it.
When u had one abortion why did u continue with the guy had 2 more three abortions .2 nd abortion after 15days it's not guys fault only its ur fault also.
Yeh 17-19 ki age mei ziadatar ladkiyo ke sath hoti hai kyuki vo emotions ki bhuki hoti hai aur yeh sirf bad boy hi de skte hai aur nice guys ko yeh dena nhi aata jis vajah se vo friendzone ya cheat ho jate hai😂
@@simran_346 tumhe phir Mila nhi vo ladka 😂 jab milega na tumhare conscious mind chlna bnd ho jayega aur tumhara subconscious mind chlna shuru ho jayega tab game shuru hoga agar examples du toh 2 min ke liye saanse rok lo tumhe suffocation shuru hone lag jayega aur tum bheek mangogi ki pls mujhe oxygen do ,essa hi case ismei hota hai 😂mei dua krta hun tumhe koi nice guy mile ya agar mil gya hai toh bhot achi baat hai but agar vo tumhe emotions nhi de rha hai toh pls usse chordna mat okay dost 😂❤️
See I listened the story but the moment you got to know he was involved with other girl and had planned to propose and all why were you then still connected to him. Why were you still picking up his call why were you then still in his house. The person you have a long relationship with cannot be your friend ever after your breakup something or the other might creep in and you might end up having sex. You only said tumhe nhi jamta to tum nahi krti then why was you still with him after the first abortion. Clearly he was not the one you were aligned with. Tanvi i respect you but here you are wrong as well.
I literally cried hearing her story. She is so strong! I can’t even imagine what she must have gone through and be able to handle her profession and personal life.
*Thik hai* Unwanted, repetitive thoughts are a sign of OCD. With this type of anxiety disorder, you have recurring, unwanted thoughts you can't control. You may also have the urge to repeat certain behaviors or actions over and over again. Hence when she repeats words and other things she is going through mental health issues hence please co-operate
It's not at all scripted, such narcissist people actually exist!! And It's easy to judge without being in her situation. It's really so difficult to get out from such relationship. But u should be that much strong enough for yourself to leave such a person.
@@NishuMishra-ff7og In the whole conversation I was only listening "Dishank" "I was like" "all of sudden" "thik hain"... Aur facial expressions ka kya hi kehna "mashallah"!!! The guy didn't force her to go physical.. It was consensual.. phir yeh victim card play kis baat ki!!!
@@Priya_the_princess exactly 💯......... it's so easy to judge but the amount of torture and manipulation this girl has gone through can only be understood by a victim of narcissist abuse.
Thank you Tanvi for sharing your story. I can see in your eyes the strength it took you to share your story. Such evil people should be punished and not allowed to roam freely in society. Thanks for this taking the stand. Good Luck!
@@jeebanjyotidas721617-19 ki ladkiyo mei hota hai yeh dost ,unke andar bhot emotions hote hai jo bad boy unhe dete hai aur vo obsessed ho jati hai usmei,ziadatar tumne kaale ladko ko khubsurat ladkiyo ke sath dekha hoga ,voi hote hai saale😂
Why should that boy get punished he doesn't force him self on her she had a consensual sexual relationship with her boyfriend that means she also wants this same
@@jayap1164 you know sometimes situation are like that you can't even help yourself...maybe she loved him truly and got manipulated ... because this type of boys personally ik ..they can manipulate people soo easily
She came to tell the story not because she doesn't know where all she made mistakes or how she has suffered. She came here tk tell her story, so the rest of us can save ourselves if ever we came across someone like this guy. She is telling her story, tl let us know the extent narcissists can go to to hurt someone. She is telling us her syory so we recognise such people and stay away from them. So we can make decisions that can protect us frkm such people. SHE DOESNT NEED AN ENTIRE COMMENT SECTION TO TELL HER WHERE SHE MADE MISTAKES. SO IF YOU DO NOT HAVE ANYTHJNG KIND TO SAY, OR POINT OUT WHAT U LEARNT FRKM HER EXPERIANCE, i recommend you shut up and keel your filthy words to your self
Tanvi sorry to say, you too were at fault.. Coming from a similar person who faced such relationship.. I still maintained that boundary.. We all have brains I know it's tough to resist when one is manipulating but How could you become intimate with the same person and make the circumstances repeat? .. A thing happening the first time we can call it mistake, the third time it's a pattern.. I know you have suffered but you gave him the permit to do that with you.. I too had similar relationship, I was abused but I made myself strong enough to put an end.. I know your circumstances were different but some how you were at fault too cause you let him treat you like that..
Very proud of u dear. I wish I could take the same steps like u. I have been through the same situation for 8 years and didn't realise it at all, I came to know about all his dark secrets after loosing all my savings and jewellery. He committed suicide and I came to know about his dark reality two months after his death. They never force themselves on any female. They manipulate the strong kind of females with their love bombing... Gaslingthing Extreme level of Manipulation Cunningness Devaluation Pathological lier Energy suckker Covert Narcissist, the most dangerous evil they are. It's very difficult to get one self out of their spell once u even come in touch with them.
@@pragatiroy9034 well u are mostly correct that repetition of same thing is somewhat your own consent but one needs to accept that few people wakes late than other. But it doesn’t mean they wanted to be abused. It’s just life.
@@aishwaryr than blaming the late awakening doesn't makes you right.. part of you are at fault too.. if you're old enough to go in a relationship even when she knew he had been sleeping around, she still went to his flat and had s€x .. IDK but as I said I had similar experience and if you just stick around that, you just accept the abuse, yes, noone wants to be abused but then sticking around the abuser and blaming it won't work..
@@pragatiroy9034I totally agree what you said but empathy is better than anger. I know such repetitive behaviour towards abuser doesn’t make u less criminal. I feel through your words resentment and anger. May be I’m wrong just my thought seriously no offence.
@@aishwaryr no, I get it where you're coming from actually.. I would have felt empathy as well if this behaviour would have stopped a bit before that... Tanvi was connected with her friends and family, I'm sure they would have told her multiple times to leave this guy and what not.. cause you can see right her bruises are quite visible... So, I don't feel empathy towards her.. I would have if she had worked on it before that also she has soo many evidences and she isn't putting that guy behind bars for soo long that's even more annoying.. she knew he was a drug addict and substance abuser still went on to live with him for 5 fking years and become a heavy drunker herself!? And she was okay knowing he was using other women as well and she has been used as herself.. she is not a victim in my eyes, she just went along with it.. and she is more responsible in it.. also I do feel that you feel empathy for her, I'm not denying the fact she went through that much pain, I pity her for her loss but I don't pity her as a victim that's all..
Self control is necessary when it's about drink or sex. What I think is there were so many so many red flags, but if you are ignoring then you will suffer.. it's high time to understand once a thief always a thief.
Yeh 17-19 ki age mei ziadatar ladkiyo ke sath hoti hai kyuki vo emotions ki bhuki hoti hai aur yeh sirf bad boy hi de skte hai aur nice guys ko yeh dena nhi aata jis vajah se vo friendzone ya cheat ho jate hai😂
Heard the full story.. After going to through so much.. She still has that beautiful smile on her face..Definitely a pure soul!! Tanvi if you are reading this, I want to let you know that You are beautiful and deserve the world!! May God fill all of your voids with peace and happiness in life❤❤ Kissey please pass this message to her..
@@loveyourself-n6y aise hi log hote hai jo sahi person ko niche girate hai, discourage karte, You cant understand her atleast don't use your cheap words for her Aise hi log society mai dusro girate hai
How can she abort so many times even after her bf was so abusive? You can go for an abortion once by mistake but how come twice, thrice in a Year one after the other? That means she was also very physical with him despite all the wrong he was doing. Ye ladki bhi kuch kam nahi dikh rahi. You can not get real relationships on Bumble.
I think .. she wanted to save her relationship in any situation so she couldnot take right decision. Mere though me Usne apni ijjat or relation ke liye kari hogii .. guys don't paste your negative thought everywhere . Sabki apni apni reason hoti he..
@@shwetanivkar1841 she has said in the podcast that she tried to leave him but he didn't let her ...and that bleeding one also... I'm not being rude so don't think like that
Im not saying the guy was good boy or anything but its ít weird he was ok for 4 years and suddenly 7 months k liye he became monster bit confusing.. How can you sponsor his 4beers/day i mean why would you do that? 3 abortions I mean are you serious? Bro why would you even talk to this person if he is flipping infront of doctor his another gf I know she has been through alot and all but dono bhi red flag ho jo etne red flag ignore kr dia tum logo ne As you are claiming your smart independent girl empath n all to thida dimag hi laga leti😅
This is crazy.... she says they had broken up and he calls and she goes upto him and gets physical again....this means that she herself can't control herself and puts the blame solely on him. Both are equally reaponsible....
Peoples are in comment section judging her but I tell you all that I have the same situation and yaha kya hota hai n hamare sath manipulate ho jate hai or eshe bhot sari cheeze hote hai n ki samjha nhi ata kese explain karu itni bate hote hai or wo insaan breakup krne ke liye bhi ready nhi bas pareshan krna hai relationship me reh kr I'm totally understand her plz don't judge her
@@Butterfly99852 haar chizz pe Gaslight Gaslight karta tha koi bhi itna pagal nahi hota ek baar abortion hua uske baad vaps vahi galti karege tabhi ye apna stand le sakti thi kahi to inki bhi galti ha ye bol sakti thi sirf ladke ki galti nahi ho sakti somewhere her fault is also there
First of all the way this girl is telling the story seems she has gone through a very proud moment just because you don't have self control you ended 3 little lifes
you do understand the basic concept of how a baby comes right. A man A woman. It's sad ki abortion becomes the girl's ability to not be able to evade sex as if men don't hold any fucking responsibility towards having unprotected sex. Seeing as how the girl was manipulated, it's quite easy to see why she had to go through three abortions.
@@Khushisingh-hf8yj maybe she's a masochist or martyr..like those people who love to stay sad surrounded by problems this arises due to past traumas loosing a parent like her mom seriously affected he a lot..she loves to stay in a vulnerable depressed state and narcissistic people feed on that
@@smritikumari4088 I guess you must be knowing that sex is a mutual concerned decision I totally understand maybe she was manipulated but how can she not understand things for 2 more consistent times it is so much traumatising to loose a baby how can she not speak for herself
@@Khushisingh-hf8yj that's how manipulation works though. Even after physical assault she didn't leave him. He could easily sweettalk her into having it bare and not use condom. She or even he didn't think it would lead to pregnancy but point is still the same. The mistake could have been avoided if she could say no to him, sadly in this case she could not.
bhai usne sex kar liya kya hota hai, you also wanted to have sex right? he didn’t rape you so why only blame the guy like you wanna have sex with him but he’s wrong?
1:01:42 Do these girls have no self respect? This guy is cheating both of them and still they are giving him an option to choose one of them? Such low self respect man! I can’t believe. Tanvi, if this story is true, that guy is clearly a gone case, but you too were at fault in this entire story.
Yeh 17-19 ki age mei ziadatar ladkiyo ke sath hoti hai kyuki vo emotions ki bhuki hoti hai aur yeh sirf bad boy hi de skte hai aur yeh cheej nice guys ko dena nhi aata jis vajah se vo friendzone ya cheat ho jate hai😂
I think its too important video for teen girls or emotional girls. You are so strong tanvi really proud on you, you have open million girls situation and eye's.
😂tum jitni marji essi videos le aao yeh ladkiya bebkoob bnti rahegi esse narcissistic ladko se and you know school time mei nice guys bhot hote hai aur unse pyar tum ladkiyo ko hota nhi hai😂tumhe pyar bhi narcissistic ladko se hota hai
Narcissistic men target the most intelligent and strongest woman and then break them. They ain’t for the weak. They always attract an empath in their life as they easily get emotionally manipulated. Moreover, men who don’t know how to respect woman will always face financial challenges. We represent and bring growth and abundance.
@@Ruqaiyyaali-uy1yh kyuki vo ik bad boy se patt chuki thi jo bhot dangerous boys hote hai in love game,abh yeh ladki apni akhri saans tak uska naam leti rahegi 😂
To the people commenting this and that you really need to see that how a strong upbringing looks like just because she is smiling and so fiercely stating whatever she gone through is truly commendable . Kuch logo ko adat hai ki victim humesha rota dhota rhey coz that's the image which is being potrayed in the society of victims , it's quite evident that educated people are behaving the same .Aur rahi baat abortion bhai pyar m chutiya banna suna h ? shyd hum sb hote h kahi nh kahi aur time se smbhl jatey h kuch barbad ho jatey h buri trh ya barbad hote hote smbhltey h .Let's be a little sensible on what a narcissist person looks like and figure them around us . Kudos to you bro wishing you much more love and be strong
Kya majak hai bhai she did 3 abortion and your saying people are wrong.how can a person becomes immature and irresponsible at same time 😂. Mistake ekbaar hota hai bar bar nehi😂
@@ritunegi7735 bro upbringing iski weak hi hai, I feel because she isn't properly taught the concept of self worth and self respect. Jab ek baar galti ho na usko galti mana jaa sakta hai jab 3 baar galti ho na usko gadha hona bola jaata hai.
This is the best example of what a characterless person look like 3 times abortion is not a joke She is narcissist and immature Not confronting the boy here But the girl is totally immature and potraying herself as a strong independent women Like shut upp And to all those who are comenting she is so brave Just google brave ladies and you will find who is brave!!!! Totally disguised
Agreed.👍 Agar aap itne hi strong ho to apko apne aur apne emotions ke upar control hota hai....3baar abortion hogya still aap ussi ldke k sath ho and calling yourself strong....shyd kuch misconceptions hh inhe strong word ko lekar.🥴😑
@@AmishaVerma-lp4vn victim is someone who is forced to do something Here she is clearly independent of her choices and no one forced her to have physical relationship It was consentfully done She herself is the reason for the harm
Tum jo bhi ho but tum jitna mature insan meine Aaj Tak nhi dekha ,dost tumne bilkul sahi bola vo ladki immature thi aur uski age some 20-25 thi jab uske sath yeh hua aur iss age mei mostly girls mature ho jati hai but yeh maharani needs ki bhuki thi pls bhagvan meri essi ladki se shadi mat krvana kyuki mei arrange marriage krunga😂
People who have not met monsters dont know how manipulative they are so pls if u cannot be sympathetic dont be judgmental. Its very easy to say chod dena tha ya defend krna tha khud ko but u dont know the level of such boys.
Exactly ...I have also faced this type of thing.....but luckily pregnancy part was not there ...but yes ,my person was also dating many girls behind me ...I just hate that person and regret for wasting my precious time for such kind of fuckboy.....but yes,these people are very manipulative ..
Fine if she was in love and couldn't leave him in time, but getting pregnant and killing life back to back three times in a years is too much, just because women are capable of giving birth doesn't mean you can be so immature and kill. Doing Karna is our choice giving it back is his
@@Tribe138 what you think married ones do these lot because they can't give a life to bunch these type of pills used by hundreds of them just they kept it a secret from everi
Are vo ladki obsessed ho chuki thi uss ladke ke sath aur ladka ik bad boy aur mostly girls esse ladko se obsessed ho jati hai jisse unhe pata nhi chalta ki kya chl rha hai unki life mei bss jo vo bolega voi kregi
All powers to you girl ❤.People stop blaming her she was strong enough to come out and speak. Not every one can deal with manipulator and narcissist. Glad she stood for herself and is setting the example for us..
Pehli baat vo ladka hi chordkr gya hai isse vo juth bol rhi hai 😂 dusri baat vo ladka bad boy personality tha jo ki ik drug hote hai nice girls ke liye 😂
I feel like I dated the same guy 😂 I think narcissists have a common pattern. . = Extremely Manipulative. = Hypocritical. = Love bombing. = Completely normal after ugly fights. = Maintains a very nice self image. = Anger issues. = Extremely Suspicious & Controlling. = Possessive about you and blame you regarding another guy, but he'd himself be flirtatious about other women. = Blame you for faults you didn't do. = Will give a deaf ear to whatever justification and logic you'll give, he won't understand logics. = 0 empathy & totally insensitive to your sorrow, pain & discomfort.
Pagal usse pyar nhi kehte ,yeh saara kuch tumhara subconscious mind kra rha tha aur rahi conscious mind ki vo toh tumhara tab chalta hai jab tum thodi bhot mature ho jati ho 😂 phir koi ik lallu se nice boy se shadi kr leti ho😂phir uske baad apne bacho ko smjhati ki beta kabhi esse mat bnna😂 tum ladkiya kabhi nhi sudrogi
@@vaishalikokate935 Chill out.. What he means is the influence of Hookup Culture on our society has increased a lot compared to the previous generation...
Literally... Abhi bhi wo immature jaise behave kr rhi hai.. And bol rhi hai ki ab mature ban gayi hu.. Seriously.. Duniyadari samjh behen.. Sirf banda handsome hai isla matlab ye nahi hai na ki uska चरित्र bhi handsome hoga😂. GROW UP Girl🙏
So dear audience its better that you all put yourself in her shoes and understand what she want to mean its better than judging her by your own perspective... its hard if someone has gone through this things its freaking hard to express rather than judging her by the way she is talking its better to understand her.....PUT URSELF IN HER SHOESS than u will understand what she really meant!!!!!!!!
You are educated girl. U should take care of this issue. Nd you were knowing about that toxic person. Aur एक बार नाही तीन बार होणा. Means you were wrong. Because he is not a good person
It's take lot of courage to come publicly like this ....Hats off darling to you .I know PPL start judging you but I know how madly girls can be when they are in love ....
@@shikasharma3809 judging like seriously. The whole story is scripted by her own. What hats off in her case she is staying with the toxic person 7 years long. If she couldn't see what is right and what is wrong nothing matters what she is doing in so called love. And this is not love.
@@Uncut_she here she can make a choice she is today's girl not 1860s where all the dependency is on her husband. One of the key factor of compelling these abuses and not to apart from the husbands is fear of society, burden on own family, dependency on husbands
@@Uncut_she Now we are encouraging females not to sustain in the marriage where you have to face such abuses on the regular basis. So what kind of example she is giving tha female can tolerate these abuses for long term even when you are independent enough to care of yourself by own.
@@aditrisingh3054 you know what the main problem is those narcissistic persons have split personality means when there is no fighting between those two person at the point they become very normal they do care for u & do everything a person do in a healthy relationship. Butttt when you don't obey them they come to their orginal form. So in this scenario you will feel there is fight in every relationship & even between our parents did they become separated? No!!!. And also they create the situation like the problem is between you not them. Actually I am a victim of the same thing!!He forced me to do some sexual activities whenever I denied he abused me & told that you don't have any sexual feelings so at that point I started to doubt myself that most probably he is true & the problem is in between me!! But yaa I hv self control & after bearing those things for several months finally I broke up. But it's not the first time I tried to being seperate but each n every time he did emotional blackmail. But at last I was so pissed off I decided to broke up & I was ready for the circumstances. 🙂
Dishank, the host, bhai agar tu padh rha h ye comment toh iss ladki se dur reh...i am a girl..and i can sense something very much terrible about this girl..
So true. I feel sorry for whatever happened with her that boy must be a *terrible* human being according to her. But as a girl I sense something off too + this girl is victimising herself alot. Like bro it was 100% your choice to just kick his balls when things went wrong the first time.
Uss ladke ki koi galti nhi hai yr😂saari galti iss ladki ki hai jo immature hokr relationship mei ghus gayi pehle smjho relationship kaise chalta hai aur uske consequences dekho,patani isse ik game banaya hua hai ki khelna hai hame😂
After hearing all these things I believe that no one but only she's responsible for her own miserable life. No one can go to that extent if u don't allow it. Don't victimize urself
@@Anjanakushwaha-di3hi duniya mein you will meet 100 types of people, let's not act like narcissists have some sort of super power, by doing that you give them all the power. You make decisions in YOUR life, and we should have the brain capacity to leave a situation.
@@Anjanakushwaha-di3hikitni immature ho tum yr ,esse ladkiya apni self respect aur boundaries ko katam kr deti hai esse ladko ke liye aur phir bolti hai ki love hai 😂,isse love nhi obsession kehte hai dost jo tumhe bhi hua hoga 😂
Absolutely...and how can you again ready for 2 time sex .. without condom..jab tum abortion ki tab tum apne app ko maa bol rhi thi yr 2 months bad tum sara maa ka Mamta bhul gyi and pregnant ho gyi ...chii chii
Heard whole story… have you heard yourself girl?? what message you want to spread, you’re equally responsible for the situations if you got to know about that guy after so many incidents then how can u live or 3 abortion is it joke no matter what situation was that time how can u justify your actions. Equally responsible
Immature thi vo bhot😂 aur chli bhi gyi ik bad boy ke pass 😂phir result toh yehi hona tha iska😂jab dikh rha hai ki dusra efforts nhi daal rha hai aur jab bhi uske piche bhagna hai toh yahi haal hoga agar vo mature hoti toh yeh jarur sochti ki yr yeh bnda efforts nhi daal rha hai
She has obviously been through so much, but a simple 'NO' could have saved her easily. If girls have good gut feeling, then this quality must be used to your safety right?
Exactly as a girl I agree with you, and I have saved myself always using my gut feeling, cuz i know women's intuition can never be wrong and vo na mature hai relationship me, bass ldke ko smjhne me immature thi, shuru se hi chor dena tha, but uski hi glti h ki vo use sah ri thi, aisi ldkiya hi to h bhai jo in kutto ko motivate kar ri , vrna abi tk aise boys Dianasor k sath mar jaye rhte , but aisi ldkiyo ne zinda rkha h inhe badhava dekr
When a girl is independent why they make such foolish decision. When she understand Narcissism and gas lighting then how she make such decision. Did she ever thought of her parents?
Ye sab jab face kr rhe hote hai tab samj nahi aata jab khatam hojata hai tab ye sab pata chlta hai ki kitna manipulate huye hai or kese janwar kai sath tha hum
Moral of the story: don’t do wife duties with a girlfriend status. You were a 25 year old woman when you started dating & entered into a consensual s3xual relationship. Medically, at age 25 your brain is fully developed to make long term decisions. From what you’ve said, there was no financial abu$e. In fact, you were providing for him. You could have always made better choices for yourself when you started noticing plenty of red flags. Always respect yourself more than you love someone.
@@Azulaozai._ sorry meine yeh video nhi dekhi hai ❤️ but esse maximum cases 17-20 years ke girls mei hoti hai shayad vo juth bol rhi hai kyuki 25 ki age mei toh har koi ladki mature ho jati hai 😂
@@Azulaozai._ juth bol rhi hogi kyuki ladkiya toh 25 tak mature ho hi jati hai essa immature love kis ladki ko hota hai vo bhi 25 ki age mei ya phir yeh relationship 18 mei shuru hua hoga aur 25 tak katam hua hoga waise meine yeh video nhi dekhi hai
This girl is something else!! Itana sab kuchh samaj aa raha tha toh why was she living with him? Or with him? Itana sab kuchh dikh raha hai toh mat raho iss extent tak jaane kaa right kyu dena when you already understand everything he was doing! Bahot faaltu tha yeh!
This is the problem bhai with narcissists. Woh log tumhare stand lete time apne ache aadat and ache time ki yaad dilate hai aur gaslight karte ki tum Kitni gande ho itna acha insaan ke bare me aisa socha. Tab tum me guilt trip chalu hojata hai. Kyu ki ladkiya neurological way me emotionally wired hote hai to ladkiya is situation meimmature/naive lagte hai But truth is tumhe jo sachdikh raha hota hai woh insaan exactly opposite sab kuch acha dikhadeta hai and you will have a hope that he's changing for you
@@SeeTeTharuniHello, yeh ladki bol rhi hai she's mentally and emotionally strong. She could have maintained a safe distance. Mai bhi ek narcissist insaan ke saath relationship mein aa chuka hu, but maine 3 months ke andar andar end kardiya sab without ranting. This is how emotionally strong people are supposed to deal with narcissists. Fyi, I'm just 23.
She looks grown up...if she doesn't want baby why not use protection n blaming society...n using a word mother ...aborting her babies for 3rd time ...don't act innocent...it's your fault girl..sorry to say that but ...n after u brokeup ...u were still in physical...yeh relationship thoda casual lagraha he😅...aap thoda casual nahi horahe ho..sis😂
I really admire your courage in sharing your story. It’s not easy to talk about such personal experiences. However, I hope you can reflect on the relationship and recognize that, after the first time, it might have been a sign that he wasn’t the right person for you. It’s important to prioritize your well-being and recognize when a relationship is unhealthy. You deserve someone who truly supports and respects you. I hope you can find that moving forward.❤
Yeh sex karne ke baad samjha Rahi hai ladke ko ki kaise doosri ladki ka apna tareeka hota hai pyaar karne ka time de उसको etc etc 😂😂like seriously! She is not even gen z I mean how dumb can she be or she is just pretending to be victim , actually she knew all of it from few months still continued with getting pregnant ३ times 😮
I agree to everything that he was manipulating,he was gaslighting,he was involved,he abused ,he didn’t support or cared for youuu ,writing down these terms ,only one of them is enough to take action for yourself,you were 25 mature independent,why Didn’t you took any step or thought about it ,you could’ve asked for help told someone’ what was happening,there are so many things you could’ve done ,not against youu but even kids nowadays knows what’s wrong and not good for them ,why were youu tolerating ??? We’re you having any childhood traumas or anything?
@@simranhere asking for help is not easy you know in the society inside of helping will start pointing fingers at you and will laugh on you judge you also because you set such a Rosy pic in front of others and then to tell them about the issue is very difficult In short it is not easy
Uss ladki ka conscious mind chlna bnd hogya tha sirf subconscious mind chl rha tha jismei vo ladka iss ladki ke life mei ik drug jaisa tha jisse vo chordna nhi chati thi ,yeh bad boys ik drug hote hai ladkiyo ke liye ,sach bata rha hun kabhi inke chkkar mei mat fasna nahi toh tumhara bhi yahi haal hoga aur tumhe pata bhi nhi chalega,yeh baat mei sabhi ladkiyo ko bol rha hun 😘
She killed 3 innocent life . just for sex .(Agar bachhe ko stable life nehi de sakte ye wo ladki janta thaa to kyun sex kar raha thha)she is so immature and irresponsible and cruel at same time. complete nonsense hai saab
plot twist : she is also a hardcore liar why I feel so - once she said she is 35 , once 30 once she said , her parents taught her to not discriminate on caste , sex etc , now she saying her parents wont accept christian and she said she did barbaad herself for a guy who she is okay to not get married to if her dad doesnt approve before you all go - ''u r insensitive and all'' for me , lemme be clear when this all started she must be 25+ , I have faced a similar situation when I was a teenager , still I had brain to quit the whole situation within few weeks , not once , twice !!! and I walked out gracefully with all my dignity and whenever he tried to manipulate k ''matt jao , matt jao'' , I stayed , once , twice , then , I told his truth to his then current girlfriend . I never received his call after that , 4 months later I did , it was for ''1 am call'' iykwim , I gave him duniya jahan ki gaali and cut his call . ps - i was then also a teenager found another guy in 2019 - similar , bashed him and in few months I quit .
Bhn tumne jaldi quit kr diya isliye becoz apke pass h itni brain capacity bss sbka situation, childhood, sb kuch alg hota h bhot sare incident hote h jisse brain instant ye sb nhi soch pata just becoz ap ne samjhdaari dikhai to jaruri nhi h ki sb wo kr paye
@Anjanakushwaha-di3hi 1. Mai uss time bhi bacchi hi thi , to be precise 17 . 2. I was feeling betrayed by my own parents at that time , so had felt like being alone in this whole world but in her case she was 25+ and a healthy bg 3. Its not only restricted to childhood thing only , when I grew up , whenever I found someone being only consumed in themselves, I have left them with proper assertive explanation.
@@vaish_20you are so strong yrr you know what when I was 17 same hapens with me now I am 19 bt jb hua tha kitna kuch phir me chor nhi paa rhi thi usse bhgwan ne churaya mujhe jbrdasti aj bhi kabhi id dekh leti hu to same emotion bt ab uske pass nhi jana balki ab to mujje sbse dar lgta h 🙂 wese here you are right ye didi ki bhi mistakr h bt wo yha pr burai ya esa kuch btane nhi aai balki aware kr rhi h ki kitna extreme jaa skta h ye sb apn jaldi chutt gye lekin bhot sare log bandhe rehte h bss wo whi bta rhi h unki jagah khade hote apn tb pta chlta
I want more on this topic I don't know how much she's right or wrong in this but her perspective through the video is tremendous and every girl or boy should lear from her Her perspective is so much great please bring more on this It's a humble request.
Narcissism and Anti-social Personality Disorder is both Genetic and Environment in which a person is raised. 💯 It is Bio-social problem. Studies on Twins raised apart shows there are 79% chances of inheriting NPD. Contrary to the popular belief, It is not caused by Trauma. 80% people have had traumatic events in their life. Some heal, others develop PTSD, cPTSD (Healing is possible with Right support and Mind-Body Approaches) NPD statistic is around 5-7%. If Trauma caused Narcissism won't the number be close to 80%. The correlation doesn't tally. Trauma doesn't cause Narcissism. It is often used as an excuse by Narcissistic people to gain sympathy and fill guilt in a person. When one feels sympathy towards a person, they don't seem dangerous to us. 🧠 Sympathy suppresses the Danger signal. ~ Brene Brown in "Atlas of the Heart" book 🗼
Are vo immature ladki thi uss time aur aaj bi hai 😂 but uss ladke ko yeh nhi pata ki backfire bhi aane wala hai uske pass 😂 blood cancer jaisi bhimari lagegi abh usse😂 meine bhot ladke dekhe hai jo essi maut marte hai aur mei toh bhot khus hota hun saalo aur khelo yeh fake love game
@@milimittal9752 I'm sure that she is also not correct because 3 time abortions... 1st time is mistake but 3rs time it is a pattern... So think with logically..... 👍
@@vidyashautecuisine720nhi dost yeh cheej 90% ladkiyo mei hota hai ,unke andar bhot emotions hote hai jab vo teenager hoti hai aur jab koi narcissistic ladka inki life mei aata hai toh phir vo submit ho jati hai 😂
@@vidyashautecuisine720 tum galat ho,vo ik game mei trap hogyi thi aur vo game khelna wala ik bad boy hota hai ,agar tum bhi uski jagah hoti toh maximum chance tha ki tum bhi apne aap ko usko submit kr deti
She said on the 11th day he checked out another girl in gym but then she said ki"Gym me sabko pta tha humare bare me itne time se" (Kitne time se 10 din??)
Bro it takes lots of guts to talk about these things publicly not only u all the girls have gone through something ❤hope u find peace and happiness ❣️ praying 🙏 for u and sending love 💟 may shankhar ji bless u ❤ love love
Bhayia jab ladki kisi ladke sai pyar krti hai or uske baad sab kuch dedeti hai toh vo sab kuch seheti hai ki shyd the person will change or manipulation bht burri chiz hai aap kai sath ho jati hai pata bhi nahi chlta...
@@jaishreeram9609yhi sabse badi bewakuffi h we all know what kind of people are living in this world so please don't be emotionally weak or mentally weak and most imp don't trust anyone blindly even you are in love
Yr itna toh confirm hai ki yeh ladki bhot immature hai ,isse decision lene hi nhi aate aur phir relationship mei padd jati hai jismei unhe dhokha jhelna padta hai 😂phir esse gaana ga rhi hoti hai podcast mei 😂
I think she is equally problematic….I mean dude when you guys are on break already you have suffered so much because of him then why are going to him again n again
Yesterday I just watched Darlings movie & the scenes which is in movie exactly same incident which she's telling 😢😢 Really got goosebumps by listening her story 😢 Sister, hope you will get strength to overcome 🙏
One time she said his place was her comfort zone and few min afterwards she says she couldnt sleep comfirtably in his place she is confused and used her and she was dumb
Exactly,,, how his home is her comfort zone... This is weird, which I noticed.. .if your partner is cheater and you have proof, u are self independent,, why you go back to his home again.
I also had narcissist bf... and literally the pain of dating those type of monsters is like hell...😢😢my ex bf said me that I'm a wife material but he needed a gf not wife rn...but he wanted to be settled with me in future and he wanted to explore ,date , hangout, exposure with other girls despite of being in a relationship with me... according to him I'm his og girlfriend and rest other girls would be for exploration...and when i left him after tolerating lots of abuse by him then he said i needed an excuse to leave him...he literally used tinder and chated , called in WhatsApp with some girls and wanted to prove that he had insane craze among girls...
I just can't process how u agreed to be with him after hearing such things?? I would have ran for my life I never understand why girls like to be with abusers despite knowing there reality that's a low iq activities
After one pregnancy you had the clear picture but you avoided that. Why? The way you are talking that you know the body language and all but still how can be you so blind? Then you are constantly saying...." Mai chhod deti kon smbhalta", you are the one who is saying " he was a drunkard" than why did you continue? Clear message for all those who think that they can handle their partner like their parents. No one can love their child more than their parents. Mummy Papa mt bna kro please dusro sb kuch dekhte hue bhi. "Maturity is when you realise that parents hume roke hai to sirf isliye unhone 20-25 saal duniya jyada dekhi hoti hai apse." I am 30 but I can say after so many abortion you will never be the same and your feeling of intimacy just gone. she herself saying that he never forced himself on her but still why she continued? We all have brains....tum dekhte hue b sehre ho why....but still she set an example for those who are blind in love. That love which is loosing its existence everyday in our Indian society.
I am sorry for whatever what she had to go through. But just an opinion, why did she go to his house and have sex initially after he called after the breakup.? She somewhere knew he was with other girl no. And after all the abortions and stuff why?
No offense but as an adult you can always see who is trying to manipulate you. If you ignored that and still got manipulated thats on you. Because ultimately you are the one making decisions for yourself. You could have asked your partner to use a contraceptive. You could have left before too. Ive dated a narcissist too and his mom dad sister who didnt existed before always used to pass away whenever iam about to leave. But its not impossible to leave. Its different if you are a minor kid cause kids dont know what manipulation is. You as an adult are responsible for your own life and actions. He was terrible sure why did you stayed then? You vould have said no to abortion too. Its your body, your child.
Ok I want to say that I have facing the same situation but things are changed and just because of my family I gave up because I don't want to suffer my family and he's doing all things with every girl
@@kuddipunjabdi7999I can't understand your pain but you take right decision I think you deserve better respect for you 😌I wish you found someone who genuinely loves you
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Dude ... When you did that brutal abortion the very first time and you were aware that he did not stood by your side also had no regrets.. than why the hell you slept with him the second time?
Then*
Because She has her brain ghutne me...
It is a trauma bonding
Becoz she is playing victim card..but actually she is also a playful woman
Exactly she should have left him ryt there....I know she got manipulated but after that incident she should have left the guy....
She said she knows the boundaries and got pregnant 3 times within 1 year with a very bad experience in the first time only I don’t understand this behaviour
@@dikshavazirani she said her boyfriend if I stay with uh in a pure relationship than after that I know my boundaries that I even can't see to other man like I see uh in my life
She said boundaries with her male frnd nd there is a huge difference between frnd and boyfriend
Have you ever came across this personality??
When you become physical I think it's hard to resist because your body wants it and you and your mind knows
@@dikshavazirani pyar naam ki koi cheez pata he? Nachahate huwe v loves makes u do things that u don't want to. And also to correct u, to get pregnant it's not in girl's control it's in boy's control. Usko toh Pata v nai chala hoga when he impregnated her, usne bola v hai that he used to come drunk and do such things.
After abortion it is advised by the doctor to wait at least 5-6 months to get pregnant again. How this generation is so obsessed about sex and having boyfriend and girlfriend. It sucks
Obviously, she was busy fucking around
it isn’t so easy to reveal yourself infront of world.But she did that. i have a huge respect to her that she took a right step
Aaj ke time mein sabko famous hona hai .kuch aisa bta kar jo normal logo ke liye samanay nahi hai.
Really hats off to this girl who express this kind of thing .. some people will say she's doing to get fame😂like seriously if you are thinking this ,then please aapko laana hoga fame isse tarah s ..( the way you think) saying all of this to get fame or bhi raaste h bhaai unke paas...can we please being human and appreciate her that she took the bold steps to come out from all of this ❤
@@shreyasonkar786bold nhi retard bolte hai ise, usne 1 nhi 2 nhi 3 baar abortion karwaya hai , khair tumhare palle nhi pdega mai kya kenna chahta tu
@@ArchanaSingh-yt1qmexactly
@@shreyasonkar786 lol being human to someone who aborted her babies THREE times?? 😂😂😂😂
If you truly believe in her stories, don’t you think its her pattern
1. sleep with the man and enjoy
2. kill the baby
3. repeat 😂
What is there to sympathize? Why to encourage such women?
Sleeping with someone you met on online platforms is your choice. A baby is a result of that choice. She herself said that sex was consented and there was no abuse or force involved sexually. Also, No one can force you to do something unless you allow it. I can totally understand when someone rapes a woman and an unwanted pregnancy happens. But this was her choice. She could have been on birth control pills after first pregnancy or from the time she decided to be sexually active with this person, or left the guy altogether or disallowed him to sleep with her. She saw the guy with that girl multiple times for months, he hit her.. yet she did not leave him. Once is a mistake, twice is idiocy but third time is just plain wrong.. Both parties are equally responsible. That little life suffered in all this immaturity and idiocy.
@@Wonderland559 I hope her future husband would watch this video before marrying
Narcissistic abuse and manipulation is not for everybody to wrap their head around. I would appreciate if you can learn more about it as it literally makes the victim loose control.
your camera quality and its angle has improved.... great work ... keep growing
People struggling in or after such relationships gonna feel a sense of validation and comfort with this podcast.Even if it helps one person,it is definitely worth it.
When u had one abortion why did u continue with the guy had 2 more three abortions .2 nd abortion after 15days it's not guys fault only its ur fault also.
Baat to shi h🌚🌚
I agree with you and i think when she knows about gym girl she should leave him 😢 and the alcohol is red flag for me
@@Naruto12.v 💯 alcoholism is big red flag and he is heavy alcoholism
@@nidhiverma03that one thing start fight so that is Red flag for me
She also was drinking na but occasionally
Pyar ma pagal ❌ pyar ma andhi kani disabled ✅
Yeh 17-19 ki age mei ziadatar ladkiyo ke sath hoti hai kyuki vo emotions ki bhuki hoti hai aur yeh sirf bad boy hi de skte hai aur nice guys ko yeh dena nhi aata jis vajah se vo friendzone ya cheat ho jate hai😂
@@switchyoutub ma bi issi age ki hu but bhagwan na dimag diya h use kro
@@simran_346 tumhe phir Mila nhi vo ladka 😂 jab milega na tumhare conscious mind chlna bnd ho jayega aur tumhara subconscious mind chlna shuru ho jayega tab game shuru hoga agar examples du toh 2 min ke liye saanse rok lo tumhe suffocation shuru hone lag jayega aur tum bheek mangogi ki pls mujhe oxygen do ,essa hi case ismei hota hai 😂mei dua krta hun tumhe koi nice guy mile ya agar mil gya hai toh bhot achi baat hai but agar vo tumhe emotions nhi de rha hai toh pls usse chordna mat okay dost 😂❤️
Being with a narcissist for over 3yrs myself, i believe every single words she says.
Really?
@@almostlucky god bless you 🥺
See I listened the story but the moment you got to know he was involved with other girl and had planned to propose and all why were you then still connected to him. Why were you still picking up his call why were you then still in his house. The person you have a long relationship with cannot be your friend ever after your breakup something or the other might creep in and you might end up having sex. You only said tumhe nhi jamta to tum nahi krti then why was you still with him after the first abortion. Clearly he was not the one you were aligned with. Tanvi i respect you but here you are wrong as well.
@@shahlajabbeen4677 but didn’t she mention ki he gaslit her and threatened s***side being a very probable reason for her being unable to leave
@@shahlajabbeen4677 easier said than done sister. Jis tan beete wo tan jaane duniya bas baaten banave
@@shahlajabbeen4677 You won't know until it happened to you
@@Aadi007able true..
As she mentioned he was a narcissist it's hard to get out of a narcissistic relationship.
I literally cried hearing her story. She is so strong! I can’t even imagine what she must have gone through and be able to handle her profession and personal life.
I'm sure the guy was good at s3x hence she did not leave him upon the first brutal abortion.
Girl grow up!
@@Bamboo-hp2xp lmao what? grow up for what?
@@bintesaraa wo to you will know when you grow up and look back to this
Grow up bro @@shreeyasavla
*Thik hai*
Unwanted, repetitive thoughts are a sign of OCD. With this type of anxiety disorder, you have recurring, unwanted thoughts you can't control. You may also have the urge to repeat certain behaviors or actions over and over again. Hence when she repeats words and other things she is going through mental health issues hence please co-operate
thek hai ❤
Exactly I am saying the same..she needs immediate therapy as her problem is aggravated and now she fell into trauma...
@@sriparnabharati not to worry we are looking after that in a good manner she is under safe help
@@Kissseywho is तितली??
@@coconutoil2196 the dog
It's not at all scripted, such narcissist people actually exist!! And It's easy to judge without being in her situation. It's really so difficult to get out from such relationship. But u should be that much strong enough for yourself to leave such a person.
With due respect... Who is she ? I really don't know her.
@@ritusarkar1420 even I don't know, I just watched the video randomly 🙃
@@nayakmanisha911 murderer of 3 children, slept three times with the same narcissist person
and now playing victim card😂😂😂🫡
Yes these type of people do exist
Waise story dukhbhari thi but i feel irritate from this line I was like she was like,he was like,thik hai ,dishank used in whole podcast.🙄
Same here bruh 😢😂😤
Girl you need to grow up, sabke bolna ka tarika hota hai!
@@akkuya_ yes but here I have shared my thought during watching this podcast.
@@NishuMishra-ff7og In the whole conversation I was only listening "Dishank" "I was like" "all of sudden" "thik hain"... Aur facial expressions ka kya hi kehna "mashallah"!!! The guy didn't force her to go physical.. It was consensual.. phir yeh victim card play kis baat ki!!!
In this case both the persons involved are equally responsible for what happened.
Exactly
Agreed
Welcome to narcissism!! You don’t know until you yourself go through it !!
Yes, ye yaha itni samajhdaar lag rahi hai to itni befkuf kaise thi pehle??
@@Priya_the_princess exactly 💯......... it's so easy to judge but the amount of torture and manipulation this girl has gone through can only be understood by a victim of narcissist abuse.
Thank you Tanvi for sharing your story. I can see in your eyes the strength it took you to share your story. Such evil people should be punished and not allowed to roam freely in society. Thanks for this taking the stand. Good Luck!
Yes ,after doing 3 abortion.what nonsense how can a person becomes so immature, irresponsible at same time 😂
@@moumitak but y tanvi h kon ?
@@jeebanjyotidas721617-19 ki ladkiyo mei hota hai yeh dost ,unke andar bhot emotions hote hai jo bad boy unhe dete hai aur vo obsessed ho jati hai usmei,ziadatar tumne kaale ladko ko khubsurat ladkiyo ke sath dekha hoga ,voi hote hai saale😂
Why should that boy get punished he doesn't force him self on her she had a consensual sexual relationship with her boyfriend that means she also wants this same
Why don't she leave when she finds him flipping from his words.? 3 times abortion is something not digestible.
@@nilamsoni1822 sahi bola
Becoz she is narcissist too
Because he's good-looking and rich...
Dating app me aise hi thodi na ladki milta hai
@@loveyourself-n6y wow what a thinking !
@@jayap1164 you know sometimes situation are like that you can't even help yourself...maybe she loved him truly and got manipulated ... because this type of boys personally ik ..they can manipulate people soo easily
She came to tell the story not because she doesn't know where all she made mistakes or how she has suffered. She came here tk tell her story, so the rest of us can save ourselves if ever we came across someone like this guy. She is telling her story, tl let us know the extent narcissists can go to to hurt someone. She is telling us her syory so we recognise such people and stay away from them. So we can make decisions that can protect us frkm such people. SHE DOESNT NEED AN ENTIRE COMMENT SECTION TO TELL HER WHERE SHE MADE MISTAKES. SO IF YOU DO NOT HAVE ANYTHJNG KIND TO SAY, OR POINT OUT WHAT U LEARNT FRKM HER EXPERIANCE, i recommend you shut up and keel your filthy words to your self
You are smart, but not everyone will be saving themselves when they see themselves sink
You are great 🙏
Tanvi sorry to say, you too were at fault.. Coming from a similar person who faced such relationship.. I still maintained that boundary.. We all have brains I know it's tough to resist when one is manipulating but How could you become intimate with the same person and make the circumstances repeat? .. A thing happening the first time we can call it mistake, the third time it's a pattern.. I know you have suffered but you gave him the permit to do that with you.. I too had similar relationship, I was abused but I made myself strong enough to put an end.. I know your circumstances were different but some how you were at fault too cause you let him treat you like that..
Very proud of u dear. I wish I could take the same steps like u. I have been through the same situation for 8 years and didn't realise it at all, I came to know about all his dark secrets after loosing all my savings and jewellery. He committed suicide and I came to know about his dark reality two months after his death.
They never force themselves on any female. They manipulate the strong kind of females with their love bombing...
Gaslingthing
Extreme level of Manipulation
Cunningness
Devaluation
Pathological lier
Energy suckker
Covert Narcissist, the most dangerous evil they are. It's very difficult to get one self out of their spell once u even come in touch with them.
@@pragatiroy9034 well u are mostly correct that repetition of same thing is somewhat your own consent but one needs to accept that few people wakes late than other. But it doesn’t mean they wanted to be abused. It’s just life.
@@aishwaryr than blaming the late awakening doesn't makes you right.. part of you are at fault too.. if you're old enough to go in a relationship even when she knew he had been sleeping around, she still went to his flat and had s€x .. IDK but as I said I had similar experience and if you just stick around that, you just accept the abuse, yes, noone wants to be abused but then sticking around the abuser and blaming it won't work..
@@pragatiroy9034I totally agree what you said but empathy is better than anger. I know such repetitive behaviour towards abuser doesn’t make u less criminal. I feel through your words resentment and anger. May be I’m wrong just my thought seriously no offence.
@@aishwaryr no, I get it where you're coming from actually.. I would have felt empathy as well if this behaviour would have stopped a bit before that... Tanvi was connected with her friends and family, I'm sure they would have told her multiple times to leave this guy and what not.. cause you can see right her bruises are quite visible... So, I don't feel empathy towards her.. I would have if she had worked on it before that also she has soo many evidences and she isn't putting that guy behind bars for soo long that's even more annoying.. she knew he was a drug addict and substance abuser still went on to live with him for 5 fking years and become a heavy drunker herself!? And she was okay knowing he was using other women as well and she has been used as herself.. she is not a victim in my eyes, she just went along with it.. and she is more responsible in it.. also I do feel that you feel empathy for her, I'm not denying the fact she went through that much pain, I pity her for her loss but I don't pity her as a victim that's all..
Self control is necessary when it's about drink or sex. What I think is there were so many so many red flags, but if you are ignoring then you will suffer.. it's high time to understand once a thief always a thief.
Yeh 17-19 ki age mei ziadatar ladkiyo ke sath hoti hai kyuki vo emotions ki bhuki hoti hai aur yeh sirf bad boy hi de skte hai aur nice guys ko yeh dena nhi aata jis vajah se vo friendzone ya cheat ho jate hai😂
Heard the full story.. After going to through so much.. She still has that beautiful smile on her face..Definitely a pure soul!! Tanvi if you are reading this, I want to let you know that You are beautiful and deserve the world!! May God fill all of your voids with peace and happiness in life❤❤
Kissey please pass this message to her..
Lol
Pure soul ❌
Pure redflag ✅
Not at all bro
@@loveyourself-n6y how is she the red flag here?
@@loveyourself-n6y aise hi log hote hai jo sahi person ko niche girate hai, discourage karte, You cant understand her atleast don't use your cheap words for her
Aise hi log society mai dusro girate hai
She is really strong and spoke the whole story.. hats off... people should take lesson and stand for themselves when needed
Dishank ko itna dishank uski puri aaj tak ki life me sab ne mil k nhi bola hoga jitni inhone boldiya hai
@@Fantoo231 yaah for sure 😹
@@Fantoo231 😂😂
How can she abort so many times even after her bf was so abusive? You can go for an abortion once by mistake but how come twice, thrice in a Year one after the other? That means she was also very physical with him despite all the wrong he was doing. Ye ladki bhi kuch kam nahi dikh rahi. You can not get real relationships on Bumble.
whi to
Exactly
Because She knows her limits 😂😂 her limit is three times😂
Correct
I think .. she wanted to save her relationship in any situation so she couldnot take right decision. Mere though me Usne apni ijjat or relation ke liye kari hogii .. guys don't paste your negative thought everywhere . Sabki apni apni reason hoti he..
She used to keep all the proofs since the beginning for what ? She knew things are wrong already.. Something is fishy here!
How many of you think it's scripted, not offensive but i think no girl would tolerate so much .
@@shwetanivkar1841 Yes it sounds scripted
@@shwetanivkar1841 she has said in the podcast that she tried to leave him but he didn't let her ...and that bleeding one also...
I'm not being rude so don't think like that
@@ayushisharma1753 you not rude dear, it was my perception about her story
@@shwetanivkar1841 i think u should listen carefully who goes throw this situation they knows
Im not saying the guy was good boy or anything but its ít weird he was ok for 4 years and suddenly 7 months k liye he became monster bit confusing..
How can you sponsor his 4beers/day i mean why would you do that?
3 abortions I mean are you serious? Bro why would you even talk to this person if he is flipping infront of doctor his another gf
I know she has been through alot and all but dono bhi red flag ho jo etne red flag ignore kr dia tum logo ne
As you are claiming your smart independent girl empath n all to thida dimag hi laga leti😅
And then some people find all this inspiring 🤦
I think She is inspired from Bollywood😂
@@hemurana6711 yeah she is from industry no😂
The girl herself is redflag
1bar abortion hogya 2bar 3 bar 4bar se kaise Bach gyi 😅😅kya chal rha bhai 😂😂
She is trying so hard to be mature but is failing miserably.
She is disturbed
Completely agree
Yeh ladki pehle se hi Immature thi😂 mature kya ghanta banegi
This is crazy.... she says they had broken up and he calls and she goes upto him and gets physical again....this means that she herself can't control herself and puts the blame solely on him. Both are equally reaponsible....
Bhai when you are in love you definetly can't control, usme glti ni h uski
Peoples are in comment section judging her but I tell you all that I have the same situation and yaha kya hota hai n hamare sath manipulate ho jate hai or eshe bhot sari cheeze hote hai n ki samjha nhi ata kese explain karu itni bate hote hai or wo insaan breakup krne ke liye bhi ready nhi bas pareshan krna hai relationship me reh kr I'm totally understand her plz don't judge her
He is just using her by manipulating n she is dumb every girl knows what to do
Insaan ki buddhi le k ghoom rahe ho na. Itne incidences ho gaye abhi usko bolri ki pyar karti hai uss se. Hey bhagwan
@@Butterfly99852 yes you're so right...and can feel that pain...
@@supriyadaswani1930 yes when it happen at 1st time why she is not leave that person. U r also responsible 50%
@@Butterfly99852 haar chizz pe Gaslight Gaslight karta tha koi bhi itna pagal nahi hota ek baar abortion hua uske baad vaps vahi galti karege tabhi ye apna stand le sakti thi kahi to inki bhi galti ha ye bol sakti thi sirf ladke ki galti nahi ho sakti somewhere her fault is also there
First of all the way this girl is telling the story seems she has gone through a very proud moment just because you don't have self control you ended 3 little lifes
you do understand the basic concept of how a baby comes right. A man A woman. It's sad ki abortion becomes the girl's ability to not be able to evade sex as if men don't hold any fucking responsibility towards having unprotected sex. Seeing as how the girl was manipulated, it's quite easy to see why she had to go through three abortions.
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@@Khushisingh-hf8yj maybe she's a masochist or martyr..like those people who love to stay sad surrounded by problems this arises due to past traumas loosing a parent like her mom seriously affected he a lot..she loves to stay in a vulnerable depressed state and narcissistic people feed on that
@@smritikumari4088 I guess you must be knowing that sex is a mutual concerned decision I totally understand maybe she was manipulated but how can she not understand things for 2 more consistent times it is so much traumatising to loose a baby how can she not speak for herself
@@Khushisingh-hf8yj that's how manipulation works though. Even after physical assault she didn't leave him. He could easily sweettalk her into having it bare and not use condom. She or even he didn't think it would lead to pregnancy but point is still the same. The mistake could have been avoided if she could say no to him, sadly in this case she could not.
bhai usne sex kar liya kya hota hai, you also wanted to have sex right?
he didn’t rape you
so why only blame the guy
like you wanna have sex with him but he’s wrong?
@@snipeshottrades yh true samjh ni ai ke relationship khatam thi and still she did with him
😅usne call kiya ...mai gyi ...pehle usne sex kr liya .. aur isko pta nhi chla iske sath kya ho raha h..kuch bhi boll rahi h
Want to hear the man's side too
@@mamtajoshi7985 🤣🤣😅
Galti se ho gya hoga bhai samjha uski takleef 😅
1:01:42 Do these girls have no self respect? This guy is cheating both of them and still they are giving him an option to choose one of them? Such low self respect man! I can’t believe. Tanvi, if this story is true, that guy is clearly a gone case, but you too were at fault in this entire story.
Yeh 17-19 ki age mei ziadatar ladkiyo ke sath hoti hai kyuki vo emotions ki bhuki hoti hai aur yeh sirf bad boy hi de skte hai aur yeh cheej nice guys ko dena nhi aata jis vajah se vo friendzone ya cheat ho jate hai😂
This is the kind of mentality a person should have. This girl stand for herself and that's why she didn't end up being miserable. I just love her❤.
@@pml8662 pkka ussi ladke ne chord diya hoga isse 😂 isne nhi chorda 😂sabse dukh ki baat toh yeh hai ki abh vo ladka iske dimag se kabhi nhi niklega aur yeh cheej iske husband ko jhelna padega bichara 😭
I think its too important video for teen girls or emotional girls. You are so strong tanvi really proud on you, you have open million girls situation and eye's.
😂tum jitni marji essi videos le aao yeh ladkiya bebkoob bnti rahegi esse narcissistic ladko se and you know school time mei nice guys bhot hote hai aur unse pyar tum ladkiyo ko hota nhi hai😂tumhe pyar bhi narcissistic ladko se hota hai
Ones a cheater always a cheater (upon that people like him a not just cheater but also a criminal 🍂)
People who are roasting or blaming her are the one who didn't listen to the whole video
Live in relationship is totally wrong
Immature ladki ko sahi bolna bhi galat hai
@@vidyashautecuisine720after marriage kalesh sehi hain?
Having sexual relation with out marriage results in such horrible ways
Narcissistic men target the most intelligent and strongest woman and then break them. They ain’t for the weak. They always attract an empath in their life as they easily get emotionally manipulated. Moreover, men who don’t know how to respect woman will always face financial challenges. We represent and bring growth and abundance.
She said Deshank for like 10000000 times😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
@@Ruqaiyyaali-uy1yh and also the word "thik h "
@@AnanyaDeb-x1b and I was like😭
@@Ruqaiyyaali-uy1yh yess.... And it's really irritate
@@Ruqaiyyaali-uy1yh kyuki vo ik bad boy se patt chuki thi jo bhot dangerous boys hote hai in love game,abh yeh ladki apni akhri saans tak uska naam leti rahegi 😂
Bro you bring so crazy storys for us thanks for that I lean lot of things from every podcast you upload
To the people commenting this and that you really need to see that how a strong upbringing looks like just because she is smiling and so fiercely stating whatever she gone through is truly commendable . Kuch logo ko adat hai ki victim humesha rota dhota rhey coz that's the image which is being potrayed in the society of victims , it's quite evident that educated people are behaving the same .Aur rahi baat abortion bhai pyar m chutiya banna suna h ? shyd hum sb hote h kahi nh kahi aur time se smbhl jatey h kuch barbad ho jatey h buri trh ya barbad hote hote smbhltey h .Let's be a little sensible on what a narcissist person looks like and figure them around us . Kudos to you bro wishing you much more love and be strong
Kya majak hai bhai she did 3 abortion and your saying people are wrong.how can a person becomes immature and irresponsible at same time 😂. Mistake ekbaar hota hai bar bar nehi😂
@@jeebanjyotidas7216right 👍👍👍
@@jeebanjyotidas7216 You have no idea what she went through. This is the best example of brainwash n manipulation.
@@ritunegi7735 bro upbringing iski weak hi hai, I feel because she isn't properly taught the concept of self worth and self respect. Jab ek baar galti ho na usko galti mana jaa sakta hai jab 3 baar galti ho na usko gadha hona bola jaata hai.
@@jeebanjyotidas7216bro immature thi vo
This is the best example of what a characterless person look like
3 times abortion is not a joke
She is narcissist and immature
Not confronting the boy here
But the girl is totally immature and potraying herself as a strong independent women
Like shut upp
And to all those who are comenting she is so brave
Just google brave ladies and you will find who is brave!!!!
Totally disguised
Agreed.👍 Agar aap itne hi strong ho to apko apne aur apne emotions ke upar control hota hai....3baar abortion hogya still aap ussi ldke k sath ho and calling yourself strong....shyd kuch misconceptions hh inhe strong word ko lekar.🥴😑
@@AmishaVerma-lp4vn victim is someone who is forced to do something
Here she is clearly independent of her choices and no one forced her to have physical relationship
It was consentfully done
She herself is the reason for the harm
Tum jo bhi ho but tum jitna mature insan meine Aaj Tak nhi dekha ,dost tumne bilkul sahi bola vo ladki immature thi aur uski age some 20-25 thi jab uske sath yeh hua aur iss age mei mostly girls mature ho jati hai but yeh maharani needs ki bhuki thi pls bhagvan meri essi ladki se shadi mat krvana kyuki mei arrange marriage krunga😂
@@switchyoutub
Ok bro lakin pehle proper research karna warna arrange mai aysa he kachra milta hai 😂
@@Haniiii2 aree esse mat bolo. tum toh mujhe drra rhe ho 🙁
Maturity is realising her not removing him from her life as early as possible was her biggest mistake
People who have not met monsters dont know how manipulative they are so pls if u cannot be sympathetic dont be judgmental. Its very easy to say chod dena tha ya defend krna tha khud ko but u dont know the level of such boys.
Right
@@aasthatanwar8485 right i also got in this type of situation but get out at right time
Exactly
...I have also faced this type of thing.....but luckily pregnancy part was not there ...but yes ,my person was also dating many girls behind me ...I just hate that person and regret for wasting my precious time for such kind of fuckboy.....but yes,these people are very manipulative ..
Fine if she was in love and couldn't leave him in time, but getting pregnant and killing life back to back three times in a years is too much, just because women are capable of giving birth doesn't mean you can be so immature and kill. Doing Karna is our choice giving it back is his
@@Tribe138 what you think married ones do these lot because they can't give a life to bunch these type of pills used by hundreds of them just they kept it a secret from everi
How are people not picking up on the fact that she had willingly s3x with him when they were broken up and he was in a relationship with someone.
Are vo ladki obsessed ho chuki thi uss ladke ke sath aur ladka ik bad boy aur mostly girls esse ladko se obsessed ho jati hai jisse unhe pata nhi chalta ki kya chl rha hai unki life mei bss jo vo bolega voi kregi
All powers to you girl ❤.People stop blaming her she was strong enough to come out and speak. Not every one can deal with manipulator and narcissist. Glad she stood for herself and is setting the example for us..
usne call kiya ...mai gyi ...pehle usne sex kr liya.. aur isko pta nhi chla iske sath kya ho raha h..kuch bhi boll rahi h
Pehli baat vo ladka hi chordkr gya hai isse vo juth bol rhi hai 😂 dusri baat vo ladka bad boy personality tha jo ki ik drug hote hai nice girls ke liye 😂
I feel like I dated the same guy 😂 I think narcissists have a common pattern.
.
= Extremely Manipulative.
= Hypocritical.
= Love bombing.
= Completely normal after ugly fights.
= Maintains a very nice self image.
= Anger issues.
= Extremely Suspicious & Controlling.
= Possessive about you and blame you regarding another guy, but he'd himself be flirtatious about other women.
= Blame you for faults you didn't do.
= Will give a deaf ear to whatever justification and logic you'll give, he won't understand logics.
= 0 empathy & totally insensitive to your sorrow, pain & discomfort.
@@stutihaith2110 Really every narcissists have the same pattern. I can relate each n everything what she told.
Truee i thought somehow she was dating my ex
Same it felt like she was talking about my ex😂
get a job
Pagal usse pyar nhi kehte ,yeh saara kuch tumhara subconscious mind kra rha tha aur rahi conscious mind ki vo toh tumhara tab chalta hai jab tum thodi bhot mature ho jati ho 😂 phir koi ik lallu se nice boy se shadi kr leti ho😂phir uske baad apne bacho ko smjhati ki beta kabhi esse mat bnna😂 tum ladkiya kabhi nhi sudrogi
When I see ur video I feel ki youth today is so misguided and aim less only thing they know is be in a relationship and then get out of that
Shurt upp guyssss...😠
What you all are talking it's serious
@@vaishalikokate935 Chill out.. What he means is the influence of Hookup Culture on our society has increased a lot compared to the previous generation...
Damn true
Relationships ❌
Physical relationships ✅
I must say, Sorry to say.......
you were immature, you are immature and you will be. (dumb bolna chahta hu...but immature achha lagega)
That's it!!!
so true
Literally... Abhi bhi wo immature jaise behave kr rhi hai.. And bol rhi hai ki ab mature ban gayi hu.. Seriously.. Duniyadari samjh behen.. Sirf banda handsome hai isla matlab ye nahi hai na ki uska चरित्र bhi handsome hoga😂. GROW UP Girl🙏
@@kajalgaikwad7903Finally koi toh ladki ke pass dimag hai aur logically socha... ❤
Yes exactly 💯 percent
Absolutely bro
So dear audience its better that you all put yourself in her shoes and understand what she want to mean its better than judging her by your own perspective... its hard if someone has gone through this things its freaking hard to express rather than judging her by the way she is talking its better to understand her.....PUT URSELF IN HER SHOESS than u will understand what she really meant!!!!!!!!
Jo straightforward hogi vo toh kabka chord deti esse ladko ko😂
I'm 24 year old, still single or virgin 😌 single rho bhai
Yeahhhh 🙌🫂
Ladke ho kya bhai😂
Hat's off to the girl openly sharing all these things. Learned a lot from this video.
You are educated girl. U should take care of this issue. Nd you were knowing about that toxic person. Aur एक बार नाही तीन बार होणा. Means you were wrong. Because he is not a good person
Jab koi immature insan relationship mei jayega toh essa hi result payega
It's take lot of courage to come publicly like this ....Hats off darling to you .I know PPL start judging you but I know how madly girls can be when they are in love ....
@@shikasharma3809 judging like seriously. The whole story is scripted by her own. What hats off in her case she is staying with the toxic person 7 years long. If she couldn't see what is right and what is wrong nothing matters what she is doing in so called love. And this is not love.
@@aditrisingh3054 So tell me why divorce happens after many years of marriage?
@@Uncut_she here she can make a choice she is today's girl not 1860s where all the dependency is on her husband. One of the key factor of compelling these abuses and not to apart from the husbands is fear of society, burden on own family, dependency on husbands
@@Uncut_she Now we are encouraging females not to sustain in the marriage where you have to face such abuses on the regular basis. So what kind of example she is giving tha female can tolerate these abuses for long term even when you are independent enough to care of yourself by own.
@@aditrisingh3054 you know what the main problem is those narcissistic persons have split personality means when there is no fighting between those two person at the point they become very normal they do care for u & do everything a person do in a healthy relationship. Butttt when you don't obey them they come to their orginal form. So in this scenario you will feel there is fight in every relationship & even between our parents did they become separated? No!!!. And also they create the situation like the problem is between you not them. Actually I am a victim of the same thing!!He forced me to do some sexual activities whenever I denied he abused me & told that you don't have any sexual feelings so at that point I started to doubt myself that most probably he is true & the problem is in between me!! But yaa I hv self control & after bearing those things for several months finally I broke up. But it's not the first time I tried to being seperate but each n every time he did emotional blackmail. But at last I was so pissed off I decided to broke up & I was ready for the circumstances. 🙂
Dishank, the host, bhai agar tu padh rha h ye comment toh iss ladki se dur reh...i am a girl..and i can sense something very much terrible about this girl..
@@jk-le1kt sahi hai behen...bahar khatarnak hai ye ladki
So true. I feel sorry for whatever happened with her that boy must be a *terrible* human being according to her. But as a girl I sense something off too + this girl is victimising herself alot. Like bro it was 100% your choice to just kick his balls when things went wrong the first time.
bro, I agree with you, I mean things are wrong jo bhi hua iske sath but, to this extreme without her consent or involvement is not possible.
True
Uss ladke ki koi galti nhi hai yr😂saari galti iss ladki ki hai jo immature hokr relationship mei ghus gayi pehle smjho relationship kaise chalta hai aur uske consequences dekho,patani isse ik game banaya hua hai ki khelna hai hame😂
After hearing all these things I believe that no one but only she's responsible for her own miserable life. No one can go to that extent if u don't allow it. Don't victimize urself
I am definitely sure you never met a narcissist to bhai samjh nhi skte to bolo bhi mt
@@Anjanakushwaha-di3hi duniya mein you will meet 100 types of people, let's not act like narcissists have some sort of super power, by doing that you give them all the power. You make decisions in YOUR life, and we should have the brain capacity to leave a situation.
Do uh even know her personally?
@@FurnaceB brain capacity hi to brkr ho jaati h and agr aap ek childhood trauma leke chl rhe ho fir to hell mtlb
@@Anjanakushwaha-di3hikitni immature ho tum yr ,esse ladkiya apni self respect aur boundaries ko katam kr deti hai esse ladko ke liye aur phir bolti hai ki love hai 😂,isse love nhi obsession kehte hai dost jo tumhe bhi hua hoga 😂
December mei abortion n she got pregnant again in Feb 🫣🤔🙄 woh drink kr k krta tha tum toh hosh mei thi ?
@@SheetalBulbul5580 exactly 💯🙂
Absolutely...and how can you again ready for 2 time sex .. without condom..jab tum abortion ki tab tum apne app ko maa bol rhi thi yr 2 months bad tum sara maa ka Mamta bhul gyi and pregnant ho gyi ...chii chii
Haan....sch me....
Plz dont judge bcoz noone knows her situation,nd girls cant move so quickly in love.
dont judge quickly bcz you dont know the situation of that girl how she is facing issues and conflicts. be practical and gain some maturity
Heard whole story… have you heard yourself girl?? what message you want to spread, you’re equally responsible for the situations if you got to know about that guy after so many incidents then how can u live or 3 abortion is it joke no matter what situation was that time how can u justify your actions. Equally responsible
@@SherKhan-wz9eg yes u r ryt
U r ryt...
Immature thi vo bhot😂 aur chli bhi gyi ik bad boy ke pass 😂phir result toh yehi hona tha iska😂jab dikh rha hai ki dusra efforts nhi daal rha hai aur jab bhi uske piche bhagna hai toh yahi haal hoga agar vo mature hoti toh yeh jarur sochti ki yr yeh bnda efforts nhi daal rha hai
I m 21 years old and i m single.. I have learnt a lot from u..
Abh koi fayeda nhi hai kyuki yeh yeh sab 16-18 tak hota hai❤ abh tum mature ho gyi ho aur esse ladko se nhi phasogi but vakt ka kuch nhi pata
She has obviously been through so much, but a simple 'NO' could have saved her easily. If girls have good gut feeling, then this quality must be used to your safety right?
Exactly as a girl I agree with you, and I have saved myself always using my gut feeling, cuz i know women's intuition can never be wrong and vo na mature hai relationship me, bass ldke ko smjhne me immature thi, shuru se hi chor dena tha, but uski hi glti h ki vo use sah ri thi, aisi ldkiya hi to h bhai jo in kutto ko motivate kar ri , vrna abi tk aise boys Dianasor k sath mar jaye rhte , but aisi ldkiyo ne zinda rkha h inhe badhava dekr
When a girl is independent why they make such foolish decision. When she understand Narcissism and gas lighting then how she make such decision. Did she ever thought of her parents?
Ye sab jab face kr rhe hote hai tab samj nahi aata jab khatam hojata hai tab ye sab pata chlta hai ki kitna manipulate huye hai or kese janwar kai sath tha hum
@@jaishreeram9609 3times galti?
@@jaishreeram9609bhai tu sahi bol rha hai
Moral of the story: don’t do wife duties with a girlfriend status.
You were a 25 year old woman when you started dating & entered into a consensual s3xual relationship. Medically, at age 25 your brain is fully developed to make long term decisions.
From what you’ve said, there was no financial abu$e. In fact, you were providing for him. You could have always made better choices for yourself when you started noticing plenty of red flags.
Always respect yourself more than you love someone.
Yeh story iski 17-20 ke beech ki hai 😂 juth bol rhi hai ki 25 mei shuru hui hai , mostly ladkiya immature hoti hai 17-22 ki age mei
@@switchyoutub no. Watch the video fully. She said that it started when she was 25 & now she's 31.
@@Azulaozai._ sorry meine yeh video nhi dekhi hai ❤️ but esse maximum cases 17-20 years ke girls mei hoti hai shayad vo juth bol rhi hai kyuki 25 ki age mei toh har koi ladki mature ho jati hai 😂
@@Azulaozai._ juth bol rhi hogi kyuki ladkiya toh 25 tak mature ho hi jati hai essa immature love kis ladki ko hota hai vo bhi 25 ki age mei ya phir yeh relationship 18 mei shuru hua hoga aur 25 tak katam hua hoga waise meine yeh video nhi dekhi hai
@@switchyoutub 17-22 mein those girls are are actual victims, bhai
This girl is something else!! Itana sab kuchh samaj aa raha tha toh why was she living with him? Or with him? Itana sab kuchh dikh raha hai toh mat raho iss extent tak jaane kaa right kyu dena when you already understand everything he was doing! Bahot faaltu tha yeh!
This is the problem bhai with narcissists. Woh log tumhare stand lete time apne ache aadat and ache time ki yaad dilate hai aur gaslight karte ki tum Kitni gande ho itna acha insaan ke bare me aisa socha. Tab tum me guilt trip chalu hojata hai. Kyu ki ladkiya neurological way me emotionally wired hote hai to ladkiya is situation meimmature/naive lagte hai
But truth is tumhe jo sachdikh raha hota hai woh insaan exactly opposite sab kuch acha dikhadeta hai and you will have a hope that he's changing for you
Upar se ye b confess kia usne ki wo already kisi aur k sath hai.phir b isko taang ladani hai bich me
@@hmenterprise112 because of love 🥹 itna jalti xor nahi jayega bad me thak Jana he fir dil mar jata he to xorsakte he 🥹
Scripted he yeh sab
@@SeeTeTharuniHello, yeh ladki bol rhi hai she's mentally and emotionally strong. She could have maintained a safe distance. Mai bhi ek narcissist insaan ke saath relationship mein aa chuka hu, but maine 3 months ke andar andar end kardiya sab without ranting. This is how emotionally strong people are supposed to deal with narcissists. Fyi, I'm just 23.
She looks grown up...if she doesn't want baby why not use protection n blaming society...n using a word mother ...aborting her babies for 3rd time ...don't act innocent...it's your fault girl..sorry to say that but ...n after u brokeup ...u were still in physical...yeh relationship thoda casual lagraha he😅...aap thoda casual nahi horahe ho..sis😂
@@Calm12654 bilkul sahi ... She does not look innocent either 😀😀
@@Sonalispeaks ...once a mistake twice a blunder ya ...
she is the real victim of narcissistic abuse.
Around 100 millions girls yehi chij face krti hai apni life mei 😂 aur yeh saza ik nice guy jhelta hai😂
I really admire your courage in sharing your story. It’s not easy to talk about such personal experiences. However, I hope you can reflect on the relationship and recognize that, after the first time, it might have been a sign that he wasn’t the right person for you. It’s important to prioritize your well-being and recognize when a relationship is unhealthy. You deserve someone who truly supports and respects you. I hope you can find that moving forward.❤
Yeh sex karne ke baad samjha Rahi hai ladke ko ki kaise doosri ladki ka apna tareeka hota hai pyaar karne ka time de उसको etc etc 😂😂like seriously! She is not even gen z I mean how dumb can she be or she is just pretending to be victim , actually she knew all of it from few months still continued with getting pregnant ३ times 😮
In 120 minutes , 1120000 times name DISHANK was used 😅 ! But the rest is ‘ girl hats off to you , you are so strong !
I agree to everything that he was manipulating,he was gaslighting,he was involved,he abused ,he didn’t support or cared for youuu ,writing down these terms ,only one of them is enough to take action for yourself,you were 25 mature independent,why Didn’t you took any step or thought about it ,you could’ve asked for help told someone’ what was happening,there are so many things you could’ve done ,not against youu but even kids nowadays knows what’s wrong and not good for them ,why were youu tolerating ??? We’re you having any childhood traumas or anything?
@@simranhere asking for help is not easy you know in the society inside of helping will start pointing fingers at you and will laugh on you judge you also because you set such a Rosy pic in front of others and then to tell them about the issue is very difficult
In short it is not easy
Uss ladki ka conscious mind chlna bnd hogya tha sirf subconscious mind chl rha tha jismei vo ladka iss ladki ke life mei ik drug jaisa tha jisse vo chordna nhi chati thi ,yeh bad boys ik drug hote hai ladkiyo ke liye ,sach bata rha hun kabhi inke chkkar mei mat fasna nahi toh tumhara bhi yahi haal hoga aur tumhe pata bhi nhi chalega,yeh baat mei sabhi ladkiyo ko bol rha hun 😘
She killed 3 innocent life . just for sex .(Agar bachhe ko stable life nehi de sakte ye wo ladki janta thaa to kyun sex kar raha thha)she is so immature and irresponsible and cruel at same time. complete nonsense hai saab
plot twist : she is also a hardcore liar
why I feel so -
once she said she is 35 , once 30
once she said , her parents taught her to not discriminate on caste , sex etc , now she saying her parents wont accept christian
and she said she did barbaad herself for a guy who she is okay to not get married to if her dad doesnt approve
before you all go - ''u r insensitive and all'' for me , lemme be clear when this all started she must be 25+ , I have faced a similar situation when I was a teenager , still I had brain to quit the whole situation within few weeks , not once , twice !!!
and I walked out gracefully with all my dignity and whenever he tried to manipulate k ''matt jao , matt jao'' , I stayed , once , twice , then , I told his truth to his then current girlfriend . I never received his call after that , 4 months later I did , it was for ''1 am call'' iykwim , I gave him duniya jahan ki gaali and cut his call . ps - i was then also a teenager
found another guy in 2019 - similar , bashed him and in few months I quit .
Bhn tumne jaldi quit kr diya isliye becoz apke pass h itni brain capacity bss sbka situation, childhood, sb kuch alg hota h bhot sare incident hote h jisse brain instant ye sb nhi soch pata just becoz ap ne samjhdaari dikhai to jaruri nhi h ki sb wo kr paye
@Anjanakushwaha-di3hi 1. Mai uss time bhi bacchi hi thi , to be precise 17 .
2. I was feeling betrayed by my own parents at that time , so had felt like being alone in this whole world but in her case she was 25+ and a healthy bg
3. Its not only restricted to childhood thing only , when I grew up , whenever I found someone being only consumed in themselves, I have left them with proper assertive explanation.
@@vaish_20you are so strong yrr you know what when I was 17 same hapens with me now I am 19 bt jb hua tha kitna kuch phir me chor nhi paa rhi thi usse bhgwan ne churaya mujhe jbrdasti aj bhi kabhi id dekh leti hu to same emotion bt ab uske pass nhi jana balki ab to mujje sbse dar lgta h 🙂 wese here you are right ye didi ki bhi mistakr h bt wo yha pr burai ya esa kuch btane nhi aai balki aware kr rhi h ki kitna extreme jaa skta h ye sb apn jaldi chutt gye lekin bhot sare log bandhe rehte h bss wo whi bta rhi h unki jagah khade hote apn tb pta chlta
Online, dating app, Love relationship is so scary 💀
She is giving so sheddy vibes 💀
@@Ugcwithmaaha it's shady**
I want more on this topic
I don't know how much she's right or wrong in this but her perspective through the video is tremendous and every girl or boy should lear from her
Her perspective is so much great please bring more on this
It's a humble request.
@@twinkledhamgaye hr sentence k piche y thik h bolti h 🥰🥰 mere jese or story bhi kafi same h 😢
dishank dishank throughout the conversation 🎉
@@MuOdiaSpider thik hai? Thik hai l
@@shweta__gaikarwo v he
Ohhhh really year😢
@@MuOdiaSpider yeh toh uske marne ke time Tak rahega abh vo ladka bichara jo bhi iska husband banega uska kya hoga 😂
Narcissism and Anti-social Personality Disorder is both Genetic and Environment in which a person is raised. 💯
It is Bio-social problem.
Studies on Twins raised apart shows there are 79% chances of inheriting NPD.
Contrary to the popular belief, It is not caused by Trauma.
80% people have had traumatic events in their life. Some heal, others develop PTSD, cPTSD (Healing is possible with Right support and Mind-Body Approaches)
NPD statistic is around 5-7%. If Trauma caused Narcissism won't the number be close to 80%. The correlation doesn't tally.
Trauma doesn't cause Narcissism. It is often used as an excuse by Narcissistic people to gain sympathy and fill guilt in a person.
When one feels sympathy towards a person, they don't seem dangerous to us. 🧠
Sympathy suppresses the Danger signal.
~ Brene Brown in "Atlas of the Heart" book 🗼
If you read "It ends with us" you will understand about the manipulation of toxic relationships.. and how domestic violence occur..
@@sampasarkar4267 so true
@@sampasarkar4267 exactly
Are vo immature ladki thi uss time aur aaj bi hai 😂 but uss ladke ko yeh nhi pata ki backfire bhi aane wala hai uske pass 😂 blood cancer jaisi bhimari lagegi abh usse😂 meine bhot ladke dekhe hai jo essi maut marte hai aur mei toh bhot khus hota hun saalo aur khelo yeh fake love game
I'm blessed that I get to see this and I will always be myself and stand for myself in ever situation thank you diii❤ love you
Her way of talking is so filmy.
@@milimittal9752 I'm sure that she is also not correct because 3 time abortions... 1st time is mistake but 3rs time it is a pattern... So think with logically..... 👍
Yah with full expression 😂😂 t think it's all scripted 😂😂😂
@@diyhub1821 ya she's talking as if she's giving some kind of audition why such weird expressions
😂😂 right
@@Podkastzshe wants that guy badly that's the reason after having so much she was physically involved with that guy n even got pregnant...
I literally cried hearing her story...she is so so strong!
No need to cry....first of all she is on the wrong side when she is getting phucically involved without marriage....that's totally wrong
@@vidyashautecuisine720nhi dost yeh cheej 90% ladkiyo mei hota hai ,unke andar bhot emotions hote hai jab vo teenager hoti hai aur jab koi narcissistic ladka inki life mei aata hai toh phir vo submit ho jati hai 😂
@@vidyashautecuisine720 tum galat ho,vo ik game mei trap hogyi thi aur vo game khelna wala ik bad boy hota hai ,agar tum bhi uski jagah hoti toh maximum chance tha ki tum bhi apne aap ko usko submit kr deti
She said on the 11th day he checked out another girl in gym but then she said ki"Gym me sabko pta tha humare bare me itne time se" (Kitne time se 10 din??)
Vo ladki immature thi bss ,aur immaturity ladki agar kisi bad boy ke sath relationship mei jati hai toh yeh consequences jhelna padta hai
@@switchyoutubYes you are Right 💯
Bro it takes lots of guts to talk about these things publicly not only u all the girls have gone through something ❤hope u find peace and happiness ❣️ praying 🙏 for u and sending love 💟 may shankhar ji bless u ❤ love love
feel sad for her but akal ki andhi he kya... 5 saal tak kaise seh rahi thi...confused lagi mujhe bohot.
Ladkiya aise he rhti hai bhai they get attracted to bad boys only.
Banda good-looking ho to chalta hai inlogo ko
Accha h 5 saal m nikl gyi 15 saal ni lgaye
God bless her
Bhayia jab ladki kisi ladke sai pyar krti hai or uske baad sab kuch dedeti hai toh vo sab kuch seheti hai ki shyd the person will change or manipulation bht burri chiz hai aap kai sath ho jati hai pata bhi nahi chlta...
@@jaishreeram9609yhi sabse badi bewakuffi h we all know what kind of people are living in this world so please don't be emotionally weak or mentally weak and most imp don't trust anyone blindly even you are in love
i want to listen both sides without giving any judgement
Right 👍
Yr itna toh confirm hai ki yeh ladki bhot immature hai ,isse decision lene hi nhi aate aur phir relationship mei padd jati hai jismei unhe dhokha jhelna padta hai 😂phir esse gaana ga rhi hoti hai podcast mei 😂
The harsh reality of today's generation.. both of them are kalank... 1 is a cheater n the 2nd is a monster
I think she is equally problematic….I mean dude when you guys are on break already you have suffered so much because of him then why are going to him again n again
Yesterday I just watched Darlings movie & the scenes which is in movie exactly same incident which she's telling 😢😢 Really got goosebumps by listening her story 😢 Sister, hope you will get strength to overcome 🙏
People in comment section trying so hard to judge her but jab khudpe bitati hai tab hi pta chalta hai .
@@Shree__2410 I agree 🥺
😢
One time she said his place was her comfort zone and few min afterwards she says she couldnt sleep comfirtably in his place she is confused and used her and she was dumb
By comfort zone she meant that she would have fell for the manipulation, because the narcissist will love bomb you , not everyone will get this
This can happen. Both things can exist at the same time. Don't judge!
Same doubt😂
She went through 3 abortions and she was getting indications of his 4 to 5 relations behind her back and she kept meeting him
Exactly,,, how his home is her comfort zone... This is weird, which I noticed.. .if your partner is cheater and you have proof, u are self independent,, why you go back to his home again.
Logic to ye bhi nhi bnta ki sbh smjhte hue bhi aise relationship mein continue rkhna
@@Mypinklifestyle you are right sis but agar pta hi tha itene time se esa hai to us ke sath sex kr liya yrr ye log hi glt hai
Yes I'm thinking like tht but maybe he was manipulated her but according to me isko shod dena chahiye tha usko tabhi
@@JyotiKumari-nx2dlare dost vo ladka uske liye drug bnn Chuka tha ,aur esse cases mei ladke hi last mei chord dete hai ladkiyo ko
@@Swatitomar-z4d2 min ke liye sans rokh lo aur dekho kya mehsoos hota hai 😂 same uss ladki ke sath bhi ho rha tha essa😂
@@switchyoutub Aree bhen tum khud rakh kr dekh lo na or sens ki batt kr rhi ho rhi ho tho jra khud lga kr dekh lo thik hai i thik thats wrong
Her expression annoying me 😭
@@Charuyadavv once god give you same opportunity to feel same, then kehna "Her expression annoying me".
Exactly.... Tumko annoying lgra h na to .... Agr tumhre sath hora hota tb sabko samypathi leti
I think she said Dishank more than 100 times in this podcast😅
She can be a good actress, bhai jab wo pehli bar flush kar di uske bad usko akal nai aaya? Tab hi chor deti na
Yess but it's scripted that's why she continues story hai kuch bhi bol lo
Yeah slowly realised there's no way this is real
i am amazed after listening this, INSANEEEE IT WAS
I also had narcissist bf... and literally the pain of dating those type of monsters is like hell...😢😢my ex bf said me that I'm a wife material but he needed a gf not wife rn...but he wanted to be settled with me in future and he wanted to explore ,date , hangout, exposure with other girls despite of being in a relationship with me... according to him I'm his og girlfriend and rest other girls would be for exploration...and when i left him after tolerating lots of abuse by him then he said i needed an excuse to leave him...he literally used tinder and chated , called in WhatsApp with some girls and wanted to prove that he had insane craze among girls...
You're bengali so I won't trust you
@@loveyourself-n6y damn which bengali hurt you that bad bhai😂🤕
I just can't process how u agreed to be with him after hearing such things?? I would have ran for my life I never understand why girls like to be with abusers despite knowing there reality that's a low iq activities
After one pregnancy you had the clear picture but you avoided that. Why? The way you are talking that you know the body language and all but still how can be you so blind? Then you are constantly saying...." Mai chhod deti kon smbhalta", you are the one who is saying " he was a drunkard" than why did you continue? Clear message for all those who think that they can handle their partner like their parents. No one can love their child more than their parents. Mummy Papa mt bna kro please dusro sb kuch dekhte hue bhi. "Maturity is when you realise that parents hume roke hai to sirf isliye unhone 20-25 saal duniya jyada dekhi hoti hai apse." I am 30 but I can say after so many abortion you will never be the same and your feeling of intimacy just gone. she herself saying that he never forced himself on her but still why she continued? We all have brains....tum dekhte hue b sehre ho why....but still she set an example for those who are blind in love. That love which is loosing its existence everyday in our Indian society.
I am sorry for whatever what she had to go through. But just an opinion, why did she go to his house and have sex initially after he called after the breakup.?
She somewhere knew he was with other girl no. And after all the abortions and stuff why?
Because her top floor is empty 🙂
No offense but as an adult you can always see who is trying to manipulate you. If you ignored that and still got manipulated thats on you. Because ultimately you are the one making decisions for yourself. You could have asked your partner to use a contraceptive. You could have left before too. Ive dated a narcissist too and his mom dad sister who didnt existed before always used to pass away whenever iam about to leave. But its not impossible to leave. Its different if you are a minor kid cause kids dont know what manipulation is. You as an adult are responsible for your own life and actions. He was terrible sure why did you stayed then? You vould have said no to abortion too. Its your body, your child.
Ok I want to say that I have facing the same situation but things are changed and just because of my family I gave up because I don't want to suffer my family and he's doing all things with every girl
Not everyone have family like her but if same thing happens with you please leave him yaar definitely you deserve someone better stay strong lady 🤍🖤🫂
🥺🫂🫂I gave up on him and maintained distance he still want me but just only for physical need 😢😢 so I said no I don't want to continue
@@kuddipunjabdi7999I can't understand your pain but you take right decision I think you deserve better respect for you 😌I wish you found someone who genuinely loves you
I can understand you sis 🥺🥺🙌
Sukar last mei tumhari family ki vajah se tum bhar nikli varna tum bhi essi pagal ho jati iss ladki ki tarah😂
I'm speechless!!!!
Having goosebumps while watching this episode.....