Hey Coffee Cuties, Thank you so much to the commenter who suggested I watch the You’re Triggered video. There you will find more information that was not covered in this video on the content creator mentioned in the video! Here’s the link⬇️ ruclips.net/video/CkDY3d_D0lI/видео.htmlsi=B7_70cO8XvfZpSWu
I’m definitely not going to listen to a pick me. I rather listen to Shera anyday over that male identified pick me who pushes struggle love on to black women. Being a stay at home wife or mother is not easy at all but there is nothing wrong with women wanting a soft life and not wanting to struggle. You should’t have to over work yourself to the point of burn out just to be in a relationship. Any man who loves his woman will work to provide and take care of his family. He will want to make your life easier. If you are with a man who makes your life harder and does nothing for you, he does not like you and he isn’t the one for you. I learned this the hard way. Also you can have your own money and be with a provider. Stop pushing this narrative that all women who date providers are lazy and don’t earn and save their own money. You can get your bag and his too.
This woman is a pick me and her man explains all the reasons on why she thinks this way! I promise there is nothing wrong with a bw with natural hair or weave and living her best luxurious life!!! Bw have to learn how to stop being hateful to one another please bw we know NOTHING about being lazy smh!!! I’m glad we are letting go of the slave mentality!
I’m not too familiar with her content but I did notice she was pushing a male centered viewpoint and stated it in the commentary….i guess I was correct🤎
I agree with your commentary. Twenty years from now, dermatologists are going to get a boom of black women seeking hair loss treatment due to wigs and weave damage.
..Perhaps it’s my misunderstanding…but…I was under the impression the ‘Soft Life’ and the ‘Soft HAIR Life’ were two different conversations. Yeah there are women who are lazy with their hair and over-reliant on wigs…but that can be a fact with or without a man involved in the conversation 🤷🏽♀️
The lady in the video need to understand that every woman doesn't have to hunt for a man then bend over backwards working to keep his interest because he's clearly not attracted to you. So you have to constantly do things to prove you can be valuable to him. That's how it goes when you know or feel less attractive as a woman. So glad this hasn't come up in my experiences.
As far as I’m concerned, the black women who wear the weaves and the wigs that don’t match their natural hair texture and the black women who constantly straighten perm and heat damage, their natural crown are all in the same boat.
@ 1 woman chooses to wear another groups hair while another puts cancerous products , or high heat on hers to mimic said wig. Same look different avenues. If the only time a black woman wants to wear her natural hair unless it’s straightened is a problem. See same boat
Live the life you want. Have an easy life. This is YOUR life. I don’t know why BW can’t have the same luxury and options without always being told something negative.
What’s wrong with not wanting to work hard. A lot of people who work hard have a terrible life riddled with disease and poverty. Hard work doesn’t equal a comfortable happy life. A lot of people work hard to survive.
I cannot imagine putting in this much time and energy into focusing and needing to issue a judgement on other black women and their hair nor their lives. I am not a stylist with a client. My ob gyn has a wig, My financial planner has a shaved head. The lady designing my nursery has braids. I’m a software engineer with locs. The work is my focus.
Dog life is for teenage girls with provider parents. The internet takes things too seriously. How can you be a grown adult with a job living a ‘soft life’.
Wigs are the least of their miscreant-my issue with soft life content is it promotes over consumption and breeds jealousy. The truth is women posting videos online means they are working😂😂😂-that is not a soft life. Anyway, the best flex is loving the life you live.
What you should have a problem with the the negative videos of blk women, not videos of blk women being happy and living their best life. There is way too much videos of blk women being hurt , struggling and mistreated for anyone to be ever jealous of bw living in luxury. To be jealous of a blk woman living in luxury after everything b w have gone through and the hurt they have to deal with everyday would be vile. We need more videos and images of b w being happy to change the narratives.
@@theghostofumarskoolishere.4632why can’t they understand this ? It’s like black women create something good ,here come the think pieces 🤦🏾♀️ cant have nothing
@ right it’s like nobody is telling this to other races of women it’s always us being told that we can’t have a provider or we just only work and expect nothing
Shera 7 isn’t the problem her advice works also she never said that about natural hair she said bm with money don’t like natural hair typically which is true idk why we’re pretending it’s not true she said she likes natural hair but is giving advice if you want a man with money who is blk she never said you have to do it she said typically look at their wives and that’ll tell you what men in those circles like. Shera herself like natural hair and acknowledges texturism and thinks it’s unfair but simply plays by the rules men set to get what she wants. Secondly the whole hard wig soft life was actually made by black women to make fun of bw who date outside of our race saying our hair always looks raggedy it wa never us teaching that to bw that’s what you needed to be date wm idk why we always catch strays. I see both sides I do feel like she’s right about the laziness with the wigs but natural looking wigs and aesthetic do work to get high quality men with money now as for looking to live off men with the bare minimum of effort that’s not what shera says she says to have your own bag too these women often times purposefully mishear her message. But I also do feel like this woman is a pickme in the video because non bw in luxury spaces wear wigs and pieces too they just wear natural looking aesthetics.
I thought Shera said that the best way to attract a high value man of any race is to wear a wig…I did a video about it a little bit ago but im happy she acknowledges texturism overall I think it’s best we become our best self regardless of the approval of men🤎
@ no she didn’t say that she’s acknowledges that natural hair can attract wm and non bm shes said it but she also says she knows bw want to be with bm and gives her advice based off of that when it comes to how bw should dress and she even acknowledges due to her being a preference she has an advantage due to colourism. Now shera has said most high earning men like straight hair due to the status associated with it and copying the look of other men’s wives but she never said that’s the only way or the best way to get all men but she said to bw if you’re looking for bm that is the best way and unfortunately it is true. Shera whole thing is about since we’re in a patiarchy and men commodify us use it to your advantage to get what you want out of it but she doesn’t teach male worship she said that’s the dumbest thing women can do she’s also spiritual worker and practices hoodoo so she’s very much pro women
4:21 excuse my language but f all of that id rather stay single if it means i have to change myself for a man🤢 i hate how woman think they need to change for men, my authenticity is the most important thing to me period and it will ALWAYS be the most important Especially as a neurodivergent I find it hard to be myself around men and then there’s all these other stupid rules like I just wanna stay single im not doing none of that if u don’t like me for me leave me TFF ALONE😂
I could careless either way, do what you do. None of my business. Let ppl be who and what they want to be, if you aren’t killing and stealing or harming others, do you.
Girl I love your videos and I watch everyone of them fully no skipping but this individual right 1:32 here is very annoying,your triggered exposed her pick me ways and her trash polie ,she shouldn’t be giving no advice so I’m going to be skipping .i cant stand when people choose to be stupid .why cant people understand that having a soft life isn’t about not working ,it’s about create the softest life for YOU.blk women cant have nothing without it being policed and think piece to death .im just over it honestly .
Thank you for watching all of my videos…Oh wow…I love you’re triggered…let me go find and watch the video because I’m not too familiar with her content 🤎
Facts I just saw her video. I HATE the term pick me because black women call everyone that doesn’t agree with a pick me but that’s exactly what she is….. a pick me. And her husband? 🤢
Just because some women want a "soft life" does mean they are lazy or being lazy. And black women should able to do what they want to and for their hair without it being weaponized against them just because people have a different opinion than them.
Lmao why would I be out here damaging my hair when I can just put on a wig and take it off in the evening? Oh it’s flexing to damage my own hair now? Y’all crazy. Keep coloring and braiding and end up bald at 50 🤷🏾♀️
Yea the way I see women doing these tutorials on wig installed ,ain’t wash her hair or took down those braids in two months yuck 🤢 ,the they do all that itching and scratching WASH THE HAIR AND LET IT BREATH #yallarenotwearingprotectivesyles
I’m actually sitting here wondering why there’s always a BW ready to downgrade another BW. There’s at least two white RUclipsrs who promote wearing wigs. One of them suffers with severe scalp issues and the other with thinning hair. Yet, l haven’t seen one ww posting negative videos about wigs and ww. None among the Hispanic influencers. 😮
@@Laoriginal718Just like how everyone can constantly criticize black women with absolutely no push back, black women can do it too. All is fair when you're the topic of discussion 24/7.
I know how to do my hair but honey you can call me lazy because I’m wigging it up😅😅😅glueless wigs. These women are looking for a reason to be upset. Looking for a reason to put others down to lift yourself up. Watching the next woman’s lifestyle is nasty work.
@@Laoriginal718You do realize that she said glueless. Black women don't always feel like doing their natural hair. At least she's not one of those young ladies who actually glues and gels it to her head causing her to have traction alopecia or ripping her hair out.
It’s giving nice nasty. I’m not a wig wearer but if you come on line and say women who wear wigs are lazy then yeah they are going to defend themselves because you are criticizing the way they display themselves. Yeah she has the right to say it but don’t then turn around and make it seem like you did nothing wrong and “wow idk why these women are so mad”. I personally feel that when you are 100% okay with yourself and the choices you have made around your hair you don’t feel the need to talk about others hair choices be that natural, wig or weaves up
I’m confused about why she is so invested in what is on top of another woman’s head, to the point where she felt like she needed to make a video being hypercritical of them? She is talking about people’s work ethic, how they treat their man ,and how they raise their children. I’m trying to figure out how those things even connect to wearing a wig. It almost comes off like she has a superiority complex because she doesn’t wear wigs. That doesn’t make her special. 😂
I’m just spit balling here but why do we 🖐🏽have to work hard for something such as this? Other races and ethnicities don’t. Black women should be able to just enjoy themselves in life and whatever “comes easy”, leave it be. It’s almost like “I suffered, so you should too.” Let women in general do what’s best for them. Her second video was an entirely different topic as a whole. She cared enough to make a video about it (she said she doesn’t care). Those are just my 2 cents. Wonderful video presentation.
Honestly if you're working hard to get and keep a man he probably doesn't like you that much and he's already suspicious of you 😂 They know you're not doing that for free so when he finally finds out what it is you really want (time, attention, money) he's going to withhold it to maintain control and no hairstyle is going to change that lol. If he's no good, he's no good. Let HIM do the work. Remember the Taj Mahal was built because of a woman, not because the king liked the color white lol.
Please black women deserve REST. I don’t work hard for nothing and do get everything 😂 you don’t get extra points in heaven for struggle . Outsource everything including hair if you want . Do you boo , game is rigged ,the rules don’t apply tf
@@Laoriginal718You're one to talk. I always see you in different comment sections talking about how black women should love what God gave them, yet you're in your profile picture with your hair straightened, permed, and pressed. Also, let's not act like the black community doesn't call type 4 hair nappy or ugly or not done when you wear it in its natural state. How can you love something when it is constantly talked down on and scrutinized by everyone in society no matter their economic class or demographic? It's even worse when it comes from people who look you.
@@MaisonMargiela-ch9co why are you upset about what she said? Bw do need to stop the self hate it’s honestly embarrassing and if you’re mad it’s because she’s talking about you only hit dogs holler.
@@Laoriginal718 That hair on your head doesn't look like your natural texture. I could be wrong but if you are gonna critique bw about our hair then your hair should be natural. My hair is natural. The color and texture is all mine. Bw are always being told what to do. Everyone moves the goal post on bw. Bw, do what tf you want. You can't please everyone, but you can please yourself ♥.
@theghostofumarskoolishere.4632 Why is it that anytime a black woman questions something, it's viewed as her being upset? Anyways, do you consider a BW who's putting chemicals in her hair to alter it from its natural state as a natural? Based on the young ladies profile picture, that is NOT her hair in its natural form. Also, don't talk about me being a hit dog hollering when I have never worn a wig or a lace front a day in my life. I actually have a low boy. You made yourself look REALLY STUPID with that part of your comment.
Girl I love your videos and I watch everyone of them fully no skipping but this individual right 1:32 here is very annoying,your triggered exposed her pick me ways and her trash polie ,she shouldn’t be giving no advice so I’m going to be skipping .i cant stand when people choose to be stupid .why cant people understand that having a soft life isn’t about not working ,it’s about create the softest life for YOU.blk women cant have nothing without it being policed and think piece to death .im just over it honestly .
Hey Coffee Cuties,
Thank you so much to the commenter who suggested I watch the You’re Triggered video. There you will find more information that was not covered in this video on the content creator mentioned in the video!
Here’s the link⬇️
ruclips.net/video/CkDY3d_D0lI/видео.htmlsi=B7_70cO8XvfZpSWu
I’m definitely not going to listen to a pick me. I rather listen to Shera anyday over that male identified pick me who pushes struggle love on to black women. Being a stay at home wife or mother is not easy at all but there is nothing wrong with women wanting a soft life and not wanting to struggle. You should’t have to over work yourself to the point of burn out just to be in a relationship. Any man who loves his woman will work to provide and take care of his family. He will want to make your life easier. If you are with a man who makes your life harder and does nothing for you, he does not like you and he isn’t the one for you. I learned this the hard way. Also you can have your own money and be with a provider. Stop pushing this narrative that all women who date providers are lazy and don’t earn and save their own money. You can get your bag and his too.
I definitely agree🤎
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Shera does witchcraft. You shouldn’t listen to EITHER one of them. Both of them are slow.
My husband GAVE me the SOFT life! He wants his wife to RELAX!! I love that for me!! 🥰🥰
as a man should!
This woman is a pick me and her man explains all the reasons on why she thinks this way! I promise there is nothing wrong with a bw with natural hair or weave and living her best luxurious life!!! Bw have to learn how to stop being hateful to one another please bw we know NOTHING about being lazy smh!!! I’m glad we are letting go of the slave mentality!
I’m not too familiar with her content but I did notice she was pushing a male centered viewpoint and stated it in the commentary….i guess I was correct🤎
There is absolutely something wrong with wearing weave.
There are lazy women everywhere BW included.
I agree with your commentary. Twenty years from now, dermatologists are going to get a boom of black women seeking hair loss treatment due to wigs and weave damage.
True unfortunately and thank you for always supporting the channel🤎🤎🤎🤎
B w already have hair loss. And many b w are natural.
they are already seeing them now, we dont need to wait
@amenajackson8133a lot of the women with hair loss have it due to tension alopecia, so women who over manipulate and wear wigs
They’ll be good when they go. Get on a plane with your husband and all of his friends who were already headed to Turkey. Make it a girl’s trip. 😂
1:52 I will NEVER in my life work hard to get a man. NEVER.
❤ ❤Preach 🗣️ ❤❤
Period.
..Perhaps it’s my misunderstanding…but…I was under the impression the ‘Soft Life’ and the ‘Soft HAIR Life’ were two different conversations.
Yeah there are women who are lazy with their hair and over-reliant on wigs…but that can be a fact with or without a man involved in the conversation 🤷🏽♀️
Agreed
The lady in the video need to understand that every woman doesn't have to hunt for a man then bend over backwards working to keep his interest because he's clearly not attracted to you. So you have to constantly do things to prove you can be valuable to him. That's how it goes when you know or feel less attractive as a woman. So glad this hasn't come up in my experiences.
As far as I’m concerned, the black women who wear the weaves and the wigs that don’t match their natural hair texture and the black women who constantly straighten perm and heat damage, their natural crown are all in the same boat.
I can see your point as they’re all damaging to the coil pattern🤎
Doing something TO your hair and refusing to even WEAR your hair is not the same thing.
@ 1 woman chooses to wear another groups hair while another puts cancerous products , or high heat on hers to mimic said wig. Same look different avenues. If the only time a black woman wants to wear her natural hair unless it’s straightened is a problem. See same boat
@@Laoriginal718 it is both stem from self hate and lead to hair loss and extreme damage
Poor thing, projecting again. She wants that life for herself and believes it can’t be her. The conditioning is strong with that one.
Live the life you want. Have an easy life. This is YOUR life. I don’t know why BW can’t have the same luxury and options without always being told something negative.
What’s wrong with not wanting to work hard. A lot of people who work hard have a terrible life riddled with disease and poverty. Hard work doesn’t equal a comfortable happy life. A lot of people work hard to survive.
I cannot imagine putting in this much time and energy into focusing and needing to issue a judgement on other black women and their hair nor their lives. I am not a stylist with a client.
My ob gyn has a wig,
My financial planner has a shaved head.
The lady designing my nursery has braids.
I’m a software engineer with locs.
The work is my focus.
Dog life is for teenage girls with provider parents. The internet takes things too seriously. How can you be a grown adult with a job living a ‘soft life’.
Side note, there is nothing soft about creating a soft life for yourself….
You should give yourself the life you want rather than depending on a man to give it to you. If HE gives it to you he can take it from you.
@ .......okay...and?
Wigs are the least of their miscreant-my issue with soft life content is it promotes over consumption and breeds jealousy. The truth is women posting videos online means they are working😂😂😂-that is not a soft life. Anyway, the best flex is loving the life you live.
I mean it’s a soft life cause it’s not hard labour
What you should have a problem with the the negative videos of blk women, not videos of blk women being happy and living their best life. There is way too much videos
of blk women being hurt , struggling and mistreated for anyone to be ever jealous of bw living in luxury. To be jealous of a blk woman living in luxury after everything b w have gone through and the hurt they have to deal with everyday would be vile. We need more videos and images of b w being happy to change the narratives.
@@Seeingisntbelieving also soft life never said to not have your own bag too these
@@theghostofumarskoolishere.4632why can’t they understand this ? It’s like black women create something good ,here come the think pieces 🤦🏾♀️ cant have nothing
@ right it’s like nobody is telling this to other races of women it’s always us being told that we can’t have a provider or we just only work and expect nothing
Shera 7 isn’t the problem her advice works also she never said that about natural hair she said bm with money don’t like natural hair typically which is true idk why we’re pretending it’s not true she said she likes natural hair but is giving advice if you want a man with money who is blk she never said you have to do it she said typically look at their wives and that’ll tell you what men in those circles like. Shera herself like natural hair and acknowledges texturism and thinks it’s unfair but simply plays by the rules men set to get what she wants. Secondly the whole hard wig soft life was actually made by black women to make fun of bw who date outside of our race saying our hair always looks raggedy it wa never us teaching that to bw that’s what you needed to be date wm idk why we always catch strays. I see both sides I do feel like she’s right about the laziness with the wigs but natural looking wigs and aesthetic do work to get high quality men with money now as for looking to live off men with the bare minimum of effort that’s not what shera says she says to have your own bag too these women often times purposefully mishear her message. But I also do feel like this woman is a pickme in the video because non bw in luxury spaces wear wigs and pieces too they just wear natural looking aesthetics.
I thought Shera said that the best way to attract a high value man of any race is to wear a wig…I did a video about it a little bit ago but im happy she acknowledges texturism overall I think it’s best we become our best self regardless of the approval of men🤎
@ no she didn’t say that she’s acknowledges that natural hair can attract wm and non bm shes said it but she also says she knows bw want to be with bm and gives her advice based off of that when it comes to how bw should dress and she even acknowledges due to her being a preference she has an advantage due to colourism. Now shera has said most high earning men like straight hair due to the status associated with it and copying the look of other men’s wives but she never said that’s the only way or the best way to get all men but she said to bw if you’re looking for bm that is the best way and unfortunately it is true. Shera whole thing is about since we’re in a patiarchy and men commodify us use it to your advantage to get what you want out of it but she doesn’t teach male worship she said that’s the dumbest thing women can do she’s also spiritual worker and practices hoodoo so she’s very much pro women
Shera 7 is a witch. The only type of women that listen to her are those with the spirit of lust and greed.
@@CoffeeCuties777she did say that. Shera has the iQ of a peppercorn.
Who cares what she or anyone else says?
4:21 excuse my language but f all of that id rather stay single if it means i have to change myself for a man🤢 i hate how woman think they need to change for men, my authenticity is the most important thing to me period and it will ALWAYS be the most important
Especially as a neurodivergent I find it hard to be myself around men and then there’s all these other stupid rules like I just wanna stay single im not doing none of that if u don’t like me for me leave me TFF ALONE😂
I could careless either way, do what you do. None of my business. Let ppl be who and what they want to be, if you aren’t killing and stealing or harming others, do you.
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The problem is ppl looking to internet strangers with no real qualifications 2 take advice from. Happy ppl don't give advice their 2 busy being happy.
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Girl I love your videos and I watch everyone of them fully no skipping but this individual right 1:32 here is very annoying,your triggered exposed her pick me ways and her trash polie ,she shouldn’t be giving no advice so I’m going to be skipping .i cant stand when people choose to be stupid .why cant people understand that having a soft life isn’t about not working ,it’s about create the softest life for YOU.blk women cant have nothing without it being policed and think piece to death .im just over it honestly .
Thank you for watching all of my videos…Oh wow…I love you’re triggered…let me go find and watch the video because I’m not too familiar with her content 🤎
Facts I just saw her video. I HATE the term pick me because black women call everyone that doesn’t agree with a pick me but that’s exactly what she is….. a pick me. And her husband? 🤢
Just because some women want a "soft life" does mean they are lazy or being lazy. And black women should able to do what they want to and for their hair without it being weaponized against them just because people have a different opinion than them.
Lmao why would I be out here damaging my hair when I can just put on a wig and take it off in the evening? Oh it’s flexing to damage my own hair now?
Y’all crazy. Keep coloring and braiding and end up bald at 50 🤷🏾♀️
Yea the way I see women doing these tutorials on wig installed ,ain’t wash her hair or took down those braids in two months yuck 🤢 ,the they do all that itching and scratching WASH THE HAIR AND LET IT BREATH #yallarenotwearingprotectivesyles
I’m actually sitting here wondering why there’s always a BW ready to downgrade another BW. There’s at least two white RUclipsrs who promote wearing wigs. One of them suffers with severe scalp issues and the other with thinning hair. Yet, l haven’t seen one ww posting negative videos about wigs and ww. None among the Hispanic influencers. 😮
OMG why do y’all care what other races of women do? Damn.
@@Laoriginal718Just like how everyone can constantly criticize black women with absolutely no push back, black women can do it too. All is fair when you're the topic of discussion 24/7.
@@Mimi-ht6xr we can’t compare ww wearing wigs to bw also in yt culture wearing wigs and making it known is clowned on big time
I know how to do my hair but honey you can call me lazy because I’m wigging it up😅😅😅glueless wigs. These women are looking for a reason to be upset. Looking for a reason to put others down to lift yourself up. Watching the next woman’s lifestyle is nasty work.
Why can’t you just be happy with the hair God gave you?
@@Laoriginal718You do realize that she said glueless. Black women don't always feel like doing their natural hair. At least she's not one of those young ladies who actually glues and gels it to her head causing her to have traction alopecia or ripping her hair out.
It’s giving nice nasty. I’m not a wig wearer but if you come on line and say women who wear wigs are lazy then yeah they are going to defend themselves because you are criticizing the way they display themselves. Yeah she has the right to say it but don’t then turn around and make it seem like you did nothing wrong and “wow idk why these women are so mad”. I personally feel that when you are 100% okay with yourself and the choices you have made around your hair you don’t feel the need to talk about others hair choices be that natural, wig or weaves up
I’m confused about why she is so invested in what is on top of another woman’s head, to the point where she felt like she needed to make a video being hypercritical of them? She is talking about people’s work ethic, how they treat their man ,and how they raise their children. I’m trying to figure out how those things even connect to wearing a wig.
It almost comes off like she has a superiority complex because she doesn’t wear wigs. That doesn’t make her special. 😂
She ain't wrong about them fighting for those wigs tho...
Facts 😂😂😂😂😂
I’m just spit balling here but why do we 🖐🏽have to work hard for something such as this? Other races and ethnicities don’t. Black women should be able to just enjoy themselves in life and whatever “comes easy”, leave it be. It’s almost like “I suffered, so you should too.” Let women in general do what’s best for them. Her second video was an entirely different topic as a whole. She cared enough to make a video about it (she said she doesn’t care). Those are just my 2 cents. Wonderful video presentation.
I completely agree and the topic different shifted from the original purpose and thank you so much🤎🤎🤎
Honestly if you're working hard to get and keep a man he probably doesn't like you that much and he's already suspicious of you 😂 They know you're not doing that for free so when he finally finds out what it is you really want (time, attention, money) he's going to withhold it to maintain control and no hairstyle is going to change that lol. If he's no good, he's no good. Let HIM do the work. Remember the Taj Mahal was built because of a woman, not because the king liked the color white lol.
Great points🤎🤎🤎
Please black women deserve REST. I don’t work hard for nothing and do get everything 😂 you don’t get extra points in heaven for struggle . Outsource everything including hair if you want . Do you boo , game is rigged ,the rules don’t apply tf
No. Be happy with the hair that God gave you.
@@Laoriginal718You're one to talk. I always see you in different comment sections talking about how black women should love what God gave them, yet you're in your profile picture with your hair straightened, permed, and pressed. Also, let's not act like the black community doesn't call type 4 hair nappy or ugly or not done when you wear it in its natural state. How can you love something when it is constantly talked down on and scrutinized by everyone in society no matter their economic class or demographic? It's even worse when it comes from people who look you.
I hate wigs. They look fake. But I want black women to do what tf they want. Bw, do what tf you want.
Nah black women need to learn to be happy with their real hair.
@@Laoriginal718You need to learn to be happy with your REAL HAIR TEXTURE.
@@MaisonMargiela-ch9co why are you upset about what she said? Bw do need to stop the self hate it’s honestly embarrassing and if you’re mad it’s because she’s talking about you only hit dogs holler.
@@Laoriginal718
That hair on your head doesn't look like your natural texture. I could be wrong but if you are gonna critique bw about our hair then your hair should be natural. My hair is natural. The color and texture is all mine. Bw are always being told what to do. Everyone moves the goal post on bw. Bw, do what tf you want. You can't please everyone, but you can please yourself ♥.
@theghostofumarskoolishere.4632 Why is it that anytime a black woman questions something, it's viewed as her being upset? Anyways, do you consider a BW who's putting chemicals in her hair to alter it from its natural state as a natural? Based on the young ladies profile picture, that is NOT her hair in its natural form. Also, don't talk about me being a hit dog hollering when I have never worn a wig or a lace front a day in my life. I actually have a low boy. You made yourself look REALLY STUPID with that part of your comment.
Girl I love your videos and I watch everyone of them fully no skipping but this individual right 1:32 here is very annoying,your triggered exposed her pick me ways and her trash polie ,she shouldn’t be giving no advice so I’m going to be skipping .i cant stand when people choose to be stupid .why cant people understand that having a soft life isn’t about not working ,it’s about create the softest life for YOU.blk women cant have nothing without it being policed and think piece to death .im just over it honestly .
I just watched OMG…I tagged the video in the comment section 🤎
Agreed she is DEF a pick me and this is coming from someone who can’t stand the term “pick me”.