What It Takes To Make A Relationship Work | Love Is Not Enough | Kingsley Okonkwo

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  • Опубликовано: 10 ноя 2023
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Комментарии • 348

  • @mariageorge9304
    @mariageorge9304 8 месяцев назад +384

    Pastor Kingsley okonkwo is underrated honestly, we need to celebrate him. We're blessed to have you in this Generation.

    • @esenamawudey1619
      @esenamawudey1619 8 месяцев назад +8

      We're indeed more than blessed to have him

    • @silasjames3035
      @silasjames3035 8 месяцев назад +1

      I agree with u

    • @brightejekwu2469
      @brightejekwu2469 8 месяцев назад +10

      Please who underrated him? He is the Pastor of the Youths in the Christendom.

    • @theestherkay
      @theestherkay 8 месяцев назад +1

      I totally agree with you 💯

    • @VeraSamuel-kh9vk
      @VeraSamuel-kh9vk 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@esenamawudey1619😊p😮😮😮😊😮

  • @feliciajackson7192
    @feliciajackson7192 5 месяцев назад +35

    “Don’t use kindness as a strategy, it must be your lifestyle “ I got this 👍

  • @IdowuObadeyi
    @IdowuObadeyi 8 месяцев назад +130

    Can't count how many times I literally LAUGHED OUT LOUD, listening to this 😂. Afgha...Afghanistan 😂😂😂. Thanks MoG... 6yrs married and getting better each day together.. God bless you sir

    • @violettachikungu7975
      @violettachikungu7975 8 месяцев назад +4

      This man is something else

    • @agnesamitamasinde
      @agnesamitamasinde 8 месяцев назад +5

      I heard to repeat the Afghanistan part,afghan afghan 😂😂😂😂that can be a hit😂😅. I love his teachings and the wife, started listening even before I got married and they really shaped me.

    • @akinyemitosin6247
      @akinyemitosin6247 8 месяцев назад +1

      He is an epitome of wisdom.

    • @ednaoyegunle5428
      @ednaoyegunle5428 8 месяцев назад

      @@akinyemitosin6247 u

    • @miriamkiarie8190
      @miriamkiarie8190 6 месяцев назад +2

      Afgha has been playing in my head the whole day🤣🤣🤣

  • @edokpaigbevictory3622
    @edokpaigbevictory3622 8 месяцев назад +33

    Am coming back next year wt my hubby to drop a comment….

  • @lydiayohanna5732
    @lydiayohanna5732 8 месяцев назад +30

    Kindness is not a strategy but kindness is a Lifestyle

  • @woleolugbenle
    @woleolugbenle 8 месяцев назад +41

    Gather here if you are learning relationship is not what the world and culture says but what God determined before time and we will all eat fruits we sow. As for me and my future house, we will serve the lord. Also gather here for potential match :)

    • @tosin.o
      @tosin.o 8 месяцев назад +1

      On point human being. Onward Christian soldier...

    • @adakeke3639
      @adakeke3639 7 месяцев назад

      True

  • @prospero9955
    @prospero9955 4 месяца назад +4

    In fact, I feel like sharing all his messages on marriage to the entire world for everyone to have wisdom. He's indeed rich in this. He should be awarded globally about marriage talks.

  • @jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518
    @jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518 8 месяцев назад +68

    You can surely dance on your wedding day with the knowledge that the wars of marriage will be faced as a TEAM, not ALONE with ENDLESS COUNSELLING together, not only for 6mths before wedding day.
    This guy and his wife, ehn... so blessed to have the WEALTH OF KNOWLEDGE APPLIED by themselves as a testament in these streets of today's generation's relationships!!!🤔
    The Shoe Analogy is perfect:
    Focus on the COMFORT and QUALITY of the shoe you will wear for a lifetime as it is MORE IMPORTANT than LOOKS/BEAUTY.
    #OvercomeYourFeelings💥 #LoveIsNotEnough 💯

  • @macDonalduzor
    @macDonalduzor 8 месяцев назад +48

    If you will succeed in relationship and marriage, you must learn to go beyond your feelings to do what is right.❤❤❤

    • @badujosephdaniel
      @badujosephdaniel 8 месяцев назад +1

      💡

    • @kirabogloria2187
      @kirabogloria2187 8 месяцев назад +2

      Exactly my dear....we pray that we get to that..thru christ

    • @kirabogloria2187
      @kirabogloria2187 8 месяцев назад +2

      U have just gained a subscriber here....much love from 🇺🇬 Uganda

    • @macDonalduzor
      @macDonalduzor 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@kirabogloria2187 Thank you for the subscription.

    • @immannadi2876
      @immannadi2876 7 месяцев назад +1

      indeed

  • @favouretie1585
    @favouretie1585 8 месяцев назад +12

    I heard of a story of a man who said God told him to go and marry another wife. He truly felt and understood it to be another marriage to another woman. He actually did but it backfired on him. Because later God told him on the sick bed. He did not mean another woman. But to build another church /branch. And he began asking God for mercy. Thing is that, it's one thing for God to speak it's another for us to really understand what exactly He means. And you can't understand it by mere human thinking. But go to God and ask , verify "what exactly do you mean by this God" and until you get clarity, don't act out anything.
    Because sometimes, God speaks in parables and it's every where in scriptures. So it's key to go back to God to verify fro Him. Sometimes, if you do not ask Him, He may not tell you anything and you decide to act out of your own will or poor understanding you will most likely miss. It is clear in Proverbs 3:5-7....... Do not lean on your OWN understanding but in ALL , not some of your ways, but in ALL YOUR WAYS ACKNOWLEDGE ME (GOD) THEN, He will direct you .

  • @tungwapemiriam3383
    @tungwapemiriam3383 7 месяцев назад +32

    As powerful as fire is, if it has nothing to burn, it goes out. 🔥🔥🔥 Thank you pastor Kingsley for this word.👌🏻

  • @jeremiahdorcaschidimma3036
    @jeremiahdorcaschidimma3036 8 месяцев назад +32

    I can't get tired of listening to pastor k...I was privileged to serve in this program last month

  • @lujosocakes8834
    @lujosocakes8834 3 месяца назад +2

    I wish my husband will listen to this God

  • @esthernjuguna6713
    @esthernjuguna6713 8 месяцев назад +32

    Kindness is a "LIFESTYLE" not a strategy 👍🏼👌🏼.

  • @daniellegriffiths9342
    @daniellegriffiths9342 4 месяца назад +2

    I usually dread listening to teachings on marriage. I don’t always come away feeling hopeful. Pastor K and First Lady are not like that. I’m able to laugh and learn. Very grateful for their ministry.🙏🏾

  • @JuststartMedia1
    @JuststartMedia1 8 месяцев назад +37

    Love is never what will keep you in a marriage. Submission to God and compatibility with your spouse is what keeps your marriage guaranteed. I wish a happy married life to everyone, in Jesus name. Amen🙏❤

  • @esthernjuguna6713
    @esthernjuguna6713 8 месяцев назад +17

    Interpretate Scripture with Scripture not with "CULTURE".....👌🏼💯.

    • @esthernjuguna6713
      @esthernjuguna6713 3 месяца назад

      @@Nosaomoaghe ...... Excuse me Sir!!!! I am just quoting what Pastor K said as a headline and or most important take away for myself and anyone else who agrees with this comment. This is Christian content there is no need to disparage my comment.....if you feel it is not important to you just move along, with the utmost respect. Thank you 🙏🏼.

  • @deborahbrobbey1443
    @deborahbrobbey1443 6 месяцев назад +6

    I came here immediately after listening to your wife. The knowledge I acquired from her I knew I’ll get even more from you 😌🙏 God bless you both and thank y’all for impacting such knowledge to the generation 👏👏

  • @MaryFlavour-eb6ly
    @MaryFlavour-eb6ly 4 месяца назад +3

    This message is everything a single needs to listen before getting married. Thank you pastors k and M 👏👏👏👏.

  • @chrischuks7810
    @chrischuks7810 8 месяцев назад +12

    Love is all-encompassing. Love is a set of all good and positive things. Affection is a subset of love, understanding is a subset of love, politeness is a subset of love, loyalty is a subset of love, gentleness is a subset of love, kindness is a subset of love, faithfulness is a subset of love, patience is a subset of love etc. All goodness and mercies emanates from love

    • @Realtor_Ola
      @Realtor_Ola 6 месяцев назад +2

      I was watching this program on my tv so i couldn’t comment, but i came here to tell you this comment deserves an award, it opened my eyes “LET LOVE LEAD” this “Love” you described is the kind of love that’s in the quote, you are wise, thanks for teaching.

  • @estheragwang1035
    @estheragwang1035 4 месяца назад +1

    I have only watched 2 videos of pastor Kingsley so far but I must admit am not the same again
    Like seriously I feel empowered
    Imagine taking initiative to listen to his messages more often, it really makes a greater impact to one's life
    God bless this family 🙏🙏🙏

  • @maudlyn25
    @maudlyn25 8 месяцев назад +4

    "Two different places by force" chai, got to use this in my sessions ooo

  • @florencediya3999
    @florencediya3999 8 месяцев назад +11

    Pastor K you are too intelligent 🧠 ! I have learned a lot from your messages , thank you soo much sir. 🙏👌👍👏💃🏿😇💕❤️.

  • @blossomigbinigie2157
    @blossomigbinigie2157 8 месяцев назад

    Great message! Thank you for sir

  • @blossomzagga941
    @blossomzagga941 8 месяцев назад +17

    GOD WILL TRULY BLESS YOU PASTOR K AND PASTOR M. YOUR LABOUR FOR THIS KINGDOM WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN

  • @musondanguni3188
    @musondanguni3188 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you for this message

  • @TREAZZFashionhouse
    @TREAZZFashionhouse 8 месяцев назад

    God bless u sir 🎉,more wisdom 🙏

  • @ChristianaIbrahim-di3li
    @ChristianaIbrahim-di3li 8 месяцев назад

    God bless you PK!!!

  • @amamaakinkuade4400
    @amamaakinkuade4400 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you pastor K . More Grace 🙏

  • @itzpiroja6206
    @itzpiroja6206 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you pastor Kingsley

  • @chidocleopatraspears7899
    @chidocleopatraspears7899 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you for the teaching Pst K

  • @rochelleclunie5726
    @rochelleclunie5726 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you Pastor

  • @manuchimatako9966
    @manuchimatako9966 8 месяцев назад

    Always bless listening to you

  • @faithonyenyionwu147
    @faithonyenyionwu147 8 месяцев назад +1

    God bless you sir

  • @MARGRETJOHN080
    @MARGRETJOHN080 8 месяцев назад +3

    We thank God for the gift of pst K and pst M for this Generation.
    Thank you MOG...

  • @mosesprecious2053
    @mosesprecious2053 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thank u so much daddy

  • @B_N_mw
    @B_N_mw 7 месяцев назад

    Beautiful message

  • @TaiwoTolulope-lv4tz
    @TaiwoTolulope-lv4tz 8 месяцев назад

    PK thank you so much sir

  • @jollynansubuga7796
    @jollynansubuga7796 8 месяцев назад

    May God add u more years pr kingsley.

  • @agnesamitamasinde
    @agnesamitamasinde 8 месяцев назад +6

    Wowww!! I really loved this! Thank you pastor kingsley. I started listening to him and his wife even before I got married and they really shaped me. God bless you. But the Afghanistan, Afghan,afghan part got me,had to even repeat it😅😅🤣🤣🤣I shook at my wedding too😂 for a short while

  • @ebunoluwabamigboye921
    @ebunoluwabamigboye921 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you, Sir.

  • @celinepresh
    @celinepresh 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you 😊 sir 🙌

  • @ibrahimswaray7459
    @ibrahimswaray7459 8 месяцев назад

    Thanks so much for the education

  • @vivianedibo7847
    @vivianedibo7847 8 месяцев назад +1

    So deep Sir.....I am so blessed 😊😊😊

  • @eyramgobah1104
    @eyramgobah1104 6 месяцев назад

    You are a blessing to me

  • @abangjanesonia5898
    @abangjanesonia5898 5 месяцев назад

    More and more grace

  • @matthewjailos4713
    @matthewjailos4713 8 месяцев назад +2

    I have been blessed

  • @tinaumahtv5449
    @tinaumahtv5449 7 месяцев назад

    You are man of so much wisdom

  • @tomisinojo3206
    @tomisinojo3206 8 месяцев назад +5

    Putting this message on replay 💯

  • @semire1111
    @semire1111 7 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤❤ thank you pastors

  • @bernicepopoola8796
    @bernicepopoola8796 7 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks so ooooooo much pastor Kingsley, how I wish all single boys are girls can follow your pages before entering into marriage, divorce will definitely reduced to minimum. More grease to your elbow my brother. Heaven is your goal in Jesus mighty name 🙏

  • @olapadedamilola2020
    @olapadedamilola2020 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you Pastor Kingsley

  • @chrischuks7810
    @chrischuks7810 8 месяцев назад

    Love is a constant! In put Love in all your doing it will surely come out perfect!

  • @priscagampyal232
    @priscagampyal232 6 месяцев назад +2

    Pst K wounded me severally... Aaaaaahhhhh... I have seen the light. Thank you Pst K and Pst M. I love you so much

  • @chikwenduuchechi2886
    @chikwenduuchechi2886 Месяц назад

    May God Almighty help us we singles on this journey of marriage 🙏

  • @9ja_girl
    @9ja_girl 8 месяцев назад

    God bless you sir and your wife too , God bless her for her support

  • @kendosventures4513
    @kendosventures4513 5 месяцев назад +1

    Remain lifted and keep soaring high☝️ ❤️🙏❤️

  • @heleniwunze6495
    @heleniwunze6495 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you sir..

  • @NatashaShapolaMwamba-ny9vy
    @NatashaShapolaMwamba-ny9vy 8 месяцев назад +1

    Daddy never dissapoints. Good laugh and good word guaranteed 👌🏾 ❤

  • @chrischuks7810
    @chrischuks7810 8 месяцев назад

    Hello Pastor Love is super enough!

  • @giftelochukwu3542
    @giftelochukwu3542 8 месяцев назад +2

    I need grace oh Lord 🤲 to get it right and forever love 🙏

  • @monicadiegboh9339
    @monicadiegboh9339 8 месяцев назад

    So blessed for knowing you sir am so happy to be here a great opportunity 🙏 thank you sir

  • @david-ezagaemmanuel208
    @david-ezagaemmanuel208 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you for this message, it was indeed enlightening

  • @Blessedking78
    @Blessedking78 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you so much, Pastor Kingsley

  • @daisykakaseni2842
    @daisykakaseni2842 8 месяцев назад

    you are a blessing, much love from Zimbabwe.

  • @mwanamrembo
    @mwanamrembo 8 месяцев назад +2

    i know you go far and wide into the nations of the world but truly Africa is blessed to have you and PM. Thank you for heeding to God's call in your life. Blessings from Kenya.

  • @OjayGrace
    @OjayGrace 6 месяцев назад

    Thank God for the gift of you sir🙏

  • @phillipine1
    @phillipine1 5 месяцев назад +2

    God bless you Pastor K.
    I dedicated my February to reading your books and listening to your messages. I've been soo blessed thus far 🙏.
    @Kingsley Okonkwo , you are a blessing to our generation Sir 🙏.

  • @oluwadetansuccess2329
    @oluwadetansuccess2329 4 месяца назад

    You are blessed sir.

  • @ttfamikel791
    @ttfamikel791 8 месяцев назад

    Awesomeness

  • @oluchukwuobioma1127
    @oluchukwuobioma1127 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you Sir. I am truly blest listening to you

  • @EllaSognia
    @EllaSognia 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you Man of God

  • @SuperSpecial27
    @SuperSpecial27 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks!

  • @ifeanyimgbenka
    @ifeanyimgbenka 8 месяцев назад

    This blessed me greatly. Thank you PK.

  • @edwardkato3713
    @edwardkato3713 8 месяцев назад

    Pastor k, you are simply amazing sir ❤

  • @loveokwuokenye6376
    @loveokwuokenye6376 8 месяцев назад

    Met a man who translates d head to be cultural, funniest thing, he is a member of This church 😊

  • @divineemesi2297
    @divineemesi2297 5 месяцев назад

    God bless you papa❤

  • @user-un2tm6df4p
    @user-un2tm6df4p 3 месяца назад

    Sir we are blessed to have you

  • @julieedem8609
    @julieedem8609 8 месяцев назад

    Thanks Sir for always impacting my life

  • @veraokereafor5335
    @veraokereafor5335 8 месяцев назад

    Kai, p K I so love you. So realistic

  • @okechukwuchioma1863
    @okechukwuchioma1863 2 месяца назад

    And yes I was Blessed

  • @delight_solutions
    @delight_solutions 8 месяцев назад +4

    Pastor Kingsley...I call you blessed ❤

  • @SharonOdoemelam-xu8yr
    @SharonOdoemelam-xu8yr 4 месяца назад

    Thank you sir ❤

  • @mercyoppong6772
    @mercyoppong6772 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you for this message…… very helpful 😂

  • @victoirek.esther2641
    @victoirek.esther2641 8 месяцев назад

    Wow Praise God 🙌🏾 so much knowledge. Thank God for PK.

  • @veritasbongabaa9839
    @veritasbongabaa9839 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you sir

  • @veez_corner
    @veez_corner 8 месяцев назад

    Happy Birthday Mama Solutions
    God bless and keep you

  • @user-dx6tp6vo8s
    @user-dx6tp6vo8s 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you sir, knowledge is power,an eye opener

  • @queenlizzy9556
    @queenlizzy9556 3 месяца назад

    The you Pastor K for this message 🙏🙌

  • @voksari6834
    @voksari6834 4 месяца назад

    This is powerful Sir, more grace

  • @olaoyeifeoluwa5717
    @olaoyeifeoluwa5717 12 дней назад

    I am blessed

  • @perpetuaakpulu3343
    @perpetuaakpulu3343 7 месяцев назад

    Peace be upon my marriage 💑🙏

  • @doreenpeoples8322
    @doreenpeoples8322 4 месяца назад

    ❤ Thank u so much Grateful Doreen 🙏

  • @kemilolafadeyi5483
    @kemilolafadeyi5483 5 месяцев назад

    Blessed to be here and to listen to this , much needed . 😊😊😊😊❤

  • @ucheuchendu2529
    @ucheuchendu2529 8 месяцев назад +1

    God bless you, Dr. Kingsley Okonkwo!

  • @nalubegalydia42
    @nalubegalydia42 5 месяцев назад

    Thanks sir

  • @snsn7251
    @snsn7251 8 месяцев назад

    So much wisdom. May we be successful in marriage by 1st choosing well

  • @madibaterrence7525
    @madibaterrence7525 6 месяцев назад

    Compatability ❤

  • @briezychips
    @briezychips 2 месяца назад

    Powerful lesson 😊

  • @ngwokechekwube2658
    @ngwokechekwube2658 Месяц назад

    Thank you sir and ma