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FIVE COMMON MISTAKES PEOPLE DO IN RELATIONSHIPS THAT ALWAYS ENDS IN BREAK UP - FEMI LAZARUS
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- Опубликовано: 8 мар 2024
- FIVE COMMON MISTAKES PEOPLE DO IN RELATIONSHIPS THAT ALWAYS ENDS IN BREAK UP - FEMI LAZARUS
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1, impatience and haste.
Go slow while in the relationship so it will last. Get to know them, study their values, observe them, take your time, evaluate their personality and don’t forget to take your time with them unless you like pain(then you can go fast).
2, over rating people
Study people and don’t over expect. Be careful of premature validation. If you want to live long be careful of your expectations…Beware of people who might want to take advantage of your small season... Do not allow anyone to possess you. They are people who don’t like you, they only need your validation. Take your time to study and relate with people and also be smart while at it.
3, Underrating people
You can’t sum people by the season you met them in, some are in their last phase of being small. Don’t leave a man who is in the last phase of his smallness for a Man who is in the last phase of his greatness, you will REGRET it.
4, Assumption
Never assume people’s intention until they say it. And even after they say it observe their actions to further understand the truth which they may not say with their lips. Never assume they intend to go far till they say it. Always value the moment with people for times change.
5, communication
People communicate what they don’t mean and fail to communicate what they mean. Be open to speak your mind and always clear the air.
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Thank you
Are these the point he made?
Thank you very much
"Take it slow, so that it can last" ❤
This man is so smart he softens with humor and hits with hard truth amen
Don't leave a man who is at the end stage of his small season for a man who is at the end stage of his big season. This hit differently
True. Very true. It struck me in a different way.
Nice
That's really deep! And it takes a lady with great discernment to detect this but I also pray after detecting that greed & selfish interest will not override it
What if it’s the other way round?
Wow. This hit differently
1) Impatience and haste (Take your time. Study their orientation. Observe. Evaluate their personality. Don’t get too excited that you forget to take your time. Except you love pain sha)
2) Overrating. They assume people’s character should be based on their tongues. Or your perceived character of them. Be emotionally smart. Be careful of immature validation. Don’t forget their humanity. If you plan to do this for long you just minimize chances for offense.
BTW: Be careful of people who want to take advantage of your small season. (People can be of help. But don’t let them posses you)
3) Mistake of Underrating someone
4) Mistake of assumption
5) Communication issue.
Side note: Remember some people don’t like you they just need your validation.
Thank you was helpful
They don't only need validation but "help". They've seen your kind personality and potentials and want to exploit them qhile hiding in the name of love.
Thank you so much for this summary, you made it easier writing my own note🙏
"Study people and do not over except" 👌Man will always be man.
*expect
Impatience and haste : take things slowly .
Observe and study them well evaluate their personality
2 overeating: some times people and not bad just that u over rate them be careful of inmature or premature validation ....stop over expecting things from people .don’t trust people 100 percent expect humanity to manifest from people
Be patient 😊
3 underrating people : don’t leave a man at the last face of his smallness or the one at the last phase of his great ness
4 mistake of assumption : spell what ever is in ur mind out
Value the moment u share with people
5 communications:people either communicate what they don’t mean or refuse to communicate what they mean
Emotional Intelligence( Emotional smartness). I love this part sir
My own question is that
How do u know God is directing you to someone
And also when God want u to leave a relationship sir
Mine dated me for a year and
Promised me everything but just yesterday he told me he never loved me
So sorry bruh
So sorry. It is well with your soul
It's what God keeps that is kept
🔥🔥🔥
Good bless you sir. I'm really bless
Everything I got from this message is keep your expectations low in that way you will know how to out do the rest
When people are in your life for a season, value the season you share...
Premature validation
Emotional intelligence 🙌🙌
Ive learnt something today and im glad ive come across this sermon❤️🤚🏾.
From today it's different 🤚🏾💯
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I’m happy that I’m currently living by all this pastor said.i learnt the hard after my last relationship ended years ago.i had to learn!
What happened to the old day of believers seeking for God's direction for a partner and wait on God's direction until he makes it clear on whom the partner is? It seems this generation of young ministers are teaching people to relegate God in their quest to find a spouse and rather depend on their sight, knowing fully well you can only know what someone wants you to know about him/her(some people have dark secrets). If you decide to get too close to an opposite sex the probability of falling into sexual immorality is high. Our forefathers who didn't know God married by asking people close to the individual they want to marry about the person's character and also consult their deities to find out about the family and person. They didn't need to date everyone around them to find out who's compatible, yet their marriage lasted till death and they mostly married as virgins. Why dont we christians return back to consulting God who knows the End even before the beginning to give us our spouse. God gave Eve to Adam, adam didn't need to test her, God still gives spouses if you depend on him
I wonder the same thing too. Should we focus on discerning who God wants us to marry or should we use our mind to detect based on some pointers?
Our parents consulted deities that weren't God yet their marriage lasted not cuz of their fake gods but because of the efforts made by the man and woman going into marriage. Even if God himself gives u a spouse,if u don't put efforts to make it grow and work,it will fail.
@@kingsleyimiefoh899 But I believe we need to hear from God because marriage is beyond just being happy, it's about destiny and kingdom. If destiny is settled, we can now focus on putting efforts to make it work.
I pray God gives us more wisdom and direction in life.
@@kingsleyimiefoh899 have you ever witnessed a believer who married a devil disguised as a good person? Haven't you seen ministers who married terrible partners that were used to destroy their ministry? God formed the institution called marriage, and it'll be f00lishness to choose a partner without his leading. Seek for God's direction for a partner, then you both do your own part to make the marriage work.
@@JerryAlumka God won't come down to give you answers,however he gives you signs to know that a particular partner will be good for you. We know what we should look out for in his word and also we pray about partners that God should reveal the bad ones or show the intention of people coming your way. When u have people throwing advances that their behaviour doesn't tune with the promises of God in his word to us,you know it ain't it cuz his word can't lie as He is same yesterday,today and forever.
"Study people and do not over except" 👌
Thank you Jesus ❤
I love this teaching.
I will listen to this over and over again till it sticks.
I am blessed
Thank you Apostle
The Lord will bless you more with wisdom from above
Your preaching is a bomb,it has really helped me
I wished i came across this earlier 🥺😞 but i pray God's give me the grace to do right 😢 next time
A wise person should analyze this speech bit by bit.... there is so much knowledge in this speech...most of what this speech is all about is what am struggling in my relationship right now.. and trying to make my partner understand the challenges within and how to resolve it
“Sometimes people are not bad,you just expect too much” Kai 😭
“If you want to live long, be careful of your expectations”
“When people are hailing you; watch their lips, people can change”
“Don’t get so attach to the point that, you don’t expect their humanity. If you plan to do this thing for long; you must minimize the chances for offense.”
“You can’t keep every relationship forever; it’s what God keeps that is kept. Value every relationship when you have the opportunity to.”
Just too true.... move on ❤🥺
'capital letter tongue ' 😂😂😂😂😂😂this one got me laughing
I’m happy with this preaching
Gracious take it’s slow so it’s can last !!!🤦🏾♀️
Holyspirit help me Lord🙇🏾♀️🙌🏼
😢😢kaii..gate man
I've learnt my lessons
Thank you Apostle Femi Lazarus 🙏
Lord, grant me wisdom 🙏
💯Great teaching, thank you Femi Lazarus.
😂😂😂😂hilarious too
This word is personally for me. Thank you sir.
This message has enlightened me and I'm grateful to God for coming across this message ❤
It is what God keeps that is kept...God please bless me with wisdom
This message just saved a situation. Thank you Sir
I love this Pastor honesty.
"Dont get too exicted that you forget to take your time."
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏Glory to God..Just simple Wisdom.
Lord pls help to wait on you
Such a great message, amen!
How then do you balance taking time to study someone before taking it further into a relationship, and spending too much time in talking stage?
It is only God that knows the heart of a person. People can pretend for as long as.......... but the holy spirit knows the heart of that person and he will let you in on it.
The holy spirit helped me too in my single season. I had this guy I planned hooking up with. A pastor friend actually approved of him when I expressed my fears about some of his shortcomings as enlightened by the holy spirit.
The Pastor waived it aside by saying "no human is perfect." "All humans are imperfect. Whoever you marry eventually will have a flaw too.
Yes! Whoever I eventually marry will have his own shortcomings but not shortcomings that will destroy my life or detrimental to my destiny, not flaws that will make living hell, not flaws that will make my life a waisted one.
The holy spirit must have prepared someone that will be able to help my destiny. Cos the reason for our lives is to fulfill our life dreams. Whoever the holy spirit prepared for us will be able to help us achieve the reason for our existence all through our life time.
Yes! He may have flaws, not flaws that are detrimental to our reason for living or capable enough to mar our destiny.
This is actually the job of the holy spirit. He knows the heart of every human and knows what is good or bad for us.
I can't think of any other capable person that can help on this journey of knowing the hearts of Men and making a choice of a life partner than the almighty Holy Spirit.
He will do a good job!
Comprehension is a rare gift
Thank you Jesus for this message 🙌
This is so funny but very helpful! Thank you 😂
This is true..
Wish I heard this last year.
Be emotionally smart. Wish I've seen your messages before now😢
The Lord is your strength apostle, thanks for your message
Thank you JESUS
More grace Pastor Femi
Greater Grace Sir
0:05 😂😂😂😂 why is this man so funny , put love in reserve love and why you love em
In relating with people please take your time...be patient
9:17 he who pays the dictates chooses the tune amen!
Thank you for this sir. God bless you and your family.
Entitlement, Impatience 💯
This came in timely💯 Thank you Sir
Thank you 😊 sir for telling us the truth
Don't expect too much from people, and don't be impatience and take ur time.
Thank you sir... U have been adding value to my life
More wisdom sir 👏
11:12 no Dey underrate be smart , don’t leave those last stage of greatness for last stage of smallness, don’t judge by how you met them
Thank you Sir, I learned something
They will boo you 😂😂😂😂😂
Powerful lesson sir❤
I wish i heard this message before now😢
It’s okay it is not to late to change. Trust me ❤ We learn and unlearn 😊
Thank you so much for your words I've really learnt a lot ❤
I wish i heard this in March. Now i'm heartbroken...i rushed things
Sorry comfort 😢
Sorry, you will overcome!
@@IgeKehinde-Mary hi kehinde
@@tbagtech Hi
Healing is coming to you... Trust God
Thank you Sir
Nice talk thanks u sir
Powerful word ❤
I am blessed. Thank you, sir.
Are there witnesses in the house. . Apostle, this is massive
God bless you sir
Very powerful
Thank you sir for this.
Thank you very much for this sir
I love you sir
You have scartered this table sir
Thanks sir 🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯
I wish I heard this last week November
Thank you sir for these
I love this message 😂❤
Find your bearing
Ahhhh timely message
I'm blessed Sir
Thank you sir 😌😊
My Pastor
Very true
Thank u sir ❤
Powerful
Man will always be man
Please can you be uploading the title of the messages?
2:40 😂😂😂😂 it’s true oooo stay smart out here
10:26 there are ppl who don’t like you ! They just need your validation , Dey take time oooo avoid traps and see through smoke screens - applies to allllll relationships,,, Dey take time ooo
From today onwards, i wil do this
Yes sir
7:40 it’s true ppl change….. don’t live By Compliments as you’ll die by critics, be wise or you’ll get. Offense and die ooo 9:17 I cannot be bought !
Hosanah 😂😂
My God, this is my message 😂
GOD help me
Very inspiring❤
Where is your church here in Ibadan sir
Take things slow
It important not to assume
Exactly, you are very correct sir
Some people body Dey hot 😂🤲🏾😂😭
Overrating ‼️capital letter tongue 🥹
Pls what's the title of this message?