Yeah it would be better if the editor just played the sound effect far less often. The effect is fine without the accompanying sound, but the shutter sound makes it jarring, distracting and gives a photoshoot feel which doesn't really match the talking head informative video format.
conditions for the challenge: 1 put it in the calendar: start and end time and day for 30 days 2 compromise urself to do it no matther what 3 set up a minimum per day. 1 is not bad but at least 3 is recommended 4 pick different places where ur going to approach 5 find a wingman or an accountability partner that ll give u shit if u dont act. 6 dont be too hard on urself, try to have fun so you have fun and dont get discouraged mentally he didnt specified much but i guess its about approaching only girls but i guess it works too if you talk to everyone.
It's a shame how many people out there don't listen to Todd.. I'm 26, but Todd's game is just classy and really fits any situation, he never does something over the top to grab a girl's attention. In fact, Todd looks like a super Boring dude. Which is why I rather listen to him than other dating coaches. He really proves how it's a verbal/emotional game. Change her mood, not her mind 🙌
by the time you buy so much into the "women just want looks and money", you're already digging your own grave in the dating world. how red and black pill believes in how female attraction works is literally bro science, lacking in actual psychological knowledge.
I have done this challenge in the last few weeks. Since I’ve had strong approach anxiety and other psychological/practical problems in difference life areas, my focus was not getting hookups or relationship by all means in that period but widening my social freedom, getting out of comfort zone. The results: - much more approaches than ever before - first very direct approach in my life (without wing, not in party but on the street) - improving my focus and self discipline (e. g. 10 approaches in one hour…earlier I was tend to spend hours with looking for excuses and not doing any approach) - a few contacts (flakes but I am not disappointed since I was not focusing on good technique). Now I have more freedom and it is easier for me to notice opportunities and initiate. 😎
I have to agree with Todd on the subconscious game part. I have had days where I would be half asleep and I’m having a smooth game and yes constant practice reduces anxiety both in cold approach and text game
I did a 30 day challenge last summer. 118 aproaches. Slept with 2 girls. Half the girls sadly didn't speak the language. Still proud of that to this day.
Please everyone, do yourself a favour and additionaly use positive affirmations if you do the challenge. You can find good ones in John Alexander‘s book „How to become an alphamale“ or learn how to make some positive ones for yourself and use them daily (with no pressure and a good feeling. They must be believable…) . A positive attitude makes all the difference … But it‘s true: I will never forget these 30 days. It‘s crazy, but definitely worth it… 😂❤
@@TioMagic I have them in german but i translate some … „I have a high selfworth. I really like to chat with women. I go through life with elegance, dignity and style. I love myself (cheesy but a big one!!!). I feel relaxed, calm and in control. I feel very sexy with women. I relax my body and open up. I feel very good speaking with others. I take space, whereever i am, because i send out selfconfidence. I am a challenge for women, because i have high standards (my favourite!!!). I am a natural leader. I am unpredictable. I enjoy being a good looking alphamale. I am a wild guy when it comes to sex. I am the lover of womens dreams. I am entertaining and interesting. „ Here you go and make sure only to use affirmation that FEEL GOOD and you can believe. If you are used to them, you can also just repeat them in your mind if you are outside, in a bus, train or so.Don’t make it to systematic using them. Speaking them daily for like 3-5 times is enough every once in a while and make sure to WRITE them down on a piece of paper.Be easy with that. Have fun !!!! ✌️
Well her we go... I don't have an accountability partner so I guess I'll use this comment section. I'm 22 years old and I must have started watching Todd 5 maybe even 6 years ago now. However I must have done 3 daytime/sober approaches in my life time and am still a virgin. Which is honestly just embarrassing at this point. I'll start on the first of July 2024 and document my progress here. For the first week I'll give updates everyday to make sure I stick to it and after that I'll give weekly updates t'ill the end. Which me luck boys! Day 1: Didn't go out. Having worked until 3 am the night before and 5 am the night before that I slept in until 4 pm. As an ambitious person who is trying to better many different aspects of his life I chose to stay in and focus on career stuff. There's nether a right time I suppose but this week doesn't look good.
@@leventelarslan5145 thanks for checking in. In short didn't do it. Having recently started a new job and having other deadlines to meet I've felt overwhelmed. I'm going to take some time to set habits so I can feel good about myself before taking on this challenge. (Also the fact I live in a small village and have to take the train into town every day to do so might mean I need a different challenge) Where are you in game?
I was approaching girls for much more than 30 days everyday but it didnt work much. Got compliments, got a few dates, but it was waaaaaay too much effort for very little successs and so many instant rejections.
Because you are focusing on the wrong thing It will never work for you 1) all you want is either sex or a girlfriend 2) you want your ego rubbed by a lot of acceptance 3) you are outcome focused instead of process Switch your mentality to this and it will start working 1) you are approaching to improve your social skills, to destroy anxiety and to practice the art of smooth talking 2) you are approaching not because you want quick sex but because you are genuinely looking for great connections... so if. A pretty girl disqualifies you, you are not bothered, because someone that connects genuinely won't disqualify you 3) focus on process You have a goal of approaching 500 people And after each approach you go home to think about what you could have done better and what you did well and you are determined to do this the next day 4) be happier that you are doing what you are doing don't be in a state. Of expectation be in a state of oh I'm happy I get to do this, finally some thrill in my life 5) in fact when you do all the above you will be hoping you don't meet someone genuine soon because that might stop you from continuing Good luck in 2024
Sometimes some people to need to invest some money to get coaching In person to kick start that learning curve man. Nothing wrong with that, I have spent about 20k USD in my life on game content and coaching. Totally worth it if you are unhappy with this aspect of your life. Just like if your finances were not in order, you would hire a financial planner/advisor. Invest some money to improve if you're not sure what you need to fix bro. All the best!
It could be a technical error, or it could be an inner game error which usually shows as a technical error. I highly recommend spending some money to get it sorted bro. Best program i have ever found with that 20k was Gabriel Greys online program and that is including having downloaded majority of RSD content and even todds, Gabreils program is just insane man.
What’s makes game next to impossible to me is genetic eye bags under the eyes. I’m just 20 but they add up so much tiredness to my look. How am I supposed to keep a solid eye contact? It’s basically excess fat that have to be removed via plastic surgery, however I’m at best will be able to do in in 6-8 months. In the meantime I’m in uni and have so many opportunities to meet new people but can’t beat this insecurity. And yeah, it looks really bad. Only good in low light setting/evenings. I’m slim, having a clean af diet for years, but this issue is with me since I was a kid, just the way my ( otherwise a pretty good looking) face is stractured
that sounds like an inflammation issue i had the same issue with always looking stoned or hungover. doing the lion diet for 2 months fixed my eye bags and I feel great. If you do the diet make sure you are eating enough fat.
If you have a genuine issue might be worth seeing a doctor but I have heard rubbing tea bags under your eyes or using some skin care products can help.
Sounds tough man. But there are so many success stories around from people who do game and start out with some insecurity about their looks. We all have something that we need to overcome in order to succeed, knowing what that is means you are already half way there.
I mean this with the utmost repect, how is someone supposed to do this when they work 40+ hours a week and have over 2hrs a day of commute time leaving only the weekends to be able to talk to any women at all?
You just go out and do it... 3 approaches everyday. But if you need some guidelines and don't know about "Rules of the Game: The Stylelife Challenge, Master the Game in 30 Days" that's where to go. (Follow up to "The Game" by Niel Strauss). Alternativley, search for something from Todd he must have something out there!
I'm struggling with freezing. I want to approach but something is stopping me from doing it and or saying anything. It's so frustrating that I can't figure out a way to break this.
it's the toughest part of game. just do it and trust your brain is a technique I like the most. there is also the 3 second rule rhat you can look up. I actually searched the topic and before you freeze, the brain has made a decision (not to go) 10 milliseconds prior to the tipping point (and then it will rationalize and try to come up with an excuse). knowing this helps a lot because you become aware that your brain is tricking you into preservation mode. so every time you go for it and ignore it altogether, you're kinda reprograming your brain to realize that it is ok m and approach anxiety is reduced but never completely dissappears.
Honestly what helped me was getting some really great interactions from cold approaches. It’s hard to believe in the beginning but sometimes it can go really really well. Once that happens a few times you get more confident each time.
3 opens a day, if you are in a location with a lot chicks you could probably get through that in less than 20 minutes, 30 if you had to hunt around. Including commute time I don't see this as requiring more than an hour a day.
What exactly do you do that you don't encounter different females everyday? Do you not get a lunch break? Never need to go to the gas station, no need to shop for groceries?
I don't like the part of the 30-day challenge when he Todd says that you might get laid a couple of times. Doesn't anybody fear getting a veneral disease?
I have the same problem, compounded by the fact that my job is “too good to quit” (aka golden handcuffs).. mid 6 figures, low stress, DB pension @50, sweet benefits and perks.. Been struggling with it for a while and I do feel the time ticking, haven’t come up with a solution yet..
Alex does multiple seminars, lets you study a bunch of uncensored infield, does photoshoots, fixes up your date app profiles, is there to push you and give you instant feedback and 1-on-1 deep dive sessions… you get to meet wings who are doing the same thing with you, there is an open invite to partake in future programs, probably more I’m forgetting but yeah, I’d call it a 30 day challenge on steroids and well worth it for the relatively cheap price tbh.
The photo shutter effect is hella annoying because it's overdone in these video's. Content is second to none as usual though, great stuff Todd.
I didn’t realize until you mentioned it, now I can’t unsee 😢
For real though
Makes Todd V less boring
- Uncle Jeffy
Yeah it would be better if the editor just played the sound effect far less often. The effect is fine without the accompanying sound, but the shutter sound makes it jarring, distracting and gives a photoshoot feel which doesn't really match the talking head informative video format.
conditions for the challenge:
1 put it in the calendar: start and end time and day for 30 days
2 compromise urself to do it no matther what
3 set up a minimum per day. 1 is not bad but at least 3 is recommended
4 pick different places where ur going to approach
5 find a wingman or an accountability partner that ll give u shit if u dont act.
6 dont be too hard on urself, try to have fun so you have fun and dont get discouraged mentally
he didnt specified much but i guess its about approaching only girls but i guess it works too if you talk to everyone.
It's a shame how many people out there don't listen to Todd..
I'm 26, but Todd's game is just classy and really fits any situation, he never does something over the top to grab a girl's attention.
In fact, Todd looks like a super Boring dude.
Which is why I rather listen to him than other dating coaches.
He really proves how it's a verbal/emotional game.
Change her mood, not her mind 🙌
Bro I’m 26 too. Just found Todd. Just did my first day of the 30 day challenge. Cool to see someone else same age as me learning from Todd
@@LeelosAdventure Nice, I'm 24, just found Todd. Everything he says makes me feel so excited to go out and talk to girls.
by the time you buy so much into the "women just want looks and money", you're already digging your own grave in the dating world. how red and black pill believes in how female attraction works is literally bro science, lacking in actual psychological knowledge.
New year goal!! The 30 day challenge!!
I have done this challenge in the last few weeks.
Since I’ve had strong approach anxiety and other psychological/practical problems in difference life areas, my focus was not getting hookups or relationship by all means in that period but widening my social freedom, getting out of comfort zone.
The results:
- much more approaches than ever before
- first very direct approach in my life (without wing, not in party but on the street)
- improving my focus and self discipline (e. g. 10 approaches in one hour…earlier I was tend to spend hours with looking for excuses and not doing any approach)
- a few contacts (flakes but I am not disappointed since I was not focusing on good technique).
Now I have more freedom and it is easier for me to notice opportunities and initiate. 😎
I have to agree with Todd on the subconscious game part. I have had days where I would be half asleep and I’m having a smooth game and yes constant practice reduces anxiety both in cold approach and text game
I did a 30 day challenge last summer.
118 aproaches.
Slept with 2 girls.
Half the girls sadly didn't speak the language.
Still proud of that to this day.
Excuse me for the dumb question, but what do you mean with not speaking the language?
and from those 2 girls you slept with... are there one of em at least... also don't speak the language?
They don't speak English that well.
"have fun, this is why it's called the game, not the work!" f×ck yeah! love it.
I am starting this challenge today. 😎
How's it going?
@@andreasv9472Till this day, I’ve completed most of the approaches I have set as daily goals.
Have you tried this challenge, too?
@@andreasv9472Hi, it was a very good and effective experience.😎
Please everyone, do yourself a favour and additionaly use positive affirmations if you do the challenge. You can find good ones in John Alexander‘s book „How to become an alphamale“ or learn how to make some positive ones for yourself and use them daily (with no pressure and a good feeling. They must be believable…) . A positive attitude makes all the difference … But it‘s true: I will never forget these 30 days. It‘s crazy, but definitely worth it… 😂❤
can u give us some of the affirmations please pal? thank you!
@@TioMagic I have them in german but i translate some … „I have a high selfworth. I really like to chat with women. I go through life with elegance, dignity and style. I love myself (cheesy but a big one!!!). I feel relaxed, calm and in control. I feel very sexy with women. I relax my body and open up. I feel very good speaking with others. I take space, whereever i am, because i send out selfconfidence. I am a challenge for women, because i have high standards (my favourite!!!). I am a natural leader. I am unpredictable. I enjoy being a good looking alphamale. I am a wild guy when it comes to sex. I am the lover of womens dreams. I am entertaining and interesting. „ Here you go and make sure only to use affirmation that FEEL GOOD and you can believe. If you are used to them, you can also just repeat them in your mind if you are outside, in a bus, train or so.Don’t make it to systematic using them. Speaking them daily for like 3-5 times is enough every once in a while and make sure to WRITE them down on a piece of paper.Be easy with that. Have fun !!!! ✌️
Well her we go...
I don't have an accountability partner so I guess I'll use this comment section.
I'm 22 years old and I must have started watching Todd 5 maybe even 6 years ago now. However I must have done 3 daytime/sober approaches in my life time and am still a virgin. Which is honestly just embarrassing at this point.
I'll start on the first of July 2024 and document my progress here. For the first week I'll give updates everyday to make sure I stick to it and after that I'll give weekly updates t'ill the end. Which me luck boys!
Day 1: Didn't go out. Having worked until 3 am the night before and 5 am the night before that I slept in until 4 pm. As an ambitious person who is trying to better many different aspects of his life I chose to stay in and focus on career stuff. There's nether a right time I suppose but this week doesn't look good.
How is it going?
@@leventelarslan5145 thanks for checking in. In short didn't do it. Having recently started a new job and having other deadlines to meet I've felt overwhelmed. I'm going to take some time to set habits so I can feel good about myself before taking on this challenge. (Also the fact I live in a small village and have to take the train into town every day to do so might mean I need a different challenge)
Where are you in game?
I was approaching girls for much more than 30 days everyday but it didnt work much. Got compliments, got a few dates, but it was waaaaaay too much effort for very little successs and so many instant rejections.
Because you are focusing on the wrong thing
It will never work for you
1) all you want is either sex or a girlfriend
2) you want your ego rubbed by a lot of acceptance
3) you are outcome focused instead of process
Switch your mentality to this and it will start working
1) you are approaching to improve your social skills, to destroy anxiety and to practice the art of smooth talking
2) you are approaching not because you want quick sex but because you are genuinely looking for great connections... so if. A pretty girl disqualifies you, you are not bothered, because someone that connects genuinely won't disqualify you
3) focus on process
You have a goal of approaching 500 people
And after each approach you go home to think about what you could have done better and what you did well and you are determined to do this the next day
4) be happier that you are doing what you are doing don't be in a state. Of expectation be in a state of oh I'm happy I get to do this, finally some thrill in my life
5) in fact when you do all the above you will be hoping you don't meet someone genuine soon because that might stop you from continuing
Good luck in 2024
@@akinkuotuclinton6591bro this’s so helpful.
You got great advice so take it all. What i want to add is you got balls and i respect that.
Sometimes some people to need to invest some money to get coaching In person to kick start that learning curve man.
Nothing wrong with that, I have spent about 20k USD in my life on game content and coaching. Totally worth it if you are unhappy with this aspect of your life.
Just like if your finances were not in order, you would hire a financial planner/advisor. Invest some money to improve if you're not sure what you need to fix bro.
All the best!
It could be a technical error, or it could be an inner game error which usually shows as a technical error.
I highly recommend spending some money to get it sorted bro.
Best program i have ever found with that 20k was Gabriel Greys online program and that is including having downloaded majority of RSD content and even todds, Gabreils program is just insane man.
Best Todd V video ever
I needed this one ❤️
What’s makes game next to impossible to me is genetic eye bags under the eyes. I’m just 20 but they add up so much tiredness to my look. How am I supposed to keep a solid eye contact? It’s basically excess fat that have to be removed via plastic surgery, however I’m at best will be able to do in in 6-8 months. In the meantime I’m in uni and have so many opportunities to meet new people but can’t beat this insecurity. And yeah, it looks really bad. Only good in low light setting/evenings.
I’m slim, having a clean af diet for years, but this issue is with me since I was a kid, just the way my ( otherwise a pretty good looking) face is stractured
that sounds like an inflammation issue i had the same issue with always looking stoned or hungover. doing the lion diet for 2 months fixed my eye bags and I feel great. If you do the diet make sure you are eating enough fat.
If you have a genuine issue might be worth seeing a doctor but I have heard rubbing tea bags under your eyes or using some skin care products can help.
Sounds tough man. But there are so many success stories around from people who do game and start out with some insecurity about their looks. We all have something that we need to overcome in order to succeed, knowing what that is means you are already half way there.
If you put ice cube 🧊 on that place, does it make any difference?
To be fair it doesn't matter
Unless you are actually tired and slept they help you be better looking
I enjoy all of your videos Todd! However, I think you need some sleep man.
I mean this with the utmost repect, how is someone supposed to do this when they work 40+ hours a week and have over 2hrs a day of commute time leaving only the weekends to be able to talk to any women at all?
Approach during commute, approach during lunch time etc
Todd post some rejection infield
Thank you Xaneus
Where can i find this 30 day challenge?
You just go out and do it... 3 approaches everyday. But if you need some guidelines and don't know about "Rules of the Game: The Stylelife Challenge, Master the Game in 30 Days" that's where to go. (Follow up to "The Game" by Niel Strauss).
Alternativley, search for something from Todd he must have something out there!
Neil Strauss
I'm struggling with freezing. I want to approach but something is stopping me from doing it and or saying anything. It's so frustrating that I can't figure out a way to break this.
it's the toughest part of game. just do it and trust your brain is a technique I like the most. there is also the 3 second rule rhat you can look up. I actually searched the topic and before you freeze, the brain has made a decision (not to go) 10 milliseconds prior to the tipping point (and then it will rationalize and try to come up with an excuse). knowing this helps a lot because you become aware that your brain is tricking you into preservation mode. so every time you go for it and ignore it altogether, you're kinda reprograming your brain to realize that it is ok m and approach anxiety is reduced but never completely dissappears.
Honestly what helped me was getting some really great interactions from cold approaches. It’s hard to believe in the beginning but sometimes it can go really really well. Once that happens a few times you get more confident each time.
Never been a part of the 'game' world but how does one practically do this? Do you walk around the streets for hours or coffee shops or what?
Probably
Pretty much.
Repetition is the mother of skill....
where do you suggest you do the 30 day challenge? venues?
Okay but who has 30 days free and the money to be going out every single day?... or am i missing something
3 opens a day, if you are in a location with a lot chicks you could probably get through that in less than 20 minutes, 30 if you had to hunt around. Including commute time I don't see this as requiring more than an hour a day.
What exactly do you do that you don't encounter different females everyday? Do you not get a lunch break? Never need to go to the gas station, no need to shop for groceries?
God bless you Todd!!! ❤❤❤
Thank you!
I want to do this
This is hard when u work a lot
Thank you Todd
Where can i find about this challenge ? Never heard before
Please make a video on compliance tests and pattern interrupts
Your signup form doesn't work, I signed up but didn't receive an e-mail.
I don't like the part of the 30-day challenge when he Todd says that you might get laid a couple of times. Doesn't anybody fear getting a veneral disease?
I'd say these guys are probably aware of, mitigating, and/or accepting that risk as a part of this.
I cannot do it.
Only Smith & Wesson can help me now 😂
Pure Gold!
yes but what is 30 day challenge?
Cold approach girls in public every day for 30 days
How much does the boot camp cost?
how do you do it when you are fkin exhauste after i finished my software developer job at 5PM
Bro you finish at 5 pm there’s a lot more time left in the night and you can do some in the morning or during lunch.
Oh no! not after 5 pm just like the majority of everyone that has job
3 approaches a day? I don’t even know 3 places to go. 😅
What a time to drop this video! January is gonna be craaaazy!!
This sounds awesome and I’ve tried this recently but the women in my small town are all too young or too old… NEED to fuckin move
I have the same problem, compounded by the fact that my job is “too good to quit” (aka golden handcuffs).. mid 6 figures, low stress, DB pension @50, sweet benefits and perks..
Been struggling with it for a while and I do feel the time ticking, haven’t come up with a solution yet..
Sounds like you know what you need to do. Like looking for water in a desert, not impossible but highly unlikely
who is gonna call Todd out for being a total nerd
wait one a day ? lol i barely do one a month !!
Basically Alex’s 4wN 😂
Alex does multiple seminars, lets you study a bunch of uncensored infield, does photoshoots, fixes up your date app profiles, is there to push you and give you instant feedback and 1-on-1 deep dive sessions… you get to meet wings who are doing the same thing with you, there is an open invite to partake in future programs, probably more I’m forgetting but yeah, I’d call it a 30 day challenge on steroids and well worth it for the relatively cheap price tbh.
nice
once i get my finances in place ill get some gf
😇
The same clown xd
Have you tried approaching a woman?
@@fasileyayuprobably he has an idea in his mind on how it is to approach a female, catastrophic results guilting people who shares real advise
😎