No friends, no family (apart from 1 brother, disconnected from rest) for many years now. I used to wonder why and at times lonely, but now I know why God had to clear my path. I no longer question it, and I love my own company and my relationship with God. I'm open to having friendships and relationships in the future, but in truth, every good person on this earth is my friend and my family. That's the way I see it, wherever I go. Nature, the animals, the birds, and the trees are my friends. I love my solitude, being in the present moment, and I love my inner peace and contentment. I do not feel alone or lonely whatsoever anymore. Loneliness is a state of mind. A person can be around the wrong group or in a wrong relationship and be completely lonely and alone. God moved many people out of my life and then showed that I had to do that for myself, too. I know that this has happened to many others out there, so I'm not "alone" in this situation. God has scattered us across the earth. We might be physically alone, but we are connected energetically!
I thought I was alone in this but like you said only 1 brother left who leave so so far away, now he is acting up also I'm gonna have to let him go too then that's it. Since I know me, ALONE is my very good friend and that all I know. Because I'm not the only one in this so it's okay I can do this WOAW.
Wow..this is beautifully spoken ...I suddenly am embracing the Lone Wolf that I've always been...🎉 And know that I'm really never alone ..this truly has warmed my Heart 💖 thank you 🙏🍀💫
You are an Angel! I am so glad I have found your platform! Hermit mode for 2 years! I am really starting to understand this new beginnings in my new life! love and Light to you! peace out to Gaia now🙏🙏😎 Amen
I'm 65 now and retired but this I can tell you, I was an amazing worker right throughout my life and it was extremely difficult because people took advantage of that and gave me little respect, while pushing the load onto me and sometimes, they were bossy to me and downright nasty. Now I feel so free and I love my own company and the solace that I now have. It's so refreshing.
I have always felt that I didnit belong especially coming from a dysfunctional family but now I realize and understand that God set me apart to prepare me for His will in my life & I accept that now..great video..new subscriber❤
You’re not alone. I’m discovering how common dysfunctional families have this effect on the black sheep/ scapegoats of the family. My son was rejected by my family just bc he’s my son. I often tell him how much he’s loved by others, family doesn’t need to be biological🥰
I love that insight..that God set you apart to prepare you for his will 🧡 That is powerful and I totally relate to that... Suddenly I'm embracing my Lone Wolf and the fact I've always been a misfit 🎉❤
I have always felt like an outsider...turns out I have been the scapegoat. I walked away about a year ago and have learned so much about myself. I have always been a loner and enjoy my own company and have chosen to be alone right now. Just found this channel today and it is nice to know that I am not alone in the search for inner truth.
I always tended to be an outsider. F.e., when i was in my teens and twens, i was not often invited to parties, which sometimes made me feel as if i was missing out in life. BUT whenever i did get an invitation, the party started to heavily bore me after maximly 30 minutes.
Yes ! First time in my life I put myself first in decisions about friendships. After 2 yrs of doing deep healing I found something I was not actually looking for. I FOUND ME ! The authentic Me The geniune Me The joyful Me The peaceful Me The powerful Me The funny Me The loving Me The healed Me The real Me The passionate Me The self controlled Me
I have never fit in. Ever. Even when I hang around “spiritual people” I feel very set apart. It has been miserable. I miss my church community however I don’t want them back because they are so asleep and I can’t stand being misunderstood or worse people don’t want to understand. It hurts.
I've mastered the ability to be alone. Being alone maximized my curiosity, imagination and far more that is preparing me to become something unspeakably great.
It does make me feel lonely sometimes. But ive always been alone. And i do NOT have a problem cutting the people who dont make me feel good out. Im 38 and have actually never ever heard anyone talk like me before! When i tell this to people I usually get a one word response. By the look on there faces i assume they’re doing a math equation in there head.
As people come and go, I learned that God is always with us to guide, comfort and help us to have inner peace to know who have good intentions or if they are of the devil. I love your channel, Beautiful lady! 🙏 Namaste🌻
It's facinating! In a world where we have so many bridges to interact, is where we getting more lonely. I believe you starting to get lonely as you get older, filtering many friends that somehow someway did disapointed you. I also believe this "Journey" starts when you get Hurt emotionally. I am in a same position and to to be honest it's not pleasing!
Understandable! It teaches you alot, you learn to let go and embrace what is, eventually. Choosing friends consciously is so much better than hanging out with people who are never actually your “friends “,.
Your video about being chosen was spot on. I was even thinking I am the black sheep of the family. My life will soon change and I have as my mission to reveal to humanity the true nature of our Father. He is the epitome of unconditional love and with such love, if we give it away, we can change the world. Dear ones, it is hard to be in a place where you have no friends. Yet we here are friends gathered together to work in twain to give our love away. To heal the world. And never forget that the Father of the universe loves us each one as if we were the only child in all of creation. I love you Sadaf. Thanks for your love in gathering us together with the thought that we are never really alone.
It's a relief to be understood as well as I understand you. I've been ostracized from society from the time I stepped into a classroom. I felt there were others like yourself as like myself, kindred. It took me years to stop denying who I am as a desperate attempt to fit into who I wasn't meant to be for the sake of societal expectations that didn't align with what felt wasn't right after considering the guise in which people rely on to excuse themselves to identify with the idea of being one with themselves. I can't help but to feel as I see through layers of illusion meant to keep people confused to the point of giving into to the illusion as to accept it as it is what it is as I understand that it doesn't have be whenever considering most complications are unnecessary and only serves those who see themselves above the rest of humanity. I can't help but to pick up on patterns as I am compelled to make the connections within unbiased assignment otherwise would be founded on biased assumptions misconstrued for sound judgment. I can't help but to see as not how I'd wished to see as I care not to see those who tend to hide the core nature as to a manner of opposites between potentials for good and bad by degrees. To feel as though I'm at the axis of scales with the realizing the importance of universal scales as it pertains to the balance of contrasts. To realize neither can exist without the other. Neither can coexist without balance. As of now, the scales need recalibration due to the tilt favoring the dark side. Sadly, I've been a silent witness to the unfurl of seemingly random events to understand how and why we're having to deal with the presence of madness at the forefront. To say I had a childhood would be a lie as not to tell that I've been introduced to the monsters of this world in which I felt the lack of justice to see through the guise of order to understand unnecessary chaos is a means to maintain order of the wrong kind given to the impression of righteousness.
Being alone is turning inwards, discovering and fully understanding yourself and life mission. It is not to be chastised but cherished for the gifts it gives along the way.
@ 3:39 - yep. I had that feeling and then I did the same thing you described, I distanced myself from those I used to hang out with. I love being alone with myself; I thought I was the only one. Thank you for your video and compassion. I operate my own business so I have plenty of time with customers who have also become "friends" over the years.
I am my 50's now but back in the day in the 90's as a young adult I experienced all of this. However back then I never heard a single soul talk about this problem. Nowadays its great people experiencing this are sharing it online, it really does make such a difference - videos like this are so valuable and will help a lot of people. 30 years later I still have this issue, but my solitary path has led me to a good place, and I feel I have done the right thing.
I can relate to your video. For a while I wanted to be apart of something just to say I had friends but like you I didn’t feel good, I wasn’t happy they weren’t aligning with me and vise versa. Today, I have no friends and I’m great with that. I enjoy my own company. I avoid bars and lounges because it’s low vibrational.
We are never alone the Father the Son and the Holy Spirit is with us always and forever Amen 🙏✨✨🙏✨✨🙏 Being alone isn’t sad cause I have Jesus I love you Lord Jesus Christ amen 🙏✨✨🙏♥️♥️🙏✨✨🙏
I agree....When I was "lost " on my path of mortal existence, I was "conditioned" with just going to work and then drinking large amounts of alcohol and numbing myself with indulging with recreational drugs.....I ended up having to go to prison for a DWI charge for a full year......I went through a gauntlet of suffering but when it was over it was indeed a blessing in disguise.....It saved my life and made me feel the power of the universe.
Wow.. Your story is so soothing to hear right now as I go through realizations.. My isolation has given me the space to see myself. It was so tough to release some close ones but I now realize the spiritual benefit of letting them go.. Thanks for sharing Devine..
You have explained what I have been doing instinctively. Being a chosen one I have recognized too I been protected. I work alone which I am so grateful for. I have shed friends that I grew out of and cut ties with a brother. Lol, I have been doing things you had mentioned: read books, writing...even wood carving. Just recently taking a writing course for seniors. This is the first for me. I am appreciating their stories. I am entering a new level.
Blessed be my friend. The Universe brought you to me today. I've never seen you on RUclips until today ;) I'm a practicing Witch and always open to different perspectives. Thank you for your tutorials. I WILL use them to guide me concerning my Spiritual Journey. Have a blessed day.
Mike from Elk Grove Crunch Fitness CA, I've been alone since my divorce in 2003, sure the last 3 year's I've returned to my bodybuilding training just before my last 3 major spinal surgeries, and I chat with other gym members, but after I walk out through those directions I'm alone allover again. Yes there isn't a day that goes by wondering why noone has showed interest in me, why don't I have friends like everyone else, there has to be a greater calling or purpose.
This is the third consecutive video I've watched after the just randomly popping up in my feed and EVWRYTHING you mention and discuss in your videos explains/resonates with me to the T. I am very much grateful for your sharing, I sense growth and increase here, (NEW SUB)🙏👏👍 Great Job, THANKYOU FOR YOU
I guess my main goal is life has drastically changed over the years. I am nearly souly focused on being as connected as I possibly can with the universe and all energy that enters my space. I too used to think that I must try to please everyone around me and do their bidding. Today I've had to detach from almost everyone in my life, mainly the toxic ones . My family never ever supported me when I shared with them the visions I was having and now that they have come to pass it seems like they are ashamed of the way they treated me. I am a very very strong spiritual being and I have so so much wisdom and knowledge that I couldn't even tell you where I learned all of this, however I have opened up entirely to the Creator and the multiverse around me so that I can better understand who I am and why I am here in this day and age. Because I want to know more about myself I will be arranging an appointment with a hypnotherapist that specializes in past life regression. Please pray for me my brothers and sisters, I love you all and hope to meet you someday.
Wonderful to hear @rubengarcia456! I had the best experiences & results using Hypnotherapy (had it involved in my past business also) And...Self-discovery is so needed in all parts of our personal, spiritual and even professional journey's. I'm sending you best wishes, and lots of love & light for your steps ahead. ~🙏💫🧡
Not aligned with them, not enjoying time with them...spot on, i am feeling that now EXACTLY! Talk about energy....what u have said so true! In the past one year, I met 3 people with whom i shared my best tips n info. I showed them love. 15:4615:57 They were v happy when they with me. Then suddenly, without warning, complete silence from them. Left me scratching my head. Wondering what i said or did wrong. A sudden realisation. My energy n vibes threatened them n made them feel inadequate. They felt v pressured. I did not do anything to make them feel bad. But my person made them feel bad! Thank you very much for sharing. 11:2115:0517:41
I used to live in desirable part of the city world which I began to dream to escape one day. Voice inside me kept telling me you don’t belong here, you are so much more and you are chosen to do the work for universe. I was always truth seeker to heal and bring beauty. Few years ago I was given opportunity to buy home and I chose to move to the mountains to be alone to find out who am I and what can I do. I have my pets with me which I am great full for but I also able more to read, think and discover myself as creative writer in English more than my native Ukrainian language. I do all the video writing for my RUclips channel. Since my childhood I wasn’t treated kindly as smart kid and been abused because of it but now living alone with nature helped me to prove myself and others they were wrong. And I tell myself that I am actually blessed to have inside me what others don’t know experience. I prefer be alone but true to myself. I know if I meant to have friends they will come from universe to lift me up so I can complete my job on earth.
Thank you for making this video. I resonated with being hard in myself and feeling shame for being in this situation. There are times I feel like it’s my fault when I don’t align to others. I became different. And my life hasn’t been the same since I woke up. And I feel lonely and like failure.
Brautiful message again. I resonate so much with your words. I have felt shame in the past for not having friends, but now recognisng the power of solitude and working things out for me. I am on a different path for sure, but I feel it's allowed me to get closer to our Heavenly father. It's about vibrating at a whole different plane. As you say, all this will serve me well in time, after this gap test. I will attract all I want and attract in due course. Thank you for your amazing insights once again. ❤
One of the reasons I prefer being alone, in itself, is also a form of liberation. I win every arguement. Come and go as I please. And the only one who can pull me down...is myself.
Our solitude is necessary for our Spiritual development and knowing who we are. It's also a wonderful opportunity to learn things at our own pace without competition or distraction. One of the most important tasks in this life is to know ourselves. The strength we gain is built from the core of our being and what others think becomes less important.
That depends on what or who you consider “friends”. Some of the loneliness times I’ve experienced was around hundreds of people. When you say, “I’m not enjoying this” I didn’t either. I love my company, I have 2 friends, that I trust and uplifting me. My ex always told me, if you come to the end of your life and you can count on one hand the number of friends you have (true friends) you are lucky. ♥️
Your words resonated with me so much I’ve been going through this, my whole life and I am in this face as we speak. I’m not sure what should I be doing next plus I have health issues.
Very very painful journey after cutting off everybody. Transforming so much grief and pain...But it feels necessary... Lots of moments of deep joy... Hanging out in nature gives me a feeling that I cannot describe in words and I invest every single free moment to meditate, connect to nature, read a lot...I don't have the feeling I'm missing something. I can sense there's a much better version of myself in the making. Thank you for this wonderful video that helps understand and that we're many! ❤
Yes it take me years to understand why i never fith into people i always taught that something was wrong with me antill i found the trute about the chousen people never like by my family always been alone but never lonely. Never have friends from i was a child antill now am grown .
I’m 55, with no close friends and even family has dropped off. I shamed myself, but then I acknowledged the relief in the pain. If you only call me to talk about you, I release you…If you only call me when you need money, or an extra body at your event. I release you. Go in peace.
Yes dear it's true I am also all alone except one brother who too does not understand me...feel I am quite unique from all and do uncomfortable in that crowd even though I socialise very little as I feel many do not resonate well
I voluntarily chose to isolate myself, I chose to give my free time to the service of God, l go to Church once a week, and listen to sermons online the rest of the week, my health isn't good, so it limits me from going to Church at night
Yes I know what your saying it’s the sad World We Live in I know people talk about themselves they don’t want to know about me I’m Very Thankful I have my husband we have each other we talk a lot we almost got split up we almost got Divorced thank God we didn’t I Prayed a lot I lived at my gym I didn’t have him in my life we lost each other we used to do a lot together now we are BACK and Very Happy I left that gym I’m glad that was the problem they made me like a super star it felt weird to me but I only had gym friends we never did much beyond that or as couples I asked they never wanted to so I’m just glad it’s over I’m happy now I don’t have any friends and it’s Really OK Thank You for your words of Wisdom 🙏🏻❤️
I am happy i understand this as it became worse and worse ..the word alone ..does not mean lonely ... as a creative person and introvert ..i love it ..i have an outgoing side .. on my journey ,its negative people that left ..you really don`t need it or deserve it :) i do have 2 Quality Friends . you Gotta have room to attract the wonderful people i know are out there .
We are individuals on this earth and add people to our hologram who are matches to our frequency or help us to ascend and heal. So we're always kind of on our own here if you think about it. Many of us are doing what we came here to do, that awakened in us to do that and now answers why we're here. I'm a lightworker or volunteer first waver who came here to assist and many of us early awakened spiritual are the same, we are leading the way in all of this so we can assist humanity and raise the frequency. Agree, please don't add to the things you have to heal by bagging on yourself. Being alone doesn't mean being lonely, we choose to be on our own. Not going back and yes, everything is a wave, not a straight line, so it will loop back again and I think 2024 is a looping year. I put out a lot of intentions for myself and mostly humanity to consciousness so am actively doing my work. Most of our like-minded friends are online but we'll find them in person as well too in the coming future. Thank you!
Sink or swim.. that's the way of the world.. Do or do not there is no try will echo until this is all over. Alone? I say great! You have made a choice to see things from a perspective that will serve you well for the rest of your life!
JANGAN TERLALU MARAH ...JAMGAN TERLALU DENDAM...JANGAN MARAH DAN MERUSAK BARAMG-BARANG ...MELUKAI DIRI SENDIRI...HOW I KNOW???...I KNOW FROM YOUR EYES..
I just thought I was alone most of my life. At least yntil the Lord let me know he has always been there. Being alone allows us to really think about the IMPORTANCE in the choices that I choose to make. Better to be a nobody that is somebody than trying to be somebody that is actually a nobody. I learned to feed my soul instead of my own selfish want.
These is me right now but more With my siblings and mother feel out of place feel when I’m around them their good to me and not toxic but still don’t feel align with them but I have kids and they want to go around my family idk what to tell my kids though 😞
I'm alone most of the time and it is peaceful, but I do feel sad and lonely when I'm too much on my own especially not having anyone to confide about anything 😢
Once again this is just me. I'm alone because I had to cut out people that weren't serving me anymore. Even family members. I'm just to different and into spiritual things that they were not. I'm really okay with it. I'm comfortable with myself. I'm an Artist and have plenty to keep me busy. Now... I would love a companion that works with my energy. Once in a while I like to share company. Thank you. 19:01
I'm learning how to accept my loneliness. As a gift, it gives me a chance to find enterpiece to work on my. Self my Spirituality and my walk with my heavenly father. It gives me a chance to be silent and to cut off the noise and to hear him speak to me. And guide me. I may be on this planet, but I'm not from this planet. Anybody you knows about aliens. That word is not true. And someone like me
I'd say:"finally alone". My all life I lived on a planet that didn't feel right. People are strange creatures, always striving to get somewhere at some time, always giving the impression of doing something. When I was sitting on a bistro terrace, drinking my coffee, I always looked at the people speeding to...wherever. They also create a lot of problems they desperately try to resolve, and they are so noisy. I feel a bit like George Carlin, I like people, but for a short period, they are so boring, all telling the same stories. So now I'm alone and it feels good, I have internet, window on the world. I have my books, my music ans my computer to go on till I die.
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Hearing you is helping me thank you
Peace & Blessings upon you. 🗣️❤️🖤💚🌞👑
For those who have no friends: Congratulations, you see the world for what it truly is.
It's why I LOVE SLEEP for what it truly is.
Yes I am a loner and I love it, I also feel God has something for me to do before I leave this planet.
I have no friends
I have myself
I am enough
I enjoy my own company
So amazing! Yes indeed🙌🏻
I love my own company and it's so uncomplicated.
No friends, no family (apart from 1 brother, disconnected from rest) for many years now. I used to wonder why and at times lonely, but now I know why God had to clear my path. I no longer question it, and I love my own company and my relationship with God. I'm open to having friendships and relationships in the future, but in truth, every good person on this earth is my friend and my family. That's the way I see it, wherever I go. Nature, the animals, the birds, and the trees are my friends. I love my solitude, being in the present moment, and I love my inner peace and contentment. I do not feel alone or lonely whatsoever anymore. Loneliness is a state of mind. A person can be around the wrong group or in a wrong relationship and be completely lonely and alone. God moved many people out of my life and then showed that I had to do that for myself, too. I know that this has happened to many others out there, so I'm not "alone" in this situation. God has scattered us across the earth. We might be physically alone, but we are connected energetically!
So well said
OMG same with me atm 💖🥹
I thought I was alone in this but like you said only 1 brother left who leave so so far away, now he is acting up also I'm gonna have to let him go too then that's it. Since I know me, ALONE is my very good friend and that all I know. Because I'm not the only one in this so it's okay I can do this WOAW.
Wow..this is beautifully spoken ...I suddenly am embracing the Lone Wolf that I've always been...🎉
And know that I'm really never alone ..this truly has warmed my Heart 💖 thank you 🙏🍀💫
Wow. How can this happen
Loneliness is a tax we have to pay to atone for a certain complexity of mind.
(Alain de Botton)
Thank you for the video and your words 💜
I loved the quote! I woud adore to meet people like me...is sad
I have no friends, I have no enemies, I have teachers.
You are an Angel!
I am so glad I have found your platform!
Hermit mode for 2 years! I am really starting to understand this new beginnings in my new life!
love and Light to you!
peace out to Gaia now🙏🙏😎
Amen
aww thank you! Sending Light and ease!
I'm 65 now and retired but this I can tell you, I was an amazing worker right throughout my life and it was extremely difficult because people took advantage of that and gave me little respect, while pushing the load onto me and sometimes, they were bossy to me and downright nasty. Now I feel so free and I love my own company and the solace that I now have. It's so refreshing.
Yes no friends and it's okay
I quit asking questions about it
Absolutely ok, if that’s what feel aligned for you
I have always felt that I didnit belong especially coming from a dysfunctional family but now I realize and understand that God set me apart to prepare me for His will in my life & I accept that now..great video..new subscriber❤
Yess!! ✨💫❤️
You’re not alone. I’m discovering how common dysfunctional families have this effect on the black sheep/ scapegoats of the family. My son was rejected by my family just bc he’s my son. I often tell him how much he’s loved by others, family doesn’t need to be biological🥰
Outstanding. You described to a perfection myself . Clarity
I love that insight..that God set you apart to prepare you for his will 🧡
That is powerful and I totally relate to that...
Suddenly I'm embracing my Lone Wolf and the fact I've always been a misfit 🎉❤
I have always felt like an outsider...turns out I have been the scapegoat. I walked away about a year ago and have learned so much about myself. I have always been a loner and enjoy my own company and have chosen to be alone right now.
Just found this channel today and it is nice to know that I am not alone in the search for inner truth.
that's so resonate with me... Lonely to the core but I rather be alone than be with people that dont reaonate with me. Thanks for sharing ❤❤❤
I always tended to be an outsider. F.e., when i was in my teens and twens, i was not often invited to parties, which sometimes made me feel as if i was missing out in life. BUT whenever i did get an invitation, the party started to heavily bore me after maximly 30 minutes.
Yes ! First time in my life I put myself first in decisions about friendships. After 2 yrs of doing deep healing I found something I was not actually looking for.
I FOUND ME !
The authentic Me
The geniune Me
The joyful Me
The peaceful Me
The powerful Me
The funny Me
The loving Me
The healed Me
The real Me
The passionate Me
The self controlled Me
I have never fit in. Ever. Even when I hang around “spiritual people” I feel very set apart. It has been miserable. I miss my church community however I don’t want them back because they are so asleep and I can’t stand being misunderstood or worse people don’t want to understand. It hurts.
Yes I can understand.....It feels painful but in the long run it's weakness leaving your body and soul.
I ABSOLUTELY LOVE❤ my alone time specially that PEACE😇
I've mastered the ability to be alone. Being alone maximized my curiosity, imagination and far more that is preparing me to become something unspeakably great.
Thank you. Its nice to find your videos so randomly (because i was in a shitty Christmas movie hole,haha). Nice to find a friend with my frequency.
It does make me feel lonely sometimes. But ive always been alone. And i do NOT have a problem cutting the people who dont make me feel good out. Im 38 and have actually never ever heard anyone talk like me before! When i tell this to people I usually get a one word response. By the look on there faces i assume they’re doing a math equation in there head.
What a lovely empathetic face. I am grinning like a Cheshire cat and purring while I watch and listen. What an utter sweetheart!
As people come and go, I learned that God is always with us to guide, comfort and help us to have inner peace to know who have good intentions or if they are of the devil. I love your channel, Beautiful lady! 🙏 Namaste🌻
As you said "becoming closer to who you are" I have a choice but I love being alone for that very reason,
Yes indeed! Allowing yourself to be who you are without forcing yourself what someone else wants you to. Thats liberating 🙌🏻
Being alone with God is Peace within Alleluia 🙏✨✨🙏✨✨🙏
It's facinating! In a world where we have so many bridges to interact, is where we getting more lonely.
I believe you starting to get lonely as you get older, filtering many friends that somehow someway did disapointed you. I also believe this "Journey" starts when you get Hurt emotionally. I am in a same position and to to be honest it's not pleasing!
Understandable! It teaches you alot, you learn to let go and embrace what is, eventually. Choosing friends consciously is so much better than hanging out with people who are never actually your “friends “,.
I never felt alone. But I longed for like minded people. Your narration resonates a lot.
Your video about being chosen was spot on. I was even thinking I am the black sheep of the family. My life will soon change and I have as my mission to reveal to humanity the true nature of our Father. He is the epitome of unconditional love and with such love, if we give it away, we can change the world. Dear ones, it is hard to be in a place where you have no friends. Yet we here are friends gathered together to work in twain to give our love away. To heal the world. And never forget that the Father of the universe loves us each one as if we were the only child in all of creation. I love you Sadaf. Thanks for your love in gathering us together with the thought that we are never really alone.
Alone...never lonely.....Thus I inherit the spirit of the Wolf.
It's a relief to be understood as well as I understand you. I've been ostracized from society from the time I stepped into a classroom. I felt there were others like yourself as like myself, kindred. It took me years to stop denying who I am as a desperate attempt to fit into who I wasn't meant to be for the sake of societal expectations that didn't align with what felt wasn't right after considering the guise in which people rely on to excuse themselves to identify with the idea of being one with themselves. I can't help but to feel as I see through layers of illusion meant to keep people confused to the point of giving into to the illusion as to accept it as it is what it is as I understand that it doesn't have be whenever considering most complications are unnecessary and only serves those who see themselves above the rest of humanity. I can't help but to pick up on patterns
as I am compelled to make the connections
within unbiased assignment otherwise would be founded on biased assumptions misconstrued for sound judgment.
I can't help but to see
as not how I'd wished to see
as I care not to see those who tend to hide the core nature
as to a manner of opposites between potentials for good and bad by degrees. To feel as though I'm at the axis of scales with the realizing the importance of universal scales
as it pertains to the balance of contrasts. To realize neither can exist without the other. Neither can coexist without balance. As of now, the scales need recalibration due to the tilt favoring the dark side. Sadly, I've been a silent witness to the unfurl of seemingly random events to understand how and why we're having to deal with the presence of madness at the forefront. To say I had a childhood would be a lie as not to tell that I've been introduced to the monsters of this world in which I felt the lack of justice to see through the guise of order to understand unnecessary chaos is a means to maintain order of the wrong kind given to the impression of righteousness.
I hung on every word. You are awesome! Please know in your heart you keep mine from freezing.
Thank you
Thank you for being so king with your words!
Weeping uncontrollably knowing that it exactly where I'm at. It's a good weeping cuz i know that I'm not alone.
Thank you for this. Felt like my life was just spoken back to me. I enjoy being alone as it makes me feel my power the most. ❤ 🙏🙏
It's such a relief to know there's someone like yourself who gets it. It's very difficult to explain to people the deeper things of God.
thank you:) glad it resonated!
Being alone is turning inwards, discovering and fully understanding yourself and life mission. It is not to be chastised but cherished for the gifts it gives along the way.
@ 3:39 - yep. I had that feeling and then I did the same thing you described, I distanced myself from those I used to hang out with. I love being alone with myself; I thought I was the only one. Thank you for your video and compassion. I operate my own business so I have plenty of time with customers who have also become "friends" over the years.
I am glad to hear it resonated! Yup, There are plenty of good people out there to be friends with who are aligned with who you are!
Total resonation...been there ..done that ..it is a sacred passage now..loving my life quiet and peaceful..much love ❤
I am my 50's now but back in the day in the 90's as a young adult I experienced all of this. However back then I never heard a single soul talk about this problem. Nowadays its great people experiencing this are sharing it online, it really does make such a difference - videos like this are so valuable and will help a lot of people. 30 years later I still have this issue, but my solitary path has led me to a good place, and I feel I have done the right thing.
Keep your head up
I can relate to your video. For a while I wanted to be apart of something just to say I had friends but like you I didn’t feel good, I wasn’t happy they weren’t aligning with me and vise versa. Today, I have no friends and I’m great with that. I enjoy my own company. I avoid bars and lounges because it’s low vibrational.
Yes l am a loner, work alone, live alone , enjoy myself, my own company and l love it. I love being in nature and peace
We are never alone the Father the Son and the Holy Spirit is with us always and forever Amen 🙏✨✨🙏✨✨🙏 Being alone isn’t sad cause I have Jesus I love you Lord Jesus Christ amen 🙏✨✨🙏♥️♥️🙏✨✨🙏
Amen and Amen and I’m very thankful to God for his grace and mercy.and I’m very happy. Jesus Christ is so real.❤❤❤
I agree....When I was "lost " on my path of mortal existence, I was "conditioned" with just going to work and then drinking large amounts of alcohol and numbing myself with indulging with recreational drugs.....I ended up having to go to prison for a DWI charge for a full year......I went through a gauntlet of suffering but when it was over it was indeed a blessing in disguise.....It saved my life and made me feel the power of the universe.
Wow.. Your story is so soothing to hear right now as I go through realizations.. My isolation has given me the space to see myself. It was so tough to release some close ones but I now realize the spiritual benefit of letting them go..
Thanks for sharing Devine..
You have explained what I have been doing instinctively. Being a chosen one I have recognized too I been protected. I work alone which I am so grateful for. I have shed friends that I grew out of and cut ties with a brother. Lol, I have been doing things you had mentioned: read books, writing...even wood carving. Just recently taking a writing course for seniors. This is the first for me. I am appreciating their stories. I am entering a new level.
Blessed be my friend. The Universe brought you to me today. I've never seen you on RUclips until today ;)
I'm a practicing Witch and always open to different perspectives.
Thank you for your tutorials.
I WILL use them to guide me concerning my Spiritual Journey.
Have a blessed day.
Mike from Elk Grove Crunch Fitness CA, I've been alone since my divorce in 2003, sure the last 3 year's I've returned to my bodybuilding training just before my last 3 major spinal surgeries, and I chat with other gym members, but after I walk out through those directions I'm alone allover again. Yes there isn't a day that goes by wondering why noone has showed interest in me, why don't I have friends like everyone else, there has to be a greater calling or purpose.
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This is the third consecutive video I've watched after the just randomly popping up in my feed and EVWRYTHING you mention and discuss in your videos explains/resonates with me to the T. I am very much grateful for your sharing, I sense growth and increase here,
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I'm so glad!
I guess my main goal is life has drastically changed over the years. I am nearly souly focused on being as connected as I possibly can with the universe and all energy that enters my space. I too used to think that I must try to please everyone around me and do their bidding. Today I've had to detach from almost everyone in my life, mainly the toxic ones . My family never ever supported me when I shared with them the visions I was having and now that they have come to pass it seems like they are ashamed of the way they treated me. I am a very very strong spiritual being and I have so so much wisdom and knowledge that I couldn't even tell you where I learned all of this, however I have opened up entirely to the Creator and the multiverse around me so that I can better understand who I am and why I am here in this day and age. Because I want to know more about myself I will be arranging an appointment with a hypnotherapist that specializes in past life regression. Please pray for me my brothers and sisters, I love you all and hope to meet you someday.
Wonderful to hear @rubengarcia456! I had the best experiences & results using Hypnotherapy (had it involved in my past business also) And...Self-discovery is so needed in all parts of our personal, spiritual and even professional journey's. I'm sending you best wishes, and lots of love & light for your steps ahead. ~🙏💫🧡
Sending you love and all the best. We need people like you, take care of yourself.
I'm a loner all my life.I never like to be directly around people.I like being around to observe them.
Not aligned with them, not enjoying time with them...spot on, i am feeling that now EXACTLY!
Talk about energy....what u have said so true!
In the past one year, I met 3 people with whom i shared my best tips n info. I showed them love. 15:46 15:57 They were v happy when they with me.
Then suddenly, without warning, complete silence from them.
Left me scratching my head. Wondering what i said or did wrong.
A sudden realisation. My energy n vibes threatened them n made them feel inadequate. They felt v pressured.
I did not do anything to make them feel bad.
But my person made them feel bad!
Thank you very much for sharing.
11:21 15:05 17:41
I used to live in desirable part of the city world which I began to dream to escape one day. Voice inside me kept telling me you don’t belong here, you are so much more and you are chosen to do the work for universe. I was always truth seeker to heal and bring beauty. Few years ago I was given opportunity to buy home and I chose to move to the mountains to be alone to find out who am I and what can I do. I have my pets with me which I am great full for but I also able more to read, think and discover myself as creative writer in English more than my native Ukrainian language. I do all the video writing for my RUclips channel. Since my childhood I wasn’t treated kindly as smart kid and been abused because of it but now living alone with nature helped me to prove myself and others they were wrong. And I tell myself that I am actually blessed to have inside me what others don’t know experience. I prefer be alone but true to myself. I know if I meant to have friends they will come from universe to lift me up so I can complete my job on earth.
Thank you for making this video. I resonated with being hard in myself and feeling shame for being in this situation. There are times I feel like it’s my fault when I don’t align to others. I became different. And my life hasn’t been the same since I woke up. And I feel lonely and like failure.
Brautiful message again. I resonate so much with your words. I have felt shame in the past for not having friends, but now recognisng the power of solitude and working things out for me. I am on a different path for sure, but I feel it's allowed me to get closer to our Heavenly father. It's about vibrating at a whole different plane. As you say, all this will serve me well in time, after this gap test. I will attract all I want and attract in due course. Thank you for your amazing insights once again. ❤
I am alone nd happy😊
Thank you for this video so helpful😊
Much love ✨💫
One of the reasons I prefer being alone, in itself, is also a form of liberation. I win every arguement. Come and go as I please. And the only one who can pull me down...is myself.
Thank you for helping me to understand I questions myself, worry, care for others people feelings not for myself.
shame is such a horrible feeling. I don't feel I belong anywhere.
Your experience of your personal life that you are describing fits my life for the last 20 years to a T!
No friends,no mentor, only the creator of all on my side as it should be!!! Peace and love to you all
THANK YOU !!
Our solitude is necessary for our Spiritual development and knowing who we are. It's also a wonderful opportunity to learn things at our own pace without competition or distraction. One of the most important tasks in this life is to know ourselves. The strength we gain is built from the core of our being and what others think becomes less important.
That depends on what or who you consider “friends”. Some of the loneliness times I’ve experienced was around hundreds of people. When you say, “I’m not enjoying this” I didn’t either. I love my company, I have 2 friends, that I trust and uplifting me. My ex always told me, if you come to the end of your life and you can count on one hand the number of friends you have (true friends) you are lucky. ♥️
You are so right I thought I should fit in even though I didn't fit now I know better thank God, thanks for the video,
🙏Many thanks we are one. I hear myself in you. We don't give up! I sent you a lot of love "❤"
Your words resonated with me so much I’ve been going through this, my whole life and I am in this face as we speak. I’m not sure what should I be doing next plus I have health issues.
Im alone too. Just being with myself enjoying the moment.
Very very painful journey after cutting off everybody. Transforming so much grief and pain...But it feels necessary... Lots of moments of deep joy... Hanging out in nature gives me a feeling that I cannot describe in words and I invest every single free moment to meditate, connect to nature, read a lot...I don't have the feeling I'm missing something. I can sense there's a much better version of myself in the making. Thank you for this wonderful video that helps understand and that we're many! ❤
how blessed l am to hear you Your own clarity is huge. thankyou
Better to be alone than, having, so call friends jealous toxic narcissist, people in my life.
This is the story of my entire life till date..
Yes it take me years to understand why i never fith into people i always taught that something was wrong with me
antill i found the trute about the chousen people never like by my family always been alone but never lonely. Never have friends from i was a child antill now am grown .
Saw this video about being alone, been for many years, thank you for sharing
Thank you for sharing this wonder message...I felt & living through everything you said in this video...love & light dear... :)
❤️💫
I’m 55, with no close friends and even family has dropped off. I shamed myself, but then I acknowledged the relief in the pain. If you only call me to talk about you, I release you…If you only call me when you need money, or an extra body at your event. I release you. Go in peace.
💯 spot on relatable!
"Been there, done that ..."
Yes dear it's true I am also all alone except one brother who too does not understand me...feel I am quite unique from all and do uncomfortable in that crowd even though I socialise very little as I feel many do not resonate well
I voluntarily chose to isolate myself,
I chose to give my free time to the service of God,
l go to Church once a week, and listen to sermons online the rest of the week, my health isn't good, so it limits
me from going to Church at night
Yes I know what your saying it’s the sad World We Live in I know people talk about themselves they don’t want to know about me I’m Very Thankful I have my husband we have each other we talk a lot we almost got split up we almost got Divorced thank God we didn’t I Prayed a lot I lived at my gym I didn’t have him in my life we lost each other we used to do a lot together now we are BACK and Very Happy I left that gym I’m glad that was the problem they made me like a super star it felt weird to me but I only had gym friends we never did much beyond that or as couples I asked they never wanted to so I’m just glad it’s over I’m happy now I don’t have any friends and it’s Really OK Thank You for your words of Wisdom 🙏🏻❤️
I am happy i understand this as it became worse and worse ..the word alone ..does not mean lonely ... as a creative person and introvert ..i love it ..i have an outgoing side .. on my journey ,its negative people that left ..you really don`t need it or deserve it :) i do have 2 Quality Friends . you Gotta have room to attract the wonderful people i know are out there .
Thank you ❤ I share your story❤
Wonderful!
We are individuals on this earth and add people to our hologram who are matches to our frequency or help us to ascend and heal. So we're always kind of on our own here if you think about it. Many of us are doing what we came here to do, that awakened in us to do that and now answers why we're here. I'm a lightworker or volunteer first waver who came here to assist and many of us early awakened spiritual are the same, we are leading the way in all of this so we can assist humanity and raise the frequency. Agree, please don't add to the things you have to heal by bagging on yourself. Being alone doesn't mean being lonely, we choose to be on our own. Not going back and yes, everything is a wave, not a straight line, so it will loop back again and I think 2024 is a looping year. I put out a lot of intentions for myself and mostly humanity to consciousness so am actively doing my work. Most of our like-minded friends are online but we'll find them in person as well too in the coming future. Thank you!
❤🙏💗🙏❤🙏❤ thank you very much for this soul soothing video
I finally feel understood here
Me too ❤
Feeling alone and letting go is hard .. because when letting go ? made me really look at my inner soul .
I am a loner . but I was born for a time such as this . I'll get through this .. stronger than when I startrd this shit show ;)
Sink or swim.. that's the way of the world.. Do or do not there is no try will echo until this is all over. Alone? I say great! You have made a choice to see things from a perspective that will serve you well for the rest of your life!
Praise God, Amen,
I’m working on To. Meeting with New people to see what they think about the new project is. Life ❤ 😊❤. Best wishes for you all
JANGAN TERLALU MARAH ...JAMGAN TERLALU DENDAM...JANGAN MARAH DAN MERUSAK BARAMG-BARANG ...MELUKAI DIRI SENDIRI...HOW I KNOW???...I KNOW FROM YOUR EYES..
More and more I enjoy listening to you
Miss you too baby Tony ❤❤❤❤❤
High integrity
I just thought I was alone most of my life. At least yntil the Lord let me know he has always been there. Being alone allows us to really think about the IMPORTANCE in the choices that I choose to make. Better to be a nobody that is somebody than trying to be somebody that is actually a nobody. I learned to feed my soul instead of my own selfish want.
These is me right now but more With my siblings and mother feel out of place feel when I’m around them their good to me and not toxic but still don’t feel align with them but I have kids and they want to go around my family idk what to tell my kids though 😞
Thanks for this video Ms. Fatima. Much Love & Light to You!
Being alone is meditative.
I'm alone most of the time and it is peaceful, but I do feel sad and lonely when I'm too much on my own especially not having anyone to confide about anything 😢
Write it down here
Yes that’s how I feel
Thank you ❤
Im not alone but with Universe itself as I'm belong to Universe itself. ❤❤❤🌹🌹🌹🚲🚲🚲
Once again this is just me. I'm alone because I had to cut out people that weren't serving me anymore. Even family members. I'm just to different and into spiritual things that they were not. I'm really okay with it. I'm comfortable with myself. I'm an Artist and have plenty to keep me busy. Now... I would love a companion that works with my energy. Once in a while I like to share company. Thank you. 19:01
I'm learning how to accept my loneliness. As a gift, it gives me a chance to find enterpiece to work on my. Self my
Spirituality and my walk with my heavenly father. It gives me a chance to be silent and to cut off the noise and to hear him speak to me. And guide me. I may be on this planet, but I'm not from this planet. Anybody you knows about aliens. That word is not true. And someone like me
excellent video mam, thanks for helping humanity
I'd say:"finally alone". My all life I lived on a planet that didn't feel right. People are strange creatures, always striving to get somewhere at some time, always giving the impression of doing something. When I was sitting on a bistro terrace, drinking my coffee, I always looked at the people speeding to...wherever. They also create a lot of problems they desperately try to resolve, and they are so noisy. I feel a bit like George Carlin, I like people, but for a short period, they are so boring, all telling the same stories. So now I'm alone and it feels good, I have internet, window on the world. I have my books, my music ans my computer to go on till I die.