I agree with Dusty on the headphones, and I am so tired of people manipulating other people into just taking crap, especially if all you do is yell at them for Pete's sake.
31:43 i know the earphones are not working! But you don’t have to throw them away! Please don’t throw them away, keep them even if they can’t be fixed.
You can put a sticker over the sensor for the automatic flush toilets. They used to have stickers just for that called flusher hushers. Also, my brother calls the toilet seat covers ass gaskets! Lol
My eldest son is the fourth. His dad and I were going to name him something completely different, but I decided naming him after his dad was less pretentious than the name we had first chosen (Erik Wolfgang von LastName). Even after I decided to make him the fourth my dad still called my belly, Wolfie. My eldest is 30 years old and I call him Wolfie to this day. But his name is Paul Newland LastName IV. It looks great on his birth certificate and diploma
I want to say a lot about last op. He needs therapy to deal with the hurt, and NOW! No child needs or should deal with all that from a parent. As a female unless your SO is going to a sex specified gym you have NO REASON TO NOT SHOW UP. To he known as their other half. 30+ years married here. That was a RED BANNER from the start 😒. Hope he gets help and can find a well balanced co-parenting for him and child.💚
The story about the headphones actually made me cry. I still have my grandma (Thank God), but the idea of some stupid teenager damaging the last gift she were ever to give me hurts my heart. My yelling would have been the least of their worries. I would have seriously considered taking those scissors and creating some REAL change. Even if they're no longer functional, keep those headphones and display them in a prominent place.
For the kid getting named the IV, I have a family member who got a ton of money and property stolen from them by their entitled father, because they had the same exact name. I'm totally against naming being handed down directly as a 1st, 2nd, etc., simply from a security standpoint. That being said, I didn't make some kind of agreement about it with my spouse, but it also didn't seem like an explicit agreement actually happened, more like an expectation from the husband.
OP, I'm so sorry about your headphones. I was livid with you! I hope you can get them repaired, to the point you can carry on your tradition. I know why you told them the sentimentality behind them; it's because they weren't getting it. Kept telling you that you should be grateful, for them destroying your property? No. They needed to hear it. You were completely in the RIGHT!
Exactly! People who go and destroy someone’s property to give them a new one need to stop. They don’t know if it’s sentimental to the person or not. If they want to be nice and do something for someone else, they can do it without destroying something else.
😂he says he loves her and he’s not there to take his place as a father, yet he throws a fit because he can’t be in the delivery room. watch he will make sure he means that baby and he will probably make sure that baby has his last name, I bet this guy is just getting off of humiliating people and destroying A marriage. If this guy really did fall in love with this person, he wouldn’t be such a POS. he would 100% understand that he can’t take the father’s place. And she wasn’t trying to hurt him she wouldn’t had allowed her ap to be calling all the shots. Nah I believe once the baby is born he’s not going to be a father to that child. He’s going to be like haha 🤣 ur dumb, that baby is not my responsibility you take care of it, I’m going back to sleep. He will make her life miserable. If he was in love with the person he would make sure that he isn’t stepping on the father’s toes, he would allow her to deal with her ex-husband on her own. Nah he’s just there to create chaos. Watch he’s going to be cheating on her once she gets further in her pregnancy or once the baby is born. Then he’s going to want her to have his baby. I believe he won’t treat that baby as his own. He’s there because he wanted this new toy to play with because it was somebody else’s watch after he’s done with it, he will toss her to the side. he’s already showing signs that he doesn’t care about this child, once this child is born and his has his own, he will probably be accusing her of cheating, and we’re probably start mistreating her and the child, and once he has his own child he won’t want nothing to do with the ex husband child. He will probably be cheating on her in no time. Also he’s already showing signs of selfishness and that he doesn’t care for her. If he loves her he would be soaking up every moment with her. You know what it was really love they wouldn’t have done all of this, he would’ve been pushing her to tell her as in the truth, also he would’ve been more apologetic have more empathy, also he would’ve left when he told him to get out, he would understand the child is still his but the woman is my love, and that who I want, and I want to make this process more smoother for everyone. None of them are doing that they are causing this guy more pain, just to feed their happiness and their selfishness. this guy is straight up selfish. The ex-wife is just vindictive and a Gaslighter. we have narcissistic tendencies. I hope op has a speedy recovery to healing.
45:00 think the sister might be trying to find op in her partners and that will obviously end up in break ups on her side because his the only one who could satisfy that criteria she has for a "perfect" partner.
I’m so sorry about your headphones. My grandmother was my favorite human. I would have reacted like you or worse due to my potty mouth. Any friend that doesn’t get this is no friend.
Being a “Trad wife” doesn’t mean your husband controls you. 🙄 That’s a huge misconception. I’m sure in some cases it does but that’s NOT what it means. It just means the people in the marriage have “Traditional” roles, it’s still an equal partnership.
I understand it's her decision who will be in the room with her, but I do believe that he should have the right to be in there since it's his child. 💩 situation for that OP. 🫤
I agree with Dusty on the headphones, and I am so tired of people manipulating other people into just taking crap, especially if all you do is yell at them for Pete's sake.
31:43 i know the earphones are not working! But you don’t have to throw them away! Please don’t throw them away, keep them even if they can’t be fixed.
You can put a sticker over the sensor for the automatic flush toilets. They used to have stickers just for that called flusher hushers.
Also, my brother calls the toilet seat covers ass gaskets! Lol
The tech gremlins just mean you're a wizard. At least if we live in The Dresden Files. 😂
Here for the Dresden Files reference! 👏🏻
I love that your daughter's name is Ava. My daughter's middle name is Ava. My Grammy was named Ava. ❤
My eldest son is the fourth. His dad and I were going to name him something completely different, but I decided naming him after his dad was less pretentious than the name we had first chosen (Erik Wolfgang von LastName). Even after I decided to make him the fourth my dad still called my belly, Wolfie. My eldest is 30 years old and I call him Wolfie to this day. But his name is Paul Newland LastName IV. It looks great on his birth certificate and diploma
The 24 page story broke my heart, if his wife is this selfish now how is she going to treat the baby?
Commode powder and ziplock!!! I'm a camper and I'll never use kitty litter again
I want to say a lot about last op. He needs therapy to deal with the hurt, and NOW! No child needs or should deal with all that from a parent. As a female unless your SO is going to a sex specified gym you have NO REASON TO NOT SHOW UP. To he known as their other half. 30+ years married here. That was a RED BANNER from the start 😒. Hope he gets help and can find a well balanced co-parenting for him and child.💚
The story about the headphones actually made me cry. I still have my grandma (Thank God), but the idea of some stupid teenager damaging the last gift she were ever to give me hurts my heart. My yelling would have been the least of their worries. I would have seriously considered taking those scissors and creating some REAL change.
Even if they're no longer functional, keep those headphones and display them in a prominent place.
A side from cutting the cord fuck that, someone coming up behind someone with a weapon. Nope I would have call the cops
For the kid getting named the IV, I have a family member who got a ton of money and property stolen from them by their entitled father, because they had the same exact name. I'm totally against naming being handed down directly as a 1st, 2nd, etc., simply from a security standpoint. That being said, I didn't make some kind of agreement about it with my spouse, but it also didn't seem like an explicit agreement actually happened, more like an expectation from the husband.
48:36 Not to mention it's ONLINE therapy. No absolute trail you can follow.
OP, I'm so sorry about your headphones. I was livid with you! I hope you can get them repaired, to the point you can carry on your tradition. I know why you told them the sentimentality behind them; it's because they weren't getting it. Kept telling you that you should be grateful, for them destroying your property? No. They needed to hear it. You were completely in the RIGHT!
Exactly! People who go and destroy someone’s property to give them a new one need to stop. They don’t know if it’s sentimental to the person or not. If they want to be nice and do something for someone else, they can do it without destroying something else.
That lasy story ive heard recently, and I'm no calmer 🤬🤬🤬 I'm so angry still on OPs behalf
😂he says he loves her and he’s not there to take his place as a father, yet he throws a fit because he can’t be in the delivery room. watch he will make sure he means that baby and he will probably make sure that baby has his last name, I bet this guy is just getting off of humiliating people and destroying A marriage. If this guy really did fall in love with this person, he wouldn’t be such a POS. he would 100% understand that he can’t take the father’s place. And she wasn’t trying to hurt him she wouldn’t had allowed her ap to be calling all the shots. Nah I believe once the baby is born he’s not going to be a father to that child. He’s going to be like haha 🤣 ur dumb, that baby is not my responsibility you take care of it, I’m going back to sleep. He will make her life miserable. If he was in love with the person he would make sure that he isn’t stepping on the father’s toes, he would allow her to deal with her ex-husband on her own. Nah he’s just there to create chaos. Watch he’s going to be cheating on her once she gets further in her pregnancy or once the baby is born. Then he’s going to want her to have his baby. I believe he won’t treat that baby as his own. He’s there because he wanted this new toy to play with because it was somebody else’s watch after he’s done with it, he will toss her to the side. he’s already showing signs that he doesn’t care about this child, once this child is born and his has his own, he will probably be accusing her of cheating, and we’re probably start mistreating her and the child, and once he has his own child he won’t want nothing to do with the ex husband child. He will probably be cheating on her in no time. Also he’s already showing signs of selfishness and that he doesn’t care for her. If he loves her he would be soaking up every moment with her.
You know what it was really love they wouldn’t have done all of this, he would’ve been pushing her to tell her as in the truth, also he would’ve been more apologetic have more empathy, also he would’ve left when he told him to get out, he would understand the child is still his but the woman is my love, and that who I want, and I want to make this process more smoother for everyone. None of them are doing that they are causing this guy more pain, just to feed their happiness and their selfishness. this guy is straight up selfish. The ex-wife is just vindictive and a Gaslighter. we have narcissistic tendencies. I hope op has a speedy recovery to healing.
45:00 think the sister might be trying to find op in her partners and that will obviously end up in break ups on her side because his the only one who could satisfy that criteria she has for a "perfect" partner.
I’m so sorry about your headphones. My grandmother was my favorite human. I would have reacted like you or worse due to my potty mouth. Any friend that doesn’t get this is no friend.
What else has gone wrong that she went straight to divorce? I feel like this was a terrible mistake, but she jumped to D very fast.
Being a “Trad wife” doesn’t mean your husband controls you. 🙄 That’s a huge misconception. I’m sure in some cases it does but that’s NOT what it means. It just means the people in the marriage have “Traditional” roles, it’s still an equal partnership.
First story is stupid, these are people who don’t know her so who cares what they think?
He trying to act as a dom.
You're a traditional wife. Get over it
I understand it's her decision who will be in the room with her, but I do believe that he should have the right to be in there since it's his child. 💩 situation for that OP. 🫤
I get her being upset, but I don't think it merits a divorce. I think he was just being a major brozo