i wonder what its like to have a childhood without trauma i wonder what its like to have parents that are still happily married. i wonder what its like to have a normal childhood
there is no "normal". Its all on a spectrum of how the parents treated you. Treat you like a god? You'll probably grow up to be a jerk. Treat you like a piece of trash? They've raised an unstable people pleaser. Anything in-between? Everyone else. Its not exact, but its pretty easy to see that there's no normal.
My parents never married and I doubt they ever will. I went through stuff as a kid. It was hard and it still is. But at the end of the day, it's your life and you deserve to live it how you want to
For all who are having anxiety...... Ik how it is..... Ik how is watching your ex bestfriend with her new bff.... Ik how is your crush to love another girl... Ik how is to be cussed... Ik how is to not have friends... But you need to have a fake face and a real one, when you are sad, use the fake one, when you are alone use your real one...
Strict parents: I'm just trying to protect you Music: Rough day? Society: Now you have a child who lies, steals, cheats, and doesn't trust you enough to open up to you, congrats.
I must confess that police found me painting graffitis in an abandoned building last night and when they called my mom, she said that she doesn’t really give a fuck, that she’s done with me and she can't fix me
little angel, I came to remind you that you are special, enough and made with a lot of love, Jesus loves you a lot and waits for your voice and heart ;)
My parents: *insults me everyday for things I can't control, insults my music taste, the way I do things, the way I act, my friends, my behavior, my disorders, etc* Also my parents: Why don't you spend more time with us?
"hey!" "you!" "yah, you! scrolling through the comments!" "I love you!" "you deserve all the love you get, and even if everyone here are mostly just strangers on the internet...." "we're here for you!" "and we'll give you the love that you maybe don't get in real life!" "don't be afraid to be you!" "anyone who says otherwise will have to deal with the army of randos on the internet!" "we'll make em eat shit!" "you're beautiful, and welcome here any time." "just....promise me something..." "remember to love yourself."
"mom can i tell you something?" "sure!" "will you promise you will still love me?" "ofc i love you no matter what!!!!" "im bisexual" "we hate you now, pack up your bags"
@@a_random_weeb9267 I suggest getting to know your parents more by seraching through their facebook maybe to see their opinions in the lgbtq. Good luck :)
@@a_random_weeb9267 you're welcome!! if youre planning to come out i suggest you have backup plans so you have somewhere to go if they tell you to pack your things. again, goodluck!!
Me comes out as bi: my parents: "Its just a phase" Me finally leaves my bedroom and helps out : my parents: "you never leave ur bedroom or help around the house." Me when i finally have the guts too tell my parents how im feeling: parents: *ignores it* me finally completes school work: parents: "YOU NEVER DO ANYTHING" basically yeah.
*that moment when you realized that your parents doesn’t accept you as transgender but let you wear boyish clothing* edit: as im much older, my parents are just really confused and dont know how to react. I just assumed so, thats that. Currently trying to transition time by time. I did cut my hair and came out to my sister which she accepted and will wait on until it’s confirmed that i do truly have these feelings. Just felt like i wanna update yall :) edit 2: it has been a long tough journey, my parents still hasnt accepted the fact that im trans, still called by my deadname every day but luckily i have friends that comforts and supports me with these issues. but overall, im just so glad to be here and hear this song like the times i would cry and had this song played and it comforted me. i love cavetown with all of my heart
Hey, it's ok bros, I accept you both no matter what you identify as. And so many others too! Your parents just don't understand what's going on, and maybe they don't want to... But I do! And that guy, and her and so many others!! Trust me, ok? It'll be ok, just understand that you can be comfortable in whatever attire you wear, and so many people want you to. Love you, buddy
I cried a few hours ago because my dad was shouting at me for not doing my homework, the only thing that comforted me that time was my brain and the endless playlist of sad songs. I also eventually realized that people have it more worst and I’m lucky he didn’t hit me. Just so people know, I love you and you don’t deserve to be treated the way you are. Just remember that not everything goes right, somethings go wrong just like us humans. You are strong and you will always be, I am willing to talk to you all. Love you!
I’m so sorry...Sometimes I hear my whole family fighting and I hear glass shattering. Then I come out to my mom bleeding and glass on the floor. I hope it gets better.
@@emmadrebs I’m sorry to hear what you are going through. I hope it gets better on your part and I wish I could do something but I really can’t. Goodluck 😊
"Hey come here" *Gives you a hug* (Whispering) It's gonna get better I support you You deserve better You're gonna make it I promise I'm proud You will feel better eventually I love you Your friends love you Everything is gonna be okay
I hate children I always did Since i grew up But some time ago i realized why Because im really jealous Im jealous on their happiness On their carelessness On them being able to smile widely On their self esteem I hate them But i like them... I'm jealous that they can't overthink because they don't know much. I miss not knowing much. I want a normal childhood.
I'm just gonna say it even though it hurts. I'm 13 and I joke about my mental state to the point I joke about cutting, I made a joke around my friends about Cutting and they told me It wasn't funny (Little did they know I started cutting at 10 -12) And I want to hurt myself again but I have other friends that would do anything for me, I've had them since 9 and they know all to well about my mental state, They always check up on me but they live 2 hours away and quarrintine didn't help me at all I've gotten worse and Even When I talk to them online I still can't explain it fully. I just needed to get that off my chest, sorry.
@Rex the wolf OML. you just made me come back to this video, 4 months later. guess what? I declared myself trans (one or two months ago.) this song hit's even stronger now
@Rex the wolf I'm also pretty young, I'm only open to a few people, sadly. I'm cutting my hair (it was hell to convince my mom to pay 25$ for a haircut), I'm using more masculine stuff and other things. I really hope you go well, good luck.
*im tired* “I’m tired of living” I’m tired of not being “perfect” I’m tired of being suffocated I’m tired of laughing but inside dying But mostly: I’m tired of being tired 🌑
Hey, don't give up. There are lots of times when we are sad but we have to face reality. I know I am a random stranger but I know if you keep trying your best to be who you want to be without others saying to you negative things you can make it. Stand up, you matter to lots of people. Don't make words stop you from being happy. You are perfect the way you are we all love you, sometimes people don't show it to us people always remember there is always somebody in your heart who loves you. I know I keep saying this but don't ever give up no matter what.
I’ve been REAL CLOSE to suicide so many fucking times I’m so tired.... and because of my fears, even if I’m dead, I want an above ground grave. I couldn’t handle being underground even if I’m dead.... I haven’t cut since September of 2020 only on my thigh but I don’t cut my arms anymore bc I wanna wear short sleeves (I’ve healed from my arm scars but they’re still a tiny bit visible only if you really try to look) I’ve come so far and now I want to cut again, but only on my thighs, even if it means it’s going to burn in the shower.... I like the pain....
Okay Im not sad but Im listening to this and I saw your comment and I cried because I know if we have kids in the future they'll probably not understand this song 🥲 /imo
they’re the only ones that really understand. theyve been where we have. and they know what it’s like to be misunderstood so they make it their goal to never misunderstand
And that the reason I haven’t came out yet. What if they don’t except me. I’ve only told one friend they sported me and i felt so happy/sad I cried. It felt so good and the one I told I have a crush on them. Urg why don’t parents get that. Well that’s my vent have a nice day /night 💖💖
Hey you scrolling through the comments Before you continue remember this! "Those are your pronouns? Those are so valid!" "Your sexuality is that? That's amazing!" "someone misgendered you? Who did that I'll make sure they don't again!" "Someone told you your going to hell? Don't listen to them!" "Someone's bullying you? Which person's doing that?" "You don't feel loved, appreciated, cared for, comfortable? That's okay, We all will try to make sure you feel those" "your sad? That's okay, it's okay to be sad sometimes, try listening to music, movies, shows you like and maybe play something you enjoy!" "We all appreciate you!" "we all love you!" "Your valid" "your important no matter what!" Continue enjoying the comments you amazing person!
little angel, I came to remind you that you are special, enough and made with a lot of love, Jesus loves you a lot and waits for your voice and heart ;)
@@paybes5812 little angel, I came to remind you that you are special, enough and made with a lot of love, Jesus loves you a lot and waits for your voice and heart ;)
*POV: you come out to be trans, but everybody still says her/she, you tell your principal, still nothing. You start to lose hope, but when you open your yearbook you see “he was the best student”*
"Why am I laughing? Have I been suppressing my emotions for so long that my only response to sadness is laughter?" - Me, just trying to grapple with my own reactions, and putting this comment here because I thought it fit, not to seem 'cringy' or 'weird' like seriously guys, it fits with the conversation, just because im young doesn't mean I can't feel-
fellow homosapien, its actually healthy to cry. if you bottle it up, it can be mentally damaging to your psyche. if no one is willing to comfort you, then go to a room by yourself and cry. if you need someone to comfort you with cute pics of animals and weird memes, im here for you. here is my discord if you'd like to talk, :3 Kittydogcatmeow#2510
Every time I just want to randomly cry after something happened, or a rough day, I just can’t cry and I’m like ‘but why I thought I just wanted to cry-‘ ;-;
I told my parents about how I don’t feel home, But they only said “Its because you’re always on your phone and room” But little did they know They’re also the reason why I’m toxic, and the screaming in my head and chest can’t be removed, I can’t show love to anyone When my mom told me to my smile My face was frozen and one time my mom Told me she love me My heart Was frozen When Will the days come back?... Also, for all the people reading this you’re wonderful They’re just too blind to see
As a weeb I wanna go home I don’t feel safe around my own family that’s why I’m always with my friends and in my room I just wanna be loved and held I don’t think I can take anymore but I’m staying strong and not ending it all i want to but I’m waiting for something but I don’t know what it why theirs just something holding on to me and not letting me let go
@@densedesjarlais4600 clearly you don't understand what it feels to suffer a mental illness or disorder, you're irrelevant and you're unwanted here, unless you're going to support this person, you can leave
It’s ok, since he didn’t accept that fact it means he wasn’t a true friend. Only true friends can accept the fact that you are gay or transgender or whatever. I’m not gay but I know it’s ok to be gay. Please just keep fighting the good fight, because in the end it’s happens for a reason
Sometimes I'm confused on what my gender is. I don't understand why I feel this way. Sometimes I just wanna fall asleep and stay in my dreams forever. I don't really know who I am at times, I just don't feel right as a female. But at the same time, I'm not comfortable about being a male. Is anyone experiencing the same issue? I want to be able to relate to someone...no one around me understands.
maybe you’re non binary or agender?? Or anywhere on that spectrum?? coz for me I know I’ve never felt female but male isn’t 100% right either. why is gender so wacky??? anyways I hope this helped at least a bit and I hope you figure out who you are soon :) oh and don’t forget that you are loved, my fellow human ✨
"just cheer up" "your life isnt as bad as others'" "maybe if you actually did physical work you wouldnt be over 100 pounds" but yet they still ask me "why do you never hang out with us" "why are you so closed off"
Felt this one, mine kept body shaming me and belittling me and my problems. I became anorexic because of the body shaming and now they’re forcing me to eat and thinking that I don’t eat because I’m always on my phone. I’m so fucking tired.
True I feel this is am 120 pounds and I am supposed to be like 90-100 pounds and now my mom and my family tells me that I need to stop siting around and geting fat they expect me to open up to them now...
I completely understand you but just know that I love and care about you even if I don't know you it's ok to be sad it's ok to show emotions do what makes you feel better don't give up if you're every feeling down just remembered that this community is here for you I am here and we love and accept you have a good day/afternoon/night
I’m sorry that happened to you :( i hope you get other friends that make you happier. And for what to do, DO THE THINGS YOU LOVE! Could be anything, do what you love! Basically anything that makes you happier. -Random stranger on the internet
I've never had childhood friends, the only "friends" i have are online, but they barley talk to me and forget my pronouns, even my sister who i'm most close to, i keep telling her my pronouns are they/them but then she turns around and uses she/her, along with everyone else, so I've had to change my pronouns to she/them due to everyone using she/her or people online treat me as I'm not a human and say it/its which makes me feel degraded as a person.
YES.. AND HES YOUR FATHER ITS NOT ACCEPTING THERE IS NOTHING TO ACCEPT YOUR THE SAME AS BEFORE and a father isnt the person who help make you its the person who really puts the time and effort to see you not what you like its you, so fuck him and his '' NOT ACCEPTING ''... im here dm me on Instagram at helpful_panda77 or just look up olivia collins ill pop up. and thats for everyone. need to talk im here
It's okay, it's so hard yet so easy to be accepted, but one day no one will care. One day no one will not judge you on your sexuality, or gender, but your personality itself. Maybe some people don't accept it, and that's okay. It's their choice. We are all free people with different opinions. I hope you can find someone who will understand you.
“Grandma..? I'm a lesbian.” “..Why?” “Because I've been liking females..” “No you're not! I'm sure you'll realise that in the future, you actually like males, not girls.” I sure "hope" so..
I know I may not know you personally, but you are absolutely valid, and you are allowed to like who you like, no matter what people say. I hope things get better in the future, and that you find your soulmate soon. All of us in the comment section support you, and send you virtual hugs and lots of pixelated love. Keep being you, hun, from one member of the lgbt+ community to another. You are valid, and brave for coming out. You're a wonderful person.
There seems to be a ton of people writing letters to their parents about being trans. You can do it. You are strong. And most of all, you can be who you want to be. I love you. I care about you. Dearest wishes- Lucas. FtM
*realization* society says i should be skinny, but with hips and a chest. society says i should have fair skin, free of imperfections. society says i should have long hair, perfectly styled. society says i should be polite, forgiving, kind. society says i should be straight, and eventually a house wife. society says i shouldn’t care. society says i should be me, free of expectations. society says i should be proud of my body, holding my head high. society says i can be whatever i wish, i just have to dream of it first. society says i should listen to myself. so i try. i try to be confident, i try to be happy. i try and look at myself, and say “you look good” or “today’s gonna be a good day.” then i look over at the girl next to me, with her perfect skin, long hair, and thin waist. how her skirt doesn’t bulge, how her hair perfectly frames her face. perfect handwriting, confident laugh, soft voice. and i’m jealous. i envy her. i envy her body, her style, everything. she’s everything i’m not, she’s so much better. so i try and remind myself that i’m okay. that i have friends who care for me, that they don’t think i’m ugly. friends. i look at her friends. long hair. fair skin. skinny. oh. they’re all pretty. my mind wanders, and i’m trapped. do my friends think i’m ugly? do my friends think she’s prettier? am i enough? am i ugly? am i fat? i’m too short. i don’t have a style. i’m too brash. i’m annoying. my grades are average. average? am i average? no. something less than that. mediocre? that’s it. mediocre. nothing special, nothing new. forgettable. insignificant, if you will. i’m not depressed, i don’t have any mental health issues. so why am i like this? why do i hate myself sometimes? why do i compare myself unnecessarily? i’m sorry. that was unnecessary.
No no its okay! Everyone one here is venting/vanting (i forgot lol) so none of us mind if you do! Plus ur not alone i feel you but i gtg soon but take it from a person from the internet, your remember ur loved, handsome/beautiful and dont listen who ever says ur not! Im still young and i might not understand somethings but still be safe we love u and good night/morning!
Message from my trans friend. He read a comment that was telling anyone who wasn't trans to fuck off and that they can't be sad to this, so he wanted me to paste this here since he doesn't have a YT account: "You don't have to be trans to be sad to this song. You don't have to be LGBTQ+ to be sad to this song. You don't have to be a specific gender identity or sexuality to be sad to this song. You're a person, and maybe when you listen to this, you feel unloved. Or lonely. Or scared. Or sad. Or something else. And that's okay. But I want you to know that you're loved, you are cared about, you are wonderful, you are unique, and you're someone who's going to do great things. To those who are trans and etc., I'm sorry you have to hear people call you someone you're not. I'm sorry you have to be referred to as something you're not. You're not that. You are whoever you want to be. You've got so much ahead of you, and even if life seems really fucking dark right now, you've _got_ this. You can keep going, you aren't alone, you can do this. Stay strong, and stay safe. Thank you for reading."
can we normalise trans artists? our feelings are just as universal as anyone else’s, and anyone can relate to us past our gender. i am in love with this comment!
you know 🧠 I missed you 😔 from ↩️ the very☝️day ☀️ you went 🏃 away 🛫 I feel 😣 like Laura Les 👩, saying, "I love you" 💓 on the plane ✈️ And even 👀 though 🌝 it's been a week 📆 I still think 💭🤔 of your face 🙂 Blew 🌬️ all my money 🤑💸 on a trivial 🤏 video game 🎮🕹️ I dunk 👇 my head 🦲 in the water 🌊so I can feel 🥰 something 🤧☠️ And now 🕰️ I'm thinking 🧠✨ of all the times ⏳ that my phone 📳 would ring 🔔~ I reminisce 😵 and remember❗all 🤗of the songs 🎶 we'd sing 🎤👄 But 👀 now 👇 I hate ❌🙅♂️ every one 😒 of the songs 🎵 we used ◀️ to sing 👩🎤 Can 🥫 you 👤 believe 🤯🌥️ that I didn't 🚫 think 💭 you would 🤡 leave me? 💔🏃♂️ And ➕ now ⏸️ I 👁️ can't trust ❌🔐anyone 👫👭 'cause 🔁 you just left 🏃♀️💨 me 😞 I wish 🧚♀️💫 I never 🚫⏰ responded ⌨️ to all those 👉 texts 👨💻 It'd be 🅱️ better 😌 if 🤔 we had just 👫 never ❌ met 🤝 Can 🥫 you believe 👼 that ➡️ I'm missing you 😪🕳️ even 😬 though 🤐 When ⌚ I 👁️ was with you, 💏 I 👁️ never ❌❌ felt more 😕 alone 😟🚶♂️ I wish 🧚♀️✨ I never ❌ responded 😤 to all those texts ⌨️ It'd 😞 be 🅱️ better 😌 if 🤔we had just 🖖 never 🚫 met 🤝 (A🤪-a🤪-a🤪-a🤪-a🤪-a🤪-a🤪-a🤪-Glitch 👾Gum 😼) I 👁️ wish 🌠 we 🚻 never ❎ met 👋 We 🎎 broke up 💔on PictoChat, 💻 crying 😿😭 on my DS ⌨️ I went 🚕 to a birthday 🎂 party 🎈 for one☝️of her friends 👯👧 And ➕ now 👇that this is over ✅😪 I can hate them, 🤬😼 I don't have ✋to pretend ✊🤪 Remember 🧠❓when I called 🗣️ you ❣️ my Barbie,👱♀️and I was Ken 👱♂️ That 🌳 was like 🥴 the cringiest 😣😳 thing 📝 that I've ever said 👄🔊 When 🕐 I 👁️ was with you 👫 I just 😔 felt more 📈 alone 🏝️😢 I just hope 🙏 I'm bad enough 😼👻 to call ☎️ about 🐭 When you're 💃on your phone 🤳📲 This ☝️➡️ Glitch 👾 Gum guy 🤖 is so 😒 annoying 🙄 He 👨 keeps 😐 asking me 😇❔to listen 👂 to these bands 🎸👩🎤 I can't 🚫⛔ even pronounce 🎙️👁️🗨️ And 👉now👈 he's making music 💿🎶 with this guy 🙆♂️ named 'C🤔M😕TEN🤢'? I'm so 😤done 💁with him 🥱😴 Everything 🔁 you said 🗣️💬 about me 👉🥺 is just lies 👅⚫ I can't ❌ believe 🙀 you put 🤏 mascara 💄🖌️ on my eyes 👁️👁️ I hope 🙏 you don't listen 🚫👂 and see 👓👀 past ↔️ my disguise 🎩😎 'Cause 😔 I'm still 👉👈 kinda hurt 🤕💥 that you're not 😓 in my life 👐🤧 You👤know 🧠☑️ I missed you 😞😿 from ↩️ the very☝️day 🌄 you went 🏃♀️💨 away 🐎 I feel 🙃 like Laura Les, 🙋♀️ saying,🗣️ "I love you" 💖💓 on 👇⬇️ the plane 🛩️ And even 😧 though 😑 it's been ⌚a week 📆 I still 😪 think 💭 of your face 🎭🌝 Blew 🌬️ all my money 🤑 on a trivial 🤨 video 📺 game 🕹️🎮 I wish ✨💭 I never 💯 responded 💬 to all🖕 those texts 🤳📴 It'd be 🅱️ better 🤭 if we had just😫 never met 📵💌 I wish ✨💭 I never 💯 responded 💬 to all🖕 those texts 🤳📴 It'd be 🅱️ better 🤭 if we had just😫 never met 📵💌
I hold back every tear the whole day until i can finally let it out when it's night time but sometimes im too numb too so i can't cry. I couldn't hold it back once when I was at a sleepover with my best friends they had never seen me cry that much before but they have forgotten about it now i hope at least :)..
I literally can’t do this anymore it’s so fucking hard I don’t think parents understand how much stress kids have right now with online school. My mom constantly yells at me for not doing school 24/7 and it’s so much stress that I can’t handle
AARON CHAMBERS jokes on them they can’t speak your Language yk how much I would love to have a different accent or language. Keep your head up, also never trust anyone on the first week.
Everyone in these comments, all supportive to everyone and arent that judgmental at all, why can't the world be like this? supportive of everyone and then some?
Pov: your all alone in your room crying. You feel alone. You feel like no one's there for you. Your either surrounded by people or no one. It doesn't even matter. They don't pay attention to you. You think your worthless. You want to hide. You want to escape and run away from the world. You just wanna be free and happy. But you know that that'll never happen. So you drown yourself in your blankets and pillows. Listening to slowed songs to make you feel either a little bit better. Or even sometimes, worse. You start crying. Thinking about your life. Realizing your role in people's lives. Just someone to use then dump. They never think about the effects it'll have on us.
@@pizza5803 just do it. If ur scared to do it urself, go to a hairdresser. Its ur body, ur choices. Family are suppose to support ur choices but sometimes, family are just strangers...
“Why aren’t you crying” Oh I’m saving it for tonight.... Hello, back again a few months later, I’m crying again, amazing how kind strangers on RUclips are.., (TW)i logged onto roblox today to find a message from my girlfriend saying that she’s thinking about killing her self and I hadn’t heard from her since the day I got it, I hadn’t been logged on the day she said that or the days after, she sent it 3 days ago and I haven’t heard from her since then, I’m worried I was to late but I don’t know if I was, she interacted with one of my TikToks I think 22 hours ago and replyed to my friend yesterday, but she is in England so we have a 5 hour time difference which is hard because I’m sometimes asleep when she wakes up and her parents being so strict along with her school it’s hard to talk to her because it’s hard to get time slots , I will come back when I find out if she’s ok or not, I know y’all don’t really care but I can vent on RUclips and strangers just care for me for some reason, it’s not easy but i think it’ll get better
Hi. I’m Robin. Not [redacted] Robin. I go by they/them and ze/zir. Not she/her. I want to be myself but I don’t want to come out, when I came out as pansexual, I was already bullied and had transphobic comments made even though I hadn’t even come out but that’s fine. The closet is safe and warm. I needed to cry. I’ve been strong for so long and letting myself cry is still me being strong, it’s just also trying to cope.
*Listen.* Take a breath. Relax. It's okay, I'm here. It doesn't matter What you've been or are going through. Take a moment To find yourself, And recollect. I love you. You're safe here.
Dear person whoever reads this, Hey, you, yes, I am talking right to you. I hope you will see yourself with the eyes I see you one day, because I can tell you have some awesome music taste :) You’re such a beautiful human being and worth and enough. I hope you know that you do only need yourself to be happy, I know society build up the standard that whenever you’re alone you’re not living a happy live. But in fact that is not true, if you start to realize that you actually deserve all the good things happening to you, you will treat yourself a lot nicer. I hope you let yourself rest, don’t beat yourself up over past mistakes, over regret, and over everything your mind wants to destroy you. I wish I could remove all those demons inside of your head because you deserve to feel happy. If you ever feel lonely then watch the sky, because you know, someone, at the same time is watching the sky too, maybe feeling the same way..I am glad you exist and I hope you won’t ever remove your own spot in this world, maybe you don’t feel like you belong here but, Angel, then build your home here. I don’t want you to leave this world unhappy. I want you to live every little second, I want you to feel alive, I don’t want you to see yourself just existing. You deserve it. Whatever happened, it’s not your fault, the demons in your head recognize that you have a beautiful heart, they want to take it because they have never seen such beautiful heart as yours, so why let them win over you? . You’re not selfish for isolating yourself, but you deserve to talk to someone. If you’re reading this than please never forget to breath and smile. Don’t live up to other standards! It’s your story and not theirs. Life for those who couldn’t, smile for those who forgot what a genuine smile is, love like there’s no other, hug like its your last one. I love you and send you hugs. You’re so strong, you’re still here, and I am proud of you. YOU ARE NOT USELESS. READ THAT AGAIN. YOU ARE WORTH IT. READ THAT AGAIN. YOU ARE LOVED. READ THAT AGAIN. I AM GLAD YOU EXIST. READ THAT AGAIN. YOU ARE NOT A PROBLEM. YOU ARE HUMAN AND YOUR FEELINGS ARE VALID. READ THAT AGAIN. YOU ARE NOT BEING DRAMATIC. You’re not a burden to anyone, don’t be afraid to talk, to use your voice. You’re beautiful inside out. Your body is beautiful the way it is. Please don’t starve yourself. Please eat, I know it’s hard but you deserve food. You deserve to eat and drink. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH. READ THAT AGAIN. I WISH I COULD HUGH YOU RIGHT NOW, SO A VIRTUAL HUG WILL DO. It hurts me to see you’re in pain :( you deserve so much man, don’t let your emotions control you. Don’t let them get the best of you. I love u I love u I love u I love u I love u please don’t go. I am sorry that no one is hearing you, I am sorry no one is noticing that you have lost yourself. I wish I could take your pain away, it hurts me to see the pain in your eyes. I love you trough my words and I mean it. I just want you to stay, hold on a little longer okay? Please? For me.?? I hope you have an awesome day/ morning/ evening/ night. If it’s night for you, go to sleep, I know it’s hard to fall asleep right now but you deserve a good sleep. If you have nightmares, please, don’t let them fight you. If it’s day for you, don’t start it by such sad music, I know it’s impossible to have a good day with such mindset but take baby steps, start by drinking two cups of water in the morning and so on.. You will start building little healthy habits. If it’s evening for you, you’re probably overwhelmed and stressed, I want you to know it’s okay to feel the way you feel. You don’t need to be scared, of course you’re overwhelmed or stressed, I mean who wouldn’t? But it’s important to know that when you feel that way you should do a little self care, such as taking a bath for example? You deserve to feel at ease and relaxed. And if you are somewhere in between I hope you know that you’re stronger than you think, I know you will make it :) All I want for you is to stay and feel alive. Now wipe those tears away and smile for me, you really don’t know much a smile can brighten someone’s day, do you? I hope one day yours will become a genuine one where you don’t need to fake it anymore, because I can’t say this enough, you deserve a good smile and to feel alive. You’re worth more than every fucking cent in this world. I need you here with me :). Remember crying is not weakness, let it out as much as you can but don’t let the emotion control you by giving up. It’s okay, you’re here, you’re safe, you can let it out. Did anyone asked you, how you are feeling today? If not, how are you really? I don’t think you’re doing good, but you will feel good at one point. Don’t give yourself up. I am sorry you feel misunderstood. But anyone who gets to be with you, doesn’t know how fucking lucky he/ she/ they is :). Enough with beating up yourself for today, okay?! - The stranger that cares about you more than anything. I hope this is enough for you to stay today, tomorrow will be a new day, a new start, let go now. I hope you can stay. This is your sign to stay and treat yourself with love, you deserve it. And in case no one told you today, again, I am so proud of you. I hope you will remember my words- becho :) Until tomorrow, my friend :)
i think it’s funny that parents will say “i don’t care if they’re a boy or girl as long as they’re happy and healthy!” but when you want to change all of a sudden it’s not okay and now you’re not happy or healthy.
Hey you cheer up Everythings going to be okay You might not know me but i hope the best for you Im not good at motivating but youre an awesome person I hope this helps :)
@@globalama2370 hey i know how it feels to not be accepted at "home". But you are stronger than them, dont do what they want you to. Do what you love and be yourself. Build your own home and stay with the people who love you and appreciate you as you are. Live your life to the fullest. You can do it.
Well since everybody wrote something here’s mine: I’m depressed since 3rd grade I’m not the type that can have I conversation with there parents, so I keep to myself I hate my father. (Edit): i think the sorry part 'bout this is i diagnosed myself IN 3rd Grade and i was right....and still dont like HIM....
aw, that sucks dude. if you ever need anyone to talk to or reach out to, im here. seriously tho, if you need help contact a professional, but if you just need someone there for you, ill be here.
Last time i talked with my mom abt me being sad she said it wasnt real and i was thinkin it all in my head and its sad how many other ppl have their parents as best friends but i- 😞
“Why are you feeling this way, you should have the confidence of a super model,and you’re only 12 years old” I’m not the perfect daughter you wanted mom you have to accept that and maybe you should try helping instead of complaining. Saying that you can’t help is wrong , you can help because you were part of why I’m feeling like this so maybe you should do your part and solve the problem that you caused because I can’t do this on my own.
pov: you are sitting on the windowsill with a guitar in your hands and playing this song, it is raining outside, a light breeze blows over all the features of Your face. But just one thought about your idol and you don't seem to exist...
@Ølivîa San im sorry about that :( as a 1st grader my classmate held my hands and while i was trying to fight back and he showed his friend and his friend was just laughing- he tried kissing me im still traumatized by that- this went on for a year
I'm not trans. I'm not gay. I'm not lesbian. I'm not straight. My friend is trans. He is amazing. He is perfect. He is kind. My BFF's Are part of the LGBTQ+. I love them They are amazing I care for them as family. I care for him. I'm pansexual. I'm new. I wanna be like the others. But, I know I shouldn't. To all the LGBTQUIA+, If anyone doesn't accept you for who you are, they are just jealous. Oh? You ask why? Because you are beautiful inside and out. If you think your not, look in a mirror. See that beautiful person in there? That's you. You are all wonderful and we will love and accept you no matter what. Do not think you aren't worth it. Do not think that you're ugly. Do not think negative thoughts. You are all the world needs to change. Don't leave those who love you. I send all my love out to you through this. I love you all. ~Izuku Midoriya
“ I’ll cut my hair , to make you stare ” I dyed my hair for you . I cut my hair for you. I changed the way I sound when I talk for you. I started wearing more makeup for you. I changed my whole personality for you. I almost lost the number one most important friendship to me for you. I started failing school because of you. I ignored you so I wouldn’t seem needy. I almost changed my whole life for you. You were my best friend and my best friends ex . I felt terrible and then you said you liked me then you asked me out . It was only a week. We didn’t talk. We barely made contact in any way possible. The last day before thanksgiving break we went to a basketball game and you tried holding my hand but I got triggered and walked off then I let you hold my hand and it felt amazing like it was just me and you in the bleachers. I went home so happy that day not knowing you were gonna break up with me and tell me we are better off best friends and then got back with my best friend. Because of you I could’ve lost my best friend. Because of you I ended up ditching my friends most of the time. Sure it’s been about a year now . If I could go back to that day you asked me out I would . You lied to me about cutting yourself. My best friend and you stopped dating. Y’all were best friends till you screwed up. You still call her toxic to this day when she hasn’t thought about you since y’all stopped being friends. You also broke up with me around my birthday. Then I got rejected by someone I thought was better than you a day before my birthday. Oh yeah and after when we came back from the break you acted like you did nothing wrong. And I mean you was just a one week trial homie, sure you made me cry but I got ppl that actually care.
this person is not worth. this person should know how does it feel to be rejected, dissapointed. i dont want to wish anyone anything bad, but dont worry. He/She will understand he/she did, maybe not now, but will. And now you won. You got rid of someone who just played with you, didnt gave you the true love. and that person just lost, he/she lost someone who actually loved them, who actually was thinking abotu future with them. its gonna stop hurting, trust me. give it a time
@@krystalka9402 🥺🥺🥺🥺 omg you’re an angel i was just going through some stuff about the same person that hurt me 🥺 I can’t seem to drop them tho🥺 I feel like it will hurt too much to let go
im not trans. or anything like that i just kinda feel unloved. or unloveable. i really didn’t think this many people cared about me. i love you all with a full heart. i’ve gotten better, so much better, i’m happier. and i want the same to you. if you need someone to talk to my insta is : j.llocked i’ll always be there no matter how big or small the problem is. thank you everyone. all 4.6k of you
I’m only 11 but I’ve been struggling with anxiety for a while. I couldn’t get to sleep so I thought I might go listen to music, after seeing a lot of people who suffer from mental illnesses I wish I could hand over all the happiness I have left. Sure this sounds cringe worthy as “I’m a kid! I shouldn’t feel sad or lonely!” But I do feel super upset almost all the time. I’m questioning if I may be enby and if I am I’m kinda scared to tell my parents or how my friends will react to me going by they/them instead of she/her. Anyway I’m getting off track, if you’ve found my comment you’ve probably been scrolling for a while. Go get some water and try to eat. Go take a nap and get some sleep. I’m proud of you for making it this far. :) Edit: Jeez I made a whole Essay!! I’m sorry lol Edit: I realized that yes, I am in fact Enby/Non-binary and my family respects that!! I’m doing so much better since I wrote this comment and I’m now working on handling my anxiety (I have mild anxiety and when I was 6-7 and younger I was almost always paranoid/anxious and could almost never leave the side of my parents) Edit: there’s so many people replying and I have no idea how to reply (since I usually never talk to others) but I hope you are all doing great, stay safe. :)
Yknow, I may sound insane, but this song really gets me thinking about the people that live a "normal" life. The people that wake up, and feel like they have their whole life ahead of them. The people that aren't sheltering their sexuality, or gender, or mental condition from the world. The people that have never felt rejection or depression. And honestly, I'm a little jealous of them.
Yeah I really want to tell my parents I’m Pan but I don’t know what to do.. I know they would support me but I’m scared and I too am jealous of those people.. also does anyone have any advice
@Jordyn Jenkins I’m in a similar situation except I’m gay. I’m just gonna wait till I move out, or have a place to go if they kick me out for liking girls :/
The day i came out to my mom we argued the entire time, screamed at each other, she mocked me and the rest of the community, i cried for hours. She apologized but it was empty and really her making excuses. She said she would try and that i could correct her on my pronouns. It's been 3 months. And she still misgenders me and makes fun of my identity. And she wonders why i don't open up. Edit:Definitely not me crying from all the support and affection. Stfu i swear i'm not emotional! Edit #2: figured i'd update this since it's been some time since i posted this comment. I am no longer living with my mom. I started living with my dad some time in mid august. I mean, not much has changed regarding deadnaming and misgendering, but to be fair i never really properly came out to him either. He is aware of the fact that i'm queer and all, but he doesn't talk about it or ask. He did make me take down my prode flag though which made me really sad. I think i'm doing better too. I'm not as stressed and suicidal as i was before, but ya know, not everything's great either. I got dropped by all of my friends and started a new school. It's completely online so i don't know anyone and can't reach out either lmao. But to some of you in the replies that are going through similar. I honestly hope that it gets better quickly for you. I think you and i already know how crumby it is to be in these situations. If ur not feeling all too great you can always hit me up and chat with me on discord Name if you wanna add me and chill: @Mochi-Demon#6479 Lemme remind you too, that your feelings are valid, your identity is vaild, your gender is valid, your sexual orientation is valid, you are vaild, and that you deserve to be loved and surrounded by ppl who will support and care for you the way you deserve to be. I love u. And have a good day. Drink some water too kings, queens, and comrads.
Oh bby im so sorry pls dont give up i luv u ! Ur amazing if u ever need to rant i will listen to all ur rants abt how horrible life can be sometimes. Remember u And ur feelings are valid~ ♡
Parents: * yells at me for no reason* Me: * broken and starts crying* Parents: "sorry i didn't mean to make you cry your jusy sensitive" They do the same thing over and over i dont take there apologize anymore cause it happens over and over they hurt me so much without knowing it
Actually I came out to them U_U kinda- I just screamed at the kitchen floor after I admitted that I liked girls to my mom- STILL COUNTS!! They're ok with it tho, but my mom is iffy on my gender. I also told them that I wanted to be called my they/them pronouns and they've been miss gendering me for a couple months. I haven't been correcting them because I don't want to interrupt or annoy them. And my dad said that he didn't understand it but still accepts me and is ok with it :) I'm lucky.
The saddest and, at the same time, the most amazing thing about this community is that it has most likely saved, perhaps unaware, a huge amount of human lives. It hurts so much to have someone look over my shoulder while listening to lofi etc. and says it's stupid. Because it is probably the biggest proof that the internet is beautiful. And that it is one of the best places you could go. Welcome to the Slowed songs / lofi / chill music community. Stay longer, because it's worth it. We will always wait with open arms so that you can talk to us, cry out, and then help others. We love you. We all. Btw. I accept all pronouns, except he / him. But the best thing would be she/her and they/them. Thanks and love ya, hope you have a nice day/night!
*"Happy" childhood*
Wait.....Its all trauma?
Always has been..
i love the meme template reference
_o-_
Oh. It is?
Yup I'm still in my childhood irs not over yet 🥰
@@anastasialoveless677 im 12 and it finished I was almost took to the mental hospital
I'm about to adopt all these sad children.
Savannah Mae ugh please do.
It’s so toxic here and I have nobody.
Please me
Pleas i wanna get out of where i am i cant taki it anymore...
Take*
No I love my dad
i wonder what its like to have a childhood without trauma i wonder what its like to have parents that are still happily married.
i wonder what its like to have a normal childhood
trauma is what made you, you. it formed you, and you’re amazing.
there is no "normal". Its all on a spectrum of how the parents treated you. Treat you like a god? You'll probably grow up to be a jerk. Treat you like a piece of trash? They've raised an unstable people pleaser. Anything in-between? Everyone else. Its not exact, but its pretty easy to see that there's no normal.
me too. I hope youre doing well
My parents never married and I doubt they ever will. I went through stuff as a kid. It was hard and it still is. But at the end of the day, it's your life and you deserve to live it how you want to
I do too. Even though my parents are still married they don’t treat me very well and always favor my brother...
it's crazy how complete strangers understand and accept you more the your family
Yes.
that's why i love my online friends..
Ily❤️ we will all stop hurting someday :))
Yes
Yeah… But sometimes I just remember to not trust everyone online. I am only saying that because I did that once and let's just say it ended badly….
my parents: *insults my friends, interests and choices*
also my parents: “Why don’t you spend more time with us???”
Felt this one
This spoke to me
Same
yeah mine keep body shaming me and talking trash about lgbt its suffocating
parents are sadly two-faced 90% of the time
*when the comment section understands you better than your family and friends*
Maybe one of us might even be one of ur bloodline
Ikr
For all who are having anxiety...... Ik how it is..... Ik how is watching your ex bestfriend with her new bff.... Ik how is your crush to love another girl... Ik how is to be cussed... Ik how is to not have friends... But you need to have a fake face and a real one, when you are sad, use the fake one, when you are alone use your real one...
Yep
Well that's true
Parents will never realize how much they are hurting their child.
When they do they’ll realise why we act like we are now...
Yeah…
@@michaelafton9233 childs dont understand how the world works, parents do
@@ItsKoya unfortunately I think nowadays all kids know how the world works, cuz they/we've grown up too fast :(
Strict parents: I'm just trying to protect you
Music: Rough day?
Society: Now you have a child who lies, steals, cheats, and doesn't trust you enough to open up to you, congrats.
I honestly wanna know that they are protecting us from because they are only hurting us-
I must confess that police found me painting graffitis in an abandoned building last night and when they called my mom, she said that she doesn’t really give a fuck, that she’s done with me and she can't fix me
only danganronpa fans will understand
Spoiler warning(for V3)
is this kokichi’s parent
he wanted to help everyone escape soo :’/
this
this hit dude
fr
Song: *begins*
My ability to cry: *activated*
𝕚𝕜𝕣..
I dont know if this funny... im soryy...i just realy changes when my dad died..😓😔😭❤
not your problem I hope you're taking care of yourself! Sorry for your loss dude that's horrible.
OMG THIS BROUGHT A SMILE TO MY FACE IMMEDIATELY OMG 😂😂😂😂
i k r
*”are you tired of me yet?”*
*”sometimes i think i’m dead.”*
*”but i don’t wanna fall asleep just yet...”*
That hit hard-
Really like I cry instead of sleeping but when I wake i I act so happy 😁 but I really am not happy....
@@kaitlynelder695 Relatable
most related lyrics i heard
That’s me.
The moment I realized that people in RUclips are actually more respectful and loving that people in real life
little angel, I came to remind you that you are special, enough and made with a lot of love, Jesus loves you a lot and waits for your voice and heart ;)
My parents: *insults me everyday for things I can't control, insults my music taste, the way I do things, the way I act, my friends, my behavior, my disorders, etc*
Also my parents: Why don't you spend more time with us?
I feel your pain
"hey!"
"you!"
"yah, you! scrolling through the comments!"
"I love you!"
"you deserve all the love you get, and even if everyone here are mostly just strangers on the internet...."
"we're here for you!"
"and we'll give you the love that you maybe don't get in real life!"
"don't be afraid to be you!"
"anyone who says otherwise will have to deal with the army of randos on the internet!"
"we'll make em eat shit!"
"you're beautiful, and welcome here any time."
"just....promise me something..."
"remember to love yourself."
Thank you
thanks!
♡
Thanks....
This made me cry thank you !
"mom can i tell you something?"
"sure!"
"will you promise you will still love me?"
"ofc i love you no matter what!!!!"
"im bisexual"
"we hate you now, pack up your bags"
I feel like that would happen if I came out
@@a_random_weeb9267 I suggest getting to know your parents more by seraching through their facebook maybe to see their opinions in the lgbtq. Good luck :)
@@vera-whatsurdiscord thanks I’m going to do it
@@a_random_weeb9267 you're welcome!! if youre planning to come out i suggest you have backup plans so you have somewhere to go if they tell you to pack your things. again, goodluck!!
i think is going to be same to me..
Feeling: hidden
Smile: fake
Family: doesn’t know
Friends: slowly losing them
Thoughts: telling me to end it all and you’ll be happy
For me it’s that family doesn’t care at all
@@livingcorpse4125 i feel you
DONT END IT ALL! IF YOU DO I WILL HAVE A PILLOW FIGHT WITH YOU AND WIN!!
@@sillyswrdd ILL WIN >:^
@@starzzz987 you will if you don't give up
Me comes out as bi:
my parents: "Its just a phase"
Me finally leaves my bedroom and helps out :
my parents: "you never leave ur bedroom or help around the house."
Me when i finally have the guts too tell my parents how im feeling:
parents: *ignores it*
me finally completes school work:
parents: "YOU NEVER DO ANYTHING"
basically yeah.
yeah
y e a h 🖤
I know, it’s confusing.
i am scared to come out as gay and trans.
My parents are not homophobic Nor transphobic though.
*huggo*
*that moment when you realized that your parents doesn’t accept you as transgender but let you wear boyish clothing*
edit: as im much older, my parents are just really confused and dont know how to react. I just assumed so, thats that. Currently trying to transition time by time. I did cut my hair and came out to my sister which she accepted and will wait on until it’s confirmed that i do truly have these feelings. Just felt like i wanna update yall :)
edit 2: it has been a long tough journey, my parents still hasnt accepted the fact that im trans, still called by my deadname every day but luckily i have friends that comforts and supports me with these issues. but overall, im just so glad to be here and hear this song like the times i would cry and had this song played and it comforted me. i love cavetown with all of my heart
Same case here, im forced to go by my old name yet im allowed to wear 'boy' clothes etc
Hey, it's ok bros, I accept you both no matter what you identify as. And so many others too! Your parents just don't understand what's going on, and maybe they don't want to... But I do! And that guy, and her and so many others!! Trust me, ok? It'll be ok, just understand that you can be comfortable in whatever attire you wear, and so many people want you to. Love you, buddy
@@howaboutyoudiddlydont aw you're sweet :)
Just trying to do my best, sir!
@@howaboutyoudiddlydont i dunno if that was directed to me or them but i am in fact a girly haha 💕i appreciate you tho
It’s another one of those nights, isn’t it?
it always is sadly.
Yep..
Yea
its morning hahaha
yep...
I cried a few hours ago because my dad was shouting at me for not doing my homework, the only thing that comforted me that time was my brain and the endless playlist of sad songs.
I also eventually realized that people have it more worst and I’m lucky he didn’t hit me. Just so people know, I love you and you don’t deserve to be treated the way you are. Just remember that not everything goes right, somethings go wrong just like us humans. You are strong and you will always be, I am willing to talk to you all. Love you!
I’m so sorry...Sometimes I hear my whole family fighting and I hear glass shattering. Then I come out to my mom bleeding and glass on the floor. I hope it gets better.
@@emmadrebs I’m sorry to hear what you are going through. I hope it gets better on your part and I wish I could do something but I really can’t. Goodluck 😊
he shouted at you because he loves you and wants u to be a good and successful student :))
@@ItsKoya well it certainly didnt work out considering my grades now 😅
"Hey come here"
*Gives you a hug*
(Whispering)
It's gonna get better
I support you
You deserve better
You're gonna make it I promise
I'm proud
You will feel better eventually
I love you
Your friends love you
Everything is gonna be okay
Thank you…
You're gonna make me cry with this
Thank you sm, I love you too
Back to u
I don’t even have friends
I hate children
I always did
Since i grew up
But some time ago i realized why
Because im really jealous
Im jealous on their happiness
On their carelessness
On them being able to smile widely
On their self esteem
I hate them
But i like them...
I'm jealous that they can't overthink because they don't know much. I miss not knowing much.
I want a normal childhood.
trust me, we aren't all okay. i'm only 12 and i've gone through so much i may as well be 35
@@hiimkillian7143im talking about the majority of little kids. Like under 10.
@@remyfromratatouille9519
ah, okay.
@àmãzøn arrived at y'all door They may not be as happy as they appear to be. It's easy to front an emotion that you aren't feeling.
I'm just gonna say it even though it hurts.
I'm 13 and I joke about my mental state to the point I joke about cutting, I made a joke around my friends about Cutting and they told me It wasn't funny (Little did they know I started cutting at 10 -12) And I want to hurt myself again but I have other friends that would do anything for me, I've had them since 9 and they know all to well about my mental state, They always check up on me but they live 2 hours away and quarrintine didn't help me at all I've gotten worse and Even When I talk to them online I still can't explain it fully. I just needed to get that off my chest, sorry.
his hair's a mess and he doesn't know who he is yet
but little do we know the stars
welcome him
with open
arms.
@casse toi
This part touched me a lot
@@midas4050 at this part i freaking cry...a lot ;-;
@Rex the wolf
OML. you just made me come back to this video, 4 months later. guess what? I declared myself trans (one or two months ago.) this song hit's even stronger now
@@midas4050 Really? are you trans? so cool buddy, i want to be too but my friends tell me im too young .
@Rex the wolf
I'm also pretty young, I'm only open to a few people, sadly. I'm cutting my hair (it was hell to convince my mom to pay 25$ for a haircut), I'm using more masculine stuff and other things. I really hope you go well, good luck.
Isn’t it strange how you can feel lonely even when you are surrounded by people
Three years of my life just in that one comment
14 years of my life in that comment
*im tired*
“I’m tired of living”
I’m tired of not being “perfect”
I’m tired of being suffocated
I’m tired of laughing but inside dying
But mostly:
I’m tired of being tired 🌑
Hey, don't give up. There are lots of times when we are sad but we have to face reality. I know I am a random stranger but I know if you keep trying your best to be who you want to be without others saying to you negative things you can make it. Stand up, you matter to lots of people. Don't make words stop you from being happy. You are perfect the way you are we all love you, sometimes people don't show it to us people always remember there is always somebody in your heart who loves you. I know I keep saying this but don't ever give up no matter what.
@@skyelux3865 Thank u so much I really appreciate it 🖤
I felt that
Are you ok...
I’ve been REAL CLOSE to suicide so many fucking times I’m so tired.... and because of my fears, even if I’m dead, I want an above ground grave. I couldn’t handle being underground even if I’m dead.... I haven’t cut since September of 2020 only on my thigh but I don’t cut my arms anymore bc I wanna wear short sleeves (I’ve healed from my arm scars but they’re still a tiny bit visible only if you really try to look) I’ve come so far and now I want to cut again, but only on my thighs, even if it means it’s going to burn in the shower.... I like the pain....
_In ten years, this will be nostalgic and we will miss it. Let’s cherish this music while we can._
:)
Okay Im not sad but Im listening to this and I saw your comment and I cried because I know if we have kids in the future they'll probably not understand this song 🥲 /imo
in just a few decades, everything changes..
Sorry,,, maybe 10 years I won't be able to hear this song again
'CAUSE I KEEP FORGETTING SONGS EEEEEEE (┛✧Д✧))┛彡┻━┻
I’m hoping I’ll be dead by 10 years :)
Why don't most parents accept their son/daughter/kid for being lgbtq, but random people in the comments do?
they’re the only ones that really understand. theyve been where we have. and they know what it’s like to be misunderstood so they make it their goal to never misunderstand
we're on the internet for a reason
to find comfort, cus we couldn't find any at our own houses
IKR and most of them are strangers but they feel like family and friends and your real family feel like strangers..
Thats whats funny about life haha...
And that the reason I haven’t came out yet. What if they don’t except me. I’ve only told one friend they sported me and i felt so happy/sad I cried. It felt so good and the one I told I have a crush on them. Urg why don’t parents get that.
Well that’s my vent have a nice day /night 💖💖
Hey you scrolling through the comments
Before you continue remember this!
"Those are your pronouns? Those are so valid!"
"Your sexuality is that? That's amazing!"
"someone misgendered you? Who did that I'll make sure they don't again!"
"Someone told you your going to hell? Don't listen to them!"
"Someone's bullying you? Which person's doing that?"
"You don't feel loved, appreciated, cared for, comfortable? That's okay, We all will try to make sure you feel those"
"your sad? That's okay, it's okay to be sad sometimes, try listening to music, movies, shows you like and maybe play something you enjoy!"
"We all appreciate you!"
"we all love you!"
"Your valid"
"your important no matter what!"
Continue enjoying the comments you amazing person!
Thank you so so much! This really made my day.
little angel, I came to remind you that you are special, enough and made with a lot of love, Jesus loves you a lot and waits for your voice and heart ;)
@@paybes5812 little angel, I came to remind you that you are special, enough and made with a lot of love, Jesus loves you a lot and waits for your voice and heart ;)
thx
but they still goin to hell though
*POV: you come out to be trans, but everybody still says her/she, you tell your principal, still nothing. You start to lose hope, but when you open your yearbook you see “he was the best student”*
this made me feel better..thank you,, TT
I wish
@@gutsip6423 my friends call me lesbo as a joke but i kinda take offensive so don't worry :)
@@candl3sinnerflam313 I think I’m gay and my friends know but I’m scared to tell my dad as it think he is homophobic
@@havok9798 then wait until you know you have somewhere to stay and be prepared! only think I can thing of rn
"why aren't you crying?"
I've been numb for far too long..
"Why am I laughing? Have I been suppressing my emotions for so long that my only response to sadness is laughter?" - Me, just trying to grapple with my own reactions, and putting this comment here because I thought it fit, not to seem 'cringy' or 'weird' like seriously guys, it fits with the conversation, just because im young doesn't mean I can't feel-
Same
im Numb
100th like, It's so relatable tho-
i feel you.
It’s just sadness🥺
"Why are you sad!!"
"Depression is you just being sad"
"You have no reason to be stress or depressed"
I am and i feel disconnected rn
I felt this
fellow homosapien, its actually healthy to cry. if you bottle it up, it can be mentally damaging to your psyche. if no one is willing to comfort you, then go to a room by yourself and cry. if you need someone to comfort you with cute pics of animals and weird memes, im here for you. here is my discord if you'd like to talk, :3
Kittydogcatmeow#2510
Every time I just want to randomly cry after something happened, or a rough day, I just can’t cry and I’m like ‘but why I thought I just wanted to cry-‘ ;-;
Okay I felt that
I have depression and anxiety🥺
I told my parents about how I don’t feel home, But they only said “Its because you’re always on your phone and room” But little did they know They’re also the reason why I’m toxic, and the screaming in my head and chest can’t be removed, I can’t show love to anyone When my mom told me to my smile My face was frozen and one time my mom Told me she love me My heart Was frozen When Will the days come back?...
Also, for all the people reading this you’re wonderful They’re just too blind to see
As a weeb I wanna go home I don’t feel safe around my own family that’s why I’m always with my friends and in my room I just wanna be loved and held I don’t think I can take anymore but I’m staying strong and not ending it all i want to but I’m waiting for something but I don’t know what it why theirs just something holding on to me and not letting me let go
Hope it get better soon I know how you feel man.
guys do know what..
*when you listen sad song it makes you feel better am i right?.*
it makes me feel worse but i like the feeling
It makes me feel relieved with somethings for no reason, for all us people in the comments, music is our only friend here
No, not for me. It kinda just helps me relax but not. So, practically let it all out so cry in that sense.
Yes..... there actually the only reason why I'm still alive
yep
*cries*
ur dumb
@@densedesjarlais4600 someones angry
@@densedesjarlais4600 shut u p
@@densedesjarlais4600 clearly you don't understand what it feels to suffer a mental illness or disorder, you're irrelevant and you're unwanted here, unless you're going to support this person, you can leave
**CRIES IN SAD**
I was writing a message to a friend saying I was gay all he said was "Ew" I was crying none stop and this helped alot thanks...
aw i’m sorry, i’m proud of you for coming out!
You gotta get a new friend.
I’m sorry some people are dumb and I don’t get why they don’t accept people I hope your doing better
It’s ok, since he didn’t accept that fact it means he wasn’t a true friend. Only true friends can accept the fact that you are gay or transgender or whatever. I’m not gay but I know it’s ok to be gay. Please just keep fighting the good fight, because in the end it’s happens for a reason
hey it’s okay, i’m so proud of you🥺❤️
Sometimes I'm confused on what my gender is. I don't understand why I feel this way. Sometimes I just wanna fall asleep and stay in my dreams forever. I don't really know who I am at times, I just don't feel right as a female. But at the same time, I'm not comfortable about being a male. Is anyone experiencing the same issue? I want to be able to relate to someone...no one around me understands.
maybe you’re non binary or agender?? Or anywhere on that spectrum?? coz for me I know I’ve never felt female but male isn’t 100% right either. why is gender so wacky??? anyways I hope this helped at least a bit and I hope you figure out who you are soon :) oh and don’t forget that you are loved, my fellow human ✨
@@somerandomhumancalledtony110 Exactly! I’m glad someone understands. (:
@@MikeHawk-ob1es hehe you’re welcome! :D
i felt that way a while back, and i realised i am non binary. :)
@@quackadoodlez That’s nice! I’m happy for you. I’m not completely comfortable with the label NB, but idk yet- ;-;
*I finally got the courage to cut my hair. Now I just need the chest surgery and I'll be the happiest person on earth.*
i'm so proud of you 🥺
"just cheer up"
"your life isnt as bad as others'"
"maybe if you actually did physical work you wouldnt be over 100 pounds"
but yet they still ask me
"why do you never hang out with us"
"why are you so closed off"
Thats so true
Felt this one, mine kept body shaming me and belittling me and my problems. I became anorexic because of the body shaming and now they’re forcing me to eat and thinking that I don’t eat because I’m always on my phone. I’m so fucking tired.
My mom be like:
True I feel this is am 120 pounds and I am supposed to be like 90-100 pounds and now my mom and my family tells me that I need to stop siting around and geting fat they expect me to open up to them now...
Lucky i cant get over 50 pounds.
“his hairs a mess and he doesn’t know who he is yet” i can relate to that.
I wish I didnt
"but little does he know the stars welcome him with open arms..."
Same but its her
@@TheotherKirby that part made me really sad bc it reminded me of fred weasley
oh yeah.
It hurts me that comments understands me more than my family
I completely understand you but just know that I love and care about you even if I don't know you it's ok to be sad it's ok to show emotions do what makes you feel better don't give up if you're every feeling down just remembered that this community is here for you I am here and we love and accept you have a good day/afternoon/night
crying because i lost all of my childhood friends and don’t know what to do anymore
I’m sorry that happened to you :( i hope you get other friends that make you happier. And for what to do, DO THE THINGS YOU LOVE! Could be anything, do what you love! Basically anything that makes you happier.
-Random stranger on the internet
Ily :(
I've never had childhood friends, the only "friends" i have are online, but they barley talk to me and forget my pronouns, even my sister who i'm most close to, i keep telling her my pronouns are they/them but then she turns around and uses she/her, along with everyone else, so I've had to change my pronouns to she/them due to everyone using she/her or people online treat me as I'm not a human and say it/its which makes me feel degraded as a person.
When you realize your dad doesn't accept you for being asexual and pan romantic but the random people in the comments do
We do...
Don't worry. We accept you. :)
YES.. AND HES YOUR FATHER ITS NOT ACCEPTING THERE IS NOTHING TO ACCEPT YOUR THE SAME AS BEFORE and a father isnt the person who help make you its the person who really puts the time and effort to see you not what you like its you, so fuck him and his '' NOT ACCEPTING ''... im here dm me on Instagram at helpful_panda77 or just look up olivia collins ill pop up. and thats for everyone. need to talk im here
It's okay, it's so hard yet so easy to be accepted, but one day no one will care. One day no one will not judge you on your sexuality, or gender, but your personality itself. Maybe some people don't accept it, and that's okay. It's their choice. We are all free people with different opinions. I hope you can find someone who will understand you.
i dont know if hed accept me yet. but i hope yours too.
-stranger.
We will always accept you
*I feel like i'm unlovable . . .*
All my "friends" probably hate me and think I'm annoying.
*I feel out of place
hey, it's gonna be okay :)
Praying for you friend! 🙏🥺
You are who you are, Im annoying to but you are who you are bby ♡
You are important even if you don’t believe it!
dont worry i feel the same way , it will be okay even if it does not feel that way now it will with time. : )
*it's almost 2 am and i'm silently sobbing to this while imagining what everything would be like if things were different*
*P A I N*
Ok
*D E P R E S S I O N*
Same.
“Grandma..? I'm a lesbian.”
“..Why?”
“Because I've been liking females..”
“No you're not! I'm sure you'll realise that in the future, you actually like males, not girls.”
I sure "hope" so..
I know I may not know you personally, but you are absolutely valid, and you are allowed to like who you like, no matter what people say.
I hope things get better in the future, and that you find your soulmate soon. All of us in the comment section support you, and send you virtual hugs and lots of pixelated love.
Keep being you, hun, from one member of the lgbt+ community to another.
You are valid, and brave for coming out.
You're a wonderful person.
You can love whoever you want!! Be you! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. John 3:16❤️
I’m not trans but.. I’m proud of everyone who’s writing their stories in the comments
I’m your pansexual auntie now, sending lots of love ❤️❤️
nope
@@Isaac-sl4ci man you are so bad, yet you are good too
Hey aunt, I'm your bi niece ❤️✨
Hi aunty I'm now your bisexual, gender fluid, polyamory, asexual older sister/brother/sibling :D
edit: yes I know that's a lot
Hi I'm you pan niece
There seems to be a ton of people writing letters to their parents about being trans.
You can do it. You are strong. And most of all, you can be who you want to be. I love you. I care about you.
Dearest wishes- Lucas. FtM
Kokichi Ouma appreciate me I’m your 69th like
Also amazing message
Thanks, not-so-stupid grape rat boy. I'm not trans, but you made my day
well u see, I wanna be trans but I can't ;,>
I'm Pan and my Parents are homophobic and if I fall in love with a girl I'm fricked
This is unrelated but hi Kokichi!
is it just me or this song makes you wanna sit on the roof of your house and watch the moon ? but yea .. could be just me
Noo I feel the same way
It would be amazing
*realization*
society says i should be skinny, but with hips and a chest.
society says i should have fair skin, free of imperfections.
society says i should have long hair, perfectly styled.
society says i should be polite, forgiving, kind.
society says i should be straight, and eventually a house wife.
society says i shouldn’t care.
society says i should be me, free of expectations.
society says i should be proud of my body, holding my head high.
society says i can be whatever i wish, i just have to dream of it first.
society says i should listen to myself.
so i try.
i try to be confident, i try to be happy. i try and look at myself, and say “you look good” or “today’s gonna be a good day.”
then i look over at the girl next to me, with her perfect skin, long hair, and thin waist. how her skirt doesn’t bulge, how her hair perfectly frames her face. perfect handwriting, confident laugh, soft voice.
and i’m jealous.
i envy her.
i envy her body, her style, everything. she’s everything i’m not, she’s so much better.
so i try and remind myself that i’m okay. that i have friends who care for me, that they don’t think i’m ugly.
friends.
i look at her friends.
long hair.
fair skin.
skinny.
oh.
they’re all pretty.
my mind wanders, and i’m trapped.
do my friends think i’m ugly?
do my friends think she’s prettier?
am i enough?
am i ugly?
am i fat?
i’m too short.
i don’t have a style.
i’m too brash.
i’m annoying.
my grades are average.
average?
am i average?
no.
something less than that.
mediocre?
that’s it.
mediocre.
nothing special, nothing new.
forgettable.
insignificant, if you will.
i’m not depressed, i don’t have any mental health issues.
so why am i like this?
why do i hate myself sometimes?
why do i compare myself unnecessarily?
i’m sorry.
that was unnecessary.
No no its okay! Everyone one here is venting/vanting (i forgot lol) so none of us mind if you do! Plus ur not alone i feel you but i gtg soon but take it from a person from the internet, your remember ur loved, handsome/beautiful and dont listen who ever says ur not! Im still young and i might not understand somethings but still be safe we love u and good night/morning!
Hey hey stop crying just take a breath I promise everything will get better c’mon let’s go through this battle together I’ll protect you ;D
Promise?
Lachtan _xd that would be a promise i’d keep.
Do you all really promise it ? Please say yes
@Alissya Molina-Bomberger i promise to you
no. im good.
me :crying
ad: StAtE fArM gIvEs YoU sUrpRiSiNgLy GrEaT rAtEs!
i'm really sorry but i kinda thought that was funny
*S T A T E F A R M*
also i hope u get better hdkhdjshs
This made me laugh so hard
This made me laugh in the middle of a cry then a vocal tic happened and I died
@@atlas6477 oof
This moment when the comments understand you better than friends and family....
Mhmm
In the next few years, we'll return here with nostalgia
This sounds like something you’d play overlooking a destroyed city, knowing no one is left.
The sad thing is that it’s actually getting close to that
it really does
it already feels like that for me.
@@rainingmoon4 oh shit , man
pretty damn accurate now ngl
Message from my trans friend. He read a comment that was telling anyone who wasn't trans to fuck off and that they can't be sad to this, so he wanted me to paste this here since he doesn't have a YT account:
"You don't have to be trans to be sad to this song.
You don't have to be LGBTQ+ to be sad to this song.
You don't have to be a specific gender identity or sexuality to be sad to this song.
You're a person, and maybe when you listen to this, you feel unloved. Or lonely. Or scared. Or sad. Or something else. And that's okay. But I want you to know that you're loved, you are cared about, you are wonderful, you are unique, and you're someone who's going to do great things.
To those who are trans and etc.,
I'm sorry you have to hear people call you someone you're not.
I'm sorry you have to be referred to as something you're not.
You're not that. You are whoever you want to be. You've got so much ahead of you, and even if life seems really fucking dark right now, you've _got_ this. You can keep going, you aren't alone, you can do this.
Stay strong, and stay safe. Thank you for reading."
I- thank you...i needed that..
😭
can we normalise trans artists? our feelings are just as universal as anyone else’s, and anyone can relate to us past our gender. i am in love with this comment!
you know 🧠 I missed you 😔 from ↩️ the very☝️day ☀️ you went 🏃 away 🛫 I feel 😣 like Laura Les 👩, saying, "I love you" 💓 on the plane ✈️ And even 👀 though 🌝 it's been a week 📆 I still think 💭🤔 of your face 🙂 Blew 🌬️ all my money 🤑💸 on a trivial 🤏 video game 🎮🕹️ I dunk 👇 my head 🦲 in the water 🌊so I can feel 🥰 something 🤧☠️ And now 🕰️ I'm thinking 🧠✨ of all the times ⏳ that my phone 📳 would ring 🔔~ I reminisce 😵 and remember❗all 🤗of the songs 🎶 we'd sing 🎤👄 But 👀 now 👇 I hate ❌🙅♂️ every one 😒 of the songs 🎵 we used ◀️ to sing 👩🎤 Can 🥫 you 👤 believe 🤯🌥️ that I didn't 🚫 think 💭 you would 🤡 leave me? 💔🏃♂️ And ➕ now ⏸️ I 👁️ can't trust ❌🔐anyone 👫👭 'cause 🔁 you just left 🏃♀️💨 me 😞 I wish 🧚♀️💫 I never 🚫⏰ responded ⌨️ to all those 👉 texts 👨💻 It'd be 🅱️ better 😌 if 🤔 we had just 👫 never ❌ met 🤝 Can 🥫 you believe 👼 that ➡️ I'm missing you 😪🕳️ even 😬 though 🤐 When ⌚ I 👁️ was with you, 💏 I 👁️ never ❌❌ felt more 😕 alone 😟🚶♂️ I wish 🧚♀️✨ I never ❌ responded 😤 to all those texts ⌨️ It'd 😞 be 🅱️ better 😌 if 🤔we had just 🖖 never 🚫 met 🤝 (A🤪-a🤪-a🤪-a🤪-a🤪-a🤪-a🤪-a🤪-Glitch 👾Gum 😼) I 👁️ wish 🌠 we 🚻 never ❎ met 👋 We 🎎 broke up 💔on PictoChat, 💻 crying 😿😭 on my DS ⌨️ I went 🚕 to a birthday 🎂 party 🎈 for one☝️of her friends 👯👧 And ➕ now 👇that this is over ✅😪 I can hate them, 🤬😼 I don't have ✋to pretend ✊🤪 Remember 🧠❓when I called 🗣️ you ❣️ my Barbie,👱♀️and I was Ken 👱♂️ That 🌳 was like 🥴 the cringiest 😣😳 thing 📝 that I've ever said 👄🔊 When 🕐 I 👁️ was with you 👫 I just 😔 felt more 📈 alone 🏝️😢 I just hope 🙏 I'm bad enough 😼👻 to call ☎️ about 🐭 When you're 💃on your phone 🤳📲 This ☝️➡️ Glitch 👾 Gum guy 🤖 is so 😒 annoying 🙄 He 👨 keeps 😐 asking me 😇❔to listen 👂 to these bands 🎸👩🎤 I can't 🚫⛔ even pronounce 🎙️👁️🗨️ And 👉now👈 he's making music 💿🎶 with this guy 🙆♂️ named 'C🤔M😕TEN🤢'? I'm so 😤done 💁with him 🥱😴 Everything 🔁 you said 🗣️💬 about me 👉🥺 is just lies 👅⚫ I can't ❌ believe 🙀 you put 🤏 mascara 💄🖌️ on my eyes 👁️👁️ I hope 🙏 you don't listen 🚫👂 and see 👓👀 past ↔️ my disguise 🎩😎 'Cause 😔 I'm still 👉👈 kinda hurt 🤕💥 that you're not 😓 in my life 👐🤧 You👤know 🧠☑️ I missed you 😞😿 from ↩️ the very☝️day 🌄 you went 🏃♀️💨 away 🐎 I feel 🙃 like Laura Les, 🙋♀️ saying,🗣️ "I love you" 💖💓 on 👇⬇️ the plane 🛩️ And even 😧 though 😑 it's been ⌚a week 📆 I still 😪 think 💭 of your face 🎭🌝 Blew 🌬️ all my money 🤑 on a trivial 🤨 video 📺 game 🕹️🎮 I wish ✨💭 I never 💯 responded 💬 to all🖕 those texts 🤳📴 It'd be 🅱️ better 🤭 if we had just😫 never met 📵💌 I wish ✨💭 I never 💯 responded 💬 to all🖕 those texts 🤳📴 It'd be 🅱️ better 🤭 if we had just😫 never met 📵💌
❤️❤️
I hold back every tear the whole day until i can finally let it out when it's night time but sometimes im too numb too so i can't cry. I couldn't hold it back once when I was at a sleepover with my best friends they had never seen me cry that much before but they have forgotten about it now i hope at least :)..
I literally can’t do this anymore it’s so fucking hard I don’t think parents understand how much stress kids have right now with online school. My mom constantly yells at me for not doing school 24/7 and it’s so much stress that I can’t handle
I feel you... i try every time to be happy even tho im having a breakdown
@@markertheinformationable4362 yeah :( I’m glad we get each other
“She doesn’t how to communicate.”
Me: *a transfer student that has a strong Russian and Korean accent*
AARON CHAMBERS i mean the lyrics is “he doesn’t know how to communicate” but ok
@@alexei2k896 so what? no need to negatively comment on a 3 month old comment dude lmao
@@user-yx2ci7jp4o why do you have to add the "3 month old" part?
@@user-wh4jc3wc4d because it was commented a while ago and theres no need to start an argument over something so trivial??
AARON CHAMBERS jokes on them they can’t speak your Language yk how much I would love to have a different accent or language. Keep your head up, also never trust anyone on the first week.
Everyone in these comments, all supportive to everyone and arent that judgmental at all, why can't the world be like this? supportive of everyone and then some?
Because the world is shit.
If youtube comments are more accepting and peaceful then the fucking WORLD
Then the internet truly is suprime.
@@genderqueerandfulloffear_9527 yeah half of the world is just plain old crusty shit.
i wish just us, all the supportive kids meet each other and hug each other to stop being in pain :) i love you all, okay?
not ready for 2021 yet.
neither am i .
Pov: your all alone in your room crying. You feel alone. You feel like no one's there for you. Your either surrounded by people or no one. It doesn't even matter. They don't pay attention to you. You think your worthless. You want to hide. You want to escape and run away from the world. You just wanna be free and happy. But you know that that'll never happen. So you drown yourself in your blankets and pillows. Listening to slowed songs to make you feel either a little bit better. Or even sometimes, worse. You start crying. Thinking about your life. Realizing your role in people's lives. Just someone to use then dump. They never think about the effects it'll have on us.
"I'll cut my hair...
To make you stare..."
I felt free cutting my hair. No longer tangled up in the knots that weighed me down.
I'm glad.. I bet that feeling is amazing.
I want to cut my hair... But my mom said I can't
TheBobaDragon did start writing poetry- that’s some talent :)) but fr I hope you’re doing good bow
@@pizza5803 just do it. If ur scared to do it urself, go to a hairdresser. Its ur body, ur choices. Family are suppose to support ur choices but sometimes, family are just strangers...
“Why aren’t you crying”
Oh I’m saving it for tonight....
Hello, back again a few months later, I’m crying again, amazing how kind strangers on RUclips are.., (TW)i logged onto roblox today to find a message from my girlfriend saying that she’s thinking about killing her self and I hadn’t heard from her since the day I got it, I hadn’t been logged on the day she said that or the days after, she sent it 3 days ago and I haven’t heard from her since then, I’m worried I was to late but I don’t know if I was, she interacted with one of my TikToks I think 22 hours ago and replyed to my friend yesterday, but she is in England so we have a 5 hour time difference which is hard because I’m sometimes asleep when she wakes up and her parents being so strict along with her school it’s hard to talk to her because it’s hard to get time slots , I will come back when I find out if she’s ok or not, I know y’all don’t really care but I can vent on RUclips and strangers just care for me for some reason, it’s not easy but i think it’ll get better
Don’t worry you got this
@@l_l2361 ty 🥺
Same.....
Always do :)
No i have just cried to much to this song that I physically can’t anymore
“time is slowly tracing his face but strangely he feels at home in this place”
why does it hit so hard when your sad
Hi. I’m Robin. Not [redacted] Robin. I go by they/them and ze/zir. Not she/her. I want to be myself but I don’t want to come out, when I came out as pansexual, I was already bullied and had transphobic comments made even though I hadn’t even come out but that’s fine. The closet is safe and warm. I needed to cry. I’ve been strong for so long and letting myself cry is still me being strong, it’s just also trying to cope.
youre valid Robin, we love you
V A L I D ?
h e l l y e a
When your bully uses the right pronouns but your whole family doesn't
What's ur pronouns bb? I wanna know
@@pearlyxd cough- I personally go by all, but what I said is pretty relatable for some of my friends-
I'm sorry
@@y.nmidoriya939 uh oh that's- terrible
Reading this hurt. A lot.
*Listen.*
Take a breath. Relax.
It's okay, I'm here.
It doesn't matter
What you've been or are going through.
Take a moment
To find yourself,
And recollect.
I love you.
You're safe here.
Bíshop
thank you 🥺.
You're safe, my child. -Toriel Dreemur
please be quiet
I'm with a kidnapper please help me, he only let's me use my phone for 20 minutes, while watching me I'm sorry he is coming back help please!
Allison Magana wait are you ok? How is he letting you use your phone?
Dear person whoever reads this,
Hey, you, yes, I am talking right to you. I hope you will see yourself with the eyes I see you one day, because I can tell you have some awesome music taste :) You’re such a beautiful human being and worth and enough. I hope you know that you do only need yourself to be happy, I know society build up the standard that whenever you’re alone you’re not living a happy live. But in fact that is not true, if you start to realize that you actually deserve all the good things happening to you, you will treat yourself a lot nicer. I hope you let yourself rest, don’t beat yourself up over past mistakes, over regret, and over everything your mind wants to destroy you. I wish I could remove all those demons inside of your head because you deserve to feel happy. If you ever feel lonely then watch the sky, because you know, someone, at the same time is watching the sky too, maybe feeling the same way..I am glad you exist and I hope you won’t ever remove your own spot in this world, maybe you don’t feel like you belong here but, Angel, then build your home here. I don’t want you to leave this world unhappy. I want you to live every little second, I want you to feel alive, I don’t want you to see yourself just existing. You deserve it. Whatever happened, it’s not your fault, the demons in your head recognize that you have a beautiful heart, they want to take it because they have never seen such beautiful heart as yours, so why let them win over you? . You’re not selfish for isolating yourself, but you deserve to talk to someone. If you’re reading this than please never forget to breath and smile.
Don’t live up to other standards! It’s your story and not theirs.
Life for those who couldn’t, smile for those who forgot what a genuine smile is, love like there’s no other, hug like its your last one.
I love you and send you hugs.
You’re so strong, you’re still here, and I am proud of you.
YOU ARE NOT USELESS. READ THAT AGAIN.
YOU ARE WORTH IT. READ THAT AGAIN.
YOU ARE LOVED. READ THAT AGAIN.
I AM GLAD YOU EXIST. READ THAT AGAIN.
YOU ARE NOT A PROBLEM. YOU ARE HUMAN AND YOUR FEELINGS ARE VALID. READ THAT AGAIN.
YOU ARE NOT BEING DRAMATIC.
You’re not a burden to anyone, don’t be afraid to talk, to use your voice.
You’re beautiful inside out. Your body is beautiful the way it is.
Please don’t starve yourself. Please eat, I know it’s hard but you deserve food. You deserve to eat and drink.
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH. READ THAT AGAIN.
I WISH I COULD HUGH YOU RIGHT NOW, SO A VIRTUAL HUG WILL DO.
It hurts me to see you’re in pain :( you deserve so much man, don’t let your emotions control you. Don’t let them get the best of you.
I love u I love u I love u I love u I love u please don’t go.
I am sorry that no one is hearing you, I am sorry no one is noticing that you have lost yourself. I wish I could take your pain away, it hurts me to see the pain in your eyes. I love you trough my words and I mean it. I just want you to stay, hold on a little longer okay? Please? For me.??
I hope you have an awesome day/ morning/ evening/ night.
If it’s night for you, go to sleep, I know it’s hard to fall asleep right now but you deserve a good sleep. If you have nightmares, please, don’t let them fight you.
If it’s day for you, don’t start it by such sad music, I know it’s impossible to have a good day with such mindset but take baby steps, start by drinking two cups of water in the morning and so on.. You will start building little healthy habits.
If it’s evening for you, you’re probably overwhelmed and stressed, I want you to know it’s okay to feel the way you feel. You don’t need to be scared, of course you’re overwhelmed or stressed, I mean who wouldn’t? But it’s important to know that when you feel that way you should do a little self care, such as taking a bath for example? You deserve to feel at ease and relaxed.
And if you are somewhere in between I hope you know that you’re stronger than you think, I know you will make it :)
All I want for you is to stay and feel alive.
Now wipe those tears away and smile for me, you really don’t know much a smile can brighten someone’s day, do you? I hope one day yours will become a genuine one where you don’t need to fake it anymore, because I can’t say this enough, you deserve a good smile and to feel alive. You’re worth more than every fucking cent in this world.
I need you here with me :).
Remember crying is not weakness, let it out as much as you can but don’t let the emotion control you by giving up. It’s okay, you’re here, you’re safe, you can let it out.
Did anyone asked you, how you are feeling today? If not, how are you really? I don’t think you’re doing good, but you will feel good at one point. Don’t give yourself up.
I am sorry you feel misunderstood.
But anyone who gets to be with you, doesn’t know how fucking lucky he/ she/ they is :).
Enough with beating up yourself for today, okay?!
- The stranger that cares about you more than anything.
I hope this is enough for you to stay today, tomorrow will be a new day, a new start, let go now. I hope you can stay.
This is your sign to stay and treat yourself with love, you deserve it.
And in case no one told you today, again, I am so proud of you.
I hope you will remember my words- becho :)
Until tomorrow, my friend :)
Thank you so much i really need this
@@valsanamo you’re welcome
i mean i’m straight but i love this song too. ❤️
i think it’s funny that parents will say
“i don’t care if they’re a boy or girl as long as they’re happy and healthy!”
but when you want to change all of a sudden it’s not okay and now you’re not happy or healthy.
Hey you cheer up
Everythings going to be okay
You might not know me but i hope the best for you
Im not good at motivating but youre an awesome person
I hope this helps
:)
Your family's say that? My family is homophobic and they don't know I am pansexual. Its so hard. Sometimes I wanna die...
@@globalama2370 hey i know how it feels to not be accepted at "home". But you are stronger than them, dont do what they want you to. Do what you love and be yourself. Build your own home and stay with the people who love you and appreciate you as you are. Live your life to the fullest. You can do it.
@@cherry9513 thank you so much :")
@@globalama2370 no problem. I made it my life goal to help people, so im really happy to hear that!!^-^
"Are you tired of me yet" hits different when you can actually relate on a personal level
Fr
@@o-tammy-o ikr
Yep...
everyone in my life is tired of me
turns out they were. they like her. she’s prettier and funnier than me. i understand why they chose her.
i am a lesbian.
my pronouns are they/he.
i'm not a monster.
i'm not dirty.
i'm not wrong.
i wish i could believe in it
hey Just know that im proud of u
@@sophiamiller1384 thank you😭
@@caterina3902 Np if u ever need someone to talk to im here
People just don’t know how much they are hurting others 😔
man
*i m a l i t t l e s i c k r i g h t n o w*
*_B u t. I. s w e a r. w h e n. I ' m. r e e a d y. I w i l l. f l y. s o o n. o f. t h e r e_*
𝓣𝓸 𝓶𝓪𝓴𝓮 𝔂𝓸𝓾 𝓼𝓽𝓪𝓻𝓮
Same doe
*T O M A K E Y O U S T A R E.*
I L L h i d e m y c h e s t a n d f I g u r e o u t a w a y t o g e t u s o u t o f
h e r e . . .
Well since everybody wrote something here’s mine:
I’m depressed since 3rd grade I’m not the type that can have I conversation with there parents, so I keep to myself
I hate my father.
(Edit): i think the sorry part 'bout this is i diagnosed myself IN 3rd Grade and i was right....and still dont like HIM....
Tbh same
aw, that sucks dude. if you ever need anyone to talk to or reach out to, im here.
seriously tho, if you need help contact a professional, but if you just need someone there for you, ill be here.
Skylar Song haha thx🙏🏾
we hv so much incommon
Last time i talked with my mom abt me being sad she said it wasnt real and i was thinkin it all in my head and its sad how many other ppl have their parents as best friends but i- 😞
Sometimes i wanna lose myself in a song and never come back, this is one of them
“Why are you feeling this way, you should have the confidence of a super model,and you’re only 12 years old” I’m not the perfect daughter you wanted mom you have to accept that and maybe you should try helping instead of complaining. Saying that you can’t help is wrong , you can help because you were part of why I’m feeling like this so maybe you should do your part and solve the problem that you caused because I can’t do this on my own.
*are you tired of me yet? i’m a little sick right now, but i swear, when you’re ready i will fly us out of here.*
i thought it said im
i had cancer so that verse makes me get in my feelings
@@saniyah_.420. I'm so sorry you had to experience that, stay strong ❤
Me rn who is literally sick and just threw up cuz ive cried too much recently and its giving me a headache
😔✌️
pov: you are sitting on the windowsill with a guitar in your hands and playing this song, it is raining outside, a light breeze blows over all the features of Your face. But just one thought about your idol and you don't seem to exist...
This would actually be really nice not gonna lie there
" Are you dead? Sometimes I think I'm dead..."
DAMN.
Everyone :POV:your listing to this and crying
Me: ;-; I’m so broken I can’t cry so.....
*hug*
@Ølivîa San im sorry about that :( as a 1st grader my classmate held my hands and while i was trying to fight back and he showed his friend and his friend was just laughing- he tried kissing me im still traumatized by that- this went on for a year
LMFAO THE “;-;” “I’m so broken” KILLED ME YOU WANNA KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE? YOUR PROBABLY SOME 6 YEAR OLD GACHA KID
@@gidgetschewy8666 dude chill they might actually need help
I'm not trans. I'm not gay. I'm not lesbian. I'm not straight.
My friend is trans.
He is amazing.
He is perfect.
He is kind.
My BFF's Are part of the LGBTQ+.
I love them
They are amazing
I care for them as family.
I care for him.
I'm pansexual.
I'm new.
I wanna be like the others.
But,
I know
I shouldn't.
To all the LGBTQUIA+, If anyone doesn't accept you for who you are, they are just jealous.
Oh? You ask why?
Because you are beautiful inside and out.
If you think your not, look in a mirror.
See that beautiful person in there?
That's you.
You are all wonderful and we will love and accept you no matter what.
Do not think you aren't worth it.
Do not think that you're ugly.
Do not think negative thoughts.
You are all the world needs to change. Don't leave those who love you.
I send all my love out to you through this.
I love you all.
~Izuku Midoriya
You are a beautiful person, Midoriya. No wonder All Might chose you.
All Might chose you because of your wise words like this
I freaking love you child,thank you for thos.
Thank you Izuku it meant alot to me have a good life❤️🏳️🌈🥺
i?? genuinely want to cry
thank you so much, young midoriya
“ I’ll cut my hair , to make you stare ”
I dyed my hair for you .
I cut my hair for you.
I changed the way I sound when I talk for you.
I started wearing more makeup for you.
I changed my whole personality for you.
I almost lost the number one most important friendship to me for you.
I started failing school because of you.
I ignored you so I wouldn’t seem needy.
I almost changed my whole life for you.
You were my best friend and my best friends ex . I felt terrible and then you said you liked me then you asked me out . It was only a week.
We didn’t talk.
We barely made contact in any way possible.
The last day before thanksgiving break we went to a basketball game and you tried holding my hand but I got triggered and walked off then I let you hold my hand and it felt amazing like it was just me and you in the bleachers. I went home so happy that day not knowing you were gonna break up with me and tell me we are better off best friends and then got back with my best friend.
Because of you I could’ve lost my best friend.
Because of you I ended up ditching my friends most of the time.
Sure it’s been about a year now .
If I could go back to that day you asked me out I would .
You lied to me about cutting yourself.
My best friend and you stopped dating.
Y’all were best friends till you screwed up.
You still call her toxic to this day when she hasn’t thought about you since y’all stopped being friends.
You also broke up with me around my birthday.
Then I got rejected by someone I thought was better than you a day before my birthday.
Oh yeah and after when we came back from the break you acted like you did nothing wrong.
And I mean you was just a one week trial homie, sure you made me cry but I got ppl that actually care.
When u think this is gonna be a short comment but then u click *read more* and it’s a big ass essay
this person is not worth. this person should know how does it feel to be rejected, dissapointed. i dont want to wish anyone anything bad, but dont worry. He/She will understand he/she did, maybe not now, but will. And now you won. You got rid of someone who just played with you, didnt gave you the true love. and that person just lost, he/she lost someone who actually loved them, who actually was thinking abotu future with them. its gonna stop hurting, trust me. give it a time
@@idrissholaman8366
lmao yes sorry I was mad and sad
@@krystalka9402
🥺🥺🥺🥺 omg you’re an angel i was just going through some stuff about the same person that hurt me 🥺 I can’t seem to drop them tho🥺 I feel like it will hurt too much to let go
I accidentally clicked on dislike because I couldn't see properly with the TEARS in my EYES
Yes, I fixed the issue and like the comment, don't worry
“are you tired of me yet” when you’re excitedly talking about something to your friends that makes you happy, and they just
*sigh*
Title: this is home
Me: haha good one
im not trans.
or anything
like that
i just
kinda
feel
unloved.
or unloveable.
i really didn’t think this many people cared about me. i love you all with a full heart. i’ve gotten better, so much better, i’m happier. and i want the same to you. if you need someone to talk to my insta is : j.llocked
i’ll always be there no matter how big or small the problem is. thank you everyone. all 4.6k of you
Jamaica Sperler you are loved, and you’re not unlovable
Jamaica Sperler idk you but guess what I love you and I mean it :) 👉🏾👈🏾🥺
i can relate..
Everyone is loved. That person who loves you probably don’t show it they might be going through things in their live. You all i love you ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Same
I’m only 11 but I’ve been struggling with anxiety for a while. I couldn’t get to sleep so I thought I might go listen to music, after seeing a lot of people who suffer from mental illnesses I wish I could hand over all the happiness I have left. Sure this sounds cringe worthy as “I’m a kid! I shouldn’t feel sad or lonely!” But I do feel super upset almost all the time. I’m questioning if I may be enby and if I am I’m kinda scared to tell my parents or how my friends will react to me going by they/them instead of she/her. Anyway I’m getting off track, if you’ve found my comment you’ve probably been scrolling for a while. Go get some water and try to eat. Go take a nap and get some sleep. I’m proud of you for making it this far. :)
Edit: Jeez I made a whole Essay!! I’m sorry lol
Edit: I realized that yes, I am in fact Enby/Non-binary and my family respects that!! I’m doing so much better since I wrote this comment and I’m now working on handling my anxiety (I have mild anxiety and when I was 6-7 and younger I was almost always paranoid/anxious and could almost never leave the side of my parents)
Edit: there’s so many people replying and I have no idea how to reply (since I usually never talk to others) but I hope you are all doing great, stay safe. :)
I’m 11 too and have rlly bad anxiety and I always listen to slowed music to feel better I hope you feel better
hey wanna talk about this too? we're at the same age, and we're going thru the same thing :)
Daribelle Pelingon honestly I’m really bad at explaining things and I just saw the notification lol, but sure!
@@cheep6661 you got discord or any social media?
@@dariylle sadly no lol
"Thank you pillow, for catching my tears when nobody else did." I found that on a different video :)
Life doesn't feel real anymore.
Yknow, I may sound insane, but this song really gets me thinking about the people that live a "normal" life. The people that wake up, and feel like they have their whole life ahead of them. The people that aren't sheltering their sexuality, or gender, or mental condition from the world. The people that have never felt rejection or depression.
And honestly, I'm a little jealous of them.
Im not so sure there are people like that, everyone has problems and feel certain ways at times, some more than others.
Yeah I really want to tell my parents I’m Pan but I don’t know what to do.. I know they would support me but I’m scared and I too am jealous of those people.. also does anyone have any advice
@Jordyn Jenkins
I’m in a similar situation except I’m gay. I’m just gonna wait till I move out, or have a place to go if they kick me out for liking girls :/
444 111 that’s a good idea thank u
Fred Malpass-riley I’m not. Since I have trauma I’m automatically 10 times more funny 😌✨
The day i came out to my mom we argued the entire time, screamed at each other, she mocked me and the rest of the community, i cried for hours.
She apologized but it was empty and really her making excuses. She said she would try and that i could correct her on my pronouns. It's been 3 months. And she still misgenders me and makes fun of my identity.
And she wonders why i don't open up.
Edit:Definitely not me crying from all the support and affection. Stfu i swear i'm not emotional!
Edit #2: figured i'd update this since it's been some time since i posted this comment.
I am no longer living with my mom. I started living with my dad some time in mid august.
I mean, not much has changed regarding deadnaming and misgendering, but to be fair i never really properly came out to him either.
He is aware of the fact that i'm queer and all, but he doesn't talk about it or ask. He did make me take down my prode flag though which made me really sad. I think i'm doing better too. I'm not as stressed and suicidal as i was before, but ya know, not everything's great either. I got dropped by all of my friends and started a new school. It's completely online so i don't know anyone and can't reach out either lmao.
But to some of you in the replies that are going through similar. I honestly hope that it gets better quickly for you. I think you and i already know how crumby it is to be in these situations. If ur not feeling all too great you can always hit me up and chat with me on discord
Name if you wanna add me and chill:
@Mochi-Demon#6479
Lemme remind you too, that your feelings are valid, your identity is vaild, your gender is valid, your sexual orientation is valid, you are vaild, and that you deserve to be loved and surrounded by ppl who will support and care for you the way you deserve to be.
I love u. And have a good day.
Drink some water too kings, queens, and comrads.
Oh bby im so sorry pls dont give up i luv u ! Ur amazing if u ever need to rant i will listen to all ur rants abt how horrible life can be sometimes. Remember u And ur feelings are valid~ ♡
darling, Go tell your mom off, Nobody wants her here if she's like that, Be yourself queen/king, We love you baby ♡
same with my mom your not alone here
im so sorry dear 🥺🥺 pls don't give up! i hope one day she accepts you for who you are truly, i do!
i am proud of you doll ❤️
baby, I'm so, so, so sorry.- *Virtual hug*- Stay strong for me ok?
To everyone in the comments, I just want to say that I fully support you and I love you. Here is a *big* virtual hug. It's going to be okay!
-man I really hope I don't wake up tomorrow-
well i’m proud of you for waking up even if it’s hard you still did it.
I’m looking at these comments and I’m starting to *tear up / cry-*
same
same :''''')
i’m crying right now, and making sure to tell them that i need them here :))
Parents: * yells at me for no reason*
Me: * broken and starts crying*
Parents: "sorry i didn't mean to make you cry your jusy sensitive"
They do the same thing over and over i dont take there apologize anymore cause it happens over and over they hurt me so much without knowing it
When i was crying, my parents beat me to give me a reason to cry
One of my old classes did that. I can't imagine what its like to live with that everyday
@@gbghbhhdingdong1868 same-
😭😭 happens almost every day
Fuck your "parents"
They seem like toxic people.
Im a nonbinary so this song is my getaway... Thank you so much.
I find it funny that parents don't accept their kids but random strangers on the internet do
Are we all LGBTQ+ children and we wanna come out but you’re scared what you’re parents will think?
Yeah, same..
I came out to my mom but no one else other than her and my friends. Not even my sister
Mhm, I only told one perosn, my friend,she told me hers, we are happy for each other, she also knows I am to scared to tell my parents..
Same:)
:(
I'm bisexual I'm mostly interested to boys though... I hope she Understands
Actually I came out to them U_U kinda- I just screamed at the kitchen floor after I admitted that I liked girls to my mom- STILL COUNTS!!
They're ok with it tho, but my mom is iffy on my gender. I also told them that I wanted to be called my they/them pronouns and they've been miss gendering me for a couple months. I haven't been correcting them because I don't want to interrupt or annoy them. And my dad said that he didn't understand it but still accepts me and is ok with it :) I'm lucky.
No one:
Me: *reads nice comments and cries*
Same
Same here!
same
Hits different when you're questioning trans but don't know how to tell anyone and if I am then I'd be the first trans person in my entire family-
Yeah..
The saddest and, at the same time, the most amazing thing about this community is that it has most likely saved, perhaps unaware, a huge amount of human lives.
It hurts so much to have someone look over my shoulder while listening to lofi etc. and says it's stupid.
Because it is probably the biggest proof that the internet is beautiful.
And that it is one of the best places you could go.
Welcome to the Slowed songs / lofi / chill music community.
Stay longer, because it's worth it.
We will always wait with open arms so that you can talk to us, cry out, and then help others.
We love you.
We all.
Btw. I accept all pronouns, except he / him. But the best thing would be she/her and they/them.
Thanks and love ya, hope you have a nice day/night!
Thank you so much. You also keep strong :) u deserve a good time