3 years later and I’m still reading these comments. they’re really sweet, and I enjoy reading them. you are all amazing people, please don’t let others get to you. everyone is equal, and *DESERVES* to be treated equally as well. I love you for who you are, and you are valid and amazing. I hope everyone is living a good life. I wish you guys all the best, I love you 💗
This is Pig. 🐸 He's a frog. A really loving frog. And Pig cares about you. Pig also knows that some stranger on the internet can't fix your sadness but a hug will pause it for a bit. So here's a hug from Pig. 🐸❤️ Pig's hugs are contagious and the goal is to pause as much sadness as possible. So everyone spread Pig's hugs in attempt to make it happen :)
Who ever is reading this, I love you and you are valid, if anyone ever tells you different, ignore them. No matter who or what you are we are all equal and you are a key part to this world.
For everyone seeing this, I love you. You’ll find yourself one day, maybe you just need a little time. -a trans who doesn’t know his place in this world yet.
When your 'bff' betrays you when you come out to them (they/him, bisexual) and they cuss you out, calling you complete garbage, and then blocking you, telling your other friends that YOU did what she did to her and losing 8 friends in under an hour check!!
I’ve always identified by he/him or they/them. I’ve never rlly minded what people call me other than she/her bc I’m a cismale. But this song rlly helps to get rid of any negative energy still in me bc I used to be rlly homophobic bc of someone cheating on me and being in a lesbian relationship after that so I hated lesbians with a burning passion but I slowly became a lot less homophobic and rn I support everyone in the lgbtqia+ community
For my inner child: I love you. You're confused and lost but we get through it. It turns to hell but we made it. I'm so proud of you. Thank you for being you. Never lose your love for learning. Never let anyone tell you you can't do it. Because you can. Trust me, you can. And we will. Love your future self ❤️
I’m 32, and I kinda love that both me and my 13 year old have this on our playlists. To all the people who feel as small, trapped, and repressed as I did in my early teens - I swear it gets better. I know, it’s a cliche and does nothing for the here and now, but I wish it would have been my mantra back then. 13 year old me, existing on daydreams and anxiety in my little New Jersey bedroom, had no clue what kind of adventures were in store for us - some beautiful, some ugly. Hopping trains, falling in and out of love, sleeping among redwoods and under city lights. Along the way there was so much loss, trauma, and addiction - but I wouldn’t trade it for the world. I’m able to live a life that’s true to who I am, while doing my best not to pass the same insecurities on to the next generation. Life is a weird thing..
Thank you so much!!! This really helped me as a 14 year old who has severe anxiety and depression and doesn't know who they are yet.........this really really helped me. So, thank you. Have a great morning/evening/night.
Everyone reading this no mater what and or who your gender, sexually, race or religion is I love you all (from an aroace who doesn’t know who they are yet❤️❤️) Edit: I’m looking back at this a year later I’m currently a Demi-boy who is aro-ace and still wondering if this is actually me Everyone who has commented and who has not I hope you understand I will read what you have to say no matter what and try to reply I love all of you guys
I'm straight and I love this song too. I cried at this too cuz I have a friend that was afraid to tell me she's trans,thinking I would reject him...he was a girl now a boy,he's the same kind,good,beautiful person like always. All of you are!No matter you sexuality!❤ Be yourselfs!!No matter what is your sexuality,if you're trans,thats it!if you gay/lesbian/non binary/pan etc,this is you,no matter what others says!👌🏳️🌈You don't have to change for the others!You don't have to be afraid to be who you are,this is you,you can't change that! And you will never make everyone proud of you,you just can't! Be yourselves!❤💞🏳️🌈
Im a demigirl, and I was bullied for being so. On your journey to finding out who you really are, this song helps. It helped me a lot, cavetown does make the pain go away. So if you've come out, still in the closet, or in between, just know that out there, there are people who support you and love you. Don't be afraid alr? You'll come out with time. Happy pride guys :>
I don’t know what I am yet.. I don’t like boys or girls.. I’m a girl. I am just a sad girl hiding all her pain in her heart so I can try to be happy I am very sensitive so talking about my pain does not help
You are valid. What ever gender identity you are, your valid. That “friend” is not good for you, also that “friend” is wrong.Good luck on your adventure. You can do this. I believe in you.
Dear reader, I'm so proud of you buddy! You’ve stayed very strong. You might hide your emotions. I get it. It builds up inside of you. You’re an amazing, kind, and nice person. You're probably working hard. You might be stressed in life. You might see everyone putting their problems out in public, filming themselves crying and putting it out in public like it’s nothing, while you keep yours in. You might feel like there's nobody to help you. Don't listen to the other people and follow your dreams. If you don't have any dreams, just keep moving. If I could be there with you I would. You're special. Just remember you’re not alone. Take care! There's so much more to do in life. It just takes time. ^^ I hope you have a wonderful day. Try to get some sleep if you need it.
Hello I’m here to tell you that if people are not accepting you for who you are I wanna say your worth it and you beautiful ☺️and I luv u be yourself whatever makes you comfortable!! Be safe!! 💗💕🌸💖💐☺️😊
I really wanna cut my hair really short and hide my chest but my mom gets mad at me for wearing lose stuff and this song really helps me escape,I feel lost like idk what I wanna do in the future but I can't be who I wanna be...I'm sorry I hide my feelings and I don't like to tell anyone abt my problems or how I feel and this song helps me escape Edited: Guys so I cute my hair a few months back and rn I'm really loving my hair ,but I still hate myself:)
same I can relate like is it really hurting my mom and dad who I wanna be maybe I won't be like this forever but who cares if I do its my life. And I hide my feelings alot like until Its getting worse I'm a mental mess. I feel like they will look at me and be disgusted if I say I wan't to be a boy so yea this is my life constantly going insane about everything and when its all done this song calms me. hope future self gets friends, gets help, and be comfortable who I am. Anyways this is long but yea my name is Tsukio and I'm nonbinary and pansexual.
I cut my hair bought a binder online with my fathers card my mom got so mad but my dad he never made it home that day he was hit by a truck with my 3 year old sister she survived but she sais that she remembers the truck coming. I hope he would have been happy
I love this song, it really gets out all my tears that are hiding inside my eyes. In my closet, it's all dark. So I'm terrified that something is in there. Whenever I have trouble sleeping, my light goes out and I'm shaking..so this song gets out all of my sadness to move on.
i like to listen to this while trying to understand myself witch i find hard and i wish i could cry but i cried all my tears dry now feel like i'm crying but nothing happens it makes me extra depressed
My method to my demons and maybe yours. Go out you blanket enough that you can see the roof of your room but not enough to see your demons and just try to think of other stuff like how I use my little world in the mind, I usually space out and then fall asleep, or I just continue to narrate my stories till 1 or 2 am
Here's a little comfort for anyone who finds this going through anything tough related to this song :) My closest friend my biggest inspiration, goes through being trans and it's always been really heartbreaking to see him go through this. I don't know if this helps anyone going through any gender crisis or dysphoria or anything. I'll just say things that I would say to him through hard times. You are valid for who you are, I accept you and lots of people in this comment section does, and if ur still a kid, then just dont ever feel like giving up because of this, because if you do u will miss out on being the you YOU want to be. Even if there is family or people close to u that don't accept you dont let their words get to your head stay strong and keep your head up. I don't cared that I don't know you nor anything about you but I love you Be kind to yourselves
I am a transgender christian. And know that God loves ALL of you no matter your gender or sexuality. Yes, God made you the gender he wanted u to be on the outside, but he also made you who you are on the inside. You may be a boy on the outside, but if you feel like a girl on the inside, God will still love and accept you for who you are💙💖🤍💖💙
its funny how this song made me realize i was trans without knowing the meaning of the song at the time. i identify as non binary and so far iv'e come out to my mom, aunt, online friends, and my father. im proud of how far iv'e come. my mom is going to order me a binder as soon as she can. :)
@Sad Omni Bitch🥲 thank you and im sure your grandparents will come to terms eventually older people usually have a harder time understanding since when they were kids it wasnt as accepting
the first words are very true. i haven’t been having the best days lately, and i’ve been too hard on myself, even tho i know my emotional existence is more important. Sometimes i’m not sad, just not happy.
I used to hate this song(probably because I was pushing away all of my feelings of dysphoria) now after cutting my hair and accepting myself I fully resonate with it(except that I am nb)
I imagine my boy bsf singing this to me. It feels like hes the one who is there to protect me from the pain, sometimes I ask myself if… If I’m in love with him.
Often I am upset that I cannot fall in love but I guess This avoids the stress of falling out of it Are you tired of me yet? I'm a little sick right now but I swear When I'm ready I will fly us out of here I'll cut my hair (Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh) To make you stare (Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh) I'll hide my chest And I'll figure out a way to get us out of here Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh Turn off your porcelain face I can't really think right now in this place There's too many colors enough to drive all of us insane Are you dead? Sometimes I think I'm dead 'Cause I can feel ghosts and ghouls wrapping my head But I don't wanna fall asleep just yet My eyes went dark (Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh) I don't know where (Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh) My pupils are But I'll figure out a way to get us out of here Get a load of this monster He doesn't know how to communicate His mind is in a different place Will everybody please give him a little bit of space Get a load of this train-wreck His hair's a mess and he doesn't know who he is yet But little do we know, the stars Welcome him with open arms Oh Time is (Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh) Slowly (Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh) Tracing his face But strangely he feels at home in this place (ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh)
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fuck, i didnt notice this was an one hour version and accidentally listened the whole hour Edit: why tf does this have likes, I was just stating my NOT REGRETTED mistake...
Yeah I love this song. For some reason it gives me one reason to cry myself to sleep because I don’t feel like home is my real home. I feel like my home is a paradise that I can only imagine and have in my dreams. A home where everyone was accepted for being who they are, whether they’re black or white, gay or straight, furry or weeb, esc. If I could escape to that world forever where I didn’t need to lie so others would like me, and bottle emotions up inside of me, I would. I want to be anywhere but on this shithole of a planet. No matter what you think or what you are, people are gonna hate you. You can’t be who you want to be without being told to kill yourself or getting hated because you don’t meet the social requirements that other people have for you. Being told to kill yourself for being a furry hit me really hard and depressed me for a little bit. I was talking on a discord server and someone said I was one, so over ten people started attacking me for it. They called me a furfag, a waste of space, an embarrassment, an animal fucker, a disappointment, and so on. Then they all resorted to telling me to kill myself. That nobody loved or cared about me. People always tell me to fucking ignore it, but it’s kind of fucking hard when tons of people are telling you to and you feel peer pressured to do so. I’m almost sick of this world and come to this song for an escape. An escape from the anxiety of not fitting in with everyone else. An escape from everyone who wishes me dead. An escape from this place we call “home”. It sure as hell isn’t a home for me. I don’t know how people fit in so well. I’m too busy trying to figure it out that I’ll do just about anything people tell me to do. I’ll do just about anything for them to like me because I can’t differentiate between what can be right or wrong. I’m just fucking tired of all this, all of this anxiety and all of these thoughts that race through my mind. Nobody likes everybody, and everybody likes nobody. The world will never change.
Hey, it's ok, I know it is hard to separate yourself from that but here is a little piece of advice, write yourself something or have someone close to you write down comforting words for yourself to read through and remember when recieving the hate. Dont let them get to you they just want to cause you pain and they have no heart and that's not ur fault. But those people, are not everyone. No matter what there are still people on this planet who will accept and love you for who you are. Just stay till that fateful day comes ok? Ik that is hard but you have to continue telling yourself that there are still people who accept who you are. And if there isnt anyone nearby who do atm, I can try to be that person :) Fuck those haters stopping you from ur potential of being the amazing you you will be one day. This reply might be late but I hope you have a good day
No one should EVER have to feel like they are in the wrong for finding something that makes them happy, even if it makes them different from most. I hope that you find all of the happiness you deserve ♡♡♡
I have similar feeling though they affect me a bit different. I still bottle these emotions up, and I feel as if I would rather be a ghost or an un-seeable entity. This causes me to make many characters in my head, from horrific villains to overconfident heroes I take place in these people as you would in a book you could say. This allows me to create a separate world from my own, a dimension of my mind if we would like to get poetic about it. And all I can say is imagine all the things you could ever want (If you can) then, ask yourself what's stopping you from having that. If it's something you C A N N O T control then please listen to these few yet wise words. You cannot control how people feel, you cannot always read someone like a book, and you cant always fix it, so don't let it get you down If you can control it then find ways to improve, talk to people who will help because there are always people there, no matter where you are I promise. It's a loud, large majority of people who believe that we are in the wrong, we will always disagree, and they may seem strong, but the true strong people are the ones that stand and fight. If you ever need somebody to talk to know there is always at the LEAST one person that W I L L listen, ok? I can't promise but we can hope that it will get better, along as we fight together alright? "These are simple words yet they could mean a lot to somebody out there " - a friend yet not -Souless
hey I hope your doing well. people are so fucked up and this world is so cruel. why would people tell others to kill themselves ? people can choose what they wanna be, but race isn’t a thing you can choose. people have to be confident about themselves and not listen to what others are saying. and why do people bully others for what they wanna be? they chose to be that kinda person, and other people are just bullying them. istg why do people do this type of stuff? I wish the world was better than this. not people making people kill themselves. anyways I hope you have a great day or night . ❤️🩹
Hey no matter who you are or who you want to be . YOU are perfect and valid and loved. Please stay a little longer. Remember home doesn't have to be a place it also can be a person .I'm a closet bisexual and when nobody told you today : I love you ! If you want to talk , I am listening.
Years ago I felt a connection to this song but I didn't know why, I'm 13 and found out I am transgender. I now realize what the connection was. Never be afraid to be yourself.
Just say, I’m who I am, sure you might think that my hair is pretty now, but that’s you. I need change for once. It’s my choice who I want to be, not you.
I had to put me and my partner's relationship on pause today cuz i would get in trouble cuz im too young and this was their favorite song. Just a couple more years to go...
My sis says " your adopted" so am I this song makes everything that makes you sad or feel pain go away my papa John past away and I still feel pain this song helps people so much thank you for righting it cavetown
Everybody who is reading this , I know we all have been through a lot. I know we struggle with lots of things like sexual abuse, verbal abuse, mental abuse, substance abuse, or maybe physical abuse, and violence and we also might have struggled with depression ,anxiety, and our anger issues but guess what I know some of u guys overcame that even if u did not yet..ur still strong and I bet you’ll overcome those thing that I went through. We’re all strong and we know we’re beautiful in our own way. Everyone here that is reading this is beautiful to me and y’all matter to me I can’t believe people like u on the internet understand me and each other more then anyone in the outside world. It surprises me and I love it. I hope u all get well and better soon enough. U all are special to me and others here you all are valid! U are hella awesome! Bye hope you all have a great day and night! Goodnight guys sweet dreams and sleep well and get enough rest.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ -from an 11 year old named Avery.😊
Don’t change urself for others just bc u wanna fit in if they don’t need u then u don’t need them find somebody that cares and loves you for who u are ❤😊
POV : ur sitting in ur class, everyone is yelling and making fun of you. U just wanna take a break so u put ur earplugs in and go to RUclips and see this 1 hour long loop of the same amazing song! U start listening and close your eyes, u realize everyone’s still yelling but ur just ignoring them :D. That moment, that one moment.. so simple but u think abt it like it was the best moment u ever had ❤️ This happened to me and im really thankful for this it rly made me feel a lot better!
if anyone says you arent good enough, you arent a real boy, girl, or anything else, dont listen to them. i want you to know theyre wrong. you are who you think you are, guess you are, questioning you are, anything. YOU ARE VALID no one can change that. you are amazing and great, so keep going 🌱
It’s ok to be yourself even when people don’t understand you. Don’t listen to those haters, block negative and think positive. if you do well now, in the future I promise it will get better! It’s just the time and people holding on tightly and slowly letting go xx
anyone that sees this just remember life gets better. no matter what situation your in, you will always be loved even if its by one person just remember people out there love you and you are amazing. dont set your standards too high when your already perfect in your own special way. dont ever think you are ugly,disgusting,rude ect your are amazing
I’ve been through so much and this song has been with me ever since it started and it’s very comforting to know that music and make some pain go away not all
I started listening to this song years ago... then I listened to the lyrics and left it alone for a few years because my parents are homophobic and transphobic (even though they claim they're not but I've literally heard them deadnaming people we knew and disrespecting our church's priest for marrying another priest of the same gender.) and didn't want my phone privilege's taken away. It's honestly disgusting. Another year then I came back with a more open mind and figured out that I related to at least some parts of this song like "I cannot fall in love but I guess this avoids the stress of falling out of it"... I started to think long and hard about this... I barely even knew the LGBTQIA+ community existed before my church's priest got married and I still didn't understand. I started to do more research, covering my tracks and deleting stuff like watch and search history because my parents are borderline helicopter parents but not in a loving, caring, and worrying way... They wanted to keep me ignorant of almost everything and it kind of worked but I out whited them over and over until they gave up. I eventually found the surface of the LGBTQ community and started to look at things like that and at the same time still deleting watch and search history. Eventually, about 2 years after discovering it, I realized I related to a lot of it... I knew they were stereotypes but I started o reflect to try and confirm or deny my suspicion. I realized that I was only looking at boys because I just saw it as a given that I needed a husband, Even my male priest needed a husband so surely I did too right? Yea... within the year I figured out I was queer. I still wasn't 100% sure so I identified as Bi for a while, I still do sometimes because until I have more experience I won't really know for sure but I'm pretty sure I'm lesbian...But my issue wasn't just that I was kept ignorant and had self doubt... I had only scratched the surface of the LGBTQIA+ community (And I'm still only on the surface but I've explored it a lot more.) so I still had a lot to learn. Eventually, about another year later I finally discovered the asexual community... and I researched it and found out that It was basically 100% like me. I had very little attraction and absolutely no interest in doing "the thing" … So awkward saying that but you know what I mean... Another 6 months later after finally identifying as ase and I discovered that there are sub titles under asexuality... I figured out that I was actually Aegosexual.. That was great but I had seen ase-aro stereotypes in the community all over and I thought that I had to be that or else I was lying (I was ignorant) but then I discovered things like being biromantic or panromantic... I then realized that I could be both and that everyone was different. I am now a happy queer! I'm still closeted to my family but I've just stopped hiding it! I don't want to come out, I just want to be myself and have fun, If they want to know me then they can come in this closet to talk because there's a lot of room in here! So yea, I'll just let them figure it out, If they want to be rude then let them, Let them kick me out! They weren't good parents anyways. So this was the story on how a singular song made me an asexual lesbian in a severely catholic family and allowed me to finally have some sort of joy in my life. (Idk If i got the timing right with my story anymore because I've been focusing to much on being myself and defending the people my parents offend by doing things like correcting them when they deadname or misgender someone. I just estimated time biased on how I perceived it at the time. So take the timing with a grain of salt. I already am working to transfer over personal accounts for things like gaming to a personal and secret email o if they kick me out all I have to do is make sure no trace of that email is there and I can take my accounts before they delete them. I know about organizations that will take me in if I get kicked out and my family has already been really rude to me and I just realized that I didn't actually care so being taken in so I can live my life free seems pretty promising. Thank you Cavetown... You literally saved me and now I can start moving on! Hopefully those who hear my story and are questioning can take something from my experiences... and remember... You can't chose your parents, but you can chose your family... and you are always welcome in the LGBTQ community. We'll be your family even if your real family doesn't act like a real family.
@@agoofygoober7649 Well I wish you luck. If you need help I'd suggest looking into the Trevor project. It's an LGBTQIAP+ charity. If not then just remember that the LGBTQIAP+ community itself will help you.
The feeling of being one gender on the outside and another outside is something I've known for a while now. Crying is normal for us trans people If you don't have anyone who accepts you in you're life, I do, and I'm sure alot of others do to. Wait for a little bit, I believe in you! You can do it.
If your ever feeling down just remember that someone is always going to care about me even if you never met them. If you have a friend or family that doesn’t support you someone in this world is always going to care about you.Just remember your important every one that was made and let on this planet is important even you so just remember someone may look at you and think they are so (pretty or handsome). Your important and people care about you.
Hearing this song after months really made me think- I heard it and I was already trans. It made me cry because I always forget I’m not the only one. 🏳️⚧️❤️
I'm Bisexual. I use They/Them pronouns but I mostly identify as female. I think I might be Greyromantic..... My parents are homophobic. I feel so sad for them. I hope whoever reads this comment will know that they are loved and valid. Stay Safe everyone. Edit: I recently found out I was a Demigirl. Thx for all the support you guys!
My little sister has autism, she’s 9 and she doesn’t understand the concept of life quite yet, she thinks everything is a big game and doesn’t take anything seriously, so if anyone is mad at her she is confused, not sad. She’s such a pure soul and this song reminds me of her❤
oh my gosh. i remember listing to this on loop with my earphones on the bus. looking out the window. not knowing what this song meant. i thought this was just a sad song. it is, but it has a meaning to it. this was back in 2nd grade i think. i’m going to 5th next month.
I have sleeping issues due stress about work, school, my home life and figuring out who I am I find this is home helps me sleep all I need to do is play this is home for an hour and im asleep. Thank you for making this for an hour I can finally sleep now. Take care lovelies remember your not alone!❤️
This is honestly every emotion I have.. Sometimes I listen to it to sleep or sometimes to just think. I don't have anyone to talk to so I just sit here thinking about everything, and waiting until my life is complete, I'm not suicidal, I just don't care.
Not me being confused about myself being non-binary or whatever tf I am. Edit: Also why do we always turn to RUclips comment sections..? Oh wait, because they understand and accept us more than our real family and friends. Thanks RUclips, for making comment sections.
I wanna tell you all that your worthy and no matter how much damage you've done to something or someone your still worthy(even tho its not nice to hurt someone) almost every one in my grade would bully me but at the end of the day I had forgotten them because everyone deserves to be forgiven . but I love every one with the bottom of my heart because no matter what your worthy.
This is my comfort song that I cry to so it helps to see people posting things like you matter and I love you no matter what because it really means a lot when we’re going through tough times/things
And I know they are just people who don’t know who you are but doesn’t that mean even more since even someone you don’t know is saying that you matter and they love you for who you are
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3 years later and I’m still reading these comments. they’re really sweet, and I enjoy reading them. you are all amazing people, please don’t let others get to you. everyone is equal, and *DESERVES* to be treated equally as well. I love you for who you are, and you are valid and amazing. I hope everyone is living a good life. I wish you guys all the best, I love you 💗
Same
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YEAH
U r so kind with reading these comments after so long, I wish you a great life and happy times
@@LazyCube-hi3nlthank you !! I’d always look back on old things 🙏
This is Pig.
🐸
He's a frog.
A really loving frog.
And Pig cares about you.
Pig also knows that some stranger on the internet can't fix your sadness but a hug will pause it for a bit.
So here's a hug from Pig.
🐸❤️
Pig's hugs are contagious and the goal is to pause as much sadness as possible. So everyone spread Pig's hugs in attempt to make it happen :)
this is a great comment. you guys are perfect. if someone doesnt support you, remember that i care. WE care. i love u all
Aww💖
Thank you :)
Ily :]
thx pig
Who ever is reading this, I love you and you are valid, if anyone ever tells you different, ignore them. No matter who or what you are we are all equal and you are a key part to this world.
thank you, I was on the verge of commiting
I’m having a gender identity crisis
Nvm I’m good
Omg you made me cry thank you
@@vlissii8833 im happy u didn't
For everyone seeing this, I love you. You’ll find yourself one day, maybe you just need a little time. -a trans who doesn’t know his place in this world yet.
100th like 👍 ❤
Me a trans asexual human: immediately loves this song the moment I hear the first word (thx for all the likes and support ^^)
So....you love the word often
Jk jk bro. But....tbh i feel you. I am not trans nor asexual but, i am nonbinary and pansexual! And i support you!
get it bestie
@@freakshowfroppy8616 well, trans actually means identifying as a gender other than your assigned one! So nonbinary is under the trans umbrella :)
weirdo
This song is deep.
🦋🍥
Oj?
And I'm 14
@@stfu-pi-ddk1ddo891 im 13
oh hi hajime!
When your 'bff' betrays you when you come out to them (they/him, bisexual) and they cuss you out, calling you complete garbage, and then blocking you, telling your other friends that YOU did what she did to her and losing 8 friends in under an hour check!!
Ayo same
i'm so sorry, you are perfect!
I’m so sorry, I hope they realize what they lost and you realize what you’ve got without those toxic people in your life 🤍
Feel you dude that happens to me alot😔
This just happend to me recently, your not alone ❤
Favorite song to listen to while questioning your gender/sexuality/pronouns
Yeah same
I’ve always identified by he/him or they/them. I’ve never rlly minded what people call me other than she/her bc I’m a cismale. But this song rlly helps to get rid of any negative energy still in me bc I used to be rlly homophobic bc of someone cheating on me and being in a lesbian relationship after that so I hated lesbians with a burning passion but I slowly became a lot less homophobic and rn I support everyone in the lgbtqia+ community
@I a simp thats the same thing for me
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Hey, To Anybody Going Through A Hard Time, I Love You❤️
ilyt a little comment honestly helps anyone
Thank you
tysm. my mom and dad just split up.
For my inner child: I love you.
You're confused and lost but we get through it.
It turns to hell but we made it.
I'm so proud of you.
Thank you for being you.
Never lose your love for learning.
Never let anyone tell you you can't do it.
Because you can.
Trust me, you can.
And we will.
Love your future self ❤️
He ain't gonna hear that lil bro
I’m 32, and I kinda love that both me and my 13 year old have this on our playlists. To all the people who feel as small, trapped, and repressed as I did in my early teens - I swear it gets better. I know, it’s a cliche and does nothing for the here and now, but I wish it would have been my mantra back then. 13 year old me, existing on daydreams and anxiety in my little New Jersey bedroom, had no clue what kind of adventures were in store for us - some beautiful, some ugly. Hopping trains, falling in and out of love, sleeping among redwoods and under city lights. Along the way there was so much loss, trauma, and addiction - but I wouldn’t trade it for the world. I’m able to live a life that’s true to who I am, while doing my best not to pass the same insecurities on to the next generation. Life is a weird thing..
This.... this made me feel better, thank you!
Thank you so much!!! This really helped me as a 14 year old who has severe anxiety and depression and doesn't know who they are yet.........this really really helped me. So, thank you. Have a great morning/evening/night.
U joined when I was born
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Everyone reading this no mater what and or who your gender, sexually, race or religion is I love you all (from an aroace who doesn’t know who they are yet❤️❤️)
Edit: I’m looking back at this a year later I’m currently a Demi-boy who is aro-ace and still wondering if this is actually me Everyone who has commented and who has not I hope you understand I will read what you have to say no matter what and try to reply I love all of you guys
Awww 🥺 ty❤️
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@@Kritz2015 💜
@@k0gane 💜
@Roll EM 💜
I'm straight and I love this song too.
I cried at this too cuz I have a friend that was afraid to tell me she's trans,thinking I would reject him...he was a girl now a boy,he's the same kind,good,beautiful person like always.
All of you are!No matter you sexuality!❤
Be yourselfs!!No matter what is your sexuality,if you're trans,thats it!if you gay/lesbian/non binary/pan etc,this is you,no matter what others says!👌🏳️🌈You don't have to change for the others!You don't have to be afraid to be who you are,this is you,you can't change that!
And you will never make everyone proud of you,you just can't!
Be yourselves!❤💞🏳️🌈
@Ash✨ -
Right-!lemme just edit-
@@eliluvsloonass (Respectfully) you still have “was afraid to tell me she was trans”
Im a demigirl, and I was bullied for being so. On your journey to finding out who you really are, this song helps. It helped me a lot, cavetown does make the pain go away. So if you've come out, still in the closet, or in between, just know that out there, there are people who support you and love you. Don't be afraid alr? You'll come out with time. Happy pride guys :>
U like a demon
Now I know
If you want sad comments upload a Cavetown vid
Don’t let anybody judge you for who you are!
Also I love your pfp
as a non binary, i feel the same way! dont let people tell you what you are or arent.
I don’t know what I am yet.. I don’t like boys or girls.. I’m a girl. I am just a sad girl hiding all her pain in her heart so I can try to be happy I am very sensitive so talking about my pain does not help
Today my "friend" told me I will never be good enough or a "real" boy
Cavetown will make the pain go away
Um could you tell me where this "friend" lives? :) I just wanna talk :) (all jokes aside fuck them, you're amazing :D )
oh my gosh. that’s terrible. we all have your back, this comment section is a safe place!
You are valid. What ever gender identity you are, your valid. That “friend” is not good for you, also that “friend” is wrong.Good luck on your adventure. You can do this. I believe in you.
you dont need there opinion
The life of neo Its ok i bet you will be :) kkkk
Dear reader,
I'm so proud of you buddy! You’ve stayed very strong. You might hide your emotions. I get it. It builds up inside of you. You’re an amazing, kind, and nice person. You're probably working hard. You might be stressed in life. You might see everyone putting their problems out in public, filming themselves crying and putting it out in public like it’s nothing, while you keep yours in. You might feel like there's nobody to help you. Don't listen to the other people and follow your dreams. If you don't have any dreams, just keep moving. If I could be there with you I would. You're special.
Just remember you’re not alone.
Take care! There's so much more to do in life. It just takes time. ^^
I hope you have a wonderful day. Try to get some sleep if you need it.
ty so much you just lightened up my day!
Thank you I love you ❤❤❤
I really needed that thank you…
wow this made me cry ilysm❤️
-me vibing kind of start to cry bcz thid was me and older brother fav song when were sad but he passed-
aww
May your brother RIP :c
Sorry bro, R.I.P your brother, may God be with you.
Aww I'm so sorry to hear that I hope your doing ok now
That’s funny
I'm not assumed trans, i love this song
I’m not trans but this song makes me so much better. Like this is my comfort song. This song feels like home. I love everyone here 💗
Same
Same
I'm not trans either but I am non binary and I just got my hair cut and I'm also asking for a binder for Christmas if I can muster up the courage.
@@taylorfamily9133 Same!
Same! What can I say, most of the LGBTQ+ community is super nice and fun, most of my friends are in it
And, bonus, they make awesome music!!
Hello I’m here to tell you that if people are not accepting you for who you are I wanna say your worth it and you beautiful ☺️and I luv u be yourself whatever makes you comfortable!! Be safe!! 💗💕🌸💖💐☺️😊
I really wanna cut my hair really short and hide my chest but my mom gets mad at me for wearing lose stuff and this song really helps me escape,I feel lost like idk what I wanna do in the future but I can't be who I wanna be...I'm sorry I hide my feelings and I don't like to tell anyone abt my problems or how I feel and this song helps me escape
Edited: Guys so I cute my hair a few months back and rn I'm really loving my hair ,but I still hate myself:)
Cool that describes me
same I can relate like is it really hurting my mom and dad who I wanna be maybe I won't be like this forever but who cares if I do its my life. And I hide my feelings alot like until Its getting worse I'm a mental mess. I feel like they will look at me and be disgusted if I say I wan't to be a boy so yea this is my life constantly going insane about everything and when its all done this song calms me. hope future self gets friends, gets help, and be comfortable who I am. Anyways this is long but yea my name is Tsukio and I'm nonbinary and pansexual.
@@momo-6620 I'm so sorry let's be friends I'm lupe and I don't have a label but I wanna be a guy and my mom hates that I dress and look like a guy
Same here the only difference is all i want is for at least one person to care about me
I cut my hair bought a binder online with my fathers card my mom got so mad but my dad he never made it home that day he was hit by a truck with my 3 year old sister she survived but she sais that she remembers the truck coming. I hope he would have been happy
I love this song, it really gets out all my tears that are hiding inside my eyes. In my closet, it's all dark. So I'm terrified that something is in there. Whenever I have trouble sleeping, my light goes out and I'm shaking..so this song gets out all of my sadness to move on.
aww
Same I love to talk abt my probs bye my self in my room and just cry it really helps you should try it hope it works for you like it does for me❤
i like to listen to this while trying to understand myself witch i find hard and i wish i could cry but i cried all my tears dry now feel like i'm crying but nothing happens it makes me extra depressed
My method to my demons and maybe yours.
Go out you blanket enough that you can see the roof of your room but not enough to see your demons and just try to think of other stuff like how I use my little world in the mind, I usually space out and then fall asleep, or I just continue to narrate my stories till 1 or 2 am
I love this song so much 🖤
Same
I do to and I like your profile pic
Same
Same
Same
Here's a little comfort for anyone who finds this going through anything tough related to this song :)
My closest friend my biggest inspiration, goes through being trans and it's always been really heartbreaking to see him go through this.
I don't know if this helps anyone going through any gender crisis or dysphoria or anything. I'll just say things that I would say to him through hard times.
You are valid for who you are, I accept you and lots of people in this comment section does, and if ur still a kid, then just dont ever feel like giving up because of this, because if you do u will miss out on being the you YOU want to be. Even if there is family or people close to u that don't accept you dont let their words get to your head stay strong and keep your head up.
I don't cared that I don't know you nor anything about you but
I love you
Be kind to yourselves
Okay 💙
i love the fact you took the time to write this entire thing just in hopes to make people feel any better thank you so much☺
@user-is4ob9gz4b you're so very welcome! I'm happy it might have helped anyone
I fall asleep to this song every night. 6 1/2 hours it plays for. My comfort song to escape reality
Aw
I am a transgender christian. And know that God loves ALL of you no matter your gender or sexuality.
Yes, God made you the gender he wanted u to be on the outside, but he also made you who you are on the inside.
You may be a boy on the outside, but if you feel like a girl on the inside, God will still love and accept you for who you are💙💖🤍💖💙
True…
Unless you bloody killed someone
JK JK
Yes. The thing is that God doesn’t make mistakes. He wouldn’t create you just to hate you. As a fellow Christian I wish more people understood this.
@@oreo1324 you made me smile with the rest of this :)
I don’t know what I am yet..
@@littledemons_yt2670 that’s perfectly valid
its funny how this song made me realize i was trans without knowing the meaning of the song at the time. i identify as non binary and so far iv'e come out to my mom, aunt, online friends, and my father. im proud of how far iv'e come. my mom is going to order me a binder as soon as she can. :)
@Sad Omni Bitch🥲 thank you and im sure your grandparents will come to terms eventually older people usually have a harder time understanding since when they were kids it wasnt as accepting
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The sad thing is I've never been able to come out to my family only my best friends (3 people) so in my opinion you have a lot of courage.
Oh yeah that's real classical music has converted people to Christianity so a song about being trans could have similar effects.
This song makes you feel like your drowning it’s so peaceful
Well I’d rather drown in water than in a song 🙃
Are you ok?
@@millie_berry9780 lmao
Oh well
the first words are very true. i haven’t been having the best days lately, and i’ve been too hard on myself, even tho i know my emotional existence is more important.
Sometimes i’m not sad, just not happy.
I used to hate this song(probably because I was pushing away all of my feelings of dysphoria) now after cutting my hair and accepting myself I fully resonate with it(except that I am nb)
Exact same but I’m trans not nb:)
I imagine my boy bsf singing this to me. It feels like hes the one who is there to protect me from the pain, sometimes I ask myself if…
If I’m in love with him.
You at least have a best friend
Whatever happens I promise everything will be ok :D
Have you figured out your feelings yet? :)
I hope you found out if your in love with hom
@@zombie_gorezZ Yeah I have gladly, now I know that I am in love with him. :)
if you reading this right now, I hope whatever is happening, gets better and I pray that you will find happiness.
To everyone reading, you are valid. You are loved. And you will get through this.
This song makes me want to cut off all of my hair at 3 in the morning with a dull pair of scissors👀
I did bahaha
@@myles6580 oh sh¡t, your parents doesnt are mad? (srry if the english is bad, i speak spanish)
@@PFYJCS They were. I got kicked out lmaooo😭
I did lol
@@myles6580 All of that bcs u cut Ur hair ,they must be very strict
Often I am upset that I cannot fall in love but I guess
This avoids the stress of falling out of it
Are you tired of me yet?
I'm a little sick right now but I swear
When I'm ready I will fly us out of here
I'll cut my hair
(Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh) To make you stare
(Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh) I'll hide my chest
And I'll figure out a way to get us out of here
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
Turn off your porcelain face
I can't really think right now in this place
There's too many colors enough to drive all of us insane
Are you dead? Sometimes I think I'm dead
'Cause I can feel ghosts and ghouls wrapping my head
But I don't wanna fall asleep just yet
My eyes went dark
(Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh) I don't know where
(Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh) My pupils are
But I'll figure out a way to get us out of here
Get a load of this monster
He doesn't know how to communicate
His mind is in a different place
Will everybody please give him a little bit of space
Get a load of this train-wreck
His hair's a mess and he doesn't know who he is yet
But little do we know, the stars
Welcome him with open arms
Oh
Time is
(Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh) Slowly
(Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh) Tracing his face
But strangely he feels at home in this place (ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh)
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hi ;)
Bro actually did all the lyrics ❤das cool 😂😊
im crying idk why this song is sad
Ik😭
Why would you cry to this it’s not sad
this song helps me out aldo im not trans it helps me escape reality it just gets inside my head and make,s everything peacfully
Hi! You’re valid :) I’m bi and non binary! And I love and support you no matter what
I’m bi too! :D
Me three :D
I'm bi but transgender :'D
SCRoll down if worthy »«
Hi pogger i am a noob nice to meet you my gender is guessed and i hate it
scroll down if more worthy
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WelcomeIm suffering :'D
thank u somuch:)) i rlly needed this rn
yes, just yes. very proud of you person. you're valid and i am beyond proud of you.
fuck, i didnt notice this was an one hour version and accidentally listened the whole hour
Edit: why tf does this have likes, I was just stating my NOT REGRETTED mistake...
i feel like thats a mistake u prolly didnt regret
Oof
*that’s not a bad thing*
That’s a bad thing?
@@hisokaamorou6603 No, it's actually a very good thing.
The comment section here is a lot more comfortable than the real world…… I think I’ll stay here
This song really does live up to its name
i love this comment section to ive been scrolling for half an hour just repliying to as much as i can :)
thank you to this song for helping me feel less alone in being ftm
Your very welcome!
Yeah I love this song. For some reason it gives me one reason to cry myself to sleep because I don’t feel like home is my real home. I feel like my home is a paradise that I can only imagine and have in my dreams. A home where everyone was accepted for being who they are, whether they’re black or white, gay or straight, furry or weeb, esc. If I could escape to that world forever where I didn’t need to lie so others would like me, and bottle emotions up inside of me, I would. I want to be anywhere but on this shithole of a planet. No matter what you think or what you are, people are gonna hate you. You can’t be who you want to be without being told to kill yourself or getting hated because you don’t meet the social requirements that other people have for you. Being told to kill yourself for being a furry hit me really hard and depressed me for a little bit. I was talking on a discord server and someone said I was one, so over ten people started attacking me for it. They called me a furfag, a waste of space, an embarrassment, an animal fucker, a disappointment, and so on. Then they all resorted to telling me to kill myself. That nobody loved or cared about me. People always tell me to fucking ignore it, but it’s kind of fucking hard when tons of people are telling you to and you feel peer pressured to do so. I’m almost sick of this world and come to this song for an escape. An escape from the anxiety of not fitting in with everyone else. An escape from everyone who wishes me dead. An escape from this place we call “home”. It sure as hell isn’t a home for me.
I don’t know how people fit in so well. I’m too busy trying to figure it out that I’ll do just about anything people tell me to do. I’ll do just about anything for them to like me because I can’t differentiate between what can be right or wrong. I’m just fucking tired of all this, all of this anxiety and all of these thoughts that race through my mind. Nobody likes everybody, and everybody likes nobody. The world will never change.
Hey, it's ok, I know it is hard to separate yourself from that but here is a little piece of advice, write yourself something or have someone close to you write down comforting words for yourself to read through and remember when recieving the hate. Dont let them get to you they just want to cause you pain and they have no heart and that's not ur fault. But those people, are not everyone. No matter what there are still people on this planet who will accept and love you for who you are. Just stay till that fateful day comes ok? Ik that is hard but you have to continue telling yourself that there are still people who accept who you are. And if there isnt anyone nearby who do atm, I can try to be that person :)
Fuck those haters stopping you from ur potential of being the amazing you you will be one day.
This reply might be late but I hope you have a good day
I’m sorry you have to go through that
No one should EVER have to feel like they are in the wrong for finding something that makes them happy, even if it makes them different from most. I hope that you find all of the happiness you deserve ♡♡♡
I have similar feeling though they affect me a bit different. I still bottle these emotions up, and I feel as if I would rather be a ghost or an un-seeable entity. This causes me to make many characters in my head, from horrific villains to overconfident heroes I take place in these people as you would in a book you could say. This allows me to create a separate world from my own, a dimension of my mind if we would like to get poetic about it.
And all I can say is imagine all the things you could ever want (If you can) then, ask yourself what's stopping you from having that. If it's something you C A N N O T control then please listen to these few yet wise words. You cannot control how people feel, you cannot always read someone like a book, and you cant always fix it, so don't let it get you down
If you can control it then find ways to improve, talk to people who will help because there are always people there, no matter where you are I promise.
It's a loud, large majority of people who believe that we are in the wrong, we will always disagree, and they may seem strong, but the true strong people are the ones that stand and fight.
If you ever need somebody to talk to know there is always at the LEAST one person that W I L L listen, ok?
I can't promise but we can hope that it will get better, along as we fight together alright?
"These are simple words yet they could mean a lot to somebody out there " - a friend yet not
-Souless
hey I hope your doing well. people are so fucked up and this world is so cruel. why would people tell others to kill themselves ? people can choose what they wanna be, but race isn’t a thing you can choose. people have to be confident about themselves and not listen to what others are saying. and why do people bully others for what they wanna be? they chose to be that kinda person, and other people are just bullying them. istg why do people do this type of stuff? I wish the world was better than this. not people making people kill themselves. anyways I hope you have a great day or night . ❤️🩹
Hey no matter who you are or who you want to be . YOU are perfect and valid and loved. Please stay a little longer. Remember home doesn't have to be a place it also can be a person .I'm a closet bisexual and when nobody told you today : I love you ! If you want to talk , I am listening.
This song is relaxing for me rn😭😭who's with me
thank you for making this.
Years ago I felt a connection to this song but I didn't know why, I'm 13 and found out I am transgender. I now realize what the connection was. Never be afraid to be yourself.
I love this
Nice ^^
Do you have tips on trying to tell my family to cut my hair everytime I do they say “but you have beautiful hair right now don't change it ”
aw, idk any sorry
@@k0gane oh okay thank you for your time though!
@@annakomastu yw
Just say, I’m who I am, sure you might think that my hair is pretty now, but that’s you. I need change for once. It’s my choice who I want to be, not you.
@@spleet1732 THANK YOU SM!! :]
I had to put me and my partner's relationship on pause today cuz i would get in trouble cuz im too young and this was their favorite song. Just a couple more years to go...
My sis says " your adopted" so am I this song makes everything that makes you sad or feel pain go away my papa John past away and I still feel pain this song helps people so much thank you for righting it cavetown
Everybody who is reading this , I know we all have been through a lot. I know we struggle with lots of things like sexual abuse, verbal abuse, mental abuse, substance abuse, or maybe physical abuse, and violence and we also might have struggled with depression ,anxiety, and our anger issues but guess what I know some of u guys overcame that even if u did not yet..ur still strong and I bet you’ll overcome those thing that I went through. We’re all strong and we know we’re beautiful in our own way. Everyone here that is reading this is beautiful to me and y’all matter to me I can’t believe people like u on the internet understand me and each other more then anyone in the outside world. It surprises me and I love it. I hope u all get well and better soon enough. U all are special to me and others here you all are valid! U are hella awesome! Bye hope you all have a great day and night! Goodnight guys sweet dreams and sleep well and get enough rest.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
-from an 11 year old named Avery.😊
Stay beautiful in ur own way don’t change for somebody and be urself! Love uuu!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Don’t change urself for others just bc u wanna fit in if they don’t need u then u don’t need them find somebody that cares and loves you for who u are ❤😊
ty!! i listen all the time!!
Your welcome💕
If u listen to this all the time and nothing els that’s a bit sad
I'm sleeping to this music others are here like " I dont know, but it sounds like me..." or like " relatable"
I your 900 viewer and hop you get more subs :(
POV : ur sitting in ur class, everyone is yelling and making fun of you. U just wanna take a break so u put ur earplugs in and go to RUclips and see this 1 hour long loop of the same amazing song! U start listening and close your eyes, u realize everyone’s still yelling but ur just ignoring them :D. That moment, that one moment.. so simple but u think abt it like it was the best moment u ever had ❤️
This happened to me and im really thankful for this it rly made me feel a lot better!
if anyone says you arent good enough, you arent a real boy, girl, or anything else, dont listen to them. i want you to know theyre wrong. you are who you think you are, guess you are, questioning you are, anything.
YOU ARE VALID
no one can change that.
you are amazing and great, so keep going 🌱
This song is like the hug I’m never going to get but desperately need
cavetown takes away my pain and replaces it with this vibe, i dont know if its good or bad but it feels so good it hurts
It’s ok to be yourself even when people don’t understand you. Don’t listen to those haters, block negative and think positive. if you do well now, in the future I promise it will get better! It’s just the time and people holding on tightly and slowly letting go xx
anyone that sees this just remember life gets better. no matter what situation your in, you will always be loved even if its by one person just remember people out there love you and you are amazing. dont set your standards too high when your already perfect in your own special way. dont ever think you are ugly,disgusting,rude ect your are amazing
this is underrated song
I’ve been through so much and this song has been with me ever since it started and it’s very comforting to know that music and make some pain go away not all
❤🧡💛💚💙💜🖤
Just remember whatever sexuality or race you are I love you
this is so addicting
I started listening to this song years ago... then I listened to the lyrics and left it alone for a few years because my parents are homophobic and transphobic (even though they claim they're not but I've literally heard them deadnaming people we knew and disrespecting our church's priest for marrying another priest of the same gender.) and didn't want my phone privilege's taken away. It's honestly disgusting. Another year then I came back with a more open mind and figured out that I related to at least some parts of this song like "I cannot fall in love but I guess this avoids the stress of falling out of it"... I started to think long and hard about this... I barely even knew the LGBTQIA+ community existed before my church's priest got married and I still didn't understand. I started to do more research, covering my tracks and deleting stuff like watch and search history because my parents are borderline helicopter parents but not in a loving, caring, and worrying way... They wanted to keep me ignorant of almost everything and it kind of worked but I out whited them over and over until they gave up. I eventually found the surface of the LGBTQ community and started to look at things like that and at the same time still deleting watch and search history. Eventually, about 2 years after discovering it, I realized I related to a lot of it... I knew they were stereotypes but I started o reflect to try and confirm or deny my suspicion. I realized that I was only looking at boys because I just saw it as a given that I needed a husband, Even my male priest needed a husband so surely I did too right? Yea... within the year I figured out I was queer. I still wasn't 100% sure so I identified as Bi for a while, I still do sometimes because until I have more experience I won't really know for sure but I'm pretty sure I'm lesbian...But my issue wasn't just that I was kept ignorant and had self doubt... I had only scratched the surface of the LGBTQIA+ community (And I'm still only on the surface but I've explored it a lot more.) so I still had a lot to learn. Eventually, about another year later I finally discovered the asexual community... and I researched it and found out that It was basically 100% like me. I had very little attraction and absolutely no interest in doing "the thing" … So awkward saying that but you know what I mean... Another 6 months later after finally identifying as ase and I discovered that there are sub titles under asexuality... I figured out that I was actually Aegosexual.. That was great but I had seen ase-aro stereotypes in the community all over and I thought that I had to be that or else I was lying (I was ignorant) but then I discovered things like being biromantic or panromantic... I then realized that I could be both and that everyone was different. I am now a happy queer! I'm still closeted to my family but I've just stopped hiding it! I don't want to come out, I just want to be myself and have fun, If they want to know me then they can come in this closet to talk because there's a lot of room in here! So yea, I'll just let them figure it out, If they want to be rude then let them, Let them kick me out! They weren't good parents anyways. So this was the story on how a singular song made me an asexual lesbian in a severely catholic family and allowed me to finally have some sort of joy in my life. (Idk If i got the timing right with my story anymore because I've been focusing to much on being myself and defending the people my parents offend by doing things like correcting them when they deadname or misgender someone. I just estimated time biased on how I perceived it at the time. So take the timing with a grain of salt. I already am working to transfer over personal accounts for things like gaming to a personal and secret email o if they kick me out all I have to do is make sure no trace of that email is there and I can take my accounts before they delete them. I know about organizations that will take me in if I get kicked out and my family has already been really rude to me and I just realized that I didn't actually care so being taken in so I can live my life free seems pretty promising. Thank you Cavetown... You literally saved me and now I can start moving on! Hopefully those who hear my story and are questioning can take something from my experiences... and remember... You can't chose your parents, but you can chose your family... and you are always welcome in the LGBTQ community. We'll be your family even if your real family doesn't act like a real family.
I relate to this a lot :(
@@agoofygoober7649 Well I wish you luck. If you need help I'd suggest looking into the Trevor project. It's an LGBTQIAP+ charity. If not then just remember that the LGBTQIAP+ community itself will help you.
The feeling of being one gender on the outside and another outside is something I've known for a while now.
Crying is normal for us trans people
If you don't have anyone who accepts you in you're life, I do, and I'm sure alot of others do to. Wait for a little bit, I believe in you! You can do it.
Know that your valid and all but I’m gonna be mean and point out “ the feeling of being one gender on the OUTSIDE and another on the OUTSIDE” >:)
You know you’re not in a good head space when you’re out here listening to the same sad song for an hour. Nice to see other people here.
If your ever feeling down just remember that someone is always going to care about me even if you never met them. If you have a friend or family that doesn’t support you someone in this world is always going to care about you.Just remember your important every one that was made and let on this planet is important even you so just remember someone may look at you and think they are so (pretty or handsome). Your important and people care about you.
This song mack me to cry ikd why but i stil love it 💜🦋
Hearing this song after months really made me think- I heard it and I was already trans. It made me cry because I always forget I’m not the only one. 🏳️⚧️❤️
If anyone needs to talk comments are open and safe! never hold in the way you feel and don't let people get to you I love you and never change
is it bad that I've listened to this for 1 1/2 hours at least every single day for like a week now
No your helping yourself that's good
No I also listen to it every day to
It’s not bad!, I listen to it like everyday! And just wanna tell you. Your amazing and beautiful! Have a great day hun!
Same!
@@titan900rr helloo
also love this
song;)
I'm Bisexual.
I use They/Them pronouns but I mostly identify as female.
I think I might be Greyromantic.....
My parents are homophobic. I feel so sad for them.
I hope whoever reads this comment will know that they are loved and valid.
Stay Safe everyone.
Edit: I recently found out I was a Demigirl. Thx for all the support you guys!
That’s my exact situation and I am too bi. I’m questioning my gender I used to think I was a girl but I don’t know anymore.
@@not_quirkylexi I support you :D
@shi I don’t know if I feel comfortable as a girl so I don’t really know if I’m more comfortable as a boy or girl
I’m pansexual and I’m afraid to say but thats me. 🙂
@@plurplemustache9819 aw, I support you no matter what
I hope everyone who is here is feeling alr just remember I am here for you and pls stay for me I love you
My little sister has autism, she’s 9 and she doesn’t understand the concept of life quite yet, she thinks everything is a big game and doesn’t take anything seriously, so if anyone is mad at her she is confused, not sad. She’s such a pure soul and this song reminds me of her❤
this song is just a feeling
oh my gosh. i remember listing to this on loop with my earphones on the bus. looking out the window. not knowing what this song meant. i thought this was just a sad song. it is, but it has a meaning to it. this was back in 2nd grade i think. i’m going to 5th next month.
This song feels like a hug to my little aspie soul something only an outcast would make and so vulnerable in a tough world i love you too
I have sleeping issues due stress about work, school, my home life and figuring out who I am I find this is home helps me sleep all I need to do is play this is home for an hour and im asleep.
Thank you for making this for an hour I can finally sleep now.
Take care lovelies remember your not alone!❤️
Im not on the verge of tears! You are!
No u
thank you for this!
Whoever is reading this, remember you always mean something to me and everyone around you
This is honestly every emotion I have.. Sometimes I listen to it to sleep or sometimes to just think. I don't have anyone to talk to so I just sit here thinking about everything, and waiting until my life is complete, I'm not suicidal, I just don't care.
i can't sleep, it's 2:30am, and I'm dysphoric. Welcome to sad trans hours.
No
I go to sleep listening to this it’s super calming ☺️🥰
I’m glad you like it :)
Lol same I’m listening to it right now
I really enjoy cavetown's music and I'm not depressed or anything, but it is really comforting for people who are 💕💕
This song helped me through so many bad times💖
Not me being confused about myself being non-binary or whatever tf I am.
Edit: Also why do we always turn to RUclips comment sections..? Oh wait, because they understand and accept us more than our real family and friends. Thanks RUclips, for making comment sections.
This is how i figured myself out..
Besides cosplaying as todoroki and feeling right in the clothes and with short hair and being masculine.
God I love these comments the cave town community is so wholesome and kind ☺️
It’s full of lgbt+ it’s going to be kind because they think if there kind and tell everyone there gay people will praise them
cavetowns songs are literally therapy for me :)
Sad + Bussin = This is Home
Omg yes 👏🏼💅🏼✌🏼
Depressing + sh1t = this is home
i love this loop it calms me so i dont rage quit drawing for my friends
this is a BOP
I wanna tell you all that your worthy and no matter how much damage you've done to something or someone your still worthy(even tho its not nice to hurt someone) almost every one in my grade would bully me but at the end of the day I had forgotten them because everyone deserves to be forgiven . but I love every one with the bottom of my heart because no matter what your worthy.
pov: you cry at 2am every day to this song
bc same! :)
at 2am while listening to this song I feel mixed emotions but it's mainly me being happy that this even exists
I love this music
Same💖
Makes me feel happy 🙂 love the art by the way 👍
This is my comfort song that I cry to so it helps to see people posting things like you matter and I love you no matter what because it really means a lot when we’re going through tough times/things
And I know they are just people who don’t know who you are but doesn’t that mean even more since even someone you don’t know is saying that you matter and they love you for who you are
I needed this in my life. Thank you
you’re welcome 💗💗