Thank you. I have it too and am so sick of hearing people use it as an excuse for shitty behavior. Bi-Polar does not make you, kill, maim, act crazy or become a criminal. It's pathetic that people keep doing so as well..
I’m glad someone has spoken up and said that. People try to say they have a mental health problem and use it as an excuse when half the time they don’t have any mental health issues and try to use it to get out of trouble. I’ve seen comment sections where the commenters might see a drunk woman and automatically say she’s an alcoholic and must have mental health problems, drives me bonkers.
It's that bipolar is widely different from person to person, yours might not be as extreme as others but there are some that cannot help what they do or feel during a bad bipolar episode. I doubt in her case that's what's going on with her however but I have met people who absolutely loose what makes them, them during an episode and completely do a 180 in thought and personality.
Right? She further stigmatizes it for people who have it and make their lives harder. I don’t have bipolar but I do have BPD and the amount of times I’ve seen people excuse their heinous behavior or actions on their disorder drives me up the wall.
Then you obviously don't have a extreme case of it then. It absolutely does cause people to make really bad decisions sometimes. Try actually looking into the DSM. Not standing up for this crazy b****. But Bi polar can absolutely play a role in cases like this. Stop acting like you know all cases of bi-polar
April is a good person. Baby was covered in someone else’s fluids and she didn’t think twice and held it close to her body to save it’s life. I wish the 3 of them and the baby all the best
@@McCarthy0000me too😂😂. But I think I would have at least put the baby in the car with the heat turned up. But it was hard for me to hold my own son after being born with all that stuff on him
Unfortunately, most teenagers don't know that. It should be taught in school. Maybe there would be less instances of children abandoning babies if they realized that they could safely and legally surrender their babies without repercussions.
@@jaelynn7575 well no shit, he has school. but could have gave up for adoption. giving how he spoke about his own father - even if he won't want to care for the child then HIS OWN FATHER will make him. the fact that his reaction was asking where he supposed to go and not "how do we hide it" already speaks a lot given he's only 16
I remember being on Facebook and there was an article about a safe box (place to safely leave an unwanted baby) in some city being used for the first time..and some people were calling safe boxes "disgusting". Well THIS is why they are needed.
@belmum1689 Unfortunately disgusting horrible monsters care more about their image when hospital staff or firemen see them abandon a baby than the life of their baby. The baby boxes are very successful in Africa because it allows them to be anonymous. The success is what made the US baby box founder try so hard to get them her.
@@brittr1358 In the US those people can still just drop a baby off at a door of a hosptial or fire department, no one actually needs to see them, there is nothing wrong with baby boxes but there is way more hosptials or fire departments then there is baby boxes so there is no excuse
Man it makes me sad to this of this because garbage from dumpsters is compacted and squished into blocks of garbage so thinking of this just hurts my stomach
Oh, in Canada they dump adult Indigenous women into landfills here, and the police don’t GAF. They refused to even search for them. North America is a shithole
I appreciate the footage being blurred for the child's dignity...but what I remember from the uncensored version is the way April IMMEDIATELY takes the baby, cradles it to give what warmth and comfort she can. Without so much as a thought. This baby had three angels sent its way ❤
Why do people always treat normal human behavior like something heroic? Just about anyone, man or woman, is going to pick up and comfort a baby they found in a dumpster. You think the average person would just toss it back in?
Every time I see this story I think about the sheer astronomical odds that a newborn infant not only survived for hours in a dumpster, but was also found by three people just looking for appliances in a dumpster. The footage of the father was also amazing to see, hearing him say, "What do I need to do, where do I need to go, what do I need to say?" with that urgency made me want to cry. He instantly stepped up and called his upset father back without a care in the world about if he was in 'trouble' or not, he was only thinking about his child. That's a real man and a real father, I hope his family is proud of him.
Those 3 people who found and rescued the infant make me think of the movie Tokyo Godfathers. It is a Christmas movie with a similar plot. Highly recommend trying to find and watch it this holiday season. God bless those people and the dad and most of all the baby. I hope all of these people are doing okay now.
I thought the same, especially when they decided, last minute, to make a pit stop there. The baby, being wrapped in a wet towel when the people were completely clothed head to toe, was probably clinging to life. That baby is a fighter and will go on to accomplish great things!!!
If they can submit this to court she won't stand a chance dad will end up with custody and she will likely have supervised visitation. Dad needs a good lawyer to run her thru the ringer.
And the fact she said her son will think she doesn’t love him cause it’s what he’ll read and hear. No it’s because you literally threw him away like trash.
@AdamWeidl-qm6ct 100%, women only want equality when it's about being in power or wages, they wouldn't last 5 minutes if they were truly treated equally to men
@@afrocentrkgypsyIf anybody doubts this, it's well recorded data that shows men are given substantially harsher sentences for identical crimes. Loads of instances where men and women are part of the same criminal trial, and men will get life in prison while women get a few years, even though they're both responsible for identical crimes.
This really breaks my heart. I was abandoned on a train as a newborn. I’m grateful that my birth mom put me somewhere I would be found. I just don’t understand why you would discard them somewhere they’re unlikely to be found. 😭 Thank God for the dumpster divers.
Damn. That must be a lot to live with. I was given up for adoption as an infant & even though it was done the right way, just growing up thinking my parents didn’t care enough about me to keep me had an impact on me. I’ve since learned that wasn’t the case at all & most parents who give up their children actually do it BECAUSE they care & know that they can’t give us the life we deserve, and they hope we will have a good life with loving families. I hope you’ve discovered that too. I can’t imagine the circumstances that would make a parent leave a baby on a train, but I suspect & hope that it was something far less callous than the way this woman behaved. I’ve met my father (unfortunately my mum died at 24 from a heart/lung disease) & learned that the decision haunted him his whole life too. I don’t know if you’ve ever found your birth parents, but hope that if you do, you get some closure & reassurance that you were actually loved by them. And if you can’t, your mum probably does think of you loads of the time & hopes you ended up in a good life 😊
Your birth doner wanted you to live and i hope you are doing that well and are loved, this person didnt intend for the child to be found and didnt want them to live its cruel put some people wuite literally are monsters cant have angels without demons it seems
if this girl was raised in a "christian" household where verbal abuse and disparaging remarks are the response for not being perfect. I can see her hiding the pregnancy to avoid the mental abuse that would come with her parents knowing. I-- was 30 when my birth control failed and i became pregnant, i was single and my BF had already refused to acknowledge the pregnancy. My mothers response...don't bother coming home with an infant in your arms, we will not let you in the door. --It's sad that in this century we still have children who are literally being thrown away at birth when they could have been left at a hospital, police or fire station without comment.
@@toscatattertail9813 none of that matters when you try to throw a baby in a dumpster you not ganna get any sympathy Period end of discussion close your legs or use protection lastly you can just surrender a child at most hospitals there literally is no excuse in this situation
Your mother is wonderful. I can so relate. At 17 years old and a senior in high school I found that I was pregnant by my boyfriend who was only 16. Both of us never in anyway ever felt that we should get an abortion or do away with our child. Though sadly, our son was born premature at 6 1/2 months. Back in 1970 they didn’t do much for premature babies. But we named him and buried him. And we know we will see him again. We are now married 54 years.
This comment deserves more attention. The 16yr old father has the support of his parents. Obviously the 18yr olds parents are oblivious to thier daughter. Still doesn't excuse her choosing to throw her newborn away like literal trash. I am just pointing out how children have different priorities and maturity levels bieng raised by supportive parents apposed to strict or detached parents
@@tiffanyfield2999 I suspect her parents would have been angry about her getting pregnant to begin with, but would have been supportive, given the chance. I know plenty of young ladies thru the years who went thru this. I don't know one whose parents didn't accept their unexpected grandchild in the end. I realize that occasionally there are parents who wouldn't accept it, but they are few and far between. Especially these days.
Over 1 million babies are killed per year in America, but a lot of people couldn't care to talk about it because they don't want to hurt other's feelings.
Props to the kid and his family for taking care of the baby. It seems obvious he should be responsible but I’m not sure at 16 I would’ve been able to handle a baby even with my parent’s help.
in late middle school, in sex ed, my school would give us these electronic baby dolls to take home for a day that would cry at random times throughout the day and night. making it so that you have to change their diapers (that have sensors) or feed them with their bottle for a certain period of time. it also had impact sensors so kids wouldn’t hit/throw it. they graded you based on how many times you could ease its crying. it was hell, especially because i had baseball practice that day 😢
Just adding this year for the benefit of anyone else who reads this thread (not directed at you cfol5000) - but if you’re not capable of handling a baby, don’t be having sex in the first place.
I mean he had no idea about the baby's existence since she lied to him and told him she miscarried. Luckily he and his family were willing to take care of him and hopefully give both of them a good life ahead
EWU, thank you for being a source of integrity. You are one of the good RUclipsr channels out there. So many people don’t do this properly, but you don’t sensationalize. You’re just narrating and provide us the information and education to form our own opinions.
My thing is.. How does your parents not know you're pregnant? You start buying baggy clothes, eating a lot more, being tired. Hell my mom knew I was pregnant before I did, only reason I went was cause I was having really bad headache. THAT'S CRAZY
Some parents just go into denial, like if they believe hard enough that their daughter is just going through a phase then it'll turn out that's all it is. Deep down they know she's pregnant but they don't want to believe it, so they force themselves to believe it's something else. Also to be totally fair, some women just don't have normal pregnancy symptoms. I saw someone post online some photos from like the day before she gave birth to a surprise baby and she did not look pregnant at all, at most she might've looked 4 months but she was full term.
Same! Even the people I worked with knew I was pregnant before I did! I was notoriously bad for keeping track of my period and missing the pill but I didn't put two plus Two together until I was missing my period THREE MONTHS IN A ROW. I really thought I was just getting fat because I started a doordash habit lol.
Good on the new father that his first reaction when he heard about the baby was to get up and ask what he needs to do. Not deny, not pretend like it didn't happen, but to realize now he has a life to take care of and save. Despite him being young and probably not expecting the baby to be still around his mind automatically switched to father mode when he realized the baby was actually alive.
Obviously it didn't stop Alexee Treviso doing the exact same thing, but at the hospital. Oh and it's so oddly creepy same state, same age and similar names. Alexis and Alexee smh.
Disgusting. You can even surrender babies to the hospital and fire departments no questions asked in NM. Horrible people. Court of public opinion needs to take care of them.
She deserves a long prison sentence. That kid would have been dead if those trash pickers didn't find him. No leniency for someone at 18. She knew what she did 100%.
the father is 16 and no one thought that was weird. sadly when i was 16 i was with an 18 year old and now being in my mid 20's i know that's weird asf!
This is shocking!!!!!! She could have left the baby at a church, hospital or even a supermarket. Goes to show that she felt nothing ,as she kept referring to the baby as "it". Thank goodness those people were dumpster diving. How that poor baby managed to survive in a trash bag is a miracle. This baby is going to grow up strong and very loved. A proper little fighter with dumpster diving angels as saviours.
Not even that, fire stations have a "baby haven" system where you can just leave the baby there. A lot of them even have something that's similar to a mailbox, so you don't even have to go into the station, you just leave the baby in the slot where it will be dry and warm and the station gets notified the door opened.
She literally threw him in the same bag as real trash. That says more to me than anything and the way she hurled the baby over her shoulder, she didn't just throw him away, she hurled the baby in there sick and no consequences she'll be freeand out , and no big deal ,right no harm no foul? Cause baby is safe thanks to 75 other ppl. Gimme a break she knew exactly what she was doing and planned to do something like this when it was born, she lied and said she had a miscairrage , she was plotting this all alongthe whole time . She also knew she was in labor and hid it she's saying she was back and forth to the bathroom. She knew she was in labor..and didn't say anything
Dude no lie when i need a boost i think about all the ways i couldve never existed like throughout history the wars the diseases the famines and droughts all for me to come into existence and its the same for everyone this kid has a hell of reason to keep going
As someone pregnant and that has a toddler, this is unthinkable. You grew that baby, felt him kick, labored and birthed him. To think you don’t even leave him somewhere someone can find him?! If my neighbor surrendered their baby to me, I would take them immediately and make sure they got medical care and police were involved.
Amazing to see Aprils instincts kick in so fast, she went from apprehensive about what was in the bag and staying back to literally pushing the two guys out of the way the moment she realized it was a baby human. Round of applause
@@tapoemt3995This comment is intended to be derogatory, but it misses the mark entirely. They’re diving through a dumpster dude, the guy was the one that wanted to go in. Its not like he went in For her. Then youre gunna come at her for maternal instincts…? 🤨
@@tapoemt3995 honestly I’m lost. I didn’t think what I said was derogatory. It’s a natural instinct for a woman to let men handle difficult situations, it was just an observation of a stark contrast between that and her unbridled motherly instinct to secure and comfort a baby. JHC, can’t a man just be in awe and make an observation without it turning into a fight?
People often vilify those who dumpster dive. Glad they stopped to check. Good on the dad and fam too. Shoulda never been doinkin without wrappin but bro stepped up. That's rare.
I work at a state university, and you wouldn't believe what people throw away. Sometimes they throw away appliances that work perfectly fine. Some of them are still in original packaging.
@@affablesage9582aw yeah. It's a shame. And places like to get mad when ya grab something out of the trash like they didn't just throw it away. Better than letting it sit in a landfill. Nobody is willing to repair anything anymore. Throw away society.
@@billwilson5341 Clearly you arent someone younger who spends time near 16 year olds. 16 isnt a man. 16 is a stupid kid with crazy hormones. Talk to a 16 year old and see what they act like
"I do love him. I truly do." ... She says to the court, after the jury watches an ashamed teenager throw her newborne away like trash. She doesn't love him, and she should never have any form of custody over the child. She was more concerned with hiding her pregnancy, _than she was of recieving murder charges for throwing a newborne away, leaving it to die in the cold and dark._
There are baby drop sites, NO questions asked. This is cruel, there is NO excuse, she wanted that baby GONE, and it wasn’t just about avoiding parenthood. It was malicious.
As someone who has been trying to adopt for almost 4 years now, this breaks my heart. There are tens of thousands of individuals/families who cannot have children and would be more than blessed to allow that beautiful child into their home. What kind of horrible person decides that a garbage bag is better than a loving home?
@@akuos8243There are a lot of legal hoops to jump through. You have to be mentally well, physically well, and financially capable of taking care of a child.
@@akuos8243 If you want an actual baby(most do) you basically have to hope a birth mother picks you, and it can take many many years. Even when working with private adoption agencies. It’s also incredibly expensive think upwards of 100k+. It’s why a lot of people adopt internationally. The only other option is to “foster to adopt” and that can be incredibly heart wrenching. No guarantees. You can be fostering a child for years, and have it abruptly ripped from you. The system is so broken.
@@akuos8243 When I adopted my daughter, it was an "easy" adoption, because the birth mom was a friend of a friend. It took almost a year to finalize the adoption, and cost over $30,000 in legal fees alone. Overseas adoptions can easily cost over $100,000 because you have to bribe so many officials and go betweens. The systems are very corrupt. Many countries are also closing off adoptions to the US because of parental abuse cases.
Thank god for dumpster divers❤ Seriously, they aren’t the first to find a newborn but this is the first one I’ve seen found in time to save the baby’s life… Someone else commented, they wonder how many go unfound and I got chills down my spine.
I lost my one and only baby during my pregnancy. I constantly pray I will be able to see him (my husband and I always felt the baby was a boy) in heaven one day. It breaks my heart to see women just throw out their chance to be a mother. I would give anything to have my baby back.
Respect to the dad and mom of the father for being so pragmatic and seemed to be understanding. Getting someone pregnant when you are 16 is bad but its not dumpster baby bad.
I’m so glad the baby survived 🙏🏼. Would love to know how he’s doing. I can only imagine he is a strong little boy and I bet he’s thriving. Surviving being thrown in a dumpster and being in there for hours shows how much of a fighter he is. Bless this little boy 🙏🏼.
What makes this crime all the more senseless is that New Mexico is a safe haven state, meaning you can legally give up your baby to a fire station or other place with no questions asked and they’ll find a way to take care of it.
I hope the father continues to have a great relationship with this poor child. he seemed so genuine when talking with his parents and that detective. i can't imagine waking up sunday morning to calls like that especially after being told that you weren't having the child in the first place. sad situation.
Nothing says “I love you” like saying, “I thought it was poop” and throwing him in a trash bag with water bottles, soda cans, and an inhaler box, then tossing him like trash into a dumpster. For his sake, I really hope he never does see the video. That is just far too traumatic. And while the 16 year old father sounds like a real winner too, I truly hope his parents/family are good people and will raise the baby better than they raised their own son. I can’t believe the mother is out of jail and awaiting an appeal. What a world.
The child is now in the custody of the father and doing very well! Do you know them personally or did you just assume he's a bad person and roll with it?
I agreed with most of your comment, but I think it’s rude to assume how the father is. Being a young father is NOT a good thing, but he clearly loves his child and there is nothing that says otherwise in this clip.
Are you saying that bit about the father because he was scared to tell his dad he was going to be a father? If so, that’s an awful lot of assumptions. I’ve known plenty of teen parents that are/were great parents. I’ve also known adults that should never be allowed to even be around venous snakes yet have kids. Those kids are treated horribly. Age has very little to do with how someone parents.
My children are adopted and sometimes people would bad mouth their biological mother. I always said at least she gave them up legally and didn't throw them a way!! She could have done so many things that would have been horrible!!! Thank god for their birth mom.
When you treat your own species like a dog or cat leaving them at thw shelter, when you were the one who (unless grape-) acted like an animal. People get furious. 🤷♀️
The impact this terrible decision not only has on the person who did it but it does also stay with the child for life. I was also dumped after I was born and the fact that I was unwanted so badly I was discarded like trash, haunted me. It took me a long time to realize that I can still be a good person, deserve love, and am deserving of life. I hope whoever takes in this baby, constantly reenforces to them as they grow that they are loved, wanted, and are destined for great things as much as anyone else ❤. I think there’s something wrong where a woman becomes so scared and desperate that this is what they resort to. This is why it is important to have safe spaces and programs for children. Because no matter what, people will always make mistakes. How they handle them is based on the stigma around their decisions.
Or some women are crazy and the want the baby gone. How you could even blame yourself for some selfish/deluded/random act is astonishing. You don't ask to be born. It is NOT your responsibility to deal with an adults mental state. Dear lord. I must be of the few ppl who saw her parents for human-beings who had sex and a baby came out. I do NOT call you a parent until I see the action of good selfless parenting. Thank god you sought Therapy over your trauma. Enough wasting time over something you had zero control over and welldone for starting to live what sounds like a positive life.
@ir9567 I don't care there is no reason to dump your baby when there are places to take them. I have no sympathy for the mother I don't care if she had the issues some mothers have . It does not excuse her actions
@@skachor I agree. There is absolutely no forgiveness. At least where this happened, this child can at least know the person who did that to them was persecuted. Hopefully to the fullest extent of the law. Something not all children are blessed with knowing.
Once again EWU with the full story behind all the videos I’ve seen of the body cam footage floating around! Thank you for bringing time after time these stories to light , this is by far a sad story to see and we can’t even imagine the folks that found this poor baby, but Thank Heavens they where in the right place at the right time! Dumpster diving brought them something a lot more valuable than what they where looking for that night!
Yea it's horrible things like this even get to birth children. She is not human. More like a thing or an it. Considering that's how she kept referring to that poor baby. She kept calling the baby "it". Complete detachment from her own child in every way. She was going to let that sweet baby perish in the cold alone.
As a father of 4 children This makes me feel so sick I don't even know how to explain the feelings I have from this video It's worse than sick 😢 I'm just so happy the baby was found in time ❤ Massive respect To those people dumpster diving so lucky ❤
Telling how no one from the family even asked about the infant, how it was, if it was alive, gender, age or length or term. Just wild. Shows how she got that way.
This is 13 minutes out of an investigation and you want to assume based on this short video that you know what they said in the parts that you are not seeing? Basically this is hours of video that have been edited. The medical staff do not wear body cameras. They call it a frame for a reason. You can’t even see what is happening just out of frame. You don’t see what’s happening when the camera isn’t on and you can’t see what is edited out. I am not defending anyone but to say they never asked or cared is a ridiculous claim after a 13 minute edit.
@@akingeneyearmede7014 its kinda rare but some people dont swell up super big when they get pregnant, it could be possible they didnt know. its kinda common in women or are hugely fat and also women who are like skinny-fat, where you are skinny, but kinda chubby in the stomach.
Excellent, thorough coverage with filmed footage, not just A-I narration of a story. Thanks for giving us something different and interesting, albeit disturbing! That poor baby, but he is meant to be here because he was found. May God richly bless the two who found the baby and reported it to police.
Stories like this will forever break my heart. I'm a 30yr old women who has been with my husband for 8 years and we pray everyday for a baby with no luck. It kills me that people are blessed with the miracle of lie and simply take one look at a baby and think horrible things such as let me throw them in a dumpster.
I’m sorry for your struggles. I hope you and your husband have the family you’ve always been dreaming of one day. Sending you all the love I can muster. 💋🫂
And yet the 18 year old mother tried to kill their infant son. I'm glad that the father and his family are taking care of his son now. I'm more sensitive to this unlike you folks.
12:06 the fact that they tried to use bipolar as an excuse is insulting to me as someone with bipolar. She and her attorney are trying to play into the stigma that people with bipolar are viscous and do sick things like this. As someone with bipolar, we do these things while severely ill and it’s not okay, but it’s a mental disability that can be treated. Untreated bipolar disorder can lead to this but to Use bipolar to get away with it is disgusting.
I know the father is only 16 but hopefully he's a good father and his parents are good grandparents. My dad's parents were 16 and 19 when he was born and did an average job
If I was the babies father I would get a restraining order against the mother. I’m glad the parents answered the door, so they can know what kind of person their daughter is. That poor baby, that women is so immature.
This is why it’s so important to make sure our children are not afraid to come to us, their parents, for ANYTHING. When we threaten to “whoop their ass” if they get in trouble or over-punish them for every little thing they do “wrong”, we risk them being scared to come to us when they truly need us most. And before someone says “I’m their parent, not their friend,” we can teach them responsibility, accountability, self discipline, and all the other things without making them afraid of us. My son comes to me with everything, especially if he thinks he messed up or is in big trouble. (Thankfully that’s only happened once and it was resolved quickly and easily.) It is possible though. Ask yourself if your child honestly respects you or are they just afraid of you?
I'm so incredibly happy the father's family decided to keep the baby. The baby is well, happy and very much loved and taken care of. He was named Saul, which means "is prayed for" in hebrew. What a good ending to such a sad and almost tragic begining.
The fact that she knew what she did to leave a newborn swap in a wet towel and in a trashbag and leave it in a dumpster is absolutely disgusting. and the fact that she could possibly get off her chargers is utter BS
The father and his family are stand up people. They didn’t let their emotions get in the way of doing what is RIGHT, NEEDED and NECESSARY. They acted in what was best for the baby. The RESCUERS ARE ANGELS and HEROES. Please protect the baby from that woman and her parents.
This is sick I look at my beautiful baby girl who is now three months and I wish I could shelter her from the horrors of this world and the bad this country is going through right now
This still sickens me. If you choose to have the kid, you carry it to term, and then do something as disgusting as this, you deserve what you get. There are so many alternatives that would be so much better for the child than just throwing it away like its garbage. I don't want kids myself, some may say that's selfish or w/e but in reality it'd be more selfish to bring a kid that i don't want into the world. I'm glad the kid is doing well and in better hands.
They NEED to start teaching about Safe Haven laws for newborns, ffs. Most US States have a law specifically to make sure you can safely and legally give up a child to a Firehouse, Doctors office or similar places, anonymously.
I was just thinking how similar this is to Alexee Trevizo putting her newborn in the trash can in the bathroom of a hospital and this girl's name is Alexis? What are the chances?
That dumb female cop. “Is that your baby” Yes lady. She dumped her bloody baby in the dumpster and then decided to stick around until you guys to got here 🙄
Actually that thing happened in my country. A lady dumped her baby but probably had some 2nd thoughts or something so she later reported that she "found" the baby. Of course police figured that the baby was hers.
I mean, someone dumping and then pretending it's not their baby to cops doesn't sound too far-fetched. There's been much dumber criminals. Better to question even unlikely possibilities than accidently letting someone go because of something like "No one is that stupid"
That is a perfectly reasonable and required question to ask. Do you know how many "Found" Babies were actually "Found" by the mother that didn't/couldn't throw their baby away but didn't want/couldn't keep it?
What a horrible, heartless girl. 18 is entirely old enough to know better. There are _always_ other solutions. At the very, VERY least, she could've put on a mask and made sure she left the baby somewhere where it'd be cared for. There was a case where a woman hiding her face waited at a fire station until she saw someone, then pushed her baby into his arms before running/driving off. It's understandable if a woman can't care for her baby. It's abhorrent to condemn that child to a miserable death instead of leaving them to someone who can get them to the proper authorities for care. Bipolar disorder is not an excuse for leaving an infant to die, and I don't but that "I truly love him" BS for a moment. If she actually loved him, or even just saw him as the human he is, she would've made sure he was in a safe place. She's just trying to generate pity for herself to get lighter consequences.
I live in Hobbs and I remember hearing this on the news, it was so shocking something like this happened here. And in typical New Mexico fashion they released her early with almost no time served.
His parents will be the one raising the baby. He’ll be like his little brother. Him and the baby will never move out and he’s got something he can lord over his parents. Fathers’ rights. That’s above grandparents’ rights.
Thanks for providing new info. I remember this case on other channels. I can't believe she might get released. I don't understand the logic behind that. She tried to kill her baby. She would've succeeded if those 3 people hadn't decided to go dumpster diving that night. I'm glad the kid's dad took responsibility for him, even though he's just a kid, too.
This is so upsetting. The fact that baby would've died in a dumpster if those people weren't at the right place at the right time is so grim. Breaks my heart.
As someone who has bipolar disorder, I am so sick of people trying to use it as an excuse to act like a monster.
Thank you. I have it too and am so sick of hearing people use it as an excuse for shitty behavior. Bi-Polar does not make you, kill, maim, act crazy or become a criminal. It's pathetic that people keep doing so as well..
I’m glad someone has spoken up and said that. People try to say they have a mental health problem and use it as an excuse when half the time they don’t have any mental health issues and try to use it to get out of trouble. I’ve seen comment sections where the commenters might see a drunk woman and automatically say she’s an alcoholic and must have mental health problems, drives me bonkers.
It's that bipolar is widely different from person to person, yours might not be as extreme as others but there are some that cannot help what they do or feel during a bad bipolar episode. I doubt in her case that's what's going on with her however but I have met people who absolutely loose what makes them, them during an episode and completely do a 180 in thought and personality.
Right? She further stigmatizes it for people who have it and make their lives harder. I don’t have bipolar but I do have BPD and the amount of times I’ve seen people excuse their heinous behavior or actions on their disorder drives me up the wall.
Then you obviously don't have a extreme case of it then. It absolutely does cause people to make really bad decisions sometimes. Try actually looking into the DSM.
Not standing up for this crazy b****. But Bi polar can absolutely play a role in cases like this. Stop acting like you know all cases of bi-polar
April is a good person. Baby was covered in someone else’s fluids and she didn’t think twice and held it close to her body to save it’s life. I wish the 3 of them and the baby all the best
That crossed my mind too, I’m a major germaphobe and would have a hard time doing that 🤮.....April is a warrior
@@McCarthy0000me too😂😂. But I think I would have at least put the baby in the car with the heat turned up. But it was hard for me to hold my own son after being born with all that stuff on him
Yeah same 😂 couldn’t hold it with all that gunk. I’d get a shirt or something but I couldn’t touch it..
Ya I understand that. But a life trumps the goop for me, especially an innocent baby 💔
Thought the very same thing. April is a wonderful young woman.
FYI if you ever have a surprise baby, call 911. You can legally relinquish an infant to any hospital or fire station.
Right and she knew that
And chose a different way ,
, she knew exactly what she did and she got away with it too sickening
Unfortunately, most teenagers don't know that. It should be taught in school. Maybe there would be less instances of children abandoning babies if they realized that they could safely and legally surrender their babies without repercussions.
@@yvettebowles9011that was always taught in school when I was a teen. And that was back in the 90’s.
I LOVED hearing this precious baby is currently in good health and living with HIS FATHER and his family
So, the grandparents are taking care of it b/c I guarantee you he isn't.
@@jaelynn7575 he probably is as he can. His parents are definitely helping, but I am proud that he is still (at 16) taking responsibility for his son.
@@jaelynn7575 well no shit, he has school. but could have gave up for adoption. giving how he spoke about his own father - even if he won't want to care for the child then HIS OWN FATHER will make him. the fact that his reaction was asking where he supposed to go and not "how do we hide it" already speaks a lot given he's only 16
😂 his parents cleaning up the mess HE MADE. This punk knew, ignored it and probably got grounded for 3 days until he could go screw more classmates.
So she statutory raped a 16 year old boy?
I remember being on Facebook and there was an article about a safe box (place to safely leave an unwanted baby) in some city being used for the first time..and some people were calling safe boxes "disgusting". Well THIS is why they are needed.
Exactly! We don't have safe boxes because people have the right to abandon their babies but because if we don't have them, people do things like this.
@@annagrace2746 BS she didn't need a safe box she could have dropped the baby off at a fire department or hosptial
@@belmum1689Yes, but unfortunately not a lot of people are aware of that but ARE aware of safe boxes.
@belmum1689
Unfortunately disgusting horrible monsters care more about their image when hospital staff or firemen see them abandon a baby than the life of their baby. The baby boxes are very successful in Africa because it allows them to be anonymous. The success is what made the US baby box founder try so hard to get them her.
@@brittr1358 In the US those people can still just drop a baby off at a door of a hosptial or fire department, no one actually needs to see them, there is nothing wrong with baby boxes but there is way more hosptials or fire departments then there is baby boxes so there is no excuse
Makes you wonder how many babies are dumped in garbages that aren't found. 😢
many more when abortions are made illicit. 🙂
Man it makes me sad to this of this because garbage from dumpsters is compacted and squished into blocks of garbage so thinking of this just hurts my stomach
Oh, in Canada they dump adult Indigenous women into landfills here, and the police don’t GAF. They refused to even search for them. North America is a shithole
More are dumped in garbages of the foster care system .
9 out of 10 American babies end up in the trash smh
I appreciate the footage being blurred for the child's dignity...but what I remember from the uncensored version is the way April IMMEDIATELY takes the baby, cradles it to give what warmth and comfort she can. Without so much as a thought. This baby had three angels sent its way ❤
And the supposed mom tossed the bag in the dumpster! I seen the unblurred footage she is a monster and better get jail time
Agreed. That baby is blessed.
Unbelievable when there’s safe haven and she could have dropped the baby off no questions asked.
Why do people always treat normal human behavior like something heroic? Just about anyone, man or woman, is going to pick up and comfort a baby they found in a dumpster. You think the average person would just toss it back in?
@@klz9500 because it's heartwarming that some stranger cares for a baby that his biological mother doesn't give af about. That's why it's highlighted.
Every time I see this story I think about the sheer astronomical odds that a newborn infant not only survived for hours in a dumpster, but was also found by three people just looking for appliances in a dumpster. The footage of the father was also amazing to see, hearing him say, "What do I need to do, where do I need to go, what do I need to say?" with that urgency made me want to cry. He instantly stepped up and called his upset father back without a care in the world about if he was in 'trouble' or not, he was only thinking about his child. That's a real man and a real father, I hope his family is proud of him.
Those 3 people who found and rescued the infant make me think of the movie Tokyo Godfathers. It is a Christmas movie with a similar plot. Highly recommend trying to find and watch it this holiday season.
God bless those people and the dad and most of all the baby. I hope all of these people are doing okay now.
I thought the same, especially when they decided, last minute, to make a pit stop there. The baby, being wrapped in a wet towel when the people were completely clothed head to toe, was probably clinging to life. That baby is a fighter and will go on to accomplish great things!!!
It's all about nature doing everything it can to survive. Plus, three people who show a heck of a lot more empathy than the "mother" did.
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AGREE
Love the manager “piece of sh*t” 😂
The teen dad is raising the baby now & THE NERVE OF Alexis & her family trying to get custody!!!
Sad thing is there's a good chance she gets at least partial custody because of how biased family courts are.
If they can submit this to court she won't stand a chance dad will end up with custody and she will likely have supervised visitation. Dad needs a good lawyer to run her thru the ringer.
@@jonathanjuillerat9831 she shouldn’t be having any visitation. She chucked the child In the dumpster.
@@VariaBugfemale privilege is attempted murder of a child and apparently still being in favor of family court 🙄 someone stop the world I want off
@@VariaBug Some true sexism a lot of people cannot admit to!
Not one of her "regrets" is the fact that she literally treated her newborn son like trash.
"I thought it was poop"
What do you expect when you have women out here talking about how happy they are about their abortions and blah blah blah blah blah
Yea 100%. I hate how she keeps referring to the baby as "it". She is a total and complete POS.
And the fact she said her son will think she doesn’t love him cause it’s what he’ll read and hear. No it’s because you literally threw him away like trash.
Crazy
People who commit robberies get more prison time than this. Unacceptable.
@AdamWeidl-qm6ct 100%, women only want equality when it's about being in power or wages, they wouldn't last 5 minutes if they were truly treated equally to men
@@Adog5454 oh, okay.
@@afrocentrkgypsyIf anybody doubts this, it's well recorded data that shows men are given substantially harsher sentences for identical crimes.
Loads of instances where men and women are part of the same criminal trial, and men will get life in prison while women get a few years, even though they're both responsible for identical crimes.
@@Adog5454 dude, you are a loser lmao
@@Adog5454get a life
This really breaks my heart. I was abandoned on a train as a newborn. I’m grateful that my birth mom put me somewhere I would be found. I just don’t understand why you would discard them somewhere they’re unlikely to be found. 😭 Thank God for the dumpster divers.
I used to work with a woman who was abandoned at an airport when she was a toddler. She was found very quickly, and was placed in a good home.
Damn. That must be a lot to live with. I was given up for adoption as an infant & even though it was done the right way, just growing up thinking my parents didn’t care enough about me to keep me had an impact on me. I’ve since learned that wasn’t the case at all & most parents who give up their children actually do it BECAUSE they care & know that they can’t give us the life we deserve, and they hope we will have a good life with loving families. I hope you’ve discovered that too. I can’t imagine the circumstances that would make a parent leave a baby on a train, but I suspect & hope that it was something far less callous than the way this woman behaved. I’ve met my father (unfortunately my mum died at 24 from a heart/lung disease) & learned that the decision haunted him his whole life too. I don’t know if you’ve ever found your birth parents, but hope that if you do, you get some closure & reassurance that you were actually loved by them. And if you can’t, your mum probably does think of you loads of the time & hopes you ended up in a good life 😊
Your birth doner wanted you to live and i hope you are doing that well and are loved, this person didnt intend for the child to be found and didnt want them to live its cruel put some people wuite literally are monsters cant have angels without demons it seems
if this girl was raised in a "christian" household where verbal abuse and disparaging remarks are the response for not being perfect. I can see her hiding the pregnancy to avoid the mental abuse that would come with her parents knowing.
I-- was 30 when my birth control failed and i became pregnant, i was single and my BF had already refused to acknowledge the pregnancy. My mothers response...don't bother coming home with an infant in your arms, we will not let you in the door.
--It's sad that in this century we still have children who are literally being thrown away at birth when they could have been left at a hospital, police or fire station without comment.
@@toscatattertail9813 none of that matters when you try to throw a baby in a dumpster you not ganna get any sympathy
Period end of discussion close your legs or use protection lastly you can just surrender a child at most hospitals there literally is no excuse in this situation
My mom has severe bi polar disorder, she didn’t throw away my sister when she had her at 19. And she didn’t throw me away, it’s no excuse.
No bi-polar disorder symptoms are alike!
Agreed.
Your mother is wonderful. I can so relate. At 17 years old and a senior in high school I found that I was pregnant by my boyfriend who was only 16. Both of us never in anyway ever felt that we should get an abortion or do away with our child. Though sadly, our son was born premature at 6 1/2 months. Back in 1970 they didn’t do much for premature babies. But we named him and buried him. And we know we will see him again. We are now married 54 years.
Never have I ever been so glad to hear someone say they were dumpster diving. They saved that baby’s life.
I am happy to know that the father (being a 16 year old) and his family took the child in and didn't just give it away to foster care.
I was also extremely happy to hear that.
They care. I am sure the maternal grandparents care too, but weren't given a chance. Thank God the baby was found.
This comment deserves more attention. The 16yr old father has the support of his parents. Obviously the 18yr olds parents are oblivious to thier daughter. Still doesn't excuse her choosing to throw her newborn away like literal trash. I am just pointing out how children have different priorities and maturity levels bieng raised by supportive parents apposed to strict or detached parents
@@tiffanyfield2999 I suspect her parents would have been angry about her getting pregnant to begin with, but would have been supportive, given the chance. I know plenty of young ladies thru the years who went thru this. I don't know one whose parents didn't accept their unexpected grandchild in the end. I realize that occasionally there are parents who wouldn't accept it, but they are few and far between. Especially these days.
@itsnotthesamething She wanted her baby dead. There are no excuses for doing what she did.
The worst part is that she kept calling the baby “it”. No acknowledgment of his humanity.
“I thought it was poop”
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Yeah, and her parents seemed more concerned about her than than their grand baby she tossed in the trash.
The commonality of this exact situation these days is beyond words. Just egregiously common.
With the word "it" you see how detached from reality she is.
she's probably pro choice
Pure evil. I’m not even a mother and I couldn’t fathom doing that to any baby, let alone my own. Heart breaking. I’m glad he’s ok
Are you anti-abortion?
Thought is was poop , What !!!
Literally. Brandt wants to compare abortion to this. Lmfao.
@@brandtcarroll9316derp
@@BobbySacamano Yeah, pretty much. Honestly curious. They seemed to have a visceral reaction to this and rightly so, but it just made me wonder.
It’s crazy, two 18 year olds, two cheerleaders, I’m thinking same state, New Mexico, disposal of baby boys, one dead and one alive. This is chilling.
Wait so one was already dead before they were dumped?
They're both named Alexis too, wild.
Schrodinger's baby
@@Smile200-z4y I feel bad that I laughed at this
Over 1 million babies are killed per year in America, but a lot of people couldn't care to talk about it because they don't want to hurt other's feelings.
The way she calls that poor sweet baby an “it” is so sickening. This is murder
According to Democrats it's abortion
The baby survived. It was definitely an attempt to murder.
"Attempted"
She’s trying to depersonalize the child so she doesn’t feel as much guilt and shame.
Abortion was likely not an option for her..
Props to the kid and his family for taking care of the baby. It seems obvious he should be responsible but I’m not sure at 16 I would’ve been able to handle a baby even with my parent’s help.
in late middle school, in sex ed, my school would give us these electronic baby dolls to take home for a day that would cry at random times throughout the day and night. making it so that you have to change their diapers (that have sensors) or feed them with their bottle for a certain period of time. it also had impact sensors so kids wouldn’t hit/throw it. they graded you based on how many times you could ease its crying. it was hell, especially because i had baseball practice that day 😢
Just adding this year for the benefit of anyone else who reads this thread (not directed at you cfol5000) - but if you’re not capable of handling a baby, don’t be having sex in the first place.
I mean he had no idea about the baby's existence since she lied to him and told him she miscarried. Luckily he and his family were willing to take care of him and hopefully give both of them a good life ahead
@@sarahakis6196or just be responsible and use protection? i dont know why ppl say use the pull out method or dont do it at all
@@GamingFreaKoreaAbstinence-based sex ed be like that sadly 💔
EWU, thank you for being a source of integrity. You are one of the good RUclipsr channels out there. So many people don’t do this properly, but you don’t sensationalize. You’re just narrating and provide us the information and education to form our own opinions.
My thing is.. How does your parents not know you're pregnant? You start buying baggy clothes, eating a lot more, being tired. Hell my mom knew I was pregnant before I did, only reason I went was cause I was having really bad headache. THAT'S CRAZY
Some parents just go into denial, like if they believe hard enough that their daughter is just going through a phase then it'll turn out that's all it is. Deep down they know she's pregnant but they don't want to believe it, so they force themselves to believe it's something else.
Also to be totally fair, some women just don't have normal pregnancy symptoms. I saw someone post online some photos from like the day before she gave birth to a surprise baby and she did not look pregnant at all, at most she might've looked 4 months but she was full term.
They knew. They didn’t even act surprised.!!!
They knew. They are partners in crime
I remember there was a teen girl that hid her pregnancy by telling everyone that she was gaining weight
Same! Even the people I worked with knew I was pregnant before I did! I was notoriously bad for keeping track of my period and missing the pill but I didn't put two plus Two together until I was missing my period THREE MONTHS IN A ROW. I really thought I was just getting fat because I started a doordash habit lol.
Good on the new father that his first reaction when he heard about the baby was to get up and ask what he needs to do. Not deny, not pretend like it didn't happen, but to realize now he has a life to take care of and save. Despite him being young and probably not expecting the baby to be still around his mind automatically switched to father mode when he realized the baby was actually alive.
Agreed
Teenage boy vs teenage girl
She came from 2 parent home. Her parents were in complete denial. The hospital that diagnosed her with lumbar strain should be closed.
Obviously it didn't stop Alexee Treviso doing the exact same thing, but at the hospital. Oh and it's so oddly creepy same state, same age and similar names. Alexis and Alexee smh.
They even sound similar, the way they whine talk grosses me out.
It's weird me out how similar they sound and look.
Disgusting. You can even surrender babies to the hospital and fire departments no questions asked in NM. Horrible people. Court of public opinion needs to take care of them.
@@PickYourPoisons85 They do sound alike, it's because they talk in that sweet innocent try to trick me voice 🤮.
@@apriljk6557 yes it's very weird
Her parents are supportive and obviously have shown her unconditional love. It’s too bad she didn’t learn that for her child.
She deserves a long prison sentence. That kid would have been dead if those trash pickers didn't find him.
No leniency for someone at 18. She knew what she did 100%.
Life in prison, no parole
No prison sentences for those that murder their babies while still in the womb.
Could not disagree more
@@cakestealer5983 She tried to KILL a baby you weirdo.
the father is 16 and no one thought that was weird. sadly when i was 16 i was with an 18 year old and now being in my mid 20's i know that's weird asf!
Damn the father of the baby who is younger than the mother of the baby is taking responsibility and caring for the child with his family.
I can’t believe her parents are still hugging her and telling her it’s okay. 😢 she almost murdered their grandchild.
I fully believe they knew.!!!
@@NoNonsense30they probably told her to do it
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Its disgusting!!
@@terrainegrace17 I would still hug her
This is shocking!!!!!! She could have left the baby at a church, hospital or even a supermarket. Goes to show that she felt nothing ,as she kept referring to the baby as "it". Thank goodness those people were dumpster diving. How that poor baby managed to survive in a trash bag is a miracle. This baby is going to grow up strong and very loved. A proper little fighter with dumpster diving angels as saviours.
Not even that, fire stations have a "baby haven" system where you can just leave the baby there. A lot of them even have something that's similar to a mailbox, so you don't even have to go into the station, you just leave the baby in the slot where it will be dry and warm and the station gets notified the door opened.
She literally threw him in the same bag as real trash. That says more to me than anything and the way she hurled the baby over her shoulder, she didn't just throw him away, she hurled the baby in there sick and no consequences she'll be freeand out , and no big deal ,right no harm no foul? Cause baby is safe thanks to 75 other ppl. Gimme a break she knew exactly what she was doing and planned to do something like this when it was born, she lied and said she had a miscairrage , she was plotting this all alongthe whole time . She also knew she was in labor and hid it she's saying she was back and forth to the bathroom. She knew she was in labor..and didn't say anything
Dude no lie when i need a boost i think about all the ways i couldve never existed like throughout history the wars the diseases the famines and droughts all for me to come into existence and its the same for everyone this kid has a hell of reason to keep going
As someone pregnant and that has a toddler, this is unthinkable. You grew that baby, felt him kick, labored and birthed him. To think you don’t even leave him somewhere someone can find him?! If my neighbor surrendered their baby to me, I would take them immediately and make sure they got medical care and police were involved.
@@janek3531 she said it felt like she pooped im guessing this aint the first one she lost her soul the first one gauranteed
Amazing to see Aprils instincts kick in so fast, she went from apprehensive about what was in the bag and staying back to literally pushing the two guys out of the way the moment she realized it was a baby human. Round of applause
Yeah once it was safe, she came out from behind the men you're saying.. How long was she in Jail for, once they realized she had a warrant I mean.
@@tapoemt3995 wat
@@tapoemt3995This comment is intended to be derogatory, but it misses the mark entirely. They’re diving through a dumpster dude, the guy was the one that wanted to go in. Its not like he went in For her. Then youre gunna come at her for maternal instincts…? 🤨
@@tapoemt3995 honestly I’m lost. I didn’t think what I said was derogatory. It’s a natural instinct for a woman to let men handle difficult situations, it was just an observation of a stark contrast between that and her unbridled motherly instinct to secure and comfort a baby. JHC, can’t a man just be in awe and make an observation without it turning into a fight?
People often vilify those who dumpster dive. Glad they stopped to check. Good on the dad and fam too. Shoulda never been doinkin without wrappin but bro stepped up. That's rare.
I work at a state university, and you wouldn't believe what people throw away. Sometimes they throw away appliances that work perfectly fine. Some of them are still in original packaging.
@@affablesage9582aw yeah. It's a shame. And places like to get mad when ya grab something out of the trash like they didn't just throw it away. Better than letting it sit in a landfill. Nobody is willing to repair anything anymore. Throw away society.
Stepping up at 16 too. What a dude
@@twostarchef7613 Even at 16 he ain't no "dude", he's a Man.
@@billwilson5341 Clearly you arent someone younger who spends time near 16 year olds. 16 isnt a man. 16 is a stupid kid with crazy hormones. Talk to a 16 year old and see what they act like
"I do love him. I truly do."
... She says to the court, after the jury watches an ashamed teenager throw her newborne away like trash. She doesn't love him, and she should never have any form of custody over the child.
She was more concerned with hiding her pregnancy, _than she was of recieving murder charges for throwing a newborne away, leaving it to die in the cold and dark._
All the NUMEROUS resources in this country, and that's the choice she makes. I'm thoroughly DISGUSTED!
Right,it would've taken just as much effort to surrender that baby to a fire station
There are baby drop sites, NO questions asked. This is cruel, there is NO excuse, she wanted that baby GONE, and it wasn’t just about avoiding parenthood. It was malicious.
As someone who has been trying to adopt for almost 4 years now, this breaks my heart. There are tens of thousands of individuals/families who cannot have children and would be more than blessed to allow that beautiful child into their home. What kind of horrible person decides that a garbage bag is better than a loving home?
Out of curiosity, what makes adoption take so long?
@@akuos8243There are a lot of legal hoops to jump through. You have to be mentally well, physically well, and financially capable of taking care of a child.
@@akuos8243if you’re in the US, it’s a challenge and a lot of money. It’s why most people adopt foreigners instead sadly.
@@akuos8243 If you want an actual baby(most do) you basically have to hope a birth mother picks you, and it can take many many years. Even when working with private adoption agencies. It’s also incredibly expensive think upwards of 100k+. It’s why a lot of people adopt internationally. The only other option is to “foster to adopt” and that can be incredibly heart wrenching. No guarantees. You can be fostering a child for years, and have it abruptly ripped from you. The system is so broken.
@@akuos8243 When I adopted my daughter, it was an "easy" adoption, because the birth mom was a friend of a friend. It took almost a year to finalize the adoption, and cost over $30,000 in legal fees alone. Overseas adoptions can easily cost over $100,000 because you have to bribe so many officials and go betweens. The systems are very corrupt. Many countries are also closing off adoptions to the US because of parental abuse cases.
Thank god for dumpster divers❤
Seriously, they aren’t the first to find a newborn but this is the first one I’ve seen found in time to save the baby’s life…
Someone else commented, they wonder how many go unfound and I got chills down my spine.
I lost my one and only baby during my pregnancy. I constantly pray I will be able to see him (my husband and I always felt the baby was a boy) in heaven one day. It breaks my heart to see women just throw out their chance to be a mother. I would give anything to have my baby back.
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I'm so sorry about your little one. You have my condolences.
not every woman wants to be a mother. that’s like a mentality from decades ago
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@@yetanotherbrotherthat may be true but honestly to think that response has a place here after what this woman just shared… have some decency.
Respect to the dad and mom of the father for being so pragmatic and seemed to be understanding. Getting someone pregnant when you are 16 is bad but its not dumpster baby bad.
Dude definitely learned a lesson, but Alexis being 18 means she should have been more responsible.
I’m so glad the baby survived 🙏🏼. Would love to know how he’s doing. I can only imagine he is a strong little boy and I bet he’s thriving. Surviving being thrown in a dumpster and being in there for hours shows how much of a fighter he is. Bless this little boy 🙏🏼.
What makes this crime all the more senseless is that New Mexico is a safe haven state, meaning you can legally give up your baby to a fire station or other place with no questions asked and they’ll find a way to take care of it.
I hope the father continues to have a great relationship with this poor child. he seemed so genuine when talking with his parents and that detective. i can't imagine waking up sunday morning to calls like that especially after being told that you weren't having the child in the first place. sad situation.
Nothing says “I love you” like saying, “I thought it was poop” and throwing him in a trash bag with water bottles, soda cans, and an inhaler box, then tossing him like trash into a dumpster. For his sake, I really hope he never does see the video. That is just far too traumatic. And while the 16 year old father sounds like a real winner too, I truly hope his parents/family are good people and will raise the baby better than they raised their own son. I can’t believe the mother is out of jail and awaiting an appeal. What a world.
Very well said, I feel the same way.
The child is now in the custody of the father and doing very well! Do you know them personally or did you just assume he's a bad person and roll with it?
I agreed with most of your comment, but I think it’s rude to assume how the father is. Being a young father is NOT a good thing, but he clearly loves his child and there is nothing that says otherwise in this clip.
Are you saying that bit about the father because he was scared to tell his dad he was going to be a father? If so, that’s an awful lot of assumptions. I’ve known plenty of teen parents that are/were great parents. I’ve also known adults that should never be allowed to even be around venous snakes yet have kids. Those kids are treated horribly. Age has very little to do with how someone parents.
hes just a typical annoying teenage boy, at least he took the baby in.
My children are adopted and sometimes people would bad mouth their biological mother. I always said at least she gave them up legally and didn't throw them a way!! She could have done so many things that would have been horrible!!! Thank god for their birth mom.
When you treat your own species like a dog or cat leaving them at thw shelter, when you were the one who (unless grape-) acted like an animal. People get furious. 🤷♀️
She's only crying for herself, what an evil monster. I'm glad the ex-boyfriend has his son with him and is doing well.
The impact this terrible decision not only has on the person who did it but it does also stay with the child for life. I was also dumped after I was born and the fact that I was unwanted so badly I was discarded like trash, haunted me. It took me a long time to realize that I can still be a good person, deserve love, and am deserving of life. I hope whoever takes in this baby, constantly reenforces to them as they grow that they are loved, wanted, and are destined for great things as much as anyone else ❤. I think there’s something wrong where a woman becomes so scared and desperate that this is what they resort to. This is why it is important to have safe spaces and programs for children. Because no matter what, people will always make mistakes. How they handle them is based on the stigma around their decisions.
Or some women are crazy and the want the baby gone. How you could even blame yourself for some selfish/deluded/random act is astonishing. You don't ask to be born. It is NOT your responsibility to deal with an adults mental state. Dear lord. I must be of the few ppl who saw her parents for human-beings who had sex and a baby came out. I do NOT call you a parent until I see the action of good selfless parenting. Thank god you sought Therapy over your trauma. Enough wasting time over something you had zero control over and welldone for starting to live what sounds like a positive life.
I'm glad you're here. ♥
You have compassion and wisdom - Thankyou for sharing your words. ❤
@ir9567 I don't care there is no reason to dump your baby when there are places to take them. I have no sympathy for the mother I don't care if she had the issues some mothers have . It does not excuse her actions
@@skachor I agree. There is absolutely no forgiveness. At least where this happened, this child can at least know the person who did that to them was persecuted. Hopefully to the fullest extent of the law. Something not all children are blessed with knowing.
So glad the baby’s father has custody of him. I wish them nothing but stability and happiness
I’m sure the courts just hated having to give custody to the father, even in this instance.
Even as an 18 year old I would have never treated an animal in such a harmful way, let alone a human BABY. The world is full of monsters.
Cases like these are tragic, just shocking.
Alexis is 18 and the babies father is 16!? Red flag there.
Once again EWU with the full story behind all the videos I’ve seen of the body cam footage floating around! Thank you for bringing time after time these stories to light , this is by far a sad story to see and we can’t even imagine the folks that found this poor baby, but Thank Heavens they where in the right place at the right time! Dumpster diving brought them something a lot more valuable than what they where looking for that night!
This is heartbreaking and so sad. How anyone with a pulse can be so horrible is unfathomable. God bless the three that found the baby. 🙏❤️🙏
God didn't prevent it
People are idiots, Blessed Be.
Yea it's horrible things like this even get to birth children. She is not human. More like a thing or an it. Considering that's how she kept referring to that poor baby. She kept calling the baby "it". Complete detachment from her own child in every way. She was going to let that sweet baby perish in the cold alone.
How anyone with a pulse murder an innocent baby while still in the womb?
@@billwilson5341most abortions occur when the brain is still forming, circa less than 10 weeks, it wouldn't be conscious by then.
Goes from "Thought it was poop" to "I love him"
That poor baby brought into this world by two people who were just fu**king around. What a dame shame.
As a father of 4 children This makes me feel so sick I don't even know how to explain the feelings I have from this video It's worse than sick 😢 I'm just so happy the baby was found in time ❤ Massive respect To those people dumpster diving so lucky ❤
Telling how no one from the family even asked about the infant, how it was, if it was alive, gender, age or length or term. Just wild. Shows how she got that way.
This is 13 minutes out of an investigation and you want to assume based on this short video that you know what they said in the parts that you are not seeing? Basically this is hours of video that have been edited.
The medical staff do not wear body cameras.
They call it a frame for a reason. You can’t even see what is happening just out of frame. You don’t see what’s happening when the camera isn’t on and you can’t see what is edited out.
I am not defending anyone but to say they never asked or cared is a ridiculous claim after a 13 minute edit.
thats what i was thinking its like they already knew
@@akingeneyearmede7014 its kinda rare but some people dont swell up super big when they get pregnant, it could be possible they didnt know. its kinda common in women or are hugely fat and also women who are like skinny-fat, where you are skinny, but kinda chubby in the stomach.
@@Yevrodansthis was a national headline story when it happened, you can Google her name and see photos of her, she was showing.
I watched a longer video of the Interrogation. She told detectives if the baby was alive she wanted him.
Excellent, thorough coverage with filmed footage, not just A-I narration of a story. Thanks for giving us something different and interesting, albeit disturbing! That poor baby, but he is meant to be here because he was found. May God richly bless the two who found the baby and reported it to police.
Parents do better! Talk to your teens. Teenage pregnancy is not the end of the world. Their is adoption instead of throwing your baby in the trash.
That baby is so lucky that they went dumpster diving. I hope he grows up and makes the most of his life.
This had me in tears. That poor little baby. Absolutely heartbreaking.
Stories like this will forever break my heart. I'm a 30yr old women who has been with my husband for 8 years and we pray everyday for a baby with no luck. It kills me that people are blessed with the miracle of lie and simply take one look at a baby and think horrible things such as let me throw them in a dumpster.
I’m sorry for your struggles. I hope you and your husband have the family you’ve always been dreaming of one day. Sending you all the love I can muster. 💋🫂
The 16 yo was playing games all night and expected to sleep in. Little did he know his life was going to change completely the next day 😂
And yet the 18 year old mother tried to kill their infant son. I'm glad that the father and his family are taking care of his son now. I'm more sensitive to this unlike you folks.
12:06 the fact that they tried to use bipolar as an excuse is insulting to me as someone with bipolar. She and her attorney are trying to play into the stigma that people with bipolar are viscous and do sick things like this. As someone with bipolar, we do these things while severely ill and it’s not okay, but it’s a mental disability that can be treated. Untreated bipolar disorder can lead to this but to Use bipolar to get away with it is disgusting.
Bipolar people are difficult
@@MultiLimpetbipolar people are people.
I know the father is only 16 but hopefully he's a good father and his parents are good grandparents. My dad's parents were 16 and 19 when he was born and did an average job
If I was the babies father I would get a restraining order against the mother. I’m glad the parents answered the door, so they can know what kind of person their daughter is. That poor baby, that women is so immature.
This is why it’s so important to make sure our children are not afraid to come to us, their parents, for ANYTHING. When we threaten to “whoop their ass” if they get in trouble or over-punish them for every little thing they do “wrong”, we risk them being scared to come to us when they truly need us most. And before someone says “I’m their parent, not their friend,” we can teach them responsibility, accountability, self discipline, and all the other things without making them afraid of us. My son comes to me with everything, especially if he thinks he messed up or is in big trouble. (Thankfully that’s only happened once and it was resolved quickly and easily.) It is possible though. Ask yourself if your child honestly respects you or are they just afraid of you?
Not much emotion over the child. She’s sad because she got caught.
The mom lying to the police saying her daughter was home at two when clearly she wasn't.
I'm so incredibly happy the father's family decided to keep the baby. The baby is well, happy and very much loved and taken care of. He was named Saul, which means "is prayed for" in hebrew. What a good ending to such a sad and almost tragic begining.
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The fact that she knew what she did to leave a newborn swap in a wet towel and in a trashbag and leave it in a dumpster is absolutely disgusting. and the fact that she could possibly get off her chargers is utter BS
It’s so amazing how you see her realize what the noise is and her motherly instincts kicked in and she jumped into action
I’m glad the baby is with his dad and family ❤
The irony of me watching this 9 months later is not lost on me.
the shade EMU threw when they paired the "i love him, i really do" with her throwing her son in the dumpster in broad daylight... love it!
I feel so bad for the dad, he looks so nice.
I can never get enough content from this channel. You guys are doing an amazing job! Keep it going like this!
SHUT UP
I dont understand how anyone can do this. Its just so cruel and cold 😢
"I thought it was poop but it wasn't" The poop was me.
Cringe
The father and his family are stand up people. They didn’t let their emotions get in the way of doing what is RIGHT, NEEDED and NECESSARY. They acted in what was best for the baby. The RESCUERS ARE ANGELS and HEROES.
Please protect the baby from that woman and her parents.
This is sick I look at my beautiful baby girl who is now three months and I wish I could shelter her from the horrors of this world and the bad this country is going through right now
I hope this kid and his son are okay.
Hope the baby has a good life with his Father and his family.
Thank you for your nice voice and straight clear presentation of cases
She threw her baby away with her other trash?! What a monster!
its funny because the people *dumpster diving* have significantly more integrity than the suspect here
This still sickens me. If you choose to have the kid, you carry it to term, and then do something as disgusting as this, you deserve what you get. There are so many alternatives that would be so much better for the child than just throwing it away like its garbage. I don't want kids myself, some may say that's selfish or w/e but in reality it'd be more selfish to bring a kid that i don't want into the world. I'm glad the kid is doing well and in better hands.
So proud of Hector and his friends! I have always loved that name. I worked with a kind man a bit older than me many years ago.
They NEED to start teaching about Safe Haven laws for newborns, ffs.
Most US States have a law specifically to make sure you can safely and legally give up a child to a Firehouse, Doctors office or similar places, anonymously.
The fact that she keeps saying IT about the baby makes me irate
I was just thinking how similar this is to Alexee Trevizo putting her newborn in the trash can in the bathroom of a hospital and this girl's name is Alexis? What are the chances?
Same area to.!
Good to see a state making something positive come out of such a tragedy !
That dumb female cop. “Is that your baby” Yes lady. She dumped her bloody baby in the dumpster and then decided to stick around until you guys to got here 🙄
Actually that thing happened in my country. A lady dumped her baby but probably had some 2nd thoughts or something so she later reported that she "found" the baby. Of course police figured that the baby was hers.
I mean, someone dumping and then pretending it's not their baby to cops doesn't sound too far-fetched. There's been much dumber criminals. Better to question even unlikely possibilities than accidently letting someone go because of something like "No one is that stupid"
Can you not claim people are dumb for asking required questions Linda 💀
That is a perfectly reasonable and required question to ask. Do you know how many "Found" Babies were actually "Found" by the mother that didn't/couldn't throw their baby away but didn't want/couldn't keep it?
She actually had trash,in that bag,and put that precious baby boy in with it.What a selfish monster,then just threw the bag in.He’s a miracle baby.
What a horrible, heartless girl. 18 is entirely old enough to know better. There are _always_ other solutions. At the very, VERY least, she could've put on a mask and made sure she left the baby somewhere where it'd be cared for. There was a case where a woman hiding her face waited at a fire station until she saw someone, then pushed her baby into his arms before running/driving off. It's understandable if a woman can't care for her baby. It's abhorrent to condemn that child to a miserable death instead of leaving them to someone who can get them to the proper authorities for care. Bipolar disorder is not an excuse for leaving an infant to die, and I don't but that "I truly love him" BS for a moment. If she actually loved him, or even just saw him as the human he is, she would've made sure he was in a safe place. She's just trying to generate pity for herself to get lighter consequences.
I live in Hobbs and I remember hearing this on the news, it was so shocking something like this happened here. And in typical New Mexico fashion they released her early with almost no time served.
Now you know what she looks like and she doesn't know what she looks like....
I hope that young man cares for his child, he seems like a good man, I can only wish the best for him.
His parents will be the one raising the baby. He’ll be like his little brother. Him and the baby will never move out and he’s got something he can lord over his parents. Fathers’ rights. That’s above grandparents’ rights.
@TheBOG3 do you know these people? You seem pretty certain.
His parents are extremely good people to help him.
Thanks for providing new info. I remember this case on other channels. I can't believe she might get released. I don't understand the logic behind that. She tried to kill her baby. She would've succeeded if those 3 people hadn't decided to go dumpster diving that night. I'm glad the kid's dad took responsibility for him, even though he's just a kid, too.
This is so upsetting. The fact that baby would've died in a dumpster if those people weren't at the right place at the right time is so grim. Breaks my heart.
How could you. Take the baby to a fire station, a police station, or a hospital! You can leave the baby anonymously
She even laughed. She even laughed! Pure evil!!!
I have no sympathy for someone that has no remorse either.