Thank you. I have it too and am so sick of hearing people use it as an excuse for shitty behavior. Bi-Polar does not make you, kill, maim, act crazy or become a criminal. It's pathetic that people keep doing so as well..
I’m glad someone has spoken up and said that. People try to say they have a mental health problem and use it as an excuse when half the time they don’t have any mental health issues and try to use it to get out of trouble. I’ve seen comment sections where the commenters might see a drunk woman and automatically say she’s an alcoholic and must have mental health problems, drives me bonkers.
It's that bipolar is widely different from person to person, yours might not be as extreme as others but there are some that cannot help what they do or feel during a bad bipolar episode. I doubt in her case that's what's going on with her however but I have met people who absolutely loose what makes them, them during an episode and completely do a 180 in thought and personality.
Right? She further stigmatizes it for people who have it and make their lives harder. I don’t have bipolar but I do have BPD and the amount of times I’ve seen people excuse their heinous behavior or actions on their disorder drives me up the wall.
Then you obviously don't have a extreme case of it then. It absolutely does cause people to make really bad decisions sometimes. Try actually looking into the DSM. Not standing up for this crazy b****. But Bi polar can absolutely play a role in cases like this. Stop acting like you know all cases of bi-polar
Man it makes me sad to this of this because garbage from dumpsters is compacted and squished into blocks of garbage so thinking of this just hurts my stomach
Oh, in Canada they dump adult Indigenous women into landfills here, and the police don’t GAF. They refused to even search for them. North America is a shithole
Unfortunately, most teenagers don't know that. It should be taught in school. Maybe there would be less instances of children abandoning babies if they realized that they could safely and legally surrender their babies without repercussions.
@@jaelynn7575 well no shit, he has school. but could have gave up for adoption. giving how he spoke about his own father - even if he won't want to care for the child then HIS OWN FATHER will make him. the fact that his reaction was asking where he supposed to go and not "how do we hide it" already speaks a lot given he's only 16
You can literally give up your kid with no strings attached. There is never any rational reason to dispose of your baby in the US like that. The parents try to pretend like their daughter didn't just commit a crime against humanity and attempt to kill her newborn. You don't defend stuff like that, even if its from your kid.
@@BushidoNinja She took the time to put the baby in a bag, put him in her car, and then drive away from her home. If she made all that effort already, what excuse does she have to go to a dumpster rather than a hospital or fire department? Also, abortion is a bodily autonomy issue. While the fetus is attached to the mother's body and using her resources, she gets to decide whether it uses her body for that purpose or not. Once the baby is born though, it's not using her body and so it's no longer her decision.
@@BushidoNinjabro the difference is she threw a CHILD in the garbage. Abortions after 21 weeks extremely rare and are only done in exceptional circumstances such as the reasons you mentioned. Even then, the grand majority of abortions in the US are done BEFORE 10 weeks(remember most realize they are pregnant after 4-6 weeks). At that point, the fetus may not have arms or legs and definitely doesn’t have consciousness, considering it’s basically just a spinal cord and beginning of a brain. Call it life whenever you want to, but you have no say with what women do with their lives with a name like fucking bleach knight
@@BushidoNinjaOk I just wanna clarify, are you comparing this situation to abortions? Because these two things do not fall anywhere near each other in terms of morals and/or circumstances
And the fact she said her son will think she doesn’t love him cause it’s what he’ll read and hear. No it’s because you literally threw him away like trash.
I remember being on Facebook and there was an article about a safe box (place to safely leave an unwanted baby) in some city being used for the first time..and some people were calling safe boxes "disgusting". Well THIS is why they are needed.
@belmum1689 Unfortunately disgusting horrible monsters care more about their image when hospital staff or firemen see them abandon a baby than the life of their baby. The baby boxes are very successful in Africa because it allows them to be anonymous. The success is what made the US baby box founder try so hard to get them her.
@@brittr1358 In the US those people can still just drop a baby off at a door of a hosptial or fire department, no one actually needs to see them, there is nothing wrong with baby boxes but there is way more hosptials or fire departments then there is baby boxes so there is no excuse
@AdamWeidl-qm6ct 100%, women only want equality when it's about being in power or wages, they wouldn't last 5 minutes if they were truly treated equally to men
@@afrocentrkgypsyIf anybody doubts this, it's well recorded data that shows men are given substantially harsher sentences for identical crimes. Loads of instances where men and women are part of the same criminal trial, and men will get life in prison while women get a few years, even though they're both responsible for identical crimes.
April is a good person. Baby was covered in someone else’s fluids and she didn’t think twice and held it close to her body to save it’s life. I wish the 3 of them and the baby all the best
@@aileenmccarthy8660me too😂😂. But I think I would have at least put the baby in the car with the heat turned up. But it was hard for me to hold my own son after being born with all that stuff on him
If they can submit this to court she won't stand a chance dad will end up with custody and she will likely have supervised visitation. Dad needs a good lawyer to run her thru the ringer.
Every time I see this story I think about the sheer astronomical odds that a newborn infant not only survived for hours in a dumpster, but was also found by three people just looking for appliances in a dumpster. The footage of the father was also amazing to see, hearing him say, "What do I need to do, where do I need to go, what do I need to say?" with that urgency made me want to cry. He instantly stepped up and called his upset father back without a care in the world about if he was in 'trouble' or not, he was only thinking about his child. That's a real man and a real father, I hope his family is proud of him.
Those 3 people who found and rescued the infant make me think of the movie Tokyo Godfathers. It is a Christmas movie with a similar plot. Highly recommend trying to find and watch it this holiday season. God bless those people and the dad and most of all the baby. I hope all of these people are doing okay now.
I thought the same, especially when they decided, last minute, to make a pit stop there. The baby, being wrapped in a wet towel when the people were completely clothed head to toe, was probably clinging to life. That baby is a fighter and will go on to accomplish great things!!!
I appreciate the footage being blurred for the child's dignity...but what I remember from the uncensored version is the way April IMMEDIATELY takes the baby, cradles it to give what warmth and comfort she can. Without so much as a thought. This baby had three angels sent its way ❤
Why do people always treat normal human behavior like something heroic? Just about anyone, man or woman, is going to pick up and comfort a baby they found in a dumpster. You think the average person would just toss it back in?
Nothing says “I love you” like saying, “I thought it was poop” and throwing him in a trash bag with water bottles, soda cans, and an inhaler box, then tossing him like trash into a dumpster. For his sake, I really hope he never does see the video. That is just far too traumatic. And while the 16 year old father sounds like a real winner too, I truly hope his parents/family are good people and will raise the baby better than they raised their own son. I can’t believe the mother is out of jail and awaiting an appeal. What a world.
The child is now in the custody of the father and doing very well! Do you know them personally or did you just assume he's a bad person and roll with it?
I agreed with most of your comment, but I think it’s rude to assume how the father is. Being a young father is NOT a good thing, but he clearly loves his child and there is nothing that says otherwise in this clip.
Are you saying that bit about the father because he was scared to tell his dad he was going to be a father? If so, that’s an awful lot of assumptions. I’ve known plenty of teen parents that are/were great parents. I’ve also known adults that should never be allowed to even be around venous snakes yet have kids. Those kids are treated horribly. Age has very little to do with how someone parents.
This comment deserves more attention. The 16yr old father has the support of his parents. Obviously the 18yr olds parents are oblivious to thier daughter. Still doesn't excuse her choosing to throw her newborn away like literal trash. I am just pointing out how children have different priorities and maturity levels bieng raised by supportive parents apposed to strict or detached parents
@@tiffanyfield2999 I suspect her parents would have been angry about her getting pregnant to begin with, but would have been supportive, given the chance. I know plenty of young ladies thru the years who went thru this. I don't know one whose parents didn't accept their unexpected grandchild in the end. I realize that occasionally there are parents who wouldn't accept it, but they are few and far between. Especially these days.
This really breaks my heart. I was abandoned on a train as a newborn. I’m grateful that my birth mom put me somewhere I would be found. I just don’t understand why you would discard them somewhere they’re unlikely to be found. 😭 Thank God for the dumpster divers.
Damn. That must be a lot to live with. I was given up for adoption as an infant & even though it was done the right way, just growing up thinking my parents didn’t care enough about me to keep me had an impact on me. I’ve since learned that wasn’t the case at all & most parents who give up their children actually do it BECAUSE they care & know that they can’t give us the life we deserve, and they hope we will have a good life with loving families. I hope you’ve discovered that too. I can’t imagine the circumstances that would make a parent leave a baby on a train, but I suspect & hope that it was something far less callous than the way this woman behaved. I’ve met my father (unfortunately my mum died at 24 from a heart/lung disease) & learned that the decision haunted him his whole life too. I don’t know if you’ve ever found your birth parents, but hope that if you do, you get some closure & reassurance that you were actually loved by them. And if you can’t, your mum probably does think of you loads of the time & hopes you ended up in a good life 😊
Your birth doner wanted you to live and i hope you are doing that well and are loved, this person didnt intend for the child to be found and didnt want them to live its cruel put some people wuite literally are monsters cant have angels without demons it seems
if this girl was raised in a "christian" household where verbal abuse and disparaging remarks are the response for not being perfect. I can see her hiding the pregnancy to avoid the mental abuse that would come with her parents knowing. I-- was 30 when my birth control failed and i became pregnant, i was single and my BF had already refused to acknowledge the pregnancy. My mothers response...don't bother coming home with an infant in your arms, we will not let you in the door. --It's sad that in this century we still have children who are literally being thrown away at birth when they could have been left at a hospital, police or fire station without comment.
@@toscatattertail9813 none of that matters when you try to throw a baby in a dumpster you not ganna get any sympathy Period end of discussion close your legs or use protection lastly you can just surrender a child at most hospitals there literally is no excuse in this situation
My thing is.. How does your parents not know you're pregnant? You start buying baggy clothes, eating a lot more, being tired. Hell my mom knew I was pregnant before I did, only reason I went was cause I was having really bad headache. THAT'S CRAZY
Some parents just go into denial, like if they believe hard enough that their daughter is just going through a phase then it'll turn out that's all it is. Deep down they know she's pregnant but they don't want to believe it, so they force themselves to believe it's something else. Also to be totally fair, some women just don't have normal pregnancy symptoms. I saw someone post online some photos from like the day before she gave birth to a surprise baby and she did not look pregnant at all, at most she might've looked 4 months but she was full term.
New Moms: Most hospitals, police stations, and fire stations have a "Safe Haven" law. You can drop your baby off at any one of these places, no questions asked. You will not be arrested for abandonment, you don't even have to provide identifications. There are resources to help you. DO NOT abandon your baby anywhere else but the places I listed.
Props to the kid and his family for taking care of the baby. It seems obvious he should be responsible but I’m not sure at 16 I would’ve been able to handle a baby even with my parent’s help.
in late middle school, in sex ed, my school would give us these electronic baby dolls to take home for a day that would cry at random times throughout the day and night. making it so that you have to change their diapers (that have sensors) or feed them with their bottle for a certain period of time. it also had impact sensors so kids wouldn’t hit/throw it. they graded you based on how many times you could ease its crying. it was hell, especially because i had baseball practice that day 😢
Just adding this year for the benefit of anyone else who reads this thread (not directed at you cfol5000) - but if you’re not capable of handling a baby, don’t be having sex in the first place.
I mean he had no idea about the baby's existence since she lied to him and told him she miscarried. Luckily he and his family were willing to take care of him and hopefully give both of them a good life ahead
They are going to end up releasing her stating there was no way initially for her to surrender the baby as if she couldnt have the baby and given him up for adoption. Bummer. The baby boxes i hopendoesnt end up just encouraging baby aambandonment
@@TheAnnoyingBoss Why exactly would it be a bad thing if these boxes were actually put to use? So many lives could be saved by implementing them and raising awareness about their existence in schools. I'm not trying to gather sympathy for these women and girls, but many who leave their newborns to die or outright murder them do so after hiding the pregnancies, be it from abusive parents or partners, or just out of shame. Adoption isn't on their horizon since they want to take this secret into their graves, if they even accept that they're actually pregnant in the first place. Others might be aware of the fact that they won't be able to provide a child with a safe, loving and nurturing home, for example if the baby is born to undocumented immigrants, is a result of sexual assault, or if the parents suffer from substance addiction, are homeless, etc. Leaving the child in a safe haven box is obviously much safer than leaving it in a public place in hopes of it being found soon and taken in by a loving family, a notion that many naive women have in mind (I'm talking about those who at least wash the baby, put it into warm clothing and towels, not scum who throw them away like trash). Parental abandonment will always happen, especially if abortion is criminalised, and many people simply aren't fit to be parents.
Good on the new father that his first reaction when he heard about the baby was to get up and ask what he needs to do. Not deny, not pretend like it didn't happen, but to realize now he has a life to take care of and save. Despite him being young and probably not expecting the baby to be still around his mind automatically switched to father mode when he realized the baby was actually alive.
She deserves a long prison sentence. That kid would have been dead if those trash pickers didn't find him. No leniency for someone at 18. She knew what she did 100%.
the father is 16 and no one thought that was weird. sadly when i was 16 i was with an 18 year old and now being in my mid 20's i know that's weird asf!
There are baby drop sites, NO questions asked. This is cruel, there is NO excuse, she wanted that baby GONE, and it wasn’t just about avoiding parenthood. It was malicious.
This is shocking!!!!!! She could have left the baby at a church, hospital or even a supermarket. Goes to show that she felt nothing ,as she kept referring to the baby as "it". Thank goodness those people were dumpster diving. How that poor baby managed to survive in a trash bag is a miracle. This baby is going to grow up strong and very loved. A proper little fighter with dumpster diving angels as saviours.
Not even that, fire stations have a "baby haven" system where you can just leave the baby there. A lot of them even have something that's similar to a mailbox, so you don't even have to go into the station, you just leave the baby in the slot where it will be dry and warm and the station gets notified the door opened.
She literally threw him in the same bag as real trash. That says more to me than anything and the way she hurled the baby over her shoulder, she didn't just throw him away, she hurled the baby in there sick and no consequences she'll be freeand out , and no big deal ,right no harm no foul? Cause baby is safe thanks to 75 other ppl. Gimme a break she knew exactly what she was doing and planned to do something like this when it was born, she lied and said she had a miscairrage , she was plotting this all alongthe whole time . She also knew she was in labor and hid it she's saying she was back and forth to the bathroom. She knew she was in labor..and didn't say anything
Dude no lie when i need a boost i think about all the ways i couldve never existed like throughout history the wars the diseases the famines and droughts all for me to come into existence and its the same for everyone this kid has a hell of reason to keep going
As someone pregnant and that has a toddler, this is unthinkable. You grew that baby, felt him kick, labored and birthed him. To think you don’t even leave him somewhere someone can find him?! If my neighbor surrendered their baby to me, I would take them immediately and make sure they got medical care and police were involved.
What makes this crime all the more senseless is that New Mexico is a safe haven state, meaning you can legally give up your baby to a fire station or other place with no questions asked and they’ll find a way to take care of it.
My children are adopted and sometimes people would bad mouth their biological mother. I always said at least she gave them up legally and didn't throw them a way!! She could have done so many things that would have been horrible!!! Thank god for their birth mom.
Amazing to see Aprils instincts kick in so fast, she went from apprehensive about what was in the bag and staying back to literally pushing the two guys out of the way the moment she realized it was a baby human. Round of applause
@@tapoemt3995This comment is intended to be derogatory, but it misses the mark entirely. They’re diving through a dumpster dude, the guy was the one that wanted to go in. Its not like he went in For her. Then youre gunna come at her for maternal instincts…? 🤨
@@tapoemt3995 honestly I’m lost. I didn’t think what I said was derogatory. It’s a natural instinct for a woman to let men handle difficult situations, it was just an observation of a stark contrast between that and her unbridled motherly instinct to secure and comfort a baby. JHC, can’t a man just be in awe and make an observation without it turning into a fight?
And yet the 18 year old mother tried to kill their infant son. I'm glad that the father and his family are taking care of his son now. I'm more sensitive to this unlike you folks.
I lost my one and only baby during my pregnancy. I constantly pray I will be able to see him (my husband and I always felt the baby was a boy) in heaven one day. It breaks my heart to see women just throw out their chance to be a mother. I would give anything to have my baby back.
Obviously it didn't stop Alexee Treviso doing the exact same thing, but at the hospital. Oh and it's so oddly creepy same state, same age and similar names. Alexis and Alexee smh.
Disgusting. You can even surrender babies to the hospital and fire departments no questions asked in NM. Horrible people. Court of public opinion needs to take care of them.
People often vilify those who dumpster dive. Glad they stopped to check. Good on the dad and fam too. Shoulda never been doinkin without wrappin but bro stepped up. That's rare.
I work at a state university, and you wouldn't believe what people throw away. Sometimes they throw away appliances that work perfectly fine. Some of them are still in original packaging.
@@affablesage9582aw yeah. It's a shame. And places like to get mad when ya grab something out of the trash like they didn't just throw it away. Better than letting it sit in a landfill. Nobody is willing to repair anything anymore. Throw away society.
@@billwilson5341 Clearly you arent someone younger who spends time near 16 year olds. 16 isnt a man. 16 is a stupid kid with crazy hormones. Talk to a 16 year old and see what they act like
As a father of 4 children This makes me feel so sick I don't even know how to explain the feelings I have from this video It's worse than sick 😢 I'm just so happy the baby was found in time ❤ Massive respect To those people dumpster diving so lucky ❤
EWU, thank you for being a source of integrity. You are one of the good RUclipsr channels out there. So many people don’t do this properly, but you don’t sensationalize. You’re just narrating and provide us the information and education to form our own opinions.
This is sick I look at my beautiful baby girl who is now three months and I wish I could shelter her from the horrors of this world and the bad this country is going through right now
As someone who has been trying to adopt for almost 4 years now, this breaks my heart. There are tens of thousands of individuals/families who cannot have children and would be more than blessed to allow that beautiful child into their home. What kind of horrible person decides that a garbage bag is better than a loving home?
@@akuos8243There are a lot of legal hoops to jump through. You have to be mentally well, physically well, and financially capable of taking care of a child.
@@akuos8243 If you want an actual baby(most do) you basically have to hope a birth mother picks you, and it can take many many years. Even when working with private adoption agencies. It’s also incredibly expensive think upwards of 100k+. It’s why a lot of people adopt internationally. The only other option is to “foster to adopt” and that can be incredibly heart wrenching. No guarantees. You can be fostering a child for years, and have it abruptly ripped from you. The system is so broken.
@@akuos8243 When I adopted my daughter, it was an "easy" adoption, because the birth mom was a friend of a friend. It took almost a year to finalize the adoption, and cost over $30,000 in legal fees alone. Overseas adoptions can easily cost over $100,000 because you have to bribe so many officials and go betweens. The systems are very corrupt. Many countries are also closing off adoptions to the US because of parental abuse cases.
Respect to the dad and mom of the father for being so pragmatic and seemed to be understanding. Getting someone pregnant when you are 16 is bad but its not dumpster baby bad.
Telling how no one from the family even asked about the infant, how it was, if it was alive, gender, age or length or term. Just wild. Shows how she got that way.
This is 13 minutes out of an investigation and you want to assume based on this short video that you know what they said in the parts that you are not seeing? Basically this is hours of video that have been edited. The medical staff do not wear body cameras. They call it a frame for a reason. You can’t even see what is happening just out of frame. You don’t see what’s happening when the camera isn’t on and you can’t see what is edited out. I am not defending anyone but to say they never asked or cared is a ridiculous claim after a 13 minute edit.
@@akingeneyearmede7014 its kinda rare but some people dont swell up super big when they get pregnant, it could be possible they didnt know. its kinda common in women or are hugely fat and also women who are like skinny-fat, where you are skinny, but kinda chubby in the stomach.
"I do love him. I truly do." ... She says to the court, after the jury watches an ashamed teenager throw her newborne away like trash. She doesn't love him, and she should never have any form of custody over the child. She was more concerned with hiding her pregnancy, _than she was of recieving murder charges for throwing a newborne away, leaving it to die in the cold and dark._
I hope the father continues to have a great relationship with this poor child. he seemed so genuine when talking with his parents and that detective. i can't imagine waking up sunday morning to calls like that especially after being told that you weren't having the child in the first place. sad situation.
Thank god for dumpster divers❤ Seriously, they aren’t the first to find a newborn but this is the first one I’ve seen found in time to save the baby’s life… Someone else commented, they wonder how many go unfound and I got chills down my spine.
Stories like this will forever break my heart. I'm a 30yr old women who has been with my husband for 8 years and we pray everyday for a baby with no luck. It kills me that people are blessed with the miracle of lie and simply take one look at a baby and think horrible things such as let me throw them in a dumpster.
I’m sorry for your struggles. I hope you and your husband have the family you’ve always been dreaming of one day. Sending you all the love I can muster. 💋🫂
I’m so glad the baby survived 🙏🏼. Would love to know how he’s doing. I can only imagine he is a strong little boy and I bet he’s thriving. Surviving being thrown in a dumpster and being in there for hours shows how much of a fighter he is. Bless this little boy 🙏🏼.
The impact this terrible decision not only has on the person who did it but it does also stay with the child for life. I was also dumped after I was born and the fact that I was unwanted so badly I was discarded like trash, haunted me. It took me a long time to realize that I can still be a good person, deserve love, and am deserving of life. I hope whoever takes in this baby, constantly reenforces to them as they grow that they are loved, wanted, and are destined for great things as much as anyone else ❤. I think there’s something wrong where a woman becomes so scared and desperate that this is what they resort to. This is why it is important to have safe spaces and programs for children. Because no matter what, people will always make mistakes. How they handle them is based on the stigma around their decisions.
Or some women are crazy and the want the baby gone. How you could even blame yourself for some selfish/deluded/random act is astonishing. You don't ask to be born. It is NOT your responsibility to deal with an adults mental state. Dear lord. I must be of the few ppl who saw her parents for human-beings who had sex and a baby came out. I do NOT call you a parent until I see the action of good selfless parenting. Thank god you sought Therapy over your trauma. Enough wasting time over something you had zero control over and welldone for starting to live what sounds like a positive life.
@ir9567 I don't care there is no reason to dump your baby when there are places to take them. I have no sympathy for the mother I don't care if she had the issues some mothers have . It does not excuse her actions
@@skachor I agree. There is absolutely no forgiveness. At least where this happened, this child can at least know the person who did that to them was persecuted. Hopefully to the fullest extent of the law. Something not all children are blessed with knowing.
18 years old sleeping with a 16 year old boy. I’m surprised she didn’t get another charge for that. So thankful that the baby survived. Thank you to the hero’s that decided to dumpster dive and find the newborn. That baby could have easily died wrapped in plastic bags. How can you throw a baby away like garbage? I bet she’s allowed visitation with the baby also. I wouldn’t trust her around her own baby after that. This teens are that terrified of their parents that they go an entire 9 months and give birth just to trash the baby is beyond me. I just don’t get it and she should still be incarcerated.
I'm so incredibly happy the father's family decided to keep the baby. The baby is well, happy and very much loved and taken care of. He was named Saul, which means "is prayed for" in hebrew. What a good ending to such a sad and almost tragic begining.
The fact that she knew what she did to leave a newborn swap in a wet towel and in a trashbag and leave it in a dumpster is absolutely disgusting. and the fact that she could possibly get off her chargers is utter BS
Yea it's horrible things like this even get to birth children. She is not human. More like a thing or an it. Considering that's how she kept referring to that poor baby. She kept calling the baby "it". Complete detachment from her own child in every way. She was going to let that sweet baby perish in the cold alone.
god, ive seen her interview from this case before but never the bodycam footage… the way the poor little thing was crying absolutely shattered my heart. thank god for the people who found him in time for him to make it and who immediately did the right thing. how anyone could do something like that to ANY child, let alone one as helpless as a newborn, is entirely beyond me. i hope to god the rest of his life is full of love and kindness, just like any child deserves.
I realize we live in a country where mental health is not taken seriously and that abortion is no longer an option. But women can very easily bring their newborn to a school, hospital, fire station, police station, and face no consequences for it. Making the choice to throw out your child like they are garbage is sinister.
They didn’t ban abortion across the country, they sent it back to to the states so each state can decide what is best for them. And it’s legal in her state of New Mexico 🤦♂️
I know the father is only 16 but hopefully he's a good father and his parents are good grandparents. My dad's parents were 16 and 19 when he was born and did an average job
Simply despicable! Great parenting. Something seriousy wrong there! The fact they cuddled her after she essentially tried to kill there grandchild is simply bizarre 😢
@@BushidoNinja No, this is what happens when you BAN abortions. You're going to see a HUGE uptick of women killing their BORN babies that they DIDN'T want.
@@BushidoNinjano it’s not. People that want an abortion do not just dump their children in a dumpster. You must be stupid no not realize a big difference between these two.
The father and his family are stand up people. They didn’t let their emotions get in the way of doing what is RIGHT, NEEDED and NECESSARY. They acted in what was best for the baby. The RESCUERS ARE ANGELS and HEROES. Please protect the baby from that woman and her parents.
Once again EWU with the full story behind all the videos I’ve seen of the body cam footage floating around! Thank you for bringing time after time these stories to light , this is by far a sad story to see and we can’t even imagine the folks that found this poor baby, but Thank Heavens they where in the right place at the right time! Dumpster diving brought them something a lot more valuable than what they where looking for that night!
12:06 the fact that they tried to use bipolar as an excuse is insulting to me as someone with bipolar. She and her attorney are trying to play into the stigma that people with bipolar are viscous and do sick things like this. As someone with bipolar, we do these things while severely ill and it’s not okay, but it’s a mental disability that can be treated. Untreated bipolar disorder can lead to this but to Use bipolar to get away with it is disgusting.
This is absolutely sickening there is no excuse to treat a baby like trash! I became a mother at seventeen I never would have thought of something so evil! God bless this little baby boy Amen!
I have two very young nieces. I couldn't imagine how it would feel if my sister decided to do this to them. That poor little guy. Edit: props to the young father, he was completely willing and understanding.
It’s amazing that they’re less concerned for the baby who is also their grandchild and more concerned for the daughter and not letting the police talk to her. Bungles my mine
I have a one month old and this was hard to watch. Hearing that poor baby boy cry so weakly brought me to tears and I cried the whole video. How can someone do this? This woman is the farthest thing from a mother imaginable. An evil, cold-blooded murderer. She should go to prison and never get out.
I have bipolar disorder with destructive tendencies & it would never cross my mind to throw my own child in a dumpster. No matter what the situation. People lean on this disorder bc it’s easy to get away with certain things when you have the diagnosis. I’m not judging , that was just my opinion, but there were a hundred other ways that she could’ve handled this. So sad & heartbreaking, but this was completely avoidable. Thank the people who noticed the baby & acted on it out of good faith & THANK GOD this baby boy lived bc it could have turned out so much different. I’m happy that the father & his family have stepped up to care for this precious boy & hope he never learns what happened to him. ❤
The whole thing about manic episodes is ur making risk taking and destructive actions it's different for everyone her bipolar contributing isn't an excuse it's simply another fact in the crime she committed
This is so upsetting. The fact that baby would've died in a dumpster if those people weren't at the right place at the right time is so grim. Breaks my heart.
Because of my upbringing, I would be ashamed beyond belief to unexpectedly get pregnant out of wedlock and feel entirely unfit to raise a child and terrified of what my hyperreligious parents would think of me....but I would never...EVER do this to a baby.
This still sickens me. If you choose to have the kid, you carry it to term, and then do something as disgusting as this, you deserve what you get. There are so many alternatives that would be so much better for the child than just throwing it away like its garbage. I don't want kids myself, some may say that's selfish or w/e but in reality it'd be more selfish to bring a kid that i don't want into the world. I'm glad the kid is doing well and in better hands.
As someone who has bipolar disorder, I am so sick of people trying to use it as an excuse to act like a monster.
Thank you. I have it too and am so sick of hearing people use it as an excuse for shitty behavior. Bi-Polar does not make you, kill, maim, act crazy or become a criminal. It's pathetic that people keep doing so as well..
I’m glad someone has spoken up and said that. People try to say they have a mental health problem and use it as an excuse when half the time they don’t have any mental health issues and try to use it to get out of trouble. I’ve seen comment sections where the commenters might see a drunk woman and automatically say she’s an alcoholic and must have mental health problems, drives me bonkers.
It's that bipolar is widely different from person to person, yours might not be as extreme as others but there are some that cannot help what they do or feel during a bad bipolar episode. I doubt in her case that's what's going on with her however but I have met people who absolutely loose what makes them, them during an episode and completely do a 180 in thought and personality.
Right? She further stigmatizes it for people who have it and make their lives harder. I don’t have bipolar but I do have BPD and the amount of times I’ve seen people excuse their heinous behavior or actions on their disorder drives me up the wall.
Then you obviously don't have a extreme case of it then. It absolutely does cause people to make really bad decisions sometimes. Try actually looking into the DSM.
Not standing up for this crazy b****. But Bi polar can absolutely play a role in cases like this. Stop acting like you know all cases of bi-polar
Makes you wonder how many babies are dumped in garbages that aren't found. 😢
many more when abortions are made illicit. 🙂
Man it makes me sad to this of this because garbage from dumpsters is compacted and squished into blocks of garbage so thinking of this just hurts my stomach
Oh, in Canada they dump adult Indigenous women into landfills here, and the police don’t GAF. They refused to even search for them. North America is a shithole
More are dumped in garbages of the foster care system .
9 out of 10 American babies end up in the trash smh
FYI if you ever have a surprise baby, call 911. You can legally relinquish an infant to any hospital or fire station.
Right and she knew that
And chose a different way ,
, she knew exactly what she did and she got away with it too sickening
Unfortunately, most teenagers don't know that. It should be taught in school. Maybe there would be less instances of children abandoning babies if they realized that they could safely and legally surrender their babies without repercussions.
@@yvettebowles9011that was always taught in school when I was a teen. And that was back in the 90’s.
I LOVED hearing this precious baby is currently in good health and living with HIS FATHER and his family
So, the grandparents are taking care of it b/c I guarantee you he isn't.
@@jaelynn7575 he probably is as he can. His parents are definitely helping, but I am proud that he is still (at 16) taking responsibility for his son.
@@jaelynn7575 well no shit, he has school. but could have gave up for adoption. giving how he spoke about his own father - even if he won't want to care for the child then HIS OWN FATHER will make him. the fact that his reaction was asking where he supposed to go and not "how do we hide it" already speaks a lot given he's only 16
😂 his parents cleaning up the mess HE MADE. This punk knew, ignored it and probably got grounded for 3 days until he could go screw more classmates.
So she statutory raped a 16 year old boy?
You can literally give up your kid with no strings attached. There is never any rational reason to dispose of your baby in the US like that. The parents try to pretend like their daughter didn't just commit a crime against humanity and attempt to kill her newborn. You don't defend stuff like that, even if its from your kid.
@@BushidoNinja She took the time to put the baby in a bag, put him in her car, and then drive away from her home. If she made all that effort already, what excuse does she have to go to a dumpster rather than a hospital or fire department? Also, abortion is a bodily autonomy issue. While the fetus is attached to the mother's body and using her resources, she gets to decide whether it uses her body for that purpose or not. Once the baby is born though, it's not using her body and so it's no longer her decision.
@@BushidoNinjayou don't abort a fully developed child.
There's a massive difference between the two.
@@BushidoNinjabro the difference is she threw a CHILD in the garbage. Abortions after 21 weeks extremely rare and are only done in exceptional circumstances such as the reasons you mentioned. Even then, the grand majority of abortions in the US are done BEFORE 10 weeks(remember most realize they are pregnant after 4-6 weeks). At that point, the fetus may not have arms or legs and definitely doesn’t have consciousness, considering it’s basically just a spinal cord and beginning of a brain. Call it life whenever you want to, but you have no say with what women do with their lives with a name like fucking bleach knight
@@BushidoNinjaOk I just wanna clarify, are you comparing this situation to abortions? Because these two things do not fall anywhere near each other in terms of morals and/or circumstances
@@BushidoNinja A lot of people think they are pro life yet do nothing for the unwanted kids already born. Save your Luke warmness ..
Not one of her "regrets" is the fact that she literally treated her newborn son like trash.
"I thought it was poop"
What do you expect when you have women out here talking about how happy they are about their abortions and blah blah blah blah blah
Yea 100%. I hate how she keeps referring to the baby as "it". She is a total and complete POS.
And the fact she said her son will think she doesn’t love him cause it’s what he’ll read and hear. No it’s because you literally threw him away like trash.
Crazy
I remember being on Facebook and there was an article about a safe box (place to safely leave an unwanted baby) in some city being used for the first time..and some people were calling safe boxes "disgusting". Well THIS is why they are needed.
Exactly! We don't have safe boxes because people have the right to abandon their babies but because if we don't have them, people do things like this.
@@annagrace2746 BS she didn't need a safe box she could have dropped the baby off at a fire department or hosptial
@@belmum1689Yes, but unfortunately not a lot of people are aware of that but ARE aware of safe boxes.
@belmum1689
Unfortunately disgusting horrible monsters care more about their image when hospital staff or firemen see them abandon a baby than the life of their baby. The baby boxes are very successful in Africa because it allows them to be anonymous. The success is what made the US baby box founder try so hard to get them her.
@@brittr1358 In the US those people can still just drop a baby off at a door of a hosptial or fire department, no one actually needs to see them, there is nothing wrong with baby boxes but there is way more hosptials or fire departments then there is baby boxes so there is no excuse
Love the manager “piece of sh*t” 😂
People who commit robberies get more prison time than this. Unacceptable.
@AdamWeidl-qm6ct 100%, women only want equality when it's about being in power or wages, they wouldn't last 5 minutes if they were truly treated equally to men
@@Adog5454 oh, okay.
@@afrocentrkgypsyIf anybody doubts this, it's well recorded data that shows men are given substantially harsher sentences for identical crimes.
Loads of instances where men and women are part of the same criminal trial, and men will get life in prison while women get a few years, even though they're both responsible for identical crimes.
@@Adog5454 dude, you are a loser lmao
@@Adog5454get a life
April is a good person. Baby was covered in someone else’s fluids and she didn’t think twice and held it close to her body to save it’s life. I wish the 3 of them and the baby all the best
That crossed my mind too, I’m a major germaphobe and would have a hard time doing that 🤮.....April is a warrior
@@aileenmccarthy8660me too😂😂. But I think I would have at least put the baby in the car with the heat turned up. But it was hard for me to hold my own son after being born with all that stuff on him
Yeah same 😂 couldn’t hold it with all that gunk. I’d get a shirt or something but I couldn’t touch it..
Ya I understand that. But a life trumps the goop for me, especially an innocent baby 💔
Thought the very same thing. April is a wonderful young woman.
The way she calls that poor sweet baby an “it” is so sickening. This is murder
According to Democrats it's abortion
The baby survived. It was definitely an attempt to murder.
"Attempted"
She’s trying to depersonalize the child so she doesn’t feel as much guilt and shame.
Abortion was likely not an option for her..
The teen dad is raising the baby now & THE NERVE OF Alexis & her family trying to get custody!!!
Sad thing is there's a good chance she gets at least partial custody because of how biased family courts are.
If they can submit this to court she won't stand a chance dad will end up with custody and she will likely have supervised visitation. Dad needs a good lawyer to run her thru the ringer.
@@jonathanjuillerat9831 she shouldn’t be having any visitation. She chucked the child In the dumpster.
@@VariaBugfemale privilege is attempted murder of a child and apparently still being in favor of family court 🙄 someone stop the world I want off
Every time I see this story I think about the sheer astronomical odds that a newborn infant not only survived for hours in a dumpster, but was also found by three people just looking for appliances in a dumpster. The footage of the father was also amazing to see, hearing him say, "What do I need to do, where do I need to go, what do I need to say?" with that urgency made me want to cry. He instantly stepped up and called his upset father back without a care in the world about if he was in 'trouble' or not, he was only thinking about his child. That's a real man and a real father, I hope his family is proud of him.
Those 3 people who found and rescued the infant make me think of the movie Tokyo Godfathers. It is a Christmas movie with a similar plot. Highly recommend trying to find and watch it this holiday season.
God bless those people and the dad and most of all the baby. I hope all of these people are doing okay now.
I thought the same, especially when they decided, last minute, to make a pit stop there. The baby, being wrapped in a wet towel when the people were completely clothed head to toe, was probably clinging to life. That baby is a fighter and will go on to accomplish great things!!!
It's all about nature doing everything it can to survive. Plus, three people who show a heck of a lot more empathy than the "mother" did.
Mo
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AGREE
I appreciate the footage being blurred for the child's dignity...but what I remember from the uncensored version is the way April IMMEDIATELY takes the baby, cradles it to give what warmth and comfort she can. Without so much as a thought. This baby had three angels sent its way ❤
And the supposed mom tossed the bag in the dumpster! I seen the unblurred footage she is a monster and better get jail time
Agreed. That baby is blessed.
Unbelievable when there’s safe haven and she could have dropped the baby off no questions asked.
Why do people always treat normal human behavior like something heroic? Just about anyone, man or woman, is going to pick up and comfort a baby they found in a dumpster. You think the average person would just toss it back in?
@@klz9500 because it's heartwarming that some stranger cares for a baby that his biological mother doesn't give af about. That's why it's highlighted.
My mom has severe bi polar disorder, she didn’t throw away my sister when she had her at 19. And she didn’t throw me away, it’s no excuse.
No bi-polar disorder symptoms are alike!
Agreed.
Nothing says “I love you” like saying, “I thought it was poop” and throwing him in a trash bag with water bottles, soda cans, and an inhaler box, then tossing him like trash into a dumpster. For his sake, I really hope he never does see the video. That is just far too traumatic. And while the 16 year old father sounds like a real winner too, I truly hope his parents/family are good people and will raise the baby better than they raised their own son. I can’t believe the mother is out of jail and awaiting an appeal. What a world.
Very well said, I feel the same way.
The child is now in the custody of the father and doing very well! Do you know them personally or did you just assume he's a bad person and roll with it?
I agreed with most of your comment, but I think it’s rude to assume how the father is. Being a young father is NOT a good thing, but he clearly loves his child and there is nothing that says otherwise in this clip.
Are you saying that bit about the father because he was scared to tell his dad he was going to be a father? If so, that’s an awful lot of assumptions. I’ve known plenty of teen parents that are/were great parents. I’ve also known adults that should never be allowed to even be around venous snakes yet have kids. Those kids are treated horribly. Age has very little to do with how someone parents.
hes just a typical annoying teenage boy, at least he took the baby in.
I am happy to know that the father (being a 16 year old) and his family took the child in and didn't just give it away to foster care.
I was also extremely happy to hear that.
They care. I am sure the maternal grandparents care too, but weren't given a chance. Thank God the baby was found.
This comment deserves more attention. The 16yr old father has the support of his parents. Obviously the 18yr olds parents are oblivious to thier daughter. Still doesn't excuse her choosing to throw her newborn away like literal trash. I am just pointing out how children have different priorities and maturity levels bieng raised by supportive parents apposed to strict or detached parents
@@tiffanyfield2999 I suspect her parents would have been angry about her getting pregnant to begin with, but would have been supportive, given the chance. I know plenty of young ladies thru the years who went thru this. I don't know one whose parents didn't accept their unexpected grandchild in the end. I realize that occasionally there are parents who wouldn't accept it, but they are few and far between. Especially these days.
@itsnotthesamething She wanted her baby dead. There are no excuses for doing what she did.
This really breaks my heart. I was abandoned on a train as a newborn. I’m grateful that my birth mom put me somewhere I would be found. I just don’t understand why you would discard them somewhere they’re unlikely to be found. 😭 Thank God for the dumpster divers.
I used to work with a woman who was abandoned at an airport when she was a toddler. She was found very quickly, and was placed in a good home.
Damn. That must be a lot to live with. I was given up for adoption as an infant & even though it was done the right way, just growing up thinking my parents didn’t care enough about me to keep me had an impact on me. I’ve since learned that wasn’t the case at all & most parents who give up their children actually do it BECAUSE they care & know that they can’t give us the life we deserve, and they hope we will have a good life with loving families. I hope you’ve discovered that too. I can’t imagine the circumstances that would make a parent leave a baby on a train, but I suspect & hope that it was something far less callous than the way this woman behaved. I’ve met my father (unfortunately my mum died at 24 from a heart/lung disease) & learned that the decision haunted him his whole life too. I don’t know if you’ve ever found your birth parents, but hope that if you do, you get some closure & reassurance that you were actually loved by them. And if you can’t, your mum probably does think of you loads of the time & hopes you ended up in a good life 😊
Your birth doner wanted you to live and i hope you are doing that well and are loved, this person didnt intend for the child to be found and didnt want them to live its cruel put some people wuite literally are monsters cant have angels without demons it seems
if this girl was raised in a "christian" household where verbal abuse and disparaging remarks are the response for not being perfect. I can see her hiding the pregnancy to avoid the mental abuse that would come with her parents knowing.
I-- was 30 when my birth control failed and i became pregnant, i was single and my BF had already refused to acknowledge the pregnancy. My mothers response...don't bother coming home with an infant in your arms, we will not let you in the door.
--It's sad that in this century we still have children who are literally being thrown away at birth when they could have been left at a hospital, police or fire station without comment.
@@toscatattertail9813 none of that matters when you try to throw a baby in a dumpster you not ganna get any sympathy
Period end of discussion close your legs or use protection lastly you can just surrender a child at most hospitals there literally is no excuse in this situation
My thing is.. How does your parents not know you're pregnant? You start buying baggy clothes, eating a lot more, being tired. Hell my mom knew I was pregnant before I did, only reason I went was cause I was having really bad headache. THAT'S CRAZY
Some parents just go into denial, like if they believe hard enough that their daughter is just going through a phase then it'll turn out that's all it is. Deep down they know she's pregnant but they don't want to believe it, so they force themselves to believe it's something else.
Also to be totally fair, some women just don't have normal pregnancy symptoms. I saw someone post online some photos from like the day before she gave birth to a surprise baby and she did not look pregnant at all, at most she might've looked 4 months but she was full term.
They knew. They didn’t even act surprised.!!!
They knew. They are partners in crime
I remember there was a teen girl that hid her pregnancy by telling everyone that she was gaining weight
New Moms: Most hospitals, police stations, and fire stations have a "Safe Haven" law. You can drop your baby off at any one of these places, no questions asked. You will not be arrested for abandonment, you don't even have to provide identifications. There are resources to help you. DO NOT abandon your baby anywhere else but the places I listed.
The worst part is that she kept calling the baby “it”. No acknowledgment of his humanity.
“I thought it was poop”
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Yeah, and her parents seemed more concerned about her than than their grand baby she tossed in the trash.
The commonality of this exact situation these days is beyond words. Just egregiously common.
With the word "it" you see how detached from reality she is.
Pure evil. I’m not even a mother and I couldn’t fathom doing that to any baby, let alone my own. Heart breaking. I’m glad he’s ok
Are you anti-abortion?
Thought is was poop , What !!!
Literally. Brandt wants to compare abortion to this. Lmfao.
@@brandtcarroll9316derp
@@BobbySacamano Yeah, pretty much. Honestly curious. They seemed to have a visceral reaction to this and rightly so, but it just made me wonder.
It’s crazy, two 18 year olds, two cheerleaders, I’m thinking same state, New Mexico, disposal of baby boys, one dead and one alive. This is chilling.
Wait so one was already dead before they were dumped?
They're both named Alexis too, wild.
Schrodinger's baby
@@longestvideoever I feel bad that I laughed at this
Her parents are supportive and obviously have shown her unconditional love. It’s too bad she didn’t learn that for her child.
Props to the kid and his family for taking care of the baby. It seems obvious he should be responsible but I’m not sure at 16 I would’ve been able to handle a baby even with my parent’s help.
in late middle school, in sex ed, my school would give us these electronic baby dolls to take home for a day that would cry at random times throughout the day and night. making it so that you have to change their diapers (that have sensors) or feed them with their bottle for a certain period of time. it also had impact sensors so kids wouldn’t hit/throw it. they graded you based on how many times you could ease its crying. it was hell, especially because i had baseball practice that day 😢
Just adding this year for the benefit of anyone else who reads this thread (not directed at you cfol5000) - but if you’re not capable of handling a baby, don’t be having sex in the first place.
I mean he had no idea about the baby's existence since she lied to him and told him she miscarried. Luckily he and his family were willing to take care of him and hopefully give both of them a good life ahead
@@sarahakis6196or just be responsible and use protection? i dont know why ppl say use the pull out method or dont do it at all
@@GamingFreaKoreaAbstinence-based sex ed be like that sadly 💔
I actually cried when you told us the father has the baby. Ugh. That’s amazing
They are going to end up releasing her stating there was no way initially for her to surrender the baby as if she couldnt have the baby and given him up for adoption. Bummer. The baby boxes i hopendoesnt end up just encouraging baby aambandonment
@@TheAnnoyingBoss Why exactly would it be a bad thing if these boxes were actually put to use? So many lives could be saved by implementing them and raising awareness about their existence in schools.
I'm not trying to gather sympathy for these women and girls, but many who leave their newborns to die or outright murder them do so after hiding the pregnancies, be it from abusive parents or partners, or just out of shame. Adoption isn't on their horizon since they want to take this secret into their graves, if they even accept that they're actually pregnant in the first place.
Others might be aware of the fact that they won't be able to provide a child with a safe, loving and nurturing home, for example if the baby is born to undocumented immigrants, is a result of sexual assault, or if the parents suffer from substance addiction, are homeless, etc.
Leaving the child in a safe haven box is obviously much safer than leaving it in a public place in hopes of it being found soon and taken in by a loving family, a notion that many naive women have in mind (I'm talking about those who at least wash the baby, put it into warm clothing and towels, not scum who throw them away like trash). Parental abandonment will always happen, especially if abortion is criminalised, and many people simply aren't fit to be parents.
So what you're saying is that men are this bad that doing the bare minimum that is taking in their own child is "amazing"? World's crazy
Best ending ever
Damn the father of the baby who is younger than the mother of the baby is taking responsibility and caring for the child with his family.
Good on the new father that his first reaction when he heard about the baby was to get up and ask what he needs to do. Not deny, not pretend like it didn't happen, but to realize now he has a life to take care of and save. Despite him being young and probably not expecting the baby to be still around his mind automatically switched to father mode when he realized the baby was actually alive.
Agreed
Teenage boy vs teenage girl
She deserves a long prison sentence. That kid would have been dead if those trash pickers didn't find him.
No leniency for someone at 18. She knew what she did 100%.
Life in prison, no parole
No prison sentences for those that murder their babies while still in the womb.
Could not disagree more
@@cakestealer5983 She tried to KILL a baby you weirdo.
the father is 16 and no one thought that was weird. sadly when i was 16 i was with an 18 year old and now being in my mid 20's i know that's weird asf!
What a piss poor excuse for a human being. The way she says it is pure Evil. Throw her in jail
another "lexi" doing baby abandonment things wtf
Nah, 6 months probation. Because feminism.
Cases like these are tragic, just shocking.
Alexis is 18 and the babies father is 16!? Red flag there.
There are baby drop sites, NO questions asked. This is cruel, there is NO excuse, she wanted that baby GONE, and it wasn’t just about avoiding parenthood. It was malicious.
WHAT! SHE GOT OUT!?! How is that possible? She literally tried to kill the poor little thing. Your content is amazing btw
Because she's a woman and women never face justice
Just on appeal. No way she doesn’t go to prison for a long time.
@@NorthBayFCT people usually stay in prison whilst they appeal,never heard of anyone being released whilst they appeal
Welcome to the world of being a woman
She also went to her prom with her boyfriend
This is shocking!!!!!! She could have left the baby at a church, hospital or even a supermarket. Goes to show that she felt nothing ,as she kept referring to the baby as "it". Thank goodness those people were dumpster diving. How that poor baby managed to survive in a trash bag is a miracle. This baby is going to grow up strong and very loved. A proper little fighter with dumpster diving angels as saviours.
Not even that, fire stations have a "baby haven" system where you can just leave the baby there. A lot of them even have something that's similar to a mailbox, so you don't even have to go into the station, you just leave the baby in the slot where it will be dry and warm and the station gets notified the door opened.
She literally threw him in the same bag as real trash. That says more to me than anything and the way she hurled the baby over her shoulder, she didn't just throw him away, she hurled the baby in there sick and no consequences she'll be freeand out , and no big deal ,right no harm no foul? Cause baby is safe thanks to 75 other ppl. Gimme a break she knew exactly what she was doing and planned to do something like this when it was born, she lied and said she had a miscairrage , she was plotting this all alongthe whole time . She also knew she was in labor and hid it she's saying she was back and forth to the bathroom. She knew she was in labor..and didn't say anything
Dude no lie when i need a boost i think about all the ways i couldve never existed like throughout history the wars the diseases the famines and droughts all for me to come into existence and its the same for everyone this kid has a hell of reason to keep going
As someone pregnant and that has a toddler, this is unthinkable. You grew that baby, felt him kick, labored and birthed him. To think you don’t even leave him somewhere someone can find him?! If my neighbor surrendered their baby to me, I would take them immediately and make sure they got medical care and police were involved.
@@janek3531 she said it felt like she pooped im guessing this aint the first one she lost her soul the first one gauranteed
What makes this crime all the more senseless is that New Mexico is a safe haven state, meaning you can legally give up your baby to a fire station or other place with no questions asked and they’ll find a way to take care of it.
My children are adopted and sometimes people would bad mouth their biological mother. I always said at least she gave them up legally and didn't throw them a way!! She could have done so many things that would have been horrible!!! Thank god for their birth mom.
Amazing to see Aprils instincts kick in so fast, she went from apprehensive about what was in the bag and staying back to literally pushing the two guys out of the way the moment she realized it was a baby human. Round of applause
Yeah once it was safe, she came out from behind the men you're saying.. How long was she in Jail for, once they realized she had a warrant I mean.
@@tapoemt3995 wat
@@tapoemt3995This comment is intended to be derogatory, but it misses the mark entirely. They’re diving through a dumpster dude, the guy was the one that wanted to go in. Its not like he went in For her. Then youre gunna come at her for maternal instincts…? 🤨
@@tapoemt3995 honestly I’m lost. I didn’t think what I said was derogatory. It’s a natural instinct for a woman to let men handle difficult situations, it was just an observation of a stark contrast between that and her unbridled motherly instinct to secure and comfort a baby. JHC, can’t a man just be in awe and make an observation without it turning into a fight?
The 16 yo was playing games all night and expected to sleep in. Little did he know his life was going to change completely the next day 😂
And yet the 18 year old mother tried to kill their infant son. I'm glad that the father and his family are taking care of his son now. I'm more sensitive to this unlike you folks.
I can’t believe her parents are still hugging her and telling her it’s okay. 😢 she almost murdered their grandchild.
I fully believe they knew.!!!
I lost my one and only baby during my pregnancy. I constantly pray I will be able to see him (my husband and I always felt the baby was a boy) in heaven one day. It breaks my heart to see women just throw out their chance to be a mother. I would give anything to have my baby back.
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I'm so sorry about your little one. You have my condolences.
not every woman wants to be a mother. that’s like a mentality from decades ago
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@@Sliverr16that may be true but honestly to think that response has a place here after what this woman just shared… have some decency.
Obviously it didn't stop Alexee Treviso doing the exact same thing, but at the hospital. Oh and it's so oddly creepy same state, same age and similar names. Alexis and Alexee smh.
They even sound similar, the way they whine talk grosses me out.
It's weird me out how similar they sound and look.
Disgusting. You can even surrender babies to the hospital and fire departments no questions asked in NM. Horrible people. Court of public opinion needs to take care of them.
@@PickYourPoisons85 They do sound alike, it's because they talk in that sweet innocent try to trick me voice 🤮.
@@apriljk6557 yes it's very weird
People often vilify those who dumpster dive. Glad they stopped to check. Good on the dad and fam too. Shoulda never been doinkin without wrappin but bro stepped up. That's rare.
I work at a state university, and you wouldn't believe what people throw away. Sometimes they throw away appliances that work perfectly fine. Some of them are still in original packaging.
@@affablesage9582aw yeah. It's a shame. And places like to get mad when ya grab something out of the trash like they didn't just throw it away. Better than letting it sit in a landfill. Nobody is willing to repair anything anymore. Throw away society.
Stepping up at 16 too. What a dude
@@twostarchef7613 Even at 16 he ain't no "dude", he's a Man.
@@billwilson5341 Clearly you arent someone younger who spends time near 16 year olds. 16 isnt a man. 16 is a stupid kid with crazy hormones. Talk to a 16 year old and see what they act like
As a father of 4 children This makes me feel so sick I don't even know how to explain the feelings I have from this video It's worse than sick 😢 I'm just so happy the baby was found in time ❤ Massive respect To those people dumpster diving so lucky ❤
I just had my baby boy and I just couldn’t imagine doing that to him. He’s my world
So glad the baby’s father has custody of him. I wish them nothing but stability and happiness
I’m sure the courts just hated having to give custody to the father, even in this instance.
EWU, thank you for being a source of integrity. You are one of the good RUclipsr channels out there. So many people don’t do this properly, but you don’t sensationalize. You’re just narrating and provide us the information and education to form our own opinions.
This is sick I look at my beautiful baby girl who is now three months and I wish I could shelter her from the horrors of this world and the bad this country is going through right now
I hope Alexis, the daughter, is forever reminded of what she did
As someone who has been trying to adopt for almost 4 years now, this breaks my heart. There are tens of thousands of individuals/families who cannot have children and would be more than blessed to allow that beautiful child into their home. What kind of horrible person decides that a garbage bag is better than a loving home?
Out of curiosity, what makes adoption take so long?
@@akuos8243There are a lot of legal hoops to jump through. You have to be mentally well, physically well, and financially capable of taking care of a child.
@@akuos8243if you’re in the US, it’s a challenge and a lot of money. It’s why most people adopt foreigners instead sadly.
@@akuos8243 If you want an actual baby(most do) you basically have to hope a birth mother picks you, and it can take many many years. Even when working with private adoption agencies. It’s also incredibly expensive think upwards of 100k+. It’s why a lot of people adopt internationally. The only other option is to “foster to adopt” and that can be incredibly heart wrenching. No guarantees. You can be fostering a child for years, and have it abruptly ripped from you. The system is so broken.
@@akuos8243 When I adopted my daughter, it was an "easy" adoption, because the birth mom was a friend of a friend. It took almost a year to finalize the adoption, and cost over $30,000 in legal fees alone. Overseas adoptions can easily cost over $100,000 because you have to bribe so many officials and go betweens. The systems are very corrupt. Many countries are also closing off adoptions to the US because of parental abuse cases.
She's only crying for herself, what an evil monster. I'm glad the ex-boyfriend has his son with him and is doing well.
Respect to the dad and mom of the father for being so pragmatic and seemed to be understanding. Getting someone pregnant when you are 16 is bad but its not dumpster baby bad.
Even as an 18 year old I would have never treated an animal in such a harmful way, let alone a human BABY. The world is full of monsters.
Telling how no one from the family even asked about the infant, how it was, if it was alive, gender, age or length or term. Just wild. Shows how she got that way.
This is 13 minutes out of an investigation and you want to assume based on this short video that you know what they said in the parts that you are not seeing? Basically this is hours of video that have been edited.
The medical staff do not wear body cameras.
They call it a frame for a reason. You can’t even see what is happening just out of frame. You don’t see what’s happening when the camera isn’t on and you can’t see what is edited out.
I am not defending anyone but to say they never asked or cared is a ridiculous claim after a 13 minute edit.
thats what i was thinking its like they already knew
@@akingeneyearmede7014 its kinda rare but some people dont swell up super big when they get pregnant, it could be possible they didnt know. its kinda common in women or are hugely fat and also women who are like skinny-fat, where you are skinny, but kinda chubby in the stomach.
@@Yevrodansthis was a national headline story when it happened, you can Google her name and see photos of her, she was showing.
I watched a longer video of the Interrogation. She told detectives if the baby was alive she wanted him.
That baby is so lucky that they went dumpster diving. I hope he grows up and makes the most of his life.
"I do love him. I truly do."
... She says to the court, after the jury watches an ashamed teenager throw her newborne away like trash. She doesn't love him, and she should never have any form of custody over the child.
She was more concerned with hiding her pregnancy, _than she was of recieving murder charges for throwing a newborne away, leaving it to die in the cold and dark._
Hope the baby has a good life with his Father and his family.
I hope the father continues to have a great relationship with this poor child. he seemed so genuine when talking with his parents and that detective. i can't imagine waking up sunday morning to calls like that especially after being told that you weren't having the child in the first place. sad situation.
Thank god for dumpster divers❤
Seriously, they aren’t the first to find a newborn but this is the first one I’ve seen found in time to save the baby’s life…
Someone else commented, they wonder how many go unfound and I got chills down my spine.
Never have I ever been so glad to hear someone say they were dumpster diving. They saved that baby’s life.
Stories like this will forever break my heart. I'm a 30yr old women who has been with my husband for 8 years and we pray everyday for a baby with no luck. It kills me that people are blessed with the miracle of lie and simply take one look at a baby and think horrible things such as let me throw them in a dumpster.
I’m sorry for your struggles. I hope you and your husband have the family you’ve always been dreaming of one day. Sending you all the love I can muster. 💋🫂
I’m so glad the baby survived 🙏🏼. Would love to know how he’s doing. I can only imagine he is a strong little boy and I bet he’s thriving. Surviving being thrown in a dumpster and being in there for hours shows how much of a fighter he is. Bless this little boy 🙏🏼.
The impact this terrible decision not only has on the person who did it but it does also stay with the child for life. I was also dumped after I was born and the fact that I was unwanted so badly I was discarded like trash, haunted me. It took me a long time to realize that I can still be a good person, deserve love, and am deserving of life. I hope whoever takes in this baby, constantly reenforces to them as they grow that they are loved, wanted, and are destined for great things as much as anyone else ❤. I think there’s something wrong where a woman becomes so scared and desperate that this is what they resort to. This is why it is important to have safe spaces and programs for children. Because no matter what, people will always make mistakes. How they handle them is based on the stigma around their decisions.
Or some women are crazy and the want the baby gone. How you could even blame yourself for some selfish/deluded/random act is astonishing. You don't ask to be born. It is NOT your responsibility to deal with an adults mental state. Dear lord. I must be of the few ppl who saw her parents for human-beings who had sex and a baby came out. I do NOT call you a parent until I see the action of good selfless parenting. Thank god you sought Therapy over your trauma. Enough wasting time over something you had zero control over and welldone for starting to live what sounds like a positive life.
I'm glad you're here. ♥
You have compassion and wisdom - Thankyou for sharing your words. ❤
@ir9567 I don't care there is no reason to dump your baby when there are places to take them. I have no sympathy for the mother I don't care if she had the issues some mothers have . It does not excuse her actions
@@skachor I agree. There is absolutely no forgiveness. At least where this happened, this child can at least know the person who did that to them was persecuted. Hopefully to the fullest extent of the law. Something not all children are blessed with knowing.
18 years old sleeping with a 16 year old boy. I’m surprised she didn’t get another charge for that. So thankful that the baby survived. Thank you to the hero’s that decided to dumpster dive and find the newborn. That baby could have easily died wrapped in plastic bags. How can you throw a baby away like garbage? I bet she’s allowed visitation with the baby also. I wouldn’t trust her around her own baby after that. This teens are that terrified of their parents that they go an entire 9 months and give birth just to trash the baby is beyond me. I just don’t get it and she should still be incarcerated.
It’s so amazing how you see her realize what the noise is and her motherly instincts kicked in and she jumped into action
Hearing that babies weak cries made me cry as a full grown man😢
I'm so incredibly happy the father's family decided to keep the baby. The baby is well, happy and very much loved and taken care of. He was named Saul, which means "is prayed for" in hebrew. What a good ending to such a sad and almost tragic begining.
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A huge red flag is when she kept referring to the baby as an it.
The fact that she knew what she did to leave a newborn swap in a wet towel and in a trashbag and leave it in a dumpster is absolutely disgusting. and the fact that she could possibly get off her chargers is utter BS
This is heartbreaking and so sad. How anyone with a pulse can be so horrible is unfathomable. God bless the three that found the baby. 🙏❤️🙏
God didn't prevent it
People are idiots, Blessed Be.
Yea it's horrible things like this even get to birth children. She is not human. More like a thing or an it. Considering that's how she kept referring to that poor baby. She kept calling the baby "it". Complete detachment from her own child in every way. She was going to let that sweet baby perish in the cold alone.
How anyone with a pulse murder an innocent baby while still in the womb?
@@billwilson5341most abortions occur when the brain is still forming, circa less than 10 weeks, it wouldn't be conscious by then.
The mom lying to the police saying her daughter was home at two when clearly she wasn't.
So proud of Hector and his friends! I have always loved that name. I worked with a kind man a bit older than me many years ago.
"I thought it was poop but it wasn't" The poop was me.
Cringe
god, ive seen her interview from this case before but never the bodycam footage… the way the poor little thing was crying absolutely shattered my heart. thank god for the people who found him in time for him to make it and who immediately did the right thing. how anyone could do something like that to ANY child, let alone one as helpless as a newborn, is entirely beyond me. i hope to god the rest of his life is full of love and kindness, just like any child deserves.
Not much emotion over the child. She’s sad because she got caught.
She came from 2 parent home. Her parents were in complete denial. The hospital that diagnosed her with lumbar strain should be closed.
I realize we live in a country where mental health is not taken seriously and that abortion is no longer an option. But women can very easily bring their newborn to a school, hospital, fire station, police station, and face no consequences for it. Making the choice to throw out your child like they are garbage is sinister.
They didn’t ban abortion across the country, they sent it back to to the states so each state can decide what is best for them.
And it’s legal in her state of New Mexico 🤦♂️
I know the father is only 16 but hopefully he's a good father and his parents are good grandparents. My dad's parents were 16 and 19 when he was born and did an average job
Simply despicable! Great parenting.
Something seriousy wrong there!
The fact they cuddled her after she essentially tried to kill there grandchild is simply bizarre 😢
@@BushidoNinja No, this is what happens when you BAN abortions. You're going to see a HUGE uptick of women killing their BORN babies that they DIDN'T want.
@@BushidoNinjano it’s not. People that want an abortion do not just dump their children in a dumpster. You must be stupid no not realize a big difference between these two.
@@BushidoNinja This is what happens when you have no access to safe abortions
Quit spreading bullshit
@@BushidoNinjayou're intentionally obtuse.
@@BushidoNinja I think it has more to do with telling teens that whats inside of you is just a "clump of cells" and they get detached from reality.
She even laughed. She even laughed! Pure evil!!!
I have no sympathy for someone that has no remorse either.
The father and his family are stand up people. They didn’t let their emotions get in the way of doing what is RIGHT, NEEDED and NECESSARY. They acted in what was best for the baby. The RESCUERS ARE ANGELS and HEROES.
Please protect the baby from that woman and her parents.
I feel so bad for the dad, he looks so nice.
Once again EWU with the full story behind all the videos I’ve seen of the body cam footage floating around! Thank you for bringing time after time these stories to light , this is by far a sad story to see and we can’t even imagine the folks that found this poor baby, but Thank Heavens they where in the right place at the right time! Dumpster diving brought them something a lot more valuable than what they where looking for that night!
All the NUMEROUS resources in this country, and that's the choice she makes. I'm thoroughly DISGUSTED!
Right,it would've taken just as much effort to surrender that baby to a fire station
Thank you for your nice voice and straight clear presentation of cases
12:06 the fact that they tried to use bipolar as an excuse is insulting to me as someone with bipolar. She and her attorney are trying to play into the stigma that people with bipolar are viscous and do sick things like this. As someone with bipolar, we do these things while severely ill and it’s not okay, but it’s a mental disability that can be treated. Untreated bipolar disorder can lead to this but to Use bipolar to get away with it is disgusting.
Bipolar people are difficult
@@MultiLimpetbipolar people are people.
I’m glad the baby is with his dad and family ❤
This is absolutely sickening there is no excuse to treat a baby like trash! I became a mother at seventeen I never would have thought of something so evil! God bless this little baby boy Amen!
I have two very young nieces. I couldn't imagine how it would feel if my sister decided to do this to them. That poor little guy. Edit: props to the young father, he was completely willing and understanding.
She’s 18…he’s 16? Hmmmmmmm.
Looks 28
Legal
This had me in tears. That poor little baby. Absolutely heartbreaking.
It’s amazing that they’re less concerned for the baby who is also their grandchild and more concerned for the daughter and not letting the police talk to her. Bungles my mine
That was one of the worst things I've seen today
I hope this kid and his son are okay.
I have a one month old and this was hard to watch. Hearing that poor baby boy cry so weakly brought me to tears and I cried the whole video. How can someone do this? This woman is the farthest thing from a mother imaginable. An evil, cold-blooded murderer. She should go to prison and never get out.
I have bipolar disorder with destructive tendencies & it would never cross my mind to throw my own child in a dumpster. No matter what the situation. People lean on this disorder bc it’s easy to get away with certain things when you have the diagnosis. I’m not judging , that was just my opinion, but there were a hundred other ways that she could’ve handled this. So sad & heartbreaking, but this was completely avoidable. Thank the people who noticed the baby & acted on it out of good faith & THANK GOD this baby boy lived bc it could have turned out so much different. I’m happy that the father & his family have stepped up to care for this precious boy & hope he never learns what happened to him. ❤
The whole thing about manic episodes is ur making risk taking and destructive actions it's different for everyone her bipolar contributing isn't an excuse it's simply another fact in the crime she committed
She threw her baby away with her other trash?! What a monster!
I dont understand how anyone can do this. Its just so cruel and cold 😢
its funny because the people *dumpster diving* have significantly more integrity than the suspect here
This is so upsetting. The fact that baby would've died in a dumpster if those people weren't at the right place at the right time is so grim. Breaks my heart.
Because of my upbringing, I would be ashamed beyond belief to unexpectedly get pregnant out of wedlock and feel entirely unfit to raise a child and terrified of what my hyperreligious parents would think of me....but I would never...EVER do this to a baby.
This still sickens me. If you choose to have the kid, you carry it to term, and then do something as disgusting as this, you deserve what you get. There are so many alternatives that would be so much better for the child than just throwing it away like its garbage. I don't want kids myself, some may say that's selfish or w/e but in reality it'd be more selfish to bring a kid that i don't want into the world. I'm glad the kid is doing well and in better hands.