BONUS: Stressors
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- Опубликовано: 26 май 2024
- Let’s talk about stressors! The serious ones like money, family, work, health, aging, retirement, and parenting! And the not-so-serious ones like botox, packing, and Ben & JLo!
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I’ve just watched the reunion finale. I know you said we’d see your point of view, well I really don’t. You look and sound like an arrogant bully. And you betrayed your friends on camera for all to see. Even Sceemer didn’t have your back. 😡
Yep It’s really terrible how she acted. Why was it all about her? And she gets to leave when she wants? What a joke.
'bully' says the loser who came here to comment this crap. get over yourself, ITS FUCKING TV
Your explanation of why you went HAM on Ariana for no reason are ridiculous. YOU are the reason VPR will be cancelled.
Absolutely hypocritical
Schwab’s said her and Lala were told if they didn’t make drama after mid season on season 11 the show would be cancelled.
Excusing yourself behind being a mother for your action does not excuse ANYTHING you need to grow and just take accountability for being a shitty friend. Stop making excuses is not helping
I think your relationship with the fans is in the ER and I'm okay with that.
They’re not fans, they’re rabid bitches.
with her crazy* fans perhaps, the sane ones are mainly not coming to the comments because tools like you make this a gross place to consume content. delete youtube and go live life sis, your comments aren't required here ✌🏼
How dare you ever think that you would get the love and opportunities that Ariana gets.
Maybe people simply don't respect talentless gold diggers.
but when I was going through the exact same thing nobody thought I was Beyonce 😭
THIS👆👆👆
I was always a fam of yoyrs til this season and esp the 3rd reunion. So cold... and self absorbed
Lala was always my favorite on VPR, but unfortunately this past season just really made me see all the worst 😔 like just because you're jealous of Ariana doesn't give reason to invalidate her feelings left and right.
She's always been awful.
You have a daughter and one on the way. Stop being a bully!
You and Ariana are not the same. Your man was married. You didn't co own a house. Stop expecting the same treatment.
You have a child. That was a choice you made. It's nobody else's responsibility to make sure you get a paycheck.
Funny...i thought LaLa said her mom paid all her bills when she first came on vpr since she "came from money"? 🙄
Hey MelancholyCat3. She can’t keep her lies straight. Guess that’s why she liked to brag to VPR cast how she got her range rover & private jet rides by trading BJs for them. 😺
That was another lie to make it seem she wasn’t a gold digger and home wrecker. Too late. She’d already admitted that she got a Range Rover for sleeping with Big Ed on the first date. BJs for PJs, remember?
That was a lie!
@@user-fq8rs7rz3i yes, it was a lie to cover up the fact that her sugar daddy was paying for everything. In one of her podcasts she talks about her father losing everything in the 2008 recession. She said she, her mom, and brother had to get jobs so they wouldn’t lose their house. She’s such a liar she can’t remember her lies. She needs a liar cheat sheet to keep up with them all.
They could never make me like you Lala
Then why are you listening to her podcast??
@@christinamaisano2952 listening?! I put the video on pause 2 seconds in…. Won’t get a view out of me baby
But you still commented and engaged
@@kelseyrae12 blah blah blah, you done Ugly?
It's sad because I used to really love La La. But she really took such low blows to a fellow traumatized woman to save a man who wronged her all to what...make money? Lala watch back the seasons. Ariana has advocated for you way more than you think. In fact it was Tom and Lisa who were the ones diminishing your experiences with Rand as invalid and not worthy of the same level of sympathy from the audience. You bragged about his money and accomplishments and sucking d for a range rover and alll of this other stuff that was very unrelatable. Most people don't relate to that. The reason everyone sided with Ariana was because we've been on this journey with her, shes been open about her body, her past relationships, her fathers death, her fears of intimacy and other insecurities etc. I was so happy to see you working on your triggers and try to grow last season, I was really disheartened to see you use your motherhood to lord over how someone else experiences trauma. There are women who cannot have children and does that mean that they shouldnt get sympathy for going through hard things because they're not a mother? Sorry but both you and Scheana need to stop using your motherhood as a way to act holier than tho to other women who don't have kids.
You and many others are too invested bro. It is a reality show. Based on your comment, it appears that Lala has personally caused you stress. But, she does not even know you, LOL.
@@girlfromsouth214it’s an opinion. Give it a rest!😅
I was a true fan until this season. Become a producer. You are too obvious.
It was dirty when she talked about her 11’s… And, said to Jessica that she was gonna look like her soon. 😢
Right
once again lala trying to use standard patriarchal techniques to diminish another woman and insert herself as the more valuable one
Get real Lupac Shakur!! All these yes people around you have created a monster.
Yep hangers on
Also lala. I want to be clear. The overwhelming amt of comments and my own personal opinion have nothing to do with you as a mother. In fact, I think watching you parent Ocean and be such a good mother is what really warmed my heart over the years watching you. Our criticism is of the way you hypocritical and straight up mean and then went on a media blitz trashing Ariana and katie all on your own. They weren't saying anything about you. The only criticism involving motherhood has overwhelming been that you use your motherhood to weaponize your pain over others. That is not a criticism of you as a parent or a mother.
The media blitz trashing Ariana & Katie was about trying to get ahead of the blowback she knew she’d get, especially after the reunion. She thought it would make people think she was right & they were wrong. Well, now everyone knows what a despicable, phony, backstabbing, bitter, jealous bitty she is. No one will ever trust her again. Her apology wasn’t an apology, it was another excuse. It was weaponizing her motherhood AGAIN. She’ll never give Ariana & Katie a real apology. She’s a narcissist.
Until you get REAL I don't care.
Oh man, I thought Reddit was on fire but it’s in her comment sections too! That’s rough. I guess none of us fan-bitches got our rabies shot, like lala suggested? I just want to remind any idiots out there DO NOT say anything about her child…I mean I never read anything but apparently this happens and that’s not cool. I used to love this pod and I was a lala fan AND I bought her damn merch. We were supposed to change our minds after we watched the reunion and I was giving lala benefit of the doubt and waited but I just didn’t. Maybe it was the producers and LVP that gassed lala up? Lala messed up though. I can’t respect how she acted. I’m gonna check out from her for now. Truly disappointed.
Lala. You're so petty and it's just sad to see u. Get better before u affect your kids.
A big stressor for myself is what I’m going to do after my second child leaves home have already got one in uni and that’s broken me never mind losing another…. I’ve been single parent with the help of my mum but lived and breathed these kids stay at home mum from the day they were born I only know how to be mum. So that really stresses me.
I stress about the chronic pain I have to cope with plus taking care of my mom. She's my best friend and I don't have much more time to have her here in our lives.
Me too. Except my mom has passed on now. Took care of her for the last 6 1/2 years of her life. She had advanced dementia the last 4 of those years so it was challenging at times. I’m thankful she isn’t suffering anymore but I miss her. She was my best friend too. It’s hard to do anything with chronic pain, especially take care of a parent. I wish you all the best. You’re a wonderful daughter.
I hope tomorrow is better than today ….many blessings to the both of you young ladies❤️
Give us less lala.
I just heard your apology to the fans.
I'm sorry, IF... NO, NOT COOL!!
it is one thing to say... "Rabied, Bitches in the streets..." and "...Rabied Bitches In the Streets who Talk About My Motherhood and Child..." it's totally different.
I used to root for you from the beginning, although I Knew you were hiding something and not living your real true authentic life by keeing Randall Emmett's name out of the show and denying he was married.
I believed in you, fought with friends in defense of you.
This is not the Lala i came to know and love on the show. You became Lauren from Utah and i didn't like her. Too much change too fast.
You went from calling Tom S. A narcissistic and saying you see him for who he is to...
I want a clean slate, i would like to move forward with you, i was in a bad place... all in a matter of 3 months.
Sorry made my head spin, make a double take.
Nothing wrong with forgiving for peace of mind and to recieve peace in the heart and be cordial and film together, but to say that to one person on the show and hold his ex partner to a different standard is a bit too much of a stretch to say, i am softer. Sorry, Lauren, lost me forever.
Wishing you the very Best.
❤
Easton does not know Acorns. Please do not give this financial misinformation omg
i do not care what anyone says Lala. You are the embodiment of the woman I want to be. So confident and so proud of who you are. I understand your side of things on VPR because people honestly need to grow the f**k up and learn how to deal with things head first and you are the only one that seems to do that. If you do not handle it, you will not get through it, and that is all I believe you were wanting to do. I do love ariana also and feel terrible about the unfortunate situation, but instead of making you look like a bad guy, she may should take into consideration about what you are saying. we all have one life to live and if we live it holding a grudge than we are not living. I also lost my dad in 2018, and I think people like us see how important it is to just move on for the better of our mental well being. anyways I love you a lot and am always batting for you.
Who told you to apologize? Your agent or your business manager? Money drying up?
She didnt apologize. It was a narcissist non apology.
@@goldenelixer Exactly.
These comments ARE NOT IT. Y’all need to find peace.
Anyways, I love this topic and hearing different stressors. Especially when it comes to biological clocks. When someone is pregnant around me, I compare their age to mine and if they’re younger than me, then I feel the stress of like, needing to start having kids. but when I see people that are older, mid 30s or 40s having kids, then I feel like, OK I have time and I don’t need to be rushed. I’m happy that things are changing that way, where people aren’t expected to be married and have kids by 25 because I could not imagine being married and having kids right now.
Lala, you are too beautiful for this. Stop lying about you insulting every fan because of your precious baby girl and the baby to come. It never even crossed my mind, I strongly disliked "the way you moved" this season. You should have been an understanding supportive friend to Ariana since you went through something similar. Of course its not the same, but that you chose Sandoval and Schwartz that have said sch vile, disrespectful comments about you and to your face, and money over a woman's emotional mental well being. You are not forgiven. Goodbye for ever sincere and honest blessings to your babies. I know this will be ignored or misconstrued but I am doing this for my emotional well being, because you have been severely triggering this season. I will respectfully pass on anything that has to do with Lala or Schaena.
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Jess, I know lala doesn’t read comments but her stressors about the 2008 recession, verbatim, was my family. Dad lost everything being In construction but my mom had kept her job at GM, which even that was scary bc ppl were getting laid off left and right but if it hadn’t been for my mom, we would have lost so much more than we did. I’m 34 now and I’ve learned it therapy that 2008 recession caused me to develop financial trauma, where I live in this state of fear of losing it all and I can also see that in Lala. It’s amazing bc I really thought I was the only one.
if a problem can be solved with money then it isn't a problem. The most important things in life are not things that can be bought.
Easton get rid of the dreads they look ridiculous on you man!
Gosh, this is no entertaining. Hopefully vpr is done
❤Mondays!!❤
Lala is the shit😊😊❤❤❤.
Love family ❤🙏
Soz but Lala is a horrible horrible human I feel sorry for those girls
High horses are going all around these comments
Tom Scandy has single-handedly destroyed the show, and you helped him, it was probably his plan from the beginning. Oh, and that misogynistic Jeremiah.
Lala “business” is merch a bad podcast. Get real.
Did she say on the reunion that it wasn’t just scandovol that got her both her homes but it was hardwork? She made bank off the Darrell merch right? I am genuinely curious to what her income revenues are. Is it this podcast and merch? It might just be the show from the way things are looking and how upset the fans are.
She has a makeup line.
Lala u are a great mother imo
This season turned me off. I won't be supporting u anymore, ur jealous and definitely not appreciating ur true fans. Go on pause!! Plz! Go touch GRASS!! hopefully u apologized to Ariana for being so damn jealous of her.
Stop weaponizing motherhood. You act like your the only single mother out here. The whole season was put in perspective when Ariana told your puppet that she understood that you were annoyed....but NOT THE INSULTS. Your issues had nothing to do with Ariana. Your problem is with the producer & the fans that you make money from.
You should be fired! Your beyond cruel and jealous behavior towards Arianna should not be rewarded. You have lost the thread on reality.
Go away and get help.
Love me some LALA. Always giving it straight up. Also and mom of 4 here who got an umbilical hernia with my 3rd jsut had my 4th who’s about to be a year and can’t even have surgery for it because of breastfeeding. lol I didn’t know so many people were grossed out about it. lol 😂 I be showing it off like idfc.
Hi Lala! I heard ur latest podcast and want to say Ocean has the best mom ever and family❤. I love her stories. She is definitely an old soul who has been on earth before. Don’t ever listen to those nasty comments. They don’t know you at all. I think you’re great ❤❤❤❤
Nobody, literally nobody, cares about her mothering. In fact we are begging her to stop telling us she’s a mother, it’s got nothing to with us or the show we came to watch. And to start respecting the childless women on the show and in the audience. Go to The Valley if motherhood is going to be your whole personality.
@@jakestroll6518 yup. and those nails around a kid...
🇮🇸💖💖
Me and my fiancé love your strong will. Also love that hat. Currently wearing a dodge ram camo hat myself
❤💜💙I don’t usually comment but I’m a long time listener. Sad to see these comments and just wanted to put a positive one down. I found Lala through juicy scoop (the balenciaga episode) I enjoy listening to Lala and her orca pod stories. I love her values towards family and animals and have a similar experience with an ex and our motherhood stories are so similar. ❤️🧡💛
Much much better only 15 mins in and I’ve already liked this pod. Keep it up and I’ll keep liking. 👍
Men have a lot more time to start a family than women do.
Not really - mens fertility drops at a very similar rate as womens...
You and Ocean will be best friends girl ❤believe that!!!!
Ocean will hate her for how much Lauren just wanted a kid of her own, cuz ocean wasn’t enough
Are hats required here? Lala you are so damn gorge, love to see you in less than ‘comfortable’ clothes.
They always have hats on....i thot that too some time ago lol......I think it has to do with the head phones
Not so ‘gorge’ anymore. Her face on the reunion looked really weird. And those lips!!!
❤love me some La Easton and Jess ❤🎉 born on September 1st 11:00 pm hope baby Sis too ❤
Totally got your POV at reunion. Lean on ur support ignore the haters.
Most of her haters used to be fans and it looks like most of the comments are valid criticism.that are just wondering who this lala is. Can’t excuse bad takes and bad behavior. She shouldn’t ignore she should take a look at herself and adopt change to be better.
Lala- Don’t let the negative-Nellie podcasters get you down. It’s hilarious to watch these 40something yo women get their nickers twisted in a bunch by you this season and reading most of the comments during their lives, I just have to ask~Have you not seen VPR seasons 1-9???
What about it? I watched from day one. Tupac/la is the nastiest piece of work to ever land on it. Only about 97% of VPR fans agree.
@@bedeviled2much376 You know what’s real? Start by taking a deep breath then touch some grass with your bare toes. Have a great day/night!
@@acecafe727 I touch grass every day, ace With my bare toes. I do yoga now & then. Feel free to answer my question. It was “what about it?” Take your time.
Ahahaha are you 40? What’s a “negative Nellie,” isn’t “Nancy???” Idk. I think people are just disappointed in lala and want her to be better, stop being a hypocrite, support women, support your friends and not be a jealous jelly
You look beautiful pregnant.
Lala…got to just laugh at all the mean comments! I just think people can’t stand the fact that a strong woman just doesn’t give a shit, apologies when needed. Raising a family. Generally a BOSS! Fans have always wanted you to fail, and by god you haven’t and you have acquired more than any one and you see the prize and you’re going to grab that MOFO!!!
You’re funny. She’s hit the floor. No crawling back up. Thank goodness!
I know I am. And thank you for the compliment, I am sure she hit the floor laughing at all her non-fans. Makes no never mind to me, just stating the fact that strong women can ignore comments! She is self made, as a business, and a mother. Don’t see any others do what she has accomplished all on their own. Have a wonderful evening!!
😑😑😑😑
We loved that she’s a strong woman. If she doesn’t gaf, why should Ariana gaf about her position, paycheck? I didn’t want her to fail, I was a fan but she did what the patriarchy wanted her to do. She wanted Ariana to suffer like her, think the way SHE wanted her to and do what producers wanted. That isn’t something to praise. Her fans are what put her in the position she’s in, acting the way she’s been acting, she’ll fade into irrelevancy and get no bag. I bet you lala will eventually evaluate how she was used and she’ll change again.
Everyone saying all these mean, nasty comments on here just stop watching & listening her podcast if u dislike or hate Lala so much! Talk about bullying my gosh I am Not saying everything she does or says is right or I always agree but this is too much! Also they didn’t show the whole ending at the reunion last night there was a whole min & 1/2 they cut where Lala talked about the pain she put herself in when she wasn’t honest on camera and all the times she lied and how it’s something she regrets & she doesn’t want Ariana doing that the way she did . I rewatched the ending 2 times to make sure I had seen that right but at the reunion they didn’t show the cast that part of her saying I know what it’s like to run, not talk about things & walk away Ariana I don’t want that for her . Now please don’t attack Me!! I don’t think Ariana should have a conversation with Tom either or do something that she doesn’t want to do!! DONT misunderstand this is not a I don’t like or support Ariana because I do! But my god this nastiness, name calling how are u better then what u are saying Lala is? When u are calling her all these names & complaining just doesn’t make sense to me!
Absolutely nailed it. I don’t think people have any real way of gaining the full context of the situation either considering they’re not in a reality show like Lala is and so from the outside looking in it’s so easy to judge. When the truth of the matter is, we only know what’s shown to us on camera
Lala, you have nothing to be sorry for. I thought Ariana was incredibly unlikable all season and agree with all your observations. The silent majority is with you we just don't troll comments all day. Cheers from Toronto 🎉
Because you know how stupid you would sound if you did because Lola was just jealous. She didn’t get treated better when she had her break up and for some reason she’s blaming Ariana for that and not everybody that was actually trash talking her.
The reunion proves that it was just misplaced anger, which was ridiculous and sad to see because they’re at an age where I kind of expect better than that from them
@@tracim3080 well said, as always.
the silent majority 😂
If she has nothing to be sorry for, you’re the problem that makes people act dumb. You hype up her behavior and then there’s no positive change. And Ariana was unlikable? The majority would disagree with you. I don’t think there’d be this much hate (from her fans) if that was true. I was a fan. I don’t condone or like her behavior this season or on her media tour.
@@lycheedreams that “silent majority” cracked me up too.
Love Lala at the reunion!!!!!
I’m sorry. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😅
You liked her even when she threw that tantrum? “Why can’t I dictate?” That was weird ah.
Lala, I see your point you made on the reunion. All you wanted was there to be a fairness and for people to stop being fake. I think that everyone stayed quiet because they were afraid that the he public would go against them. At the end of the day. The only thing that matters is that you’re true to yourself, honest in your thoughts and feelings. Don’t let anyone make you feel bad for that!! BTW, when Tom started the o say what the problems were in their relationship, Ariana shut that right down. It was very telling on what story she wants out there.
TuLaLauren is the fakest person on reality tv. Ariana & Katie (James too) were the only ones who were honest & not acting. Scumdoval has already repeated his BS about what was wrong in the relationship. He opens his mouth & lies fall out, just like TuLaLauren.
Perfectly stated perspective...
I am a retired teacher & mom of 3 adult kids. I divorced after 18
Years of marriage when my kids were 4, 10 & 13. It’ll all be OK. Let her sleep with you! My youngest slept with me until he was 10 & he’s a junior at Vanderbilt. I promise you that you can worry all you want but it’s futile. Worry more about arthritis & osteoporosis. Seriously. I love you, LaLa; even when I don’t.👏🏼💪🏼🫶🏼😘🩷
PS. Umbilical hernias just happen! I had 1 after my 2nd pregnancy, had it fixed, & then got pg again! I had a 9lb6oz baby & now 21 years later my hernia is back. Just be as healthy as you can! Your body doesn’t follow your directions.
Your body absolutely follows your brain, thoughts, and repetitive patterns. If your diet, stress level, sleep, and environment is good…usually your body follows wellbeing. There’s always an exception to the rule, but generally if you have a healthy inner life your body follows.