EP.45 Tsholo sold her house, car , loan sharks to give over R200K to a boyfriend she had never met

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  • Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024
  • #RomanceScam #madamSpeaker #theSafeSpaceChatsPodcast #LoveScam #MadamSpeakerPodcast #TinderSwindler

Комментарии • 945

  • @madams___speaker
    @madams___speaker  13 дней назад +59

    Thank you for all the positive comments in support of our sister Tsholofelo. Please reach out to us if you can assist her in any way 🙏🏿🤍

    • @humelelawitnesssambo1269
      @humelelawitnesssambo1269 6 дней назад +2

      Madam speaker when did the guest realize or how did she come to realization that she was being scammed she never told us that part?

    • @buhlerobert2033
      @buhlerobert2033 6 дней назад

      I like how handle this interview ❤

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  6 дней назад

      @@buhlerobert2033 thank you 🙏🏿

    • @natashakameeta4094
      @natashakameeta4094 День назад

      @@humelelawitnesssambo1269p

  • @nthabisengsithole3309
    @nthabisengsithole3309 13 дней назад +161

    I think what gave this beautiful woman the courage to tell her story so well is the empathy and respect Madam speaker showed throughout the interview ❤

  • @NonhlanhlaVundhla
    @NonhlanhlaVundhla 13 дней назад +425

    Rule number 1. A man asks for money, even R5 run for the hills.

    • @jabulilemlaka6253
      @jabulilemlaka6253 13 дней назад +8

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @magdelinebonoko398
      @magdelinebonoko398 13 дней назад +22

      Its a giant red Flag for me.

    • @NonhlanhlaVundhla
      @NonhlanhlaVundhla 13 дней назад

      @@jabulilemlaka6253 true even if it's transport money he gotto make a plan with his relatives and friends outthere😂😂😂😂😂 no woman must pay any man's bill, l could have told him to rot in that prison.

    • @simcelilethikazi6157
      @simcelilethikazi6157 13 дней назад +8

      😂as for the hills

    • @DM135__
      @DM135__ 13 дней назад +37

      For me - it’s a man with too many problems when we’ve just met, giant red flag. No shade but why are you trying to date when you clearly need to take care of other business instead of focusing on me?

  • @LefaMthunsi
    @LefaMthunsi 13 дней назад +94

    The person that did this knows you personally there is no way

    • @theemapsmash
      @theemapsmash 13 дней назад

      Naah there are ppl called yahoo boys, they are love scammers, they pretend to love someone and make single ladies fall vulnerable to their fake love. They also use fake pictures, and they love using Facebook mostly are Nigerians behind the phone. Then start asking for money.

    • @Alice15210
      @Alice15210 10 дней назад +3

      Or the person is a sociopath.
      He made sure she was attached, cut contact to make her anxious about losing him and then hooked. There's a lot of them out there. I met one, it didn't work bcs the man got too demanding too soon, and i was broke too 😂😂😂
      And he was a very angry dude. He scared the living ish out of me so I blocked him

    • @JeanetMabena-ht2to
      @JeanetMabena-ht2to 9 дней назад +1

      True its someone close to her i suspect husbands family😢

    • @victorianemavhulani2519
      @victorianemavhulani2519 7 дней назад

      Serious maybe some of us we stingy are can't even give a 100 & for me any guy becomes a boyfriend after dates 😢 i feel sorry for her .

  • @thokokgaje1869
    @thokokgaje1869 11 дней назад +65

    Yooh Tsholo I am so sorry you went through this. I rented your property for a few months in 2019 while I was renovating my house. You are such a sweet lady who loves her kids. God will fight this battle for you...

    • @Blessed_for_life_2023
      @Blessed_for_life_2023 9 дней назад +2

      She must pray hard and ask God to take charge. She will see.

    • @paulinekhainza8131
      @paulinekhainza8131 8 дней назад

      OMG 😲, that was very unfortunate my dear sister, may the Lord see you through this trying moment 🙏

  • @suigeneris5193
    @suigeneris5193 14 дней назад +111

    My natural response is to judge but this love scamming thing is so complex, anyone could fall victim to it. We take the lessons. Thank you for sharing your experience. I truly feel for you♥️

    • @GodsFavourite2024
      @GodsFavourite2024 13 дней назад +9

      Especially that they now use the spiritual aspect of manipulation

    • @pfulu
      @pfulu 13 дней назад +9

      Remember she’s a single mother of three, so vulnerable coz she can still be lonely and longing for love again.

    • @jabulilemlaka6253
      @jabulilemlaka6253 13 дней назад +6

      One things about then the love scammers...they love boom the living hell out of you...and they 😢know their victims.

    • @KoenaRapudi
      @KoenaRapudi 13 дней назад

      N forgetting we have other things to b judged of, we all have weakness.

    • @Azizi7903W
      @Azizi7903W 12 дней назад

      @@jabulilemlaka6253 I hear others say there's no way a normal person can fall for this, but they forget that these people have been doing this for quite some time and are masters, they do love bomb you, they learn your mannerisms & once they have you trusting them you are done for, anyone can fall for this trap. Con artists = Confidence artist, they gain your confidence

  • @Zeelovezee
    @Zeelovezee 13 дней назад +184

    Once a man mention money or data problems I block him immediately ill never

    • @fariraimapiye9491
      @fariraimapiye9491 13 дней назад

      I get offended when a man wants to worm himself into a woman's finances by crying for data or fuel money..red flags are always there from the beginning..TX fr such shows,our eyes are open!!

    • @restykamya9062
      @restykamya9062 13 дней назад +5

      Me too, I don't allow to be the savior of pple...this lady must a giver naturally

    • @HloiMollo
      @HloiMollo 13 дней назад +1

      Me. Too

    • @Zeelovezee
      @Zeelovezee 13 дней назад

      @@HloiMollo Run 🏃

    • @qaqambafuzile5967
      @qaqambafuzile5967 13 дней назад +2

      Yhoo Maan I'm sure she's a giver . My stingy self my god 😢😢would find it so hard

  • @DeePie2024
    @DeePie2024 11 дней назад +162

    Dated a guy once - He asked me for money - Blocked him immediately....then his aunty phoned me because his heart was broken - I blocked her too and never looked back....haaaii! R1000.00 - That is a lot of KFC. LOL.

    • @nqobilezondi4314
      @nqobilezondi4314 9 дней назад +19

      😂😂😂 the aunt, bathong what kind of desperation is this family dealing with 😂😂😂

    • @ZNMelowLeloNeka
      @ZNMelowLeloNeka 9 дней назад +3

      bablocke wena girl

    • @Blessed_for_life_2023
      @Blessed_for_life_2023 9 дней назад +8

      😂😅😅😂Kwaaaaaa....Kwaaaaaa as for the aunt, hey these scammers are daring neh! It's a syndicate, there's no aunt there 😅good girl

    • @MorongoenyanaManyose
      @MorongoenyanaManyose 9 дней назад

      @@nqobilezondi4314😂😂😂😂😂😭

    • @jmuhlava1543
      @jmuhlava1543 9 дней назад +11

      Aunty might be wife these scammers 😅

  • @Lungelo911
    @Lungelo911 14 дней назад +165

    I hope people (women) will watch without judging.

    • @KoenaRapudi
      @KoenaRapudi 13 дней назад

      True

    • @nomxhosapekani7966
      @nomxhosapekani7966 7 дней назад +2

      Only the immature will judge, but I learned that when we start to deliberately love ourselves and not feel selfish, it makes us less vulnerable. Single mothers have the tendency not to put themselves first. Most of us are even used by family members for years which is also a form of scamming. Single moms tend to project their love and empathy for their kids on others. The condition is called Helper's Syndrome in Nursing. It is a condition that one develops. I hope she and her kids get justice.

    • @Lee_Nolo
      @Lee_Nolo 7 дней назад +2

      its easy to judge until you walk a mile of loneliness shoes.
      Sometimes thats why we do things like these. Some we're not scammed money but tie and other things .We saw red flags but ignored them because we dont want to lose our last resort.

  • @Miss_mphosi
    @Miss_mphosi 13 дней назад +28

    I am so proud of ausi Tsholo...such a wonderful soul still smiling even after everything she went through...

  • @peggymatlala2333
    @peggymatlala2333 13 дней назад +96

    Either I love money too much or I am too poor to offer money.

    • @lebomadingoane4118
      @lebomadingoane4118 13 дней назад +4

      Same here, hell no...

    • @pfulu
      @pfulu 13 дней назад +2

      You are just like me, I love money too much.

    • @iddashivolo5366
      @iddashivolo5366 13 дней назад +2

      Yoh. We are too kind. Just never give a man money.

    • @honestgaorakwe8299
      @honestgaorakwe8299 12 дней назад

      me too hle

    • @ThulieMayeza
      @ThulieMayeza 12 дней назад +2

      A man is a head of the family .meaning he must provide .Me don't even give a man even 50c. Last time I went with guy who was driving his scrap car.On the parking lodge he ask me R7 for parking. That moment instead iI just ask other people who were there for parking to assist him with r7 some were laughing. The white guy just gave him r20 than he has to go and ask a change to pay

  • @faithngcobo5507
    @faithngcobo5507 12 дней назад +9

    Madam Speaker is a good interviewer. She knows the right question to ask. She is humble. The sister was catfished. Love is a dangerous game.

  • @leojiji-e4x
    @leojiji-e4x 13 дней назад +16

    Rule number1, never give a man money if ur not even married, or u don't know his background, sometimes man can get married to u just to get ur pension money.
    Remember , us woman we r emotional beings, and man r not emotional beings, they don't care that much

  • @suigeneris5193
    @suigeneris5193 13 дней назад +256

    It’s either you do two-part stories or you stop with the time limits. You cover stories that are incredibly important and sensitive, it’s very impolite to rush guests. I cringe every time a guest is stopped mid-sentence to talk about “we have a minute remaining etc”. Please.

    • @asie_dudula
      @asie_dudula 13 дней назад +16

      Sana, the pits 😩

    • @dineogenie
      @dineogenie 13 дней назад +7

      Exactly!!

    • @LuckyJudaz
      @LuckyJudaz 13 дней назад +3

      Orata dibata ..?..I mean you love other people's news .?😂

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  13 дней назад +69

      Unfortunately you’re going to have to work with what we have until we get what we want. We are using a studio where we are not the only clients there. Even with the two parts we’d still have to book the studio beforehand. Unless if someone is willing to donate an entire studio for us so
      That we don’t have time limits.

    • @MadamThandi
      @MadamThandi 13 дней назад

      But madam you're the brand we basically watch you ..we're your community even if you can start your own podcast we will support! Di studio tsa batho dia tshwenya re bohela botlhoko ​@@madams___speaker

  • @zamobubu912
    @zamobubu912 13 дней назад +47

    This woman really has a pure heart😢

    • @Glm8
      @Glm8 13 дней назад +1

      I agree

    • @connymontsho
      @connymontsho 9 дней назад +1

      Too much.😢

    • @juliamncube7551
      @juliamncube7551 9 дней назад +1

      Haholo😢

    • @lonagwegwe
      @lonagwegwe 9 дней назад +2

      She is very nice , that is dangerous for her

    • @tebozee4728
      @tebozee4728 7 дней назад

      Us born agains we have a pure heart.

  • @catchupentertainment
    @catchupentertainment 13 дней назад +159

    I'm struggling so much to finish listening to this video cause I'm overwhelmed with pain and anger. What I've noticed from these stories is that these scammers use some sort of spell or muthi because there is no way in your sober mind you can give away money to a length of taking loans or selling your assets just to give away to a stranger in the name of love. No ways. These people use 'something' just so that they can have total control of you, and you will never question anything. I'm so sorry you went through this.

    • @BongokwakheMkhize
      @BongokwakheMkhize 13 дней назад +15

      I wanted to say exactly that because there’s no way , they’re definitely using something and they always target people with good hearts i guess

    • @catchupentertainment
      @catchupentertainment 13 дней назад +13

      @BongokwakheMkhize definitely. There's no way for a normal functioning person to just give away money like that to a total stranger. No ways. But it's sad. I think people should stay away from online dating honestly.. these stories are so painful to watch..

    • @HloiMollo
      @HloiMollo 13 дней назад +5

      Me too. I feel like screaming

    • @catchupentertainment
      @catchupentertainment 13 дней назад

      @@HloiMollo I didn't finish watching the video the way I was so angry

    • @rudzanikharivhe6294
      @rudzanikharivhe6294 13 дней назад +8

      When I'm listening to her I have been saying this can never be me, but I have been holding my comment now I see why I ddnt say that therr is no way you can do this on your normal senses and do this all this.

  • @Vv-fl2rm
    @Vv-fl2rm 14 дней назад +45

    I always feel so heartbroken for the children of ladies like this. 😢honestlty speaking

  • @pontshoramafalo4483
    @pontshoramafalo4483 12 дней назад +9

    People are so judgmental and this can happen to any one who is in love, you will bounce back my sister ❤❤

  • @mzyvonnehangara7637
    @mzyvonnehangara7637 10 дней назад +8

    A man who starts with liability so early in a relationship run plz

  • @Vhushavhelo
    @Vhushavhelo 13 дней назад +24

    This story gave me so much anxiety. I’m really sorry that this happened to her.

  • @bridgetmothomoholo4514
    @bridgetmothomoholo4514 14 дней назад +20

    Madam speaker, you are doing a great job ❤

  • @lonagwegwe
    @lonagwegwe 13 дней назад +19

    After listening to this story I just realized I am not a nice person 😢

  • @ericmduduzi4192
    @ericmduduzi4192 13 дней назад +22

    Apart from everything, this is a good woman by far. I just feel pity that she fell on the wrong hands

  • @maryanderson73
    @maryanderson73 13 дней назад +13

    I am so sorry for this lady. But I have never heard of a man scamming a woman ever having any good luck. The same goes for a woman!

    • @Blessed_for_life_2023
      @Blessed_for_life_2023 9 дней назад

      Nna, I'll go witchcraft gang route I'm telling you. Needles and all. I'll drive from NW to KZN to umhlabauyalingana, net vir daai ding! 😂😂

  • @mawandelulu838
    @mawandelulu838 13 дней назад +12

    Nkosi yam' i hope and pray this women find healing.Nxese cc wam"

  • @shataditswai2673
    @shataditswai2673 13 дней назад +11

    I have been there my dear who are we to judge your. If you never been scammed don't because you will never know maybe tomorrow is you🤷‍♀️

  • @MissCombs1511
    @MissCombs1511 14 дней назад +12

    Yohh Sis, what a story! Having your good heart being taken advantage of. 😢
    The lovebombing etc. that he did on you. You did not deserve ANY of this. God saw all of it, let Him deal with that devil His way. Vengeance is the Lord's.🙏🏾

  • @dikolizaskk5847
    @dikolizaskk5847 14 дней назад +18

    Yhooh this can happen to anyone, love can cloud the ability to think
    This scammers are heartless

  • @nomvulairene4177
    @nomvulairene4177 13 дней назад +10

    Because of this story m going to be stressed, yoooo pelo ya e bohloko 😭😭

  • @dumirose9174
    @dumirose9174 13 дней назад +11

    Ladies if a man call you 'baby' run and run,this word can make you do the impossible for a man

  • @cleodontina1
    @cleodontina1 12 дней назад +33

    Why were his problems automatically your responsibility within 2 weeks? You can't possibly love someone in 2 weeks.

  • @essentials_45
    @essentials_45 11 дней назад +3

    Have been there, u will wake up feeling like you're dreaming. Dont wish it on anyone
    All i can say is we must pray for God"s protection always. Love and light to u sisi❤

  • @nokufasithole4914
    @nokufasithole4914 4 дня назад +3

    All the best my sister 😢 scammers are everywhere and always planning.

  • @spicefaith7419
    @spicefaith7419 13 дней назад +3

    All I’m gonna say is thank you Tsholo this is an eye opening 😢

  • @zakithidlomo5122
    @zakithidlomo5122 12 дней назад +4

    Bakithi she is so cute and adorable, I am so sorry this happened to you.

  • @MphoRamphore
    @MphoRamphore 13 дней назад +4

    This is the sad story it's true when they say love is blind & desperation can lead a person to do things not thinking straight. I am sorry sista don't worry God will intervene & your tease will never fall down without any punishment to those culprits

  • @sibongile9304
    @sibongile9304 6 дней назад +1

    Thank you for opening my eyes. I've never been in this situation and pray to never be.

  • @bernadettemebalo396
    @bernadettemebalo396 12 дней назад +2

    It is well my Sister.... Just shaking my head. The level of cruelty in high up the. I can relate to your story.
    Stay blessed

  • @thandigwala4365
    @thandigwala4365 13 дней назад +2

    What a big lesson you have share Dear !!
    May we have Part -2

  • @neommutle8033
    @neommutle8033 13 дней назад +5

    Madam Speaker 🔊 ❤your looking good. What a story, what a lesson, everyday we learn.

  • @rubylane9867
    @rubylane9867 9 дней назад +2

    Being anxious of starting over is a normal reaction. You have experienced staying in America and in kenya , that is your strength. Now you are more focused you know what you want to do and achieve. Emily you have achieved a lot at your age. You worked in America and took a bold decision to build your house and experienced living in it. Others wish they can be like you but it's not their time yet. Some in America are even anxious to come back start building because they do not legal status to come to Kenya and go
    back to America as frequent as they wish. They are stucked in America and maybe can't even save money to do what you have done. Girl you are an inspiration to like minded women who are not consumed byv jealous and envy.
    I wish you all the success in Your journey to America plus God to open your income gyrating opportunities even here in Kenya. Good luck ❤

  • @cebokazisibiya5808
    @cebokazisibiya5808 13 дней назад +9

    Thank you for the awareness. I know why this guy targeted you. You are a widow you were in a loving marriage for the longest time so you don’t know the games in the dating pool. So ladies never say never because your situation can change and these people prey on that.

    • @fanelesibongemthethwa153
      @fanelesibongemthethwa153 12 дней назад

      I just ran like hell on my first red flag by grace

    • @lindakondo620
      @lindakondo620 10 дней назад

      This story is annoying gery annoying it hard to listen to this story

  • @SweetTiny-m1u
    @SweetTiny-m1u 12 дней назад +3

    Patric Makua tried to scam me the same way he did to this lady he said the bail was R40000 i told the cousin that and the lawyer straight away that they are scammers they blocked me😮

  • @kram9076
    @kram9076 13 дней назад +5

    I think they were coming after your retirement money. 😢. Guys its lit out there. Men are preying on lonely vulnerable ladies. Dont let love fool you into doing things just because they say they love you. Even people youve known personally can do the same, literally anyone can do it. 😢
    They wanted you to take out you retirement, my bet is this is someone from a financial investments institution who saw that you are close to retirement and know all your possessions info including that you a widow etc😢. They informed their friend in a syndicate and that person followed you on Facebook.

  • @OlebogengKolwane
    @OlebogengKolwane 7 дней назад +1

    Road to 100k subs…makeup on point: looking professional. Thanks for the topic because our mothers & sisters are falling for the same trap, disguising as money/love/marriage

  • @ginsu_pd
    @ginsu_pd 12 дней назад +4

    there must be people that have access to the system to see who lost their spouses and are due to receive insurance/policy monies. clearly they're targeting vulnerable women grieving

  • @PatriciaMotsemme-r8i
    @PatriciaMotsemme-r8i 10 дней назад +4

    The same story happened to my friend. Those people are prisoners. At least they scammed her R20k

    • @uznamalunga
      @uznamalunga 7 часов назад

      Oh ok ok yes we have the same cases in Mozambique. Prisoners start this love scam but then they make you send intimate photos or videos and then start blackmailing.

  • @linahletsoalo8943
    @linahletsoalo8943 12 дней назад +1

    We thank God for your life my sister..Be Glad that you are alive after the scam...some women didn't get to live and share their stories

  • @tiyihlongwane7680
    @tiyihlongwane7680 12 дней назад +2

    It's so sad eish, Hope she recovers from this and forgives herself more importantly

  • @patriciamologadi2947
    @patriciamologadi2947 12 дней назад +1

    😢😢Eish this story is weighing heavily on me, I'm soo sorry for what you went through my sister this is really painful 😭😭May God give you strength to fight this and win it🙏

  • @normadunjwa7135
    @normadunjwa7135 13 дней назад +10

    I always assumed this type of crime is committed by foreigners

    • @southernafricanboy4148
      @southernafricanboy4148 11 дней назад

      Please explain to me in a logical way why you thought it was done by foreigners 😢😳

  • @ZNMelowLeloNeka
    @ZNMelowLeloNeka 9 дней назад +1

    this was a spiritual battle honestly. No way she gave away all her money like that, to a man she has never met.

  • @leratokganyago9192
    @leratokganyago9192 11 дней назад +1

    This was hard to watch 😢😢my body was boiling with anger and disbelief .....I hope to forgive yourself dear, iyoooo

  • @mmathabomogane6735
    @mmathabomogane6735 10 дней назад +1

    Tsholofelo, I am so sorry you went through so much pain because of that evil man. Heal my sister❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Glm8
    @Glm8 13 дней назад +2

    I pray that women should talk about this a lot in our meetings. A lot of women are being scammed daily by these wicked people😢
    Their style is the same everywhere. They will manipulate you with love, and they will mesmerize you. They use muti also😢

  • @tshegofatsosechele9817
    @tshegofatsosechele9817 13 дней назад

    I am so sorry my Sister. Thanks for sharing your story and raising the awareness. I pray you find healing and that God bless you in other ways to make that money again.

  • @TshidiMasina-if4zd
    @TshidiMasina-if4zd 12 дней назад +1

    😢😢This is sad and heartbreaking 💔 thank you Madam speaker this is a lesson 😭😭😭😭

  • @NalediTheko-d9e
    @NalediTheko-d9e 7 дней назад +1

    Sorry my beloved sister may our Lord God restore everything that you lost multiple times, definitely sounds like Nigerian man who scammed you, be positive and start afresh again, rise and shine darling thou you went through a lot jo,

  • @LindsayChauke
    @LindsayChauke 12 дней назад +1

    Joo this is upsetting 😢😢 peace, love ❤️ and happiness to you my sister 💕

  • @pattido777
    @pattido777 12 дней назад

    Beautiful energy Madam Speaker, thank you! ❤🙏

  • @pfulu
    @pfulu 13 дней назад +2

    True let’s share share share with our family members and Pastors and older ladies from church coz imagine you are killed by someone that family or your church members doesn’t know about.

  • @GodsFavourite2024
    @GodsFavourite2024 13 дней назад +1

    This is so sad😢
    So so sad😢
    May you find healing ma'am. May your children also heal and not hold that ordeal against you😢

  • @sethunyaethusang2415
    @sethunyaethusang2415 12 дней назад +2

    My two rules - rule1: i dont accept friend requests frm ppl i totally dont know ..rule 2, when a guy asks for monei esp esp a new relo its a rd flag...i run...how has he been coping with life b4 i met him??...i run and never look back!!!

  • @ndabenhlefreeman8321
    @ndabenhlefreeman8321 9 дней назад +1

    Um convinced bekuyibhantinti leli..banolimi lababantu 😢😢askies cc

  • @justpinks
    @justpinks 13 дней назад +1

    Thanks for sharing . You’re brave sis.

  • @lynettepillay7189
    @lynettepillay7189 11 дней назад

    No judgement at all, thank you for sharing

  • @thandibuthelezi7509
    @thandibuthelezi7509 14 дней назад +2

    😭😭😭😭Mara God why ?? Where were you hle Molimo🙆🏼

  • @mandisamazibuko5935
    @mandisamazibuko5935 10 дней назад +2

    Hay cc I also blame you how desperate were you a man that you've never met you give such huge amounts of money,you are beyond helping

  • @thabangmalepe1663
    @thabangmalepe1663 13 дней назад

    Madam speaker is this not the guy who killed himself. Thank you cc for sharing I've learned to share with friends. Widows and widowers are the targets.

  • @M_Tshita
    @M_Tshita 13 дней назад

    Ijooo 😢😢, thank you Madam for sharing the story , it surely shed off the weight from the lady.

  • @tshegofatsothegreat
    @tshegofatsothegreat 13 дней назад +2

    A lesson I have learned here is, once a guy is implicated in a crime where his friends or partners are supposedly found with drugs, it means your boyfriend/man does not have the ability to see trouble and does not have wisdom to surround himself with good people. He will bring trouble to you or he will be a burden.
    So as a woman you should run or ghost that guy ASAP, because he is not a protector. As women we need to at least chose a protector and a provider to secure a better life for our offsprings. I thank this lady for comming her because I will use this video to teach my daughter the dangers of online dating.

  • @bontlep9574
    @bontlep9574 13 дней назад +1

    Each bank has a fraud department. I think she should inform her bank and Capitec to carry out their own investigations. Even look at the cctv from ATMs where the ewallets were withdrawn

  • @WellsOfWisdom-lc1dn
    @WellsOfWisdom-lc1dn 11 дней назад

    We need to have a way to share the photos of these scammers. A portal somewhere.

  • @adelaidesesana
    @adelaidesesana 13 дней назад +2

    Amadoda will b de end of us, ladies ohh yini tog to b used like dis by men, we need to break the curse yoo

  • @leojiji-e4x
    @leojiji-e4x 13 дней назад +1

    Huuuu so many inancial problems, fortunately, my sister told me about life rules, never give man money, even if he says he's gonna pay back
    I wish this syndicate can be arrested

  • @tholakelendala7587
    @tholakelendala7587 5 дней назад

    This is very sad ngaze ngakhala Nkosi

  • @thegracekhoza
    @thegracekhoza 13 дней назад

    I am always here for the people who dress you, top notch👌🏾

  • @theSANewsnow
    @theSANewsnow 13 дней назад +1

    What I am realising about love scam is that if these guys were consistent with playing "the boyfriend" they would continue being scammed....

  • @bettymongatane338
    @bettymongatane338 9 дней назад

    Dis ppl r all over dont be hard on urself Tshootsho my aunt went through de same wen she get to police station she was told dat she is number 120 dis month. Ur life and happiness is more important dan anything else.

  • @REFILWEMODiNGOANE
    @REFILWEMODiNGOANE 10 дней назад

    Not crossing boundaries doesn't mean you're not as clever as a thief

  • @leggybojosi7779
    @leggybojosi7779 6 дней назад

    This story is overwhelming 😢😢😢

  • @asandapokolwana5021
    @asandapokolwana5021 14 дней назад +9

    You met a guy towards end of June in 2024 not even 3 Months he has dribbled you 😢

    • @GodsFavourite2024
      @GodsFavourite2024 13 дней назад +3

      😢 house, money, cars, everything is messy in 3 months😢😢😢

  • @ndilihonge7839
    @ndilihonge7839 7 дней назад

    I'm so stingy not even love scammer can get cent from my pocket.

  • @shanicewessels54
    @shanicewessels54 13 дней назад +1

    I was in the talking stages with this guy we met once talked over the phone everyday when he asked money for airtime I told him you did not even buy me sweat but you want airtime from me than I ran for the hills mind you he drives a GTI🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @NokuthulaAngelMbambo
    @NokuthulaAngelMbambo 10 дней назад

    Ngaze Ngadinwa thi story makes me have anger towards this Guys They so cruel😢😢😢😢😢

  • @mphomokoatle7279
    @mphomokoatle7279 6 дней назад

    Ohhh the boyfriend was so greedy! May karma locate him. sies

  • @daphnedube6135
    @daphnedube6135 13 дней назад +1

    Eish this is so heartbreaking

  • @tsholofelomosoane919
    @tsholofelomosoane919 11 дней назад +1

    I've never seen such a fool. This woman depressed me🤧🤦‍♀️

  • @pheladinare2876
    @pheladinare2876 10 дней назад

    @madam speaker is giving sukuma mkam ba kubone the dress👌👌👌👌🥰

  • @yolandangcuzana8010
    @yolandangcuzana8010 13 дней назад

    Oh maarn strength and love to this lady❤❤❤....

  • @mathapelobogatsu5188
    @mathapelobogatsu5188 13 дней назад

    We want part 2 pls

  • @dipuomodise9113
    @dipuomodise9113 7 дней назад

    Then I am worried abt this makua guy if the lady is safe .I hope ur safe sister n I'm so sorry 4what u went through .

  • @rudzanikharivhe6294
    @rudzanikharivhe6294 13 дней назад +1

    Hai, im glad that i only accept friend request if i know you.....i dont accept stranger

  • @prudencemsiza8586
    @prudencemsiza8586 10 дней назад

    Wow! Just wow!😮 I have no words

  • @mzyvonnehangara7637
    @mzyvonnehangara7637 10 дней назад +1

    But why woman??? Why why ??

  • @talifhaninetshisaulu5137
    @talifhaninetshisaulu5137 12 дней назад

    Is this not the guy that scammed people nga dzi tender, he's also known to be from Jane furse? I pray she gets her money back and gets emotional help as well, this so sad

  • @estherdladla3082
    @estherdladla3082 13 дней назад

    Askies my sister this is very sad and may God heal you.

  • @BhekinhlanhlaMdletshe
    @BhekinhlanhlaMdletshe 7 дней назад

    Women are so easily fooled 😢 she do all this without even meeting the guy, he might have a spell on her. I don't call this love it's an infatuation, I feel for you my girl, your tears won't for be nothing God will fight for you

  • @Skado760
    @Skado760 13 дней назад

    I wish you had not come here so soon as the case is still fresh. You unknowingly gave them information about your case. Mentioning The Hawks, the capitec accounts, their numbers etc. Now they know a case has been opened and it'll probably be difficult to hunt them down. This interview was premature and hopefully I won't deter your case or put you in danger. All the best with your case sis.

  • @8redapples
    @8redapples 7 дней назад

    I dont mean to judge. Im not the judging type. But ladies, this level of need is deep. We are everything we need in men. Whatever you like in man, you can be that to yourself and others.
    I hope she got helped psychologically. This was trauma from the loss of a partner.
    There's a quality in her husband that she loved and fulfilled her. When he died, he left with it. She didn't realise, all this time, that she CAN be THAT herself.