While biracial women with white mothers may have a unique perspective on race and identity, it’s essential to recognize the limitations of their experiences when giving advice to black women. The reality is, being raised by a white mother shields them from certain aspects of black culture and discrimination that black women face daily. So, while their intentions may be good, it’s important for these women to acknowledge their privilege and defer to the lived experiences and wisdom of black women when discussing issues related to race and identity. After all, you wouldn’t ask someone who only eats vanilla ice cream for advice on trying different flavors, would you? They simply don’t have the full picture.
@@IneedtochangemynameI'm genuinely curious,how does having a white mother shield them? And I always here this thing from Americans about black culture,what is black culture really? Is it limited to Americans or the globe as a whole because I'm "Black" "Nubian" and I'm Zulu so we have our culture as Zulu men and women but when you say just "black culture" it confuses me.
@@siphembambo6872 Having a white mother can act as a shield for biracial children in experiencing their black side in various ways. First and foremost, a white mother may provide her child with access to certain privileges or opportunities that are often denied to individuals perceived as Black. This could include better educational resources, social connections, and economic stability. Additionally, having a white mother may also protect biracial children from facing discrimination or racist attitudes that Black individuals regularly encounter in society. Due to the perception of whiteness being more socially acceptable or favorable, biracial children may feel less pressure to conform to stereotypical expectations of their black heritage. However, it is important to note that having a white mother does not completely erase the challenges or complexities of navigating one's mixed-race identity, and each individual's experience will vary greatly based on personal circumstances and environments. Black culture in America and being from Africa in America are two distinct experiences that are often lumped together. While both groups may share some similarities, such as facing discrimination and navigating a predominantly white society, there are also key differences. Black Americans have a history rooted in slavery and segregation, which has shaped their cultural identity and experiences in the United States. On the other hand, African immigrants come to America for various reasons, such as education or job opportunities, bringing with them their own unique cultures, languages, and traditions. They can sometimes face challenges related to assimilation and fitting into American society while maintaining their ties to their home country. Overall, recognizing these differences is crucial for understanding the diverse experiences within the broader black community in America and I hope all this information is helpful.
@@siphembambo6872 my comments were deleted. I will try again Edit: After trying over and over my comments were removed. Please do look into these topics you asked about. There are videos on RUclips literally explaining what you seek answers to you just won’t find it here on this channel. It will help you on your journey to understanding.
Came cause of the tik tok controversy but stayed for what was actually a great video. As a light skin woman who’s black and Dominican with THICK and most times very unmanageable 4c hair, I get where my fellow black sisters are coming from but what you all had to say doesn’t actually call for any controversy at all. We don’t need weaves to feel beautiful it’s just a cultural norms that can be dismantled. Loving the braids on yall btw!! Sending much love and God bless!!
16 yrs old 245 squat, 285 dead, 135 bench. she might want to take it seriously...those are amazing numbers. for those of you trying to police their perspective on their experience..its pretty simple. there are other platforms you can go to in order to get what you're looking for. This perspective on this channel is specific to their view. none of which is damaging but is a different "black experience"...which can be varied and non monolithic. keep in mind that they're also young and will add more as they continue to live.
Hair and makeup enhancements such as weaves, wigs, braids, and extensions play a significant role in the beauty routines of many Black women. While these styles can be stunning and transformative, it’s essential to remember that beneath all of these enhancements, Black women possess a naturally beautiful and unique appearance. The choice to wear wigs or weaves should always be a personal one, allowing each woman to express her individuality and style. Black women must prioritize the health of their natural hair and skin, regardless of the styles they choose to adopt. Many women opt for protective styles like wigs and weaves to shield their hair from damage, especially in environments that may not be conducive to maintaining its health. Additionally, changing up one’s look from time to time can be a fun and empowering experience, helping to showcase different facets of personality and identity. Numerous influential figures in the entertainment industry, such as Alicia Keys, Tracee Ellis Ross, Taraji Henson, Kenya Moore, and Beyoncé, embody the beauty of embracing both natural hair and styling enhancements. These women often wear their natural hair proudly while also enjoying the versatility that extensions can provide. It is perfectly fine for women to experiment with different looks-each style has its charm and appeal. I also encourage dialogue between women from diverse backgrounds and experiences, even those who may seem worlds apart, like "Sexy Redd." Such conversations can foster understanding and appreciation for the varied beauty standards and choices that women navigate. Ultimately, the common ground is that all women, regardless of their hair or makeup preferences, should recognize and celebrate their inherent beauty.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾THANK YOU! The number of times I have seen them reduce Black womanhood to wigs and lashes has been painful to watch. They grew up with white mothers who were actually accepted for their 'natural beauty'. They didn't grow up watching their Black mothers struggle to find styles 'suitable' for the work force or developing alopecia from having to 'tame' their hair or being bypassed by Black men who preferred white women because white women's 'natural' because standardized.😭 It's actually sad and painful to witness. I'm not even sure THEY are aware of how often they have made comments like this. Hoping with more experience and perhaps living in more pro-Black spaces (sounds like the majority of their upbringing has been in this church that is majority yt) the wool will be removed from their eyes and they'll be able to reflect more honestly on Black women❤️🩹✊🏾
@@DiamondTearDrops2010exactly!! I have androgen alopecia so when I hear people speak ill of women wearing wigs, like myself, I always think how dolt and inferior they sound for not considering ALL outcomes.
Great episode, ladies. As well, it is a pleasure to see the youth of your community bring to the forefront their perspectives on blackness, their identities as black women, and the struggles and successes identity within your community Muncie, the greater perspectives in the United States including pop culture. It is fascinating to hear a group of young ladies, although shy, express themselves with alternative narratives which oppose those of the mainstream, pop culture, and even popular thought within and without your church. These discussions are critical, and I thank you offering them. Keep up the great work, as usual, because you are all on to something special. Upward and onward to 100,000 subscribers.
I think there are so many more Black women walking in their natural beauty than you realize. In DC, Philly, NY and more places than I can list. I have three sisters, several nieces and cousins, we don’t wear lashes, we wear natural styles, our own hair (maybe a little color), and very little makeup or , more likely, none at all.
Tell em! They are Indiana and California Blacks. They don't know about the South or above the Mason Dixon. Or how a lot of the Black folks who moved West, after the antebellum time lost a lot of their roots. but many Black folks who remained in the South KEEP our heritage. GENERATIONS of us keeping our natural hair. White supremacist propaganda wins again😭
They sound sheltered it seems and there seems to be certain indoctrinations going on. The comment one of them made, "we need to show who black women really are" literally proves they don't know much. I hope they are able to be exposed to the culture to understand that some of the things being said already exist and/or incorrect. Lol.
You do realize it’s a world that exist outside of DC, Philly and NY. And most Black Women don’t embrace their natural look. Let’s be honest. Many will walk out the house w/ a bonnet on because they’re embarrassed of what ppl will think if it’s not “done”.
Guys let’s not all act like we don’t understand what these ladies are saying. The natural look is not popular today. Thats just what it is. A lot of black women feel they NEED the 26” buss down and the lashes in order to look nice or be desirable. To the point where a lot of young girl don’t feel pretty if they don’t have these things. While it would have been nice to see a darker skin woman in the conversation they are not saying anything wrong. If we as a black woman all showed up authentically as ourselves. The other side would not have a choice but to see the beauty in it. Also they are using the word “they” rather than “we” because they do not subscribe to the “beauty” standard in which they are referring. 👑 👑
Hello Girls, my greatest amazement is that we 'black' folk even here in Africa have believed that we are only as good as they say we are. We need to validate ourself before considering anyone else's opinion. We must believe in ourselves first. BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL!!!❤️❤️❤️
22:13 ahhhh yall are speaking in absolutes. Black women feel confident, but like every socially constructed racial groups there are people who lack confidence. 23:18 Not sure where you are getting this assumption but from cradle to my big age, the black women in my life have supported me, and contributed to my well-being.
they doin what the master taught them to do, unfortunately. and they seem to hang on EVERY WORD of the 'Brother Stephon' guy😭😭 Dangerous. They could have QUICKLY researched Kamala and seen they were wrong. Too many sheep in this world😭
@@DiamondTearDrops2010 yeah he is definitely red pill, leaning and passport bro designing in his man his mindset. It’s clearly rubbing off on them and because they’re isolated from black women in general they tend to say things as biracial that is completely clueless and offputting.
please leave us alone.. we love ourselves in whatever we put on ourselves. it's your assumption that is a backhanded compliment. you say, "embrace yourself" while we are already embracing. We just want to walk the world without being in people's conversations every other second. Black women never can get a break, and it's so exhausting having to constantly say what is obvious. I embrace myself in all ways and forms. I wear protective styles for my 4c hair because that's how it grows. I wear my 4c hair in its natural state, no gel no slickback no ponytail. straight up it's state. How would you feel if i commented on how you wear your hair gelled and slicked back and I claim you aren't embracing your natural self. thought so..
You would be wrong because they aren’t emulated Eurasian hair aesthetics and styling their own natural Hair . They aren’t covering it Eurasian weaves . Using hair oils to style your natural hair isn’t non natural and that’s a silly assertion. They are right majority of black women embrace Eurasian weaves and Eurasian beauty aesthetics . Your personal anecdotal experience doesn’t dispute the general phenomenon
@@fabbeyonddadancer There isn't anything wrong with braids, wigs or whatever someone does to their own hair. You guys constantly judge judge judge meanwhile we just want to be left alone. it's you making a problem not us, why are you so worried about what others do with their hair? Ask yourself this, why are you judging us? Why are you so bothered, I do not understand. I'm 19 and everytime i get on my cellphone, black women are a conversation. I'm so exhausted because whatever you guys put out on the internet , reactants it's self in real life. It lingers and people might watch this and look at people funny because they have a wig or wear braids. It's creating hostility and hate. Put yourself in our shoes. Live without judgment.
@@22WithNiko this ! People rather judge and broadcast their negative viewpoints on black women aesthetics because it’s easier to do than it is to understand the historical context behind the things that they choose to critique. If the young ladies truly understood the impact of colorism, texture, ism, and racism they would’ve thought twice before broadcasting such an irresponsible and ignorant message.
Very wholesome episode ! I must say ive witnessed more uplifting amongst black woman than jealousy, but thats just my experience! Keep up the great content!
That’s super great that you have that experience! We strive to create that positive energy that black women have the power to radiate everywhere we go. ✌🏽❤️🪮 Thanks for listening!
this is important because there is a level of them looking at Black culture, from the outside due to religion and their own mixed race heritage. i think that's why their take on kamala (i didn't vote so don't take this as endorsement) kinda stung... because if they use their definition of her on themselves, they would also not be 'Black''. some of the rhetoric does feel like it comes from misogynoir. and that isn't their fault. it has ALWAYS been popular to critique how Black women show up in society because it benefits yt supremacy to find something wrong with Black women. It also keeps white women uplifted... Maybe that is why both Banyon brothers preferred white women🤷🏾♂️ hopefully, as they age and experience more and live among more Black folks, they will reflect less on the media portrayal, and be able to speak to the Black women they actually KNOW💪🏾
@@burkhousehold8880 these people are Jews not Black women. Instead of giving advice to black women they should be giving advice to their own people and how they're acting in the world.
"Sophia does the intro". "This Is my cousin Payton and our on again off again host". Camile, "I'm not a host", "Payton (low key) LOL". I for real found that funny 😭🤣😂
My name is Aubrey. I am a black biracial girl. And I would like to thank each and every one of you for talking and sharing an experience of black that I can highly relate to. 🎉 please continue. Very proud!!
👑🖤 I am so glad I found this video. I am inspired by you guys. I decided a few days ago that I am only going to use my natural hair, which I believe came from a God-giving conviction. I agree with what one of you said, that many women do not appreciate their natural looks, and that´s like saying to God that His work is not good enough, but I do not want to be like that anymore.
❤️❤️❤️ We are truly humbled that you were able to be blessed. So excited for your natural hair journey. It is tough and time intensive coming from Payton. I have multiple hair textures from 4A to the nappy 4C and it’s a lot but I think it’s worth it. ✊🏽👑
Great content ladies! You all are amazing! Sophia, you made a great comment made a great comment when she said "black women are so powerful" 19:46. It's true! I'll take it a step further by adding "the black nation is powerful". Keep being you and thank you for sharing these topics.
I watched the video and read the comments. These young women should be praised more than anything for having the courage to put this out. But they are attacked because a lot of BW can't get out of their feelings. The 15 and 17 year olds are only saying what BM have been saying for years. But some are gonna do what they want to do. So, in the end, it's useless. But props to Uncle Steph for showing and teaching them about their black history and culture. 💯🙏🏾
I've never worn a wig in my life, but I would wear one maybe. The general perception is that Black men hate black women so people generally shouldn't listen to people that hate them. There isn't a perception that those comments are made out of love, genuine concern or any good intentions, but hatred to hurt black women.
Hey everyone! 😊 I normally don’t comment, but I felt compelled to share my thoughts on this topic because, honestly, it feels like we’re hearing the same perspectives over and over again, and it’s becoming a bit boring. I don’t mean to sound rude or dismissive of anyone’s feelings, but as a Black woman, I believe it’s important to acknowledge that every Black person has a unique experience. Let me introduce myself-I’m a dark-skinned girl from both Portuguese and Angolan heritage. Growing up, the Angolan culture didn’t expose me much to makeup or hairstyles like wigs and weaves; in fact, having these styling techniques is often considered a luxury due to the cost involved. This was similar in Portugal, where I didn’t have many Black hairstylists available. The only hairstylist I had was a lovely white lady named Margarida, who was a neighbour and a friend’s mom. When I moved to the UK and now live in Scotland, my hair journey took on a whole new dimension. My parents have always showered me with compliments since I was a baby, and I’ve been blessed with full lips and big, beautiful afro hair. I even decided to cut my hair to a medium length! My dad has fantastic taste when it comes to hairstyles and has always provided honest advice, and my mum’s support has been invaluable too. They taught me to love myself as I am, and I’m proud to say that my partner loves me just the way I am, too. I made it clear from the beginning that I’m not someone who feels pressure to fit a particular mold; I embrace my natural beauty. I wear my hair in various styles-sometimes I let it out in all its coily glory, sometimes I rock braids, and other times I go for a blowout. Society often labels certain hair textures as having privilege, but I truly believe that it’s not about the texture you have; it’s about how you carry yourself with confidence and pride, no matter what. As a Christian, I believe in exercising my free will, and I choose to enhance my beauty in the ways that make me feel most awake and confident. I don’t wear makeup often because I prefer to keep things simple. Honestly, applying makeup can feel too time-consuming for me, and I love resting my hands without worrying about stains! I know this might sound harsh, but if you feel you can’t step outside without your wig or makeup, it might be worth reflecting on that. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to enhance your beauty, as long as you’re comfortable in your skin. I’ve experienced my fair share of challenges, but I decided long ago that I’m not here to please anyone but myself. Working in an environment where I’m one of the few Black people, I wear my hair in the way that makes me feel good, not to fit into a mold. People appreciate my confidence and attitude, and that’s how my family raised me. That brings me to what I really want to say: When discussing topics like this, it’s crucial to include the voices of Black and African women. It feels repetitive to hear the same recycled comments from non-Black and biracial women, and let me tell you-I know some people may take longer to heal and deal with their past, which is perfectly okay. Let’s embrace the new year with open minds; it’s time to leave outdated comments in the past. I have biracial nieces, and we’re teaching them to be proud of their unique backgrounds. It’s wonderful to see representation, but it’s equally important for biracial individuals to share their experiences honestly. To all the Black girls out there: Do whatever you want with your hair! It’s your hair and your business. You’d be surprised by how many people-from all backgrounds-love seeing you embrace your natural beauty, whether that’s with straight hair, natural curls, or colored styles. Let’s stop making assumptions about each other and resist the urge to comment on videos that perpetuate stereotypes about Black women. I’m not here to bring negativity; I just want us to see the beauty in our diverse experiences. Thank you for reading! 💖
5:24 She didn't all of a sudden claim to be black. I think its important to look at intentionality. Harris chose to go to a HBCU in the 80s. She chose a historically founded black sorority before a lot of us were born. She chose the university because of her admiration of a black trailblazer named Thurgood Marshall. All of this while not being in the political eye. I will continue watching this video. 🤗 Just wanted to point that out.
These girls are highly influenced by their parents and their dads in their lives are clearly red pill Republican, leaning and conservative. They haven’t done the necessary research themselves and it shows.
@@paytonbenion yes because opinion is based upon something that is already a fact, so technically, opinions are dumb... Black is a color. Not a symbol of power. That's a fact, however, you perceive it that way. That's dumb... I've not stated an opinion...
Hello ladies! I tried not to comment, but I said to myself I've to. I really appreciate all of your advice, I'm not a fan of eyelashes and lots of makeup. But I've got to let you know that you're not real black girls. You're mixed. Have you ever tried to do a real kinky coily back hair, I have. Yes, a real black girl can spend hours in their natural hair to last her only one day. And the next day, she has to start from scratch. That's the reason some days a wig can be a savior to make it to work on time. Thanks so much, and much love to you all!
Hello 🤍 I hope you take this criticism well, I feel like it’s time to leave black women alone. Let black women do whatever they want without having to be criticised, like you’re doing on this episode. LEAVE THEM ALONE & LET THEM DO WHATEVER THEY WANT. 🫶🏽
This. Racially unambiguous black women are in a category of their own and I think it’s irresponsible as bi-racial women to broadcast a messages like this because black women are not a monolith and already get a lot of criticism. they probably admire makeup and extravagant hairstyles but can’t say they do because of the religious standards they have to adhere to.
@@micagalz4793Guess what, women wear DIFFERENT shoe sizes. The shoe that fits me won’t fit another black woman. I’m most definitely NOT going to tell her she needs to change her feet in order to fit my shoes.
There actually are bw on social media who wear their natural beauty, however people choose who they want to follow, so they may not get the most views. Sex sells. Are u guys allowed to wear your hair in afros? Id love to see u guys with afros on a show! It would be interesting to know what your church changed to accomodate u guys and your thoughts on why there are so few blacks that attend. Ive never heard of it until u guys honestly! ❤❤
Another great episode. Natural hair topic is controversial as you all can see in the comments. But I loved what you all had to say. I started embracing my curly hair after high school. I started straightening it in the 9th grade. After learning perms contain chemicals that cause fibroids, I decided it wasn't worth my health. We don't dictate the images the media puts out, but we can have power over how we allow it to influence us, by educating ourselves on ourselves, our history and social constructs.
lost respect now that i realize yall delete comments. there were so many comments earlier debunking many of your statements... but now they are disappearing. it's starting to give Fox News if yall can't listen to critique, that isn't disrespectful, but it direct. some one said the 15 yro 'be listening'. then i saw a comment where sumone said but she don't do research. y yall delete it?
I’m the girl in the middle of the three girls and I keep the closest tabs on the comments. That particular comments is alive and well. It is 100% still there.
thank you for your response. i apologize. but it there are a few comments on the video that when one clicks to see the response, it is no longer there. perhaps it is a YT issue.
i truly apologize for assuming. i saw another person say their comment was deleted and it alarmed me. this is yalls platform, so you have free will. i followed because i find the discussions to be typically enriching. and i have been following a number of comments since this video came out, because of the tones around BW. these things need to be discussed. so thanks to all of you for putting yourselves out there
@@collectivedecolonizing9051 You’re good this is all a part of it. We are learning as we grow and by no means doing it perfectly. So if people are mad they have every right to be. I’m sure we say a bunch of stuff we could say better. But it’s about the journey and if people are taking that’s always better than staying in our own separate corners.
I found this conversation very interesting. There ways to many ways to divided the "blk experience" There are so many variables and variations to the "blk experience"
One can not have an 'experience' based on proximity. Kamala is not a Black American, and thus, attending a Historically Black University (for the financial benefits), does not qualify her as having a black experience.
@whosthatbritbrat I strongly disagree with this statement. Attending an HBCU is a Black Experience The culture is first & foremost. It's an experience that can't be gained going to a majority white institution.
@whosthatbritbratIf if no one knew Kamala had an Indian mom , ppl would think she’s a light skin American black woman . Tbh she doesn’t even look blindian, most of them look more like Tatyana Ali (another mixed black/indian woman , where no one questions her black identity) . Kamala for sure has the black experience.
Thank you for saying this. I am a member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated, and KAMALA IS AND ALWAYS WILL BE BLACK. Stop the "she never claimed to be Black" narrative. It's so divisive.
Greek sororities are considered a black experience? Although the greeks did study in ancient egypt they went through great lengths to whitewash our history.
it's proper grammar when speaking about a group you AREN'T apart of. Typically, Black women who truly IDENTIFY as Black women use the term 'WE' when describing what Black women do, culturally🤷🏾♂️
@@DiamondTearDrops2010 exactly my point. It came across as a way to ‘other’ themselves away from the very same group that they are ‘advising’ which in this case are black women.
but she don't be researching😭 it actually saddens me that Black folks (especially mixed race Black folks) would exclude Kamala Harris from Blackness and fall for white supremacist propaganda. She was raised attending Civil Rights protests with her father and mother in the 60's. She went to Black churches. Was raised with Black friends. Wore Black hairstyles as a child. Her Indian mother left California due to RACISM. And took her mixed race BLACK child to Canada, where she continued to connect with Black folks. Then when Kamala came BACK to AmeriKKKa, she pledged a Black sorority... What more could she do to be 'Black'? Did you all conduct your own research on her..? Or just listen to 'Brother Stephon'? If so, yall were, I'm sorry to say, duped😭😭😭 Blackness is NOT just African AmeriKKKans. Africans who were stolen and taken to Jamaica are BLACK. Africans who were stolen and taken to Brazil are BLACK. Africans who were stolen and taken to Cuba are BLACK. All of them had Civil Rights movements! Based on yall definitions of being 'raised in the culture', would Camille, Payton, or Sophia be considered Black..? Yall (admittedly) JUST (last 10 years or less, even) started embracing your Blackness as mixed race Black people with white mothers. Prior to that, yall were subscribing to and admiring whiteness (even attending white churches)- like your mothers and forefathers on your maternal sides and the white people around you in your church. How is Kamala any different? She aligned with her mother's Indian heritage AND made true efforts to align herself with her Black heritage. Are yall aware of how much PRO BLACK influence Black Jamaicans have given the world? Bob Marley used to do FREE shows in Africa because he knew that was HOME. Come on... Don't let Amerikkkan politics lead you to exclude Black folks with Black heritage outside of AmeriKKKa, when they had darn near the same experiences and struggles. Yall are centering the West and that is dangerous.
Peace and blessings 🙏 Yes it's good to see our people coming together and talking about the TRUTH. All Praises Be To The Most High YAHAWAH 🙏 APBTTMH AHBA NAWA YAHAWAH BAHA SHAM HA' MASHAYACH YAHAWASHI BARAK AHTHAM 💯💯 THAWADAH 🔥💯
Most women aren't jealous...they have been made to feel insecure... I watch you girls and I am older than you. Natural is important but don't forget the influential part of it...they teach you slowly what you're and parents try to use the hot comb so your hair is straight because in their time that is what was deemed beautiful. Now different generations later...same thing is happening...this time it isn't your parents...the world at large is telling you so. New era etc. You ladies are beautiful and have hair that other women want. So please speak about it but address the fact your kind of hair is what all these black women want. I appreciate your content nevertheless.
big respect for these parents who raised these magnificent souls. It's different to see a channel with young black women with values. keep up the good work girls
I applaud you young ladies for sharing your perspectives and uplifting Black people while you do. I encourage you to explore more media that centers positive Black people. Sexy Red is one rapper and is not the representative of Black women. There are many artists that are popular that are creative, confident, and classy. Artists like Queen Latifah, HER, Jill Scott, Coco Jones and Jazmine Sullivan, just to name a few. You can change your social media algorithm to reflect more positively by seeking out those types of artists. I also hope that you look beyond your church to learn about Black women writers like Nikki Giovanni, Octavia Butler, Toni Morrison, bell Hooks, Amanda Seales, Ava Duvernay, Brittany Cooper and so many more. Black culture is diverse and expansive and we contain multitudes. Black women are some of the most creative women on the planet and we often express that through our hair. Wearing extensions, weave, wigs, etc. doesn't mean we don't like our hair. These are tools that allow us to try new styles without damaging our natural hair. I want to clarify the statement about Kamala not claiming her Blackness. That is not true. She attended Howard University which is a prestigious Historical Black University and is also a member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority which is one of the oldest Black sororities in the US. She has always claimed to be Black. Be careful where you source your news. Fact checking is crucial these days.
Actually she has not.. there are several speeches online of her stating how she's the first Indian woman vice president over and over not until she was appointed as a candidate did she mention blackness and that's factual u can look it up urself
Attending HBCUs or pledging AKA aren't exclusive to Black people. So that makes it a low bar for "Blackness". If Kamala has "always claimed to be Black" , can you link us one video of her doing it before her 2020 presidential run? Should be easy, right?
Another point. Speaking of Influencers. The Lord LEADS A Man or Woman. Besides The Peaceful Shores. The Devil DRIVES A Man or Woman. Out Of Their Mind.
Hello, ladies. In the grand scheme of things, now that the election is over, some might argue that it’s not worth commenting on the matter. However, truth matters, and you’ve shared some concerning misinformation on your platform that needs to be addressed. I recognize that you are all young women, and regardless of our age, we always have the opportunity to grow and learn. With this in mind, I’d like to share some facts regarding Kamala Harris’s identity. Publicly, Kamala Harris has consistently identified as a mixed woman of Indian, Caribbean-American, and Black ancestry, race, and nationality. I know people who attended the historically Black Howard University with her and were members of the same sorority as her, Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc., a historic Black sorority. These affiliations are not indicative of someone who is ashamed of or attempting to hide their Blackness or, even worse, trade on their Blackness only when it suits them. It represents an individual who stands proudly on the shoulders of the Black ancestors who came before them, whose sacrifices and perseverance paved the way for the opportunity for a Black woman, like yourselves, to gain a high-quality education, become a lawyer, serve as Attorney General, U.S. Senator, Vice President, and, hopefully, one day within our lifetimes, a President of the United States. Unfortunately, this election has shown that truth is not always valued. However, I hope that as you grow into strong, independent women, you will go beyond what you’re told and learn to seek and cherish the truth in the world. I wish you all well.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾they don't realize they played right into what MAGA wanted- to disparage and discredit a Black woman. They did it the entire video by fixating on hair and lashes... and not systemic racism😭
She said out her own mouth once she was vice president that's shes Indian it's all over the web. Not until she was appointed for president did she claim blackness. AFTER NOT BEFORE. Her own speeches ladies her own mouth
false😂🥲 yall really fell for the okey doke. sick and sad😩 both of yall trippin out. the fact yall dont do research is in even crazier. she attended civil rights protests with her Black and Indian mother. Went to Black churches, etc. Wore plaits, went to an HBCU. She is 'Blacker' in culture than these hoteps 🤷🏾♂️
I know the election is over, but the idea that you can pick and choose someone’s race based on others' perspectives feels odd to me. I appreciated what the young woman with the nickname said initially about being Black being an experience-because it is. No matter what the current Vice President has said or done, she doesn’t claim to be one race over the other; she acknowledges being both. Keep that in mind when it comes to discussions about her racial identity. The notion that she only claims her Indian heritage is, in my opinion, absurd. You can’t simply claim one side or the other. You might emphasize one part of your identity more than another, particularly if people primarily see you as one thing, like being Black. If you’re proud of the parent or culture that raised you, you’re likely to talk about that more to ensure people don’t forget that part of who you are. I relate to this personally. Many just see me as a Black woman in America, but I also come from diverse cultural backgrounds, and I represent those cultures proudly. Even though I was born in the U.S., I talk about my heritage to honor the cultures that shaped me. This idea that a person has to be just one race or another, and that it offends some if they emphasize one aspect more, is frustrating. For all the years I’ve known about Kamala Harris, I’ve always seen her as Black. I’m older than most of those discussing her, and I’ve been aware of her long before she became Vice President. That’s just my two cents.
Yes yes yes! They have not done their own research on Kamala and it shows. The nan they keep referencing, 'Brother Stephon', also CLEARLY didn't do his, either. It's like they read Facebook or TikTok posts instead of doing actual research. They were all duped. Kamala was raised wearing PLAITS and bows and going to Civil Rights protests and BLACK churches. They been duped by anti-Black propaganda and unintentionally continue to subscribe to misogynoir... even in how they speak about Kamala.
Keep pushing regardless of the controversy! In spite of the petty pushback from the Black community, we NEED this conversation!! I'm in the process of letting my hair stay natural, and I am immediately faced with pressure to straighten it from my own family members. I understand that Black women could wear their hair in any style. However, as a Black woman, the pressure to appear in this world with STRAIGHT HAIR is very real, whether it be wig, weave or a silk press. I have been bullied by some people in the Black community in grade school to comply with hairstyle societal norms that left me with straight and damaged hair, those few people are the ones who don't know how to mind their business imo. The comments on the abundance of Naturalista Black women is cap...wig cap, no pun intended.
you keep referring to women wearing wigs , - sometimes women wear them for medical reasons- and it is not them not wanting to be themselves- people are who they are and you have to be willing to meet them where their at - flawed , insecure or proud and confident- everyone is on a trek through their journey - one of the young ladies said she didn’t want to judge but you are judging and a lot of it is based on your own perception -please be aware you are also making assumptions - people are not always covering up their beauty or insecurity- you don’t know every person who wears a wig- and just because someone doesn’t wear their hair in an afro or natural doesn’t mean they are hiding or covering themselves ~so i will chalk it up to maybe this has been your limited experience and i know that you are young as well - (i like what you are all doing just be careful because it can come across as being exactly what you claim you’re not doing - it is important that you know this when making generalizations in your statements.
right! you can tell they were raised in white communities by their assumptions about Black women. this is sad. and folks are eating it up in the comments and saying Black women should aspire to be like these young women, who are CLEARLY very distant from living in true community with Black people. this video was painful to get through. seeing the assumptions and rhetoric😭❤️🩹
the majority of wig wearers do it oout of self hate and you know it. there are women like countess vaughn who had medical complications directly stemming from wig wearing
You don't need to justify yourself to anyone if you like wearing wigs and makeup live your life if you like being modest do you. The question you need to ask yourself is how do you feel about the way you show up in the world.
Well it was actually wrong for people to be telling our mothers in early 2000’s . “You ain’t going to perm that childs hair”. So the fact that they are expressing the opposite. And yes maybe out of dislike that beauty standards are so high. Is actually pretty normal of them to feel this way. I just don’t understand why it has to be all or nothing. But they young. Maybe they will like to wear a little make up at some point. I just want to say I like these girls. And I think they can find more trendy topics that aline with their beliefs that aren’t so devisive. Cause people love spastic sisters who are comfortable in knowing and getting to know themselves. This is beautiful
I love the fact that your role models for theses girls - I see they seem a little shy in expressing themselves but with a good heads on their shoulders -keep them in the right path - and let them know as I'll let use know Black women are Soo beautiful ❤️❤️❤️ and I love watching Sofia who's assertive - Payton who explains things - and Camille the comedy relief (Sofia+Payton+Camille) three beautiful women use have my Heart ❤️ - 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤
That was honestly pretty good! That is pretty much our camera dynamic that you just spelled out! So glad you enjoyed! These girls are beautiful inside and out and we are proud to call them friends! ✌🏽❤️🪮
Beautiful & well-spoken women. Just 2 things. There are a difference between THE Father's laws and man-made laws and only ONE of them is what matters for salvation. #2 Y'all ACTUAL heritage are within the pages of the Bible. Hint: the Books of Moses takes place PRIMARILY in Africa. White people ( not counting leprosy people 😒) don't begin to show up until AFTER Nebuchadnezzar's time
this is soooooo beautiful to see. I have no sisters and always wanted one so you guys have fulfilled my dream. Smart intelligent and beautiful. all of your words resonate through your discussion on this important topic. God bless all of you for bringing realness black!!!!👑👑👑👑👑
I would have liked to hear why the almost-18 year old was interested in coming to Israel. You were obviously taken by surprise, but your reaction seemed to silence her! Is it a theological desire of hers to visit the Holy Land? A curiosity to see what the schools, the army, the hospitals look like in terms of color "integration"? To provide English enrichment to preschoolers? To visit communities where everybody dresses modestly?
While biracial women with white mothers may have a unique perspective on race and identity, it’s essential to recognize the limitations of their experiences when giving advice to black women. The reality is, being raised by a white mother shields them from certain aspects of black culture and discrimination that black women face daily. So, while their intentions may be good, it’s important for these women to acknowledge their privilege and defer to the lived experiences and wisdom of black women when discussing issues related to race and identity. After all, you wouldn’t ask someone who only eats vanilla ice cream for advice on trying different flavors, would you? They simply don’t have the full picture.
factual, this was respectfully said.
Agreed 100%
@@IneedtochangemynameI'm genuinely curious,how does having a white mother shield them? And I always here this thing from Americans about black culture,what is black culture really? Is it limited to Americans or the globe as a whole because I'm "Black" "Nubian" and I'm Zulu so we have our culture as Zulu men and women but when you say just "black culture" it confuses me.
@@siphembambo6872 Having a white mother can act as a shield for biracial children in experiencing their black side in various ways. First and foremost, a white mother may provide her child with access to certain privileges or opportunities that are often denied to individuals perceived as Black. This could include better educational resources, social connections, and economic stability. Additionally, having a white mother may also protect biracial children from facing discrimination or racist attitudes that Black individuals regularly encounter in society. Due to the perception of whiteness being more socially acceptable or favorable, biracial children may feel less pressure to conform to stereotypical expectations of their black heritage. However, it is important to note that having a white mother does not completely erase the challenges or complexities of navigating one's mixed-race identity, and each individual's experience will vary greatly based on personal circumstances and environments.
Black culture in America and being from Africa in America are two distinct experiences that are often lumped together. While both groups may share some similarities, such as facing discrimination and navigating a predominantly white society, there are also key differences. Black Americans have a history rooted in slavery and segregation, which has shaped their cultural identity and experiences in the United States. On the other hand, African immigrants come to America for various reasons, such as education or job opportunities, bringing with them their own unique cultures, languages, and traditions. They can sometimes face challenges related to assimilation and fitting into American society while maintaining their ties to their home country. Overall, recognizing these differences is crucial for understanding the diverse experiences within the broader black community in America and I hope all this information is helpful.
@@siphembambo6872 my comments were deleted. I will try again
Edit: After trying over and over my comments were removed. Please do look into these topics you asked about. There are videos on RUclips literally explaining what you seek answers to you just won’t find it here on this channel. It will help you on your journey to understanding.
Came cause of the tik tok controversy but stayed for what was actually a great video. As a light skin woman who’s black and Dominican with THICK and most times very unmanageable 4c hair, I get where my fellow black sisters are coming from but what you all had to say doesn’t actually call for any controversy at all. We don’t need weaves to feel beautiful it’s just a cultural norms that can be dismantled. Loving the braids on yall btw!! Sending much love and God bless!!
You're not even black chillax you little Latino
16 yrs old 245 squat, 285 dead, 135 bench. she might want to take it seriously...those are amazing numbers.
for those of you trying to police their perspective on their experience..its pretty simple. there are other platforms you can go to in order to get what you're looking for. This perspective on this channel is specific to their view. none of which is damaging but is a different "black experience"...which can be varied and non monolithic. keep in mind that they're also young and will add more as they continue to live.
Ladies, respectfully, she never claimed Indian first. She went to an HBCU.
Hair and makeup enhancements such as weaves, wigs, braids, and extensions play a significant role in the beauty routines of many Black women. While these styles can be stunning and transformative, it’s essential to remember that beneath all of these enhancements, Black women possess a naturally beautiful and unique appearance. The choice to wear wigs or weaves should always be a personal one, allowing each woman to express her individuality and style.
Black women must prioritize the health of their natural hair and skin, regardless of the styles they choose to adopt. Many women opt for protective styles like wigs and weaves to shield their hair from damage, especially in environments that may not be conducive to maintaining its health. Additionally, changing up one’s look from time to time can be a fun and empowering experience, helping to showcase different facets of personality and identity.
Numerous influential figures in the entertainment industry, such as Alicia Keys, Tracee Ellis Ross, Taraji Henson, Kenya Moore, and Beyoncé, embody the beauty of embracing both natural hair and styling enhancements. These women often wear their natural hair proudly while also enjoying the versatility that extensions can provide. It is perfectly fine for women to experiment with different looks-each style has its charm and appeal.
I also encourage dialogue between women from diverse backgrounds and experiences, even those who may seem worlds apart, like "Sexy Redd." Such conversations can foster understanding and appreciation for the varied beauty standards and choices that women navigate. Ultimately, the common ground is that all women, regardless of their hair or makeup preferences, should recognize and celebrate their inherent beauty.
These girls are not blk.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾THANK YOU! The number of times I have seen them reduce Black womanhood to wigs and lashes has been painful to watch. They grew up with white mothers who were actually accepted for their 'natural beauty'. They didn't grow up watching their Black mothers struggle to find styles 'suitable' for the work force or developing alopecia from having to 'tame' their hair or being bypassed by Black men who preferred white women because white women's 'natural' because standardized.😭
It's actually sad and painful to witness.
I'm not even sure THEY are aware of how often they have made comments like this.
Hoping with more experience and perhaps living in more pro-Black spaces (sounds like the majority of their upbringing has been in this church that is majority yt) the wool will be removed from their eyes and they'll be able to reflect more honestly on Black women❤️🩹✊🏾
@@DiamondTearDrops2010I’ve noticed it as well and honestly I don’t tune in like I use to because of it.
@@DiamondTearDrops2010 well, most black women only feel beautiful with a weave or wig on their head
@@DiamondTearDrops2010exactly!! I have androgen alopecia so when I hear people speak ill of women wearing wigs, like myself, I always think how dolt and inferior they sound for not considering ALL outcomes.
how can say your not judging but in the same sentence you’re judging black women for wearing what they want .
Because they are judging but don’t want the backlash
Its an opinion its not judging
Great episode, ladies. As well, it is a pleasure to see the youth of your community bring to the forefront their perspectives on blackness, their identities as black women, and the struggles and successes identity within your community Muncie, the greater perspectives in the United States including pop culture. It is fascinating to hear a group of young ladies, although shy, express themselves with alternative narratives which oppose those of the mainstream, pop culture, and even popular thought within and without your church. These discussions are critical, and I thank you offering them. Keep up the great work, as usual, because you are all on to something special. Upward and onward to 100,000 subscribers.
I think there are so many more Black women walking in their natural beauty than you realize. In DC, Philly, NY and more places than I can list. I have three sisters, several nieces and cousins, we don’t wear lashes, we wear natural styles, our own hair (maybe a little color), and very little makeup or , more likely, none at all.
Tell em! They are Indiana and California Blacks. They don't know about the South or above the Mason Dixon. Or how a lot of the Black folks who moved West, after the antebellum time lost a lot of their roots. but many Black folks who remained in the South KEEP our heritage. GENERATIONS of us keeping our natural hair.
White supremacist propaganda wins again😭
Yeah. I think they live in a bubble a bit and tend to say things they hear others saying that only perpetuate stereotypes
They sound sheltered it seems and there seems to be certain indoctrinations going on. The comment one of them made, "we need to show who black women really are" literally proves they don't know much. I hope they are able to be exposed to the culture to understand that some of the things being said already exist and/or incorrect. Lol.
You do realize it’s a world that exist outside of DC, Philly and NY. And most Black Women don’t embrace their natural look. Let’s be honest. Many will walk out the house w/ a bonnet on because they’re embarrassed of what ppl will think if it’s not “done”.
Guys let’s not all act like we don’t understand what these ladies are saying. The natural look is not popular today. Thats just what it is. A lot of black women feel they NEED the 26” buss down and the lashes in order to look nice or be desirable. To the point where a lot of young girl don’t feel pretty if they don’t have these things. While it would have been nice to see a darker skin woman in the conversation they are not saying anything wrong. If we as a black woman all showed up authentically as ourselves. The other side would not have a choice but to see the beauty in it. Also they are using the word “they” rather than “we” because they do not subscribe to the “beauty” standard in which they are referring. 👑 👑
Hello Girls, my greatest amazement is that we 'black' folk even here in Africa have believed that we are only as good as they say we are. We need to validate ourself before considering anyone else's opinion. We must believe in ourselves first. BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL!!!❤️❤️❤️
22:13 ahhhh yall are speaking in absolutes. Black women feel confident, but like every socially constructed racial groups there are people who lack confidence.
23:18 Not sure where you are getting this assumption but from cradle to my big age, the black women in my life have supported me, and contributed to my well-being.
they doin what the master taught them to do, unfortunately. and they seem to hang on EVERY WORD of the 'Brother Stephon' guy😭😭 Dangerous. They could have QUICKLY researched Kamala and seen they were wrong. Too many sheep in this world😭
@@DiamondTearDrops2010 yeah he is definitely red pill, leaning and passport bro designing in his man his mindset. It’s clearly rubbing off on them and because they’re isolated from black women in general they tend to say things as biracial that is completely clueless and offputting.
These young black women are beautiful in spirit and presence and so intelligent. As a Christian black woman in her 60s, they make me proud.
🥹🙏🏽 Thank you! We appreciate your presence on our channel! ❤️❤️❤️
Most of these girls look Biracial/Mixed. I'm Biracial myself. And I agree with you
They all look Biracial/Mixed to me. I'm Biracial Black AND White. They look Biracial toe
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And yet not one single one of them is actually black . They’re ALL mixed race .
Very very very beautiful young wholesome ladies. Much respect.
👑🖤 This has become one of my favorite shows. Love it so much.
🥹 aww, thanks for watching! ❤️❤️❤️
I love you all. The discussion is LIT. Something I will want my daughter listening to.
👑👑👑👑👑🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤loooove to see this! Moment I saw 5 beautiful black ladies, I clicked so fast. Looking forward to more of this🖤
❤️❤️❤️ thanks for watching!
Thay are not blk. Stop disrespecting their white mothers.
There's not black
please leave us alone.. we love ourselves in whatever we put on ourselves. it's your assumption that is a backhanded compliment. you say, "embrace yourself" while we are already embracing. We just want to walk the world without being in people's conversations every other second. Black women never can get a break, and it's so exhausting having to constantly say what is obvious. I embrace myself in all ways and forms. I wear protective styles for my 4c hair because that's how it grows. I wear my 4c hair in its natural state, no gel no slickback no ponytail. straight up it's state. How would you feel if i commented on how you wear your hair gelled and slicked back and I claim you aren't embracing your natural self. thought so..
Points were made. They are hypocrites.
You would be wrong because they aren’t emulated Eurasian hair aesthetics and styling their own natural
Hair . They aren’t covering it Eurasian weaves . Using hair oils to style your natural hair isn’t non natural and that’s a silly assertion. They are right majority of black women embrace Eurasian weaves and Eurasian beauty aesthetics . Your personal anecdotal experience doesn’t dispute the general phenomenon
@@fabbeyonddadancer There isn't anything wrong with braids, wigs or whatever someone does to their own hair. You guys constantly judge judge judge meanwhile we just want to be left alone. it's you making a problem not us, why are you so worried about what others do with their hair? Ask yourself this, why are you judging us? Why are you so bothered, I do not understand. I'm 19 and everytime i get on my cellphone, black women are a conversation. I'm so exhausted because whatever you guys put out on the internet , reactants it's self in real life. It lingers and people might watch this and look at people funny because they have a wig or wear braids. It's creating hostility and hate. Put yourself in our shoes. Live without judgment.
@@22WithNiko this ! People rather judge and broadcast their negative viewpoints on black women aesthetics because it’s easier to do than it is to understand the historical context behind the things that they choose to critique. If the young ladies truly understood the impact of colorism, texture, ism, and racism they would’ve thought twice before broadcasting such an irresponsible and ignorant message.
@@22WithNiko did she cuss people with braid NO
Very wholesome episode ! I must say ive witnessed more uplifting amongst black woman than jealousy, but thats just my experience! Keep up the great content!
That’s super great that you have that experience! We strive to create that positive energy that black women have the power to radiate everywhere we go. ✌🏽❤️🪮 Thanks for listening!
They're not black so they wouldn't know
this is important because there is a level of them looking at Black culture, from the outside due to religion and their own mixed race heritage. i think that's why their take on kamala (i didn't vote so don't take this as endorsement) kinda stung... because if they use their definition of her on themselves, they would also not be 'Black''.
some of the rhetoric does feel like it comes from misogynoir. and that isn't their fault. it has ALWAYS been popular to critique how Black women show up in society because it benefits yt supremacy to find something wrong with Black women. It also keeps white women uplifted... Maybe that is why both Banyon brothers preferred white women🤷🏾♂️
hopefully, as they age and experience more and live among more Black folks, they will reflect less on the media portrayal, and be able to speak to the Black women they actually KNOW💪🏾
@@aquarius-woman5364huh?
@@burkhousehold8880 these people are Jews not Black women. Instead of giving advice to black women they should be giving advice to their own people and how they're acting in the world.
"Sophia does the intro". "This Is my cousin Payton and our on again off again host". Camile, "I'm not a host", "Payton (low key) LOL". I for real found that funny 😭🤣😂
Camile is not a host like Super Hot is not a Rapper 🙀🥴🙎🏽♀️😱🫣
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My name is Aubrey. I am a black biracial girl. And I would like to thank each and every one of you for talking and sharing an experience of black that I can highly relate to. 🎉 please continue. Very proud!!
👑🖤 I am so glad I found this video. I am inspired by you guys. I decided a few days ago that I am only going to use my natural hair, which I believe came from a God-giving conviction. I agree with what one of you said, that many women do not appreciate their natural looks, and that´s like saying to God that His work is not good enough, but I do not want to be like that anymore.
❤️❤️❤️ We are truly humbled that you were able to be blessed. So excited for your natural hair journey. It is tough and time intensive coming from Payton. I have multiple hair textures from 4A to the nappy 4C and it’s a lot but I think it’s worth it. ✊🏽👑
Great content ladies! You all are amazing! Sophia, you made a great comment made a great comment when she said "black women are so powerful" 19:46. It's true! I'll take it a step further by adding "the black nation is powerful". Keep being you and thank you for sharing these topics.
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Proud of you all!! Look good, said powerful things…. Can’t wait to see more!
❤️❤️❤️ Love you Gai
I watched the video and read the comments. These young women should be praised more than anything for having the courage to put this out. But they are attacked because a lot of BW can't get out of their feelings. The 15 and 17 year olds are only saying what BM have been saying for years. But some are gonna do what they want to do. So, in the end, it's useless. But props to Uncle Steph for showing and teaching them about their black history and culture. 💯🙏🏾
I've never worn a wig in my life, but I would wear one maybe. The general perception is that Black men hate black women so people generally shouldn't listen to people that hate them. There isn't a perception that those comments are made out of love, genuine concern or any good intentions, but hatred to hurt black women.
Y'all are so beautiful and i love everyone's hair.
Thank you! ☺️
Hey everyone! 😊 I normally don’t comment, but I felt compelled to share my thoughts on this topic because, honestly, it feels like we’re hearing the same perspectives over and over again, and it’s becoming a bit boring. I don’t mean to sound rude or dismissive of anyone’s feelings, but as a Black woman, I believe it’s important to acknowledge that every Black person has a unique experience.
Let me introduce myself-I’m a dark-skinned girl from both Portuguese and Angolan heritage. Growing up, the Angolan culture didn’t expose me much to makeup or hairstyles like wigs and weaves; in fact, having these styling techniques is often considered a luxury due to the cost involved. This was similar in Portugal, where I didn’t have many Black hairstylists available. The only hairstylist I had was a lovely white lady named Margarida, who was a neighbour and a friend’s mom.
When I moved to the UK and now live in Scotland, my hair journey took on a whole new dimension. My parents have always showered me with compliments since I was a baby, and I’ve been blessed with full lips and big, beautiful afro hair. I even decided to cut my hair to a medium length! My dad has fantastic taste when it comes to hairstyles and has always provided honest advice, and my mum’s support has been invaluable too. They taught me to love myself as I am, and I’m proud to say that my partner loves me just the way I am, too. I made it clear from the beginning that I’m not someone who feels pressure to fit a particular mold; I embrace my natural beauty.
I wear my hair in various styles-sometimes I let it out in all its coily glory, sometimes I rock braids, and other times I go for a blowout. Society often labels certain hair textures as having privilege, but I truly believe that it’s not about the texture you have; it’s about how you carry yourself with confidence and pride, no matter what.
As a Christian, I believe in exercising my free will, and I choose to enhance my beauty in the ways that make me feel most awake and confident. I don’t wear makeup often because I prefer to keep things simple. Honestly, applying makeup can feel too time-consuming for me, and I love resting my hands without worrying about stains!
I know this might sound harsh, but if you feel you can’t step outside without your wig or makeup, it might be worth reflecting on that. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to enhance your beauty, as long as you’re comfortable in your skin. I’ve experienced my fair share of challenges, but I decided long ago that I’m not here to please anyone but myself.
Working in an environment where I’m one of the few Black people, I wear my hair in the way that makes me feel good, not to fit into a mold. People appreciate my confidence and attitude, and that’s how my family raised me.
That brings me to what I really want to say: When discussing topics like this, it’s crucial to include the voices of Black and African women. It feels repetitive to hear the same recycled comments from non-Black and biracial women, and let me tell you-I know some people may take longer to heal and deal with their past, which is perfectly okay.
Let’s embrace the new year with open minds; it’s time to leave outdated comments in the past. I have biracial nieces, and we’re teaching them to be proud of their unique backgrounds. It’s wonderful to see representation, but it’s equally important for biracial individuals to share their experiences honestly.
To all the Black girls out there: Do whatever you want with your hair! It’s your hair and your business. You’d be surprised by how many people-from all backgrounds-love seeing you embrace your natural beauty, whether that’s with straight hair, natural curls, or colored styles.
Let’s stop making assumptions about each other and resist the urge to comment on videos that perpetuate stereotypes about Black women. I’m not here to bring negativity; I just want us to see the beauty in our diverse experiences. Thank you for reading! 💖
Beautiful, Beautiful, very intelligent young ladies, please stay as you are.
With Gods help we will! ✌🏽❤️🪮 Thanks for watching!
Everyone uplifts one another and speaks life into one another. That's what it's all about. Setting a powerful standard for the next generation 👑👑👑👑👑
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5:24 She didn't all of a sudden claim to be black.
I think its important to look at intentionality. Harris chose to go to a HBCU in the 80s. She chose a historically founded black sorority before a lot of us were born. She chose the university because of her admiration of a black trailblazer named Thurgood Marshall.
All of this while not being in the political eye.
I will continue watching this video. 🤗 Just wanted to point that out.
These girls are highly influenced by their parents and their dads in their lives are clearly red pill Republican, leaning and conservative. They haven’t done the necessary research themselves and it shows.
Yeah, the hate Harris gets based on lies like this is wild.
Can you link us to an interview or article of Kamala Harris self-identifying as Black prior to her 2020 presidential run?
yes she did. she only mentions blackness when it's time for an election
@@jondoe406 read her book! Talk to her friends and family.
Ok girls ✊🏽 I’m so glad we went with the black outfits for a power look 🔥😘
Power? Lol... Perception is really something isn't it lol
@@jonathanjones2640 lol it really is 😂😂😂 opinion is also really something huh
@@paytonbenion yes because opinion is based upon something that is already a fact, so technically, opinions are dumb... Black is a color. Not a symbol of power. That's a fact, however, you perceive it that way. That's dumb... I've not stated an opinion...
Hello ladies!
I tried not to comment, but I said to myself I've to.
I really appreciate all of your advice, I'm not a fan of eyelashes and lots of makeup.
But I've got to let you know that you're not real black girls. You're mixed.
Have you ever tried to do a real kinky coily back hair, I have.
Yes, a real black girl can spend hours in their natural hair to last her only one day.
And the next day, she has to start from scratch.
That's the reason some days a wig can be a savior to make it to work on time.
Thanks so much, and much love to you all!
I came to like this video. This is the kind of message we want.
I feel unhappiness radiating from them deep down
Very weird. I sense very unhappiness
@ yup
Thanks!
You young ladies are so beautiful inside and out!
Here yall go!! 👑 🖤👑🖤👑🖤👑🖤👑🖤 Loved watching and so proud of yall! 💝 And yes please do more, waiting on Gaibrielle and Moriah next!❤
Yay! Thank you! Love you Rhoda ❤️❤️❤️
Hello 🤍
I hope you take this criticism well, I feel like it’s time to leave black women alone. Let black women do whatever they want without having to be criticised, like you’re doing on this episode. LEAVE THEM ALONE & LET THEM DO WHATEVER THEY WANT. 🫶🏽
This. Racially unambiguous black women are in a category of their own and I think it’s irresponsible as bi-racial women to broadcast a messages like this because black women are not a monolith and already get a lot of criticism. they probably admire makeup and extravagant hairstyles but can’t say they do because of the religious standards they have to adhere to.
If the shoe fits
@@micagalz4793Guess what, women wear DIFFERENT shoe sizes. The shoe that fits me won’t fit another black woman. I’m most definitely NOT going to tell her she needs to change her feet in order to fit my shoes.
There actually are bw on social media who wear their natural beauty, however people choose who they want to follow, so they may not get the most views. Sex sells. Are u guys allowed to wear your hair in afros? Id love to see u guys with afros on a show! It would be interesting to know what your church changed to accomodate u guys and your thoughts on why there are so few blacks that attend. Ive never heard of it until u guys honestly! ❤❤
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Love you girls sooo much! You are an inspiration to all young women!
And young men. morals and standards still matter!!
Another great episode. Natural hair topic is controversial as you all can see in the comments. But I loved what you all had to say. I started embracing my curly hair after high school. I started straightening it in the 9th grade. After learning perms contain chemicals that cause fibroids, I decided it wasn't worth my health. We don't dictate the images the media puts out, but we can have power over how we allow it to influence us, by educating ourselves on ourselves, our history and social constructs.
lost respect now that i realize yall delete comments. there were so many comments earlier debunking many of your statements... but now they are disappearing.
it's starting to give Fox News if yall can't listen to critique, that isn't disrespectful, but it direct.
some one said the 15 yro 'be listening'.
then i saw a comment where sumone said but she don't do research.
y yall delete it?
I don’t delete comments off of my channel.
I’m the girl in the middle of the three girls and I keep the closest tabs on the comments. That particular comments is alive and well. It is 100% still there.
thank you for your response. i apologize. but it there are a few comments on the video that when one clicks to see the response, it is no longer there. perhaps it is a YT issue.
i truly apologize for assuming. i saw another person say their comment was deleted and it alarmed me. this is yalls platform, so you have free will.
i followed because i find the discussions to be typically enriching. and i have been following a number of comments since this video came out, because of the tones around BW.
these things need to be discussed. so thanks to all of you for putting yourselves out there
@@collectivedecolonizing9051 You’re good this is all a part of it. We are learning as we grow and by no means doing it perfectly. So if people are mad they have every right to be. I’m sure we say a bunch of stuff we could say better. But it’s about the journey and if people are taking that’s always better than staying in our own separate corners.
I found this conversation very interesting. There ways to many ways to divided the "blk experience"
There are so many variables and variations to the "blk experience"
This. The new ignorance of diversity of American Blackness is silly.
Yaaasss!! I love all of yall ❤️❤️❤️ especially my cousins😉😉 Jael and dooty!
Love you too Legra ❤️❤️❤️
Ladies Kamala Harris did have " the experience of being black" . She graduated from Howard University and joined a traditional black sorority, AKA.
One can not have an 'experience' based on proximity.
Kamala is not a Black American, and thus, attending a Historically Black University (for the financial benefits), does not qualify her as having a black experience.
@whosthatbritbrat I strongly disagree with this statement. Attending an HBCU is a Black Experience
The culture is first & foremost. It's an experience that can't be gained going to a majority white institution.
@whosthatbritbratIf if no one knew Kamala had an Indian mom , ppl would think she’s a light skin American black woman . Tbh she doesn’t even look blindian, most of them look more like Tatyana Ali (another mixed black/indian woman , where no one questions her black identity) . Kamala for sure has the black experience.
Thank you for saying this. I am a member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated, and KAMALA IS AND ALWAYS WILL BE BLACK. Stop the "she never claimed to be Black" narrative. It's so divisive.
Greek sororities are considered a black experience? Although the greeks did study in ancient egypt they went through great lengths to whitewash our history.
You all are extremely beautiful without make up I admire such beauty ❤❤
Thank you! ☺️
My biggest respect to all of you there, and your amazing episode ❤, gives love from Aragau Switzerland 🇨🇭
‘They’ and ‘they’ve’ were used multiple times in reference to black women in this video. What is the reason behind that, genuine question?
It’s proper grammar😂
it's proper grammar when speaking about a group you AREN'T apart of. Typically, Black women who truly IDENTIFY as Black women use the term 'WE' when describing what Black women do, culturally🤷🏾♂️
@@DiamondTearDrops2010 exactly my point. It came across as a way to ‘other’ themselves away from the very same group that they are ‘advising’ which in this case are black women.
The 15 y/o saying black is an experience was a bar. She be listening.
but she don't be researching😭
it actually saddens me that Black folks (especially mixed race Black folks) would exclude Kamala Harris from Blackness and fall for white supremacist propaganda. She was raised attending Civil Rights protests with her father and mother in the 60's. She went to Black churches. Was raised with Black friends. Wore Black hairstyles as a child. Her Indian mother left California due to RACISM. And took her mixed race BLACK child to Canada, where she continued to connect with Black folks. Then when Kamala came BACK to AmeriKKKa, she pledged a Black sorority... What more could she do to be 'Black'? Did you all conduct your own research on her..? Or just listen to 'Brother Stephon'? If so, yall were, I'm sorry to say, duped😭😭😭
Blackness is NOT just African AmeriKKKans. Africans who were stolen and taken to Jamaica are BLACK. Africans who were stolen and taken to Brazil are BLACK. Africans who were stolen and taken to Cuba are BLACK. All of them had Civil Rights movements!
Based on yall definitions of being 'raised in the culture', would Camille, Payton, or Sophia be considered Black..? Yall (admittedly) JUST (last 10 years or less, even) started embracing your Blackness as mixed race Black people with white mothers. Prior to that, yall were subscribing to and admiring whiteness (even attending white churches)- like your mothers and forefathers on your maternal sides and the white people around you in your church.
How is Kamala any different? She aligned with her mother's Indian heritage AND made true efforts to align herself with her Black heritage.
Are yall aware of how much PRO BLACK influence Black Jamaicans have given the world? Bob Marley used to do FREE shows in Africa because he knew that was HOME.
Come on... Don't let Amerikkkan politics lead you to exclude Black folks with Black heritage outside of AmeriKKKa, when they had darn near the same experiences and struggles. Yall are centering the West and that is dangerous.
First time visiting the channel. Young people living for God always makes my heart smile. Blessings to you all.
They and they’ve were used multiple times in reference to black women in this video. What is the reason behind that, genuine question?
"That's an aspiration,like that, love that"😂😂😂 third wheel stays clowning
Always 😂
completely wholesome every time I watch
Beautiful at its finest.
Peace and blessings 🙏 Yes it's good to see our people coming together and talking about the TRUTH. All Praises Be To The Most High YAHAWAH 🙏 APBTTMH AHBA NAWA YAHAWAH BAHA SHAM HA' MASHAYACH YAHAWASHI BARAK AHTHAM 💯💯 THAWADAH 🔥💯
Beautiful!! Beautiful!!! Young girls ❤
Can you show how you style your hair and which products? It always looks nice! :)
Jael!! I remember when you were really little ! My siblings and I went on a roadtrip with your family and Sister Roz wow you’re so PRETTY !!!
Most women aren't jealous...they have been made to feel insecure... I watch you girls and I am older than you. Natural is important but don't forget the influential part of it...they teach you slowly what you're and parents try to use the hot comb so your hair is straight because in their time that is what was deemed beautiful. Now different generations later...same thing is happening...this time it isn't your parents...the world at large is telling you so. New era etc. You ladies are beautiful and have hair that other women want. So please speak about it but address the fact your kind of hair is what all these black women want. I appreciate your content nevertheless.
big respect for these parents who raised these magnificent souls.
It's different to see a channel with young black women with values. keep up the good work girls
We have been extremely blessed to have wonderful parents and a wonderful community to raise and support us! Thank you for watching! ✌🏽❤️🪮
Loved this video just wish it was longer. I’m going to have my 15 year old daughter watch this.
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Awww 🥰 Thanks for watching! Hopefully she likes it. 🙏🏽😄
Thanks for so many hearts and crowns 🥳❤️❤️❤️
@@GottaBMePodcast You’re welcome! Thank you for such wholesome content, that is meaningful. You ladies are such a blessing.
Love from Kampala Uganda 🇺🇬 ❤️
Pure excellence. Untampered, uninfluenced (is that a real word?), unapologetic excellence. Salute to all of you!! 🙏🫡
I applaud you young ladies for sharing your perspectives and uplifting Black people while you do. I encourage you to explore more media that centers positive Black people. Sexy Red is one rapper and is not the representative of Black women. There are many artists that are popular that are creative, confident, and classy. Artists like Queen Latifah, HER, Jill Scott, Coco Jones and Jazmine Sullivan, just to name a few. You can change your social media algorithm to reflect more positively by seeking out those types of artists. I also hope that you look beyond your church to learn about Black women writers like Nikki Giovanni, Octavia Butler, Toni Morrison, bell Hooks, Amanda Seales, Ava Duvernay, Brittany Cooper and so many more. Black culture is diverse and expansive and we contain multitudes. Black women are some of the most creative women on the planet and we often express that through our hair. Wearing extensions, weave, wigs, etc. doesn't mean we don't like our hair. These are tools that allow us to try new styles without damaging our natural hair. I want to clarify the statement about Kamala not claiming her Blackness. That is not true. She attended Howard University which is a prestigious Historical Black University and is also a member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority which is one of the oldest Black sororities in the US. She has always claimed to be Black. Be careful where you source your news. Fact checking is crucial these days.
Actually she has not.. there are several speeches online of her stating how she's the first Indian woman vice president over and over not until she was appointed as a candidate did she mention blackness and that's factual u can look it up urself
Attending HBCUs or pledging AKA aren't exclusive to Black people. So that makes it a low bar for "Blackness".
If Kamala has "always claimed to be Black" , can you link us one video of her doing it before her 2020 presidential run? Should be easy, right?
I am puzzled. What sect do they belong to?
👑 I enjoyed this conversation. I found it really interesting.
❤️❤️❤️ Glad you enjoyed!
I'm ready to join your ""cult""😅if we are judging based on the fruit of the 🌲
👑🖤 This was awesome. I am taking notes as a facilitator and a lifelong learner; cheers
❤️❤️❤️ glad you enjoyed
Another point.
Speaking of Influencers.
The Lord LEADS A Man or Woman.
Besides The Peaceful Shores.
The Devil DRIVES A Man or Woman.
Out Of Their Mind.
I want to buying clothes like that for my two daughters
I REALLY LIKE THE ONE THAT IS INTO WEIGHT TRAINING, I am a fitness trainer 💪 and I am a Jamaican.
Hello, ladies.
In the grand scheme of things, now that the election is over, some might argue that it’s not worth commenting on the matter. However, truth matters, and you’ve shared some concerning misinformation on your platform that needs to be addressed. I recognize that you are all young women, and regardless of our age, we always have the opportunity to grow and learn. With this in mind, I’d like to share some facts regarding Kamala Harris’s identity.
Publicly, Kamala Harris has consistently identified as a mixed woman of Indian, Caribbean-American, and Black ancestry, race, and nationality. I know people who attended the historically Black Howard University with her and were members of the same sorority as her, Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc., a historic Black sorority. These affiliations are not indicative of someone who is ashamed of or attempting to hide their Blackness or, even worse, trade on their Blackness only when it suits them. It represents an individual who stands proudly on the shoulders of the Black ancestors who came before them, whose sacrifices and perseverance paved the way for the opportunity for a Black woman, like yourselves, to gain a high-quality education, become a lawyer, serve as Attorney General, U.S. Senator, Vice President, and, hopefully, one day within our lifetimes, a President of the United States.
Unfortunately, this election has shown that truth is not always valued. However, I hope that as you grow into strong, independent women, you will go beyond what you’re told and learn to seek and cherish the truth in the world. I wish you all well.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾they don't realize they played right into what MAGA wanted- to disparage and discredit a Black woman. They did it the entire video by fixating on hair and lashes... and not systemic racism😭
She said out her own mouth once she was vice president that's shes Indian it's all over the web. Not until she was appointed for president did she claim blackness. AFTER NOT BEFORE. Her own speeches ladies her own mouth
There's not 1 instance of Kamala identifying as Black before her 2020 presidential campaign
she had not identified as mixed. she has always said she was indian
false😂🥲 yall really fell for the okey doke.
sick and sad😩
both of yall trippin out. the fact yall dont do research is in even crazier. she attended civil rights protests with her Black and Indian mother. Went to Black churches, etc. Wore plaits, went to an HBCU. She is 'Blacker' in culture than these hoteps 🤷🏾♂️
This was an excellent discussion. 👑🖤
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You ladies are so beautiful and intelligent❤
I know the election is over, but the idea that you can pick and choose someone’s race based on others' perspectives feels odd to me. I appreciated what the young woman with the nickname said initially about being Black being an experience-because it is. No matter what the current Vice President has said or done, she doesn’t claim to be one race over the other; she acknowledges being both. Keep that in mind when it comes to discussions about her racial identity.
The notion that she only claims her Indian heritage is, in my opinion, absurd. You can’t simply claim one side or the other. You might emphasize one part of your identity more than another, particularly if people primarily see you as one thing, like being Black. If you’re proud of the parent or culture that raised you, you’re likely to talk about that more to ensure people don’t forget that part of who you are. I relate to this personally. Many just see me as a Black woman in America, but I also come from diverse cultural backgrounds, and I represent those cultures proudly. Even though I was born in the U.S., I talk about my heritage to honor the cultures that shaped me.
This idea that a person has to be just one race or another, and that it offends some if they emphasize one aspect more, is frustrating. For all the years I’ve known about Kamala Harris, I’ve always seen her as Black. I’m older than most of those discussing her, and I’ve been aware of her long before she became Vice President. That’s just my two cents.
Yes yes yes! They have not done their own research on Kamala and it shows. The nan they keep referencing, 'Brother Stephon', also CLEARLY didn't do his, either. It's like they read Facebook or TikTok posts instead of doing actual research. They were all duped.
Kamala was raised wearing PLAITS and bows and going to Civil Rights protests and BLACK churches. They been duped by anti-Black propaganda and unintentionally continue to subscribe to misogynoir... even in how they speak about Kamala.
All Beautiful Young ladies ❤ just Beautiful 😍.
Thank you! ✌🏽❤️🪮
Makes you smile from ear to ear, just at the notion of these young ladies exemplify, being young ladies, the truth of God amen bless their parents
Chè Charde is a Christian black woman on RUclips who rocks her natural hair, and its really long
Camille, I love her mood.
Keep pushing regardless of the controversy! In spite of the petty pushback from the Black community, we NEED this conversation!! I'm in the process of letting my hair stay natural, and I am immediately faced with pressure to straighten it from my own family members. I understand that Black women could wear their hair in any style. However, as a Black woman, the pressure to appear in this world with STRAIGHT HAIR is very real, whether it be wig, weave or a silk press. I have been bullied by some people in the Black community in grade school to comply with hairstyle societal norms that left me with straight and damaged hair, those few people are the ones who don't know how to mind their business imo. The comments on the abundance of Naturalista Black women is cap...wig cap, no pun intended.
👑 I loved watching your video.
Thank you for watching! ❤️❤️❤️
you keep referring to women wearing wigs , - sometimes women wear them for medical reasons- and it is not them not wanting to be themselves- people are who they are and you have to be willing to meet them where their at - flawed , insecure or proud and confident-
everyone is on a trek through their journey - one of the young ladies said she didn’t want to judge but you are judging and a lot of it is based on your own perception -please be aware you are also making assumptions - people are not always covering up their beauty or insecurity- you don’t know every person who wears a wig- and just because someone doesn’t wear their hair in an afro or natural doesn’t mean they are hiding or covering themselves ~so i will chalk it up to maybe this has been your limited experience and i know that you are young as well - (i like what you are all doing just be careful because it can come across as being exactly what you claim you’re not doing - it is important that you know this when making generalizations in your statements.
right! you can tell they were raised in white communities by their assumptions about Black women. this is sad. and folks are eating it up in the comments and saying Black women should aspire to be like these young women, who are CLEARLY very distant from living in true community with Black people. this video was painful to get through. seeing the assumptions and rhetoric😭❤️🩹
the majority of wig wearers do it oout of self hate and you know it. there are women like countess vaughn who had medical complications directly stemming from wig wearing
You don't need to justify yourself to anyone if you like wearing wigs and makeup live your life if you like being modest do you. The question you need to ask yourself is how do you feel about the way you show up in the world.
@@KeepWatchin5.56I wear wigs because of convince and not self hate. It takes me 5 minutes to do my hair to walk out the door
@@victorybeginsinthegarden the delusion is real
Right, when black women wear wigs they are saying their hair doesn’t look good enough, it has to look like white women’s hair.
wrong! wigs started in Africa as a PROTECTIVE style. Same with braids and adding various hair. yall don't knkw history.
Well it was actually wrong for people to be telling our mothers in early 2000’s . “You ain’t going to perm that childs hair”. So the fact that they are expressing the opposite. And yes maybe out of dislike that beauty standards are so high. Is actually pretty normal of them to feel this way. I just don’t understand why it has to be all or nothing. But they young. Maybe they will like to wear a little make up at some point. I just want to say I like these girls. And I think they can find more trendy topics that aline with their beliefs that aren’t so devisive. Cause people love spastic sisters who are comfortable in knowing and getting to know themselves. This is beautiful
I hate making women mad so 👑 🖤
Much appreciated ☺️ I’ll hold up our end of the bargain… ❤️❤️❤️
Hi guys what state are you in? I'm thinking of moving to a more rural place.
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❤️❤️❤️ Thanks so much! ✌🏽❤️🪮
@GottaBMePodcast no problem at all. Thanks for replying and sharing this video 🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️👑👑👍
Excellent prod cast ladies 👑🖤👑🖤
❤️❤️❤️ Thanks for watching!
Beautiful Black Ladies!!!!
Biracial...😂😂😂
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@@NicoleLampkin-p5g 😂😀😄to be serious I like their message about black women being natural
Peace love and hair grease 👑 🖤
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Black women keep doing the most
Absolutely wonderful! 🖤 👑 Women of the world adorn themselves with unnecessary things that takes away from their natural beauty.
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I love the fact that your role models for theses girls - I see they seem a little shy in expressing themselves but with a good heads on their shoulders -keep them in the right path - and let them know as I'll let use know Black women are Soo beautiful ❤️❤️❤️ and I love watching Sofia who's assertive - Payton who explains things - and Camille the comedy relief (Sofia+Payton+Camille) three beautiful women use have my Heart ❤️ - 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤
That was honestly pretty good! That is pretty much our camera dynamic that you just spelled out!
So glad you enjoyed! These girls are beautiful inside and out and we are proud to call them friends! ✌🏽❤️🪮
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Beautiful & well-spoken women. Just 2 things. There are a difference between THE Father's laws and man-made laws and only ONE of them is what matters for salvation.
#2 Y'all ACTUAL heritage are within the pages of the Bible. Hint: the Books of Moses takes place PRIMARILY in Africa. White people ( not counting leprosy people 😒) don't begin to show up until AFTER Nebuchadnezzar's time
Is your church only for black and biracial?
Definitely not. 😇
this is soooooo beautiful to see. I have no sisters and always wanted one so you guys have fulfilled my dream. Smart intelligent and beautiful. all of your words resonate through your discussion on this important topic. God bless all of you for bringing realness black!!!!👑👑👑👑👑
Is her nickname doodie?
Yup Dooty! ❤️
Cool
Beautiful Sisters Y’all Are So Beautiful Naturally Beautiful Queens ❤❤❤
I would have liked to hear why the almost-18 year old was interested in coming to Israel. You were obviously taken by surprise, but your reaction seemed to silence her! Is it a theological desire of hers to visit the Holy Land? A curiosity to see what the schools, the army, the hospitals look like in terms of color "integration"? To provide English enrichment to preschoolers? To visit communities where everybody dresses modestly?
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Keep doing His work.
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Love these girls so much. So proud
You young ladies are very beautiful black women. Your hair is beautiful!
Thank you! We try to keep the hair looking right 😄 ✌🏽❤️🪮
All BW should be like these women, we as blacks would be better off
@@ricosally6734That can only happen if black men can achieve what the white man have achieved