Why do SFJ's dislike INFP's? | INFP Personality Type | CS Joseph
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- Опубликовано: 18 окт 2024
- CS Joseph Responds to the Acolyle monthly member question why do SFJ's dislike INFP's.
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A lot of you may realize this is an old recording. This is an old recording we never uploaded! Enjoy!
I feel this stuff doesn't have an expiration date, so that's fine.
This doesn't make sense, he says it's an old recording and then says he never uploaded it...I don't care but I very well remember watching both this video and the one ab entj and infp relationship long ago
Fi absolutely means authenticity. An Fi hero needs to have things feel right when they act, they have to be right with their conscience and live with integrity. Healthy, strong Fi will generally mean having a hard time lying without very good reason (this can also contribute to gullibility when they assume other people are like this). It also means a general dislike of presenting oneself as other than they are in almost any way. Fi means being authentically human, it isn't about objectivity.
I think the infp is annoyed by SFJ seeming lack of their own identity and relentless focus on social harmony. The SFJs likely dislike the infps for their seeming reluctance to just “fit in” and assist in maintaining that harmony
This ^^^
I know an ISFJ, ISFP and ENTP who are married to ESFJs and they are all regretting getting married to them.
@@SS-bu8ezwhy?
@ro.l4133 ESFJs are really a product of their upbringing. You have to look closely at their home environment and see how they grew up with what values. It seems like after a certain age, they can no longer take in new information even if it benefits them. They are very set in their ways and resistant to change. They are also overly emotional and highly irrational. I know many ESFJs, and out of them, only two are good, mature, healthy, kind people. The rest are either extremely immature or highly toxic individuals. They come from different ethnic backgrounds and age groups.
Agree.
Lack of self esteem of SFJs is frustrating.
@clarinettel574 Self esteem? Maybe some of them. The ones I know are ruled by their ego. They have an overly inflated sense of self. Highly entitled and all about their comfort coming first. They think too highly of themselves and too low of others. Huge egos that turn them into tyrants. The rage fits are really unbearable, especially if done in a public place.
I have yet to see an ISFJ who is like this, but ESFJs are massive covert narcs in disguise. Temper issues in most of them. Watch Karan Johar or Ebraheem in Dubai Bling as examples.
I’m know three INFP’s very well. One is my colleague at work, one is a good friend of mine’s whom os MBTI certified, and me is one whom I met at Quara and became good friends with; and they are definitely NOT selfish, albeit can be idealistic. They are authentic, insightful and kind human beings.
I see your point. For some reason, FI has been tied to selfishness.
As someone with lead SI (with Fe aux), I think "selfishness" is much more properly tied to wanting certain comforts, holding on to certain social beliefs and being stubborn in changing one's mind
I think it's a mistake to separate FI from its pair of functions and label it selfishness? Authenticity to morals is how I see FI whereas authenticity to impressions/comforts is how I see SI.
@@Tal_YusufAgreed there.
I think this has to do with chases vice and virtue theory where the most selfish can converse be the least selfish depending on the circumstances and personal development
What happens when someone doesn't get along with them? Or they don't agree with someone's perspective? They judge, and cut that person out with zero empathy or compromise
2:30
This is bullcrap
Im a Fi user - ENTJ - and I gonna tell you: every "non-Fi" seems like a drone to us; like some sort of a ant with Fe "hivemind". Especially if afilliative over pragmatic
"Ti" is like a tools you're using, but you're not a tool - this is something a drone would identify with
Gosh Fe can be so annoying in the first slot. Second slot Fe in ISFJs and INFJs is much better.
So "Fi" isn't a tool? With your premises I as well can say, that Fi users are also enslaved with their perspective by tool they're using.
Both Ti and Fi might be use as a way of expressing oneself.
And I'll add, that you still can't say how much of this "tool" is linked to one identity - so it might be a tool, but not necessary so external in relation to us.
@Heanesy It's not really a tool because of how strongly emotions are attached to it. Fi isn't detached in the way Ti is. I would Ti and Te are more tool like and not Fi or Fe.
@@Heanesy
Its about relating to authenticity, and "Fi" is the closest to it; "Ni" is possibly 2nd when it comes to it.
"Ti" is just 'your' tool - any specific skill or understanding
@@piotrnogas8448 Ti is also about authenticity - is cares about authenticity of one's thoughts.
I'm an intp and I can fully assure, that being coherent in expressing myself is one of the most unconsciously desire outcomes while exposure - because Ti is about understanding oneself, but in relation to process within one function.
+ we can't just ignore that even the Fe users have Fi in themselves (and they really struggle to became conscious of it)
My mom is an ISFJ (I still don't know what side of her mind shes developed more) and usually the main source of conflict we have is, at least from my point of view, that she's very forceful for me to do things that I don't want to do and it stresses me out. Even if she's actualy saying the truth, she takes away so much of my power and choices that I end up rebelling against her and doing things my way. Her religious beliefs are brutally intense and she wants to turn me into some kind of super ultra saint Christian, she wants to make me too innocent and pure since I was a child and instead it made me into a weak, ignorant man and years of hell. I don't know, maybe I'm actually evil and not aware of it. She makes me feel like I'm Satan. It made me hate myself. Maybe she's right. Being born Mind Temple is probably being born a devil without my choice.
Well you're certainly not Satan, but you're frustration is valid. Perhaps an honest, heartfelt conversation between you two would help; I'm assuming (idk for sure) based on Fi that you haven't approached her openly about feeling this way. Hope this helps. I'm praying for you. Agape.
Hey everyone, here is a thought that i just had. The beginning of the video claims, that the self value doesn't make you authentic, Couse its purely subjective, and the authenticity its actually a ti thing, Couse its more objective. But as far as i know, the personal value is the thing that leads you, in to an expression of your own self, in an own way, Wich this is what authenticity is all about. From the other hand- logic is objective, so all of the pepole that use it, will act or be pretty much the same way, wich its exactly the opposite of authenticity. So how is it that ti is a measure of authenticity and fi doesn't?? I'll be glad to read your responses.
It's all about what you value Following your own rules, or expressing yourself freely
Fi is inconsistent and flexible. Hypocritical
Fi authenticity is sacrificing long term consistency for in the moment flexibility of expression being good.
Ti is consistent and rigid. Repressed
Ti authenticity is sacrificing short term expression to maintain principles of truth' and logic
Fi users will contradict their values in any given moment if they feel like the true them wants to do something else and feel guilty but handwave that away with "i was being true to myself"
Ti users will suppress themselves to remain consistent. They will feel frustrated they can't act out of impulse but handwave it away with "It made no sense to do that"
Imagine you believe yelling at people instead of firmly stating your position when someone crosses a boundary is correct
Fi users if they get angry and feel like yelling, will feel yelling is the correct expression in the moment to not repress themselves and do it
Ti users will get angry and feel like yelling but feel like it's not them to yell and they'd be a hypocrite if they acted against their rules.
Fi users repressing and Ti users hypocrisy makes them feel worse and faker than the opposite
The reason as to why so many xSFJ’s don’t like INFP’s are for similar reason’s that they dislike INT’s. For starters, they are iconoclastic and don’t conform to social norms. Second reason is that that they being intuitive are very abstract, typically very intelligent and unlike the SJ types, they don’t care what anyone thinks. Third reason, sensors typically don’t get along with intuitive types and think in a very different playing field, which unfortunately will manifest in misunderstandings and conflicts. Similarly like INTx’s, INFP’s also are seen as socially awkward, albeit not as extreme, makes xSFJ’s feel uncomfortable. 😣
This is very comprehensive. Well done.
100%
Sensors like intp.
@@bodysoulforever6499 No, INTP’s in fact get along best with INFP’s as they are quite similar.
Whaaaat? I love my INFP friends ❤-ISFJ- ok, will say I think his late wife of 20 years trained him well before she passed. Thinking she was ISFJ too🙏🏽❣️
I've seen firsthand how an ESFJ sister-in-law and INFP daughter interact, and I wouldn't classify it as healthy. That Se critic to Se trickster dynamic is real. INFP sloth, feeling entitled to rest after doing some work is not appreciated by Si parent who feel's they're being left to do all the work. Se trickster not noticing all the effort of Si parent is a toxic combo.
As far as authenticity, it's important to recognize that FI is authentic to itself. It needs no external explanation or justification, thus the definition of subjectivity. Te is pass/fail logic. What decides what passes or fails is Fi values (subjectivity).
Yeah. I always get in trouble with sfj's, especially esfj's. -infp
Same here, intp with stjs, especially estjs.
Those bastards are pushy af
They are fake af! Lol
My INFP and ESFJ roommates were friends who moved into my student apartments. A year later? They're no longer friends.
We're seeing some of that INFP entitlement with the pokimane situation right now.
THISSSSS LMAO.
what truly pisses me off is that she thinks she's hilarious when she insults people like babe, you're boring. When you take off your makeup all your simps flee away
What is Pokimane? Do you mean Pokemon? My son likes that. Hes an ISTJ. He's a kid, though.
If you mean the Anime stuff. I see a lot of XNFP, xNFJ's into it.
I feel like that’s more of a young INFP though. I tend to get along with everyone. I only have one close friend who I think might be an ISFJ though and I think my mom is an ESFJ and my sister might be an ISFJ or ISTJ, it’s even harder for me to place her though. My mom and I definitely went through a phase of misunderstanding each other. I thought she was controlling and always wanted to guilt trip me and she thought I was selfish and lazy. It’s all true. We’ve come to a better point now and we’re really close. My sister brought out the rage in me like no one else. I never scream at people but I’ve screamed at her many times. That’s just how it is with family I guess. It’s much better now that we don’t live together.
I feel like I have learned to get along with all personality types and even enjoy certain things about them. Some just take a lot more effort for me like ESTJs and ESFJs. It’s hardest for me to like them too but with time, effort, and understanding we can get along. 😊
I can see your point in that it could be more about a younger INFP I have a good friend who is probably ISFJ and we get along fine but earlier in our friendship when we were teenagers he used to get angry that I was really selfish sometimes and did not reply to his texts when I should have and for a period of time we stopped being friends because of some backbiting and a bunch of bad stuff I did and that kinda made me think that yeah I am selfish I gotta stop being selfish I gotta really work on that and the situation helped me a lot and we don't quarrel anymore we play some games together from time to time and just are overall good friends nowadays
@matus5272 same with me. I found that Fe users like SFJ are annoying. Must reply and answer them ASAP. Like come on. We have our own live. Yes, we have phone. But I focused on self improvement by reading books. However, it seems they don't get it. Why you are so quiet? 🤨 This make me regret ever associate with Fe users. So clingy and appear to be manipulative. They can be obsessed with party or even talking nonsense stuff. Too much gossiping about others and I can only stay silent. If I am not invited you, it doesn't mean I hate you. This is study group. Not party. But this person get so annoyed when found it out.
When I have something from my intuition, they don't like to hear it and think I am weird. Only to regret their stupid decision and come to me saying "if only I listen to you before, bla bla bla...". 🤨 So much that I walk away. Too much small talks. I hate it.
How does the octogram affect this, though? My INFP husband is telling me, after we both watched this, that he has huge Fe impact because he is UD/UF, which would make this not an accurate analysis for him as an INFP. Would appreciate any insight here that could educate us a bit more.
This is friggin brilliant🔥🔥
Why are all of these videos sweeping generalizations? I mean I suppose mbti is inherently that but…..
I love my 20 year old INFP daughter, but this ISFJ mom has learned to stop catering to her, so that the realities of life can teach her the lessons she doesn't wanna hear from me anymore 😕 Like, she's crashed 3 cars in 3 years and I've gently suggested she may want to pay more attention to the laws of physics - to which she replies that she doesn't care about physics 😂
Her immaturity has nothing to do with her being an INFP lol
Yeah as INFP, I also have ESFJ friends
They're kind, but I don't like to hang out with them that much
I can understand how their mind and personality works
But they always ask me to change my personality to be like extrovert
It's not like i never socialize with others in my entire life, it's just that they really want everyone to be similar with them, be extrovert like them
Yeah, respectfully I feel like Ti users misunderstand Fi more often than they realise.
Authenticity is a cringey term, but it makes a decent shorthand for the ‘fake/hypocrite’ analysis Fi users constantly run everything through.
It just makes a certain kind of sense that I think Chase overlooks. It’s not some value judgement or attack against the integrity of Ti’s true/false process. Nor should it imply Fi users are the arbiters of honesty.
Fi users are hypocrites because they'll break any moral or rule they make in any moment in the name of authenticity
Ti users are fake because they will refuse to break rules they want to break due to it not being logical to them on personal principles
When it comes down to it Fi values the momentary authenticity above long term consistency
And Ti is the opposite.
Fe above Ti annoys Fi more as it feels oppressive and shallow
Te above Fi does the same for Ti
When they use the polar function you know they're from another planet to you
When they use the opposing though, you feel like they came to your planet for a week and are now appropriating your culture
You’re the only MBTI practitioner who will tell the truth to INFPs lol
It hurts so good
Another bitter infp vid from Chase.
Okay but if we're unaware of it how can we become more aware and less entitled?
FINALLY. You're right. When I meet IXTPs, I think they are the most authentic beings. Because they don't even know they're authentic. They just are. The opposite of Fe is authenticity.
INFP’s may present as self centered to Fe users. It’s important for the INFP who interacts with Fe’s to try not to refer to their own feelings too much. If the INFP is with a group, then they should think like the group to avoid stigmatization. When the INFP is alone or with a trusted friend then the they can be more authentic.
It’s a difficult task because the INFP hates to be socially engineered.
Striving for Authenticity or promoting Authenticity in others is their highest value but it can be misunderstood as is obvious in this podcast.
Fi users misunderstand Ti critiques
Authenticity to Fi users means following your heart, even if you break a few of your morals to do it in a moment and feel bad about it later
Authenticity to Ti users means following your principles and rules, even if you repress and don't express yourself in each moment and feel frustrated.
If there are two choices of action and
if X=YZ is a decided personal rule and X=AB is a spontaneous desire/emotion
Fi users think X=AB is authentic
Ti users think X=YZ is authentic
@@dxfifa Fi users tend to follow their hearts no matter what the facts are. Ti users tend to follow the facts no matter where their heart lies.
Both ways feel authentic to the user but only when you follow your beliefs, values etc. are you being truly authentic according to the dictionary.
Logic has nothing to do with a belief system. That’s not to say that Ti users don’t have one.
I found that Fe users are annoying. They always seeking validation from others. Interference with other people that not really like and remember them. They tend to be manipulative or fake smile to others. It's not genuinely care. They like critics and control others. But when someone like us Ti and Fi user speaking, they won't listen. They don't like critics. I still can relate with ENFJ and INFJ than any SJ types. But still get miscommunication a lot of times.
Fe is about others but less about themselves.
Fi is what matters to us from within.
Ti is what make sense to us according to logic.
I found that critics are necessary. But as Fi user, I tend to stfu or smooth it out. Thanks to Fe user that dislike critics or not want to hear any complains. While Ti friend will speak based on analytical method. They don't want it. The SJ is the same. Questions their integrity and works aren't allowed. They don't want change. Understandable. What we want is improving the product and avoid big problems that can ruin the company. It's true. There is no meaning for just make it looks appealing or aesthetic. Lack of understanding leads to miscommunication. It makes us bored and decide to leave. I will prefer talking to ENTJ. They are more understanding and like progression. You can't just make Fi and Ti users being social butterfly without any reason. They need more time to think and feel something off. Think of it like cactus and sukulen. They are silent but still human. Just different perspectives. Many ESXJ will never understand. I prefer the ISXJ but the truth is only matured one and can last for
Chase, I know it's a random question, but what do you think about medicine as a career option for intps?
It’s very good, especially pathology
Get ready for alot of socializing with patients lol
I wished me and my esfj mom could get along, but she would put me down so much it never felt like I could do anything right. I knew she always hated who I was, and because of that I refuse to keep her in my life.
2:40 i disagree. Fi is a "logical" system. Evil is objectively true. Some acts are just plain evil. And from plain evil we can define what is good. Thus you have a "logical" system of degrees of evil, and goodness. Its all related to how much you copy in your pattern the truest pattern. This is what theology is all about.
Evil is subjective just like good is. And that is a logical fact.0
@@CSJoseph No, some things are just evil. And if you ever come across it you would know in your soul that it is evil.
Evil is not subjective. How tf taught you that?
You have to be dumb as fuck to say evil is subjective. Good and bad is not subjective
@@hawksu - yes, evil exists. Some acts are just evil. There is no good in them. To say otherwise is to be a relativist. Being a relativist, why should you care that 40 million of X people get murdered? Or chopping the penis of a little boy that thinks he is a girl. This is pure evil. A snifftest for evil if it tries to corrupt the innocent. And the more it tries to corrupt the innocent the more evil it is. Chopping the penis of a little boy and trying to make a vagina is extremely painful, and will destroy the little boys innocence, and his identity. Therefor it is a evil act.
Yuriza is actually a very intelligent individual and knows what he is saying.
well, well, you didn't tell me you're going to use my answer in your video.
this is Yuriko, and I am a she.
1. yes, I am officially typed. it doesn't matter whether MBTI is accurate or not, the root matters, and that's Jung, the one who came up with typology.
2. my answer was based on a Fi person that I knew that told me (very often) he didn't care what people think of him. he didn't even care what people might feel about him either.
3. all Fi doms will tell you that being in line with their values (which is often interpreted as "authenticity") is very important to them.
4. as an INTP, I prioritize intellectual honesty, this, I think can also be interpreted as "authenticity", but intellectual authenticity.
5. I wrote "purebred" just for fun.
Selfishness. And manipulation( lets go with charmspeak). And entitlement. Vip treatment you keep talking about. I’m a UD/UF Esfj guy. Literally try to avoid them making me a doormat. But aside from that, i can look at them objectively and appreciate them. Just always afraid to have them in my space. I always feel like they are going to hurt me or betray me
my big brother is an ESFJ and our older sister is an INFP. And honesty I understand what you mean.
Even though I am an ENFJ and I am more compatible with her. I can always ignore her when she's being manipulative or just overwhelming and Unreasonable. But he can never do the same. He always feel the need to help people around him no matter how difficult they are. Even though he knows that she is Just draining him. he just can't stop himself from constantly helping her every time she cries.
The relationship between them is really Exhausting to witness. Especially that there is nothing she can give him in return. She does not have any Se She can't make him comfortable in any way shape or form. And any expression of her Appreciation usually goes over his head since she does it in ways that he doesn't really care for. And sometimes just straight up find annoying.
@xnooraxxsnx4537 Change her diet to a more healthy one. Get her to eat more fruits, potatoes and vegetables (no oil/fat/protein). A good diet can do wonders for mental health.
@@SS-bu8ez thank you for the advice.
@@xnooraxxsnx4537"she can give him nothing in return" is pretty accurate. This channel does open my eyes to how much nfps will just use you and justify it but when it's their turn to give any kind of support when times get tough for you.... it's not their problem
@@aladdout9454there are things called choices. No one is obligated to do anything for another.
Interesting. Can it be that I get along well with INFPs in my life because they are UF / SF?
So i guess if Morpheus and neo weren't very developed versions of their types they would've hated each other ? thinking about that alone is hilarious Lmao
i love this type of video of yours , reacting to others comment
They dont understand how easily ne parent is damaged by sjs
So what Si types are more likely to flip and be the toucher if In a relationship with another Si user? Would you assume an Fe user?
SJ types in general are the most likely to be the toucher if in relationship with another Si user because of Se Nemesis/Se Critic and they have SP shadow which is really high Se. NP types HAVE to be the touchee in relationship because their Se is just way too low.
I think gender becomes more important in that scenario. In our society the man is kind of expected to do the touching and take the initiative, doesn't matter what's his type.
@@INFamousJudge576 it does matter the type of the person. Most INFP males are sexually submissive. They have developed these submissive kinks through being socially dominated in their childhood, when you do not have an assertive personality and you are uncomfortable with sexuality when you peers are taunting it to your face it leave a permanent scaring that is there for life.
I don't think their will be any flipping we are not frogs who change genders because their is lack of females. Its the same case with incompatible sexual relations, its just going to be a a dead bedroom situation, both will have no real interest in each other sexually and will be probably be sticking around each for other reasons such as it financial benefits.
@@incelbasementdweller2274 there is a flip at least for me. I’ve been typed lots of things but always an Si user and I realized that all of my relationships were with Si users but i always feel obligated to take charge even though I really don’t want to. And I’m half thinking an NFP would flip if needed at the very least because of an awareness of what the other person wants and not wanting to wreck the vibe.
Si female here - I've been in 2 relationships with Si men and would always have to flip into my Se shadow during sex. I didn't mind at first, but it really became wearisome when they never took initiative (even when I asked nicely). I really think Chase's teachings on Se/Si sexual compatibility are spot on!!!
I thought i was the only one crazy.
You overcooked with this one ngl…
Maybe we get to wrapped up in the terminologies of typology. I simply know i am an infp because ive read and watched a lot and can identify my mindset and traits as that of an infp. I have yet to understand the terminologies as one to many makes my mind go to mush lmao. But i have to say logically this sounds right because ive noticed people tend to get facts muddled up like say a shy person which i didnt know either till recently isnt nessasarily an introverted person but can be an extroverted person. Introvert simply means need time alone to recharge and extroverts dont. Shyness can apply to anyone. Thats just an example of how we can be taught and that have to unlearn what weve learned or assumed to know. 😊😊insightful as always and as a feeler i always appreciate logic and thinkers as it balances me out 😊
Chase, I'm dying over here🤣🤣
Can ISFPs become the jack and master of all trades with their diligence?
My bff is an ISFP, and its amazing all the random shit she can fix and do. 😂
I am an infp and three of my closest person are isfj's and we love each other a lot, i don't know about esfj but yeah isfj and i get instantly attached to each other and i love them
Yep isfj's are usually some of our best companions. We follow each other around. Sometimes looks like the Frodo/Sam relationship. They ground us and keep an eye out on the practical fronts, even if we don't ask, and we look out for their emotional well being, watering their soul, even if they don't ask. Si's match well, lots of analyzing of the past and enjoying points of nostalgia. We validate their dedication and both need good breaks from each other to form more points of relation. Though it's not always perfect, they often place a high value on stability as infj's and disagreements, arguments, vexations can trouble both, isfj's much more so. Infj's live for debates and a little bit of drama(often inserting it themselves), though usually don't want anything to do with an 'intense' debate or drama. It has to be calm, calm, calm and digestible, no 'angry' arguments, a true 'debate' if you will(entp's/intp's/intj's/istj's relate to this as well). Infj's need to be backed into a corner to react strongly(doesn't happen often if ever), infp's don't have outbursts like stj's twice a week, but trample on, denigrate, belittle one too many times, ie 'jump into their path' and expect a very disgruntled/abrasive/hostile inferior te reaction. We are for the most part unobtrusive but don't take kindly to certain kinds of invasions of soul and can have an outburst of sorts here and there, could be years between, though people do not forget them( some are not nearly as forgiving of the various shades of anger that inhabit the human condition as fi types). Another point of disagreement can be si types often give up some of their life to 'utility' and are a little peeved seeing a healthy or 'unhealthy' fi type follow their own enchantment. Meaning, generally being more important to an infp than sacrificing parts of yourself on the alter of practicality, and in the long run is the more important. "The people of England think themselves free but they choose what is customary in preference to their inclination until it does not occur to them to have any inclination except for what is customary." I think we can learn from each as any types, often here going as far to emulate each other, Infp's/Isfj's that is. Apart from all this, the best thing for fi dom's to do is to develop Ti and Se. Put yourself in uncomfortable situations, whether debate(try your best to do this slowly/calmly), going to a concert, being on a stage, making art, study logic. Observe your own thoughts, over watch, and let loose sometimes(really take a risk to express yourself). I know this channel is fond of Robert Greene, as I am, and used as the 'realized' example. However being an ardent realist and a very solid writer(not that any of that is bad in any way), I do find he's missing some things I personally find more important that are situated in varied aspects of the creative field. Shakespeare, Tolkien, and too many artists, writers and musicians to name are the 'realization' I strive towards. I do agree wielding an authentic badge around is goofy as hell, however I've come to find all the introverted functions, all being subjective in hindsight(at least applied to the person), to be the attempt to unattainable 'authenticity' or genuineness. Fi tries to stay in line with their principles/morals, Ni to their visions/goals, Si according to their wisdom(what has clearly worked in the past) and Ti tries to be coherent and is often 'object' oriented. None of them are more authentic than the other, Ti possibly the least because though striving for congruence gracefully, something I do find strangely noble and fun to watch them 'light up', it's certainly can be robotic/mechanical/depersonalized in its application. And it's not free of fault, it's a tool, a process. I've seen people who are seemingly Ti dom, though I don't believe in typing people out(I don't think there is anything too concrete about mbti anyway/mostly light pop psychology), attempt to come with ways of fixing an object/ piece of machinery, an idea, often ending in failure through various attempts of their 'own' formulations of logic. Only for a seemingly Si or Te type to come in, and spend the rest of day or a few hours looking up the 'fix', and doing it by the end of the day. Though sometimes Ti is the bullseye, right away knows what to do, what to say, can be very creative in their approach. Forever impressive, overwhelming even. And yes a great deal of Infp's can be sjw's, but knowing how different each one is from the next I'm not sure it's a simple equivalency. Is every estj automatically a CNN drone, though a lot of them are, I wouldn't say so. Istj's sometimes can be here, but they break out of the mold often. Some stj's tap into their fi brilliantly, and can really hear other people out, and can think outside the box, others not so much. I'd check out Vox Day's book on SJW's, I find Es types to be the greatest culprits of this because a great deal tow the line of conformity and just parrot the news and whatever they were taught in school, and do not associate with what they'd consider 'dangerous' thoughts. I know this channel has had falling outs with infps and the caricatures can be apt, there can be very poor reactions in relationships(I've certainly been there), so I get why you're a little harsh on this type in the odd video. Constrastingly, for example I'm very fond of a lot estp's who are ballsy, charismatic, intelligent, put together, often striking individuals, even though I've had horrible falling outs with people I'd consider this type. Cheating, lies, bipolar, self interested to a scary point. And given the chance I may have a few caricatures too. Something about Est types, ferociously intense relationships at times with infp's. I find both(estp/estj) often struggle to carry the weight of their own emotions, it takes all their energy just to understand themselves and their inwardness. They just don't usually have the time or energy to really reciprocate that effort in any way. Personally, I rather enjoy Si, Ne, Ni types a lot, and Se(esfp's at least for me are easy as pie to get along with), Fi and Ti are super varied(depending on the person/very splintered individualistic functions), and Fe and Te(obvious friction here though it's usually the good kind of friction that can be worked through/in those other cases an unscalable mountain). Though I don't think lead Ne or Ni types make the best living companions with fi doms. The best of friends to bounce ideas off each other, but each eats away at the shared space in different ways which can cause plenty of misunderstanding even with the best of intentions. Intj's and Entj's archetypes impress me most. Sorry to ramble, God bless.
I'm not no totally full educated in MBTI typology, I have just discoverd this typology and Im convinced im a INFP.
But what you say seems interesting, but I think I need time to let ist sink in, and fully understand.
Fi is NOT authenticity its subjective, TI/ logic IS autenthic / objective~ 2:32
I am ISFJ and one of my closest friends considered my sister & one of my closest cousins also considered my sister are INFP
What's with the old videos?
Sounds like you don't like either type. Is that accurate?
He's always been a really good dude to me. Disliking a person because of type would by antithetical to his purpose in regards to the system he's working on.
@@beefcakeii He admitted openly that he dislikes mind temple types and their "I know best" attitude more than once. But I doubt he will treat one of them with hostility just because of it.
he tells the truth, every type has their flaws, no point to hide that
@@metheus9851the problem is High Fi user easily getting hurt.
@@INFamousJudge576Because he doesn't understand them. No Fi.
I do think fi is authentic in a way, however authenticity is nonsense
It’s acting in accordance with one’s beliefs. See how I brought Te in there 😅. But it’s a really surface level understanding. I’ve grown more fond of the “assigning value to things” understanding as it is always doing that. It’s a judgement function afterall. But I also like the cognitive typology definition which I’m going to butcher but it’s something like evaluating the animism or spirit energy of all things including physical objects. It’s a fascinating take on Fi.
@@mattguess9887 yeah, i wouldn't disagree with that, it's very beautiful seeing isfps just decide on an absolute value of something and dedicate themselves to it as their purpose and then bringing beauty to life.
I think what csj meant is that ti can figure out the "actual" absolute value or truth about something, thus true authenticity. Fi users favour ( I.e te) input and "choose" a value, not necessarily exclude all other options, thus not true authenticity. that's why fi is opinion.
And I think that we are all a little too similar to actually be authentic, another ti user can figure out the truth you figured, another fi user can just decide to give a similar or a different value cause they felt like it, it's just a meaningless game.
This was hilarious.
throwback!!
Fi trickster be like:
CSJ destroying heather's comments and i'm here for it B)
Well im an infp...and isfjs are nice people..but problem comes as they are more likely to follow rules regulations societal norms and they are judgemental ...😂yeah AND they I think personally Sensors don't get along with perceivers generally😅😅
INFPs are cute
^w^
@@H3XED_OwOuwu 🥺
I always loved INFP’s. They are so brilliant and creative. -INTP
@@sylviaowega3839NF/NT ride or die🤝
And bite
Thank you, sir. 😊
First!!!🎉
Mm… pretty immature video chase.
Yuriko is a female, FYI.
Always out of touch with reality.
oh! alright
As an INFJ I’ve door-slammed an INFP for these reasons too. Plus the emotional manipulation and mind control through gaslighting they exhibited using indirect narratives instead of in your face kinds of gaslighting. A couple years later, I rebuilt the bridge and nothing had changed- it had only gotten worse but in more subtle ways. It was as of this INFP had only gotten more negatively clever and not more honorable or aware. The I gracefully closed the door after giving them all the help I could. I did learn a lot of lessons from the situation that helped me mature my Fe parent function in terms of which relationships to allow into my life and how to be aware of when someone has crossed my boundaries-maybe the intimacy cognitive origin is designed to seek a dissolution of boundaries- only it has to be with the right individuals. Perhaps I’ll encounter a virtuous INFP at some point. I wonder if INFJ INFP silver pair is the most challenging of the silver pairs, especially before maturity. Thanks for your work.
You are the problem
@@joicelovespink979 I became the solution. You might realize that if you read this properly.
Personal trauma dump you don't have to read it if you don't want to:
Tbh... I had an INFJ friend, but as I grow up I realize sometimes how needy I am of wanting to grow closer to people... and ME personally, I have a bad record with friendships... Is like I have good chemistry for some seasons... but the friendship drifts away somewhere else with time...
So I'm never able to actually keep friends, if they're not with me in the moment... everyone seems to move on fast, specifically INFJs seem to be really focused on their own endeavors and I recognize that I have abused of them, because I felt like they were slipping through my hands... is like they'll treat me nice but when I actually wanted to get close I felt like a barrier between us... and I tried to convince them of being my friends...
Cause even if they considered me as a friend, they would like turn their backs on me and ignore me...
So I didn't realize this was manipulation, to me rather was stubbornness... but I realize I wanted the INFJ to agree with me and my opinions and just have things in common, something to really become friends... and I was non-stop doing the narrative thing that you talked about... because I wanted her to be on my side, to be my friend, I wanted to be interesting for her... but I felt like she only treated me nice and ignore me as a person...
So I forced her a lot to listen to me... and that ofc changed nothing... And I feel so sorry for the obsessive way I treated her, at the end I had to let her go as well as all my friends...
And I think the INFP has to realize that people don't owe them nothing, that friends aren't there to fulfill the needs of a traumatic response, and that we should be greatful of having people we truly value... instead of forcing people to be of our liking, we should be accepting of others even if it means that, that person isn't really interested in you then we should let them go naturally
All of this is BS
Looks like his general anger issues are seeping into his judgement.
@@littlebrother82 Not anger . What's BS is BS. And little brother is a pathetic name.
@@the_theorist_0.1 well, I tried for user-qk1uz1vb2u, but it was taken.
SO AGREE THAT TI IS AUTHENTICITY IT FEELS MERCILESS FI IS NOT AUTHENTICITY