Searching for the Dad She Never Knew

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  • Опубликовано: 6 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 262

  • @shaunlewis8484
    @shaunlewis8484 Год назад +77

    Never wished someone was the father more!!!😢

  • @MaryMac04
    @MaryMac04 Год назад +128

    I am flabbergasted I don't understand how she could not be his daughter they look so much alike the smile and all. I'm heartbroken for them both

    • @josefwashere
      @josefwashere Год назад +9

      Agreed. When I first saw the freeze frame, I noticed they have the same mouth shape and smile!

    • @INDIGO.GODDESS_573
      @INDIGO.GODDESS_573 Год назад +9

      Yep, same nose, eyes, mouth, lip curl... of course ethically they look the same.
      Wow. I'm SHOCKED like they are..

    • @Pumpsandabump
      @Pumpsandabump Год назад +12

      Right!! Unless it’s a family member

    • @kentthomason6285
      @kentthomason6285 Год назад +4

      DNA SO MEN SHOULD ALWAYS GET THEM PERIOD

    • @sereneamani1713
      @sereneamani1713 Год назад +3

      @@kentthomason6285 How does that apply in this case? He wasn't aware of her existence. The biological mother didn't accuse or name him as the father. In other words, what is the purpose of your comment?

  • @brooklynmobley5449
    @brooklynmobley5449 Год назад +144

    It's crazy how much she favors him for him not to be the biological father 😮 what a good man, she's blessed to have found him. She gained a father n siblings out of this, which might be more than she would gain if she meets her real father

    • @kevinhall925
      @kevinhall925 Год назад +8

      Right, they look just alike. I’m sitting here crying like her

    • @Family4ever_41
      @Family4ever_41 Год назад

      Right! I was so sure she was his. They look so much alike.

    • @ladywithclasscarpenter1143
      @ladywithclasscarpenter1143 Год назад

      Right, the resemblance is strong I thought sure he’s her Father.

  • @deja14
    @deja14 Год назад +81

    She didn’t blink 😢😢 I feel sooo bad for this beautiful strong woman. But I’m grateful for their relationship. Everything happens for a reason.

  • @nataliemscrzysxycoolharris
    @nataliemscrzysxycoolharris Год назад +106

    That young woman was so shocked and later hurt at the result.
    I wish her well and all of the luck in the world in her pursuit. 🙏🏾

  • @philomenaezeh7770
    @philomenaezeh7770 Год назад +40

    This man needs an award. Awesome, awesome guy. God bless you Sir.

  • @BelieveInGOD1113
    @BelieveInGOD1113 Год назад +126

    This is one of the saddest cases I've ever seen🥺😭😭 His genuine, raw emotion @ the thought of her being his child & potentially missing out on her life was truly touching❣️

    • @SpontaneousVirgo
      @SpontaneousVirgo Год назад +1

      Yes, I was breaking down before she was because I knew that was coming. I pray that she meets her biological father soon and he's not in a bad way.

    • @ygpwnxd_xd752
      @ygpwnxd_xd752 Год назад +1

      @@SpontaneousVirgo👈 It’s actually her mothers fault, she shld ask her mother how many men she slept with and their names. I think also she must stop searching her bio father, bcz her adoptive parents raised her with love and effection and that’s what is imp. She’s a grown up girl N can take care of herself so why does she need a father now at this adult age, move on she lived without knowing him all these years .

    • @SpontaneousVirgo
      @SpontaneousVirgo Год назад

      @@ygpwnxd_xd752 wow

  • @living1206
    @living1206 Год назад +87

    She was so hurt by the outcome of the result. Him not being her father. You could see the pain in her eyes. I pray she find comfort and hopefully her father soon

    • @sophiehaze6685
      @sophiehaze6685 Год назад +1

      Damn why did your comment have to be first smh

    • @Reigntaylor333
      @Reigntaylor333 Год назад +2

      Right. I felt sooooo bad omg this was terrible 😢

  • @marinatedbeef1683
    @marinatedbeef1683 Год назад +28

    My heart sank for her. I think we All wanted this kind hearted gentlemen to be her Dad. She looked broken hearted after the results and can't help but cry with her and wish the best for her.

  • @TrinTheGoddess
    @TrinTheGoddess Год назад +23

    I hate when both parties want to be related so bad and it doesn't happen!😥 Good luck to both of them. ❤️ I loved how he embraced her and reassured her he will be there for her. She really needs that. ❤️

  • @damianu4082
    @damianu4082 Год назад +8

    I pray he stands by her for as long as she wants/needs him to and I pray she finds closure.

  • @diofiglio1
    @diofiglio1 Год назад +17

    Wow she seems to have a good spirit and is such a beautiful woman

  • @deeransom
    @deeransom Год назад +16

    Aww I was really hoping that was her. I just want to give her a hug

  • @brettsfav4
    @brettsfav4 Год назад +29

    This is heartbreaking. I was really hoping he was her father. I pray that she finds him and that she remains close to Mr. Ellington and his children. He’s a nice looking man. 😚

  • @neffybaby2273
    @neffybaby2273 Год назад +11

    Ohhh God, my heart breaks for her!! I wish he was her dad, such a wonderful man 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @Iamwhoiam993
    @Iamwhoiam993 Год назад +7

    I remember this case from a while ago. Looks can be extremely deceiving to say the least because they look EXACTLY alike! WOW! 😮

  • @SAHMshorts
    @SAHMshorts Год назад +12

    Awwh I was crying with her because I was sure that was her dad. Shame on any mother who will keep a child from knowing who her father is. Even if he’s a deadbeat a child should at least know where they come from.

  • @GovernorCedric
    @GovernorCedric Год назад +13

    This is a wonderful story about how you don’t have to be a biological parent like Judge Mathis said in order to mentor , love , support and be there for a child. Not to boast and I give all honor to God but my wife and I are mentors to many young men. We treat them as our own and love them as such. Some have parents and some do not however through God’s strength , grace and mercy they all are succeeding . it’s all about helping someone to achieve their highest destiny , purpose and calling in the earth. God can call you as a mentor in order to assist an individual to achieve their best life. I have so much respect for Judge Mathis he’s a very compassionate man with a great calling on his life.

  • @GoInternational2024
    @GoInternational2024 Год назад +5

    I'm hurting for her...for real! He's a good man. Can't li, I just knew this would have a "happy ending " & was caught off guard when JM said he was not the father. I pray for them both.

  • @Tashethealter
    @Tashethealter Год назад +5

    Oh man, that was hard to watch. She froze and I could see the range of emotions in her eyes 😢 I hope that he stays by her side like he said he would because she will need all of the support that she can get.

  • @tiana-em2ez
    @tiana-em2ez Год назад +4

    I was absolutely sure he was here father, they look very much alike. I wish her well in her pursuit.

  • @Brialouiseee
    @Brialouiseee Год назад +5

    This made me cry real freaking tears 😭 I hope they are still close

  • @003cbanks
    @003cbanks Год назад +5

    Wow they look so identical!

  • @ItsJanesta
    @ItsJanesta Год назад +10

    Sad sad sad! 😢 they look soooo similar

  • @kandlelocs7758
    @kandlelocs7758 Год назад +2

    The way he was patting her back ..I just couldnt 😢

  • @supremeclientele1356
    @supremeclientele1356 Год назад +3

    Dang I’m crying…I pray that they are both doing well. I pray this young lady has found her biological father. Blessings…🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @30YADIG
    @30YADIG Год назад +10

    Judge Mathis can we please get an update on this case? 🙏🏾😭

  • @wbranch6893
    @wbranch6893 Год назад +5

    Omg I’m shocked ! They looked so much alike 😢

  • @KeishaBeenReleased
    @KeishaBeenReleased Год назад +39

    God is going to exceed your expectations!!!

    • @Qjamz
      @Qjamz Год назад +2

      Amen! He does it for me on a daily basis! Side note- States want to abolish abortions! Free paternity testings should be mandated when children are born. I'm so heart broken seeing grown people on these court shows NOT KNOWING who their daddies are! By golly

    • @dnicole5892
      @dnicole5892 Год назад +2

      Amen!

  • @danyellecarter
    @danyellecarter Год назад +9

    Take the results back! That’s her father!!!! 😢

  • @prettyroses4742
    @prettyroses4742 Год назад +9

    From the jump I just KNEW that was her dad, I was so shocked at the results that I was waiting for Judge Mathis to say “just kidding” and then I realized that he was serious. Mannn, they looked just alike! Her mother must have really had a type because AIN’T NO WAY! 😳😳😳😳

    • @Sunshine134chick
      @Sunshine134chick Год назад +4

      Right

    • @justlikeyou28
      @justlikeyou28 Год назад

      Yes, I was waiting on him to say he read it wrong. Then I realized he wouldn't make that mistake 😕.

  • @jasminetiller9712
    @jasminetiller9712 Год назад +1

    man this one almost made me cry, you can see how her smile faded and the pain in her eyes ): I hope she finds her father but im so glad for her finding this guy so loving and caring!

  • @Ms..B
    @Ms..B Год назад +1

    Oh the pain they both felt, so sad hope she is able to find her true father.

  • @charlessantee8329
    @charlessantee8329 Год назад +9

    He is not her biological father of the plaintiff, but he still is a father figure to her may I add he is better than some of these biological dad's.

  • @MeriV
    @MeriV Год назад +4

    My God! They look so much alike! Looking at her expression I started crying for her! Maybe they're related because they look so much alike?

  • @feilong29
    @feilong29 Год назад +5

    Gosh this one hurt to watch. I was convinced since they looked so much alike and could see how much she was hurt after the results were read 😢

  • @slonezy09
    @slonezy09 Год назад +6

    I need that paternity test done over. 😢

  • @stephenleigh4571
    @stephenleigh4571 Год назад +2

    I'm so sorry for her, I thought for sure that he was her dad... I'm praying for them both.

  • @karendorsey4780
    @karendorsey4780 Год назад +6

    Family isn’t always blood!! Family is about love and support! If appears the plaintiff will have that! The defendant is a good man. I feel for the plaintiff. The plaintiff has a father figure! Which is a good thing!

  • @Marie70272
    @Marie70272 Год назад +1

    Stop cutting up the onions😢😢😢..It’s ironic how they favor one another .Kudos to him for stepping up to be her dad.🥰🙏🏼 God Bless them.❤️

  • @TheJocha31
    @TheJocha31 Год назад +1

    To see her after he said he isn't her father broke my heart. I hope she finds what she seeks, and the interaction and relationship is positive.

  • @rashardstallworth9240
    @rashardstallworth9240 Год назад +7

    Why would JM bring up child support in a case like this? If the man was the father he didnt know about her until she was an adult

    • @jamescash887
      @jamescash887 Год назад +1

      Because it takes money to raise a child. Just because you didn’t know you had a kid doesn’t excuse you from financial responsibilities.

    • @rashardstallworth9240
      @rashardstallworth9240 Год назад

      @@jamescash887 what child? This is a 24 yr old woman he didn’t know existed.

    • @jamescash887
      @jamescash887 Год назад

      @@rashardstallworth9240 well that’s fine but now he knows so now it’s time to pay (if he would have turned out to be the father).

  • @annc6306
    @annc6306 Год назад +4

    I feel for Her, when the judge read the results You could see She was devastated.
    She wanted it Soo bad.
    GOD Bless Her To Find Out Who Her Dad Is.

  • @rodericksears638
    @rodericksears638 Год назад +4

    These kind of stories don't get told. It's crazy that her mother basically threw her away like that and scarred her daughter for life.

    • @lavinder11
      @lavinder11 Год назад

      Her mother was a kid who was raised by the system. The fact there at least four names of men are questioned for paternity indicates that her mother was going through a rough time. It's sad all around.

    • @rodericksears638
      @rodericksears638 Год назад

      @@lavinder11 society doesn't give a Damn about problems men go through with similar situations. Society wants men to figure things out for themselves so the same things should be told to women.

    • @lavinder11
      @lavinder11 Год назад

      @@rodericksears638 Men don't care about men.

  • @MsDrobertson522
    @MsDrobertson522 Год назад +2

    Lord her face broke my heart😢😢😢

  • @mymotherwasright3079
    @mymotherwasright3079 Год назад +1

    A beautiful Man, and a lovely young Lady. They truly deserve each other. Home is where the heart is, and his family truly loves her. They have a Father-Daughter relationship no matter the results. I wish them peace, joy, and an abundance of happiness together. ❤❤

  • @ronnietoni819
    @ronnietoni819 Год назад +5

    This was a very calming case

  • @adrianprince7266
    @adrianprince7266 Год назад +2

    Very sad case. The result was so unfortunate that I don't know if it was even worth trying to find out. Very sad and unfortunate

  • @erindoriah
    @erindoriah Год назад +2

    Wow they looked so much alike. I was convinced that was her father. Man that’s a tough one

  • @samanthagray2551
    @samanthagray2551 Год назад +3

    I gotta quit watching these cases. I be at work crying looking crazy.

  • @JacksQueen.
    @JacksQueen. Год назад +12

    The judge gets so weird when adopted children want to find bio parents.

    • @ItsJanesta
      @ItsJanesta Год назад +7

      What did I miss? What you mean sis?

  • @King-Killa-Ca
    @King-Killa-Ca Год назад +1

    Salute from Brooklyn NYC 👍

  • @patricehymes
    @patricehymes Год назад

    What a stand up guy! ❤️❤ god bless them🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @ronetteopher3078
    @ronetteopher3078 Год назад

    I was really praying that he was her dad 😞 I saw the pain build up in her face. This was heartbreaking. I’m so glad he will be there to support her through this. GOD BLESS them both

  • @djdsmooth72
    @djdsmooth72 Год назад +1

    I'm so sorry...she had me whelping

  • @tebeahsaye420
    @tebeahsaye420 Год назад +2

    Wow!!! I’m so shocked because they look so much alike

  • @SuperBRIANWILSON
    @SuperBRIANWILSON Год назад +9

    It’s very crazy how the state will allow her mom to give her up and not have to pay child support but the law can make it that the man still has to pay. It’s very wild

    • @deja14
      @deja14 Год назад

      I’m a woman && I agree w you But if a man gets his rights taken by the courts he doesn’t have to still pay child support so a mother doesn’t either.

    • @rashardstallworth9240
      @rashardstallworth9240 Год назад

      @@deja14 men with no rights still do pay child support if the court orders it. JM was a Judge in an actual court and he brought it up mam. It happens everyday all day.

    • @janetmccoy7945
      @janetmccoy7945 Год назад

      This should act as a cautionary tale for men to stop having sex raw unless married.

    • @jennevamadison3803
      @jennevamadison3803 Год назад

      I doubt he would have to pay since she was adopted. Judge Mathis just be talking sometimes.

  • @beblessed555grace
    @beblessed555grace Год назад +2

    I pray they hold on to Father Daughter relationship

  • @Sunshine134chick
    @Sunshine134chick Год назад +1

    It’s Trippy because they do look alike 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @jamesstewart522
    @jamesstewart522 Год назад +1

    Man ain’t no way!!! Take another test please 😢😢. I was just so sure they were father and daughter.

  • @Alissambarbarin
    @Alissambarbarin Год назад +2

    Oh my goodness this broke my heart . ☹️

  • @bresymone8761
    @bresymone8761 Год назад

    Awwww😢😢 her face after the results were heartbreaking. She was really hoping it was a YES. bless him and her. I hope we can get an update on her search in the future if she decides to continue.

  • @sweetbeloved623
    @sweetbeloved623 Год назад +7

    Hopefully this will be a happy ending. ❤

  • @judicampbell7080
    @judicampbell7080 Год назад +2

    I feel they need to do that DNA over because it’s not only the fact that they look similar but their demeanor is the same. The results must have been tempered with on this one.

  • @sheikabennett4912
    @sheikabennett4912 10 дней назад

    Beautiful story 💕💐

  • @mikemiketrill
    @mikemiketrill Год назад

    This is one case I was HOPING he was the dad…I got a feeling he genuinely loves that young lady. God bless them both moving forward.

  • @ThickSenpaii
    @ThickSenpaii Год назад +2

    This hurt me, she's so broken. Get an ancestry DNA test and start there so many people are finding loved ones that way

  • @kgames1748
    @kgames1748 Год назад

    Poor baby such a beautiful young lady God please cover this young woman ❤

  • @torilee3804
    @torilee3804 Год назад +1

    This was devastating....

  • @staycalmthrustorms1034
    @staycalmthrustorms1034 Год назад

    This hurt my heart because I just knew he would be her dad😢🥺😔I’m so sorry baby girl❤️

  • @molisnia
    @molisnia Год назад

    A perfect gentleman.

  • @Sunshine134chick
    @Sunshine134chick Год назад +1

    12:27 😢😢😢😢 I think she just started to process what he said 🥺🥺🥺

  • @ebyrd5328
    @ebyrd5328 Год назад +1

    They have to be related somehow! I've never cried at a case, this had tears rolling.

  • @JanefrFinch
    @JanefrFinch Год назад

    please BLESS this man 7 fold LORD🙏🏼‼️

  • @gloriasanders6589
    @gloriasanders6589 Год назад

    She looks just like him to me , got me crying ❤️🙏🏾

  • @MicheleMarieClay
    @MicheleMarieClay Год назад

    I love how him and his kids have claimed her.

  • @Ginaaaa555
    @Ginaaaa555 Год назад +2

    I wanted him to hug her sooner 😢

  • @madmemadhouseme4885
    @madmemadhouseme4885 Год назад

    I'm shocked and saddened at the results.

  • @henryrobinson5048
    @henryrobinson5048 Год назад

    That's a very good start. She need to go back to her mother's friends to see if she was with someone that looked like him. You can tell she was devastated hearing that he's not her father.

  • @latashaepps1060
    @latashaepps1060 Год назад +2

    Dang they look sooo much alike. 😢

  • @FoxxyCha
    @FoxxyCha Год назад +1

    This shattered me 😢

  • @Sunshine134chick
    @Sunshine134chick Год назад +1

    13:38 Broke my heart 💔💔💔💔

  • @yolandahall2615
    @yolandahall2615 Год назад +1

    Wow I can't believe he's not her father! She looks just like him. The momma must have ad a type. He is a nice looking gentleman I might add LOL! I teared up and felt it for her but wow what a good man. I hope she allows him to be there for her every girl want their dad to walk them down the aisle, tell them about men, ect. I would love to see a follow up to this.

  • @melyndaduh3501
    @melyndaduh3501 Год назад +2

    I don't even believe the DNA results in this case. They are twins! She is his clone. However if someone looks just like you, you have to love them regardless of blood test results.

  • @joeyjackson200
    @joeyjackson200 Год назад

    I’m 43 and never seen my dad ever I still think about it all the time

    • @shawnhill7222
      @shawnhill7222 Год назад

      I totally understand... I am 47, and my dad doesn't want anything to do with me, and I also think about it all of the time. It's like a void that I walk around with that only a biological father can fill.

  • @marissag2091
    @marissag2091 Год назад +2

    They look just alike though 🤯

  • @peggytwitty4116
    @peggytwitty4116 Год назад

    He was a real sweetheart but they looked so much alike but still be there for her real king

  • @kathymclaughlin3327
    @kathymclaughlin3327 Год назад

    Excellent guidance Judge Mathis

  • @kevinhall925
    @kevinhall925 Год назад

    Great man!!!

  • @filmtressmu8552
    @filmtressmu8552 Год назад +1

    If I was there in the courtroom, I would have slipped a note into her hand with the word, "PARTHENOGENESIS." There are a lot of babies (particularly baby girls) who are born under this title. Especially too she looks so much like him. Look up that word.

    • @locafly
      @locafly Год назад

      Parthenogenesis is impossible in human.

  • @tomswill9189
    @tomswill9189 Год назад

    Wow the really look a like to me. God bless them. And there relationship.

  • @keybarlow752
    @keybarlow752 Год назад

    Wow they look just alike glad he in her life regardless.

  • @AK19909
    @AK19909 Год назад

    So crazy how much they look alike as a baby and esp now!!!

  • @GiGi2O11
    @GiGi2O11 Год назад +1

    Wait, WHAT? That result has GOT to be a mistake. 😳

  • @Family4ever_41
    @Family4ever_41 Год назад

    I think they should get tested again because she looks just like him!
    I pray that she finds her father. She is a beautiful lady and Mr. Ellington is a great man to stay on this journey with her.

  • @Shonda-vj7qb
    @Shonda-vj7qb Год назад

    Sad, beautiful 😢❤

  • @allinme2008
    @allinme2008 Год назад

    It’s always so heartbreaking when you see someone want to embrace parent hood and be the biological parent so badly but the results come back like this

  • @allanathomas6977
    @allanathomas6977 Год назад

    They should check if maybe one of his male relatives is a possibility. Their resemblance is really strong...

  • @LeBrownGuy
    @LeBrownGuy Год назад +2

    This is so sad. But like... does he have a brother or something? they have so much similarities it's hard to belive they are not related.

    • @locafly
      @locafly Год назад

      Well, then that test would have to be a percentage that would be pretty high if he had a brother and his brother would have been the father.

  • @kayn8252
    @kayn8252 Год назад

    awww!!! I was hoping that she was his. To be honest, they may need to test that foster dad’s children because if her mom was in foster care, and was running away, and signed over her rights to them, it MAY be for a reason. She is such a beautiful spirit. I pray she finds her birth father. 🙏🏽