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@@hypeupexpress1091 matlab ke mujhe pata hai mujhe apna time kaha use krna hai Hope ke tumhe bhi pata hai tumhe apne behaviour or khud ko sudharne me apna tume lagana chahiye Indirect
There’s always: Some truth behind “I’m just kidding”, knowledge behind, “I don’t know”, Emotions behind “ I don’t care”, And pain behind, “It’s okay”. Let’s treat each other with love and respect.... ♥️
I knew a hateful woman who said to me, "I'm so sorry people don't like you." I came right back with "HEY!! I don't tell you what they think of YOU!!!" She was stunned.
Response: I know, I've always felt the same way about you... with all these people pretending to be your friends and then laughing at you behind your back. Every time I look at you I think.... what a waste of human flesh. What's that on your shoulders? Did your neck throw up?
My favorite come back is looking at the person who just insulted you and saying, " I'm sorry, I didn't catch that, I was right in the middle of ignoring you"
I once picked up a stick and the woman asked "Are you thinking of hitting me with that ?" and I replied...."No...I was thinking about using it to turn you into a toad "
Once heard a guy reply to a verbal attack by saying, “How’s your wife and my kids?”. The attacker lost his composure and never recovered his “game”. Hilarious to watch one guy win by causing the other guy to totally lose it.
The best is that " Isn't it strange that 'Awesome' ends with 'me' ?? " Neither does it hurt someone, but also increases your respect in the heart of that person!! Loved this video!! ♥️♥️
@@jaitrasaketh767 also- the Awesome-Ugly equation- I feel it can be used by other person as well. Above all, I think Awesome is me... can be a lot egoistic, as also Ugly- being you- is too condescending!Just my Thoughts! 😊
How about : “I am sorry you feel this way” “Thank you for the kind remarks, you are a bundle of joy” “Well then, it must really takes one to know one” “ okay then… and your point is?…” “Hmmmmm, if you say so, happy? ” “Are you constipated? you seem to be in distressed.“ “Feed your own ego. I’m busy.” “I can agree to disagree, there… happy?” “Your ass must be pretty jealous of all the shit that comes out of your mouth.” “Don’t be ashamed of who you are. That’s your parent’s job.” “Remember when I asked for your opinion? Me neither.”
@@djantouahmed7319 it’s far harder for non-native speakers to inculcate English’s nuances and idioms. He did it far better than a majority of Native American English speakers. Kudos to OP!
Your reply sounded sarcastic & insulting. Are you North American? Many countries speak very good English much better than Americans, that's why the British always say that America does not speak english, they speak american.
@@mrnmrn1628 my reply was certainly was not meant to be sarcastic or belittling. In point of fact, you adroitly brought to my attention that I, who was born in this country 70 years ago and having a BA, improperly use the phrase “Native American English speakers” when I was attempting to identity those persons whose first language was (American - not the Queen’s) English. Unfortunately, I failed my first attempt and almost bungled the correction. Thank you for bringing it to my attention as my attempt was to praise OP’s command of our common language, especially since it wasn’t his first
My favourite phrase on the list is "You look cute when you're shut up" I may use it in front of my friends who keep blabbering for no good reason. Besides, I want to give my own phrase to tackle with the same situation, just like one of the phrases shown today, I can say "Let me guess, have you had something bitter/ spicy in your breakfast?" because you're bumming everyone out here with this slury look.
@Ernie Hettinger Yes, it will work only in informal situations where you might get a chance to use for a cynic or naysayer whom I hope you don't find any such people.
@@condorX2 😂 Long time ago a boyfriend made me angry and then said I looked so cute when I was angry. That made me get angrier and I yelled back at him that he better look out because I was about to become absolutely beautiful! 😂
My Mom has always says ‘ it hurts more to ignore’. Meaning if the person really means to insult or hurt your feelings, ignoring or behaving like you haven’t heard will drive them insane. I know…I used it a lot when I was being bullied at school.
Hi, I was bullied at school a lot. And I got hurt as well. I believe you that it is hard to ignore those hard feelings when you were at school. I1 had the same as you.
It drives my family members who loves to deliberately verbally hurt me crazy when I do continual talking current discussion at hand as if they had not spoken. I don't give them verbal nor physical satisfaction reaction responses to their comments. It works like charm to put these family members in confusion reactions with my ignored verbal responses to their verbal attacks. I do already have my emotional shield up when I am around them nowdays once I have realized how to shut them down without giving them satisfaction responses that they wanted from me. I have chosen to fully ignored them verbally and emotionally by treating them like they had said nothing to me because I refuse to give them satisfaction in hurting myself.
Here's a couple: 1) Just say "Stop being annoying" 2) Or you can say "Do that trick again" When the offender says "What trick?" Reply "Open your mouth and make your head disappear"
“Are you born like that or trained by professionals?” is the best counter. It emphasized that either the toxic person is a descendant of a rude person OR his/her father and mother taught to be rude. Both meaning will shut he/she for good 😂
A girl kept telling me "I'm going to heaven & your going to hell." I got fed up with her & one day I replied "Good because I wouldn't want to spend eternity with anyone like you!".
Advice from an American (if you care). If someone insults you to hurt you, don’t say anything, just separate yourself from them. In America today there are all kinds of crazy people walking among us. Trying to “insult them back” could escalate the situation. It’s not worth it.
This is good in the workplace. Because if the coworker complains to a superior, and the superior asks you what happened, YOU can then honestly report that YOU didn't say or do anything...you walked away. Then all the drama from the coworker is on them, even if they said you said rude things to them. And any witnesses can't spin or mishear your words....because you spoke none.
Yes Amit... the book of Isaiah in the bible,chapter 55, verse 10-11 tells us that the spoken word is like rain - it has to be RECEIVED for it to be helpful or damaging. So therefore all you have to do is NOTHING - but do not receive the word - and it (like the rain) will return to the place it came from....which in the case of someone speaking nasty things means it goes right back to them. VENGENCE is mine, says the Lord, I WILL REPAY..... we just have to trust Him to do it.
Years ago I responded just like all these but when I started reading the Bible and live the peace of Christ in my heart, it changed my attitudes towards others. :)
Agreed! The best way to respond is with the Love of God, smile and bless them...they never expect that kind of answer...and it stops them in their track...might even convict a few of them of their hurtfull behaviour. 🙏 "Do not answer a fool according to his folly, Lest you also be like him. Answer a fool according to his folly, Lest he be wise in his own eyes. Proverbs 26:4-5 NKJV"
#14 can also be used as a compliment to someone feeling down. Used a similar line to a girlfriend who felt low. "I wish you could see you through my eyes, you would realize how amazing you are." 'Cause she was.
The book of Isaiah in the bible, chapter 55, verse 10-11 tells us that the spoken word is like rain - it has to be RECEIVED for it to be helpful or damaging. So therefore all you have to do is NOTHING - but do not receive the word - and it (like the rain) will return to the place it came from....which in the case of someone speaking nasty things means it goes right back to them. VENGENCE is mine, says the Lord, I WILL REPAY..... we just have to trust Him to do it.
I wish I didn't understand your pain..I was bullied constantly in school and those scars don't heal well.even after 60 years plus. Peace and Blessings to you.😊
I believe your explanation of the insult fits better with English colloquial. One you could add is, "Was that your insult? I really thought your could do better." then ignore them, and if they persist, "Eh, better luck next time, you should probably go practice because I'm embarrassed for you."
One of my favourite is similar your no.3. I say to people “Do you work very hard at being offensive….or does it just come naturally?” It’s a great one because there’s no good answer either-way. They always shut-up.
One of the classiest I've ever heard (overheard) was a busybody gossip asking another lady about something personal and she simply replied " I distinctly remember forgetting that" and walked away.
Me, too! Tonight my husband's sister tried to make us look infantile once again; I just stared at her for a second, and then said, "it doesn't matter". She'll take it the wrong way, unfortunately.
my mom and dad had two phrases they used to respond to some empty-headed comment: 1. " It is far better to remain silent and be thought stupid, than to open one's mouth and remove all doubt." 2. "be sure brain is in gear before engaging mouth!"
I got an ignorant insult expressed to me while in the Navy in 1978. A peer in rank stated. "You ain't Shiite" to which without even thinking I said "Why Thank You, I wish I could say the same for you" He got insulted and walked away.
@@mustwereallydothis I believe in reality when the actual event happens.. this quotes are to teach and impress people..Eg it's like if I were to ask him what if someone insults or punches me on the face he will say to me tell him..Thank you. 🤔
My God! I can say this one is one of the most interesting classes and a hilarious one too. I caught myself laughing at the intonation how Hridaan sir said them. Hope i can borrow an inch of your confidence while i speak these. Looking forward to more such fascinating classes. 💕☘️
Here's one I have for when someone belittles me for being (or seeming to be) on a lower level of intelligence or overall value: "Well, I was dropped on my head when I was a baby. What's your excuse?"
If someone insults you out of the blue, it's because they perceive that you have something they don't. In other words, they already acknowledge that you are better than them in some way. That is why they must smack you down.
One of my co-workers tried to tell me what to do yesterday. I said,” Hey, when you’re done pretending your my supervisor, let’s pretend to be astronauts, it’s more fun and more likely to come true”. BOOM!!!!!
One that I made up is “I realize you went to public school. Try to follow along“ if they reply “I went to private school!“ I then say “I’d say you’re entitled to a refund“
Yes, VK Buddies, and here is why: as soon as you open your mouth in reply you take it out of God's hands to deal with it. The book of Isaiah in the bible, chapter 55, verse 10-11 tells us that the spoken word is like rain - it has to be RECEIVED for it to be helpful or damaging. So therefore all you have to do is NOTHING - but do not receive the word - and it (like the rain) will return to the place it came from....which in the case of someone speaking nasty things means it goes right back to them. VENGENCE is mine, says the Lord, I WILL REPAY..... we just have to know that He loves us and trust Him to do it.
My favorite thing to say to an insult is "I'll take that into consideration." They know you won't take it into consideration. It sounds polite but it's an indirect way to say "I don't care what you say."
#21 "You don't know me well enough to say that." Learned this one from my German sister-in-law. When I have used it, it is like giving someone a verbal right hook that they have inappropriately crossed a personal line.
Superb video ! 👍 Loved it . How I wish I knew these earlier! Anyway, never too late . Thank you 👍 #6 was the best " Best advice to you - Stop being you."
But the moment you replied de tu b6 you took it out of God's hands to deal with it. The book of Isaiah in the bible, chapter 55, verse 10-11 tells us that the spoken word is like rain - it has to be RECEIVED for it to be helpful or damaging. So therefore all you have to do is NOTHING - but do not receive the word - and it (like the rain) will return to the place it came from....which in the case of someone speaking nasty things means it goes right back to them. VENGENCE is mine, says the Lord, I WILL REPAY..... we just have to know that He loves us and trust Him to do it.
A personal favourite of mine is "Don't feel bad... If I were an idiot,I'd act just like you." Yes,I've used it often,and don't feel bad for having done so...😀
Try saying to them "did you bring your lunch to work or did you take a bus?" By the time they figure out that there is no sense to that they'll look even stupider.
My favourite response after someone says something dumb "So I gather that today is not your turn, for the family brain cell" It hits a home run every time, never had anyone be able to retort after that.
@@Curiosit_1 Wow! 22 ? but English may be more official than the other 22 . PK learns languages by holding hands : ruclips.net/video/0RhDOpSnCqs/видео.html
@@luisgalleguillos4868 English & Hindi two languages are more official rather than other official languages. And I said only offocial language, in India there are 22+ languages are spoken plus with too many different dialects. Can you tell me where are you from bro?
My favorite will probably be Number 4, simple but effective and also easy for the intended rude person I replied to understand. As most often sophisticated "insult" can be a bit difficult to get thru their brain
This is very valuable for people who never know what to say. I'm going to show this video to my teenage Granddaughter because she always freezes up when someone says hurtful things. My handy answer to people saying negative things about/to me is to reply "Yeah, so?"
When I'm confronted and "never" in the mood, I always first warn bullies and insulters with a calm demeanor and a stern look to be really, very careful of what they think they want to say next. It creates a chance to verbally disarm them, and it usually makes them ponder. It's important that you own the situation. Their sense of sorry or fear can turn into respect in your honor if they don't persist. Just be ready if they reload.
As an outsider, what do you think of the human race? Used that one once as a teenager toward an adult that was verbally harassing me. My father was standing nearby and I expected a lecture, but he said "That was really funny....but risky. Be careful how you use that." My current favorite is, "You can't hurt my feelings. I've been married." Especially effective against married women and divorcees.
RE: #3, I used the phrase “did you learn to be a jerk or were you born that way?” Your way is more elegant, lol. 🤣 another phrase I have used “ I refuse to get into a battle of wits with an unarmed person”.
Hi. Pretty good content. I like a lot of the clever responses to the insults. Some of the sentences are not grammatically correct. A foreign language is difficult to conquer its grammar perfectly. So I get that. I don't want to sound critical but since this is a teaching course, the first thing to do is to remove the "question mark" from the title. "How To Respond When People Insult You? " is a statement. It is not a question. If you want a question mark you'd need to change it to "How do you Respond When People Insult You? There are a few more grammatical errors in some of the statements that need to be tweaked. Thanks.
I really have a problem giving a comeback to someone even though I want to and the person deserves. Something in me just stops. Might be because I will feel really bad and hurt knowing I have offended someone. Don't know what's my problem 😒😒
The book of Isaiah in the bible, chapter 55, verse 10-11 tells us that the spoken word is like rain - it has to be RECEIVED for it to be helpful or damaging. So therefore all you have to do is NOTHING - but do not receive the word - and it (like the rain) will return to the place it came from....which in the case of someone speaking nasty things means it goes right back to them. VENGENCE is mine, says the Lord, I WILL REPAY..... we just have to trust Him to do it.
Speaking as a native English speaker, I would be very cautious giving most of these replies. Yes, they are funny, the English is perfect and they show wit and wisdom, but you are not going to stop someone picking on you, say if you are a foreigner in an English-speaking country by using them. From experience, being "clever" with someone makes them hate you more and they look for more ways to get at you. I think a better way is to ignore them, even pretend you don't understand. Perhaps be self-deprecating, if they are saying you are clumsy or stupid, you actually get sympathy from anyone else watching and they are likely to tell the person who is picking on you to leave you alone.
Gahana, just do not receive what your schoolmates say. The book of Isaiah in the bible, chapter 55, verse 10-11 tells us that the spoken word is like rain - it has to be RECEIVED for it to be helpful or damaging. So therefore all you have to do is NOTHING - but do not receive the word - and it (like the rain) will return to the place it came from....which in the case of someone speaking nasty things means it goes right back to them. VENGENCE is mine, says the Lord, I WILL REPAY..... we just have to know that He loves us and trust Him to do it.
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Pls next words expressing intensity
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Do you live in USA? I think I might have seen you at Trader Joe’s
you are a great INDIAN
Best one " I know where to invest my time. Hope you know that too.." . To classy and indirect.😉👍
Matlab?
That's weak.
You're telling the troll you're going to stuff your head... Finish my sentence
@@hypeupexpress1091 matlab ke mujhe pata hai mujhe apna time kaha use krna hai
Hope ke tumhe bhi pata hai tumhe apne behaviour or khud ko sudharne me apna tume lagana chahiye
Indirect
😅 only legends know what does it mean....😂
In comments section 😂
"Weak people revenge. Strong people forgive. Intelligent people ignore." - Albert Einstein :-)
Einstein is so right!
Also people who constantly say mean things to upset you hate being ignored & hate that you don't react in anyway shape or form.
Duh?!
He has been written at length on 🤔 Two things are infinite: the universe and human stupidity; and I'm not sure about the universe. 😉
Idk what others think but I feel like ignoring those insults and etc... make me like a coward 💔👄💔
@@joonieisreal2033
It makes you a strong, brave individual!
The people who taunt & say mean things are the true cowards!
There’s always:
Some truth behind “I’m just kidding”, knowledge behind, “I don’t know”,
Emotions behind “ I don’t care”,
And pain behind, “It’s okay”.
Let’s treat each other with love and respect....
♥️
right some of the last ones were a little nasty ..
Ghanta
❤️❤️❤️
Love is terrible to hate.
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I knew a hateful woman who said to me, "I'm so sorry people don't like you." I came right back with "HEY!! I don't tell you what they think of YOU!!!" She was stunned.
Could you rephrase your reply?
Response:
I know, I've always felt the same way about you... with all these people pretending to be your friends and then laughing at you behind your back.
Every time I look at you I think.... what a waste of human flesh.
What's that on your shoulders?
Did your neck throw up?
You're comeback was kinda lame. Probably why people dont like you.
👍🏻
NICE, Diane!
The guy insulting has to be educated enough to understand our replies 🤣🤣🤣
@Nithu yeah so what?
Yep
Ha ha, lol
🤣
Are you indian tho
My favorite come back is looking at the person who just insulted you and saying, " I'm sorry, I didn't catch that, I was right in the middle of ignoring you"
I once picked up a stick and the woman asked "Are you thinking of hitting me with that ?" and I replied...."No...I was thinking about using it to turn you into a toad "
Once heard a guy reply to a verbal attack by saying, “How’s your wife and my kids?”. The attacker lost his composure and never recovered his “game”. Hilarious to watch one guy win by causing the other guy to totally lose it.
@@BlatantSockPuppet good one
@@cierakitty With the right graphics, it would make a lovely bumper sticker.
The best is that " Isn't it strange that 'Awesome' ends with 'me' ?? " Neither does it hurt someone, but also increases your respect in the heart of that person!! Loved this video!! ♥️♥️
😂😂😂
Other person could counter back saying, that you end / finish/kill "awesomeness"
(if that's a word)
@@jaitrasaketh767
Then I'll say
Sounds weird from you 😂
@@jaitrasaketh767 also- the Awesome-Ugly equation- I feel it can be used by other person as well.
Above all, I think Awesome is me... can be a lot egoistic, as also Ugly- being you- is too condescending!Just my Thoughts! 😊
How does it increase your respect in the heart of someone you hurt.
He loves all of these insults and seeing him hold back the giggling while reading them to his millions and millions of audience members.
You go, Sir.
How about :
“I am sorry you feel this way”
“Thank you for the kind remarks, you are a bundle of joy”
“Well then, it must really takes one to know one”
“ okay then… and your point is?…”
“Hmmmmm, if you say so, happy? ”
“Are you constipated? you seem to be in distressed.“
“Feed your own ego. I’m busy.”
“I can agree to disagree, there… happy?”
“Your ass must be pretty jealous of all the shit that comes out of your mouth.”
“Don’t be ashamed of who you are. That’s your parent’s job.”
“Remember when I asked for your opinion? Me neither.”
😇👏👏👏
ass jealous. .that's new 😂😂
😂😂
I love no.9
Loved it mind blowing
Interesting that a person who is apparently not a native speaker can educate us so eloquently on nuances of directed sarcasm. Well done, sir!
Pretty interesting that some people believe that you have to be a native speaker to master a language.
@@djantouahmed7319 it’s far harder for non-native speakers to inculcate English’s nuances and idioms. He did it far better than a majority of Native American English speakers. Kudos to OP!
Your reply sounded sarcastic & insulting. Are you North American? Many countries speak very good English much better than Americans, that's why the British always say that America does not speak english, they speak american.
@@mrnmrn1628 my reply was certainly was not meant to be sarcastic or belittling. In point of fact, you adroitly brought to my attention that I, who was born in this country 70 years ago and having a BA, improperly use the phrase “Native American English speakers” when I was attempting to identity those persons whose first language was (American - not the Queen’s) English. Unfortunately, I failed my first attempt and almost bungled the correction. Thank you for bringing it to my attention as my attempt was to praise OP’s command of our common language, especially since it wasn’t his first
Is he Indian? India’s official langue is English. not in the US
My favourite phrase on the list is "You look cute when you're shut up" I may use it in front of my friends who keep blabbering for no good reason.
Besides, I want to give my own phrase to tackle with the same situation, just like one of the phrases shown today, I can say "Let me guess, have you had something bitter/ spicy in your breakfast?" because you're bumming everyone out here with this slury look.
Good one!
I thought you're cute when you're mad
@Ernie Hettinger Yes, it will work only in informal situations where you might get a chance to use for a cynic or naysayer whom I hope you don't find any such people.
@@condorX2 😂 Long time ago a boyfriend made me angry and then said I looked so cute when I was angry. That made me get angrier and I yelled back at him that he better look out because I was about to become absolutely beautiful! 😂
@@annarodriguez9868 😜🤘
My Mom has always says ‘ it hurts more to ignore’. Meaning if the person really means to insult or hurt your feelings, ignoring or behaving like you haven’t heard will drive them insane. I know…I used it a lot when I was being bullied at school.
My mum says the same thing hubby hates it lol 😂
It is also said "Do not feed the troll". Essentially the same.
Hi, I was bullied at school a lot. And I got hurt as well. I believe you that it is hard to ignore those hard feelings when you were at school. I1 had the same as you.
It drives my family members who loves to deliberately verbally hurt me crazy when I do continual talking current discussion at hand as if they had not spoken. I don't give them verbal nor physical satisfaction reaction responses to their comments. It works like charm to put these family members in confusion reactions with my ignored verbal responses to their verbal attacks. I do already have my emotional shield up when I am around them nowdays once I have realized how to shut them down without giving them satisfaction responses that they wanted from me. I have chosen to fully ignored them verbally and emotionally by treating them like they had said nothing to me because I refuse to give them satisfaction in hurting myself.
Sometimes, a few words are needed to shut their mouth at once
Here is my favorite one “I just took headache pill, why are you still here?” 😂
Haha 🤣
Emotional damage*
That was best dude
@Nithu glad it brought smile on your face. Keep smiling, it’s the best attire! 😘
@@V_Salvatore08 😀
I like this guy. He’s the kind of guy who would break down the simplest jokes.
Good man.
These are golden words to produce tranquility in our minds without doing too much for rooting out negativity....
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Here's a couple:
1) Just say "Stop being annoying"
2) Or you can say "Do that trick again" When the offender says "What trick?" Reply "Open your mouth and make your head disappear"
Yes.
That trick!
Put your brain in neutral and open you mouth.
“Are you born like that or trained by professionals?” is the best counter. It emphasized that either the toxic person is a descendant of a rude person OR his/her father and mother taught to be rude. Both meaning will shut he/she for good 😂
My husbands niece is like her MOTHER Haha we just ignore them both. I ignore her all the time
You can say that again.
A rewording of #16 might be something like: "I'd like to have a battle of wits with you, but I'm too polite to fight someone who's unarmed".
Or say, "Matching wits with you would be like duck hunting with a howitzer"
I wish I could use this a work with the nasty brat, but she is truly slow-witted & I'd probably be reprimanded for insulting her disability.
A girl kept telling me "I'm going to heaven & your going to hell."
I got fed up with her & one day I replied "Good because I wouldn't want to spend eternity with anyone like you!".
Advice from an American (if you care). If someone insults you to hurt you, don’t say anything, just separate yourself from them. In America today there are all kinds of crazy people walking among us. Trying to “insult them back” could escalate the situation. It’s not worth it.
Agreed👍
Yes, allowing them to control you, by lowering yourself to their level won't improve your status among those who really count.
This is good in the workplace. Because if the coworker complains to a superior, and the superior asks you what happened, YOU can then honestly report that YOU didn't say or do anything...you walked away. Then all the drama from the coworker is on them, even if they said you said rude things to them. And any witnesses can't spin or mishear your words....because you spoke none.
@@miker252 Well said…..
All those replies are clever enough that I don’t think it would escalate though. That’s kinda the point.
#21: SIMPLY DO NOT RESPOND .. REMEMBER - SILENCE IS GOLDEN, SILENCE IS DIVINE ..
Yes silence if golden but Duct tape is silver!
Yes Amit... the book of Isaiah in the bible,chapter 55, verse 10-11 tells us that the spoken word is like rain - it has to be RECEIVED for it to be helpful or damaging. So therefore all you have to do is NOTHING - but do not receive the word - and it (like the rain) will return to the place it came from....which in the case of someone speaking nasty things means it goes right back to them. VENGENCE is mine, says the Lord, I WILL REPAY..... we just have to trust Him to do it.
Aye that is often for the best. I might also just tell them to calm down or maybe even thank them.
I like, "If one's words are not better than silence, one should remain silent".
Or, if you want to keep things simple, f**k you or eat s**t.
@@donacooper4340 I'm going to remember that one LOL! 😂
One of my all-time favorite sayings when responding to an insult still gets to be "I know you are but what am I". It's an oldie but a goodie. lol
Masterpiece was - " You're lyk terms n conditions.. everyone ignores them too"..✨
Years ago I responded just like all these but when I started reading the Bible and live the peace of Christ in my heart, it changed my attitudes towards others. :)
Very true, one time some one was saying I was the devil, in front of others, I just replied OK you little angel, everyone laugh
Agreed!
The best way to respond is with the Love of God, smile and bless them...they never expect that kind of answer...and it stops them in their track...might even convict a few of them of their hurtfull behaviour. 🙏
"Do not answer a fool according to his folly, Lest you also be like him. Answer a fool according to his folly, Lest he be wise in his own eyes.
Proverbs 26:4-5 NKJV"
#14 can also be used as a compliment to someone feeling down. Used a similar line to a girlfriend who felt low. "I wish you could see you through my eyes, you would realize how amazing you are." 'Cause she was.
As a native English speaker I would just ignore it or say “I feel sorry for you that you find your worth in insulting people.”
plot twist: none of your friends understand english😂
Literally...
Chilla chilla ke poori scheme bata de
Hindi mai translate kro
Par accha hona chiye sunne mai!
Yeah bro
So translate this in hindi
What I always say to a mean person is..."I'll pray for you to be a better person" and walk away.
The book of Isaiah in the bible, chapter 55, verse 10-11 tells us that the spoken word is like rain - it has to be RECEIVED for it to be helpful or damaging. So therefore all you have to do is NOTHING - but do not receive the word - and it (like the rain) will return to the place it came from....which in the case of someone speaking nasty things means it goes right back to them. VENGENCE is mine, says the Lord, I WILL REPAY..... we just have to trust Him to do it.
Amen I love that one we don't want to offend others
I always say, "Did your parents have any children that lived?"
Excellent! Wish my parents or teachers had taught me these when I was a kid!! Still feel the effects of being bullied 60 years ago!
I wish I didn't understand your pain..I was bullied constantly in school and those scars don't heal well.even after 60 years plus. Peace and Blessings to you.😊
I have been there, trauma truly does not have an expiration date.
@@TorchMagick The scars stay with you, I know.
@@kevincampbell5785 Thanks ever so much for your kind wishes. Peace and Blessings!😀
@@TorchMagick You're welcome. Good wishes to you, too!
I believe your explanation of the insult fits better with English colloquial. One you could add is, "Was that your insult? I really thought your could do better." then ignore them, and if they persist, "Eh, better luck next time, you should probably go practice because I'm embarrassed for you."
One of my favourite is similar your no.3. I say to people “Do you work very hard at being offensive….or does it just come naturally?” It’s a great one because there’s no good answer either-way. They always shut-up.
If someone says something mean you can say "Who hurt you?" Makes them instantly look and feel like the victim.
Yes, or "I'm sorry that you're feeling ill today" when they say they're not I respond "only a sick person acts like that".
My version, "I forgive you for treating me the way you feel about yourself."
One of the classiest I've ever heard (overheard) was a busybody gossip asking another lady about something personal and she simply replied " I distinctly remember forgetting that" and walked away.
The best response I've ever heard (and used) when being insulted was "I'm sure coming from you that is a compliment."
The best one for me is, WHAT IS IT THAT YOU DONT LIKE ABOUT YOURSELF ?
Knowing you, I'll take that as a compliment.
I watch these and try to keep up in my brain, but when someone actually insults, BOOM!! I forget the lines and smile.
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Would practicing some banter with friends help ?
Me, too! Tonight my husband's sister tried to make us look infantile once again; I just stared at her for a second, and then said, "it doesn't matter". She'll take it the wrong way, unfortunately.
my mom and dad had two phrases they used to respond to some empty-headed comment:
1. " It is far better to remain silent and be thought stupid, than to open one's mouth and remove all doubt."
2. "be sure brain is in gear before engaging mouth!"
My favorite is: “Well, if I agree with you then we’d BOTH be wrong!” (-:
I forgot about that one. Been a while since I've used it. Thanks!
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I am so using this next time a certain someone tells me the sun is green.
I got an ignorant insult expressed to me while in the Navy in 1978. A peer in rank stated. "You ain't Shiite" to which without even thinking I said "Why Thank You, I wish I could say the same for you" He got insulted and walked away.
The fact that he’s explaining each insult is hilarious 😆
HE SEEMS SO WHOLESOME THAT I FIND IT SO DAMN CUTE AND ENDEARING.
He's explaining the insults within half of the actual "insults".
He's funny not real
@@abdulgunners883 this is satire? I thought he was serious
@@mustwereallydothis I believe in reality when the actual event happens.. this quotes are to teach and impress people..Eg it's like if I were to ask him what if someone insults or punches me on the face he will say to me tell him..Thank you. 🤔
"Go apologize to the first tree you see, for wasting the air it replaces" is also a profound statement
My God! I can say this one is one of the most interesting classes and a hilarious one too. I caught myself laughing at the intonation how Hridaan sir said them. Hope i can borrow an inch of your confidence while i speak these. Looking forward to more such fascinating classes. 💕☘️
Which one?
You drunk talkin
Here's one I have for when someone belittles me for being (or seeming to be) on a lower level of intelligence or overall value: "Well, I was dropped on my head when I was a baby. What's your excuse?"
Well said😂😂😂😂
The best one is @(you are like terms and conditions)Everyone ignores them as well .
If someone insults you out of the blue, it's because they perceive that you have something they don't.
In other words, they already acknowledge that you are better than them in some way.
That is why they must smack you down.
That could not possibly be more true.
"u look cute when you're shut up" I just loved it😁..Thank you for this video ☺️
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"Tum sirf deekhte chutye ho par ho nai"
Well done. Another favorite...
I appreciate how you have become such a good listener!
Have a blessed day.
In love and light
Finally something Savage and classy at the same time 🔥
One of my co-workers tried to tell me what to do yesterday. I said,” Hey, when you’re done pretending your my supervisor, let’s pretend to be astronauts, it’s more fun and more likely to come true”. BOOM!!!!!
One that I made up is “I realize you went to public school. Try to follow along“ if they reply “I went to private school!“ I then say “I’d say you’re entitled to a refund“
Am from Oxford. These aren't bad. 50% I would recommend 👌
The one I use usually with rude cashiers, stewardesses, random Karens is " you can't talk to me like that we're not married"
LOL I should use that one next time somebody starts with me
Be southern and polite.."Well, bless your heart. "
(Southeastern United States uses that phrase to tell someone that they are an idiot. )
Oh, that's a GOOD one!!!
I also like "I'm glad I was born with two ears, so that what you've just said can go in one and out the other".
*_Silent_* *_is_* *_the_* *_best_* *_answer_* *_for_* *_someone_* *_who_* *_insults_* *_you_* 💜💜💜
Yes, VK Buddies, and here is why: as soon as you open your mouth in reply you take it out of God's hands to deal with it. The book of Isaiah in the bible, chapter 55, verse 10-11 tells us that the spoken word is like rain - it has to be RECEIVED for it to be helpful or damaging. So therefore all you have to do is NOTHING - but do not receive the word - and it (like the rain) will return to the place it came from....which in the case of someone speaking nasty things means it goes right back to them. VENGENCE is mine, says the Lord, I WILL REPAY..... we just have to know that He loves us and trust Him to do it.
My favorite thing to say to an insult is "I'll take that into consideration." They know you won't take it into consideration. It sounds polite but it's an indirect way to say "I don't care what you say."
Can't express how thankful I am to you for bringing these up.
I liked the one that goes: "I know where to invest my time, hope you know that too." ..✨✨✨ I will keep it in my arsenal 😁😁
Appreciate this video as we all need to learn to put up with free speech and opposing views without violence.
#21 "You don't know me well enough to say that." Learned this one from my German sister-in-law. When I have used it, it is like giving someone a verbal right hook that they have inappropriately crossed a personal line.
Respect!
Thanks for sharing knowledge and sarcasm style! Love it!
My mother's friend would say to someone who is rude, "Sorry your having a bad day". It puts the problem back on them.
Superb video ! 👍 Loved it .
How I wish I knew these earlier!
Anyway, never too late . Thank you 👍
#6 was the best " Best advice to you - Stop being you."
Best one "I do not have the time to deal with your stupidity" get um every time 👌
If it was me, simply I just smiled and said "Thank you for your comment, I'm who I am and you are just who you are"
But the moment you replied de tu b6 you took it out of God's hands to deal with it. The book of Isaiah in the bible, chapter 55, verse 10-11 tells us that the spoken word is like rain - it has to be RECEIVED for it to be helpful or damaging. So therefore all you have to do is NOTHING - but do not receive the word - and it (like the rain) will return to the place it came from....which in the case of someone speaking nasty things means it goes right back to them. VENGENCE is mine, says the Lord, I WILL REPAY..... we just have to know that He loves us and trust Him to do it.
I like to say, "gee, can you think of a more creative insult than that?" or, "the less you say, the smarter you sound"
A personal favourite of mine is "Don't feel bad... If I were an idiot,I'd act just like you." Yes,I've used it often,and don't feel bad for having done so...😀
My Fav response to an insult>> "you should try thinking before you speak, it'll a whole new experience for you"
I’ve always liked “I’ve been called worse by better people than you” ;)
Me, too, I once heard it in a movie.
Brilliant I shall be using these very clever phrases
I would love to use these phrases on my bullies, but the thing is they don't have enough brain cells and IQ to understand them🙂.
Try saying to them "did you bring your lunch to work or did you take a bus?" By the time they figure out that there is no sense to that they'll look even stupider.
@@janicedale1413 Man now I look stupid because I was trying to make sense of it. Lol. I'll go beat myself up now.
My favourite response after someone says something dumb "So I gather that today is not your turn, for the family brain cell" It hits a home run every time, never had anyone be able to retort after that.
Ouch 😂
I would rather be direct and say "f*** off" to someone who is rude to me for no reason. My logic is simple, give respect and take respect. 😂
Tell them to save their breath for their inflatable date.
Great presentation! Wish I had these tips when I was younger.
Oh my gosh
Your pronounciation is very clear.
I can't imagine you are an indian.
Indian English is excellent and clear as compared to other speakers.
It is their official language and learned since infancy with their other languages.
@@luisgalleguillos4868 yes, English is official language in India along with other 22 official Languages.
@@Curiosit_1 Wow! 22 ? but English may be more official than the other 22 . PK learns languages by holding hands :
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@@luisgalleguillos4868 English & Hindi two languages are more official rather than other official languages. And I said only offocial language, in India there are 22+ languages are spoken plus with too many different dialects.
Can you tell me where are you from bro?
@@luisgalleguillos4868Forget about PK movie because PK is a nonsense movie🤣 there is not any logic in the movie.
Bollywood is just a shit
Stupendous! A billion thanks for providing me the knowledge of such beautiful as well as sophisticated lines/ phrases.
🙏 It was much needed to learn.
You have such a lovely tone of voice, does it come naturally or did you learn this tone...please create content on your voice 😊
My favourites - 'Freedom of speech lets everyone know who the idiots are' and 'Your entitled to your wrong opinion'.
A really unique and interesting idea!!!!
Loved it!!
Excellent! And Thank you!🌺
We need more of this for a text based scenarios (keeping keyboard warriors in mind on social media) where in person experiences are non existent.
My favorite will probably be Number 4, simple but effective and also easy for the intended rude person I replied to understand. As most often sophisticated "insult" can be a bit difficult to get thru their brain
Spot on!!! With class and finesse...Great Work Guys!!!
This is very valuable for people who never know what to say. I'm going to show this video to my teenage Granddaughter because she always freezes up when someone says hurtful things. My handy answer to people saying negative things about/to me is to reply "Yeah, so?"
When I'm confronted and "never" in the mood, I always first warn bullies and insulters with a calm demeanor and a stern look to be really, very careful of what they think they want to say next. It creates a chance to verbally disarm them, and it usually makes them ponder. It's important that you own the situation. Their sense of sorry or fear can turn into respect in your honor if they don't persist. Just be ready if they reload.
I Love wisdom like this.
Thank you.
It is even part of the best medicine routine.
As an outsider, what do you think of the human race? Used that one once as a teenager toward an adult that was verbally harassing me. My father was standing nearby and I expected a lecture, but he said "That was really funny....but risky. Be careful how you use that."
My current favorite is, "You can't hurt my feelings. I've been married." Especially effective against married women and divorcees.
Always enjoying broadening my horizons
You are my favorite English language teacher. Keep it up!♥️♥️♥️
Your words have hurt the haters so ard, well explained, i love to use it on my opo when situation permits
RE: #3, I used the phrase “did you learn to be a jerk or were you born that way?” Your way is more elegant, lol. 🤣 another phrase I have used “ I refuse to get into a battle of wits with an unarmed person”.
This was so good! I'd love to see more videos like this about how to defuse a situation with humor or humble honesty.👏🏆
Hi. Pretty good content. I like a lot of the clever responses to the insults. Some of the sentences are not grammatically correct. A foreign language is difficult to conquer its grammar perfectly. So I get that. I don't want to sound critical but since this is a teaching course, the first thing to do is to remove the "question mark" from the title. "How To Respond When People Insult You? " is a statement. It is not a question. If you want a question mark you'd need to change it to "How do you Respond When People Insult You? There are a few more grammatical errors in some of the statements that need to be tweaked. Thanks.
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These are some pretty good ones.
These are all good, but remember it depends on the conversation and it's the execution that counts.
Tanks for your lessons
I really have a problem giving a comeback to someone even though I want to and the person deserves. Something in me just stops. Might be because I will feel really bad and hurt knowing I have offended someone. Don't know what's my problem 😒😒
mostly one goes in shock cos the people you trust as your friends judge you and bust you like that
Same here, try to avoid think about what other would think about your response. It helped in my case.
Same
The book of Isaiah in the bible, chapter 55, verse 10-11 tells us that the spoken word is like rain - it has to be RECEIVED for it to be helpful or damaging. So therefore all you have to do is NOTHING - but do not receive the word - and it (like the rain) will return to the place it came from....which in the case of someone speaking nasty things means it goes right back to them. VENGENCE is mine, says the Lord, I WILL REPAY..... we just have to trust Him to do it.
I do not consider that a problem. You seem to be a kind soul.
Nice. I liked them. Thank you.
Speaking as a native English speaker, I would be very cautious giving most of these replies. Yes, they are funny, the English is perfect and they show wit and wisdom, but you are not going to stop someone picking on you, say if you are a foreigner in an English-speaking country by using them. From experience, being "clever" with someone makes them hate you more and they look for more ways to get at you. I think a better way is to ignore them, even pretend you don't understand. Perhaps be self-deprecating, if they are saying you are clumsy or stupid, you actually get sympathy from anyone else watching and they are likely to tell the person who is picking on you to leave you alone.
Brilliant! May i adjust these and let you know the results?
My schoolmates laugh at me because of my speaking style... And Now I am gonna use these phrases with them ... Thanks a lot sir.
Gahana, just do not receive what your schoolmates say. The book of Isaiah in the bible, chapter 55, verse 10-11 tells us that the spoken word is like rain - it has to be RECEIVED for it to be helpful or damaging. So therefore all you have to do is NOTHING - but do not receive the word - and it (like the rain) will return to the place it came from....which in the case of someone speaking nasty things means it goes right back to them. VENGENCE is mine, says the Lord, I WILL REPAY..... we just have to know that He loves us and trust Him to do it.