It is quite odd how she said she'd rather be a pick me than a skip me and she has always been skipped and now is arguing with married men on how to be married.
Pearl just has no clue what it’s actually like to be in a relationship. My husband and I both do chores but I do more because I’m home way more. It is fine for couples to split the chores however they want, you just have to agree. She’s just clueless and immature.
Agree, married 10 years its my biggest complaint with RP'r trying to dictate household roles via strict gender archetypes. Biological differences, interests, and social norms will TEND couples into similar roles, but you don't do them just because its your assigned gender duty, but because you BOTH communicated and concluded (through trail, error, discussion, and resolution) this the most efficient way to keep the household functional AND HAPPY (an aspect Pearl doesn't seem to think is important in a marriage). This is a CONSTANT communicative process that gets updated and altered over time parallel with the ebb and flow of life. I get the impression Pearl thinks all relationship discussions should be concluded by the time you walk the isle, and if a problem pops up once married, your SoL and its the woman's fault for picking wrong. Sorry, but marriage is constant work. No matter how perfect the initial union, you are still 2 individuals trying to share in a single life and that requires active communication, and making space for each others feelings. Enforcing marriage gender obligations might prevent a physical divorce, but it sure as hell won't fix a broken marriage if your just going through the motions rather than actually listening to your spouse as the individual human being they are.
The study that Pearl referenced was from the 90's. In Aba's rebuttal he found a more recent study that basically stated that couples that shared house duties have a better sex life.
@Girl in the Striped Sweater I know that she gave the time frame, but she should know better that a study 30 years ago is not going to be valid. It said that the demo group was mid 40's. Im pretty sure most of those people are dead. So it wouldn't apply now.
@@KeddyG90 Um, 30+44 = 73? That's not to say some of the people haven't died, but it's possible that most of the participants are still alive. Now if the study was done in the early 70s, it'd be fairer to say that everyone in the study are dead lol
“We’re both so fucking ugly. Thank God I’m a man.” 💀 Pearl really is a talented gymnast. The way she ACTIVELY misses the point to avoid agreeing with people she disagrees with. Even her aunt was mainly talking about being charitable in her assumptions that her kid and husband weren’t actively doing something with the thought “I know my (mom or wife) hates this, but fuck her idc.” There’s middle ground. But Pearl read that as “my aunt just shoved down her feelings about messiness and smiled and took it.” Along with her refusing to accept a hypothetical situation. I’m stuck between thinking Pearl’s dad either had a side family in India and that’s why she’s cool with cheating or it’s entirely just a pick me thing. Either way, woof.
Her arguments are so frustrating. This issue isn’t chores. The issue is being in a balanced relationship with respect to each partner. When the relationship isn’t balanced, it can become a burden.
My mom left my dad because she was sick of doing the chores by herself. Then he married my stepmom who mommies him and he built a pool, a hot tub, a patio, finished the basement, and did all the shrubbery, so they have a good trade off. But she also still complains about how my dad can’t do any chores right and she understands why my mom left. Nobody’s perfect but somebody is better suit for you than somebody else
This. Preach! My ex husband and I had an amicable divorce and we still chat from time to time and he seems a lot happier with his new partner and he does a lot more for her. I came to the conclusion that he wasn't happy either and we just weren't right for each other. Both our hearts were in the right place and we genuinely had honest intentions but if it isn't right, it just isn't right and your behavior is a dead giveaway. I'm happy for him, genuinely.
Her example of living with 8 or 9 other siblings isn't the same as living with a spouse or bf/gf. Its down right idiotic to compare those two things they drastically different.
I must say A&P must have it hard, in my life I’ve learned that you get the most hate when you try to be nuanced and in middle. You they’ve criticized extreme leftist to radical RedPillers all alike. I respect it tho, I could never call them panderers
SwagKage Yep. It's amazing that they have such a large following considering they sit in the middle. It's re-assuring to know people have balanced pov's.
My sister just said that not wanting to be like Pearl has motivated her to get her shit together XD. Keep up the good work papa gut, you got the whole fam watching!
This comment literally makes my soul happy. Wanting to be the opposite of Pearl is the goal of someone who’s fuckin going places. I believe in your sister more than most of humanity 😂
Marraige isnt supposed to be hard, it can be hard at times but ive been married almost 10 years now and my marraige is probably the easiest part of my life.
It's because she panders to her redpill audience for clout. That's why no matter how many times she gets humbled she still retains the same deluded views.
Pearl doesn't "get" chores- they had hired help for that. She's never had to maintain a HOME herself- she's still living off of Daddy's money at 26 (at least she pretends to be.) This isn't even a dig, I honestly think she has NO concept of the work it goes into to care for a household while holding a 40 hr+ a week job.
Someone should ask Pearl if she just wants marriage or if she wants a happy and healthy marriage. You can eat shit all day for the sake of just staying married, but chances are you’re gonna be miserable. If you’re not happy what are the chances that your partner is gonna be happy?
And what about the kids seeing a "happy relationship"? Something about Pearl's recent controversy and her musing that "these reactors" have never seen a healthy relationship rubbed me the wrong way- I realize I'm stretching, but... it's Pearl. I give her no leeway. Sidenote: As a kid it was my job to mow the lawn (and I'm a girl- gasp) - isn't that most children's first job? I know I have tons of 15-16 y/os in my neighborhood advertising to mow lawns in the summer.
Washing your meat rinses off the grimy fat and left over rememants of gritty bone from the butchering process. You can put the meat in a bowl and rinse it. That keeps raw meat drippings from dripping everywhere.
Not surprised that Pearl advocates for toxic positivity with her whole aunt anecdote. Are you miserable about having to clean up after your grown ass adult spouse no matter how much you've tried to make them aware? No problem! Just change your mind set and act like them disregarding your time and feelings is because they actually just love you. Perfect recipe for a happy healthy marriage 🙄
The family? Why would you teach your child it's ok for a man to bring nothing to the table in a relationship while you drown? Your choice is to enable him by picking up his slack or live in filth. Neither is a good example for the child.
Why do people always specify that someone has “beautiful kids”? As if you’re telling me about someone & you say “they have 3 kids” ima turn around & be like “hold up, are these kids ugly or what?”😂
Or when somebody says "I have X beautiful kids," but then you see the little sh!ts and they're fugly as hell. I'm firmly convinced that the "beautiful" qualifier is a cope for a lot of people.
From the way you made fun of pearls mom making fun of her weight to you singing like a church choir, I haven’t cracked up from a vid in a while - thank you
"I grew up with 9 siblings" and? Were you close enough to experience all personalities, or were you the sibling that the others don't really interact with and were pretty much strangers? There's a difference 😂
People that have bad behavior love being babied by someone. It makes them feel that they’re in the right and therefore don’t have to change their behavior. It’s easier to blame women for everything instead of developing a personality that’s not insufferable lmao.
People with 2 working hemispheres don't 🤷🏾 stopped at women should get to vote unless we get drafted too or we pick what our husband's/ head male says.
That's what should scare people about Pearl. Like, I get she's so stupid it's almost kind of funny, but there are really thousands of people lost enough to think that this person is genuine and correct. Those people are walking around with us and voting.
Honestly I wanna believe she believes this because then atleast it would be from an honest place, but she cashing in on people who are hurting and seeking companionship. And instead of helping get that, she just say YES THESE BI+CHES AINT SH!T, YOU GO KING.
I wonder if she still holds the same energy if "a woman isn't doing any chores"- how does that hypothetical work out? Marriage vows still sacred? Even if she works fulltime w/ kids? And why do The Vows not matter when it comes to cheating Pearl? Contradiction, eh?
@@skinsey85 well I'm currently doing some math equations to figure out if my theory may be true but it also looks like I may need to hire a private investigator just to get my answer
I've seen it a few times where the person learns about some untruths from their side and flip completely to the other side as if everything from their original side are all lies... Then they go on to represent the other side poorly.
When I first started watching Pearl, I was sorta blinded by my own bias. I had a love-hate relationship with red pill content. But with these videos coming out challenging her ideas and credibility, I'm starting to be more open-minded.
@@missaliciaxxxx With Pearl, I've watched her every now and then for a few months. It took as long as it did because I never really bothered to dig deeper. I got caught up in all the cool talking points, the superficial things.
I was subcribed to her maybe 2 years ago, when she had around 11k subcribers. Then i unfollowed bc her content was lacking, like putting up 10 useless shorts every 2 hours. I would periodically circle back to see what she was doing and she is definitely pandering mad hard
it makes no sence, I have been married longer than she has been alive. I am a better cook than my wife and she evens says it but we both share things around the house as we have gotten older my wife does things like cut the grass granted we have a riding motor now that we didnt have 30 years ago when we first got married. I am more of the cook at the house specially outdoors cooking. We have a shark that vacuums the house, so it really gets less things to do as you get older.
My parents have been married for 46 years and have always shared the household responsibilities, and worked together on the ones that required a team effort. In their early 50's they sold the house I grew up in, bought some land and built an off-grid cabin on it with their own two hands. Together. They since moved into an apartment due to the health complications that come with age, but they still share the labor.
Nah. It's a lame excuse. Marriage is meant to be a life time commitment. Besides, men typically do do chores and always have. Even when more women were housewives.
Wtf are you talking about. No, men do not and have not typically done chores in the home. Even now, when both work full time, the woman still does most of the house work and child rearing. Ypur point is entirely false. Marriage was created to protect lineage. It had nothing to do with love. Today, it is about love and partnership, and a divorce is better than an unhappy marriage.
No one gets papa gut more worked up than JustPickmethings
Love this
It is quite odd how she said she'd rather be a pick me than a skip me and she has always been skipped and now is arguing with married men on how to be married.
It’s not easy to be that clueless. I find it quite fascinating how she manages to reach those “conclusions”. 😵💫
*delusion😂
She's basically a troll full-time
She gets mad at AP for talking about their experiences and then uses her own experiences in her arguments.
Papa guts CAN YOU FIX A CAR fucking killed me it was so funny
Pearl just has no clue what it’s actually like to be in a relationship. My husband and I both do chores but I do more because I’m home way more. It is fine for couples to split the chores however they want, you just have to agree. She’s just clueless and immature.
Agree, married 10 years its my biggest complaint with RP'r trying to dictate household roles via strict gender archetypes. Biological differences, interests, and social norms will TEND couples into similar roles, but you don't do them just because its your assigned gender duty, but because you BOTH communicated and concluded (through trail, error, discussion, and resolution) this the most efficient way to keep the household functional AND HAPPY (an aspect Pearl doesn't seem to think is important in a marriage).
This is a CONSTANT communicative process that gets updated and altered over time parallel with the ebb and flow of life.
I get the impression Pearl thinks all relationship discussions should be concluded by the time you walk the isle, and if a problem pops up once married, your SoL and its the woman's fault for picking wrong. Sorry, but marriage is constant work. No matter how perfect the initial union, you are still 2 individuals trying to share in a single life and that requires active communication, and making space for each others feelings. Enforcing marriage gender obligations might prevent a physical divorce, but it sure as hell won't fix a broken marriage if your just going through the motions rather than actually listening to your spouse as the individual human being they are.
The study that Pearl referenced was from the 90's. In Aba's rebuttal he found a more recent study that basically stated that couples that shared house duties have a better sex life.
Whenever someone doesn’t give the date before they quote a statistic then you know it’s probably gonna be severely outdated 😂
@@gvirusqueen3559 I hate defending the goober but she actually did give the dates this time 42:55
Who would have thought being helpful around the house would be hot. Put on the maid out fit sir 🤣😈
@Girl in the Striped Sweater
I know that she gave the time frame, but she should know better that a study 30 years ago is not going to be valid. It said that the demo group was mid 40's. Im pretty sure most of those people are dead. So it wouldn't apply now.
@@KeddyG90 Um, 30+44 = 73? That's not to say some of the people haven't died, but it's possible that most of the participants are still alive. Now if the study was done in the early 70s, it'd be fairer to say that everyone in the study are dead lol
“We’re both so fucking ugly. Thank God I’m a man.” 💀
Pearl really is a talented gymnast. The way she ACTIVELY misses the point to avoid agreeing with people she disagrees with. Even her aunt was mainly talking about being charitable in her assumptions that her kid and husband weren’t actively doing something with the thought “I know my (mom or wife) hates this, but fuck her idc.” There’s middle ground. But Pearl read that as “my aunt just shoved down her feelings about messiness and smiled and took it.” Along with her refusing to accept a hypothetical situation.
I’m stuck between thinking Pearl’s dad either had a side family in India and that’s why she’s cool with cheating or it’s entirely just a pick me thing. Either way, woof.
😂😂😂😂😂 I can't breathe after that 3rd sentence 😂😂😂😂
Her arguments are so frustrating. This issue isn’t chores. The issue is being in a balanced relationship with respect to each partner. When the relationship isn’t balanced, it can become a burden.
My mom left my dad because she was sick of doing the chores by herself. Then he married my stepmom who mommies him and he built a pool, a hot tub, a patio, finished the basement, and did all the shrubbery, so they have a good trade off. But she also still complains about how my dad can’t do any chores right and she understands why my mom left. Nobody’s perfect but somebody is better suit for you than somebody else
This. Preach! My ex husband and I had an amicable divorce and we still chat from time to time and he seems a lot happier with his new partner and he does a lot more for her. I came to the conclusion that he wasn't happy either and we just weren't right for each other. Both our hearts were in the right place and we genuinely had honest intentions but if it isn't right, it just isn't right and your behavior is a dead giveaway. I'm happy for him, genuinely.
A physical version of beating around the bush🤭👏🏾
Her example of living with 8 or 9 other siblings isn't the same as living with a spouse or bf/gf. Its down right idiotic to compare those two things they drastically different.
I must say A&P must have it hard, in my life I’ve learned that you get the most hate when you try to be nuanced and in middle. You they’ve criticized extreme leftist to radical RedPillers all alike. I respect it tho, I could never call them panderers
@@DevonRucker just like Destiny, in a way, though i think he leans further left than A&P
Got me thinking y’all were talking ab anatomy and physiology
SwagKage
Yep. It's amazing that they have such a large following considering they sit in the middle. It's re-assuring to know people have balanced pov's.
Pearl is so insufferable bruh
& she looks 40 but she’s saying that 40 is “over” for women
it makes me genuinely mad when I see her takes because of how terribly stupid she can be
@@crowley3000 I'm 37 and I legit thought she was my age 😂
@@skinsey85 she’s just 26 lol you look younger than her tbh
@@crowley3000 Yeah, my mind melted the other day when I found out her age! Thank you 🥰
My sister just said that not wanting to be like Pearl has motivated her to get her shit together XD. Keep up the good work papa gut, you got the whole fam watching!
This comment literally makes my soul happy. Wanting to be the opposite of Pearl is the goal of someone who’s fuckin going places. I believe in your sister more than most of humanity 😂
I've literally heard her say “I think women like to be cheated on”
16:53
Its crazy to me that she says those vows so easily after telling the cheating husband story, that flew 30,000 feet over her head 🥴🤣
Marraige isnt supposed to be hard, it can be hard at times but ive been married almost 10 years now and my marraige is probably the easiest part of my life.
Why do people watch her... She's never been in a long term relationship and yet she has the audacity to talk about them? Pft na
It's because she panders to her redpill audience for clout. That's why no matter how many times she gets humbled she still retains the same deluded views.
Pearl doesn't "get" chores- they had hired help for that. She's never had to maintain a HOME herself- she's still living off of Daddy's money at 26 (at least she pretends to be.) This isn't even a dig, I honestly think she has NO concept of the work it goes into to care for a household while holding a 40 hr+ a week job.
Love how Pearl, who’s never been married, loves to give so much advice on marriage 😂
It’s really scary how pearl is 6 years older than me but shows no sign of maturity
Proof that maturity is not linear to age. You can be young and wise you can be old and foolish. Growth is personal
It has a lot to do with her sheltered and privileged background. Not everyone living in the real world could afford to be this delusional.
Someone should ask Pearl if she just wants marriage or if she wants a happy and healthy marriage. You can eat shit all day for the sake of just staying married, but chances are you’re gonna be miserable. If you’re not happy what are the chances that your partner is gonna be happy?
She want a shut up ring at this point. Cause she cool with him cheating and by her words, she bout to hit the wall... more
@@HALOSnHORNS hahaha, I tried pressing more three times before I realized lol 😂
And what about the kids seeing a "happy relationship"? Something about Pearl's recent controversy and her musing that "these reactors" have never seen a healthy relationship rubbed me the wrong way- I realize I'm stretching, but... it's Pearl. I give her no leeway. Sidenote: As a kid it was my job to mow the lawn (and I'm a girl- gasp) - isn't that most children's first job? I know I have tons of 15-16 y/os in my neighborhood advertising to mow lawns in the summer.
Just Autistic Things
That's so cold man DAMN
As an autistic, i speak for most of us when I say WE DO NOT CLAIM HER.
Washing your meat rinses off the grimy fat and left over rememants of gritty bone from the butchering process. You can put the meat in a bowl and rinse it. That keeps raw meat drippings from dripping everywhere.
Not surprised that Pearl advocates for toxic positivity with her whole aunt anecdote. Are you miserable about having to clean up after your grown ass adult spouse no matter how much you've tried to make them aware? No problem! Just change your mind set and act like them disregarding your time and feelings is because they actually just love you. Perfect recipe for a happy healthy marriage 🙄
Jesus, you’re allowed to disagree with someone. I disagree with Papa regularly and still watch all his videos.
The family? Why would you teach your child it's ok for a man to bring nothing to the table in a relationship while you drown? Your choice is to enable him by picking up his slack or live in filth. Neither is a good example for the child.
Why do people always specify that someone has “beautiful kids”? As if you’re telling me about someone & you say “they have 3 kids” ima turn around & be like “hold up, are these kids ugly or what?”😂
😂😂😂
Or when somebody says "I have X beautiful kids," but then you see the little sh!ts and they're fugly as hell.
I'm firmly convinced that the "beautiful" qualifier is a cope for a lot of people.
Papa I’m completely serious when I say, you need to join your church’s choir!!
I’m just saying whenever I do household chores my woman loves it and it creates a better atmosphere to relax for her
It means you care about your partner’s feelings.
28:36 - 29:09 Papa sounding like Roderick Heffley rn, and I'm living for it lmao
From the way you made fun of pearls mom making fun of her weight to you singing like a church choir, I haven’t cracked up from a vid in a while - thank you
"I grew up with 9 siblings" and? Were you close enough to experience all personalities, or were you the sibling that the others don't really interact with and were pretty much strangers? There's a difference 😂
and its not like they were depebdent on each other to live in a household
HOW IN THE WORLD DOES ANYONE TAKE PEARL SERIOUSLY!! Please someone explain it to me! I don't understand. She's not even funny or charismatic!!!
desperate men who need to feel like victims by women.
People that have bad behavior love being babied by someone. It makes them feel that they’re in the right and therefore don’t have to change their behavior. It’s easier to blame women for everything instead of developing a personality that’s not insufferable lmao.
People with 2 working hemispheres don't 🤷🏾 stopped at women should get to vote unless we get drafted too or we pick what our husband's/ head male says.
That's what should scare people about Pearl. Like, I get she's so stupid it's almost kind of funny, but there are really thousands of people lost enough to think that this person is genuine and correct. Those people are walking around with us and voting.
Pearl should tell us about being black in America next🤠
Y’all think Peal still believes herself? It feels like she’s forcing herself to double down
Honestly I wanna believe she believes this because then atleast it would be from an honest place, but she cashing in on people who are hurting and seeking companionship. And instead of helping get that, she just say YES THESE BI+CHES AINT SH!T, YOU GO KING.
9:41 Holy shit THANK YOU! What a perfect way to summarize her.
I wonder if she still holds the same energy if "a woman isn't doing any chores"- how does that hypothetical work out? Marriage vows still sacred? Even if she works fulltime w/ kids? And why do The Vows not matter when it comes to cheating Pearl? Contradiction, eh?
"WE'RE GOING TO OVERWATCH IT.....2!!!"
I can fix older cars, but I still want help inside the house. She must be from some weird religion or something.
She is, her religion is silly goosery. She attends the church of smooth brains every Sunday.
Papa I feel you with the ranking system this season, I got 5 wins and 3 losses and stayed the exact same rank
Ahhh....so men are no longer dealing with world wars (knock on wood), sooo what is the substitute towards/contributing in a household Pearl?
I'm starting to think maybe just maybe Papa Gut doesn't like Pearl, I'm not entirely sure but it's just a guess
How did you come to that conclusion?! Talk about a huge reach 😂
@@skinsey85 well I'm currently doing some math equations to figure out if my theory may be true but it also looks like I may need to hire a private investigator just to get my answer
Bro idk how you can focus on a video while you play OW.
I've seen it a few times where the person learns about some untruths from their side and flip completely to the other side as if everything from their original side are all lies... Then they go on to represent the other side poorly.
You are hilarious 😂
When I first started watching Pearl, I was sorta blinded by my own bias. I had a love-hate relationship with red pill content. But with these videos coming out challenging her ideas and credibility, I'm starting to be more open-minded.
How did it take this long?
@@missaliciaxxxx With Pearl, I've watched her every now and then for a few months. It took as long as it did because I never really bothered to dig deeper. I got caught up in all the cool talking points, the superficial things.
I was subcribed to her maybe 2 years ago, when she had around 11k subcribers. Then i unfollowed bc her content was lacking, like putting up 10 useless shorts every 2 hours. I would periodically circle back to see what she was doing and she is definitely pandering mad hard
Wabba and Wreach stay winning. 🎉
Why i think of Wario and Waluigi 😂
@@HALOSnHORNS i mean now I can kinda see it oh no 😅😢
Cleaning chicken is not about bacteria…… it’s literally prepping the meat to be cooked….
Thanks, now I have this image in my mind of Pearl scrubbing a piece of raw chicken with dish soap and a sponge.
@@AngryReptileKeeperI’m so sorry honey
42:00 I think that what she meant was that because of the lack of sex the couple would eventually divorce
She’s such a goober lmfao
1:18:20 I felt that one 😂
it makes no sence, I have been married longer than she has been alive. I am a better cook than my wife and she evens says it but we both share things around the house as we have gotten older my wife does things like cut the grass granted we have a riding motor now that we didnt have 30 years ago when we first got married. I am more of the cook at the house specially outdoors cooking. We have a shark that vacuums the house, so it really gets less things to do as you get older.
My parents have been married for 46 years and have always shared the household responsibilities, and worked together on the ones that required a team effort. In their early 50's they sold the house I grew up in, bought some land and built an off-grid cabin on it with their own two hands. Together. They since moved into an apartment due to the health complications that come with age, but they still share the labor.
HEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEERE WE GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!
13:16 best part
Let me carry you in OW papa
Good morning father gut, hope all is well.
Dude it is rlly childish to talk about your sex life the way that you do.
I’m sorry I love ya papa, but it’s cringe.
I wanna play overwatch with papa so bad
overwatch that shit!
1:02:40 nice sound bite.
Day 13 begging papa gut to bring back chris chan a comprehensive history by geno samuel
smh now I wanna play OW2 but I dont wanna be upset today lol
PAPA ON OVERWATCH??!?!?!??!
30:46 to the haters
1:18:22
Father
Nah. It's a lame excuse. Marriage is meant to be a life time commitment. Besides, men typically do do chores and always have. Even when more women were housewives.
Wtf are you talking about. No, men do not and have not typically done chores in the home.
Even now, when both work full time, the woman still does most of the house work and child rearing. Ypur point is entirely false.
Marriage was created to protect lineage. It had nothing to do with love. Today, it is about love and partnership, and a divorce is better than an unhappy marriage.
🍾🍷🍷