Yep, all this video talked about is how it is simply better to not kiss before marriage. And Mark is under social presure to allow you to interpret what is clear. I think this is how most christians are and it needs to stop immediately. The video was just so clear... it just was... no kissing before marriage. Scripture is vary black and white clear, its nearly impossible to miss-interpret this. I think Mark is under social presure thinking. "Some dont know if kissing is allowed outside of marriage" but "I know kissing isnt allowed out side of marriage" (at least this is what I got out of your video). "sooooo, I am just going to let anyone decide for themselfs". This seems like popular christianity teachings, and should be avoided.
I wish my ex knew this. I tried to tell him so many times but he didn't care. None of my values mattered to him. Hoping the Lord will bring a Godly man to me someday! Great message Mark!
Honestly, I am not sure where to set the boundaries. I feel that any kind of physical interaction will affect the relationship on an emotional level, quite often to the point of dependence and longing. This isn’t always necessarily a bad thing, but heartbreak is one of the most stressful life events we can experience, let alone put someone through, and we have to be careful not to move too fast and leave God behind to pursue the desires of our flesh.
Amen 🙏🏼 Is all or nothing. Marry with the one or if not stay doing chastity. Even in the mind you have cast down imaginations of lust. “Love God with all your heart mind and soul” ( Matthew 22:37)
This video was so useful for me, especially point number two at 2:35. Being fairly young, it's been hard to navigate what is normal and healthy God-given emotions and what is sinful within my romantic relationship. This has been something on my mind recently and I think it's no coincidence that you posted a video on it. Thank you and God bless!!
I love the fact that AGW gives us scriptural principles and not rules. So each person has the choice to follow God's principles or not. God's principles are for our protection. Thanks so much for all your do AGW!
Wow so what you just revealed that the bible does say. It's okay to have sexual desire, but it's not okay to lead relationships or life off of those desires. OOOOOOOOHHHH... I FINALLY get it. Thank you.
I like the idea that the other owns the body in loving them because this puts humility, in marraige in the forefront. I’m a virgin, having saved myself for Gods person. Odd thing is I’m often teased for this.
Good for you, my dear sister in Christ! Keep in mind that those who mock virgins are likely to indulge in sexual sin and will live to regret it. But not you! Keep on keeping yourself pure (1 Timothy 5:22), and the Lord will honor your commitment to Him! 😀 ❤
Omg! This is right on time! I was thinking when a godly man comes into my life should I kiss him or should I wait until our marriage day and I feel like the Lord told me in this video! God bless!
Yea girl, the next guy I romantically kiss will have to be my husband. Kissing can lead to too many things. It's best to just abstain from it altogether until marriage.
I remember my aunt telling me that she thought it was silly to wait to have sex before marriage but she found her soulmate so it’s a little different for her. As far as kissing goes I decided that I wanted to kiss someone after the fourth date I personally did not want to wait until marriage but I could have sense me and him both have chemistry so I didn’t wait and so when I kissed him it wasn’t like anything I experienced before it was really special to me. And I’m finding out stuff about him that I didn’t even know which make me remember things I used to be interested in that I completely forgot about. For instance, he likes old movies and I do to. So I stumbled upon an old movie called “Lillie” from 1953 and felt so much joy just watching it by myself last night. I literally forgot how much I like old movies and plan on watching an old movie once or twice a week by myself. 😄
Well, this is an easy one with "lockdowns" and closed borders! I think a kiss on the cheek or forehead is seen as affection vs romantic, and with some cultures it is a normal greeting. The lips? Naw. And there are so many ways of showing love without tiptoeing into temptation too. Nice message.🙏
The shade 😂 " there's something about humans that needs specific list and formulas" it's because we want to have fun while we're still alive while trying to live by the word at the same time. We want to make sure that we can find some type of loophole to be human while still following God. 😁 it's just the flesh. Let's call it the *Fleshly Chronicles*
I hope I find the right one God has for me. It’s hard to meet anyone right now, and it feels like there’s no way. But I know God loves me. And I trust that He will help me with this. When there is no way He can make a way.
I waited for someone who doesn't exist. I never married and have a desire that burns my spirit and causes me a deep dark depression. I wonder at times if the Lord does not see my pain, loneliness and despair. I wouldn't wish my despair on anyone.
My friend I'm very sorry to hear you are feeling this way. Please talk with the Lord about your feelings. Pray and fast. He cares for you. Be encouraged
It’s causing you so much pain because u have made it an idol... However it’s not a sin to desire to have intimacy with a godly partner ... pray that the Lord help you overcome this ! Be strong in Christ my friend ❤️
It was timely!! Me and almost fiancé have been learning to honour God through our relationship. It was very helpful to both watch this video and check our boundaries! Thank you 😊
I’ve really been thinking that I wanna save my first kiss till my wedding day for the past couple months and this video helped me realize more that I wanna wait !
Hi Mark, Thanks for this reminder. I’ve been reading lately all the verses you just mentioned. Yes we tend to draw our attention more on “loving” rather than kissing.
Nowadays and in this generation it is hard for people to wait until the marriage. However, God's laws are above all things. May god bless you! May God protect you from temptation to falling into sexual sin.🙏
Well this was right on time. Was just discussing these things with my guy today. We both have reached a place in our lives where we want to honor our Lord with our bodies and wait. I have never been in this place before and not completely sure how to successfully accomplish this. Thankfully we live in different states and do not have to deal with the regular temptations other couples do. But he will be visiting in a month and I want to make sure I am behaving appropriately. This message really helped me. Thank you.
then i have much to repent about since i have pushed many boundaries in this aspect of sin. may God forgive me and give me the strength to avoid future sins
This is good. I also believe your take as well. I completely understand the affection vs lust aspect. If what you’re doing is creating a temptation for lust and sex, then it’s probably best not to do it and run like Joseph lol. As Christians, we definitely shouldn’t be with someone, just kickin it cause it feels good. It’s gotta be leading toward marriage
Wow! This video is so timely... I was just desiring to kiss someone whom I really like though he is far from me... I believe that there should not be sexual act before married coz it is not a Godly and Kingdom Marriage if you do that sexual act that only husband and wife is permitted to do.... And I am wondering how can you kiss the one you like and intend to marry without having sexual intention and lust.. And this video just pop in to my timeline.. God really speaks through this video... Thank you sir Mark! God bless you and your ministry! 🙏❤
Well my perspective is, it depends on your self control which is part of the fruit of the spirits and with the way I kiss a person will depend on the emotional drive I have for them but I’m not gonna wanna have sex based off the kissing because obedience to the lord is in my heart to not cross that border because I want to and will wait for marriage for that, it really boils down to self control if you know you can’t control yourself don’t put yourself in a position to sin work on growing that in the fruit of the spirits, God bless
Yeah, I think it would be okay for a couple to kiss with a sexual desire (and doesn't the second point say it's okay to want to kiss your future spouse in a sexual way anyway?), and you think of marrying this person and love them in a deep, personal way that has nothing to do with sexual desire, but if you have enough self-control to not have sex before marriage, I don't really see what the problem is with kissing. I guess the only other thing I'd be worried about with kissing is what that might do to a couple or one person in the couple emotionally, spiritually, and psychologically. But I think as long as you and your partner are on the same page, like you're both ready for it, that shouldn't be an issue, either. The third point makes sense, but honestly, I think the first point is overkill.
Thank you for this video! Knowing that am in a relationship now with a woman whom I now look forward to marry, It has been my desire to hear what the Bible teaches on this topic of kissing. For I also want to learn and follow God’s principals which are for sure for our own good. Thanks once again
Thank you so much!! The way you explain things makes it so simple to comprehend everything! All of your videos are very well done but this one especially opened my mind. It all makes sense now. Keep up the great work!
I used to date one guy in my Seinor year of High School. He wanted sex. I told him I was waiting until marriage AT LEAST TWO OR THREE TIMES, but he wasn't too happy about it. It seemed like he ignored what I said. He told me how I "was taking away his only form of affection", or how he thought I was trying to get rid of him by bringing up marriage, or how "some marriages don't even last long". Then he kept asking me things that seemed like he was questioning my decsicion to wait. The good thing about it was that he was still a nice guy...but he was a nice guy that wasn't in church all his life like I was. I am ashamed to say that I thought about just giving up my morals and values just to make him happy; but each time, I felt uneasy. I felt like I was betraying myself and God. So I ended it. I felt bad because I loved him so much...but I had to do it. I needed to stay true to God and myself.
It is soo hard to abstain. I almost feel like the enemy is really tempting me in this area because he knows I am alone. When I was married my sexual desire was not very high but as soon as my husband left I started to constantly feel bombarded with lust.
I do believe that God has spoken to me through this video. Thank you for being His voice to me. I long for affection so badly but I realise that this too has to be rightly placed. There is someone i like and I realise that I just cannot kiss him because it might lead to other things. i think I have been lusting over him and Im praying that God forgives me and helps me. Bad choices in my past caused me to stay celibate for 10 years. I am 49 years old and with children. Ive been praying that God will place me in the path of the right one that we may honour Him. Ive cried so much in the past and I honestly thought I was ok until a few months ago when this guy crossed my path. Ive agonised over why I suddenly felt this way - I thought all my desires were under lock and key. I dont know why i always pick the wrong one? I realise that I do want to be married and i am praying about this with a christian sister. It has to be God first all the time - no compromise.
Is it true that as Christians we should only marry another Christian? I was told there are Christian/non Christian couples and I'd like to know some opinions on that because Paul says we must not be unequally yoked...
@monikasusername The Bible says do not be unequally yoked with an unbeliever. There are good reasons for that. The Bible also says that what does "light" have to do with "darkness"? Two different world views will ultimately clash because one world view might believe that "marriage is a lifelong committment" while the other may not. And look what happened when the Israelites married foreign women with foreign gods? King Solomon was the wisest man in the world..but he got tripped up by his foreign wives and their "gods". And Samson. And Ahab. The list goes on and on. And GOD judged them eventually. And Jesus himself said, "If you love me, you will obey my commands". So if you claim to be a follower of Jesus, but you choose to marry someone who is NOT, who are you putting first in your life?
Been there and done that, and would not recommend being unequally yoked. I was in a 2.5 year serious relationship with a nonbeliever and believed God led me to break it off. It is so difficult and tiring over time not being able to share the same understanding with your best friend to devote a life to serving God. I could not truly share my greatest joys and pains with her. In my testimony of transformation, I tried to share to her that Jesus in me changed me, but she could not understand and simply thought I tried really hard. God made us to witness and to share the Gospel of Christ to others, but not through relationships.
Thanks so much for posting this video, Mark, it is very insightful and informative... another motivating factor as to why I desire to wait until my wedding day and until I walk down the aisle (if getting married is in God’s plan for my life) to sexually kiss my future husband. 🙂
Love how you provide Biblical scriptures to support the content of your videos. Many of us learn something new from these videos. Watching from South Africa
I really like this idea! it garners support even from different anthropological points of view. Instead A “peck” on the lips feels very sad to me and I always cringe when it is suggested (it’s popular advice). It’s really not sexual to me but neither do i consider it sign of affection, but rather a cold, diminishing act, almost like a mockery of a sexual kiss.
yes, without marriage kissing lips and even hold hands together is wrong cos can lead to sexual act that is not blessed, ileagal without marriage... I been celibate for more than 3 months & give only air kisses to my cats, & kittens...
Hmm, interesting 🤔. I've been doing my personal research on this topic and I have heard similar answers from many ministers of God, that kissing outside marriage is sinful. But I have one question to ask: if kissing is biblically wrong outside the marital framework, why then does the Scriptures admonish Christians to greet one another with an ‘holy kiss’ (Romans 16:16; 1 Corinthians 16:20; 2 Corinthians 13:12; 1 Thessalonians 5:26; 1 Peter 5:14)? Note that the word ‘kiss’ appears about 46 times in the entire Bible 📖 and not one reference to it was sexual or lustful. Please can someone help me out? Remain blessed in Jesus' name 🙏. #TrueTalkMatters #EvangelistGlobal
God continue to bless you abundantly and keep doing the good work our Lord Jesus Christ has entitled you to do, Amen. But brother Mark, why is it that you don't use KJV bible? For it has better and clearer understanding and also no words or verses has been removed from it than other bibles. I noticed especially in the first Bible verse which you read, that instead of fasting and prayers, it was only written "prayers". I mean no harm and I pray you don't get offended, thank you!
I think kissing is fine, but the couple needs to set boundaries,but know when to stop and what would glorify God and I think the couple needs some ways to show love in a good way
I am in a covenant with GOD JESUS AND THE HOLY SPIRIT. I am still waiting on my help mate and my body lips mind soul and spirit is for my help mate the husband GOD has for me period. I will not wave any of this in Jesus name. Keep praying for me please. The struggle is real.
Same concept applies. If it is "sexual" then it is sin. But if it's just a sign of affection and care then it can be fine. You will know a "sexual hug" when you see it
Abstinence only education leads to more STDs and unwanted pregnancies. There is nothing wrong with safe sex between two consenting adults before marriage. Marriage isn't for everyone. But everyone should enjoy the only life we get.
It’s soooo hard to find someone that is willing to take things slow/set boundaries and live for God...
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Yep, all this video talked about is how it is simply better to not kiss before marriage. And Mark is under social presure to allow you to interpret what is clear. I think this is how most christians are and it needs to stop immediately. The video was just so clear... it just was... no kissing before marriage. Scripture is vary black and white clear, its nearly impossible to miss-interpret this. I think Mark is under social presure thinking. "Some dont know if kissing is allowed outside of marriage" but "I know kissing isnt allowed out side of marriage" (at least this is what I got out of your video). "sooooo, I am just going to let anyone decide for themselfs". This seems like popular christianity teachings, and should be avoided.
Yes it is...
Pray God will send you someone 🙏
Loving message. Whoever is reading this God is with you even when life seems hard, painful or filled with loss and grief You will overcome.
God bless!
Amen
Thanks
Amen
Amen
This was good, thank you. I needed this for when I have my first kiss from my future husband that God will give me.
God bless Cassidy!
Very interesting information that all of us should know before marriage even though we are not currently in a relationship.
God bless!
I wish my ex knew this. I tried to tell him so many times but he didn't care. None of my values mattered to him. Hoping the Lord will bring a Godly man to me someday! Great message Mark!
Lol I’m here
Amen
Amen. Thank you for explaining the difference between lust and sexual desire.
So glad it was helpful to you Jasmine!
Honestly, I am not sure where to set the boundaries. I feel that any kind of physical interaction will affect the relationship on an emotional level, quite often to the point of dependence and longing. This isn’t always necessarily a bad thing, but heartbreak is one of the most stressful life events we can experience, let alone put someone through, and we have to be careful not to move too fast and leave God behind to pursue the desires of our flesh.
Amen 🙏🏼 Is all or nothing. Marry with the one or if not stay doing chastity. Even in the mind you have cast down imaginations of lust. “Love God with all your heart mind and soul” ( Matthew 22:37)
God is worthy to be honored!
ApplyGodsWord.com/Mark Ballenger is true, we can Love God more thats what we are looking for.
Broke my record of fast clicking. Be blessed Sir.
lol! God bless you too!
This video was so useful for me, especially point number two at 2:35. Being fairly young, it's been hard to navigate what is normal and healthy God-given emotions and what is sinful within my romantic relationship. This has been something on my mind recently and I think it's no coincidence that you posted a video on it. Thank you and God bless!!
I'm so glad this was timely for you Cristina!
Kissing is a form of greeting in many cultures. The the key thing is that it isn't sexual. It comes down to intentions
The only kisses I have been getting are from my doggie and well that’s okay!!!
best kisses lol
😊😊😊
😃 Although I don't mean to spoil the fun, but you have to watch this too. Well I believe you understand sister.
@@mosesdabah dang are you saying a dog licking you can turn sexual? If a person does then they are twisted in the mind
lol
I love the fact that AGW gives us scriptural principles and not rules. So each person has the choice to follow God's principles or not. God's principles are for our protection. Thanks so much for all your do AGW!
So glad you enjoyed this Moses!
Wow so what you just revealed that the bible does say. It's okay to have sexual desire, but it's not okay to lead relationships or life off of those desires. OOOOOOOOHHHH... I FINALLY get it. Thank you.
The last point hit the nail on the head, focus on getting to know the person instead of worrying about what lines you can push.
Yup, i agree! Like Adam knew Eve before having a family with her! Important to prioritize God first!
I like the idea that the other owns the body in loving them because this puts humility, in marraige in the forefront.
I’m a virgin, having saved myself for Gods person. Odd thing is I’m often teased for this.
Keep honoring the Lord! 1 Corinthians 6:18
That’s great!! Let them say whatever they want, you keep honoring the Lord!
Keep at it woman of value!
Good for you, my dear sister in Christ! Keep in mind that those who mock virgins are likely to indulge in sexual sin and will live to regret it. But not you! Keep on keeping yourself pure (1 Timothy 5:22), and the Lord will honor your commitment to Him! 😀 ❤
You have saved yourself a world of heartache by not having sex outside of marriage! Let people tease you: I promise you will be glad you waited!
Omg! This is right on time! I was thinking when a godly man comes into my life should I kiss him or should I wait until our marriage day and I feel like the Lord told me in this video! God bless!
Yea girl, the next guy I romantically kiss will have to be my husband. Kissing can lead to too many things. It's best to just abstain from it altogether until marriage.
So glad this was timely!
I remember my aunt telling me that she thought it was silly to wait to have sex before marriage but she found her soulmate so it’s a little different for her. As far as kissing goes I decided that I wanted to kiss someone after the fourth date I personally did not want to wait until marriage but I could have sense me and him both have chemistry so I didn’t wait and so when I kissed him it wasn’t like anything I experienced before it was really special to me. And I’m finding out stuff about him that I didn’t even know which make me remember things I used to be interested in that I completely forgot about. For instance, he likes old movies and I do to. So I stumbled upon an old movie called “Lillie” from 1953 and felt so much joy just watching it by myself last night. I literally forgot how much I like old movies and plan on watching an old movie once or twice a week by myself. 😄
I love how comments here are kind and honest 😌God bless Y'all
Amen, so proud of the AGW community. Very encouraging group!
Well, this is an easy one with "lockdowns" and closed borders! I think a kiss on the cheek or forehead is seen as affection vs romantic, and with some cultures it is a normal greeting. The lips? Naw.
And there are so many ways of showing love without tiptoeing into temptation too. Nice message.🙏
Well said :)
Every relationship should be base on Godly love and Godly character God bless everyone
God bless John
Omg I was LITERALLY just thinking about this boy who asked for a kiss
There is no way I would kiss someone in a pandemic, I don't like kissing. Never have a smack kiss but no kissing in a pandemic.
Carole Carole right you can’t just kiss anyone I don’t really like kissing if you ask me
God bless!
ApplyGodsWord.com/Mark Ballenger same to you ❤️
LOL
The shade 😂 " there's something about humans that needs specific list and formulas" it's because we want to have fun while we're still alive while trying to live by the word at the same time. We want to make sure that we can find some type of loophole to be human while still following God. 😁 it's just the flesh.
Let's call it the *Fleshly Chronicles*
I hope I find the right one God has for me. It’s hard to meet anyone right now, and it feels like there’s no way. But I know God loves me. And I trust that He will help me with this. When there is no way He can make a way.
God is good!
God's time is best.
I am waiting on Jesus to give me a husband from Heaven.
You spoke my exact words! Thank you!
Thank you for this video! I was confused about lust and sexual desire. I'm not confused anymore.
I have been heavily thinking about this the last week how ironic. I hear ya God.
So glad this was timely!
I waited for someone who doesn't exist. I never married and have a desire that burns my spirit and causes me a deep dark depression. I wonder at times if the Lord does not see my pain, loneliness and despair. I wouldn't wish my despair on anyone.
Have you asked God for insight into your pain?
My friend I'm very sorry to hear you are feeling this way. Please talk with the Lord about your feelings. Pray and fast. He cares for you. Be encouraged
Psalm 16 is helpful
I would like to pray for you. What’s your name?
It’s causing you so much pain because u have made it an idol... However it’s not a sin to desire to have intimacy with a godly partner ... pray that the Lord help you overcome this ! Be strong in Christ my friend ❤️
It was timely!! Me and almost fiancé have been learning to honour God through our relationship. It was very helpful to both watch this video and check our boundaries! Thank you 😊
I’ve really been thinking that I wanna save my first kiss till my wedding day for the past couple months and this video helped me realize more that I wanna wait !
Amen :) God bless!
Hi Mark, Thanks for this reminder. I’ve been reading lately all the verses you just mentioned. Yes we tend to draw our attention more on “loving” rather than kissing.
God bless Joal!
Thanks for explaining this topic... it makes more sense now... finally....!!!! Praise God.
So glad it was helpful!
Very informative. Thank you Mark. Kissing should be out of the question right now anyway. This Pandemic is Horrible.. Be safe everyone. God Bless.
God bless!
Super clear and biblical! Thank you!
So glad it was clear and helpful Owen!
Nowadays and in this generation it is hard for people to wait until the marriage. However, God's laws are above all things. May god bless you! May God protect you from temptation to falling into sexual sin.🙏
Well this was right on time. Was just discussing these things with my guy today. We both have reached a place in our lives where we want to honor our Lord with our bodies and wait. I have never been in this place before and not completely sure how to successfully accomplish this. Thankfully we live in different states and do not have to deal with the regular temptations other couples do. But he will be visiting in a month and I want to make sure I am behaving appropriately. This message really helped me. Thank you.
Probably the best explanation on kissing from a biblical perspective I’ve ever heard. Thank you for your channel and the much needed content!
then i have much to repent about since i have pushed many boundaries in this aspect of sin. may God forgive me and give me the strength to avoid future sins
You know that was one of my biggest questions that never got answered but I thank God that you answered it for me.
I was literally just questioning this! 😆💜
God bless!
You respond a lot in the comment section and even if you don't say much it has a lot of variety in it and it fits the comment. That is respectable.
This is good. I also believe your take as well. I completely understand the affection vs lust aspect. If what you’re doing is creating a temptation for lust and sex, then it’s probably best not to do it and run like Joseph lol. As Christians, we definitely shouldn’t be with someone, just kickin it cause it feels good. It’s gotta be leading toward marriage
When I read the title I was doubtful I needed this but there’s always something we need from the word thank you for this informative video brother!
So glad it was helpful!
Wow! This video is so timely... I was just desiring to kiss someone whom I really like though he is far from me... I believe that there should not be sexual act before married coz it is not a Godly and Kingdom Marriage if you do that sexual act that only husband and wife is permitted to do.... And I am wondering how can you kiss the one you like and intend to marry without having sexual intention and lust.. And this video just pop in to my timeline.. God really speaks through this video... Thank you sir Mark! God bless you and your ministry! 🙏❤
So glad this was timely!
Great subject and great analysis as always. God Bless you Mark. I’ve been in this situation before and this content is completely true !
Thanks David! God bless!
Nice. Now I just need a girlfriend...
God bless Isaac!
Allowing God to guide you to set your boundaries in life and marriage.
Decided to go celebate 2 months ago. This video is great. Also I would love for you to do a video on celibacy as well. @Applygodsword
Well my perspective is, it depends on your self control which is part of the fruit of the spirits and with the way I kiss a person will depend on the emotional drive I have for them but I’m not gonna wanna have sex based off the kissing because obedience to the lord is in my heart to not cross that border because I want to and will wait for marriage for that, it really boils down to self control if you know you can’t control yourself don’t put yourself in a position to sin work on growing that in the fruit of the spirits, God bless
Yeah, I think it would be okay for a couple to kiss with a sexual desire (and doesn't the second point say it's okay to want to kiss your future spouse in a sexual way anyway?), and you think of marrying this person and love them in a deep, personal way that has nothing to do with sexual desire, but if you have enough self-control to not have sex before marriage, I don't really see what the problem is with kissing. I guess the only other thing I'd be worried about with kissing is what that might do to a couple or one person in the couple emotionally, spiritually, and psychologically. But I think as long as you and your partner are on the same page, like you're both ready for it, that shouldn't be an issue, either. The third point makes sense, but honestly, I think the first point is overkill.
Great 👍... amen 🙏...let’s glorify God in our relationship 🙌 God bless you brother 🙏
God bless you too!
*Looks around for significant other, finds no one* Well, it's still an important video haha! Thanks, Mark!
God bless!
You should make a video about online dating vs letting a person come into your life naturally? Any thoughts... thanks:)
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Thank you for this video! Knowing that am in a relationship now with a woman whom I now look forward to marry, It has been my desire to hear what the Bible teaches on this topic of kissing. For I also want to learn and follow God’s principals which are for sure for our own good. Thanks once again
Thank you so much!! The way you explain things makes it so simple to comprehend everything! All of your videos are very well done but this one especially opened my mind. It all makes sense now. Keep up the great work!
I used to date one guy in my Seinor year of High School. He wanted sex. I told him I was waiting until marriage AT LEAST TWO OR THREE TIMES, but he wasn't too happy about it. It seemed like he ignored what I said. He told me how I "was taking away his only form of affection", or how he thought I was trying to get rid of him by bringing up marriage, or how "some marriages don't even last long". Then he kept asking me things that seemed like he was questioning my decsicion to wait. The good thing about it was that he was still a nice guy...but he was a nice guy that wasn't in church all his life like I was. I am ashamed to say that I thought about just giving up my morals and values just to make him happy; but each time, I felt uneasy. I felt like I was betraying myself and God. So I ended it. I felt bad because I loved him so much...but I had to do it. I needed to stay true to God and myself.
That was some strong will power ma'am I applaud you.
@@feliz2564 Thank you. It was very difficult, but I survived! 😊
This video uploaded as I’m sitting next to my crush
lol, great timing or terrible timing, not sure, lol :)
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Haha 🤣
I'm super happy you made this video, never found a video like this
Glad you liked it!
It is soo hard to abstain. I almost feel like the enemy is really tempting me in this area because he knows
I am alone. When I was married my sexual desire was not very high but as soon as my husband left I started to constantly feel bombarded with lust.
I thank you for all your hard work. You are a great teacher. God bless you for always!
Hey Mark! God Bless!
God bless you too Mauricio!
The bible is very blunt thats great.
Amen
I do believe that God has spoken to me through this video. Thank you for being His voice to me. I long for affection so badly but I realise that this too has to be rightly placed. There is someone i like and I realise that I just cannot kiss him because it might lead to other things. i think I have been lusting over him and Im praying that God forgives me and helps me. Bad choices in my past caused me to stay celibate for 10 years. I am 49 years old and with children. Ive been praying that God will place me in the path of the right one that we may honour Him. Ive cried so much in the past and I honestly thought I was ok until a few months ago when this guy crossed my path. Ive agonised over why I suddenly felt this way - I thought all my desires were under lock and key. I dont know why i always pick the wrong one? I realise that I do want to be married and i am praying about this with a christian sister. It has to be God first all the time - no compromise.
Thank you
Thank you
THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!
All glory to God! So glad you enjoyed this Virginia!
Great video brother, great explanation too! God bless
So glad it was helpful! All glory to God!
I love these videos, so informative and unique, especially this one, keep up the good work Mark!
So glad you are enjoying the content!
This video is a blessing ❤ thank you for sharing.
Is it true that as Christians we should only marry another Christian? I was told there are Christian/non Christian couples and I'd like to know some opinions on that because Paul says we must not be unequally yoked...
The Bible says you should only marry another Christian (1 Corinthians 7:39, 2 Corinthians 6:14)
@monikasusername The Bible says do not be unequally yoked with an unbeliever. There are good reasons for that. The Bible also says that what does "light" have to do with "darkness"? Two different world views will ultimately clash because one world view might believe that "marriage is a lifelong committment" while the other may not. And look what happened when the Israelites married foreign women with foreign gods? King Solomon was the wisest man in the world..but he got tripped up by his foreign wives and their "gods". And Samson. And Ahab. The list goes on and on. And GOD judged them eventually. And Jesus himself said, "If you love me, you will obey my commands". So if you claim to be a follower of Jesus, but you choose to marry someone who is NOT, who are you putting first in your life?
Been there and done that, and would not recommend being unequally yoked. I was in a 2.5 year serious relationship with a nonbeliever and believed God led me to break it off. It is so difficult and tiring over time not being able to share the same understanding with your best friend to devote a life to serving God. I could not truly share my greatest joys and pains with her. In my testimony of transformation, I tried to share to her that Jesus in me changed me, but she could not understand and simply thought I tried really hard. God made us to witness and to share the Gospel of Christ to others, but not through relationships.
Thanks so much for posting this video, Mark, it is very insightful and informative... another motivating factor as to why I desire to wait until my wedding day and until I walk down the aisle (if getting married is in God’s plan for my life) to sexually kiss my future husband. 🙂
Has anyone read the kids book, “The Princess and the kiss”? it’s so cute!
Love how you provide Biblical scriptures to support the content of your videos. Many of us learn something new from these videos.
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I was just wondering this a couple of days ago. Wasn’t sure if it’s a sin. It sure is enjoyable though, lol. Thanks!
Obeying the Lord is key!
This was very helpful. Thank you so much.
This puts a new perspective on things now!!! Thank you!!!
Thanks soo much for clearity God bless
kiss in the forehead is good...more respectful
I think that is much safer to be non-sexual
I really like this idea! it garners support even from different anthropological points of view.
Instead A “peck” on the lips feels very sad to me and I always cringe when it is suggested (it’s popular advice). It’s really not sexual to me but neither do i consider it sign of affection, but rather a cold, diminishing act, almost like a mockery of a sexual kiss.
Dear brother, I hope you can consider to translate your messages into spanish someday. It would be a blessing. God bless you.
Hopefully one day, but it's just me now so it's not possible
Right on time!
Well I don't think this one is for me. I don't have anyone to kiss at the moment. Lol.
Thank you is was so needed
So glad it was helpful!
yes, without marriage kissing lips and even hold hands together is wrong cos can lead to sexual act that is not blessed, ileagal without marriage... I been celibate for more than 3 months & give only air kisses to my cats, & kittens...
Great video, had to watch it twice!
This is a great video! Love how you expressed everything :)
Hmm, interesting 🤔. I've been doing my personal research on this topic and I have heard similar answers from many ministers of God, that kissing outside marriage is sinful. But I have one question to ask: if kissing is biblically wrong outside the marital framework, why then does the Scriptures admonish Christians to greet one another with an ‘holy kiss’ (Romans 16:16; 1 Corinthians 16:20; 2 Corinthians 13:12; 1 Thessalonians 5:26; 1 Peter 5:14)? Note that the word ‘kiss’ appears about 46 times in the entire Bible 📖 and not one reference to it was sexual or lustful. Please can someone help me out? Remain blessed in Jesus' name 🙏.
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God continue to bless you abundantly and keep doing the good work our Lord Jesus Christ has entitled you to do, Amen. But brother Mark, why is it that you don't use KJV bible? For it has better and clearer understanding and also no words or verses has been removed from it than other bibles. I noticed especially in the first Bible verse which you read, that instead of fasting and prayers, it was only written "prayers". I mean no harm and I pray you don't get offended, thank you!
All glory to God! I prefer the ESV :)
@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger oh ok then, stay bless 🙏🏽
Well stated, thank -you.
I think kissing is fine, but the couple needs to set boundaries,but know when to stop and what would glorify God and I think the couple needs some ways to show love in a good way
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yes, love is more than sex, is daily small, consistent things crowned by sex in a marriage as summary, overflow of them...
Thank you for clarifying!
I plan on waiting until I am married to kiss! 😄🙏
Awesome video, thank so much
Glad you liked it!
I am in a covenant with GOD JESUS AND THE HOLY SPIRIT. I am still waiting on my help mate and my body lips mind soul and spirit is for my help mate the husband GOD has for me period. I will not wave any of this in Jesus name. Keep praying for me please. The struggle is real.
Insightful. Thanks
Hi Mark, what are your thoughts on hugs before marriage? Thanks
Same concept applies. If it is "sexual" then it is sin. But if it's just a sign of affection and care then it can be fine. You will know a "sexual hug" when you see it
Ok, thanks Mark
@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger yeah. The problem is when someone gives you "that" kind of hug and you weren't expecting it. Awkward.
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This is beautiful
Abstinence only education leads to more STDs and unwanted pregnancies. There is nothing wrong with safe sex between two consenting adults before marriage. Marriage isn't for everyone. But everyone should enjoy the only life we get.
Great video ❤
So glad it was helpful Cody!
What about kissing on the cheek before marriage?
True good video.
Glad you enjoyed it Ladenna!
I've never had it...
God bless
Good, not much fun, but good advice.
as i remember somewhere in old testament of bible a man of God kissed his upcoming wife and then he cried with emotion ?!?
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