Stop Comparing Yourselves to Other Women

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  • Опубликовано: 23 ноя 2024

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  • @queensun6059
    @queensun6059 Год назад +280

    "to compare yourself to other women, is 🔥 a waste of u!"- marilyn monroe 😌

  • @topnotch0912
    @topnotch0912 Год назад +334

    Women today are starting to look just alike. Bbl plumped lips over snatched waist line. I like my look it's me and it's not perfect but men love it 😉

    • @shirlsshirls8594
      @shirlsshirls8594 Год назад +19

      I hope you’d still feel that way if men didn’t love it

    • @topnotch0912
      @topnotch0912 Год назад +90

      @@shirlsshirls8594 I said I like my look but all you saw was Men love it🤷🏿‍♀️

    • @viper222
      @viper222 Год назад +17

      It shows more confidence and self love which is what makes you more attractive than a woman who can’t accept herself and changes all her natural beauty.

    • @corina6772
      @corina6772 Год назад +11

      Lets not forget the same lace front over and over.
      If I see another body wave waist wig, ugh. Boring!

  • @Jessica-og4iq
    @Jessica-og4iq Год назад +234

    So glad you did this video because women who get jealous of prettier women suck the joy out of life. Yes life is better when you look good but it’s kinda hard being a pretty women when every woman you meet is mad that you take better care of themselves than they do

    • @shawnhall3849
      @shawnhall3849 Год назад +21

      Any and everybody wants to feel beautiful. But yeah instead of being jealous learn from them. Or try and become friends with those you admire and maybe their (good) habits will rub off on you. But your spirit is always beautiful no matter how you look “outwardly” and even no matter how you treat others, no matter if you have a nasty attitude. You’re a beautiful being eternal

    • @Jessica-og4iq
      @Jessica-og4iq Год назад +8

      @@DiamondsRexpensive I don’t understand any of what you wrote but stay blessed

    • @shawnhall3849
      @shawnhall3849 Год назад +11

      And try to treat those women with respect and kindness. You don’t what they went through. Maybe they were bullied because they weren’t pretty and popular, or maybe they were the bullies. Maybe they were told they weren’t good enough and pretty enough or they had trouble getting a man or even getting hired at some company because they weren’t the standard look the company wanted or for a certain image. It’s hard for some, so don’t try to crap on them because you don’t know at the end of the day

    • @dreamstar3293
      @dreamstar3293 Год назад +30

      I agree, when you’re a pretty woman it’s almost a full time job dodging these haters like wtf

    • @Jessica-og4iq
      @Jessica-og4iq Год назад +22

      @@dreamstar3293 that’s why I love Shera. Her confidence is unmatched. If she were one of your girlfriends, you could show off, and do your thing with out having to worry about having to dim your light for the next insecure hater. Then she would motivate you to do even better. I got a few girlfriends like that, some real ones and I love them

  • @heytheredeliilaa
    @heytheredeliilaa Год назад +141

    Comparison is a thief of joy ❤

  • @xysarenottheprize
    @xysarenottheprize Год назад +37

    Women are my community, not my competition.

  • @InSearchOfCrystalsAndCryptids
    @InSearchOfCrystalsAndCryptids Год назад +84

    I notice that a lot of women worry so much about what the next woman/female is doing, and hating on them, and focusing on them, that they fail to extract the Wisdom and benefits from LEARNING from the next woman about what she did to get that guy, or that money, or that body, etc. If Shera has taught us anything, and she has! Use everything to your personal advantage to BETTER your life; not to waste your energy on jealousy, competition, insecurity, hating. Shera helps women to put the FOCUS back on themselves and loving themselves! ⭐🧿

  • @kirskirs2219
    @kirskirs2219 Год назад +23

    When u stop comparing yourself to other women, your life goes up!

  • @becuteforme
    @becuteforme Год назад +58

    I'm weird just like Shera, perhaps it's a Pisces thing? I like to smile at women who are looking pretty and put together, sometimes I compliment them if I like what they're wearing. Envious women are crazy, in a bad way: 😂

    • @ms.rivera7898
      @ms.rivera7898 Год назад +25

      I admire beautiful, put-together women. I see why men are visual creatures. There is so much beauty in this world. I’m glad I’m not a man, though, so I can stare at and admire the women around me without them feeling creeped out. Lol.

    • @Doriginal-b8y
      @Doriginal-b8y Год назад +15

      I don't think it's a sign thing. It's what women who are secure do.

    • @katiataggarta1914
      @katiataggarta1914 9 месяцев назад +1

      I’m the same way ! I compliment women even strangers when I like their outfits 😌

  • @graceliaw9245
    @graceliaw9245 Год назад +56

    You have to be content within yourself and with who God made you to be! Be confident in yourself!

  • @essa-gs1qx
    @essa-gs1qx Год назад +27

    people SWEARRR they know you 😂😂😭😭 people want me to be insecure SOOO BAD 😂😂😂😭😭😭 not gonna work sweetie, only security over here 🤪

  • @Shessolostintheworld
    @Shessolostintheworld Год назад +28

    Reminder: you can’t buy sex appeal , either you’re born with or you were not!
    Sick of all these women looking good in still photos and then when you meet them in person they are awkward and don’t know how to carry themselves .

  • @indigoGoddess7
    @indigoGoddess7 Год назад +52

    I compare myself to the past versions of who I was and I am jealous of who I am becoming.
    I absolutely despise it when women compare themselves to me and or any other woman for that matter.
    I just re-direct them whenever they try that nonsense with me.

  • @nieceylanair65
    @nieceylanair65 Год назад +60

    Great advice. This content definitely needed to be covered for the level up journey. Self love is extremely important. Women need to know that the process starts from within.

  • @tommywalker1631
    @tommywalker1631 Год назад +46

    I have been watching your content for several years.As a man I get angry. However, I shared your content with my daughter because I can see some of your content helps her to place her own interest first

  • @marbriela24
    @marbriela24 Год назад +16

    Girl!! Thank you for your wise advice! I was raised to be “independent “ without realizing that the real independent woman is the one who gets Queen treatment! 💞💞💞

  • @MsElfMannequin
    @MsElfMannequin Год назад +13

    This topic came at a great time. All of 2022, I allowed ppl to convince me I’m abnormal because I look much younger than I am/small. Telling myself that as a 27 year old black woman that my facial features are too small compared to other bw my age. I’m beginning to no longer do that. God made me just fine 😊

  • @CS-pl1re
    @CS-pl1re Год назад +19

    U are my auntie for LIFE always on point when i need it 😅

  • @marir102012
    @marir102012 Год назад +19

    I totally agree just be the best version of your self and you can be among all the other beautiful and different kinds of flowers .

  • @minuit6305
    @minuit6305 Год назад +14

    I say if you want someone or something to "compare" yourself with do it with a God or Goddess. Study their archetypes and include it in your day to day life. This probably the healthier approach since it all inside you anyway. I know this is the wrong channel but i follow both and i know my divine self. Sprinkle Sprinkle

  • @anonymousfourth2491
    @anonymousfourth2491 Год назад +25

    New to your channel but you empower me

  • @IReadTooMuchCrap
    @IReadTooMuchCrap Год назад +31

    That was a good video, Shera. I finally got a very nice haircut for myself after waiting for the appointment for months in advance, and it was so worth it! I feel so leveled up, especially since my old hair had so many split ends I was looking like a Halloween tree.

  • @BrainsBeautyandCommonSense
    @BrainsBeautyandCommonSense Год назад +16

    Your look is so beautiful, feminine and classy! I needed this video, I have several friends and associates that consider surgery an option. I just watched a surgeon friend showing how easy it is to get liposuction. In this world, I have to remind myself that I am enough, and keep leveling up in safe and healthy ways.

  • @Evie170
    @Evie170 Год назад +8

    "You got to get a dust-buster..." :D

  • @iamcrystal8776
    @iamcrystal8776 Год назад +9

    This is gold. Keep replaying so my subconscious overstand 😂❤ I love you. Thank you.

  • @hopeinajar77
    @hopeinajar77 Год назад +10

    Hey lady I just went shopping with you . I purchased a book , some level up cosmetics & some stationery.
    You are magical and I truly appreciate you .
    Sprinkle Sprinkle 💕💕💕

  • @jadegemsss
    @jadegemsss Год назад +9

    Thank you, Shera… I want to be vulnerable here. Although I love myself, I wont be afraid to admit that I have to drill that into my mind sometimes. I’ve constantly been devalued and skipped over and it makes me resent other women. It’s like I made myself into the most beautiful version of myself but I still worry that she’s not enough sometimes because until recently I’ve been stepped on even after the glow up.

    • @Tessy29k
      @Tessy29k Год назад +12

      First rule of self love is to remove yourself from people who do not appreciate you or seek to tear you down. We should monitor our environmental diet as well as our food diet too be strict with who you allow into your space

  • @themillenniallist9004
    @themillenniallist9004 Год назад +10

    You look so nice as always.

  • @callistadiamonds
    @callistadiamonds Год назад +5

    Any ladies from the UK here?

  • @jklpop4664
    @jklpop4664 Год назад +10

    First I want to tell you thank you for coming to help women get better. I LOVE YOU 🥰 I am grateful for your honesty and straight forward you are on your content. I have been rocking with your content from the beginning. Ladies are level up every where in the world 🌍 Thank you frfr 🥰💯❤😀

  • @spiritualinsiderr
    @spiritualinsiderr Год назад +3

    Loveee the Wednesday Addams look

  • @itsabbymarieb
    @itsabbymarieb Год назад +10

    Shera, this was so wholesome. You gave us so much love and soul in this. Thank you 🤍

  • @rosalindvaca5412
    @rosalindvaca5412 Год назад +7

    every women needs to takes an auto machanics class even if ou do not pass you drive you will abosobe the information and wont be stuck on the road . Important

  • @Shayvideos1
    @Shayvideos1 Год назад +20

    Skin bleaching doesn't even look normal ..you really get stares from your skin not looking normal.

  • @UhMuthaFkinVirgo
    @UhMuthaFkinVirgo Год назад +6

    NOT A GLUE STICK & A RAZORRRR LMAO🤣🤣😂😅 MMMMY GAWD!!! GURRRRL U FOOL!!!😂😅

  • @Mizanthrobe
    @Mizanthrobe Год назад +8

    Women need to study Mcjimsey and Kibbe. Knowledge that there is more than one body type and that they are all beautiful in their own way is essential! You’ve got Gamine, Romantic, Dramatic, Classic and Natural body types but everyone wants to be Theatrical Romantic. It’s boring.

  • @GoddessYvonne3
    @GoddessYvonne3 Год назад +2

    True💯I have tried to look like women on TV....Yaaassss Uniqueness ♥️Be You

  • @siamae3762
    @siamae3762 Год назад +5

    Hop on that Derrick Jaxn situation with his wife. I want to hear your opinion!!!

  • @GoddessYvonne3
    @GoddessYvonne3 Год назад +2

    LMAO 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😆stealing at the antique shop....Yaasssss love the antiques. I sold mine that was given to me from a rich client❤️

  • @Aleena_McLean
    @Aleena_McLean 3 месяца назад

    Reallllll Tallkkkkk ❤❤ BE YOURSELF. EMBRACE IT.

  • @rachaelwitchey8268
    @rachaelwitchey8268 Год назад +6

    It was the ending for me - comparing yourself to chicks “body jobs” is so ratchet 😅

  • @jasminjar6667
    @jasminjar6667 Год назад +2

    what u been sayin bout that Celebs. Thats right. Today is another Day with Social Media we didnt had it but still we were Going :)

  • @whatevervlogs9663
    @whatevervlogs9663 Год назад +2

    Keep making books baby girl

  • @cristy02
    @cristy02 Год назад +3

    so great shera. simple straight to the point video. i think this is a great intro video for anyone new, if they like this theyll love your channel ❣️❣️❣️

  • @sabinaneri9568
    @sabinaneri9568 Год назад

    It’s the theif of joy we have so much to be thankful for I’ve been one to look I’m not into filters the world today is all about filters we don’t need

  • @jklpop4664
    @jklpop4664 Год назад +5

    Given my flowers now 💐🌸💮🏵💐💯❤Thank you we appreciate you💐🏵💮🌸💯 sprinkle sprinkle 💫💢💥💫 thank you for all you do 😍🤩🥰 loving myself so I am able to give real compliments 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯🥰

  • @sdotthealchemist8141
    @sdotthealchemist8141 Год назад +5

    Tell them again

  • @DOLCEKAYEXOTICAL
    @DOLCEKAYEXOTICAL Год назад +2

    Honestly it’s all about being able to take care f ourselves. Every time I slipvup with my skin it makes me look so much worse and I still look good but just not as good as what I know I could look like

  • @paulpaul5290
    @paulpaul5290 Год назад

    Ladies beyond meals is to the bills! Shera!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @brandi7733
    @brandi7733 Год назад

    Thank you Shera, good topic 💞

  • @pedestal.p
    @pedestal.p Год назад +1

    I WAS just writing about this

  • @devonthedivinesolarchild9413
    @devonthedivinesolarchild9413 Год назад +3

    Ashera shine your light on your universe and the world , Ashera your a wise one , I am a True & Living God, generator operator, destroyer of the universe and worlds , My Ancestors known and unknown are the Goddesses and Gods of the universe and worlds . I'm "Chief Devon" the Master of the universe, ASE .

  • @monicareynolds3060
    @monicareynolds3060 Год назад

    I love your cat eyes!

  • @PurpleReels
    @PurpleReels Год назад

    Love, love, love!! 💜🙏🏽💜

  • @heatherschaffer9406
    @heatherschaffer9406 Год назад +1

    Sometimes, when women are in rlts w the WRONG MEN. The man will talk about another woman 's features or they want the woman to obtain an unrealistic body structure. A few things to do is request funds to fix the imperfect then once y get the funds, dump him fast move on or sue him to fund y counseling to rebuild y self esteem if y have been in a long term relationship. Although, if y are just on a first few dates run fast, tell them before y criticize me make sure y are perfect in every way, or after he says theses things and y at a restaurant move y dinner to the bar if there are cute guys and ignore him as if he was not there. Another, way to handle his stupidness redirect the conversation, ignore, while y finish y dinner or drink. Next, do not say anything just walk out or tell him y are going to the bathroom and don't come back. Block, his number fast.
    Steeling, makes ones life more difficult finding a job w a police record, difficult dating w a record a quality guy, and looks horrible if y want to attend a university some day. I recommend if y don't have funds couponing, yard sales, libraries to gain vocabulary skills to apply higher dialect will place y into a higher foundation of people to improve y resources. Another, suggestion is apply f grants f bussiness and schooling. A few suggestions. Great. Videos

  • @essa-gs1qx
    @essa-gs1qx Год назад

    i LOVE myself. i’m genuinely obsessed with myself. do you know me in real life?? 🥴
    how bout stop coming to my page and making videos about me. 😉

  • @nicolebrittan948
    @nicolebrittan948 Год назад

    I love that top your wearing, where did you get it?

  • @ambermoots9010
    @ambermoots9010 Год назад

    You need a dust buster? 😂😂😂

  • @adaintydream8759
    @adaintydream8759 Год назад +8

    Can’t stop doing that, i gt insecure and anxious looking at pretty girls

    • @truthteller4659
      @truthteller4659 Год назад +2

      yuck

    • @adaintydream8759
      @adaintydream8759 Год назад +3

      @@truthteller4659 lol what’s so funny about it, accepting my insecurity!

    • @Tessy29k
      @Tessy29k Год назад +1

      Why? Do you think they're going to harm you or take something away from you?

    • @adaintydream8759
      @adaintydream8759 Год назад +7

      @@Tessy29k yes, i feel like my man likes her too, when he looks at some pretty girl, i feel i am not pretty enough, so he’s looking at her and perhaps wishing he married her .

    • @adaintydream8759
      @adaintydream8759 Год назад +3

      @@Tessy29k I feel my family who used to think and tell me that i am beautiful, will start feeling she’s prettier than me, hence makes me fee like im not good enough, i am worthless

  • @nodistractions5548
    @nodistractions5548 Год назад

    Awesome

  • @samantha03
    @samantha03 8 месяцев назад

    13:26 15:33

  • @Hebrewsyt
    @Hebrewsyt Год назад +1

    Ya kylie stop trying to look like ro lol

  • @LolaBreakHEARTS
    @LolaBreakHEARTS 2 месяца назад

    ❤️🌹

  • @betsysimpson318
    @betsysimpson318 Год назад

    The code LEVELUP5 ISNT WORKING 😭