Marriage is good thing, the only issue is finding people to who are worth that commitment are few...Chose wisely!!!!!But sometimes you don't have to just dont do it.
" New Age " marriages appear to be heavily challenged to me. Our generation can barely survive marriage. I wish as Africans we stuck to the ways of our forefathers. Modernity has really messed us up.
In short, don't get married. Marriage today is treated as a business. Hence the different marriage contracts. It's a scam and a trap. I don't want to get married or have kids. Those two things are just a trap.
Some husbands refuse to work! They just stay home sleep daytime and movies or out nighttime. No financial help whatsoever, no cooking, cleaning, laundry! Woman still needs to do all those things and parents’ meetings at kids’ schools; hubby a no show! Hubby also abusive. When she finally divorces him after many years of enduring, he claims spousal support! 😭😭😫😳😳😳🥺
If I am married, & I give my parents money & grocery monthly with/without my spouse's knowledge. Can my parents claim for maintenance from my estate should I die?
I am so happy resources like this are out there. But the comments absolutely show how most people should not be getting married because they simply do not understand the legal and financial implications of it amongst other things. People only have simplified perspectives of legal processes surrounding marriage due to media, religion and anecdotal experiences likely from other uneducated people.
Tshepho Mojapelo is very informed about the law however her judgement is slightly clouded when it comes to how the law operates mainly when it focuses on men.
What if i got divorced before i started working? Divorced in 2006. Started working in 2012. Is he entitled to what i own? Im not able to listen to whole video
At 1:55:37 This host is either a weirdo or really immature (likely both). Why would you think a situation involving a family breakdown is "fun"? Traumatized children, a partner traumatized by infidelity and this guy thinks it's "fun". He was doing this same giggling in the interview with the gay guy who had wasted 15 years of a woman's life whom he married and had a child with. Clown behavior.
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This ladies smile is so beautiful 😊
We need to go back. Either we reprogram ourselves to never get married or figure out how not to divorce.
You've put it so well. This episode ... 😮😮😮
depressing topic watching as a man, im engaged but i have to rethink hard now, Im not marry in community of property
Bra Dave is preparing for something... o re botse re rokise 😆
My thoughts exactly...theres a thread lately in he's podcast
Re rokise ?😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
@@mapulasethosa7088 eya 😂
I'm never going to get married.
Coward😂😂😂
What I learned on today's podcast is that, for those who intend to get married, OUT&OUT is the way to go👌🏽
Yes the out and out is the way
way to go
She needs to come back again 😂 What a beautiful episode !
This was a Master class in Love, Marriage and Divorce. Thanks Aus'Tshepo.
A lot of people plan the wedding and get every detail right but they fail to plan the marriage
I wish I heard this chat when I was 25, but it's never too late. I can transfer this awareness to my kids
Marriage is a blessing from GOD but in today s life is taken like business. Thanks KingDavid for the lessons you bring here
Marriage is good thing, the only issue is finding people to who are worth that commitment are few...Chose wisely!!!!!But sometimes you don't have to just dont do it.
Amen! Cause now it's like 10% good people and 90% bad, so the choose wisely is like🥺 are there humans from other planets?
"I'm happy because I'm not married" 😂 love this lady
We Learn everyday on this channel, Thanks KING DAVID for always bring so much value by bringing the best expects.
The episode I didn’t know I need. ❤what an episode. Eye opener. Thanks Bhuti David for this podcast😁💫🫶🏼🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦
Closing the gap between legal services and our people.
Thank you my sister.
I would love a conversation on child maintenance tlheng
to those who arent married, get an antenuptial agreement with or without accrual dont sign up for community of property
Seems like its better write down a business contract than to get married. It's hard to see any benefits in involving the government into ones affairs.
" New Age " marriages appear to be heavily challenged to me. Our generation can barely survive marriage. I wish as Africans we stuck to the ways of our forefathers. Modernity has really messed us up.
Very informative, thank you Dav & sis Tshepho 🙏
1:03:53 This lady is adding to my cynism (or realistic-ness) towards marriage. 😀
In short, don't get married. Marriage today is treated as a business. Hence the different marriage contracts. It's a scam and a trap. I don't want to get married or have kids. Those two things are just a trap.
Always funny and informative another great episode, law runs our lives daily
Glad you enjoyed it
even SIDE CHICKS who were being maintained can lodge a claim???
👀 👀 👀 😨 😨
If there's evidence that they were dependent on you financially.
Aowa😮
King David .. one day, I'll be your guest .. mark my wish and remember my name . NOLLEN MDAKA
Thank you for an informative session 👏🏾
Bro David really sounds like he has baby mommas 😂
I love these kind of talks. I enjoy talks that has to do with law and related matters. From ausi Nthabiseng Dubazana to here. Keep up David.
David thank you,this is an education channel.
If as an unemployed husband, was supervising the domestic worker, the gardener the car washer,I think I deserve a maintenance 😂
😂😂👊🏾👍🏾
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Another great interview 🎉 dankie bra David and Tshepho
Now I need to work on creating a cheap lifestyle 🤣🤣🤣
It's official I am not getting married, It is a scam I worked hard for my assets
This lady looks familiar, did she go to PEPS?
I wish I had gotten divorced in South Africa! The law is so fair!
I enjoyed this so much! Love love love Tshepho!
Great informative conversation, especially the adverse implications on business partnership 🎉
2:37:12 But why do you not want to share the marital proceeds? 😂
I enjoyed this topic so much. So enlightening
Ai ya neh "The best constitution in the world" 🙄
South Africa’s version of Fadzai Mahere. 🙌🏾
This was the best episode on this channel 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Some husbands refuse to work! They just stay home sleep daytime and movies or out nighttime. No financial help whatsoever, no cooking, cleaning, laundry! Woman still needs to do all those things and parents’ meetings at kids’ schools; hubby a no show! Hubby also abusive. When she finally divorces him after many years of enduring, he claims spousal support! 😭😭😫😳😳😳🥺
It is what it is.
Now you know how men feel. Congrates.
@@sbonzama7013 how’s that the same!?
If I am married, & I give my parents money & grocery monthly with/without my spouse's knowledge.
Can my parents claim for maintenance from my estate should I die?
The new DNA law on registration of birth then it will help David for the lies about who fathered the child
they need to add it to divorce as well, becasue there are man who are suppoorting kids that arent theirs
I am so happy resources like this are out there. But the comments absolutely show how most people should not be getting married because they simply do not understand the legal and financial implications of it amongst other things. People only have simplified perspectives of legal processes surrounding marriage due to media, religion and anecdotal experiences likely from other uneducated people.
marriage is a scam 😅😅😅
Exactly 😂😂😂😂😂
Not sure why I' m here but heyyy
Is a girlfriend allowance viewed as maintenance? Can the girlfriend claim maintenance if we part or if I die, due to the girlfriend allowance?
Wow! We're at 96K subscribers💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
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David we need time stamps, Your shows are too long, please hire someone to clip time stamps.
I feel like the video title needs to be changed 😊. As I get to the end of the video ☺️.
LENYALO KE SCAAM
Tshepho Mojapelo is very informed about the law however her judgement is slightly clouded when it comes to how the law operates mainly when it focuses on men.
Very informative hle thank you 😘❤️ ausi Tshepo hle wa nkgatla 😍
Uyintlekisa umtshato stru!!!
divorce really is messy.... esp if there is no mediators during the heated discussions
I like this topic, can we also advise about parental allowances.
2:00:00 YHO YHO YHO 😵😵😵😵😵
Hell yeah! No lifestyle 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Eye opening, good discussion 👌
Why is it divorce only about women 😬😬😬😳😳😳🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
I don’t think you watched the whole vid.
What if i got divorced before i started working? Divorced in 2006. Started working in 2012. Is he entitled to what i own? Im not able to listen to whole video
Simple answer No he’s not once divorced it done you’re no longer an item whatever you get thereafter is yours alone no claims to it
Iyoooo.... I am informed enough.
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Real life issues
What are we doing with this dutch laws kanti?this is Soo unhuman.that is why people have turned marriage investment
Law is very complex Broad and interesting
Mashabela podcast is very interesting.... it last long maybe reduce to hour and half ❤
it looks like men "dont care abt th kids" koz most men ASSUME
that the law ALWAYS allows the woman to keep th kids
At 1:55:37 This host is either a weirdo or really immature (likely both). Why would you think a situation involving a family breakdown is "fun"?
Traumatized children, a partner traumatized by infidelity and this guy thinks it's "fun".
He was doing this same giggling in the interview with the gay guy who had wasted 15 years of a woman's life whom he married and had a child with. Clown behavior.
It’s lovely when we put face to the voice … 😅😊
Thank you Mdeva 😊😂