Why China wants to make it easier to marry, harder to divorce

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  • Опубликовано: 2 ноя 2024

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  • @SouthChinaMorningPost
    @SouthChinaMorningPost  Месяц назад +9

    Read more on this: sc.mp/vf5qm

  • @Jkd_77
    @Jkd_77 Месяц назад +692

    Won’t this just turn people off even more from getting married?

    • @100c0c
      @100c0c Месяц назад +96

      Probably. Or it makes long term bf/gf more normal.

    • @firefly4326
      @firefly4326 Месяц назад +1

      So you turning people on for marriage and divorces 😂

    • @syarifairlangga4608
      @syarifairlangga4608 Месяц назад +70

      They can just increase wage and decrease cost of live.
      But thats not profittable.
      The rich doesnt want more human, they want more lifestock

    • @lx7766
      @lx7766 Месяц назад +7

      ​@@100c0c how? people are just going to end up in a hopeless relationship for longer that will certainly not help.

    • @D.2601
      @D.2601 Месяц назад

      Policy makers must be grandpas that made the people stop having more than one kid when they were young, demanded high grades from their kids when them kids were studying n now they r demanding grandkids from this gen. But they logic will only make people stay away from getting married. Or may b that’s what the people on top want…that only the tops ones should have a family.

  • @rinsolaris2284
    @rinsolaris2284 Месяц назад +243

    As someone from a country where divorce is illegal, making it harder to divorce just gives people more reason to not get married. You'll also see more people stuck in abusive and toxic relationships.

    • @SlimJim3082
      @SlimJim3082 Месяц назад +10

      Philippines?

    • @leonardpearlman4017
      @leonardpearlman4017 Месяц назад +2

      Oh, yeah! That's a different question!

    • @rinsolaris2284
      @rinsolaris2284 Месяц назад +9

      @SlimJim3082 yup. It's only us and Vatican City. And honestly, a country of celibate priests doesn't need divorce anyway.

    • @Luming-di9rf
      @Luming-di9rf Месяц назад +2

      I doubt a 30-day period makes it harder to get divorced. It gives a couple time to reflect.

    • @waiwai5233
      @waiwai5233 Месяц назад +4

      Honestly since 80% of divorce is initiated by women, I think more countries should be like the Philippines or have divorce laws that wont rob the man to reward the woman for leaving. Marriage should not be a profit center for anyone.

  • @chrysllerryu4171
    @chrysllerryu4171 Месяц назад +290

    Being married doesn't mean they will make children

  • @okwatever3582
    @okwatever3582 Месяц назад +328

    They just kept ignoring the elephant in the room. It’s the rising cost of living and low wages that is keeping people from wanting to seek marriage. So selfish of the govt just wanting more labor force through manipulation of policies but not wages.

    • @edthelazyboy
      @edthelazyboy Месяц назад +17

      They want to have their cake and eat it too

    • @BrokenSoulConfession
      @BrokenSoulConfession Месяц назад +7

      This! 👍🏻

    • @sanzhang-tx1zm
      @sanzhang-tx1zm Месяц назад +7

      It's impossible to reduce so many people
      Population reduction only affects a few big cities, such as Shanghai and Shenzhen.
      There are many children where I live, and most of my relatives have two or even three children.
      It’s not as exaggerated as foreign media propaganda.
      At most, the population may be reduced to about 1 billion by the end of this century.

    • @alluu5008
      @alluu5008 Месяц назад +6

      Wage isn’t the main issue, but it is one of the issues. The few issues are women have a higher demand, better chance to meet men, and less reliable to men. Men spend a lot to start a relationship and lose a lot when the relationship falls apart. Men has a very high risk.

    • @FrostKaiser
      @FrostKaiser Месяц назад

      Sure, it's not like there's 100 million leftover women in China who won't marry unless a 6 feet tall, fit, millionaire man proprose to them.

  • @venanziadorromatagni1641
    @venanziadorromatagni1641 Месяц назад +335

    How is making divorce harder helping with population?
    If a couple is at that point where they don’t want to stay together anymore, what‘s the point of them having a baby?
    Isn’t that just spreading the misery of two people onto three people?

    • @Wolfwarrior2024
      @Wolfwarrior2024 Месяц назад +17

      Crazy xi jinping doesn't understand tht

    • @ХейХей-ю3ф
      @ХейХей-ю3ф Месяц назад +17

      The whole Idea of marring is to make it harder to split apart. Either wise you can just live together till won't decide to break up without marring.

    • @menotfunnyclips8982
      @menotfunnyclips8982 Месяц назад +6

      to destroy and eliminate the opportunity for the option of having another partner option

    • @courtly5982
      @courtly5982 Месяц назад +7

      No it makes sure ppl for sure marry once so they dont have "benefitted" relationships that are only single sided and purely sensational

    • @venanziadorromatagni1641
      @venanziadorromatagni1641 Месяц назад +5

      @@courtly5982You’re assuming people marry a more suitable partner because divorce will get harder.
      If people could always think and plan that much ahead in life, would we still have all those regrets in this world?

  • @ivanchan3748
    @ivanchan3748 Месяц назад +171

    Married cost: $$
    Divorce and Alimony: $$$$$$

    • @countryroadrider1669
      @countryroadrider1669 Месяц назад

      Yes true, they took everything from men. Marriage is a longest scam in human history.

    • @ithinkiknowme6450
      @ithinkiknowme6450 Месяц назад +3

      ​@@doiah2d12baby it's not strange...most of the traditional cultures demand dowry from the groom to take their daughters...that called "traditional"..
      You're living in a privileged developed country sweetie...

    • @aluisious
      @aluisious Месяц назад +3

      Do you know why divorce is so expensive?
      Because it's worth it.

    • @rebeltheharem7028
      @rebeltheharem7028 Месяц назад +4

      Raising Children: $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$

  • @tonywang4032
    @tonywang4032 Месяц назад +108

    If you want to increase the birth rate, then lower the costs of living and childcare. You must also pass labor laws limiting the amount of hours you can work every week. Start with a 40 hour work week and gradually decrease it.

    • @IamtheMan1111
      @IamtheMan1111 Месяц назад

      They can. Just start farming and more homeschool. Easy

    • @justanawkwardnerd
      @justanawkwardnerd Месяц назад +2

      @@IamtheMan1111 Many Chinese farmer families are impoverished, and cut off from a lot of the amenities in their older villages. Education is often the only way to escape that, and homeschooling will not make that easier. Kids are getting out of the farm to get their families more money and out of poverty, and with how painfully competitive education is, homeschooling is more of a handicap than a help here. That's not a real solution that will help them, and even if some of them leave the rat race that is society, that doesn't mean the rat race will actually stop. That's what the government needs to actually address, and they'd also need to be the ones that implement changes so that people CAN farm without being painfully impoverished or cut off, and fix the toxic education system so homeschooling COULD be a viable option for some.

    • @IamtheMan1111
      @IamtheMan1111 Месяц назад

      @@justanawkwardnerd but the cost of education and living out of farm is expensive too, so there's no better at all, right? Also, government funds are limited while people are many, so what's use depending on amenities anymore? Dependent and independent? I don't see which are benefits them more. If only people can choose what balance them most, there won't be any problem

    • @skatesuperbaby
      @skatesuperbaby Месяц назад +3

      ​@@IamtheMan1111 We live in 21st century, not 12th century. You can't expect everyone to engage in farming as vast majority of small individual farms can't compete with large industrialised ones. And saying it is easy shows you are clearly out of touch with reality.

    • @soleternelle3207
      @soleternelle3207 Месяц назад +1

      They wouldn't have been in such dire straits had they ended the One Child Policy back in 1990s or even 2000s.
      Trying to reverse the course is like trying to steer a giant tanker ship at this point, but they still have to take every possible measures, however unpopular (and even harebrained it may be).

  • @Youtubeisworst-q1u
    @Youtubeisworst-q1u Месяц назад +25

    they tried this in my country, men dont marry anymore. we opt for cohabitation since divorce is so punishing

  • @iam8685
    @iam8685 Месяц назад +85

    Lol their marriage rate will surely go down at this point

    • @asdkotable
      @asdkotable Месяц назад

      China taking the Japan route of ignoring the actual issues to raise their birthrate speedrun

  • @user7-o9w
    @user7-o9w Месяц назад +120

    “Till death do us part” just got real. It’s like you better make sure to love your partner because there won’t be an uninstall button.

    • @lx7766
      @lx7766 Месяц назад +10

      Or just dont get married at all. Its not like its mandatory

    • @nawawiawi4013
      @nawawiawi4013 Месяц назад

      ​@@lx7766 he referring to love, not to no love or lonely ahh

    • @lx7766
      @lx7766 Месяц назад +1

      @@nawawiawi4013 i ment just be in a relationship but dont get married

    • @nawawiawi4013
      @nawawiawi4013 Месяц назад

      @@lx7766 unfortunately, the laws would be stricter for that

    • @lx7766
      @lx7766 Месяц назад +2

      @@nawawiawi4013 lol what would happen if a couple doesnt want to get married? Is there a tax for that?

  • @theeraphatsunthornwit6266
    @theeraphatsunthornwit6266 Месяц назад +35

    If it is that hard to get out of it, then people will not marry

  • @jaker3151
    @jaker3151 Месяц назад +27

    Making it harder to divorce is just giving people another reason not to get married 🙄 I think it's better to look at reducing the cost of living. When people don't have to worry about money so much then they have more free time and can focus on doing other things too. Like going out, looking for a partner, getting married, having kids etc. If that's what they want.

  • @KaafeRacer10
    @KaafeRacer10 Месяц назад +56

    Best advice in life: Don't get married without considering the consequences. Also, if you or your partner can't spend most of the time with each other because of work or other reasons, you probably won't be able to stay committed in the relationship for long, the marriage will slowly fall apart. if you can't handle regret or marriage affair think about it seriously before marrying.

  • @raskreia8326
    @raskreia8326 Месяц назад +18

    *For marriages it would be better to tackle the problem of unemployment. But it is also more difficult* there you go. Thats it. The main problem.

  • @mellowverse2275
    @mellowverse2275 Месяц назад +15

    A literal trap

  • @user-gw9yx2wx5g
    @user-gw9yx2wx5g Месяц назад +10

    Abusive relationship will happen if people are not allowed to divorce.

    • @Moodboard39
      @Moodboard39 Месяц назад

      I don't think first century men abused woman Greek or Roman society

  • @weho_brian
    @weho_brian Месяц назад +11

    the worst thing you can be is young dumb and in love

  • @HowToChangeName
    @HowToChangeName Месяц назад +38

    I think the problem still unanswered, what about the rising living cost from basic needs like food and fuel to complex like housing? Is there benefit offered to new parent like paid leave? If anything, hard to divorce only make for mentally stunted children who have to endure mental strain of troubled household

    • @trekon2023
      @trekon2023 Месяц назад +6

      People are paid too little and CEOs too much. CEOs basically get the bonus for any collective effort and success of the company while merely keeping investors interested. The work is done by the mammoth team without which there wouldn't be a believable company to tell investors about. It's all your collective exempt overtime driving this carriage.

    • @TonyTinker-hc3zq
      @TonyTinker-hc3zq Месяц назад +2

      You must not know much about china... My wife is Chinese. At her old job in china she would have gotten 5 months paid leave for having a kid. Also rent in most places in china is cheap. my wife lived in the downtown of the 6th biggest city in China. Her rent was around 250 usd a month. Also food is cheap in China and we would spend around 5-6 dollars to feed two people per meal at a local restaurant and buying groceries are cheaper

    • @lx7766
      @lx7766 Месяц назад

      ​@@TonyTinker-hc3zq so if money is not an issue what is? clearly people is having problem having children.

    • @canthandlethetruth-dji
      @canthandlethetruth-dji Месяц назад +2

      @@lx7766 Money is definitely an issue, he's talking from his perspective which is absolutely not the standard by which Chinese society operates.

    • @jessicayoung1190
      @jessicayoung1190 Месяц назад

      ​@@canthandlethetruth-djiWhat standard is that ?

  • @BrokenSoulConfession
    @BrokenSoulConfession Месяц назад +12

    The issue with not having a child is more due to the high costs of raising one...
    Making marriage easier is a nice gesture. But if the expense afterward stays the same, then it will not be an effective solution. Not a solution at all, in fact. As making divorce harder may instead discourage those who are already unsure about marriage. 😐

    • @TanSpeakersCorner
      @TanSpeakersCorner Месяц назад +3

      It is not as simple as that, the more intellectually enlightened the population are, the less likely they want to have children because they felt like children coming into this world will suffer. It is why traditionally it is normal to have more than 5 children but now it is just 1-2, it is so they can have better quality of life. The other reason are such as substituting children with pets which is less demanding, or people just want to enjoy life.

  • @F510C
    @F510C Месяц назад +11

    Surprised they haven't started taxing people over 33 without kids and not married.

    • @verskarton
      @verskarton Месяц назад +6

      Don’t give them ideas.

    • @Silverraine1
      @Silverraine1 Месяц назад

      that would probably increase fake marriages and abuse/neglect of adopted kids,

  • @ROHIT-kx4kz
    @ROHIT-kx4kz Месяц назад +4

    In India also younger generations are refusing to get married because of high inflation, low wage structure, low job availability, & last but not the least highly women biased judiciary.

    • @Ofasia777
      @Ofasia777 Месяц назад

      You're referring to the small percentage of Indian population that is well off enough to consider those factors and is educated enough to make their own choices. They don't factor much in the overall growth and marriage rates, which are still sky high in poorer population, and 93% of which still practice arranged marriages in the first place (as of 2018, might be out of date and lower now).

  • @rickylow1655
    @rickylow1655 Месяц назад +7

    30 days cooling off period is not making it harder. Australia has a one year separation policy before divorce. Most countries have minimum of 2 years cooling off period. Some countries, like the Philippines, divorce is illegal.

  • @rian4104
    @rian4104 Месяц назад +6

    Its the same everywhere. When the country get more developed and people got wealthier the birth rate decline. The more materialistic the society the less they happy even when the wealth increase. All of us should reevaluate our priority in life as not to end up spending most of our life pursuing and competing for something we don't really need.

  • @JastinHagad
    @JastinHagad Месяц назад +4

    China prolly looked at The Philippines(a country with a rising population and where divorce is illegal) and was like YES, THIS WILL WORK

  • @pjacobsen1000
    @pjacobsen1000 Месяц назад +6

    "In the first half of 2024, only 3.4 million marriage registrations". This may look like a very low number, but we have to take into account how many people there are: If we assume that the average age of marriage is 27 for women, then there are only 7.5 million women of that age in 2024. If the second half of 2024 presents as many marriages as the first, we will end up with 6.8 million marriages, 90% of the possible maximum. So all in all, it should not be a big surprise.

  • @travelswithminky246
    @travelswithminky246 Месяц назад +3

    not a 30 day cooling period but 30 year cooling period.

  • @valorzinski7423
    @valorzinski7423 Месяц назад +6

    Easier way: you marry now and have kids or minus social credit score!

  • @rdailyhadith9791
    @rdailyhadith9791 Месяц назад +2

    30-day cooling off period is a joke.

  • @mysnapple6994
    @mysnapple6994 Месяц назад +5

    Think fixing the high cost of school system in China will go a long way in get couple to have more children

  • @slayermate07
    @slayermate07 Месяц назад +2

    how about actually make it easier for a married couple instead of just the bureaucracy?

  • @tictactoe101
    @tictactoe101 Месяц назад +7

    Red army storms into the room: "You. And you. Make baby. Hurry up!"

    • @FrankiePo89
      @FrankiePo89 Месяц назад

      Fbiops stormed into your room, "your baby boy is actually a girl", we'll take custody of "it" and give you back a girl when "she" come of age.

    • @Moodboard39
      @Moodboard39 Месяц назад

      One child policy is abolished

  • @kawings
    @kawings Месяц назад

    30 days cooling period is already very short..in Malaysia it is 2 years .

  • @invisiblewing2002
    @invisiblewing2002 Месяц назад +3

    More than an unemployment, expenses also need to consider

  •  Месяц назад +3

    How about the kids with no parents?

  • @diablog.9339
    @diablog.9339 Месяц назад +3

    Just made marrying more harder👏👏👏😂 people will think more before getting married!

  • @clankb2o5
    @clankb2o5 Месяц назад +4

    They want more people to get married? I have an idea.

    • @leonardpearlman4017
      @leonardpearlman4017 Месяц назад

      They could subsidize a flood of romantic movies! Media (partly) causes this problem, media can get them out of it! There are a lot of foolish comments today, that make it sound like youth are sitting down and making calculations, like a bunch of accountants. They might BE! But I think a lot of marriage is outside of this rational actor libertarian fantasy, people are driven by impulse, hormones, intense family pressure, intense media pressure.... Are very young people sitting down and saying "how is this going to look when I'm fifty-seven?"? I'm an engineer and I know better than that!

  • @danijayaputra1456
    @danijayaputra1456 Месяц назад +2

    if the main problem is low birthrate, then China should make child adoption easier and legalize commercial surrogacy for persons or couples who have stable job/income but can't produce children, or person who don't want married but want children.

  • @janpukallus721
    @janpukallus721 Месяц назад

    In 1988, after being married 3 years and pregnant with my 2nd bany, I seeked (Australian) government marriage guidance because I wasn't happy. They told me "Divorce counseling is free but marriage guidance you pay for." We went for 6 sessions and I am so happy now and still married. We had 4 children. Marriage is important security for the children but love grows stronger and meaningful over time. Australia’s birth rate is in reverse but immigration is growing the population. The cost of living is one of the highest in the world now. I think China is doing the right thing. We just had 3 weeks in China and it was wonderful.

  • @starnight1209
    @starnight1209 Месяц назад +1

    30 DAYS IS NOTHING BUT 30 YEARS FORGET IT.

  • @wpor1
    @wpor1 Месяц назад +1

    Honestly this issue can be said to be due to so many factors, so it’s pretty complicated to be solved with just one policy.

  • @oldtabrough1026
    @oldtabrough1026 Месяц назад

    Just curious if Yi Fuxian is a teaching staff at the University or not. If he is a teaching staff, i wonder if his students understand his english during lessons time since his chinese accent is so heavy. I used to have a professor in my university like him and he was from china. My goodness, half the time, i was trying to understand him, the other half trying to understand the subject. By the end of his lesson, i was so tired.

  • @Puiz4Life
    @Puiz4Life Месяц назад

    Should be providing state sponsored marriage counseling classes and exclusion for the cooling off period such as mental or physical abuse before divorce.

  • @brucelee3688
    @brucelee3688 Месяц назад +2

    This will make many to think long and hard before they marry. Also, since it is harder to divorce, adultery cases will definitely rise markedly.
    I feel the better solution is having lower cost of living. Like cheaper cost of education, more affordable housing, doing away with the 996 work schedules etc. But these won't happen because it not financially beneficial.
    At the current rate, the rich will get richer, the poor will be poorer and the middle class that sustains the economy will shrink and may eventually disappear.

  • @emmajk7433
    @emmajk7433 Месяц назад +1

    I like this change!

  • @sunflower_shorts
    @sunflower_shorts Месяц назад +2

    Divorce rate is actually pretty high in China 🇨🇳 as it became more Westernized. Young children suffer the most when couples get divorced or separated. I watch a Chinese RUclipsr who married twice and had children with both men.

  • @TheJelleviA
    @TheJelleviA Месяц назад +1

    It will indeed make them think twice before marrying

  • @Unanswered888
    @Unanswered888 Месяц назад +11

    Divorce cool-off period of 30days seems tolerable i guess

    • @cmaven4762
      @cmaven4762 Месяц назад

      They've been doing it for a year or more.

  • @stevenr.rodriguez9997
    @stevenr.rodriguez9997 Месяц назад +1

    Wouldn't it be better to provide easier access to marriage counselling and therapists? Sort out the issues so it doesn't affect the relationship instead of forcing them together?

    • @leonardpearlman4017
      @leonardpearlman4017 Месяц назад

      Are they exclusive? And what "forcing" do you see here? We see a possible attempt to REMOVE BARRIERS, and let people make bad decisions you might say. I'm not married and pretty glad of it, but I can see how it might be in the National Interest, if not in your own interest! A LOT of things are like that!

  • @mufunyiibrahim3655
    @mufunyiibrahim3655 Месяц назад +1

    DOESN'T MAKE SENSE, YOU WANT TO INCREASE BIRTH RATE AND MARRIAGE YET UNEMPLOYMENT IS HIGH

  • @anonymous-vp7mr
    @anonymous-vp7mr Месяц назад +1

    Very strict…

  • @melodyparra2960
    @melodyparra2960 Месяц назад +2

    The worst idea since the one child policy marriage should be the choice of both parties and divorce should not be the choice for the couple to make not any one else or the government of any country

    • @UndeadSlayer5
      @UndeadSlayer5 Месяц назад +1

      This is worse than a one child policy

    • @leonardpearlman4017
      @leonardpearlman4017 Месяц назад

      They aren't Libertarians!

    • @Moodboard39
      @Moodboard39 Месяц назад

      That been abolished long ago! Geuius.. It shows ur stupidity

  • @monke4044
    @monke4044 Месяц назад

    Its like having a restaurant, the place is small and expensive, and there's a very long queue to order a place. So their solution is to make it easier to book a place but hard to cancel.
    This will only make most Ppl prefer going to other restaurants if they can, cuz its more convenient, faster, and easier to do.

  • @andreastano7920
    @andreastano7920 Месяц назад +1

    It's important for a couple to introspect themselves whenever there's a problem in their family, because at the end of the day, the victim will be their children.

  • @honeykamal9743
    @honeykamal9743 Месяц назад +1

    There are many overseas Chinese that wanna migrate back to China but its not as easy

  • @tetsuyo11
    @tetsuyo11 Месяц назад +1

    This is best chinese the CCP can think of ha ha ha

  • @Loki-sk7bi
    @Loki-sk7bi Месяц назад +2

    Yeah another wise policy. Just like the one child policy. Only gonna make the problem worse.

  • @rs.9165
    @rs.9165 Месяц назад +2

    There’s going to be so much more domestic violence

  • @IamtheMan1111
    @IamtheMan1111 Месяц назад +1

    If it's about money, then it's not problem since they can live separately despite marriage status. But the most important things is how to make them psychologically married easier and harder to divorce.

  • @christinaescalantedelosrey6138
    @christinaescalantedelosrey6138 Месяц назад

    What is those merchandise in this place...Russell

  • @frankmichaelchiara
    @frankmichaelchiara Месяц назад +6

    This is a global phenomenon with more developed countries and an increasingly educated population. As citizens (especially women) become more educated, raising children is seen as a hindrance to a personally satisfying quality of life and career. The opposite is also true. Less educated societies where especially women are denied education and careers, their birth rates are high.

    • @cmaven4762
      @cmaven4762 Месяц назад

      In China's case there's also the influence of the one child policy, which means there's just fewer people in the marriageable age group.

    • @imshulei
      @imshulei Месяц назад +3

      @@cmaven4762 The one-child policy has been cancelled for a few years now

    • @cmaven4762
      @cmaven4762 Месяц назад +2

      @@imshulei Agreed. However it's still impacting the generation of marriageable age. Since they are the one child result of the policy, they have fewer choices for marriage partners.

    • @imshulei
      @imshulei Месяц назад

      @@cmaven4762 Irrelevant, the main thing is to get married, the man needs to bear the burden of buying a house, so for many people who can't afford it, if they can solve the problem of the house, many of them will be able to get married smoothly, which is a bad phenomenon in society

    • @cmaven4762
      @cmaven4762 Месяц назад +1

      @@imshulei In a modern society where people feel less willing to marry someone they don't like, even with the house people will stay single. Smaller number of people to choose from means more people choose to - or are forced to - stay single.

  • @leeweesquee
    @leeweesquee Месяц назад +3

    Should be other way around

  • @extremepsyche3135
    @extremepsyche3135 Месяц назад +11

    Getting married is like inviting a third wheel to the relationship - the government.

    • @Rode-e1o
      @Rode-e1o Месяц назад

      Or the Church. As it has been for many centuries.
      The church wants to ensure the populace producing more membership for their Religion while the Government wants to ensure new taxes, new workers and the building of their armies.

  • @tuckerbugeater
    @tuckerbugeater Месяц назад +1

    even xi can't stop the blackpill

  • @1971gift
    @1971gift Месяц назад

    A thirty day cooling period is laughable. In US can be up to a year. Increase wages and make the workplace more attractive to women

  • @FebruaryHas30Days
    @FebruaryHas30Days Месяц назад +2

    Also, WHAT IS THE MEANING OF THE NUMBER 65???

    • @tictactoe101
      @tictactoe101 Месяц назад +4

      At least 65 kids per couple

    • @FebruaryHas30Days
      @FebruaryHas30Days Месяц назад +1

      @@tictactoe101 I'm not talking about the kids, I'm talking about the years

  • @Stellar31
    @Stellar31 Месяц назад +1

    Hard to get divorce? If stuck in an abusive relationship. Instead of tackling the main problem, this looks like a small patch or a shortcut to increase child births.

  • @yinyinhtun2643
    @yinyinhtun2643 Месяц назад +1

    The individual in china is definitely losing their rights.More or less ,the dissatisfaction rate could increase .

  • @DanielHYNg
    @DanielHYNg Месяц назад +1

    The world is changing fast.

  • @BrillianceoftheMoon
    @BrillianceoftheMoon Месяц назад

    I agree that divorce should be the last resort in a marriage but they also need to consider those within abusive relationships. Unless they make marriage financially better for couples then i don't see why this would make too much difference.

  • @BonaKim-hd8ec
    @BonaKim-hd8ec Месяц назад

    China recently ended foreign adoption. There will be Chinese children who grow up solely in adoption agencies and paid foster homes. As well, legal ( if China still permits) and illegal abortion rates will increase if pregnant women don’t see their infants being adopted into loving families domestically or now, internationally.

  • @nicholasgoh3526
    @nicholasgoh3526 Месяц назад

    It’s not going to work. I live in Singapore and it’s easier to register for your marriage than to queue up at Starbucks to buy a coffee. Divorce on the other hand is harder than climbing Mount Everest. Half your assets will also go to your wife. Divorce rate is still rising every year or at least have not been coming down. More people have also chosen to be single and government is building more public housing to cater to these singles.

  • @ckaybit
    @ckaybit Месяц назад

    caging people in marriage and forcing children into the mix of people who don't wanna be together...what could go wrong

  • @lalakuma9
    @lalakuma9 Месяц назад

    Honestly all of China's recent policy changes to "encourage" young people to marry and have kids have been completely tone-deaf. They only have the opposite effect of making people NOT want to get married at all.

  • @randomreal3228
    @randomreal3228 Месяц назад

    Ahh it brings back my memories when i time traveled to ancient China, a female bandit kidnapped me and force me to be her husband. Since she is beautiful, i reluctantly agree to marry her and finally activated my golden finger called "many childrens many bessings". Since then my journey as immortal cultivator begins.

  • @Burnlit1337
    @Burnlit1337 Месяц назад

    Sounds like something that the government would think off. Where the burden is placed on the people instead of addressing the problem at large. They just need to look at the mirror...

  • @chiefenumclaw7960
    @chiefenumclaw7960 Месяц назад +8

    Does anyone want to marry me? I'm 5'4" 258 pounds and I've got more video games than a teenage Asian kid.

  • @waltking1442
    @waltking1442 Месяц назад

    Who is that guy? He doesn't know what he is talking about. The 30 day cooling off period was introduced in 2021. there was an immediate fall in the divorce rate as some reconciliations took place.

  • @lovechineseforever9434
    @lovechineseforever9434 Месяц назад +2

    DONT F UNLESS MARRIED

  • @balaearom7331
    @balaearom7331 Месяц назад

    Why the sound had the isssue

  • @rebeltheharem7028
    @rebeltheharem7028 Месяц назад

    Honestly, if they want more births, they should just give a child stipend and make child education cheaper. The number one thing turning people off from having kids is because it's freaking expensive, probably one of the most expensive compared to cost of living there, and people can barely afford to pay for themselves AND their parents, let alone kids.
    IMO, this is actually going to make people less likely to marry than they already are.
    Child birthrates in a population of highly educated people is directly correlated with economic security. The better the economy, the higher the birthrates. The worse the economy, the lower the birthrates.

  • @cmaven4762
    @cmaven4762 Месяц назад

    I thought that 30 day cool off period was already policy ... For at least a year. .... All the Chinese micro dramas have it as a standard trope now.

  • @aluisious
    @aluisious Месяц назад

    No one likes being trapped into things. If you want people to have kids, fix the actual problem, the cost of living and necessity to work all hours of the day.

  • @HJ-di1bo
    @HJ-di1bo Месяц назад

    Is there an economic advantage provided by the Chinese government for married couples? Discounts or privileges or anything especially for those who have children? If there is none then prolonging the divorce procedure especially in a dysfunctional, loveless, or abusive relationship is counter intuitive. There would be less people getting married.

  • @zoeolsson5683
    @zoeolsson5683 Месяц назад

    Better to do the reverse make it harder to marry and easier to divorce.
    Solution is to give more support to understanding emotions and interpersonal skills.
    And to examine cultural structures that impinge on family life - working too much, rigid gender roles, lack of parental leave, lack of housing, excessive work mobility and wealth inequality

  • @_MANASYt
    @_MANASYt Месяц назад

    How do you want them to get married if buying a simple apartment is so expensive? Buy one and a car, and pay for 30 years? Kids' education? Work in the office till midnight? How about make education free, like in Europe? How about give child support to parents every month? You talk about developed countries but don't talk about how expensive it is to have a family in China these days!

  • @AB-vw8wz
    @AB-vw8wz Месяц назад +1

    CCP is like that

  • @KG-fw5wk
    @KG-fw5wk Месяц назад

    The policies are "in line with the international community/"
    You mean the countries that where women are second-class citizens?

  • @Nori-it6wo
    @Nori-it6wo Месяц назад

    Really weird

  • @mrtopspeed188
    @mrtopspeed188 Месяц назад

    30days nothing that very fast compare to indonesia 90-180days to divorce and cost alot money bribe attorneys, judge, lawyer etc..😅

  • @Regret7417
    @Regret7417 24 дня назад

    This will make people take marriage more seriously

  • @DorJinTan
    @DorJinTan Месяц назад +14

    Work less. Play more. Stop wasting money on western branded goods.
    Problem solved.

    • @adnausi
      @adnausi Месяц назад +2

      ... what about housing, car, and schooling

    • @alvinaliathos6137
      @alvinaliathos6137 Месяц назад +1

      Boycott China

    • @akbolly6415
      @akbolly6415 Месяц назад +1

      If to stop wasting money on western branded goods, they should work still their one last second awake, then they don’t have time to look at them, look for them. Unless you are talking about work less and got paid they can barely liveable..

    • @ChineseBrother
      @ChineseBrother Месяц назад +1

      nothing to do with western,we have toxic marriage culture😂😂

  • @kokoro37
    @kokoro37 Месяц назад

    Ppl will hesitate to marry even more now. Also, those that want to divorce can't move on and create a new family. How is this helping?

  • @rastoferi6012
    @rastoferi6012 Месяц назад

    When China wants to do something, it does it because there's no need to get approval from lobbyists. Youth employment can easily be solved by giving out incentives to employers hiring youths. If they haven't done it yet means that they dont think it's a problem

  • @Justmyopinionsir-q4v
    @Justmyopinionsir-q4v Месяц назад

    Only time I get a man and a woman a pass with marriage:
    Why don't you get married?
    I live in China dude.
    Hmm... Hard to argue on that one. Pass.

  • @gowtham.
    @gowtham. Месяц назад +1

    China adopting Indian culture 🇮🇳 nice

  • @osborne6363
    @osborne6363 Месяц назад +1

    I am ....

  • @LordEmperorHyperion
    @LordEmperorHyperion Месяц назад +4

    China should do what Singapore does that way population decline won't be problematic.

    • @ayamasakya4196
      @ayamasakya4196 Месяц назад +1

      China likes to do things their own ways. This new proposal is going to be disastrous.

    • @SeelkadoomTHS
      @SeelkadoomTHS Месяц назад +10

      What does Singapore do

    • @canadianaviator
      @canadianaviator Месяц назад

      @@SeelkadoomTHSyep

    • @Nadrill
      @Nadrill Месяц назад +7

      @@SeelkadoomTHS money, longer parental leave, subsidized housing for couples

    • @SeelkadoomTHS
      @SeelkadoomTHS Месяц назад +1

      @@Nadrill and Taiwan?

  • @Darth234Ravenous
    @Darth234Ravenous Месяц назад

    I'm willing to bet in the next few years you'll have government mandated marriage. Federal matchmakers will be given possibly thousands of applicants and will arbitrarily decide who is best suited to be their partner. Anything to produce more workers.

  • @manofculture3055
    @manofculture3055 Месяц назад

    Lamo in germany it’s 1 years 😅