There's this guy in my year and he made like a joke feminist account on Insta and he said "girls who wear crop tops deserve to get raped" like who tf says that, like even as a joke that's just disgusting, I think that's the worst thing I've ever heard from someone I know, we're not friends but he's in alot of my classes. He's the first person on my list of ppl's knee caps I'm gonna snatch.
I just cringed soooo hard wtf, that's... Like..... Even if that's supposedly a "joke" wtf? At the least he's unfunny/probably shouldn't post on social media and at most he needs help.
Cis het men saying “no homo” when complimenting a guy is like when a gay guy compliments a woman and says “no heteo” and where do you see that? Nowhere. We need to normalize complimenting the same gender without saying “no homo”
Lol me and my friends, both boy and girl say we love you. So if a boy says that to a girl they say no hetro, and if a girl says that to a girl we say no homo and pro homo.
ok, so as a bisexual man I sometimes get a bit taken aback when the bi community goes like "🤢🤮 men", but honestly? 🤢🤮 men I at least am not at risk of attracting the straight ones oof
I've noticed this trend, of the whole bi/pan community collectively lamenting their attraction to men. I didn't really notice it as a potential problem until I saw that the guys were doing it, too. And it reminds me so much of the late 90s/early 2000s when girls just HATED other girls, and especially themselves. I absolutely think we should continue to condemn toxic masculinity, but masculine people aren't inherently bad. I'm worried we're giving boys a complex that's going to take years to recover from
The first time I heard it I felt really good I don’t know how to explain it but it was weird (most people I’m around say guys and gals or ladies and gentlemen)
I would like to rock your world. You’re American. Hear me out, your country is Mexico but the continent you live on is North America. One half of a whole, everyone here is American! Ok bye.
Tbh the way that read to me was more of a kink thing (ie misfire on who he messaged), like, I'm sure there's guys who would try it but looked hella weird
“I’ll even open doors and shit for you” it makes so much sense now, after all these years. In my young childhood, why my mother and sister were always just standing staring at the door. I understand now.
so that’s why my finger got obliterated by the door when i tried to open it the other day, women can’t open doors! good to know, my middle finger is still throbbing from the pain but at least i know why
And this is why I wish I wasn’t attracted to men. edit cuz y'all are getting mad at me: PLEASE DONT BE MAD AT ME. PLEASE DONT BE OFFENDED. I apologise if my prior statement offends you, it wasn't meant to, it was a joke, and I hope if I have offended you, you'll forgive me because I hate it when people are mad at me. it's understandable, and I should probably have explained that I have no issue with men in general, I meant I wish I wasn't attracted to the stereotypical cishet men, such as the one's in Kiwi's video, in fact, with a few exceptions, a fair amount of the men I know are wonderful, kind people. thank you for reading my clarification!
Actual conversation I had with a guy from uni on Snapchat: Him: hey I heard you were struggling with this one course. I’m studying in the library with some friends you can join if you want and I could help you. Me: okay Him: and bring girls Me: all my friends are guys so that’s probs not gonna happen... Him: are you sleeping with any of them Me: no, I’m gay Him: *unfriends me* Like...whatt...??????
Age gaps are not a problem In themselves, it’s the power and authority that one person often has over the other that’s the problem. Some relationships with age gaps work fine but it’s a thin line
Also, how one person is more mature then the other, like how people under the age of 25 arnt fully mature, and when they are older they still have less life experience and are more naive
My friend was was with this guy who was 37, when she was 17. He was a uni lecturer who lived three hours away. She couldn't drive, so had to get the train down there every other weekend. She justified it by saying that she was really mature, which she was, but that's not the point. I always said to her, what happens if you have an argument when you're there? Why put yourself through that sort of stress? He also never drove to visit her, it was always at his house, the whole relationship was on his terms and it was just ugh.
my aunt is 10 yrs younger than her husband, they met when she was still in uni. 10 yrs isn't such an extreme difference (as opposed to 20+ yrs), but it is there nonetheless. they've been married for nearly a decade now, i think, have 3 kids and a 4th on the way, all of them planned. my point being, some women do like older guys, and yes, it can work out nicely. and if you're wondering, no, my uncle isn't rich, never has been.
True. Misogyny-based toxic forms of masculinity and misogyny-based forms of patriarchy really do be the sources of many of the world's problems and many forms of pain and suffering though . . .
"You remind me of a bowling ball: you look like you'd be lovely to hold in my hands." Alright, I'm not the greatest with words, but point being: literally ANYTHING would have been better. Seriously.
Tbf...... As a guy who hates dating sites/apps I understand the pain of trying, you message your few matches with like, maybe a few replies every now and again. At a certain point some guys (hell I'm not confident enough for that haha, I'll stick to ma corner) will just shoot their shot, to hell with it right? To get in their head "I've been rejected this many times, what's another time". Not to say he's a poet but that's another story haha
I used to be confused at the anger at women being called "females" especially when I was in the transitioning age from "girl" to "woman" (though of course still a girl or as my mom says "gal" for women older than me) and "female" was just an easier term to use, plus no one seemed to have an issue with the term "male." But the things guys say about women using the term "female" has me understanding women being upset.
I am a cis het man I apologise for the men in this video I sometimes feel ashamed to be put in the same category as those people My sincerest apologies Ahab
@Hamuel Jackson If a guy could say he was falsely accused, wouldn’t he? But more importantly then that, there are many victims of rape who are afraid to say something about it, then when they come forward it’s too late, the man gets free without any punishment. Or they do say something and the police, mostly men, talk to the guy and trust him when he says he didn’t do it. The amount of women who are raped and the rapist gets no punishment is horrible. On the occasion it actually gats to court there needs to be solid proof. It’s definitely not just a “he raped me put him in jail” sort of thing where the prosecutors just agree, it’s hard to get the person who hurt you in such a terrible way in jail, simply because you’re a woman, and they’re a man. Though I am genuinely curious, what am I, a woman, doing to men and not owning up to? Sorry if I came off rude! I hope you have a nice day / night / whenever!
I CAME OUT! my mom thinks it’s a phase, my dad and my sister accept me. Also Im have rubber duck earrings too! I love u and channel u helped me realize that I am valid and I shouldn’t hide my feelings.
@@addy3133 she was like I thought I was queer too because no boys were interested in me. Hi mom... it not that guys aren’t interested in me it’s that I’m not interested in guys
Again she needs to make video essay on topics like LGBTQ+ rights, and other topics like that because she’s super smart and I personally would love to hear it.
And people wonder why I don't want to start dating. Women and enbies are hard to talk to because they are so immaculate, and men... men are men. Edit: HOLY MOLY PEOPLE!!!! THAT'S A LOT OF LIKES! Y'all are amazing, immaculate beings T^T. Remember that you are all precious, loved, and worthy!
@@enxebre3436 I KNOW! THE IMMACULATE VIBES MAKE THEM SOOOOO INTIMIDATING!!!!! BUT LIKE NONBINARY PEOPLE AND WOMAN! HAVE YOU SEEN THEM LIKE OML YES PLEASE AND THANK YOU
@@TheQueerKiwi Yes. I always feel all the feels watching the part where you are wiping off your makeup while singing about making your mind a safe place and making your body a home. I've taken to singing the chorus to myself whenever I'm using the mirror to remove own makeup.
@@somebodylikesbacon1960 i dont get it. are you saying its a woman's fault that men are sexist? basically what we did was just exist and some of these men already hate us. of course not all of them
@Twinkle Toes i thought about it and lets not insult 5 year olds. Now i think his intelligence level is that of an aborted fetus. Something he should have been.
@Ashley Schofield being fertile doesn't determine how attractive you are lmao, why are you always spamming the replies? Are you here to just become perpetually triggered? Also, being fertile at a younger age will never justify the fact that men tend to go for younger women because they seek a power imbalance, how many young girls have been sexualised by men under the age of 18? Stop justifying this weird shit
Is it just me being asexual or are these men talking about *only* the sexual parts of the relationship? I understand there’s aromantic people of course but my guy, a healthy relationship isn’t just about the sex
yeah, personally, I think it's just another thing in a relationship. It's good and cool, but it's not completely necessary. Just another small nice thing in a relationship, and making it * most * of why you're in the relationship with the person you're with isn't healthy. I'm not asexual, but I would be happy to be in a relationship with someone who is, bc it's not really a necessity for a relationship for me lol
@Zack Hruska it's a humorous way of pointing out how bad toxic masculinity is without having to use a million words. No one here actually hates men. We would just like us to improve as a group.
@@humbleproduction2045 I'm not entirely sure lol, a few people are saying they are ashamed of being cishet men, literally check the reply to the top comment and the people congrating ahab for being self aware for saying he is ashamed of being a man. Actually promoting that is immature and indicates a shallow understanding of the issues of patriarchy.
@@tibbygaycat they are literal jokes lmaooooo, its ppl like you who say shit like "females are such snowflakes,they cant even take a joke" when ppl joke about sensitive things, and yet
Shout out to the actually good and cool cishet males out there, they are a rare breed, but they do exist I only know my best friend, and One Topic. But two is proof they exist I suppose
Yess!! There are some great allies out there. My dad is one of them. My brother is pretty homohpobic, but I still try my best to educate him. There's also some great youtubers like Jenna and Julian, Danny Gonzalez, Kurtis Conner, Drew Gooden, and a few others. Yes they are very rare, but I think a lot of people forget they exist. So just like a nice message to y'all. Thank you for supporting us. Keep spreading as much love as you can. We appreciate you standing and fighting with us♡
@Zack Hruska Um sorry? I was talking about people who don't support the lgbtqai community. I wasn't talking about feminism. And I completely understand why some you of hate feminism. There are a lot of issues with it.
out of context, but my younger sister saw me watch a video of yours and said “her hair- wait are they a she? or a they? well, anyways, their hair is awesome, i love it.”
As my friend said last night: "men have 2 heads and they only have the blood to think with one" and adding this bit on myself 'and the one they think with isn't the one on their shoulders'
I'm seeing a lot of "f in male stands for funny" vs "f in women stands for funny" Im just gonna say: *"The Z in Gen Z stands for Zeus please kill me already please gods just end it I'm begging you this world is crazy"*
The guy waiting for that one in a million to swipe right... That one in a million is either super vulnerable, messed up, clueless, or all three. He's basically waiting for the perfect 'victim' type.
Why am I bisexual? Because men are hot sometimes. And women... damn! They’re hot and cute and have great personalities and we get along so well and I wanna grow up and marry a woman and-
Sadly, I'm bi but i prefer men. But like 💞✨W O M E N✨💞 ... Also, i prefer men mostly cause I'm living in a Christian household and no one's gonna accept me anyway.
@@0304-s1h I mean if I'm to comment (this is me being respectful) you should choose your partner based on your personal preference, who you think works best with you. It shouldn't be based on your families values once they're kind and loving y'know.
@@g0oberdm417 actually some bi people are not the stereotypical "i love women a lot and. maybe men too. but i dont like men" there is " i love men and women men even more" but i get what you mean , but still i had to make this clear
@Elio I dont know like what tha hell if I would date a dude I would want him to have a good personality and there for respect other peoples sexualities. Like uuuuh a man not respecting woman I'm sooo turned on. XD
For the one about the girl who lost her cat: at least he didn’t offer to take her to watch Pet Cemetery, for some reason, my ex really thought that was a good idea
"Do you think a pounding would help?" That's something I say to my long term partner who we have that type of relationship pre established, I'd never say that to a match
That one with the girl mourning her cat made me literally say out loud, "They had us in the first half, ngl." Then I remembered what video I was watching and in what year.
As a guy, on behalf of all the men who can't control themselves, I would like to apologize to all the women who got harassed verbally, emotionally and sexually. That's why as a bi guy, I honestly hate these type of guys.
I always feel rlly bad when women are compared to food especially, like calling black women chocolate. Like... bruh. STOP. They are not things for you to consume!! Ugh!!
3 years ago my boyfriend cheated on me and his reason was "She goes to gym and has a nice body, when we first met u were trying to loose weight but u stopped so..." After that i didn't date men anymore! I'm bi, I can't change my attraction to men but I can choose to not date them.
This dude started following me on Instagram , and I followed him back for some reason because I thought it would be rude if I didn’t.But he kept telling me that he liked my boobs and such, I was like “woah that’s not how you start a conversation.”But he never listened, until I got fed up and told him I was gay, but he said I “couldn’t be gay because I’m a girl with big boobs”... I never thought that stupidity could hit me in the face so hard before.
9:39 Yeah I lost my old cat a few weeks ago, we had to put him down because he was old and sick... I've cried so much and it got better after a few days but I still miss him terribly. Animals are real beings with personalities and relationships, and losing a loved animal is very hard
one that arrived in my inbox this week.... "i'd like to say you're beautiful but beauty is on the inside and i haven't been inside you yet" 🤢i asked him if it had ever worked and he claimed to have had a 70% success rate... sure, dude.
As someone who has a lot of experience with cold weather: people who get hypothermia can be quite delirious. I'm not excusing this guy's behaviour, but with moderate to severe hypothermia you can say or do a lot of weird stuff. Normally it is just not listening to good advice to get help to stay warm though. Why was he even using a dating app if he was out hiking?
You deserve all of the followers ur getting. The internet needs more activists like you, and I really appreciate all of the knowledge I have gained from your vids and insta ❤️❤️
7:50 ugh, my dad always comments on people bodies all the time. one time, we were sitting in a parking lot and we played some sort of judging game. It was basically where you would rate people, and it made me super uncomfortable. like, just let people be.
TBF I always text a random woman and insult her when I have hypothermia. It's a well known symptom of the condition. Happened all the time to arctic explorers.
↑↑ THIS ↑↑ my fictional husbando is technically a femboy, his gender was also literally changed overseas bc he looks like a wamen, and he's probably LGBTQIA+. so yeah i have high standards when it comes to men. and then women~💗
@@lilliths-httyd-channel gurl don't get me started on Julian from AC 👀✨ (jk) but no really I understand I have a lot of husbandos (and waifus, hello Chiaki Nanami) but weirdly also real men like Eliot from The Magicians which I guess technically makes me pan 🤔 still prefer women vibes though 😎✨👩❤👩✨
This, my friends, is the reason that I’m gay. Or lesbian. I’m a girl, but I call myself gay, changing how you describe somebody depending on their gender just doesn’t sit right with me.
@Elio ig its internalized homophobia, but I'm still idk, scared of the word "lesbian"? I've been conditioned to think that is a "dirty word" so much, that even now when I know it's what I should call myself, and it isn't bad, I still think I've said something wrong when I say it. Idk, it's weird af
I have a cishet male friend who completely accepts me being a lesbian because he doesn't understand how anyone could be attracted to men and when I tell you I screamed-
On the subject of pick up lines, wholesome ones literally make my heart melt and its become a common occurance for my boyfriend and I to just say cute pick up lines to eachother during calls.
After I start t I have a feeling ill probably be" big n burly" so I want to get a hoodie or something that says 'i know I look tough but im just walking pls don't be scared if you see me the fact someone could have this reaction gives me intense anxiety and I probably just need to walk my dogs or something' or something similar
I think some guys that send those weird ass messages are just trying to be funny or stand out to the girl in some way to not be ignored, not all of them are as crazy as they seem, but honestly as a woman it's pretty hard to give those "exotic" messages a chance because it just looks like a big red flag. It's sad that we have to be so wary of any weird signs when using date apps, but it ends up being better to ignore it than risk going out with a weirdo.
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There's this guy in my year and he made like a joke feminist account on Insta and he said "girls who wear crop tops deserve to get raped" like who tf says that, like even as a joke that's just disgusting, I think that's the worst thing I've ever heard from someone I know, we're not friends but he's in alot of my classes. He's the first person on my list of ppl's knee caps I'm gonna snatch.
*snatch* em girl!
Hell yeah, get his ass
I just cringed soooo hard wtf, that's... Like..... Even if that's supposedly a "joke" wtf? At the least he's unfunny/probably shouldn't post on social media and at most he needs help.
Honestly you could probably show your principle and get him in trouble
It wasn't a joke, he just tried to pass it off as one.
The ducks gradualy start to bury themselves in your hair to hide from the cringe
Aw haha
Lmao
*✨Into the fringe to hide from that cringe✨*
Irrefutable proof that the f in male stands for funny.
i’m glad you agree
can’t agree more
The f in female means funny
Goes to show the ‘g’ in women stands for “good sense of humour”
@@rose_millsie9287 I'm just confused.
👏This👏is👏why👏I👏am👏almost👏exclusively👏attracted👏to👏fictional👏men👏
Who isn't-
Also Anime Women-
same.
Read 👏🏻 The 👏🏻 Am 👏🏻 I 👏🏻 Lesbian 👏🏻 Master 👏🏻 Doc 👏🏻 Please 👏🏻
Yes
Me: *attracted to basically everyone in bnha*
Also me: this is fine. Help.
Cis het men saying “no homo” when complimenting a guy is like when a gay guy compliments a woman and says “no heteo” and where do you see that? Nowhere. We need to normalize complimenting the same gender without saying “no homo”
Lol me and my friends, both boy and girl say we love you. So if a boy says that to a girl they say no hetro, and if a girl says that to a girl we say no homo and pro homo.
@@gaspsatan5555 that’s epic, but sadly context isn’t the same (about what i said in my comment and what you said, if context is the same then sorry)
I usually just go with "no romo" (no romance) to indicate that in not flirting, just complimenting
no more "no homo" "I mean that in a friend way" "I mean that platonically" etc because it's dumb and ive been trying to stop doing it :)
Me and my bf say no homo as a joke
ok, so as a bisexual man I sometimes get a bit taken aback when the bi community goes like "🤢🤮 men", but honestly?
🤢🤮 men
I at least am not at risk of attracting the straight ones oof
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@Eliza Walker Bruh, I don't hate men, I hate sexist, homophobe women-objectifiying assholes, what's wrong with that?
@Eliza Walker what does it even mean.
did you, like, watch the video or is that the type of men you'd date for you to get offended on their behalf?
Lol dude I'm bi too and you're comment is a literal mood
I've noticed this trend, of the whole bi/pan community collectively lamenting their attraction to men. I didn't really notice it as a potential problem until I saw that the guys were doing it, too. And it reminds me so much of the late 90s/early 2000s when girls just HATED other girls, and especially themselves.
I absolutely think we should continue to condemn toxic masculinity, but masculine people aren't inherently bad. I'm worried we're giving boys a complex that's going to take years to recover from
Everytime I hear "greetings, guys , gals and non binary pals" my day gets 100 times better.
Love from Mexico❤
Same I feel represented lol
Natalia Gutierrez, I LOVE ur pfp
my name is natalia too xD
The first time I heard it I felt really good I don’t know how to explain it but it was weird (most people I’m around say guys and gals or ladies and gentlemen)
I would like to rock your world. You’re American. Hear me out, your country is Mexico but the continent you live on is North America. One half of a whole, everyone here is American! Ok bye.
"sir, please behave"
man: hOw DaRe YoU
Same man: BEHAVE, F E M A L E
Tbh the way that read to me was more of a kink thing (ie misfire on who he messaged), like, I'm sure there's guys who would try it but looked hella weird
“I’ll even open doors and shit for you” it makes so much sense now, after all these years. In my young childhood, why my mother and sister were always just standing staring at the door. I understand now.
My sister basically lives in the elevator bc she can't open her flat door. Since I'm not _really_ a man (I'm trans) I can't do it for her, just myself
I haven't stepped foot out of my room in 2 weeks, I accidentally closed my door and there isn't any men to open it for me. please send help.
The automatic door really put a damper on my dating ability.
so that’s why my finger got obliterated by the door when i tried to open it the other day, women can’t open doors! good to know, my middle finger is still throbbing from the pain but at least i know why
@@farateq yep! Make sure to have a man with you at all times to open doors or have your phone so you can call a guy to open doors.
We need some merch saying "why do men."
as a male, yes, why do men. i want to know why.
@Morgan Hilker Who's going to be the one to tell him he's supporting a feminist by clicking on this video and leaving a comment? 😂
@@mindyobussinesschile5014 yes❤️
@Zack Hruska have u got brainwashed by the media??
And then some merch saying “Don’t you just love it when women?”
And this is why I wish I wasn’t attracted to men.
edit cuz y'all are getting mad at me: PLEASE DONT BE MAD AT ME. PLEASE DONT BE OFFENDED. I apologise if my prior statement offends you, it wasn't meant to, it was a joke, and I hope if I have offended you, you'll forgive me because I hate it when people are mad at me. it's understandable, and I should probably have explained that I have no issue with men in general, I meant I wish I wasn't attracted to the stereotypical cishet men, such as the one's in Kiwi's video, in fact, with a few exceptions, a fair amount of the men I know are wonderful, kind people.
thank you for reading my clarification!
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I hate men
“men” 🤮
@@Andrea-uj9zw oh uh-
@@jaxthetic2700 I'm a guy dw
Imagine commenting on a woman's weight and expecting to get a date with her
"It all started when he called me fat out of the blue"
@Zack Hruska s t r a i g h t women
@@IchibanOjousama LMAOO
God I'm so happy that because I'm a trans guy and not a cis guy I know how it feels so I won't do shit like that
😂😂😂😂😂😭
Actual conversation I had with a guy from uni on Snapchat:
Him: hey I heard you were struggling with this one course. I’m studying in the library with some friends you can join if you want and I could help you.
Me: okay
Him: and bring girls
Me: all my friends are guys so that’s probs not gonna happen...
Him: are you sleeping with any of them
Me: no, I’m gay
Him: *unfriends me*
Like...whatt...??????
Let the trash take itself out and I hope uni is great! ♥️
Musicals and Netflix Thanks, it really is apart from single instances like this!
Ooo, look! A semi or complete homophobe in the wild!
(The guy I mean)
you dodged a bullet.
Oh good luck with uni!
Tbh, men literally think they can open a door and BOOM! They expect a housewife.
it’s like they think that they open a door and then the girl of their dreams would pop out like a frikkin wild pokémon and beg him to marry her
Age gaps are not a problem In themselves, it’s the power and authority that one person often has over the other that’s the problem. Some relationships with age gaps work fine but it’s a thin line
I agree although ive never been in one
Also, how one person is more mature then the other, like how people under the age of 25 arnt fully mature, and when they are older they still have less life experience and are more naive
What about zoe larvrne?
My friend was was with this guy who was 37, when she was 17. He was a uni lecturer who lived three hours away. She couldn't drive, so had to get the train down there every other weekend. She justified it by saying that she was really mature, which she was, but that's not the point. I always said to her, what happens if you have an argument when you're there? Why put yourself through that sort of stress? He also never drove to visit her, it was always at his house, the whole relationship was on his terms and it was just ugh.
my aunt is 10 yrs younger than her husband, they met when she was still in uni. 10 yrs isn't such an extreme difference (as opposed to 20+ yrs), but it is there nonetheless. they've been married for nearly a decade now, i think, have 3 kids and a 4th on the way, all of them planned.
my point being, some women do like older guys, and yes, it can work out nicely. and if you're wondering, no, my uncle isn't rich, never has been.
a question that could help solve all of humanities problems; “why do men, and why do they think it will be a good idea”
Omg that is so good
Well I can't provide an answer to that question because I don't think anything I do is a good idea in the first place :'D
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Misogyny-based toxic forms of masculinity and misogyny-based forms of patriarchy really do be the sources of many of the world's problems and many forms of pain and suffering though . . .
@@Alex-ui5qn I fucking died when I saw this, it applies sooooo well (yes I'm a manlet)
The one dislike is the guy who never fallowed the rules in elementary school
Apparently he has 15 friends
@@randomhooman2448 oop now there's 17 of them
@@sadiesavanna8369 20 now but tbh it’s just the people she’s talking about in the title
Oh no they took his friends along there is 24 now
S Meyer they’re multiplying at a rapid pace
"I'm so glad that you are enjoying the content I'm putting out"
I mean how could we not
And the rubber duck earrings is the cherry on top 😁
Fun fact : we all LOVE her earings
Yey 1k likes!!!!
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@@antoniapineiro7124 i am ✨broke✨
Rubber ducky, you’re the one
@@chrisiscool wait what
@@crowwwwwwwww ?
People ask me why I’m bisexual when my mindset is “women women women men bad men bad” and
I don’t know
Proof that sexual orientation isn't a choice. I'm with ya, though.
@@antoniapineiro7124 Omg-
I can’t agree more!
This is literally me
Well, I guess its like trying to find a unicorn in a world full of jackasses who want to be stallions. 🤷♂️
@@Sophia-vk5bq ah i would be a pony since they are cute
"You remind me of a bowling ball: you look like you'd be lovely to hold in my hands."
Alright, I'm not the greatest with words, but point being: literally ANYTHING would have been better. Seriously.
yeah that would have been a thousand percent better
You remind me of a bowling ball: I will disappoint both of us for an hour then wonder why I even agreed to go bowling
Tbf...... As a guy who hates dating sites/apps I understand the pain of trying, you message your few matches with like, maybe a few replies every now and again. At a certain point some guys (hell I'm not confident enough for that haha, I'll stick to ma corner) will just shoot their shot, to hell with it right? To get in their head "I've been rejected this many times, what's another time". Not to say he's a poet but that's another story haha
You remind me of a bowling ball:
You seem to like staying in your lane and its made you strike out with guys but there's still me to spare.
That's definitely an improvement.
The one dislike is the dude she’s referring to in the title
As someone who had an eating disorder (ARFID) and got so ill underweight, the guy telling her to become calorie deficient makes me sick. Sick.
ARFID sucks bro
Same happend to me when i was swimming with my class expect a girl said it and im a guy
"I love my women young and tender"
I'm sorry, do you want some chicken nuggets or should I call the police?
This gives off caniball vibes ngl
I SWEAR
Men say “the ‘F’ in woman stands for funny” like there’s an f in man or male 😐
There is, however, a f in female
@@hopsqotch1852 not really related but men who call women "females" 🤢🤮
I used to be confused at the anger at women being called "females" especially when I was in the transitioning age from "girl" to "woman" (though of course still a girl or as my mom says "gal" for women older than me) and "female" was just an easier term to use, plus no one seemed to have an issue with the term "male." But the things guys say about women using the term "female" has me understanding women being upset.
There's only one gender. We've got 'male' or its variation 'funny male'
(If I wasn't clear, this is a joke)
@@Ssure2 There's only one gender, and it's mine. You all can't have it.
Homophobes: being gay is a choice
Me, A bisexual, who is ashamed of being attracted to cishet men: *I wish*
I am a cis het man
I apologise for the men in this video
I sometimes feel ashamed to be put in the same category as those people
My sincerest apologies
Ahab
@@captainahab5522 lmfaooo we love a self aware king
@@natalia-vs9lg thank you
@Hamuel Jackson wha- that’s a VERY small percentage.
@Hamuel Jackson If a guy could say he was falsely accused, wouldn’t he?
But more importantly then that, there are many victims of rape who are afraid to say something about it, then when they come forward it’s too late, the man gets free without any punishment. Or they do say something and the police, mostly men, talk to the guy and trust him when he says he didn’t do it. The amount of women who are raped and the rapist gets no punishment is horrible. On the occasion it actually gats to court there needs to be solid proof. It’s definitely not just a “he raped me put him in jail” sort of thing where the prosecutors just agree, it’s hard to get the person who hurt you in such a terrible way in jail, simply because you’re a woman, and they’re a man.
Though I am genuinely curious, what am I, a woman, doing to men and not owning up to?
Sorry if I came off rude! I hope you have a nice day / night / whenever!
I CAME OUT! my mom thinks it’s a phase, my dad and my sister accept me. Also Im have rubber duck earrings too! I love u and channel u helped me realize that I am valid and I shouldn’t hide my feelings.
why do moms always think its a phase
@@addy3133 she was like I thought I was queer too because no boys were interested in me. Hi mom... it not that guys aren’t interested in me it’s that I’m not interested in guys
@@addy3133 maybe because they feel the same way, but think that’s how every woman feels?
Proud of you ❤
Proud of you! Glad that your accepted and hope that she comes to stop thinking it's a phase soon!
"you thicker than some tudors gravy" gave me you're thicker than a bowl of oatmeal vibes
That just... wow that sounds incredibly gross 🤢😂
I can even perfectly imagine his face when the lawyer was reading out that comment
That reminded me of the vine💀
@@excessivelyfangirlingbookw3339 Gross to you but I'm sure some lady out there would find it super endearing, he just needs to find his gravy girl XD
Again she needs to make video essay on topics like LGBTQ+ rights, and other topics like that because she’s super smart and I personally would love to hear it.
@Ashley Schofield wait- sis what?
@Ashley Schofield hi, can you share where you’re getting this statistic from? just curious
@@lanatureestlartdedieu9591 dude shes a homophobe commenting on comments -cri-
@Ashley Schofield her channel name literally has “queer” in it like...if you don’t like talking about LGBTQ+ why are you on this channel?
@@Nora-mb1cx literally and she’s so confident. I can’t imagine being a homophobe or something similar and be so open about it like geez
And people wonder why I don't want to start dating. Women and enbies are hard to talk to because they are so immaculate, and men... men are men.
Edit: HOLY MOLY PEOPLE!!!! THAT'S A LOT OF LIKES! Y'all are amazing, immaculate beings T^T. Remember that you are all precious, loved, and worthy!
I love your pfp it's a PANda xD
Spit them facts, dude!
Hehe PANda
O MY GOD WOMEN AND NON BINARY FOLKS ARE SO HARD TO TALK TOOO
@@enxebre3436 I KNOW! THE IMMACULATE VIBES MAKE THEM SOOOOO INTIMIDATING!!!!! BUT LIKE NONBINARY PEOPLE AND WOMAN! HAVE YOU SEEN THEM LIKE OML YES PLEASE AND THANK YOU
Man this makes me glad I'm lesbian. Also your earrings are the best thing I've seen.
Edit: Loving the subtitles!
Same
i wish i was lesbian 🙄
Lol me too
@Amity Blight luzbian*
Can I do the vine thing please
Sometimes I come just to hear the outro at the end. It serves as a sort of daily affirmation. Best. Song. Ever.
🥺🥺🥺
have you seen the music video for it?? it’s on my other channel if you haven’t 🥰
@@TheQueerKiwi Yes. I always feel all the feels watching the part where you are wiping off your makeup while singing about making your mind a safe place and making your body a home. I've taken to singing the chorus to myself whenever I'm using the mirror to remove own makeup.
You’ve never heard the doom soundtrack apparently (this is a joke)
@@Hampter55-q2u I love how you specify THIS IS A JOKE
everyday that passes i wonder why men...are still like..*that*
I don't know.
If you're asking why to the men you are like that, you're already giving them too much credit by assuming they have reason behind that.
@@somebodylikesbacon1960 i dont get it. are you saying its a woman's fault that men are sexist? basically what we did was just exist and some of these men already hate us. of course not all of them
@@prismmioouu No, I'm saying the sexist men don't act with reason.
fun fact: trump is 74 his wife is 50 same with most politicians and former presidents
Damn i thought he was 5 by the way he acts
@Twinkle Toes i thought about it and lets not insult 5 year olds. Now i think his intelligence level is that of an aborted fetus. Something he should have been.
@@chezcake5308 nah 5 year olds are adorable and can typically put sentences together by that point
@Ashley Schofield being fertile doesn't determine how attractive you are lmao, why are you always spamming the replies? Are you here to just become perpetually triggered? Also, being fertile at a younger age will never justify the fact that men tend to go for younger women because they seek a power imbalance, how many young girls have been sexualised by men under the age of 18? Stop justifying this weird shit
@Ashley Schofield schofield is honestly one of the dumbest surnames ever.... sorry english people
Is it just me being asexual or are these men talking about *only* the sexual parts of the relationship? I understand there’s aromantic people of course but my guy, a healthy relationship isn’t just about the sex
yeah, personally, I think it's just another thing in a relationship. It's good and cool, but it's not completely necessary. Just another small nice thing in a relationship, and making it * most * of why you're in the relationship with the person you're with isn't healthy. I'm not asexual, but I would be happy to be in a relationship with someone who is, bc it's not really a necessity for a relationship for me lol
I really think I might just be lesbian and not Bi because like ✨WOMEN✨ And then there’s 🤮men🤮
I didn't know they added a man emoji.
@Galixia Wolf thanks. It seemed fitting.
@Zack Hruska it's a humorous way of pointing out how bad toxic masculinity is without having to use a million words. No one here actually hates men. We would just like us to improve as a group.
@@humbleproduction2045 I'm not entirely sure lol, a few people are saying they are ashamed of being cishet men, literally check the reply to the top comment and the people congrating ahab for being self aware for saying he is ashamed of being a man. Actually promoting that is immature and indicates a shallow understanding of the issues of patriarchy.
@@tibbygaycat they are literal jokes lmaooooo, its ppl like you who say shit like "females are such snowflakes,they cant even take a joke" when ppl joke about sensitive things, and yet
One day you should say, "Wassup, girl, gays, and theys" Just once, please say it just once and I will be happy. :)
The f in heterosexual cisgender male stands for funny
fr
guys: the f in girl stands for funny 😀
me: *looking for the f in man, boy, guy, male,,,*
(not original lol)
The r in man stands for respectful
@@chezcake5308 the "i" in men stands for intelligence
the d in men stands for decent
@@thatlizzu8315 the p in man means they can please a woman
these replies are so true
Shout out to the actually good and cool cishet males out there, they are a rare breed, but they do exist
I only know my best friend, and One Topic. But two is proof they exist I suppose
Yess!! There are some great allies out there.
My dad is one of them. My brother is pretty homohpobic, but I still try my best to educate him.
There's also some great youtubers like Jenna and Julian, Danny Gonzalez, Kurtis Conner, Drew Gooden, and a few others. Yes they are very rare, but I think a lot of people forget they exist.
So just like a nice message to y'all.
Thank you for supporting us.
Keep spreading as much love as you can.
We appreciate you standing and fighting with us♡
@Zack Hruska Um sorry? I was talking about people who don't support the lgbtqai community. I wasn't talking about feminism.
And I completely understand why some you of hate feminism. There are a lot of issues with it.
My greatest hope is that I can be counted among that number.
@@OverlyPositiveFanboy just accept everyone as a human and don't think with your penis think with your brain
Dr. Mike is also a great person
"Baby cmon you thicker than some tudors gravy"
damn I have been won over, swooned and quite possibly in love
💅💞
out of context, but my younger sister saw me watch a video of yours and said “her hair- wait are they a she? or a they? well, anyways, their hair is awesome, i love it.”
As my friend said last night: "men have 2 heads and they only have the blood to think with one" and adding this bit on myself 'and the one they think with isn't the one on their shoulders'
omg i---- fr
Asexual men are so lucky. Their blood is clearly going to the right head.
@@OverlyPositiveFanboy yes
*Can we just appreciate the fact that she has subtitles so everyone can access her videos?*
Yes I appreciate that!!!
"Hello, I am a toddler and _someone_ gave me scissors" is my current haircut in a nutshell
Thats why im only attracted to girls and anime men
YES
This hits me on a personal level such a mood
them: how can you be bie if you only like girls?
me: anime boys.
thats why im only attracted to women and shrek
Mood
But same
I'm seeing a lot of "f in male stands for funny" vs "f in women stands for funny"
Im just gonna say:
*"The Z in Gen Z stands for Zeus please kill me already please gods just end it I'm begging you this world is crazy"*
You SERIOUSLY don't want Zeus anywhere near you, I can 100% guarantee you that
STRIKE ME DOWN ZEUS, YOU DON'T HAVE THE BALLS
@holy trinity yeah Zeus had a lot of mistresses. This was a conversation between me and my friend:
Them: Fuck Zeus
Me: please don't
PJO anyone?
@@slemisnotcring5929 ack I need to finish pjo I was in the middle of book like 4 or something when school started back and I got distracted
The one dislike is the guy who is secretly in all of these. 😂
Also
Sav: *multiple peace signs* I’m so.....
Me: bisexual? Because same. 😂
These are the days I wish I was a lesbian, not bi.
every day
imagine liking men 🤢
I guess if you avoid interacting with men at all you'll only meet attractive people who are female?
@@salma-ym6bq im literally bi with preference for female-
@@salma-ym6bq I think they’re being sarcastic.
The guy waiting for that one in a million to swipe right... That one in a million is either super vulnerable, messed up, clueless, or all three. He's basically waiting for the perfect 'victim' type.
Or just someone who likes older men, maybe? Not to sound too aggressive, sorry, I just like to give people the benefit of the doubt.
Why am I bisexual?
Because men are hot sometimes.
And women... damn! They’re hot and cute and have great personalities and we get along so well and I wanna grow up and marry a woman and-
Sadly, I'm bi but i prefer men. But like 💞✨W O M E N✨💞 ... Also, i prefer men mostly cause I'm living in a Christian household and no one's gonna accept me anyway.
@@0304-s1h I mean if I'm to comment (this is me being respectful) you should choose your partner based on your personal preference, who you think works best with you. It shouldn't be based on your families values once they're kind and loving y'know.
LMAOOO
@@g0oberdm417 actually some bi people are not the stereotypical "i love women a lot and. maybe men too. but i dont like men" there is " i love men and women men even more" but i get what you mean , but still i had to make this clear
@@prismmioouu ya I know I have friends that are bi lol
Me a lesbian: *exists*
Guys: I can change that.
Me: Eeeeeu you the last person I would date.
@Elio I dont know like what tha hell if I would date a dude I would want him to have a good personality and there for respect other peoples sexualities. Like uuuuh a man not respecting woman I'm sooo turned on. XD
For the one about the girl who lost her cat: at least he didn’t offer to take her to watch Pet Cemetery, for some reason, my ex really thought that was a good idea
Holy crap! What an ass-hole lol
Don’t get me wrong ok, I love women. Love. But sadly, I am still attracted to m-... to m-🤢. I am bi 😔.
@@pennyw2226 Bi erasure is never funny.
Same lol
@Ashley Schofield okay but lesbianism tho
@@antoniapineiro7124 I don't think that's what they meant
@Ashley Schofield come on, just admit youre a homophobe
I remember in the 5th grade that the boys tried flirting with the girls....istg they were uncomfortable
"Do you think a pounding would help?" That's something I say to my long term partner who we have that type of relationship pre established, I'd never say that to a match
This is why I’m disappointed in being a heterosexual 😔😔
i pray everyday to become a lesbian
You'd have different issues and arguments don't worry lmao
I'm so sorry 😔😔😔
This. THIS
I have never related more to a comment
652 likes. 0 dislikes. *Balanced, as all things should be.*
omg hi!!!
@@LegLegacy hiiiii!
That’s a cute pfp
@@Dressup_Doll tysm!
That one with the girl mourning her cat made me literally say out loud, "They had us in the first half, ngl." Then I remembered what video I was watching and in what year.
That "would a good pounding help" Or something of that form happens to me all the time because I have depression
that's horrible, what dickheads. I hope ur ok now, saying that, even as a joke, is not alright in any way!!! ilysm
The brightness on my screen is sinking like my hope for humanity.
As a guy, on behalf of all the men who can't control themselves, I would like to apologize to all the women who got harassed verbally, emotionally and sexually. That's why as a bi guy, I honestly hate these type of guys.
Pro tip: women don’t like being compared to veal, or gravy, or a bowling ball, or a shelf, or a table.
Sincerely, a woman.
I always feel rlly bad when women are compared to food especially, like calling black women chocolate. Like... bruh. STOP. They are not things for you to consume!! Ugh!!
I'm unironically lowkey digging the toddler haircut
3 years ago my boyfriend cheated on me and his reason was "She goes to gym and has a nice body, when we first met u were trying to loose weight but u stopped so..."
After that i didn't date men anymore!
I'm bi, I can't change my attraction to men but I can choose to not date them.
How can one be attracted to someone he doesn't like nor want to date ?
yes I came at the speed of gay 😌
Watching this, I can't help but picture God in heaven heavily sighing out a frustrated "Ah men" everytime he has to see men behaving so poorly...
For the pounding one it looks like it was texted later. So there’s a tiny chance it was a wrong number. Look I’m trying to keep my faith in humanity.
Her: feminist, no the straights are not ok, etc.
Me: I bestowed the most honorable prize I can * all notifications *
This dude started following me on Instagram , and I followed him back for some reason because I thought it would be rude if I didn’t.But he kept telling me that he liked my boobs and such, I was like “woah that’s not how you start a conversation.”But he never listened, until I got fed up and told him I was gay, but he said I “couldn’t be gay because I’m a girl with big boobs”... I never thought that stupidity could hit me in the face so hard before.
9:39 Yeah I lost my old cat a few weeks ago, we had to put him down because he was old and sick... I've cried so much and it got better after a few days but I still miss him terribly. Animals are real beings with personalities and relationships, and losing a loved animal is very hard
one that arrived in my inbox this week.... "i'd like to say you're beautiful but beauty is on the inside and i haven't been inside you yet" 🤢i asked him if it had ever worked and he claimed to have had a 70% success rate... sure, dude.
Either the 'i am a toddler' look or the 'queer Cleopatra' look. Both are good!
As someone who has a lot of experience with cold weather: people who get hypothermia can be quite delirious. I'm not excusing this guy's behaviour, but with moderate to severe hypothermia you can say or do a lot of weird stuff. Normally it is just not listening to good advice to get help to stay warm though.
Why was he even using a dating app if he was out hiking?
You deserve all of the followers ur getting. The internet needs more activists like you, and I really appreciate all of the knowledge I have gained from your vids and insta ❤️❤️
Hi kiwis, guys, gals, and nonbinary pals. This is the earliest I've ever been to a kiwi video! 🙌🥝🏳️🌈
are you penguinz0's brother?
@@larsswig912 Nope.
@Eliza Walker um, well you're right? lol
Are you jesus?
@@ghostcookie1547 maybe.🙏
There are 7 bilion people in this world...there is 100% somebody who you are type of
7:50 ugh, my dad always comments on people bodies all the time. one time, we were sitting in a parking lot and we played some sort of judging game. It was basically where you would rate people, and it made me super uncomfortable. like, just let people be.
@Fenna I'm doing fine, thank you for caring!
TBF I always text a random woman and insult her when I have hypothermia.
It's a well known symptom of the condition. Happened all the time to arctic explorers.
Duck earrings be looking fire
I'm attracted to women and fictional men.
↑↑ THIS ↑↑
my fictional husbando is technically a femboy, his gender was also literally changed overseas bc he looks like a wamen, and he's probably LGBTQIA+. so yeah i have high standards when it comes to men.
and then women~💗
@@lilliths-httyd-channel gurl don't get me started on Julian from AC 👀✨ (jk) but no really I understand I have a lot of husbandos (and waifus, hello Chiaki Nanami) but weirdly also real men like Eliot from The Magicians which I guess technically makes me pan 🤔 still prefer women vibes though 😎✨👩❤👩✨
she has blessed us again✨✨✨
This, my friends, is the reason that I’m gay. Or lesbian. I’m a girl, but I call myself gay, changing how you describe somebody depending on their gender just doesn’t sit right with me.
Same
@Elio ig its internalized homophobia, but I'm still idk, scared of the word "lesbian"? I've been conditioned to think that is a "dirty word" so much, that even now when I know it's what I should call myself, and it isn't bad, I still think I've said something wrong when I say it. Idk, it's weird af
This is why I only love men who are ✨ emotional ✨ like me, and feminine men
Privilege is behaving like a jackass most of your life without ever seeing enough negative consequences to know better.
I have a cishet male friend who completely accepts me being a lesbian because he doesn't understand how anyone could be attracted to men and when I tell you I screamed-
Best part about this is the rubber ducky earrings
And this is why I say “Why men”
When you said "asshole" in your accent, it just hit me differently and thank you for repeating it in a row. Love you :)
On the subject of pick up lines, wholesome ones literally make my heart melt and its become a common occurance for my boyfriend and I to just say cute pick up lines to eachother during calls.
and this is why i am lesbian 😀👍 lol i love how educated and helpful you are!!
same lol
i was just about to ask where she got her hair done before she said she cut it herself- like it looks amazing!
After I start t I have a feeling ill probably be" big n burly" so I want to get a hoodie or something that says 'i know I look tough but im just walking pls don't be scared if you see me the fact someone could have this reaction gives me intense anxiety and I probably just need to walk my dogs or something' or something similar
that last one made me remember i told my friend that tongs are a gateway drug with no follow up when she asked questions (i just apologized)
"when I'm having a hypomanic episode" ayyyy what a bipolar 2 mood
Men on dating sites be like: "Hello I'm a 87 year old man looking for a 16 year old"
The guy at 6:10: you legit are able to be a 10 out of 10
Me: you legit are nothing but a 1 out of 10
more like -100
“yea I just had hypothermia for a sec but I’m good now what’s up wanna screw”
I think some guys that send those weird ass messages are just trying to be funny or stand out to the girl in some way to not be ignored, not all of them are as crazy as they seem, but honestly as a woman it's pretty hard to give those "exotic" messages a chance because it just looks like a big red flag. It's sad that we have to be so wary of any weird signs when using date apps, but it ends up being better to ignore it than risk going out with a weirdo.
Holy shit that calorific deficit one is triggering as fuck. Aaaaaah.