79 here. Recently widowed after being married 52 yrs. No children, gets lonely but still keeping positive and trying to follow these 9 steps and feel that I’m doing pretty good in all these categories👍🏼
1. 1:03 staying physically active. 2. 2:59 engage in lifelong learning, stay curious. 3. 5:21 maintain a sense of humor. 4. 7:36 nurture relationships 5. 9:44 dressing for confidence. 6. 11:51 being adaptable to change. 7. 13:52 embracing your passions 8. 16:20 prioritizing your own emotional well-being… Peace from within. 9. 18:43 showing gratitude… Keep your heart full of thanks.
At 72, I'm a single mother of four grown sons, living with three independent sons. Gardening, tending to my three adored pets and a cat, 22 gold fish too lol. Cooking, and creating cherished memories are my delights. On weekends , I socialize with retired friends through dance. These passions enrich my life, and I treasure every moments. Your inspiring video messages is cherished, thank you for sharing, and God bless 🙏 🎉❤
I am 74 and have all the 9. Praise the Lord , I love myself , my late husband loved me , of course I miss him , my children Love me and my grandbabies love me. I love the world. I've been thru a lot but I love myself. Thank you so much. ❤❤
What a beautiful and inspiring message! You are truly blessed to have such a loving heart and to be surrounded by so much love in return. It's amazing how you’ve embraced life with gratitude and strength despite the challenges. Your love for yourself and others shines so brightly. Thank you for sharing such a heartfelt reminder of the power of lov
Excellent!! This greatly helped me organize my thoughts & awareness of many areas of my life. I’ve been trying to assess my strengths & weaknesses… and that only happens when I humble myself before the LORD. God has taken me through so many things in life… & I’ve been studying so much.. for understanding as well as growth in the 9 fruit of the Spirit… Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness, Goodness, Faithfulness, Gentleness, & Self Control. Galatians 5:22-23. Your 9 points for folks age 65-80 are very helpful… I just turned 79 and still have much to learn!
I do almost all of these, but I have trouble with an abusive relative. I am 83 and am grateful, exercise, love to study, funny, and am loving and dress well. But, wonder about dealing with an abusive relative... ?? I try to talk with him but, probably need to minimize interaction.
Sometimes, it's best to walk away from heartache. I'm 71 and was bullied by an older brother, pretty much my entire life, and 30 years ago decided to get away from his constant criticism, hatred, and narcissistic behavior. I'm much more comfortable with my life. As my late father said..."Stay away from trouble they'll only drag you down to their level." God Bless you, and I wish you peace.
@@davidn.5803 I can relate! My brother is a 100% narcissist. Life has ALWAYS been about him. I’ve haven’t had any contact nor talked with anyone who does still talk with him, for almost 4 years. My life is full of peace now. I don’t feel guilty and still pray for him everyday. He brought so much drama into my life, which usually has none. Anyway.. I’m with with you. Congratulations and keep going.. as they NEVER change. Wishing you continued peace and sending a big hug😊
Thank you so much i enjoyed listening in this video , i'm 66 years old and my body is healthy an stong and independent woman my feeling is i'm 23 years old and always have exercise everyday i love myself of course and i'm happy all the times smiling eventhough i'm already 66 years old many man attractive about my beauty , for you to know me i am à widow since when i am 35 years old and my husband passed away he's 36 years old. I did not married again since then..i have 4 kids with 1 son and 3 daughters .I am very grateful to God because he gave me strong and healthy body with my very good kids that i have are all professional with job..God bless you always 🙏❤🎉 Thank you bye!
I'm 65 and this video fits me perfectly. I learned how to swim at the age of 62. My goal was to overcome fear of deep waters. I'm a curious person, I always research every questions that pops up in my head and search for answers. I also workout at the gym, using the machine. I climb Diamond Head Mountain from time to time, since I live In Hawaii. Due to my staying active, my body does not feel like I'm aging. Thank you for sharing this. This opened my eyes for more understanding on aging.
That’s amazing! Your journey and active lifestyle are truly inspiring. Overcoming fears and staying curious is a wonderful way to embrace life. Keep it up!
Fantastic, thank you . Your message is very encouraging. I’m 89 and play golf, bridge, piano and study Spanish and am pleased to know that I’m on the right track.
I loved all of the 9 tips, very specially confirming that dressing up and looking put together all the time is not to impress people but to feel comfortable- this is the way i think but some people criticize me for it. Good to know you think like I think ❤
I will turn 68 years old in February. I don't believe that means I am elderly. My body may be growing older, but I stoutly refuse to BECOME old! As long as I'm 16 years old in my heart, I'm not giving in to old age! I still dance when the music is right and am willing to laugh and really enjoy my life! I live alone (widowed with no biological family). I share my home with two wonderfully loving kitties, and they don't mind what I do, so I allow myself to do what brings me joy. I like crafting and needlework, gardening and planting trees, reading all sorts of good books, singing badly, doing yoga, dancing around the house, whatever I feel like doing! I work to keep my house neat because it makes me happy! I really enjoy being outside in nature, though hiking has become a challenge. Nature bathing, just sitting still in a forest, is nearly as much fun! I am a lifelong learner of all things concerning God's creation and a gifted writer. I maintain a special closeness with my good friends and especially with my LORD JESUS. My faith and my church family help keep me strong! I still rock my blue jeans, but prefer classic clothing over trendy styles. I dress like a lady who wishes to be respected, not "picked up." I've outlived two wonderful husbands and that's enough. This is MY time to shine and be happy! I am determined to stay in motion as long as I am able! I have always been a good dancer and was even observed dancing to The Police's "Every Little Thing" in Walmart the other day. The young man who paused in his shopping to dance with me made my day! What a blast! NEVER GROW OLD, MY FRIENDS! IT'S NOT INEVITABLE, IT'S A CHOICE!
Thank you and thanks to the God that has given me that gift for who I am, I'm very grateful person and sensible for the suffering and love for animals.
Thankyou l loved your message..l am a woman of 81 years and l am happy to say l fulfilled every one of the 9 requirements for a love filled and proactive life,and what you said made my ❤ sing
Same here! My problem is that I am 67 and widowed 3 years ago. I have all of these qualities but the men I am meeting do not. They are controlling, set in their ways, and resent my intelligence.
It depends on where you live and where you go in life it is like that the beauty of how you see life the is the picture yes it is beautiful like that being romance with yourself how you sees like wonderful things love life.creature of God.Amen
These are all nice ideas and anyone following them would really feel good about themselves, but these are really just your ideas! Anyone who makes it to 80 deserves a pat on the back and a "Good for you"! Two of my top mottos are: Be Kind and If you don't use it, you lose it! Dress for confidence! Lol! I dress anyway I want--especially love leather and boots! My third motto is: Not to give a '_____' what anyone thinks! At the very top of the list: Love and respect of Family!
Whoever G is, Ihave added that person to my prayer list. The first thing out of their mouth was "hate". What a sad life they must have. Life is what you make it!. It is also a gift from GOD. I am 86,and grateful for evey minute I'm alive. Just started working on my first book ever!. I am disabled, but I go outt with friends and family to eat, visit a jazz set, visit the elderly (lol), . I invested in a pair of skates last year, and have gone a few times. I say all this to let you know, life is so much better without hate. Try replacing it with love. ☺
You aee right, problem is I moved into this small little nowhere town to be with my children and grandchildren. Seriously, there are zero options, dating is out of the question, I haven't even seen a man I'd like to have lunch with much less anything more. Talk about a boring little place. Plus, it's 20 miles from the Mexico border. I lived in LA for 40 years and was born in Texas, my career is in the arts....there's nothing here. Only my children and they can't help.
I totally understand. I moved to small town too. Press to find things right do. Get in your car. Go other places. Take classes..exercise by video if necessary. Blessings to u on your journey.
I guess have my humor I have a lot of friends and Family over I have my own style , but very much in fashion . That is me ,I like change In every area, I have my Passion , in gardening and Flowers arrangements. , and decorating .I love yoga, but I have to do more about it . I love to do volunteer work . I started in the morning , when I talked to my LORD , Jesus Christ I don't like to tell my age , but I take good care of myself . Lydia Mac Gillavry Duchess of Holland 🌹❤️🇾🇪
Hey Georgia … how can you not love the wonky pic at 17.05 ! The knees, the heads on their heads, the surreal window and pictures on the wall reflecting themselves … trippy !
70's young com'on ,lets be honest !!!! Sounds like not accepting the clear signs of rhe last Stage ! By the the way we lderneds its Not a DISEASE how the Doctors made his dlaves believe ,its jusr t the last stage in life ,with a lower metabolism destroyed with the the Tons of UNNECESARY medication prescribed indiscrimely !
That is me in a nutshell. And I love every moment of it and being alive! Thank you God! Am 77 yrs. young.
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I used to tell my high school students that I am 70 yrs old and younger than they are. I am now retired because I am too young to work!
79 here. Recently widowed after being married 52 yrs. No children, gets lonely but still keeping positive and trying to follow these 9 steps and feel that I’m doing pretty good in all these categories👍🏼
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1. 1:03 staying physically active.
2. 2:59 engage in lifelong learning, stay curious.
3. 5:21 maintain a sense of humor.
4. 7:36 nurture relationships
5. 9:44 dressing for confidence.
6. 11:51 being adaptable to change.
7. 13:52 embracing your passions
8. 16:20 prioritizing your own emotional well-being… Peace from within.
9. 18:43 showing gratitude… Keep your heart full of thanks.
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Thank you for writing down the 9 points! You saved my time
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I’m 72 and have been lifting weights for a long time (cardio too). I love it.
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I wish everyone who reads the comments after watching this meaningful video always peace, happiness and success!❤❤❤
At 72, I'm a single mother of four grown sons, living with three independent sons. Gardening, tending to my three adored pets and a cat, 22 gold fish too lol. Cooking, and creating cherished memories are my delights. On weekends , I socialize with retired friends through dance. These passions enrich my life, and I treasure every moments. Your inspiring video messages is cherished, thank you for sharing, and God bless 🙏 🎉❤
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I am 74 and have all the 9. Praise the Lord , I love myself , my late husband loved me , of course I miss him , my children Love me and my grandbabies love me. I love the world. I've been thru a lot but I love myself. Thank you so much. ❤❤
What a beautiful and inspiring message! You are truly blessed to have such a loving heart and to be surrounded by so much love in return. It's amazing how you’ve embraced life with gratitude and strength despite the challenges. Your love for yourself and others shines so brightly. Thank you for sharing such a heartfelt reminder of the power of lov
Do you love anyone besides yourself?
I am 76 years old most of all the things I have already proceeded but I shall remember the balance to be followed 😊😊❤❤
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Gratitude 😂😂 kindness 😂😂 smile and laugh 😂😂
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Excellent!! This greatly helped me organize my thoughts & awareness of many areas of my life. I’ve been trying to assess my strengths & weaknesses… and that only happens when I humble myself before the LORD. God has taken me through so many things in life… & I’ve been studying so much.. for understanding as well as growth in the 9 fruit of the Spirit… Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness, Goodness, Faithfulness, Gentleness, & Self Control. Galatians 5:22-23. Your 9 points for folks age 65-80 are very helpful… I just turned 79 and still have much to learn!
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Good message. I am very happy to know I am participating in all 9 areas. I have friends, family, purpose, friends of many ages, and enjoy each day.
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Thank you for sharing this video. It's very informative by staying active as you age helps your body mind and soul. ❤
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I do almost all of these, but I have trouble with an abusive relative. I am 83 and am grateful, exercise, love to study, funny, and am loving and dress well. But, wonder about dealing with an abusive relative... ?? I try to talk with him but, probably need to minimize interaction.
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
Right on🎉!...and I'd minimize Yes, even to protect my well being🪷
Sometimes, it's best to walk away from heartache.
I'm 71 and was bullied by an older brother, pretty much my entire life, and 30 years ago decided to get away from his constant criticism, hatred, and narcissistic behavior.
I'm much more comfortable with my life.
As my late father said..."Stay away from trouble they'll only drag you down to their level."
God Bless you, and I wish you peace.
Gardening! Men don't like to leave the TV, so you can have some time to yourself! Trust me on this one! 😹😼😸
@@davidn.5803 I can relate! My brother is a 100% narcissist. Life has ALWAYS been about him. I’ve haven’t had any contact nor talked with anyone who does still talk with him, for almost 4 years. My life is full of peace now. I don’t feel guilty and still pray for him everyday. He brought so much drama into my life, which usually has none. Anyway.. I’m with with you. Congratulations and keep going.. as they NEVER change. Wishing you continued peace and sending a big hug😊
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Thank you so much i enjoyed listening in this video , i'm 66 years old and my body is healthy an stong and independent woman my feeling is i'm 23 years old and always have exercise everyday i love myself of course and i'm happy all the times smiling eventhough i'm already 66 years old many man attractive about my beauty , for you to know me i am à widow since when i am 35 years old and my husband passed away he's 36 years old. I did not married again since then..i have 4 kids with 1 son and 3 daughters .I am very grateful to God because he gave me strong and healthy body with my very good kids that i have are all professional with job..God bless you always 🙏❤🎉 Thank you bye!
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I'm 65 and this video fits me perfectly. I learned how to swim at the age of 62. My goal was to overcome fear of deep waters. I'm a curious person, I always research every questions that pops up in my head and search for answers. I also workout at the gym, using the machine. I climb Diamond Head Mountain from time to time, since I live In Hawaii. Due to my staying active, my body does not feel like I'm aging. Thank you for sharing this. This opened my eyes for more understanding on aging.
That’s amazing! Your journey and active lifestyle are truly inspiring. Overcoming fears and staying curious is a wonderful way to embrace life. Keep it up!
Fantastic, thank you . Your message is very encouraging. I’m 89 and play golf, bridge, piano and study Spanish and am pleased to know that I’m on the right track.
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Thank you for the valuable information for those who just retired and those journeying into the new phase of our life
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Thanks, these things are essential for ageing people, but also at any adult age 😊
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Working on the concept of creating a dream life at the age of 80.This clarified the whole issue for me.Thank you
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By the way, I enjoyed the video tremendously. Thank you for reminding that life can be fun, and healthful. !!!
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Writing ,food shopping°!!!
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I like your video it inspired me. I am 63 yrs old.
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This is good information. I am a senior citizen. I want to look as good as I can for as long as I can. This is a great help. I do most of these.
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Excellent. Trying to fully adopt these.1
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I loved all of the 9 tips, very specially confirming that dressing up and looking put together all the time is not to impress people but to feel comfortable- this is the way i think but some people criticize me for it. Good to know you think like I think ❤
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Fantastic thank you very much good msg iam 59 years od sure iwill follow
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I will turn 68 years old in February. I don't believe that means I am elderly. My body may be growing older, but I stoutly refuse to BECOME old! As long as I'm 16 years old in my heart, I'm not giving in to old age!
I still dance when the music is right and am willing to laugh and really enjoy my life!
I live alone (widowed with no biological family). I share my home with two wonderfully loving kitties, and they don't mind what I do, so I allow myself to do what brings me joy.
I like crafting and needlework, gardening and planting trees, reading all sorts of good books, singing badly, doing yoga, dancing around the house, whatever I feel like doing! I work to keep my house neat because it makes me happy! I really enjoy being outside in nature, though hiking has become a challenge. Nature bathing, just sitting still in a forest, is nearly as much fun! I am a lifelong learner of all things concerning God's creation and a gifted writer.
I maintain a special closeness with my good friends and especially with my LORD JESUS. My faith and my church family help keep me strong!
I still rock my blue jeans, but prefer classic clothing
over trendy styles. I dress like a lady who wishes to be respected, not "picked up." I've outlived two wonderful husbands and that's enough. This is MY time to shine and be happy!
I am determined to stay in motion as long as I am able! I have always been a good dancer and was even observed dancing to The Police's "Every Little Thing" in Walmart the other day. The young man who paused in his shopping to dance with me made my day! What a blast!
NEVER GROW OLD, MY FRIENDS! IT'S NOT INEVITABLE, IT'S A CHOICE!
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Thank you and thanks to the God that has given me that gift for who I am, I'm very grateful person and sensible for the suffering and love for animals.
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
Thankyou l loved your message..l am a woman of 81 years and l am happy to say l fulfilled every one of the 9 requirements for a love filled and proactive life,and what you said made my ❤ sing
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
Same here! My problem is that I am 67 and widowed 3 years ago. I have all of these qualities but the men I am meeting do not. They are controlling, set in their ways, and resent my intelligence.
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Valuable information to Seniors....to the new phase of our life after retirement
Thanks. I'm going to work on a couple points ;-)
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Spot on and thank you for this practical and true message ! Curiosity and community is another way of saying it too. ❤
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I am 88 years old, but my doctor says I'm like a 65 years old person. !! I am Blessed be.
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This video was incredibly insightful, thank you!
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At 73 I just get tired of people's constant whining.
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I just bet you do! What a waste of time!❤
A good reminder since we can get caught up in negativity without realizing it. ❤
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THANKYOU FOR YOUR INFORMATION!!! I BELIEVE THAT WE NEED TO EAT HEALTHY, AND TAKE CARE OF OURSELVES, NO MATTER WHAT AGE WE ARE!!!
Absolutely! Taking care of ourselves and eating healthy at any age is the key to a fulfilling life. Thanks for sharing your positive energy!
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My name us Sofia Kryter. #1. Your suggestions are valuable. Keep sharing veith all of US please?!
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Never give of hope with ur dreams!!
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It depends on where you live and where you go in life it is like that the beauty of how you see life the is the picture yes it is beautiful like that being romance with yourself how you sees like wonderful things love life.creature of God.Amen
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These are all nice ideas and anyone following them would really feel good about themselves, but these are really just your ideas! Anyone who makes it to 80 deserves a pat on the back and a "Good for you"! Two of my top mottos are: Be Kind and If you don't use it, you lose it! Dress for confidence! Lol! I dress anyway I want--especially love leather and boots! My third motto is: Not to give a '_____' what anyone thinks! At the very top of the list: Love and respect of Family!
Your sharing is wonderful!
Thank you very much ❤❤❤
Whoever G is, Ihave added that person to my prayer list. The first thing out of their mouth was "hate". What a sad life they must have. Life is what you make it!. It is also a gift from GOD. I am 86,and grateful for evey minute I'm alive. Just started working on my first book ever!. I am disabled, but I go outt with friends and family to eat, visit a jazz set, visit the elderly (lol), . I invested in a pair of skates last year, and have gone a few times. I say all this to let you know, life is so much better without hate. Try replacing it with love. ☺
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You aee right, problem is I moved into this small little nowhere town to be with my children and grandchildren. Seriously, there are zero options, dating is out of the question, I haven't even seen a man I'd like to have lunch with much less anything more. Talk about a boring little place. Plus, it's 20 miles from the Mexico border. I lived in LA for 40 years and was born in Texas, my career is in the arts....there's nothing here. Only my children and they can't help.
Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much
I totally understand. I moved to small town too. Press to find things right do. Get in your car. Go other places. Take classes..exercise by video if necessary. Blessings to u on your journey.
I guess have my humor I have a lot of friends and Family over I have my own style , but very much in fashion . That is me ,I like change In every area, I have my Passion , in gardening and Flowers arrangements. , and decorating .I love yoga, but I have to do more about it . I love to do volunteer work . I started in the morning , when I talked to my LORD , Jesus Christ I don't like to tell my age , but I take good care of myself . Lydia Mac Gillavry Duchess of Holland 🌹❤️🇾🇪
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Thank you for this reminder. I would've preferred seeing pictures of real people instead of "perfect" CGI, though.
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I truly hate the pictures, the phony-balony pictures. Life isn't at all like this.
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Focus on the message not the pictures and you will understand clearly.
You hated the 📸 the audio wasn't all that hot either
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Hey Georgia … how can you not love the wonky pic at 17.05 ! The knees, the heads on their heads, the surreal window and pictures on the wall reflecting themselves … trippy !
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Well I'm seventy and still get unwanted attention...not interested in old men 😅
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70's young com'on ,lets be honest !!!!
Sounds like not accepting the clear signs of rhe last Stage ! By the the way we lderneds its Not a DISEASE how the Doctors made his dlaves believe ,its jusr t the last stage in life ,with a lower metabolism destroyed with the the Tons of UNNECESARY medication prescribed indiscrimely !
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Yep. Moving a little slower, but still as sharp as a tack.
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An old guy who drinks regularly at a city tavern said that his wife nags him continually about his habit of picking his nose at the dinner table
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