I've been free from my Narc. for a year now (fully no contact for 4 months)...my hair has grown back, my skin is clearer and youthful looking again, and I've lost all the weight and more that I gained while I was with him!! I was shocked at how much his toxicity had affected my health but so glad be rid of him!! I hope and pray others have the strength to get help and get out of any toxic relationship they may find themselves in.. YOU DESERVE SO MUCH MORE!!! ❤
Indeed, I had eczema, heart arrhythmia, fatigue, social phobia, nightmares, anxiety, forgetfulness, depression, cptsd, eyesight issues, intestinal problems, etc. The body remembers the psychological and physical abuse even if I don't want to think about it anymore. I hope God will punish this evil people for their evil deeds.
So true. Also your hair starts falling out. Words do impact us. If i'm awake or a sleep its very difficult. You feel trapped and violated when you are having nightmare. I would not wish this on my worst enemy. I'm living with the enemy.
Holy moly. My eyes went blurry after a few years of this nightmare. Grey hair now. Found it actually hard and exhausting to climb stairs ( big stairs) exhausted all the time with cronic fatege. And attention deficit disorder. Nature helps recuperate.
I've had terrifyingly high cortisol levels for years and the only time they lower or level out is when I'm hiding or avoiding this lunatic, like now for example. Seems to also be the only rare moments I'm able to sleep properly and be in control of my hunger.
Bro I’ve never heard of the eyesight symptom that’s crazy. I’ve always had perfect vision but for the first time my vision was blurry when I’d be driving or looking at a distance. 3 years later and my vision is sharp as a tack. Lord have mercy these narcs will try to take every last one of your faculties. I also used to get nonstop infections on cuts and stuff even with disinfectant. Maybe tmi but I even acquired a flesh eating bacteria on my foot from a blister when I was with her. I am older now but feel so much younger. It used to feel like she was stealing my youth and vitality through physical contact, it was hard to explain. It would be impossible to take deep breaths around her, like I was wearing a steel corset.
I dealt with this my entire life and it made so many other parts of my life difficult. It can make you gain A LOT of unnecessary weight. Cutting toxic people off really helps.
Hi dear, I just got to know you and your channel, you are so right about npd people, and the effects on normal people, I took 48 years to know this, and still learning, both parents ,are npd, and now realizing my own husband has psychopathy...I just like you to know this, you are very accurate on the wise words you say so well and sincerely, and thanks for educating innocents people out there about this serious disorder, thank you and I appreciate everything you do, you are really en pointe
I feel un well, the mind and the body is connected. Stress is not good for the body. It’s hard to stay healthy, above it all when you live in a toxic environment . Their abuse of you is exhilarating for them. They are sadist .
Incredible your videos.. you are really one of the outstanding most top experts that I have found on the internet, if not the one top luminary.. in this video you have described my health deterioration, starting with my eyesight... for a moment I was wondering, if I was getting old, but some instance in me knew, I was suffering worsening eyesight, because of narcissistic abuse at workplace. And recently I got eczema.. before all that, I had eyesight like an eagle and such a good skin.. I am learning so much from you.. I also didn't know what I am feeling until I searched for "neuropathy".. Exactly as you describe it.. and the doctors I went to had no idea! Thank you so much for all the education.. Thanks to God that you exist.
You just described my life! But add to that an autoimmune disease that has disabled me to the point of not being able to leave. I am trapped and doing my best to survive this craziness.
Yes these people literally suck out your life force... I became constantly under par with no energy always feeling groggy and needing to sleep alot. When I got rid of him I started feeling much better.
I have all of this simptoms, dizzyness, fog, tahicardia, granulomi with teeth, cronic atipica pneumonia , sinusitis, hashimoto tyroiditis, artritis, fibromialgije, vitiligo psoriatic artritis,Panic attacks, clavstrofobia, fear, insomnia and couldnt find rest at nights, couldnt find peace to sleep calmly, bc i had nightmares of all his constant acusations, blaming and scapegoating me.... Horror Movie is like a comedy comparing all the cruelity he was making me, our children and my parents.... He should be roasting in hell, but still justice wont be satisfied....
I experienced it all! I also had newly discovered health issues such as nose bleeding, etc. I literally started to bleed from my nose when I was screaming in an argument, due to pressure. I can't put it in words.
This is true, I am thankful for your videos, they help me to see that it wasn’t just me! It has been a year now and I still haven’t regained my full health, my heart is permanently damaged and other ailments, but I have greatly improved…
I had all of those except for gaining weight. I felt so fatigue that I started getting blood pooling on my back because I couldn't get out of bed. I couldn't eat food. he had to force me to eat because when he got home my body had to workout
I went through this for years, and then was shamed for seeking Naturopathic treatments… the western options (metformon, steroids, and anti-depressants) only made the symptoms worse.
🙏 yes And I keep asking universe about my past lives karma that I am in such situation No doctor was able to diagnose what's happening with me with all reports coming perfectly fine But these symptoms there
Thank you Danish. I had figured out a couple of these but the other things you pointed out I hadn't connected to my ex. Ugh. Gotta say, having absolutely no desire to even hear the word "date" anymore. It really frees up my mind for the lifelong healing I need, fml.
Treat them as they treat you. Prepare yourself for a fight to the death. Mentally convince yourself that this will not end. So, It must end with you as the winner. Know your enemy, do the research on their personality. Prepare for the worst. Eye on the prize.
My narcissist mother had elevated my cortisol so much that it affected my development so much that I look like I have cushings disease, and I had 2 neurological diseases and rheumatoid arthritis. (All of which have disappeared since going no contact).
So true plus the nightmares I had crazy nightmares every night sleeping next to that monster once I left they vanished. Please get out if you with a Narc it will cost you so many things😢
Very true..my immunity has gone down totally. I was diseased. lost weight and hair..it was worst phase of my life.. I started improving once i stayed away from her. She was most toxic person i have ever met in my life. Thanq man.ur videos help in healing myself
Thankyou!!!! Everything you said was right on. Will make necessary dietary changes. And ordered Sensoril to help. Thankyou. You have helped so many people with this video.
This man knows what he's talking about. Once he mentioned eczema,I knew. I've developed eczema since dealing with a narc. Never had it for thirty years
spot on. I think after reading your video that maybe the damage in my eye and the surgery I had to go through was because of the amount of cortisol I have be "drinking" for 1 and a half year
The ex husband I married is indeed the product of two wicked people that had breed him. He is wicked and still continued to pursue me to hurt an arm me in a distance. Has called cops on me circle times.
Wow.....some of these really resonate with my ....my ex narc had me having pains in my chest even having to leave the cinema once because I thought I was having a heart attack ....and yeah she made me I'll ..I've been lucky to escape before she killed me
Yes! My immune system had issues before but the past two years have been horrific constantly sick in the bed even had a case of shingles for my 40th birthday and scars on my back... Running nose constantly.. was willing to try fentanyl just not be in pain and he said he preferred the sick Amber in bed because at least he felt loved POS
when i left my private went into spasm, no painkiller worked, only after whole year of supplements,terapy, working out. changing diet that it went away, now near any narc i start crying after their gaze or squint in eyes is enough to get me
Wow. All true but the weight gain. I got a stomach issue and I'm losing weight. But everything else. My beautiful long hair.... A thing of the past like my dreams of me and him
Eczemaaaaaa, psoriasis, weight gained more than ever, weakening eye sight, headaches, migraine, foggy head, puffiness, lost interest and enthusiasm in life, Pcod, high cortisone and high triglycerides.
😮 I don't know how to.. this is freaking me out... I thought I just had bad genes. Growing up I always had a great complexion plus I ate onions like apples so I was never sick. But, now... I see an old, damaged face in the mirror I am embarrassed. He's made jokes about skin conditions and makes comments about little imperfections he sees on others that makes me wonder what he says about me to others and if he sees that I've gotten bothered by it, he makes it a point to make more jokes for taking it personally. 😢
All true experienced it first hand but when the stress levels r reduced for a few months the white hair falls and is replaced with normal hair again but if the stress starts again ur hair will start to fall and white again
I truly understand that you need to help yourself. God can give you the wisdom to know what to do. I pray for peace over in mind and your body. Lord I pray that you give them strength and healing to move forward.
nope, it's trauma bond. Focus on yourself, Try to take steps for ur self not for them. In reality no one cares, YOU HAVE TO CARE FOR URSELF, BE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOURSELF! it's your life after all. Put God in the centre and see how the magic unfolds!
Towards the end of the relationship I was getting sick with one thing after another. I felt like if I didn’t divorce that I wouldn’t live another 5 years, had eczema and weight gain too. Had been healthy before. Once I made up my mind to leave the weight started falling off.
The text is always to small to read. Also, it gets hidden , covered up by the title etc Can you please make the text a lot larger and further up. Thanks
I've been free from my Narc. for a year now (fully no contact for 4 months)...my hair has grown back, my skin is clearer and youthful looking again, and I've lost all the weight and more that I gained while I was with him!! I was shocked at how much his toxicity had affected my health but so glad be rid of him!!
I hope and pray others have the strength to get help and get out of any toxic relationship they may find themselves in.. YOU DESERVE SO MUCH MORE!!! ❤
Indeed, I had eczema, heart arrhythmia, fatigue, social phobia, nightmares, anxiety, forgetfulness, depression, cptsd, eyesight issues, intestinal problems, etc. The body remembers the psychological and physical abuse even if I don't want to think about it anymore. I hope God will punish this evil people for their evil deeds.
So true. Also your hair starts falling out. Words do impact us. If i'm awake or a sleep its very difficult. You feel trapped and violated when you are having nightmare. I would not wish this on my worst enemy. I'm living with the enemy.
I hope they grow back. I lost almost half of my hair
@@ΔΕΣΠΟΙΝΑΣΑΡΡΑ-φ2ψ Thank You It is growing back. It's not the worst part as you know. Best wishes to you!
My hair is so thin now because of the trauma and my face looks aged
You end up ageing when your with them😏🚩🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
Experienced the burning , hair thinning, not being able to move out of bed. Not being able to sleep. Not getting them out of your head.
Holy moly. My eyes went blurry after a few years of this nightmare. Grey hair now. Found it actually hard and exhausting to climb stairs ( big stairs) exhausted all the time with cronic fatege. And attention deficit disorder. Nature helps recuperate.
I've had terrifyingly high cortisol levels for years and the only time they lower or level out is when I'm hiding or avoiding this lunatic, like now for example. Seems to also be the only rare moments I'm able to sleep properly and be in control of my hunger.
Bro I’ve never heard of the eyesight symptom that’s crazy. I’ve always had perfect vision but for the first time my vision was blurry when I’d be driving or looking at a distance. 3 years later and my vision is sharp as a tack. Lord have mercy these narcs will try to take every last one of your faculties. I also used to get nonstop infections on cuts and stuff even with disinfectant. Maybe tmi but I even acquired a flesh eating bacteria on my foot from a blister when I was with her. I am older now but feel so much younger. It used to feel like she was stealing my youth and vitality through physical contact, it was hard to explain. It would be impossible to take deep breaths around her, like I was wearing a steel corset.
Facing eye problem
Rebuke all of that in the name of Jesus that is coming against you.Jesus blood heals and protects. 🙏
She was an energetic parasite.
I've experienced all but 2 of these. You feel like you're falling apart.
I dealt with this my entire life and it made so many other parts of my life difficult. It can make you gain A LOT of unnecessary weight. Cutting toxic people off really helps.
I ve experienced all of them. This people kills you softly.
Hi dear, I just got to know you and your channel, you are so right about npd people, and the effects on normal people, I took 48 years to know this, and still learning, both parents ,are npd, and now realizing my own husband has psychopathy...I just like you to know this, you are very accurate on the wise words you say so well and sincerely, and thanks for educating innocents people out there about this serious disorder, thank you and I appreciate everything you do, you are really en pointe
I feel un well, the mind and the body is connected. Stress is not good for the body. It’s hard to stay healthy, above it all when you live in a toxic environment . Their abuse of you is exhilarating for them. They are sadist .
Incredible your videos.. you are really one of the outstanding most top
experts that I have found on the internet, if not the one top luminary.. in this video you have described my health deterioration, starting with my eyesight... for a moment I was wondering, if I was getting old, but some instance in me knew, I was suffering worsening eyesight, because of narcissistic abuse at workplace. And recently I got eczema.. before all that, I had eyesight like an eagle and such a good skin.. I am learning so much from you.. I also didn't know what I am feeling until I searched for "neuropathy".. Exactly as you describe it.. and the doctors I went to had no idea!
Thank you so much for all the education.. Thanks to God that you exist.
Depression, anxiety, stress,indigestion, stomach hurting,vomiting, losing weight
Thanks Danish !❤⚘
That's because the best to do is no contact and focus on healing !!
And that's what I'm doing now.
this is just so on the mark
exactly what life has become
sleeping with the enemy leaves you with no sleep at all
😢😢😢 it is hell
I literally experienced all of this 😢...man damn this is a Spirit of confusion and wickedness
I didn't know that about eyesight! This is so me!
You just described my life! But add to that an autoimmune disease that has disabled me to the point of not being able to leave. I am trapped and doing my best to survive this craziness.
Same with me😢
I have digestion issues too. Now my health started affecting my menstrual cycle. Even if a born child sneezes I fall sick for months
I can relate to palpitations and gaining weight, all of which was rectified when I got away from the Narcissist 😵🚩🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️😏🏃♀️
Yes these people literally suck out your life force... I became constantly under par with no energy always feeling groggy and needing to sleep alot. When I got rid of him I started feeling much better.
You go into survival mode. That's been my life for 45 years.
I’m so glad I found your channel. Every post is spot on and reassuring making life just a bit more bearable ❤
32 years and still going… it is me . wow. how do you know all these symptoms. I’m so surprised. you are 100% right about this.
I have all of this simptoms, dizzyness, fog, tahicardia, granulomi with teeth, cronic atipica pneumonia , sinusitis, hashimoto tyroiditis, artritis, fibromialgije, vitiligo psoriatic artritis,Panic attacks, clavstrofobia, fear, insomnia and couldnt find rest at nights, couldnt find peace to sleep calmly, bc i had nightmares of all his constant acusations, blaming and scapegoating me.... Horror Movie is like a comedy comparing all the cruelity he was making me, our children and my parents.... He should be roasting in hell, but still justice wont be satisfied....
Absolutely spot on I also got bells palsy. 7 years of this hell
I experienced it all! I also had newly discovered health issues such as nose bleeding, etc. I literally started to bleed from my nose when I was screaming in an argument, due to pressure. I can't put it in words.
I'm screaming ... I need to escape before I die .
no where to go ...
Lord please help Rachel find a way of escape. There has to be a shelter a church someone to help you.
I hope you find a way out ❤️ it’s worth it!!!
All of this 😢....hope that it’s will go away while healing. It seems never ending. This you.
This is true, I am thankful for your videos, they help me to see that it wasn’t just me! It has been a year now and I still haven’t regained my full health, my heart is permanently damaged and other ailments, but I have greatly improved…
I had all of those except for gaining weight. I felt so fatigue that I started getting blood pooling on my back because I couldn't get out of bed. I couldn't eat food. he had to force me to eat because when he got home my body had to workout
I went through this for years, and then was shamed for seeking Naturopathic treatments… the western options (metformon, steroids, and anti-depressants) only made the symptoms worse.
A natural antidepressant is 5-HTP.
Omg I'm experiencing all of this right now
I experienced all of this. Its hard to reverse. After 1.5 years I still dont look like myself.
🙏 yes
And I keep asking universe about my past lives karma that I am in such situation
No doctor was able to diagnose what's happening with me with all reports coming perfectly fine
But these symptoms there
Thank you Danish. I had figured out a couple of these but the other things you pointed out I hadn't connected to my ex. Ugh. Gotta say, having absolutely no desire to even hear the word "date" anymore. It really frees up my mind for the lifelong healing I need, fml.
Treat them as they treat you. Prepare yourself for a fight to the death. Mentally convince yourself that this will not end. So, It must end with you as the winner. Know your enemy, do the research on their personality. Prepare for the worst. Eye on the prize.
My narcissist mother had elevated my cortisol so much that it affected my development so much that I look like I have cushings disease, and I had 2 neurological diseases and rheumatoid arthritis. (All of which have disappeared since going no contact).
So true plus the nightmares I had crazy nightmares every night sleeping next to that monster once I left they vanished. Please get out if you with a Narc it will cost you so many things😢
I experienced these symptoms. WHEN THEY DIE THEY WILL BURN IN HELL FOREVER. CRISTAL BLUE.
Very true..my immunity has gone down totally. I was diseased. lost weight and hair..it was worst phase of my life..
I started improving once i stayed away from her.
She was most toxic person i have ever met in my life.
Thanq man.ur videos help in healing myself
Thank you for this information. You have described exactly what I experienced.
I've never heard anyone explain it this good but that skin burning was a sensation I will never forget as long as I live
You mean you got rid of it after no contact
Thankyou!!!! Everything you said was right on. Will make necessary dietary changes. And ordered Sensoril to help. Thankyou. You have helped so many people with this video.
This man knows what he's talking about. Once he mentioned eczema,I knew. I've developed eczema since dealing with a narc. Never had it for thirty years
Hair got thin and fell out A LOT.
Was awful..the stress was too high
I feel 1000% better now that she’s done bugging me
Omg 😱 YOU JUST DESCRIBED WHAT I HAVE LIVED THE THRU THE LAST 22 YEARS !!!! Wasted Tens of thousands of dollars on Doctor’s with no answers
Omg everyone of those issues has and is happening to me. This explains everything!!!!!
I lost 15 kilo in 30 days he exhausted me I thought I was going to die felt like I was in the desert. Horrific experience.
But you didn't. You are a survivor.
Exhaustion, thyroid and heart issues, grey hair and weight gain....some things you heal from, others are a reminder what you have survived.💪
Everything you said is alarmingly true ! Except for Eczema.
Basically what happened to me😢
spot on.
I think after reading your video that maybe the damage in my eye and the surgery I had to go through was because of the amount of cortisol I have be "drinking" for 1 and a half year
All of them. Thank you for sharing.
If only we could prove it in a court of law. They deserve life!!! Psycological abuse is NOT okay!!
The ex husband I married is indeed the product of two wicked people that had breed him. He is wicked and still continued to pursue me to hurt an arm me in a distance. Has called cops on me circle times.
Wow.....some of these really resonate with my ....my ex narc had me having pains in my chest even having to leave the cinema once because I thought I was having a heart attack ....and yeah she made me I'll ..I've been lucky to escape before she killed me
OMG, since this person, indeed I feel most of these symptoms, like my immunity is so weakened, more gray hair, GI complaints, all costing so much.
Yes! My immune system had issues before but the past two years have been horrific constantly sick in the bed even had a case of shingles for my 40th birthday and scars on my back... Running nose constantly.. was willing to try fentanyl just not be in pain and he said he preferred the sick Amber in bed because at least he felt loved POS
when i left my private went into spasm, no painkiller worked, only after whole year of supplements,terapy, working out. changing diet that it went away, now near any narc i start crying after their gaze or squint in eyes is enough to get me
Wow. All true but the weight gain. I got a stomach issue and I'm losing weight. But everything else. My beautiful long hair.... A thing of the past like my dreams of me and him
Eczemaaaaaa, psoriasis, weight gained more than ever, weakening eye sight, headaches, migraine, foggy head, puffiness, lost interest and enthusiasm in life, Pcod, high cortisone and high triglycerides.
Again very very very very very very true!🥺
Yes very true !!! All of these!
Omg this is scareingly accurate!!!!
Why dont therapist talk about this 😢
It's like.... you know all about me!.
I have ms so all kinds of flares happened when I was with him
Every single one. She poisoned me though with thallium and lithium which thinned and greyed the hair out quicker lol
Yes. Every one of those.
😮 I don't know how to.. this is freaking me out... I thought I just had bad genes. Growing up I always had a great complexion plus I ate onions like apples so I was never sick. But, now... I see an old, damaged face in the mirror I am embarrassed. He's made jokes about skin conditions and makes comments about little imperfections he sees on others that makes me wonder what he says about me to others and if he sees that I've gotten bothered by it, he makes it a point to make more jokes for taking it personally. 😢
I developed Agoraphobia
Hmmm, it's really true😢
True 1000% it's already happened with me
All true experienced it first hand but when the stress levels r reduced for a few months the white hair falls and is replaced with normal hair again but if the stress starts again ur hair will start to fall and white again
I need help as I am in this situation
I truly understand that you need to help yourself. God can give you the wisdom to know what to do. I pray for peace over in mind and your body. Lord I pray that you give them strength and healing to move forward.
Just took asperine for irregular pulse and high diastolic bp
It ruins your life. I now have a fear of people. Just waiting
5 out of 8….ouch!
Can't sleep
Why i am not able to leave toxic people or normal people.. Why i cant just leave why i stuck is something wrong with me
nope, it's trauma bond. Focus on yourself, Try to take steps for ur self not for them. In reality no one cares, YOU HAVE TO CARE FOR URSELF, BE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOURSELF! it's your life after all. Put God in the centre and see how the magic unfolds!
@@eshita7390 thanku so much
@@ishiirohilla2154 All the best ❤☀️
So true...i m in that condition..wt to do .
Ever present run over by a truck feeling ? 😟
have it all
I'm expecting that. 😳😳😳
You might have saved me 😊
This is so true
OMG . yes.
happened. all happened
Towards the end of the relationship I was getting sick with one thing after another. I felt like if I didn’t divorce that I wouldn’t live another 5 years, had eczema and weight gain too. Had been healthy before. Once I made up my mind to leave the weight started falling off.
100 percent me.
The text is always to small to read. Also, it gets hidden , covered up by the title etc
Can you please make the text a lot larger and further up.
Thanks
I had all of this from him. Fu&@$r.
Or you lose so much unexplained weight and look so sick even though there’s no medical explanation 😢
Sleep deprivation still after decades
True
Thank God she is gone, othwise I'll be have heart attack soon for sure...
Just out of curiosity, Do they change after getting married ?
Wow 😮