Why 'Moving On' Attracts an Ex (Podcast 621)
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- Опубликовано: 16 сен 2024
- Is it true that 'moving on' attracts an ex? Today's podcast will help if you're a dumpee and want to try to get your ex back after a breakup.
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People want what they can’t have. It’s a law of nature. You don’t want what you’re stuck with.
Hi, then WHY?? Get Married, YOU, are stuck with that Person for the rest of your life.. this is the way GOD WANTS things to be.
I've said this to many wanna be girlfriends. I've told em that they won't want me once they have me. Because you can't have somethin and want it as the moment you have it the want for it dies.
I keep them in the, talkin stage as in between that and the status of bf and gf is the best part. Let them leave once they get the picture.
@@racilleashley9506so true
@@racilleashley9506for rest of your life? When women initiate 80% of the divorce… go figure
I don't want what I can't have. That's stupid.
The person I loved left and after less then 1 month he was dating someone else. I worked on myself since then and grow mentally
Since then you and me started dating and lived happily ever after 😂
@@PrinceElliott7 facts 😂
Taking the value back and elevating my life to levels never been before!
Value yourself more than you value them
It's tough to get the mindset that point #1 will actually take place, but I'm going all in on it as there's nothing to lose.
All my exes reach out to me, one particular ex reach out and wanting me to be his side chick after he married someone from his home country.
After I moved on and in new relationships I’ll never go back!
Moving on is the best way to go
I think many times a dumper thinks they have someone figured out too soon. In a new relationship that is
Exactly. They don't fully realize what they might have gave up. It's they're loss unless they decide to come back into your life to be with you
My ex-Narc wife, is on her fourth marriage @38, and there was LITERALLY not one day in between men. Monkey branching her way thru life. She's married now to a guy she knew for 3 weeks.
@@danscott2059 the guy probably never questioned her.
@danscott2059 my wife just kicked me out. 22 years together and 2 young children
@@LordRothschild666 should tell her no, if you want to leave then you leave, I'm staying.
It's wanting what you don't have and thinking the grass is greener elsewhere. Taking for granted what you have. Women are often the dumper as they are more emotional than men. Happened to me. I got someone far better eventually. And would never want that crazy woman back.
No, men are the dumper. Women dump because they have had enough. Very few women are strong enough to do it. Sexist and wrong. I feel bad for the woman you are with now. You are so sexist. I would never want someone like you. Women are not crazy. Men make women crazy.
Congrats
I guess I had a feminine boyfriend lol.
Excellent, my ex who dumped me is pissed that I’m going camping with a female friend when I wasn’t interested in doing it with her
I agree with the intentions and I'm doing this as well its a tough Journey but at least now I have the time to only do what's right for me.. sucks to be the dumpee but at the end of the day Life Goes On and maybe the person will come back and you'll have to truly decide if you want them back because you don't want someone who's not sure about you even though you like the idea of having them back. I just hope she gets to work on herself as well and stop messing around to finally heal.. but some people are very delayed in taken action. But the saying is true Time Heals all wounds. Just need to not go down that last hole for too long after the breakup or else it controls your life and future progression.
This is me rn bro, and it still hurts. I guess all I gotta do now is focus on God, myself, and my dream of one day becoming an F-22 pilot
Time heals all wounds and would do all heels.
Time heals all wounds and wounds all heels I meant.
Hey, it's been a year and 2 months since my ex left me. At first, I think i cant handle it but now, Im greatful that she's gone, if not, I would still in sadness everyday with her.
Same here I feel the same way I'm glad she left me,wish her well but stay away from me
@@efremcharlot9623seriously
If you were in sadness when you were with her then it's a GREAT thing you and her are no longer. No point!
They ALWAYS come back or try too🤦♂️
Yeah even if it's just toe dippin, "testin the water"
You are right. It works! At least for this 1 girl.❤
Door. Closed
Yeah, there's no point in leaving any room to get hung up on it
Moving forward leaves room for turn around, that's like putting a car in reverse
After finishing with ex best thing to go within do something what's best for you look after yourself look after yourself exercise learn something different but for is best to better one self even if they want come back door firmly shut I value myself more
I am grateful to God my ex has gone. Let her remain gone now and forever.
my ex after almost thirty years divorced he wants to come back, i said no.
Wow!
I Agree with you 💯💯💯💯💯💯
Oh my God, for that long?
Yeah did the first option for like 9 months and learned my lesson
Thanks!
Thank you very much for your kindness 🙂
My ex reached out to me after a year he lied and called things off mislead me and eventually found a way to try to dump me because he was involved with someone else he end up marrying that person and you reached out to me on my birthday I did not respond I felt why is he reaching out to me he's married he moved on I moved on
Excellent video
This guy is good instead of sleeping pills😂
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His voice is awesome. Heavy accent though, but definately doesn't put me to sleep like that woman's voice on Psych 2 Go oh my god.
there was no one better. i get it , there’s nothing you can do about it anyway. no one EVER comes back, life isn’t a movie. yet if , if they were to come back (which they won’t) you can’t take them back because it will portray that you have no self respect. it’s all based on power trips and ridiculous games. i have to go through life bitter. trust is a luxury i can’t afford. if you love someone and you are happy and they leave you or want to break off you’re supposed to be fine with it???? they won’t start to think they are low value. you kidding me????? they didn’t care about crushing you breaking it off. people only want you until they are done or if something better comes along
Dude...Harsh
Wow... U have no chill do you. I have cycled "ex's" for years. Your experience is diff from many trust me. They always come back.
@@robertwhitehead9831Harsh is good....rip that band aid off!!
I'm doing that now. I still see her so I work on her but she made it so hard for us to be together when it seems obvious we have a connection. It would be nice to find someone who isn't so shy and uptight. But she might change if she wants me.
GL
Thanks so much and be blessed
I did make a rash change....I packed and bought a little beach house 30miles away. This was before cell phones. I heard my dumper was going crazy looking for me. I destroyed my life for a few years but I'm OK now. He just moved close to me , I guess we will be running into each other sometime.
I actually cheated. She left. I admitted I was wrong n have since committed to making permanent changes to my lifestyle entirely to become a better person for myself. Is there any chance she could come bak to me because I truly love her n she loves me as well but insisted it’s necessary we separated for her ‘sanity’ & for us to both work on ourselves & maybe, just maybe, if we come back together we would better humans starting something like a new relationship. Please I need ur reply
Cheating is the greatest form of disrespect. If she values herself she won't be coming back. Again, you want to be with a women that values herself and not go back to someone that disrespected her.
I seen people have this kinda situation n it worked well afterwards
I belive in change
I belive people can become better
Sometimes it’s not about not valuing herself enough or stuffs like dat
Mistakes happen and it’s different when the individual involved admits his faults and is utterly remorseful n committed to change
The reality is that women don’t stay with cos of what you do or fail to do. Women stay because they wanna stay & if they wanna stay they’d always find a reason to stay. You could be the best man for her in terms of how you treat but that becomes the reason she leaves. You could be the worse man yet she chooses to stay. It’s all about what she chooses to do
Hi, I think that council ING is needed..then take it from there.
Idk, he's starting to get toxic and I don't understand why
I agree but the majority of women made guys this way and it’s affecting the whole world now.
My grandmother said women are changing for the worst nowadays! Women feel more empowered than ever before , so in return the mam is less needed
A toxic man can be the best man you can find, sometimes be clear with him about how he is destroying the relationship...communicate I a deep spiritual manner God is testing both of your spirituality believe it or not.
@J M we just had a baby and our family needed him but he left. I'm trying to help him and understand and be civil when we coparent but he's acting so different and very cruel towards me. He's being very nasty and it hurts and I am trying to leave him alone unless it has to do with the kids and I don't want to react because it wouldn't be healthy for our kids to see but it still hurts how he's being towards me. I care about him and it hurts. I need his help when it comes to the kids but I'm tired of him making me feel stupid if I ask for anything
My ex showed her true colors after the breakup. She dumped me and played the victim.
But what if they do both 😢😢😢😢MOVE ON AND KEEP IN CONTACT
When someone takes someone else for granted, removing the "granted" changes the dynamic and triggers anxiety
Anxiety is what people mistake for romantic feelings. The same reason why women "love bad boys"
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Your delivery is weird why do you stretch your words
Thank you for your analysis.
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Thank you
He's the new Alan Wicker.
Because that's his style. He's not a follower.
This doesn't work if your ex monkey branched.
My thing is the dumper could have had a valid reason to leave. WHY is the dumper the bad guy when everyone's reason to break up is different. THIS INFO IS INCORRECT 😂
Ultimately, the dumper has lost romantic, emotional attraction (for various potential reasons)
@@vincentbos What if the dumper broke things off because the person was cheating or was not giving them or the relationship the proper time or attention.
If the dumper ended the relationship due to the dumpee making bad choices, then the dumpee will have to go through a huge amount of self-improvement, whilst also hoping the ‘fading affect bias’ enables them to hear from their ex again.
I left mine because she was cheating so she checked out essentially you are still the dumpee even if you left her because she dumped you emotionally and psychologicaly and physically when her thot ass decided to cheat.
@@huey37 That sucks man, I'm sorry to hear that.